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- Previously
on "The Bold Type"...
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- I saw that the Belle
is hiring bartenders.
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You could work here.
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- You could even do
like a podcast.
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- How about you record
one episode?
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And if I don't like it, then--
- I won't bring it up again.
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- Eva--I think you knew that
since you got my father fired
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from his own company
after 25 years.
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- How am I gonna do this job
and have a baby?
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- There's no heartbeat.
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- I think I feel relieved
that I'm not having this baby.
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- Whatever you're feeling
right now,
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it's okay.
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- I got a double mastectomy
three months ago.
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- When Kevin
tried to touch me there,
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I just--I freaked out.
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I just--I'm not comfortable
with them.
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I wrote a piece about it
to see if maybe
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I could find people like me.
We'll see if people show up.
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- I think they will.
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[punchy music]
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- No, no, no, I need you
to go right now.
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Yes, I have a first date,
but you gotta go.
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- Jane, this is huge.
- Yeah.
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- This is really big.
- Mm-hmm.
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- I mean, two weeks ago,
you said you weren't ready.
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- I know, but my support group
thinks it'll help, so...
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- Yeah, and, seriously,
I'm so proud of you.
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- Thank you.
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- What's he like?
What does he do?
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- He's geographically desirable
and a twin.
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That's all I know.
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So you have to go,
- A twin.
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- Can you go?
I have to finish getting ready.
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- Yes, no, no, no,
I'm gonna get
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out of your hair ASAP.
- Okay.
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- But, hey,
I'm so proud of you.
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- Thank you.
- I love you.
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Call me if you need
anything at all.
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- Nope, you have fun
with Marissa.
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Tell her I said hi.
- Okay.
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♪
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- ♪ You're a house on fire
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♪ The match and the lighter
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- This is nice...
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just sitting here with you,
getting to know each other.
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[laughs]
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I mean, i-it's a little weird
staring at you on my computer,
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but, uh, maybe we should, uh,
talk about our hobbies.
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I'll go first, um...
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I love to write,
except I do that for a living,
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so I guess that doesn't
really count as a hobby.
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I love lists,
and I like to check things off
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after I've completed them.
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Huh, I've always said that I
was gonna run a marathon,
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but I haven't done that yet.
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[door opens]
- I think I left it over here.
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Oh, my God.
What's happening?
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Is that your--your date
on the computer?
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Why are you naked?
And why isn't he here?
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- My date is here.
[chuckles]
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I-I'm dating my boobs, Kat.
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♪
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- ♪ Make you my man,
and I'll be your woman ♪
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♪
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♪ We can make it
unless I make it one moment ♪
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[phone chimes]
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♪ More champagne for us
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♪ Let's get drunk
and make loving ♪
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- ♪ I know you're in love...
- Really?
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- You look
so handsome right now.
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And it's been two weeks.
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I'm ready.
- Mm.
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- Great.
- Mm-hmm.
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- Let's do this.
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God, I missed this.
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- Mm, me too.
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♪
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- Actually, I read somewhere
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that, if I'm on top,
our chances are better.
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- Um, chances better
for what?
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- Conceiving.
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Apparently position
makes a difference.
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- Oh, um, I...
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I-I was saying I'm ready
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for regular sex not...
not baby sex.
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- Right, of course.
I'm sorry.
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- No, it's--
I should've been clearer.
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- I read into it.
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I guess...I'm just ready
to try again.
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Ever since we got pregnant,
it's all I can think about--
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starting a family with you,
being a dad,
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having a little baby you or me.
- [chuckles]
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- Okay, not right now,
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but when you're ready,
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I'm ready to try again.
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[tender music]
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- Okay.
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♪
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- Hello.
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I see your date
spent the night.
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Must have gone well, hey.
- Ah, funny.
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Thank you.
- Oh, okay.
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Hey, look, I know
I don't really know much
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about this stuff,
and maybe you don't want
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to talk about it,
but if you do...
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- My support group gave me
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a how to love your body
post-mastectomy guide.
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First step is getting
to know your boobs
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as if you're dating them.
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- Hm.
- It was awkward and silly
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and weird, and if I could,
I'd never ask 'em out again.
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Plus they're kind of clingy.
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- Well, first dates
are the worst, am I right?
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But you know what
makes 'em better?
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Activities--you should
take them out.
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Body painting,
a seaweed spa wrap.
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- It's a good idea.
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- Hopefully not the only one
I have today.
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- Oh, right,
tonight's the podcast trial
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with Penny, the woman who runs
the domestic violence shelter.
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- She actually had to bail
for a conference in Boston,
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but it's all good.
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I got this woman
who invented a device
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that cleans plastic
out of the ocean,
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so hopefully it goes well,
and once Darby gives me
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the green light, then Penny
can be my next guest.
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- That's awesome.
- Thank you.
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I just--I hope
I can pull it off, you know?
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Make a difference.
- You will.
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You always do.
- Thanks.
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And, look, I know maybe it
wasn't love at first sight,
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but I do think you're gonna
have your happily ever after.
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- [chuckles]
- All three of you.
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You're perfect for each other.
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♪
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[knock on door]
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- Jacqueline,
we have a pitch meeting.
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- Oh.
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How does that look?
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- Good, good, very good.
- Mm.
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Ian took it,
and I've kind of forgotten
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how...talented he is.
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- Well, he has, like,
the perfect subject, so...
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- Thank you, Andrew.
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- I mean, of course,
yeah, my p-pleas--
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There's a pitch meeting.
Pitch meeting.
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♪
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- Good morning,
beautiful people.
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- Morning.
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- Who's feeling alive today?
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- Whoo!
- Yes!
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- Good!
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And who feels sexy
and confident?
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- Me.
- Good for you, Andrew.
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- Thank you.
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- We are all very powerful,
sexual creatures,
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and we deserve
to feel that way.
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Now, that all comes,
of course, from the inside,
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but, clothes do help,
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which is why I want
to celebrate
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the power of fashion.
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Pitches.
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- Sexy lingerie--
does wearing it to the office
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make you feel more
or less in charge?
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- Love it.
What else?
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- I can do a piece
for "The Failing Feminist"--
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power dressing
outside the office.
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My mom had this DVF wrap dress,
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and she didn't work
or anything,
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but I could just tell
from photos that she felt
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really powerful and important
when wearing it.
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- Well, I would love
if you could find that photo
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to include it in your piece.
- Yeah, I think I can.
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- Fashion people.
[phone buzzes]
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- Okay, sorry, Jasper's here.
- What?
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- You got this, Red.
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- Uh--
- Sutton?
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- Okay.
[clears throat]
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Well, we could do
a photo spread
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of the female business uniform
through the decades.
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What kind of clothing
does make women feel
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powerful and sexual
and independent?
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I feel like society
would really like for us
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to believe that women dress
to impress men,
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but the truth is iconic pieces
like the Chanel tweed suit
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Diane von Furstenberg's
wrap dress were created
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so that women could feel sexy
for themselves.
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So maybe some female designers,
you know?
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And how their fashion
empowers women
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to own their sexuality.
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- That is exactly the kind
of thing I'm looking for.
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How would you like
to run point
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on that fashion spread?
- I would really love that.
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- Great.
What else we got?
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♪
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- I vaguely remember
that picture.
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- I'm wearing yellow rainboots,
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and Mom's
in a brown, patterned dress?
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- Oh, I remember that dress.
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She loved how easy it was
to take on and off.
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- Yeah, the photo
is on the wall by the stairs
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in a silver frame.
- You okay?
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'Cause you didn't say gross
when I alluded
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to your mom and me,
you know...doing it.
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- Yeah, uh, gross, okay?
Um...I'm fine.
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I just have a lot
on my mind, but I'm good.
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- Okay.
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I'll, uh, scan the photo
and send it as soon as I can.
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- Okay, thanks.
Love you, Dad.
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Bye.
- Yeah.
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[soft dramatic music]
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[punchy music]
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♪
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- He wants to get pregnant,
like, now.
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- No pressure.
- I know.
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And he doesn't even know
how relieved I felt
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when I found out
I wasn't having a baby.
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Honestly, I didn't think
I was gonna have
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to talk to him about it.
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- Well, I mean, you have
to tell him how you feel.
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- And disappoint him?
I can't do that.
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- Yeah, but, Sutton,
getting accidentally pregnant
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and planning for a baby
are two very different things,
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and you're allowed
to want to wait.
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- Yeah, and Richard,
he'll understand.
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- I don't know.
I just--
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Let's talk
about something else.
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How's the podcast?
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- It was kind of boring.
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For someone who's
so interesting and impressive,
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she just didn't really,
like, bring anything.
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I don't think it's exciting
enough to impress Darby.
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- Well, if you're looking
for exciting,
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take me for a cruise.
- Really?
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- Yeah, 'cause I am...
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styling a very exciting shoot
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about fashion and empowerment.
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- But the podcast
is members only,
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and, uh...
[clicks tongue]
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you're still my guest, kid.
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- I spend so much time
at this bar,
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I keep forgetting that.
- [chuckles]
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- You could do Jane's boobs.
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- No, sorry,
they're booked and busy--
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body plastering.
- What?
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- Kat took this class
where you make a cast
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of a body part.
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- [whispers] Vagina.
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- Bet no one's
done boobs before.
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- It's a pretty decent
second date.
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But a better idea, though,
would be for you to come
253
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and be a part of my shoot.
254
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- Honestly, I'm not really
ready to be photographed yet.
255
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- Okay.
256
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- Could I get
a gin martini please?
257
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- Yeah.
258
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[pop music]
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Straight?
- Dirty.
260
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- Interesting.
- You think I don't have taste?
261
00:10:59,060 --> 00:11:01,470
- Oh, you read minds now?
- Sometimes.
262
00:11:01,550 --> 00:11:03,550
- Hmm, really?
Well, that is impressive.
263
00:11:03,550 --> 00:11:07,550
A telepathic NRA
card-carrying Republican.
264
00:11:07,550 --> 00:11:11,330
- Not as impressive as
a feminist socialist activist
265
00:11:11,410 --> 00:11:13,240
who finally knows
how to make a good drink.
266
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[stirring utensil clinking]
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- Enjoy.
268
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- Thank you.
269
00:11:20,730 --> 00:11:22,130
- You're welcome.
270
00:11:24,070 --> 00:11:25,400
- I really don't like her.
271
00:11:25,410 --> 00:11:27,010
- She is so lucky that she's
on the board at Safford.
272
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I mean, did you see?
273
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She defended
hardline immigration
274
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last night on ABC news.
275
00:11:32,250 --> 00:11:35,340
- Yeah,
like a heartless monster.
276
00:11:35,420 --> 00:11:36,190
- Yeah, and I couldn't
change the channel.
277
00:11:36,270 --> 00:11:37,580
- Neither could I.
278
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♪
279
00:11:39,270 --> 00:11:41,590
- Oh, no.
- What?
280
00:11:41,590 --> 00:11:44,090
- I know who I need to get
on the podcast.
281
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both: Who?
- Her.
282
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- ♪ 'Cause we're boring peope
boring lives ♪
283
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♪ Dubba dub bom
284
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♪ Dubba dubba dub bom
285
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[soft dramatic music]
286
00:12:01,530 --> 00:12:08,210
♪
287
00:12:10,540 --> 00:12:13,800
- Wow, what is going on?
This smells amazing.
288
00:12:13,880 --> 00:12:15,300
- Just a little
celebratory breakfast
289
00:12:15,380 --> 00:12:18,570
for my wife who's been kicking
so much ass at work lately.
290
00:12:21,980 --> 00:12:23,240
You want eggs.
I can make eggs.
291
00:12:23,310 --> 00:12:26,820
- No, no, no, it's not that.
- Okay, what is it?
292
00:12:26,890 --> 00:12:29,060
- I have to...
293
00:12:29,140 --> 00:12:30,240
tell you something.
294
00:12:31,810 --> 00:12:34,140
- Okay.
295
00:12:34,140 --> 00:12:35,640
- Yesterday,
when we were talking
296
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about trying for a baby...
- Right.
297
00:12:39,650 --> 00:12:42,740
- Just--work is so great,
and we just got married,
298
00:12:42,820 --> 00:12:46,840
and I just really want
to enjoy this moment, you know?
299
00:12:46,910 --> 00:12:48,750
26, newly married stylist.
300
00:12:52,510 --> 00:12:53,930
- Okay.
301
00:12:54,010 --> 00:12:58,090
- I-I didn't know how
to tell you in the moment,
302
00:12:58,170 --> 00:12:59,270
but I...
303
00:13:02,670 --> 00:13:04,230
I'm not close
to being ready.
304
00:13:06,840 --> 00:13:08,510
Are you mad?
305
00:13:08,510 --> 00:13:11,620
- Mad?
No, no, of course not.
306
00:13:11,700 --> 00:13:15,100
A little disappointed,
maybe,
307
00:13:15,180 --> 00:13:18,280
but this is gonna happen
when we are both ready.
308
00:13:20,190 --> 00:13:21,240
- Yeah.
309
00:13:24,040 --> 00:13:25,450
I love you.
- Love you.
310
00:13:25,530 --> 00:13:28,030
- Thank you for being
understanding.
311
00:13:28,030 --> 00:13:29,470
♪
312
00:13:29,550 --> 00:13:32,470
- Now, grab some syrup
and some cakes.
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Let's eat.
314
00:13:34,870 --> 00:13:37,550
[soft music]
315
00:13:37,630 --> 00:13:44,310
♪
316
00:13:48,230 --> 00:13:49,110
- Oh--
317
00:13:51,220 --> 00:13:53,220
- Do you need something?
318
00:13:53,220 --> 00:13:55,720
- Uh, me?
319
00:13:55,720 --> 00:13:59,390
I, um, was actually
just wondering
320
00:13:59,390 --> 00:14:01,280
if I could get your help
with something.
321
00:14:02,400 --> 00:14:04,320
- What's up?
322
00:14:04,400 --> 00:14:06,340
- So I have this idea
for a podcast,
323
00:14:06,420 --> 00:14:10,160
and the Belle has agreed
to listen to an episode,
324
00:14:10,240 --> 00:14:11,680
and if it's good,
then they'll let me do it here.
325
00:14:11,760 --> 00:14:12,920
- Okay.
- It's conversations
326
00:14:13,000 --> 00:14:14,500
across the bar kind of thing
327
00:14:14,580 --> 00:14:17,500
where I interview members about
their passions and projects.
328
00:14:17,580 --> 00:14:20,500
- Okay.
329
00:14:20,580 --> 00:14:22,690
- And I think that you
would be a great guest.
330
00:14:22,770 --> 00:14:25,580
- You want me
to do your podcast?
331
00:14:25,590 --> 00:14:28,090
- Yes, I think you
would be interesting.
332
00:14:28,090 --> 00:14:30,940
- Really?
- Yes, really.
333
00:14:31,020 --> 00:14:33,370
We could debate the issues.
- [chuckles]
334
00:14:33,440 --> 00:14:37,110
- That...is unexpected
on so many levels.
335
00:14:37,190 --> 00:14:39,020
I'm going to politely decline.
336
00:14:39,100 --> 00:14:41,100
- Why?
337
00:14:41,100 --> 00:14:42,880
- Because you don't strike me
as someone
338
00:14:42,950 --> 00:14:45,450
who can fairly engage
with conservatives, Kat.
339
00:14:45,530 --> 00:14:47,360
- Okay, I can
rein it in for a podcast.
340
00:14:47,440 --> 00:14:51,370
- Well, I look forward
to seeing that,
341
00:14:51,450 --> 00:14:54,110
but not with me.
342
00:14:54,110 --> 00:14:55,340
Good luck though.
That's a really good idea.
343
00:15:02,550 --> 00:15:04,010
- It is a great idea.
344
00:15:09,050 --> 00:15:10,550
- Okay, this guy.
- Yep.
345
00:15:10,630 --> 00:15:13,470
- And this guy too--straight--
- To the studio, got it, yep.
346
00:15:13,470 --> 00:15:14,360
- You're the best.
- Yep.
347
00:15:17,730 --> 00:15:20,140
- Mm-hmm, how's it going?
- So great.
348
00:15:20,140 --> 00:15:22,580
Do you ever get that feeling
that you're just
349
00:15:22,660 --> 00:15:24,230
doing exactly
what you're meant to do?
350
00:15:24,310 --> 00:15:26,240
- The first day
I walked into "Scarlet."
351
00:15:26,310 --> 00:15:29,590
[laughter]
352
00:15:29,670 --> 00:15:32,410
- You know, my mom never had
a Chanel tweed suit
353
00:15:32,490 --> 00:15:36,430
or a DVF wrap dress,
and I always wanted her
354
00:15:36,510 --> 00:15:39,420
to be the kind of woman
that did,
355
00:15:39,490 --> 00:15:40,840
but she was a waitress.
356
00:15:43,180 --> 00:15:44,680
Well, I guess
her waitress uniform
357
00:15:44,760 --> 00:15:47,850
was her own version
of powerful.
358
00:15:47,930 --> 00:15:49,680
- She must be so proud of you.
359
00:15:49,760 --> 00:15:52,690
- She is.
360
00:15:52,760 --> 00:15:55,600
She knows how much
I love styling.
361
00:15:55,680 --> 00:15:56,840
There was a minute there
where I didn't know
362
00:15:56,840 --> 00:15:59,030
if it was gonna happen.
You know?
363
00:15:59,100 --> 00:16:00,770
Watching Kat and Jane
rise the ranks,
364
00:16:00,850 --> 00:16:02,460
and I just felt
like I was idling.
365
00:16:03,870 --> 00:16:06,350
- You were an assistant longer
than you wanted to be.
366
00:16:06,350 --> 00:16:07,690
- Mm-hmm.
367
00:16:07,690 --> 00:16:10,780
- But you were never idling.
368
00:16:10,860 --> 00:16:15,030
You were preparing
for your moment
369
00:16:15,030 --> 00:16:19,030
so that
when the time was right,
370
00:16:19,030 --> 00:16:20,970
you would soar.
371
00:16:23,050 --> 00:16:24,220
Everyone has
their own timeline.
372
00:16:26,460 --> 00:16:28,150
- Yeah, we do, don't we?
373
00:16:33,880 --> 00:16:35,210
- Unbelievable.
374
00:16:35,220 --> 00:16:36,720
[door clanks]
375
00:16:36,720 --> 00:16:40,740
- Wow, that "honey I'm home"
greeting was very short-lived.
376
00:16:40,810 --> 00:16:41,490
- Yeah, well...
377
00:16:44,390 --> 00:16:46,150
Eva doesn't think
I can talk to Republicans
378
00:16:46,230 --> 00:16:48,080
and have
a productive conversation,
379
00:16:48,150 --> 00:16:51,320
so she said no
to being in my podcast.
380
00:16:51,400 --> 00:16:54,320
- Mm, ta-da.
381
00:16:54,400 --> 00:16:57,010
- Nice boobs.
- Thanks.
382
00:16:57,090 --> 00:17:00,240
- Great job.
How was your plastering class?
383
00:17:00,240 --> 00:17:05,840
- Oh, it was a nightmare.
I hated every minute of it.
384
00:17:05,910 --> 00:17:07,930
- Oh.
- But thank you for trying.
385
00:17:08,010 --> 00:17:09,760
These sunflower nipples
are making me very happy.
386
00:17:09,840 --> 00:17:10,750
- They're beautiful.
- Thanks.
387
00:17:10,750 --> 00:17:12,920
- Have you given
any more thought
388
00:17:12,920 --> 00:17:16,010
to being in Sutton's shoot?
It might help.
389
00:17:16,090 --> 00:17:17,590
- It just kind of feels
like a lot,
390
00:17:17,590 --> 00:17:18,920
but, I mean, maybe.
391
00:17:18,930 --> 00:17:23,020
Wait, so you really think
that Eva can help you
392
00:17:23,100 --> 00:17:26,690
get that podcast?
- Yeah, I know she can.
393
00:17:26,770 --> 00:17:29,120
- Well, then show her
that she's wrong.
394
00:17:29,190 --> 00:17:30,860
Go to one
of her Republican mixers.
395
00:17:30,940 --> 00:17:33,620
[punchy music]
396
00:17:33,700 --> 00:17:35,220
♪
397
00:17:35,290 --> 00:17:37,290
- I have an idea,
398
00:17:37,370 --> 00:17:39,220
and I think it's gonna
make both of us happy.
399
00:17:40,780 --> 00:17:43,460
Okay, just because we're not
on the same timeline
400
00:17:43,540 --> 00:17:44,870
doesn't mean that we
shouldn't be prepared
401
00:17:44,950 --> 00:17:48,300
for when we're both ready,
so I did some research.
402
00:17:48,380 --> 00:17:49,180
- A sperm bank.
403
00:17:50,810 --> 00:17:54,570
I didn't know that older sperm
can have an effect on children.
404
00:17:54,640 --> 00:17:57,070
- Same way older eggs can.
405
00:17:57,150 --> 00:17:59,560
- I gotta be honest.
This is a little weird.
406
00:17:59,630 --> 00:18:01,820
- I know.
407
00:18:01,890 --> 00:18:03,560
- But I do love
that you're thinking about us,
408
00:18:03,640 --> 00:18:05,240
about our future.
- Mm-hmm.
409
00:18:06,810 --> 00:18:09,320
So...
410
00:18:09,400 --> 00:18:11,330
does this mean--
411
00:18:11,400 --> 00:18:12,040
- We're gonna put
our future children on ice?
412
00:18:14,070 --> 00:18:15,570
Yeah.
- Yeah?
413
00:18:15,650 --> 00:18:16,980
- Yeah.
- [laughs]
414
00:18:16,980 --> 00:18:18,080
[tender music]
415
00:18:22,580 --> 00:18:25,840
[soft music]
416
00:18:25,920 --> 00:18:28,920
- So we swing by
the sperm bank,
417
00:18:29,000 --> 00:18:30,500
and then I drop you off
at work.
418
00:18:30,500 --> 00:18:32,660
- How modern are we?
419
00:18:32,670 --> 00:18:35,090
Oh, wow, listen to this.
420
00:18:35,170 --> 00:18:37,430
With sperm freezing,
58-year-old Hank Tier
421
00:18:37,500 --> 00:18:38,850
"was able to get
his wife pregnant
422
00:18:38,930 --> 00:18:42,100
15 years after he
froze his sperm."
423
00:18:42,180 --> 00:18:45,450
- 15 years?
- 15 years.
424
00:18:45,530 --> 00:18:48,110
That's crazy.
- Yeah, it is.
425
00:18:50,870 --> 00:18:52,350
- I mean, I knew
that it was "forever."
426
00:18:52,350 --> 00:18:54,520
I just wasn't thinking
about what that means
427
00:18:54,520 --> 00:18:56,370
practically, you know?
428
00:18:56,450 --> 00:18:57,460
Buys us so much time.
429
00:19:02,200 --> 00:19:03,210
- [sighs]
430
00:19:10,540 --> 00:19:12,200
- I'm so happy
you agreed to be in the shoot.
431
00:19:12,210 --> 00:19:13,640
Can I come see?
432
00:19:18,040 --> 00:19:20,970
[gasps]
Jane, you look so pretty.
433
00:19:21,050 --> 00:19:23,060
- Thanks.
It's a little big here though.
434
00:19:23,140 --> 00:19:24,990
- Oh, let me just take it in
a little bit.
435
00:19:27,740 --> 00:19:29,000
Ooh, I'm so sorry!
Are you okay?
436
00:19:29,070 --> 00:19:31,070
- What?
437
00:19:31,150 --> 00:19:33,240
- Uh, I just pricked you
with a pin.
438
00:19:33,320 --> 00:19:35,230
You didn't feel it?
439
00:19:35,230 --> 00:19:37,400
[soft dramatic music]
440
00:19:37,400 --> 00:19:38,790
- No, no,
I didn't feel anything.
441
00:19:41,490 --> 00:19:44,570
- Um...okay, I'm gonna go grab
the first-aid kit.
442
00:19:44,570 --> 00:19:46,090
- Okay.
443
00:19:59,680 --> 00:20:01,270
[clatters]
444
00:20:23,630 --> 00:20:25,170
[phone buzzes]
445
00:20:37,620 --> 00:20:38,730
[sighs]
446
00:20:38,810 --> 00:20:40,220
[knocking]
447
00:20:42,960 --> 00:20:44,810
- I didn't order anything.
Go next door.
448
00:20:47,060 --> 00:20:48,580
[phone buzzes]
449
00:20:53,490 --> 00:20:54,570
Dad?
450
00:20:59,160 --> 00:21:02,830
What?
How?
451
00:21:02,910 --> 00:21:05,000
- Miles and an empty seat.
452
00:21:05,080 --> 00:21:07,150
- [chuckles]
453
00:21:07,150 --> 00:21:09,600
Uh, but why?
454
00:21:09,670 --> 00:21:10,930
- Oh, I don't know.
455
00:21:11,010 --> 00:21:14,770
'Cause I wanted to give you
the photo of your mom,
456
00:21:14,840 --> 00:21:17,100
and when I found the dress,
457
00:21:17,180 --> 00:21:18,260
I thought you might
like that too.
458
00:21:23,500 --> 00:21:26,430
Also I didn't feel great
about how you sounded
459
00:21:26,510 --> 00:21:29,270
on the phone, thought maybe
you could use a hug.
460
00:21:29,340 --> 00:21:32,030
[tender music]
461
00:21:32,100 --> 00:21:34,290
♪
462
00:21:34,360 --> 00:21:36,180
- [sobs]
463
00:21:36,180 --> 00:21:38,610
♪
464
00:21:38,690 --> 00:21:40,330
[sobs]
465
00:21:46,780 --> 00:21:49,040
- Hey.
- Hey!
466
00:21:49,120 --> 00:21:51,360
- Hey.
467
00:21:51,360 --> 00:21:52,470
- What do you want
for lunch?
468
00:21:52,550 --> 00:21:56,630
I could do salad
or Thai if you have time.
469
00:21:56,700 --> 00:21:59,040
- Mm, maybe we
should do the salad place.
470
00:21:59,040 --> 00:22:00,390
- Okay, great.
I love salad, big fan.
471
00:22:00,460 --> 00:22:04,100
Big...salad fan.
472
00:22:08,970 --> 00:22:12,550
Hey, are you okay, baby?
473
00:22:12,550 --> 00:22:15,890
- I mean, I don't really
have that much time...
474
00:22:15,890 --> 00:22:18,110
not 15 years anyway.
475
00:22:21,060 --> 00:22:22,740
- We're not talking
about lunch anymore are we?
476
00:22:24,320 --> 00:22:25,320
- [sighs]
477
00:22:25,400 --> 00:22:28,160
I'm sorry, it's just--
478
00:22:28,230 --> 00:22:29,400
that thing you said
this morning
479
00:22:29,400 --> 00:22:30,750
about freezing sperm
for 15 years...
480
00:22:33,570 --> 00:22:36,090
You seemed really happy
about that.
481
00:22:41,010 --> 00:22:45,420
I don't wanna be an old dad.
482
00:22:45,420 --> 00:22:48,100
I wanna be there
for our kids' graduations,
483
00:22:48,180 --> 00:22:51,010
for their weddings,
and for their kids.
484
00:22:51,090 --> 00:22:52,980
I can't wait 15 years.
485
00:22:54,020 --> 00:22:55,940
- Hey...
486
00:22:56,020 --> 00:22:59,190
I don't need
to wait 15 years.
487
00:22:59,270 --> 00:23:00,450
- How long do you think
you need?
488
00:23:04,530 --> 00:23:06,050
Okay, how about this?
489
00:23:08,290 --> 00:23:11,550
We promise
that within five years,
490
00:23:11,630 --> 00:23:14,300
we try for a baby again.
491
00:23:14,370 --> 00:23:16,220
You'll be in your early 30s.
I'll be mid-40s.
492
00:23:17,710 --> 00:23:19,560
What do you say?
493
00:23:26,790 --> 00:23:30,550
- Pinkie promise?
- Yeah, pinkie promise.
494
00:23:30,630 --> 00:23:37,240
♪
495
00:23:44,900 --> 00:23:46,310
- And then I took
this plastering class.
496
00:23:46,310 --> 00:23:50,570
It was supposed to make me feel
"one" with my body,
497
00:23:50,650 --> 00:23:54,410
but instead it just
made me feel fake--
498
00:23:54,490 --> 00:23:58,320
like I'm trying
to convince my brain
499
00:23:58,320 --> 00:24:00,340
to be over something
that it's not.
500
00:24:00,420 --> 00:24:04,850
- Did you try writing about it?
- Yeah.
501
00:24:04,920 --> 00:24:07,940
- That didn't help?
- Not really.
502
00:24:08,020 --> 00:24:09,500
I mean,
nothing's really helped.
503
00:24:09,500 --> 00:24:11,850
My friends have been amazing,
504
00:24:11,930 --> 00:24:13,170
but they don't
really understand
505
00:24:13,170 --> 00:24:15,190
how this feels,
and the support group,
506
00:24:15,270 --> 00:24:17,510
they help a little,
but you know what?
507
00:24:17,510 --> 00:24:19,120
Maybe this is just
the way it is now.
508
00:24:19,200 --> 00:24:21,280
Maybe I'm just supposed
to muddle through.
509
00:24:25,850 --> 00:24:28,520
- Come on,
let's get out of here.
510
00:24:28,520 --> 00:24:31,210
- Hm?
511
00:24:31,280 --> 00:24:33,780
- Come on, maybe
a little fresh air will help.
512
00:24:33,860 --> 00:24:35,710
- Okay.
513
00:24:35,790 --> 00:24:38,470
[upbeat music]
514
00:24:38,550 --> 00:24:41,640
♪
515
00:24:41,720 --> 00:24:44,140
[indistinct chatter]
516
00:24:51,970 --> 00:24:53,230
- But, let's face it,
the infighting
517
00:24:53,300 --> 00:24:55,990
amongst the Democratic Party
makes them vulnerable
518
00:24:56,070 --> 00:24:58,400
to criticism.
519
00:24:58,480 --> 00:25:00,070
I mean, I still know people
who are arguing
520
00:25:00,140 --> 00:25:02,480
about Bernie and Hillary.
- I know.
521
00:25:02,560 --> 00:25:04,330
The myopic attitude
consistently
522
00:25:04,410 --> 00:25:05,570
holds the party back
as a whole.
523
00:25:05,650 --> 00:25:06,820
- You know, I actually agree.
524
00:25:06,890 --> 00:25:09,560
Both parties could use
a better direction.
525
00:25:09,560 --> 00:25:10,840
I think mission statements
would be helpful.
526
00:25:10,910 --> 00:25:13,060
- Yes, but Dems are famous
527
00:25:13,070 --> 00:25:14,570
for being aimless
and wandering.
528
00:25:14,570 --> 00:25:16,400
- Well,
they're also passionate.
529
00:25:16,400 --> 00:25:19,010
- And emotional, which makes
their message confusing,
530
00:25:19,090 --> 00:25:22,660
- Yes, yes, you know,
531
00:25:22,740 --> 00:25:25,240
I actually think that
that's true.
532
00:25:25,250 --> 00:25:27,000
Emotion does get
in the way sometimes.
533
00:25:27,080 --> 00:25:28,840
As long as they stick
to the plan
534
00:25:28,920 --> 00:25:30,310
and have a clear goal...
535
00:25:39,590 --> 00:25:43,610
- I thought
we were going to eat.
536
00:25:43,690 --> 00:25:47,360
- I just wanted to stop here
for old time's sake.
537
00:25:49,860 --> 00:25:51,540
You remember when
you used to spend hours
538
00:25:51,620 --> 00:25:52,940
searching
for that perfect planner
539
00:25:52,940 --> 00:25:54,620
before a school year?
540
00:25:54,700 --> 00:25:56,120
- Yeah, well, it wasn't
just the planner.
541
00:25:56,200 --> 00:26:02,450
It was the pens and the tabs.
It was kind of a whole thing.
542
00:26:02,450 --> 00:26:05,780
I actually didn't get
a planner for next year.
543
00:26:05,790 --> 00:26:08,290
- Oh, well, you should.
544
00:26:08,290 --> 00:26:11,470
Here, pick one, my treat.
545
00:26:11,550 --> 00:26:12,310
- [laughs]
546
00:26:12,380 --> 00:26:14,460
[gasps]
547
00:26:14,460 --> 00:26:16,290
Wow,
there are seven colors.
548
00:26:16,300 --> 00:26:18,910
Do you think they did that
for every day of the week?
549
00:26:18,980 --> 00:26:20,480
- Maybe.
- Hm.
550
00:26:20,560 --> 00:26:22,980
- Why do I love this so much?
551
00:26:23,060 --> 00:26:24,640
- Because you like
to plan things
552
00:26:24,640 --> 00:26:27,810
in an organized manner.
- Yeah, I do.
553
00:26:27,810 --> 00:26:29,900
[chuckles]
554
00:26:29,980 --> 00:26:31,310
What do you think of this one?
555
00:26:31,310 --> 00:26:36,660
Plenty of room for lists
and a special place for goals.
556
00:26:36,740 --> 00:26:38,040
- Goals are good.
557
00:26:40,650 --> 00:26:42,260
Come on, grab those pens
you've been eyeing,
558
00:26:42,340 --> 00:26:44,090
and let's check out.
559
00:26:46,160 --> 00:26:48,010
- Hey.
- He's paying.
560
00:26:48,090 --> 00:26:49,990
- Yep, I'm Dad.
- [laughs]
561
00:26:50,000 --> 00:26:51,100
- She's a writer.
562
00:26:53,330 --> 00:26:55,350
- I didn't expect
to see you here.
563
00:26:55,430 --> 00:26:57,350
- Yeah, well,
I didn't expect to be here,
564
00:26:57,430 --> 00:26:59,500
but I wanted to prove to you
that I can have
565
00:26:59,510 --> 00:27:00,840
a healthy debate
with the other side,
566
00:27:00,840 --> 00:27:04,280
and the only way to do that
is to show you, so...
567
00:27:05,680 --> 00:27:09,200
- That's impressive.
- Hm.
568
00:27:09,270 --> 00:27:10,030
- It's gonna take more
than one conversation.
569
00:27:11,700 --> 00:27:13,440
- I know.
570
00:27:13,520 --> 00:27:14,630
- Identity politics
is so touchy.
571
00:27:14,700 --> 00:27:16,110
- Shall we?
572
00:27:16,190 --> 00:27:20,540
- Everything is politically
incorrect these days.
573
00:27:20,620 --> 00:27:21,950
- I know.
574
00:27:22,030 --> 00:27:23,970
I am terrified
of saying the wrong thing.
575
00:27:24,050 --> 00:27:26,050
- [sighs]
576
00:27:26,120 --> 00:27:27,200
- Yeah, I mean, I think
that that's a fear
577
00:27:27,200 --> 00:27:29,370
a lot of people share,
578
00:27:29,370 --> 00:27:31,480
especially in the age
of social media.
579
00:27:31,550 --> 00:27:33,630
- What am I supposed to say
to my 13-year-old daughter
580
00:27:33,710 --> 00:27:37,380
when she thinks
it's fashionable to be gay?
581
00:27:37,380 --> 00:27:40,150
- Uh, I don't know
about fashionable.
582
00:27:40,230 --> 00:27:42,230
- No, she's right.
583
00:27:42,310 --> 00:27:44,400
Just look at these
queer celebrities--
584
00:27:44,480 --> 00:27:45,230
Kristen Stewart,
and what's the other one?
585
00:27:45,310 --> 00:27:46,570
- Oh, Cara Delevingne.
586
00:27:46,690 --> 00:27:48,830
It's like kids are being
bullied if they're straight.
587
00:27:48,910 --> 00:27:50,240
- Bullied, really?
588
00:27:50,310 --> 00:27:53,220
- I know it's hard to believe,
but it is happening,
589
00:27:53,230 --> 00:27:54,670
and it is a problem.
590
00:27:54,740 --> 00:27:55,910
- I actually think
that the real problem
591
00:27:55,990 --> 00:27:57,400
is what's happening right here.
592
00:27:57,400 --> 00:28:00,340
- I think what Kat means
to say is that there's no way--
593
00:28:00,420 --> 00:28:02,840
- Eva, maybe let someone
from the queer community
594
00:28:02,920 --> 00:28:05,750
field this one.
- Oh.
595
00:28:05,830 --> 00:28:07,070
Oh, I'm sorry.
596
00:28:07,070 --> 00:28:08,760
I didn't realize
that you were--
597
00:28:08,830 --> 00:28:10,090
- Oh, queer?
Yeah...
598
00:28:10,170 --> 00:28:11,090
[chuckles]
599
00:28:11,170 --> 00:28:13,670
I am, yeah,
and I can assure you,
600
00:28:13,750 --> 00:28:16,690
there is no liberal agenda
to turn straight people gay,
601
00:28:16,770 --> 00:28:19,190
promise.
602
00:28:19,270 --> 00:28:20,010
We just want equal rights
and opportunities--
603
00:28:20,090 --> 00:28:21,590
the same ones you have.
604
00:28:21,590 --> 00:28:25,420
- And I just want my daughter
to grow up happy and normal.
605
00:28:25,430 --> 00:28:29,540
- Normal...uh, as in straight?
606
00:28:29,610 --> 00:28:33,430
- As in the way God intended.
That is how I feel.
607
00:28:33,430 --> 00:28:38,290
- Okay, I think coming here
was a really bad idea.
608
00:28:38,360 --> 00:28:41,710
- Kat, Kat, wait.
609
00:28:41,790 --> 00:28:45,550
- You were right.
I can't do it.
610
00:28:45,630 --> 00:28:46,870
Talking to people like that--
it was a mistake.
611
00:28:46,950 --> 00:28:47,710
- No, it wasn't.
612
00:28:50,620 --> 00:28:51,970
I'll do your podcast.
- Why?
613
00:28:52,040 --> 00:28:56,140
I just proved that I couldn't
engage in a healthy debate.
614
00:28:56,210 --> 00:28:57,230
- Kat, do you want me
to do your podcast?
615
00:28:57,310 --> 00:28:58,560
- Yes.
- Okay.
616
00:28:58,640 --> 00:29:02,740
Well, then I would shut up
and accept the offer.
617
00:29:02,810 --> 00:29:03,740
- Okay.
618
00:29:03,810 --> 00:29:05,850
♪
619
00:29:08,820 --> 00:29:10,480
[upbeat music]
620
00:29:10,560 --> 00:29:11,910
- Okay, so when the issue
of identity politics
621
00:29:11,990 --> 00:29:13,990
comes up in your circles,
how do you combat the stigma
622
00:29:14,060 --> 00:29:17,750
that the conservative party
is overall homophobic?
623
00:29:17,830 --> 00:29:19,810
- I don't combat it at all
624
00:29:19,810 --> 00:29:21,400
because
it's none of my business.
625
00:29:21,480 --> 00:29:22,760
I don't think
that it should be brought up
626
00:29:22,830 --> 00:29:24,500
nor should that fire be fanned
627
00:29:24,580 --> 00:29:30,820
because sexuality whether homo,
hetero, pan, A, or other,
628
00:29:30,820 --> 00:29:33,100
it doesn't define a person.
629
00:29:33,180 --> 00:29:34,930
- Okay, sure,
it doesn't define a person,
630
00:29:35,010 --> 00:29:36,440
but it certainly adds
to why they might be put
631
00:29:36,510 --> 00:29:39,160
into the category of other,
and therefore oppressed
632
00:29:39,170 --> 00:29:40,510
under the system we're all in.
633
00:29:40,590 --> 00:29:43,180
- The system being--
- Capitalism and patriarchy.
634
00:29:43,260 --> 00:29:45,110
- Right.
635
00:29:45,190 --> 00:29:47,340
- Okay, I see you laughing,
and I mean,
636
00:29:47,340 --> 00:29:49,100
you can go ahead and laugh
if you want,
637
00:29:49,180 --> 00:29:50,120
but you are also
a victim of the system.
638
00:29:50,190 --> 00:29:51,510
You're a woman living
in the world,
639
00:29:51,510 --> 00:29:53,270
and you can't be immune
to the effects of that.
640
00:29:53,350 --> 00:29:57,870
- Well, in the LGBTQ community,
it just feels like--
641
00:29:57,940 --> 00:30:00,960
- Okay, Eva, you have to stop
speaking for a community
642
00:30:01,040 --> 00:30:03,630
that you're not involved in.
It's not your place.
643
00:30:03,710 --> 00:30:06,020
- I can speak
for that community--
644
00:30:06,030 --> 00:30:09,300
my community--
because I'm a lesbian.
645
00:30:09,380 --> 00:30:11,950
I am a Republican woman
who is not defined
646
00:30:12,030 --> 00:30:13,970
by my sexuality
because sexuality
647
00:30:14,050 --> 00:30:16,050
is not a personality trait.
648
00:30:16,130 --> 00:30:17,980
Just because
I don't wear it on my sleeve
649
00:30:18,050 --> 00:30:19,260
doesn't mean that I don't
get to claim my space.
650
00:30:21,630 --> 00:30:24,220
- Absolutely, yes.
651
00:30:24,300 --> 00:30:26,480
I mean, you should be able
to claim your space.
652
00:30:28,380 --> 00:30:33,640
And identity politics
are...very tricky.
653
00:30:33,720 --> 00:30:39,570
♪
654
00:30:40,730 --> 00:30:44,060
- I always knew
you'd be a writer.
655
00:30:44,060 --> 00:30:46,250
- [chuckles]
656
00:30:46,320 --> 00:30:47,840
- You were constantly jotting
things down in your notebook,
657
00:30:47,920 --> 00:30:51,990
coming up with stories,
setting your own deadlines.
658
00:30:52,070 --> 00:30:53,510
- I did do that, didn't I?
659
00:30:53,590 --> 00:30:55,260
[laughter]
660
00:30:55,330 --> 00:30:57,070
- You never gave yourself
much time.
661
00:30:57,080 --> 00:31:00,170
- Yeah, well,
I kind of liked the rush
662
00:31:00,250 --> 00:31:01,100
of not knowing
if I could finish.
663
00:31:01,170 --> 00:31:05,170
- But you always did.
664
00:31:05,250 --> 00:31:07,180
It's not always a race.
665
00:31:08,920 --> 00:31:11,180
- I know.
666
00:31:11,260 --> 00:31:13,200
- Some things take time,
but you have that now.
667
00:31:17,600 --> 00:31:19,950
You get to fill all those days.
668
00:31:20,020 --> 00:31:21,320
Every one of them, Jane.
669
00:31:23,600 --> 00:31:27,200
You know why?
670
00:31:27,270 --> 00:31:29,720
Because you did
something brave.
671
00:31:29,790 --> 00:31:33,220
Not just for you but for me
672
00:31:33,300 --> 00:31:35,050
and your brothers
and your friends.
673
00:31:37,450 --> 00:31:43,450
- Dad.
[sniffles]
674
00:31:43,460 --> 00:31:46,140
- When you told me
that you tested positive
675
00:31:46,220 --> 00:31:47,880
for the same gene
that took your mom, I...
676
00:31:47,960 --> 00:31:50,290
[voice breaks]
677
00:31:50,300 --> 00:31:54,240
I thought,
"I can't lose you too."
678
00:31:58,470 --> 00:31:59,650
But I couldn't tell you
what to do.
679
00:31:59,730 --> 00:32:00,570
- [chuckles]
680
00:32:02,640 --> 00:32:06,310
- It was your body,
your decision.
681
00:32:06,310 --> 00:32:07,660
- And I don't regret
making that decision,
682
00:32:07,740 --> 00:32:08,920
I just--
683
00:32:11,320 --> 00:32:12,820
I don't know.
684
00:32:12,820 --> 00:32:13,540
I didn't think
it would be this hard.
685
00:32:16,490 --> 00:32:17,210
- I get that.
686
00:32:21,160 --> 00:32:27,010
But that part of your body,
it's not the enemy.
687
00:32:27,090 --> 00:32:29,520
It's the part
that saved your life.
688
00:32:33,170 --> 00:32:35,280
It's not about
muddling through.
689
00:32:35,360 --> 00:32:39,190
It's about embracing
and enjoying your life
690
00:32:39,270 --> 00:32:42,030
as much as you can--
every moment of it.
691
00:32:42,110 --> 00:32:43,240
Huh?
692
00:32:45,440 --> 00:32:47,410
You got a second chance
at life.
693
00:32:50,780 --> 00:32:52,040
Your mother never had that.
694
00:32:53,950 --> 00:32:56,530
- I know.
695
00:32:56,530 --> 00:33:03,810
♪
696
00:33:03,890 --> 00:33:07,310
[punchy music]
697
00:33:07,390 --> 00:33:11,470
- ♪ Fade in the morning
waking up with a big head ♪
698
00:33:11,540 --> 00:33:15,380
♪
699
00:33:15,380 --> 00:33:18,900
♪ I live down the block
do it up for me she said ♪
700
00:33:18,980 --> 00:33:23,390
♪
701
00:33:23,390 --> 00:33:25,390
♪ I hear 'em whisper
702
00:33:25,390 --> 00:33:26,670
♪ I hear 'em whispering
703
00:33:26,740 --> 00:33:30,910
♪
704
00:33:30,990 --> 00:33:32,730
♪ People taking notice
705
00:33:32,730 --> 00:33:35,320
♪ Can't help but
focus on this ♪
706
00:33:35,400 --> 00:33:38,830
♪
707
00:33:38,900 --> 00:33:40,750
♪ I am the people
that you meet... ♪
708
00:33:40,830 --> 00:33:42,420
- Hey.
- Hi!
709
00:33:42,500 --> 00:33:44,020
- Thought you might need this.
- Oh, thanks T.
710
00:33:44,090 --> 00:33:44,930
You're the best.
- No problem.
711
00:33:45,000 --> 00:33:46,240
And do you
need anything else?
712
00:33:46,250 --> 00:33:48,190
- Yeah, I do actually.
713
00:33:48,260 --> 00:33:49,910
Next time, can I get
your creative input?
714
00:33:49,920 --> 00:33:50,910
- Seriously?
- Yeah.
715
00:33:50,920 --> 00:33:52,510
I know you have some.
716
00:33:52,590 --> 00:33:54,430
It's not that long ago
that I was you,
717
00:33:54,510 --> 00:33:56,420
and I wouldn't be here
if somebody wasn't asking me
718
00:33:56,420 --> 00:33:59,870
what my opinion is,
so I can count on you?
719
00:33:59,940 --> 00:34:02,520
- You bet.
- Thank you.
720
00:34:02,600 --> 00:34:04,150
[chuckles]
721
00:34:07,450 --> 00:34:08,120
Jane.
722
00:34:11,440 --> 00:34:13,600
You look so beautiful.
723
00:34:13,610 --> 00:34:15,710
- Thanks.
- Does this mean--
724
00:34:15,790 --> 00:34:19,720
- That I am participating in
your shoot if you will have me.
725
00:34:19,800 --> 00:34:21,280
- Duh.
- [chuckles]
726
00:34:21,280 --> 00:34:22,630
- And this dress.
727
00:34:22,710 --> 00:34:25,120
- It's my mom's.
728
00:34:25,120 --> 00:34:27,120
My dad brought it for me
along with
729
00:34:27,120 --> 00:34:28,300
some much needed
advice and perspective.
730
00:34:30,050 --> 00:34:32,470
I'm gonna stop
feeling sorry for myself
731
00:34:32,550 --> 00:34:35,220
and start living my life.
732
00:34:35,290 --> 00:34:36,570
You know, that's why
I got the surgery--
733
00:34:36,650 --> 00:34:40,560
to give me more time to live,
so I'm gonna do that.
734
00:34:40,630 --> 00:34:42,240
I'm gonna run a marathon.
- Oh.
735
00:34:42,320 --> 00:34:43,800
- I am going to do
all of the things
736
00:34:43,800 --> 00:34:46,390
that I've always wanted to do
but have been putting off.
737
00:34:46,470 --> 00:34:50,400
- Jane, that is amazing.
738
00:34:50,480 --> 00:34:52,830
You deserve everything
that you've ever wanted.
739
00:34:52,900 --> 00:34:55,750
- So do you.
- Thanks.
740
00:34:55,830 --> 00:34:57,260
Honestly, I kind of feel
like I have it.
741
00:34:57,330 --> 00:35:01,990
Like, right here, right now,
nothing is missing, you know?
742
00:35:01,990 --> 00:35:05,750
I-I'm living my life
743
00:35:05,830 --> 00:35:07,660
exactly the way
that I want to.
744
00:35:07,660 --> 00:35:12,940
♪
745
00:35:13,020 --> 00:35:15,090
- Isn't that a good thing?
746
00:35:15,170 --> 00:35:18,020
- Not if the person
you're living it with
747
00:35:18,100 --> 00:35:21,690
feels differently.
748
00:35:21,770 --> 00:35:27,120
Jane, I'm asking Richard
to wait....
749
00:35:27,200 --> 00:35:31,200
for me, but...
750
00:35:31,270 --> 00:35:34,280
He's waiting for something
that I can't give him.
751
00:35:35,610 --> 00:35:37,280
- What do you mean?
752
00:35:37,360 --> 00:35:40,950
- I love my life
the way it is.
753
00:35:41,030 --> 00:35:43,710
I don't want kids.
754
00:35:43,790 --> 00:35:45,450
- [sighs]
755
00:35:45,530 --> 00:35:49,530
But you might change your mind
in, like, five years, you know?
756
00:35:49,540 --> 00:35:51,370
- I don't think I'm going to.
757
00:35:51,370 --> 00:35:52,930
I don't want kids, Jane.
I just don't.
758
00:35:57,380 --> 00:35:59,970
[sighs]
How am I gonna tell Richard?
759
00:36:00,050 --> 00:36:01,820
It's gonna break his heart.
760
00:36:01,900 --> 00:36:08,570
♪
761
00:36:14,990 --> 00:36:15,910
[Woodes' "This is My Year"]
762
00:36:15,990 --> 00:36:19,510
[soft pop music]
763
00:36:19,580 --> 00:36:26,250
♪
764
00:36:26,330 --> 00:36:28,180
- ♪ I said I'd be there
765
00:36:28,260 --> 00:36:30,500
♪ Forgot to remember
766
00:36:30,580 --> 00:36:32,330
♪ I said I would call
767
00:36:32,410 --> 00:36:34,850
♪ But I wrote you a letter
768
00:36:34,930 --> 00:36:36,360
♪ It's inside my head
769
00:36:36,430 --> 00:36:38,930
♪ Return to sender
770
00:36:39,010 --> 00:36:42,180
♪ I said I would change
771
00:36:42,250 --> 00:36:44,420
♪ This is my year
772
00:36:44,420 --> 00:36:47,020
♪ So worth the wait
773
00:36:47,090 --> 00:36:50,870
♪ Everything starts
going my way ♪
774
00:36:50,950 --> 00:36:52,780
♪ This is my year
775
00:36:52,860 --> 00:36:55,620
♪ That's what they say
776
00:36:55,690 --> 00:36:59,360
♪ Till we wake up
on New Year's Day ♪
777
00:36:59,440 --> 00:37:01,880
♪ This is my year
778
00:37:01,960 --> 00:37:04,220
- Congratulations.
779
00:37:04,290 --> 00:37:06,610
The way that
you handled that woman was hot.
780
00:37:06,610 --> 00:37:08,630
- Mm, well, you know, I could
handle you the same way.
781
00:37:08,710 --> 00:37:09,800
- Mm, oh, yeah?
782
00:37:09,870 --> 00:37:11,620
♪
783
00:37:11,620 --> 00:37:13,040
Only if you use
your podcast voice.
784
00:37:13,120 --> 00:37:17,380
- ♪ I'll cherish my mom,
I'll get motivation ♪
785
00:37:17,460 --> 00:37:19,050
♪ I'll learn to forgive
786
00:37:19,120 --> 00:37:21,480
♪ I'll try to be patient
787
00:37:21,550 --> 00:37:25,310
- What would you say
are the biggest issues
788
00:37:25,390 --> 00:37:27,220
facing our country today?
789
00:37:27,300 --> 00:37:28,740
[chuckles]
790
00:37:28,820 --> 00:37:33,060
♪
791
00:37:33,140 --> 00:37:34,730
- Gun violence.
- Mm-hmm.
792
00:37:34,810 --> 00:37:37,730
♪
793
00:37:37,810 --> 00:37:38,980
- Divisive language.
794
00:37:38,980 --> 00:37:41,570
♪
795
00:37:41,650 --> 00:37:44,260
Also climate change?
796
00:37:44,330 --> 00:37:49,760
♪
797
00:37:49,840 --> 00:37:53,100
Do you agree?
798
00:37:53,180 --> 00:37:55,680
- Yes.
- Yes, what?
799
00:37:55,750 --> 00:37:58,270
- Yes, Eva.
800
00:37:58,350 --> 00:38:00,760
- Are you serious?
801
00:38:03,670 --> 00:38:05,170
[huffs]
802
00:38:05,170 --> 00:38:06,280
Good-bye.
803
00:38:08,340 --> 00:38:09,860
- ♪ I said I'd be there
804
00:38:09,930 --> 00:38:12,100
♪ Forgot to remember
805
00:38:12,180 --> 00:38:14,440
♪ I said I would call...
806
00:38:14,510 --> 00:38:16,530
- Hey, babe.
In here.
807
00:38:16,610 --> 00:38:18,020
- ♪ It sits in my head
808
00:38:18,020 --> 00:38:20,370
♪ Return to sender
809
00:38:20,440 --> 00:38:25,360
♪ I said I would change,
but now it's December ♪
810
00:38:25,360 --> 00:38:28,950
♪ I keep my hopes
811
00:38:29,030 --> 00:38:35,200
♪ On the shelf
812
00:38:35,200 --> 00:38:37,380
- Hey, how was the shoot?
813
00:38:38,870 --> 00:38:41,150
- I love you so much.
814
00:38:41,220 --> 00:38:42,470
- What's wrong?
815
00:38:45,210 --> 00:38:47,540
- More than I thought possible.
816
00:38:47,550 --> 00:38:51,570
- [chuckles]
You're starting to scare me.
817
00:38:51,640 --> 00:38:52,900
- You have to let me
get through this
818
00:38:52,980 --> 00:38:57,240
because this is really hard,
and I have to tell you
819
00:38:57,310 --> 00:38:59,390
before a month
becomes six months
820
00:38:59,390 --> 00:39:03,000
becomes a year and then we're
five years in, and I--I...
821
00:39:07,320 --> 00:39:09,510
And I can't give you
what you want.
822
00:39:09,590 --> 00:39:12,920
- ♪ So worth the wait,
everything starts ♪
823
00:39:13,000 --> 00:39:14,240
♪ Going my way
824
00:39:14,240 --> 00:39:17,740
- So...
825
00:39:17,740 --> 00:39:21,930
the same way
that the miscarriage...
826
00:39:22,010 --> 00:39:25,250
made you realize
how much you want a baby...
827
00:39:25,250 --> 00:39:27,930
- ♪ I'll be so strong
828
00:39:28,010 --> 00:39:29,860
- [whispers] It made me realize
that I don't.
829
00:39:29,940 --> 00:39:34,930
- ♪ I'll get some sleep,
look after myself ♪
830
00:39:34,930 --> 00:39:38,040
- I love our life.
I love us.
831
00:39:40,780 --> 00:39:43,780
I don't want anything else.
832
00:39:45,770 --> 00:39:47,860
You're enough for me.
833
00:39:47,940 --> 00:39:55,390
♪
834
00:39:55,460 --> 00:39:57,060
And I don't want that
to change.
835
00:39:57,130 --> 00:40:00,300
- ♪ This is my year
836
00:40:00,380 --> 00:40:03,060
♪ So worth the wait
837
00:40:03,140 --> 00:40:06,710
♪ Everything starts
going my way ♪
838
00:40:06,790 --> 00:40:09,460
♪ This is my year
839
00:40:09,460 --> 00:40:13,390
- I don't want children...
840
00:40:13,470 --> 00:40:16,060
and I can't promise you
I ever will.
841
00:40:16,140 --> 00:40:19,750
♪ I'll be so strong,
I'll eat so well ♪
842
00:40:19,820 --> 00:40:25,250
♪ I'll get some sleep,
look after myself ♪
843
00:40:25,330 --> 00:40:28,150
♪ Yeah, that's what
they say ♪
844
00:40:28,150 --> 00:40:29,900
- I love you.
845
00:40:29,980 --> 00:40:32,410
♪ Till we wake up
on New Year's Day ♪
846
00:40:32,480 --> 00:40:34,410
♪ This is my year
847
00:40:34,490 --> 00:40:38,160
♪
848
00:40:38,160 --> 00:40:41,490
[phone shatters against the
wall]
849
00:40:41,490 --> 00:41:13,590
♪ This is my year
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