All language subtitles for Figli.2020.1080p.HEVC-en

(Sara) You noticed
that we also exist?

(Sara) You are single, you vividly single.

- (Nicola) Enough of this story!
- (Sara) You don't accept family.

- (Sara) You have to take care of others.
- (Nicola) I'm always paying attention to you.

- (Nicola) I neglect myself.
- (Sara) If this is neglect!

(Sara) You are not alone in the world.
You have to think about the others too, Nicola!

God, no ... No!

- You don't do anything!
- I'm always here, Sara!

We said 50 and 50,
instead I take it all on myself!

It's not true ! I neglect work,
I don't sleep, I'm a zombie.

I am in control of everything,
you don't know what's going on here!

- Why ?
- I do not know you tell me.

- You can't be behind you.
- Why ?

You have a very strict vision
on how to do things.

Because I'm the only one who makes them!

- Still with this bullshit?
- What did you do today?

This morning I did the dishwasher,
they all saw me.

- Fuck off!
- Do you see how you immediately transcend?

Stop fucking people
and everything passes.

(Sara) If there is one thing to do,
you always do it later.

- (Nicola) Let's do everything together.
- (Sara) What are you saying?

- You do later, when I've already done it.
- Why do you always do everything right away?

- (Sara) How are we going to do it?
- (Nicola) We'll make it.

- (Sara) Will it always be us?
- (Nicola) Sure.

- (Sara) Will you promise me?
- (Nicola) Yes.

(Sara) It will change a lot.

No, it won't change that much, my love.
We will be flexible.

Everything will be okay, okay?

Because they say
that "one plus one equals eleven"?

That is?

One child plus another child
he does not have two children, but eleven.

It's an obscene way of saying,
are things they say today.

A humor enclosed in formulas
which is good for online newspapers.

- Really eleven?
- Yup.

- Everything will be fine.
- Yup.

- Why are you short of breath?
- I'm not short of breath.

- It'll always be us.
- Eleven.

(Sara) Eleven.

(Sara) (Each pair of parents
has a story)

(and each is different from the other.)

(There are apprehensive parents ...)

(They became parents when they grew up)

(and their whole life started spinning
only around the son.)

(Renunciation, sacrifice,
maniacal dedication to the little one,)

(which is cleaned
with oil brought to "temperature",)

(teaches English at six months,)

(hardly ever comes out
because "it's cold" or "it's hot")

(and it is covered with all attention
with the damage that this entails.)

(The child thinks natural
feel at the center of the world)

(and instead when he grows up he will have to face,
like everyone else, capitalism ...)

"The penis on the table."

(Sara) (And the Revenue Agency.)

"Repeat, the penis on the table."

(Sara) (There are naturist parents ...)

(To their children
nature is imposed by force.)

(They can't eat snacks,
playing iPad and watching TV.)

(At Christmas they give their son
one shoe.)

(The other comes at Easter, so that
learn not to take anything for granted.)

(But then at 18 she will do heroin
on a pitch near the station.)

(There are millionaire parents ...)

(They have overpaid nannies to contract out
100% of the education of children.)

(On their comfortable sofa they televised Xfactor
on a big screen,)

(while in a remote corner
of the large hall)

(a Filipino couple play
with the little ones)

(calling himself serenely
"mum and dad".)

(Sara) (There is the separated parent ...)

(Male, 40, feels only pain,
distress and destruction.)

(Stormed with guilt
of Catholic origin,)

(he thinks he is constantly seeing
an elderly priest ready to ambush.)

A 'shit!

You are such a shit!

(Sara) (Single, has constant stories
sex, but she is never happy.)

(SCREAM OF CHILDREN)

(Sara) (The parents are there
with more than two children ...)

(Chasing dreams of ancient societies
peasant-craft,)

(they stumbled
in a monumental misunderstanding.)

(Today they serve the suffocating hood
of a life organized to the thousandth)

(which can collapse into chaos
at any moment.)

(They do constant accidents and always have
with him the list of things to remember,)

(do, buy,
they have to scream to be heard.)

(They are bent and old now.)

(In the pocket, always, however,
as needed, the cyanide tablet,)

(that among four screaming children, the father
family dreams of swallowing.)

(Sara) (There are the very young ...)

(They are 25, flexible and dynamic,
who are not afraid of anything.)

(Children climb dangerous rocks,
they go to school alone,)

(they are responsible and mature.)

(But we don't have any in Italy.)

(Then there is us ...)

(With our professions, 15 years ago,
we would have called ourselves "privileged".)

(Today, like everyone else, we struggle
with the difficulties of our time.)

(We have satellite TV,)

(but the tax bills can
knock on the door suddenly.)

(We are lucky but not rich,
simple but not elementary,)

(neurotic but not crazy.)

(The future is full of hope,
but also of pitfalls.)

(Our home is warm and welcoming,
but it's small, and has only one bathroom.)

(SARA SCREAMS)

(NEWBORN CRYING)

I love you.

I love you.

(Sarah) (We have conceived Peter
in a bright period of our life.)

(The periods of life
maybe they are complicated in the present,)

(then in the memories
become bright and beautiful.)

(With the first daughter,
the feat seemed feasible.)

(Anna was kind, flexible, she slept,
we took it everywhere.)

(Although the family set-up was new,
we were deluding ourselves that we were ourselves.)

It's good, I've read it.

You must pass the first 180 pages,
however it flows.

In these cool pastas
to the grain of this shit

cooking time
it is more and more hidden.

Here the maximum of sciccheria,
it is not even marked.

Oh well, you taste it,
like old times.

Please excuse me.
Turn down the music!

(Friend) A round of applause for Andrea!

Andrea is the protagonist
of a sensational event.

Now he tells us. Go.

- No, I'm ashamed.
-He is excited, he is there. I tell you.

Andrea has evened the score
with the Revenue Agency!

We all ask ourselves ... how much?

- No come on. - You get in trouble
to tell us how much it was? Tell me.

- Really ?
- Yup.

(Friend) Okay, would you like to tell us a few words?

Okay, well ...

When the folders arrived,
I thought it was all over.

All. Total darkness.

Then slowly, month after month,
expiration after expiration,

without thinking
what was left to pay,

but taking one step at a time ...

Aò ... I did it!

I paid the last one! The latest!

Good boy.

Wait ... I mean this.

Who among you is
in a situation similar to mine ...

I'm sure there are many of you.

I want to tell you: "Guys, he gets out!"

Slowly, one step at a time,
if it comes out! Towards freedom!

- (Friend) Bravo! Music!
- (Andrea) Let's drink.

When do you give me this money back?

(SONG: "BE MINE" BY OFENBACH)

(THE SONG STOPS)

(Nicola) Come on, love.

Wait, put this on.

- (softly) Hi, guys.
- Hello.

(Sara) Right.

(Woman) Go!

(THE SONG RESTART)

Aò! "Mortacci" ... Beautiful!

Well, now let's take stock
on compliance practices

and an inspection of the kitchens.

This is not an inspection.
We are not the NAS.

We are here to simulate
an official inspection,

to avoid penalties
in case of checks, of course.

But I would say especially for you,
for your customers

and for the whole community.

Get used to it.

They are all like that.

This craft will make you understand ...

the lack of love this country is capable of.

Nausea is not from the smell of rotten,
true?

(Nicola) Hey.

Everything good ?

You love me ?

- You're pregnant?
- Yup.

But it's great news!

- It's a good idea ?
- It's gorgeous, Sara.

- No, but it's a mess.
- For nothing!

It is a heroic gesture in this country
zero-growth, where no one has children.

There must be a reason.

We give a very strong signal.
I want to scream it.

- No ...
- We have another child!

(Man) 'Sti dicks!

This is because we still believe
in this country!

Nicola, shut up.

We already have the experience of the first,
everything will be fine.

- Male or female ?
- I do not know!

- How would you like it?
- I don't know, I don't understand anything.

Let's go home ?

Tell me again that everything will be fine.

Everything will be fine.

I found out ... But when did it happen?

Two, three weeks ago.

I'm really sorry.

No, come on, after all it was ...

I told everyone
to stop at the first child.

I told everyone on social media.

I wrote an article on Espresso,
I shouted it to the neighborhood.

- You'll see that in the end ...
- Fuck no! Nicola, no!

- Absolutely not!
- No.

All right.

I'm close to you, however.

Thank you.

Damn ...

- Hello.
- Hello.

Let's go home, come on.

- Go Go!
- Plan.

However, I don't remember anything.
Diapers, breastfeeding ...

- Me too.
- Cremines.

Can I sleep here too?

Love, we have nothing to do with it.

He is with us only for the first time,
as you too when you were born,

then he'll come to your room with you.

Was there a need to have another child?

We were doing so well before.

You will see that everything will be fine.

Couldn't he stay in the hospital?
It wasn't bad, everyone was nice.

- Anna, we did it
for you too. - For me ?

Sure, now you are small to understand,
but Peter will bring ... balance.

(THUNDER, BURGLAR ALARM)

The three of us were so happy.
Why have you changed everything?

You are a mess. Especially you, dad.

Why me, sorry? Look this.

Tickled immediately.

- Shh, softly!
- (Nicola) You suffer in silence.

(Anna) Tickled her no! Please!

Stop stop.

Love, it's a beautiful thing.

Now it doesn't seem like it, it's normal.

Come on, I'll show you something.

Then...

(Sara) This ...

it's mom's heart as it was before.

(Sara) And this ...

it's mom's heart ...

like now.

It is a much bigger heart.

(Sara) Everyone has more space.

- Can I keep it?
- And for you.

- (Nicola) Let's go to bed, come on.
- (Sara) Kiss.

- Say hello to your brother.
- Hello.

Come here, give me a kiss.

- Well, right?
- What ?

- You are happy ?
- Yup.

- There's a nice atmosphere, isn't it?
- Yup.

The country too, I'll tell you.

In general, in this last period,
it seems to me that at times it expresses something of ...

- Now let's not exaggerate.
- No, in fact.

Come on.

(Nicola) (The first three months have been
the calm before the storm.)

(The little one was sleeping, the nights were
quiet and everything went smoothly,)

(except for a very first sense of disparity
in the morning before going to work.)

- Leather processing spread ...
- Sorry, I got distracted.

- Terracotta crockery ...
- (Anna) Jewelery, clothes and sculptures.

You said it all.

(Anna) In the forests of the east
leather processing spread,

the decoration of the vases,
bags and belts,

including multicolored ones
with symbolic signs.

Ok “-

(Anna) Even art
of wooden masks

depicting demons and spirits.

(Anna) Very widespread
the culture of the skin ...

(Nicola) (If I had been
a wise Indian chief,)

(I probably would have heard
the storm coming.)

Very well.

Come on, put it in your backpack and let's go.

Hi, honey.

Come on, Anna!

Are you coming back soon?

Sure, I'll be back soon.

Aren't you going to buy cigarettes?

No love.

- (Nicola) Say hello to mom.
- Hello Mom.

Hello ! let's jump!

(Nicola) (The storm
has reached the third month.)

(The little one had
the so-called growth spurt.)

(He changed pace,
recalibrated the milk flow,)

(shattered the balance of breastfeeding
and displaced the mother.)

(In a word, she said: "There I am.")

My love...

What happens ? Come here, love.

- No, no, no.
- What's up ?

Good good.

- No.
- Ouch! What a blow I gave!

I gave it a tremendous blow.

- Ah, mother!
- No love.

- What happens ?
- Nothing, she didn't do anything.

- It's nothing, it's all right.
- Love, it's okay.

Anna, go to sleep, it's normal.

- Tell me what happens?
- Quiet.

- He cries.
-Why are you crying like crazy?

It's normal, Anna. Go to sleep.

- Will you take her to sleep, please?
- We are going.

- So go.
- Mother, what a blow!

(BEETHOVEN'S "PATETIC" SONATA)

(PRESSING RHYTHM)

- Nicola, what are you doing standing there?
- Huh?

(VOICE VOICE)

Ouch g

Love...

Do you want ?

It'll be fine.
I think it's just a moment of transition.

True love ?
(RIGURGITO)

- Does Anna go to school with Luigi?
- Yup.

- Will they pick you up?
- Yes, in ten minutes. - Okay.

- Hello sweetheart.
- Hello.

(HORN)

But fuck off!

(BEETHOVEN'S "PATETIC" SONATA)

So, you make me burrata and ...

.E “.

- Rocket and salmon?
- No.

The problem is that with the first child
you have an incredible charge,

because you gave your life,
you feel like a demigod.

This sensation never felt before
compensates for the waking hours at night

and the inhuman efforts required.

- Burrata and ...
- Anchovies of the Cantabrian?

No, too salty, then I don't sleep.

With the second son,
the same efforts explode in your face.

You underestimated them,

and are no longer compensated
from the divine euphoria of novelty.

The second child has a blow to the forehead.

Burrata, confit cherry tomatoes
and field herbs.

- No, for heaven's sake.
- No, huh?

- (Man) Salmon and peppers.
- Drop the family now.

Say you're crazy.

You spend two months in psychiatry
at San Camillo and you are free.

- Burrata and ...
- (Nicola) That's it.

Burrata and enough.

Burrata and enough. Good boy.

It was easy. Just burrata.

(MOBILE PHONE VIBRATION)

Love ? Hello?
(BEETHOVEN'S "PATETIC" SONATA)

Tell me. Yup.

Yes, tell me everything.

I don't hear you, love.

I get it ... Go.

Valpasin.

Dobrecin? Drops? Drops.

(Nicola) (When your son
hasn't slept in weeks,)

(does not eat
and it's a time bomb ...)

- Diapers ...
- Oh!

(Nicola) (You have to ask
someone to help you.)

Why does he scream like that?
No, for heaven's sake.

(Nicola) (This someone
is the pediatrician.)

(Generally, out of guilt,
choose the most expensive,)

(the one considered number one,
the one that says: "She is a guru.")

(CLASSICAL MUSIC, BELL)

(Nicola) (Typical of the pediatrician guru
are the works of art in the studio,)

(the merit of the details,
the Persian carpets, the velvet curtains.)

(All put there to make you understand \
how much that furniture cost)

(and how much money
the pediatrician must return.)

"Kill".

(Pediatrician) You have to listen.

It seems the hardest thing,
but if you think about it, it's the simplest thing.

(Nicola) (The pediatrician says elementary things
you never thought about.)

Don't sleep, don't eat,
it's his only way to be heard.

(Nicola) (And you cry, no one knows
if for the simplicity of those words)

(or if for the cost of the visit
you begin to imagine.)

Excuse me, I don't know why,
I feel like crying.

Now I'm going to make those absurd faces
of when you stop crying.

(Pediatrician) Don't worry.

Thank you.

I can ? Sorry.

It's only been three months and the feeling
is that my husband no longer sees me.

(Nicola) (For psychoanalytic reasons,)

(in front of the pediatrician guru
things that never emerged come out.)

(Sara) It is now as if I were
a function for him.

I seem to be alone
the mother of his children.

The truth is ...
that I'm not up to.

I don't feel up to it either.

- I'm shit, huh?
- Yup.

Maybe you should make the effort
to put one in the other's shoes.

Then you have to spend more time
with the little one.

But how is it done?
With Nicola's work ...

I too will soon resume work.

(Nicola) (Then the pediatrician guru
takes a leap into hyperuranium.)

No. The job isn't.

Invent something, the work waits.

What do you mean ?

Don't have an annuity? I don't know ...

A house to rent by the sea,
in the mountains?

An annuity, a monthly income.

We have a house in the mountains
to rent ? Huh?

No, no, no.

Find an entrance, quit your job
and spend more time with him.

An income, he says.

Meanwhile, I'm prescribing something for you
for the little one.

- Yup.
- See you in a month.

Thank you very much, thank you.

- She's good, isn't she?
- Mah.

She seemed very prepared to me.

Almost 200 euros.

You always agree
to the last person you talk to.

Especially if you charge a lot.

- You get very aggressive right away.
- That's not true, I'm very calm.

- You too were moved immediately.
- Because I'm exhausted.

- How do we do with the money?
- Somehow we do.

We need someone to stay with the baby
at least in the mornings.

We can ask my mother.

I have to go back to work,
otherwise we don't even pay the rent.

- Hey, it's okay.
- Eh. - Did you understand ? Come on.

They are 329 euros.

- The recipe, don't miss it.
- Yup.

HERE IT IS.

(Nicholas) (And God saw that man
he wasn't suffering enough.)

(So he created the mother-in-law.)

We are now together 20 years,

and even if you get the impression
to decide everything,

below you will hear that my opinion
weighs like a boulder.

No, love, I can't.

- Mom !
- I'd love to, but I can't.

I am already accompanying Anna
to all activities in the afternoon

and I keep sailing in the evening when I can.

- No, I can't.
- Why ?

I no longer have the strength.

- Go to the pool every day.
- You don't know the energy it costs me.

It would be very important to us.

- Promise me you'll think about it.
- No.

And Dad?

(RUSSIAN)

We can't do it like this.
You understand it?

I have to give you a nice article on stress
of the grandparents to whom the grandchildren saddle up.

- Oh God!
- It's interesting.

Why are you so angry?

Why your generation
she ate everything.

You were born after the war and lived
in a wide and generous family network,

you enjoyed the economic boom,

you have accumulated
and wasted in the 80s and 90s,

thinking that well-being
it would last.

You haven't thought about future generations
and keep not doing it.

Today, with the retirement money,
from which you will be the last to benefit,

enjoy life in your prime
and second homes owned.

Make vacation plans,
invest in bonds.

Make mortgages at 20,
flawless check-ups.

Have fun on social media
and above all believe in the future,

the future that you will be the last to have,
because you don't even die anymore!

Oh well ...

You have to understand one thing well
once and for all.

We elders are a silent force
and quiet,

but if we get angry it's pains.

Because we are more.
We are many.

For every 100 young people there are 165 seniors.

This means absolute majority,

that is, virtually, the Chamber, the Senate
and Government of the Republic.

We have TVs, because we condition
schedules and editorial lines.

Sanremo is made for us,

and also great fiction
national-popular.

Advertisers,
around which the world revolves,

they have us as their obsession.

Owned houses
and savings books

on which the entire economy is based
of the country,

and without which we closed
like Greece, they are in our hands.

The theater holds thanks to us,
and also what remains of the cinema.

With the pensions node we keep in check
the entire national economy.

We just lack a little awareness
and cohesion,

and we will finally be ready
to kick everyone's ass!

(together) Single democracy away!

Single democracy away!

Here we go ?

It's true what your mother says.
You are right.

Do I have to worry ?
Do we see anyone?

I tell you,
those are kicking our asses at all.

We'll find a solution,
do not worry.

Tomorrow we have lunch with dad, we talk to each other.
Everything will be fine.

I cannot help you.
I don't understand what the child is saying.

He is three months old, he doesn't speak!

He is always cold.

I can stay with him if you think about it
to the things he needs.

Sure.

If there was still mom ...
They took her away from us on that diet.

What does mom have to do with it?
You had been separated for 35 years.

- They killed her on that diet!
- Is the opposite.

If you mom had been on a diet,
she would still be alive.

(Envelope) her Here she is. Olé!

Cabo, come on, this is it.

- Come love!
- I'm coming, honey.

My priest friend. Envelope, look at it.

- Yup.
- You see it?

-She went on a gluten-free diet for a month.
- Oh!

He got a tumor.

(Sarah) (And God saw that the woman too
he wasn't suffering enough.)

(So he created his father-in-law at the same time
and Brazilian music.)

(SONG: "VAMOS CELEBRAR"
BY MARC FERRARI)

Can't you feel that rhythm?

Doesn't it fit you? Feel that stuff!
(SHOOT)

(Envelope) In the 80s we didn't know

whether to invest our savings
buying a house in Sperlonga,

than in these 30 years
has quintupled its value.

0 here in Tuscia,

than in the same 30 years
it has lost 90% of its initial value.

We had no doubts.

(SHOOT)

(Envelope) Should we be unhappy?

Not at all !
Indeed, I say ... long live the countryside!

(together) Long live the countryside!
(SHOOTING)

Do you hear these shots? They are the hunters.

- (Envelope) They give us enthusiasm.
- (Nicola) I believe it.

(Envelope) Every now and then the dead escape us,
because they drink

and they shoot at each other, but by mistake.

Ah!

- They represent an extraordinary resource
for the territory. - True.

(SHOOT)

I want to take advantage of this beautiful moment
to make an announcement.

Angelina and I ...

we want a child.

- We're working on it, right, love?
- (Angelina) Yes.

- (Man) Hurray!
- (Envelope) Hurray! Hurray!

Thank you.

We will call him Cabo, after his father.

Cabo Junior.

(Cabo) We ask you to stay close to us,
to help us.

Especially you young people,
that you have strengths, energies ...

- And free time.
- Quite right.

- (Man) Hurray!
- (Cabo) Long live the countryside, long live everyone!

(SHOOT)

(RHYTHM SONG IN SPANISH)

(Nicola) (Not having an income
as the pediatrician thought,)

(and having to work,
and not being able to count on grandparents,)

(the answer to all problems
it was only one ...)

(Josephina.)

(Josephina is nice,
reliable, creative.)

(You don't have to explain anything to her.)

(She finds things in the house,
without claws you say where they are.)

(She loves children
and kids love it.)

(She is in love with her work of hers.)

According to Victor Turner, the rite sinks
its roots in the "social drama"

which allows you to reveal aspects
more concrete than social life.

(Nicola) (Josephina
has one big problem ...)

(does not exist.)

(MUSIC FADE OUT)

(Nicola) (Instead of him they introduce themselves
a series of unlikely babysitters.)

(SPEAKS IN WOLOF LANGUAGE)

(Nicola) (The African
who only speaks Wolof.)

INPS, spaghetti, "keep your tongue".

(Nicola) (The unemployed recent graduate.)

(The erotomaniac girl.)

I love beardless dads.

(Nicola) (And a series
of other unlikely monsters)

(which you already see very well
to big headlines in the crime news.)

- Is it possible to smoke?
- Yup.

My name is Manuela, I am 35 years old and already
I had an experience as a babysitter.

The boy was 16 and I helped him
to get out of the drug business.

(softly) My name is Erica, I'm 22 years old

and I really like children.

Especially when they sleep.

I would be willing to do anything
to see them sleep.

(Nicola) (In the end,
we chose the worst,)

(an inexperienced Ciociara,
which as entertainment for the little ones)

(she could only propose one thing.)

I make him the nock egg.

I recommend, before eating
eight drops of antihistamine.

- Sublingual.
- Under the tongue.

Then nasal wash before bed.

We brush our teeth, right?
We don't forget to brush our teeth.

Do you listen to mommy?
Don't be a brat.

(Sara) Then at 21,
maximum 21:30 in bed.

Do you understand, love?
Don't be a brat.

Did you listen to Mom well?

- Thank you.
- (Nicola) Hi, honey.

- Good evening.
- Good evening. Hello sweetheart.

I don't want the nock egg.
I'm afraid.

What about?

Love, don't worry.
Everything will be fine.

- Watch a movie.
- "Titanic"?

Yet ? Isn't that too sad?

I like it a lot.

- All right.
- If you like...

(Lady) Come on, little one.

Help me in the kitchen,
let's do the egg nock.

The nock egg.

Beyond, beyond.

\
And the first release for how long?

I don't know, always.

- How many things are we doing tonight?
- We do everything.

Oh my God, what happiness!

(Actress) Help!

- Well done!
- Well done!

- I'd love to go home.
- I know.

- Can't you really?
- No, unfortunately not.

What time is it ?

- Huh?
- What time is it ?

21:40.

- What have we done wrong?
- I do not know.

I know we have to stay outside
and have fun.

- Are you hungry ?
- No.

I love this place.

I like old restaurants
with the elderly waiters,

to whom this work
still love it.

- Have you inspected it?
- Twice.

- How?
- Perfect, so we're here.

- I have to tell you something terrible.
- What ?

- I'm ashamed.
- Tell it.

- It's not easy.
- Tell it.

- I miss them.
- Me too.

- To death.
- A lot. - How you do it ?

- Let's look at the photos.
- Of course.

Look here.

Love ! How beautiful it is, my love.

(Sara) My love!

Look at Anna how beautiful here.

(Sara) How beautiful she is.

What are they doing now?

The nock egg.

Let's go home.

- What time do we have to stay out?
- At least midnight.

My mother !

Okay ...

Okay ... Will you wake me in ten minutes?

- Good evening.
- (Sara) Good evening.

The little guy woke up
only once,

I gave him milk
and fell asleep again.

The little one has seen "Titanic",
but she still cries.

- But really ?
- Anyway, I can tell you ...

The little one suffers,
she is jealous, stay behind her.

Yup.

My sister ruined my life.
Even today I would kill him.

Okay ...

All following her:
"How beautiful you are! How small you are!"

I felt like a toilet.

- Thank you. Did she eat the baby?
- The egg.

- To the nock?
- To the nock.

Here, thanks.

(MUSIC FROM "TITANIC")

(Nicola) Love, are you still awake?
There is school tomorrow.

Tomorrow is Sunday, dad.

Love, why are you crying?

Huh? Can you know why you cry?

I ... knew
that this movie was too sad.

Love...

- My love...
- Aò.

Feel what we do ...

Let's do the drawing of the Titanic
on April 16, 1912,

the day after the sinking,
but perfectly intact,

while she sails quietly.

Let's make the Titanic
that she never sank?

(RUSSIAN)

Can I sleep in the bed tonight?

(BEETHOVEN'S "PATETIC" SONATA)

Oh my God, no, that's enough! That's enough !

Hot, has a fever.

(Sara) Will you get the water, please?

Oh God ! Oh my God, what have I done to myself!

Oh my God, what have I done to myself!

I hurt myself terribly,
I got terrible.

- Slowly.
- Yup.

- What are you doing ?
- I'll take it out.

- No.
- At the three I draw.

You hurt me. Be slow and fast.

- One two...
- Did you understand ?

.Three!
.Bum!

- Look, dad.
- How nice, love!

It's the Titanic the next day
The sinking, see?

She sails quietly.
(BELL)

- Love, do you open? So much is the grandfather.
- Okay.

(Anna, softly) The problem
it is not the little brother.

They can also do two more.

I have a very personal problem
with him.

(Cabo) Why, my love?

He always cries, always!

- Even for no reason.
-Why is he crying?

Because he wants everyone around.

You know he does
when everyone is around him?

- No, what are you doing?
-He keeps crying.

Azz ... this is really a problem.

Don't get fooled, grandpa.
Never be alone with him.

Thanks for the advice, honey.

- Good boy.
- I have something for you.

Here, joy. You open.

- What is that ?
- Look.

- A cuckoo!
- Yes, it's a cuckoo!

Is not it beautiful ? Look.

Feel how it does.

(cuckoo sound)

- It's beautiful.
- Yes, you're right, beautiful!

Why are you breathing so fast?
She feels up to here.

No, breathing is perfectly normal.

(Sara) Nicola, I'm going out today.

That is?

He comes to get me Federica.
I'm with her today, she has to talk to me.

About what ?

Can you stay one day with the baby?

Your father is there too.

No, here, don't count on me yet.

I will occupy myself when he speaks
and I will understand when she is hungry, she is thirsty

and above all because it is always cooled.

Sure, I can.

We could tell Federica
to come here, right?

Maybe today was a good day
to be all together.

So stay all together,
since you're never there.

You say it as if you spend your days
in the gambling den playing billiards.

If I spent the days in the gambling den
playing, we would not be together.

- We understood each other.
- No, we didn't understand each other.

That's the point,
Nicola, we don't understand each other.

I need to breathe.

I'm in here all day,
I can't take it anymore, I have to go out.

You are afraid of being alone
with the little one,

because you never do it
and you don't know how to do it.

This pisses me off a lot.

Anyway, I fear zero.

(ANSIMA)
You are short of breath.

- No not at all.
- You got it.

We have a nice tea and move on
a nice afternoon all together?

Your only contribution to the family
and working.

Sorry then. Sorry.

Sorry if I break my ass to bring
money at home and not sink.

- I'm really sorry.
- You don't know how much I envy you.

How much I would like to work all day
while you take care of the little one!

Or half and half,
as we have always said.

(Cabo) Ouch!

(Cabo) Ouch! Ouch!

Do you want to fight very hard even today?
Do you want me to scream?

- Sara...
- Hello.

Sara, it's not nice to part like this,
in discord.

Don't this bitch come in! Ouch!

- Do you want a hand, dad?
- No.

Love, slut ...

(BEETHOVEN'S "PATETIC" SONATA)

But why ? Why ?

- Okay.
- Okay what?

- Let's stay calm.
- Shh! Good, Pietro!

Let's keep calm.

(Nicola) Look, look.

Go, go see.
I'll show you so you get used to it.

- Here, what are you doing?
- (Cabo) She cries.

Do you understand when he cries?
0 must speak?

You have this screw left in my hand.

It's a terrible thing,
it means that I did something wrong.

So g

Let's hope it holds up.
We can't take everything apart.

Hi dear.

What the fuck, though.

Little Peter will have a best friend.

Which is the uncle.

Yes, the uncle.

The uncle!

Anna, love! Stay close to me today.

It's me, you and the little thug,
you are happy ?

Dad, I have a party today.

What have you got, love?

Giorgio's party, you have known for days.

You can't have a life
already as a teenager.

You have a more intense social life
ours.

Parties, pizzeria dinners, pajama parties,
sporting events, pilates ...

- Come on!
- You're envious.

Yes, I am envious. Come here.

Come here.

No, the tickled no!

- Look, it's worse.
- Come on, come on, no!

(INTERCOM)
Come on, it's them!

Arrival.

Hi, huh g

Not even hello.
(THE DOOR CLOSES)

Not even hello.

Here it is.

What's up ?

Look here.

No, I was wondering if you would like to pass,
we used to make a coffee, an herbal tea ...

- Are you alone with the baby?
<- No, imagine.

(BEETHOVEN'S "PATETIC" SONATA)
A 'shit!

00:52:28,210
I was glad to see you.

Anyway, I can't,
I'm busy, I have to go away.

<- I have to go to the urologist.
- But it's Sunday.

Oh?

He attacked.

So ... listen to me, my son.

Listen. Today for us
it's a very difficult day.

It is called a "dangerous situation".

If you don't bullshit and we stick together,
you will see that we overcome it.

And this thing will unite us forever.

What do you say?

Okay, so. Shh, good, like that.

So and so.

(cuckoo sound,
BEETHOVEN'S "PATETIC" SONATA)

(INAUDIBLE VOICE)

HERE IT IS.

(Anna) There was one who put makeup on you,
there were inflatables

and sandwiches with salami.

- Are you sure you just want the pasta?
- Yes, I'm not that hungry.

(BEETHOVEN'S "PATETIC" SONATA)
There he is, he is ready.

He is ready, cob.

The complete meal includes fruit,
my love.

Go. Fruit.

Don't you like fruit?
He doesn't like fruit.

(Nicola) "Who takes his cousin
at the top of the step, "

"to the white step ...
there is grandfather Franco, "

"cyclops always tired
at the head of his pack. "

You are great, Nico ', very great.

Let's take another round, Federica,
please.

It is useless.

Go, everything will be fine.

I don't want to go there, I'm not happy!

Hello.

How are you ?

- (Nicola) Good. You ?
- Well.

So ... I fixed the living room,
dad had left a mess.

The little one ate, I washed him,
changed, he took the drops.

Anna returned around 8:30 pm,
she ate too, different menu.

She then she made some fuss and then,
like her when she was little, before going to sleep,

I read "The Cyclops family",

who are neurotics like us,
they just react ... "Ah, ah, ah".

- Anyway, they're both asleep.
- Well.

Well?

Well what?

Do not say anything ?

Should I say that you have been very good?

- For example.
- Why ?

Maybe why is this true?

You say it to me?

You did today what I do
every day, without batting an eye

and without anyone telling me good.

Sara, I always say it
that you are very good, always.

- Never.
- Always.

- What is this ridiculous suit?
- What suit?

This fucking superhero suit.
You are ridiculous.

I don't have any overalls on.

Do you think that since I am the mother,

then do all things
so you feel like a super hero today,

they come naturally to me.

They come very easy to me,
they give me pleasure.

There would be nothing wrong with that.

- Fuck off!
- Transcend immediately.

Centuries of macho supremacy
they've formatted you forever.

Parity a dick, left a dick,
50 and 50 a fuck!

- You don't have to be ideological
in reverse. - Oh, no?

- You should be happy to be a mom.
- I want to work, fulfill myself.

I want to travel,
fuck and be happy.

I'm not even fucking sure I love you.
I am destroyed!

I don't remember why I'm with you anymore!

(BELL)

(Babak) I hear you have problems
with your child.

That is?

You are not well
and you can't stay in it.

But who are you, sorry?

You always want to know everything,
give things a name.

I am here to help you.

Come on, tell me what the fuck is going on.

Nothing, it's a bit difficult
keep it all together.

- With two children?
- Yup.

We feel ... how to say ...

- Alone.
- Alone, yes.

That is?

Then...

The generation of our parents
basically she gave a damn about everything.

She picked us up as she came,

without giving us tools to be
in turn, good parents.

So we swing between trying
not to make their mistakes

and the inevitable application
of their educational model.

- Understood ?
- Kill as he is brainy.

- True?
- Yes why ?

How nice she is!
Do you want a coffee? I've just done it.

Cold macchiato, thank you.

- Does the big one give you problems?
- No.

Well, everything seems fine to me.

There are people that in five
lives in less than 50 square meters,

families who don't make it to the end of the month,
with the children who deal.

- What's the problem ?
- (Nicola) It's all relative.

Relative up to a point ... Thanks.

What are we doing ? The old blackmail
that there are people dying of hunger?

It's not that ...

No.

I can do something for you.

For example ?

I can make the baby disappear
if you don't want it anymore.

Ah, you ... are you a magician?

You always want to understand everything,
with your western head.

- Good coffee. Very.
- Thank you.

In life everything can change.

- You don't like that picture of the ancestor,
true? - Yup.

(SNAP OF FINGERS)
But that is ...

- And that shitty grandfather candlestick?
- (Nicola) How shit?

- What about the baby? What are we doing ?
- No!

(together) No!

(Nicola) So ...
I "pool Anna" on Wednesday.

- Quite right ?
- (Sara) Yes. - Then ...

"Go to school", that's right.
This week I do it all myself.

"Shopping on Thursday" is my stuff.

- The babysitter this week is mine,
quite right ? - Yup.

- No, I can't "class chat".
- It's your turn.

I can not do it.

I was hoping we would never arrive
to this, however ...

You will see that it will be useful to us.

Good morning.
Yes, for the vaccine ... eight months.

(MOBILE PHONE VIBRATION)

(MOBILE PHONE VIBRATION)

(MOBILE PHONE VIBRATION)

(Nicola) (With the rules
no longer argue.)

(But everything is cold.)

We have the evening off today.

Is it Thursday?

Yup.

(Nicola) The saddest thing in the world

are those couples who at the restaurant
they dine without ever speaking.

Don't feel like going out on your own?
See any friends?

- Maybe yes.
- Okay, come on.

(Man, TV) Are you ready?

(Man 2, TV) My spirit is,
not my body.

- (Man 2) Give me some more time.
- (Man) Everyone would like to.

The most intimate thing,
more personal and impregnable than everyone.

The home remote control.

Do you understand something?

I do not believe.
They are very different from mine.

That's what I was saying.

We all have apartments,
identical machines, televisions,

but the remotes are all different.

Nothing.

(Man, TV) The knight is over there
playing chess.

(Donna, TV) I see it too.
What's so terrible?

- (Man) Can't you see who he plays with?
- (Woman) Having fun alone.

(Man) No, it is not true that he is alone.

- (Woman) Who is he with?
- (Man) With death.

(WRITE AND SEND AN SMS)

(Sara) What fear!

Never again, never again.

You promised me
that it would always be us.

It's that damn fucking scoreboard!

The scoreboard is fine, but it makes us lose
one important thing: randomness.

You are right.

You are right.

You're only agreeing with me because I am
the last person you spoke to?

It could be, yes.

- Good evening.
- (Nicola) So?

We had a really good time.

- Ah here.
- We made the egg nock.

- Now they sleep well.
- Very beautifull. I accompany you.

(Sara) Anna made a drawing
of our family,

with today's date, but without Peter.

We're all wrong with her, I think.

Me with both of them.

(Nicola) (Seeing today
these unhappy and heartbroken individuals,)

(what would their parents say?)

(They would never have imagined
than their children,)

(who once ran carefree
and peeled their knees,)

(would have rotted on the 48 crossed out
to go and earn two lire)

(doing a job they don't like?)

(What's the point of it all? What do we want?)

(What do we believe in?)

(Are we a country?
Are we a community?)

(What is the meaning of life?
Why do they have children?)

Watch out.

- What did you say?
- Watch out.

- How do you say?
- I said, "Be careful."

- I'll break your ass.
- What are you doing ?

- I'll break your ass.
- Repeat.

- I'll break your ass!
- I do not understand.

- Do you have hearing problems?
I'll break your ass. - You to me ?

- I0 to you.
- I'll break your ass.

- What are you doing ? What are you doing ?
- What do you want ?

- Repeat.
- No, you repeat. - You repeat.

- Repeat ! - I said:
"Repeat what you said."

You to me ? Then I tell you: "You repeat."

So, I'll break your ass ...

(Sara) (Conflicts eventually reduce
often to a communication problem.)

(Communicating is the hardest thing.)

You'll see that when Peter starts
talking, you will become friends.

He will always protect you
and you will want to protect him.

I saw that drawing,
of our family.

(crying) Yes, because ...

if really with those designs
tragedies can be undone,

I then canceled him.

Do you trust mom?

Then believe me
that you will soon change your mind about him.

We play in two,
they invent incredible things ...

Parents are mocked
much easier.

You will be allies against us.

But I will always expose you.

- I do not think so.
- I really think so.

- No.
- Yup.

- No.
- Yes No!

Hold me ?

(ANNA RIDE)

(Anna) Come on, leave me! Come on!

01:10:13,340
Try to repeat.

Ah, don't you repeat?

No, no, you.

(Friend) Aunts, dogs, cousins, grandparents,
set tables ...

It was the extended family.

A large family network
in which the children moved freely

and where parents could live
their life, without suffocating.

- Did you understand ? Follow me ?
- Yup.

01:10:47,920
He always has all the ailments in the world.
I never have shit.

Do I ask him to take something in the bathroom?
He never finds her.

He has it under his eyes and does not see it.
He says, "There isn't."

The children demand
that parents are a staple.

Watch out, this asshole shoots.

What the fuck, ouch! Eugene!
How true God I will kill you!

What was I saying?

How disgusting. What is this ?

\
And a dormouse.

- What is the dormouse, Christ?
- The dormouse is the dormouse.

- Do you eat me?
- Except the teeth.

Look ... I believe all of us

we must begin to develop,
that is to say, a sense of community.

We must understand that we are united,
we are not enemies.

Now the problem, believe me,
it is not the dormouse,

but this kitchen
it is held in a disastrous way.

The premises are dirty, the food
it is not traced, it is poorly preserved.

All this is not only dangerous,
it is also very sad.

Plus add that my wife
has a serious head problem ...

Such a problem ?

A neurological thing ...
I don't know, she'll have to do a CT scan, I think.

- I'm sorry, I didn't know anything.
- I know, it happens.

That is?

She just doesn't see what I do.

She doesn't realize the efforts
incredible that I do at home.

He doesn't realize,
he does not recognize them, he does not see them.

It is clear that it is a cerebral thing.

- Sara is the same, identical.
- You see?

- (Man) My wife too.
- Mine too, just criticizes me.

A resonance is better, more precise.

Do you see that she shoots? You see ?

I think it's my fault.

For how I was brought up,
for how my father was inside the house.

Maybe I really can't
to catch up,

while having the perception
to do a lot.

Why do a lot
is always compared

to an imaginary average of fathers
who do nothing.

(Nicola) In any case I have not been
educated to take care of others.

What's your name, joy?

Peter.

- What did you do today?
- We went for a walk.

Walking ? What a good guy!

- And where did you go?
- To the park.

Ah, you went to the park.
So did you have fun?

The child does not speak, ma'am.
He is only a few months old.

Aren't you talking, puppy?

- When is your birthday ?
- Nothing.

You asked mom and dad
what cake do you want?

What did you ask for your birthday?
You must have asked for so many gifts.

Will there be many candles on the cake?

Well, no ... let's say a few.
She's not even a year old, do you understand?

- You told mom and dad
what cake do you like? - But fuck you!

- You like chocolate ?
- Yup.

And the vanilla?

(INAUDIBLE VOICE)

- What's up ?
- I have to tell you something.

Do you have another one?

Tuesday is Daniel's birthday,
in a festival on the Portuense.

In the evening we have the carnival dinner
with the parents of his class.

She cares about it to death
and we have to go.

- Carnival dinner?
- Yup.

- Masked?
- Masquerade.

- You love Me ?
- Yes, fuck, yes.

- I don't know.
- Come on.

- I'm sorry, I'm so tired.
- It will pass.

- It will pass ?
- I do not know.

(Sara) (All parents, sooner or later,
go into crisis.)

(NEWBORN CRYING)

r '

"The penis on the table!"

(screaming) No! No!

Ninth!

- Yup!
- Yay!

- I want Leticia and Jhun.
- Honey, I'm on vacation.

- I don't want you, I want them!
- Honey, I'm in the Philippines.

(in Filipino) I don't want you!

(in Filipino) I want to go to Manila!

(in Filipino) I want mom Leticia !!

(GEMITI)

(ANSIMA)

A 'shit.

Your son asks about you

and you stand here practicing sexuality
barren with a Venetian snatch.

To tell the truth, Samantha is from Friuli.

(Nicola) (Everyone lives the crisis
in their own way.)

(All parents, however,
they have one thing in common.)

(In a country where everyone hates everyone,)

(at work, in politics,
in condominium meetings,)

(the level of discomfort can be seen
even from very small things.)

(Like the strange and unquestionable freedom
to use some violence)

(when cleaning
a child's mouth.)

(After two passes,
the next is always strong, violent.)

(Fathers, mothers, grandmothers.)

(On the third pass
on the baby's mouth,)

(everyone brings out some anger,
to say tacitly :)

("Baby, you're on my dick.")

(BEETHOVEN'S "PATETIC" SONATA)

Whatever we will meet in there,

we have a better chance of surviving
if we stick together, okay?

. Okay-
. okay-

Let's go back.
What are we doing?

Are you crazy, dad?
Not even dead. Go on.

- Anna, don't you prefer a nice ice cream?
- No.

- A carnival?
- No.

Euro Disney, Paris.
We leave tonight.

Don't worry, dad, we're here.

(Nicola) (For some
mysterious reason ...)

(festivities are always managed
from offenders in a bad mood.)

(There are 300 children in five, six parties)

(which live together in different areas
but adjacent,)

(so for a child to get lost and get
kidnap by one of the offenders on duty)

(it's a scenario
not entirely implausible.)

(SCREAM OF CHILDREN)

(together)

<- We really screwed up.
- Anna, slowly, you hurt yourself!

I used to meet friends
at dinners, on premises.

Now I meet him at the pharmacy
or in places like this.

Look look.

- (Sara) Easy, Anna!
- What happened to us?

You're right, it's a mess.

I think if in Italy
we have zero growth ...

there must be a reason.

Always all to denigrate the Italian

and instead he understood,
before others, than having children ...

it's bullshit.

Here you have to aim straight
on restoration and death.

Just the two things combined.

The key ... is to self-destruct,

give the lasagna pans to your face.

Do you see that?

That, before others,
understood this principle.

- What who?
- That.

- Huh?
- That, can't you see?

(Nicola) But that's Farinetti.

They are the gurus of our time.
They see where we don't see.

- But then, sorry,
didn't you have a salmon shop? - Yup.

(Man) That can make you turn around.
He is the father of a friend of my daughter.

(BEETHOVEN'S "PATETIC" SONATA)

Shh, good, love.

I understood perfectly. You're good,
work well, I have to come and see you.

We would like to grow up a little,
even if it is very complicated.

(Nicola) Shall we go out? There is no sound.

I can't, I have my daughter here.

Why don't you come to Eataly tomorrow?

- Let's talk without this confusion.
- No, it's a nightmare.

- How do you say?
- It's a nightmare.

Is Eataly a nightmare?

It's a horrifying thing,
also emblematic of our times, right?

01:21:15,580
because he suddenly changed face
and he walked away.

There was a mess.

But he was also kind.

Will I wear this, love?

- Leave.
- How it was ? Do we stay united?

Embers are everything
and we owe everything to the grill.

Do you know why ? Nicola, right?

Yes, tell me.

Man has made the leap in quality
when he started cooking meat.

Dinner was a moment of conviviality,
man's jaw has changed,

because he was no longer forced to tear
raw meat for food

and he started talking.

We owe everything to the barbecue.

For example, the lemon tree,
if you want the fruits, "you owe them" '.

You start from the base of the stems
and do "pem, pem".

Then go back up. Obviously you don't
all because it's big.

"Pem, pem, pem"!

Aò.

Bio died. Bio does not exist.
Bio shit.

I'll show you. Here.

- Mom, I'm thirsty.
- Yes my love.

Meli brought the farmer.
Feel that good.

- After, we ate the frappe.
- No, eat now.

- We ate dessert.
- This is sweet, eat it.

- Sorry.
- It's good ?

- Don't throw it away.
- No.

Love, give it to me
I take it out for some air.

- No, better not.
- Why ? Come on.

He is not used to it.

In 1920, Henry Ford designs and manufactures
a car made entirely of hemp.

Hemp steering wheel, hemp dashboard,
hemp bodywork.

It was going to hemp ethanol.

Guess
what happened to this car.

- Did he smoke it?
- No.

The Americans bought themselves
the patent for petrol

and then it disappeared ...

- (Nicola) Excuse me a moment.
- (Pirate) Yes.

Sorry ... Sorry .. Where are you going?

- I'm going to breathe.
- Girl mother, what are you doing?

Go breathe
and leave the baby in the stroller?

- Did I leave it in the stroller?
- Oh, no?

(Sara) (When the crisis appears
irreversible leads to various scenarios.)

(Nicola) You don't know what that means
the word "responsibility"!

- (Sara) How do you say?
- (Nicola) You don't know her!

- (Sara) I don't hear you.
- You never heard me.

You never heard me!

When I speak, you don't hear me,
just feel your stuff.

You have never been there!
Your children don't know you!

They don't know you!
Show yourself, because they don't know you!

I take my responsibilities,
but you don't see them.

You only see you, your mother
and the soul of your mortals.

- Sorry, your honor.
- You are not able, you are an amoeba.

Always lying on the sofa.
I can not see you!

You are an ectoplasm!
I can't see you because you don't fucking exist!

You do not exist !

- You do not see me!
- You do not see me!

- Where are you going ?
- I'll throw it.

(Sara) (There are those who do not decide
nothing and they keep fighting,)

(raising the temperature more and more
and ruining the lives of the children.)

(BEETHOVEN'S "PATETIC" SONATA)

(Sara) (There are those who decide
to come home later and later.)

(CHAT)

(Sara) (And then there are those
who instead try to stay.)

(Pediatrician) The little one will begin to calm down
only when you calm down.

If you are not frustrated,
he won't be frustrated.

He is what you are.

So it will be that
that you decide to be.

You did it.

So he represents,
he stages your relationship.

For this you must give yourself a break,
so he too will give you respite.

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And as for falling asleep.

If you hold me nervous,

why do you have to go out or do something else,

looking at the time every two minutes,
he will never fall asleep.

But if you try to breathe,
to stay relaxed,

to even find pleasure
in putting him to sleep,

not counting the minutes,

just being with him,

then you will look at it
and he will already be sleeping.

Also worth big pearl.

If you accept the little one,
she will accept it too.

You have to go through acceptance.
You have to accept it.

Because something can be changed
only if you have accepted it first.

It applies to everything.

It applies to your country,
applies to your party,

applies to your family.

Learn to accept.

Learn to stay.

- Thank you.
- (Woman) You're welcome.

She is very good.

- (Woman) Thank you.
- Very good.

How I like small things.

These are the hardest things to do,
the little things.

They tell about the cure.

You are proof that you manage
a restaurant with love and care,

it is something that can be done.

These are the best meatballs
of the world.

Yes, I have an incredible desire
of meatballs this morning.

- It will be the first cravings.
- Ah, why ...

Yes, I am pregnant.

- Best wishes !
- Thank you.

- It's the first 2
- No, it's the second.

I also have two children.

How ? It can be done ?

Yes it can be done.

Hello!

- Hello sweetheart.
- Hello Mom.

(Nicola) Hello. How are you ?

- Well, you ?
- Well. How did she go?

(Sara) Good, good.

- The little ones ?
- Well, very well.

Did you give Peter the medicines?

- God, no.
- It's okay, I'll give it to you.

- Where am I ?
- Where am I ?

I asked for it.
What are you doing, looking for the CD?

Oh sorry.

Did you buy it?
I asked you to buy them, remember?

I go.
I remember, but you said afternoon.

No, I said morning.

We were both at the pediatrician,
so I don't have to remember just me.

We must both remember,
so you too.

- Don't snort.
- I'm not puffing.

- You snorted.
- No, I don't snort. - Yes but.

What balls! Puff yes!
Do you know what a day I had?

- (Sara) Do you want to know mine?
- (Nicola) No, do you want to know mine?

(OVERLAPPED ITEMS)

I did the dishwasher,
they all saw me.

- Fuck off!
- Sure, transcend now.

If there is one thing to do,
you always do it later.

- Let's do it all together.
- What are you saying ?

- You do later, when I've already done it.
- Why do you always do everything right away?