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These are the user uploaded subtitles that are being translated: 1 00:00:01,793 --> 00:00:04,630 ‐ Everywhere you turn, you're going to find clutter. 2 00:00:04,671 --> 00:00:06,381 (dramatic music) 3 00:00:06,465 --> 00:00:08,884 ‐ I would describe my father's house as uninhabitable. 4 00:00:08,967 --> 00:00:10,594 ‐ He's definitely got a problem. 5 00:00:13,055 --> 00:00:15,307 ‐ [Dennis] Judy was diagnosed with Parkinson's. 6 00:00:15,349 --> 00:00:17,935 ‐ But I think my mom deserves much better. 7 00:00:18,018 --> 00:00:19,394 It's hard on my emotions when I go in there 8 00:00:19,478 --> 00:00:21,647 and I see that they're living like that. 9 00:00:22,105 --> 00:00:26,568 I'm sorry, I can't, I never saw this like this. 10 00:00:26,652 --> 00:00:28,779 I mean this is too much. 11 00:00:28,862 --> 00:00:30,072 ‐ It's okay. 12 00:00:31,865 --> 00:00:34,326 ‐ This is the worst thing I could have ever experienced. 13 00:00:34,368 --> 00:00:35,702 ‐ We're not trying to screw you. 14 00:00:35,786 --> 00:00:37,329 We're trying to deal with this. 15 00:00:38,455 --> 00:00:41,166 ‐ I'm a broken man, I have no spirit left! 16 00:00:41,250 --> 00:00:43,502 You let me down so badly! 17 00:00:44,336 --> 00:00:47,047 ‐ Dennis please, we can leave. 18 00:00:47,130 --> 00:00:49,424 ‐ Dennis is gone, we need him here. 19 00:00:49,508 --> 00:00:51,051 No Dennis, no finish. 20 00:00:51,134 --> 00:00:54,304 (suspenseful music) 21 00:01:06,275 --> 00:01:09,695 (dramatic piano music) 22 00:01:22,666 --> 00:01:25,252 (upbeat music) 23 00:01:33,510 --> 00:01:36,638 ‐ I'm Dennis and I am a retired architect. 24 00:01:38,098 --> 00:01:40,309 I've never thought of myself as a hoarder, 25 00:01:40,350 --> 00:01:42,519 but I'm hoarding, I know that. 26 00:01:45,105 --> 00:01:47,983 Anyone entering the house immediately becomes aware 27 00:01:48,025 --> 00:01:50,110 that there's clutter here. 28 00:01:52,529 --> 00:01:55,866 I've got hallways that are crowded to the point 29 00:01:55,949 --> 00:01:58,493 where you can barely walk through. 30 00:01:58,577 --> 00:02:00,329 In the living room, items are stacked 31 00:02:00,412 --> 00:02:03,290 on top of one another almost to the ceiling. 32 00:02:03,373 --> 00:02:06,043 Items at the bottom are being crushed. 33 00:02:06,126 --> 00:02:09,129 Everywhere you turn, you're going to find clutter. 34 00:02:09,880 --> 00:02:11,173 The other rooms in the house 35 00:02:11,256 --> 00:02:14,301 are equally in as bad condition. 36 00:02:14,384 --> 00:02:16,303 Kitchen area is hardly usable. 37 00:02:16,345 --> 00:02:20,265 And my bathroom facilities aren't totally functional. 38 00:02:20,349 --> 00:02:22,184 I've got three rooms in the house right now 39 00:02:22,267 --> 00:02:26,063 that are so full you can't even get in the doorway. 40 00:02:26,146 --> 00:02:27,314 They're stuffed full with boxes 41 00:02:27,397 --> 00:02:28,482 that have things in them 42 00:02:28,565 --> 00:02:31,193 that I haven't viewed for the last 12 years. 43 00:02:31,276 --> 00:02:32,986 Don't know what's in a lot of them. 44 00:02:33,028 --> 00:02:35,238 There's just so much, it's overwhelming. 45 00:02:41,119 --> 00:02:43,246 ‐ I'm Steve, Dennis is my dad. 46 00:02:44,623 --> 00:02:46,208 I would describe my father's house 47 00:02:46,291 --> 00:02:47,751 as uninhabitable at this point 48 00:02:47,834 --> 00:02:50,045 because of the fact that there are so many items 49 00:02:50,128 --> 00:02:51,672 in there that you can't move around. 50 00:02:51,755 --> 00:02:53,298 You can't find anything. 51 00:02:53,340 --> 00:02:56,426 He has managed to fill every room of the house 52 00:02:56,510 --> 00:03:00,013 as well as most of the exterior places. 53 00:03:00,097 --> 00:03:02,557 The property is almost half an acre 54 00:03:02,641 --> 00:03:05,227 and he's managed to bring in all different types 55 00:03:05,310 --> 00:03:09,022 of building materials, collectibles, he's got boats. 56 00:03:09,106 --> 00:03:12,818 He's got several cars, he's got lots of tools. 57 00:03:12,901 --> 00:03:15,237 They're all out in the way they're being exposed 58 00:03:15,320 --> 00:03:17,406 and basically being destroyed. 59 00:03:19,700 --> 00:03:22,369 ‐ I'm Pam and Dennis is my father. 60 00:03:22,452 --> 00:03:24,913 My father is definitely a hoarder. 61 00:03:24,996 --> 00:03:28,333 He can't just have one of anything. 62 00:03:28,375 --> 00:03:32,212 He needs to have five, 10, 20, 100. 63 00:03:32,295 --> 00:03:35,132 He feels like everything's a treasure, 64 00:03:35,173 --> 00:03:39,136 everything has value, everything has purpose. 65 00:03:39,177 --> 00:03:40,762 He's definitely got a problem. 66 00:03:41,680 --> 00:03:43,849 ‐ I absolutely do like to collect things, 67 00:03:43,932 --> 00:03:46,727 not with the intention of keeping them all for myself, 68 00:03:46,810 --> 00:03:49,479 but possibly doing some resale. 69 00:03:49,521 --> 00:03:52,315 But we never got around to doing enough of that. 70 00:03:52,357 --> 00:03:54,484 ‐ My father has always believed 71 00:03:54,526 --> 00:03:57,571 that things have value and that things can be fixed, 72 00:03:57,654 --> 00:04:00,157 and he likes to see things get repurposed. 73 00:04:00,240 --> 00:04:02,033 But as time has progressed on, 74 00:04:02,117 --> 00:04:04,327 the accumulation of materials 75 00:04:04,411 --> 00:04:07,914 has been at a faster rate than his ability to use them. 76 00:04:07,998 --> 00:04:09,040 ‐ So I have acquired quite a bit 77 00:04:09,124 --> 00:04:12,002 of sculptural work, woodcarvings. 78 00:04:12,085 --> 00:04:13,795 There's a lot of lumber here. 79 00:04:13,879 --> 00:04:16,631 There are scrap metals, multiple wheelchairs, 80 00:04:16,715 --> 00:04:19,926 five motor homes which are stuffed full with things, 81 00:04:20,010 --> 00:04:23,680 four of what I refer to as snack vans or bread trucks, 82 00:04:23,764 --> 00:04:27,225 over a dozen cars, including classic cars. 83 00:04:27,309 --> 00:04:29,311 I will never in my lifetime get to do 84 00:04:29,352 --> 00:04:32,272 all that my ambitions have drawn me into. 85 00:04:35,984 --> 00:04:37,486 ‐ My dad is a dreamer. 86 00:04:37,569 --> 00:04:42,657 My dad has had aspirations to do massive major projects. 87 00:04:42,741 --> 00:04:45,494 He has the capability to do any one thing. 88 00:04:45,535 --> 00:04:46,578 The challenge is, I think that 89 00:04:46,661 --> 00:04:48,330 he gets too big in his dreams 90 00:04:48,371 --> 00:04:51,583 and doesn't find ways to moderate those. 91 00:04:52,626 --> 00:04:54,336 ‐ One of the rooms that I have things in 92 00:04:54,419 --> 00:04:56,463 is all trains at this point. 93 00:04:56,505 --> 00:05:00,050 And I probably own almost every model that they ever made 94 00:05:00,133 --> 00:05:01,968 and in some cases, duplicates. 95 00:05:02,052 --> 00:05:06,306 ‐ I have probably invested almost $80,000 in trains. 96 00:05:07,390 --> 00:05:08,975 I don't do much cooking. 97 00:05:09,017 --> 00:05:13,355 My main substances right now are the frozen dinners. 98 00:05:13,438 --> 00:05:15,482 I use a microwave to cook with. 99 00:05:15,524 --> 00:05:18,819 I have actually just one sitting space at the table. 100 00:05:18,902 --> 00:05:21,988 The rest of the table is covered with things. 101 00:05:22,072 --> 00:05:23,156 ‐ I think for a long time, 102 00:05:23,240 --> 00:05:26,868 my dad has been unwilling to admit 103 00:05:26,952 --> 00:05:33,124 that his house and his property is not acceptable. 104 00:05:33,208 --> 00:05:35,794 He's always felt like it was not as bad 105 00:05:35,877 --> 00:05:39,005 as people say or think. 106 00:05:39,089 --> 00:05:40,382 It's very frustrating. 107 00:05:41,258 --> 00:05:42,425 ‐ He's always made excuses 108 00:05:42,509 --> 00:05:44,427 for why things are the way they are over there 109 00:05:44,511 --> 00:05:46,805 and why he has all the hoarded materials. 110 00:05:46,847 --> 00:05:50,809 But at this point, it is simply out of control. 111 00:05:52,686 --> 00:05:54,354 ‐ I'm Denise, I'm Steve's wife 112 00:05:54,437 --> 00:05:56,314 and Dennis is my father‐in‐law. 113 00:05:57,274 --> 00:06:01,319 Dennis' house was always very cluttered. 114 00:06:01,403 --> 00:06:04,364 And in an uncomfortable way, cluttered. 115 00:06:04,447 --> 00:06:08,326 We've tried over time to go over there to clean up, 116 00:06:08,368 --> 00:06:12,414 but then he just moves new things in 117 00:06:12,497 --> 00:06:14,708 or it'll last like a day. 118 00:06:14,791 --> 00:06:17,419 So we've decided we can't really do anything else 119 00:06:17,502 --> 00:06:22,424 to help him because he wasn't willing to accept the help. 120 00:06:22,507 --> 00:06:23,675 ‐ It's a classic story 121 00:06:23,758 --> 00:06:25,635 of you can only offer help so many times 122 00:06:25,719 --> 00:06:28,513 and if somebody's just not willing to accept it, 123 00:06:28,597 --> 00:06:30,849 you have to kinda walk away. 124 00:06:32,183 --> 00:06:34,519 ‐ Dennis is an alcoholic also. 125 00:06:34,603 --> 00:06:37,022 We're afraid he'll go back to drinking. 126 00:06:37,105 --> 00:06:38,690 So we felt, at the time, 127 00:06:38,773 --> 00:06:41,067 that the hoarding was better than the drinking. 128 00:06:43,028 --> 00:06:44,446 ‐ Unfortunately at this point, 129 00:06:44,529 --> 00:06:47,198 it's very seldom that family or friends 130 00:06:47,282 --> 00:06:49,117 come for any kind of a visit. 131 00:06:49,200 --> 00:06:52,662 And it's pretty obvious why I don't invite them over. 132 00:06:52,704 --> 00:06:54,956 The place isn't very hospitable. 133 00:06:57,667 --> 00:06:59,628 and the majority of the relatives 134 00:06:59,669 --> 00:07:02,297 have no idea what the conditions are here. 135 00:07:02,380 --> 00:07:05,592 Right now, there's just so much everywhere I turn, 136 00:07:05,675 --> 00:07:08,345 I find something that should be dealt with 137 00:07:09,220 --> 00:07:10,805 that I'm just caught in a spin. 138 00:07:10,889 --> 00:07:13,099 I never wanted it to be like this. 139 00:07:13,183 --> 00:07:14,351 But here I am. 140 00:07:16,853 --> 00:07:19,856 (suspenseful music) 141 00:07:22,525 --> 00:07:23,652 ‐ When we were kids, 142 00:07:23,693 --> 00:07:26,571 the house was nowhere near what it is today. 143 00:07:26,655 --> 00:07:29,407 There was nothing of this magnitude and nature 144 00:07:29,491 --> 00:07:31,076 when we were growing up. 145 00:07:31,159 --> 00:07:32,702 ‐ Our childhood was very good. 146 00:07:32,786 --> 00:07:34,955 We had a very good family life. 147 00:07:35,038 --> 00:07:37,207 My parents have always had an excellent marriage. 148 00:07:37,290 --> 00:07:39,125 They got married very young. 149 00:07:39,167 --> 00:07:41,419 They were high school sweethearts. 150 00:07:41,503 --> 00:07:43,129 ‐ Judith and I were first married 151 00:07:43,213 --> 00:07:45,090 when I was still in college, 152 00:07:45,173 --> 00:07:48,593 and we've been married for over 50 years at this point. 153 00:07:48,677 --> 00:07:52,222 I must say that Judy has been the love of my life 154 00:07:52,305 --> 00:07:53,723 from the time I first met her. 155 00:07:53,807 --> 00:07:55,850 We've been best of friends throughout the years 156 00:07:55,934 --> 00:07:58,853 and we've always done things as a team. 157 00:07:58,937 --> 00:08:02,440 After our son and daughter had left home, 158 00:08:02,524 --> 00:08:04,901 as empty‐nesters, one of the activities 159 00:08:04,985 --> 00:08:08,947 that we took pleasure in was going to flea markets, 160 00:08:09,030 --> 00:08:10,532 going to thrift stores, 161 00:08:10,615 --> 00:08:13,827 finding things that we considered to be treasures. 162 00:08:15,078 --> 00:08:18,498 The thrill of the hunt was always the way we saw it 163 00:08:18,581 --> 00:08:21,084 as something that we took pleasure in. 164 00:08:21,167 --> 00:08:24,462 In most cases, it was our intention to resell 165 00:08:24,504 --> 00:08:25,880 the things that we were acquiring, 166 00:08:25,964 --> 00:08:29,217 knowing that the majority of it could be sold 167 00:08:29,300 --> 00:08:30,844 for more than what we paid for it. 168 00:08:30,927 --> 00:08:34,639 And we did quite well in the resale of the items. 169 00:08:34,723 --> 00:08:36,558 Our house in Pittsburgh was actually 170 00:08:36,641 --> 00:08:39,894 about 7,000 square feet under roof. 171 00:08:39,978 --> 00:08:43,481 And it did provide for us to collect a lot of things 172 00:08:43,523 --> 00:08:46,484 that you wouldn't have in a smaller house. 173 00:08:54,868 --> 00:08:57,537 (dramatic music) 174 00:08:59,039 --> 00:09:01,791 Judith was diagnosed with the Parkinson's 175 00:09:01,875 --> 00:09:04,544 about three years before I retired 176 00:09:04,627 --> 00:09:06,546 and before we left Pittsburgh. 177 00:09:06,629 --> 00:09:07,922 We were very fortunate for years 178 00:09:08,006 --> 00:09:11,217 that the medicine helped us go through 179 00:09:11,301 --> 00:09:13,553 and keep her as functional as possible. 180 00:09:14,721 --> 00:09:17,098 ‐ In the early days, there were so many good days 181 00:09:17,182 --> 00:09:18,558 and very few bad days. 182 00:09:19,517 --> 00:09:20,810 ‐ Initially, when you're diagnosed, 183 00:09:20,894 --> 00:09:22,979 it starts out a little bit slower 184 00:09:23,063 --> 00:09:24,647 but it is a life‐changer. 185 00:09:25,482 --> 00:09:26,566 ‐ It was around the time 186 00:09:26,649 --> 00:09:29,652 that Judy was diagnosed with the Parkinson's 187 00:09:29,736 --> 00:09:31,988 that we decided to come to California 188 00:09:32,030 --> 00:09:34,449 to get closer to our grandchildren 189 00:09:34,532 --> 00:09:36,159 and our son and daughter. 190 00:09:36,201 --> 00:09:38,745 ‐ When my parents decided to relocate to California, 191 00:09:38,828 --> 00:09:41,164 my dad decided to handle the move 192 00:09:41,247 --> 00:09:42,832 and the relocation himself. 193 00:09:42,916 --> 00:09:45,877 ‐ My father bought a bunch of defunct bread trucks 194 00:09:45,960 --> 00:09:49,506 and motor homes and basically filled them to the brim. 195 00:09:49,589 --> 00:09:52,008 ‐ [] And hired a crew of guys to actually move 196 00:09:52,092 --> 00:09:55,595 all of his worldly possessions across the country. 197 00:09:56,513 --> 00:09:59,432 ‐ He did about eight trips and spent probably 198 00:09:59,516 --> 00:10:02,185 somewhere to the tune of about 80000 dollars. 199 00:10:02,268 --> 00:10:05,396 ‐ He had aspirations of selling off all these trucks 200 00:10:05,480 --> 00:10:06,648 and making back all the money, 201 00:10:06,731 --> 00:10:08,316 but here we are 10 years later 202 00:10:08,399 --> 00:10:09,984 and the trucks are still full mostly 203 00:10:10,026 --> 00:10:14,656 with the stuff that he brought from Pittsburgh. 204 00:10:14,697 --> 00:10:16,825 ‐ Part of the reason that I've been reluctant 205 00:10:16,866 --> 00:10:17,992 to separate from the things 206 00:10:18,076 --> 00:10:20,578 is because I do have a lot of money tied up. 207 00:10:20,662 --> 00:10:21,913 So we brought it here 208 00:10:21,996 --> 00:10:24,791 and that was a terrible mistake. 209 00:10:32,423 --> 00:10:35,718 (suspenseful music) 210 00:10:35,802 --> 00:10:38,054 ‐ I didn't bring it in a little at a time. 211 00:10:38,138 --> 00:10:40,807 It came in as an overwhelming abundance. 212 00:10:40,890 --> 00:10:43,518 At this point, what I was considering to be assets 213 00:10:43,601 --> 00:10:45,854 have become true liabilities. 214 00:10:48,565 --> 00:10:50,859 ‐ I'm very sad at the amount of money, 215 00:10:50,942 --> 00:10:53,945 and time, and effort that my father has spent. 216 00:10:54,028 --> 00:10:57,157 And he has drained his savings down significantly 217 00:10:57,240 --> 00:10:58,867 as a result of all this. 218 00:10:58,950 --> 00:11:00,243 ‐ I will have to acknowledge 219 00:11:00,326 --> 00:11:03,163 I have mistakenly invested heavily, to the point 220 00:11:03,246 --> 00:11:06,749 where our retirement funds were put in jeopardy. 221 00:11:08,668 --> 00:11:10,670 ‐ I wouldn't be able to put an exact amount 222 00:11:10,753 --> 00:11:13,590 on the amount that he's spent on the hoarding, 223 00:11:13,673 --> 00:11:15,800 but I will say that it could be somewhere 224 00:11:15,884 --> 00:11:18,011 half a million to a million dollars. 225 00:11:22,140 --> 00:11:24,893 (dramatic music) 226 00:11:28,354 --> 00:11:30,815 ‐ Okay, nice and easy now. 227 00:11:30,857 --> 00:11:32,859 Come on, you're coming up to the step. 228 00:11:32,942 --> 00:11:35,236 At this point in time, I need to help my wife 229 00:11:35,320 --> 00:11:37,655 with almost every life activity. 230 00:11:38,698 --> 00:11:40,325 It actually has become very difficult 231 00:11:40,408 --> 00:11:44,621 to get my wife from the bed to the living room space. 232 00:11:44,704 --> 00:11:47,165 Okay, stand up until I get you there. 233 00:11:47,248 --> 00:11:49,876 I try to assist her in walking as often as I can 234 00:11:49,959 --> 00:11:52,045 but things have just become so crowded. 235 00:11:57,717 --> 00:11:58,968 I'm gonna have to acknowledge 236 00:11:59,010 --> 00:12:01,554 that this is probably not a safe environment 237 00:12:01,638 --> 00:12:03,640 for even an able‐bodied person. 238 00:12:05,099 --> 00:12:08,144 ‐ He is pretty much her full‐time caregiver. 239 00:12:08,186 --> 00:12:11,522 My mother just has to be monitored 24/7. 240 00:12:11,606 --> 00:12:15,276 It's constant intensive care. 241 00:12:15,360 --> 00:12:16,319 ‐ It's too cold? 242 00:12:16,361 --> 00:12:19,322 I have to take care of all her body functions 243 00:12:19,405 --> 00:12:21,074 and do her feedings, 244 00:12:21,157 --> 00:12:23,868 which at this point are a liquid nutrient 245 00:12:23,952 --> 00:12:26,788 that is put in through a pump. 246 00:12:27,705 --> 00:12:30,166 ‐ Things have progressed quite significantly 247 00:12:30,250 --> 00:12:32,210 and she's lost a lot of the mobility 248 00:12:32,293 --> 00:12:33,253 that she used to have 249 00:12:33,336 --> 00:12:36,089 and she doesn't have a lot of the same ability 250 00:12:36,172 --> 00:12:39,550 to socialize and communicate with us like we used to. 251 00:12:39,634 --> 00:12:41,719 ‐ Oh, you're saying to no, okay, I'm sorry. 252 00:12:41,803 --> 00:12:43,972 ‐ So it's hard, it wears on you. 253 00:12:50,728 --> 00:12:51,854 ‐ [Dennis] What would you like to watch? 254 00:12:51,938 --> 00:12:53,648 ‐ It's just very difficult. 255 00:12:53,690 --> 00:12:55,066 It's hard on my emotions when I go in there 256 00:12:55,149 --> 00:12:57,402 and I see that they're living like that. 257 00:12:59,028 --> 00:13:01,656 I think my mom deserves much better, 258 00:13:01,698 --> 00:13:03,992 and while we've tried to have people come in 259 00:13:04,033 --> 00:13:06,494 to help with assisting with care 260 00:13:06,577 --> 00:13:08,496 for my mother and cleaning, 261 00:13:08,579 --> 00:13:10,039 frankly, no one will enter the house 262 00:13:10,123 --> 00:13:12,208 because it's too cluttered. 263 00:13:12,292 --> 00:13:13,459 It's a safety hazard. 264 00:13:13,543 --> 00:13:15,003 They're afraid to administer shots 265 00:13:15,086 --> 00:13:17,463 and things like that in there if they needed to. 266 00:13:17,547 --> 00:13:19,299 It's just unsanitary. 267 00:13:19,382 --> 00:13:22,385 ‐ You okay with what I have on on the television? 268 00:13:23,803 --> 00:13:26,973 ‐ It's frustrated me that my dad has not prioritized 269 00:13:27,056 --> 00:13:29,976 getting our house in a condition 270 00:13:30,018 --> 00:13:32,061 where we could bring in an outside caregiver 271 00:13:32,145 --> 00:13:35,148 to support my mom and him, 272 00:13:35,189 --> 00:13:38,151 and I think they desperately need it. 273 00:13:44,907 --> 00:13:47,910 (suspenseful music) 274 00:13:47,994 --> 00:13:51,456 ‐ Code Enforcement started contacting my father 275 00:13:51,539 --> 00:13:53,583 approximately six years ago. 276 00:13:53,666 --> 00:13:56,252 And as his hoarding has gotten worse, 277 00:13:56,336 --> 00:14:00,131 they issued him some pretty significant citations and fines. 278 00:14:00,173 --> 00:14:03,426 And now they are coming back with an ultimatum 279 00:14:03,509 --> 00:14:05,053 that he must clean it up. 280 00:14:06,220 --> 00:14:08,348 And they were very concerned about my mother's wellbeing, 281 00:14:08,431 --> 00:14:12,143 so Adult Protective Services from the county came in 282 00:14:12,226 --> 00:14:13,686 and they're gravely concerned 283 00:14:13,770 --> 00:14:15,438 about the welfare of my mother 284 00:14:15,521 --> 00:14:18,024 in the conditions she's living in right now. 285 00:14:18,983 --> 00:14:20,234 ‐ At this point in time, 286 00:14:20,318 --> 00:14:23,279 in order to satisfy the City Code Enforcement group, 287 00:14:23,363 --> 00:14:26,449 we have to clean up both the outside of the house 288 00:14:26,532 --> 00:14:27,992 and the inside of the house. 289 00:14:28,993 --> 00:14:30,161 ‐ There's a great sense of urgency 290 00:14:30,244 --> 00:14:32,830 around getting my parents house 291 00:14:32,872 --> 00:14:34,540 and property cleaned up now. 292 00:14:35,917 --> 00:14:38,753 It's gotten to a point where it's at the end game. 293 00:14:38,836 --> 00:14:40,505 We're in a critical state, 294 00:14:40,588 --> 00:14:42,507 where if he doesn't make amends 295 00:14:42,590 --> 00:14:44,634 to this house on this property, 296 00:14:44,675 --> 00:14:45,593 the city's gonna take it. 297 00:14:45,676 --> 00:14:52,975 (dramatic music) 298 00:14:55,186 --> 00:14:57,313 ‐ It scares me to think that my parents might 299 00:14:57,355 --> 00:15:00,900 lose their house if they don't remediate the property. 300 00:15:01,025 --> 00:15:03,403 And that it's come to this state of crisis. 301 00:15:08,950 --> 00:15:10,451 It's scary to think that they're living 302 00:15:10,535 --> 00:15:12,995 this close to the edge in a last ditch effort 303 00:15:13,079 --> 00:15:15,915 to resolve it before things go completely south. 304 00:15:18,501 --> 00:15:20,962 ‐ I'm very concerned about the condition of my home. 305 00:15:21,087 --> 00:15:24,340 I'm just not living in a safe environment at this point. 306 00:15:24,424 --> 00:15:27,802 I know that I need to clean up things soon as possible. 307 00:15:27,844 --> 00:15:31,556 But one man against this amount is just hopeless. 308 00:15:54,370 --> 00:15:56,122 ‐ Hi, ‐ I'm Dr. Michael Tompkins. 309 00:15:56,205 --> 00:15:57,999 ‐ Oh, nice to meet you. ‐ Very nice to meet you. 310 00:15:58,082 --> 00:16:00,126 ‐ Would you like to come in? ‐ I would like to come in. 311 00:16:00,209 --> 00:16:01,627 I'm Dr. Michael Tompkins. 312 00:16:01,669 --> 00:16:03,254 I'm a psychologist and I specialize 313 00:16:03,337 --> 00:16:05,465 in the treatment of hoarding disorder. 314 00:16:05,548 --> 00:16:06,674 So this is the living room. 315 00:16:06,799 --> 00:16:07,967 ‐ This is it, you can see 316 00:16:08,009 --> 00:16:09,844 that I have an abundance of things here 317 00:16:09,927 --> 00:16:12,013 that don't belong. 318 00:16:12,138 --> 00:16:13,931 I recognize that at this point. 319 00:16:14,015 --> 00:16:15,057 ‐ What is the hardest thing 320 00:16:15,183 --> 00:16:17,101 about living here right now as it is? 321 00:16:17,185 --> 00:16:19,479 ‐ Just to the point where I'm so dissatisfied, 322 00:16:19,562 --> 00:16:22,482 I can't walk through the aisles are too narrow. 323 00:16:22,565 --> 00:16:23,983 I'm bumping things over, 324 00:16:24,066 --> 00:16:26,486 my assets have become liabilities. 325 00:16:26,569 --> 00:16:27,153 ‐ It's very clear to me 326 00:16:27,278 --> 00:16:28,988 that Dennis realizes that he has 327 00:16:29,071 --> 00:16:31,824 put too much attention on the stuff. 328 00:16:31,908 --> 00:16:36,120 Which is very insightful and very promising. 329 00:16:36,204 --> 00:16:38,664 When was the moment that you said, 330 00:16:38,748 --> 00:16:40,208 this is not any way to live? 331 00:16:40,333 --> 00:16:43,002 ‐ Prior to the code enforcement even coming back. 332 00:16:43,085 --> 00:16:44,212 And I think that's probably why 333 00:16:44,295 --> 00:16:47,048 I'm more ready to accept that at this point. 334 00:16:47,131 --> 00:16:48,925 I just got to the point where I realized 335 00:16:49,008 --> 00:16:51,969 that all of the ambitions that I had for projects, 336 00:16:52,053 --> 00:16:54,055 I'm not ever gonna get to any of that. 337 00:16:54,138 --> 00:16:56,641 So that it's not gonna serve any purpose. 338 00:16:56,724 --> 00:16:58,017 ‐ Part of what the letting go 339 00:16:58,100 --> 00:17:00,228 is going to bring up for you, 340 00:17:00,353 --> 00:17:03,981 is letting go of these plans that you had for things. 341 00:17:04,065 --> 00:17:06,025 It's a dream that in a sense. 342 00:17:06,108 --> 00:17:06,984 ‐ I'm a dreamer. ‐ Yeah? 343 00:17:07,026 --> 00:17:08,361 ‐ I was an architect 344 00:17:08,444 --> 00:17:10,696 and I'm creatively thinking all the time. 345 00:17:10,780 --> 00:17:11,864 ‐ That's right. 346 00:17:11,989 --> 00:17:13,074 ‐ He has something that's very common 347 00:17:13,157 --> 00:17:14,200 for people with hoarding disorder. 348 00:17:14,283 --> 00:17:16,118 He's a very creative thinker. 349 00:17:16,202 --> 00:17:20,039 And so he's always thinking about how to use things. 350 00:17:20,164 --> 00:17:21,874 I can see that's gonna be coming up 351 00:17:21,958 --> 00:17:24,293 a lot when you make decisions. 352 00:17:24,377 --> 00:17:26,921 What percentage of this stuff do you think, 353 00:17:27,004 --> 00:17:28,714 you need to let go of? 354 00:17:28,798 --> 00:17:29,840 And what percentage of the stuff 355 00:17:29,924 --> 00:17:31,384 do you think you will let go of? 356 00:17:31,509 --> 00:17:35,346 ‐ I can see letting go of almost 80 to 90%. 357 00:17:35,429 --> 00:17:38,766 I'm ready to see it cleared out. 358 00:17:38,849 --> 00:17:39,892 ‐ That's a lot. 359 00:17:39,976 --> 00:17:42,019 I've never actually seen someone do that. 360 00:17:42,103 --> 00:17:43,312 So we'll have to see. 361 00:17:44,397 --> 00:17:46,774 ‐ I understand that there'll be things leaving, 362 00:17:46,857 --> 00:17:48,359 that I may may wish I had. 363 00:17:48,442 --> 00:17:50,486 ‐ So then, you're already anticipating 364 00:17:50,570 --> 00:17:53,155 that you may have some feelings of regret. 365 00:17:53,197 --> 00:17:56,033 ‐ Yes, I'm talking about tools, 366 00:17:56,117 --> 00:17:57,660 ‐ Okay. ‐ Utilitarian things 367 00:17:57,743 --> 00:17:59,996 that I might need for a project. 368 00:18:00,037 --> 00:18:01,706 That's my primary interest at this point. 369 00:18:01,831 --> 00:18:04,000 ‐ So part of the loss that's gonna come up for you 370 00:18:04,083 --> 00:18:06,502 is just letting go of that. 371 00:18:06,586 --> 00:18:09,714 Dennis definitely suffers from hoarding disorder. 372 00:18:09,797 --> 00:18:10,631 And the reason I say that, 373 00:18:10,715 --> 00:18:12,967 is not just the amount of stuff, 374 00:18:13,050 --> 00:18:14,468 show me another area of the house will you? 375 00:18:14,552 --> 00:18:15,511 ‐ Okay. 376 00:18:15,595 --> 00:18:18,055 ‐ But he shared many common beliefs 377 00:18:18,139 --> 00:18:20,141 that people with hoarding disorder have. 378 00:18:20,224 --> 00:18:22,727 ‐ As you can see the clutter continues into here. 379 00:18:23,978 --> 00:18:27,648 I sit here and I, along with using this as a desk area, 380 00:18:27,690 --> 00:18:28,733 I eat at this point. 381 00:18:30,026 --> 00:18:32,445 One of the main reasons that I have set up 382 00:18:32,528 --> 00:18:34,905 this way is my wife's bedroom area 383 00:18:34,989 --> 00:18:36,032 is right behind you. 384 00:18:36,115 --> 00:18:38,534 And when she's in need, 385 00:18:38,618 --> 00:18:42,705 I can hear her signaling me easily. 386 00:18:42,830 --> 00:18:45,249 ‐ Tell me what a typical day like 387 00:18:45,374 --> 00:18:47,251 is in your home for you and Judy? 388 00:18:47,335 --> 00:18:49,462 ‐ Well, I get up at the crack of dawn 389 00:18:49,587 --> 00:18:52,632 and I'm outside trying to shift things around. 390 00:18:52,673 --> 00:18:53,966 Create some order. 391 00:18:54,050 --> 00:18:55,384 Maybe an hour outside 392 00:18:55,468 --> 00:18:57,637 and then I come in and check on Judy. 393 00:18:57,762 --> 00:19:01,891 And administer her medications. 394 00:19:01,974 --> 00:19:03,434 I'll change diapers, 395 00:19:03,517 --> 00:19:08,397 change the ostomy bag out and get her comfortable. 396 00:19:08,481 --> 00:19:09,315 Walk around. 397 00:19:09,398 --> 00:19:11,067 ‐ So I'm just feeling so sad 398 00:19:11,150 --> 00:19:14,111 hearing this story about how ill Judy is. 399 00:19:15,529 --> 00:19:16,489 ‐ It's what it is. 400 00:19:16,572 --> 00:19:18,824 ‐ I know, but it's so sad I mean she's so ill, 401 00:19:18,866 --> 00:19:20,201 ‐ I know, but. 402 00:19:20,284 --> 00:19:21,410 ‐ how sad has it been for you? ‐ I know. 403 00:19:21,494 --> 00:19:22,995 I know that if it were me 404 00:19:23,037 --> 00:19:24,580 she would be doing the same thing. 405 00:19:24,705 --> 00:19:26,749 ‐ I'm sure, I'm sure. 406 00:19:26,874 --> 00:19:27,958 It's really very difficult for me 407 00:19:28,000 --> 00:19:32,672 to imagine just how difficult every day is for Dennis. 408 00:19:32,755 --> 00:19:33,881 It would be a sad situation 409 00:19:33,964 --> 00:19:35,966 if their home was pristine and neat. 410 00:19:36,050 --> 00:19:37,718 How long has she been this ill? 411 00:19:37,843 --> 00:19:38,803 ‐ She's been in this state 412 00:19:38,928 --> 00:19:40,137 for about two years at this point 413 00:19:40,179 --> 00:19:42,973 and it's getting progressively worse. 414 00:19:43,057 --> 00:19:44,558 Each day it becomes more difficult 415 00:19:44,684 --> 00:19:47,520 for her to negotiate out to the living room area. 416 00:19:47,603 --> 00:19:49,355 Unfortunately, she's to the point now 417 00:19:49,438 --> 00:19:51,482 where she's not conversant. 418 00:19:52,441 --> 00:19:54,026 She can't do anything, she can't rest 419 00:19:54,110 --> 00:19:56,529 She can't, take her body functions. 420 00:19:56,612 --> 00:19:58,656 ‐ She's like a 100% dependent upon you? 421 00:19:58,698 --> 00:20:00,991 ‐ Absolutely. ‐ Yeah, I'm so sorry Dennis. 422 00:20:01,075 --> 00:20:06,414 As you tell me about what a day is like for you and Judy, 423 00:20:07,540 --> 00:20:10,251 It just, I feel sad about this, 424 00:20:10,334 --> 00:20:11,711 It sounds so hard. 425 00:20:12,962 --> 00:20:14,839 What is this like for you? 426 00:20:14,922 --> 00:20:16,048 ‐ At this point, 427 00:20:16,132 --> 00:20:20,010 it is a routine that I have come to accept. 428 00:20:20,136 --> 00:20:22,680 Truthfully it was in previous times 429 00:20:22,763 --> 00:20:27,935 that I had the greatest fear, sadness, anxiety, 430 00:20:29,145 --> 00:20:31,981 anticipating where we might wind up at some point in time. 431 00:20:32,064 --> 00:20:33,691 We are there now. 432 00:20:33,774 --> 00:20:35,568 There isn't much more that can go wrong. 433 00:20:35,651 --> 00:20:40,030 ‐ Absolutely, when you look at Judy now, 434 00:20:40,156 --> 00:20:41,824 what do you miss about the Judy? 435 00:20:43,325 --> 00:20:44,785 Because I can only imagine 436 00:20:44,869 --> 00:20:45,995 what that comes up for you 437 00:20:46,036 --> 00:20:48,622 ‐ Having been partners and best friends all of our life, 438 00:20:50,124 --> 00:20:51,709 There's an absence at this point. 439 00:20:52,918 --> 00:20:54,795 ‐ So now you look at her 440 00:20:54,879 --> 00:20:57,757 and there so little of the Judy 441 00:20:57,840 --> 00:21:01,218 that you know, that you knew. ‐ Exactly. 442 00:21:01,302 --> 00:21:02,219 ‐ That you fell in love with. 443 00:21:02,303 --> 00:21:03,971 ‐ I sit on the couch at times 444 00:21:04,013 --> 00:21:05,639 and while she's not aware of it, 445 00:21:05,723 --> 00:21:09,643 I'm looking at her, still admiring her beauty 446 00:21:09,685 --> 00:21:12,062 and wishing to God that she was back 447 00:21:12,146 --> 00:21:14,690 to the level that she had been at. 448 00:21:14,774 --> 00:21:15,816 All through her life. 449 00:21:15,858 --> 00:21:18,861 She could go into a room of complete strangers 450 00:21:18,944 --> 00:21:19,570 and within 10 minutes, 451 00:21:19,653 --> 00:21:21,989 you'd think she knew everybody. 452 00:21:22,072 --> 00:21:23,365 ‐ And that's something. 453 00:21:23,449 --> 00:21:25,367 ‐ She just engaged people. ‐ She would light up a room. 454 00:21:25,451 --> 00:21:26,494 ‐ Oh, absolutely. 455 00:21:26,535 --> 00:21:27,995 ‐ And that light it's not there anymore. 456 00:21:28,078 --> 00:21:29,497 ‐ There's nothing there. 457 00:21:29,538 --> 00:21:31,332 I'm told that by the dermatologist 458 00:21:31,415 --> 00:21:34,460 that there's just nothing more she can offer me. 459 00:21:34,502 --> 00:21:37,004 And Judy had at one point in time, 460 00:21:37,087 --> 00:21:38,756 asked me if it all possible 461 00:21:38,839 --> 00:21:40,800 to keep her at home rather than put her 462 00:21:40,883 --> 00:21:44,637 into an institution type of facility. 463 00:21:44,678 --> 00:21:46,972 And I'm trying to live up to that. 464 00:21:47,014 --> 00:21:49,266 ‐ But Dennis, I'm deeply touched 465 00:21:49,350 --> 00:21:52,228 and overwhelmed for you and Judy. 466 00:21:52,311 --> 00:21:55,147 ‐ I think other people feel more sadness 467 00:21:55,231 --> 00:21:57,483 for me than I feel I deserve. 468 00:21:57,566 --> 00:22:01,153 Honestly, I just, this is what needs to be done. 469 00:22:01,237 --> 00:22:02,488 ‐ Sounds like loyalty. 470 00:22:06,325 --> 00:22:09,495 ‐ We've always been best friends, good partners, 471 00:22:09,578 --> 00:22:12,998 we worked as a team and raised 472 00:22:13,040 --> 00:22:15,543 a wonderful daughter and son. 473 00:22:17,294 --> 00:22:19,171 Those are, have to say 474 00:22:19,255 --> 00:22:21,715 my greatest satisfaction at this point. 475 00:22:21,799 --> 00:22:22,550 ‐ That's right. 476 00:22:22,633 --> 00:22:24,134 You know at the end of the day, 477 00:22:24,218 --> 00:22:26,470 it's those attachments to people 478 00:22:26,554 --> 00:22:29,181 that we love and who love us. 479 00:22:29,265 --> 00:22:31,267 It's way more important. 480 00:22:31,350 --> 00:22:32,434 ‐ Absolutely. 481 00:22:33,394 --> 00:22:34,728 ‐ In my opinion, ‐ Unfortunately, 482 00:22:34,812 --> 00:22:38,399 I've focus too much on the material aspects of life. 483 00:22:38,482 --> 00:22:40,526 ‐ So is part of your motivation, 484 00:22:40,609 --> 00:22:45,739 also to make this situation easier for her to... 485 00:22:46,740 --> 00:22:49,159 ‐ I want her to be as comfortable as possible. 486 00:22:49,243 --> 00:22:52,204 ‐ But we're gonna do everything we can 487 00:22:52,288 --> 00:22:54,915 to help you make that happen. 488 00:22:54,999 --> 00:22:56,625 But at the end of the day, 489 00:22:56,709 --> 00:22:59,253 it's your stuff and you make your decisions. 490 00:22:59,336 --> 00:23:01,338 And I'm gonna be here to help you. 491 00:23:01,463 --> 00:23:04,008 But what happens or doesn't happen 492 00:23:04,091 --> 00:23:06,635 is ultimately up to you, okay? 493 00:23:06,719 --> 00:23:08,470 It's clear to me that why he's doing this. 494 00:23:08,512 --> 00:23:10,556 Is his loyalty to his wife 495 00:23:10,639 --> 00:23:12,766 and his loyalty to taking care of her. 496 00:23:12,850 --> 00:23:15,352 And I think as Judy faces mortality, 497 00:23:15,436 --> 00:23:17,438 mortality is right in Dennis's face. 498 00:23:18,480 --> 00:23:20,566 Maybe that's a wake up call for Dennis. 499 00:23:34,538 --> 00:23:36,332 ‐ My son and daughter and daughter in law 500 00:23:36,373 --> 00:23:37,791 have all expressed concern 501 00:23:37,875 --> 00:23:40,461 for the conditions that I've allowed to develop here. 502 00:23:40,544 --> 00:23:42,463 They are certainly concerned 503 00:23:42,546 --> 00:23:45,132 for my wife's health and our ability 504 00:23:45,215 --> 00:23:47,134 to move her around within the home. 505 00:23:47,176 --> 00:23:49,511 I just know that there's so much here 506 00:23:49,595 --> 00:23:51,055 that is gonna have to be dealt with, 507 00:23:51,138 --> 00:23:53,432 that it overwhelms me at times. 508 00:23:53,515 --> 00:23:56,518 So it's time to just release, let go, 509 00:23:56,602 --> 00:23:58,646 try to turn over a new leaf in life. 510 00:24:09,615 --> 00:24:10,658 ‐ Hello, ‐ Hi there. 511 00:24:10,741 --> 00:24:12,242 ‐ Hello ‐ How are you men, 512 00:24:12,326 --> 00:24:13,661 nice to meet you. ‐ Good to meet you. 513 00:24:13,702 --> 00:24:16,413 I am Matt Paxton, I'm an extreme cleaning specialist. 514 00:24:16,497 --> 00:24:18,749 Alright introduced me to everybody else who is it? 515 00:24:18,832 --> 00:24:19,833 ‐ I'm Linda. 516 00:24:19,875 --> 00:24:20,960 ‐ Linda and you are, how are you related? 517 00:24:21,001 --> 00:24:24,129 I am Denise's mother. ‐ The mother in law? 518 00:24:24,171 --> 00:24:25,381 ‐ Yes. ‐ Okay. 519 00:24:25,464 --> 00:24:27,549 ‐ I am Denise. ‐ Denise, good to meet you. 520 00:24:27,675 --> 00:24:31,512 Okay, so this is like, really, really serious. 521 00:24:31,595 --> 00:24:33,514 I was able to read the code violation 522 00:24:33,597 --> 00:24:34,974 and it's very serious. 523 00:24:35,015 --> 00:24:36,850 They want this whole yard emptied. 524 00:24:37,935 --> 00:24:39,645 I haven't toured the entire property yet, 525 00:24:39,728 --> 00:24:42,314 but just looking behind you two. 526 00:24:42,439 --> 00:24:44,692 I mean, it just keeps going and going. 527 00:24:44,775 --> 00:24:46,819 This is a packed yard. 528 00:24:46,860 --> 00:24:50,030 I see stacks and stacks and stacks of wood and metal. 529 00:24:50,114 --> 00:24:53,283 (dramatic music) 530 00:24:53,367 --> 00:24:55,244 This is top 10 for me. 531 00:24:55,327 --> 00:24:57,121 So Steve, what do you know about the code violation? 532 00:24:57,204 --> 00:24:59,331 ‐ So when I met with the Code Enforcement Department, 533 00:24:59,373 --> 00:25:00,958 they indicated that first and foremost, 534 00:25:01,041 --> 00:25:02,543 the front yard needs to be cleared out. 535 00:25:02,626 --> 00:25:04,294 And they were also very concerned 536 00:25:04,336 --> 00:25:05,462 about my mother's well being 537 00:25:05,504 --> 00:25:06,797 and they said secondary needs 538 00:25:06,880 --> 00:25:08,632 to be the inside of the house. 539 00:25:08,674 --> 00:25:11,301 And last step in our backyard. 540 00:25:11,343 --> 00:25:12,594 They basically said it needs 541 00:25:12,678 --> 00:25:14,638 to happen and it needs to happen now. 542 00:25:14,680 --> 00:25:16,473 ‐ Can you understand why? 543 00:25:16,557 --> 00:25:18,475 ‐ Yes, yes, absolutely, yeah. 544 00:25:18,600 --> 00:25:21,186 ‐ Like the piles, I mean, they're as high as you are. 545 00:25:21,270 --> 00:25:23,313 I mean, I'm looking. ‐ Yes. 546 00:25:23,397 --> 00:25:24,732 ‐ But he organized 'em so well, 547 00:25:24,815 --> 00:25:26,608 I can see there's wood here, there's metal there. 548 00:25:26,692 --> 00:25:28,277 I mean, he's got it all organized. 549 00:25:28,360 --> 00:25:30,487 Which fits the brain that I talked to on the phone. 550 00:25:30,529 --> 00:25:34,033 I mean, he's brilliant man, which makes this harder. 551 00:25:34,825 --> 00:25:36,160 Because you and I see this, 552 00:25:36,201 --> 00:25:37,745 what do you see when you look around all behind you? 553 00:25:37,828 --> 00:25:39,246 What do you see? ‐ Junk. 554 00:25:39,329 --> 00:25:40,330 ‐ Junk. ‐ Junk. 555 00:25:40,414 --> 00:25:41,915 ‐ And what does your dad see? 556 00:25:41,999 --> 00:25:43,959 ‐ He sees value, he sees collectibles. 557 00:25:44,001 --> 00:25:44,585 ‐ Potential. 558 00:25:44,668 --> 00:25:45,961 ‐ Yes, he's potential. 559 00:25:46,045 --> 00:25:48,672 ‐ And so that's the really hard part here. 560 00:25:48,756 --> 00:25:52,217 The only way, only way to help a hoarder like Dennis, 561 00:25:52,301 --> 00:25:54,636 is to focus on the true crisis, 562 00:25:54,762 --> 00:25:56,346 which is his wife's health. 563 00:25:56,472 --> 00:25:58,015 Good news is he really loves your mom. 564 00:25:58,098 --> 00:26:00,893 ‐ Yes, he does. ‐ He has real motivation. 565 00:26:00,976 --> 00:26:02,895 He's told me I can take everything, 566 00:26:02,978 --> 00:26:05,147 which I won't believe (laughs) 567 00:26:05,272 --> 00:26:06,565 ‐ We don't believe it either. 568 00:26:06,690 --> 00:26:08,358 ‐ But if he lets me take half or 75% we'll be okay. 569 00:26:08,442 --> 00:26:09,234 ‐ Yeah. ‐ I never know 570 00:26:09,318 --> 00:26:10,152 how these are gonna go. 571 00:26:10,194 --> 00:26:11,111 He's either gonna let us clean 572 00:26:11,195 --> 00:26:12,321 the whole yard really easy, 573 00:26:12,362 --> 00:26:15,449 or he's gonna fight on every nail on every piece of wood. 574 00:26:15,532 --> 00:26:17,826 And what he says may not be what happens. 575 00:26:17,868 --> 00:26:20,496 And so we'll see when we get started. 576 00:26:20,579 --> 00:26:21,663 I'd like to go in inside the house. 577 00:26:21,789 --> 00:26:23,165 Do you guys want to go in and see it with me? 578 00:26:23,207 --> 00:26:24,041 ‐ Absolutely, sure. 579 00:26:24,124 --> 00:26:25,626 ‐ You've been inside. ‐ Yes, I have. 580 00:26:25,667 --> 00:26:26,877 ‐ Have you been inside? ‐ I have. 581 00:26:26,960 --> 00:26:28,629 ‐ All right and you have not been inside? 582 00:26:28,712 --> 00:26:31,340 Okay, I have not seen the inside of the house. 583 00:26:31,423 --> 00:26:33,967 I was told it's as bad as the outside. 584 00:26:34,843 --> 00:26:35,969 ‐ Yes. 585 00:26:36,095 --> 00:26:38,263 ‐ All right, I'm gonna let you lead us into the house. 586 00:26:38,347 --> 00:26:39,848 ‐ Okay, oh my God. 587 00:26:46,355 --> 00:26:48,857 Oh, you've gotta be kidding. 588 00:26:51,235 --> 00:26:54,113 Oh Lord, oh boy. 589 00:26:54,196 --> 00:26:56,281 ‐ All right, hang right there for me. 590 00:26:56,365 --> 00:26:58,283 Are you okay? ‐ Yeah. 591 00:26:58,367 --> 00:26:59,576 ‐ You look rather shocked. 592 00:26:59,660 --> 00:27:02,121 ‐ Well yeah, I mean I was warned, 593 00:27:02,204 --> 00:27:04,998 but you can't really be warned for this. 594 00:27:05,082 --> 00:27:08,794 ‐ This is really sad, really sad. 595 00:27:08,919 --> 00:27:09,545 I mean... 596 00:27:09,628 --> 00:27:11,672 ‐ This is where they watch TV. 597 00:27:11,755 --> 00:27:13,465 ‐ This is where they hang out. 598 00:27:13,507 --> 00:27:14,800 ‐ So you call that the cockpit? 599 00:27:14,883 --> 00:27:17,845 This is their safest space in the home. 600 00:27:19,221 --> 00:27:21,223 So this is their happy place. 601 00:27:21,306 --> 00:27:22,391 ‐ This is sad. 602 00:27:22,474 --> 00:27:23,809 ‐ This is sadness, this is depression. 603 00:27:23,892 --> 00:27:26,937 This is sickness. I mean, this is not a choice. 604 00:27:27,020 --> 00:27:31,150 ‐ No, no, this is really bad. 605 00:27:33,777 --> 00:27:36,363 ‐ So you know them very well. 606 00:27:36,446 --> 00:27:37,865 I mean, they're amazing people. 607 00:27:37,948 --> 00:27:41,160 ‐ Amazing people and talking to them away from here. 608 00:27:41,243 --> 00:27:43,996 You would have absolutely no idea they live like this. 609 00:27:44,079 --> 00:27:45,497 No idea. 610 00:27:45,539 --> 00:27:46,665 ‐ I want to keep telling you 611 00:27:46,707 --> 00:27:48,667 this is an example of his brain. 612 00:27:49,960 --> 00:27:52,171 His brain is this full of good ideas. 613 00:27:53,338 --> 00:27:57,342 This is the physical manifestation of all his ideas. 614 00:27:57,426 --> 00:27:58,552 I'm freaking out a little bit, 615 00:27:58,635 --> 00:28:01,138 I gotta clean this and the outside now. 616 00:28:02,890 --> 00:28:04,641 I mean, this itself is a four day job, 617 00:28:04,683 --> 00:28:07,269 ‐ It's a lot of work, there's a lot here. 618 00:28:07,352 --> 00:28:09,062 ‐ This is a bad situation. 619 00:28:09,188 --> 00:28:11,940 Mathematically, it's not really doable. 620 00:28:12,024 --> 00:28:13,901 There's a ton of work here to do. 621 00:28:13,984 --> 00:28:16,904 Did your dad or before your mom got sick? 622 00:28:17,696 --> 00:28:18,780 ‐ At some level, 623 00:28:18,864 --> 00:28:20,365 but it's gotten progressively worse. 624 00:28:20,449 --> 00:28:21,658 And I think it's been something 625 00:28:21,700 --> 00:28:24,328 to help him fill a void or a need. 626 00:28:24,369 --> 00:28:27,831 As a result of my mom's health condition deteriorating. 627 00:28:27,873 --> 00:28:29,082 ‐ [Matt] And this is what, 628 00:28:29,166 --> 00:28:29,958 how long they've been here? ‐ Eight years. 629 00:28:30,042 --> 00:28:31,293 ‐ Eight years! ‐ Yeah. 630 00:28:31,376 --> 00:28:34,963 ‐ I mean, that is, dude I've seen some things 631 00:28:35,047 --> 00:28:37,507 and to do this much volume in eight years, 632 00:28:37,591 --> 00:28:39,468 is a full time job. 633 00:28:39,551 --> 00:28:40,636 ‐ I agree. 634 00:28:40,719 --> 00:28:42,512 ‐ Alright, so I do want to go see the bedroom 635 00:28:42,596 --> 00:28:43,513 and then I'm gonna make a plan. 636 00:28:43,597 --> 00:28:45,307 I'm starting to shift my needs. 637 00:28:45,349 --> 00:28:46,516 Now that I See the inside. 638 00:28:46,600 --> 00:28:47,643 ‐ Okay? ‐ So I'm gonna let you 639 00:28:47,684 --> 00:28:49,144 lead us that way. 640 00:28:49,228 --> 00:28:50,270 We'll check that out. 641 00:28:50,354 --> 00:28:51,188 ‐ Okay. ‐ All right. 642 00:28:51,271 --> 00:28:51,813 ‐ That's good. 643 00:28:51,897 --> 00:28:54,274 (dramatic rock music) 644 00:28:54,358 --> 00:28:55,359 ‐ Oh my God! 645 00:28:55,442 --> 00:28:56,235 Oh my God! 646 00:28:57,527 --> 00:28:58,654 Oh my God! 647 00:28:58,737 --> 00:28:59,821 ‐ Everything was pretty good 648 00:28:59,905 --> 00:29:01,198 until we got into the bedroom. 649 00:29:01,281 --> 00:29:03,659 And the bedroom is when we just fell off the rails. 650 00:29:03,742 --> 00:29:04,993 Alright, this is where they're living. 651 00:29:05,077 --> 00:29:06,995 (bleep) 652 00:29:08,330 --> 00:29:11,750 ‐ This is bad, holy cow. 653 00:29:11,833 --> 00:29:12,960 ‐ How are y'all feeling? 654 00:29:13,001 --> 00:29:14,544 This is tough, you look devastated. 655 00:29:14,628 --> 00:29:15,963 ‐ I am. 656 00:29:16,046 --> 00:29:17,798 ‐ I'm gonna assume right off the bat, 657 00:29:17,881 --> 00:29:19,174 you didn't know it was this bad. 658 00:29:19,258 --> 00:29:22,970 ‐ I did not, no. 659 00:29:23,053 --> 00:29:26,974 ‐ We would never have allowed this, never. 660 00:29:27,766 --> 00:29:28,976 ‐ It makes me very sad 661 00:29:29,059 --> 00:29:31,228 that she's currently living in those conditions. 662 00:29:32,187 --> 00:29:33,730 Had I known, I would have jumped in 663 00:29:33,814 --> 00:29:35,732 and done something right away immediately. 664 00:29:35,816 --> 00:29:38,235 I mean, my skin is crawling right now. 665 00:29:46,535 --> 00:29:47,619 ‐ Look, it is what it is. 666 00:29:47,703 --> 00:29:49,121 ‐ I know it's just really hard to see. 667 00:29:49,204 --> 00:29:51,707 ‐ Talk me through this, you're his son, 668 00:29:51,790 --> 00:29:54,126 you love your parents, they're amazing people. 669 00:29:55,210 --> 00:29:57,879 ‐ I can't, I never saw this like this. 670 00:29:59,423 --> 00:30:01,133 I mean, this is too much. 671 00:30:01,174 --> 00:30:04,469 This is too much if I ever had any idea, 672 00:30:04,511 --> 00:30:07,055 what's going on in here, I'm sorry. 673 00:30:07,180 --> 00:30:10,892 ‐ [Matt] It's okay. (sobbing) 674 00:30:10,976 --> 00:30:13,603 ‐ God, I mean it's just with the lights 675 00:30:13,687 --> 00:30:14,896 and everything as you see. 676 00:30:14,980 --> 00:30:15,939 I mean, it's usually dark in here 677 00:30:16,023 --> 00:30:18,150 'cause my mom's sleeping. 678 00:30:18,233 --> 00:30:20,027 To see it all it's just really hard. 679 00:30:20,110 --> 00:30:21,737 ‐ It's very common for a good hoarder 680 00:30:21,820 --> 00:30:24,990 to be able to hide this from their family members. 681 00:30:25,073 --> 00:30:27,326 Right, They'll say, mom's getting dressed. 682 00:30:27,409 --> 00:30:29,494 I don't want you to go into the room, right? 683 00:30:29,578 --> 00:30:30,704 'Cause they know how bad it is. 684 00:30:30,829 --> 00:30:33,206 So they don't want you as a son, to see it. 685 00:30:34,041 --> 00:30:36,168 ‐ This is just not not for her. 686 00:30:37,377 --> 00:30:39,046 She doesn't deserve this. ‐ We'll do it getting better. 687 00:30:39,129 --> 00:30:40,047 ‐ No, no! 688 00:30:40,130 --> 00:30:42,549 ‐ We're fixing it, we're fixing it. 689 00:30:42,841 --> 00:30:43,800 ‐ Hang in there honey. 690 00:30:43,842 --> 00:30:45,344 ‐ It's getting better okay? 691 00:30:45,677 --> 00:30:46,636 ‐ [Matt] I'm gonna let y'all go. 692 00:30:46,678 --> 00:30:48,180 ‐ Okay, Matt. 693 00:30:50,640 --> 00:30:51,725 ‐ I know this is super hard. 694 00:30:51,850 --> 00:30:53,101 ‐ It's really hard. ‐ I know it is. 695 00:30:53,185 --> 00:30:55,187 Alright, we're gonna make this better 696 00:30:55,312 --> 00:30:56,438 ‐ Thank you 697 00:30:56,521 --> 00:30:57,606 ‐ And you're included, 698 00:30:57,689 --> 00:30:59,524 We're all gonna do this together. 699 00:30:59,608 --> 00:31:00,525 Let's go outside, I'll give you 700 00:31:00,609 --> 00:31:02,277 a few minute break, just relax. 701 00:31:02,361 --> 00:31:03,320 ‐ Thank you. 702 00:31:04,529 --> 00:31:07,824 ‐ We've got to make a safe place for Judith to live. 703 00:31:07,908 --> 00:31:09,868 So we've got to find a way to do it. 704 00:31:09,993 --> 00:31:12,412 But this is going to be incredibly hard. 705 00:31:12,496 --> 00:31:15,540 (gentle piano music) 706 00:31:26,593 --> 00:31:29,805 This is absolutely a serious hoarding situation. 707 00:31:29,846 --> 00:31:31,139 For us to save this house 708 00:31:31,223 --> 00:31:33,350 and to make it safe for his wife, 709 00:31:34,601 --> 00:31:37,062 he's gotta pretty much let us do what we want to do. 710 00:31:37,145 --> 00:31:39,564 If Dennis fights this at all, 711 00:31:39,648 --> 00:31:41,483 we can't help this family. 712 00:31:54,913 --> 00:31:57,332 ‐ Good morning everybody? ‐ [Crowd] Good morning. 713 00:31:57,416 --> 00:31:59,418 ‐ It's a lot of people here Dennis. 714 00:31:59,501 --> 00:32:00,293 ‐ They are. 715 00:32:00,377 --> 00:32:01,294 ‐ Big crew big job. 716 00:32:01,378 --> 00:32:02,170 How are you feeling? 717 00:32:02,254 --> 00:32:04,589 ‐ I'm feeling fine right now. 718 00:32:04,673 --> 00:32:07,050 I'm ready, I need tthe help. 719 00:32:07,134 --> 00:32:10,011 Everyone here wants to make a safe space for your wife. 720 00:32:10,095 --> 00:32:11,471 ‐ I appreciate that very much. 721 00:32:11,555 --> 00:32:13,306 ‐ Okay and we want to help you. 722 00:32:13,390 --> 00:32:16,393 Junk guys, organizers, we got our hands full. 723 00:32:16,476 --> 00:32:19,312 Normally we pick inside or outside. 724 00:32:19,354 --> 00:32:21,481 We got to do both, this is real. 725 00:32:21,565 --> 00:32:22,899 I mean, this is very serious. 726 00:32:22,983 --> 00:32:24,693 Code Enforcement's made it very clear. 727 00:32:24,776 --> 00:32:27,154 We got to basically start at the front of the property 728 00:32:27,237 --> 00:32:28,738 and go all the way to the back. 729 00:32:28,822 --> 00:32:30,365 That includes the inside of the house. 730 00:32:30,449 --> 00:32:32,033 What are your thoughts and concerns, 731 00:32:32,117 --> 00:32:33,785 before we get started? 732 00:32:33,869 --> 00:32:35,328 ‐ I don't have any concerns. 733 00:32:35,412 --> 00:32:38,165 I'm more angry at myself for letting this happen, 734 00:32:38,874 --> 00:32:40,417 letting it get to this point. 735 00:32:42,794 --> 00:32:44,504 ‐ Family, any thoughts? 736 00:32:44,588 --> 00:32:45,922 ‐ We have to do this. 737 00:32:47,507 --> 00:32:50,010 This has been long incoming. 738 00:32:51,011 --> 00:32:54,473 My mom deserves a safe place to be. 739 00:32:54,514 --> 00:32:57,017 We wanted to do this for a long time. 740 00:32:57,100 --> 00:33:00,312 And my dad wasn't ready. 741 00:33:00,395 --> 00:33:03,690 And so, we're grateful that he's now ready, 742 00:33:03,773 --> 00:33:04,983 because that's the only thing 743 00:33:05,066 --> 00:33:07,319 that's going to make this happen. 744 00:33:07,360 --> 00:33:10,655 And since his willingness and support to get it done. 745 00:33:11,865 --> 00:33:15,368 ‐ We all see that you're not safe 746 00:33:15,452 --> 00:33:19,289 and Judy's not safe living in this environment any longer. 747 00:33:19,372 --> 00:33:22,834 And I really want you to kind of like see that. 748 00:33:22,876 --> 00:33:25,045 Because it's really important 749 00:33:25,128 --> 00:33:27,380 that we solve that problem for you. 750 00:33:28,798 --> 00:33:30,884 ‐ Alright, I think we can do this man, 751 00:33:30,967 --> 00:33:32,135 (mumbles) 752 00:33:32,177 --> 00:33:33,845 Thank you for letting us even try. 753 00:33:33,929 --> 00:33:35,222 ‐ You don't know how much of a blessing 754 00:33:35,305 --> 00:33:36,139 I feel this is ‐ Well, 755 00:33:36,223 --> 00:33:37,182 let's talk in three days. 756 00:33:37,265 --> 00:33:38,683 ‐ I appreciate it. (laughs) 757 00:33:38,767 --> 00:33:41,019 It won't change, it will not change. 758 00:33:41,102 --> 00:33:42,187 ‐ All right, this is old school. 759 00:33:42,270 --> 00:33:43,355 Let's put our hands in. 760 00:33:43,438 --> 00:33:45,148 We got this organizers everybody, come on in, 761 00:33:45,190 --> 00:33:47,484 we can do this, one, two three, 762 00:33:47,526 --> 00:33:48,944 (crowd shouts) 763 00:33:49,027 --> 00:33:52,697 (dramatic percussive music) 764 00:33:55,575 --> 00:33:56,826 ‐ Normally I would only start in one area, 765 00:33:56,910 --> 00:33:58,245 but just because of the sheer volume, 766 00:33:58,328 --> 00:34:00,872 we've got to start both inside and outside. 767 00:34:00,956 --> 00:34:03,124 Let me get my junk guys started outside 768 00:34:03,208 --> 00:34:05,710 and I'm going to get my organizers started inside. 769 00:34:09,005 --> 00:34:11,675 (wood cracking) 770 00:34:15,554 --> 00:34:17,264 This morning is really just about building trust 771 00:34:17,347 --> 00:34:19,474 and seeing where that goes. 772 00:34:19,558 --> 00:34:21,142 so far plan's working. 773 00:34:21,184 --> 00:34:22,269 The organizing are banging through, 774 00:34:22,352 --> 00:34:23,812 they're sorting everything, 775 00:34:23,895 --> 00:34:25,647 junk guys are moving things in and out. 776 00:34:25,689 --> 00:34:27,232 Both groups are working fast, 777 00:34:27,315 --> 00:34:29,985 but we need more space to tear apart this hoard. 778 00:34:30,026 --> 00:34:31,278 The one problem we're starting to have 779 00:34:31,361 --> 00:34:33,321 is there's no room to put anything. 780 00:34:38,326 --> 00:34:41,204 Hey guys, we have like an actual problem. 781 00:34:42,038 --> 00:34:43,665 You guys are doing so good 782 00:34:45,083 --> 00:34:47,168 that I have nowhere to put all this stuff outside. 783 00:34:47,252 --> 00:34:49,004 So I need you to like chill for 10 minutes. 784 00:34:49,087 --> 00:34:50,964 I've gotta make space outside. 785 00:34:51,006 --> 00:34:51,965 If you can... 786 00:34:52,048 --> 00:34:53,800 ‐ How much room you need. 787 00:34:53,883 --> 00:34:55,468 ‐ Well I'm about to move a huge RV. 788 00:34:55,510 --> 00:34:58,305 (dramatic music) 789 00:35:13,361 --> 00:35:14,654 This is probably the most successful 790 00:35:14,696 --> 00:35:15,488 first hours we've ever had. 791 00:35:15,530 --> 00:35:16,656 I mean we've already cleared out 792 00:35:16,740 --> 00:35:20,118 almost four trucks and taking about 2000 pounds 793 00:35:20,201 --> 00:35:22,037 of metal out of his house. 794 00:35:22,120 --> 00:35:23,788 This is a challenge. 795 00:35:23,872 --> 00:35:24,998 It's such a dense hoard, 796 00:35:25,081 --> 00:35:27,751 that anytime you move anything, it just grows. 797 00:35:27,834 --> 00:35:29,502 We have a tractor in here now. 798 00:35:29,586 --> 00:35:30,670 We're doing a lot. 799 00:35:30,754 --> 00:35:32,547 There's just so much stuff here 800 00:35:32,631 --> 00:35:35,508 that it doesn't even look like we're doing anything. 801 00:35:37,636 --> 00:35:40,221 ‐ Can we let someone else enjoy this? 802 00:35:40,305 --> 00:35:41,431 ‐ Emma would love them. 803 00:35:41,514 --> 00:35:43,141 ‐ I was gonna wear those for Halloween 804 00:35:43,183 --> 00:35:45,602 but it passed without my finding them. 805 00:35:45,685 --> 00:35:47,354 ‐ Someone else's treasure. ‐ Yes. 806 00:35:47,437 --> 00:35:50,482 ‐ Dennis has being entirely too cooperative. 807 00:35:50,523 --> 00:35:52,317 For the first day of hoarding. 808 00:35:52,359 --> 00:35:53,443 I've seen this in the past 809 00:35:53,526 --> 00:35:55,570 where he's gonna say yes to everything. 810 00:35:55,654 --> 00:35:56,655 ‐ That can go. 811 00:35:56,696 --> 00:35:58,490 ‐ The bad news about this is tonight, 812 00:35:58,531 --> 00:36:00,492 when we leave, he is going to freak out. 813 00:36:00,575 --> 00:36:02,619 This is scary, he's gotta push back a little bit, 814 00:36:02,702 --> 00:36:04,871 or it means he's not taking it seriously. 815 00:36:04,954 --> 00:36:06,081 ‐ Can we e‐waste this? 816 00:36:06,164 --> 00:36:07,248 ‐ Those are good for under the car. 817 00:36:07,332 --> 00:36:08,958 Yeah we want to keep anything like that. 818 00:36:09,042 --> 00:36:10,293 ‐ They've become obsolete dad, 819 00:36:10,335 --> 00:36:11,461 We should probably... ‐ What's that? 820 00:36:11,503 --> 00:36:12,962 ‐ The old electrical things, 821 00:36:13,004 --> 00:36:14,005 the circuits on them are bad. 822 00:36:14,089 --> 00:36:15,674 You can't keep those. 823 00:36:15,757 --> 00:36:16,716 ‐ All right. 824 00:36:16,800 --> 00:36:19,135 ‐ It is possible that he's actually okay 825 00:36:19,177 --> 00:36:21,137 with everything going and he's chosen just 826 00:36:21,179 --> 00:36:24,015 to let it all go to take care of his wife. 827 00:36:24,099 --> 00:36:25,725 But it's not probable. 828 00:36:25,809 --> 00:36:27,936 ‐ What about this guy up here? 829 00:36:28,019 --> 00:36:29,396 ‐ You don't touch that. 830 00:36:30,188 --> 00:36:31,314 ‐ Why, what does he do? 831 00:36:31,356 --> 00:36:33,358 ‐ I just spent a lot of money on him. 832 00:36:33,441 --> 00:36:34,776 ‐ He's broken though. 833 00:36:34,859 --> 00:36:38,780 ‐ No, that's the antique patina the thing. 834 00:36:38,863 --> 00:36:39,989 ‐ Starlets on the bottom, 835 00:36:40,031 --> 00:36:41,199 I don't really... 836 00:36:41,282 --> 00:36:42,826 ‐ His neck's cracked, he's almost decapitated. 837 00:36:42,867 --> 00:36:44,160 ‐ I don't know that it has... 838 00:36:44,202 --> 00:36:45,787 ‐ That it has that makes it more valuable. 839 00:36:45,870 --> 00:36:47,330 It's a it's an old element. 840 00:36:47,372 --> 00:36:49,999 It's not... ‐ I kinda doubt that actually. 841 00:36:50,083 --> 00:36:52,419 ‐ We can sell that, definitely. 842 00:36:52,502 --> 00:36:53,795 ‐ I don't know, I would say 843 00:36:53,837 --> 00:36:55,839 if the group that's here, the cleaning group, 844 00:36:55,922 --> 00:36:57,549 says that it's donate able, I would donate (mumbles) 845 00:36:57,632 --> 00:36:59,759 ‐ I guarantee you I can get $100 for it. 846 00:36:59,843 --> 00:37:02,595 ‐ I don't, I think you're dreaming, no way. 847 00:37:03,805 --> 00:37:05,056 ‐ It's worth that to me. 848 00:37:05,140 --> 00:37:06,182 ‐ Well I understand that, 849 00:37:06,266 --> 00:37:07,851 but it's worth that to anyone else. 850 00:37:07,934 --> 00:37:08,852 ‐ What is it hurting? 851 00:37:08,935 --> 00:37:11,354 ‐ It's big, It takes up space, you need room. 852 00:37:11,438 --> 00:37:13,148 Dad we're never going to get this done 853 00:37:13,231 --> 00:37:15,442 unless we say yes, you're gonna have to say yes. 854 00:37:15,525 --> 00:37:17,527 ‐ On one item like that you're gonna draw a line. 855 00:37:17,610 --> 00:37:19,446 ‐ We're not gonna draw the line, I'm just saying. 856 00:37:19,529 --> 00:37:21,030 I mean, if you can't come up 857 00:37:21,114 --> 00:37:22,031 with a good purpose for it, 858 00:37:22,115 --> 00:37:23,074 we need to evaluate whether 859 00:37:23,158 --> 00:37:24,033 or not it really needs to stay. 860 00:37:24,117 --> 00:37:25,493 ‐ The fact that I appreciate it 861 00:37:25,535 --> 00:37:27,370 isn't a good enough purpose? 862 00:37:27,454 --> 00:37:30,123 ‐ You appreciate a lot of things in here and I respect that. 863 00:37:30,206 --> 00:37:31,499 ‐ Take it away. 864 00:37:31,583 --> 00:37:34,127 ‐ Dennis did let it go but he wasn't happy about it. 865 00:37:34,210 --> 00:37:36,713 And he was really then moved 866 00:37:36,796 --> 00:37:39,591 into kind of feeling a little hopeless or demorolized 867 00:37:39,674 --> 00:37:42,135 by the whole process and starts thinking, 868 00:37:42,218 --> 00:37:44,137 Well, I'm gonna be living in a home 869 00:37:44,220 --> 00:37:46,473 without anything that I appreciate. 870 00:37:46,514 --> 00:37:49,309 Or anything that's beautiful, which isn't true. 871 00:37:49,392 --> 00:37:52,312 But that's where he's sunk to in that moment. 872 00:37:52,395 --> 00:37:53,271 ‐ We're trying to be fair about... 873 00:37:53,354 --> 00:37:54,647 ‐ Take it away. ‐ Okay. 874 00:38:00,987 --> 00:38:02,197 ‐ Dennis is upset. 875 00:38:02,280 --> 00:38:05,200 He's upset with a son for taking his toy horse. 876 00:38:05,283 --> 00:38:07,327 He's been avoiding the reality all day 877 00:38:07,410 --> 00:38:08,536 and now it just hit him. 878 00:38:08,620 --> 00:38:09,746 And now I find out he's hiding 879 00:38:09,829 --> 00:38:12,248 in the truck at the end of the block. 880 00:38:12,332 --> 00:38:13,458 This is starting to weigh on him 881 00:38:13,541 --> 00:38:15,293 and he's trying to avoid it instead of talking. 882 00:38:15,335 --> 00:38:18,671 Avoidance is why we're in this situation. 883 00:38:23,009 --> 00:38:24,302 ‐ You all right men? 884 00:38:24,344 --> 00:38:25,470 ‐ Yeah, it's just getting to me a little bit. 885 00:38:25,512 --> 00:38:28,306 ‐ Well, yeah, I was like (mumbles) (chuckles) 886 00:38:28,348 --> 00:38:30,350 ‐ I just needed to get away. ‐ Okay. 887 00:38:30,433 --> 00:38:31,643 I didn't want Dennis to quit. 888 00:38:31,726 --> 00:38:34,479 If he disappears and we throw everything away. 889 00:38:35,271 --> 00:38:36,397 We haven't done anything. 890 00:38:36,481 --> 00:38:37,816 He's just gonna fill it right back up. 891 00:38:37,857 --> 00:38:40,485 That is not the time to push on a toy horse. 892 00:38:40,527 --> 00:38:42,028 Do you want to keep that? 893 00:38:42,111 --> 00:38:44,447 ‐ I wanted to keep it but it's done. 894 00:38:44,531 --> 00:38:46,366 I mean, I gave in. 895 00:38:46,449 --> 00:38:48,284 ‐ Well, but you're still allowed to have a voice. 896 00:38:48,368 --> 00:38:49,869 ‐ I'd like to have a set aside at least 897 00:38:49,953 --> 00:38:51,538 and then reconsider it later 898 00:38:51,621 --> 00:38:54,165 after we've gotten everything to the point... 899 00:38:54,207 --> 00:38:55,708 ‐ Do you want a maybe power? 900 00:38:55,792 --> 00:38:58,086 ‐ Yeah, a maybe power or something like that. 901 00:38:58,169 --> 00:38:59,504 ‐ I think that's fair. 902 00:39:07,428 --> 00:39:10,056 (gentle music) 903 00:39:25,989 --> 00:39:26,948 This is a massive job. 904 00:39:27,031 --> 00:39:29,742 And we've got a total of 10 tracks today. 905 00:39:29,826 --> 00:39:32,036 A lot of times we don't get that done in a whole cleanup. 906 00:39:32,120 --> 00:39:33,580 so we've gotten a lot done. 907 00:39:33,663 --> 00:39:35,415 We didn't even really realize what clean, 908 00:39:35,498 --> 00:39:38,543 when he wakes up and sees half an empty driveway, 909 00:39:38,626 --> 00:39:40,753 I don't know how Dennis is gonna react. 910 00:39:40,837 --> 00:39:42,171 Hiding in the truck and avoiding it 911 00:39:42,255 --> 00:39:44,173 is why we got in this problem. 912 00:39:44,257 --> 00:39:46,092 And I don't know what's gonna happen. 913 00:39:52,932 --> 00:39:56,477 (t 914 00:39:58,438 --> 00:40:00,148 ‐ [Son] I want you to still be involved in the process. 915 00:40:00,231 --> 00:40:01,357 I don't want you to shut down. 916 00:40:01,441 --> 00:40:03,401 ‐ [Dennis] It's gonna take time. 917 00:40:03,484 --> 00:40:04,903 ‐ I understand. ‐ Wounds like this just 918 00:40:04,986 --> 00:40:05,820 don't heal by words. 919 00:40:05,862 --> 00:40:08,907 ‐ [Son] I understand, I understand. 920 00:40:18,875 --> 00:40:20,877 ‐ [Dennis] I really don't think you want me out there. 921 00:40:20,960 --> 00:40:22,170 ‐ Let's go hear him out. 922 00:40:22,253 --> 00:40:23,588 ‐ How can I put my faith into somebody 923 00:40:23,671 --> 00:40:25,632 who's let me down that hard? 924 00:40:25,673 --> 00:40:26,925 ‐ I just got on the property 925 00:40:27,008 --> 00:40:29,469 and I'm hearing Dennis is pretty mad at me. 926 00:40:29,510 --> 00:40:32,472 ‐ He's got a lot of words, lip service. 927 00:40:32,513 --> 00:40:33,640 ‐ Dennis is pissed. 928 00:40:41,230 --> 00:40:42,482 He believes that I personally 929 00:40:42,523 --> 00:40:44,192 threw away all of his tools. 930 00:40:45,526 --> 00:40:47,195 ‐ When there was a challenge about keeping 931 00:40:47,278 --> 00:40:48,529 or getting rid of something, 932 00:40:48,613 --> 00:40:51,824 you ultimately said, let it go. 933 00:40:51,908 --> 00:40:55,244 My family is worth more to me than this stuff. 934 00:40:55,328 --> 00:40:56,663 ‐ And it completely is. 935 00:40:56,704 --> 00:40:57,497 ‐ So... 936 00:40:57,538 --> 00:41:00,208 ‐ That was no justification that I had 937 00:41:00,291 --> 00:41:01,668 to distinguish between the two things. 938 00:41:01,751 --> 00:41:03,461 ‐ Yeah, dad I get it, I get it. 939 00:41:03,503 --> 00:41:05,964 This is the one shot we have 940 00:41:06,005 --> 00:41:08,299 to make it right so that. 941 00:41:08,341 --> 00:41:09,550 ‐ I know that. 942 00:41:09,634 --> 00:41:10,802 ‐ Dennis is a good guy 943 00:41:10,885 --> 00:41:12,220 and I just need to sit down with him, 944 00:41:12,303 --> 00:41:13,972 talk face to face and just let him 945 00:41:14,055 --> 00:41:15,640 say what he has to say. 946 00:41:15,723 --> 00:41:17,600 I feel it, I feel the anger. 947 00:41:17,684 --> 00:41:19,310 ‐ Damn right you do. ‐ [Matt] Okay, tell me. 948 00:41:19,352 --> 00:41:20,478 ‐ And you'll own it? 949 00:41:20,561 --> 00:41:22,647 ‐ [Matt] I am, I'm here to listen. 950 00:41:22,730 --> 00:41:26,651 ‐ You promised me that I had no reason to be concerned. 951 00:41:26,693 --> 00:41:28,486 The things that I didn't want to go out of here. 952 00:41:28,569 --> 00:41:30,405 We're gonna go out of here. 953 00:41:30,488 --> 00:41:33,324 I had 14 laundry hampers. 954 00:41:33,408 --> 00:41:35,118 Lined up along that wall yesterday 955 00:41:35,201 --> 00:41:36,160 and out on the front. 956 00:41:36,202 --> 00:41:38,246 And so clearly they were tools. 957 00:41:39,205 --> 00:41:40,665 I pre sorted them. 958 00:41:40,748 --> 00:41:42,959 I took the time to do that. 959 00:41:43,001 --> 00:41:44,460 They're all gone. 960 00:41:44,544 --> 00:41:45,795 I asked you about it midday, 961 00:41:45,837 --> 00:41:48,631 you said he and you had set them aside. 962 00:41:48,715 --> 00:41:51,509 ‐ We had a lot of things. ‐ There are non to be found. 963 00:41:51,592 --> 00:41:52,802 Thousands of dollars worth of tools. 964 00:41:52,885 --> 00:41:55,638 Some of them are from my father's. 965 00:41:55,680 --> 00:41:58,766 They meant a lot to me every time I used them. 966 00:41:58,850 --> 00:42:01,644 You let me down so badly. 967 00:42:01,686 --> 00:42:04,147 I don't know which way to turn right now. 968 00:42:04,230 --> 00:42:08,026 This is the worst thing I could have ever experienced. 969 00:42:08,109 --> 00:42:09,235 I'm a broken man. 970 00:42:09,318 --> 00:42:11,237 I have no spirit left. 971 00:42:11,320 --> 00:42:12,488 I'll have nothing to work with, 972 00:42:12,572 --> 00:42:15,324 nothing to work with my grandsons on, 973 00:42:15,408 --> 00:42:16,826 half my tools are gone. 974 00:42:16,909 --> 00:42:20,538 You didn't keep the word and pass the word 975 00:42:20,621 --> 00:42:23,166 that those things should never go to the dump. 976 00:42:24,584 --> 00:42:28,171 ‐ I want to acknowledge your frustration first. 977 00:42:28,254 --> 00:42:30,131 I hear it, I feel it. 978 00:42:30,173 --> 00:42:31,549 Not all the tools were tossed. 979 00:42:31,632 --> 00:42:33,718 10% of this property has been cleaned. 980 00:42:33,801 --> 00:42:35,303 There are other tools on this property. 981 00:42:35,344 --> 00:42:39,390 Did we throw away a few things by mistake, I bet we did. 982 00:42:39,474 --> 00:42:40,850 I absolutely bet we did. 983 00:42:40,933 --> 00:42:41,976 ‐ 14 out of 14. 984 00:42:42,018 --> 00:42:43,519 ‐ We did not throw away 14 out of 14. 985 00:42:43,603 --> 00:42:44,395 ‐ Yes you did. ‐ We did not. 986 00:42:44,479 --> 00:42:45,271 ‐ They're not here. 987 00:42:45,354 --> 00:42:46,981 ‐ You don't see them. 988 00:42:47,023 --> 00:42:47,648 ‐ Show me. 989 00:42:47,732 --> 00:42:48,858 ‐ I will, I'll spend two hours. 990 00:42:48,941 --> 00:42:49,984 ‐ You show me, ‐ Timeout, 991 00:42:50,068 --> 00:42:53,154 timeout, I respected your silences. 992 00:42:53,196 --> 00:42:57,200 Time out, I have allocated over 100000 dollars, 993 00:42:57,283 --> 00:42:58,826 to clean your property. 994 00:42:58,868 --> 00:43:00,578 That's a lot of frickin money dude. 995 00:43:00,661 --> 00:43:03,664 ‐ And you... ‐ To get, stop I'm talking. 996 00:43:03,748 --> 00:43:04,999 I'm gonna listen to you when it's your turn. 997 00:43:05,041 --> 00:43:06,793 You're gonna listen to me when it's my turn. 998 00:43:06,876 --> 00:43:09,337 We're busting our ass to get you out of trouble. 999 00:43:09,420 --> 00:43:12,423 You lose all of this, all of it. 1000 00:43:12,507 --> 00:43:13,674 If we don't do our job, 1001 00:43:13,758 --> 00:43:16,677 is some of it gonna get thrown away, absolutely. 1002 00:43:16,761 --> 00:43:18,012 Yes, are you pissed about it? 1003 00:43:18,096 --> 00:43:20,306 Absolutely, should you be pissed at me? 1004 00:43:20,348 --> 00:43:21,849 Yes, it's on me. 1005 00:43:22,809 --> 00:43:24,477 If I leave and all these fines go away 1006 00:43:24,519 --> 00:43:28,189 and this yard is clean and you're pissed at me, success. 1007 00:43:28,272 --> 00:43:30,191 'Cause it means you and your wife will stay here. 1008 00:43:30,274 --> 00:43:31,150 Am I gonna do my best 1009 00:43:31,234 --> 00:43:32,151 to save everything I can you? 1010 00:43:32,235 --> 00:43:34,612 Absolutely, I will. 1011 00:43:34,695 --> 00:43:36,823 If your dad's tools got thrown away, 1012 00:43:36,864 --> 00:43:38,866 that sucks and that is on me. 1013 00:43:39,784 --> 00:43:41,035 Did I save everything? 1014 00:43:41,119 --> 00:43:42,495 No, absolutely not. 1015 00:43:42,537 --> 00:43:45,164 That's why we're in the problem we're in. 1016 00:43:45,248 --> 00:43:46,541 This is not gonna be easy. 1017 00:43:46,624 --> 00:43:48,709 We talked about that yesterday. 1018 00:43:48,793 --> 00:43:50,211 ‐ Mistakes were made, 1019 00:43:50,294 --> 00:43:52,130 mistakes probably will be made. 1020 00:43:52,171 --> 00:43:53,631 But I guess my question to you is like, 1021 00:43:53,714 --> 00:43:55,133 here's the situation, 1022 00:43:55,216 --> 00:43:57,385 Code Enforcement is breathing down your neck. 1023 00:43:57,468 --> 00:44:00,012 Life is really hard for you and Judy, 1024 00:44:01,347 --> 00:44:04,142 you won't have an opportunity like this again. 1025 00:44:04,183 --> 00:44:07,311 So my question to you is, where do you go from here? 1026 00:44:07,353 --> 00:44:10,022 Where do you go from here Dennis? 1027 00:44:10,106 --> 00:44:11,232 ‐ The only thing I can do from here, 1028 00:44:11,315 --> 00:44:13,276 is sit back and let the havoc continue. 1029 00:44:14,235 --> 00:44:15,486 ‐ Let's try and do a better job 1030 00:44:15,528 --> 00:44:16,654 at keeping an eye out today 1031 00:44:16,696 --> 00:44:18,489 for the things that really matter to you. 1032 00:44:18,573 --> 00:44:20,366 But understand, nothing was intentional 1033 00:44:20,449 --> 00:44:21,576 that we got rid of yesterday. 1034 00:44:21,659 --> 00:44:23,369 We're not trying to screw you. 1035 00:44:23,452 --> 00:44:24,745 We're trying to deal with this. 1036 00:44:24,829 --> 00:44:26,038 We want you guys to be happy, 1037 00:44:26,122 --> 00:44:27,373 you're gonna get kicked out of here. 1038 00:44:27,456 --> 00:44:28,708 If this doesn't happen. 1039 00:44:28,791 --> 00:44:29,917 I mean, maybe a few things went out. 1040 00:44:29,959 --> 00:44:31,085 I'm trying to keep an eye out 1041 00:44:31,169 --> 00:44:32,628 for stuff that is of good quality. 1042 00:44:32,670 --> 00:44:34,297 And if I accidentally threw something out 1043 00:44:34,380 --> 00:44:35,965 we shouldn't have, I'm sorry, okay? 1044 00:44:36,007 --> 00:44:38,301 That would not be my intent. 1045 00:44:38,384 --> 00:44:39,468 You know I love Grandpa, 1046 00:44:39,552 --> 00:44:41,971 I'm not trying to throw anything in his out. 1047 00:44:42,054 --> 00:44:45,224 But this has to happen and I understand it's hard. 1048 00:44:45,308 --> 00:44:46,726 ‐ Then let it happen. ‐ But You have put trust. 1049 00:44:46,809 --> 00:44:47,810 ‐ Let it happen. 1050 00:44:47,894 --> 00:44:49,270 ‐ No, no, put trust in us though. 1051 00:44:52,732 --> 00:44:55,735 ‐ The question is, given where you are right now 1052 00:44:55,818 --> 00:44:59,864 and given your lack of confidence in us 1053 00:44:59,947 --> 00:45:02,825 being able to take care of these things. 1054 00:45:02,867 --> 00:45:05,328 Can you move ahead with this? 1055 00:45:05,369 --> 00:45:06,954 Will you move ahead with this? 1056 00:45:08,206 --> 00:45:10,833 ‐ I said, I'll be here, that's all I can offer. 1057 00:45:11,709 --> 00:45:15,254 ‐ To me, that's amazing. 1058 00:45:15,338 --> 00:45:17,798 To be willing to actually move ahead with this. 1059 00:45:17,882 --> 00:45:20,468 Even feeling the way you're feeling. 1060 00:45:20,551 --> 00:45:22,094 That takes a lot of courage. 1061 00:45:23,262 --> 00:45:24,305 ‐ Takes a lot of courage. 1062 00:45:24,347 --> 00:45:25,973 ‐ It's taking everything I got. 1063 00:45:26,015 --> 00:45:28,809 ‐ I hear you, I hear you. 1064 00:45:28,893 --> 00:45:30,019 ‐ It would have been so natural 1065 00:45:30,102 --> 00:45:32,104 for me to go into the bottle last night. 1066 00:45:33,773 --> 00:45:35,691 ‐ I know you can't possibly see it now 1067 00:45:35,775 --> 00:45:38,819 but we're gonna rebuild things on the other end. 1068 00:45:38,903 --> 00:45:40,071 You're gonna make it. 1069 00:45:40,154 --> 00:45:41,822 You're gonna make it through this. 1070 00:45:41,906 --> 00:45:43,282 I know that it's hard to see it. 1071 00:45:43,366 --> 00:45:45,409 But, you're gonna be good. 1072 00:45:46,619 --> 00:45:49,956 ‐ You're gonna be okay, all right, okay? 1073 00:45:56,754 --> 00:45:59,090 (mumbles) 1074 00:46:00,466 --> 00:46:03,094 (upbeat music) 1075 00:46:11,519 --> 00:46:14,689 ‐ Dennis and I had a pretty strong argument this morning. 1076 00:46:14,772 --> 00:46:15,898 And I think his best way 1077 00:46:15,982 --> 00:46:17,692 to deal with anything is to run and hide. 1078 00:46:17,775 --> 00:46:19,694 So right now Dennis is basically sitting 1079 00:46:19,777 --> 00:46:22,071 in his car in the middle of the street. 1080 00:46:22,154 --> 00:46:24,407 And I don't know when he's coming back. 1081 00:46:30,997 --> 00:46:34,000 ‐ This is absolutely a serious hoarding situation. 1082 00:46:40,631 --> 00:46:41,632 ‐ Here we are 10 years later 1083 00:46:41,674 --> 00:46:43,092 and the trucks are still full 1084 00:46:43,175 --> 00:46:46,220 with the stuff that he brought from Pittsburgh. 1085 00:46:51,809 --> 00:46:53,144 ‐ It's really very difficult for me 1086 00:46:53,185 --> 00:46:56,814 to imagine just how difficult every day is for Dennis. 1087 00:46:56,897 --> 00:46:58,024 It would be a sad situation 1088 00:46:58,107 --> 00:47:00,192 if their home was pristine and neat. 1089 00:47:06,073 --> 00:47:07,658 ‐ We're at a critical state, 1090 00:47:07,700 --> 00:47:09,660 where if he doesn't make amends 1091 00:47:09,702 --> 00:47:11,454 to this house and his property, 1092 00:47:11,537 --> 00:47:12,872 the City's gonna take it. 1093 00:47:18,044 --> 00:47:20,963 ‐ This is the worst thing I could have ever experienced. 1094 00:47:21,005 --> 00:47:22,965 ‐ Did we throw away a few things? 1095 00:47:23,007 --> 00:47:24,342 My mistake, I bet we did. 1096 00:47:25,301 --> 00:47:26,844 Right now Dennis is sitting in his car 1097 00:47:26,927 --> 00:47:28,054 at the end of the street 1098 00:47:28,137 --> 00:47:29,805 and I don't know when he's coming back. 1099 00:47:37,229 --> 00:47:38,606 ‐ Feel like I can move this for us, 1100 00:47:38,689 --> 00:47:39,648 cause they need to get the junks. 1101 00:47:39,732 --> 00:47:41,025 That said if want to get out 1102 00:47:41,108 --> 00:47:42,777 and park it between those two cars at that end? 1103 00:47:42,860 --> 00:47:44,320 Thanks dad, appreciate it. 1104 00:47:45,905 --> 00:47:47,239 This morning my dad was really upset 1105 00:47:47,323 --> 00:47:49,533 that we got rid of a bunch of tools yesterday 1106 00:47:49,617 --> 00:47:52,536 that apparently are handed down from his father. 1107 00:47:53,704 --> 00:47:56,832 It was not intentional, accidental, but he was pissed. 1108 00:47:56,916 --> 00:47:58,501 And I don't know if he'll ever forgive us 1109 00:47:58,584 --> 00:47:59,919 for what happened yesterday. 1110 00:48:00,002 --> 00:48:02,171 He's still very mad about it right now. 1111 00:48:05,841 --> 00:48:09,136 (gentle electronic music) 1112 00:48:09,220 --> 00:48:10,304 Tools is what he cares about 1113 00:48:10,388 --> 00:48:12,139 and we're gonna focus on that today. 1114 00:48:12,223 --> 00:48:13,766 Sometimes when you're cleaning a hoarded house, 1115 00:48:13,849 --> 00:48:15,976 the most powerful tool is just to listen. 1116 00:48:16,018 --> 00:48:17,478 He likes the crew that was inside. 1117 00:48:17,561 --> 00:48:18,479 He loves you guys. 1118 00:48:18,562 --> 00:48:21,107 He knows you guys have an eye out for stuff. 1119 00:48:21,190 --> 00:48:23,859 He's pretty much mad at me. 1120 00:48:23,943 --> 00:48:24,819 And that's fine. 1121 00:48:24,902 --> 00:48:26,237 This guy needed to be heard. 1122 00:48:26,320 --> 00:48:29,365 We heard him, hopefully now we can start cleaning. 1123 00:48:29,448 --> 00:48:31,826 Bottom line, tools or where he's frustrated. 1124 00:48:31,909 --> 00:48:34,495 So all tools, I mean down to a screw, 1125 00:48:35,704 --> 00:48:37,498 keep it, keep all tools to the side, 1126 00:48:37,581 --> 00:48:39,542 we still gotta let him make that decision. 1127 00:48:39,625 --> 00:48:42,962 Plan today is to clean twice as much as we did yesterday, 1128 00:48:43,045 --> 00:48:45,256 we will have an eye out for all the tools. 1129 00:48:45,339 --> 00:48:47,174 I'm going to create a massive ridiculous pile 1130 00:48:47,258 --> 00:48:48,342 that Dennis can go through. 1131 00:48:48,426 --> 00:48:50,636 But I'm not just here to help Dennis, 1132 00:48:50,719 --> 00:48:52,012 I've got to help his wife as well. 1133 00:48:52,096 --> 00:48:53,973 She needs somewhere safe to live. 1134 00:48:54,056 --> 00:48:56,559 And right now, this place is not safe. 1135 00:48:56,642 --> 00:48:59,979 I mean right now, words are just gonna piss him off. 1136 00:49:00,062 --> 00:49:01,313 We just need to do some action 1137 00:49:01,355 --> 00:49:02,982 and get some clearing and he needs 1138 00:49:03,023 --> 00:49:04,275 to see a big pile of tools. 1139 00:49:04,358 --> 00:49:05,901 ‐ Yep, there you go. ‐ Okay, all right, lets do it. 1140 00:49:05,985 --> 00:49:09,321 (upbeat hiphop music) 1141 00:49:13,617 --> 00:49:14,493 ‐ We've got books under the TV, 1142 00:49:14,577 --> 00:49:16,996 we got books and boxes, books on the shelf. 1143 00:49:17,037 --> 00:49:18,914 Yeah, we got more books than people 1144 00:49:18,998 --> 00:49:21,542 have read in a lifetime (laughs) 1145 00:49:24,462 --> 00:49:25,754 that's a part of the train thing yeah? 1146 00:49:25,838 --> 00:49:27,673 That's all train tracks. 1147 00:49:28,841 --> 00:49:29,967 (mumbles) 1148 00:49:30,050 --> 00:49:31,260 ‐ With the bullet? 1149 00:49:31,343 --> 00:49:34,472 We just need one working that's the best bullet. 1150 00:49:36,599 --> 00:49:39,435 We may wanna see about doing a train zone. 1151 00:49:39,518 --> 00:49:42,229 Where we start to have some boxes of train stuff. 1152 00:49:50,404 --> 00:49:53,491 ‐ I've never thought I'd be living in a society like this. 1153 00:49:55,034 --> 00:49:57,369 You don't have the privacy of your own home. 1154 00:49:58,704 --> 00:50:00,414 That is ridiculous. 1155 00:50:00,498 --> 00:50:03,834 It's my responsibility whether I'm safe 1156 00:50:03,876 --> 00:50:05,544 or I'm in healthy conditions. 1157 00:50:06,670 --> 00:50:07,963 My wife wasn't complaining. 1158 00:50:08,047 --> 00:50:11,091 She wasn't hurting from anything that was going on here. 1159 00:50:12,051 --> 00:50:13,385 I'm not allowed to live the way I wanna live. 1160 00:50:13,469 --> 00:50:14,970 I got a big piece of property now 1161 00:50:15,012 --> 00:50:17,431 that I'm not allowed to do a damn thing with. 1162 00:50:18,516 --> 00:50:19,683 That is absurd. 1163 00:50:21,852 --> 00:50:23,062 I would have been just as well off 1164 00:50:23,145 --> 00:50:24,688 to have the left the police take over. 1165 00:50:25,689 --> 00:50:28,067 I'm not gonna be happy when this is done. 1166 00:50:28,150 --> 00:50:30,110 I'll be relieved that it's over, 1167 00:50:30,194 --> 00:50:31,695 but I'm not gonna be happy. 1168 00:50:35,533 --> 00:50:37,326 ‐ Do you have any more small boxes? 1169 00:50:37,368 --> 00:50:39,328 My dad came into this with good intentions 1170 00:50:39,411 --> 00:50:42,790 and a lot of positive thoughts about 1171 00:50:42,873 --> 00:50:47,044 what this was going to do for us as a family, for him. 1172 00:50:47,127 --> 00:50:49,547 But just like we've seen before in things, 1173 00:50:49,630 --> 00:50:51,882 it's like he starts with a great attitude 1174 00:50:51,966 --> 00:50:53,259 and a positive mind about things. 1175 00:50:53,342 --> 00:50:55,302 And then I think when the reality sets in, 1176 00:50:55,344 --> 00:50:58,138 sometimes it's a little more shocking to him, 1177 00:50:58,180 --> 00:51:00,641 than I think he would have ever imagined 1178 00:51:00,683 --> 00:51:04,812 and he's angry, he doesn't feel like anybody 1179 00:51:04,895 --> 00:51:07,356 should have the right to tell him 1180 00:51:07,439 --> 00:51:09,149 how he should live his life 1181 00:51:09,191 --> 00:51:11,277 and what he's allowed to have and not have 1182 00:51:11,360 --> 00:51:13,821 and he's just, he's having 1183 00:51:13,862 --> 00:51:15,573 a he's having a super hard time. 1184 00:51:18,367 --> 00:51:21,161 ‐ Dennis is feeling powerless, hopeless, 1185 00:51:21,245 --> 00:51:24,290 demoralized, out of control, overwhelmed, 1186 00:51:24,373 --> 00:51:26,458 terrified, anxious and yet 1187 00:51:26,542 --> 00:51:28,961 he's willing to move ahead with this process. 1188 00:51:29,044 --> 00:51:32,464 And moving ahead with all those feelings, 1189 00:51:32,548 --> 00:51:36,218 I don't know that we can ask a human being more than that. 1190 00:51:36,302 --> 00:51:39,305 We can't really ask them to not feel what they're feeling. 1191 00:51:39,346 --> 00:51:40,973 What we can ask them to do 1192 00:51:41,056 --> 00:51:42,975 is to feel what they're feeling and move ahead. 1193 00:51:43,058 --> 00:51:44,602 And Dennis has given us that 1194 00:51:44,685 --> 00:51:47,396 and I think he deserves a lot of credit for that. 1195 00:51:52,860 --> 00:51:55,863 (soft ballad music) 1196 00:51:57,323 --> 00:52:00,326 ‐ If he chooses to reengage and participate in this, 1197 00:52:00,409 --> 00:52:02,328 does that, in your experience, 1198 00:52:02,411 --> 00:52:07,041 increase the chances that he can be successful ongoing? 1199 00:52:07,124 --> 00:52:07,916 ‐ Yeah. ‐ I feel like 1200 00:52:08,000 --> 00:52:08,876 him being part of it 1201 00:52:08,959 --> 00:52:11,337 is gonna help him come to terms 1202 00:52:11,420 --> 00:52:14,715 with some of this stuff and see the things 1203 00:52:14,798 --> 00:52:17,051 that he had that he really shouldn't have had 1204 00:52:17,134 --> 00:52:18,469 and doesn't need to keep. 1205 00:52:18,510 --> 00:52:21,388 ‐ Absolutely, people who participate in the process, 1206 00:52:21,472 --> 00:52:26,185 do better than people who don't participate in the process. 1207 00:52:26,268 --> 00:52:28,312 Because if he participates in the process, 1208 00:52:28,354 --> 00:52:32,650 then it's not like we're doing this to him. 1209 00:52:32,691 --> 00:52:33,359 ‐ Yeah, 1210 00:52:33,442 --> 00:52:34,485 ‐ He will learn some things. 1211 00:52:34,568 --> 00:52:36,153 And one of the things he'll learn 1212 00:52:36,195 --> 00:52:38,989 is that he can handle the feelings 1213 00:52:39,073 --> 00:52:41,325 that come up around letting go. 1214 00:52:41,408 --> 00:52:42,493 ‐ Yeah. 1215 00:52:42,576 --> 00:52:43,535 ‐ But if he doesn't participate in that process, 1216 00:52:43,619 --> 00:52:45,871 he doesn't learn that, right? 1217 00:52:45,954 --> 00:52:48,624 And the other thing now is people who participate 1218 00:52:48,707 --> 00:52:50,876 in the process are a little less likely 1219 00:52:50,959 --> 00:52:54,296 to fall back into it than people 1220 00:52:54,380 --> 00:52:55,839 who don't participate in the process 1221 00:52:55,923 --> 00:52:59,093 because their experiences that something was done to them. 1222 00:52:59,176 --> 00:53:00,302 ‐ Right, right. 1223 00:53:00,344 --> 00:53:01,512 ‐ You know, have to kind of see how things go. 1224 00:53:01,595 --> 00:53:03,722 But at some point, would you be willing 1225 00:53:03,806 --> 00:53:04,723 to talk with your dad 1226 00:53:04,807 --> 00:53:06,642 and invite him back in to participate? 1227 00:53:06,684 --> 00:53:08,102 ‐ Sure. 1228 00:53:08,185 --> 00:53:09,770 ‐ I think that in general, 1229 00:53:09,853 --> 00:53:12,981 the way I would suggest you approach this 1230 00:53:13,065 --> 00:53:15,442 would sound something like, 1231 00:53:15,526 --> 00:53:18,237 I know this is really hard for you dad. 1232 00:53:18,320 --> 00:53:23,492 And I want us to solve this problem as a family. 1233 00:53:25,452 --> 00:53:27,496 If you're able to present it that way, 1234 00:53:27,579 --> 00:53:32,710 you present a whole different reason to participate. 1235 00:53:33,919 --> 00:53:37,047 Because it is about your family, the end of the day. 1236 00:53:37,131 --> 00:53:38,132 It's about your family. 1237 00:53:38,173 --> 00:53:39,091 ‐ Yeah. 1238 00:53:39,174 --> 00:53:40,759 ‐ And doing good for your family. 1239 00:53:40,843 --> 00:53:43,929 And I think if you could present it that way, 1240 00:53:45,097 --> 00:53:47,015 you kind of hook in a little bit 1241 00:53:47,099 --> 00:53:48,684 to a value that your dad has, 1242 00:53:48,767 --> 00:53:52,187 I think, he loves your mom tremendously. 1243 00:53:52,271 --> 00:53:53,480 He loves you. 1244 00:53:53,564 --> 00:53:55,357 I think at the end of the day, 1245 00:53:55,441 --> 00:53:57,317 he's going to be willing to do hard things, 1246 00:53:57,401 --> 00:54:01,613 but only because of what it stands for 1247 00:54:01,697 --> 00:54:02,948 in terms of being a family. 1248 00:54:03,031 --> 00:54:04,491 ‐ Sure, that seems to be the glue 1249 00:54:04,575 --> 00:54:06,160 holding him together right now. 1250 00:54:06,201 --> 00:54:07,995 ‐ So if you're comfortable, 1251 00:54:08,078 --> 00:54:09,204 and you say, I would like you 1252 00:54:09,288 --> 00:54:10,748 to actually to participate in this. 1253 00:54:10,831 --> 00:54:12,583 Not, you should be participate in this, 1254 00:54:12,666 --> 00:54:14,918 not, I need you to participate in this. 1255 00:54:15,002 --> 00:54:16,128 ‐ Right? 1256 00:54:16,211 --> 00:54:18,130 ‐ I would like you to because we want 1257 00:54:18,172 --> 00:54:19,465 to solve this problem as a family 1258 00:54:19,548 --> 00:54:21,925 and you're an important part of our family. 1259 00:54:29,892 --> 00:54:33,854 ‐ Dennis is gone, he's been stewing all morning. 1260 00:54:33,937 --> 00:54:35,898 Dennis is honestly and truthfully upset. 1261 00:54:35,981 --> 00:54:38,734 So he just drove away, we need to find him. 1262 00:54:38,817 --> 00:54:42,988 (upbeat dramatic music) 1263 00:55:07,012 --> 00:55:08,430 ‐ Hey, I just saw your text, 1264 00:55:09,681 --> 00:55:11,683 we haven't seen my dad yet. 1265 00:55:23,403 --> 00:55:25,989 ‐ I guess he doesn't have any particular places 1266 00:55:26,073 --> 00:55:28,283 that he goes to that you know of? 1267 00:55:28,367 --> 00:55:29,827 ‐ No, there's I mean, the only thing I can think 1268 00:55:29,910 --> 00:55:31,495 is large parking lots where he might have 1269 00:55:31,537 --> 00:55:33,539 just wanted to kind of pull out of the way 1270 00:55:33,622 --> 00:55:36,583 and take a nap, I hope. 1271 00:55:36,667 --> 00:55:39,461 Probably take a, grab my brother's keys 1272 00:55:39,545 --> 00:55:42,798 and take his car and go drive the neighborhood 1273 00:55:42,881 --> 00:55:43,966 and see what I can find. 1274 00:55:45,425 --> 00:55:47,761 I mean, it's frustrating, he doesn't have his phone. 1275 00:55:47,845 --> 00:55:49,304 I think he was just, he was angry this morning, 1276 00:55:49,388 --> 00:55:50,764 he left it plugged in inside. 1277 00:55:50,848 --> 00:55:53,225 I pulled it out to make sure it didn't get swept away. 1278 00:55:53,308 --> 00:55:54,643 And he left without it. 1279 00:55:54,685 --> 00:55:57,646 ‐ Dennis disappears, when things are uncomfortable. 1280 00:55:57,729 --> 00:56:00,774 This is only gonna get more uncomfortable. 1281 00:56:00,858 --> 00:56:02,359 ‐ I'm either gonna find him or I'm not. 1282 00:56:02,442 --> 00:56:04,820 I mean, I don't know, there's 1283 00:56:04,903 --> 00:56:07,656 a 1000 million places he could be. 1284 00:56:07,698 --> 00:56:09,116 ‐ You can eat turtle soup, 1285 00:56:09,199 --> 00:56:11,076 if the turtle stays in the shell. 1286 00:56:11,159 --> 00:56:13,704 ‐ All right, see you guys in a bit. 1287 00:56:13,787 --> 00:56:14,788 ‐ One hand I'm really really concerned where is he? 1288 00:56:16,164 --> 00:56:17,833 Hopefully he's just asleep in his car somewhere. 1289 00:56:17,875 --> 00:56:21,128 But the other hand, if I don't finish this job, 1290 00:56:21,211 --> 00:56:22,754 Then he loses his whole house. 1291 00:56:23,839 --> 00:56:25,299 So we need him here. 1292 00:56:25,340 --> 00:56:30,512 ‐ As we, the hours tick away, he's not here. 1293 00:56:31,513 --> 00:56:33,223 Obviously my concern grows a little bit. 1294 00:56:33,307 --> 00:56:35,392 We'll continue to clean as much as we can. 1295 00:56:35,475 --> 00:56:37,477 With all the volunteers that we have. 1296 00:56:37,561 --> 00:56:40,188 I just don't want to do more harm than good. 1297 00:56:41,356 --> 00:56:43,567 ‐ A question it's gonna come up at some point, 1298 00:56:43,650 --> 00:56:47,654 is whether we can continue this, without him here? 1299 00:56:47,738 --> 00:56:49,197 ‐ We got buy in with the family 1300 00:56:49,281 --> 00:56:50,657 but there's only so much we can remove 1301 00:56:50,699 --> 00:56:53,327 from the property without Dennis being here to approve it. 1302 00:56:53,410 --> 00:56:54,870 It's still legally his stuff 1303 00:56:54,953 --> 00:56:57,205 until the city takes it away from him. 1304 00:56:58,707 --> 00:57:01,293 There's a fine line between helping a hoarder 1305 00:57:01,335 --> 00:57:03,086 and stealing stuff off his property. 1306 00:57:05,339 --> 00:57:08,300 At some point today, I need labor, 1307 00:57:08,342 --> 00:57:10,135 I need trucks and I need Dennis. 1308 00:57:10,218 --> 00:57:11,428 We do need to find him ‐ understand 1309 00:57:11,511 --> 00:57:12,638 ‐ At some point, okay? 1310 00:57:12,721 --> 00:57:14,389 All right and we need to keep doing 1311 00:57:14,473 --> 00:57:15,807 what we're already doing. 1312 00:57:15,891 --> 00:57:17,017 Alright, good job. 1313 00:57:17,100 --> 00:57:18,101 This is a huge hoard. 1314 00:57:18,185 --> 00:57:19,102 If everything was perfect, 1315 00:57:19,186 --> 00:57:20,646 I didn't know we didn't have time to finish it. 1316 00:57:20,687 --> 00:57:22,564 Now with him gone for four hours. 1317 00:57:22,648 --> 00:57:24,441 It's a massive delay. 1318 00:57:24,524 --> 00:57:26,944 No Dennis, no finish. 1319 00:57:27,694 --> 00:57:29,112 I mean he's got to get here. 1320 00:57:34,993 --> 00:57:37,621 (upbeat music) 1321 00:58:15,200 --> 00:58:16,743 ‐ How's it going? 1322 00:58:17,703 --> 00:58:19,162 ‐ So two seconds ago it was all right. 1323 00:58:19,246 --> 00:58:22,290 I go in there, find everything has been stripped away. 1324 00:58:23,458 --> 00:58:24,376 ‐ Well, really, what do you mean? 1325 00:58:24,459 --> 00:58:25,627 ‐ All my furniture? 1326 00:58:28,296 --> 00:58:32,009 ‐ Dennis, Dennis please let me talk with you for a minute. 1327 00:58:32,092 --> 00:58:36,430 ‐ Listen, there isn't any amount of discussion 1328 00:58:36,513 --> 00:58:38,682 that is gonna change what has happened here? 1329 00:58:38,765 --> 00:58:41,226 Those furnitures weren't causing 1330 00:58:41,309 --> 00:58:43,687 any health or welfare problems. 1331 00:58:43,770 --> 00:58:45,522 Why were they taken? 1332 00:58:46,523 --> 00:58:48,108 ‐ I don't know, I actually... 1333 00:58:48,191 --> 00:58:51,194 ‐ Nobody knows, I can't get answers from anybody. 1334 00:58:52,529 --> 00:58:56,074 ‐ Here's a situation, at the end of the day, 1335 00:58:56,158 --> 00:58:57,325 we can leave. 1336 00:58:59,036 --> 00:59:03,081 And we actually will have to leave if you're not here. 1337 00:59:06,543 --> 00:59:08,045 So as hard as this is, 1338 00:59:09,713 --> 00:59:13,633 if you want this to continue, you have to be here , okay? 1339 00:59:14,676 --> 00:59:16,970 ‐ So what I can do is suffer through it? 1340 00:59:17,054 --> 00:59:20,098 ‐ As I said before, you're at the very beginning. 1341 00:59:20,182 --> 00:59:22,225 You're in charge. 1342 00:59:22,309 --> 00:59:23,101 ‐ Sure. 1343 00:59:24,061 --> 00:59:25,145 ‐ You really are. 1344 00:59:25,228 --> 00:59:28,148 'Cause if you said everybody off the property, 1345 00:59:28,231 --> 00:59:30,233 we would we would leave. 1346 00:59:30,317 --> 00:59:31,568 We don't want to leave. 1347 00:59:32,486 --> 00:59:34,988 But we would have to leave. 1348 00:59:35,072 --> 00:59:37,157 ‐ I come back feeling more relaxed. 1349 00:59:37,240 --> 00:59:39,117 I walk in and say more disaster. 1350 00:59:41,703 --> 00:59:44,206 ‐ I understand, I hear you, I hear you. 1351 00:59:44,289 --> 00:59:46,958 I get that, I really get that. 1352 00:59:48,418 --> 00:59:51,797 But the decision is yours in terms 1353 00:59:51,838 --> 00:59:53,673 of whether we continue or not. 1354 00:59:53,757 --> 00:59:55,967 And if you're not here, we can't continue. 1355 00:59:57,219 --> 00:59:59,387 ‐ I'll think about that for the rest of the day. 1356 00:59:59,471 --> 01:00:00,305 ‐ Okay. ‐ I'll let you know 1357 01:00:00,347 --> 01:00:01,264 before the end days. 1358 01:00:01,348 --> 01:00:02,349 ‐ Okay. 1359 01:00:02,432 --> 01:00:03,308 Like by when? 1360 01:00:03,350 --> 01:00:04,309 ‐ It may be ending. 1361 01:00:04,392 --> 01:00:06,311 ‐ Okay, at the end of the day? 1362 01:00:06,353 --> 01:00:07,145 all right. 1363 01:00:10,357 --> 01:00:13,110 (dramatic music) 1364 01:00:17,864 --> 01:00:19,241 ‐ Dad are you okay? 1365 01:00:19,324 --> 01:00:20,659 Dr. Tompkins talked to me 1366 01:00:20,742 --> 01:00:23,328 about pulling him into the process 1367 01:00:23,370 --> 01:00:24,830 and doing it as a family effort 1368 01:00:24,913 --> 01:00:26,665 and making sure he understood this was 1369 01:00:26,706 --> 01:00:27,999 for the better of the family. 1370 01:00:28,041 --> 01:00:29,251 What's going on? 1371 01:00:29,334 --> 01:00:32,003 ‐ I walk in here and find half my furniture gone. 1372 01:00:32,087 --> 01:00:34,297 My China closet from home, it's gone. 1373 01:00:36,508 --> 01:00:39,344 ‐ Even though mainly why is because there was rat urine 1374 01:00:39,427 --> 01:00:40,804 and rat poop all over the place. 1375 01:00:40,846 --> 01:00:43,223 I begin with a hazmat mask on 1376 01:00:43,306 --> 01:00:45,433 to clean up the rat droppings. 1377 01:00:45,517 --> 01:00:47,227 ‐ Okay, ‐ I'm sorry. 1378 01:00:47,310 --> 01:00:48,311 ‐ I didn't know that. 1379 01:00:48,353 --> 01:00:49,896 ‐ I mean, I'm not trying to throw your (bleep) 1380 01:00:49,980 --> 01:00:51,815 away but I mean, if it's infested 1381 01:00:51,898 --> 01:00:54,192 or it's got rat urine on it, it's gotta go. 1382 01:00:56,736 --> 01:00:57,571 ‐ You might as well tear the house down. 1383 01:00:57,654 --> 01:00:59,531 ‐ No, no, no, no, no, no, no. 1384 01:00:59,614 --> 01:01:02,075 Hey, seriously, we're not doing this 1385 01:01:02,159 --> 01:01:04,202 for any other reason other than our love dad. 1386 01:01:04,286 --> 01:01:05,328 I mean, it's (mumbles). 1387 01:01:06,371 --> 01:01:07,998 We're trying to make this. 1388 01:01:08,039 --> 01:01:09,541 We want you and mum to be happy. 1389 01:01:09,624 --> 01:01:11,334 We want to be able to come over here. 1390 01:01:12,502 --> 01:01:14,379 Okay, tomorrow morning, will you agree 1391 01:01:14,462 --> 01:01:15,755 to try and come in and start, 1392 01:01:15,839 --> 01:01:17,966 ‐ Ill come in and I'll get started in the morning. 1393 01:01:18,049 --> 01:01:18,967 ‐ Okay. 1394 01:01:19,050 --> 01:01:20,719 ‐ Today started off pretty rough. 1395 01:01:20,802 --> 01:01:22,220 With Dennis being angry about us 1396 01:01:22,304 --> 01:01:23,555 throwing some things away. 1397 01:01:23,638 --> 01:01:25,056 I promise you it's a better scenario 1398 01:01:25,140 --> 01:01:27,058 than the county throwing everything away. 1399 01:01:27,142 --> 01:01:28,768 ‐ All right I'm gonna get back in there 1400 01:01:28,852 --> 01:01:30,645 because I got to work sun up to sun down buddy. 1401 01:01:30,729 --> 01:01:32,314 To get this done. 1402 01:01:32,397 --> 01:01:33,315 ‐ I don't want to say this 1403 01:01:33,398 --> 01:01:35,984 but if Dennis doesn't show up in the morning, 1404 01:01:36,067 --> 01:01:38,570 we can't continue and if we don't continue, 1405 01:01:38,653 --> 01:01:41,448 the city is going to take everything. 1406 01:01:41,531 --> 01:01:42,365 ‐ Okay. 1407 01:01:43,325 --> 01:01:47,454 (soft orchestral music) 1408 01:02:15,357 --> 01:02:16,483 ‐ Good morning, everybody? 1409 01:02:16,566 --> 01:02:17,734 ‐ [crowd] Goodmorning 1410 01:02:17,817 --> 01:02:19,110 ‐ All right, day three, 1411 01:02:19,194 --> 01:02:20,820 this is kind of the pinnacle day. 1412 01:02:20,904 --> 01:02:22,155 A lot of emotions have naturally 1413 01:02:22,197 --> 01:02:23,657 flown over the last few days. 1414 01:02:23,698 --> 01:02:24,866 And that's normal. 1415 01:02:24,991 --> 01:02:27,869 That means we're all taking this very seriously. 1416 01:02:27,994 --> 01:02:30,914 If there's no emotions, I'd be concerned. 1417 01:02:31,039 --> 01:02:32,290 It's a new day, it's a new Dennis. 1418 01:02:32,374 --> 01:02:35,335 He came in excited, ready, cooperative. 1419 01:02:35,460 --> 01:02:36,544 He wants us to get going, 1420 01:02:36,628 --> 01:02:38,421 Dennis, you've gone on a journey, man. 1421 01:02:38,505 --> 01:02:41,091 physically and emotionally, you've gone on a journey. 1422 01:02:41,174 --> 01:02:43,718 Right, you took off for a couple hours yesterday. 1423 01:02:43,843 --> 01:02:45,804 I kind of respect it now that I know you were safe. 1424 01:02:45,887 --> 01:02:47,764 ‐ Yesterday is a blurb, I'm sorry. 1425 01:02:47,847 --> 01:02:50,433 It's a new day, I'm in a new place. 1426 01:02:51,768 --> 01:02:54,521 I have unfortunately, some emotions about things. 1427 01:02:54,604 --> 01:02:57,232 Probably disproportion with everything that's going on here. 1428 01:02:57,315 --> 01:02:58,775 ‐ Do you think it's disproportionate? 1429 01:02:58,858 --> 01:03:01,152 ‐ No, I don't, and I agree. 1430 01:03:01,194 --> 01:03:04,155 I don't think it's necessary for you to apologize. 1431 01:03:04,239 --> 01:03:05,907 This is this is rough Dennis. 1432 01:03:05,991 --> 01:03:09,661 Dennis made this huge emotional shift last night 1433 01:03:09,703 --> 01:03:12,789 and he's in a completely different space. 1434 01:03:12,872 --> 01:03:14,499 ‐ You could have quit yesterday. 1435 01:03:14,582 --> 01:03:16,042 ‐ I kind of had blinders on. 1436 01:03:17,043 --> 01:03:18,878 ‐ Why can we ask why didn't you quit? 1437 01:03:18,962 --> 01:03:20,422 ‐ I'm a stubborn son of a gun. 1438 01:03:20,505 --> 01:03:21,506 ‐ Okay, all right. 1439 01:03:21,631 --> 01:03:22,966 (mumbles) 1440 01:03:23,049 --> 01:03:25,927 It would have been easier to quit and you didn't. 1441 01:03:26,011 --> 01:03:27,512 ‐ Absolutely, neither one of us 1442 01:03:27,595 --> 01:03:29,306 would have benefited from that. 1443 01:03:29,389 --> 01:03:30,265 That's behind us. 1444 01:03:30,348 --> 01:03:31,182 ‐ Okay. 1445 01:03:31,266 --> 01:03:32,142 ‐ Let's just look forward positively. 1446 01:03:32,225 --> 01:03:33,351 I know we're all gonna pitch in, 1447 01:03:33,435 --> 01:03:34,519 I'm going to pitch in today. 1448 01:03:34,644 --> 01:03:36,521 We're gonna pull things and throw them. 1449 01:03:36,604 --> 01:03:38,231 ‐ We still have two whole days. 1450 01:03:39,357 --> 01:03:40,775 Today is the day we're gonna kind of settle down. 1451 01:03:40,859 --> 01:03:42,777 We've added labor, we've got more organizers. 1452 01:03:42,861 --> 01:03:44,070 Thank ya'll for coming. 1453 01:03:44,195 --> 01:03:46,239 We've got more green shirts, the junk guys here. 1454 01:03:46,364 --> 01:03:49,576 We're gonna see a lot of space start to prevail today. 1455 01:03:49,659 --> 01:03:50,994 We're proud of you, today. 1456 01:03:51,077 --> 01:03:54,164 You're back here, you're focused, everybody is, 1457 01:03:54,205 --> 01:03:55,290 you guys ready to get started? 1458 01:03:55,373 --> 01:03:56,166 ‐ Let's do this. 1459 01:03:56,291 --> 01:03:57,250 ‐ Hell yeah. 1460 01:03:57,334 --> 01:03:59,377 (mumbles) 1461 01:03:59,461 --> 01:04:03,048 (upbeat orchestral music) 1462 01:04:06,760 --> 01:04:08,261 ‐ Thursday is really the most important day. 1463 01:04:08,345 --> 01:04:11,598 This is a big job and we finally got the space 1464 01:04:11,681 --> 01:04:12,807 to ask for help in. 1465 01:04:12,849 --> 01:04:14,184 We've got a lot of new organizers, 1466 01:04:14,267 --> 01:04:16,478 we've got a couple extra new junk guys. 1467 01:04:16,519 --> 01:04:17,687 And we've even got a lot of family friends 1468 01:04:17,771 --> 01:04:18,855 that have showed up. 1469 01:04:22,901 --> 01:04:23,985 We've got a lot of work to do. 1470 01:04:24,069 --> 01:04:25,820 We're gonna have almost 10 people 1471 01:04:25,904 --> 01:04:27,530 working inside on multiple rooms 1472 01:04:27,614 --> 01:04:30,408 and then we'll have another whole junk crew outside. 1473 01:04:31,993 --> 01:04:35,121 It is just a lot of chaos going on in the home. 1474 01:04:35,205 --> 01:04:39,000 And the reality is, we must get this house clean for Judith 1475 01:04:39,125 --> 01:04:41,544 and for Dennis or they cannot live here. 1476 01:04:46,007 --> 01:04:48,385 The first project of the day is the master bedroom. 1477 01:04:48,468 --> 01:04:50,136 I need Pam and Steve to really get focused 1478 01:04:50,178 --> 01:04:51,763 on their mom and dad's bed. 1479 01:04:51,846 --> 01:04:55,642 It's pretty gross and we need to clean the entire room out. 1480 01:04:55,725 --> 01:04:56,810 There's rats, there's blood, 1481 01:04:56,893 --> 01:04:58,812 there's just a lot of gross stuff. 1482 01:04:58,895 --> 01:05:00,355 And I need the family to focus on 1483 01:05:00,438 --> 01:05:01,481 in the morning so we can get it done. 1484 01:05:01,606 --> 01:05:02,732 I think the emotion for you 1485 01:05:02,816 --> 01:05:04,734 was in this room a couple days ago. 1486 01:05:04,859 --> 01:05:06,152 How are you feeling, I mean, what is this? 1487 01:05:06,194 --> 01:05:07,445 This is where your mom sleeps, 1488 01:05:07,529 --> 01:05:08,988 like how are you feeling? 1489 01:05:09,072 --> 01:05:10,490 ‐ I'm still very sad about it. 1490 01:05:10,573 --> 01:05:14,327 But I'm also very excited to get it out of here. 1491 01:05:14,411 --> 01:05:15,286 And make it better. 1492 01:05:15,370 --> 01:05:18,206 So, I've come to accept it is what it is. 1493 01:05:18,289 --> 01:05:20,750 It sucks, yeah, I mean, this is awful. 1494 01:05:20,834 --> 01:05:22,293 ‐ And we wanna get the place in order 1495 01:05:22,335 --> 01:05:24,170 so that he can get someone to come in 1496 01:05:24,295 --> 01:05:27,006 and help him with more of housekeeping. 1497 01:05:27,132 --> 01:05:29,884 And healthcare, he needs help. 1498 01:05:29,968 --> 01:05:30,927 ‐ All right, I'm gonna get my guys in here. 1499 01:05:31,010 --> 01:05:32,011 ‐ Okay, we'll get it done. 1500 01:05:32,137 --> 01:05:33,596 ‐ I need bed and mattress out. 1501 01:05:33,680 --> 01:05:34,889 ‐ Bed and mattress, okay? 1502 01:05:35,014 --> 01:05:37,934 Pam and Steve are just ready to get this over with. 1503 01:05:38,017 --> 01:05:39,144 They don't really wanna stare 1504 01:05:39,269 --> 01:05:40,562 at all the bad things anymore. 1505 01:05:40,687 --> 01:05:43,440 They just wanna get down and get this house cleaned. 1506 01:05:43,523 --> 01:05:45,650 I'm seeing a lot of urgency from the family, 1507 01:05:45,733 --> 01:05:47,944 because they really know that 1508 01:05:48,027 --> 01:05:49,946 they're on their own when we leave. 1509 01:05:51,865 --> 01:05:56,161 ‐ That's a go, go, go, go. 1510 01:05:57,745 --> 01:05:59,914 ‐ Dennis was working with one of the organizers. 1511 01:05:59,998 --> 01:06:01,541 And he said he would probably 1512 01:06:01,666 --> 01:06:02,625 let go of about 20%, 1513 01:06:02,709 --> 01:06:06,504 but he was consistently letting go of about 50%. 1514 01:06:06,588 --> 01:06:08,339 ‐ That can go, go, go. 1515 01:06:09,507 --> 01:06:11,050 ‐ And then I came in and I had to tell him 1516 01:06:11,134 --> 01:06:13,636 Hey man, the donation is a no go. 1517 01:06:13,761 --> 01:06:15,305 I hate to do this to you guys, 1518 01:06:15,388 --> 01:06:19,184 I have gotten a call from both donation places. 1519 01:06:19,267 --> 01:06:22,562 And they are now telling us they can't accept our donation. 1520 01:06:22,687 --> 01:06:23,521 ‐ Okay. 1521 01:06:28,026 --> 01:06:30,111 ‐ So how does it make you feel? 1522 01:06:30,195 --> 01:06:32,155 ‐ I'm disappointed, but at the same time 1523 01:06:32,238 --> 01:06:34,157 I know it has to get out of here. 1524 01:06:34,240 --> 01:06:37,327 ‐ Well, that's what I was avoiding saying to you. 1525 01:06:37,410 --> 01:06:38,286 ‐ Are you? 1526 01:06:38,369 --> 01:06:40,288 ‐ No, I mean if they, if we've offered it, 1527 01:06:40,371 --> 01:06:42,248 ‐ [Matt] Yeah. ‐ And it's been declined. 1528 01:06:42,332 --> 01:06:44,375 ‐ I mean, ‐ We've offered it to two. 1529 01:06:44,459 --> 01:06:45,960 ‐ Well, everything that we have 1530 01:06:46,002 --> 01:06:48,254 set aside for donation put in the dumpster. 1531 01:06:49,339 --> 01:06:50,632 I don't know what else to say. 1532 01:06:50,757 --> 01:06:54,135 ‐ So that changes our playing a little bit now. 1533 01:06:54,219 --> 01:06:56,137 It's pretty much keep or trash. 1534 01:06:56,221 --> 01:06:57,347 ‐ Yeah, let's do it. 1535 01:06:57,430 --> 01:06:59,849 ‐ Hey, complete turnaround in 24 hours, 1536 01:06:59,974 --> 01:07:00,850 ‐ Thanks Matt ‐ Thank you man, 1537 01:07:00,934 --> 01:07:02,477 you're doing great, really good. 1538 01:07:03,937 --> 01:07:05,230 ‐ Okay. 1539 01:07:05,313 --> 01:07:07,440 ‐ Awesome, you're doing great. 1540 01:07:07,524 --> 01:07:09,984 ‐ I'm hopeful with Dennis's behavior 1541 01:07:10,026 --> 01:07:11,402 that we got a chance to finish this thing 1542 01:07:11,528 --> 01:07:13,988 and then I walk outside and I look in the backyard. 1543 01:07:14,072 --> 01:07:15,323 And I realize, dude, 1544 01:07:15,406 --> 01:07:17,909 this is going to be almost impossible to finish. 1545 01:07:18,034 --> 01:07:21,996 This is just too massive of a job. 1546 01:07:22,080 --> 01:07:22,872 I don't think we'd have enough hours. 1547 01:07:22,956 --> 01:07:26,042 (upbeat rock music) 1548 01:07:27,252 --> 01:07:28,545 The next thing that I look up, 1549 01:07:28,628 --> 01:07:30,755 Code Enforcement has come a day early. 1550 01:07:32,048 --> 01:07:33,591 I thought we had another day. 1551 01:07:34,384 --> 01:07:36,302 We've got an uphill battle. 1552 01:07:36,427 --> 01:07:38,680 We've added people we're giving everything we got. 1553 01:07:38,805 --> 01:07:43,017 Now, I've already taken 200000 pounds of trash out of here. 1554 01:07:43,142 --> 01:07:45,144 But I still don't think it's enough. 1555 01:07:50,316 --> 01:07:51,317 ‐ I mean, California man, 1556 01:07:51,442 --> 01:07:53,945 they got drone technology to check in 1557 01:07:54,028 --> 01:07:55,572 on the houses that are hoarding. 1558 01:07:55,655 --> 01:07:58,324 Now, they have permission from the family 1559 01:07:58,449 --> 01:08:00,326 to check on them via drone. 1560 01:08:00,410 --> 01:08:01,452 They did tell me that 1561 01:08:01,536 --> 01:08:02,620 but they were just sending the drone over 1562 01:08:02,704 --> 01:08:04,956 and then they were looking at the entirety 1563 01:08:05,039 --> 01:08:06,332 of the property and they saw that 1564 01:08:06,416 --> 01:08:08,001 we had moved a lot of stuff, 1565 01:08:08,084 --> 01:08:09,294 but they see the whole property. 1566 01:08:09,419 --> 01:08:12,213 So they also saw that we hadn't taken everything out. 1567 01:08:12,338 --> 01:08:14,299 ‐ Well, I can see just from the entrance, 1568 01:08:14,382 --> 01:08:16,551 when we inspected last week, 1569 01:08:16,634 --> 01:08:18,011 this whole entire thing was blocked. 1570 01:08:18,094 --> 01:08:20,555 ‐ Yeah, there was RVs and trucks here. 1571 01:08:20,680 --> 01:08:22,307 ‐ Yeah, ‐ They're gone, 1572 01:08:22,390 --> 01:08:25,101 we're in the middle of pulling this whole area here. 1573 01:08:25,184 --> 01:08:28,229 ‐ Yeah, you got the box cuts, you got more RVs. 1574 01:08:29,188 --> 01:08:30,982 ‐ I think I know the answer to this. 1575 01:08:31,024 --> 01:08:32,358 Obviously, we worked really hard. 1576 01:08:32,442 --> 01:08:34,777 But are we anywhere close to being code back here? 1577 01:08:36,029 --> 01:08:39,365 ‐ No, I think that you guys have done tremendous work 1578 01:08:39,449 --> 01:08:41,159 with the progress that you've shown 1579 01:08:41,242 --> 01:08:43,620 from the beginning of the property back here, 1580 01:08:43,703 --> 01:08:46,497 but I definitely can see that there's still 1581 01:08:46,581 --> 01:08:48,499 a lot of work that needs to be done, 1582 01:08:48,583 --> 01:08:50,251 but you're definitely on the right track. 1583 01:08:50,335 --> 01:08:53,463 ‐ I'm very concerned that we're not gonna get enough done 1584 01:08:53,546 --> 01:08:55,798 to make them happy by end of day tomorrow. 1585 01:09:00,762 --> 01:09:04,140 (dramatic synth music) 1586 01:09:09,187 --> 01:09:10,146 It's been a really good day. 1587 01:09:10,229 --> 01:09:12,315 We've done an enormous amount of work 1588 01:09:12,398 --> 01:09:13,524 between inside and outside, 1589 01:09:13,608 --> 01:09:16,152 we're taking about 10000 pounds an hour. 1590 01:09:16,235 --> 01:09:17,362 And we're still just kind of 1591 01:09:17,445 --> 01:09:19,447 barely making a dent in this property. 1592 01:09:22,700 --> 01:09:24,035 Started clearing out the driveway. 1593 01:09:24,118 --> 01:09:26,412 And if there's one part of the property I hadn't seen yet. 1594 01:09:26,496 --> 01:09:28,998 Once we uncovered it, It looks to be about 1595 01:09:29,082 --> 01:09:32,377 a 25 foot long by about 15 foot wide, 1596 01:09:32,460 --> 01:09:35,171 just a row of concrete blocks. 1597 01:09:37,674 --> 01:09:41,135 This is a massive pile of stone and brick. 1598 01:09:41,260 --> 01:09:43,638 And I don't have a solution for it right now. 1599 01:09:43,721 --> 01:09:47,266 This is a massive hurdle I did not have time for. 1600 01:09:48,059 --> 01:09:50,311 Sometimes I really hate my job. 1601 01:10:06,160 --> 01:10:07,829 Last day cleaning, and we still got 1602 01:10:07,912 --> 01:10:09,163 a lot of work to do more than we normally 1603 01:10:09,247 --> 01:10:11,332 would have on the last day. 1604 01:10:11,416 --> 01:10:12,500 But it's a new day. 1605 01:10:15,211 --> 01:10:16,713 ‐ There's been amazing progress 1606 01:10:16,796 --> 01:10:19,340 over the last few days but feels like 1607 01:10:19,424 --> 01:10:22,760 still so much ahead of us, could be a long day. 1608 01:10:30,393 --> 01:10:31,728 ‐ I have to say I'm very concerned, 1609 01:10:31,811 --> 01:10:33,229 there's still a lot of things remaining. 1610 01:10:33,312 --> 01:10:34,981 The carpets aren't pulled up. 1611 01:10:35,022 --> 01:10:36,274 I'm very worried right now 1612 01:10:36,357 --> 01:10:38,776 that we're not gonna complete this. 1613 01:10:42,196 --> 01:10:43,489 ‐ I think Dennis is pretty good. 1614 01:10:43,573 --> 01:10:45,491 Dennis needs to go on a journey emotionally. 1615 01:10:45,575 --> 01:10:47,368 And I think each day he gets excited 1616 01:10:47,452 --> 01:10:49,078 and then he gets upset and then takes a break 1617 01:10:49,162 --> 01:10:50,538 and then comes back and gets refocused. 1618 01:10:50,621 --> 01:10:52,498 I think that's just his daily journey. 1619 01:10:52,582 --> 01:10:54,208 And he's letting us take things away 1620 01:10:54,292 --> 01:10:56,586 and he's actually making really good decisions. 1621 01:10:56,669 --> 01:10:59,088 A lot of the family stayed late and worked last night, 1622 01:10:59,172 --> 01:11:00,465 they wanted to do everything they could 1623 01:11:00,548 --> 01:11:02,592 so we could have the best chance to finish this 1624 01:11:02,675 --> 01:11:06,012 and he continued to let that 80% of the house go. 1625 01:11:07,180 --> 01:11:08,473 But there's a massive pile of stuff 1626 01:11:08,556 --> 01:11:09,640 on the outside of the house today 1627 01:11:09,682 --> 01:11:11,809 that was thrown out late into the night. 1628 01:11:13,436 --> 01:11:15,354 And now Dennis is picking through it. 1629 01:11:15,438 --> 01:11:18,524 He's gonna find a problem with what's been thrown away. 1630 01:11:18,608 --> 01:11:20,526 That's just the nature of hoarding. 1631 01:11:21,736 --> 01:11:23,529 I don't know where Dennis is gonna go emotionally. 1632 01:11:23,613 --> 01:11:25,364 But we got to really just push forward 1633 01:11:25,448 --> 01:11:27,158 and keep cleaning because we've got 1634 01:11:27,241 --> 01:11:28,534 Code Enforcement coming midday today 1635 01:11:28,618 --> 01:11:29,827 to give us the final sign off. 1636 01:11:29,911 --> 01:11:33,080 So we really don't have time for mistakes today. 1637 01:11:37,210 --> 01:11:40,379 (upbeat rock music) 1638 01:11:49,180 --> 01:11:54,143 We have about 5000 pounds of cinder block we get to move. 1639 01:11:54,227 --> 01:11:55,520 We had to get rid of it. 1640 01:11:55,603 --> 01:11:58,314 We didn't know where to go and we got really lucky. 1641 01:11:58,356 --> 01:11:59,565 We call it Habitat for Humanity 1642 01:11:59,649 --> 01:12:01,692 and their restore is gonna come pick up 1643 01:12:01,776 --> 01:12:04,153 all that stones and extra brick. 1644 01:12:04,237 --> 01:12:05,029 That's the good news. 1645 01:12:05,112 --> 01:12:06,739 Bad news is we got to load it. 1646 01:12:06,823 --> 01:12:08,074 So we're gonna try to get the family 1647 01:12:08,157 --> 01:12:09,951 kind of pumped up, ready to go. 1648 01:12:11,035 --> 01:12:13,329 Alright, everybody, all family, come over here, please. 1649 01:12:13,371 --> 01:12:15,164 We've got to get all these bricks, 1650 01:12:15,248 --> 01:12:17,458 it goes all the way to the street. 1651 01:12:17,542 --> 01:12:18,709 We've got to get them on pallets. 1652 01:12:18,793 --> 01:12:20,461 But this is one of the last things 1653 01:12:20,503 --> 01:12:23,756 that's holding us back on compliance with code, right? 1654 01:12:23,840 --> 01:12:26,551 We're gonna haul brick for the next two hours. 1655 01:12:26,634 --> 01:12:29,136 And then we'll just finish up the house. 1656 01:12:29,220 --> 01:12:30,304 All right, let's do it man. 1657 01:12:30,388 --> 01:12:31,973 We're running out of time, we gotta do this. 1658 01:12:32,014 --> 01:12:35,601 (upbeat orchestral music) 1659 01:12:42,525 --> 01:12:44,151 ‐ The materials that we're picking up here at Dennis' 1660 01:12:44,235 --> 01:12:45,987 will be taken back to our restore 1661 01:12:46,028 --> 01:12:48,489 and sold to the community a fraction of price 1662 01:12:48,531 --> 01:12:50,491 to help divert pounds in the landfill, 1663 01:12:50,575 --> 01:12:52,118 and the proceeds will help to build homes 1664 01:12:52,201 --> 01:12:54,871 for people in our community who desperately need them. 1665 01:12:58,541 --> 01:12:59,792 ‐ I believe it's very important for my dad 1666 01:12:59,876 --> 01:13:01,460 that these materials go to a good use. 1667 01:13:01,544 --> 01:13:02,962 Like maybe repurposed. 1668 01:13:03,045 --> 01:13:04,338 So we're real excited 1669 01:13:04,422 --> 01:13:06,924 about Habitat for Humanity taking these materials. 1670 01:13:07,008 --> 01:13:09,468 And we'll hopefully help somebody in need. 1671 01:13:09,552 --> 01:13:11,053 That's really important to us. 1672 01:13:13,139 --> 01:13:16,517 (dramatic synth music) 1673 01:13:31,490 --> 01:13:32,325 ‐ It's one of those things where you can't 1674 01:13:32,366 --> 01:13:33,284 get mad at Dennis, 1675 01:13:33,367 --> 01:13:34,952 he's let us do our job. 1676 01:13:35,036 --> 01:13:39,165 He's just so much volume that it's hard to do the job. 1677 01:13:59,727 --> 01:14:02,688 ‐ Okay, let me deal with a little one over here first. 1678 01:14:02,772 --> 01:14:04,148 And then let's deal with the big one 1679 01:14:04,190 --> 01:14:05,316 because I have a feeling that one's 1680 01:14:05,358 --> 01:14:06,442 gonna find anything, you wanna puke. 1681 01:14:06,525 --> 01:14:08,110 As we're trying to get to the final stretch 1682 01:14:08,194 --> 01:14:11,739 of cleaning my parents bedroom we found two more rats. 1683 01:14:12,865 --> 01:14:15,159 Dead against the walls, in different spots 1684 01:14:15,201 --> 01:14:20,206 and one was fairly small and one is just huge. 1685 01:14:24,502 --> 01:14:26,963 ‐ Hey that is big, oh my God. 1686 01:14:29,215 --> 01:14:31,717 That's a 10 pounder, you okay? 1687 01:14:34,512 --> 01:14:35,638 ‐ Get it out of here. 1688 01:14:35,680 --> 01:14:37,139 ‐ You guys should get in the rodent business. 1689 01:14:37,223 --> 01:14:38,224 You've got a future. 1690 01:14:39,225 --> 01:14:40,935 ‐ Is there another one out here? 1691 01:14:41,018 --> 01:14:41,811 ‐ Yeah. 1692 01:14:43,229 --> 01:14:48,109 ‐ Oh my God. 1693 01:14:48,192 --> 01:14:50,111 (bleep) 1694 01:14:57,868 --> 01:14:59,203 ‐ Its impossible to see this stuff. 1695 01:14:59,286 --> 01:15:00,871 It's right where their bed is. 1696 01:15:00,955 --> 01:15:05,167 Right by where they sleep, unbeknownst to my mom, 1697 01:15:07,503 --> 01:15:10,131 What's going on behind, around her? 1698 01:15:10,172 --> 01:15:11,298 She sleeps a lot. 1699 01:15:11,382 --> 01:15:13,718 And so she was in that room a lot. 1700 01:15:14,969 --> 01:15:19,473 It just sucks to see that that's what was going on. 1701 01:15:19,515 --> 01:15:21,058 This is too much. 1702 01:15:24,854 --> 01:15:26,939 It's just too much to see this in their, 1703 01:15:27,023 --> 01:15:29,942 in their house and their room, its too much. 1704 01:15:31,694 --> 01:15:35,031 ‐ It got to you, too bad. 1705 01:15:36,699 --> 01:15:38,951 ‐ I can't believe it, I can't believe it. 1706 01:15:40,870 --> 01:15:42,413 ‐ Well, it's gonna be all worth it. 1707 01:15:42,496 --> 01:15:43,831 And everything. ‐ It's so scary. 1708 01:15:43,914 --> 01:15:44,707 ‐ Yeah. 1709 01:15:47,501 --> 01:15:50,171 ‐ My dad's got to stop, he's just, 1710 01:15:50,254 --> 01:15:53,215 he's got to stop bringing stuff into his house. 1711 01:15:54,175 --> 01:15:55,634 He's got to prioritize my mom 1712 01:15:55,676 --> 01:15:58,929 and her care and his health and well being. 1713 01:15:59,013 --> 01:16:00,306 He needs to change his priorities. 1714 01:16:00,347 --> 01:16:02,308 He needs to willingly accept help. 1715 01:16:03,476 --> 01:16:05,394 If he doesn't keep his house in order. 1716 01:16:05,478 --> 01:16:07,646 We can't get him the help he needs. 1717 01:16:07,688 --> 01:16:10,691 So it's critical, it's like life or death 1718 01:16:10,775 --> 01:16:12,276 at this point, I mean, 1719 01:16:12,359 --> 01:16:15,279 if he can't figure out how to hold it together, 1720 01:16:15,362 --> 01:16:17,198 i dont know what's going to happen? 1721 01:16:40,930 --> 01:16:43,974 ‐ The last day, there's still a ton to do. 1722 01:16:44,016 --> 01:16:46,143 Is the whole yard being cleaned 1723 01:16:46,185 --> 01:16:47,770 by end of day four doable? 1724 01:16:47,853 --> 01:16:48,771 No. 1725 01:16:48,854 --> 01:16:50,314 Is getting the house in the side yard 1726 01:16:50,356 --> 01:16:52,108 and the front yard to code? 1727 01:16:52,191 --> 01:16:55,319 Yes, we still have a small chance to do that. 1728 01:16:55,361 --> 01:16:58,697 But we're gonna need every second of cleanup to get it. 1729 01:17:06,122 --> 01:17:07,665 We've been banging out all morning 1730 01:17:07,706 --> 01:17:09,625 and Code Enforcement is already here. 1731 01:17:09,708 --> 01:17:10,960 I thought we had a few more hours, 1732 01:17:11,043 --> 01:17:14,296 but I'm a little nervous how they're gonna feel about it. 1733 01:17:14,338 --> 01:17:15,548 Lieutenant. ‐ How you doing? 1734 01:17:15,631 --> 01:17:16,799 ‐ [Matt] How are you men? 1735 01:17:16,841 --> 01:17:18,425 ‐ Good to see you. ‐ Good to see you. 1736 01:17:18,509 --> 01:17:19,718 We've made some progress. 1737 01:17:19,802 --> 01:17:20,678 ‐ Wow, you have. 1738 01:17:20,761 --> 01:17:22,138 ‐ We're not done by any means. 1739 01:17:22,221 --> 01:17:23,305 ‐ Okay. 1740 01:17:23,347 --> 01:17:24,723 ‐ Do you see at least an effort's been made in progress? 1741 01:17:24,807 --> 01:17:26,016 ‐ Absolutely, this is night and day. 1742 01:17:26,100 --> 01:17:27,643 I didn't even realize this was what 1743 01:17:27,685 --> 01:17:28,978 this area looked like, quite frankly. 1744 01:17:29,019 --> 01:17:31,313 ‐ It's a nice property once it's empty. 1745 01:17:31,355 --> 01:17:32,022 ‐ Yeah. 1746 01:17:32,106 --> 01:17:33,274 ‐ So I wanna show you the house 1747 01:17:33,357 --> 01:17:34,233 I think that's where we're probably most proud of. 1748 01:17:34,316 --> 01:17:35,860 ‐ Okay. ‐ All right. 1749 01:17:35,943 --> 01:17:37,903 ‐ So we'll kind of let you look around, 1750 01:17:37,987 --> 01:17:39,321 obviously, we're still cleaning. 1751 01:17:39,405 --> 01:17:41,323 Check it out and then we'll meet back here in the kitchen. 1752 01:17:41,407 --> 01:17:44,410 ‐ Okay, wow. 1753 01:17:48,873 --> 01:17:50,207 ‐ Code enforcement came and they saw 1754 01:17:50,291 --> 01:17:52,459 a lot of work done in a short amount of time. 1755 01:17:52,501 --> 01:17:53,586 And now they just wanna make sure 1756 01:17:53,669 --> 01:17:54,753 that we're gonna continue 1757 01:17:54,837 --> 01:17:56,630 to see progress over a longer time. 1758 01:17:56,714 --> 01:17:58,174 What are your overall thoughts? 1759 01:17:58,257 --> 01:17:59,717 ‐ I'm just impressed with how much you've actually moved. 1760 01:17:59,800 --> 01:18:00,968 And I knew there was a lot here 1761 01:18:01,010 --> 01:18:01,802 and obviously there's still some items 1762 01:18:01,886 --> 01:18:03,262 you're still working on. 1763 01:18:03,345 --> 01:18:05,347 But it's amazing how much stuff's come out of here. 1764 01:18:05,431 --> 01:18:07,474 This is impressive. 1765 01:18:07,558 --> 01:18:08,601 ‐ Does this buys us more time? 1766 01:18:08,684 --> 01:18:10,019 Like what do we what are we looking at? 1767 01:18:10,102 --> 01:18:12,521 ‐ This this is definitely a step in the right direction. 1768 01:18:12,605 --> 01:18:14,440 definitely buys some more time. 1769 01:18:14,523 --> 01:18:16,609 But this is huge forward progress 1770 01:18:16,692 --> 01:18:18,527 from what we've seen in the past, impressive. 1771 01:18:18,611 --> 01:18:19,528 ‐ Well he let us. 1772 01:18:19,612 --> 01:18:20,779 I wanna say, there was a moment 1773 01:18:20,863 --> 01:18:23,282 where he could have quit and he didn't. 1774 01:18:23,365 --> 01:18:25,284 He really just let everything go since then. 1775 01:18:25,367 --> 01:18:26,202 ‐ We're just impressed 1776 01:18:26,285 --> 01:18:27,244 with everything that's been done here. 1777 01:18:27,328 --> 01:18:27,995 ‐ Thanks, all right. 1778 01:18:28,037 --> 01:18:29,205 I'm gonna get back to work man. 1779 01:18:29,288 --> 01:18:30,873 I appreciate your help and your patience. 1780 01:18:30,956 --> 01:18:33,334 They were happy, they look at this as a win. 1781 01:18:33,417 --> 01:18:34,793 That means we did a good job. 1782 01:18:34,835 --> 01:18:36,128 If we didn't do a good job. 1783 01:18:36,212 --> 01:18:39,089 They would have been siting this house today on site. 1784 01:18:39,173 --> 01:18:41,634 But code is happy, we should have about six months 1785 01:18:41,675 --> 01:18:43,761 to work on kind of plan B. 1786 01:18:43,844 --> 01:18:46,472 (upbeat music) 1787 01:18:54,980 --> 01:18:56,315 ‐ [Organizer] Let's go guys. 1788 01:18:56,398 --> 01:18:59,735 ‐ We've got a lot still to do with only one hour to go. 1789 01:18:59,818 --> 01:19:01,487 This has been a mad final foot. 1790 01:19:01,528 --> 01:19:03,864 We've got furniture coming, We've got people scrubbing, 1791 01:19:03,948 --> 01:19:05,491 people cleaning, we're pulling carpets. 1792 01:19:05,532 --> 01:19:06,492 We're bringing in new beds, 1793 01:19:06,575 --> 01:19:07,868 we're bringing in new furniture. 1794 01:19:07,952 --> 01:19:10,079 Everything is happening this last hour. 1795 01:19:11,330 --> 01:19:13,540 I'm excited, but I'm still a little nervous. 1796 01:19:15,501 --> 01:19:16,543 ‐ But we're here because we've heard 1797 01:19:16,627 --> 01:19:18,295 that Dennis was in a situation 1798 01:19:18,337 --> 01:19:20,464 and we're happy to help out the community here 1799 01:19:20,547 --> 01:19:22,299 in Sacramento area where we can. 1800 01:19:37,690 --> 01:19:39,149 ‐ We did it, end of day four, 1801 01:19:39,233 --> 01:19:44,446 we cleaned a lot of trash out over 500 tons. 1802 01:19:45,364 --> 01:19:47,324 Which is a million pounds. 1803 01:19:47,408 --> 01:19:49,618 That's an enormous amount of weight. 1804 01:19:49,702 --> 01:19:52,663 We didn't finish, but we did a good job. 1805 01:19:52,746 --> 01:19:53,747 There's still a long ways to go 1806 01:19:53,831 --> 01:19:55,332 but the house looks great. 1807 01:19:55,416 --> 01:19:56,959 I'm really pleased the family can now 1808 01:19:57,042 --> 01:19:58,961 finally go in and live in this house. 1809 01:19:59,795 --> 01:20:02,840 ‐ [crowd] Oh my word! 1810 01:20:02,923 --> 01:20:05,926 (soft rock music) 1811 01:20:06,844 --> 01:20:07,970 ‐ [Dennis] I can't believe this. 1812 01:20:08,053 --> 01:20:15,978 ‐ Oh my God, look at the kitchen. 1813 01:20:16,020 --> 01:20:17,479 (joyous laughter) 1814 01:20:18,814 --> 01:20:21,442 ‐ You don't recognize this room anymore do you? 1815 01:20:22,109 --> 01:20:24,570 No, it's quite a bit different? 1816 01:20:25,738 --> 01:20:27,573 ‐ So you can see, the house has been emptied 1817 01:20:27,656 --> 01:20:29,074 of a few things. 1818 01:20:29,158 --> 01:20:31,827 You can see it's been thoroughly cleaned. 1819 01:20:31,910 --> 01:20:34,663 We've got a new couch, we've got new tables, 1820 01:20:34,705 --> 01:20:36,665 we cleaned out the bedroom. 1821 01:20:36,707 --> 01:20:38,459 We have a new bed for you. 1822 01:20:38,542 --> 01:20:39,168 The kitchen is clean, 1823 01:20:39,251 --> 01:20:40,878 the refrigerator is fully clean 1824 01:20:40,961 --> 01:20:43,922 and it's totally usable, it's really good. 1825 01:20:44,006 --> 01:20:46,967 ‐ This is fantastic, just fantastic. 1826 01:20:47,009 --> 01:20:48,635 ‐ How are you guys, family, what do you thinking, 1827 01:20:48,719 --> 01:20:49,887 how are you feeling? 1828 01:20:49,970 --> 01:20:51,305 ‐ I'm blown away, I mean, this is just, 1829 01:20:51,388 --> 01:20:54,099 I can't believe this is the same house we started with. 1830 01:20:55,142 --> 01:20:57,811 ‐ I've got a wonderful place to start over. 1831 01:20:57,895 --> 01:21:00,314 ‐ I'm grateful that you let us help do this. 1832 01:21:00,356 --> 01:21:01,523 ‐ Yeah, so am I. 1833 01:21:02,483 --> 01:21:03,984 ‐ It's been a huge weight on our shoulders, 1834 01:21:04,068 --> 01:21:09,156 for a lot of years and it's amazing. 1835 01:21:10,783 --> 01:21:12,242 ‐ It's livable again. 1836 01:21:12,326 --> 01:21:14,203 So I just thank everybody involved 1837 01:21:14,286 --> 01:21:16,413 and all of people that donated things. 1838 01:21:18,624 --> 01:21:21,126 It's just, I gather there's still things we have to do, 1839 01:21:21,210 --> 01:21:23,379 but this is just overwhelming. 1840 01:21:24,963 --> 01:21:28,967 Thank you all very much, we appreciate it. 1841 01:21:29,009 --> 01:21:30,969 ‐ It's shocking to see the transformation. 1842 01:21:31,053 --> 01:21:32,513 It's just, it's shocking. 1843 01:21:32,596 --> 01:21:33,639 ‐ There have been some mighty, 1844 01:21:33,722 --> 01:21:35,641 beautiful people gotten involved here. 1845 01:21:36,850 --> 01:21:38,894 I just, I can't thank everybody enough. 1846 01:21:38,977 --> 01:21:42,398 ‐ Yeah, so Dennis you have space back, 1847 01:21:42,481 --> 01:21:46,985 you have light back, now, all this love and care 1848 01:21:47,069 --> 01:21:50,572 in your family can come in and fill it, in any way. 1849 01:21:52,074 --> 01:21:53,909 ‐ That's just amazing. 1850 01:21:53,992 --> 01:21:55,577 ‐ How's it feel to have all the space 1851 01:21:55,661 --> 01:21:58,705 ‐ For for whatever I've lost, look what I've gained. 1852 01:21:59,706 --> 01:22:00,916 ‐ What do you think mom? 1853 01:22:00,999 --> 01:22:03,168 ‐ How're you feeling, can we get a smile? 1854 01:22:04,920 --> 01:22:06,964 (mumbles) 1855 01:22:07,005 --> 01:22:07,840 ‐ You like it? 1856 01:22:07,923 --> 01:22:09,550 Okay, I'm sure she's happy. 1857 01:22:10,717 --> 01:22:12,469 ‐ Just looking at Judith and Dennis, 1858 01:22:12,511 --> 01:22:13,887 I can tell they're happy. 1859 01:22:13,971 --> 01:22:15,681 And that's what we're here to do. 1860 01:22:17,057 --> 01:22:19,810 This is where we'll be sleeping tomorrow night. 1861 01:22:19,893 --> 01:22:21,186 look a little different? 1862 01:22:22,646 --> 01:22:25,149 Sure does, fresh and clean. 1863 01:22:26,483 --> 01:22:28,193 Dennis and Judy can finally spend the night 1864 01:22:28,277 --> 01:22:31,905 in a clean house for the first time in a long time. 1865 01:22:31,989 --> 01:22:33,157 Check this out dude. 1866 01:22:33,198 --> 01:22:35,325 Oh wow, the whole thing is raising. 1867 01:22:35,617 --> 01:22:36,660 ‐ [Matt] We're raising it up so, it raises up.. 1868 01:22:36,743 --> 01:22:38,078 ‐ Oh, it is all going up. 1869 01:22:38,162 --> 01:22:40,247 ‐ I believe that the way the house looks now 1870 01:22:40,330 --> 01:22:43,667 is gonna be a life changer for my mom. 1871 01:22:43,709 --> 01:22:47,963 I think she's gonna feel different when she wakes up. 1872 01:22:48,005 --> 01:22:51,133 She's gonna feel encouraged to come out 1873 01:22:51,175 --> 01:22:53,802 and enjoy relaxing in the house. 1874 01:22:53,844 --> 01:22:55,053 This is gonna give her a good shot 1875 01:22:55,137 --> 01:22:58,682 at wanting to have that have that life back. 1876 01:22:58,765 --> 01:23:00,809 (soft acoustic music) 1877 01:23:00,893 --> 01:23:02,060 ‐ It's bright in here. 1878 01:23:02,144 --> 01:23:04,146 ‐ Beyond anything I could have imagined? 1879 01:23:04,188 --> 01:23:07,191 ‐ Those bathrooms have been thoroughly cleaned. 1880 01:23:07,274 --> 01:23:09,359 ‐ This morning, we still felt like there was a lot to do. 1881 01:23:09,443 --> 01:23:11,945 We really didn't think of what's gonna happen honestly. 1882 01:23:12,029 --> 01:23:12,946 I think it's wonderful. 1883 01:23:13,030 --> 01:23:14,031 There's so much room in here 1884 01:23:14,114 --> 01:23:15,782 my parents can actually move around now 1885 01:23:15,866 --> 01:23:19,369 and enjoy themselves, it's well lit, it's clean, it's safe, 1886 01:23:19,453 --> 01:23:23,248 far exceeds any expectation I had, it's amazing. 1887 01:23:24,041 --> 01:23:25,375 ‐ It makes me feel good. 1888 01:23:25,459 --> 01:23:28,170 I think this is going to be the way I wanna keep it. 1889 01:23:29,254 --> 01:23:31,089 This is absolutely going to be fresh start. 1890 01:23:31,173 --> 01:23:33,967 I'm going to do everything I can to preserve it. 1891 01:23:34,009 --> 01:23:34,968 Don't want to let it get back 1892 01:23:35,052 --> 01:23:37,221 anywhere near what it had been. 1893 01:23:38,847 --> 01:23:40,516 ‐ This was a massive crisis. 1894 01:23:40,599 --> 01:23:42,726 Inside was dangerous, outside was dangerous. 1895 01:23:42,809 --> 01:23:44,686 There were fines and we were able 1896 01:23:44,770 --> 01:23:45,979 to handle all of those. 1897 01:23:46,063 --> 01:23:47,981 What we have achieved is they have options, 1898 01:23:48,065 --> 01:23:49,775 the county's gonna work with them 1899 01:23:49,858 --> 01:23:51,151 and they're able to make 1900 01:23:51,193 --> 01:23:54,029 really good long term decisions for both of them. 1901 01:23:54,112 --> 01:23:55,280 This was a win. 1902 01:23:55,364 --> 01:23:57,449 ‐ Thank you, very nice meeting you Judy. 1903 01:23:58,492 --> 01:24:00,410 Dennis and his family have come a long way. 1904 01:24:00,494 --> 01:24:02,871 They started out feeling hopeless. 1905 01:24:02,955 --> 01:24:04,915 And now they're at a place where 1906 01:24:04,998 --> 01:24:06,708 they can actually see the light 1907 01:24:06,792 --> 01:24:08,293 at the end of the tunnel here. 1908 01:24:09,336 --> 01:24:11,088 But they're certainly not out of that tunnel. 1909 01:24:11,171 --> 01:24:14,216 No one in this family can for a moment walk away 1910 01:24:14,299 --> 01:24:15,926 and assume that Dennis is going 1911 01:24:16,009 --> 01:24:18,387 to be able to manage this on his own. 1912 01:24:18,470 --> 01:24:21,682 Particularly, if he doesn't take advantage 1913 01:24:21,765 --> 01:24:25,811 of the counseling that will be offered to him. 1914 01:24:25,894 --> 01:24:27,020 ‐ Did we help this family? 1915 01:24:27,104 --> 01:24:28,981 Yes, we did. 1916 01:24:29,022 --> 01:24:30,816 What I love about this job was 1917 01:24:30,857 --> 01:24:32,985 the city worked with us, the family worked for this, 1918 01:24:33,068 --> 01:24:35,404 and it came to a happy ending. 1919 01:24:37,072 --> 01:24:40,450 (dramatic synth music) 146690

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