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These are the user uploaded subtitles that are being translated: 1 00:00:02,240 --> 00:00:07,235 The language of love 2 00:00:07,360 --> 00:00:11,399 Has no dictionary 3 00:00:11,520 --> 00:00:13,716 MORE ABOUT THE LANGUAGE OF LOVE 4 00:00:13,840 --> 00:00:17,720 But it is understood 5 00:00:17,840 --> 00:00:22,710 By lovers everywhere 6 00:00:22,840 --> 00:00:27,471 It's in our companionship 7 00:00:27,600 --> 00:00:32,276 Or in the caress of your hand 8 00:00:32,400 --> 00:00:37,873 The language of love 9 00:00:38,000 --> 00:00:43,029 Can build bridges between races 10 00:00:43,160 --> 00:00:47,950 Whisper or shout it out 11 00:00:48,080 --> 00:00:52,551 Or cry, as we sometimes do 12 00:00:52,680 --> 00:00:58,119 The language of love 13 00:00:58,240 --> 00:01:03,269 Needs no grand words 14 00:01:08,280 --> 00:01:13,150 The language of love 15 00:01:13,280 --> 00:01:18,309 Can be the hand that reaches out 16 00:01:18,440 --> 00:01:23,150 Or the very first time 17 00:01:23,280 --> 00:01:28,275 Your baby laughs 18 00:01:28,400 --> 00:01:32,917 The sky filled with music 19 00:01:33,040 --> 00:01:37,477 The language of love in the song of a bird 20 00:01:37,600 --> 00:01:42,993 The language of love 21 00:01:43,120 --> 00:01:47,751 Is a cool hand on your forehead 22 00:02:00,960 --> 00:02:04,191 What is homosexuality, really? 23 00:02:04,320 --> 00:02:09,759 If you mean, "What is a homosexual act," the answer is easy. 24 00:02:09,880 --> 00:02:13,077 It is a sexual act between two persons of the same sex. 25 00:02:13,200 --> 00:02:14,474 BERTIL HANSSON MD 26 00:02:14,600 --> 00:02:19,595 It is harder to define homosexuality as such, 27 00:02:19,720 --> 00:02:22,678 for the lines are blurred. 28 00:02:22,800 --> 00:02:28,478 Everyone is capable of reacting heterosexually and homosexually. 29 00:02:29,560 --> 00:02:32,678 We know, for instance, 30 00:02:32,800 --> 00:02:37,112 that warm friendship can exist between young people during puberty, 31 00:02:37,240 --> 00:02:40,119 between two people of the same sex. 32 00:02:40,240 --> 00:02:44,473 This friendship can attain a sexual character and lead to sexual acts, 33 00:02:44,600 --> 00:02:49,549 without them continuing with homosexual behaviour. 34 00:02:49,680 --> 00:02:56,029 We know that individuals who are isolated, for instance in wartime, 35 00:02:56,160 --> 00:03:00,279 can have homosexual relationships, 36 00:03:00,400 --> 00:03:03,279 but when they return to their normal conditions, 37 00:03:03,400 --> 00:03:06,916 they also revert to their usual sexual behaviour. 38 00:03:07,040 --> 00:03:12,319 It's not a disease, it's not contagious, it requires no medical treatment. 39 00:03:13,640 --> 00:03:16,200 Over the years, there have been many theories about 40 00:03:16,320 --> 00:03:17,276 STEN HEGELER psychologist 41 00:03:17,400 --> 00:03:21,075 the reasons why people become homosexuals. 42 00:03:22,560 --> 00:03:27,430 Some have guessed that it's hereditary, hormonal, 43 00:03:27,560 --> 00:03:32,680 or due to differences in bodily constitution. All these theories are incorrect. 44 00:03:32,800 --> 00:03:38,079 There are no biological or physical reasons for homosexuality. 45 00:03:38,200 --> 00:03:43,400 Some have guessed that men who have had their fill of women and grow tired of them 46 00:03:43,520 --> 00:03:44,794 become homosexuals. 47 00:03:44,920 --> 00:03:48,117 Some say that people become homosexual due to seduction. Nonsense. 48 00:03:48,360 --> 00:03:49,350 INGE HEGELER psychologist 49 00:03:49,480 --> 00:03:52,677 What does today's science say about the reasons for homosexuality? 50 00:03:53,160 --> 00:03:57,233 We are all born with certain needs and instincts. 51 00:03:57,360 --> 00:04:01,672 Among them is sexual instinct. We are born as sexual beings. 52 00:04:03,440 --> 00:04:09,277 Our actions and our behaviour are the result of learning. 53 00:04:09,400 --> 00:04:12,950 This is true for all human actions, including our sexual acts. 54 00:04:13,080 --> 00:04:18,553 It is true for both heterosexual and homosexual behaviour. 55 00:04:18,680 --> 00:04:24,710 We know that this learning process begins at a very early age. 56 00:04:24,840 --> 00:04:27,195 Exactly which factors 57 00:04:27,320 --> 00:04:32,872 produce a barrier against heterosexual behaviour in some people, 58 00:04:33,000 --> 00:04:34,479 we do not know. 59 00:04:35,840 --> 00:04:39,799 Ove, for almost 20 years, you have been 60 00:04:39,920 --> 00:04:44,198 head of the National League for Sex Equality in Sweden, and still are. 61 00:04:44,320 --> 00:04:46,072 How is life as a homosexual? 62 00:04:46,200 --> 00:04:47,190 OVE AHLSTROM editor 63 00:04:47,320 --> 00:04:49,152 Well, how is life as a heterosexual? 64 00:04:49,280 --> 00:04:52,272 There really is not such a big difference. 65 00:04:52,400 --> 00:04:59,113 The difficult part is often the time before you're aware of your disposition 66 00:04:59,240 --> 00:05:03,313 and you learn to accept it. 67 00:05:03,440 --> 00:05:08,196 This can be very difficult for people living in the provinces, 68 00:05:08,320 --> 00:05:11,119 who lack chances to meet people. 69 00:05:11,240 --> 00:05:13,675 This process could be very long, couldn't it? 70 00:05:13,800 --> 00:05:18,715 It could last for many grievous years, 71 00:05:18,840 --> 00:05:20,274 before you become fully aware. 72 00:05:20,400 --> 00:05:23,040 -Before you... -Before you admit it to yourself. 73 00:05:23,160 --> 00:05:27,518 And perhaps many failed attempts at a heterosexual life. 74 00:05:27,640 --> 00:05:30,917 What about the family, isn't it quite hard for a family 75 00:05:31,040 --> 00:05:34,829 to accept that a family member is homosexual? What about your family? 76 00:05:34,960 --> 00:05:36,519 It's quite hard. 77 00:05:37,680 --> 00:05:41,150 They accepted it. They had to. 78 00:05:41,280 --> 00:05:45,114 There was no alternative. I was a homosexual. 79 00:05:45,240 --> 00:05:49,074 But when I tried to introduce my friend 80 00:05:49,200 --> 00:05:52,511 as a member of the family, they would not hear of it. 81 00:05:52,640 --> 00:05:56,076 I guess contacts with people in general can be difficult? 82 00:05:56,200 --> 00:05:58,111 Very difficult. 83 00:05:58,240 --> 00:05:59,560 And for people in the provinces... 84 00:05:59,680 --> 00:06:03,230 Yes, they often move to the bigger cities. 85 00:06:04,840 --> 00:06:09,232 Of course, there are special meeting-places for homosexuals. 86 00:06:09,360 --> 00:06:12,398 In Stockholm, it's around Humlegarden 87 00:06:12,520 --> 00:06:15,239 and around Stureplan. 88 00:06:15,360 --> 00:06:21,276 But the meeting-places can just as often be ordinary city settings, 89 00:06:21,400 --> 00:06:25,997 bars, restaurants, cafés and clubs. 90 00:06:26,120 --> 00:06:29,511 A homosexual rendezvous can take place in this manner. 91 00:06:35,960 --> 00:06:37,155 Lovely 92 00:06:58,880 --> 00:07:00,871 These two, who met in the bar, 93 00:07:01,000 --> 00:07:03,799 are now at a disco. 94 00:08:27,720 --> 00:08:31,315 This disco, where Sven-Bertil and Nalle went, 95 00:08:31,440 --> 00:08:33,317 is an ordinary disco. 96 00:08:33,440 --> 00:08:37,320 But there are also discos exclusively for homosexuals. 97 00:09:42,880 --> 00:09:45,440 We have now moved on. 98 00:09:45,560 --> 00:09:48,837 The homosexual relationship is now well-established, 99 00:09:48,960 --> 00:09:53,397 and the boys are living together in a cosy flat in south Stockholm, 100 00:09:53,520 --> 00:09:58,720 which is no different from any other young couple's home. 101 00:10:25,200 --> 00:10:28,591 It's the same with the homosexual intercourse. 102 00:10:28,720 --> 00:10:32,679 It's not all about sex, as many people think. 103 00:10:32,800 --> 00:10:37,954 The same feelings occur here as in a heterosexual relationship. 104 00:10:38,080 --> 00:10:42,233 Love, tenderness, friendship and hate. 105 00:11:53,560 --> 00:11:59,636 This is just one example of how two people of the same sex can interact. 106 00:12:05,520 --> 00:12:08,558 These are two people who go to bed together 107 00:12:08,680 --> 00:12:11,149 and get up together in the morning. 108 00:13:25,040 --> 00:13:27,395 Let me give you soap... 109 00:13:27,520 --> 00:13:29,352 What? 110 00:13:29,480 --> 00:13:33,075 That's better. 111 00:13:33,200 --> 00:13:34,679 All right. 112 00:13:47,440 --> 00:13:50,159 What about Swedish legislation on these issues? 113 00:13:50,280 --> 00:13:54,638 There is no law against being homosexual. 114 00:13:54,760 --> 00:13:57,434 Homosexual acts are not prohibited by law. 115 00:13:57,560 --> 00:14:02,031 The existing legislation was created with young people in mind. 116 00:14:02,160 --> 00:14:07,678 And the erroneous seduction theory plays a part in this legislation. 117 00:14:07,800 --> 00:14:11,475 There is a minor age limit, 118 00:14:11,600 --> 00:14:15,833 which is, quite incomprehensibly, 119 00:14:15,960 --> 00:14:21,876 different for sexual acts between people of the opposite sex 120 00:14:22,000 --> 00:14:24,560 and people of the same sex. 121 00:14:24,680 --> 00:14:31,120 Sexual intercourse between heterosexuals is permitted from 15 years of age. 122 00:14:32,680 --> 00:14:38,949 Sexual intercourse between homosexuals is permitted from 18 years of age, 123 00:14:39,080 --> 00:14:41,959 in some cases even 21 years of age. 124 00:14:42,520 --> 00:14:45,194 But this is about to change in Sweden, isn't it? 125 00:14:45,320 --> 00:14:50,235 Yes, I know that you 126 00:14:50,360 --> 00:14:54,149 are working for a change to come about. 127 00:14:55,520 --> 00:14:57,670 I do hope that you will be successful. 128 00:14:58,560 --> 00:15:02,155 What part does Christianity play in this? 129 00:15:02,280 --> 00:15:05,113 The legislation is also based 130 00:15:05,240 --> 00:15:11,634 on the traditional Christian intolerance towards sexual pleasure as such. 131 00:15:12,320 --> 00:15:16,279 There are non-Christian societies 132 00:15:16,400 --> 00:15:22,271 where there is a much more tolerant view on sex than in our Christian society, 133 00:15:22,400 --> 00:15:25,199 and where the view on homosexuality is also 134 00:15:25,320 --> 00:15:27,516 much more tolerant, and this is not a problem. 135 00:15:27,640 --> 00:15:29,677 It's a lot more accepted there. 136 00:15:29,800 --> 00:15:34,476 But how is it that we, in spite of our tolerance, 137 00:15:34,600 --> 00:15:38,798 react with hostility towards those who are different? 138 00:15:40,360 --> 00:15:43,637 All creatures are inherently aggressive, 139 00:15:43,760 --> 00:15:49,392 and this aggression is often directed at those who are different. 140 00:15:49,520 --> 00:15:51,670 They are picked on by everyone. 141 00:15:51,800 --> 00:15:55,509 Man has much inherent aggression, 142 00:15:55,640 --> 00:16:00,874 hence, our negative attitude becomes more marked. 143 00:16:02,240 --> 00:16:07,952 But man has also a highly developed brain... 144 00:16:08,080 --> 00:16:10,913 -We hope. -We hope. 145 00:16:11,040 --> 00:16:17,275 And we must strive to use our brain 146 00:16:17,400 --> 00:16:19,198 and our intelligence 147 00:16:19,320 --> 00:16:22,073 in order to learn to handle our aggression. 148 00:16:24,240 --> 00:16:28,199 We all know how it feels to be lonely. 149 00:16:28,320 --> 00:16:32,632 Some of us are never able to make contact with other people, 150 00:16:32,760 --> 00:16:35,229 regardless of being so-called normal. 151 00:16:35,360 --> 00:16:40,355 We must understand that this feeling of loneliness is aggravated in a homosexual. 152 00:16:40,480 --> 00:16:45,190 It's also much harder for homosexuals to make contact. 153 00:16:45,320 --> 00:16:47,516 There is much agony, 154 00:16:47,640 --> 00:16:53,750 and they often have to depend on casual affairs all their lives. 155 00:16:53,880 --> 00:16:58,477 Many are irritated because homosexuals have their own meeting-places, 156 00:16:58,600 --> 00:17:02,559 but just consider how it would be to live in a small town 157 00:17:02,680 --> 00:17:05,274 with the same number of men and women, 158 00:17:05,400 --> 00:17:08,916 and being the only one who loves his own sex. 159 00:17:09,040 --> 00:17:13,273 Of course, they go to the big towns to meet like-minded people. 160 00:17:13,400 --> 00:17:16,995 This is a club exclusively for homosexuals. 161 00:17:17,120 --> 00:17:21,751 When you think about it, it's strange that other oppressed women 162 00:17:21,880 --> 00:17:25,555 don't go to places where homosexual women meet. 163 00:17:25,680 --> 00:17:27,751 -Long time no see. -What a nice surprise. 164 00:17:27,880 --> 00:17:31,510 For me, too. I often come here, 165 00:17:31,640 --> 00:17:35,679 -but this is the first time I see you here. -I heard that you often come here. 166 00:17:35,800 --> 00:17:39,759 I see you have company. Hi, I believe we've met before. 167 00:17:40,960 --> 00:17:42,792 Hi, I'm Berit. 168 00:17:42,920 --> 00:17:44,831 Hi. You're here, as usual. 169 00:17:44,960 --> 00:17:47,600 How nice, you left so quickly last time. 170 00:17:47,720 --> 00:17:51,509 Yes, I had to, unfortunately. 171 00:17:51,640 --> 00:17:55,031 -You're even cuter than usual. -That's sweet of you. 172 00:17:55,160 --> 00:17:57,549 I don't know about cuter than usual... 173 00:17:57,680 --> 00:18:00,194 You're always cute, though. 174 00:18:00,320 --> 00:18:03,153 You're very kind. It's been a long time. 175 00:18:03,280 --> 00:18:06,432 -We had a good time. -What have you been doing? 176 00:18:06,560 --> 00:18:09,712 -I was in Paris for a week. -I missed you. 177 00:18:09,840 --> 00:18:12,958 -I'm glad to hear it. I missed you, too. -How was Paris? 178 00:18:13,080 --> 00:18:17,039 Lovely. It was spring. Nice. 179 00:18:17,160 --> 00:18:20,198 Did you go to any nice clubs there? 180 00:18:20,320 --> 00:18:22,231 You always do when in Paris. 181 00:18:22,360 --> 00:18:25,193 I went to Elouis and to Carousel 182 00:18:25,320 --> 00:18:27,516 and saw a lot of good striptease. 183 00:18:27,640 --> 00:18:30,200 I can imagine. 184 00:18:30,320 --> 00:18:33,756 I missed you. I didn't think that I would see you again. 185 00:18:33,880 --> 00:18:35,439 You're so sweet. 186 00:18:59,680 --> 00:19:01,273 -Do you want to leave? -Yes. 187 00:19:46,160 --> 00:19:49,312 For me, being a homosexual woman 188 00:19:49,440 --> 00:19:53,911 has not caused any problems with people around me. 189 00:19:54,040 --> 00:19:58,477 But I do know many women who have had difficulties, 190 00:19:58,600 --> 00:20:00,910 especially at work. 191 00:20:01,040 --> 00:20:06,069 Among them is a friend whose career suffered, 192 00:20:06,200 --> 00:20:10,273 and it wasn't because they knew she was homosexual, 193 00:20:10,400 --> 00:20:11,993 but simply because of rumours. 194 00:20:14,000 --> 00:20:16,879 I know that you are bisexual, 195 00:20:17,000 --> 00:20:19,196 and I would like to ask you, 196 00:20:19,320 --> 00:20:25,396 is there any difference in the sexual act, 197 00:20:25,520 --> 00:20:28,956 -the sexual experience? -Of course. 198 00:20:30,760 --> 00:20:35,755 At present, I prefer the homosexual act, 199 00:20:35,880 --> 00:20:41,990 because two women are better at getting a feel of each other, 200 00:20:42,120 --> 00:20:46,079 and intuitively knowing what the other person wants. 201 00:20:46,200 --> 00:20:51,195 They find it easier to be relaxed and open, and play with their sexuality. 202 00:23:50,920 --> 00:23:54,595 There is much talk of this seduction theory, 203 00:23:54,720 --> 00:23:57,189 which is, of course, nonsense. 204 00:23:57,320 --> 00:24:02,633 But if there was anything to it, I would imagine it's more relevant 205 00:24:02,760 --> 00:24:05,912 -in the case of two women. -Exactly. 206 00:24:06,040 --> 00:24:11,592 You can imagine a woman living in an unsatisfactory heterosexual relationship. 207 00:24:11,720 --> 00:24:16,669 If she meets a woman that she's attracted to and who can satisfy her, 208 00:24:16,800 --> 00:24:21,431 then, of course, she will switch from the heterosexual relationship, 209 00:24:21,560 --> 00:24:23,836 which was unsatisfactory, to this. 210 00:24:23,960 --> 00:24:27,715 Maybe we who are wholly heterosexual 211 00:24:27,840 --> 00:24:32,630 are shutting out something good, and should fight for widespread bisexuality. 212 00:24:32,760 --> 00:24:34,876 Yes, I think so, 213 00:24:35,000 --> 00:24:40,359 and there's another thing. These difficult tensions due to sex roles 214 00:24:40,480 --> 00:24:43,472 disappear in a homosexual relationship. 215 00:24:43,600 --> 00:24:49,312 There aren't the same problems and frictions and conflicts. 216 00:25:07,600 --> 00:25:10,991 With this movie, we hope to alleviate anxiety. 217 00:25:11,120 --> 00:25:12,872 There are problems. 218 00:25:13,000 --> 00:25:17,836 In the case of venereal diseases, 219 00:25:17,960 --> 00:25:22,591 it's difficult to disseminate information 220 00:25:22,720 --> 00:25:25,838 without causing fear. 221 00:25:26,760 --> 00:25:28,034 JOHAN WALLIN MD 222 00:25:28,160 --> 00:25:32,916 By venereal diseases, we usually mean gonorrhoea and syphilis. 223 00:25:34,160 --> 00:25:37,869 So they are called venereal diseases, 224 00:25:38,000 --> 00:25:40,753 and in different places around the country, 225 00:25:40,880 --> 00:25:46,193 there are STD Clinics, or Sexually Transmitted Disease Clinics. 226 00:25:46,320 --> 00:25:48,789 Sometimes they're called VD clinics. 227 00:25:48,920 --> 00:25:52,470 This may seem confusing, but it's important to emphasise 228 00:25:52,600 --> 00:25:55,911 that both clinics deal with the same diseases. 229 00:25:56,040 --> 00:25:57,917 -They're the same thing. -Yes. 230 00:25:59,400 --> 00:26:04,076 Gonorrhoea is the most common disease. Syphilis is less common. 231 00:26:04,200 --> 00:26:06,350 Let's talk about syphilis first. 232 00:26:06,480 --> 00:26:12,112 This is uncommon in Sweden, but very frequent in some other countries, 233 00:26:12,240 --> 00:26:18,191 so the risk of contracting this disease is greater when you go abroad. 234 00:26:18,320 --> 00:26:23,474 For the individual who is infected, it can be very serious, 235 00:26:23,600 --> 00:26:29,118 for if it's not treated, severe disease symptoms can occur 236 00:26:29,240 --> 00:26:32,198 20, 30 years later. 237 00:26:32,320 --> 00:26:34,516 Is it curable if you see a doctor? 238 00:26:34,640 --> 00:26:37,632 Nowadays it's very easy to cure using penicillin, 239 00:26:37,760 --> 00:26:42,311 and people who are treated are in no risk of complications later in life. 240 00:26:42,440 --> 00:26:47,310 Gonorrhoea is on the rise right now in Sweden. Why is that? 241 00:26:47,440 --> 00:26:51,035 The rise in gonorrhoea has been dramatic 242 00:26:51,160 --> 00:26:54,198 during the past 10 years. 243 00:26:54,320 --> 00:26:57,790 We don't quite know the reason for this. 244 00:26:58,480 --> 00:27:03,350 Doctors' capability to diagnose gonorrhoea 245 00:27:03,480 --> 00:27:09,078 and their capability to treat it is as good as can be. 246 00:27:09,200 --> 00:27:11,714 But... 247 00:27:11,840 --> 00:27:15,993 The reason for the rise is probably that before, 248 00:27:16,120 --> 00:27:19,397 the symptoms of gonorrhoea were quite severe. 249 00:27:19,520 --> 00:27:24,356 There were purulent secretions, and pain was experienced when urinating. 250 00:27:24,480 --> 00:27:29,156 But in later years, we who treat these diseases have found 251 00:27:29,280 --> 00:27:31,999 that the symptoms are less marked now, 252 00:27:32,120 --> 00:27:35,397 the secretions are less severe, 253 00:27:35,520 --> 00:27:40,117 and that in many cases, the patients have not been aware of any symptoms. 254 00:27:40,240 --> 00:27:45,553 You said before that it's difficult to avoid causing fear, 255 00:27:45,680 --> 00:27:52,598 but it's quite frightening that you can suffer from gonorrhoea without symptoms. 256 00:27:53,760 --> 00:27:55,671 Of course it sounds frightening 257 00:27:55,800 --> 00:28:01,591 that it's becoming common that people have gonorrhoea without knowing about it. 258 00:28:02,920 --> 00:28:09,678 Let's say right from the start that those who have not had sexual intercourse 259 00:28:09,800 --> 00:28:16,558 or have only one sexual partner are in no danger of catching gonorrhoea, 260 00:28:16,680 --> 00:28:20,878 provided none of the partners were infected by someone else. 261 00:28:21,000 --> 00:28:25,312 But those who have a lot of casual sexual affairs 262 00:28:25,440 --> 00:28:29,320 run a greater risk of catching gonorrhoea, 263 00:28:29,440 --> 00:28:31,795 and also a gonorrhoea 264 00:28:31,920 --> 00:28:36,471 that yields very little symptoms that would warrant seeing a doctor. 265 00:28:36,600 --> 00:28:42,790 Hence, we must encourage people who are in the danger zone 266 00:28:42,920 --> 00:28:45,150 to see a doctor, just in case. 267 00:28:45,280 --> 00:28:48,159 Is there a way to protect yourself? 268 00:28:48,280 --> 00:28:51,398 If you've caught gonorrhoea, 269 00:28:51,520 --> 00:28:57,357 washing or using salves will not get rid of the infection. 270 00:28:58,120 --> 00:29:01,158 But what about using condoms? 271 00:29:01,280 --> 00:29:03,954 There is no foolproof protection. 272 00:29:04,080 --> 00:29:09,314 But using a condom gives you a good protection, 273 00:29:09,440 --> 00:29:13,673 provided that you use it during the entire sexual act. 274 00:29:13,800 --> 00:29:18,920 And by that, I mean also touching each other's genitals, 275 00:29:19,040 --> 00:29:22,317 not only during the consummation of the intercourse. 276 00:29:22,440 --> 00:29:24,795 This is important to stress. 277 00:29:24,920 --> 00:29:26,911 It would be interesting to see 278 00:29:27,040 --> 00:29:29,429 what happens when you see a doctor for an examination. 279 00:29:30,120 --> 00:29:34,079 I need to see if there's any secretion, and how much. 280 00:29:35,040 --> 00:29:38,920 That's quite a lot, as you see. 281 00:29:44,520 --> 00:29:49,230 When being examined for gonorrhoea, samples are taken from the urethra 282 00:29:49,360 --> 00:29:51,112 for bacteriological examination. 283 00:29:51,240 --> 00:29:55,279 We will take a small sample. There you go. 284 00:29:55,400 --> 00:29:57,550 When examining a woman, 285 00:29:57,680 --> 00:30:02,550 samples are taken from the urethra for microscopic tests. 286 00:30:12,720 --> 00:30:15,109 With women, samples are also taken 287 00:30:15,240 --> 00:30:18,232 from the uterus and anal orifice. 288 00:30:36,440 --> 00:30:38,477 That will be all. 289 00:30:45,480 --> 00:30:49,678 This lab report shows that the patient has gonorrhoea. 290 00:30:52,880 --> 00:30:55,554 Please have a seat, 291 00:30:55,680 --> 00:30:59,514 and I will check this for gonorrhoea. 292 00:30:59,640 --> 00:31:03,713 The doctor can determine with microscopic studies 293 00:31:03,840 --> 00:31:06,719 whether the patient has gonorrhoea. 294 00:31:06,840 --> 00:31:10,196 By dyeing the sample, 295 00:31:10,320 --> 00:31:13,551 you can make the gonococcus 296 00:31:13,680 --> 00:31:17,913 appear as minute particles, not unlike coffee beans. 297 00:31:35,080 --> 00:31:38,914 This is what the doctor sees in his microscope. 298 00:31:39,040 --> 00:31:41,873 The minute black dots are gonococcus. 299 00:31:47,840 --> 00:31:51,720 This sample shows an example of gonorrhoea, 300 00:31:51,840 --> 00:31:56,198 which we will treat today, with the nurse's assistance. 301 00:31:57,240 --> 00:32:00,392 Penicillin is used 302 00:32:00,520 --> 00:32:04,593 for the treatment of gonorrhoea. 303 00:32:04,720 --> 00:32:09,556 This treatment is usually administered with the use of a syringe in the buttocks. 304 00:32:10,880 --> 00:32:16,319 Patients who are allergic to penicillin 305 00:32:16,440 --> 00:32:19,751 are treated with antibiotics of other kinds. 306 00:32:48,280 --> 00:32:49,953 LARS LJUNGBERG Counsellor 307 00:32:50,080 --> 00:32:53,994 You have been treated for gonorrhoea. Is this the first time you've had this disease? 308 00:32:54,120 --> 00:32:56,270 -Yes. -All right. 309 00:32:56,400 --> 00:33:02,555 This disease is regulated by a law called the Law of Infectious Disease Control. 310 00:33:02,680 --> 00:33:09,279 Which means that you will have to undergo two check-ups. 311 00:33:09,400 --> 00:33:12,836 It will take about two weeks before you are free of the disease. 312 00:33:12,960 --> 00:33:18,433 The aim of these check-ups is to follow up on the efficiency of the treatment 313 00:33:18,560 --> 00:33:21,518 and ensure that you have totally recovered. 314 00:33:21,640 --> 00:33:22,914 All right. 315 00:33:24,440 --> 00:33:29,674 During the check-up time, you must abstain from having sex. 316 00:33:29,800 --> 00:33:34,670 Do you know when you might have been infected? 317 00:33:34,800 --> 00:33:41,194 About a month ago, I think. 318 00:33:41,320 --> 00:33:42,594 All right. 319 00:33:49,000 --> 00:33:51,230 Were you infected here in Uppsala, do you think? 320 00:33:51,360 --> 00:33:54,876 -Was it here? -Yes. 321 00:33:55,000 --> 00:33:59,039 This is a bacteriological disease 322 00:33:59,160 --> 00:34:02,551 which infects through sexual intercourse. 323 00:34:02,680 --> 00:34:06,514 To be able to check 324 00:34:06,640 --> 00:34:07,960 the spread of this disease, 325 00:34:08,080 --> 00:34:12,074 I must ask you about your recent sexual partners, 326 00:34:12,200 --> 00:34:14,476 and they will be 327 00:34:14,600 --> 00:34:17,558 called here for examination. 328 00:34:17,680 --> 00:34:18,750 Okay. 329 00:34:21,440 --> 00:34:24,751 You believe that you were infected about a month ago. 330 00:34:26,360 --> 00:34:29,000 That particular sexual partner, 331 00:34:29,120 --> 00:34:32,397 do you have his name and address? 332 00:34:32,520 --> 00:34:34,636 His name is Torgny Svensson. 333 00:34:39,400 --> 00:34:41,596 Do you have his address? 334 00:34:41,720 --> 00:34:44,314 Vastra Agatan, but I don't know the number. 335 00:34:46,560 --> 00:34:48,517 Does he room there? 336 00:34:48,640 --> 00:34:51,109 -No, he has his own apartment. -Okay. 337 00:34:53,120 --> 00:34:56,636 And you two were together about a month ago? 338 00:34:56,760 --> 00:34:59,479 Have you had any other sexual contacts 339 00:34:59,600 --> 00:35:01,477 -since then? -No. 340 00:35:01,600 --> 00:35:04,194 Before you were with Torgny, was it a long time 341 00:35:04,320 --> 00:35:07,153 -since you'd had sexual contact? -Yes. 342 00:35:07,280 --> 00:35:10,398 -For how long? -A couple of months. 343 00:35:12,280 --> 00:35:14,954 Do you know if Torgny has received treatment? 344 00:35:15,080 --> 00:35:17,390 -I've no idea. -Right. 345 00:35:19,040 --> 00:35:21,998 When you are infected by syphilis, 346 00:35:22,120 --> 00:35:28,674 there may appear a sore on your body about three weeks after the time 347 00:35:28,800 --> 00:35:31,872 of infection, at the point of infection. 348 00:35:32,000 --> 00:35:36,915 This sore usually appears on or close to the genitals. 349 00:35:39,480 --> 00:35:42,791 Here, on the penis, inside the foreskin. 350 00:35:45,480 --> 00:35:47,710 Here, inside the labia. 351 00:35:50,240 --> 00:35:55,076 Samples are taken for microscopic tests. 352 00:35:55,200 --> 00:36:00,832 But a blood test can also show the occurrence 353 00:36:00,960 --> 00:36:03,554 of syphilitic infection. 354 00:36:24,760 --> 00:36:27,912 This lab test was negative. 355 00:36:28,040 --> 00:36:30,873 This patient is not infected with syphilis. 356 00:36:31,480 --> 00:36:37,999 The genitals are no different with regard to bodily hygiene. 357 00:36:38,120 --> 00:36:41,750 It's very important that you keep yourself clean 358 00:36:41,880 --> 00:36:46,158 and uphold normal personal care in that area also. 359 00:37:01,440 --> 00:37:07,277 Many have wondered about the footbaths they find in Southern Europe. 360 00:37:07,400 --> 00:37:10,233 They are not foothaths, but bidets, 361 00:37:10,360 --> 00:37:12,795 for washing your genitals and anus. 362 00:37:22,080 --> 00:37:28,031 Only the exterior parts need washing. The vagina is self-cleansing. 363 00:37:28,160 --> 00:37:32,040 But the exterior of the genitals needs to be thoroughly washed. 364 00:38:10,800 --> 00:38:16,239 For men, it is recommended to pull back the foreskin, all the way, if possible. 365 00:38:16,360 --> 00:38:18,397 Wash the glands thoroughly. 366 00:39:12,240 --> 00:39:13,594 -Hi. -Hello. 367 00:39:13,720 --> 00:39:15,711 How do you do? 368 00:39:15,840 --> 00:39:17,160 -Hi, Bengt. -Hi. 369 00:39:17,280 --> 00:39:19,476 Hello. 370 00:39:45,480 --> 00:39:50,156 We have not focused enough on 371 00:39:50,280 --> 00:39:56,834 the problems that disabled people experience in their sexual lives. 372 00:39:56,960 --> 00:39:58,792 -They, too. -Yes. 373 00:39:58,920 --> 00:40:02,231 Let us begin by defining 374 00:40:02,360 --> 00:40:05,159 what we mean by disabled. 375 00:40:05,280 --> 00:40:07,840 HELENA RODHE psychotherapist 376 00:40:07,960 --> 00:40:11,590 There are many different kinds of disability. 377 00:40:11,720 --> 00:40:17,033 For instance, malformations in the hips, 378 00:40:17,680 --> 00:40:20,832 legs, arms, the spinal chord. 379 00:40:20,960 --> 00:40:23,110 There are many diseases, polio, for instance. 380 00:40:23,240 --> 00:40:27,473 Wenche's arms are paralysed. 381 00:40:27,600 --> 00:40:30,956 Or as with Bengt, who is blind. 382 00:40:31,080 --> 00:40:32,229 Or mental handicaps. 383 00:40:32,360 --> 00:40:35,955 But there is one thing in common for all these disabilities. 384 00:40:36,080 --> 00:40:39,835 The difficulty to make contact with other people. 385 00:40:39,960 --> 00:40:42,998 What is done today, with blind children, for instance, 386 00:40:43,120 --> 00:40:45,589 to teach them the differences between the sexes? 387 00:40:45,720 --> 00:40:47,870 It's Veronica's turn to check this model. 388 00:40:48,000 --> 00:40:50,674 The rest of you can use your textbooks. 389 00:40:50,800 --> 00:40:53,599 Here's a class of blind pupils. 390 00:40:53,720 --> 00:40:56,030 The object of the lesson is 391 00:40:56,160 --> 00:40:59,915 to teach them about the genitals of the opposite sex. 392 00:41:00,040 --> 00:41:01,633 How do you accomplish that? 393 00:41:01,760 --> 00:41:08,279 At best, they have a plastic model at their disposal, 394 00:41:08,400 --> 00:41:10,869 a plastic model made for sighted people. 395 00:41:11,000 --> 00:41:16,029 ...intersected sideways, like this, 396 00:41:16,160 --> 00:41:21,678 and lower down, we find the male genitals 397 00:41:21,800 --> 00:41:26,749 that protrude from the body and that make him different from a woman. 398 00:41:26,880 --> 00:41:31,716 Right here is the penis. 399 00:41:31,840 --> 00:41:37,074 Let's split it in two. 400 00:41:37,200 --> 00:41:40,033 Now let's see what's inside. 401 00:41:40,160 --> 00:41:45,439 Behind the penis there is a pouch of skin 402 00:41:45,560 --> 00:41:49,599 which contains this lump called testicle. 403 00:41:49,720 --> 00:41:52,712 Do you know what its function is? 404 00:41:52,840 --> 00:41:54,638 To secrete sperm. 405 00:41:54,920 --> 00:41:56,479 BENGT LINDKVIST MA 406 00:41:56,600 --> 00:41:59,433 It ought to be just as natural 407 00:41:59,560 --> 00:42:02,632 as learning by feeling in many other cases. 408 00:42:02,760 --> 00:42:06,196 We learn to read with our fingers. We can read a map 409 00:42:06,320 --> 00:42:08,231 that's drawn out in a raised pattern. 410 00:42:08,360 --> 00:42:12,752 And just as we use our other senses in a natural way, 411 00:42:12,880 --> 00:42:18,034 we ought to be able to show, by use of a model, 412 00:42:18,160 --> 00:42:20,037 a man's physiognomy. 413 00:42:20,160 --> 00:42:21,958 -That you can feel. -Yes. 414 00:42:22,080 --> 00:42:23,150 Is this being used? 415 00:42:23,280 --> 00:42:25,840 Hardly anywhere in the world, as far as I know. 416 00:42:25,960 --> 00:42:29,476 When I want to look at a girl, 417 00:42:29,600 --> 00:42:32,274 I'm as curious as the next guy. 418 00:42:32,400 --> 00:42:36,519 I have no means to do this. 419 00:42:36,640 --> 00:42:38,677 If I'm waiting for the bus 420 00:42:38,800 --> 00:42:41,918 and am interested in the girl in front of me, 421 00:42:42,040 --> 00:42:45,476 I can't just reach out and touch her with my hands. 422 00:42:45,600 --> 00:42:47,989 And it's much the same here. 423 00:42:48,120 --> 00:42:50,714 I have read a lot of what you have written, Inge and Sten, 424 00:42:50,840 --> 00:42:54,196 and I'm quite curious as to how you look, Inge. 425 00:42:54,320 --> 00:42:56,516 You are welcome to look at me. 426 00:43:04,400 --> 00:43:07,791 I wish that sex education was like this everywhere. 427 00:43:10,840 --> 00:43:15,118 We will now learn the differences between the male body and the female body. 428 00:43:15,240 --> 00:43:17,800 We took Bengt's advise to heart 429 00:43:17,920 --> 00:43:20,230 and arranged sex education for blind people, 430 00:43:20,360 --> 00:43:23,239 as we wish it was carried out everywhere. 431 00:43:23,360 --> 00:43:27,069 You can feel, Jennifer, 432 00:43:27,200 --> 00:43:31,319 that the male has beard growth in his face. 433 00:43:31,440 --> 00:43:34,558 Then bring your hands down to the shoulders, 434 00:43:34,680 --> 00:43:37,718 and feel how the male's shoulders are broader. 435 00:43:37,840 --> 00:43:41,231 The woman's shoulders are more rounded and narrow. 436 00:43:41,360 --> 00:43:43,431 Then bring your hands further down. 437 00:43:43,560 --> 00:43:47,633 Rolf, feel the breasts of the female. Feel how round they are. 438 00:43:47,760 --> 00:43:50,673 You also feel that the nipples 439 00:43:50,800 --> 00:43:54,953 are bigger and more protracted than the male's. 440 00:43:55,080 --> 00:43:57,435 Then pull your hands further down. 441 00:43:57,560 --> 00:44:01,235 The female's waist is narrower than the male's. 442 00:44:01,360 --> 00:44:04,239 That's part of the secondary sex attributes. 443 00:44:04,360 --> 00:44:09,116 Now feel the stomach. You, too, Rolf. 444 00:44:09,240 --> 00:44:14,633 Feel the difference in hair growth. 445 00:44:14,760 --> 00:44:17,149 Then feel further down, the genitals. 446 00:44:17,280 --> 00:44:22,514 Feel how much hair the male has. Feel the penis. 447 00:44:22,640 --> 00:44:24,119 And, you, feel the vagina. 448 00:44:24,240 --> 00:44:26,959 I never knew that female genitals were so small. 449 00:44:27,080 --> 00:44:29,674 I thought they were as big as the male's. 450 00:44:29,800 --> 00:44:33,236 Yes, further in, 451 00:44:33,360 --> 00:44:37,115 we find the labia. 452 00:44:37,240 --> 00:44:42,599 And at the top, we find the clitoris. You can feel it, can't you? 453 00:44:43,800 --> 00:44:48,033 You feel that the foreskin of the penis can be drawn back. 454 00:44:48,160 --> 00:44:50,436 Feel the difference. 455 00:44:50,560 --> 00:44:54,155 Behind the penis, we find a pouch of skin 456 00:44:54,280 --> 00:44:57,398 and the testicles. 457 00:44:57,520 --> 00:45:00,672 -You can feel them. -Yes. 458 00:45:01,400 --> 00:45:05,633 Then bring your hands down to the legs. 459 00:45:05,760 --> 00:45:12,678 You can feel the difference between male and female thighs. 460 00:45:13,720 --> 00:45:17,190 How is it at your institution, Helena? 461 00:45:17,320 --> 00:45:21,917 Do you assist young people in any way? Are they allowed to live together? 462 00:45:22,040 --> 00:45:25,874 No, boys and girls live on separate floors. 463 00:45:26,000 --> 00:45:28,276 Even if they are engaged, 464 00:45:28,400 --> 00:45:32,234 they are not allowed to share a room. But I think it should be allowed, don't you? 465 00:45:32,360 --> 00:45:33,759 Absolutely. 466 00:45:33,880 --> 00:45:37,111 This creates an atmosphere right from the start. 467 00:45:37,240 --> 00:45:40,915 We ought to be more like a family. 468 00:45:41,800 --> 00:45:43,871 What do disabled people think, Maj-Briht? 469 00:45:44,000 --> 00:45:46,276 You have interviewed many of them for this survey. 470 00:45:46,400 --> 00:45:48,038 MAJ-BRIHT BERGSTROM-WALAN sexologist 471 00:45:48,160 --> 00:45:50,629 It's encouraging to see that they have 472 00:45:50,760 --> 00:45:53,070 a great belief in their own future when it comes to sex. 473 00:45:53,200 --> 00:45:58,036 They have good hopes of being able to find partners. 474 00:45:58,160 --> 00:46:02,313 And this does not tally with reality. 475 00:46:02,440 --> 00:46:06,149 They do not learn to get to know each other 476 00:46:06,280 --> 00:46:09,557 by being in close proximity to one another. 477 00:46:09,680 --> 00:46:12,479 But still, they believe in their own prospects, 478 00:46:12,600 --> 00:46:14,352 and this is a very positive thing. 479 00:46:14,480 --> 00:46:17,359 Is it unfounded optimism? 480 00:46:17,480 --> 00:46:19,517 Yes, that's true, but I believe that 481 00:46:19,640 --> 00:46:22,029 young people will take charge of this themselves. 482 00:46:22,160 --> 00:46:23,559 Me, too. 483 00:46:23,680 --> 00:46:28,550 But the chances for Wenche and Bengt are not that bad, 484 00:46:28,680 --> 00:46:33,390 since they are such good-looking and nice people, 485 00:46:33,520 --> 00:46:37,559 but for many other disabled people, 486 00:46:37,680 --> 00:46:40,149 the situation is much tougher. 487 00:46:40,280 --> 00:46:42,590 What about spastics, 488 00:46:42,720 --> 00:46:49,319 who have these involuntary movements with their arms and legs, 489 00:46:49,440 --> 00:46:54,719 or facial disfigurations and trouble speaking? 490 00:46:54,840 --> 00:46:58,674 There are people who can't turn over in bed by themselves. 491 00:46:58,800 --> 00:47:05,354 What can you do to assist people with severe disabilities? 492 00:47:05,480 --> 00:47:07,630 It's a severe problem, 493 00:47:07,760 --> 00:47:11,958 and technical means of assistance are needed. 494 00:47:12,080 --> 00:47:13,912 But there hasn't been much progress. 495 00:47:14,040 --> 00:47:15,758 Well, then, 496 00:47:15,880 --> 00:47:21,398 are people without disabilities often tactless towards disabled people? 497 00:47:21,520 --> 00:47:25,150 No, I think we are quite hard. 498 00:47:25,280 --> 00:47:28,272 -Hardened, you mean? -Yes. 499 00:47:28,400 --> 00:47:33,759 Is there an institution anywhere in the world 500 00:47:33,880 --> 00:47:35,951 that addresses these issues? 501 00:47:36,680 --> 00:47:39,433 Yes, there is a community in Holland 502 00:47:39,560 --> 00:47:43,758 where many disabled people live together. 503 00:47:43,880 --> 00:47:49,592 They have also addressed this part of human needs, 504 00:47:49,720 --> 00:47:51,393 the sexual need. 505 00:47:51,520 --> 00:47:55,150 They have personnel who assist 506 00:47:55,280 --> 00:47:58,398 two disabled people to have sex. 507 00:47:58,520 --> 00:48:00,796 You could call them Samaritans. 508 00:48:25,160 --> 00:48:28,073 This is a great help. 509 00:48:28,200 --> 00:48:31,272 But what about you, Bengt? 510 00:48:31,400 --> 00:48:35,633 The first eye contact is very important, 511 00:48:35,760 --> 00:48:37,751 but how do you manage when you are blind 512 00:48:37,880 --> 00:48:41,510 and want to make contact with the opposite sex? 513 00:48:41,640 --> 00:48:43,950 Are you completely blind? 514 00:48:44,080 --> 00:48:47,152 No, relatively few of us are completely blind. 515 00:48:47,280 --> 00:48:48,315 There aren't that many? 516 00:48:48,440 --> 00:48:52,832 No. I can see shadows and shapes. 517 00:48:52,960 --> 00:48:55,634 But you are right, this is a problem for us, 518 00:48:55,760 --> 00:48:58,878 a kind of barricade to cross to make contact. 519 00:48:59,480 --> 00:49:05,032 Eye contact is very important when making contact, 520 00:49:05,160 --> 00:49:07,913 and we can't compete here. 521 00:49:08,040 --> 00:49:13,353 It doesn't show very much that my eyesight is very poor. 522 00:49:13,480 --> 00:49:16,871 I have been able to appear as a sighted person 523 00:49:17,000 --> 00:49:20,391 when making contact, 524 00:49:20,520 --> 00:49:24,912 and also as visually-impaired. 525 00:49:25,040 --> 00:49:29,238 I find that a girl's behaviour differs greatly. 526 00:49:29,360 --> 00:49:34,992 There's a shyness and insecurity, as well as preconceptions about how to behave 527 00:49:35,120 --> 00:49:39,751 towards disabled people that makes it hard to make contact. 528 00:49:39,880 --> 00:49:46,195 You are married to a sighted person? 529 00:49:46,320 --> 00:49:48,834 Yes, she is a sighted person. 530 00:49:48,960 --> 00:49:52,510 And you are engaged to a disabled person? 531 00:49:52,640 --> 00:49:55,075 Yes, a disabled person. 532 00:49:55,200 --> 00:49:58,830 How does your disability affect you when you feel your partner? 533 00:49:58,960 --> 00:50:03,079 Is it difficult since your hands are paralysed? 534 00:50:03,200 --> 00:50:05,316 No... 535 00:50:05,440 --> 00:50:08,751 His hands are my hands and my feet are his feet. 536 00:50:08,880 --> 00:50:10,518 We make each other complete. 537 00:50:10,640 --> 00:50:13,280 -His legs are paralysed? -Yes. 538 00:50:18,960 --> 00:50:21,236 That's fine, thanks. 539 00:50:23,560 --> 00:50:26,074 And now the feet. 540 00:50:30,160 --> 00:50:31,434 Good. 541 00:50:46,400 --> 00:50:48,630 That's good. 542 00:51:05,160 --> 00:51:07,151 Hold up your arms. 543 00:51:13,440 --> 00:51:15,113 Let's rub you down. 544 00:51:26,960 --> 00:51:28,633 And the upper body. 545 00:51:32,960 --> 00:51:35,156 And the feet. 546 00:52:12,320 --> 00:52:13,799 Come to me. 547 00:52:29,320 --> 00:52:31,197 I'm coming over to you. 548 00:53:19,920 --> 00:53:21,558 Welcome. 549 00:53:24,880 --> 00:53:26,791 Have a seat, please. 550 00:53:28,880 --> 00:53:30,632 Welcome. 551 00:53:30,760 --> 00:53:35,231 We are going to talk about transvestites. 552 00:53:35,360 --> 00:53:39,240 Let's begin by defining a transvestite. 553 00:53:40,240 --> 00:53:43,835 The usual definition of a transvestite 554 00:53:43,960 --> 00:53:46,076 BRUNO KAPLAN MD 555 00:53:46,200 --> 00:53:51,320 is a person who likes to dress like the opposite sex. 556 00:53:51,440 --> 00:53:56,560 This urge is not constant. 557 00:53:56,680 --> 00:54:02,119 The extent also differs from a single garment to full costume. 558 00:55:53,040 --> 00:55:57,238 This urge is mostly visible in men, right? 559 00:55:57,360 --> 00:56:00,318 As a woman, I am free to wear men's clothes. 560 00:56:00,440 --> 00:56:03,114 I might be a transvestite without knowing? 561 00:56:03,240 --> 00:56:08,713 We know very little about what makes a person a transvestite. 562 00:56:10,080 --> 00:56:14,631 There's a need 563 00:56:14,760 --> 00:56:18,469 in people to resist 564 00:56:18,600 --> 00:56:20,637 traditional sex roles. 565 00:56:21,040 --> 00:56:23,395 To be dressed in a certain way. 566 00:56:23,520 --> 00:56:28,230 The new fashion, unisex, is in line with this. 567 00:56:28,360 --> 00:56:32,194 It's a pity that parents are so troubled by 568 00:56:32,320 --> 00:56:37,713 a boy wearing the same kind of fur coat as a girl. 569 00:56:37,840 --> 00:56:40,309 For this is a very positive development. 570 00:56:40,440 --> 00:56:43,751 Clothes are very much a result 571 00:56:43,880 --> 00:56:47,555 of conventions and such. 572 00:56:47,680 --> 00:56:50,115 One interesting thing here is the fact 573 00:56:50,240 --> 00:56:52,595 that people react much more strongly 574 00:56:52,720 --> 00:56:57,317 to men wearing women's clothes than the other way around. 575 00:56:57,440 --> 00:57:01,479 This would mean 576 00:57:01,600 --> 00:57:04,592 that if unisex were firmly established, 577 00:57:04,720 --> 00:57:07,360 there would be no transvestites. 578 00:57:07,480 --> 00:57:10,154 That's true. 579 00:57:10,280 --> 00:57:13,432 When we discuss transvestites, 580 00:57:13,560 --> 00:57:17,315 we should distinguish between 581 00:57:17,440 --> 00:57:19,716 these and transsexual people. 582 00:57:19,840 --> 00:57:24,596 Transsexuals are people who wish to change sex. 583 00:57:24,720 --> 00:57:28,793 A man who wants to be rid of his male genitals. 584 00:57:28,920 --> 00:57:32,754 He wants female breasts and so on. 585 00:57:32,880 --> 00:57:38,432 But a transvestite does not change sex roles permanently. 586 00:57:38,560 --> 00:57:42,190 He only wants to appear at times 587 00:57:42,320 --> 00:57:46,029 in clothes of the opposite sex. 588 00:57:46,360 --> 00:57:50,115 Another popular misconception is 589 00:57:50,240 --> 00:57:55,553 that transvestites are homosexuals, which is not the case. 590 00:57:55,680 --> 00:57:58,399 No, you might even say 591 00:57:58,520 --> 00:58:02,070 that most male transvestites are married, with children. 592 00:58:04,080 --> 00:58:10,634 All kinds of sexual behaviour are found in ordinary people. 593 00:58:10,760 --> 00:58:12,114 So it's fair to ask 594 00:58:12,240 --> 00:58:15,790 why this should not be the case with transvestites. 595 00:58:15,920 --> 00:58:19,709 Yes, being a transvestite 596 00:58:19,840 --> 00:58:22,559 has nothing to do with your sex life, 597 00:58:22,680 --> 00:58:25,832 or how you have sex. 598 00:58:25,960 --> 00:58:27,837 It has something to do with sex as gender, 599 00:58:27,960 --> 00:58:32,750 to want to be dressed as the other sex. 600 00:58:32,880 --> 00:58:35,520 One interesting question is, 601 00:58:35,640 --> 00:58:38,359 "What is the motivating factor?" 602 00:58:38,480 --> 00:58:43,634 Many transvestites speak of a strong feeling of anguish. 603 00:58:43,760 --> 00:58:46,673 One male transvestite told me 604 00:58:46,800 --> 00:58:51,158 that during a six-week holiday, he was unable to dress as a woman, 605 00:58:51,280 --> 00:58:53,271 which was a great nuisance for him. 606 00:58:53,400 --> 00:58:57,792 But as soon as he got the chance to dress as a woman, 607 00:58:57,920 --> 00:59:00,116 he was relieved of this anguish. 608 00:59:00,240 --> 00:59:05,076 Yes. Transvestites often say that the day after 609 00:59:05,200 --> 00:59:07,430 they had the chance to dress as the opposite sex, 610 00:59:07,560 --> 00:59:10,678 they feel much better at work. 611 00:59:10,800 --> 00:59:13,633 They feel a surge of energy. 612 00:59:13,760 --> 00:59:16,878 This also goes for highly-educated people. 613 00:59:17,000 --> 00:59:19,469 There are highly-educated people who are transvestites? 614 00:59:19,600 --> 00:59:21,318 Yes, indeed. 615 00:59:21,440 --> 00:59:24,478 What about Swedish legislation on this issue? 616 00:59:24,600 --> 00:59:29,629 This is not prohibited by any law. 617 00:59:29,760 --> 00:59:34,197 A transvestite in Sweden can experience problems 618 00:59:34,320 --> 00:59:36,391 concerning his identity, 619 00:59:36,520 --> 00:59:41,151 so transvestites are supplied with a certificate 620 00:59:41,280 --> 00:59:44,113 which states that he has this persuasion. 621 00:59:44,240 --> 00:59:48,154 There have been times when 622 00:59:48,280 --> 00:59:52,911 male transvestites have been stopped in a traffic control, 623 00:59:53,040 --> 00:59:56,032 and many transvestites have testified 624 00:59:56,160 --> 00:59:59,516 that the police officers showed great understanding 625 00:59:59,640 --> 01:00:03,634 and consideration in these cases, which is gratifying. 626 01:00:03,760 --> 01:00:07,515 But I would not say that the general public 627 01:00:07,640 --> 01:00:10,029 is free from prejudice 628 01:00:10,160 --> 01:00:13,198 concerning this deviation, or whatever it is we should call it. 629 01:00:13,320 --> 01:00:16,438 There's a great need for information. 630 01:00:16,560 --> 01:00:20,918 There's a great lack of knowledge and understanding in this area. 631 01:00:21,040 --> 01:00:24,635 How many transvestites are there in Sweden? 632 01:00:24,760 --> 01:00:29,152 There are thousands of transvestites in varying degrees. 633 01:00:29,280 --> 01:00:32,159 There's even an organisation for transvestites in Sweden. 634 01:00:36,920 --> 01:00:36,960 THE GREATEST VARIETY OF GERMAN PORNOGRAPHIC BOOKS IN SCANDINAVIA 635 01:00:36,960 --> 01:00:43,229 THE GREATEST VARIETY OF GERMAN PORNOGRAPHIC BOOKS IN SCANDINAVIA 636 01:00:52,120 --> 01:00:55,795 We often hear today that we are being invaded 637 01:00:55,920 --> 01:00:57,672 by sex and pornography. 638 01:00:57,800 --> 01:01:02,112 But is it really true that we are living in an over-sexualised world? 639 01:01:02,240 --> 01:01:03,469 TOMMY HEDLUND BA 640 01:01:03,600 --> 01:01:06,513 Man has always taken an interest in erotic tales, 641 01:01:06,640 --> 01:01:08,950 and other times in history 642 01:01:09,080 --> 01:01:15,599 have been a lot more sexualised than our age and our society. 643 01:01:15,720 --> 01:01:20,317 Sexuality was not seen then as something shameful. 644 01:01:20,440 --> 01:01:22,829 Take, for instance, the temples in India 645 01:01:22,960 --> 01:01:27,158 and their adornments that show sexual positions and group sex. 646 01:01:27,720 --> 01:01:31,395 But why is this regarded as pornography and something dirty? 647 01:01:31,520 --> 01:01:35,309 Christianity, as opposed to some other religions, 648 01:01:35,440 --> 01:01:39,195 has regarded sexual pleasure as something impure. 649 01:01:39,320 --> 01:01:43,234 My impression is that Christianity 650 01:01:43,360 --> 01:01:47,558 considers us women to be impure. 651 01:01:48,360 --> 01:01:51,637 But that's not quite the issue here. 652 01:01:52,400 --> 01:01:56,758 What's interesting is the question, "Is pornography dangerous?" 653 01:01:56,880 --> 01:01:59,838 Of course it's not dangerous. It's healthy. 654 01:01:59,960 --> 01:02:04,875 Of course you, as a porn producer, would think so, 655 01:02:05,000 --> 01:02:06,638 and I do, too. 656 01:02:06,760 --> 01:02:09,878 I think porn is a lot better 657 01:02:10,000 --> 01:02:14,949 than seeing a doctor to get help to make yourself feel better. 658 01:02:15,080 --> 01:02:20,200 I think it's more fun, better and possibly less costly. 659 01:02:20,320 --> 01:02:25,315 But, Tommy, what do you think will happen 660 01:02:25,440 --> 01:02:28,558 if porn is legalised in Sweden? 661 01:02:28,680 --> 01:02:30,910 I think it would be a very positive thing. 662 01:02:31,040 --> 01:02:33,998 Really, only the porn producers 663 01:02:34,120 --> 01:02:36,316 are unhappy about that? 664 01:02:36,520 --> 01:02:37,510 CURTH H-SON NILSSON editor 665 01:02:37,640 --> 01:02:40,598 That's right. My Danish colleagues say that sales have gone down. 666 01:02:40,720 --> 01:02:41,994 But what do you think? 667 01:02:43,000 --> 01:02:45,674 In Denmark, there is better porn 668 01:02:45,800 --> 01:02:51,990 and it is less expensive, so consequently, there are a lot of tourists. 669 01:02:52,120 --> 01:02:54,111 And there are less sex crimes committed, right? 670 01:02:54,240 --> 01:02:59,474 Yes, that's right. The decrease is 20 to 30%. 671 01:02:59,600 --> 01:03:04,720 But is there nothing about porn 672 01:03:04,840 --> 01:03:09,118 that's dangerous and harmful? As a young girl, I remember 673 01:03:09,240 --> 01:03:10,753 feeling damaged 674 01:03:10,880 --> 01:03:14,271 after reading a porn magazine 675 01:03:14,400 --> 01:03:16,676 that someone left out. 676 01:03:16,800 --> 01:03:22,796 I felt unable to compete with these things. 677 01:03:22,920 --> 01:03:26,276 I was unable to do it as many times as they said. 678 01:03:28,320 --> 01:03:32,439 Of course, the insufficient sex education 679 01:03:32,560 --> 01:03:35,632 that is still ongoing results in many people not seeing 680 01:03:35,760 --> 01:03:38,559 that what they read is really fairy tales. 681 01:04:01,480 --> 01:04:04,233 Let's go through the magazine 682 01:04:04,360 --> 01:04:06,192 and see where we were successful... 683 01:04:06,320 --> 01:04:09,153 Sexual fairy tales. Well... 684 01:04:09,280 --> 01:04:14,275 Let's listen in at an editorial meeting 685 01:04:14,400 --> 01:04:17,279 at one of the big "fairy tale" publishers. 686 01:04:17,400 --> 01:04:21,394 Everything could be better. 687 01:04:21,520 --> 01:04:23,477 We have already talked about the cover, 688 01:04:23,600 --> 01:04:26,672 it's okay. 689 01:04:26,800 --> 01:04:29,599 Here's the photo. 690 01:04:29,720 --> 01:04:35,398 The point of interest is that the girl is black and the boy is white, 691 01:04:35,560 --> 01:04:39,997 which has a big psycho-sexual effect. 692 01:04:40,120 --> 01:04:43,158 Gunnel, what do you think about using a coloured girl? 693 01:04:43,560 --> 01:04:47,758 It's important to show coloured and white people together. 694 01:04:47,880 --> 01:04:52,317 Yes, it shows that we are not discriminating. 695 01:04:52,440 --> 01:04:55,319 She should have removed her shoes. 696 01:04:55,440 --> 01:05:00,435 Yes, you always see this kind of thing afterwards. 697 01:05:00,560 --> 01:05:03,757 But as I just said, it's better than seeing 698 01:05:03,880 --> 01:05:08,511 the sole of a dirty foot. 699 01:05:10,160 --> 01:05:14,438 Here's the funny one, with Inger. 700 01:05:14,560 --> 01:05:21,239 The text is a bit simple-minded, 701 01:05:21,360 --> 01:05:23,476 it's like she's writing an essay, 702 01:05:23,600 --> 01:05:26,831 relating her name and where she lives. 703 01:05:26,960 --> 01:05:29,110 Maybe we should stress the general things. 704 01:05:29,240 --> 01:05:32,631 There's a state of opposites here. 705 01:05:32,760 --> 01:05:37,675 Here, we see a beautiful girl out in the lovely nature. 706 01:05:37,800 --> 01:05:41,077 Turn the page, what do you find? 707 01:05:41,200 --> 01:05:43,589 The same girl, lovely, 708 01:05:43,720 --> 01:05:48,191 beautiful hair, clean, gorgeous, lying there. 709 01:05:48,320 --> 01:05:52,518 I think this picture of the girl and the soldier is nicely composed. 710 01:05:52,640 --> 01:05:58,238 And the passing car lends a sense of movement to the picture. 711 01:05:58,360 --> 01:06:01,193 Yes, this is really good. 712 01:06:01,320 --> 01:06:07,032 All this under the hood of the car, while she's leaning there. 713 01:06:08,320 --> 01:06:09,799 The centrefold. 714 01:06:13,880 --> 01:06:16,554 One of the first to be successful 715 01:06:16,680 --> 01:06:21,151 with regard to picture quality. 716 01:06:21,280 --> 01:06:25,638 Personally, I would like a bit more colour here and some clothes. 717 01:06:25,760 --> 01:06:29,754 There's too much skin. 718 01:06:29,880 --> 01:06:33,999 Well, we don't need to comment on this picture too much. 719 01:06:34,120 --> 01:06:37,033 We all know it's a great success. 720 01:06:37,160 --> 01:06:39,834 And we're also pleased with it. 721 01:06:39,960 --> 01:06:43,715 One of our better efforts. 722 01:06:43,840 --> 01:06:47,310 And here's Josephine, 18 years old. 723 01:06:47,440 --> 01:06:51,957 We know that this is also a success. 724 01:06:52,720 --> 01:06:56,554 From all the comments and letters we received. 725 01:06:56,680 --> 01:07:01,151 I think there's something special about this kind of girl, 726 01:07:01,280 --> 01:07:06,036 with her long, blonde hair, looking pure and fresh. 727 01:07:08,040 --> 01:07:10,554 Let's have a look behind the scenes, 728 01:07:10,680 --> 01:07:13,752 at this fairy-tale-type big industry 729 01:07:13,880 --> 01:07:16,474 that is the Scandinavian porn industry. 730 01:07:37,760 --> 01:07:40,434 That's good, yes. 731 01:07:42,200 --> 01:07:45,716 Let's go to the scene. 732 01:07:53,680 --> 01:07:57,674 You lie there, and you lie close to him. 733 01:07:57,800 --> 01:08:01,839 And you lie over there. 734 01:08:02,640 --> 01:08:05,837 Lie close together. 735 01:08:27,800 --> 01:08:30,235 Let's change positions. 736 01:08:35,280 --> 01:08:38,159 You're supposed to have fun. 737 01:08:38,480 --> 01:08:42,314 Move your leg down a bit. 738 01:08:42,440 --> 01:08:45,398 Great action there. 739 01:08:45,520 --> 01:08:46,999 Good, David. 740 01:08:49,520 --> 01:08:53,150 David, please remember that this is porn. Porn! 741 01:09:01,920 --> 01:09:05,675 That's good. We'll take a close shot. 742 01:09:07,400 --> 01:09:09,277 Use your tongues more. That's it. 743 01:09:11,720 --> 01:09:14,234 Spread your legs, Ellie. 744 01:09:14,400 --> 01:09:17,438 Arch your back and throw your head up. 745 01:09:21,880 --> 01:09:23,279 Arch your back! 746 01:09:25,560 --> 01:09:28,154 Don't be afraid to touch him! 747 01:10:02,400 --> 01:10:05,074 Push your breasts out. Look happy. 748 01:10:08,440 --> 01:10:12,832 Ellie, just be yourself. 749 01:10:12,960 --> 01:10:16,555 Try it on your side. 750 01:10:40,800 --> 01:10:43,952 That's it, hold on to him. And lift your leg! 751 01:10:44,280 --> 01:10:46,510 Hold him hard. 752 01:10:47,360 --> 01:10:49,829 This is great. 753 01:10:51,160 --> 01:10:53,436 Hold her further down, grip her breast. 754 01:10:55,440 --> 01:10:57,317 Great. 755 01:11:08,480 --> 01:11:11,757 Let's see what the porn shops have to offer. 756 01:11:11,880 --> 01:11:16,477 There's been a porn boom in Copenhagen after the legalisation of porn. 757 01:11:51,920 --> 01:11:56,198 We can also visit a sex club and see a live show. 758 01:16:28,120 --> 01:16:29,838 And now, ladies and gentlemen, 759 01:16:29,960 --> 01:16:32,839 we'll have a demonstration of intimate massage. 760 01:16:33,280 --> 01:16:37,717 Everyone that would like a massage is welcome. 761 01:16:48,040 --> 01:16:49,951 What about you, would you like a massage? 762 01:16:50,080 --> 01:16:51,718 Mine's so little. 763 01:16:51,840 --> 01:16:54,036 It won't hurt. I can hold your hand. 764 01:16:54,160 --> 01:16:55,958 That's fine. I'm okay. 765 01:16:57,880 --> 01:16:59,518 A brave gentleman. 766 01:19:12,960 --> 01:19:14,439 MIRIAM ISRAEL child psychologist 767 01:19:14,560 --> 01:19:18,110 A little girl came home from the playground 768 01:19:18,240 --> 01:19:20,550 and told her dad 769 01:19:20,680 --> 01:19:25,390 that she had seen a flasher in the park. 770 01:19:25,520 --> 01:19:30,196 Her father asked what had happened, 771 01:19:30,320 --> 01:19:32,516 and the girl said 772 01:19:32,640 --> 01:19:35,792 that the other kids ran over to look 773 01:19:35,920 --> 01:19:38,480 when the man unzipped his trousers. 774 01:19:38,600 --> 01:19:40,511 Her father asked, "But what did you do?" 775 01:19:40,640 --> 01:19:43,758 She said, "I didn't have to. I've seen you already." 776 01:19:43,880 --> 01:19:45,632 ANNA BERGGREN MD 777 01:19:45,760 --> 01:19:51,392 As a parent, you are often unsure as to how you would react in this situation, 778 01:19:51,520 --> 01:19:55,309 if your children came home and told you about something like this. 779 01:19:55,440 --> 01:19:58,159 This story makes you stop and think. 780 01:19:58,280 --> 01:20:01,272 What's important is 781 01:20:01,400 --> 01:20:05,519 keeping calm and knowing how to react, 782 01:20:05,640 --> 01:20:07,870 so as not to make a bad thing worse. 783 01:20:08,000 --> 01:20:10,753 As a parent, you often use too much energy 784 01:20:10,880 --> 01:20:13,315 being afraid and worried 785 01:20:13,440 --> 01:20:16,592 that something sexually harmful should happen to your children. 786 01:20:16,720 --> 01:20:23,513 Statistically, it's very rare that these incidents physically harm children. 787 01:20:23,640 --> 01:20:26,234 The odds are about the same 788 01:20:26,360 --> 01:20:31,116 as something dropping from the sky and hitting you on the head. 789 01:20:31,240 --> 01:20:33,914 You might as well worry about that. 790 01:20:34,760 --> 01:20:38,879 But the fact is that we're very afraid of these things, 791 01:20:39,000 --> 01:20:41,753 and we often react unwisely. 792 01:20:42,080 --> 01:20:44,640 I remember, as a five-year-old girl, 793 01:20:44,760 --> 01:20:50,631 playing doctor with another girl, examining each other. 794 01:20:50,760 --> 01:20:55,709 It was totally innocent, but my mother came home once and was very angry. 795 01:20:55,840 --> 01:20:59,515 And I was not allowed to play with my friend again. 796 01:21:01,040 --> 01:21:02,997 And I was afraid, too afraid. 797 01:21:03,120 --> 01:21:06,397 But sexual games are very normal. 798 01:21:06,680 --> 01:21:10,560 Yes, all children play some form of sexual games. 799 01:21:10,680 --> 01:21:12,353 It's in no way harmful. 800 01:21:12,480 --> 01:21:18,556 And neither is masturbation, which occurs at all ages. 801 01:21:19,200 --> 01:21:21,669 I would even say 802 01:21:21,800 --> 01:21:24,952 that this might be a positive thing, 803 01:21:25,080 --> 01:21:29,119 children who masturbate, big or small. 804 01:21:29,240 --> 01:21:35,998 Every kid sometimes feels lonely or sad. 805 01:21:36,120 --> 01:21:39,750 And I think it's great that nature has provided, within your own body, 806 01:21:39,880 --> 01:21:44,670 means to be comforted and to experience pleasure 807 01:21:44,800 --> 01:21:48,509 by playing with your genitals. 808 01:21:48,640 --> 01:21:52,554 It makes you feel happy and relaxed. 809 01:21:53,120 --> 01:21:56,556 Speaking of pleasure, 810 01:21:56,680 --> 01:21:59,194 this is often left out 811 01:21:59,320 --> 01:22:01,675 of sex education for kids. 812 01:22:02,120 --> 01:22:06,478 Yes, we provide sex education 813 01:22:06,600 --> 01:22:10,559 as if sex were just a matter of procreation. 814 01:22:10,680 --> 01:22:13,194 We have not taught them enough 815 01:22:13,320 --> 01:22:17,314 that sex is about pleasure, 816 01:22:17,440 --> 01:22:21,354 friendship, closeness and all that. 817 01:22:21,480 --> 01:22:23,357 Our children are never allowed to see. 818 01:22:23,480 --> 01:22:25,869 With animals, and in some other societies, 819 01:22:26,000 --> 01:22:29,118 the young ones get to see the act of procreation. 820 01:22:29,240 --> 01:22:33,359 But in our society, children don't get to see anything, 821 01:22:33,480 --> 01:22:38,475 so we should really at least tell them about it 822 01:22:38,600 --> 01:22:40,238 and show them pictures. 823 01:22:41,480 --> 01:22:45,758 But it's not only a matter of teaching them about this. 824 01:22:45,880 --> 01:22:51,000 Reality forces us into a situation 825 01:22:51,120 --> 01:22:54,795 where we can't enjoy intimate moments 826 01:22:55,640 --> 01:23:01,318 without our children being in the house, and they may come in at any moment, 827 01:23:01,440 --> 01:23:05,991 if, perhaps, there's only one bedroom. Then what do we do? 828 01:23:06,840 --> 01:23:09,116 They need to learn about what this is. 829 01:23:09,240 --> 01:23:12,995 Yes, they need to learn about this beforehand. 830 01:23:13,120 --> 01:23:17,956 I recall the story about a girl, about nine years old, 831 01:23:18,080 --> 01:23:23,473 who entered the room just as her mother had an orgasm. 832 01:23:23,600 --> 01:23:26,991 This frightened her very much, 833 01:23:27,920 --> 01:23:30,309 because her parents had never told her 834 01:23:30,440 --> 01:23:36,959 that the noises people make while having sex may sound a bit intense, 835 01:23:37,080 --> 01:23:39,594 so she didn't know this. 836 01:23:39,720 --> 01:23:45,591 Would you say that it's actually good for children to see sexual intercourse? 837 01:23:45,720 --> 01:23:48,280 -Would you say that? -No, I wouldn't. 838 01:23:50,360 --> 01:23:53,193 We may all agree on one thing, 839 01:23:53,320 --> 01:23:57,393 that it's good for children to see their parents naked. 840 01:23:57,520 --> 01:24:01,354 In our ordinary family life, there are plenty of occasions for this 841 01:24:01,480 --> 01:24:05,360 that feel natural for both parents and children. 842 01:24:39,520 --> 01:24:44,037 One consequence of our not showing our children how it's done 843 01:24:44,160 --> 01:24:49,519 may be that they won't believe that we can have a sexual life 844 01:24:49,640 --> 01:24:52,234 after 30 or 35 years of age. 845 01:24:53,520 --> 01:24:57,275 Yes, and only lately 846 01:24:57,400 --> 01:25:01,951 have we begun to address the fact 847 01:25:02,080 --> 01:25:07,109 that we have sexual needs for much longer than previously admitted, 848 01:25:07,240 --> 01:25:09,516 even when we are 60 or 70 years old. 849 01:25:09,640 --> 01:25:13,190 And we must consider that when we grow older 850 01:25:13,320 --> 01:25:17,234 and are less active than when we were young, 851 01:25:17,360 --> 01:25:20,478 and that we tire more easily, 852 01:25:20,600 --> 01:25:24,275 we can use more comfortable positions when having sex, 853 01:25:24,400 --> 01:25:28,280 and also devices, like a vibrator. 854 01:26:02,040 --> 01:26:05,715 It's also a fact that when people get older, 855 01:26:05,840 --> 01:26:09,470 many of them are left alone, 856 01:26:09,600 --> 01:26:13,434 and have no partner. 857 01:26:13,560 --> 01:26:15,915 This applies to what we said before, 858 01:26:16,040 --> 01:26:21,114 that masturbation is an option, if we choose to use it. 859 01:26:21,440 --> 01:26:27,118 This is another positive thing about masturbation. 860 01:26:27,240 --> 01:26:30,119 And I would like to stress 861 01:26:30,240 --> 01:26:33,790 that elderly people should not feel forced 862 01:26:33,920 --> 01:26:37,151 to continue to have an active sex life. 863 01:26:37,280 --> 01:26:40,113 But if you do, there are methods 864 01:26:40,240 --> 01:26:43,358 and devices available for those who need them. 865 01:26:47,720 --> 01:26:50,519 There's a purpose to the images in this film, 866 01:26:50,640 --> 01:26:56,079 and in conclusion, we focus on two things. 867 01:26:56,200 --> 01:26:59,511 One is tolerance for everything human, 868 01:26:59,640 --> 01:27:05,830 every variation, every form, every dialect of the language of love. 869 01:27:05,960 --> 01:27:11,080 The other thing is that "tenderness" is the most important word in this language. 870 01:31:25,560 --> 01:31:30,634 The language of love 871 01:31:30,760 --> 01:31:35,789 Can be the hand that reaches out 872 01:31:35,920 --> 01:31:40,869 Or the very first time 873 01:31:41,000 --> 01:31:45,790 Your baby laughs 874 01:31:45,920 --> 01:31:50,835 The sky filled with music 875 01:31:50,960 --> 01:31:55,113 The language of love in the song of a bird 876 01:31:55,240 --> 01:32:00,599 The language of love 877 01:32:00,720 --> 01:32:05,715 Is a cool hand on your forehead 878 01:32:19,440 --> 01:32:23,070 The language of love 879 01:32:23,200 --> 01:32:26,716 Has no dictionary 880 01:32:26,840 --> 01:32:30,356 But it is understood 881 01:32:30,480 --> 01:32:34,075 By lovers everywhere 882 01:32:34,200 --> 01:32:37,511 The sky filled with music 883 01:32:37,640 --> 01:32:40,678 The language of love in the song of a bird 884 01:32:40,800 --> 01:32:44,680 The language of love 885 01:32:44,800 --> 01:32:48,680 Is a cool hand on your forehead 886 01:32:48,800 --> 01:32:51,997 The language of love 887 01:32:52,120 --> 01:32:55,033 Is a burning desire 888 01:32:55,160 --> 01:32:59,154 And it is you who came 889 01:32:59,280 --> 01:33:05,435 To stay with me 71182

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