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RIP-FIXES-SYNC
by VaVooM
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For those continuing
with the second part
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of this course next semester,
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we will explore the
development and evolution
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of social customs.
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For example, the first recorded
marriage contract
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can be traced back 4,000 years.
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Those records were found
primarily in Mesopotamia
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and seem to have only existed
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as ways of preserving power
and furthering lineages.
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I'd like to think times
have changed since then.
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It wasn't until the
Enlightenment that the notion
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of marrying for love
became widely accepted.
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All right, who forgot to
turn their cellphone off
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from the last class?
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I think
it's coming from outside.
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That's so weird.
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- Is that Professor Larson?
- What?
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I will be right back.
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What is all of this?
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Happy anniversary!
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Hold that thought.
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So six months ago today
was our very first date,
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and ever since the moment
that you bumped into me
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and spilled my coffee
everywhere,
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I knew you were the one.
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And I never understood
the saying,
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"When you know, you know",
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till I met you.
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So...
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Dr. Stephanie Bishop,
will you marry me?
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- Yes.
- Yes?
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Yes, a million times, yes.
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It's a little loose.
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It doesn't matter.
I love it.
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- And I love you.
- I love you too.
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I love how you basically
highlighted this entire article.
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He makes a lot of good points.
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You know, between his books
and his Ted Talks,
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you're kind of a fanboy.
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And I am very proud of it.
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Are you almost done?
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We still have to
swing by my apartment.
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Hey, quick question.
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Which color bathing suit conveys
to your family how honored I am
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to spend the summer with them
at their vacation house?
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And also how much I love you,
and I'm excited to marry you?
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I'm not sure you can get all
that from a bathing suit color.
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I think green.
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You know you have nothing
to be nervous about.
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I'm not nervous.
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Okay, I'm a little nervous.
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I met them one time for like
five minutes in passing.
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Now I'm spending a significant
amount of time with them,
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and you are so close.
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I just really want them
to like me.
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They will love you
because I love you.
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Besides, after a few rounds of
golf on the course with my dad,
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you will be best buds.
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I never played golf.
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- Like ever?
- No.
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Don't worry.
You will be fine.
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Okay, maybe I could
take a few lessons.
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We don't leave for a few hours.
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Ben, how many sweaters
did you pack?
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- I like to layer.
- Yes, but it's Palm Springs,
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and we're gonna be in
flip-flops most of the time.
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And I was a Boy Scout.
I go prepared.
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See? Now it actually closes,
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and you have room
for other things like...
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a magazine,
some light reading by the pool.
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You make fun, but James Quincy's
article on emerging markets
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will make you rethink everything
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you thought you knew
about economics.
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I'm sorry you got passed over
for that job with Quincy.
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I'm not. If I got
the teaching job at Oxford,
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I never would've met you.
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Then I guess everything worked
out the way it was supposed to.
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Sure did. Now I'm engaged to
an almost-tenured professor,
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and we're going to Palm Springs
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to spend time with people
that you love most.
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I love the sound of that.
"Tenured professor."
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You worked really hard.
I'm proud of you.
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Life is good.
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- How's it fit?
- It fits perfectly.
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I'm sorry it was
a little loose before,
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but I didn't wanna
ruin the surprise
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by asking you
what size ring you wear.
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- Thought I guessed right.
- You were close.
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I know you get superstitious
about that kind of stuff,
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so please, for me,
do not read into it.
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You mean how like
in 16th century Persia,
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if the ring didn't fit,
it was seen as a bad omen?
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It might've crossed
my mind for a moment,
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but then I realized
it's a myth and not at all real.
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The perks of dating
an entomology professor.
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Engaged to.
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Hi, Dad.
Calling for an ETA?
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Yes, yes, your mom wants to know
how much to make for dinner.
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We're gonna leave here
in a few hours,
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so we should be on time.
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Are Tracy and Preston there yet?
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No, their flight was
delayed out of San Francisco.
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Listen, Stephanie...
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Yeah?
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Drive safe.
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We will. Love you.
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Love you too.
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Okay.
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- Did you tell her?
- I was about to,
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but it didn't feel like
the right moment.
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It's a lot to spring on them,
but the girls will understand.
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I hope so.
They love this house
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and all the summers
we've spent here.
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It's hard telling them
we're selling it.
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I know, but they know
you're retiring
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and that we've always
wanted to travel.
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I know, but it's big news.
We should tell them in person.
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All right.
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Then somebody better go take the
"For Sale" sign off the lawn.
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Right.
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Good thinking.
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So every summer, Dad would take
a month off from the clinic
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so that we could all be
together at the house
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for some Bishop family
bonding time.
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It's where I took
my first steps,
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it's where I learned to swim,
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and the country club hosts
this super fun jamboree
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on the Fourth of July.
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This place sounds like
more than just a house.
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What?
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I have an idea.
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Okay.
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What if we get married
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at the vacation house
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on the Fourth of July?
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Fireworks and all.
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Like this Fourth of July,
in four weeks.
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No, of course not
this Fourth of July.
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Next summer.
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We've got the time.
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- I love it.
- You do?
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Yeah, if it's your dream to get
married on the Fourth of July
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at your family vacation house,
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then it's mine too.
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This place is amazing.
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- Home away from home.
- I love it.
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Wait till you see the backyard.
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- Here we are.
- There she is!
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Hi, Mom!
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Perfect timing.
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And Ben.
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Ben, we're so glad you are here.
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Come on, everybody, follow me.
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Are you okay?
What's going on?
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Oh, yeah. Oh, my gosh,
I'm never better.
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I'm so excited, you two.
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- Come on, your Dad's waiting.
- Okay.
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Hey, hey, hey,
did you tell her already?
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No. Maybe one of my students
posted on social media.
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Maybe.
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Honey, sweetheart, they're here.
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They just arrived.
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Tracy, Preston, you made it.
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We're so excited.
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- Here you go.
- Welcome to the desert.
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Stephanie, Ben,
so glad you're here.
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Big news.
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What's going on?
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A soon-to-be wedding.
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Wait, who told you
that we're engaged?
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You're engaged?
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- You and...
- Ben.
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Ben, right.
How can you be engaged?
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Didn't you just start dating?
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Is that not what
this champagne is for?
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I'm so confused.
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No! The champagne is because
Preston and I are engaged.
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No!
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- Congratulations!
- Congratulations to you!
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Can you believe this?
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No, not a bit.
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Congratulations, Preston.
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Thank you.
Congratulations to you as well.
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Stephanie and Ben are engaged.
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So how long have you two
been dating again?
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Six months,
but we knew right away.
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Six mo... Fast.
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And when did this happen?
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A couple days ago.
What about you guys?
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Last week.
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Mr. Bishop, thank you for
inviting me into your home.
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Your house is beautiful.
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Technically,
Stephanie invited you.
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I just didn't say no.
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Steph, let me see your ring.
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Obviously,
you're my maid of honor.
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And obviously you're mine.
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And since it was always
our favorite holiday,
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Preston and I
decided to get married
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right here at the house
on the Fourth of July.
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I was just telling Ben
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that I wanted to get married
on the Fourth of July.
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No way! Did you guys want
this Fourth of July?
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No. Next year.
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Okay, great,
because Preston and I
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wanna get married this summer.
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Honey, that's only
four weeks away.
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I know it's fast, but Preston's
grandma's getting older,
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and he really wants her
to be at the wedding.
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The longer we wait, the harder
it is for her to travel,
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and I know how much
it means for Tracy
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that we get married
right here at the house.
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Well, that works for us.
We can have our turn next year.
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Let's just see
how everything pans out.
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Tracy and Preston were together
quite a long time
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before even considering
an engagement.
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Dad.
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I just don't want anyone
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rushing into anything.
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A toast... to us.
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- We're both engaged!
- Yay!
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Toast!
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All right,
let's give Ben the tour.
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Yes.
So how was the drive out?
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Enjoy!
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They've been together
six months.
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Tracy wants to get married
in four weeks.
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Oh, boy.
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Boy is right.
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So where do you want these?
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You're two doors down from me,
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and it has an amazing view.
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I don't think your parents
were very thrilled
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about the engagement.
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They just weren't expecting it.
They'll come around.
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Hope so. I know you mentioned
you were engaged before.
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You think that's why
they're hesitant?
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No, I don't think that has
anything to do with it.
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It was a long time ago.
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I think it's just that
Tracy and Preston
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have been together
for like 10 years
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and not used to a relationship
moving this quickly.
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Okay, well, I won't worry then.
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Okay, good.
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Morning!
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Hi.
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Morning, morning, welcome.
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Please help yourselves.
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Waffle and pancakes.
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You don't see that too often.
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Well, I know it's silly,
but it's a tradition.
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When the girls were little,
they couldn't decide
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between waffles and pancakes,
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so first breakfast
of every summer, we have both.
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You're in full planning mode,
aren't you?
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Just under four weeks
is not a lot of time.
258
00:12:15,435 --> 00:12:16,979
We've gotta be smart
and diligent about this.
259
00:12:17,003 --> 00:12:19,303
Divide and conquer.
Lists are key.
260
00:12:19,339 --> 00:12:21,272
Can you tell Tracy's a lawyer?
261
00:12:21,307 --> 00:12:23,107
Ben, please help yourself.
262
00:12:23,143 --> 00:12:24,876
Shouldn't we wait
for Preston and Robert?
263
00:12:24,911 --> 00:12:26,978
No, I'm sure they grabbed
something at the club.
264
00:12:27,013 --> 00:12:28,913
I told them to wait to see
if you wanted to go,
265
00:12:28,948 --> 00:12:30,559
but they didn't wanna
lose their tee time.
266
00:12:30,583 --> 00:12:31,983
Trust me, I do not blame them.
267
00:12:32,018 --> 00:12:34,385
I do not know the first thing
about golf.
268
00:12:34,421 --> 00:12:36,854
Now that you and Stephanie are
engaged, you'll have to learn.
269
00:12:36,890 --> 00:12:40,458
No, he doesn't have to learn.
It is not mandatory.
270
00:12:40,493 --> 00:12:41,826
So what's first?
271
00:12:41,861 --> 00:12:44,295
Mom and I are going to
look at dresses today.
272
00:12:44,330 --> 00:12:45,841
I already sent out
the save-the-date email,
273
00:12:45,865 --> 00:12:47,799
but I need you to order
the invitations face-up.
274
00:12:47,834 --> 00:12:49,667
- And look into the cake.
- Frankie's?
275
00:12:49,702 --> 00:12:51,669
- Where else?
- What's Frankie's?
276
00:12:51,704 --> 00:12:54,439
It's a bakery we used to
go to when we were little.
277
00:12:54,474 --> 00:12:56,240
I was thinking layered.
278
00:12:56,276 --> 00:12:57,787
- Obviously.
- With fresh strawberries.
279
00:12:57,811 --> 00:12:59,811
And blueberries
and cream-filled,
280
00:12:59,846 --> 00:13:01,023
and then it's red,
white, and blue.
281
00:13:01,047 --> 00:13:02,613
And if we do that,
we might as well
282
00:13:02,649 --> 00:13:04,949
make the whole wedding
coordinate with those colors.
283
00:13:04,984 --> 00:13:06,195
I mean,
it is the Fourth of July.
284
00:13:06,219 --> 00:13:07,585
And my dress will be white.
285
00:13:07,620 --> 00:13:09,053
And mine will be blue.
286
00:13:09,089 --> 00:13:10,488
And that works on two levels
287
00:13:10,523 --> 00:13:12,001
because it will work
with the wedding colors,
288
00:13:12,025 --> 00:13:13,991
but also you can bring me
something blue.
289
00:13:14,027 --> 00:13:15,660
And we can do
red floral arrangements.
290
00:13:15,695 --> 00:13:16,994
Love it!
291
00:13:17,030 --> 00:13:18,729
Here you go, honey.
You're gonna need it
292
00:13:18,765 --> 00:13:20,431
to keep up with them.
293
00:13:20,467 --> 00:13:22,633
- Thank you.
- You're welcome.
294
00:13:22,669 --> 00:13:24,635
All right,
so cake and invitations.
295
00:13:24,671 --> 00:13:28,106
That's not too bad, seeing as
Tracy's list was very long.
296
00:13:28,141 --> 00:13:29,707
Easily doable.
297
00:13:29,742 --> 00:13:32,844
The best part is we can use
their list for our wedding.
298
00:13:32,879 --> 00:13:35,113
Easy breezy.
299
00:13:36,983 --> 00:13:38,049
Good morning!
300
00:13:38,084 --> 00:13:39,717
Good morning.
Can I help you?
301
00:13:39,752 --> 00:13:42,186
I'm guessing you're
one of the Bishop daughters.
302
00:13:42,222 --> 00:13:43,654
Yes. I am Stephanie.
303
00:13:43,690 --> 00:13:47,191
- And this is my fiancé Ben.
- Nice to meet you.
304
00:13:47,227 --> 00:13:49,460
That's the first time
I introduced you as my fiancé.
305
00:13:49,496 --> 00:13:50,695
- I like it.
- Me too.
306
00:13:50,730 --> 00:13:52,630
Well, congratulations
to you both.
307
00:13:52,665 --> 00:13:54,243
Your parents said
nothing but great things
308
00:13:54,267 --> 00:13:55,366
about you and your sister.
309
00:13:55,401 --> 00:13:56,868
Thank you.
310
00:13:56,903 --> 00:13:58,669
Who are you?
311
00:13:58,705 --> 00:14:01,806
I'm so sorry.
Where are my manners?
312
00:14:01,841 --> 00:14:03,975
I'm Anna Kim, your parents'
real estate broker.
313
00:14:04,010 --> 00:14:04,942
Their what?
314
00:14:04,978 --> 00:14:06,978
Broker for the house.
315
00:14:07,013 --> 00:14:10,982
I couldn't wait to tell them.
We have our first offer.
316
00:14:11,017 --> 00:14:12,917
My parents are
selling the house?
317
00:14:18,291 --> 00:14:20,091
We wanted to tell you
last night,
318
00:14:20,126 --> 00:14:21,537
but then you both announced
you were engaged,
319
00:14:21,561 --> 00:14:23,594
and it took us by surprise.
320
00:14:23,630 --> 00:14:26,297
I can't believe that
you're selling this house.
321
00:14:26,332 --> 00:14:28,232
Honey, it was
a really hard decision,
322
00:14:28,268 --> 00:14:29,834
but with your dad
about to retire,
323
00:14:29,869 --> 00:14:32,803
selling this house means
we could travel the world.
324
00:14:32,839 --> 00:14:34,405
We got married so young,
325
00:14:34,440 --> 00:14:36,174
and then I went straight
to medical school,
326
00:14:36,209 --> 00:14:37,775
and then you guys came along.
327
00:14:37,810 --> 00:14:41,712
I loved every second of it,
but now we have the time.
328
00:14:41,748 --> 00:14:43,748
I want you guys
to have this opportunity.
329
00:14:43,783 --> 00:14:45,316
You deserve it.
330
00:14:45,351 --> 00:14:48,553
It's just gonna be hard
not to have this place.
331
00:14:48,588 --> 00:14:50,488
How about a compromise?
332
00:14:50,523 --> 00:14:53,090
Your dad and I put off selling
the house for a year or two,
333
00:14:53,126 --> 00:14:55,660
that way you can still get
married here next summer.
334
00:14:55,695 --> 00:14:57,595
The buyer that put in an offer
335
00:14:57,630 --> 00:14:59,864
wants the house
by the end of the summer.
336
00:15:04,270 --> 00:15:06,370
Well, we'll just have
to decline the offer.
337
00:15:06,406 --> 00:15:08,906
I highly advise against that.
338
00:15:08,942 --> 00:15:11,375
I mean, it's well over
the asking price,
339
00:15:11,411 --> 00:15:13,010
and you know the saying:
340
00:15:13,046 --> 00:15:15,580
Your first offer's
always the best offer.
341
00:15:15,615 --> 00:15:18,182
I don't know if this helps,
but it is a smart time to sell.
342
00:15:18,218 --> 00:15:20,296
I mean, with what you could
save on property taxes alone,
343
00:15:20,320 --> 00:15:21,953
it'd do wonders
for your retirement fund.
344
00:15:21,988 --> 00:15:25,323
Spoken like
a true economics professor.
345
00:15:25,358 --> 00:15:27,091
He's right.
346
00:15:27,126 --> 00:15:29,627
I don't want you guys to miss
out on a good deal 'cause of me.
347
00:15:29,662 --> 00:15:31,996
Stephanie, would you
really be okay
348
00:15:32,031 --> 00:15:34,398
not getting married here?
349
00:15:34,434 --> 00:15:36,667
Yeah. Ben and I will
find somewhere else.
350
00:15:36,703 --> 00:15:37,902
Definitely.
351
00:15:37,937 --> 00:15:39,770
Might be a blessing in disguise.
352
00:15:39,806 --> 00:15:41,939
That way you could
take your time
353
00:15:41,975 --> 00:15:43,874
finding the perfect place.
354
00:15:43,910 --> 00:15:47,044
Nothing wrong with
a long engagement.
355
00:15:47,080 --> 00:15:50,815
This just means we'll have to
make your wedding the best ever
356
00:15:50,850 --> 00:15:54,018
'cause it'll be
our final hurrah here.
357
00:16:01,327 --> 00:16:03,060
So these are more
traditional ones.
358
00:16:03,096 --> 00:16:04,962
Clean backgrounds.
359
00:16:04,998 --> 00:16:06,797
I like that one.
360
00:16:06,833 --> 00:16:08,766
Okay.
361
00:16:08,801 --> 00:16:10,067
Stephanie.
362
00:16:10,103 --> 00:16:11,235
What do you think?
363
00:16:11,271 --> 00:16:12,737
It's nice.
364
00:16:12,772 --> 00:16:15,740
It's just a little plain.
365
00:16:15,775 --> 00:16:17,675
You okay?
We should pick one soon.
366
00:16:17,710 --> 00:16:20,044
Tracy told me she has a print
shop on standby for tonight.
367
00:16:20,079 --> 00:16:22,546
Right. I'm just
a little distracted. Sorry.
368
00:16:22,582 --> 00:16:24,849
You know what?
Let me go grab the other binder.
369
00:16:24,884 --> 00:16:26,984
There might be something
more your taste in there.
370
00:16:27,020 --> 00:16:28,986
- One sec.
- Thank you.
371
00:16:29,956 --> 00:16:31,166
Still thinking about the house?
372
00:16:31,190 --> 00:16:34,659
Minor aftershock, I think.
373
00:16:34,694 --> 00:16:36,727
Just wasn't expecting it.
374
00:16:36,763 --> 00:16:39,597
I completely get
where your dad's coming from.
375
00:16:39,632 --> 00:16:41,265
Although with that being said,
376
00:16:41,301 --> 00:16:42,678
I didn't spend
my childhood vacations here.
377
00:16:42,702 --> 00:16:44,402
I mean, I get
why they're selling it.
378
00:16:44,437 --> 00:16:49,573
I guess I just always envisioned
bringing my own kids here.
379
00:16:49,609 --> 00:16:51,008
Our kids.
380
00:16:53,646 --> 00:16:58,149
What do you think of these?
381
00:16:58,184 --> 00:16:59,450
Ooh, I like this.
382
00:16:59,485 --> 00:17:01,285
I mean, it's not really
in our theme,
383
00:17:01,321 --> 00:17:04,922
but it is the shade of purple
that is my favorite color.
384
00:17:04,957 --> 00:17:06,557
- Really?
- Totally.
385
00:17:06,592 --> 00:17:09,060
In middle school, I wore the
same purple hoodie every day.
386
00:17:09,095 --> 00:17:10,728
- Drove my mom nuts.
- That's funny.
387
00:17:10,763 --> 00:17:13,898
Yeah, took my fashion sense
a little bit of time.
388
00:17:13,933 --> 00:17:17,835
No, I mean, it's funny that I
didn't know your favorite color.
389
00:17:17,870 --> 00:17:22,206
Well, I guess
it just never came up.
390
00:17:22,241 --> 00:17:24,075
What's yours?
391
00:17:24,110 --> 00:17:25,009
Orange.
392
00:17:25,044 --> 00:17:27,545
- Orange.
- Yeah.
393
00:17:27,580 --> 00:17:29,580
Yeah, I prefer the burnt tones.
394
00:17:30,917 --> 00:17:33,050
I did not expect that.
395
00:17:34,854 --> 00:17:36,053
- That one.
- This one.
396
00:17:36,089 --> 00:17:37,722
Okay.
397
00:17:37,757 --> 00:17:40,758
You know, you guys make
a very cute couple.
398
00:17:45,498 --> 00:17:47,331
Where are we off to now?
399
00:17:47,367 --> 00:17:50,234
Off to Frankie's
to get a cake, of course.
400
00:18:01,414 --> 00:18:03,080
- Stephanie!
- Frankie.
401
00:18:03,116 --> 00:18:04,382
It's been too long.
402
00:18:04,417 --> 00:18:06,417
I know.
Last summer I was in Antigua,
403
00:18:06,452 --> 00:18:08,953
researching the indigenous
people of the Arawak.
404
00:18:08,988 --> 00:18:11,422
As one does.
405
00:18:11,457 --> 00:18:14,658
Hey, I saw that your parents
listed their house.
406
00:18:14,694 --> 00:18:16,494
Yeah, they already
have an offer.
407
00:18:18,664 --> 00:18:20,664
This is my fiancé Ben.
408
00:18:20,700 --> 00:18:22,032
Fiancé?
409
00:18:22,068 --> 00:18:23,534
Nice meeting you, Ben.
410
00:18:23,569 --> 00:18:26,203
Nice to meet you too.
It smells amazing in here.
411
00:18:26,239 --> 00:18:27,838
Well, you have to have a sample.
412
00:18:27,874 --> 00:18:30,908
Frankie used to spoil us with
her samples when we were little.
413
00:18:30,943 --> 00:18:32,888
Well, you and your sister
were my favorite customers.
414
00:18:32,912 --> 00:18:36,213
Now, these are
our newest creation.
415
00:18:36,249 --> 00:18:37,681
Okay.
416
00:18:37,717 --> 00:18:38,949
Thanks.
417
00:18:41,521 --> 00:18:42,653
What do you think?
418
00:18:42,688 --> 00:18:44,488
Oh, my gosh, that's so good.
419
00:18:44,524 --> 00:18:46,135
No wonder we're getting
the cake from here.
420
00:18:46,159 --> 00:18:48,292
Cake? For your wedding?
421
00:18:48,327 --> 00:18:49,693
No, for Tracy and Preston.
422
00:18:49,729 --> 00:18:51,228
They got engaged
at the same time,
423
00:18:51,264 --> 00:18:53,898
but their wedding is first
on the Fourth of July.
424
00:18:53,933 --> 00:18:56,801
That's wonderful!
425
00:18:56,836 --> 00:18:59,670
Wait. Do you mean
this Fourth of July?
426
00:18:59,705 --> 00:19:01,071
Yes.
427
00:19:01,107 --> 00:19:03,574
We're backed up on orders
for months.
428
00:19:03,609 --> 00:19:07,244
I'm so sorry, but that's
the busiest time of the year.
429
00:19:07,280 --> 00:19:08,879
Oh, no.
430
00:19:08,915 --> 00:19:10,781
Little Frankie
would be so disappointed
431
00:19:10,817 --> 00:19:13,717
if she knew we couldn't get
the wedding cake here.
432
00:19:13,753 --> 00:19:17,655
Well, I would never
disappoint Little Frankie.
433
00:19:17,690 --> 00:19:20,458
Let me go check the order book.
I'll see what I can do.
434
00:19:20,493 --> 00:19:24,328
Little Frankie!
435
00:19:24,363 --> 00:19:26,497
Who's Little Frankie?
436
00:19:26,532 --> 00:19:29,834
When I was like 10 or so,
I wanted an extra cookie,
437
00:19:29,869 --> 00:19:32,570
so I told her that I would name
one of my kids after her.
438
00:19:32,605 --> 00:19:34,839
- Good to know.
- Yeah, so take note.
439
00:19:34,874 --> 00:19:37,174
Number four or five
has to be named Frankie.
440
00:19:37,210 --> 00:19:38,676
Wait, you want
four or five kids?
441
00:19:38,711 --> 00:19:40,744
Try five or six.
You knew that.
442
00:19:40,780 --> 00:19:42,646
I did not know that.
443
00:19:42,682 --> 00:19:43,881
How many do you want?
444
00:19:43,916 --> 00:19:45,516
I don't know.
One, maybe two.
445
00:19:45,551 --> 00:19:47,585
- Really? That's it?
- Yeah. I was an only child.
446
00:19:47,620 --> 00:19:49,053
I came from a small family.
447
00:19:50,256 --> 00:19:52,857
Okay, I'm not supposed
to do this,
448
00:19:52,892 --> 00:19:54,959
but I've moved things around,
449
00:19:54,994 --> 00:19:58,028
and I will personally see
that your cake gets done.
450
00:19:58,064 --> 00:20:02,833
Thank you so much.
Tracy's gonna be very excited.
451
00:20:07,173 --> 00:20:08,939
Making some progress
on our to-do list.
452
00:20:08,975 --> 00:20:10,474
Yeah.
453
00:20:10,510 --> 00:20:14,011
Have you given any thought
to our plan B for the wedding?
454
00:20:14,046 --> 00:20:15,746
- Not yet. You?
- Nah.
455
00:20:15,781 --> 00:20:17,615
I was so focused
on the proposal,
456
00:20:17,650 --> 00:20:20,384
I hadn't thought much
about our next steps.
457
00:20:23,389 --> 00:20:24,555
What?
458
00:20:24,590 --> 00:20:27,458
I just got an email
from James Quincy.
459
00:20:27,493 --> 00:20:31,795
Another riveting article
on emerging markets?
460
00:20:31,831 --> 00:20:35,733
The guy they hired for the
Oxford spot just dropped out.
461
00:20:35,768 --> 00:20:38,602
Apparently they're going over
my application from last year.
462
00:20:38,638 --> 00:20:41,372
- Wait, really?
- This is amazing.
463
00:20:41,407 --> 00:20:42,606
What does this mean?
464
00:20:42,642 --> 00:20:44,842
That I have another shot
at the job.
465
00:20:44,877 --> 00:20:46,544
I could be teaching
and doing research
466
00:20:46,579 --> 00:20:48,779
at the Oxford School
of Economics.
467
00:20:48,814 --> 00:20:50,447
Under your hero.
468
00:20:50,483 --> 00:20:52,716
I can't even believe
I have this opportunity.
469
00:20:53,753 --> 00:20:56,153
Well, what does this mean
for us?
470
00:20:56,188 --> 00:20:57,721
We move to England.
471
00:20:57,757 --> 00:21:00,758
I can't move to England.
I'm about to make tenure,
472
00:21:00,793 --> 00:21:03,460
and you know how rare that is
for a professor my age.
473
00:21:03,496 --> 00:21:05,129
I can't just walk away.
474
00:21:05,164 --> 00:21:06,997
Right, I'm sorry.
475
00:21:07,033 --> 00:21:09,233
I didn't mean
to jump ahead like that.
476
00:21:09,268 --> 00:21:12,603
You know, when I applied,
I hadn't met you yet.
477
00:21:12,638 --> 00:21:14,538
I don't wanna be responsible
478
00:21:14,574 --> 00:21:16,774
for you missing
something like this.
479
00:21:18,210 --> 00:21:20,210
We don't have to talk
about this right now.
480
00:21:20,246 --> 00:21:21,679
They already passed on me once.
481
00:21:21,714 --> 00:21:22,858
I'm sure there's
hundreds of candidates
482
00:21:22,882 --> 00:21:24,381
more qualified than me,
483
00:21:24,417 --> 00:21:26,584
so I doubt they'd even
offer it to me.
484
00:21:26,619 --> 00:21:29,019
Maybe, but none
more hard-working
485
00:21:29,055 --> 00:21:31,055
or talented than you.
486
00:21:31,090 --> 00:21:32,456
Thank you.
487
00:21:32,491 --> 00:21:35,659
I just wanna be spending
some time with my girl.
488
00:21:35,695 --> 00:21:37,461
- We can do that.
- Yeah.
489
00:21:42,735 --> 00:21:44,535
Ooh! So close.
Maybe next time.
490
00:21:44,570 --> 00:21:48,105
I can't wait for you all
to see my wedding dress.
491
00:21:48,140 --> 00:21:49,740
You know, I really lucked out.
492
00:21:49,775 --> 00:21:51,453
Only a few alterations,
and it will be ready.
493
00:21:51,477 --> 00:21:53,978
We successfully picked out
your cake and invitations,
494
00:21:54,013 --> 00:21:56,113
so creating your dream wedding
in four weeks?
495
00:21:56,148 --> 00:21:57,748
No problem.
496
00:21:57,783 --> 00:22:00,184
There's still a lot to do.
497
00:22:00,219 --> 00:22:01,485
Don't jinx us.
498
00:22:01,520 --> 00:22:04,488
Mom, don't worry.
We've got this.
499
00:22:08,594 --> 00:22:10,661
Yes!
500
00:22:11,897 --> 00:22:13,831
You guys win again.
501
00:22:13,866 --> 00:22:15,165
Rematch later?
502
00:22:15,201 --> 00:22:16,400
Always.
503
00:22:17,236 --> 00:22:20,804
All right, come and get it!
504
00:22:20,840 --> 00:22:24,208
Here we go.
Ribs a la Robert.
505
00:22:24,243 --> 00:22:27,611
And my famous corn on the cob.
506
00:22:27,647 --> 00:22:29,713
My favorite.
507
00:22:29,749 --> 00:22:30,814
All right.
508
00:22:32,718 --> 00:22:34,451
This smells amazing,
Mr. Bishop.
509
00:22:34,487 --> 00:22:36,687
It's the slow roast method.
510
00:22:36,722 --> 00:22:38,889
The longer it waits,
the better it is.
511
00:22:38,924 --> 00:22:40,424
Should I be at all concerned
512
00:22:40,459 --> 00:22:43,927
that the fire extinguisher
is so close to the grill?
513
00:22:43,963 --> 00:22:46,230
- Dad?
- It's always been there.
514
00:22:46,265 --> 00:22:48,065
When the girls were little,
515
00:22:48,100 --> 00:22:50,178
Stephanie would use the grill
to roast her marshmallows.
516
00:22:50,202 --> 00:22:51,635
We never had to use it,
517
00:22:51,671 --> 00:22:55,139
but let's just say
we had a few close calls.
518
00:22:55,174 --> 00:22:57,141
I didn't like to wait.
It's always faster
519
00:22:57,176 --> 00:22:59,076
if you just catch 'em on fire
and blow it out.
520
00:22:59,111 --> 00:23:00,277
I'm with her.
521
00:23:00,312 --> 00:23:01,712
Can you tell me more about
522
00:23:01,747 --> 00:23:03,547
Stephanie as a young kid?
523
00:23:03,582 --> 00:23:05,916
She was a little bit
of a troublemaker.
524
00:23:05,951 --> 00:23:07,217
That is not true.
525
00:23:07,253 --> 00:23:09,153
Yes, it is true.
526
00:23:09,188 --> 00:23:12,156
Don't you remember the time
you gave all my dolls a haircut?
527
00:23:12,191 --> 00:23:14,124
It was trendy.
528
00:23:14,160 --> 00:23:15,659
Or the time
we had to go to the ER
529
00:23:15,695 --> 00:23:17,606
when you thought it was wise
to jump off the roof
530
00:23:17,630 --> 00:23:22,700
with an umbrella
after seeing Mary Poppins.
531
00:23:22,735 --> 00:23:24,868
Tracy was
our practical daughter.
532
00:23:24,904 --> 00:23:27,805
Stephanie, she always moved
to the beat of her own drum.
533
00:23:27,840 --> 00:23:30,541
AKA Tracy was more responsible.
534
00:23:30,576 --> 00:23:32,609
Now, I didn't say that.
535
00:23:32,645 --> 00:23:33,977
Hey, I'll take it.
536
00:23:34,013 --> 00:23:37,014
Because of my responsibility,
I met Preston.
537
00:23:37,049 --> 00:23:38,749
How'd you guys meet?
538
00:23:38,784 --> 00:23:41,952
It's my first day of law school,
very first class,
539
00:23:41,987 --> 00:23:44,955
and I read the syllabus
the wrong way
540
00:23:44,990 --> 00:23:46,757
and showed up
with the wrong textbook.
541
00:23:46,792 --> 00:23:49,860
I look over,
and this beautiful girl
542
00:23:49,895 --> 00:23:52,563
is just watching me scramble.
543
00:23:52,598 --> 00:23:55,599
She reaches out,
hands me the correct book,
544
00:23:55,634 --> 00:23:57,634
and that was that.
545
00:23:57,670 --> 00:24:00,471
I cannot believe
you had an extra textbook.
546
00:24:00,506 --> 00:24:02,072
To be fair, I had two textbooks
547
00:24:02,108 --> 00:24:03,874
because there were
two different editions,
548
00:24:03,909 --> 00:24:06,443
and I didn't know which one
the professor would teach from.
549
00:24:06,479 --> 00:24:08,112
Been together ever since.
550
00:24:08,147 --> 00:24:11,381
So what about you two?
Was it love at first sight?
551
00:24:11,417 --> 00:24:13,183
It was.
For me, at least.
552
00:24:13,219 --> 00:24:16,253
I mean, from the moment
she gave me a handful of tissues
553
00:24:16,288 --> 00:24:18,589
to clean the coffee
I just spilled all over myself.
554
00:24:18,624 --> 00:24:22,092
And for me, it was that he
didn't seem that upset at all.
555
00:24:22,128 --> 00:24:23,727
Well, it was iced coffee.
556
00:24:25,197 --> 00:24:28,232
I met Eleanore in second grade.
557
00:24:28,267 --> 00:24:29,767
Well, that's incredible.
558
00:24:29,802 --> 00:24:31,668
Yep. Knew her nine years
559
00:24:31,704 --> 00:24:32,836
before I even asked her out.
560
00:24:32,872 --> 00:24:35,072
Twenty-two
before we were engaged.
561
00:24:35,107 --> 00:24:36,840
That is a long time.
562
00:24:36,876 --> 00:24:40,010
I think we knew each other
better than we knew ourselves.
563
00:24:40,045 --> 00:24:43,647
Built a solid friendship first,
then the romance came.
564
00:24:43,682 --> 00:24:46,850
And we had the same values,
the same vision for the future.
565
00:24:46,886 --> 00:24:48,385
That's the important thing.
566
00:24:48,420 --> 00:24:50,888
Yes, hey,
but that was our story.
567
00:24:50,923 --> 00:24:53,157
Everybody's story is different.
568
00:24:53,192 --> 00:24:56,860
And our Stephanie has always
moved at a faster pace.
569
00:24:56,896 --> 00:24:59,296
And it's worked out so far.
570
00:25:02,134 --> 00:25:03,567
Pass the salad, please.
571
00:25:03,602 --> 00:25:05,803
Who's ready for
some of this, huh?
572
00:25:09,775 --> 00:25:11,208
Okay, who's next?
573
00:25:11,243 --> 00:25:14,378
Well, we gotta find
a great spot for Sam and Gary.
574
00:25:14,413 --> 00:25:16,880
- How about table four?
- Great.
575
00:25:16,916 --> 00:25:18,282
Seating chart?
576
00:25:18,317 --> 00:25:19,950
Yeah, it's a bit tricky though,
577
00:25:19,985 --> 00:25:22,252
as we're doing it based on
the save-the-date responses,
578
00:25:22,288 --> 00:25:23,821
but we gotta get a jump on it.
579
00:25:23,856 --> 00:25:25,522
Hey, have you seen Stephanie?
580
00:25:25,558 --> 00:25:29,993
She's outside marking
where the tables will go.
581
00:25:30,029 --> 00:25:32,262
When was that taken?
582
00:25:32,298 --> 00:25:36,232
Let's see, I was 17,
so Stephanie was 15.
583
00:25:36,335 --> 00:25:38,368
It's definitely
the awkward years.
584
00:25:38,404 --> 00:25:40,904
Like you had awkward years.
No. The only reason
585
00:25:40,940 --> 00:25:42,751
that we're not having
a slideshow at the wedding
586
00:25:42,775 --> 00:25:46,710
is because I had braces
and headgear for three years.
587
00:25:46,745 --> 00:25:48,879
She still has
that beautiful smile.
588
00:25:51,116 --> 00:25:54,017
Look, anyway, I will let you
guys get back to the chart.
589
00:25:54,053 --> 00:25:55,419
Good luck with that.
590
00:25:57,456 --> 00:25:59,857
Nope, we gotta have
one less at table five.
591
00:25:59,892 --> 00:26:02,092
I just got an email earlier
from my cousin Timothy
592
00:26:02,127 --> 00:26:03,994
that he already has
Fourth of July plans,
593
00:26:04,029 --> 00:26:05,796
so he won't be able to make it.
594
00:26:05,831 --> 00:26:10,701
There's another one of my family
members who's not able to come.
595
00:26:10,736 --> 00:26:14,571
But the important thing is
that your grandma is coming,
596
00:26:14,607 --> 00:26:18,075
and she's sitting right here,
front and center.
597
00:26:18,110 --> 00:26:19,910
That's true.
598
00:26:22,781 --> 00:26:25,582
- Did you just splash me?
- What if I did?
599
00:26:26,552 --> 00:26:29,019
Okay, all right, truce.
Truce?
600
00:26:30,055 --> 00:26:31,255
All right.
601
00:26:32,458 --> 00:26:33,991
Can I ask you something?
602
00:26:34,026 --> 00:26:36,059
Anything.
603
00:26:36,095 --> 00:26:38,762
Do you worry that people think
we moved too fast?
604
00:26:38,797 --> 00:26:40,964
By "people," do you mean my dad?
605
00:26:41,000 --> 00:26:42,199
Yeah.
606
00:26:42,234 --> 00:26:45,836
He keeps dropping these
not-so-subtle hints
607
00:26:45,871 --> 00:26:48,538
about us waiting,
taking things slower.
608
00:26:49,475 --> 00:26:50,540
I know.
609
00:26:50,576 --> 00:26:53,377
I'm trying to just let it go.
610
00:26:53,412 --> 00:26:55,979
Just don't want people thinking
we made a snap decision.
611
00:26:56,015 --> 00:26:58,215
I don't want you thinking that.
612
00:26:58,250 --> 00:27:00,183
That's why...
613
00:27:00,219 --> 00:27:02,152
I thought a lot about this.
614
00:27:02,187 --> 00:27:04,788
Of course I don't.
And I don't want you to think
615
00:27:04,823 --> 00:27:08,325
that me saying yes was, okay?
616
00:27:08,360 --> 00:27:09,493
Okay.
617
00:27:10,663 --> 00:27:11,929
Don't you do it.
618
00:27:13,866 --> 00:27:15,465
Pretty sure we called a truce.
619
00:27:15,501 --> 00:27:17,968
We called a truce,
are you kidding me?
620
00:27:23,008 --> 00:27:24,308
Cheers.
621
00:27:26,545 --> 00:27:29,880
I'm so glad that we're finally
all doing a double date.
622
00:27:29,915 --> 00:27:32,683
And we should go to the Fourth
of July Jamboree together too.
623
00:27:32,718 --> 00:27:34,017
Yeah, the jamboree.
624
00:27:34,053 --> 00:27:36,119
Tracy and Stephanie
get pretty into it.
625
00:27:36,155 --> 00:27:37,187
That's because it's fun.
626
00:27:37,222 --> 00:27:39,389
- This place is so cute.
- Right?
627
00:27:39,425 --> 00:27:40,891
I heard good things
about the band,
628
00:27:40,926 --> 00:27:43,327
and apparently
they play weddings.
629
00:27:43,362 --> 00:27:44,472
Yes!
I've been looking forward
630
00:27:44,496 --> 00:27:45,595
to hearing them.
631
00:27:45,631 --> 00:27:48,065
So, Ben,
what's your go-to music?
632
00:27:48,100 --> 00:27:49,399
- Punk underground.
- Really?
633
00:27:49,435 --> 00:27:51,335
Yeah, I did my undergrad
at Oxford,
634
00:27:51,370 --> 00:27:53,937
and I kinda got wrapped up
in the whole scene.
635
00:27:53,973 --> 00:27:55,706
I didn't know
you lived in England.
636
00:27:55,741 --> 00:27:57,519
- Did you like it?
- I loved it, yeah.
637
00:27:57,543 --> 00:28:01,178
Hoping to go back someday,
if the timing were right.
638
00:28:01,213 --> 00:28:04,047
Well, at least your music taste
is better than Stephanie's here.
639
00:28:04,083 --> 00:28:05,449
She loves techno.
640
00:28:05,484 --> 00:28:07,451
Yeah. I've learned
to embrace that one.
641
00:28:07,486 --> 00:28:08,719
It's fun to dance to.
642
00:28:08,754 --> 00:28:09,953
I don't know about that.
643
00:28:09,989 --> 00:28:11,266
Pretty good
to work out to though.
644
00:28:11,290 --> 00:28:14,624
Oh, my gosh,
is that Dave Robinson?
645
00:28:14,660 --> 00:28:17,361
- That is Dave Robinson.
- Is this his band?
646
00:28:17,396 --> 00:28:19,396
- Must be.
- Did you guys know?
647
00:28:19,431 --> 00:28:22,466
- No, of course not.
- The Dave you were engaged to?
648
00:28:22,501 --> 00:28:24,935
- That Dave?
- A very long time ago.
649
00:28:24,970 --> 00:28:27,204
I like Dave.
Hey, Dave!
650
00:28:27,239 --> 00:28:28,405
Stop!
651
00:28:28,440 --> 00:28:29,406
Preston, no.
652
00:28:29,441 --> 00:28:30,841
Dave.
653
00:28:32,277 --> 00:28:34,211
Stephanie Bishop.
654
00:28:34,246 --> 00:28:35,345
He's coming.
655
00:28:37,249 --> 00:28:39,316
- No way.
- Hi, Dave.
656
00:28:39,351 --> 00:28:42,552
Hey, long time, no see.
What are you doing here?
657
00:28:42,588 --> 00:28:44,721
My parents have
a vacation house here.
658
00:28:44,757 --> 00:28:46,690
I remember that, yeah.
659
00:28:46,725 --> 00:28:48,692
Never got the invite.
660
00:28:48,727 --> 00:28:49,893
Is this your band?
661
00:28:49,928 --> 00:28:51,094
Yeah, for now.
662
00:28:51,130 --> 00:28:52,529
Till something better
comes along.
663
00:28:52,564 --> 00:28:54,731
You remember
Tracy and Preston, right?
664
00:28:54,767 --> 00:28:55,767
Yeah, of course.
665
00:28:55,801 --> 00:28:57,267
You guys are still together.
666
00:28:57,302 --> 00:28:58,580
You should be married
with kids by now.
667
00:28:58,604 --> 00:29:00,203
Actually, I just got engaged.
668
00:29:00,239 --> 00:29:01,138
Congrats.
669
00:29:01,173 --> 00:29:04,074
And this is my fiancé Ben.
670
00:29:04,109 --> 00:29:05,976
Fiancé.
671
00:29:06,011 --> 00:29:10,080
Hopefully you guys make it
further than we did, huh?
672
00:29:10,115 --> 00:29:11,348
We will.
673
00:29:11,383 --> 00:29:12,983
So how'd you guys meet?
674
00:29:13,018 --> 00:29:15,585
Los Angeles College,
where we teach.
675
00:29:15,621 --> 00:29:19,556
You became a professor.
That's... that's great.
676
00:29:19,591 --> 00:29:20,591
Archeology.
677
00:29:20,626 --> 00:29:21,792
Anthropology.
678
00:29:21,827 --> 00:29:23,226
Close enough, right?
679
00:29:23,262 --> 00:29:24,828
Not really.
680
00:29:24,863 --> 00:29:26,530
Well, I'm gonna finish
setting up,
681
00:29:26,565 --> 00:29:29,166
but, man, it was really good
to see you, Steph.
682
00:29:29,201 --> 00:29:30,434
You too.
683
00:29:30,469 --> 00:29:32,002
Don't judge me on these guys.
684
00:29:32,037 --> 00:29:34,104
They won't let me play
my original stuff, so...
685
00:29:34,139 --> 00:29:35,906
See you, Dave.
686
00:29:39,111 --> 00:29:40,877
You okay?
687
00:29:40,913 --> 00:29:42,079
Yeah.
688
00:29:45,117 --> 00:29:48,185
All I'm saying is
I kinda liked the band.
689
00:29:48,220 --> 00:29:50,487
We could at least
see if they're available.
690
00:29:50,522 --> 00:29:52,956
No, that would be so weird.
691
00:29:52,991 --> 00:29:55,926
I don't want that guy
at our wedding in any capacity.
692
00:29:55,961 --> 00:29:58,528
I don't think that you
would've gone to grad school
693
00:29:58,564 --> 00:30:00,697
or got your doctorate
if you guys stayed together.
694
00:30:00,732 --> 00:30:02,332
It's true.
695
00:30:02,367 --> 00:30:06,036
Him leaving you was the best
thing that could've happened.
696
00:30:06,071 --> 00:30:08,738
Wait, he left you?
697
00:30:11,510 --> 00:30:13,009
Could you just give us a minute?
698
00:30:13,045 --> 00:30:14,344
Yeah, we'll meet you at the car.
699
00:30:14,379 --> 00:30:15,612
Thanks.
700
00:30:18,050 --> 00:30:19,983
So we dated freshman year,
701
00:30:20,018 --> 00:30:22,185
and the band that
he was with at the time
702
00:30:22,221 --> 00:30:24,554
asked him to go on tour,
703
00:30:24,590 --> 00:30:26,590
so he proposed,
704
00:30:26,625 --> 00:30:28,525
and I thought
it would be so cool
705
00:30:28,560 --> 00:30:31,261
to be engaged to a rock star,
and I said yes.
706
00:30:31,296 --> 00:30:33,930
My mom and dad were not thrilled
when I told them
707
00:30:33,966 --> 00:30:36,233
that I was gonna drop out
of school and follow him,
708
00:30:36,268 --> 00:30:39,803
so they talked me out of it,
thank goodness.
709
00:30:40,973 --> 00:30:43,140
And then he never came back.
710
00:30:44,576 --> 00:30:47,277
But it all worked out
because I was able to figure out
711
00:30:47,312 --> 00:30:50,046
what I wanted
to do with my life.
712
00:30:52,384 --> 00:30:53,950
So we have
your parents to thank.
713
00:30:53,986 --> 00:30:57,621
Yes, my parents were right.
714
00:30:57,656 --> 00:30:59,089
It wasn't until he was gone
715
00:30:59,124 --> 00:31:02,692
that I realized how much
he was holding me back.
716
00:31:04,496 --> 00:31:07,464
I'd like to think I would've
figured it out at some point.
717
00:31:10,102 --> 00:31:12,869
But I'm glad I went
through all of that
718
00:31:12,905 --> 00:31:16,740
because it led me to you.
719
00:31:46,738 --> 00:31:49,072
This a 1955 Thunderbird?
720
00:31:49,107 --> 00:31:50,373
It sure is.
721
00:31:50,409 --> 00:31:52,008
I didn't know
you had this in here.
722
00:31:52,044 --> 00:31:53,710
This is stunning.
723
00:31:53,745 --> 00:31:55,278
My pride and joy.
724
00:31:55,314 --> 00:31:59,282
I may have to sell it soon
to pay for all these weddings.
725
00:31:59,318 --> 00:32:00,884
You don't have to do that.
726
00:32:00,919 --> 00:32:03,053
Stephanie and I said
we'd pay for it ourselves.
727
00:32:03,088 --> 00:32:05,355
You don't think I can pay
for my daughter's wedding?
728
00:32:05,390 --> 00:32:07,457
What? No, no, no.
I just mean that,
729
00:32:07,492 --> 00:32:09,593
you know, you don't have to,
if you don't want to.
730
00:32:09,628 --> 00:32:11,328
Not a traditional guy, huh?
731
00:32:11,363 --> 00:32:13,930
I am with some things.
732
00:32:13,966 --> 00:32:17,400
Not in paying
for the wedding or, say,
733
00:32:17,436 --> 00:32:20,270
asking my permission
before proposing.
734
00:32:26,478 --> 00:32:28,645
So Thunderbird, huh?
735
00:32:29,948 --> 00:32:31,481
Where'd you get her?
736
00:32:31,516 --> 00:32:33,750
My dad used to own one.
737
00:32:33,785 --> 00:32:35,685
Few years ago,
I found this one online.
738
00:32:35,721 --> 00:32:37,887
- Been restoring it.
- Does it run?
739
00:32:37,923 --> 00:32:39,889
Almost.
740
00:32:39,925 --> 00:32:41,791
I restored it
with all original parts,
741
00:32:41,827 --> 00:32:43,893
but I still need an idler arm.
742
00:32:43,929 --> 00:32:45,595
Can't find
an authentic one anywhere,
743
00:32:45,631 --> 00:32:47,242
and I don't wanna risk
putting something in
744
00:32:47,266 --> 00:32:49,199
that wasn't made specifically
for this model,
745
00:32:49,234 --> 00:32:52,202
so still on the hunt.
746
00:32:53,305 --> 00:32:55,272
Do you mind if I take a look?
747
00:32:57,242 --> 00:32:59,309
- Yeah, sure.
- Thanks.
748
00:33:01,480 --> 00:33:04,114
You got a 292 cubic inch OHV.
749
00:33:04,149 --> 00:33:07,450
You got a 292 wide block
V8 engine.
750
00:33:07,486 --> 00:33:09,586
This is all first of its kind
stuff, sir.
751
00:33:09,621 --> 00:33:12,289
I didn't realize
you're into classic cars.
752
00:33:12,324 --> 00:33:14,190
My dad was a mechanic.
753
00:33:14,226 --> 00:33:18,395
Some of my best memories are
him picking me up from school,
754
00:33:18,430 --> 00:33:21,364
taking me to the shop,
showing me all the cool cars.
755
00:33:21,400 --> 00:33:22,932
But this?
756
00:33:22,968 --> 00:33:25,869
This was my favorite.
All Thunderbirds.
757
00:33:25,904 --> 00:33:28,972
Is that all
original interior as well?
758
00:33:29,007 --> 00:33:30,640
Yeah, you bet.
759
00:33:31,743 --> 00:33:32,976
Here, come, come.
760
00:33:33,011 --> 00:33:34,778
Come sit.
761
00:33:34,813 --> 00:33:36,546
- Really?
- Yeah.
762
00:33:36,581 --> 00:33:38,348
Check it out.
763
00:33:45,390 --> 00:33:47,891
Now this is how a car's
supposed to feel.
764
00:33:49,728 --> 00:33:52,329
Ben, you should hit the green
with Preston and me tomorrow
765
00:33:52,364 --> 00:33:53,763
before the food tasting.
766
00:33:53,799 --> 00:33:55,510
I would love to hit the green
with you guys.
767
00:33:55,534 --> 00:33:57,801
You're talking
about golf, right?
768
00:33:57,836 --> 00:33:59,302
Yes.
769
00:33:59,338 --> 00:34:01,237
But I have to warn you
I'm not very good,
770
00:34:01,273 --> 00:34:04,641
seeing as I've actually
never played before.
771
00:34:04,676 --> 00:34:06,287
That's all right.
You seem like a sharp guy.
772
00:34:06,311 --> 00:34:08,511
I'm sure you'll pick it up
in no time.
773
00:34:08,547 --> 00:34:10,113
Hope so.
774
00:34:21,526 --> 00:34:23,360
Why are you smiling?
775
00:34:23,395 --> 00:34:25,995
Your dad just asked me
to play golf with him tomorrow.
776
00:34:26,031 --> 00:34:27,097
That's great.
777
00:34:27,132 --> 00:34:29,132
I'm pretty sure we just bonded.
778
00:34:29,167 --> 00:34:31,534
I knew you would.
779
00:34:31,570 --> 00:34:34,738
He did make a comment about me
not asking his permission
780
00:34:34,773 --> 00:34:36,139
before I proposed.
781
00:34:36,174 --> 00:34:39,809
I didn't even really
consider that.
782
00:34:39,845 --> 00:34:42,212
He's kind of old school,
but he can be swayed.
783
00:34:42,247 --> 00:34:44,080
When I told him
that I was taking a year off
784
00:34:44,116 --> 00:34:46,127
between high school and college,
I thought he'd freak out,
785
00:34:46,151 --> 00:34:48,885
but after a six-hour
conversation about my future,
786
00:34:48,920 --> 00:34:50,420
he was totally cool.
787
00:34:50,455 --> 00:34:52,288
Don't worry.
788
00:34:52,324 --> 00:34:56,025
It's an archaic tradition.
Trust me, I would know.
789
00:34:56,061 --> 00:34:57,560
Who wants some fresh lemonade?
790
00:34:57,596 --> 00:34:59,562
Yes, thank you.
791
00:35:01,700 --> 00:35:03,433
That is amazing.
792
00:35:03,468 --> 00:35:05,101
Isn't it?
It's the cucumber.
793
00:35:05,137 --> 00:35:07,036
My secret weapon.
794
00:35:07,072 --> 00:35:10,106
Hey, Steph, did you look at the
photographers that I sent you?
795
00:35:10,142 --> 00:35:12,642
Yes, I think we should go
with this one,
796
00:35:12,677 --> 00:35:15,512
since your first choice
is hard to get in touch with.
797
00:35:15,547 --> 00:35:17,091
You know what, I'm gonna
leave this to you guys.
798
00:35:17,115 --> 00:35:18,526
I'm gonna go watch
some YouTube videos
799
00:35:18,550 --> 00:35:20,984
- on how to hit a golf ball.
- Good luck.
800
00:35:26,324 --> 00:35:27,824
I like him.
801
00:35:27,859 --> 00:35:29,659
Me too.
802
00:35:51,283 --> 00:35:53,183
Setting the bar high
like always, sir.
803
00:35:53,218 --> 00:35:54,851
My axis is slightly off.
804
00:35:54,886 --> 00:35:57,821
Couldn't tell.
Your downswing was perfect.
805
00:35:57,856 --> 00:35:59,556
Yeah, great downswing.
806
00:36:05,497 --> 00:36:07,297
Hey, did you ask
for Robert's permission
807
00:36:07,332 --> 00:36:08,798
before you proposed to Tracy?
808
00:36:08,834 --> 00:36:10,166
I did.
809
00:36:10,202 --> 00:36:11,601
You didn't, I presume?
810
00:36:11,636 --> 00:36:13,047
I honestly didn't even
think about it.
811
00:36:13,071 --> 00:36:14,604
I mean, we're not that close,
812
00:36:14,639 --> 00:36:17,540
and Stephanie's more modern
with that kind of stuff.
813
00:36:17,576 --> 00:36:19,609
He didn't say anything
to you, did he?
814
00:36:19,644 --> 00:36:21,611
- No.
- Okay, good.
815
00:36:21,646 --> 00:36:23,291
I figure that's why
he's being so rough on me.
816
00:36:23,315 --> 00:36:25,682
Hey, look,
he was rough on me, too,
817
00:36:25,717 --> 00:36:27,383
when I first started
dating Tracy,
818
00:36:27,419 --> 00:36:28,852
but just give him
a little while.
819
00:36:28,887 --> 00:36:29,853
He'll warm up.
820
00:36:29,888 --> 00:36:31,221
What's a little while?
821
00:36:31,256 --> 00:36:32,689
About six years.
822
00:36:34,459 --> 00:36:35,758
Hey, you're up, Ben!
823
00:36:42,968 --> 00:36:46,369
Hey, I wouldn't go
with that one.
824
00:36:46,404 --> 00:36:47,604
- No?
- You don't wanna go
825
00:36:47,639 --> 00:36:49,205
with a high iron
on this first drive.
826
00:36:49,241 --> 00:36:51,040
You want a driver.
827
00:36:51,076 --> 00:36:52,609
Yeah, here you go.
828
00:36:52,644 --> 00:36:53,543
Driver.
829
00:36:53,578 --> 00:36:55,745
- Thank you.
- Yeah.
830
00:36:55,780 --> 00:36:57,547
Here we go.
831
00:37:06,124 --> 00:37:07,690
Easy peasy.
832
00:37:22,974 --> 00:37:24,641
Sorry.
833
00:37:24,676 --> 00:37:25,909
Okay.
834
00:37:33,351 --> 00:37:37,754
Look, golf is a game of time,
patience, and precision.
835
00:37:37,789 --> 00:37:40,390
Try looking at the ball
the entire time.
836
00:37:40,425 --> 00:37:41,824
Okay.
837
00:37:45,664 --> 00:37:47,597
Wha...
838
00:37:49,868 --> 00:37:51,301
I'm so sorry.
839
00:37:51,336 --> 00:37:53,570
I have no idea what happened.
840
00:37:53,605 --> 00:37:56,039
That was my dad's favorite club.
841
00:37:56,074 --> 00:37:57,540
Are you serious?
842
00:37:57,576 --> 00:37:59,842
Sir, I'll go get it right now.
I am so sorry.
843
00:37:59,878 --> 00:38:02,178
Careful not to swallow
any of that water.
844
00:38:02,213 --> 00:38:04,447
No clue what's in it.
845
00:38:06,651 --> 00:38:08,351
Ben, Ben, Ben, Ben.
846
00:38:08,386 --> 00:38:10,720
Stop, stop, I'm kidding.
847
00:38:10,755 --> 00:38:12,789
It's an old set
from a yard sale.
848
00:38:12,824 --> 00:38:15,024
You don't have to go in there.
849
00:38:19,731 --> 00:38:21,364
All right.
850
00:38:21,399 --> 00:38:23,032
I'm so sorry.
851
00:38:23,068 --> 00:38:25,201
I didn't think
you'd really go in.
852
00:38:25,236 --> 00:38:30,273
May not be a great golfer,
but you've got, zest.
853
00:38:30,308 --> 00:38:33,309
Gonna be a long day.
854
00:38:34,412 --> 00:38:35,812
It's all right.
855
00:38:38,617 --> 00:38:41,551
And you're sure that we can't
just have one of everything?
856
00:38:41,586 --> 00:38:43,953
We do have to narrow it down
a little bit.
857
00:38:43,989 --> 00:38:46,356
I wanted you all here
to get your feedback,
858
00:38:46,391 --> 00:38:48,358
so please be honest.
859
00:38:48,393 --> 00:38:49,792
Well, of the salads,
860
00:38:49,828 --> 00:38:51,628
I'm liking
the spinach goat cheese.
861
00:38:51,663 --> 00:38:53,863
- That's a really good dressing.
- Okay.
862
00:38:53,898 --> 00:38:55,999
Oh, my dear,
I think the mixed spring greens
863
00:38:56,034 --> 00:38:58,835
with the crumbled bleu cheese
is the way to go.
864
00:38:58,870 --> 00:39:01,771
I don't know. I think that
the simple iceberg with bacon
865
00:39:01,806 --> 00:39:03,373
is always the best choice.
866
00:39:03,408 --> 00:39:05,208
So everyone likes
something different.
867
00:39:05,243 --> 00:39:08,344
Great. That should
make things easier.
868
00:39:08,380 --> 00:39:11,314
Salads are the safe choice
for appetizers,
869
00:39:11,349 --> 00:39:13,716
but if this was my wedding,
I'd do the coconut shrimp.
870
00:39:13,752 --> 00:39:15,585
Yeah, me too.
I mean, it's really good.
871
00:39:15,620 --> 00:39:18,521
But, honey, you have
to have a salad at a wedding.
872
00:39:18,556 --> 00:39:19,989
Why? Can't mix it up?
873
00:39:20,025 --> 00:39:22,325
Because there's a reason
for traditions,
874
00:39:22,360 --> 00:39:24,494
like having salad before a meal.
875
00:39:24,529 --> 00:39:26,162
Yeah, sure.
876
00:39:26,197 --> 00:39:28,698
I mean, because, you know,
that's what people expect.
877
00:39:31,736 --> 00:39:32,902
Thoughts on main dishes.
878
00:39:32,937 --> 00:39:34,671
Chicken, hands down.
879
00:39:34,706 --> 00:39:37,340
I say pot roast.
The sauce on top is incredible.
880
00:39:37,375 --> 00:39:40,743
No! I know pot roast. I...
881
00:39:40,779 --> 00:39:42,912
I make an old family recipe
every Christmas.
882
00:39:42,947 --> 00:39:46,416
Girls, you have to admit
mine's way better.
883
00:39:46,451 --> 00:39:47,750
Yeah, how do you make it?
884
00:39:47,786 --> 00:39:49,519
Sorry, Ben, secret recipe.
885
00:39:49,554 --> 00:39:51,320
Only for family members.
886
00:39:51,356 --> 00:39:54,757
Well, then I guess you're gonna
have to let me know pretty soon.
887
00:39:54,793 --> 00:39:55,992
We'll see how it goes.
888
00:39:56,027 --> 00:39:57,694
- Dad!
- Robert!
889
00:39:57,729 --> 00:39:59,062
I'm kidding!
890
00:40:00,732 --> 00:40:03,733
Excuse me real quick.
I have to take this.
891
00:40:03,768 --> 00:40:05,902
Well, we should probably
eat the rest of the food.
892
00:40:05,937 --> 00:40:07,570
We don't want it to go to waste.
893
00:40:07,605 --> 00:40:09,316
You just want
the rest of mine, don't you?
894
00:40:09,340 --> 00:40:10,751
- Are you serious?
- If you don't want it.
895
00:40:10,775 --> 00:40:13,609
Okay, take the rest of this too.
896
00:40:13,645 --> 00:40:15,712
Yeah, yeah.
897
00:40:15,747 --> 00:40:18,848
Yeah, thank you so much.
Okay.
898
00:40:18,883 --> 00:40:22,418
Preston will finish all of them.
That shrimp was so good.
899
00:40:22,454 --> 00:40:24,220
Who was it?
900
00:40:24,255 --> 00:40:25,588
That was James Quincy.
901
00:40:25,623 --> 00:40:28,825
He just offered me
the job at Oxford.
902
00:40:30,328 --> 00:40:31,694
That is great.
903
00:40:33,198 --> 00:40:34,464
Congratulations.
904
00:40:34,499 --> 00:40:35,631
Thank you, sir.
905
00:40:42,107 --> 00:40:46,042
Okay, so how many chairs
does that package come with?
906
00:40:46,077 --> 00:40:51,013
So can we do half the amount
for a little less of the cost?
907
00:40:51,049 --> 00:40:52,248
I see.
908
00:40:52,283 --> 00:40:55,418
Okay, thank you.
I'll let you know.
909
00:40:55,453 --> 00:40:56,586
Everything okay?
910
00:40:56,621 --> 00:40:58,187
I never realized how complicated
911
00:40:58,223 --> 00:41:00,089
chair and table rentals
could be.
912
00:41:00,125 --> 00:41:01,869
Well, you think you'll have
time for a little break?
913
00:41:01,893 --> 00:41:03,025
I'd love to talk.
914
00:41:03,061 --> 00:41:04,761
I'd love a break.
915
00:41:04,796 --> 00:41:06,462
Good, 'cause I have
the perfect place.
916
00:41:06,498 --> 00:41:07,630
Where?
917
00:41:07,665 --> 00:41:08,965
It's a surprise.
918
00:41:09,000 --> 00:41:11,067
Intriguing.
919
00:41:13,805 --> 00:41:16,205
Ben, you did all this?
920
00:41:16,241 --> 00:41:17,807
I did. Tracy mentioned it,
921
00:41:17,842 --> 00:41:20,276
and I figured
this was the perfect spot.
922
00:41:20,311 --> 00:41:21,611
What's all this for?
923
00:41:21,646 --> 00:41:22,845
Us.
924
00:41:22,881 --> 00:41:24,881
I figured we could talk
about the job offer
925
00:41:24,916 --> 00:41:28,384
and just get away for a minute.
926
00:41:28,419 --> 00:41:29,886
Have a seat.
927
00:41:29,921 --> 00:41:31,788
- Thank you.
- Yeah.
928
00:41:35,927 --> 00:41:40,363
So did you find out when you
have to give your decision?
929
00:41:40,398 --> 00:41:43,232
I did. Two weeks.
July third.
930
00:41:43,268 --> 00:41:45,268
That's right before the wedding.
931
00:41:45,303 --> 00:41:49,438
If I did take the job,
would you come with me?
932
00:41:49,474 --> 00:41:52,608
Me moving to England
would be such a fun adventure,
933
00:41:52,644 --> 00:41:57,713
and there's a part of me that
would say yes in a heartbeat.
934
00:41:57,749 --> 00:41:59,549
But I'm scared.
935
00:41:59,584 --> 00:42:02,718
If I leave my job,
I have to start all over.
936
00:42:02,754 --> 00:42:06,022
I've built this great career
at Los Angeles College
937
00:42:06,057 --> 00:42:09,292
that no one really expected.
938
00:42:09,327 --> 00:42:13,462
And I can't let that go.
I have to see it through.
939
00:42:16,000 --> 00:42:17,600
I won't take the job.
940
00:42:17,635 --> 00:42:20,203
Then there's that other side.
I can't live with myself
941
00:42:20,238 --> 00:42:22,471
if I know you didn't take it
because of me.
942
00:42:22,507 --> 00:42:25,508
What if we don't
talk about it right now?
943
00:42:25,543 --> 00:42:27,588
I have two weeks before
I have to give them an answer,
944
00:42:27,612 --> 00:42:30,179
and it is a beautiful day.
945
00:42:30,215 --> 00:42:32,648
It's a beautiful lake.
946
00:42:32,684 --> 00:42:34,383
A beautiful woman.
947
00:42:35,954 --> 00:42:38,020
This decision
won't just go away.
948
00:42:38,056 --> 00:42:40,556
I know but maybe we don't have
to make a decision
949
00:42:40,592 --> 00:42:42,391
right this second.
950
00:42:42,427 --> 00:42:44,060
We can hold off,
951
00:42:44,095 --> 00:42:46,963
and maybe it'll change
if we don't harp on it.
952
00:42:46,998 --> 00:42:50,032
I think I can try to do that.
953
00:42:50,068 --> 00:42:51,400
- Yeah?
- Yeah.
954
00:42:51,436 --> 00:42:54,470
Besides, we've got some
fun stuff coming up.
955
00:42:54,505 --> 00:42:55,771
Got the jamboree.
956
00:42:55,807 --> 00:42:59,242
Yes, I cannot wait
for this jamboree.
957
00:42:59,277 --> 00:43:03,846
Please tell me there's
a charcuterie plate in there.
958
00:43:03,882 --> 00:43:05,848
You mean this?
959
00:43:11,422 --> 00:43:12,722
I love you.
960
00:43:12,757 --> 00:43:14,423
I love you too.
961
00:43:22,967 --> 00:43:25,902
I wish I could tell him to stay,
forget about the job.
962
00:43:25,937 --> 00:43:28,604
- So why don't you?
- I'm worried he'll listen.
963
00:43:28,640 --> 00:43:30,006
And then later,
when it's too late,
964
00:43:30,041 --> 00:43:32,441
he'll realize
what he missed out on.
965
00:43:32,477 --> 00:43:34,410
Should I just go with him?
966
00:43:34,445 --> 00:43:36,979
I don't think that
there's an easy answer here.
967
00:43:37,015 --> 00:43:38,748
What are you ladies
talking about?
968
00:43:38,783 --> 00:43:39,815
Nothing.
969
00:43:39,851 --> 00:43:41,884
Today is a fun day.
No stress.
970
00:43:41,920 --> 00:43:43,953
No talking about
the wedding or England.
971
00:43:43,988 --> 00:43:45,554
That's gonna be
a little difficult,
972
00:43:45,590 --> 00:43:48,024
considering this is
an Independence Day celebration,
973
00:43:48,059 --> 00:43:50,293
and England had a little
something to do with that.
974
00:43:50,328 --> 00:43:51,460
You know what I mean.
975
00:43:51,496 --> 00:43:52,895
Look at this.
976
00:43:52,931 --> 00:43:56,666
Guess how many jelly beans
to win a free dinner.
977
00:43:56,701 --> 00:43:58,868
There's at least 200 in there.
978
00:43:58,903 --> 00:44:01,604
What? No.
There's over a thousand.
979
00:44:01,639 --> 00:44:02,972
Hey, how many are you putting?
980
00:44:03,007 --> 00:44:04,607
I'm not telling.
981
00:44:06,511 --> 00:44:07,777
Fine.
982
00:44:10,415 --> 00:44:12,148
See, Ben?
Isn't this fun?
983
00:44:12,183 --> 00:44:13,783
- Be honest.
- It is.
984
00:44:13,818 --> 00:44:15,718
It's my first jamboree.
985
00:44:15,753 --> 00:44:18,087
This was always Tracy and I's
favorite part of the summer.
986
00:44:18,122 --> 00:44:19,789
Especially the balloon pop.
987
00:44:19,824 --> 00:44:22,058
Yes, the balloon pop.
We have to do that.
988
00:44:22,093 --> 00:44:24,226
- What is the balloon pop?
- Don't ask.
989
00:44:24,262 --> 00:44:26,228
Preston's just bitter
because we always win.
990
00:44:26,264 --> 00:44:27,563
I always let you win!
991
00:44:27,598 --> 00:44:29,365
Tracy, that sounds like
a challenge.
992
00:44:29,400 --> 00:44:31,434
It does sound like a challenge.
993
00:44:31,469 --> 00:44:33,869
- We accept.
- Good.
994
00:44:39,210 --> 00:44:41,377
So the team that pops
the most balloons
995
00:44:41,412 --> 00:44:43,312
after throwing
all the darts wins.
996
00:44:43,348 --> 00:44:44,380
Sounds easy enough.
997
00:44:44,415 --> 00:44:45,514
Not as easy as you think.
998
00:44:45,550 --> 00:44:46,916
Boys versus girls?
999
00:44:46,951 --> 00:44:48,384
It's on.
1000
00:44:48,419 --> 00:44:52,054
Careful, Ben, the Bishop girls
get very competitive.
1001
00:44:52,090 --> 00:44:53,556
We'll see.
1002
00:44:53,591 --> 00:44:55,257
Ladies first.
1003
00:44:56,494 --> 00:44:58,761
- Yeah!
- Okay, lucky shot.
1004
00:44:59,597 --> 00:45:01,630
Where is this coming from?
1005
00:45:01,666 --> 00:45:03,265
Played a lot of darts
in college.
1006
00:45:03,301 --> 00:45:05,534
Wait till you see Tracy's arm
at the dunk tank.
1007
00:45:14,112 --> 00:45:15,878
You guys put up a good fight.
1008
00:45:15,913 --> 00:45:17,313
We didn't stand a chance,
did we?
1009
00:45:17,348 --> 00:45:19,415
You guys won every game
at the jamboree.
1010
00:45:19,450 --> 00:45:21,083
That's how we roll.
1011
00:45:21,119 --> 00:45:23,197
Well, at least we didn't
come out totally empty-handed.
1012
00:45:23,221 --> 00:45:24,153
Ben won.
1013
00:45:24,188 --> 00:45:25,755
In Constitution trivia.
1014
00:45:25,790 --> 00:45:28,190
Yeah, and he got
that super cool flag.
1015
00:45:28,226 --> 00:45:31,260
Which makes no sense at
an Independence Day celebration.
1016
00:45:31,295 --> 00:45:33,996
- Maybe it's a sign.
- Maybe.
1017
00:45:34,032 --> 00:45:35,931
Ladies and gentlemen,
1018
00:45:35,967 --> 00:45:38,701
may I have
your attention, please?
1019
00:45:38,736 --> 00:45:42,471
The winner of the guess the
number of jelly beans contest
1020
00:45:42,507 --> 00:45:47,610
with a guess of 1,776 is...
1021
00:45:47,645 --> 00:45:49,078
Tracy Bishop!
1022
00:45:49,113 --> 00:45:51,981
1776! Of course!
1023
00:45:54,852 --> 00:45:57,486
- Redheads? No way.
- Yes.
1024
00:45:57,522 --> 00:45:58,766
I'm telling you, there's no way.
1025
00:45:58,790 --> 00:46:00,322
Studies have shown
1026
00:46:00,358 --> 00:46:02,691
that a significant amount
of Neanderthals were redheads.
1027
00:46:02,727 --> 00:46:05,428
All right, yeah,
and who's doing these studies?
1028
00:46:05,463 --> 00:46:06,529
Scientists.
1029
00:46:06,564 --> 00:46:09,298
Okay, I got it.
1030
00:46:09,333 --> 00:46:10,900
You okay?
1031
00:46:10,935 --> 00:46:12,802
No. That was our firm
on the phone.
1032
00:46:12,837 --> 00:46:14,503
They've been trying
to reach us all day.
1033
00:46:14,539 --> 00:46:16,105
Apparently there was an issue
1034
00:46:16,140 --> 00:46:17,807
with the paperwork
Preston and I submitted
1035
00:46:17,842 --> 00:46:19,620
for the case we were just
working on before we left.
1036
00:46:19,644 --> 00:46:23,079
Now we have to go refile
back in San Francisco ASAP,
1037
00:46:23,114 --> 00:46:24,680
or our client could
go into bankruptcy.
1038
00:46:24,715 --> 00:46:26,226
What? Don't they know
you're on vacation,
1039
00:46:26,250 --> 00:46:27,850
or that you're
planning your wedding?
1040
00:46:27,885 --> 00:46:29,485
It doesn't matter.
It has to get done.
1041
00:46:29,520 --> 00:46:30,886
So what are you gonna do?
1042
00:46:30,922 --> 00:46:32,621
Preston's looking up
flights right now.
1043
00:46:32,657 --> 00:46:34,623
I'm hoping we can sort it out
in a day or two.
1044
00:46:34,659 --> 00:46:37,860
But that means I need you to
take over all of the planning.
1045
00:46:37,895 --> 00:46:40,029
Of course.
Whatever you need.
1046
00:46:40,064 --> 00:46:41,363
Thanks. You're a lifesaver.
1047
00:46:41,399 --> 00:46:43,732
Mom says she and Dad
will help out too.
1048
00:46:43,768 --> 00:46:45,167
The most important thing
1049
00:46:45,203 --> 00:46:47,014
is that my dress
needs to be picked up tomorrow.
1050
00:46:47,038 --> 00:46:48,282
- Done.
- We also have to figure out
1051
00:46:48,306 --> 00:46:50,773
- something with centerpieces.
- On it.
1052
00:46:50,808 --> 00:46:54,143
And make sure that all of the
rentals are arriving on time.
1053
00:46:55,146 --> 00:46:56,479
No problem.
1054
00:46:57,381 --> 00:46:58,647
Thank you so much.
1055
00:46:58,683 --> 00:47:00,127
Mom said it would be
a lot for you to handle,
1056
00:47:00,151 --> 00:47:02,451
but I told her
that you got this.
1057
00:47:16,667 --> 00:47:18,601
- Hi. Welcome.
- Hi.
1058
00:47:18,636 --> 00:47:21,103
I'm Becky.
Would you like to try that on?
1059
00:47:21,139 --> 00:47:22,705
No, thank you.
I'm actually here
1060
00:47:22,740 --> 00:47:25,741
picking up for my sister,
Tracy Bishop.
1061
00:47:25,776 --> 00:47:27,710
Yes! It just came in.
1062
00:47:27,745 --> 00:47:29,912
- I'll go grab it.
- Thanks.
1063
00:47:40,391 --> 00:47:44,093
I'm so glad we were able to get
it sized correctly in time.
1064
00:47:44,128 --> 00:47:46,729
- It's stunning.
- It is.
1065
00:47:46,764 --> 00:47:49,832
And so is the one you have
in your hand there.
1066
00:47:49,867 --> 00:47:51,667
Huge misconception
in my line of work
1067
00:47:51,702 --> 00:47:54,003
that only brides-to-be
can try dresses on.
1068
00:47:54,038 --> 00:47:57,039
Well, ironically
I am also a bride-to-be.
1069
00:47:57,074 --> 00:47:59,842
- Even better!
- I shouldn't.
1070
00:47:59,877 --> 00:48:03,245
Lots to do, and I don't even
have a date picked out yet.
1071
00:48:03,281 --> 00:48:05,114
No date means no pressure.
1072
00:48:05,149 --> 00:48:08,384
That's the best way
to try these things on.
1073
00:48:08,419 --> 00:48:10,419
True.
And in Roman times,
1074
00:48:10,454 --> 00:48:12,021
the bridesmaids
were actually required
1075
00:48:12,056 --> 00:48:15,424
to wear the same dress
as the bride to pose as decoys
1076
00:48:15,459 --> 00:48:17,326
in case enemy kingdoms
or evil spirits
1077
00:48:17,361 --> 00:48:19,161
tried kidnapping the bride.
1078
00:48:19,197 --> 00:48:21,463
So really it's tradition.
1079
00:48:21,499 --> 00:48:23,766
I'm an anthropology professor.
1080
00:48:23,801 --> 00:48:26,802
Okay.
That makes more sense.
1081
00:48:26,837 --> 00:48:28,470
Yes.
1082
00:48:28,506 --> 00:48:31,473
I mean, I guess
I could try one on.
1083
00:48:31,509 --> 00:48:33,709
What's the harm in that?
1084
00:49:09,513 --> 00:49:11,113
See, I like this one.
1085
00:49:11,148 --> 00:49:15,818
The neckline and the waist,
it's exactly what I want.
1086
00:49:15,853 --> 00:49:18,320
You look beautiful.
1087
00:49:19,557 --> 00:49:22,057
- Trying on dresses already.
- Hi, Mom.
1088
00:49:22,093 --> 00:49:25,261
I was picking up Tracy's,
and I got a little carried away.
1089
00:49:25,296 --> 00:49:26,662
It fits you perfectly.
1090
00:49:26,697 --> 00:49:28,230
It does, doesn't it?
1091
00:49:28,266 --> 00:49:29,765
I love it.
1092
00:49:29,800 --> 00:49:31,467
You look beautiful, honey.
1093
00:49:32,603 --> 00:49:34,169
Why don't we go get
an iced coffee?
1094
00:49:34,205 --> 00:49:35,437
What do you say?
1095
00:49:35,473 --> 00:49:37,373
Sure. I'll go change.
1096
00:49:45,116 --> 00:49:47,883
Just don't want you
to rush into this marriage,
1097
00:49:47,918 --> 00:49:49,351
at least until we find out
1098
00:49:49,387 --> 00:49:50,986
where Ben's job
is gonna take him
1099
00:49:51,022 --> 00:49:52,588
and where that leaves you both.
1100
00:49:52,623 --> 00:49:54,823
Mom, I'm not like everybody else
in this family,
1101
00:49:54,859 --> 00:49:56,525
and I don't plan things
right away,
1102
00:49:56,560 --> 00:49:58,627
but that doesn't mean
I don't know what I want.
1103
00:49:58,663 --> 00:50:01,563
Sweetheart, you've only
known Ben for six months.
1104
00:50:01,599 --> 00:50:05,534
Marriage is for life.
It's okay to take your time.
1105
00:50:05,569 --> 00:50:08,370
Maybe we did jump in
a little quickly,
1106
00:50:08,406 --> 00:50:11,540
and we didn't think out
every single future decision,
1107
00:50:11,575 --> 00:50:15,077
but I have never been so sure
of anything in my life.
1108
00:50:16,781 --> 00:50:19,381
I just don't want it
to be like with Dave,
1109
00:50:19,417 --> 00:50:22,618
with you wanting to follow him
without thinking things through.
1110
00:50:22,653 --> 00:50:24,687
I don't wanna see you get hurt.
1111
00:50:24,722 --> 00:50:27,489
This is a completely
different situation,
1112
00:50:27,525 --> 00:50:29,591
and I've grown so much
since then.
1113
00:50:29,627 --> 00:50:30,726
You're right.
1114
00:50:30,761 --> 00:50:32,561
You have.
1115
00:50:32,596 --> 00:50:36,332
And I am so proud
of the woman you've become.
1116
00:50:36,367 --> 00:50:38,467
But you're still my baby girl,
1117
00:50:38,502 --> 00:50:40,369
and I reserve
the right to worry.
1118
00:50:40,404 --> 00:50:43,605
And you also need to trust
that I can make my own choices,
1119
00:50:43,641 --> 00:50:46,842
like getting engaged,
moving to England.
1120
00:50:46,877 --> 00:50:48,177
Ben is a good guy,
1121
00:50:48,212 --> 00:50:50,546
and I can see how much
you care for each other.
1122
00:50:50,581 --> 00:50:53,015
Just promise me when
you're making those choices
1123
00:50:53,050 --> 00:50:55,617
that you'll think about
what's right for you, too,
1124
00:50:55,653 --> 00:50:59,254
'cause that's what's gonna
be best for both of you.
1125
00:50:59,290 --> 00:51:01,590
I promise.
1126
00:51:02,960 --> 00:51:04,593
That dress was gorgeous.
1127
00:51:04,628 --> 00:51:06,762
- Wasn't it?
- Oh, my God.
1128
00:51:06,797 --> 00:51:08,564
I love it.
1129
00:51:40,798 --> 00:51:41,964
Hey, how's it going?
1130
00:51:41,999 --> 00:51:44,666
Not good.
Things are snowballing.
1131
00:51:44,702 --> 00:51:47,136
And Preston just received
some really bad news.
1132
00:51:47,171 --> 00:51:49,838
- No, what happened?
- His grandmother fell,
1133
00:51:49,874 --> 00:51:51,518
and she's not gonna be able
to make it to the wedding.
1134
00:51:51,542 --> 00:51:53,675
Oh, my God, that's horrible.
1135
00:51:53,711 --> 00:51:56,578
I know, and he was so looking
forward to her being there.
1136
00:51:56,614 --> 00:51:58,280
When do you guys think
you'll be here?
1137
00:51:58,315 --> 00:52:00,115
Hopefully soon.
1138
00:52:00,151 --> 00:52:01,995
Look, I know you're already
doing a million things.
1139
00:52:02,019 --> 00:52:04,653
I haven't received confirmation
from the florist yet.
1140
00:52:04,688 --> 00:52:06,121
Can you go check on the order?
1141
00:52:06,157 --> 00:52:07,556
Absolutely.
First thing tomorrow.
1142
00:52:07,591 --> 00:52:09,491
Okay, thanks.
You're a lifesaver.
1143
00:52:09,527 --> 00:52:10,859
Of course. Good luck.
1144
00:52:10,895 --> 00:52:12,661
Thanks. Love you.
1145
00:52:12,696 --> 00:52:14,897
Love you.
Give Preston my love too.
1146
00:52:14,932 --> 00:52:16,131
Bye.
1147
00:52:30,981 --> 00:52:34,483
But my sister placed the order
on the website two weeks ago.
1148
00:52:34,518 --> 00:52:37,753
I am so sorry. I'm not seeing
anything under that name.
1149
00:52:37,788 --> 00:52:38,754
Could it be under Preston?
1150
00:52:38,789 --> 00:52:40,489
We just updated our website.
1151
00:52:40,524 --> 00:52:42,558
It might just be
an unfortunate glitch.
1152
00:52:42,593 --> 00:52:45,027
- What were you looking for?
- We're doing red rose bouquets.
1153
00:52:45,062 --> 00:52:47,563
That shouldn't be a problem.
Let me start a new order.
1154
00:52:49,633 --> 00:52:52,134
Now, when's the wedding?
1155
00:52:52,169 --> 00:52:53,268
July Fourth.
1156
00:52:53,304 --> 00:52:54,736
This year?
1157
00:52:54,772 --> 00:52:56,004
Yes.
1158
00:52:56,040 --> 00:52:57,139
That's next week.
1159
00:52:57,174 --> 00:52:59,508
Technically, six days.
1160
00:52:59,543 --> 00:53:01,610
I'm not sure we can fill
such a big order
1161
00:53:01,645 --> 00:53:03,011
in such short time.
1162
00:53:03,047 --> 00:53:05,414
That's why she placed the order
two weeks ago.
1163
00:53:05,449 --> 00:53:07,816
Right.
1164
00:53:07,852 --> 00:53:10,219
Let me see what I can do.
1165
00:53:10,254 --> 00:53:11,720
Thank you.
1166
00:53:13,624 --> 00:53:14,901
Of course
Tracy puts me in charge,
1167
00:53:14,925 --> 00:53:16,458
and it's already falling apart.
1168
00:53:16,494 --> 00:53:18,994
It's not falling apart.
It's a minor hiccup.
1169
00:53:19,029 --> 00:53:20,429
I just feel like this wedding
1170
00:53:20,464 --> 00:53:21,808
is getting closer
and closer by the minute.
1171
00:53:21,832 --> 00:53:23,165
I know.
1172
00:53:23,200 --> 00:53:26,335
And so is this decision
you have to make about the job.
1173
00:53:26,370 --> 00:53:27,669
I know.
1174
00:53:27,705 --> 00:53:29,638
- We need to discuss it soon.
- And we will,
1175
00:53:29,673 --> 00:53:32,241
as soon as we finish
all the wedding errands, okay?
1176
00:53:34,545 --> 00:53:36,778
We probably won't be able
to do all roses.
1177
00:53:36,814 --> 00:53:38,547
Are you okay with other flowers?
1178
00:53:38,582 --> 00:53:40,782
Yeah, we're going with
red, white, and blue,
1179
00:53:40,818 --> 00:53:42,184
so as long as they're red.
1180
00:53:42,219 --> 00:53:43,785
We can totally do that.
1181
00:53:43,821 --> 00:53:49,324
Ranunculus, sugarbushes,
dahlias, anthurium, peonies.
1182
00:53:49,360 --> 00:53:51,338
There are so many beautiful
flowers that come in red.
1183
00:53:51,362 --> 00:53:52,694
Great.
1184
00:53:52,730 --> 00:53:54,963
Hey, it may even be better
than plain roses anyway.
1185
00:53:54,999 --> 00:53:56,164
Problem solved.
1186
00:53:56,200 --> 00:53:58,066
One problem solved.
1187
00:54:11,248 --> 00:54:12,614
Stephanie, Ben!
1188
00:54:12,650 --> 00:54:14,483
Hi, Frankie!
1189
00:54:14,518 --> 00:54:16,919
Tracy's cake is looking great.
1190
00:54:16,954 --> 00:54:18,320
That's so good to hear.
1191
00:54:18,355 --> 00:54:20,722
Come decorate
some Fourth of July tarts.
1192
00:54:20,758 --> 00:54:22,891
We really shouldn't.
We still have so much to do.
1193
00:54:22,927 --> 00:54:25,561
I think we can make time.
Plus, they smell amazing.
1194
00:54:26,997 --> 00:54:29,298
Okay, why not?
1195
00:54:32,870 --> 00:54:35,671
Why, why tarts?
1196
00:54:35,706 --> 00:54:38,807
This was the favorite food
of our founding fathers.
1197
00:54:38,842 --> 00:54:41,343
That actually makes sense
because raspberry tarts
1198
00:54:41,378 --> 00:54:44,112
were very popular
in the late 1700s.
1199
00:54:44,148 --> 00:54:45,847
Decorate.
1200
00:54:47,351 --> 00:54:51,987
You both started
with the same color icing.
1201
00:54:52,022 --> 00:54:53,855
A sign it's meant to be.
1202
00:54:56,560 --> 00:54:57,826
All right.
1203
00:54:58,829 --> 00:55:00,562
What are you making?
1204
00:55:00,598 --> 00:55:06,301
The original flag with the stars
for the original colonies.
1205
00:55:06,337 --> 00:55:08,837
- I love it.
- What about you?
1206
00:55:08,872 --> 00:55:12,107
Obviously
a very detailed portrait
1207
00:55:12,142 --> 00:55:15,877
of Thomas Jefferson
with spiky hair.
1208
00:55:27,358 --> 00:55:30,993
So the chairs
will be in rows over here.
1209
00:55:31,028 --> 00:55:32,628
And where's the band gonna go?
1210
00:55:32,663 --> 00:55:35,097
Well, there's no band,
but the DJ will be over here.
1211
00:55:35,132 --> 00:55:36,965
Hi!
1212
00:55:37,001 --> 00:55:40,268
You guys can put those on the
side of the house for storage.
1213
00:55:40,304 --> 00:55:42,404
Thank you.
1214
00:55:42,439 --> 00:55:44,873
It's coming along great.
I'm very proud of you.
1215
00:55:44,908 --> 00:55:47,476
For being able to direct
people where to store chairs?
1216
00:55:47,511 --> 00:55:50,078
No, no, because...
1217
00:55:50,114 --> 00:55:52,147
well, for helping your sister
plan this wedding,
1218
00:55:52,182 --> 00:55:53,415
for,
1219
00:55:53,450 --> 00:55:56,418
for being on track for tenure.
1220
00:55:56,453 --> 00:55:59,421
For just being
an amazing daughter.
1221
00:55:59,456 --> 00:56:00,756
Thanks, Dad.
1222
00:56:00,791 --> 00:56:02,824
You deserve the best.
1223
00:56:02,860 --> 00:56:03,892
Always.
1224
00:56:03,927 --> 00:56:06,628
Are you talking about Ben?
1225
00:56:14,271 --> 00:56:15,404
Look, Stephanie,
1226
00:56:15,439 --> 00:56:17,439
the first date
I ever took your mom on
1227
00:56:17,474 --> 00:56:19,508
was to grab a cheeseburger
at a diner
1228
00:56:19,543 --> 00:56:21,476
when we were just teenagers.
1229
00:56:21,512 --> 00:56:23,779
I was worried
it wasn't nice enough,
1230
00:56:23,814 --> 00:56:28,083
not good enough for someone
as special as she was,
1231
00:56:28,118 --> 00:56:31,253
but it was all I could afford.
1232
00:56:31,288 --> 00:56:34,289
Your mom didn't care at all.
She loved it.
1233
00:56:35,893 --> 00:56:38,927
Anyway, we spent that whole date
1234
00:56:38,962 --> 00:56:41,029
talking plans for our future,
1235
00:56:41,065 --> 00:56:44,900
dreaming about things
we wanted out of life,
1236
00:56:44,935 --> 00:56:46,401
and we quickly discovered
1237
00:56:46,437 --> 00:56:49,971
we pretty much wanted
the same things.
1238
00:56:51,508 --> 00:56:54,676
I left knowing I'd marry her.
1239
00:56:54,712 --> 00:56:59,648
Years later,
after I'd become a doctor,
1240
00:56:59,683 --> 00:57:01,750
I took her to this
very fancy restaurant
1241
00:57:01,785 --> 00:57:03,985
for our 15th anniversary.
1242
00:57:04,021 --> 00:57:06,555
She looked at the menu
and was sad.
1243
00:57:06,590 --> 00:57:08,957
There were
no cheeseburgers on it.
1244
00:57:10,127 --> 00:57:11,593
She asked if we could leave
1245
00:57:11,628 --> 00:57:14,763
and go back to the diner
where we had our first date.
1246
00:57:14,798 --> 00:57:16,665
I asked her why.
1247
00:57:16,700 --> 00:57:19,468
She told me the cheeseburger
reminded her
1248
00:57:19,503 --> 00:57:22,671
that we had, in fact,
made our lives
1249
00:57:22,706 --> 00:57:26,908
what we wanted together.
1250
00:57:28,145 --> 00:57:30,479
I like that.
1251
00:57:30,514 --> 00:57:31,847
If you love someone
1252
00:57:31,882 --> 00:57:33,193
you wanna spend the rest
of your life with,
1253
00:57:33,217 --> 00:57:35,650
the only thing that matters
1254
00:57:35,686 --> 00:57:38,653
is that you have the same
vision for the future.
1255
00:57:38,689 --> 00:57:41,823
Well, why on earth did you
wait so long to marry her
1256
00:57:41,859 --> 00:57:43,759
after that first date?
1257
00:57:43,794 --> 00:57:46,995
Seems like you could've
eloped that night.
1258
00:57:48,232 --> 00:57:49,698
Stephanie...
1259
00:57:49,733 --> 00:57:53,435
that is not at all the point
I was trying to make.
1260
00:57:53,470 --> 00:57:55,337
I know.
1261
00:57:55,372 --> 00:57:58,106
My point is that you knew
1262
00:57:58,142 --> 00:58:01,943
Mom was the woman for you
right away,
1263
00:58:01,979 --> 00:58:05,914
and I know that Ben
is the man for me.
1264
00:58:07,184 --> 00:58:10,418
He's so kind and thoughtful.
1265
00:58:11,722 --> 00:58:13,355
We laugh every day,
1266
00:58:13,390 --> 00:58:17,659
and he cheers me on
in every part of my life.
1267
00:58:17,694 --> 00:58:20,162
So you may think
that this is fast,
1268
00:58:20,197 --> 00:58:25,934
but in 10 years
or 20 or 30, whatever,
1269
00:58:27,371 --> 00:58:31,072
he's the one I wanna have
the cheeseburger with.
1270
00:58:34,511 --> 00:58:37,546
Well, everything seems
to be coming in on time,
1271
00:58:37,581 --> 00:58:39,014
which is a good sign.
1272
00:58:39,049 --> 00:58:42,050
Just talked to Tracy,
and they are wrapping things up.
1273
00:58:42,085 --> 00:58:45,187
They'll be home tomorrow,
so we are on track.
1274
00:58:45,222 --> 00:58:47,489
I know she's so grateful to you
for taking over.
1275
00:58:47,524 --> 00:58:50,859
Well, I know she'd do the same
if the tables were reversed.
1276
00:58:54,331 --> 00:58:55,764
Hello?
1277
00:58:58,135 --> 00:58:59,568
Oh, my gosh.
1278
00:58:59,603 --> 00:59:01,736
Tell her congratulations.
1279
00:59:02,706 --> 00:59:04,272
No, I totally understand.
1280
00:59:04,308 --> 00:59:06,341
Thanks for letting me know.
1281
00:59:07,911 --> 00:59:09,878
The photographer
can't make it anymore.
1282
00:59:09,913 --> 00:59:11,446
- Oh, no.
- What happened?
1283
00:59:11,481 --> 00:59:12,581
She had a baby.
1284
00:59:12,616 --> 00:59:13,915
What?
1285
00:59:15,285 --> 00:59:16,551
Okay...
1286
00:59:16,587 --> 00:59:18,954
- We'll find another one.
- Four days out?
1287
00:59:18,989 --> 00:59:20,755
Do you know how hard it was
to book her?
1288
00:59:20,791 --> 00:59:22,791
If anybody can do it, you can.
1289
00:59:22,826 --> 00:59:24,726
I'm sure they're out there.
1290
00:59:24,761 --> 00:59:26,928
Okay, I'll help you look.
1291
00:59:28,665 --> 00:59:31,266
Yeah, this July Fourth.
1292
00:59:31,301 --> 00:59:33,969
Yes, as in four days from now.
1293
00:59:35,439 --> 00:59:37,572
Hello?
1294
00:59:37,608 --> 00:59:40,542
Yeah, so it'd just be
for the basic package.
1295
00:59:40,577 --> 00:59:44,145
Great. The wedding
is this Tuesday.
1296
00:59:45,582 --> 00:59:47,816
You're already booked.
1297
00:59:49,019 --> 00:59:50,785
Okay, thank you.
1298
00:59:54,258 --> 00:59:55,368
Hey, have you tried this guy?
1299
00:59:55,392 --> 00:59:57,025
Renaldo Salks.
1300
00:59:57,060 --> 00:59:59,361
Says he's the best wedding
photographer in Palm Springs.
1301
00:59:59,396 --> 01:00:00,740
Yeah, I tried him
a couple weeks ago
1302
01:00:00,764 --> 01:00:02,464
before we booked this other one,
1303
01:00:02,499 --> 01:00:05,166
but his messages were full,
and I couldn't get through.
1304
01:00:05,202 --> 01:00:07,002
Well, his social media says
1305
01:00:07,037 --> 01:00:09,104
he's working
an engagement party tomorrow
1306
01:00:09,139 --> 01:00:10,538
at the country club.
1307
01:00:10,574 --> 01:00:13,108
It's too bad
we can't go ask him.
1308
01:00:13,143 --> 01:00:14,476
Why can't we?
1309
01:00:14,511 --> 01:00:17,412
Because we're not invited.
1310
01:00:32,963 --> 01:00:34,462
Just act like
you've been invited
1311
01:00:34,498 --> 01:00:36,097
and nobody knows the difference.
1312
01:00:36,133 --> 01:00:38,066
Why do I feel like
you've crashed a party before?
1313
01:00:38,101 --> 01:00:39,301
It was a long time ago,
1314
01:00:39,336 --> 01:00:40,969
and I was writing
a dissertation.
1315
01:00:41,004 --> 01:00:42,704
Okay.
1316
01:00:42,739 --> 01:00:44,639
Relax your shoulders a bit.
1317
01:00:44,675 --> 01:00:46,508
There he is.
1318
01:00:46,543 --> 01:00:47,820
Can I get you to...
Yeah, beautiful.
1319
01:00:47,844 --> 01:00:49,244
Smile a little bit. Yeah!
1320
01:00:49,279 --> 01:00:51,947
Okay, so what's the plan?
1321
01:00:51,982 --> 01:00:53,348
We're just gonna wing it.
1322
01:00:53,383 --> 01:00:54,894
He's gonna work his way
through the guests,
1323
01:00:54,918 --> 01:00:56,663
and then we wait for
our chance to talk to him.
1324
01:00:56,687 --> 01:00:58,520
Okay, and what do we do
till then?
1325
01:00:58,555 --> 01:01:01,089
Enjoy a party
we didn't have to plan.
1326
01:01:01,124 --> 01:01:02,724
I like that.
1327
01:01:06,396 --> 01:01:07,796
You're right.
1328
01:01:07,831 --> 01:01:10,065
When you act like you belong,
no one even notices.
1329
01:01:10,100 --> 01:01:11,933
It's a bizarre human trait.
1330
01:01:12,936 --> 01:01:13,902
Listen, about the job...
1331
01:01:13,937 --> 01:01:16,037
Before you say anything,
1332
01:01:16,073 --> 01:01:18,039
I've been thinking about it,
1333
01:01:18,075 --> 01:01:19,975
and I want you to take it.
1334
01:01:20,010 --> 01:01:21,343
What about you?
1335
01:01:21,378 --> 01:01:24,946
Lovely couple.
May I take your picture?
1336
01:01:24,982 --> 01:01:26,614
- You may.
- Yes...
1337
01:01:26,650 --> 01:01:28,616
if we can ask you a question.
1338
01:01:28,652 --> 01:01:30,396
I don't use filters,
if that's your question.
1339
01:01:30,420 --> 01:01:32,420
No, that's not it.
Are you available
1340
01:01:32,456 --> 01:01:36,591
to shoot a wedding
on the Fourth of July?
1341
01:01:36,626 --> 01:01:38,960
This Fourth of July,
as in a few days from now?
1342
01:01:38,996 --> 01:01:42,964
Yes, here in Palm Springs
at our vacation home.
1343
01:01:43,000 --> 01:01:45,467
Are you friends
of John or Ellie?
1344
01:01:46,737 --> 01:01:47,869
Neither.
1345
01:01:47,904 --> 01:01:49,404
I don't understand.
1346
01:01:49,439 --> 01:01:51,973
Well, we weren't able
to get in touch with you,
1347
01:01:52,009 --> 01:01:54,009
and we knew you'd be here.
1348
01:01:54,044 --> 01:01:56,211
I think this is the first time
1349
01:01:56,246 --> 01:01:58,313
I've been stalked
for my services.
1350
01:01:58,348 --> 01:01:59,714
Flattered?
1351
01:01:59,750 --> 01:02:01,282
A little scared.
1352
01:02:01,318 --> 01:02:02,784
It's for my sister.
1353
01:02:02,819 --> 01:02:04,619
Our photographer had a baby
and can't make it,
1354
01:02:04,654 --> 01:02:06,321
and we are desperate.
1355
01:02:07,657 --> 01:02:09,891
Normally I'd say no
because this is weird,
1356
01:02:09,926 --> 01:02:11,593
but since you've gone
to all this trouble
1357
01:02:11,628 --> 01:02:13,228
of tracking me down,
1358
01:02:13,263 --> 01:02:15,330
and you've been at this party
for half an hour
1359
01:02:15,365 --> 01:02:17,832
without being noticed,
1360
01:02:17,868 --> 01:02:19,000
I guess okay.
1361
01:02:19,036 --> 01:02:20,301
- Yes!
- Thank you so much!
1362
01:02:20,337 --> 01:02:21,337
Thank you.
1363
01:02:21,371 --> 01:02:22,704
You're welcome.
1364
01:02:22,739 --> 01:02:25,040
Better not take any
photos of you at this.
1365
01:02:25,075 --> 01:02:26,708
Yeah, it's probably best
you don't.
1366
01:02:26,743 --> 01:02:29,310
People are starting to stare,
so we should probably head out.
1367
01:02:30,580 --> 01:02:31,746
Thank you again.
1368
01:02:31,782 --> 01:02:33,081
You're welcome.
1369
01:02:33,116 --> 01:02:34,816
Thank you.
1370
01:02:34,851 --> 01:02:36,618
May I take your photo?
1371
01:02:47,697 --> 01:02:48,730
You're back!
1372
01:02:48,765 --> 01:02:49,964
Yes, finally.
1373
01:02:50,000 --> 01:02:51,933
Every time we were
close to finishing,
1374
01:02:51,968 --> 01:02:53,401
something else came up.
1375
01:02:53,437 --> 01:02:54,769
Where were you guys?
1376
01:02:54,805 --> 01:02:57,505
You know,
just getting Renaldo Salks
1377
01:02:57,541 --> 01:02:58,907
to photograph your wedding.
1378
01:02:58,942 --> 01:03:01,076
- No way.
- That's great.
1379
01:03:01,111 --> 01:03:03,011
But what about
the other photographer?
1380
01:03:03,046 --> 01:03:05,180
She had a baby,
but the important thing
1381
01:03:05,215 --> 01:03:07,682
is that we are on track with
everything for the wedding.
1382
01:03:07,717 --> 01:03:09,384
I know.
It's so incredible.
1383
01:03:09,419 --> 01:03:10,819
You're the best.
1384
01:03:25,368 --> 01:03:28,503
See, now you wanna keep
your shoulders, waist, and knees
1385
01:03:28,538 --> 01:03:30,071
all parallel to the ground
1386
01:03:30,107 --> 01:03:31,372
so that when you swing,
1387
01:03:31,408 --> 01:03:34,576
you get the full momentum
of the twist.
1388
01:03:34,611 --> 01:03:36,144
- Okay.
- Okay?
1389
01:03:36,179 --> 01:03:37,278
Okay.
1390
01:03:47,824 --> 01:03:50,024
Better, nice.
1391
01:03:50,060 --> 01:03:51,292
Now just make sure
1392
01:03:51,328 --> 01:03:53,161
that you curve that club
around your body.
1393
01:03:53,196 --> 01:03:54,662
You don't hit the club straight
1394
01:03:54,698 --> 01:03:56,364
in order to make the ball
go straight.
1395
01:03:56,399 --> 01:03:58,399
- Okay.
- All right.
1396
01:03:58,435 --> 01:03:59,767
Hey, I appreciate your help.
1397
01:03:59,803 --> 01:04:02,036
If Robert actually ever
invites me back out,
1398
01:04:02,072 --> 01:04:03,538
I wanna show off
my golfing skills
1399
01:04:03,573 --> 01:04:06,374
and not my ability
to chuck a club into the lake.
1400
01:04:06,409 --> 01:04:10,645
Of course. Besides, it helps
keep my mind off things, so...
1401
01:04:10,680 --> 01:04:11,779
The wedding?
1402
01:04:11,815 --> 01:04:13,982
Yeah.
1403
01:04:14,017 --> 01:04:15,416
Is everything okay?
1404
01:04:15,452 --> 01:04:17,752
No, not exactly.
1405
01:04:17,787 --> 01:04:19,187
Cold feet?
1406
01:04:19,222 --> 01:04:20,755
No, no, it's nothing like that.
1407
01:04:20,790 --> 01:04:22,557
I can't wait to marry Tracy,
1408
01:04:22,592 --> 01:04:25,360
but once I found out that
my grandma couldn't make it,
1409
01:04:25,395 --> 01:04:27,295
along with pretty much
half of my family,
1410
01:04:27,330 --> 01:04:30,265
I started to wonder if we should
have the wedding now at all.
1411
01:04:30,300 --> 01:04:33,935
I wanna share the most
important day of my life
1412
01:04:33,970 --> 01:04:35,303
with the ones that I love,
1413
01:04:35,338 --> 01:04:38,039
and I know that
Tracy has her heart set
1414
01:04:38,074 --> 01:04:42,076
on having this wedding here
at the vacation house and...
1415
01:04:43,480 --> 01:04:44,946
I'm sorry.
1416
01:04:44,981 --> 01:04:46,459
I didn't mean
to dump this all on you.
1417
01:04:46,483 --> 01:04:47,916
I just don't know what to do.
1418
01:04:47,951 --> 01:04:49,150
Look, it's fine.
1419
01:04:49,186 --> 01:04:50,718
I get it.
1420
01:04:50,754 --> 01:04:53,922
I'd say your best bet
is just go talk to Tracy.
1421
01:04:53,957 --> 01:04:55,423
Tell her how you're feeling.
1422
01:04:55,458 --> 01:04:57,692
But she is so excited
about this wedding.
1423
01:04:57,727 --> 01:04:59,594
I can't ask her not to have it.
1424
01:04:59,629 --> 01:05:01,396
Look, you love
each other, right?
1425
01:05:01,431 --> 01:05:04,232
Then she'll understand
how important it is.
1426
01:05:07,470 --> 01:05:08,670
What?
1427
01:05:08,705 --> 01:05:10,772
Just realizing I should
be taking my own advice.
1428
01:05:10,807 --> 01:05:12,807
I have to give an answer
on the job tomorrow,
1429
01:05:12,842 --> 01:05:17,545
and Stephanie and I
have a lot to talk about.
1430
01:05:19,583 --> 01:05:22,784
I'm just not sure what jewelry
to wear with the dress.
1431
01:05:22,819 --> 01:05:23,952
You should do an earring.
1432
01:05:25,255 --> 01:05:26,421
Dad, can you get that?
1433
01:05:26,456 --> 01:05:28,523
You guys expecting
more deliveries?
1434
01:05:28,558 --> 01:05:30,124
Not until tomorrow.
1435
01:05:31,828 --> 01:05:32,794
Hi.
1436
01:05:32,829 --> 01:05:35,096
Thank you, thank you.
1437
01:05:36,833 --> 01:05:38,066
Has my name on it.
1438
01:05:38,101 --> 01:05:40,168
Did you order something?
1439
01:05:40,203 --> 01:05:41,369
Nope.
1440
01:05:48,411 --> 01:05:50,612
- Can't be.
- What is it?
1441
01:05:52,015 --> 01:05:54,749
It's the idler arm I need
for my Thunderbird.
1442
01:05:54,784 --> 01:05:56,751
Who sent it to you?
1443
01:05:58,588 --> 01:05:59,954
There's a note.
1444
01:06:02,325 --> 01:06:04,792
"Robert, Ben told me
you could use one of these.
1445
01:06:04,828 --> 01:06:05,994
Enjoy.
1446
01:06:06,029 --> 01:06:07,662
Thomas Larson."
1447
01:06:07,697 --> 01:06:09,497
That's Ben's dad.
1448
01:06:09,532 --> 01:06:11,232
Ben did this.
1449
01:06:11,268 --> 01:06:12,900
Told you he was thoughtful.
1450
01:06:14,070 --> 01:06:16,404
I can't believe
he did this for me.
1451
01:06:24,447 --> 01:06:26,414
This looks beautiful.
1452
01:06:29,219 --> 01:06:30,752
Thank you.
1453
01:06:34,991 --> 01:06:36,324
Thank you.
1454
01:06:38,295 --> 01:06:39,772
I can't believe that
guessing the right number
1455
01:06:39,796 --> 01:06:42,196
of jelly beans in a jar
got us a dinner here.
1456
01:06:42,232 --> 01:06:43,765
I'm glad it did.
1457
01:06:43,800 --> 01:06:48,703
It gives us a chance to take
a step back from work and from...
1458
01:06:48,738 --> 01:06:50,204
From wedding planning.
1459
01:06:51,875 --> 01:06:53,808
Tracy...
1460
01:06:53,843 --> 01:06:56,878
I wanna talk to you
about the wedding.
1461
01:07:00,583 --> 01:07:02,216
Give it a try.
1462
01:07:02,252 --> 01:07:03,718
You bet your life.
1463
01:07:05,889 --> 01:07:07,989
That sounds good.
1464
01:07:08,024 --> 01:07:09,557
Thanks to you.
1465
01:07:09,592 --> 01:07:11,337
I'm gonna take it for a spin.
You wanna come along?
1466
01:07:11,361 --> 01:07:14,329
Stephanie and I have some
stuff to do, but maybe later.
1467
01:07:14,364 --> 01:07:16,364
All right, later it is.
1468
01:07:18,401 --> 01:07:20,401
Enjoy! Bye-bye.
1469
01:07:23,239 --> 01:07:25,540
You know you just validated
his obsession, right?
1470
01:07:25,575 --> 01:07:27,008
You mean his hobby.
1471
01:07:27,043 --> 01:07:28,576
Same thing.
1472
01:07:30,246 --> 01:07:32,647
Look, I have to tell Quincy
an answer tomorrow,
1473
01:07:32,682 --> 01:07:35,416
so we should probably
talk about it.
1474
01:07:35,452 --> 01:07:37,185
I'll go to England with you.
1475
01:07:40,423 --> 01:07:42,068
I was gonna tell you
I'm not gonna take the job,
1476
01:07:42,092 --> 01:07:44,492
but you would move to England?
1477
01:07:44,527 --> 01:07:45,860
You don't wanna take the job?
1478
01:07:45,895 --> 01:07:47,362
No, I do.
1479
01:07:47,397 --> 01:07:49,475
To work with Quincy would be
a highlight of my career,
1480
01:07:49,499 --> 01:07:52,500
but without you,
then it doesn't mean anything.
1481
01:07:53,903 --> 01:07:56,204
You would really move?
1482
01:07:56,239 --> 01:07:57,538
I would for you.
1483
01:07:59,676 --> 01:08:01,843
I can't ask you to do that.
1484
01:08:03,346 --> 01:08:05,346
I know how hard
you've worked for everything,
1485
01:08:05,382 --> 01:08:07,715
and I couldn't live with myself
1486
01:08:07,751 --> 01:08:09,884
if I knew I made you
give it all up.
1487
01:08:11,755 --> 01:08:13,888
Maybe if we'd been together
for a couple years
1488
01:08:13,923 --> 01:08:17,358
and were actually on the same
page about what we wanted,
1489
01:08:17,394 --> 01:08:20,294
but we haven't even
talked about this.
1490
01:08:20,330 --> 01:08:23,731
And we don't actually know if we
want the same amount of kids.
1491
01:08:28,505 --> 01:08:30,638
Maybe we did rush into this.
1492
01:08:34,778 --> 01:08:35,910
So what now?
1493
01:08:38,014 --> 01:08:40,214
You take the job,
and I stay here.
1494
01:08:42,218 --> 01:08:43,317
And us?
1495
01:08:44,587 --> 01:08:47,455
Put a pin in it, take a break.
1496
01:08:47,490 --> 01:08:49,056
You could really do that?
1497
01:08:51,795 --> 01:08:54,262
If it meant
you following your dreams.
1498
01:08:55,932 --> 01:08:57,799
And you following yours.
1499
01:09:37,707 --> 01:09:39,707
Glad I caught you
before you left.
1500
01:09:39,742 --> 01:09:42,009
Mr. Bishop,
what are you doing here?
1501
01:09:42,045 --> 01:09:45,379
Thought I'd take
another drive in the T-Bird,
1502
01:09:45,415 --> 01:09:46,514
brought me here.
1503
01:09:46,549 --> 01:09:48,649
Which brings me
to my next point.
1504
01:09:48,685 --> 01:09:50,651
What are you doing here?
1505
01:09:50,687 --> 01:09:52,787
Stephanie thought
this was for the best.
1506
01:09:55,258 --> 01:09:56,891
When Stephanie
was a little girl,
1507
01:09:56,926 --> 01:09:58,459
she dug a hole in the wall
1508
01:09:58,495 --> 01:10:00,895
and thought the fiberglass
insulation was cotton candy
1509
01:10:00,930 --> 01:10:02,830
and that it led
to a magical land,
1510
01:10:02,866 --> 01:10:05,366
so no, Stephanie doesn't
always know what's best.
1511
01:10:06,903 --> 01:10:09,871
She thought I'd be happy
taking my dream job,
1512
01:10:09,906 --> 01:10:13,708
but Stephanie doesn't
realize that I can't be happy
1513
01:10:13,743 --> 01:10:15,309
without her in my life.
1514
01:10:17,247 --> 01:10:20,848
Then I think there's something
you've been meaning to ask me.
1515
01:10:21,951 --> 01:10:24,118
My blessing
to marry my daughter.
1516
01:10:24,153 --> 01:10:27,889
I didn't think you liked me,
Mr. Bishop.
1517
01:10:27,924 --> 01:10:30,024
Isn't about time
you called me Robert?
1518
01:10:31,961 --> 01:10:33,861
Look, I admit I...
1519
01:10:35,431 --> 01:10:37,498
I didn't get you at first.
1520
01:10:37,534 --> 01:10:39,545
But now I see how thoughtful
you are about my daughter,
1521
01:10:39,569 --> 01:10:42,069
how you put her needs
before your own,
1522
01:10:42,105 --> 01:10:46,207
how you went above and beyond
to get me a little car part.
1523
01:10:46,242 --> 01:10:48,743
Bottom line, I've never seen
Stephanie smile more
1524
01:10:48,778 --> 01:10:50,144
than when she's with you.
1525
01:10:50,179 --> 01:10:52,713
And I wish we could be together.
1526
01:10:55,184 --> 01:10:57,718
Sometimes when I'm working
on the car,
1527
01:10:57,754 --> 01:11:00,388
and it's just not doing
what I want it to,
1528
01:11:00,423 --> 01:11:03,057
I stop, I breathe,
1529
01:11:03,092 --> 01:11:06,827
I look at it
from a different angle,
1530
01:11:06,863 --> 01:11:08,863
try to see my other options.
1531
01:11:08,898 --> 01:11:12,233
There's always another way
to go about things.
1532
01:11:16,606 --> 01:11:19,407
Parked in a loading zone.
I'd better get going.
1533
01:11:21,911 --> 01:11:23,444
So anyway, you have it.
1534
01:11:23,479 --> 01:11:25,279
Have what?
1535
01:11:25,315 --> 01:11:27,315
My blessing.
1536
01:11:27,350 --> 01:11:29,951
For whenever you need it.
1537
01:11:32,889 --> 01:11:35,389
Thank you, Robert.
1538
01:11:40,964 --> 01:11:43,297
All aboard.
1539
01:11:51,207 --> 01:11:52,907
Take care.
1540
01:12:11,494 --> 01:12:12,727
You're up early.
1541
01:12:12,762 --> 01:12:15,496
Couldn't sleep.
1542
01:12:15,531 --> 01:12:17,431
There's something
that I have to tell you.
1543
01:12:17,467 --> 01:12:20,134
- Me too.
- Do you wanna go first?
1544
01:12:20,169 --> 01:12:21,869
No, you go.
1545
01:12:23,539 --> 01:12:25,406
Preston and I
are calling off the wedding.
1546
01:12:25,441 --> 01:12:26,641
What?
1547
01:12:26,676 --> 01:12:27,953
Preston doesn't wanna
get married
1548
01:12:27,977 --> 01:12:29,421
unless all of his family
can be there,
1549
01:12:29,445 --> 01:12:31,445
especially his grandmother.
1550
01:12:31,481 --> 01:12:32,747
And I agree.
1551
01:12:32,782 --> 01:12:34,315
I was just on such a whirlwind
1552
01:12:34,350 --> 01:12:36,917
with getting the wedding
ready in time.
1553
01:12:36,953 --> 01:12:40,821
I never realized how he was
feeling till last night.
1554
01:12:40,857 --> 01:12:42,089
I get it.
1555
01:12:42,125 --> 01:12:43,624
It'd be really hard
to get married
1556
01:12:43,660 --> 01:12:45,404
without all the people
that you love most there.
1557
01:12:45,428 --> 01:12:49,096
Thank you for being
so understanding.
1558
01:12:49,132 --> 01:12:52,033
I know you've worked so hard
on this wedding,
1559
01:12:52,068 --> 01:12:54,969
and I was terrified
to tell you that it's off.
1560
01:12:56,272 --> 01:12:58,973
I have to follow my heart.
1561
01:12:59,008 --> 01:13:00,608
Where's Ben?
1562
01:13:00,643 --> 01:13:03,010
At the bus station.
1563
01:13:03,046 --> 01:13:04,812
Why? What happened?
1564
01:13:04,847 --> 01:13:08,749
I told him to take the job
and to put a pin in us.
1565
01:13:08,785 --> 01:13:12,920
Stephanie, you and I both know
you're supposed to be with Ben.
1566
01:13:12,955 --> 01:13:14,388
- Go after him.
- I can't.
1567
01:13:14,424 --> 01:13:16,791
I have to let him
go after what he wants.
1568
01:13:16,826 --> 01:13:18,159
Do you love him?
1569
01:13:19,095 --> 01:13:20,394
With all my heart.
1570
01:13:20,430 --> 01:13:22,363
I've seen the way
that he talks about you,
1571
01:13:22,398 --> 01:13:23,998
the way he looks at you.
1572
01:13:24,033 --> 01:13:25,833
You think some job
is more important
1573
01:13:25,868 --> 01:13:28,335
than what the two of you have?
1574
01:13:28,371 --> 01:13:30,971
It just all happened too fast.
1575
01:13:31,007 --> 01:13:33,007
I didn't even know
his favorite color
1576
01:13:33,042 --> 01:13:34,408
until a couple weeks ago.
1577
01:13:34,444 --> 01:13:35,710
Who cares about that?
1578
01:13:35,745 --> 01:13:39,180
That's not important,
and you know it.
1579
01:13:39,215 --> 01:13:42,216
I can't give up what I've
been working for for some guy.
1580
01:13:42,251 --> 01:13:44,652
I didn't do it with Dave,
and I'm not gonna do it now.
1581
01:13:44,687 --> 01:13:49,957
Ben is not some guy,
and he is definitely not Dave.
1582
01:13:51,561 --> 01:13:53,294
You need to ask yourself
1583
01:13:53,329 --> 01:13:56,897
what is best for you and Ben
as a couple.
1584
01:13:58,267 --> 01:14:01,602
You need to be honest
with each other.
1585
01:14:01,637 --> 01:14:02,770
I wanna be.
1586
01:14:02,805 --> 01:14:04,638
Well?
1587
01:14:04,674 --> 01:14:06,874
What is your heart telling you?
1588
01:14:23,826 --> 01:14:26,093
He wasn't at the bus stop.
1589
01:14:26,129 --> 01:14:27,762
I missed him.
1590
01:14:27,797 --> 01:14:29,597
Maybe check outside?
1591
01:14:30,533 --> 01:14:31,465
Why?
1592
01:14:31,501 --> 01:14:33,901
Trust me.
1593
01:14:48,084 --> 01:14:49,350
Hello, beautiful.
1594
01:14:49,385 --> 01:14:50,785
Hi.
1595
01:14:50,820 --> 01:14:53,087
So I just got off the phone
with Quincy,
1596
01:14:53,122 --> 01:14:58,726
and I told him that
I'm not taking the position.
1597
01:14:58,761 --> 01:15:01,328
But I did pitch him a new one.
1598
01:15:01,364 --> 01:15:04,565
One where I can stay in LA,
do my research,
1599
01:15:04,600 --> 01:15:06,834
and for once a year
for a couple of weeks,
1600
01:15:06,869 --> 01:15:09,737
I go to Oxford,
and I teach my findings.
1601
01:15:09,772 --> 01:15:12,506
And I thought for those
couple weeks, maybe...
1602
01:15:12,542 --> 01:15:14,008
that you'd come with me,
1603
01:15:14,043 --> 01:15:16,610
as long as I schedule it
over the summer.
1604
01:15:16,646 --> 01:15:19,947
I like this plan.
What'd he say?
1605
01:15:19,982 --> 01:15:22,716
He said he thought
it would work.
1606
01:15:23,953 --> 01:15:26,687
And as far as kids go,
1607
01:15:26,722 --> 01:15:28,255
we'll figure it out.
1608
01:15:28,291 --> 01:15:30,691
Maybe I'll want six kids.
1609
01:15:30,726 --> 01:15:34,929
Maybe I could just do four
with like two dogs.
1610
01:15:34,964 --> 01:15:38,065
I don't care how long
we've known each other
1611
01:15:38,100 --> 01:15:40,034
or that we don't know
every single thing
1612
01:15:40,069 --> 01:15:41,402
about each other yet
1613
01:15:41,437 --> 01:15:44,805
because, Stephanie,
what we have is real,
1614
01:15:44,841 --> 01:15:48,275
and it's lasting.
1615
01:15:48,311 --> 01:15:50,277
I'm here for you,
1616
01:15:50,313 --> 01:15:53,914
and I wanna be here for you
for the rest of my life
1617
01:15:53,950 --> 01:15:56,083
'cause my only dream is you.
1618
01:15:59,956 --> 01:16:01,989
So I'm gonna ask you
a familiar question
1619
01:16:02,024 --> 01:16:04,625
that's all about what you want,
1620
01:16:04,660 --> 01:16:09,163
not what you think is right or
what you think is best for me.
1621
01:16:09,198 --> 01:16:11,498
Do you think you could
answer it honestly?
1622
01:16:16,839 --> 01:16:20,140
Stephanie, will you
still marry me?
1623
01:16:20,176 --> 01:16:21,775
With all my heart.
1624
01:16:34,991 --> 01:16:36,357
What is this?
1625
01:16:36,392 --> 01:16:38,459
Stephanie,
I wanna give this to you.
1626
01:16:38,494 --> 01:16:40,261
Mom bought it for you.
1627
01:16:41,264 --> 01:16:43,364
With it comes a wedding.
1628
01:16:43,399 --> 01:16:47,101
A perfect Fourth of July
dream wedding.
1629
01:16:47,136 --> 01:16:48,769
Are you sure?
1630
01:16:49,705 --> 01:16:50,738
It's your wedding.
1631
01:16:50,773 --> 01:16:52,072
It always really was.
1632
01:16:54,510 --> 01:16:56,154
Well, I guess I'm gonna
have to get my parents
1633
01:16:56,178 --> 01:16:57,278
on the next flight out.
1634
01:16:57,313 --> 01:16:58,779
Yeah!
1635
01:17:36,852 --> 01:17:38,152
Hey.
1636
01:17:38,187 --> 01:17:39,620
Good luck.
1637
01:17:42,358 --> 01:17:43,691
Thank you, sir.
1638
01:17:50,533 --> 01:17:53,033
You may now all be seated.
1639
01:17:56,505 --> 01:17:58,605
Ben...
1640
01:17:58,641 --> 01:18:01,275
you are my everything.
1641
01:18:01,310 --> 01:18:05,212
I am so lucky that I found you,
1642
01:18:05,247 --> 01:18:08,182
and there's no one else
I'd rather grow old with.
1643
01:18:09,852 --> 01:18:12,286
I know what I want.
1644
01:18:12,321 --> 01:18:13,487
It's you.
1645
01:18:14,857 --> 01:18:16,023
Now and forever.
1646
01:18:23,566 --> 01:18:25,699
Stephanie...
1647
01:18:25,735 --> 01:18:28,302
no matter what roadblocks
come our way,
1648
01:18:28,337 --> 01:18:32,606
I will always support
and love you.
1649
01:18:32,641 --> 01:18:35,909
You are the most amazing
woman that I ever met.
1650
01:18:35,945 --> 01:18:38,545
I'm so lucky that I found you.
1651
01:18:40,783 --> 01:18:42,182
Thank you.
1652
01:18:43,919 --> 01:18:46,954
Do you, Stephanie, take Ben to
be your lawfully wedded husband?
1653
01:18:46,989 --> 01:18:48,489
I do.
1654
01:18:48,524 --> 01:18:51,892
Do you, Ben, take Stephanie
to be your lawfully wedded wife?
1655
01:18:51,927 --> 01:18:52,960
I do.
1656
01:18:52,995 --> 01:18:55,095
You may now kiss the bride.
1657
01:19:42,711 --> 01:19:44,845
Ben is such a lovely young man.
1658
01:19:44,880 --> 01:19:46,814
Go get yourself a drink, Tom.
1659
01:19:46,849 --> 01:19:48,515
- Mom, Dad.
- Yeah.
1660
01:19:48,551 --> 01:19:50,417
There's something
we wanna tell you.
1661
01:19:52,388 --> 01:19:54,888
- Good news?
- Very.
1662
01:19:54,924 --> 01:19:57,658
We just got off the phone
with the realtor.
1663
01:19:57,693 --> 01:20:00,527
Preston and I have decided
to buy the house from you.
1664
01:20:00,563 --> 01:20:02,062
What? Oh, my...
1665
01:20:02,098 --> 01:20:04,364
What about the other buyer?
1666
01:20:04,400 --> 01:20:05,766
Well, it took
a little convincing,
1667
01:20:05,801 --> 01:20:07,000
but we got him to drop out.
1668
01:20:07,036 --> 01:20:08,302
Did I just hear this right?
1669
01:20:08,337 --> 01:20:10,104
- Are you guys buying the house?
- We are!
1670
01:20:10,139 --> 01:20:13,841
- You sure you wanna do this?
- Yes.
1671
01:20:13,876 --> 01:20:16,677
We can't imagine not having
this house in our family.
1672
01:20:16,712 --> 01:20:19,680
Besides, when Preston's grandma
feels better,
1673
01:20:19,715 --> 01:20:22,382
we still wanna have our wedding
right here in the backyard.
1674
01:20:22,418 --> 01:20:25,085
Well, that's
just wonderful, honey.
1675
01:20:25,121 --> 01:20:26,887
You're gonna make me cry again.
1676
01:20:26,922 --> 01:20:30,190
Hey, would you mind
if I have this dance?
1677
01:20:30,226 --> 01:20:32,459
This one and every one.
1678
01:20:42,538 --> 01:20:44,138
What?
1679
01:20:44,173 --> 01:20:46,874
I was just thinking how they
found proof of humans dancing
1680
01:20:46,909 --> 01:20:48,976
on cave paintings
from 9,000 years ago.
1681
01:20:49,011 --> 01:20:50,188
That's what you were
thinking about?
1682
01:20:50,212 --> 01:20:53,080
Yeah. I like how
it's in our DNA
1683
01:20:53,115 --> 01:20:55,082
to wanna connect like this.
1684
01:20:55,117 --> 01:20:58,650
- I like it.
- Me too.
1685
01:21:44,651 --> 01:21:50,650
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