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[Nathan] I'm Nathan Hill,
actor, writer, traveler.
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And I'm on a world tour to uncover
the sexual culture and traditions
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of people in exotic locations
all over the globe.
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Sex is part of our lives,
bodies and minds,
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our very existence
depends on it.
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It is treated and practiced
differently in every society.
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I'll encounter
the extraordinary,
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the festive, the tragic,
the unseen and the taboo.
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It's going to be
a fascinating ride.
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So join me as I lay bare the
universal instinct that we all share
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in sex around the world.
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[upbeat music]
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I've just arrived in Melbourne,
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a burgeoning metropolis of
over four million people
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and the second largest
city in Australia.
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It's known for
its multicultural society,
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art precincts,
sporting communities,
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and exceptional coffee culture,
which I hope to sample.
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I'm told the people
here are laid-back
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in their attitude towards life,
work, and their attitude to sex.
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In fact, the locals here refer
to this island continent
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as a lucky country because
of the great weather,
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beautiful beaches,
accessible health care,
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and their opportunities
for education.
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I'm here to explore how
the laid-back attitude
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extends towards sexual behavior,
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and how the abundance of erotic stores,
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strip clubs, and prostitution
has affected this society.
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I'm going to talk
with sex workers,
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swingers, a brothel
madam, a male escort,
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bondage dominatrix,
and even local teenagers
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to unearth all of
Melbourne's sexual culture.
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And I'm going to start here at the
inner city suburb of Richmond,
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the Passion Fruit
Sensuality Shop.
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It's part of a growing trend,
a new type of sex store
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that doesn't hide in a dark
alley behind black windows.
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In fact, it's right
smack bang in the middle of
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one of the city's most popular
fashion strips.
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And sure, it's about sex,
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but it doesn't run
from it and embraces it.
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[Nathan] The manager, Michelle
has agreed to show me around.
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So, the women that come
in are probably women
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that haven't been into
sex shops much before,
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and would refuse to
go into a sex shop.
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And women need to
feel comfortable,
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they need to, you know,
have a nice sort of,
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a nice shop to browse in
and have a look at,
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and maybe not something
that's just about sex,
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that's something that
really involves, you know,
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everything to do with sex,
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and that sort of, to me,
is more sensual, sort of.
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- So, less intimidating...
- Yeah.
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As far as your sort of
classic sex shop goes.
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That's part of
the philosophy as well,
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where sex is more
than just the act,
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it's the anticipation,
it's the, you know,
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the mind, humor,
everything like that.
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And sensuality, soft things,
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and lingerie,
that kind of thing.
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And what have you
got out the back?
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And then we ask people
to come and have a look
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in our back room, so we part
the little curtain here.
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Part of the philosophy too,
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was that women should be
able to look and feel
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before they buy. It's one of the most
personal products they'll ever buy.
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Can you tell us a little bit
in more detail how these work?
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So I notice you've got... they
call that the rabbit, don't they?
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Yeah, these are called
the rabbit vibrators.
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For example, they have
a vibrating clitoral stimulator
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and a rotating internal shaft.
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So you can use
the shaft internally
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and that generally
rotates with beads inside
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for a little bit of
extra stimulation,
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and then you get a little, um,
clitoral vibrator here.
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So you're getting
internal penetration
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and clitoral external
stimulation at the same time.
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[Nathan laughs] - So, that's
pretty much everything.
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And this is probably, really
where the whole industry
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is going, towards more
luxury toys made
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by really good designers.
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These are all
rechargeable as well,
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so there's no need for
batteries anymore,
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you can just charge them up
like your phone.
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It's beautifully made,
you know, it looks gorgeous,
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that really makes a big
difference to women,
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- the look of it.
- Okay.
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And something like
this for example,
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which is just
a clitoral stimulator.
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It just looks so lovely,
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looks like a little massage
stone or something,
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just hold it in your palm
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and you can use it to, um...
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And men like these as well.
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- Right.
- Yeah, but just to use
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while you're having sex,
over the clitoris.
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Yeah, it's fantastic,
quite beautiful,
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- as well as effective.
- [both laughing]
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[Nathan] These toys were fun,
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but I really wanted to
find out from Michelle
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what she thought the
benefits of the passion
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for its store
were for Melbourne.
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Well, there's
the obvious physical,
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emotional, spiritual, benefits,
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but I just think, um,
a healthy sex life
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and growing up with a healthy
attitude towards sex
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just probably gives
you a bit more respect
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for yourself
and for your partner.
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And that's going to lead
to better decisions
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and a better person
that you'll be.
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And that sort of
leads to a better,
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more nourishing
society, I guess.
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[Nathan] Indeed, sex stores
have now entered
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the mainstream in Melbourne.
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The leading example of this
mainstreaming of sex shops
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is the blossoming 12 store
empire known as Sexyland.
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In fact, Sexyland describes
itself as a department store
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where one would
normally go in and buy
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furniture or kitchen goods,
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but I'm sure there's nothing
as boring as that in there.
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- Nice to meet you.
- Good to see you.
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- Thanks having us.
- Not a problem at all.
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- Can you give us a tour?
- Certainly, come through.
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Basically, what it's
based on, it's based on
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very open, and friendly
environment, and fun environment.
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So, we're talking about,
um, first-timers,
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and starting out using
products in the store.
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You said that the oils
were a good starting point.
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That's right, oils and
body chocolates as well.
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So you can...
That's chocolate paste,
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- you can actually lick off.
- Yeah, either sauce,
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or this one,
which has a little brush,
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and you actually paint it on
and then eat it off.
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- Cool.
- [both laughing]
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Okay, so new products,
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we have the Tickler Treat,
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can you go into a bit of detail?
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Basically this is a range
of dongs and anal toys,
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um, they're made out,
um, of silicon.
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Basically what that means is
that the toy's non-porous
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and it's very safe
for your body.
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So just looking at the star
performer series here.
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- Yeah.
- Um.
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Women actually use these?
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Well, we don't actually
ask these things,
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what they do with them
once they buy them.
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Right, okay, so these
have intrigued me.
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You've got nearly
$600 for Bree Olsen's
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Cyber Skin Doggy-style
Vibrating Pussy and Ass.
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- That's right, that's right.
- Interesting,
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so, we're talking... what are these
made out of, are they latex?
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Uh, no, they're actually
made out of cyber skin,
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- exactly what you said.
- Right.
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And it's a really, really,
uh, nice feeling material.
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It feels as close to
human skin as possible.
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My goodness.
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And that one's actually
been molded off Bree Olson
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who's an adult star.
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As far as customer
demographics go,
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is it more men than women?
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Really with the age group,
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anything from young adults
right up to elderly.
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- Okay, really, wow!
- I had a couple who was
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- over 70, so I would say...
- Okay.
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That's elderly, yeah,
and everything in between.
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Given that the
business is booming, um,
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in your opinion does,
does Melbourne have a
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more liberal or conservative
idea to the industry?
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Yeah, I think everyone
is really welcoming,
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um, even when
I say where I work,
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people are really happy to know,
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and they're really intrigued,
and they want to know.
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And most people are happy
to come into the store.
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- This is much more like a supermarket.
- Correct.
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- It's white light...
- This is quite a bit different.
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- Everyone is open about it.
- That's right.
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Are customers like that? They
come and they're very open?
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Absolutely. They're very open
about it and they're comfortable
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because it is exactly
what you explained,
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that it is bright and it's,
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um, well, it's not
dark and dingy,
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and it's not blacked-out
windows. I mean, we have
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latest lingerie
fashion in our windows.
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No newspapers blacking
out the windows, no.
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There's... all these items
are basically creative,
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and they're here to help
people in their relation...
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Relationships are really hard to
maintain, so any little bit helps.
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So, what do you think the
benefits are of having a Sexyland
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where people can come in
and buy these products?
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What are long-term benefits
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of having an establishment
like this?
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The more happy people,
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probably the better
for the community.
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I'll likely sell mostly things
that would make people happy,
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whether they're on their own
or whether they're as a couple.
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I think, probably the more happy
people the better. [Chuckles]
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So, if sex really is all around,
becoming more prevalent,
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how do Melburnians
feel about it?
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What is the social impact?
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I'm here to meet
with local writer
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and sex expert, Claire Halliday.
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Hopefully she can shed
some light on the subject.
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I think we're kind of secretly,
sexually conservative,
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and we're sort of forced
to live in a society that, um,
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wants us to believe that
we're sexually liberal.
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So we do have this
plethora of, you know,
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sex stores, and brothels,
and things like that,
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but, you know,
try asking somebody
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if they've been to
one, or, you know,
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and get an honest answer.
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They might be there,
but nobody wants to admit
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that they, you know,
utilize the services.
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So in that way, we're
sexually conservative, I guess,
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obviously people are using them.
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They wouldn't be on every corner
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- if they weren't making profits.
- Sure.
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But I think, you know, nobody's
really going to own up to,
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you know, visiting a brothel.
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Are you shocked at
the, uh, information
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that's so available
to your own kids?
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I'm not particularly shocked
by anything anymore,
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because I've spent
a lot of years
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researching different
aspects of the sex industry,
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and I've seen and heard
all kinds of things
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that make me kind of
unshockable at the moment.
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But in terms of my own children,
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I think there is a lot
of information out there
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that, um, I'm disappointed in,
that, you know,
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like I said, the
articles in "Girlfriend,"
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teaching you how to
have safe anal sex.
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I don't want my daughter
to read that when she's 13.
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So, they're making
it more acceptable
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or look like it
should be the norm.
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Yeah, and obviously
that's been sold to them,
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you know, on a societal,
on a broader societal level,
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I guess, from,
you know, the stream
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of sexualized material that
is just in your face,
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especially in
the last ten years.
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We're giving kids today
so much sexualized material,
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yet sex education in
schools is lacking,
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so we're throwing all this
sexualized material at them,
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we're not giving
them the context
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to properly understand it.
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And while we're teaching them the
nuts and bolts of the mechanics
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of what goes where, I don't
think we're teaching them
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the emotional, um,
aspects and, you know,
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how to make good choices, and
respect, and things like that.
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So, Claire, just
on a final note,
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what do you hope your book,
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"Do You Want Sex With
That?" um, will achieve?
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So I'm hoping that
anybody reading the book,
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it might just make
them think more,
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it might just make them
look at what's going on,
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you know, around us
as a society,
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and question whether they
think it's gone too far.
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And if they do think that then,
you know, what do we do next?
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I just want people
to look more closely
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at what we're being fed,
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and maybe question if
it's the right thing,
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and what we can do about it.
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[Nathan] Claire painted
a picture of Melbourne
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as very confused about
its sexual identity.
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But in a city that considers
itself sophisticated,
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cosmopolitan, and intellectual,
is it compatible?
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But here on King Street
in the middle of the CBD,
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there are mega
strip clubs that cater
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to thousands of men every night,
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with names like Showgirls
Bar 20, Club X, Crazyhorse,
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even the international
franchise, Spearmint Rhino.
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I'm told it's built on a long
entrenched party culture
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of after works drinks
and pre-wedding bucks nights.
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[Nathan] Stripper, or exotic
dancer if you prefer, Honey,
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has agreed to talk with me.
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[Nathan] Why did you
choose this as a job
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compared to, you know,
other jobs?
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Well, sort of the pay,
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because I'm living on my own
with my younger brother,
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and I have to raise
him and everything.
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So, I just thought I'd start
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doing this stripper job,
it's good money.
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How did you feel when you did
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your first dance live on stage?
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Well, I felt a lot
of butterflies,
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and I'm like, "Oh, my God,
what am I doing up here?"
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"How am I going to do this?" Like, you know,
you've got so many people watching you.
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But I just said, "Okay,
I got to be confident,"
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and one of the other strippers
that was teaching me said,
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"Just be confident, do the job, and
you'll get through it." So, yeah.
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Do you make a lot of money
in this profession?
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Like, at the end of the week,
do you go, "Hmm"?
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Are you satisfied with the cash,
with cash pot?
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Yeah, yeah, I am satisfied
with the cash that I'm getting,
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um, but it does go,
it's not like...
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Everyone's like, "Oh, you're
a stripper, you're rich."
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And it's like,
"But it does go on things,"
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do you know what I mean? Like,
you've got to buy your make ups,
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and you got to cut off the products
that you need for yourself.
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Do your family and friends, and
I bet this, I mean, obviously,
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- your younger brother, he knows what you do?
- Yeah, my younger brother does.
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Do your friends know, or do you
have friends that have got no idea?
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[Honey] I've got a few friends
that know and a few
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friends that have no idea
and I won't tell them.
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I know which ones
will stick by me,
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and which ones understand,
and which ones don't.
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So the ones that do
understand that, I'll tell.
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So there is a stigma then, because
there's some people you won't tell
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because you're scared
of their reaction?
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- [Honey] Exactly, yeah.
- Okay.
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And my parents don't
know either, so.
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- They don't?
- No.
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How do you find the customers,
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the males,
how do they treat you?
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Um, you get a lot of... I've had
a lot of respect for, like,
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guys that haven't tried to do anything
to me, or anything, or disrespect me,
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but you get, sometimes
you get sleazes in there
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trying to take photos of you.
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- Oh, yeah?
- So that's the part
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- where it's...
- On their mobile phones,
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and trying to shoot
a video or something?
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- Yeah.
- Do the customers proposition you for sex
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after a show
or during the night?
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Do you get guys
coming on to you?
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Yeah, yeah, I've had
a few guys that ask,
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"Do you want to
come hang with me?
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"A thousand dollars,
two thousand," like,
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you know, your money's
not worth it,
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it's only the dance,
do you know what I mean?
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It's like, that's as far
as I'll go, a dance, so.
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So you don't cross
the line there?
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No, [chuckles] no way.
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What about your long-term
career prospects?
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Like, do you want to stay
here until finish uni?
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Is this the sort of job
you'll keep going?
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Yes, I want to keep going,
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so I want to keep,
like, doing this,
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but I want to pay,
like, help it pay off
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my studies and everything.
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[Nathan] Honey is a dancer
at Maxine's,
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an establishment that belongs to
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the queen of Melbourne's
adult industry
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and a high-profile social
identity, Maxine Fensom.
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In a business dominated by
men, Maxine bucks the trend.
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Not only is she
the city's biggest provider
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of private strip
services and dancers,
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she also runs five erotic
websites, an escort service,
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started the Australian
adult industry awards,
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and even campaigned
for Parliament.
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But perhaps she'd like me
to introduce her
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in the words she uses
to describe herself,
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the Queen of pussy.
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[Nathan] Maxine you have
a fascinating story,
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please share with us
some of your journey.
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Well, basically, I fell
into this business,
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and if anyone said that
I was going to work
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in this sort of industry
I would have said,
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"No, I don't think so."
So, I saw an ad in the...
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One of the papers and they
wanted a topless waitress,
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and I, "Umm'd" and, "Ah'd"
for about three weeks.
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I eventually plucked up the courage
and went for an interview.
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I had to show this
dirty old man my boobs,
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and of course I got the job,
stayed there a week.
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And he was doing like,
these like, these lunches,
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and I thought, "God, I could do that." And
I could do it, you know, kind of nicer.
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And I knew lots of men,
so that's how Maxine started.
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Then I started, like,
a stripping agency.
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And then prostitution
became legal,
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so then I applied for a license.
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I was one of the first people
to get an escort agency license,
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so then I did that,
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and then I started doing
lots of events as well,
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like Dildorama, Miss Nude,
Miss Dream Girl, Miss Erotica.
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I founded the Adult
Industry Awards
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which is 11 years strong.
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I've been here for
three and a half years,
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great girls,
good staff, good management,
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all female management too,
I might add.
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And to be honest,
that's why I like it, um.
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But it's, it's
a family atmosphere,
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it's a very friendly
environment here.
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What state is the adult industry
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in, in Melbourne, do you think?
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Well, I think we're all
sort of struggling
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just to keep our
head above water,
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just on a political level.
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The police are fairly,
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have been fairly heavy-handed
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with the adult industry.
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And I think that's
the struggle for all of us
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on a day-to-day basis,
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and just the red tape
and the bureaucracy
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of running at this sort
of legal business.
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People have no understanding,
particularly politicians about
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how this business is,
they're afraid,
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they don't want to know about
it, so they kind of penalize us.
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You know, it's hard when, you
know, we're open-minded people
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and we just want to run our business, and
then you've got people who don't understand
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our business,
and all they want to do
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is, um, basically close it down.
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So as far as the adult
industry is concerned,
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do you believe it has a positive
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or negative effect on society?
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I think, um,
myself it's positive.
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00:15:30,901 --> 00:15:32,101
Well, you know, it's employment,
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00:15:32,141 --> 00:15:34,461
it's a legally run business,
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uh, it's run by a woman
as far as my business.
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And I think, you know,
girls can come in here
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and make a lot of money as
long as they're focused,
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and, you know,
give yourself five years,
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and make some money
and buy, you know,
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a portfolio of houses
and set yourself up.
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[upbeat music]
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You only have to spend
a night in Melbourne
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to realize it as
an energetic party scene.
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You see, alcohol is
available from age 18.
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And every weekend, teenagers
and 20-somethings
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pour into the city to drink
and dance the night away.
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Some of them even
end up at recovery parties,
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which might seem like a contradiction,
but I'm assured it's not.
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But you see Melbourne is
also a maze of lane-ways,
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and alleys,
and sometimes it's hard
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to find the right club to go to
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00:16:24,221 --> 00:16:25,981
unless you're in the know.
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00:16:26,021 --> 00:16:28,261
But luckily tonight for us,
we're in the know
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and we're heading off
to trendy Baroque House.
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[club music]
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What's a normal Saturday
night like here
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as far as, um, meeting someone's
concerned, or picking up?
427
00:16:52,861 --> 00:16:54,421
- Picking up?
- [laughing]
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00:16:54,461 --> 00:16:56,861
I don't know, there's a lot
to choose from here.
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00:16:56,901 --> 00:16:58,581
There's a lot more girls
though, isn't it, than guys?
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00:16:58,621 --> 00:17:00,221
- At the moment, yes, yeah.
- Yeah.
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00:17:00,261 --> 00:17:02,381
Which is probably
a good thing, you know.
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00:17:02,421 --> 00:17:05,141
So, what time does
this place go till?
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00:17:05,181 --> 00:17:07,901
I don't know, maybe,
like four, four-thirty.
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And you're here every Saturday?
435
00:17:09,221 --> 00:17:10,341
- Yeah.
- Yeah.
436
00:17:10,381 --> 00:17:11,661
Yeah, awesome!
437
00:17:11,701 --> 00:17:13,381
How do you find
the sexual culture
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00:17:13,421 --> 00:17:14,941
in Melbourne as a whole?
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00:17:15,861 --> 00:17:17,741
I would... Melbourne's
very liberated.
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And is picking up the main
thing here at Baroque House?
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00:17:21,181 --> 00:17:24,741
Uh, you would think so,
if you look around tonight,
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00:17:24,781 --> 00:17:26,501
there's plenty of women
here for the men.
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00:17:26,541 --> 00:17:29,541
And, uh, I think 90% of people,
what they come out for
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00:17:29,581 --> 00:17:31,301
is to pick up ladies,
445
00:17:31,341 --> 00:17:32,821
and they got ladies
to pick up the guys, so.
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00:17:32,861 --> 00:17:34,461
To have more sex
and have more fun,
447
00:17:34,501 --> 00:17:37,021
that's what I would say,
that's all! [Laughs]
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[club music]
449
00:17:52,101 --> 00:17:53,221
- How you going?
- Hi!
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00:17:53,261 --> 00:17:54,781
- What's your name?
- Paula.
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00:17:54,821 --> 00:17:56,101
- Paula?
- Yeah.
452
00:17:56,141 --> 00:17:57,341
- How are you?
- Good, how are you?
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00:17:57,381 --> 00:17:58,461
- I'm great.
- What's your name?
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My name's Nathan.
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Can you tell me what you think
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00:18:00,941 --> 00:18:02,421
about sexual culture
in Melbourne?
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00:18:02,461 --> 00:18:07,341
I think these days people
are sluts, like real bad.
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00:18:07,381 --> 00:18:09,941
Like, you buy a girl two
drinks and she's like,
459
00:18:09,981 --> 00:18:12,221
"Yeah, I'll bang you,"
but, like,
460
00:18:12,261 --> 00:18:14,301
it's fucking wrong, yeah? Yeah.
461
00:18:14,341 --> 00:18:17,061
That's interesting. How many
guys do you have hit on you
462
00:18:17,101 --> 00:18:18,661
when you go out on
any particular night,
463
00:18:18,701 --> 00:18:20,461
- like, on a Saturday night?
- Countless.
464
00:18:20,501 --> 00:18:21,661
- Yeah?
- Yeah.
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00:18:21,701 --> 00:18:24,221
Do you think that
alcohol and drugs
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plays a big part in sexual
culture in Melbourne?
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00:18:27,461 --> 00:18:30,621
'Cause once
you're high, free love!
468
00:18:30,661 --> 00:18:31,901
Yeah! [Laughs]
469
00:18:31,941 --> 00:18:33,901
Thank you so much for your time.
470
00:18:33,941 --> 00:18:36,181
Thank you, nice to meet you.
471
00:18:36,221 --> 00:18:38,061
What do you think about
same-sex picking up?
472
00:18:38,101 --> 00:18:40,021
Like, do you know, like,
do many of your girlfriends
473
00:18:40,061 --> 00:18:41,341
or yourself ever pick up girls?
474
00:18:41,381 --> 00:18:43,981
I think when girls
go out together
475
00:18:44,021 --> 00:18:45,701
they're more
affectionate than guys,
476
00:18:45,741 --> 00:18:47,221
so they kind of fool
around and that,
477
00:18:47,261 --> 00:18:48,541
and it's just for kicks,
478
00:18:48,581 --> 00:18:50,581
like, they don't, you know,
479
00:18:50,621 --> 00:18:52,661
it doesn't usually
mean anything.
480
00:18:52,701 --> 00:18:55,701
But then again it is awkward
when you kiss a girl
481
00:18:55,741 --> 00:18:58,781
and they are a lesbian,
that's a little bit awkward.
482
00:18:58,821 --> 00:19:00,581
- The kind of people...
- [Nathan] I also had a chance
483
00:19:00,621 --> 00:19:03,661
to talk to Darren, who is
organizing tonight's club event,
484
00:19:04,621 --> 00:19:07,021
and ask him about the sexual
culture in Melbourne.
485
00:19:07,061 --> 00:19:10,021
You know, that's the environment
that we're running here.
486
00:19:10,061 --> 00:19:12,341
It's making sure that everyone
can meet who they want to meet,
487
00:19:12,381 --> 00:19:14,381
and make sure they can
have fun while they do it,
488
00:19:14,421 --> 00:19:16,341
but certainly there's a lot
of that sexual activity
489
00:19:16,381 --> 00:19:19,021
in Melbourne, it's just whether
you know about it or not.
490
00:19:19,061 --> 00:19:21,581
People are out there every week
and they're meeting new people.
491
00:19:21,621 --> 00:19:23,781
I think people are a lot more
active than they let off.
492
00:19:23,821 --> 00:19:26,301
Do you think alcohol
and/or drugs
493
00:19:26,341 --> 00:19:29,021
is a big influence
towards a sexual culture,
494
00:19:29,061 --> 00:19:31,701
and sexual exploration
that goes down in the city?
495
00:19:31,741 --> 00:19:33,421
Yeah, well,
another great question.
496
00:19:33,461 --> 00:19:36,941
You see, there's a lot of
guys who are into the drugs
497
00:19:36,981 --> 00:19:39,101
and a lot of girls
follow that about them,
498
00:19:39,141 --> 00:19:42,901
so, you know, it's sometimes sad
to see what some people would do
499
00:19:42,941 --> 00:19:44,221
to be part of that experience,
500
00:19:44,261 --> 00:19:45,981
but I'm think it
does by a huge part,
501
00:19:46,021 --> 00:19:47,581
probably more than we think,
502
00:19:47,621 --> 00:19:50,301
but, um, certainly, you know
behind closed doors,
503
00:19:50,341 --> 00:19:51,541
anyone can do what they like.
504
00:19:51,581 --> 00:19:53,381
[club music]
505
00:20:06,941 --> 00:20:09,061
[Nathan] The idea of teenagers
bumping into each other
506
00:20:09,101 --> 00:20:10,261
on the dance floor
is a little too tame
507
00:20:10,301 --> 00:20:12,021
for some people's tastes.
508
00:20:12,061 --> 00:20:13,581
You see, there's
a thriving underground
509
00:20:13,621 --> 00:20:15,101
swingers culture
here in Melbourne
510
00:20:15,141 --> 00:20:17,261
that dates back to the 1960s.
511
00:20:17,301 --> 00:20:18,661
So, we're going to head
out into the suburbs
512
00:20:18,701 --> 00:20:20,501
to talk to the host
of Club True Blue,
513
00:20:20,541 --> 00:20:23,581
one of Melbourne's
longest-running swingers clubs.
514
00:20:23,621 --> 00:20:25,341
- Welcome, Nathan.
- Thanks, guys.
515
00:20:25,381 --> 00:20:28,141
This is where we hold our
parties, Club True Blue.
516
00:20:28,181 --> 00:20:30,701
Can you tell us about the club
itself and how it began?
517
00:20:30,741 --> 00:20:35,181
Well, we started the, uh,
parties back in, well, 2000 now,
518
00:20:35,221 --> 00:20:36,781
so it's ten years or so.
519
00:20:36,821 --> 00:20:38,461
So you obviously
enjoy it because...
520
00:20:38,501 --> 00:20:40,101
- The length it's been going.
- [laughing]
521
00:20:40,141 --> 00:20:41,981
It looks like it actually
has to be couples?
522
00:20:42,021 --> 00:20:45,261
- Yeah, it's only couples that we... we run for, yeah.
- Okay.
523
00:20:45,301 --> 00:20:48,061
- Just for swinging couples.
- I suppose the history of swinging is couples.
524
00:20:48,101 --> 00:20:49,541
- It is couples.
- Yeah, yeah.
525
00:20:49,581 --> 00:20:51,221
I mean, we occasionally
as in singles,
526
00:20:51,261 --> 00:20:53,141
single ladies
but not single men.
527
00:20:53,181 --> 00:20:55,381
You seem to attract
all sorts of people
528
00:20:55,421 --> 00:20:58,221
from all different
walks of life and, uh...
529
00:20:58,261 --> 00:21:00,021
Yeah, there's nothing
really specific
530
00:21:00,061 --> 00:21:01,861
that you'd say that there's
a certain type of person.
531
00:21:01,901 --> 00:21:03,901
But you guys are
obviously comfortable,
532
00:21:03,941 --> 00:21:05,941
but perhaps more comfortable
even physically
533
00:21:05,981 --> 00:21:07,381
than a lot of other people.
534
00:21:07,421 --> 00:21:11,021
After speaking for
a female perspective, um,
535
00:21:11,061 --> 00:21:13,701
you know, a lot of women, they have
body issues, and all the rest of it.
536
00:21:13,741 --> 00:21:16,781
The parties have really
helped me overcome that,
537
00:21:16,821 --> 00:21:18,861
because everyone, sort of,
when they dress down,
538
00:21:18,901 --> 00:21:20,461
they're walking around
in lingerie or nothing.
539
00:21:20,501 --> 00:21:24,181
And no one cares
what you look like, um.
540
00:21:24,221 --> 00:21:26,501
- So there's not pretentiousness...
- No, not at all.
541
00:21:26,541 --> 00:21:28,301
It's a comfortable environment,
and everybody here
542
00:21:28,341 --> 00:21:30,301
- are thinking the same way.
- Exactly.
543
00:21:30,341 --> 00:21:33,061
I suppose, the best way, for when
I describe it to first timers,
544
00:21:33,101 --> 00:21:35,421
is like going to a friend's
place for a party.
545
00:21:35,461 --> 00:21:37,381
All very friendly,
very relaxed, very casual,
546
00:21:37,421 --> 00:21:39,021
just obviously with
the added extra.
547
00:21:39,061 --> 00:21:40,461
- Yeah.
- Yeah, yeah.
548
00:21:40,501 --> 00:21:41,701
[Nathan] I really wanted
to find out
549
00:21:41,741 --> 00:21:43,261
why couples engage in swinging,
550
00:21:43,301 --> 00:21:45,021
and to answer this,
David and Julie
551
00:21:45,061 --> 00:21:47,501
took me to their bedroom.
552
00:21:47,541 --> 00:21:49,061
Because I think it's
a natural part of life,
553
00:21:49,101 --> 00:21:51,061
as in, we all enjoy the sex,
554
00:21:51,101 --> 00:21:53,581
and, um, for the fact
that you can
555
00:21:53,621 --> 00:21:55,141
experience it with your partner,
556
00:21:55,181 --> 00:21:56,901
we all have different
fantasies and so forth.
557
00:21:56,941 --> 00:22:00,661
One partner might not be
able to, um, provide all that,
558
00:22:00,701 --> 00:22:02,541
where... and then you get
people that are cheating,
559
00:22:02,581 --> 00:22:04,381
and have affairs,
and go behind our backs,
560
00:22:04,421 --> 00:22:05,901
and have all these
secrets and things
561
00:22:05,941 --> 00:22:07,821
to try and live that life,
whereas you don't,
562
00:22:07,861 --> 00:22:10,381
you don't need to in
this sort of lifestyle.
563
00:22:10,421 --> 00:22:12,021
You can enjoy
everything you want.
564
00:22:12,061 --> 00:22:13,421
It's all very open and honest.
565
00:22:13,461 --> 00:22:15,781
So, if you could run us
through a normal,
566
00:22:15,821 --> 00:22:17,061
normal night here
for the events,
567
00:22:17,101 --> 00:22:18,781
how they unfold from
start to finish.
568
00:22:18,821 --> 00:22:21,381
What would we expect if we
came down on our first time?
569
00:22:21,421 --> 00:22:24,781
When people first arrive, either David or
myself will show people into the house.
570
00:22:24,821 --> 00:22:28,461
We'll show them around, um, introduce them
to all the other people that are here,
571
00:22:28,501 --> 00:22:30,141
and then usually for
about the first hour,
572
00:22:30,181 --> 00:22:31,981
hour and a half, very social.
573
00:22:32,021 --> 00:22:33,701
People have a few
drinks, mix and mingle.
574
00:22:33,741 --> 00:22:36,661
We've got a spa set up
out in our garage.
575
00:22:36,701 --> 00:22:39,861
Um, then after that time
people will dress down,
576
00:22:39,901 --> 00:22:41,061
whatever they're
comfortable wearing,
577
00:22:41,101 --> 00:22:43,061
lingerie, erotic gear,
578
00:22:43,101 --> 00:22:45,501
and head off into
the rooms for a bit of fun.
579
00:22:45,541 --> 00:22:47,861
Then about... and after
an hour or so,
580
00:22:47,901 --> 00:22:49,981
people will come up for
some fresh air... [chuckles]
581
00:22:50,021 --> 00:22:52,181
Have a few drinks,
sort of freshen themselves up,
582
00:22:52,221 --> 00:22:53,981
and then the evenings
usually finish up
583
00:22:54,861 --> 00:22:56,261
one thirty-ish, thereabouts.
584
00:22:56,301 --> 00:22:58,181
How is it that you
are strong enough
585
00:22:58,221 --> 00:23:02,461
and are able to overcome
the, uh, feeling of jealousy?
586
00:23:02,501 --> 00:23:05,541
For one, we have a very open and
straightforward relationship.
587
00:23:05,581 --> 00:23:08,541
There's no, no need
to have any, any doubts,
588
00:23:08,581 --> 00:23:10,701
or secrets,
or anything like that.
589
00:23:10,741 --> 00:23:13,981
So, for me, I can talk
to Julie about anything,
590
00:23:14,021 --> 00:23:16,061
and I think for most people
that are in the lifestyle,
591
00:23:16,101 --> 00:23:17,941
I think it seems
to be the same way.
592
00:23:17,981 --> 00:23:20,341
They have a very open
and strong relationship,
593
00:23:20,381 --> 00:23:22,421
so the jealousies may be there,
594
00:23:22,461 --> 00:23:25,661
but they don't really, um,
you know, create any issues.
595
00:23:25,701 --> 00:23:27,421
I find that, you know,
they're the sort of things
596
00:23:27,461 --> 00:23:30,581
that create problems
for, uh, couples,
597
00:23:30,621 --> 00:23:32,141
is when you've got those
sort of restrictions,
598
00:23:32,181 --> 00:23:33,581
and one doesn't match the other,
599
00:23:33,621 --> 00:23:35,341
and you're not living
a happy lifestyle,
600
00:23:35,381 --> 00:23:37,501
everything's going
to get in the way
601
00:23:37,541 --> 00:23:39,701
and create problems, you know.
I think this way you can live
602
00:23:39,741 --> 00:23:42,101
an open and honest relationship
603
00:23:42,141 --> 00:23:44,301
that, um, you're both very close
604
00:23:44,341 --> 00:23:47,741
- and comfortable with each other.
- I suppose you're not ever then
605
00:23:47,781 --> 00:23:50,101
worried that someone's
going to cheat eventually.
606
00:23:50,141 --> 00:23:52,301
- No, not really.
- It's not there.
607
00:23:52,341 --> 00:23:54,381
It's actually, uh,
more encouraged
608
00:23:54,421 --> 00:23:57,781
to, uh, have those desires
and, um, fantasies,
609
00:23:57,821 --> 00:24:02,061
and experiment with them, more so than
try and keep it from your partner.
610
00:24:02,101 --> 00:24:04,261
It's really about
encouraging to be involved.
611
00:24:04,301 --> 00:24:06,221
I think our whole culture
and our lifestyles
612
00:24:06,261 --> 00:24:09,541
are starting to open up,
and become more aware,
613
00:24:09,581 --> 00:24:11,981
and, uh, focused on what
we want and so forth.
614
00:24:12,021 --> 00:24:14,301
And that really, I suppose,
615
00:24:14,341 --> 00:24:16,101
attracts people to this
sort of lifestyle.
616
00:24:16,141 --> 00:24:17,901
[Julie] Yeah, and we don't
go door knocking.
617
00:24:17,941 --> 00:24:20,701
[laughs] No, we don't.
618
00:24:20,741 --> 00:24:22,501
- They'll come and knock here.
- Maybe we should?
619
00:24:22,541 --> 00:24:24,341
- Well.
- [both laughing]
620
00:24:24,381 --> 00:24:26,381
Thank you so much for your
time guys, it's been great.
621
00:24:26,421 --> 00:24:27,741
- You're welcome,
- Pleasure, thank you.
622
00:24:27,781 --> 00:24:29,181
- Lovely to talk.
- Thank you so much.
623
00:24:29,221 --> 00:24:30,501
My experience has taught me
624
00:24:30,541 --> 00:24:31,981
that most people find the idea
625
00:24:32,021 --> 00:24:34,341
of swapping their partner
for sex unappealing.
626
00:24:34,381 --> 00:24:35,781
I'm here to speak
with Dr. Janet Horn,
627
00:24:35,821 --> 00:24:37,501
or Dr. Jan as
she likes to be called,
628
00:24:37,541 --> 00:24:40,221
who's a clinical psychologist,
relationship expert,
629
00:24:40,261 --> 00:24:42,301
and has written dozens
of books on sex.
630
00:24:42,341 --> 00:24:43,741
I'm hoping she can
help me understand
631
00:24:43,781 --> 00:24:45,621
the idea behind
swingers parties,
632
00:24:45,661 --> 00:24:49,261
and the health behind Melbourne's
diverse sexual culture.
633
00:24:49,301 --> 00:24:50,821
[Nathan] What do you believe
is the modern
634
00:24:50,861 --> 00:24:52,421
sexual attitude in Melbourne?
635
00:24:53,261 --> 00:24:56,221
Well, I think that sex
nowadays is anything goes,
636
00:24:56,261 --> 00:24:59,581
and whereas in other, um, eras
637
00:24:59,621 --> 00:25:02,461
might have said the same
in the, you know, 1920s, uh,
638
00:25:02,501 --> 00:25:04,901
nowadays women are not repressed
639
00:25:04,941 --> 00:25:06,381
in the ways that they were.
640
00:25:06,421 --> 00:25:08,541
And in fact they now say that
641
00:25:08,581 --> 00:25:12,261
oral all sex is
the new goodnight kiss.
642
00:25:12,301 --> 00:25:15,501
So, I'm fascinated with how
young people in particular
643
00:25:15,541 --> 00:25:18,301
hook up and have
sex with strangers.
644
00:25:18,341 --> 00:25:21,741
Do you think that men
become addicted to sex, uh,
645
00:25:21,781 --> 00:25:23,741
because it's a good...
It's used as a stress relief?
646
00:25:23,781 --> 00:25:26,661
I think a lot of men
use sex as a de-stress,
647
00:25:26,701 --> 00:25:30,021
and they will go to something
like a prostitute,
648
00:25:30,061 --> 00:25:33,101
or online, or a
swinging situation
649
00:25:33,141 --> 00:25:36,501
because, um, they've
got no obligation
650
00:25:36,541 --> 00:25:38,781
to express themselves
emotionally,
651
00:25:38,821 --> 00:25:40,301
but they get that release
652
00:25:40,341 --> 00:25:42,541
because of the sexual
gratification.
653
00:25:42,581 --> 00:25:44,901
And there's release, relief,
654
00:25:44,941 --> 00:25:46,741
um, and then there's
sort of some space
655
00:25:46,781 --> 00:25:48,421
emotionally for them.
656
00:25:48,461 --> 00:25:50,421
And, um, then they're on
the rollercoaster
657
00:25:50,461 --> 00:25:52,181
because next time they
feel the pressure,
658
00:25:52,221 --> 00:25:54,861
the stress, it's like, "Aw,
what made me feel good last time"
659
00:25:54,901 --> 00:25:57,501
was sexual expression,
let's go get it again."
660
00:25:57,541 --> 00:25:59,101
The next minute,
they're addicted.
661
00:25:59,141 --> 00:26:00,501
This is different for
women though, isn't it?
662
00:26:00,541 --> 00:26:03,021
Because women, uh, can we say,
663
00:26:03,061 --> 00:26:05,021
feel pleasure in perhaps
a slightly different way?
664
00:26:05,061 --> 00:26:08,181
I think that, um,
there really isn't, um,
665
00:26:08,221 --> 00:26:11,181
the same opportunities for women.
Sure, there's online sex,
666
00:26:11,221 --> 00:26:14,181
but most women would be quite
satisfied with their vibrator.
667
00:26:14,221 --> 00:26:16,861
[chuckles] - And, um, you
know, even older women now
668
00:26:16,901 --> 00:26:19,581
have discovered how easy it is
669
00:26:19,621 --> 00:26:22,461
to use a vibrator to
have an orgasm, so.
670
00:26:22,501 --> 00:26:26,261
You know, it's like for
them, um, in the moment
671
00:26:26,301 --> 00:26:28,581
they have their own
way of getting off,
672
00:26:28,621 --> 00:26:31,101
and, um, they're happy
enough with that.
673
00:26:31,141 --> 00:26:33,301
They don't need
the complications.
674
00:26:33,341 --> 00:26:35,621
Is Melbourne considered
sexually healthy, um,
675
00:26:35,661 --> 00:26:37,221
in relation to other countries?
676
00:26:38,661 --> 00:26:41,221
Well, you know, we have the
stereotypes around countries,
677
00:26:41,261 --> 00:26:43,461
you know, like in
Holland, and Amsterdam,
678
00:26:43,501 --> 00:26:44,581
and the red-light district
679
00:26:44,621 --> 00:26:46,101
just being really, really, open.
680
00:26:46,141 --> 00:26:49,341
And Melbourne doesn't
really have the same,
681
00:26:49,381 --> 00:26:52,301
the King's Cross that they
might have in Sydney,
682
00:26:52,341 --> 00:26:54,701
but I think that particularly
for young people,
683
00:26:54,741 --> 00:26:58,781
um, that hook up, um, ability,
it's happening worldwide.
684
00:26:58,821 --> 00:27:01,181
Obviously with that though
also comes more problems,
685
00:27:01,221 --> 00:27:03,381
more STIs, more STDs.
686
00:27:03,421 --> 00:27:06,021
Well, yes, safe sex
really is, you know,
687
00:27:06,061 --> 00:27:08,541
the be-all,
end-all, or should be.
688
00:27:08,581 --> 00:27:10,621
But, uh,
there are so many people
689
00:27:10,661 --> 00:27:12,821
who also do the bare-backing
690
00:27:12,861 --> 00:27:15,261
that could put
them in, you know,
691
00:27:15,301 --> 00:27:17,701
severe, at severe health risks.
692
00:27:17,741 --> 00:27:21,301
Um, I think that, just, it's often
fueled by alcohol or drugs.
693
00:27:21,341 --> 00:27:24,821
I was just about to say that. Do you
think that in Melbourne that, um,
694
00:27:24,861 --> 00:27:27,581
you know, sexual freedom
or experimentation
695
00:27:27,621 --> 00:27:29,901
is fueled by intoxication?
696
00:27:29,941 --> 00:27:32,941
Well, I think in Melbourne and
every other place of the world
697
00:27:32,981 --> 00:27:38,661
that, you know, once it... there's some
kind of, um, substance being enjoyed,
698
00:27:38,701 --> 00:27:40,581
um, then inhibitions go down
699
00:27:40,621 --> 00:27:44,261
and, um, sexual expression
becomes easy.
700
00:27:44,301 --> 00:27:46,381
That seems to be the culture
here, is that people will go out
701
00:27:46,421 --> 00:27:48,381
on the weekend
after they've worked all week,
702
00:27:48,421 --> 00:27:50,381
they'll drink until
their tipsy or drunk,
703
00:27:50,421 --> 00:27:52,301
and then they'll
have the booty calls,
704
00:27:52,341 --> 00:27:53,501
or they'll try and pick up.
705
00:27:53,541 --> 00:27:54,861
And the one-night stands
706
00:27:54,901 --> 00:27:56,661
- are quite, uh, popular.
- Absolutely.
707
00:27:56,701 --> 00:27:59,181
I mean, I had a young
girl, she was only 23
708
00:27:59,221 --> 00:28:00,781
and gorgeous, like
a little fairy.
709
00:28:00,821 --> 00:28:02,861
She was just really,
really pretty,
710
00:28:02,901 --> 00:28:05,501
great figure. And she said,
"I've never had an orgasm."
711
00:28:05,541 --> 00:28:07,381
And I said, "Oh
well, tell me about",
712
00:28:07,421 --> 00:28:08,581
you know, your partners."
713
00:28:08,621 --> 00:28:10,461
And she said, "I've lost count."
714
00:28:10,501 --> 00:28:12,861
I said, "What happened?" She
said, "I go out on Friday night,
715
00:28:12,901 --> 00:28:14,981
get drunk, and then end up
716
00:28:15,021 --> 00:28:17,661
having sex with somebody."
And I said, "Why?"
717
00:28:17,701 --> 00:28:20,581
And she said, "Well, you just do
it." -[Nathan lightly chuckles]
718
00:28:20,621 --> 00:28:22,581
[upbeat music]
719
00:28:25,301 --> 00:28:27,421
American comedian
Billy Crystal once said,
720
00:28:27,461 --> 00:28:28,821
"Women need a reason
to have sex,
721
00:28:28,861 --> 00:28:30,421
men just need a place."
722
00:28:30,461 --> 00:28:32,221
Well, if you live in
Melbourne you're in luck.
723
00:28:32,261 --> 00:28:35,301
The city has had legal
prostitution since 1986,
724
00:28:35,341 --> 00:28:37,021
and illegal massage parlors
725
00:28:37,061 --> 00:28:39,101
existed for over
a century before that.
726
00:28:39,141 --> 00:28:41,821
There are currently about a hundred
registered brothels in town,
727
00:28:41,861 --> 00:28:43,621
and today I'm at
the biggest one of them all.
728
00:28:43,661 --> 00:28:45,661
The world-renowned Daily Planet.
729
00:28:45,701 --> 00:28:47,181
It's so successful
it's even listed
730
00:28:47,221 --> 00:28:48,901
on the Australian
Stock Exchange.
731
00:28:51,101 --> 00:28:55,501
The Daily Planet is, um,
Melbourne's, um, oldest
732
00:28:55,541 --> 00:28:58,501
and certainly among
the largest registered,
733
00:28:58,541 --> 00:29:02,181
licensed brothel in
the southern hemisphere.
734
00:29:02,221 --> 00:29:05,661
Um, we are registered
here for 18 rooms
735
00:29:05,701 --> 00:29:07,941
to be able to use
for prostitution.
736
00:29:07,981 --> 00:29:09,861
Okay, wow, can you
give us a tour?
737
00:29:09,901 --> 00:29:11,461
We certainly can, off we go.
738
00:29:13,221 --> 00:29:15,781
- Each room has, um, a name.
- Right.
739
00:29:15,821 --> 00:29:18,621
And we're just now going
to see the Mediterranean.
740
00:29:18,661 --> 00:29:19,781
The Mediterranean.
741
00:29:25,621 --> 00:29:30,941
- Oh, wow, okay.
- This is the largest room that we have, um, in the brothel
742
00:29:30,981 --> 00:29:33,861
with the three, um,
the three beds,
743
00:29:33,901 --> 00:29:35,861
and it has the largest spa.
744
00:29:35,901 --> 00:29:38,661
- Um, we call this a party room.
- Okay. [Chuckles]
745
00:29:38,701 --> 00:29:42,981
It is available to just, um,
a couple if they want,
746
00:29:43,021 --> 00:29:47,221
but if there are, um,
gentlemen wanting
747
00:29:47,261 --> 00:29:49,221
to have, you know, two ladies,
748
00:29:49,261 --> 00:29:51,301
or two gentlemen here
with two ladies,
749
00:29:51,341 --> 00:29:53,501
we usually allocate
them to this room.
750
00:29:53,541 --> 00:29:56,541
[Nathan] And what about
the hygiene issues?
751
00:29:56,581 --> 00:30:00,501
Well, we run under very
strict, um, regulations here.
752
00:30:00,541 --> 00:30:04,541
All of the towels, beds,
sheets, et cetera, um,
753
00:30:04,581 --> 00:30:08,581
of course are constantly
changed and washed.
754
00:30:08,621 --> 00:30:10,221
And as far as infections go
and stuff like that,
755
00:30:10,261 --> 00:30:12,461
are the women tested regularly?
756
00:30:12,501 --> 00:30:14,981
By law they're
required to be tested.
757
00:30:15,021 --> 00:30:17,501
They have, um, swabs done
and have to give us
758
00:30:17,541 --> 00:30:19,461
a medical certificate
every month.
759
00:30:19,501 --> 00:30:21,261
- Right.
- And they also have to have
760
00:30:21,301 --> 00:30:24,021
blood for HIV, et cetera,
761
00:30:24,061 --> 00:30:26,861
and at the moment that's
on a three monthly basis.
762
00:30:26,901 --> 00:30:28,781
[Nathan] The Daily Planet
also has a strict
763
00:30:28,821 --> 00:30:32,101
no sexual contact
without a condom rule,
764
00:30:32,141 --> 00:30:36,581
to ensure the health of both
its workers and its customers.
765
00:30:36,621 --> 00:30:39,221
The girls each have
favorite rooms,
766
00:30:39,261 --> 00:30:41,381
you know, that they're...
They like to use.
767
00:30:41,421 --> 00:30:43,621
Some of them like to
use the smaller ones,
768
00:30:43,661 --> 00:30:46,861
some of them are happier in,
um, the slightly larger ones.
769
00:30:46,901 --> 00:30:49,221
Okay, nice shower
though, nice beds,
770
00:30:49,261 --> 00:30:52,021
- and obviously a beautiful spa.
- A beautiful spa.
771
00:30:52,061 --> 00:30:54,861
[Nathan] Gayle seemed a most
unlikely brothel madam
772
00:30:54,901 --> 00:30:58,301
and she had an endearing
sense of humor about the job.
773
00:30:58,341 --> 00:31:01,501
- Mirrors on the roof.
- Mirrors on the ceiling,
774
00:31:01,541 --> 00:31:04,461
they're not necessarily
always a good look.
775
00:31:04,501 --> 00:31:06,341
As you look up
you probably think,
776
00:31:06,381 --> 00:31:09,661
"Good God, I didn't realize
I looked that bad."
777
00:31:09,701 --> 00:31:13,301
- [both laughing]
- Oh, wow.
778
00:31:13,341 --> 00:31:15,061
[Nathan] But I really wanted
to find out more
779
00:31:15,101 --> 00:31:18,221
about the girls that worked
at The Daily Planet.
780
00:31:18,261 --> 00:31:20,541
Gayle, how many women are
working here at any one time?
781
00:31:20,581 --> 00:31:22,821
During the daytime we only, um,
782
00:31:22,861 --> 00:31:25,021
we perhaps average six to eight
783
00:31:25,061 --> 00:31:28,541
between ten o'clock in the
morning till 8 o'clock at night.
784
00:31:28,581 --> 00:31:31,901
Um, of an evening we certainly
have more come on duty.
785
00:31:31,941 --> 00:31:33,901
On Friday and Saturday nights
786
00:31:33,941 --> 00:31:37,061
we have 30-plus ladies
on duty at any one time.
787
00:31:37,101 --> 00:31:38,941
And how long would
any girl be working?
788
00:31:38,981 --> 00:31:42,181
They can choose to do as
many shifts as they like,
789
00:31:42,221 --> 00:31:44,181
but we watch that.
790
00:31:44,221 --> 00:31:47,141
If someone is doing
a lot of shifts
791
00:31:47,181 --> 00:31:49,061
and doing a lot of bookings,
792
00:31:49,101 --> 00:31:52,501
um, whereas that's great for
us that they're here,
793
00:31:52,541 --> 00:31:55,581
it sometimes is not necessarily
the best thing for the girl.
794
00:31:55,621 --> 00:31:58,421
- And how old? What age range are we looking at?
- Um...
795
00:32:00,061 --> 00:32:02,341
Well, they range from 18,
796
00:32:02,381 --> 00:32:03,821
because it's certainly illegal
797
00:32:03,861 --> 00:32:05,581
to be here under that age.
798
00:32:05,621 --> 00:32:08,461
And I think the lady,
the oldest lady
799
00:32:08,501 --> 00:32:12,981
that, um, we have that comes
in, is in her early 50s.
800
00:32:13,021 --> 00:32:14,181
Hmm, okay, wow.
801
00:32:14,221 --> 00:32:16,821
[Gayle] I personally think that,
802
00:32:16,861 --> 00:32:20,501
um, it's a very difficult
job that they do,
803
00:32:20,541 --> 00:32:23,061
um, and I've spoken to some
of them about it,
804
00:32:23,101 --> 00:32:28,141
how do they actually
manage to, um, be normal?
805
00:32:28,181 --> 00:32:30,021
- Um...
- How do they function outside?
806
00:32:30,061 --> 00:32:32,941
Function outside... um, when you
do the job that they do.
807
00:32:32,981 --> 00:32:35,381
And they have different
ways of approaching it.
808
00:32:35,421 --> 00:32:39,621
Um, all the ladies that I
certainly know that work here,
809
00:32:39,661 --> 00:32:44,501
um, they're very upbeat.
Um, they're happy
810
00:32:44,541 --> 00:32:46,821
with what they're doing because
they've chosen to do it.
811
00:32:46,861 --> 00:32:49,781
- Okay, right.
- It's their choice, um,
812
00:32:49,821 --> 00:32:52,701
how they, um,
conduct their lives, um...
813
00:32:52,741 --> 00:32:54,901
Right, so you wouldn't have
a girl that works here
814
00:32:54,941 --> 00:32:57,341
who comes in, who hates it,
that doesn't want to be here?
815
00:32:57,381 --> 00:32:59,261
- I don't believe so, no.
- Okay.
816
00:32:59,301 --> 00:33:03,141
Some of them they said, like,
they really like sex.
817
00:33:03,181 --> 00:33:05,741
It doesn't serve the purposes.
If she really hates it,
818
00:33:05,781 --> 00:33:09,501
it would reflect in the service
that you gave to the client.
819
00:33:09,541 --> 00:33:13,101
You can hardly be really
hating what you're doing
820
00:33:13,141 --> 00:33:14,701
and give good service.
821
00:33:14,741 --> 00:33:17,261
What is the most times
a girl's booked clients
822
00:33:17,301 --> 00:33:19,061
in one night that you know of?
823
00:33:20,341 --> 00:33:24,061
Probably the most
I've seen is 12.
824
00:33:24,101 --> 00:33:26,101
- Wow.
- 12 hours.
825
00:33:26,141 --> 00:33:28,621
- 12, so 12 clients in 12 hours?
- Yes.
826
00:33:28,661 --> 00:33:31,621
Gayle, what would you say is the
future of The Daily Planet?
827
00:33:31,661 --> 00:33:33,901
Do you think this is a place
that will be long-standing?
828
00:33:33,941 --> 00:33:36,581
Do you think it'll be
here in ten years?
829
00:33:36,621 --> 00:33:38,861
I believe it would
be here in ten years,
830
00:33:38,901 --> 00:33:41,661
in 20 years, maybe
even in 30 years.
831
00:33:41,701 --> 00:33:46,541
This industry, um,
and there's lots and lots
832
00:33:46,581 --> 00:33:47,981
of brothels in Melbourne,
833
00:33:48,021 --> 00:33:50,861
they exist because
there's a need for it.
834
00:33:50,901 --> 00:33:53,861
It's not like we make
clients come in,
835
00:33:53,901 --> 00:33:56,421
they come in because
they have a need.
836
00:33:56,461 --> 00:33:57,941
- Right.
- Um.
837
00:33:57,981 --> 00:34:00,781
They've had the same need
for a long, long time.
838
00:34:00,821 --> 00:34:02,381
And I can't see in the future
839
00:34:02,421 --> 00:34:04,301
why that will alter.
840
00:34:04,341 --> 00:34:06,741
So as they say, the
longest-running profession.
841
00:34:06,781 --> 00:34:09,781
- That it is, is quite correct.
- Okay.
842
00:34:09,821 --> 00:34:11,381
[dramatic music]
843
00:34:15,701 --> 00:34:18,781
[Nathan] But not all sex work is
as glamorous as the Daily Planet.
844
00:34:19,821 --> 00:34:23,221
Here on notorious Grey Street, in
the beach-side suburb of St Kilda,
845
00:34:23,261 --> 00:34:27,381
desperate girls ply their trade
nightly, risking health and safety.
846
00:34:27,421 --> 00:34:30,341
It stands in stark comparison
to the sleek cocktail bars
847
00:34:30,381 --> 00:34:33,741
and expensive restaurants that are
within a stone's throw of this corner.
848
00:34:33,781 --> 00:34:35,181
A rather dark underbelly
849
00:34:35,221 --> 00:34:36,701
to the city's polished exterior.
850
00:34:49,661 --> 00:34:52,141
[Nathan] Of course, it's not just
heterosexuals that are interested
851
00:34:52,181 --> 00:34:54,061
in paying for sexual pleasure.
852
00:34:54,101 --> 00:34:57,661
There is a booming industry here
for same-sex male escorts.
853
00:34:57,701 --> 00:35:02,421
I'm here to meet with Alex, who's a male
gigolo, about his encounters and experiences.
854
00:35:02,461 --> 00:35:05,381
He's agreed to do the interview as
long as we meet in a public place,
855
00:35:05,421 --> 00:35:07,181
so I'm not entirely sure
he's going to show up,
856
00:35:07,221 --> 00:35:08,981
but fingers crossed.
857
00:35:12,541 --> 00:35:15,381
- Alex, thanks for coming.
- Hi.
858
00:35:15,421 --> 00:35:17,861
- So you're originally from Thailand?
- Yes, I'm from Thailand.
859
00:35:17,901 --> 00:35:21,621
Can you tell us how you got the
initial idea to become an escort?
860
00:35:22,621 --> 00:35:26,261
Um, because of my visa,
it's very hard to get a job
861
00:35:26,301 --> 00:35:30,261
and get out the schools
salary, or well-paid,
862
00:35:30,301 --> 00:35:31,861
because if I work
in a restaurant,
863
00:35:31,901 --> 00:35:34,901
like, work really hard,
like, we get just like,
864
00:35:34,941 --> 00:35:38,661
uh, $10 per... a, an hour.
865
00:35:39,661 --> 00:35:41,461
I feel like I did that before
866
00:35:41,501 --> 00:35:42,741
and then it makes me sick,
867
00:35:42,781 --> 00:35:44,261
or maybe I find something else.
868
00:35:44,301 --> 00:35:45,661
And then, "How about just sex?,"
869
00:35:45,701 --> 00:35:49,421
because I like to
have sex on... too.
870
00:35:49,461 --> 00:35:51,981
[laughs] - So as far as
clientele is concerned,
871
00:35:52,021 --> 00:35:55,141
what is expected of you or from
you within your services?
872
00:35:55,181 --> 00:35:57,541
Definitely he
expect sex from me,
873
00:35:57,581 --> 00:36:01,421
but, um, but we can't
have sex like whole days.
874
00:36:01,461 --> 00:36:05,261
Uh, some clients,
they're going to do like a day
875
00:36:05,301 --> 00:36:06,741
or a whole night client.
876
00:36:06,781 --> 00:36:09,981
They just like to
have a good company
877
00:36:10,021 --> 00:36:12,301
with someone, and just
talking, and, like, happy.
878
00:36:12,341 --> 00:36:14,181
Now we just spend a time with,
879
00:36:14,221 --> 00:36:15,701
and just make them happy,
880
00:36:15,741 --> 00:36:18,461
and then just sex just
once time, that's it.
881
00:36:18,501 --> 00:36:21,261
Do you charge a lot
of money by the hour?
882
00:36:21,301 --> 00:36:24,381
- How much do you charge?
- I'll charge a lot because
883
00:36:24,421 --> 00:36:26,021
I don't want to work that much.
884
00:36:26,061 --> 00:36:31,341
And I just up my rate
to $300 for an hour.
885
00:36:31,381 --> 00:36:33,901
And do you, uh, just work
in the one city,
886
00:36:33,941 --> 00:36:36,501
or do you have clients that
fly you around Australia?
887
00:36:36,541 --> 00:36:39,701
I got once, I'm...
They're from Gold Coast.
888
00:36:39,741 --> 00:36:42,901
Yeah, they come to holiday here
889
00:36:42,941 --> 00:36:44,621
and then they ask me
to go back with them.
890
00:36:44,661 --> 00:36:48,101
And in a Gold Coast
for three days,
891
00:36:48,141 --> 00:36:49,661
and they pay me per days,
892
00:36:49,701 --> 00:36:52,261
like, 2,000 something per day.
893
00:36:52,301 --> 00:36:54,661
- $2,000 a day?
- Yeah.
894
00:36:54,701 --> 00:36:56,941
And do you practice safe sex?
895
00:36:56,981 --> 00:36:58,061
Yes, always.
896
00:36:58,981 --> 00:37:02,541
Except, [laughs]
I service my boyfriend's,
897
00:37:02,581 --> 00:37:04,701
he's someone I know very well.
898
00:37:04,741 --> 00:37:07,101
And your boyfriend know
what you do as an escort?
899
00:37:07,141 --> 00:37:09,741
- Yes.
- And he's comfortable with that?
900
00:37:09,781 --> 00:37:11,021
He's my client. [Laughs]
901
00:37:11,061 --> 00:37:12,181
- Really?
- Yeah.
902
00:37:12,221 --> 00:37:14,621
- Wow, okay, interesting.
- [laughs]
903
00:37:14,661 --> 00:37:16,821
Um, it sounds like
a weird question,
904
00:37:16,861 --> 00:37:18,341
but do you enjoy what you do?
905
00:37:18,381 --> 00:37:20,581
If you got a right client, like,
906
00:37:21,461 --> 00:37:24,661
not really old, I'm sorry, like,
907
00:37:24,701 --> 00:37:29,661
not, uh, really ugly and like
still have the good, uh, sex,
908
00:37:29,701 --> 00:37:31,901
or hot sex, we still
enjoy good sex.
909
00:37:31,941 --> 00:37:34,901
But sometime we have
to take care, like,
910
00:37:34,941 --> 00:37:36,501
"Sorry, like, very old
911
00:37:36,541 --> 00:37:39,461
and... fat,"
and something like that,
912
00:37:39,501 --> 00:37:43,861
is quite, we have to force
ourselves to do that, uh.
913
00:37:43,901 --> 00:37:45,501
Okay.
914
00:37:45,541 --> 00:37:47,021
[Nathan] Meeting Alex has
got me interested in
915
00:37:47,061 --> 00:37:49,501
a type of gay dating
scene that exists here,
916
00:37:49,541 --> 00:37:51,541
so I'm going to go and check
out Wet on Wellington,
917
00:37:51,581 --> 00:37:55,101
which has been described as Melbourne's
finest gay pool and sauna.
918
00:37:55,141 --> 00:37:58,021
If you're a heterosexual you probably
don't even know the place exists
919
00:37:58,061 --> 00:38:00,061
and would never have
seen the inside.
920
00:38:00,101 --> 00:38:02,781
We're going to go and have a look
before the doors open for trade.
921
00:38:02,821 --> 00:38:05,541
- G'day, Shane.
- G'day, Nathan, welcome to Wet On Wellington.
922
00:38:05,581 --> 00:38:07,981
Thank you. So can you tell us
a bit about the establishment?
923
00:38:08,021 --> 00:38:09,981
Yeah, Wet On Wellington
is a venue
924
00:38:10,021 --> 00:38:12,261
that's designed for
gay and bisexual men.
925
00:38:12,301 --> 00:38:14,501
Uh, it's a, it's a safe
house, if you like,
926
00:38:14,541 --> 00:38:16,661
where they can come
and enjoy the company
927
00:38:16,701 --> 00:38:22,181
of like-minded men, um, in an
area that, um, affords them
928
00:38:22,221 --> 00:38:26,221
the freedom to be able to
feel good about themselves
929
00:38:26,261 --> 00:38:28,061
and enjoy the facilities.
930
00:38:28,101 --> 00:38:30,301
Our venue is probably rated as
931
00:38:30,341 --> 00:38:31,941
probably number
one in Australia,
932
00:38:31,981 --> 00:38:34,581
and probably within the top
five or six of the world.
933
00:38:34,621 --> 00:38:36,621
We have a 25 meter
swimming pool.
934
00:38:36,661 --> 00:38:38,941
We have saunas,
bar and steam rooms.
935
00:38:38,981 --> 00:38:42,661
We have in a theater room
that plays, um, the latest DVDs.
936
00:38:42,701 --> 00:38:44,821
Computer area,
people can come here
937
00:38:44,861 --> 00:38:46,621
and use the Internet
free of charge,
938
00:38:46,661 --> 00:38:50,021
so even for $20 entry
you could basically
939
00:38:50,061 --> 00:38:52,381
sit, sit down all day on
the Internet if you want.
940
00:38:52,421 --> 00:38:54,901
So, if you come here and you
don't find someone that
941
00:38:54,941 --> 00:38:58,541
isn't to your liking, you can jump
on the Net and invite them down.
942
00:38:58,581 --> 00:39:02,061
So it's very relaxed and it's like you
cater for all type of situations.
943
00:39:02,101 --> 00:39:04,101
Absolutely.
Being gay and say, closeted
944
00:39:04,141 --> 00:39:06,461
where you're not out to society,
945
00:39:06,501 --> 00:39:09,781
you're quite limited to
where you can go, you know,
946
00:39:09,821 --> 00:39:12,261
be it a bar or something like
that, to meet like-minded people,
947
00:39:12,301 --> 00:39:14,101
even just to talk.
948
00:39:14,141 --> 00:39:17,301
You can come in here and you
know that whoever you talk to,
949
00:39:17,341 --> 00:39:19,341
you're not going to get
a smack in the ear.
950
00:39:19,381 --> 00:39:21,461
[Nathan] I asked Shane to show
me around upstairs,
951
00:39:21,501 --> 00:39:23,621
which has quite a reputation.
952
00:39:23,661 --> 00:39:26,501
It is totally different
to the downstairs.
953
00:39:26,541 --> 00:39:30,301
Uh, upstairs we have cubicles
and, um, play areas
954
00:39:30,341 --> 00:39:31,821
for people to cruise around
955
00:39:31,861 --> 00:39:33,421
and do what they do best.
956
00:39:33,461 --> 00:39:34,981
- How do you say that?
- [Nathan laughs]
957
00:39:35,821 --> 00:39:38,981
- Every room has condoms and lube.
- Mm-hmm.
958
00:39:39,901 --> 00:39:41,501
How many rooms are up here, Shane?
31?
959
00:39:41,541 --> 00:39:44,421
- 31.
- Yeah, it's not for sleeping in.
960
00:39:44,461 --> 00:39:46,861
[chuckles] Have a look at this.
961
00:39:47,821 --> 00:39:50,501
- [Shane] What about for yourself?
- [laughs]
962
00:39:50,541 --> 00:39:52,661
So, a bit of role-playing
goes along here.
963
00:39:52,701 --> 00:39:54,381
We call this a heavy duty room.
964
00:39:54,421 --> 00:39:57,261
All right, it does
look heavy-duty.
965
00:39:57,301 --> 00:39:59,421
- It does, yeah.
- Mm.
966
00:39:59,461 --> 00:40:01,861
This area here is
the Suckitaurium.
967
00:40:01,901 --> 00:40:04,101
Right, and what is
the Suckitaurium?
968
00:40:04,141 --> 00:40:06,141
There's only one
way to tell you.
969
00:40:06,181 --> 00:40:08,021
Basically, if you go
into the top area,
970
00:40:08,061 --> 00:40:09,541
shove your dick through a hole,
971
00:40:09,581 --> 00:40:11,381
and it's my head height.
972
00:40:11,421 --> 00:40:13,341
So you just want to have a look
in say, the first one there.
973
00:40:13,381 --> 00:40:14,701
[Shane] See the hole here?
974
00:40:17,741 --> 00:40:19,941
- [Shane calling from outside]
- [Nathan] Oof.
975
00:40:19,981 --> 00:40:22,541
Wow. -[Shane] A large
group play area.
976
00:40:22,581 --> 00:40:24,581
What's, what type of scenario...
977
00:40:24,621 --> 00:40:27,501
What's a regular scenario that
would happen in in this room?
978
00:40:27,541 --> 00:40:30,621
Um, group playing, basically.
979
00:40:30,661 --> 00:40:33,621
Just people wanting to
get together in a group.
980
00:40:33,661 --> 00:40:35,661
- That's quite popular.
- Okay.
981
00:40:35,701 --> 00:40:37,621
Much to people's disbelief,
982
00:40:37,661 --> 00:40:39,941
- people do like playing in groups.
- Yeah.
983
00:40:39,981 --> 00:40:42,221
The difference with
the two porn lounges...
984
00:40:43,061 --> 00:40:47,941
is, this one we play
a younger style of porn,
985
00:40:47,981 --> 00:40:50,861
and in the back one
we play more of a heavy duty,
986
00:40:50,901 --> 00:40:55,981
so more of a manly type porn up
there, younger type stuff here.
987
00:40:56,021 --> 00:41:00,821
We don't, um, play anything
that shows bare-backing,
988
00:41:00,861 --> 00:41:02,901
in other words,
sex without condoms,
989
00:41:02,941 --> 00:41:08,181
and we don't play, uh, any films
that show any form of violence.
990
00:41:08,221 --> 00:41:09,341
- Right...
- It's all...
991
00:41:09,381 --> 00:41:10,421
So, no sexual violence?
992
00:41:10,461 --> 00:41:11,861
No sexual violence.
993
00:41:11,901 --> 00:41:13,861
[Shane] We have our
code of conduct here
994
00:41:13,901 --> 00:41:15,261
that people must abide by.
995
00:41:15,301 --> 00:41:16,901
And they're written
in such a way that
996
00:41:16,941 --> 00:41:18,421
people are meant to understand,
997
00:41:18,461 --> 00:41:20,141
"No," means, "No."
998
00:41:20,181 --> 00:41:22,021
- Great.
- Very, very simple.
999
00:41:22,061 --> 00:41:24,061
We push the safe sex
rule all the time,
1000
00:41:24,101 --> 00:41:26,101
although you can't be
there watching everyone,
1001
00:41:26,141 --> 00:41:27,501
you know, it's important
part of our days lives
1002
00:41:27,541 --> 00:41:29,421
whether you're straight or gay.
1003
00:41:29,461 --> 00:41:32,381
[Nathan] What sort of clients
do you have come here?
1004
00:41:32,421 --> 00:41:36,061
Monday to Friday, 85% of people
1005
00:41:36,101 --> 00:41:38,221
- that don't identify as gay.
- Mm-hmm.
1006
00:41:38,261 --> 00:41:42,261
On weekends, it's,
uh, probably 80%
1007
00:41:42,301 --> 00:41:44,381
that do identify as gay.
1008
00:41:44,421 --> 00:41:46,261
People that party
at other venues
1009
00:41:46,301 --> 00:41:49,141
and then come here for
a relaxation afterwards,
1010
00:41:49,181 --> 00:41:51,541
uh, for winding down, um,
1011
00:41:51,581 --> 00:41:53,181
or people that just
come here to have sex.
1012
00:41:53,221 --> 00:41:55,421
So do people class
the venue as a brothel?
1013
00:41:55,461 --> 00:41:58,221
No, they don't.
Um, and it's totally
1014
00:41:58,261 --> 00:41:59,981
far removed from a brothel.
1015
00:42:00,021 --> 00:42:01,901
The difference with
ourselves and a brothel is
1016
00:42:01,941 --> 00:42:04,901
with a brothel, you pay for sex.
1017
00:42:04,941 --> 00:42:08,861
Here you're paying an entrance
fee to use the facilities.
1018
00:42:08,901 --> 00:42:11,781
If by chance you meet someone
1019
00:42:11,821 --> 00:42:14,261
and you choose to
have sex with them,
1020
00:42:14,301 --> 00:42:16,741
then that's totally void of us
1021
00:42:16,781 --> 00:42:18,581
organizing it or doing
anything like that.
1022
00:42:18,621 --> 00:42:21,661
We really are running a totally
straight up and down venue,
1023
00:42:22,541 --> 00:42:26,661
uh, for the benefit of gay and bisexual
people just to enjoy themselves.
1024
00:42:26,701 --> 00:42:29,901
[Nathan] Wet On Wellington was
fascinating, but I was about to embark
1025
00:42:29,941 --> 00:42:32,061
on an even more
interesting adventure.
1026
00:42:32,101 --> 00:42:34,701
[lighthearted music] - The
famous French sexual sadist,
1027
00:42:34,741 --> 00:42:37,461
the Marquis de Sade wrote,
"It is always by way of pain
1028
00:42:37,501 --> 00:42:39,101
that one arrives at pleasure,"
1029
00:42:39,141 --> 00:42:40,941
and out here at this little
quiet pocket of Melbourne
1030
00:42:40,981 --> 00:42:43,461
at what looks like a fairly
nondescript warehouse,
1031
00:42:43,501 --> 00:42:45,541
but it's far more than that.
To someone walking past,
1032
00:42:45,581 --> 00:42:48,261
they'd have no idea that
is in fact a dungeon.
1033
00:42:48,301 --> 00:42:51,181
So I'm going to put my inhibitions
on hold and take a peek inside.
1034
00:42:51,221 --> 00:42:53,261
- Hi, it's nice to meet you.
- Thanks for having us.
1035
00:42:53,301 --> 00:42:54,981
- Welcome to Fetish House.
- Thank you so much.
1036
00:42:55,021 --> 00:42:56,461
And I'll give you
a bit of a tour.
1037
00:42:56,501 --> 00:42:57,981
Please do, that'll be great.
1038
00:42:58,021 --> 00:42:59,621
[Nathan] Dominatrix
Mistress Emmeline
1039
00:42:59,661 --> 00:43:01,621
has offered to show me
around Fetish House,
1040
00:43:01,661 --> 00:43:04,381
a six room bondage dungeon
that offers services
1041
00:43:04,421 --> 00:43:07,341
for the more sexually
adventurous.
1042
00:43:07,381 --> 00:43:10,261
To start, we have our
cross-dressing room...
1043
00:43:10,301 --> 00:43:11,981
- Okay.
- Which is kitted out with
1044
00:43:12,021 --> 00:43:13,781
pretty much every costume
you could ever need.
1045
00:43:13,821 --> 00:43:16,061
- [Nathan] Oh, right.
- We've got regular women's clothing
1046
00:43:16,101 --> 00:43:17,541
as well as the more
fetish sort of things,
1047
00:43:17,581 --> 00:43:19,021
if you like to dress
up as a schoolgirl,
1048
00:43:19,061 --> 00:43:21,461
or a police officer,
or anything you like.
1049
00:43:21,501 --> 00:43:24,141
Someone will come in
and they'll have a fantasy
1050
00:43:24,181 --> 00:43:27,581
about, um, being taught how to
walk like a woman, how to speak...
1051
00:43:27,621 --> 00:43:30,141
Oh, right. -...How to
dress, how to walk in heels,
1052
00:43:30,181 --> 00:43:34,061
which is harder than most of them think.
[Laughs] And, yeah, they just get dressed up.
1053
00:43:34,101 --> 00:43:36,821
And, yeah, it's just the perfect
atmosphere to get organized and girly.
1054
00:43:36,861 --> 00:43:39,181
[Nathan] Activities such as
role play, torture,
1055
00:43:39,221 --> 00:43:42,581
and domination, are actively
promoted and recommended.
1056
00:43:42,621 --> 00:43:45,621
And Mistress Emmeline
loves every minute of it.
1057
00:43:45,661 --> 00:43:47,661
- Dungeon three.
- Yes.
1058
00:43:47,701 --> 00:43:49,261
This has got the bondage bed
1059
00:43:49,301 --> 00:43:51,061
so you can actually lock
people up in there,
1060
00:43:51,101 --> 00:43:52,981
make sure they
don't go anywhere.
1061
00:43:53,021 --> 00:43:55,741
Um, the suspension rack in
here is very popular.
1062
00:43:55,781 --> 00:43:57,621
But I like to call it
the slave of fortune
1063
00:43:57,661 --> 00:43:59,461
because you can spin
people around on it.
1064
00:43:59,501 --> 00:44:02,021
- Okay, the slave of fortune.
- Yeah, it's a slave of fortune.
1065
00:44:02,061 --> 00:44:04,781
- Wow.
- You just get strapped in and enjoy the ride.
1066
00:44:04,821 --> 00:44:08,581
- So it's very medieval.
- It is, yeah, a lot of the torture and,
1067
00:44:08,621 --> 00:44:11,461
um, you know, discipline is all
based around the medieval.
1068
00:44:11,501 --> 00:44:13,701
[Nathan] Don't think I want to
get locked up in that!
1069
00:44:13,741 --> 00:44:15,581
Well, that's half
the fun [Emmeline laughs]
1070
00:44:15,621 --> 00:44:17,861
- That's what people come in for.
- You can spend some time
1071
00:44:17,901 --> 00:44:19,541
in there if you've
been a bad puppy.
1072
00:44:19,581 --> 00:44:21,781
- [Nathan] Mm-hmm, alright.
- This is probably
1073
00:44:21,821 --> 00:44:24,901
my favorite room.
This is the medical room.
1074
00:44:24,941 --> 00:44:28,221
It's, um, all authentic,
everything from the naughty nurse
1075
00:44:28,261 --> 00:44:30,301
through the suturing.
And for example,
1076
00:44:30,341 --> 00:44:32,221
you can suture the skin,
1077
00:44:32,261 --> 00:44:35,461
so a man no longer
appears to have a penis,
1078
00:44:36,301 --> 00:44:38,661
so that can be part
of the cross-dressing
1079
00:44:38,701 --> 00:44:40,581
transformation as well.
1080
00:44:40,621 --> 00:44:42,941
Um, and you can also suture
different things,
1081
00:44:42,981 --> 00:44:44,661
like, you can make
the corsets on the back.
1082
00:44:44,701 --> 00:44:46,021
That's generally play piercing
1083
00:44:46,061 --> 00:44:47,341
but that's all part
of it as well.
1084
00:44:47,381 --> 00:44:49,341
Yeah, lots of blood play.
1085
00:44:49,381 --> 00:44:50,501
- Right.
- Which is definitely
1086
00:44:50,541 --> 00:44:52,781
an acquired taste. [Laughs]
1087
00:44:52,821 --> 00:44:55,261
- [Emmeline] This is dungeon two...
- Yeah.
1088
00:44:55,301 --> 00:44:58,941
- Which has got the cross, which is always good.
- Mm-hmm.
1089
00:44:58,981 --> 00:45:01,421
[Emmeline] Lots of nice
custom-made furniture.
1090
00:45:01,461 --> 00:45:03,741
And this is probably
the most equipped room,
1091
00:45:03,781 --> 00:45:07,661
in terms of, um, the more
pain inflicting devices.
1092
00:45:07,701 --> 00:45:10,101
This one's got the horse,
it's got the table
1093
00:45:10,141 --> 00:45:12,221
that you can twist them into
really awkward positions.
1094
00:45:12,261 --> 00:45:14,021
- Oh, okay.
- Yeah, the chair.
1095
00:45:14,061 --> 00:45:17,221
- So, it's, yeah, it's a fantastic room for...
- Mm.
1096
00:45:17,261 --> 00:45:19,981
- Lots of the more fetish side of things.
- So, torture chamber.
1097
00:45:20,021 --> 00:45:23,621
[Nathan] All of these tools were
used for what's known as BDSM.
1098
00:45:24,701 --> 00:45:28,141
[Emmeline] BDSM stands for bondage,
discipline, sadomasochism.
1099
00:45:28,181 --> 00:45:30,141
- Right.
- Um.
1100
00:45:30,181 --> 00:45:35,181
It usually means bondage,
um, different restraints, um,
1101
00:45:35,221 --> 00:45:37,021
the dominant/submissive role.
1102
00:45:37,061 --> 00:45:40,341
- Do you have a high pain threshold yourself?
- I do, yeah.
1103
00:45:40,381 --> 00:45:44,421
I've got a high pain threshold
and a high bullshit tolerance.
1104
00:45:44,461 --> 00:45:47,821
[laughs] - So, I do have to put
up with a lot of it sometimes.
1105
00:45:47,861 --> 00:45:49,301
What are the customers
like that come here,
1106
00:45:49,341 --> 00:45:51,821
what sort of people
tend to come here?
1107
00:45:51,861 --> 00:45:54,181
Well, obviously it's not
just a bit of chump change,
1108
00:45:54,221 --> 00:45:56,221
like, you've got...
It's 240 for an hour.
1109
00:45:56,261 --> 00:45:59,821
- Yeah.
- And so, mostly, we do see middle-class,
1110
00:45:59,861 --> 00:46:02,301
um, white-collar employees.
1111
00:46:02,341 --> 00:46:05,981
I get a lot of, uh,
police officers and firemen.
1112
00:46:06,021 --> 00:46:09,101
- Wow.
- But doing that, they like to be in the submissive role,
1113
00:46:09,141 --> 00:46:10,901
I'm assuming because
they like being in...
1114
00:46:10,941 --> 00:46:12,781
They're in charge throughout
the rest of their lives,
1115
00:46:12,821 --> 00:46:15,461
- so they like letting go of it a little bit...
- Okay.
1116
00:46:15,501 --> 00:46:17,861
- In their sexual life.
- So it's very much psychological
1117
00:46:17,901 --> 00:46:21,581
- as much as it is physical?
- Yes, often it's more psychological than anything.
1118
00:46:21,621 --> 00:46:24,461
- Right.
- A lot of the play you've got to be hearty for it,
1119
00:46:24,501 --> 00:46:27,021
and you've got to make sure you know
what you're getting yourself into.
1120
00:46:27,061 --> 00:46:30,221
Can you go too far, can some...
Can a client go too far, or?
1121
00:46:30,261 --> 00:46:34,101
You have your safe limits, and your
safe words, and your hard limits.
1122
00:46:34,141 --> 00:46:37,181
Um, a hard limit is something
that you won't do no matter what.
1123
00:46:37,221 --> 00:46:41,661
And so, for me, my hard limits are
anything to do with children,
1124
00:46:41,701 --> 00:46:45,101
anything to do with animals,
and anything to do with scat.
1125
00:46:45,141 --> 00:46:47,541
Anything else is
pretty much open game.
1126
00:46:47,581 --> 00:46:50,061
[Nathan] Now that I knew
Mistress Emmeline's hard limits,
1127
00:46:50,101 --> 00:46:51,541
I thought I'd take
the opportunity
1128
00:46:51,581 --> 00:46:53,701
to engage in a little
bondage myself.
1129
00:46:54,661 --> 00:46:57,581
So, what's this contraption?
I'm guessing I sort of...
1130
00:46:57,621 --> 00:46:58,901
- It's a horse.
- Bend over?
1131
00:46:58,941 --> 00:46:59,981
Yeah, I'll show you
what it does.
1132
00:47:00,021 --> 00:47:01,341
[Nathan chuckles]
1133
00:47:01,381 --> 00:47:02,741
I'll give you the suede one.
1134
00:47:02,781 --> 00:47:04,061
- Okay.
- [whip slaps]
1135
00:47:04,101 --> 00:47:05,821
- Like that, yeah.
- Alright. Okay.
1136
00:47:05,861 --> 00:47:07,341
You just have to bend
over a little bit further
1137
00:47:07,381 --> 00:47:09,301
so you're a bit more
vulnerable, yeah.
1138
00:47:09,341 --> 00:47:11,341
- Okay.
- [both laughing]
1139
00:47:11,381 --> 00:47:13,221
See, that's the way it works.
1140
00:47:13,261 --> 00:47:15,381
And, look, as far as the levels
of hardcore are concerned,
1141
00:47:15,421 --> 00:47:17,381
obviously, like, there's
so much that goes on here,
1142
00:47:17,421 --> 00:47:19,741
and there must be
such a wide variety
1143
00:47:19,781 --> 00:47:22,821
of customer requests,
and what you guys do,
1144
00:47:22,861 --> 00:47:24,741
but what would you
deem hardcore?
1145
00:47:24,781 --> 00:47:29,181
Severe caning would
have to be one of my...
1146
00:47:29,221 --> 00:47:31,061
- the ones that make me cringe.
- Yeah.
1147
00:47:31,101 --> 00:47:33,261
We do get clients
that come in and they want
1148
00:47:33,301 --> 00:47:35,661
you to make
them bleed with a cane,
1149
00:47:35,701 --> 00:47:38,061
and to hit them that hard
with a cane is very...
1150
00:47:39,061 --> 00:47:41,221
It's not only tiring for you
because your arms get sore,
1151
00:47:41,261 --> 00:47:43,821
but just the fact of
watching them is tiring,
1152
00:47:43,861 --> 00:47:45,101
because you know
how much it hurts
1153
00:47:45,141 --> 00:47:46,581
but they just love it.
1154
00:47:46,621 --> 00:47:49,181
Wow. So this one here
looks quite severe.
1155
00:47:49,221 --> 00:47:52,221
Yeah, that one actually
hurts a lot. [Chuckles]
1156
00:47:52,261 --> 00:47:55,061
Usually put that around
the base of someone's
1157
00:47:55,101 --> 00:47:56,741
- dick and their balls.
- Mm-hmm.
1158
00:47:57,661 --> 00:47:59,421
Put their dick through there,
1159
00:47:59,461 --> 00:48:02,861
and if you get hard
it'll hurt a lot.
1160
00:48:02,901 --> 00:48:05,261
[Nathan] There was one thing
that I'd always wanted to try,
1161
00:48:05,301 --> 00:48:08,141
and luckily Mistress
Emmeline had one on hand.
1162
00:48:09,101 --> 00:48:10,661
Um, this is a gimp mask.
1163
00:48:10,701 --> 00:48:12,581
It's used by gimps.
1164
00:48:12,621 --> 00:48:15,421
It's a really good way of
de-personalizing a slave
1165
00:48:15,461 --> 00:48:17,701
or a submissive. And so
we'll give you a shot.
1166
00:48:18,901 --> 00:48:20,461
We'll see the difference.
1167
00:48:20,501 --> 00:48:21,541
[laughs]
1168
00:48:23,581 --> 00:48:26,461
[Nathan] It was not the most
comfortable thing I'd ever worn
1169
00:48:26,501 --> 00:48:28,861
and very claustrophobic.
1170
00:48:28,901 --> 00:48:30,221
You know, if they talk
too much you can
1171
00:48:30,261 --> 00:48:31,981
just get rid of them like that.
1172
00:48:32,821 --> 00:48:33,861
Can shut them up.
1173
00:48:34,701 --> 00:48:37,341
- [Nathan mumbles]
- [Emmeline laughs]
1174
00:48:37,381 --> 00:48:40,621
We'll put the dildo
in there. [Laughs]
1175
00:48:40,661 --> 00:48:42,461
[Nathan chuckles]
1176
00:48:42,501 --> 00:48:44,901
Yeah, now you panic. [Laughs]
1177
00:48:44,941 --> 00:48:46,821
[upbeat music]
1178
00:48:51,341 --> 00:48:55,301
From everything I've seen, Melbourne has
an extensive and varied sex industry.
1179
00:48:55,341 --> 00:48:59,701
Is that a good thing? What are the benefits,
if any, of legalized prostitution?
1180
00:48:59,741 --> 00:49:01,661
I'm here to talk with
Project Respect,
1181
00:49:01,701 --> 00:49:05,261
a sex worker support organization,
to find out their view.
1182
00:49:05,301 --> 00:49:08,461
Project Respect has outreach
to women in the sex industry,
1183
00:49:08,501 --> 00:49:10,861
so we visit women in brothels,
1184
00:49:10,901 --> 00:49:14,141
- Right.
- We also build up understanding and awareness
1185
00:49:14,181 --> 00:49:17,101
about trafficking with other
women in the sex industry,
1186
00:49:17,141 --> 00:49:19,741
so, you know, women will
tell us about trafficking
1187
00:49:19,781 --> 00:49:21,581
that they know of,
and even brothel owners
1188
00:49:21,621 --> 00:49:23,061
might tell us about, you know,
1189
00:49:23,101 --> 00:49:25,341
trafficking in other,
uh, brothels.
1190
00:49:25,381 --> 00:49:28,141
Approximately how many brothels do you
know of that are operating in Melbourne?
1191
00:49:28,181 --> 00:49:32,861
There's 90 to 95
licensed brothels,
1192
00:49:32,901 --> 00:49:36,741
and I've heard 130
unlicensed brothels.
1193
00:49:36,781 --> 00:49:38,741
As far as women
that are trafficked
1194
00:49:38,781 --> 00:49:40,301
to Melbourne for sex work.
1195
00:49:40,341 --> 00:49:41,981
We estimate that
there's probably
1196
00:49:42,021 --> 00:49:44,421
300 women trafficked
to Melbourne every year.
1197
00:49:44,461 --> 00:49:45,941
- Right.
- We'd say about a thousand
1198
00:49:45,981 --> 00:49:48,421
women trafficked to
Australia every year.
1199
00:49:48,461 --> 00:49:50,221
And where were they coming from?
1200
00:49:50,261 --> 00:49:52,061
They tend to come from Asia.
1201
00:49:52,101 --> 00:49:53,781
At the moment it
seems like most women
1202
00:49:53,821 --> 00:49:55,941
are coming from South Korea,
1203
00:49:55,981 --> 00:49:58,381
but in the past,
Thailand has been the place
1204
00:49:58,421 --> 00:49:59,861
where most women have come from,
1205
00:49:59,901 --> 00:50:02,621
with other women from
Malaysia, China,
1206
00:50:02,661 --> 00:50:04,981
uh, the Philippines, Taiwan.
1207
00:50:05,021 --> 00:50:06,461
Do we know who brings them?
1208
00:50:06,501 --> 00:50:08,861
It seems to me that
there's a link with
1209
00:50:08,901 --> 00:50:12,821
ethnic groups and kind of,
I guess, ethnic based mafia,
1210
00:50:12,861 --> 00:50:16,621
um, but I think, you know,
Australians are also,
1211
00:50:16,661 --> 00:50:20,541
certainly Australian citizens are
involved in and exploiting women here.
1212
00:50:20,581 --> 00:50:23,741
Are these trafficked women working
in these illegal brothels then?
1213
00:50:23,781 --> 00:50:27,621
No, trafficked women are
kept in legal brothels.
1214
00:50:27,661 --> 00:50:29,101
- In legal?
- Yes.
1215
00:50:29,141 --> 00:50:30,981
Wow, okay.
1216
00:50:31,021 --> 00:50:34,821
Every case that has been
investigated and prosecuted
1217
00:50:34,861 --> 00:50:38,781
in Australia of trafficking, has involved
trafficking into legal brothels,
1218
00:50:38,821 --> 00:50:41,581
and all the women who we know of
were kept in legal brothels.
1219
00:50:41,621 --> 00:50:45,021
[Nathan] I really wanted to ask
Nina about Club 417,
1220
00:50:45,061 --> 00:50:48,781
the most famous case of prosecuted
sex trafficking in Melbourne.
1221
00:50:48,821 --> 00:50:50,381
So...
1222
00:50:50,421 --> 00:50:53,941
Club 417 is a brothel on
Brunswick Street in Fitzroy
1223
00:50:53,981 --> 00:50:57,181
in the heart of our cafe strip.
1224
00:50:57,221 --> 00:50:59,861
Um, it's a pretty nondescript
little place, you walk past it,
1225
00:50:59,901 --> 00:51:01,741
you probably think
that it's just, you know,
1226
00:51:01,781 --> 00:51:04,581
an empty shop,
but it's a brothel.
1227
00:51:04,621 --> 00:51:08,501
And in 2003,
the police did a raid
1228
00:51:08,541 --> 00:51:12,021
and they found five
trafficked women in there.
1229
00:51:12,061 --> 00:51:14,301
They charged the
brothel owner Wei Tang
1230
00:51:14,341 --> 00:51:16,541
and her manager Paul Pick
1231
00:51:16,581 --> 00:51:19,101
with possessing
and using slaves.
1232
00:51:19,141 --> 00:51:21,741
They were told that
they owed her debts of
1233
00:51:21,781 --> 00:51:25,781
between 45 and 90
thousand dollars
1234
00:51:25,821 --> 00:51:27,341
which they had to
pay off by doing
1235
00:51:27,381 --> 00:51:28,901
prostitution in her brothel.
1236
00:51:28,941 --> 00:51:31,861
They paid it off
within a few months,
1237
00:51:31,901 --> 00:51:35,261
and it means that
they were doing
1238
00:51:35,301 --> 00:51:38,021
about ten clients a night,
1239
00:51:38,061 --> 00:51:41,981
every single night
for three months.
1240
00:51:42,021 --> 00:51:46,541
Which in itself
is an incredible,
1241
00:51:46,581 --> 00:51:48,221
you know, toll on your body.
1242
00:51:48,261 --> 00:51:50,661
It was about 800 or 900 men
1243
00:51:50,701 --> 00:51:51,821
that each of the women did
1244
00:51:51,861 --> 00:51:54,701
before they paid off the debt.
1245
00:51:54,741 --> 00:51:56,821
And again, it's one
of those things
1246
00:51:56,861 --> 00:51:58,581
that if you really
think about it...
1247
00:52:00,141 --> 00:52:02,821
it's... I don't think
that anyone can fail
1248
00:52:02,861 --> 00:52:07,261
to understand how
corrosive and degrading
1249
00:52:07,301 --> 00:52:09,221
the experience of
being trafficked is.
1250
00:52:09,261 --> 00:52:11,901
[Nathan] That led to the
question, did Nina think there
1251
00:52:11,941 --> 00:52:16,301
was a difference between legal
prostitution and illegal sex trafficking?
1252
00:52:16,341 --> 00:52:19,221
Having legal brothels
in Victoria,
1253
00:52:19,261 --> 00:52:22,181
I think can make it easier
to hide trafficked women,
1254
00:52:22,221 --> 00:52:24,461
because there is an
assumption that brothels
1255
00:52:24,501 --> 00:52:26,821
are safe if they are regulated,
1256
00:52:26,861 --> 00:52:29,261
that they're, you know,
that they're following
1257
00:52:29,301 --> 00:52:30,541
laws and regulations.
1258
00:52:30,581 --> 00:52:32,101
But really, what...
1259
00:52:33,861 --> 00:52:36,901
What shapes whether or not
we have trafficked women,
1260
00:52:36,941 --> 00:52:40,341
is whether or not we accept
prostitution at all.
1261
00:52:40,381 --> 00:52:43,781
Project Respect is adamant about the
harms and costs of prostitution,
1262
00:52:43,821 --> 00:52:45,221
legal or otherwise.
1263
00:52:45,261 --> 00:52:46,821
So in order to get
another opinion,
1264
00:52:46,861 --> 00:52:48,941
I've been invited to
a rally for abortion rights
1265
00:52:48,981 --> 00:52:52,141
by the president of this trans
sex party, Fiona Patten.
1266
00:52:52,181 --> 00:52:55,741
On a very wet, cold,
rainy, Melbourne day,
1267
00:52:55,781 --> 00:52:58,941
um, we're out showing
our support for
1268
00:52:58,981 --> 00:53:01,461
the abortion clinic behind us.
1269
00:53:01,501 --> 00:53:03,821
Yeah. -[Fiona] Every third
Saturday, a group of,
1270
00:53:03,861 --> 00:53:04,941
I can't remember
what they're called,
1271
00:53:04,981 --> 00:53:06,581
something with the Virgin Mary,
1272
00:53:06,621 --> 00:53:10,261
come and pray, and harass
some of the clients
1273
00:53:10,301 --> 00:53:12,941
who come to this
clinic, um, during the day,
1274
00:53:12,981 --> 00:53:15,741
- [Nathan] Right.
- And we're here to show our support for the clinic.
1275
00:53:15,781 --> 00:53:18,541
It's so important that women
have that right to choose,
1276
00:53:18,581 --> 00:53:20,941
and I... you know,
we've seen that
1277
00:53:20,981 --> 00:53:23,581
when women don't have control
of their reproductive rights,
1278
00:53:23,621 --> 00:53:25,061
they take it into
their own hands,
1279
00:53:25,101 --> 00:53:27,061
and we see backyard
abortions setting up,
1280
00:53:27,101 --> 00:53:30,581
and we see very,
you know, unsafe practices.
1281
00:53:30,621 --> 00:53:32,181
Frankly, you know,
it would be great if we had
1282
00:53:32,221 --> 00:53:34,141
really good sex education,
1283
00:53:34,181 --> 00:53:35,901
and that would probably mean
that we would have
1284
00:53:35,941 --> 00:53:37,621
less abortions in this country.
1285
00:53:37,661 --> 00:53:40,221
But they... it needs to
remain legal and safe.
1286
00:53:40,261 --> 00:53:41,821
[Nathan] So, more money
in education?
1287
00:53:41,861 --> 00:53:43,901
[Fiona] More sex education
would definitely mean
1288
00:53:43,941 --> 00:53:45,621
less unwanted pregnancies.
1289
00:53:45,661 --> 00:53:47,621
[Nathan] I also wanted to ask
Fiona's opinion
1290
00:53:47,661 --> 00:53:50,141
about legalized
prostitution in Melbourne.
1291
00:53:50,181 --> 00:53:53,861
I am all in favor
for sex workers
1292
00:53:53,901 --> 00:53:55,621
to be able to work
legally and safely.
1293
00:53:55,661 --> 00:53:58,061
[crowd chants] - Um, but
I would probably support
1294
00:53:58,101 --> 00:54:01,141
a decriminalized system
rather than legalization,
1295
00:54:01,181 --> 00:54:03,901
which is about treating
the sex industry
1296
00:54:03,941 --> 00:54:05,501
as any other business.
1297
00:54:05,541 --> 00:54:07,981
So, whether you're
a hairdresser or a sex worker,
1298
00:54:08,021 --> 00:54:10,101
you have the same rights
and responsibilities.
1299
00:54:10,141 --> 00:54:13,021
What's your take on the number
of legalized brothels
1300
00:54:13,061 --> 00:54:14,821
that are actually
here in Melbourne?
1301
00:54:14,861 --> 00:54:16,941
Unfortunately,
it's, it's actually
1302
00:54:16,981 --> 00:54:18,901
probably over regulated here.
1303
00:54:18,941 --> 00:54:21,221
And it was sort of,
when they introduced the laws,
1304
00:54:21,261 --> 00:54:23,101
it was like, "Well,
you know, we want to"
1305
00:54:23,141 --> 00:54:25,381
protect the workers,
but we don't want to be seen
1306
00:54:25,421 --> 00:54:27,101
"to condone the industry."
1307
00:54:27,141 --> 00:54:29,501
So they set up very
draconian laws,
1308
00:54:29,541 --> 00:54:30,941
which means that probably
1309
00:54:30,981 --> 00:54:33,061
two thirds of the
industry in Melbourne
1310
00:54:33,101 --> 00:54:34,981
work... it operates illegally.
1311
00:54:35,021 --> 00:54:37,021
So, for every one legal brothel,
1312
00:54:37,061 --> 00:54:39,901
you have two or three
illegal brothels operating.
1313
00:54:39,941 --> 00:54:43,061
Uh, I certainly think a system
1314
00:54:43,101 --> 00:54:45,661
where brothels
can operate legally,
1315
00:54:45,701 --> 00:54:48,381
and we have good health
and safety codes,
1316
00:54:48,421 --> 00:54:52,901
and women can work without fear
of, you know, exploitation
1317
00:54:52,941 --> 00:54:57,221
is a very good path. And Melbourne
has gone some way to it,
1318
00:54:57,261 --> 00:54:58,981
but, you know,
it could be better.
1319
00:54:59,021 --> 00:55:01,381
[Nathan] Do you believe that
legalized prostitution
1320
00:55:01,421 --> 00:55:03,141
discourages trafficking?
1321
00:55:03,181 --> 00:55:06,861
I certainly do when it's
well-managed and well run.
1322
00:55:06,901 --> 00:55:09,741
So, as I was saying
before, I actually think
1323
00:55:09,781 --> 00:55:12,981
with a legalized system,
we should actually enable
1324
00:55:13,021 --> 00:55:14,861
workers from other
countries to work here
1325
00:55:14,901 --> 00:55:17,381
safely and legally.
And that, I think
1326
00:55:17,421 --> 00:55:19,061
could be done through
a visa system.
1327
00:55:19,101 --> 00:55:21,421
So, when you do have
a legal system
1328
00:55:21,461 --> 00:55:23,421
where they're not having
to work underground
1329
00:55:23,461 --> 00:55:25,901
and hidden away, you can control
1330
00:55:25,941 --> 00:55:28,301
and police the industry
far more easily.
1331
00:55:28,341 --> 00:55:30,301
[Nathan] That led me to
my final question,
1332
00:55:30,341 --> 00:55:32,541
which was whether Melbourne
was becoming more liberal
1333
00:55:32,581 --> 00:55:34,901
or conservative in
its approach to sex?
1334
00:55:34,941 --> 00:55:37,261
Well, thankfully,
I think Australians
1335
00:55:37,301 --> 00:55:39,621
are becoming far more
liberal in their approach,
1336
00:55:39,661 --> 00:55:43,061
and you can only see that like, in the
statistics about who supports gay marriage
1337
00:55:43,101 --> 00:55:47,021
or, you know, is opposed
to Internet censorship.
1338
00:55:47,061 --> 00:55:48,701
But unfortunately,
1339
00:55:48,741 --> 00:55:51,861
our politicians are going
the opposite direction,
1340
00:55:51,901 --> 00:55:53,981
and I think they,
they tend to listen
1341
00:55:54,021 --> 00:55:57,821
to small minority groups like
the people across the street,
1342
00:55:57,861 --> 00:56:01,541
um, and kowtow to them rather
than listening to the majority.
1343
00:56:01,581 --> 00:56:03,581
- Thank you so much for your time.
- Thanks, Nathan.
1344
00:56:03,621 --> 00:56:04,981
- It's been a pleasure.
- Thank you, likewise.
1345
00:56:05,021 --> 00:56:06,381
Thank you, Fiona.
1346
00:56:06,421 --> 00:56:08,341
[upbeat music]
1347
00:56:12,821 --> 00:56:14,181
[Nathan] It's my last few
hours in Melbourne,
1348
00:56:14,221 --> 00:56:15,581
I've finally had
a chance to sample
1349
00:56:15,621 --> 00:56:18,101
some of its much
celebrated coffee.
1350
00:56:18,141 --> 00:56:19,981
The city is modern
and cosmopolitan.
1351
00:56:20,021 --> 00:56:21,501
It has impressive skyscrapers
1352
00:56:21,541 --> 00:56:23,181
and expensive restaurants.
1353
00:56:23,221 --> 00:56:25,421
I've seen all aspects
of its sexual culture
1354
00:56:25,461 --> 00:56:27,061
and it's been a real eye-opener.
1355
00:56:27,101 --> 00:56:29,541
There's a history of liberal
sexual attitude here,
1356
00:56:29,581 --> 00:56:31,221
but there's clearly a debate
1357
00:56:31,261 --> 00:56:32,581
between those who
want more freedom
1358
00:56:32,621 --> 00:56:34,421
and those who want
to restrict it.
1359
00:56:34,461 --> 00:56:36,301
And although the sex
industry, legal and illegal,
1360
00:56:36,341 --> 00:56:38,381
is all around them,
Melburnians seem to go about
1361
00:56:38,421 --> 00:56:41,221
their daily lives without
giving it a second glance.
1362
00:56:41,261 --> 00:56:42,541
For those involved, however,
1363
00:56:42,581 --> 00:56:44,421
it can be lucrative,
exhilarating,
1364
00:56:44,461 --> 00:56:46,221
and dangerous to
both body and mind.
1365
00:56:46,261 --> 00:56:47,741
It's been a fascinating journey,
1366
00:56:47,781 --> 00:56:49,021
and I'm glad I've
had the opportunity
1367
00:56:49,061 --> 00:56:50,901
to experience such a unique city
1368
00:56:50,941 --> 00:56:53,021
with its own
distinctive culture.
1369
00:56:53,061 --> 00:56:55,021
For now though,
it's time to leave.
1370
00:56:55,061 --> 00:56:56,901
[upbeat music]
1371
00:57:24,061 --> 00:57:26,621
[theme music]
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