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ROBIN: I love the feeling
of drinking alcohol.
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PRODUCER: Oh, oh, oh, careful.
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Oh!
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DUNCAN: The guy's an
accomplished airline pilot.
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SCOTT: Now Robin
is usually passed out.
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ROBIN: You put me on "go,"
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and I'm gone.
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ROBIN: I'm allowed to
talk to my kid once a week.
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SCOTT: This is the consequences
of what you've done.
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ROBIN: I've lost friends.
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I've lost respect.
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ROBIN: Alcohol took
everything away from me.
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TOM: Robin's
rock bottom is death.
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ROBIN: And that makes me
a great pilot.
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ROBIN: What kind of plane
we got coming in here?
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My name's Robin.
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JACQUIE: Look, I see the...
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ROBIN: It's coming off
right here.
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JACQUIE: Oh, it's coming off.
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ROBIN: He's at 500 feet.
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JACQUIE: He just
always loved planes.
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ROBIN: I love sitting here,
like...
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Like, look out there.
Listen to that.
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Just the sound of that
is just kick‐ass.
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JACQUIE: He was a very
sought‐after pilot.
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CHRISTINE: He's done some
amazing jobs as a pilot.
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ROBIN: I used to
taxi down this ramp.
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I'm the best pilot
you'll ever meet.
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But...
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I'm an alcoholic.
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ROBIN: I will drink
24 beers per day.
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ROBIN: Drinking heavily
frees me
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from feeling stress...
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anger...
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worthlessness.
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DUNCAN: Robin drinks to excess.
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ROBIN: It's probably the spot.
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Oh!
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DUNCAN: He drinks to pass out.
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Bottom line.
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TOM: He had 200 bucks
a couple weeks ago.
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He stayed in his room,
and he drank $200 worth of beer
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in four or five days.
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ROBIN: Augh...
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TOM: It's a serious problem.
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ROBIN: We're gonna go
into the liquor depot
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and get what I need,
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and I'll call it
beer budgeting.
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I'll get enough
so that tomorrow
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I'll have a couple
left in the morning,
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so that I don't
feel like [bleep].
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SCOTT: Robin is usually
either passed out,
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usually bleeding from something.
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CHRISTINE: Robin has been
in the hospital in Edmonton
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three times
in the last three months.
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JACQUIE: His bloodwork
is not healthy.
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His kidney function isn't great.
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SCOTT: I haven't seen Robin
sober in a long, long time.
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DUNCAN: I don't ever
see him anymore.
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I've thrown him out
of my house twice.
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I threw him out the front door.
I told him never to come back.
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SCOTT: It's sad to say
that my memories of...
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what he was like
are slipping away.
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SCOTT: His system
is shutting down.
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He's a shell.
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ROBIN: I'm the third‐born
of three children.
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DUNCAN: Robin was a happy kid.
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We didn't have to worry about
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where our next meal
was coming from,
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if there was toys
for our birthday.
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We didn't go without at all.
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SCOTT: We had an
incredibly happy childhood.
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TOM: He was just
that fun little guy,
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because he has
always been little.
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And his brothers would pick
on him and make fun of him
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because he was short.
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DUNCAN: Scott and I teased
Robin about his height.
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ROBIN: My brothers
would bug me about it
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all the time.
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Robin tried to
do well at everything.
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TOM: When he played hockey,
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he always made the top team,
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and you'd see pictures
of him on the team,
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and all the kids
would be this tall,
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and Robin was this tall.
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ROBIN: I was always
the perfect person,
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the perfect student,
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the perfect everything.
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TOM: Like, he was our
little dream child,
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for off to university,
and we had such high hopes.
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ROBIN: Like, I didn't
want to go to university.
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I wanted to be a pilot.
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ROBIN: When I was
four years old,
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my grandpa used to
take me out of school,
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tell the teacher I had
a doctor's appointment,
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and then we used to drive down
to where the airport is
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and sit there
and watch airplanes.
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I was exhilarated.
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So, when I went to university,
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I was trying to
please my parents.
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JACQUIE: Robin was a server.
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I was a lounge server.
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After shift, we all...
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partied quite a bit.
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ROBIN: When I was
in high school,
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very shy person,
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and then I went to university,
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and alcohol released that.
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You all of the sudden
become this different person.
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JACQUIE: Robin actually,
back then,
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was known as "Fun Bobby."
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As his shift neared its close,
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he would get very drunk.
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He would have a coffee mug,
if it was winter,
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and it would be
filled with red wine.
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SCOTT: He started drinking hard
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because the access that
the restaurant allowed him.
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JACQUIE: I did cash in the
morning, and I'd open the doors,
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and he's wrapped around a booth.
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I didn't really know
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that level of drunk.
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ROBIN: I started drinking
to relieve my shyness,
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and I kept going.
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ROBIN: It was totalled,
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so I'm not gonna call my dad,
because my dad, he gets mad.
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So I call my mom,
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and my mom, probably for
the first time in her life,
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lied to my dad...
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about how that car
was totalled.
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CHRISTINE: I guess
I covered that up for him,
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and maybe if I hadn't,
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things would have
been different.
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I don't know.
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SCOTT: He hasn't had to deal
with the consequences that
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a lot of people would
have to deal with.
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It's like the Zamboni comes over
and sweeps the ice rink clean,
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and there you go,
a fresh surface again.
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And he keeps getting‐‐ Robin
keeps getting a fresh surface.
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JACQUIE: He had been
talking about, you know,
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how cool it would be
to be a pilot.
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JACQUIE: I said, Robin, there's
a training place downtown,
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and why don't we just drive
there and go talk to somebody,
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and see what happens‐‐
like, how do you become a pilot?
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JACQUIE: When he got
into that pilot school,
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what he's always
dreamed of doing,
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he stopped drinking,
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and he didn't drink.
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ROBIN: I realized
that my main purpose
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in this life is to be a pilot.
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SCOTT: Robin wanted
to be a pilot,
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so he worked to be a pilot,
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I think harder than most people
work at anything.
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TOM: He was sober, and he just
buzzed through everything.
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ROBIN: I worked for
Michael Bolton for two months.
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We went to these places like
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Wendover, Utah; Seattle;
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all these different places.
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Every day,
we'd get out of the plane,
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into the limo,
went to a concert.
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It was the funnest
experience of my life.
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JACQUIE: He's a great pilot,
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and he's flown so many planes.
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He can fly almost anything.
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SCOTT: He had everything
he always wanted.
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He was a happy, happy guy.
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ROBIN: I was living
the perfect life.
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I loved making my kids laugh
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and making them happy.
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JACQUIE: For a while,
Robin was flying up north.
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And the weather would change,
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and he'd be stuck
up there for a week.
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ROBIN: The flying is
not the stressful part.
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It's the stress of being
away from your family.
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I missed my second child's
third birthday.
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I missed my first child's
first birthday.
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So I would grab a 12‐pack.
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Drinking was
the only way I knew
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to numb the feeling
of loneliness.
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CHRISTINE: I think he just sort
of got into a downward spiral
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and was drinking all the time.
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TOM: He'd get a job, a good job.
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He'd start to drink.
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Poof‐‐ out of there.
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ROBIN: I've lost friends.
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I lost respect from
pretty much everybody.
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TOM: His wife wouldn't put up
with Robin's drinking.
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He promised so many times
he would stop.
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ROBIN: I love her...
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through and through,
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and I would do anything
for that person,
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but I failed her.
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Having to come home
and have your wife
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drag you out of your car,
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throw you in bed
in front of your child,
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and say, "Daddy's just sick."
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SCOTT: Robin would drink,
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and his wife would
get home from work,
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and there'd be broken
bottles on the floor.
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And there's a baby in the crib,
and the window's open.
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‐40 weather,
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and Robin's passed out
somewhere on the floor.
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TOM: Eventually,
she told him, "Get out."
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ROBIN: I went on
a two‐week bender.
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I fell down and hit my head
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and had the police and the EMS,
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and all this.
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CHRISTINE: We didn't
know where he was.
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We phoned a couple
of the hospitals and found him,
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and we got him a plane ticket,
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and he came back here.
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ROBIN: Hi, Dad.
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ROBIN: [sighs] I had to cancel
a medical appointment today
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because I don't feel good.
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I can't take a [beep] job
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because I can't do my medical.
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♪
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JACQUIE: He's got
nothing left to live for.
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♪
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ROBIN: My wife left me,
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my children left me.
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Now everything is gone.
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Everything is gone.
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TOM: He says all the time,
"I don't care if it kills me."
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ROBIN: [beep]
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ROBIN: [beep]
No, no.
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JACQUIE: Robin will die
if he doesn't accept treatment.
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ROBIN: [groans]
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JACQUIE: There's not
a question in my mind.
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CHRISTINE: The last few months,
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it hasn't been pleasant.
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Robin doesn't come upstairs.
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He gets angry a lot quicker.
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I get upset,
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but I can't throw him out.
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TOM: Rob?
ROBIN: Yes, sir?
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TOM: You know I collected
all that bottles and stuff
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out of your room the other day,
to get rid of the stink.
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Is there any more in there?
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ROBIN: There is some in there.
There's two.
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ROBIN: Okay, fine, go.
Right behind the door.
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TOM: Okay.
Thank you.
256
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ROBIN: But leave the two
that are full in there.
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TOM: Yeah, yeah, yeah.
258
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TOM: I've enabled him to
continue living in our basement.
259
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But he's my son,
and I've told him, like,
260
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no matter what you do,
261
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I can't not love you.
262
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Because you are my son.
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DUNCAN: Robin living
in their basement,
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it's just a bad situation.
265
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Nobody should have to
look after a 43‐year‐old guy.
266
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They should be living the best
years of their life right now.
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♪
268
00:14:33,122 --> 00:14:35,583
♪
269
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[phone rings]
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STUDENT: [on phone] Morning.
271
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ROBIN: Sorry I missed
your call last night.
272
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STUDENT: It's all good.
273
00:14:43,633 --> 00:14:45,927
ROBIN: Did you study last night
or did you take the night off?
274
00:14:46,010 --> 00:14:48,596
STUDENT: I took the night off.
ROBIN: Good.
275
00:14:48,679 --> 00:14:49,972
What are we doing today?
276
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ROBIN: What's the max
take‐off weight?
277
00:14:56,979 --> 00:14:59,107
ROBIN: What's the zero
fuel weight?
278
00:15:00,942 --> 00:15:03,236
ROBIN: Do you take off
the flaps or no flaps?
279
00:15:04,570 --> 00:15:05,571
ROBIN: Exactly.
280
00:15:05,696 --> 00:15:07,407
You're doing good so far.
281
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STUDENT: Yeah...
282
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JACQUIE: A lot of pilots
pay for his services.
283
00:15:11,452 --> 00:15:15,832
He can fly almost anything,
so he's sought‐after.
284
00:15:15,915 --> 00:15:18,084
ROBIN: You can call me
285
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before you step in that SIM,
286
00:15:20,420 --> 00:15:22,797
and we'll pep talk you
before you get inside there.
287
00:15:22,880 --> 00:15:24,048
Okay?
STUDENT: Yeah.
288
00:15:24,132 --> 00:15:26,509
ROBIN: All right, big guy.
289
00:15:26,592 --> 00:15:27,802
ROBIN: Talk to you in a bit.
290
00:15:27,885 --> 00:15:29,387
ROBIN: I'm good at it.
291
00:15:35,351 --> 00:15:38,479
ROBIN: I'm gonna go
for a little walk.
292
00:15:38,521 --> 00:15:40,148
CHRISTINE: Whatever that meant.
293
00:15:42,191 --> 00:15:44,569
CHRISTINE: Or good morning.
Could have been either one.
294
00:15:58,249 --> 00:16:02,545
ROBIN: I wake up every day,
and this is what I do.
295
00:16:07,008 --> 00:16:10,887
You put me on "go"...
296
00:16:10,970 --> 00:16:13,181
and I'm gone.
297
00:16:22,440 --> 00:16:25,568
[phone rings]
298
00:16:25,651 --> 00:16:27,320
ROBIN: What do you want?
299
00:16:29,780 --> 00:16:32,074
ROBIN: Okay, what
questions do you want?
300
00:16:36,579 --> 00:16:39,790
ROBIN: Okay, well, you do
what I told you to do.
301
00:16:39,874 --> 00:16:42,752
You go to the heart
of the SOPs,
302
00:16:42,835 --> 00:16:44,462
you learn those numbers.
303
00:16:44,545 --> 00:16:46,047
Max take‐off weight?
304
00:16:47,673 --> 00:16:49,634
ROBIN: You're done.
305
00:16:49,717 --> 00:16:51,344
You just passed ground school.
306
00:16:55,765 --> 00:16:59,810
If you want to make spaghetti,
and you don't want to‐‐
307
00:16:59,852 --> 00:17:02,563
know how to make
spaghetti, call me.
308
00:17:04,190 --> 00:17:06,901
ROBIN: And I'll help you
make some spaghetti.
309
00:17:06,984 --> 00:17:08,486
It's okay.
310
00:17:09,904 --> 00:17:12,657
ROBIN: Right now, we're getting
you through ground school, okay?
311
00:17:14,450 --> 00:17:18,162
ROBIN: If they ask you
a question,
312
00:17:18,204 --> 00:17:20,373
just say, "I've gotta
take a bathroom break,"
313
00:17:20,456 --> 00:17:22,124
and then call me.
314
00:17:23,501 --> 00:17:25,086
ROBIN: Do I help you out?
315
00:17:26,796 --> 00:17:28,297
ROBIN: Do you help me out?
316
00:17:31,634 --> 00:17:33,261
ROBIN: Then keep it going.
317
00:17:35,012 --> 00:17:37,431
ROBIN: Good.
I'll talk to you later.
318
00:17:37,515 --> 00:17:39,642
STUDENT: Okay, bye.
ROBIN: All right.
319
00:17:51,112 --> 00:17:55,533
ROBIN: Let's make it home.
How about that?
320
00:17:55,616 --> 00:17:57,994
SCOTT: All I hear about
from other people is that
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00:17:58,119 --> 00:18:00,997
he is an amazing pilot.
322
00:18:01,080 --> 00:18:03,958
DUNCAN: I mean, he's certified
on multiple planes
323
00:18:04,041 --> 00:18:05,793
and multiple engines,
324
00:18:05,835 --> 00:18:09,463
and he's ruined his life.
325
00:18:09,547 --> 00:18:11,632
ROBIN: Cessna 185.
326
00:18:11,674 --> 00:18:12,758
That's it.
327
00:18:12,842 --> 00:18:14,802
That's all I got.
328
00:18:14,927 --> 00:18:17,930
DUNCAN: And personally, I don't
think he can get it back.
329
00:18:18,014 --> 00:18:20,099
[thunder rolling]
330
00:18:27,857 --> 00:18:29,984
[thunder rolling]
331
00:18:30,067 --> 00:18:31,360
ROBIN: There's
a little bit of wind.
332
00:18:31,485 --> 00:18:32,653
It's fine.
333
00:18:32,737 --> 00:18:34,155
It's moving to the southeast,
334
00:18:34,196 --> 00:18:36,198
and that's because of
the direction of the wind
335
00:18:36,282 --> 00:18:37,908
across the mountains.
336
00:18:37,992 --> 00:18:40,828
I have got this, like,
unnatural knowledge
337
00:18:40,911 --> 00:18:43,623
of what happens
with the weather.
338
00:18:43,706 --> 00:18:44,749
I know when to go,
339
00:18:44,832 --> 00:18:46,208
I know when to not go,
340
00:18:46,292 --> 00:18:48,878
and I want people
to be there safe.
341
00:18:49,003 --> 00:18:51,005
And that...
342
00:18:51,130 --> 00:18:53,716
makes me a great pilot.
343
00:18:53,799 --> 00:18:57,595
♪
344
00:18:57,678 --> 00:19:00,640
ROBIN: The only time
I feel I know something
345
00:19:00,723 --> 00:19:03,059
is when I'm flying.
346
00:19:06,145 --> 00:19:11,108
But alcohol took
everything away from me.
347
00:19:19,992 --> 00:19:21,494
TOM: He has a family.
348
00:19:21,535 --> 00:19:24,955
He could make a fortune
flying big, big airplanes.
349
00:19:25,039 --> 00:19:27,708
But he screwed that up,
and now...
350
00:19:27,792 --> 00:19:30,169
he'll be on the street,
and we won't know if he's dead.
351
00:19:30,252 --> 00:19:31,754
We won't know if he's alive.
352
00:19:35,132 --> 00:19:36,676
PRODUCER: Robin... oh!
[thud]
353
00:19:36,801 --> 00:19:39,303
ROBIN: [groans]
354
00:19:39,387 --> 00:19:42,515
TOM: Man alive, like, I don't
know if I can live with that!
355
00:20:05,079 --> 00:20:07,248
ROBIN: Yeah.
356
00:20:07,331 --> 00:20:08,290
TOM: Does that hurt, Rob?
357
00:20:08,374 --> 00:20:10,543
ROBIN: Not even hurt,
it's just...
358
00:20:10,626 --> 00:20:12,420
TOM: Holy mackerel.
359
00:20:12,503 --> 00:20:14,338
ROBIN: Yeah.
360
00:20:14,463 --> 00:20:17,216
♪
361
00:20:17,299 --> 00:20:19,218
TOM: Look, oh, geez.
362
00:20:25,808 --> 00:20:26,976
ROBIN: [crying]
363
00:20:27,059 --> 00:20:28,352
TOM: It's too many times, Robin.
364
00:20:28,436 --> 00:20:32,857
You do this, and then you
know that it makes you hurt.
365
00:20:38,112 --> 00:20:40,322
ROBIN: Okay.
366
00:20:40,406 --> 00:20:42,742
TOM: Something to hang onto,
so you don't fall down.
367
00:20:42,825 --> 00:20:45,035
ROBIN: Yeah.
368
00:20:45,119 --> 00:20:47,788
TOM: Oh, be careful, careful.
369
00:20:47,872 --> 00:20:49,957
ROBIN: Okay, in there.
370
00:20:51,375 --> 00:20:53,461
ROBIN: I'm in bed.
TOM: Okay.
371
00:20:53,544 --> 00:20:56,672
Okay, buddy.
372
00:21:15,524 --> 00:21:19,653
CHRISTINE: I worry
mostly about his safety.
373
00:21:19,779 --> 00:21:23,199
He has fallen and hurt
himself several times,
374
00:21:23,282 --> 00:21:25,159
including last night.
375
00:21:25,242 --> 00:21:27,328
TOM: So, yeah, you fell down
and hit your head
376
00:21:27,369 --> 00:21:30,831
on one of Mom's flower pots.
ROBIN: Uh‐huh.
377
00:21:30,915 --> 00:21:33,751
TOM: I think maybe you're
still a little drunk.
378
00:21:33,834 --> 00:21:35,085
ROBIN: Oh, most likely.
379
00:21:35,169 --> 00:21:37,338
TOM: Most likely, yeah.
380
00:21:41,425 --> 00:21:43,177
ROBIN: I can't stand
the fact that I live at home
381
00:21:43,260 --> 00:21:45,387
with my parents at 42,
382
00:21:45,513 --> 00:21:46,972
and I lost my family.
383
00:21:47,014 --> 00:21:49,642
So...
384
00:21:49,683 --> 00:21:52,770
...alcohol took away
everything from my life.
385
00:21:54,897 --> 00:21:58,651
It stole my family from me,
386
00:21:58,734 --> 00:22:01,529
and yet the only time
I can talk to them
387
00:22:01,612 --> 00:22:05,616
is if I'm drunk,
because I'm ashamed.
388
00:22:05,699 --> 00:22:07,034
[phone rings]
389
00:22:07,159 --> 00:22:08,702
WIFE: What do you want?
390
00:22:08,786 --> 00:22:09,745
ROBIN: Wanted to...
391
00:22:12,456 --> 00:22:13,999
ROBIN: I want to say hi...
392
00:22:14,041 --> 00:22:15,209
WIFE: Okay, bye‐bye.
393
00:22:15,292 --> 00:22:17,253
ROBIN: No, no, no, no, no, no.
394
00:22:35,187 --> 00:22:37,690
WIFE: Bye‐bye.
395
00:22:50,995 --> 00:22:52,663
JODI: Hi.
TOM: It's Grandpa.
396
00:22:52,746 --> 00:22:54,331
JODIE: You know Grandpa.
TOM: This is my grandpa.
397
00:22:54,373 --> 00:22:55,624
Yes.
Oh, yeah.
398
00:22:55,708 --> 00:22:59,336
SCOTT: My parents
don't really know my son.
399
00:22:59,461 --> 00:23:01,839
He's my first son.
He's just 10 months old.
400
00:23:01,922 --> 00:23:04,133
There was an incident
at Christmas where
401
00:23:04,174 --> 00:23:06,302
my wife was holding
the baby in her arms.
402
00:23:06,385 --> 00:23:07,803
I had to go out to the car
to get something,
403
00:23:07,887 --> 00:23:10,389
and when I came back in,
Robin had taken my son
404
00:23:10,472 --> 00:23:12,224
sort of forcefully,
405
00:23:12,349 --> 00:23:14,476
and he was drunk.
406
00:23:14,518 --> 00:23:17,521
With Robin living
at their house,
407
00:23:17,605 --> 00:23:20,900
my wife doesn't want
to go over there.
408
00:23:20,983 --> 00:23:24,028
I don't feel it's safe,
and it's just not comfortable.
409
00:23:24,111 --> 00:23:25,946
TOM: That's my guy!
410
00:23:26,030 --> 00:23:27,823
There!
411
00:23:27,865 --> 00:23:29,450
You're very clever.
412
00:23:29,533 --> 00:23:30,910
You're very clever.
JODIE: Aww.
413
00:23:31,035 --> 00:23:33,829
DUNCAN: Scott and I have
never been with Robin
414
00:23:33,913 --> 00:23:35,122
in quite a long time,
415
00:23:35,205 --> 00:23:37,458
all three of us
together at once.
416
00:23:38,709 --> 00:23:39,668
CHRISTINE: He's down
in his room.
417
00:23:41,170 --> 00:23:42,671
CHRISTINE: I think so, yeah.
418
00:23:42,755 --> 00:23:43,881
DUNCAN: Okay.
419
00:23:44,006 --> 00:23:46,216
DUNCAN: I don't know
what's going to happen.
420
00:23:46,300 --> 00:23:47,801
ROBIN: I got a good one.
421
00:23:47,843 --> 00:23:49,178
There you go.
422
00:23:49,261 --> 00:23:51,680
I got that one right there.
423
00:23:58,020 --> 00:23:59,313
TOM: You can't roll it
in it.
424
00:23:59,396 --> 00:24:01,231
SCOTT: Oh, yeah, that's
how you do it, isn't it?
425
00:24:01,315 --> 00:24:03,525
DUNCAN: What, spin it around?
TOM: Yeah.
426
00:24:03,651 --> 00:24:07,655
ROBIN: What's the big guy
eating there, Scott?
427
00:24:07,738 --> 00:24:10,199
SCOTT: I don't know,
some sort of puff.
428
00:24:10,282 --> 00:24:13,744
ROBIN: A puff of some sort.
429
00:24:13,827 --> 00:24:15,829
♪
430
00:24:15,913 --> 00:24:19,541
ROBIN: You got your own chair
and everything.
431
00:24:19,625 --> 00:24:22,252
ROBIN: How old's
Charlie now, Scott?
432
00:24:22,336 --> 00:24:23,879
About 10 months?
433
00:24:24,004 --> 00:24:25,673
SCOTT: Yep.
434
00:24:42,189 --> 00:24:44,775
SCOTT: Don't seem
to do much else.
435
00:24:56,620 --> 00:24:58,664
SCOTT: How about those Oilers?
436
00:25:17,182 --> 00:25:19,518
SCOTT: That's nice.
437
00:25:31,530 --> 00:25:33,782
JODIE: You don't think it
pisses me off that my son
438
00:25:33,866 --> 00:25:35,409
doesn't see his grandparents
439
00:25:35,492 --> 00:25:37,953
because we don't feel safe
coming around here?
440
00:25:38,037 --> 00:25:40,164
But you don't really
give us an option.
441
00:25:40,205 --> 00:25:44,293
ROBIN: Why don't you say
something nice to me?
442
00:25:44,334 --> 00:25:46,128
SCOTT: No.
443
00:25:46,211 --> 00:25:47,212
ROBIN: No?
444
00:25:49,506 --> 00:25:50,883
ROBIN: Will you stop?
445
00:25:55,387 --> 00:25:58,098
SCOTT: He's been upsetting
Mom for 20 years.
446
00:26:01,518 --> 00:26:04,730
JODIE: Robin, enough!
SCOTT: You can barely stand up.
447
00:26:04,813 --> 00:26:07,733
JODIE: Scott's trying
to help you!
448
00:26:07,816 --> 00:26:10,360
ROBIN: I'm sorry I make
everyone feel uncomfortable
449
00:26:10,444 --> 00:26:13,072
and blah, blah, blah.
450
00:26:13,197 --> 00:26:15,324
SCOTT: Maybe it's time
to look inwards and see
451
00:26:15,407 --> 00:26:17,659
why nobody wants
to be around you.
452
00:26:20,037 --> 00:26:24,208
SCOTT: I don't know, I rarely
even hear you mention them.
453
00:26:24,333 --> 00:26:28,337
ROBIN: Never tell me
I don't care about my kids.
454
00:26:28,420 --> 00:26:29,505
JODIE: Prove it!
SCOTT: You just keep‐‐
455
00:26:29,588 --> 00:26:31,381
JODIE: Prove that
you like those kids!
456
00:26:31,465 --> 00:26:34,802
Sober yourself up,
and get them back!
457
00:26:34,885 --> 00:26:38,972
ROBIN: I'm allowed to talk
to my kids once...
458
00:26:39,056 --> 00:26:40,933
...a week.
459
00:26:41,016 --> 00:26:44,144
SCOTT: Doesn't that make you
want to maybe get better?
460
00:26:44,269 --> 00:26:46,188
ROBIN: I can't go home.
461
00:26:46,271 --> 00:26:48,148
SCOTT: This is the consequences
of what you've done.
462
00:26:48,190 --> 00:26:50,901
ROBIN: I can't go home.
463
00:26:53,070 --> 00:26:55,823
SCOTT: You act like there's
nothing you can do about it.
464
00:26:55,906 --> 00:26:57,783
ROBIN: It has everything
to do with me.
465
00:26:57,866 --> 00:27:01,286
SCOTT: And there is something
you can do about it.
466
00:27:01,370 --> 00:27:04,039
♪
467
00:27:04,123 --> 00:27:05,707
♪
468
00:27:05,791 --> 00:27:08,168
TOM: This conversation is over.
469
00:27:08,293 --> 00:27:09,378
I'm leaving the table.
470
00:27:09,461 --> 00:27:11,255
Scott, you're gonna
leave the table.
471
00:27:11,338 --> 00:27:15,801
And the conversation
is finished.
472
00:27:15,843 --> 00:27:19,012
SCOTT: My family has
all but disintegrated
473
00:27:19,138 --> 00:27:22,724
since Robin has
come back in the picture.
474
00:27:22,850 --> 00:27:25,686
We used to be so close.
475
00:27:25,769 --> 00:27:27,479
DUNCAN: It affects everybody.
476
00:27:27,521 --> 00:27:29,106
He's ruining everyone's life.
477
00:27:30,816 --> 00:27:33,527
SCOTT: I think Robin
still has a chance,
478
00:27:33,610 --> 00:27:36,196
because I know
he's in there somewhere.
479
00:27:36,280 --> 00:27:39,199
♪
480
00:27:45,873 --> 00:27:46,999
ANDREW: I'm Andrew Galloway,
481
00:27:47,040 --> 00:27:49,042
and I'm gonna be your
interventionist tomorrow.
482
00:27:49,126 --> 00:27:50,919
It takes a lot
of courage to be here,
483
00:27:51,003 --> 00:27:52,546
and I know there's lots
of reasons to be here.
484
00:27:52,629 --> 00:27:54,506
We can be here because
we're really angry,
485
00:27:54,590 --> 00:27:57,050
we can be here because
we're scared to death.
486
00:27:57,134 --> 00:28:01,138
But mostly, we're here
because we love Robin.
487
00:28:01,180 --> 00:28:02,639
ANDREW: So, is this something
you've been seeing going on
488
00:28:02,723 --> 00:28:04,725
for a long period of time?
489
00:28:04,808 --> 00:28:07,060
CHRISTINE: Just over 20 years.
490
00:28:07,144 --> 00:28:09,771
ANDREW: And when we think of
alcoholism, if not treated,
491
00:28:09,855 --> 00:28:11,565
is going to get worse
and worse and worse,
492
00:28:11,648 --> 00:28:13,358
and ultimately,
we end up at death.
493
00:28:13,442 --> 00:28:16,987
Which is why we're here,
and we're trying to avoid that.
494
00:28:17,070 --> 00:28:20,324
TOM: Everybody's tried to help,
but Robin won't help himself.
495
00:28:20,407 --> 00:28:24,411
It's hard to understand‐‐ like,
he was such a terrific person.
496
00:28:24,494 --> 00:28:27,623
ANDREW: So tell me a little bit
about growing up with him.
497
00:28:27,706 --> 00:28:30,459
SCOTT: I think he's
always wanted to be
498
00:28:30,542 --> 00:28:32,669
sort of this weird
sense of perfection.
499
00:28:32,753 --> 00:28:35,297
Like, he's sort of so anxious
about everything.
500
00:28:35,339 --> 00:28:37,633
JACQUIE: He's always been
the best at what he does.
501
00:28:37,716 --> 00:28:39,343
He was the best bartender
at our restaurant,
502
00:28:39,426 --> 00:28:41,970
he was the best private pilot,
503
00:28:42,012 --> 00:28:44,890
he got his private pilot
license done the fastest.
504
00:28:44,973 --> 00:28:46,558
ANDREW: So it sounds like he
puts pretty high expectations
505
00:28:46,642 --> 00:28:50,145
on himself too, like he has this
idea he's supposed to be here,
506
00:28:50,187 --> 00:28:53,815
and if I'm not there,
then it's not good enough.
507
00:28:53,857 --> 00:28:55,817
DUNCAN: But at some point,
come on.
508
00:28:55,859 --> 00:28:58,528
Find a way to make it better.
509
00:28:58,612 --> 00:29:01,698
ANDREW: He did.
He drank.
510
00:29:01,782 --> 00:29:05,118
DUNCAN: Okay.
Yeah, you got me.
511
00:29:05,202 --> 00:29:06,453
ANDREW: I mean, that's
the problem, right,
512
00:29:06,536 --> 00:29:08,830
is that he never did learn
a different way to change
513
00:29:08,872 --> 00:29:12,167
whatever was going on
inside of him.
514
00:29:12,251 --> 00:29:14,253
TOM: Like, there was never
any reason, it seemed,
515
00:29:14,336 --> 00:29:16,672
to sit down and get serious
about, you know, like,
516
00:29:16,755 --> 00:29:18,799
how are you feeling about that?
517
00:29:18,840 --> 00:29:21,468
Like, we didn't talk
about those things.
518
00:29:21,551 --> 00:29:24,638
SCOTT: It's like...
the Robin Problem.
519
00:29:24,680 --> 00:29:27,933
It's something in the room
you don't talk about.
520
00:29:28,016 --> 00:29:29,309
ANDREW: It's hard for
families to talk about
521
00:29:29,393 --> 00:29:31,019
the difficult issues.
522
00:29:31,103 --> 00:29:32,813
SCOTT: But you've gotta do it
once in a while, I think.
523
00:29:32,896 --> 00:29:34,481
DUNCAN: Like, you're 42 or 43,
524
00:29:34,523 --> 00:29:35,691
or whatever the hell
he is, right?
525
00:29:35,774 --> 00:29:36,942
CHRISTINE: 42.
526
00:29:37,025 --> 00:29:39,653
DUNCAN: Like...
deal with your [bleep].
527
00:29:39,736 --> 00:29:41,989
If you're not going to,
528
00:29:42,030 --> 00:29:43,615
don't pile it on everyone else.
529
00:29:43,699 --> 00:29:45,325
ANDREW: Duncan,
you're filled with
530
00:29:45,409 --> 00:29:47,995
I'd say, a lot of anger.
531
00:29:48,036 --> 00:29:49,997
DUNCAN: Well, I'm angry
'cause I have to be here.
532
00:29:50,080 --> 00:29:51,665
I have to be dealing with
533
00:29:51,707 --> 00:29:54,876
something I don't want
to be dealing with.
534
00:29:54,960 --> 00:29:58,297
ANDREW: What would you like
to see your parents do?
535
00:29:58,380 --> 00:30:01,091
DUNCAN: Kick him out.
536
00:30:01,174 --> 00:30:03,760
CHRISTINE: I'm sure
that I am a huge part of it,
537
00:30:03,844 --> 00:30:08,307
and I'm sure I've
enabled him along the way.
538
00:30:08,390 --> 00:30:11,059
Covered up a lot of things
that he did.
539
00:30:11,143 --> 00:30:13,145
ANDREW: What do you mean
you covered up?
540
00:30:13,228 --> 00:30:16,606
CHRISTINE: Well, if he had a car
accident that he was drinking,
541
00:30:16,690 --> 00:30:18,859
his dad never knew
that he had...
542
00:30:18,942 --> 00:30:20,444
ANDREW: And why would
we keep something like that
543
00:30:20,527 --> 00:30:21,987
from his dad?
544
00:30:22,029 --> 00:30:25,365
CHRISTINE: So he wouldn't
be angry with Robin.
545
00:30:25,449 --> 00:30:28,702
ANDREW: Don't you think that
he should be angry with Robin?
546
00:30:28,785 --> 00:30:29,995
CHRISTINE: Yes, he
should be angry with Robin,
547
00:30:30,078 --> 00:30:31,997
but that's just what I did.
548
00:30:32,080 --> 00:30:36,793
ANDREW: So, he never really
ever has consequences?
549
00:30:36,835 --> 00:30:40,922
TOM: No.
It's, uh...
550
00:30:41,006 --> 00:30:44,634
ANDREW: No one's done
anything wrong here.
551
00:30:44,676 --> 00:30:47,012
Now, where you are
a little bit responsible
552
00:30:47,095 --> 00:30:49,639
is keeping him in his disease.
553
00:30:49,723 --> 00:30:52,392
He lives in your house.
554
00:30:52,476 --> 00:30:54,186
You provide for him.
555
00:30:54,269 --> 00:30:58,106
TOM: If he dies
in the basement, you know what?
556
00:30:58,190 --> 00:31:01,568
Hurts me to say it,
but I could live with that.
557
00:31:01,651 --> 00:31:05,072
But if he died on the street,
558
00:31:05,155 --> 00:31:08,158
in the gutter, and nobody knew,
559
00:31:08,200 --> 00:31:11,078
and nobody was there to comfort
him in his last minutes...
560
00:31:11,161 --> 00:31:14,539
Holy [beep].
Like, I couldn't...
561
00:31:14,623 --> 00:31:16,666
Like, the thought
of that just...
562
00:31:16,750 --> 00:31:21,046
And that's why I leave
a door unlocked.
563
00:31:21,129 --> 00:31:24,800
ANDREW: In both your scenarios,
he ends up dead.
564
00:31:24,883 --> 00:31:27,636
TOM: He has to get treatment.
565
00:31:27,677 --> 00:31:30,597
He has to.
566
00:31:30,680 --> 00:31:33,308
♪
567
00:31:33,392 --> 00:31:35,644
♪
568
00:31:35,727 --> 00:31:37,145
ANDREW: What's
scaring you right now?
569
00:31:37,229 --> 00:31:40,107
CHRISTINE: I'm afraid
he won't go.
570
00:31:40,190 --> 00:31:44,528
And I don't know what'll
happen if he doesn't.
571
00:31:44,611 --> 00:31:47,489
And I'm also afraid to say,
"You can't ever come home
572
00:31:47,572 --> 00:31:51,368
"if you don't go."
573
00:31:51,451 --> 00:31:55,122
ANDREW: We need to be able
to establish some boundaries.
574
00:31:57,249 --> 00:32:00,043
If we're not capable
of following through,
575
00:32:00,127 --> 00:32:02,212
you're going to sabotage
576
00:32:02,295 --> 00:32:06,133
our intervention
to some degree.
577
00:32:08,802 --> 00:32:10,720
SCOTT: It has...
it has to end,
578
00:32:10,804 --> 00:32:12,639
'cause I can't keep
going like this.
579
00:32:12,681 --> 00:32:14,724
I can't watch it happen anymore.
580
00:32:14,808 --> 00:32:17,102
[sniffs]
581
00:32:17,185 --> 00:32:19,646
♪
582
00:32:19,688 --> 00:32:27,362
CHRISTINE: It will be very hard.
583
00:32:28,447 --> 00:32:33,577
♪
CHRISTINE: It will be very hard.
584
00:32:33,660 --> 00:32:36,037
ANDREW: How are we feeling
about our bottom lines?
585
00:32:36,121 --> 00:32:37,914
CHRISTINE: That's
really a tough one.
586
00:32:37,998 --> 00:32:38,915
ANDREW: If he
decides not to go,
587
00:32:38,999 --> 00:32:42,711
he's gonna
bank on you caving.
588
00:32:42,794 --> 00:32:45,464
ROBIN: Let's do this.
589
00:32:45,547 --> 00:32:48,758
♪
590
00:32:48,842 --> 00:32:50,844
♪
591
00:32:50,927 --> 00:32:53,138
ROBIN: In here?
592
00:32:53,221 --> 00:32:53,972
Okay.
593
00:32:54,055 --> 00:32:55,223
ANDREW: Hey, Robin.
594
00:32:55,348 --> 00:32:56,641
Come on in.
I'm Andrew.
595
00:32:56,683 --> 00:32:58,268
ROBIN: Hey, how are you doing?
ANDREW: Nice to meet you.
596
00:33:01,563 --> 00:33:04,024
ROBIN: I don't know you yet.
ANDREW: We haven't met yet.
597
00:33:04,107 --> 00:33:05,317
ROBIN: So, well,
it's good to meet you.
598
00:33:05,400 --> 00:33:06,318
Who are you?
599
00:33:06,443 --> 00:33:10,822
ANDREW: Well, I'm here
on behalf of your family.
600
00:33:10,947 --> 00:33:11,948
As you can see, your
family is all here.
601
00:33:12,032 --> 00:33:13,158
ROBIN: [beep]
602
00:33:13,200 --> 00:33:17,287
ANDREW: Yeah.
You okay?
603
00:33:17,370 --> 00:33:19,372
Take a breath.
604
00:33:24,669 --> 00:33:27,756
ROBIN: What the hell's going on?
605
00:33:27,839 --> 00:33:32,344
ANDREW: You all right?
606
00:33:32,427 --> 00:33:33,470
ROBIN: I'm not now.
607
00:33:33,512 --> 00:33:37,641
I thought I was just gonna
be here by myself.
608
00:33:37,682 --> 00:33:39,184
ANDREW: Well, everyone's
here because they love you,
609
00:33:39,267 --> 00:33:41,978
and they're worried about you.
610
00:33:42,062 --> 00:33:43,480
Everyone's written a letter
611
00:33:43,522 --> 00:33:46,483
expressing their
love and concern.
612
00:33:46,566 --> 00:33:49,069
Are you okay if
we read some letters?
613
00:33:49,152 --> 00:33:51,363
ROBIN: Give me a second.
ANDREW: Yeah.
614
00:33:54,282 --> 00:33:58,537
SCOTT: "Robin, I'm here
today because I love you,
615
00:33:58,620 --> 00:34:00,372
"and I miss you,
616
00:34:00,455 --> 00:34:03,250
"and I'm worried
about you constantly.
617
00:34:03,333 --> 00:34:05,752
"I'm deeply saddened
that my little boy
618
00:34:05,835 --> 00:34:08,797
"does not know you, his uncle.
619
00:34:08,880 --> 00:34:11,216
"If you will not
accept this offer,
620
00:34:11,299 --> 00:34:14,344
"I'm going to have to walk
away from you forever,
621
00:34:14,427 --> 00:34:18,390
"in order to focus
on my own life."
622
00:34:18,473 --> 00:34:20,016
ROBIN: [sighs]
JACQUIE: [sighs]
623
00:34:20,141 --> 00:34:24,062
"Robin... dude.
624
00:34:24,145 --> 00:34:26,356
"I took you into Centennial Air
625
00:34:26,439 --> 00:34:28,650
"and signed you up
for ground school,
626
00:34:28,692 --> 00:34:31,361
"all because you had always
had such a love of airplanes.
627
00:34:31,444 --> 00:34:33,822
"After that day,
you never looked back.
628
00:34:33,905 --> 00:34:36,950
"You became
the most amazing pilot
629
00:34:37,033 --> 00:34:39,703
"you always dreamed to be.
630
00:34:39,828 --> 00:34:43,707
"Now, all you care about
is yourself and liquor.
631
00:34:43,790 --> 00:34:46,209
"Please take the help, so I can
watch you become the amazing
632
00:34:46,293 --> 00:34:50,338
"father, son, pilot,
and friend that you truly are.
633
00:34:50,422 --> 00:34:54,634
"I love you."
634
00:34:54,718 --> 00:34:58,555
DUNCAN: "First off, know that
I do love and care about you.
635
00:35:01,349 --> 00:35:04,686
"I look forward to a day when
I can have my brother back...
636
00:35:06,855 --> 00:35:09,065
"in my life,
the way I remember,
637
00:35:09,190 --> 00:35:13,403
"and not the troubled,
angry mess that you are today.
638
00:35:13,486 --> 00:35:16,531
"Take this opportunity
to turn it around."
639
00:35:17,949 --> 00:35:18,908
ROBIN: [sniffs]
640
00:35:18,992 --> 00:35:21,119
DUNCAN: Okay?
I know you can.
641
00:35:24,205 --> 00:35:28,168
TOM: "Robin, I'm here
because you know I love you,
642
00:35:28,251 --> 00:35:31,129
"more than I think you realize.
643
00:35:31,212 --> 00:35:34,007
"I was always so proud of you.
644
00:35:34,090 --> 00:35:36,217
"Over the years,
I've watched alcohol
645
00:35:36,343 --> 00:35:38,762
"take my son away from me,
646
00:35:38,845 --> 00:35:42,474
"and it breaks my heart.
647
00:35:42,557 --> 00:35:47,103
"It makes me so sad
to see Mom hurt.
648
00:35:47,187 --> 00:35:49,064
"We both want to enjoy
watching your beautiful
649
00:35:49,147 --> 00:35:52,275
"little girls grow up.
[sniffs]
650
00:35:52,359 --> 00:35:57,197
"I hope that you will take
advantage of any offer of help.
651
00:35:57,280 --> 00:35:59,824
"If you don't accept the help
that you're offered today,
652
00:35:59,908 --> 00:36:03,244
"then I want you to understand
653
00:36:03,328 --> 00:36:06,539
"that our doors
will be locked, Robin.
654
00:36:06,665 --> 00:36:10,210
"And Mom and I will have
to begin a life without you."
655
00:36:14,422 --> 00:36:16,716
CHRISTINE: [crying]
"Robin...
656
00:36:19,719 --> 00:36:22,806
"I love you with all my heart.
657
00:36:22,889 --> 00:36:24,057
"You are so important to me,
658
00:36:24,140 --> 00:36:26,518
"and I can't imagine
659
00:36:26,601 --> 00:36:30,772
"a life without you.
660
00:36:30,855 --> 00:36:32,732
"I've tried to protect you,
661
00:36:32,816 --> 00:36:35,235
"but now I am hurting you.
662
00:36:35,318 --> 00:36:38,196
"I can't keep making
these efforts
663
00:36:38,279 --> 00:36:41,658
"if you can't try.
664
00:36:41,741 --> 00:36:43,993
"I can't allow you
to take advantage
665
00:36:44,035 --> 00:36:46,663
"of my love anymore.
666
00:36:46,746 --> 00:36:50,333
"If you choose not to
accept help... [inhales]
667
00:36:50,417 --> 00:36:52,794
"if you do that,
it will mean
668
00:36:52,877 --> 00:36:55,922
"leaving our home...
669
00:36:56,005 --> 00:36:58,508
"and making it on your own."
670
00:37:05,932 --> 00:37:08,351
ANDREW: Robin,
671
00:37:08,435 --> 00:37:10,395
it comes down to
the big question.
672
00:37:10,478 --> 00:37:14,983
Are you willing to take the
help being offered to you today?
673
00:37:15,066 --> 00:37:17,444
♪
674
00:37:17,527 --> 00:37:21,030
♪
675
00:37:21,114 --> 00:37:23,408
ROBIN: No.
676
00:37:29,372 --> 00:37:33,126
ROBIN: I don't want to today.
677
00:37:33,209 --> 00:37:34,252
ANDREW: I think
you'd be surprised
678
00:37:34,335 --> 00:37:37,881
what we've set up for you.
679
00:37:37,964 --> 00:37:41,634
They've organized for us to
go to beautiful Lake Winnipeg,
680
00:37:41,676 --> 00:37:43,511
one of the best facilities
in the country, actually,
681
00:37:43,595 --> 00:37:45,472
called the Aurora
Recovery Centre,
682
00:37:45,513 --> 00:37:48,016
and give you that opportunity
683
00:37:48,099 --> 00:37:50,643
to recover,
684
00:37:50,685 --> 00:37:53,563
for the sake of your family,
for your children,
685
00:37:53,646 --> 00:37:55,940
but most importantly,
for yourself.
686
00:37:56,024 --> 00:38:00,069
♪
687
00:38:00,153 --> 00:38:02,614
ROBIN: [crying]
688
00:38:04,991 --> 00:38:06,534
Yes.
689
00:38:06,618 --> 00:38:08,077
ANDREW: Yes?
690
00:38:08,161 --> 00:38:09,287
ROBIN: Yes.
691
00:38:09,370 --> 00:38:12,040
ANDREW: Great.
This is great. [applause]
692
00:38:12,123 --> 00:38:13,958
♪
693
00:38:14,042 --> 00:38:15,293
DUNCAN: Come on, buddy.
Okay?
694
00:38:15,335 --> 00:38:16,795
[crying]
ROBIN: Okay.
695
00:38:16,836 --> 00:38:19,339
DUNCAN: Good.
696
00:38:19,422 --> 00:38:23,551
♪
697
00:38:23,635 --> 00:38:25,678
ROBIN: [crying]
698
00:38:39,108 --> 00:38:40,610
SCOTT: Take care.
Get better.
699
00:38:40,693 --> 00:38:42,821
Okay, love you.
700
00:38:42,904 --> 00:38:45,114
CHRISTINE: Bye, dear.
701
00:38:45,198 --> 00:38:46,658
You're good.
702
00:38:46,741 --> 00:38:48,993
♪
703
00:38:49,077 --> 00:38:51,329
♪
704
00:38:51,412 --> 00:38:53,832
ANDREW: And the journey
begins, my friend.
705
00:38:53,873 --> 00:38:55,208
TOM: See you, buddy.
706
00:38:55,291 --> 00:38:59,128
CHRISTINE: Bye, dear!
Love you!
707
00:38:59,170 --> 00:39:00,255
TOM: Love you, guy.
708
00:39:03,132 --> 00:39:05,969
ROBIN: It's scary
to do something.
709
00:39:06,010 --> 00:39:08,763
I don't know where I'm going.
710
00:39:08,847 --> 00:39:13,685
♪
711
00:39:13,768 --> 00:39:18,690
♪
712
00:39:18,773 --> 00:39:23,611
♪
713
00:39:23,695 --> 00:39:28,616
♪
714
00:39:28,700 --> 00:39:31,536
ANDREW: Welcome to Aurora
Recovery Centre, my friend.
715
00:39:31,619 --> 00:39:33,329
ROBIN: Thanks, man.
ANDREW: This is Robin.
716
00:39:33,413 --> 00:39:34,706
IAN: How are you?
ROBIN: How you doing?
717
00:39:34,789 --> 00:39:36,291
IAN: Welcome to Aurora.
ROBIN: Thanks, man.
718
00:39:36,374 --> 00:39:37,500
IAN: We're really happy
to have you here.
719
00:39:37,584 --> 00:39:40,420
It's the best decision you made.
720
00:39:40,503 --> 00:39:44,424
♪
721
00:39:53,892 --> 00:39:58,479
♪
722
00:39:58,563 --> 00:40:02,066
ROBIN: Today I feel
full of pride,
723
00:40:02,150 --> 00:40:06,279
empowered, enlightened.
724
00:40:06,362 --> 00:40:07,614
BRENDA: When Robin came in,
725
00:40:07,697 --> 00:40:10,408
we knew we had to address
his self‐esteem,
726
00:40:10,491 --> 00:40:13,703
and we wanted to establish
a way of Robin
727
00:40:13,786 --> 00:40:16,831
being able to work in the world,
understanding his emotions,
728
00:40:16,915 --> 00:40:19,334
and knowing that he didn't
have to be afraid of them.
729
00:40:19,375 --> 00:40:23,004
ROBIN: No pretending, nothing.
730
00:40:23,087 --> 00:40:25,590
This is what my life's
about now.
731
00:40:25,673 --> 00:40:27,926
ROBIN: They went down deep
inside, deep into my past,
732
00:40:28,009 --> 00:40:28,927
into my soul.
733
00:40:29,010 --> 00:40:31,220
They brought things that
were subjective to me,
734
00:40:31,304 --> 00:40:33,640
that were like a hurricane
inside my body,
735
00:40:33,681 --> 00:40:36,100
and they pulled them outside
and made them objective,
736
00:40:36,184 --> 00:40:38,811
allowed me to see them.
737
00:40:38,895 --> 00:40:41,648
♪
738
00:40:41,731 --> 00:40:43,650
BRENDA: I'm extremely
proud of Robin,
739
00:40:43,691 --> 00:40:45,568
and he's done an amazing job,
740
00:40:45,652 --> 00:40:48,196
and I'm very, very happy
to know that he's going out.
741
00:40:48,279 --> 00:40:52,241
And I feel he's going to have
a lot of success in his future.
742
00:40:52,325 --> 00:40:53,368
ROBIN: I have a career.
743
00:40:53,451 --> 00:40:54,994
I can go back to that career.
744
00:40:55,078 --> 00:40:58,456
Am I gonna go right away?
Maybe, maybe not.
745
00:40:58,539 --> 00:41:01,292
I know it's there.
That's an opportunity.
746
00:41:01,334 --> 00:41:03,586
That's an adventure
I can undertake again.
747
00:41:03,670 --> 00:41:06,214
But maybe I'm gonna
find something else.
748
00:41:06,297 --> 00:41:07,590
ROBIN: You all know
how I walked in here,
749
00:41:07,674 --> 00:41:11,678
and now I'm walking out
completely different.
750
00:41:11,761 --> 00:41:13,429
So, thank you.
I love you guys.
751
00:41:13,513 --> 00:41:16,641
MAN: Love you too, man.
You get to work.
752
00:41:16,724 --> 00:41:18,601
BRENDA: You know we love you.
753
00:41:18,685 --> 00:41:20,603
BRENDA: Robin's journey
will continue on.
754
00:41:20,687 --> 00:41:22,397
He will leave here today,
755
00:41:22,480 --> 00:41:24,941
and he will go to a sober
living home in Winnipeg,
756
00:41:25,024 --> 00:41:26,651
affiliated with Aurora,
757
00:41:26,734 --> 00:41:29,570
and get a chance
to start his new life.
758
00:41:29,654 --> 00:41:32,490
♪
759
00:41:32,532 --> 00:41:34,867
ROBIN: The world
is open for me now.
760
00:41:34,951 --> 00:41:38,287
It's exciting.
761
00:41:38,371 --> 00:41:41,833
And I love it.
762
00:41:41,916 --> 00:41:45,795
♪
763
00:41:45,878 --> 00:41:49,841
♪
764
00:41:49,924 --> 00:41:53,886
♪
765
00:41:53,970 --> 00:41:57,932
♪
766
00:41:58,016 --> 00:42:01,978
♪
767
00:42:02,061 --> 00:42:05,982
♪
768
00:42:06,065 --> 00:42:09,986
♪
769
00:42:10,069 --> 00:42:14,073
♪
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