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I never know when it's gonna hit me.
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Oh, God, I'm scared.
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Fucking scared all the time.
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The point isn't how much you can take.
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The point is that you're here.
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The last time we did a session like this,
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the transformation was
so incredibly powerful.
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I had so much pent-up anger.
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I was really able to access that
and release it.
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It enabled me to be more calm and present
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with my husband and my ten-year-old.
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It was so powerful that I know
that there's another layer to access.
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Kink at its best offers the opportunity
to create a space
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where the participants have less fear
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about the repercussions of not
mediating their emotions.
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And so it allows you the opportunity
to feel things
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that might not be safe or desirable
to feel in other contexts.
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My husband and I
were really ready to split up,
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and I was contacting divorce attorneys.
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And after working with you,
I am more in love
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with my husband now
than I was when I said "I do."
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My husband and I first started
seeing Jesse six years ago.
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In that moment,
we reinvented our marriage.
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This is the very first session
that we've done without my husband.
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So I'm actually more nervous.
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How do you picture
the emotional arc going?
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I need you to take me
to a really dark place
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where I feel completely worthless
and powerless.
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Playing with Jesse, it opened up
all sorts of conversations.
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It actually really got me in touch
with some insecurities of mine
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that I had buried so deep
that I had no access to.
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At some point, when I've just had enough,
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I'm just gonna take over
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and I'm gonna beat
the living shit out of you.
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I'll use the information that they tell me
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about what they're looking for
in an emotional sense
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to craft the arc of our scene.
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Better?
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Oh, I hate these things on my head.
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Isn't that the point?
-Yeah.
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I grew up with a bipolar mother.
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She would fly into rages
at the drop of a hat.
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I think she had blackout rages.
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The premise of the scene:
to take me back emotionally
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of being an eight-year-old.
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What I'm more afraid than anything else
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is elements of my mother come out
in my relationship with my daughter.
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No, I just want to break the cycle.
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But the thing that's shitty
is not feeling in control.
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Yeah.
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It's not being afraid
of continuing the cycle.
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It's being afraid that you can't break it.
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I had muscle memory from that trauma.
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I had this feeling of anger
that I had been keeping
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so hidden and pushed down for decades.
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Does fear and powerlessness
go together for you?
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Yeah.
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I can't even see scary movies.
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I avoid fear at all fucking costs!
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Oh, fuck!
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The expression of my skill
in that moment is reading her
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to know how close she is to too much
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and dancing along that edge for a while
without going too far.
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Am I hurting you?
-Okay, yeah.
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Good.
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You see what you did there?
-Yeah.
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That was that thing you were worried
you weren't good enough to do,
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and you just did it.
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What gave me so much power
was we planned the scene.
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At some point, it was up to me
to say, "Okay, I'm done."
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I've had enough.
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Reach up and take your hood off
and make me stop.
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I am not that powerless
eight-year-old any longer.
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That felt really good.
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I might not have been able to do something
when I was eight.
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But I sure as heck can do something now.
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How's it feel to take back control?
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Satisfying.
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I don't want to hurt you.
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Kay, so don't.
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But you kind of do.
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I kind of do.
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Punch me here.
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You know, I'd done other types of therapy,
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and nothing was as effective,
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and I think different types work
for different people.
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How can you fucking do that to a child?
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I was so little.
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What kind of fucking mother
does that to her kid?
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Oh, fuck.
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I am so not my fucking mother.
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I am so fucking grateful to you.
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Oh, yeah? What for?
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'Cause regular therapy
doesn't work for me.
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I...
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need something physical
in order to access the pain.
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The work you're doing in therapy
informs what's desirable here with me.
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That's how I work.
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It's not how everybody works,
but that's how I work.
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I needed something physical.
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Otherwise, I was gonna start causing
some harm to the people I love the most.
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I hope that your bruises
are as dark as mine.
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That was so easy.
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That is, like, the easiest $1.200
I've ever made.
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I'm really happy.
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We ate some sushi and we drank wine
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and we just talked,
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and the actual sex lasted two minutes.
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Not shitting you. Two minutes.
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