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Would you like to inspect the original subtitles? These are the user uploaded subtitles that are being translated: 1 00:00:00,960 --> 00:00:03,000 [theme music playing] 2 00:00:05,960 --> 00:00:08,760 ♪ Noel, Noel ♪ 3 00:00:08,840 --> 00:00:14,240 ♪ Noel, Noel ♪ 4 00:00:14,320 --> 00:00:16,920 ♪ Born is the King ♪ 5 00:00:17,000 --> 00:00:19,880 ♪ Of Israel ♪ 6 00:00:22,400 --> 00:00:23,360 -Hey. -Hey. 7 00:00:23,440 --> 00:00:24,440 Sorry. Did I wake you? 8 00:00:24,520 --> 00:00:25,920 No. What are you doing? 9 00:00:26,000 --> 00:00:27,360 Just getting the Christmas decorations out. 10 00:00:27,440 --> 00:00:29,600 Oh, the old Advent calendar? 11 00:00:29,680 --> 00:00:30,920 -Yeah. -Oh, dad made that 12 00:00:31,000 --> 00:00:32,360 for Rachel's first Christmas. 13 00:00:32,440 --> 00:00:34,320 Yeah. I'm gonna revive it for Ruby. 14 00:00:34,400 --> 00:00:35,520 Why should she miss out? 15 00:00:35,600 --> 00:00:36,800 Oh, no, darling, maybe next year. 16 00:00:36,880 --> 00:00:38,280 No, no, hang on, Jules. 17 00:00:38,720 --> 00:00:39,960 We can't ignore Christmas. 18 00:00:40,040 --> 00:00:42,520 Yeah. And we can't ignore Ben's feelings either. 19 00:00:42,880 --> 00:00:43,800 He's still grieving. 20 00:00:45,080 --> 00:00:46,200 He hasn't even cried yet. 21 00:00:46,280 --> 00:00:47,120 -Jules-- -Yeah. 22 00:00:47,200 --> 00:00:48,640 You're the one that said he needed more time. 23 00:00:48,720 --> 00:00:49,680 Yeah. And we'll give him time. 24 00:00:49,760 --> 00:00:51,160 All the time that he needs. 25 00:00:51,560 --> 00:00:52,600 But what's next? 26 00:00:53,000 --> 00:00:54,640 We ignore Ruby's birthday as well? 27 00:00:54,720 --> 00:00:56,160 Well, what did you have in mind? 28 00:00:56,680 --> 00:00:58,440 Party games and family fun? 29 00:00:58,520 --> 00:00:59,360 No. I just... 30 00:00:59,440 --> 00:01:00,560 I don't think it's appropriate. 31 00:01:01,400 --> 00:01:02,600 Ruby won't remember anyway. 32 00:01:02,680 --> 00:01:03,600 Yeah, but we will. 33 00:01:05,120 --> 00:01:06,480 And who knows, maybe Ben will realize 34 00:01:06,560 --> 00:01:07,480 that life still goes on, 35 00:01:07,560 --> 00:01:08,800 good things still exist. 36 00:01:09,840 --> 00:01:10,720 Don't worry. 37 00:01:11,560 --> 00:01:13,120 We'll take it one day at a time, all right? 38 00:01:14,400 --> 00:01:15,920 Like the Advent calendar? 39 00:01:17,160 --> 00:01:18,000 Exactly. 40 00:01:22,680 --> 00:01:24,040 [Dave] One day at a time. 41 00:01:24,120 --> 00:01:25,480 It sounds simple in theory. 42 00:01:28,440 --> 00:01:30,360 In practice, 43 00:01:30,440 --> 00:01:32,560 it can be the hardest thing in the world. 44 00:01:39,280 --> 00:01:41,960 Oh. Morning. You're up early. 45 00:01:42,520 --> 00:01:43,480 Am I? 46 00:01:44,320 --> 00:01:45,440 I guess I am. 47 00:01:47,200 --> 00:01:48,680 Hey, listen, darling. 48 00:01:48,760 --> 00:01:51,680 Um, I don't want to rush you, but... 49 00:01:51,760 --> 00:01:52,600 What? 50 00:01:53,680 --> 00:01:55,240 In a few days, it's Ruby's birthday 51 00:01:55,720 --> 00:01:57,280 and then Christmas. 52 00:01:57,360 --> 00:01:58,520 It's December already? 53 00:02:00,080 --> 00:02:01,720 And how long... 54 00:02:01,800 --> 00:02:03,160 Three weeks. 55 00:02:04,720 --> 00:02:06,000 Oh, where'd the time go? 56 00:02:06,920 --> 00:02:08,840 You know, one day follows the next. 57 00:02:09,480 --> 00:02:10,560 It catches up. 58 00:02:10,640 --> 00:02:12,000 Well, we should do something. 59 00:02:12,080 --> 00:02:12,960 Celebrate. 60 00:02:13,040 --> 00:02:14,560 Ruby only gets one first birthday, right? 61 00:02:15,240 --> 00:02:16,600 Well, if you're sure you're ready. 62 00:02:16,680 --> 00:02:17,560 Good morning, all. 63 00:02:17,640 --> 00:02:19,480 Ooh, you're up early, mate. 64 00:02:19,560 --> 00:02:20,960 Yeah. Well, I thought I might give Derek a call. 65 00:02:21,040 --> 00:02:22,320 See if he's got some work for me. 66 00:02:22,400 --> 00:02:23,240 Really? 67 00:02:23,320 --> 00:02:24,400 -Oh. -Good for you, mate. 68 00:02:25,720 --> 00:02:27,520 [Julie] Ben's thinking of going back to work. 69 00:02:28,840 --> 00:02:29,920 Really? That's great. 70 00:02:30,000 --> 00:02:31,440 Yeah, it's been three weeks, Dad. 71 00:02:31,520 --> 00:02:32,520 It's time to get back out there. 72 00:02:32,600 --> 00:02:33,400 Hmm. 73 00:02:33,480 --> 00:02:34,400 Well, if you think you're ready. 74 00:02:34,480 --> 00:02:35,640 -Yeah. -Hey, did,uh, 75 00:02:35,720 --> 00:02:36,920 your mom tell you that we were thinking 76 00:02:37,000 --> 00:02:38,520 of reviving the old Advent calendar? 77 00:02:38,600 --> 00:02:39,840 Oh, I hadn't got to that yet. 78 00:02:39,920 --> 00:02:41,520 Oh, are you kidding? Ruby's gonna love it. 79 00:02:41,600 --> 00:02:42,520 Hey, us older kids 80 00:02:42,600 --> 00:02:43,760 still get chockies, too, right? 81 00:02:43,840 --> 00:02:45,440 -Yeah, course you do. -Awesome. 82 00:02:45,520 --> 00:02:46,720 Well, I've, uh, got a call to make 83 00:02:46,800 --> 00:02:47,760 so I'll see you later. 84 00:02:49,720 --> 00:02:50,560 What just happened? 85 00:02:51,080 --> 00:02:51,920 I don't know, but whatever 86 00:02:52,000 --> 00:02:53,760 magic words you used, they worked. 87 00:02:53,840 --> 00:02:54,960 What, so quickly? 88 00:02:56,040 --> 00:02:57,240 What do you think, Dad? 89 00:02:58,400 --> 00:03:00,760 A good first step. Here's hoping. 90 00:03:04,120 --> 00:03:04,960 Mmm. 91 00:03:08,240 --> 00:03:10,560 -Need a hand? -Um, no, almost got it. 92 00:03:10,640 --> 00:03:11,840 [Santa] Ho-ho. 93 00:03:12,640 --> 00:03:14,320 -Who asked you? -Ho-ho-ho. 94 00:03:16,040 --> 00:03:18,320 -Well? -Well what? 95 00:03:18,800 --> 00:03:20,120 She's as high as a kite on sugar. 96 00:03:20,200 --> 00:03:21,000 [Carbo] No. 97 00:03:21,080 --> 00:03:22,360 She just inhaled a cupcake. 98 00:03:22,440 --> 00:03:23,840 Yeah, she's fine. It's only been a week. 99 00:03:23,920 --> 00:03:25,640 -Three weeks. -[Retta grunts] 100 00:03:25,720 --> 00:03:26,760 [sighs] 101 00:03:27,200 --> 00:03:28,600 -What are we gonna do? -"We"? 102 00:03:28,680 --> 00:03:29,640 -Yeah. -Carbo, baby? 103 00:03:29,720 --> 00:03:31,080 Can you chuck me another cupcake? 104 00:03:31,160 --> 00:03:32,080 [Santa] Ho-ho. 105 00:03:32,160 --> 00:03:33,160 He's creepy. 106 00:03:33,240 --> 00:03:34,920 No, it's festive. It said on the box. 107 00:03:35,440 --> 00:03:37,560 -No, he's creepy. -Ho-ho-ho. 108 00:03:38,280 --> 00:03:40,240 Hey, um, if that's too hard... 109 00:03:40,320 --> 00:03:41,680 Mm, no. I'm getting these unraveled 110 00:03:41,760 --> 00:03:42,560 if it's the last thing I do. 111 00:03:42,640 --> 00:03:43,480 Okay. 112 00:03:43,960 --> 00:03:44,800 But maybe, you know, 113 00:03:44,880 --> 00:03:46,080 the last cupcake for now, yeah? 114 00:03:48,040 --> 00:03:49,520 -Morning. -Benno! 115 00:03:50,000 --> 00:03:51,320 Good to have you back, mate. 116 00:03:51,920 --> 00:03:52,800 Oh. 117 00:03:52,880 --> 00:03:54,240 Uh, are you, are you staying? 118 00:03:54,720 --> 00:03:56,400 -Yeah. -That's great. 119 00:03:56,480 --> 00:03:58,120 [Carbo] That's awesome! That's awesome! 120 00:03:58,200 --> 00:03:59,000 Thanks, mate. 121 00:03:59,080 --> 00:04:00,120 Carbo, I can't breathe. 122 00:04:01,560 --> 00:04:02,520 Sorry. 123 00:04:02,600 --> 00:04:04,480 Well, the, uh, the place looks really-- 124 00:04:04,560 --> 00:04:05,640 Uh, festive? 125 00:04:06,240 --> 00:04:07,560 Uh, yeah. But if you don't like them, 126 00:04:07,640 --> 00:04:08,720 we can pull them down. 127 00:04:08,800 --> 00:04:09,880 [Retta] Yeah. We're just trying to, 128 00:04:09,960 --> 00:04:11,040 you know, make the place 129 00:04:11,120 --> 00:04:12,800 feel a bit... Christmassy. 130 00:04:12,880 --> 00:04:13,680 Hmm. 131 00:04:13,760 --> 00:04:14,680 Cupcake? 132 00:04:15,480 --> 00:04:17,320 Rum ball? Mince pie? Too early? 133 00:04:17,400 --> 00:04:18,720 No, thanks. 134 00:04:18,800 --> 00:04:20,720 But I like the decorations, thank you. 135 00:04:20,800 --> 00:04:22,360 Wait till you see the front when we're finished. 136 00:04:22,440 --> 00:04:23,800 You guys are going to overload the grid. 137 00:04:23,880 --> 00:04:25,560 -[Carbo] No, we'll be fine. -Um, my dad's a sparky. 138 00:04:25,640 --> 00:04:26,840 I know what I'm talking about. 139 00:04:26,920 --> 00:04:29,080 Hey, uh, I just called Derek. 140 00:04:29,160 --> 00:04:30,360 I'm gonna go back to work. 141 00:04:30,440 --> 00:04:31,480 That's fantastic! 142 00:04:32,680 --> 00:04:34,440 -Did he just say work? -It sounded like it. 143 00:04:34,520 --> 00:04:36,360 -[Carbo] That's great! -And we are not 144 00:04:36,440 --> 00:04:37,840 gonna overload the grid. 145 00:04:45,280 --> 00:04:46,440 [Nathan] Told you. 146 00:04:47,080 --> 00:04:48,040 [Carbo] Sorry! 147 00:05:16,680 --> 00:05:18,040 There. What do you think? 148 00:05:18,400 --> 00:05:20,040 Mm, it needs a lick of paint. 149 00:05:20,120 --> 00:05:21,800 Oh, it's got a rich history, Dad. 150 00:05:21,880 --> 00:05:23,760 Aren't those Nathan's teeth marks? 151 00:05:24,680 --> 00:05:25,640 Oh, yes. 152 00:05:26,720 --> 00:05:28,960 Oh, my God. Where did you find that? 153 00:05:29,040 --> 00:05:29,920 In the shed. 154 00:05:30,600 --> 00:05:31,480 Wow. 155 00:05:31,560 --> 00:05:33,240 You should've started, like, a week ago. 156 00:05:33,320 --> 00:05:34,560 Oh, it's a bit late now. 157 00:05:34,640 --> 00:05:35,440 Better late than never. 158 00:05:35,520 --> 00:05:37,120 And this year, Ruby can join in, too. 159 00:05:37,200 --> 00:05:39,360 Uh, that's right, Ruby. 160 00:05:40,160 --> 00:05:41,600 [laughs] Now we'll only get to open 161 00:05:41,680 --> 00:05:42,480 one every four days. 162 00:05:42,560 --> 00:05:44,160 Oh, is that a problem? 163 00:05:44,240 --> 00:05:45,120 [Rachel] No. 164 00:05:45,200 --> 00:05:46,520 I think it's fantastic. 165 00:05:48,200 --> 00:05:49,880 Um, where's Ben? 166 00:05:51,560 --> 00:05:53,680 He's next door calling the Boat Club. 167 00:05:53,760 --> 00:05:54,920 Thinking about going back to work. 168 00:05:55,000 --> 00:05:56,600 -Really? -Yep. 169 00:05:56,920 --> 00:05:57,960 Well, that's... 170 00:05:58,040 --> 00:05:59,600 a good thing, isn't it? Right? 171 00:05:59,680 --> 00:06:02,000 [Julie] Yeah. Yeah, of course it is. 172 00:06:02,080 --> 00:06:02,920 Speaking of work, 173 00:06:03,000 --> 00:06:03,960 haven't you got a big presentation 174 00:06:04,040 --> 00:06:04,880 -today yourself? -Yeah, 175 00:06:04,960 --> 00:06:06,760 I've got a couple of hours to polish. 176 00:06:07,200 --> 00:06:08,440 Does it need polishing? 177 00:06:08,520 --> 00:06:09,800 Well, it's the first big pitch 178 00:06:09,880 --> 00:06:11,520 since Paul begged me to come back. 179 00:06:12,000 --> 00:06:13,160 You'll nail it, love. 180 00:06:13,240 --> 00:06:14,080 Thank you. 181 00:06:14,960 --> 00:06:16,080 -Oi! -[Rachel] What? 182 00:06:16,800 --> 00:06:18,280 Chocolate's breakfast in Europe. 183 00:06:18,360 --> 00:06:19,600 Yeah. They also put brandy 184 00:06:19,680 --> 00:06:20,640 in their morning coffee. 185 00:06:20,720 --> 00:06:22,280 -Don't tempt me. -Hey! 186 00:06:22,360 --> 00:06:23,160 Oh. 187 00:06:24,280 --> 00:06:25,720 Shouldn't you be getting ready as well? 188 00:06:27,960 --> 00:06:30,040 Darling, it'll be fine. 189 00:06:30,120 --> 00:06:32,320 These therapists, they train for years. 190 00:06:32,400 --> 00:06:34,400 They'll have heaps of life experience. 191 00:06:34,480 --> 00:06:35,880 They know what they're doing. 192 00:06:41,480 --> 00:06:42,400 [door opens] 193 00:06:43,000 --> 00:06:44,000 Sorry to keep you. 194 00:06:44,080 --> 00:06:44,880 Dylan. 195 00:06:45,280 --> 00:06:46,400 No, I'm Dave. 196 00:06:46,480 --> 00:06:47,760 No, I'm Dylan. 197 00:06:47,840 --> 00:06:49,520 -I know you're Dave. -Oh, sorry. Yeah. 198 00:06:49,600 --> 00:06:51,320 Well, please, take a seat. 199 00:06:56,120 --> 00:06:58,120 It's fantastic surf this morning. 200 00:06:58,200 --> 00:06:59,360 You get to the beach much? 201 00:07:00,120 --> 00:07:01,920 No, not much. 202 00:07:02,760 --> 00:07:03,920 I find it really helpful. 203 00:07:04,360 --> 00:07:05,920 It's a great way to unwind. 204 00:07:08,600 --> 00:07:10,040 Oh, yeah. Well, I've got a business to run 205 00:07:10,120 --> 00:07:11,880 and a one year old so... 206 00:07:11,960 --> 00:07:13,840 I don't get too many chances to unwind. 207 00:07:13,920 --> 00:07:15,480 Oh, I guess not. 208 00:07:17,080 --> 00:07:18,000 So, Dave, 209 00:07:18,720 --> 00:07:19,800 what brings you here? 210 00:07:19,880 --> 00:07:21,440 [Dave] I had no idea what to say. 211 00:07:21,520 --> 00:07:22,920 But didn't he try and draw you out? 212 00:07:23,000 --> 00:07:24,440 Yeah. He asked me a heap of questions. 213 00:07:24,520 --> 00:07:25,760 Which you answered. 214 00:07:25,840 --> 00:07:26,800 Sure. 215 00:07:32,240 --> 00:07:33,240 I just didn't give him 216 00:07:33,320 --> 00:07:34,560 the answers that he wanted. 217 00:07:35,080 --> 00:07:36,760 There are no right or wrong answers here. 218 00:07:37,160 --> 00:07:38,080 [Dave] And then, it was over. 219 00:07:38,160 --> 00:07:39,400 Forty five minutes, nothing. 220 00:07:39,480 --> 00:07:40,480 I mean, I know more about him 221 00:07:40,560 --> 00:07:41,560 than he knows about me. 222 00:07:41,640 --> 00:07:42,560 I know that he likes to surf, 223 00:07:42,640 --> 00:07:44,120 he, uh, looks about 12. 224 00:07:44,200 --> 00:07:45,680 I mean, I've got jeans older than that. 225 00:07:45,760 --> 00:07:46,920 And then, when he started 226 00:07:47,000 --> 00:07:47,960 talking about men my age 227 00:07:48,040 --> 00:07:48,920 I thought, "What do you know 228 00:07:49,000 --> 00:07:49,920 about men my age?" 229 00:07:50,000 --> 00:07:51,120 I know bits of paper on a wall 230 00:07:51,200 --> 00:07:53,120 don't qualify me for having lived a life. 231 00:07:54,080 --> 00:07:55,760 But that doesn't mean that I can't help you. 232 00:07:55,840 --> 00:07:56,920 He can't help me, Jules. 233 00:07:57,000 --> 00:07:58,400 Well, maybe you're expecting 234 00:07:58,480 --> 00:07:59,920 too much from your first visit. 235 00:08:00,000 --> 00:08:01,040 When are you going back? 236 00:08:01,120 --> 00:08:02,360 I'm not. 237 00:08:02,440 --> 00:08:03,360 What? 238 00:08:03,880 --> 00:08:05,480 I gave it a try. It's not for me. 239 00:08:05,560 --> 00:08:06,640 This is too important 240 00:08:06,720 --> 00:08:07,920 for you to give up just like that. 241 00:08:08,000 --> 00:08:09,360 I've got to focus on Ben now. 242 00:08:09,440 --> 00:08:10,520 I'll get through this. 243 00:08:10,600 --> 00:08:11,680 You sure about that? 244 00:08:11,760 --> 00:08:13,880 Yes. I'm fine. 245 00:08:14,760 --> 00:08:15,760 I've got to get back to work. 246 00:08:18,840 --> 00:08:21,320 What have you got planned after the pitch? 247 00:08:21,400 --> 00:08:22,840 Well, apart from a victory lap 248 00:08:22,920 --> 00:08:24,320 around the building, not much. 249 00:08:24,400 --> 00:08:25,920 Ha. Good. 250 00:08:26,000 --> 00:08:27,400 Because I've got a surprise for you. 251 00:08:27,480 --> 00:08:28,880 Ooh. What? 252 00:08:28,960 --> 00:08:29,760 It's a surprise. 253 00:08:29,840 --> 00:08:31,280 I know, I love surprises. What is it? 254 00:08:32,040 --> 00:08:33,440 -It's a surprise. -Yeah, but-- 255 00:08:33,520 --> 00:08:35,880 Okay. No, just, just meet me, okay? 256 00:08:36,400 --> 00:08:37,880 -I've missed you, baby. -Yeah. All right. 257 00:08:38,800 --> 00:08:39,600 Me, too. All right, 258 00:08:39,680 --> 00:08:40,560 I'll call you after my meeting. 259 00:08:40,680 --> 00:08:41,480 -Okay. -Bye. 260 00:08:56,960 --> 00:08:58,840 Hey, are you all right? 261 00:09:01,320 --> 00:09:02,760 No, not really. 262 00:09:03,200 --> 00:09:05,520 Well, what's going on? Come on, talk to me. 263 00:09:05,600 --> 00:09:07,720 Come on. How long have you been here? 264 00:09:07,800 --> 00:09:10,040 I was going to work and... 265 00:09:11,000 --> 00:09:12,320 this is as far as I got. 266 00:09:14,080 --> 00:09:15,000 But that... 267 00:09:15,080 --> 00:09:16,520 that was hours ago. 268 00:09:18,760 --> 00:09:19,800 Ben... 269 00:09:21,240 --> 00:09:23,240 I opened the door and... 270 00:09:23,320 --> 00:09:25,600 all her clothes are still in our wardrobe. 271 00:09:27,120 --> 00:09:28,280 Would it help if we just 272 00:09:28,360 --> 00:09:29,280 packed them up 273 00:09:29,360 --> 00:09:31,040 and popped them out of sight? 274 00:09:32,480 --> 00:09:33,600 I don't know. 275 00:09:34,360 --> 00:09:35,200 Maybe? 276 00:09:36,080 --> 00:09:37,800 Okay. All right. Yeah. Well, let's do that. 277 00:09:37,880 --> 00:09:39,520 Let's do it now then. Come on. 278 00:09:39,600 --> 00:09:40,480 Um... 279 00:09:41,560 --> 00:09:43,280 But don't you have some big presentation? 280 00:09:43,360 --> 00:09:44,880 Oh, no, a couple of calls and I'm covered. 281 00:09:44,960 --> 00:09:45,920 Come on. 282 00:09:50,200 --> 00:09:51,120 [Rachel sighs] 283 00:09:52,480 --> 00:09:54,360 See what I mean? It's Mel. 284 00:09:54,800 --> 00:09:56,160 Okay. Well, we're just... 285 00:09:56,240 --> 00:09:57,400 We're packing them away 286 00:09:57,480 --> 00:09:58,960 for a while, yeah? 287 00:10:00,280 --> 00:10:01,280 Um... 288 00:10:03,240 --> 00:10:04,920 -[Ben] Just leave that. -[Rachel] Are you sure? 289 00:10:05,000 --> 00:10:06,160 -Because I can-- -Yeah, yeah, yeah. 290 00:10:06,240 --> 00:10:08,400 -Let's just do this. -Okay. 291 00:10:09,480 --> 00:10:11,160 Well, you keep going here 292 00:10:11,240 --> 00:10:12,720 and I'll get started over there. 293 00:10:14,000 --> 00:10:15,120 [clears throat] 294 00:10:20,320 --> 00:10:21,880 So, um... [clears throat] 295 00:10:21,960 --> 00:10:24,040 ...I bet Derek was glad to hear from you. 296 00:10:24,520 --> 00:10:25,320 Yep. 297 00:10:26,880 --> 00:10:28,920 It must be a busy time of year for him. 298 00:10:29,440 --> 00:10:30,920 Lots of office parties. 299 00:10:31,640 --> 00:10:33,080 Um, ours is next week. 300 00:10:34,360 --> 00:10:36,000 I just hope that, um, 301 00:10:36,080 --> 00:10:38,080 everyone remembers the rules, 302 00:10:38,160 --> 00:10:39,680 you know, don't get so hammered 303 00:10:39,760 --> 00:10:41,200 you tell your boss what you really think of him 304 00:10:41,280 --> 00:10:42,640 and under no circumstances 305 00:10:42,720 --> 00:10:44,280 go into the photocopying room. 306 00:10:45,520 --> 00:10:46,320 Ben? 307 00:10:53,960 --> 00:10:56,160 You're nice and clean. Yes, you are. 308 00:10:56,240 --> 00:10:57,680 -Yes. -I can't do it. 309 00:10:57,760 --> 00:10:59,160 Can't do what? 310 00:10:59,240 --> 00:11:00,480 Ruby's birthday, Christmas. 311 00:11:00,560 --> 00:11:01,560 I thought I could, but I can't. 312 00:11:01,640 --> 00:11:02,640 -Ben... -Ben. 313 00:11:02,720 --> 00:11:03,600 [Ben] No, it's too hard, Mom. 314 00:11:03,680 --> 00:11:05,160 It's okay, I've got it. It's all right. 315 00:11:06,920 --> 00:11:07,920 Hey. 316 00:11:09,760 --> 00:11:10,760 I'm so sorry, Benny. 317 00:11:10,840 --> 00:11:12,080 I didn't mean to push you. 318 00:11:12,160 --> 00:11:13,320 No, you didn't. 319 00:11:14,040 --> 00:11:15,360 It was her wedding dress. 320 00:11:16,640 --> 00:11:17,760 I know. 321 00:11:18,520 --> 00:11:19,480 I saw. 322 00:11:21,160 --> 00:11:22,240 Is this it? 323 00:11:23,160 --> 00:11:24,160 Am I gonna feel like this 324 00:11:24,240 --> 00:11:25,560 for the rest of my life? 325 00:11:29,720 --> 00:11:32,680 Well, not that I'm speaking from experience, 326 00:11:32,760 --> 00:11:34,160 but no. 327 00:11:36,440 --> 00:11:38,080 It's gonna get easier. 328 00:11:39,320 --> 00:11:40,360 You will get through this, 329 00:11:40,440 --> 00:11:41,720 I promise. 330 00:11:41,800 --> 00:11:43,200 And that's the thing. 331 00:11:44,280 --> 00:11:45,640 I don't know if I want to. 332 00:11:49,760 --> 00:11:52,120 [Dave] Each day can mean progress, 333 00:11:52,200 --> 00:11:55,600 or a sickening sense of getting nowhere. 334 00:11:58,440 --> 00:11:59,640 Carbo, Carbo. 335 00:11:59,720 --> 00:12:02,040 Oh, Mom. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. 336 00:12:02,120 --> 00:12:03,880 Yes, it's Ruby's birthday coming up. 337 00:12:03,960 --> 00:12:05,240 Oh, I'm sure she'll love a present. 338 00:12:05,320 --> 00:12:06,760 Say hi from me. 339 00:12:07,520 --> 00:12:08,320 Who was that? 340 00:12:08,400 --> 00:12:10,240 That was, uh, Santa, Mom. 341 00:12:11,800 --> 00:12:13,080 Christmas decoration. 342 00:12:13,560 --> 00:12:15,000 Yes, it talks. 343 00:12:15,080 --> 00:12:16,440 Yeah, yeah, like a robot. 344 00:12:17,080 --> 00:12:19,440 No, it's not creepy, it's festive. 345 00:12:19,520 --> 00:12:21,080 Hi, Mrs. Karandonis. 346 00:12:22,600 --> 00:12:24,240 Mom, I've got, I've got to go. 347 00:12:24,840 --> 00:12:26,000 Look, I've got to go, okay? 348 00:12:26,080 --> 00:12:26,920 Yeah, I love you, too. 349 00:12:27,000 --> 00:12:28,640 -Okay, bye. -[phone beeps] 350 00:12:29,480 --> 00:12:30,880 Hey, you're doing a terrific job. 351 00:12:30,960 --> 00:12:32,200 You covered the mouthpiece. 352 00:12:32,280 --> 00:12:33,440 -What? -You covered the mouthpiece. 353 00:12:33,520 --> 00:12:34,960 -I saw you. -No, I didn't. 354 00:12:35,040 --> 00:12:36,560 She doesn't know about me, does she? 355 00:12:36,640 --> 00:12:37,520 Does she know I'm living here? 356 00:12:37,600 --> 00:12:39,560 Anything about me, that I even exist? 357 00:12:40,960 --> 00:12:42,360 Look, I think you should go easy on the cupcakes. 358 00:12:42,440 --> 00:12:44,000 -What? -You know, Retta, 359 00:12:44,080 --> 00:12:45,120 this is getting serious now, okay? 360 00:12:45,200 --> 00:12:46,120 You have to lay off the sugar. 361 00:12:46,200 --> 00:12:48,120 You have to tell your mom! 362 00:12:49,600 --> 00:12:52,600 [indistinct TV chatter] 363 00:12:54,040 --> 00:12:55,240 Evening, all. 364 00:12:55,320 --> 00:12:56,320 -Hey. -Hey. 365 00:12:56,400 --> 00:12:57,680 Oh, Ben, how was work? 366 00:12:58,680 --> 00:13:00,560 I bet you they were pleased to have you back, eh? 367 00:13:01,640 --> 00:13:03,480 Oh, Ben changed his mind, Dad. 368 00:13:04,000 --> 00:13:05,400 Well, maybe tomorrow then. 369 00:13:06,720 --> 00:13:08,160 I don't think so. 370 00:13:08,760 --> 00:13:09,920 Something else on? 371 00:13:10,640 --> 00:13:12,120 [sighs] 372 00:13:14,080 --> 00:13:15,960 -Ben? -Dad, don't push. 373 00:13:16,040 --> 00:13:16,920 Yeah, I'm going to get 374 00:13:17,000 --> 00:13:18,440 my pilot's license in the morning 375 00:13:18,520 --> 00:13:20,120 and discover a cure 376 00:13:20,200 --> 00:13:21,360 for cancer before lunch. 377 00:13:21,440 --> 00:13:22,640 Climb Mount Everest before dinner. 378 00:13:22,720 --> 00:13:24,800 What do you reckon? You think I'm overdoing it? 379 00:13:24,880 --> 00:13:25,760 Sorry, mate. 380 00:13:25,840 --> 00:13:27,920 I didn't mean to upset you. 381 00:13:28,000 --> 00:13:29,160 I'll clean up. 382 00:13:32,000 --> 00:13:33,280 Small steps, eh? 383 00:13:34,200 --> 00:13:35,440 Hey, Benny, you must be kind of sick 384 00:13:35,520 --> 00:13:36,680 of sleeping on the couch, 385 00:13:36,760 --> 00:13:38,320 so if you want to have my room, 386 00:13:38,400 --> 00:13:39,400 you know my offer still stands. 387 00:13:39,480 --> 00:13:40,600 I'm happy to stay at Jake's. 388 00:13:41,160 --> 00:13:42,520 I like the couch. 389 00:13:42,600 --> 00:13:43,760 [TV volume increases] 390 00:13:44,120 --> 00:13:45,600 Okay. Save me some dinner. 391 00:13:45,680 --> 00:13:46,480 Where are you going? 392 00:13:46,560 --> 00:13:48,280 I'm going to go and see if I can try and fix this. 393 00:13:51,040 --> 00:13:53,240 Okay. So... 394 00:13:53,320 --> 00:13:54,600 Ben and I made a start this morning. 395 00:13:54,680 --> 00:13:55,480 Right. 396 00:13:55,560 --> 00:13:57,000 And Jake is coming to help, too. 397 00:13:57,080 --> 00:13:58,360 No, I get it. It just, it feels-- 398 00:13:58,440 --> 00:14:00,200 I know, but it's what Ben wants, okay? 399 00:14:00,280 --> 00:14:01,520 And I know it's a horrible job 400 00:14:01,600 --> 00:14:03,120 but I think it's really gonna help him, so. 401 00:14:03,200 --> 00:14:04,040 -Are you sure? -Yep. 402 00:14:04,760 --> 00:14:05,720 There's too many memories in here 403 00:14:05,800 --> 00:14:07,640 and you know, we're not burning them or anything. 404 00:14:07,720 --> 00:14:09,040 We're just gonna put them away 405 00:14:09,120 --> 00:14:10,600 until he decides what he wants to do with them. 406 00:14:10,680 --> 00:14:11,600 [Nathan] Mm. 407 00:14:18,960 --> 00:14:20,080 [Rachel sighs] 408 00:14:21,760 --> 00:14:23,480 So, this, um, this road trip you're going on? 409 00:14:24,320 --> 00:14:26,480 Yeah, I don't think it's gonna happen. 410 00:14:26,560 --> 00:14:27,640 Well, why? 411 00:14:28,280 --> 00:14:30,520 It seems a bit insensitive given everything. 412 00:14:31,520 --> 00:14:33,200 Well, you're not going till the new year, right? 413 00:14:33,280 --> 00:14:34,720 Well, that was the plan 414 00:14:34,800 --> 00:14:35,920 but Ben needs us, you know. 415 00:14:36,000 --> 00:14:38,640 Yeah, but we're all doing what we can now. 416 00:14:38,720 --> 00:14:40,240 I mean, you can't put your life 417 00:14:40,320 --> 00:14:41,840 on hold forever though, Nathan. 418 00:14:41,920 --> 00:14:44,040 You can't feel guilty you've got plans. 419 00:14:45,520 --> 00:14:46,920 Rach, what's this? 420 00:14:48,320 --> 00:14:50,080 Oh no, that's, that's the... 421 00:14:50,160 --> 00:14:51,680 that's the coroner's bag. 422 00:14:51,760 --> 00:14:53,200 Ben wants to... 423 00:14:55,360 --> 00:14:58,440 -[Nathan] What's this? -Yeah, wedding album and DVDs. 424 00:14:58,520 --> 00:15:00,400 Ben is going to flip when he sees this. 425 00:15:00,840 --> 00:15:01,880 Or it could help him. 426 00:15:01,960 --> 00:15:03,120 -[cell phone ringing] -I don't know. 427 00:15:03,200 --> 00:15:04,600 I think we better leave that, too. 428 00:15:05,080 --> 00:15:07,160 [cell phone continues ringing] 429 00:15:07,240 --> 00:15:08,560 Hey. Where are you? 430 00:15:13,920 --> 00:15:16,360 -You did not drive. -Oh, yeah. 431 00:15:16,440 --> 00:15:18,080 Jake, are you determined to turn me 432 00:15:18,160 --> 00:15:19,480 into some kind of screaming harpy? 433 00:15:19,560 --> 00:15:21,360 -Surprise. -What? What? 434 00:15:21,440 --> 00:15:23,280 Surprise. You like surprises. 435 00:15:23,920 --> 00:15:24,760 Yeah, so? 436 00:15:25,360 --> 00:15:26,720 I just got the all-clear. 437 00:15:27,840 --> 00:15:28,800 Seriously? 438 00:15:28,880 --> 00:15:30,680 So, that's the surprise? 439 00:15:30,760 --> 00:15:32,920 -That is so good! -I know. 440 00:15:33,000 --> 00:15:34,200 -Really? -Yeah. 441 00:15:34,280 --> 00:15:35,120 Yes! 442 00:15:35,200 --> 00:15:36,240 Six months, no seizures. 443 00:15:36,320 --> 00:15:37,680 The meds are working 444 00:15:37,760 --> 00:15:39,920 and I am back in the driver's seat. 445 00:15:40,000 --> 00:15:41,000 That is the best news. 446 00:15:41,080 --> 00:15:42,160 I love you. 447 00:15:45,720 --> 00:15:47,720 So, that one was Rachel's turn 448 00:15:47,800 --> 00:15:50,040 which means this one is Ben's turn. 449 00:15:50,120 --> 00:15:52,360 -Ben? -Ruby can go. 450 00:15:53,160 --> 00:15:54,000 [sighs] 451 00:15:54,080 --> 00:15:55,760 What happened to family tradition? 452 00:15:55,840 --> 00:15:57,440 -Oldest to youngest. -Yes. 453 00:15:57,520 --> 00:16:00,600 Well, and Ruby's gifts are age appropriate. 454 00:16:00,680 --> 00:16:01,800 She's too young for chocolate, so. 455 00:16:01,880 --> 00:16:03,040 Who's too young for chocolate? 456 00:16:03,120 --> 00:16:04,560 -Ruby. -Ah. Lucky I'm not. 457 00:16:04,640 --> 00:16:06,440 -Oh, it's not your turn! -Oh, yeah, 458 00:16:06,520 --> 00:16:07,480 I thought we had to catch up. 459 00:16:07,560 --> 00:16:08,440 [laughs] 460 00:16:09,760 --> 00:16:11,000 Hey, Ben, 461 00:16:11,080 --> 00:16:12,360 um, seeing as I need to work off 462 00:16:12,440 --> 00:16:13,480 some of Carbo's junk food, 463 00:16:13,560 --> 00:16:14,520 and now this chocolate, 464 00:16:14,600 --> 00:16:16,040 I was wondering, do you want to go down 465 00:16:16,120 --> 00:16:17,160 to the park tomorrow for a kick? 466 00:16:17,240 --> 00:16:18,400 -Good idea. -[Nathan] Mm. 467 00:16:20,600 --> 00:16:21,440 No, thanks. 468 00:16:23,520 --> 00:16:24,600 [Nathan] Come on, it'll be good. 469 00:16:24,680 --> 00:16:25,920 Get outside, a bit of fresh air. 470 00:16:26,000 --> 00:16:26,840 A bit of exercise. 471 00:16:27,600 --> 00:16:28,560 I don't want exercise 472 00:16:28,640 --> 00:16:30,240 and I'm sick of people trying to cheer me up. 473 00:16:31,560 --> 00:16:33,800 -Well, Ben, you can't-- -Can't what? 474 00:16:35,640 --> 00:16:37,200 Just piss off, Nathan. 475 00:16:37,720 --> 00:16:39,560 -Ben... -No, Dad, it's okay. 476 00:16:39,640 --> 00:16:40,840 -No, it's not okay. -[Julie] Dave... 477 00:16:40,920 --> 00:16:41,960 It's not okay, Jules. 478 00:16:43,400 --> 00:16:45,040 Your brother asked you out because he cares about you. 479 00:16:45,120 --> 00:16:46,360 You do not speak to him like that. 480 00:16:46,440 --> 00:16:47,280 Apologize. 481 00:16:47,880 --> 00:16:48,720 Why? 482 00:16:51,040 --> 00:16:52,680 I said apologize. 483 00:16:57,520 --> 00:16:59,120 Sorry, Nathan. 484 00:16:59,200 --> 00:17:00,920 -Piss off, please. -Hey! 485 00:17:01,000 --> 00:17:02,600 -Do not turn your back on me. -[Julie] Dave! 486 00:17:02,680 --> 00:17:04,080 I know you're grieving, but it does not give you 487 00:17:04,160 --> 00:17:05,120 the right to behave like this. 488 00:17:05,200 --> 00:17:06,320 Dave, let him go. 489 00:17:20,160 --> 00:17:21,400 Nathan. 490 00:17:27,640 --> 00:17:29,400 Is it safe to approach? 491 00:17:34,040 --> 00:17:35,800 He's just not moving forward. 492 00:17:36,920 --> 00:17:37,880 No. 493 00:17:41,600 --> 00:17:43,120 And I know what it feels like. 494 00:17:45,200 --> 00:17:46,120 Not... 495 00:17:46,760 --> 00:17:48,360 Of what he's feeling. 496 00:17:52,440 --> 00:17:55,440 It's like there's no way out. 497 00:17:58,720 --> 00:18:00,960 God, I mean, what am I doing yelling at him? 498 00:18:02,120 --> 00:18:03,160 I'm meant to be there for him, 499 00:18:03,240 --> 00:18:04,240 looking after him. 500 00:18:06,600 --> 00:18:08,240 And who's looking after you, mate? 501 00:18:08,680 --> 00:18:10,440 I don't need looking after, Ted. 502 00:18:10,520 --> 00:18:11,360 Bull. 503 00:18:11,880 --> 00:18:13,040 We all do. 504 00:18:19,680 --> 00:18:21,000 I made you a cup of tea. 505 00:18:22,480 --> 00:18:23,600 Thanks. 506 00:18:24,240 --> 00:18:25,440 You okay? 507 00:18:27,120 --> 00:18:28,160 Oh, darling, 508 00:18:29,200 --> 00:18:31,880 your dad's just worried for you. 509 00:18:33,400 --> 00:18:34,560 And he's right, you know. 510 00:18:35,600 --> 00:18:36,880 Not for losing it. 511 00:18:36,960 --> 00:18:38,320 You know he didn't mean that. 512 00:18:39,760 --> 00:18:41,680 But all everyone's trying to do is help. 513 00:18:42,440 --> 00:18:43,800 I never asked them to. 514 00:18:43,880 --> 00:18:46,600 Oh, that's what families do. 515 00:18:46,680 --> 00:18:47,640 If you want me to move out, 516 00:18:47,720 --> 00:18:49,240 -I'll move out. -No. 517 00:18:51,240 --> 00:18:53,280 This is always gonna be your home. 518 00:18:54,120 --> 00:18:55,080 But there comes a time 519 00:18:55,160 --> 00:18:56,800 when you have to get back into life. 520 00:18:57,920 --> 00:18:59,680 You said it yourself this morning. 521 00:19:01,960 --> 00:19:03,200 I was wrong. 522 00:19:04,560 --> 00:19:05,760 I can't. 523 00:19:07,120 --> 00:19:08,240 Ben. 524 00:19:11,240 --> 00:19:12,640 That's not true. 525 00:19:35,040 --> 00:19:36,200 Rach and I packed everything up. 526 00:19:36,880 --> 00:19:38,120 We put it in Carbo's mom's room. 527 00:19:38,200 --> 00:19:40,160 Um, we just thought that-- 528 00:19:40,240 --> 00:19:41,400 [Ben] Thanks. 529 00:19:43,640 --> 00:19:46,360 Oh, we weren't really sure what to do with those. 530 00:19:47,760 --> 00:19:48,640 Your offer for a kick 531 00:19:48,720 --> 00:19:50,000 at the park tomorrow still good? 532 00:19:51,920 --> 00:19:53,400 So, mate, you and Retta-- 533 00:19:53,480 --> 00:19:54,560 Oh, don't mention the war. 534 00:19:54,640 --> 00:19:55,920 -What war? -Retta wants him 535 00:19:56,000 --> 00:19:57,840 to tell his mom about their relationship. 536 00:19:57,920 --> 00:19:59,160 Is she a masochist or what? 537 00:19:59,240 --> 00:20:00,560 Mate, I've tried telling her. 538 00:20:00,640 --> 00:20:01,960 What do you reckon your mom would do? 539 00:20:02,040 --> 00:20:03,720 Reach down the phone and ask if she's Greek. 540 00:20:03,800 --> 00:20:05,480 You see? You guys know what she's like. 541 00:20:05,560 --> 00:20:08,160 "Nicko, I didn't push for 27 hours 542 00:20:08,240 --> 00:20:09,600 so you could ruin my body 543 00:20:09,680 --> 00:20:11,000 and break my heart." 544 00:20:11,080 --> 00:20:12,000 Hm. You never know. 545 00:20:12,080 --> 00:20:13,080 They might just hit it off. 546 00:20:13,160 --> 00:20:14,240 Yeah, with baseball bats. 547 00:20:14,320 --> 00:20:15,160 [Nathan] I'm serious. 548 00:20:15,240 --> 00:20:17,080 -Mate, no way. -They are pretty similar. 549 00:20:17,160 --> 00:20:18,360 -What? -Don't you reckon, Ben? 550 00:20:18,440 --> 00:20:19,960 They're completely different. 551 00:20:20,040 --> 00:20:21,360 Well, apart from almost having 552 00:20:21,440 --> 00:20:23,560 exactly the same name, Retta and Rita. 553 00:20:23,640 --> 00:20:24,520 No, mate. They're like 554 00:20:24,600 --> 00:20:25,600 chalk and cheese, you know, 555 00:20:25,680 --> 00:20:26,720 olive oil and vinegar, 556 00:20:26,800 --> 00:20:27,720 petrol and diesel. 557 00:20:28,200 --> 00:20:29,520 You might not be able to see it, but, uh, 558 00:20:29,600 --> 00:20:30,680 it's a well-known fact that some guys 559 00:20:30,760 --> 00:20:31,600 end up marrying their mom. 560 00:20:34,200 --> 00:20:35,360 What? Stop messing with my head. 561 00:20:35,440 --> 00:20:36,960 Just give me the ball! Let's go! 562 00:20:37,040 --> 00:20:38,160 -Your mom! -[Carbo] I've got it! 563 00:20:38,240 --> 00:20:39,600 I've got it! I've got it! 564 00:20:39,680 --> 00:20:40,800 [Nathan] Carbo! 565 00:20:41,600 --> 00:20:42,640 [Carbo] Natho! Oh, yeah! 566 00:20:42,720 --> 00:20:43,720 Yeah, come on. Matey, matey, matey. 567 00:20:44,560 --> 00:20:45,480 Here we go. Benno! 568 00:20:46,360 --> 00:20:47,320 Benny! 569 00:20:47,400 --> 00:20:49,000 ♪ Looking down At the sky ♪ 570 00:20:49,080 --> 00:20:50,840 ♪ Don't let me fall ♪ 571 00:20:53,120 --> 00:20:54,600 Oh! Screamer! 572 00:20:55,280 --> 00:20:56,880 ♪ On a Saturday night ♪ 573 00:20:56,960 --> 00:20:57,880 [Carbo] Benny! Benny! 574 00:20:58,480 --> 00:21:00,120 ♪ They say What goes up ♪ 575 00:21:00,200 --> 00:21:03,280 ♪ Must come down But don't let me fall ♪ 576 00:21:04,920 --> 00:21:08,280 ♪ Don't let me fall ♪ 577 00:21:08,360 --> 00:21:11,080 ♪ Don't let me fall ♪ 578 00:21:11,160 --> 00:21:14,080 ♪ They say what goes up Must come down... ♪ 579 00:21:14,160 --> 00:21:15,800 You got some serious airtime there, Benny. 580 00:21:15,880 --> 00:21:17,000 -Oh... -You did good, Benno. 581 00:21:17,080 --> 00:21:18,720 [Ben] It feels like I'm aging. 582 00:21:18,800 --> 00:21:19,640 Yeah. 583 00:21:19,720 --> 00:21:21,200 Oh! Mail's in. I'll get it! 584 00:21:21,720 --> 00:21:22,880 I've never seen a grown man 585 00:21:22,960 --> 00:21:24,640 get so worked up over takeaway menus. 586 00:21:24,720 --> 00:21:25,640 [Ben] A grown man? 587 00:21:25,720 --> 00:21:27,200 Oh, I use the term loosely. 588 00:21:28,640 --> 00:21:29,720 Hey, Benny, you know how I'm thinking 589 00:21:29,800 --> 00:21:31,440 of doing this, uh, road trip? 590 00:21:31,520 --> 00:21:33,280 -FNQ, here you come. -Yeah. 591 00:21:33,360 --> 00:21:34,200 Well, if you wanted to come, 592 00:21:34,280 --> 00:21:35,520 I could use the company. 593 00:21:36,000 --> 00:21:38,000 Ah, thanks mate, but I... 594 00:21:38,080 --> 00:21:40,600 I've got to stay here and get my life back. 595 00:21:41,240 --> 00:21:42,320 Maybe you need a break. 596 00:21:42,400 --> 00:21:44,360 Bill. Oh, takeaway menu. 597 00:21:44,800 --> 00:21:46,000 Oh, Turkish. 598 00:21:46,560 --> 00:21:47,400 Bill. 599 00:21:49,680 --> 00:21:50,680 For me? 600 00:21:50,760 --> 00:21:53,160 Um... for Mel. 601 00:21:55,320 --> 00:21:56,360 You okay? 602 00:21:58,840 --> 00:22:00,280 I forgot about her for a minute. 603 00:22:01,760 --> 00:22:03,440 -[Nathan] Uh, Ben... -I betrayed her. 604 00:22:03,520 --> 00:22:05,040 No, you didn't, mate. 605 00:22:05,120 --> 00:22:06,160 I don't want to forget about her, 606 00:22:06,240 --> 00:22:07,360 not for a second, and I did. 607 00:22:07,440 --> 00:22:08,920 Well, that wasn't our intention, Ben. 608 00:22:09,000 --> 00:22:10,360 -[Carbo] Yeah, no way. -[Nathan] Sorry... 609 00:22:10,440 --> 00:22:11,480 -Benny... -It's not your fault, 610 00:22:11,560 --> 00:22:13,240 it's my fault. It's my fault. 611 00:22:14,160 --> 00:22:16,720 [Dave] If ever there was a day for taking action, 612 00:22:16,800 --> 00:22:17,920 this was it. 613 00:22:21,040 --> 00:22:23,240 So, take two. 614 00:22:23,760 --> 00:22:24,760 What brings you here, Dave? 615 00:22:25,880 --> 00:22:27,720 Tell me how I can help my son. 616 00:22:32,040 --> 00:22:33,560 -Hey. -Hey. 617 00:22:33,640 --> 00:22:34,680 Thank you. 618 00:22:35,240 --> 00:22:36,640 So, how was the park? 619 00:22:36,720 --> 00:22:37,720 No, it was great. 620 00:22:37,800 --> 00:22:39,720 And then, not so great. 621 00:22:39,800 --> 00:22:40,760 We tried to cheer Ben up. 622 00:22:41,320 --> 00:22:42,400 -Tried? -Yeah. 623 00:22:42,480 --> 00:22:43,640 He had a guilt attack. 624 00:22:43,720 --> 00:22:45,520 Oh, no, that's terrible. 625 00:22:45,600 --> 00:22:46,880 Poor Ben. 626 00:22:48,320 --> 00:22:50,280 Um, speaking of guilt, 627 00:22:50,360 --> 00:22:51,160 I'm detoxing. 628 00:22:52,320 --> 00:22:53,160 I, um, 629 00:22:53,240 --> 00:22:55,120 I've seen the dark side of sugar. 630 00:22:55,560 --> 00:22:56,960 It was full on. 631 00:22:57,040 --> 00:22:58,120 I've been saying and doing things 632 00:22:58,200 --> 00:22:59,280 I really regret. 633 00:22:59,360 --> 00:23:00,240 Really? 634 00:23:00,840 --> 00:23:02,320 I don't know who that person was 635 00:23:02,400 --> 00:23:04,800 and... I'm sorry. 636 00:23:04,880 --> 00:23:06,480 Oh, babe, come here. 637 00:23:07,080 --> 00:23:08,640 You weren't that bad. 638 00:23:09,680 --> 00:23:10,520 See? 639 00:23:10,920 --> 00:23:12,360 See, I was that bad. 640 00:23:12,440 --> 00:23:13,360 But it's okay because 641 00:23:13,440 --> 00:23:14,600 now I'm gonna cook a healthy meal. 642 00:23:14,680 --> 00:23:15,640 -Oh. -Do you think Ben 643 00:23:15,720 --> 00:23:16,880 -would want some? -Uh. 644 00:23:16,960 --> 00:23:19,000 Oh, hey, Ben, are you hungry? 645 00:23:19,080 --> 00:23:20,440 -I'm cooking. -No, thanks. 646 00:23:22,000 --> 00:23:23,640 -Are you all right, mate? -Yeah. 647 00:23:32,120 --> 00:23:35,120 [indistinct TV chatter] 648 00:23:45,320 --> 00:23:47,160 Now he's watching his wedding DVD. 649 00:23:47,240 --> 00:23:48,360 What, on his own? 650 00:23:48,440 --> 00:23:49,600 Yeah, well, Mom, it's private, isn't it? 651 00:23:50,160 --> 00:23:52,000 Maybe. How's he handling it? 652 00:23:52,080 --> 00:23:53,440 Just... 653 00:23:53,520 --> 00:23:55,360 the same, no tears, nothing. 654 00:23:56,840 --> 00:23:57,840 I know, I'll go back over there 655 00:23:57,920 --> 00:23:58,920 in a sec and check on him. 656 00:23:59,000 --> 00:24:00,120 I just don't know what else to do, Mom. 657 00:24:00,200 --> 00:24:01,680 Oh, darling, none of us do. 658 00:24:02,360 --> 00:24:04,560 I'm in here doing the books to distract myself. 659 00:24:04,640 --> 00:24:06,600 -Is it helping? -Not really. 660 00:24:06,680 --> 00:24:07,960 Coby's apprenticeship papers 661 00:24:08,040 --> 00:24:09,120 have come through. 662 00:24:09,200 --> 00:24:11,040 Well, just chuck them in the "too hard" pile. 663 00:24:11,520 --> 00:24:13,200 Hey, how'd you go? 664 00:24:13,280 --> 00:24:14,120 Good. 665 00:24:16,160 --> 00:24:17,480 Dad, Coby knows that he stuffed up 666 00:24:17,560 --> 00:24:18,800 the best opportunity he's ever had. 667 00:24:18,880 --> 00:24:20,960 -Nathan-- -[Nathan] No, he told me. 668 00:24:21,040 --> 00:24:22,240 When he came to give Ben his condolences, 669 00:24:22,320 --> 00:24:23,280 he told me, and I've got to say, 670 00:24:23,360 --> 00:24:24,160 I believed him. 671 00:24:25,920 --> 00:24:27,360 How do you feel about it? 672 00:24:27,440 --> 00:24:28,440 I don't know. 673 00:24:29,440 --> 00:24:30,560 I've run out of anger. 674 00:24:32,480 --> 00:24:33,360 Well, if the last few weeks 675 00:24:33,440 --> 00:24:34,280 have taught us anything, 676 00:24:34,360 --> 00:24:35,680 it's life's too short for grudges. 677 00:24:36,800 --> 00:24:37,640 Does that mean 678 00:24:37,720 --> 00:24:38,800 we can give him a second chance? 679 00:24:39,600 --> 00:24:40,600 I don't know. 680 00:24:40,680 --> 00:24:42,280 I'm just not in that right headspace at the moment, 681 00:24:42,360 --> 00:24:43,400 -so can we just-- -Well, just... 682 00:24:44,000 --> 00:24:45,400 Why don't you just leave it with me. 683 00:24:45,480 --> 00:24:46,360 I'll take care of it. 684 00:24:47,280 --> 00:24:48,200 Well, I might head back, 685 00:24:48,280 --> 00:24:49,480 but I'll let you know if there's any news. 686 00:24:49,560 --> 00:24:51,520 Okay. Oh, don't forget Ruby's birthday tomorrow. 687 00:24:51,600 --> 00:24:52,600 I'll be here. 688 00:24:55,960 --> 00:24:57,520 How'd you really go? 689 00:25:00,880 --> 00:25:03,720 I, um, I asked him how I could help Ben 690 00:25:03,800 --> 00:25:04,720 and he said the best way was 691 00:25:04,800 --> 00:25:05,880 that I should help myself. 692 00:25:07,640 --> 00:25:09,240 But that's the problem, Jules. 693 00:25:10,240 --> 00:25:11,480 I don't know how. 694 00:25:12,400 --> 00:25:13,320 [Melissa on TV]Okay. I finally 695 00:25:13,400 --> 00:25:14,680 got the camera off Carbo. 696 00:25:14,760 --> 00:25:17,880 Um, after all the vows we made today, 697 00:25:17,960 --> 00:25:19,640 you have to promise me one more thing. 698 00:25:20,200 --> 00:25:21,880 Even when we're old and fat and wrinkly, 699 00:25:21,960 --> 00:25:23,880 you'll always be the Ben you are today, 700 00:25:23,960 --> 00:25:25,720 the Ben who loves life. 701 00:25:25,800 --> 00:25:27,120 I've never met anyone like you, Ben. 702 00:25:27,200 --> 00:25:28,200 [Carbo on TV]Where's my camera? 703 00:25:28,280 --> 00:25:29,320 [Melissa on TV]Never change, okay? 704 00:25:29,400 --> 00:25:30,560 I love you, Ben Rafter. 705 00:25:31,800 --> 00:25:33,440 -[Carbo] Opa! -[exclaims] 706 00:25:34,720 --> 00:25:36,080 Always be the Ben you are today, 707 00:25:36,160 --> 00:25:37,840 the Ben who loves life. 708 00:25:37,920 --> 00:25:39,440 I've never met anyone like you, Ben. 709 00:25:39,520 --> 00:25:40,640 [Carbo]Where's my camera!? 710 00:25:40,720 --> 00:25:41,880 Never change, okay? 711 00:25:50,680 --> 00:25:52,280 Ben, you should get some sleep. 712 00:25:56,600 --> 00:25:57,720 I'm hungry. 713 00:25:59,040 --> 00:26:00,400 Do you want a sandwich? 714 00:26:34,800 --> 00:26:36,880 Why are you buying toys? 715 00:26:38,680 --> 00:26:41,680 [indistinct TV chatter] 716 00:26:45,280 --> 00:26:46,800 Hey, I need to say something. 717 00:26:47,760 --> 00:26:49,560 I'm okay. I just had a sandwich. 718 00:26:49,640 --> 00:26:50,480 -[Julie] Good. -Mate, 719 00:26:50,560 --> 00:26:51,440 I need to say something, too. 720 00:26:51,520 --> 00:26:52,840 No, no, Dad, we're fine. 721 00:26:53,640 --> 00:26:54,600 You were right. 722 00:26:54,680 --> 00:26:56,120 I needed to pull my head in. 723 00:26:57,160 --> 00:26:59,240 I'm moving on. I am. 724 00:26:59,960 --> 00:27:01,920 Thank you for packing up the clothes. 725 00:27:02,960 --> 00:27:04,280 And, uh, I am coming 726 00:27:04,360 --> 00:27:05,320 to Ruby's birthday party tomorrow. 727 00:27:05,400 --> 00:27:07,360 Oh, darling, that's wonderful. 728 00:27:07,440 --> 00:27:09,040 Oh, that dessert. 729 00:27:09,560 --> 00:27:12,080 Oh, well technically, that's Nathan's-- 730 00:27:12,160 --> 00:27:13,000 Not anymore, it's not. 731 00:27:13,080 --> 00:27:15,280 And now, Ruby gets to open 732 00:27:15,360 --> 00:27:17,120 her next drawer on her birthday. 733 00:27:17,200 --> 00:27:18,200 How awesome is that? 734 00:27:18,880 --> 00:27:20,000 [Dave]Fingers crossed, 735 00:27:20,080 --> 00:27:22,080 Ben really was moving on. 736 00:27:22,760 --> 00:27:25,120 But when you're taking each day as it comes... 737 00:27:25,720 --> 00:27:27,360 there's no guarantees. 738 00:27:27,440 --> 00:27:29,760 [Ted] This is for you, my little darling. 739 00:27:29,840 --> 00:27:31,840 -Happy birthday. -[Julie] Thanks, dad. 740 00:27:31,920 --> 00:27:33,640 -[Ted] Yes, it's a book. -[Julie laughs] 741 00:27:33,720 --> 00:27:35,680 You're never too young for a thriller. 742 00:27:35,760 --> 00:27:37,360 Smile, guys. 743 00:27:37,440 --> 00:27:38,440 -Cheese. -Cheese. 744 00:27:38,520 --> 00:27:39,800 How's the birthday girl? 745 00:27:39,880 --> 00:27:41,600 -Ben. -Oh, she's very excited. 746 00:27:41,680 --> 00:27:43,080 She should be. 747 00:27:43,160 --> 00:27:44,120 Happy birthday, sis. 748 00:27:44,200 --> 00:27:46,440 Oh, darling you didn't have to do that. 749 00:27:46,520 --> 00:27:47,360 I didn't. 750 00:27:47,440 --> 00:27:48,840 I found an order form in Mel's purse. 751 00:27:48,920 --> 00:27:50,200 It's from her. 752 00:27:50,280 --> 00:27:51,680 Oh, it's from both of us, I guess. 753 00:27:51,760 --> 00:27:52,800 [Ruby coos] 754 00:27:52,880 --> 00:27:54,320 She's still making me look good. 755 00:27:54,400 --> 00:27:55,840 Thank you. 756 00:27:57,360 --> 00:27:59,160 Um, okay. Let's get another shot 757 00:27:59,240 --> 00:28:00,840 for the family album. Everyone get in. 758 00:28:00,920 --> 00:28:02,560 -Ready? Get in Benny. -Mmm-hmm. 759 00:28:03,120 --> 00:28:05,320 Oh, that's a keeper. That's beautiful. 760 00:28:05,400 --> 00:28:06,960 Has she opened her Advent drawer yet? 761 00:28:07,040 --> 00:28:08,600 No, she hasn't. Let's do it now. 762 00:28:08,680 --> 00:28:09,680 Okay. 763 00:28:09,760 --> 00:28:11,680 Yay! Advent drawer! 764 00:28:11,760 --> 00:28:14,400 -Hey, hey. -What number? 765 00:28:14,480 --> 00:28:15,840 [gasps] That one? 766 00:28:16,360 --> 00:28:17,840 And what's inside? 767 00:28:18,280 --> 00:28:19,480 It's a... 768 00:28:19,560 --> 00:28:20,920 Oh, what's this? 769 00:28:21,000 --> 00:28:22,640 -Oh, well-- -[Nathan] Mom... 770 00:28:22,720 --> 00:28:24,720 She's only one. What do you expect? 771 00:28:24,800 --> 00:28:25,960 Yeah. Yeah, it's the thought that counts. 772 00:28:26,040 --> 00:28:27,320 -Thank you, Rachel. -Yeah, you better not 773 00:28:27,400 --> 00:28:28,840 try fob me off with paper fruit though. 774 00:28:28,920 --> 00:28:29,760 Very funny. 775 00:28:29,840 --> 00:28:32,720 Dave, can you pass the banana. 776 00:28:33,600 --> 00:28:34,760 Oh. 777 00:28:37,040 --> 00:28:38,000 Sorry. 778 00:28:40,600 --> 00:28:41,800 Need a hand? 779 00:28:42,480 --> 00:28:43,640 No, no, I'm all right. 780 00:28:44,200 --> 00:28:46,000 It's good practice for when I get back to work. 781 00:28:47,160 --> 00:28:49,320 Well done for fronting up today, mate. 782 00:28:51,120 --> 00:28:52,000 You're the only one here 783 00:28:52,080 --> 00:28:53,320 who knows what it's like, Granddad. 784 00:28:54,120 --> 00:28:56,920 And I'll always be grateful for your help... 785 00:28:57,920 --> 00:28:59,360 when I needed it most. 786 00:29:00,240 --> 00:29:01,080 I thought I understood 787 00:29:01,160 --> 00:29:02,080 what you were going through, 788 00:29:03,000 --> 00:29:04,520 but I didn't at all. 789 00:29:04,600 --> 00:29:06,320 Well, you must've done something right. 790 00:29:06,840 --> 00:29:08,080 I'm still here. 791 00:29:10,440 --> 00:29:12,320 It sort of feels like she's still here, too. 792 00:29:12,400 --> 00:29:14,040 Not in a crazy way, but... 793 00:29:15,360 --> 00:29:19,160 sort of like she's... sending me messages. 794 00:29:20,160 --> 00:29:22,560 Like, when the radio came on, 795 00:29:22,640 --> 00:29:24,320 that was our song, 796 00:29:24,400 --> 00:29:26,760 and then the doll. 797 00:29:26,840 --> 00:29:28,880 And then I found the wedding DVD 798 00:29:28,960 --> 00:29:30,480 and everything she said. 799 00:29:31,360 --> 00:29:33,240 Remember that letter I found from your nan 800 00:29:33,320 --> 00:29:35,000 buried in that time capsule? 801 00:29:35,080 --> 00:29:36,440 Yeah. 802 00:29:37,200 --> 00:29:41,080 Forty years after she wrote it... 803 00:29:41,160 --> 00:29:44,040 those words were just what I needed. 804 00:29:44,600 --> 00:29:46,480 You think they're speaking to us? 805 00:29:46,560 --> 00:29:48,200 Well, even if they're not, 806 00:29:48,280 --> 00:29:50,000 it sure feels like it. 807 00:29:50,680 --> 00:29:52,840 And what about the words? 808 00:29:52,920 --> 00:29:55,400 You know, "I'm looking out for you. 809 00:29:55,480 --> 00:29:57,000 Time to let go". 810 00:29:59,320 --> 00:30:01,000 I don't know if I can do that. 811 00:30:01,680 --> 00:30:03,480 The way you felt that day on the cliff... 812 00:30:05,480 --> 00:30:07,520 I really get that now. 813 00:30:08,200 --> 00:30:10,720 You're not thinking of doing anything stupid? 814 00:30:10,800 --> 00:30:12,720 No. [laughs] 815 00:30:12,800 --> 00:30:14,480 -No, Granddad. -Good. 816 00:30:17,160 --> 00:30:18,920 Ben, there comes a time 817 00:30:19,520 --> 00:30:21,520 when you got to move on. 818 00:30:22,320 --> 00:30:24,480 And that doesn't mean you're not missing her... 819 00:30:25,280 --> 00:30:28,560 every minute of every day. 820 00:30:32,400 --> 00:30:34,280 You and nan had a lifetime together 821 00:30:34,360 --> 00:30:36,840 and Mel and I were just starting out. 822 00:30:37,600 --> 00:30:39,320 Which is worse? 823 00:30:42,000 --> 00:30:43,320 Oh. 824 00:30:45,920 --> 00:30:47,720 They both are, mate. 825 00:30:49,080 --> 00:30:50,400 They both are. 826 00:30:56,960 --> 00:30:58,480 [Melissa on TV] Carbo! 827 00:30:58,560 --> 00:31:00,400 [on TV] Geez, you scared the hell out of me! 828 00:31:00,480 --> 00:31:01,400 Retta? 829 00:31:01,480 --> 00:31:02,680 [Carbo on TV] Okay, hang on. All right. 830 00:31:02,760 --> 00:31:04,040 Oh, sorry. 831 00:31:04,120 --> 00:31:05,600 Sorry, I know I shouldn't be watching this, 832 00:31:05,680 --> 00:31:07,280 but it just looks like 833 00:31:07,360 --> 00:31:09,120 it was the most amazing day. 834 00:31:09,200 --> 00:31:10,840 And Mel was so beautiful. 835 00:31:10,920 --> 00:31:12,440 It was. 836 00:31:12,520 --> 00:31:14,880 It was awesome. The best. 837 00:31:15,720 --> 00:31:16,960 -Wait. -Okay. 838 00:31:17,040 --> 00:31:18,280 Hang on. 839 00:31:18,960 --> 00:31:21,560 Ben, good job, mate. 840 00:31:21,640 --> 00:31:22,640 -Mel's hot. -Okay, Carbo, 841 00:31:22,720 --> 00:31:23,840 get your hand off my arse. 842 00:31:23,920 --> 00:31:26,000 [Carbo] And Mel, 843 00:31:26,640 --> 00:31:27,920 mate, you are the best thing 844 00:31:28,000 --> 00:31:29,120 that's ever happened to Ben. 845 00:31:29,200 --> 00:31:31,200 -Oh, suck up. -Seriously. 846 00:31:31,280 --> 00:31:33,040 No, no. I mean it, and, um, 847 00:31:33,120 --> 00:31:35,640 well, I can't wait to meet someone special, too. 848 00:31:35,720 --> 00:31:37,520 And then, you'll be coming to my wedding! 849 00:31:37,600 --> 00:31:38,920 -[Melissa] Oh! -[Carbo] Opa! 850 00:31:39,000 --> 00:31:40,960 [Melissa] Opa! 851 00:31:43,560 --> 00:31:45,040 What is it? 852 00:31:45,120 --> 00:31:47,360 It's 50 colors so Ruby can express herself. 853 00:31:47,480 --> 00:31:48,480 Maybe I should get you some? 854 00:31:48,560 --> 00:31:49,440 [Rachel laughs] 855 00:31:50,000 --> 00:31:51,640 Say thank you, Ruby. 856 00:31:51,720 --> 00:31:52,960 [Carbo and Retta] Ooh! 857 00:31:53,040 --> 00:31:54,040 I don't know why you make 858 00:31:54,120 --> 00:31:55,440 such a big fuss about first birthdays. 859 00:31:55,520 --> 00:31:56,560 We don't even know we're there. 860 00:31:56,640 --> 00:31:57,960 First birthdays are for the parents. 861 00:31:58,040 --> 00:31:59,400 For surviving them. 862 00:31:59,480 --> 00:32:01,000 Twelve months of sleep deprivation 863 00:32:01,080 --> 00:32:02,400 and dirty nappies. We deserve it. 864 00:32:02,480 --> 00:32:03,880 [laughing] 865 00:32:03,960 --> 00:32:05,160 Jake, could you grab some ice, mate? 866 00:32:05,240 --> 00:32:06,600 Yeah, mate. 867 00:32:07,040 --> 00:32:08,800 -Smile, Nathan. -[camera shutter clicks] 868 00:32:11,120 --> 00:32:12,440 So, how are you holding up? 869 00:32:12,520 --> 00:32:13,800 I think I nearly popped a bloody lung 870 00:32:13,880 --> 00:32:15,560 for our little sister but it's worth it. 871 00:32:16,080 --> 00:32:17,720 Ah, here we go. 872 00:32:19,080 --> 00:32:20,320 Ooh. 873 00:32:20,400 --> 00:32:21,720 Ah, oi, you! No! 874 00:32:21,800 --> 00:32:22,840 I thought you wanted me to eat? 875 00:32:22,920 --> 00:32:25,040 Well, yeah, but the party's just about to, oh, start. 876 00:32:25,120 --> 00:32:26,160 Hang on I've got to get my camera. 877 00:32:26,240 --> 00:32:27,280 -Give me one sec. -No. Well, 878 00:32:27,360 --> 00:32:28,280 Rachel's taking photos, darling. 879 00:32:28,360 --> 00:32:29,760 No, I want to take photos of my own. 880 00:32:29,840 --> 00:32:31,040 Don't start without me. 881 00:32:32,040 --> 00:32:34,040 -Smile. -Oh, that's too close. 882 00:32:52,560 --> 00:32:55,040 [Carbo] Oh, how do you feel about Cleveland? 883 00:32:57,440 --> 00:32:59,240 How long does it take to grab a camera? 884 00:32:59,320 --> 00:33:00,600 What? 885 00:33:00,680 --> 00:33:03,200 Ben went to get his about 15 minutes ago. 886 00:33:03,280 --> 00:33:04,800 Do you want me to go and check on him? 887 00:33:04,880 --> 00:33:07,080 No, no. No point in over reacting. 888 00:33:13,720 --> 00:33:15,040 We could do with some more mineral water. 889 00:33:15,120 --> 00:33:16,240 There's some in the fridge next door. 890 00:33:16,320 --> 00:33:17,600 Well, in that case, I better go and get it. 891 00:33:17,680 --> 00:33:18,600 Let me know if you need a hand. 892 00:33:18,680 --> 00:33:19,720 -[Dave] Yeah. -Uh, what's wrong? 893 00:33:19,800 --> 00:33:20,680 Nothing. 894 00:33:22,720 --> 00:33:23,960 Ben? 895 00:33:40,520 --> 00:33:42,040 [Ben over voicemail]Hi, it's me. 896 00:33:42,120 --> 00:33:44,360 Okay, time to spill. Don't go home, 897 00:33:44,440 --> 00:33:46,640 come straight to the Kent Hotel 898 00:33:46,720 --> 00:33:49,760 in the city, room 712. 899 00:33:49,840 --> 00:33:52,320 I've got clothes for you here and, uh, 900 00:33:52,400 --> 00:33:53,480 hey, even though you made me 901 00:33:53,560 --> 00:33:56,240 spoil the surprise, I love you, too. 902 00:33:58,280 --> 00:34:00,040 So, he's not there? 903 00:34:00,120 --> 00:34:02,400 -No. -So-- 904 00:34:02,480 --> 00:34:04,560 [Dave] I'll, um, I'll look in the park. 905 00:34:04,640 --> 00:34:06,240 Carbo, have a look at Church Street. 906 00:34:06,320 --> 00:34:08,880 -Jake, over on your side. -[Ted] Hey Dave, hang on. 907 00:34:08,960 --> 00:34:11,400 I think I might know where he is. 908 00:34:21,760 --> 00:34:23,120 Ben. 909 00:34:28,760 --> 00:34:30,360 Mind if I pull up a rock? 910 00:34:31,600 --> 00:34:33,080 Help yourself. 911 00:34:42,200 --> 00:34:43,560 What a view. 912 00:34:47,280 --> 00:34:48,720 We found the phone. 913 00:34:48,840 --> 00:34:49,840 Did you listen to the message? 914 00:34:49,920 --> 00:34:50,840 Yeah, we were worried. 915 00:34:50,920 --> 00:34:51,960 We wanted to know where you were. 916 00:34:52,040 --> 00:34:53,520 That's what distracted her, my message. 917 00:34:53,600 --> 00:34:55,040 Well, you don't know that. 918 00:34:55,960 --> 00:34:57,120 She must've listened to it. 919 00:34:57,200 --> 00:34:59,520 Well at least she heard your voice, mate. 920 00:35:00,200 --> 00:35:01,800 I should've never gone to the hotel. 921 00:35:03,920 --> 00:35:05,240 I should've picked her up. 922 00:35:05,320 --> 00:35:06,640 If I'd picked her up, she'd still be alive. 923 00:35:06,720 --> 00:35:09,400 Ben, stop torturing yourself with the "what if's". 924 00:35:12,680 --> 00:35:14,280 You know, I know there's nothing that I can say 925 00:35:14,360 --> 00:35:16,200 to make it better and... 926 00:35:17,440 --> 00:35:19,240 I know how hard it is to talk about things 927 00:35:19,320 --> 00:35:20,400 that are ripping you up inside-- 928 00:35:20,480 --> 00:35:22,080 -No, you don't. -No, I do. I do. 929 00:35:29,760 --> 00:35:31,040 We all love you, Ben. 930 00:35:32,440 --> 00:35:33,720 I know. 931 00:35:36,280 --> 00:35:37,720 It doesn't help, does it? 932 00:35:46,800 --> 00:35:47,840 Remember when you were a kid 933 00:35:47,920 --> 00:35:49,000 and you used to bring me 934 00:35:49,080 --> 00:35:50,840 your broken toys and I'd fix them. 935 00:35:52,080 --> 00:35:55,160 And, uh, you'd proudly say to your mates, 936 00:35:56,240 --> 00:35:57,840 "My dad can fix anything"? 937 00:35:57,920 --> 00:35:59,240 Yeah. 938 00:36:01,600 --> 00:36:03,720 Well, I really wish I could fix this... 939 00:36:06,280 --> 00:36:07,720 but I can't. 940 00:36:09,120 --> 00:36:10,640 It's breaking my heart. 941 00:36:13,480 --> 00:36:15,560 It's, um... 942 00:36:17,400 --> 00:36:19,840 so hard to accept this is just how it is 943 00:36:19,920 --> 00:36:21,600 and, uh... 944 00:36:22,520 --> 00:36:24,120 we're going to have to live with the pain. 945 00:36:26,520 --> 00:36:28,240 It's brutal. 946 00:36:29,560 --> 00:36:31,040 It's not right. 947 00:36:35,040 --> 00:36:37,080 But it's just how it is. 948 00:36:41,000 --> 00:36:42,640 It's just... 949 00:36:45,240 --> 00:36:47,440 I miss her so much, Dad. 950 00:36:47,520 --> 00:36:49,080 Yeah. 951 00:36:49,640 --> 00:36:51,360 I know. 952 00:36:51,440 --> 00:36:53,960 I know, mate. I know. 953 00:36:54,040 --> 00:36:56,520 [sobbing] 954 00:37:13,360 --> 00:37:15,560 Okay. See you soon. 955 00:37:17,120 --> 00:37:19,080 You were right Dad, Dave found him. 956 00:37:19,160 --> 00:37:20,960 -How is he? -He's gonna be fine. 957 00:37:21,040 --> 00:37:23,640 -They're on their way home. -Oh, thank God. 958 00:37:23,720 --> 00:37:24,880 [Carbo] Shouldn't we go and meet him? 959 00:37:25,000 --> 00:37:25,880 You know, take him to a doctor. 960 00:37:25,960 --> 00:37:27,240 -Make sure he's all right. -Carbo... 961 00:37:27,320 --> 00:37:28,240 You know, in the head. 962 00:37:28,320 --> 00:37:30,040 [Retta] Carbo, breathe. Ben's okay. 963 00:37:30,120 --> 00:37:31,320 He was on a cliff! 964 00:37:31,400 --> 00:37:33,320 Hey, come here. Breathe. 965 00:37:34,520 --> 00:37:36,200 Ben needs us to be there for him 966 00:37:36,280 --> 00:37:38,120 when he gets home, okay? 967 00:37:41,440 --> 00:37:42,560 -You're amazing. -[Nathan] Mom, 968 00:37:42,640 --> 00:37:43,440 what do you want to do? 969 00:37:43,520 --> 00:37:44,520 Do you want to scrap the party? 970 00:37:44,600 --> 00:37:45,840 -[Julie] Oh-- -[Ted] No. 971 00:37:45,920 --> 00:37:48,120 No, it's important for Ben to see that life goes on. 972 00:37:48,200 --> 00:37:49,560 Yeah, absolutely. Ruby's having a nap 973 00:37:49,640 --> 00:37:51,200 and when they get home we'll, um, 974 00:37:51,280 --> 00:37:52,800 -we'll just start again. -Hey, look, um, 975 00:37:52,880 --> 00:37:54,600 we'll be back in a little while, okay? 976 00:37:54,680 --> 00:37:56,120 -We will? -Yeah. 977 00:37:56,200 --> 00:37:57,520 Come with me. 978 00:37:58,520 --> 00:37:59,480 Hi, Mom. 979 00:38:00,200 --> 00:38:02,480 Yes, Mom, I know what time it is over there, 980 00:38:02,560 --> 00:38:04,120 but you need to hear this. 981 00:38:04,200 --> 00:38:05,520 [Rita speaking indistinctly over phone] 982 00:38:05,600 --> 00:38:07,760 I've got a new girlfriend. 983 00:38:08,240 --> 00:38:09,360 Her name's Retta. 984 00:38:10,280 --> 00:38:12,040 No, it's not a Greek name. 985 00:38:12,120 --> 00:38:13,280 She's not Greek. 986 00:38:13,960 --> 00:38:15,080 She's not Greek! 987 00:38:15,160 --> 00:38:16,080 Look, Mom. 988 00:38:16,160 --> 00:38:17,400 Mom, listen! 989 00:38:17,480 --> 00:38:18,760 [Rita shouting indistinctly over phone] 990 00:38:18,840 --> 00:38:20,240 She's the girl I'm going to marry. 991 00:38:21,320 --> 00:38:22,560 [Rita over phone]Marry? 992 00:38:22,640 --> 00:38:24,640 [Rita speaking indistinctly over phone] 993 00:38:25,040 --> 00:38:26,080 I love you, Retta. 994 00:38:27,520 --> 00:38:29,280 And, no, you can't stop me this time. 995 00:38:31,920 --> 00:38:33,040 Will you marry me? 996 00:38:33,120 --> 00:38:34,320 [Rita over phone]Nicko! 997 00:38:36,240 --> 00:38:37,080 Retta? 998 00:38:38,160 --> 00:38:39,440 -Yes. -Yes? 999 00:38:39,520 --> 00:38:41,400 Yes. Yes. Yes, yes, yes. 1000 00:38:42,120 --> 00:38:43,880 [Santa] Ho-ho! 1001 00:38:44,520 --> 00:38:48,040 Ho-ho-ho! Ho-ho... 1002 00:38:48,120 --> 00:38:50,200 -That is creepy. -[laughs] 1003 00:39:04,640 --> 00:39:05,840 Here he is. 1004 00:39:07,760 --> 00:39:09,040 Hey. 1005 00:39:09,120 --> 00:39:10,760 Sorry I ruined the party. 1006 00:39:10,840 --> 00:39:13,160 Oh, darling, you haven't. 1007 00:39:13,240 --> 00:39:15,400 [Ted] Just delayed it, mate. 1008 00:39:15,480 --> 00:39:16,600 Where's Ruby? 1009 00:39:16,680 --> 00:39:18,720 Oh, sweetheart, she's having a nap. 1010 00:39:19,320 --> 00:39:20,160 Come on. 1011 00:39:20,240 --> 00:39:21,080 Let's get inside, freshen up, 1012 00:39:21,160 --> 00:39:23,160 have a cup of tea and we'll crack the cake. 1013 00:39:23,240 --> 00:39:25,440 -[Ben] Mmm. -He'll be all right. 1014 00:39:27,640 --> 00:39:28,920 Find the words? 1015 00:39:30,040 --> 00:39:31,400 Looks like it. 1016 00:39:35,360 --> 00:39:37,200 -Oh. -Jules... 1017 00:39:37,280 --> 00:39:38,880 Uh, no. I called him yesterday, 1018 00:39:38,960 --> 00:39:40,280 asked him to drop over. I'll-- 1019 00:39:40,360 --> 00:39:41,720 No. Mom, I'll handle it. 1020 00:39:41,800 --> 00:39:42,960 -You sure? -Yeah. 1021 00:39:43,040 --> 00:39:44,200 Yeah. I know what you want to say. 1022 00:39:44,280 --> 00:39:45,240 Go and take care of Ben. 1023 00:39:45,320 --> 00:39:46,240 Thanks. 1024 00:39:48,160 --> 00:39:49,080 Oi. 1025 00:39:49,160 --> 00:39:50,520 It's okay. I should go. 1026 00:39:50,600 --> 00:39:52,160 I didn't know it was Ruby's birthday. 1027 00:39:52,240 --> 00:39:53,440 -Oh. -I shouldn't be here. 1028 00:39:53,520 --> 00:39:54,520 -I-- -Oh, right. 1029 00:39:54,600 --> 00:39:56,560 Well, I guess I should tear these up now. 1030 00:39:56,640 --> 00:39:57,680 Your choice. 1031 00:40:00,480 --> 00:40:01,800 Can you read what they are? 1032 00:40:06,200 --> 00:40:08,360 What? My choice? 1033 00:40:08,440 --> 00:40:09,600 What about your dad? 1034 00:40:10,400 --> 00:40:11,680 He's willing to give you another shot. 1035 00:40:11,760 --> 00:40:12,600 We all are. 1036 00:40:13,000 --> 00:40:13,920 Why? 1037 00:40:14,000 --> 00:40:15,640 Well, what do you want me to say? 1038 00:40:15,720 --> 00:40:17,520 Because you're family. We like you. 1039 00:40:18,440 --> 00:40:19,800 Parts of you. The good parts. 1040 00:40:21,280 --> 00:40:22,600 If you don't say yes, you're more of an idiot 1041 00:40:22,680 --> 00:40:23,680 than I thought, okay? 1042 00:40:24,080 --> 00:40:25,320 I don't... 1043 00:40:25,960 --> 00:40:28,280 So, just like that, we're good? 1044 00:40:28,360 --> 00:40:29,360 Not exactly. 1045 00:40:31,600 --> 00:40:33,360 You look me in the eye 1046 00:40:33,440 --> 00:40:34,800 and tell me this is what you want, 1047 00:40:34,880 --> 00:40:38,440 and.. you promise you will never... 1048 00:40:38,520 --> 00:40:40,200 betray our trust again. 1049 00:40:42,640 --> 00:40:46,120 This is what I want and I will never, 1050 00:40:46,200 --> 00:40:47,760 never let you down. 1051 00:40:55,120 --> 00:40:57,760 Okay. Well, read the terms and conditions and sign. 1052 00:41:01,360 --> 00:41:03,280 There's a, um, 1053 00:41:03,360 --> 00:41:04,920 there's some big words in here I don't, 1054 00:41:05,000 --> 00:41:06,000 I don't understand. 1055 00:41:06,080 --> 00:41:07,640 -I might need your help. -That's not a problem. 1056 00:41:07,720 --> 00:41:08,880 Yeah, well, just make it quick. 1057 00:41:08,960 --> 00:41:09,920 We've got a party to get to. 1058 00:41:10,000 --> 00:41:11,000 Oh, no, I don't want to interrupt. 1059 00:41:11,080 --> 00:41:11,960 Mate, if you don't stick around 1060 00:41:12,040 --> 00:41:14,000 for Julie's baking, you're dumber than... 1061 00:41:14,080 --> 00:41:15,360 -he looks. -[laughs] 1062 00:41:16,280 --> 00:41:18,320 -Thanks, Dad. -Thanks. 1063 00:41:18,400 --> 00:41:22,040 [all]♪ Happy birthday to you ♪ 1064 00:41:22,120 --> 00:41:25,520 ♪ Happy birthday to you ♪ 1065 00:41:25,600 --> 00:41:29,760 ♪ Happy birthday Dear Ruby ♪ 1066 00:41:29,840 --> 00:41:32,800 ♪ Happy birthday to you ♪ 1067 00:41:32,880 --> 00:41:34,960 -Hip hip! -[all] Hooray! 1068 00:41:35,040 --> 00:41:36,200 Hooray! 1069 00:41:36,280 --> 00:41:37,960 Hooray! 1070 00:41:38,040 --> 00:41:39,640 Happy birthday. 1071 00:41:39,720 --> 00:41:40,600 Okay. We'll need some help 1072 00:41:40,680 --> 00:41:41,480 from the brothers and sisters 1073 00:41:41,560 --> 00:41:42,880 to blow out the candle. 1074 00:41:42,960 --> 00:41:43,880 Ready? 1075 00:41:44,440 --> 00:41:45,320 [Ruby] Ah. 1076 00:41:45,400 --> 00:41:47,800 -Oh, yay. -Yay. 1077 00:41:49,760 --> 00:41:51,000 Okay, we've got to get some plates. 1078 00:41:51,080 --> 00:41:53,040 -Yay. -Hello. 1079 00:41:53,120 --> 00:41:54,200 Hello. 1080 00:41:54,880 --> 00:41:56,520 Hey, uh, if you're still looking 1081 00:41:56,600 --> 00:41:58,720 for a travelling buddy for your road trip, I'm in. 1082 00:42:00,200 --> 00:42:01,760 -Yeah? -Yeah. 1083 00:42:03,120 --> 00:42:05,160 Yeah, that's great! That's fantastic, Ben! 1084 00:42:05,240 --> 00:42:07,360 -Yay! -Yay! 1085 00:42:07,440 --> 00:42:09,120 Look, Mom, Dad, she's walking! 1086 00:42:09,200 --> 00:42:10,320 Yeah, she's moon walking. 1087 00:42:11,360 --> 00:42:13,000 Well, not quite. 1088 00:42:13,080 --> 00:42:14,760 Yeah, it won't be long 'cause she's a Rafter. 1089 00:42:14,840 --> 00:42:16,120 Oh. 1090 00:42:16,880 --> 00:42:18,720 That's one small step for a baby, 1091 00:42:18,800 --> 00:42:20,640 one giant leap for Rafter kind. 1092 00:42:21,560 --> 00:42:24,840 ♪ You make me Smile like the sun ♪ 1093 00:42:24,920 --> 00:42:26,360 Oh, Mom! 1094 00:42:26,440 --> 00:42:27,600 Oh, Ben! 1095 00:42:27,680 --> 00:42:29,120 I spent hours doing that! 1096 00:42:29,520 --> 00:42:31,160 ♪ Spin like a record ♪ 1097 00:42:31,240 --> 00:42:34,200 ♪ Crazy on A Sunday night ♪ 1098 00:42:35,320 --> 00:42:38,000 ♪ You make me dance Like a fool ♪ 1099 00:42:38,080 --> 00:42:39,560 Don't you dare... 1100 00:42:39,640 --> 00:42:43,080 ♪ Shine like gold Buzz like a bee ♪ 1101 00:42:43,160 --> 00:42:45,320 ♪ Just the thought Of you ♪ 1102 00:42:45,400 --> 00:42:48,240 ♪ Can drive me wild ♪ 1103 00:42:48,720 --> 00:42:50,560 So, I called my mother up and proposed. 1104 00:42:52,320 --> 00:42:53,600 [giggles] 1105 00:42:53,680 --> 00:42:55,040 -Go straight up? -Yeah. 1106 00:42:56,160 --> 00:42:57,360 [Dave] It's been a hell of a year. 1107 00:42:59,080 --> 00:43:00,200 Joy and pain... 1108 00:43:01,600 --> 00:43:03,720 amazing highs... 1109 00:43:03,840 --> 00:43:05,960 and terrible lows. 1110 00:43:06,040 --> 00:43:07,440 All we can ever do is take life 1111 00:43:07,520 --> 00:43:09,320 one precious day at a time... 1112 00:43:09,400 --> 00:43:12,120 ♪ You make me smile Like the sun ♪ 1113 00:43:12,200 --> 00:43:13,760 ♪ Fall out of bed ♪ 1114 00:43:13,840 --> 00:43:15,240 ♪ Sing like a bird ♪ 1115 00:43:15,320 --> 00:43:17,320 ♪ Dizzy in my head ♪ 1116 00:43:17,400 --> 00:43:18,840 ♪ Spin like a record ♪ 1117 00:43:18,920 --> 00:43:21,680 ♪ Crazy on A Sunday night ♪ 1118 00:43:21,760 --> 00:43:22,880 [Dave] ...and know there is nothing 1119 00:43:22,960 --> 00:43:24,840 more important than family. 1120 00:43:25,480 --> 00:43:27,200 ♪ Forget how To breathe ♪ 1121 00:43:27,280 --> 00:43:28,920 ♪ Shine like gold ♪ 1122 00:43:29,000 --> 00:43:30,800 ♪ Buzz like a bee ♪ 1123 00:43:30,880 --> 00:43:32,840 ♪ Just the thought Of you ♪ 1124 00:43:32,920 --> 00:43:35,720 ♪ Can drive me wild ♪ 1125 00:43:35,800 --> 00:43:38,760 ♪ Oh, you make me smile ♪ 1126 00:43:38,840 --> 00:43:42,760 ♪ Oh, you make me smile ♪ 1127 00:43:42,840 --> 00:43:45,920 ♪ Oh, you make me smile ♪ 1128 00:43:48,400 --> 00:43:51,400 [theme music playing] 1129 00:43:51,450 --> 00:43:56,000 Repair and Synchronization by Easy Subtitles Synchronizer 1.0.0.0 75131

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