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Man with a Plan #405
"Couples Therapy"
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WOMAN: Let the life force
flow through your...
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What you doing?
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I told you he'd be
doing something weird.
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Yeah. Where's Donny?
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Adam's got big news.
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Oh, he left for
couples therapy again.
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Thanks for helping me up,
by the way.
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So, what's the big news?
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Lowell, I bought a boat.
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We were leaving the lumber yard,
and some guy was selling
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his bass boat real cheap
in the parking lot,
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so I went for it.
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There she is.
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That's my boat.
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How'd you get Andi to
finally let you buy one?
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Oh, I used a new strategy.
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I didn't tell her.
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And you're still married.
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It's a mystery.
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This is the only way
it can work.
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All right, I've brought up
buying a boat in the past,
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and Andi always
shot me down.
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Wives, our beloved
life partners...
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who take a flame thrower
to our dreams.
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My problem was it was
always a hypothetical boat,
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so I could never push it
across the finish line.
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Now that I've bought a boat,
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I'm working
from a place of fear.
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You see, fear sharpens you.
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Like, you can only run so fast.
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But when a lion's chasing you,
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you can run a little faster.
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Not faster than a lion.
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The boat's getting
delivered Tuesday.
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So I have a week to figure out
how to get a yes from Andi.
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You need to make Andi
think it's her idea.
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Wives always love
their own ideas.
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That's true, even if
they're not good ones.
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Like throw pillows.
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Who needs a hundred pillows
nobody sleeps on?
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Our houses are
full of damn pillows.
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All right, so all I have to do
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is get Andi to suggest a boat.
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Then I just agree.
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By next week we'll be
seasick, sunburned
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and peeing in a lake,
like God intended.
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It'll be like the old days
when I used
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to rent a boat
to take you fishing.
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Yeah, but better,
because we'll own it.
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Yeah. A boat is like a woman.
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It doesn't feel right
to pay for it by the hour.
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All right, boy.
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Look like a guy
who really needs a boat.
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I know what I'm doing.
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I'm gonna walk her
right into it.
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(sighs)
Boy...
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what a day, oh.
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Aw, honey, what's wrong?
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Are you okay?
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You know what I am?
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Stressed!
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That's what I am.
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Well, I don't like that.
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Is there anything
I can do?
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Well... maybe...
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maybe it would help me to relax
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if I did something,
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uh, water-related.
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You know, there are certain
things a wife can do
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to relieve her
husband's stress.
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Yeah, I know the
things, Bev, thanks.
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Uh, hey, if you
like the water,
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maybe you should take
a walk around the lake.
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That's not one
of the things.
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Although, you can
do mine in a lake.
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That's close.
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Yeah, I like where you're
headed with this lake thing.
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You know who's relaxed?
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Ducks.
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What?
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Oh, that's right, ducks.
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You know, I bet it's because
they're on the lake.
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That's the key.
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So how do you get a duck's life?
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But I like being a person.
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How much have you
guys had to drink?
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Wow.
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Sorry we're late.
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We were making out in
the car like teenagers.
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That's right, we would've
gone all the way,
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but there's a lot
of looky-loos out there
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walking their dogs.
Mm-hmm.
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See how she used her
body to relax him?
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That's what I was
talking about.
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Oh, my God!
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We were just looking for ways
to help me deal with stress.
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You know, fishing around.
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It's all hands
on deck over here.
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Maybe you should try
couples therapy,
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It's great.
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No, that's not
what I'm talking about.
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Andi, that's not what
I'm talking about.
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Well, it really
changed Don.
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Yeah, it turned him
into a Bee Gee.
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I thought Marcy
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wouldn't let you wear
that silk shirt.
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This is the real me.
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Dr. Chuck says
that Marcy was wrong
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to control my fashion choices.
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He's our therapist,
and he made me realize
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that when Don wears this shirt
it's not supportive for me
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to say that he looks
like an unemployed pimp.
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Well, Marcy, I think it is so
healthy that you're working
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on your relationship
with your husband...
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the roller rink DJ.
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Here's Dr. Chuck's card.
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You guys should
give it a whirl.
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Maybe she's right.
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I mean, you might
be stressed out
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because there's something
bottled up inside you.
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Like a ship in a bottle!
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No. No, no, no, no.
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Therapy is not
for guys like me.
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All right, it's just
a bunch of mumbo-jumbo
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that doesn't do anything.
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Tony Soprano
did therapy.
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And yet the murdering
continued.
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You know what
might help me relax?
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Singing. Yeah.
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♪ Row, row, row your... ♪
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Take it home, Andi.
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Well, that went nowhere.
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Andi wasn't even close
to suggesting a boat.
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She just thinks I got drunk
and want to be a duck.
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Marcy was right.
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Take her to couples therapy.
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No way.
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Therapists always
agree with the wife.
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The first class
you take in shrink school
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is "Husbands: How to Put
Their Nuts in a Box."
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Dr. Chuck always sides with me.
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Until he doesn't,
and then it's boxed nuts.
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You don't get it.
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I met Chuck at the gym.
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He's going through
a bad divorce,
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so he's pretty mad at wives.
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When I heard
he did couples therapy,
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I locked that down.
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The best part is
Don's excited to go to therapy.
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I could never get Adam to go.
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Well, it's hard for me
to open up, too,
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but part of the therapy process
is acknowledging that
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I'm a flawed human being,
and that's okay.
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I could've told you that
for free.
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Anyway.
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The thing I like most
about therapy
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is the honesty.
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It's totally rigged.
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Dr. Chuck could be
your answer, Adam.
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I say get on the Chuckwagon.
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I'm not paying
some quack 150 bucks
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to do what I can do myself.
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I still have a week--
I'll just use my brains
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and charisma
to get Andi on board.
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So we're not getting a boat.
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Don't underestimate me.
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Superman can fly.
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Batman has the Batmobile.
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I can wear a woman down.
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There she is.
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I saved the last brownie
for my beautiful bride.
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What do you want, sex?
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No. Well...
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No, no. I'm just happy.
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This is my idea
of a perfect life.
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Oh.
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The only thing that would
make it more perfect
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would be if this couch was--
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I don't know... a boat.
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(groans)
That's what this is about?
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Well, yeah.
Aw, man, can't we just have sex?
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On a boat? Sure.
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Yeah, we could just lay there
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and let the water
do the work.
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Okay, we are not
getting a boat.
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All right, if you want
something expensive that leaks,
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let's just get another kid.
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I know you're against it, but
when I look out in the driveway
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and don't see a boat there,
it makes me wonder why
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I'm even on this
crazy blue ball!
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Too much?
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Come on, let's get a boat!
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I'll even name it after you.
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Probably.
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Sorry, honey.
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Okay, I didn't want
to have to do this, but...
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kids, could you
come in here, please?
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Would you tell Mommy why
you're so sad all the time?
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Because we don't have a boat.
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Healthy children
need fresh air.
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I think a boat will keep me away
from all those boys at school.
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They only want
one thing.
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Sorry, honey,
you're outnumbered.
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I'm off to go shopping
for the SS Maybe Andi.
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We're not getting a boat.
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Can we still go out for ice
cream even though she said no?
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You didn't even sell it.
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You were Peter Pan
in the school play.
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Where was that magic?
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(grunts)
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You know, the oceans are rising.
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I'm just wondering
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how we're gonna survive
without a--
No.
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(groans)
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Dr. Chuck, huh?
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Well, you ain't cheating,
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you ain't trying.
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Honey, I know I'm driving you
crazy with this boat talk,
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but I can't help myself.
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Maybe you're right.
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We need to see Dr. Chuck.
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You want to see a therapist?
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Well, why not?
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He's an impartial third party.
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And if he agrees with you, I
will drop the boat idea forever.
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Wow! Um, o-okay.
(laughs)
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I'll make an appointment
next week.
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Sooner's better--
before Tuesday, for example.
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Yeah, I got to say,
Adam, I'm impressed.
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Oh.
I mean, ten years ago,
you would've just
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bought a boat
and then lied about it.
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(both laughing)
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I can't believe Adam
agreed to go to therapy.
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Yeah, he has never been
this open-minded.
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Yeah, I might ride this wave
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and see if I can get him
to try quinoa.
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Oh.
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I'm making Joe go, too.
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He has issues.
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The man goes out to get
the paper in his underwear.
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The neighbors had a
whole meeting about it.
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Bev, are-are you
meeting Joe's needs?
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'Cause there's certain things
a wife can do.
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Why do you think he's
in his underwear?
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All right, let's get going, Bev.
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I feel like fish
sticks for dinner.
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You want fish sticks, Joe?
Yeah.
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I want a husband
who wears pants.
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Is this about me
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getting the paper again?
I'm afraid so.
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Well, the neighborhood ladies
like it.
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They had a whole meeting
about it.
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Okay, well, uh,
I better get going, too.
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I want to pick the perfect
outfit for therapy.
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Something that says that I'm
willing to work on my faults,
257
00:10:13,947 --> 00:10:15,532
but that I don't have any.
258
00:10:15,532 --> 00:10:18,243
Well, I hope you like it
more than I do.
259
00:10:18,243 --> 00:10:19,953
I think I'm gonna stop going.
260
00:10:19,953 --> 00:10:22,205
Wha-- What happened?
261
00:10:22,205 --> 00:10:24,290
Whenever I bring up something
crazy that Don did,
262
00:10:24,290 --> 00:10:26,626
Dr. Chuck says it's my fault.
263
00:10:26,626 --> 00:10:28,169
Really?
Mm-hmm.
264
00:10:28,169 --> 00:10:30,255
Did you tell him about the time
that Don said he was going
265
00:10:30,255 --> 00:10:33,550
to the car wash but he really
went to Vegas for the weekend?
266
00:10:33,550 --> 00:10:36,261
My fault because
I was smothering him.
267
00:10:36,261 --> 00:10:37,679
What? That doesn't
make any sense.
268
00:10:37,679 --> 00:10:39,556
Where did you find this doctor?
269
00:10:39,556 --> 00:10:41,057
Oh, I didn't, Don did.
270
00:10:41,057 --> 00:10:42,851
Don found him?
271
00:10:42,851 --> 00:10:44,727
Yeah, I was proud of him.
272
00:10:44,727 --> 00:10:46,688
He doesn't usually
take the initiative.
273
00:10:46,688 --> 00:10:49,941
Oh, my God. Marcy, wake up.
274
00:10:49,941 --> 00:10:51,901
Chuck-- Chuck is a ringer.
275
00:10:51,901 --> 00:10:53,194
What?
Look,
276
00:10:53,194 --> 00:10:55,613
Don obviously got
some weirdo doctor
277
00:10:55,613 --> 00:10:57,991
to tell you that you were wrong
about everything.
278
00:10:57,991 --> 00:10:59,409
I mean, is there any
other explanation
279
00:10:59,409 --> 00:11:02,704
for that Motown
backup singer shirt?
280
00:11:02,704 --> 00:11:04,706
(gasps)
He is so gonna pay.
281
00:11:04,706 --> 00:11:07,208
He wore that thing to church.
282
00:11:07,208 --> 00:11:09,168
In front of God.
283
00:11:10,420 --> 00:11:12,714
A-And now Adam
is working the same scam
284
00:11:12,714 --> 00:11:13,923
to get a boat.
285
00:11:13,923 --> 00:11:16,259
(scoffs)
Why am I surprised?
286
00:11:16,259 --> 00:11:17,719
He was raised by a man
287
00:11:17,719 --> 00:11:19,387
who wanders the streets
in his underpants.
288
00:11:19,387 --> 00:11:21,556
Oh...
289
00:11:23,516 --> 00:11:26,394
This is exciting.
290
00:11:26,394 --> 00:11:28,688
I can't wait to get in there
and hash this all out,
291
00:11:28,688 --> 00:11:32,108
see what Dr. Chuck
thinks about the boat.
292
00:11:32,108 --> 00:11:35,069
Hey. You seem confident.
293
00:11:35,069 --> 00:11:37,447
I believe in science, Andi.
294
00:11:38,615 --> 00:11:41,284
Adam, Andi, I'm Dr. Felicia.
295
00:11:41,284 --> 00:11:43,286
Come on back to my office.
296
00:11:45,705 --> 00:11:47,957
Where's Chuck?
297
00:11:47,957 --> 00:11:50,126
Oh, Chuck wasn't available,
so I made an appointment
298
00:11:50,126 --> 00:11:52,337
with his colleague Dr. Felicia.
299
00:11:57,425 --> 00:12:00,470
What's wrong?
I don't want to.
300
00:12:02,472 --> 00:12:05,725
So, I hear we're going to be
talking about a boat today.
301
00:12:05,725 --> 00:12:08,227
I don't want to.
302
00:12:18,655 --> 00:12:20,198
Chuck's not here.
303
00:12:20,198 --> 00:12:22,200
Run!
304
00:12:26,496 --> 00:12:28,665
I still don't understand
what happened.
305
00:12:28,665 --> 00:12:31,751
We agreed on Dr. Chuck.
306
00:12:31,751 --> 00:12:33,753
No, we agreed on therapy.
307
00:12:33,753 --> 00:12:36,923
Which we got, and I for one,
am a very satisfied customer.
308
00:12:36,923 --> 00:12:39,759
I already gave her
five stars on Yelp.
309
00:12:39,759 --> 00:12:41,427
She is a boat hater.
310
00:12:41,427 --> 00:12:44,389
If we'd gone with Chuck,
I'd be waterskiing right now.
311
00:12:44,389 --> 00:12:45,765
Of course you would.
312
00:12:45,765 --> 00:12:49,268
Because he was a ringer,
a phony, a fraud.
313
00:12:49,268 --> 00:12:51,688
You don't know that.
314
00:12:51,688 --> 00:12:53,439
Do you?
315
00:12:53,439 --> 00:12:55,608
How do you know that?
316
00:12:55,608 --> 00:12:58,277
You tried to rig therapy
to get a boat.
317
00:12:58,277 --> 00:13:00,530
I tried a whole bunch of things
to get a boat.
318
00:13:00,530 --> 00:13:04,117
And if you had fallen for one of
those, we wouldn't even be here.
319
00:13:04,117 --> 00:13:06,536
Well, I know one thing for sure.
320
00:13:06,536 --> 00:13:11,749
There will never, ever
be a boat in that driveway.
321
00:13:17,046 --> 00:13:19,757
It's not Tuesday.
What?
322
00:13:19,757 --> 00:13:21,884
I'm-I'm just saying days
of the week it's not.
323
00:13:21,884 --> 00:13:23,553
(stammers)
You know what?
324
00:13:23,553 --> 00:13:26,222
Honey, I have put you
through so much.
325
00:13:26,222 --> 00:13:27,515
Let me take you out to dinner.
326
00:13:27,515 --> 00:13:31,269
Huh? If we sprint,
we can still make happy hour.
327
00:13:31,269 --> 00:13:32,937
Why are we going this way?
Well, we're not going out
328
00:13:32,937 --> 00:13:35,773
the back door, like savages.
329
00:13:35,773 --> 00:13:38,901
I want the whole world
to see my beautiful wife.
330
00:13:38,901 --> 00:13:41,112
(chuckles)
331
00:13:41,112 --> 00:13:44,115
Evening, Mr. Burns.
I'm here to drop off your boat.
332
00:13:46,034 --> 00:13:47,994
On second thought,
I'd rather eat in.
333
00:13:52,957 --> 00:13:56,794
It's not your fault, sir.
I'm sorry for all the cursing.
334
00:13:56,794 --> 00:13:59,589
(chuckles):
She didn't know about the boat.
335
00:13:59,589 --> 00:14:01,382
Yeah, you're the third
drop-off this week
336
00:14:01,382 --> 00:14:03,468
where the wife didn't know.
337
00:14:03,468 --> 00:14:05,470
What did those guys do?
338
00:14:05,470 --> 00:14:07,597
I just deliver the boats, man.
339
00:14:11,434 --> 00:14:13,269
Ahoy, Captain.
340
00:14:13,269 --> 00:14:16,814
We brought you champagne
to christen ye new vessel.
341
00:14:16,814 --> 00:14:18,149
(quietly):
Uh, now's not a good time.
342
00:14:18,149 --> 00:14:20,151
I got the boat
delivered early
343
00:14:20,151 --> 00:14:21,611
so we could take it
out this weekend.
344
00:14:21,611 --> 00:14:23,112
What are you guys
fighting about?
345
00:14:24,781 --> 00:14:27,283
Adam bought a boat
after I said no.
346
00:14:27,283 --> 00:14:28,951
Wrong.
347
00:14:28,951 --> 00:14:30,953
I bought the boat
before you said no.
348
00:14:30,953 --> 00:14:33,581
I spent all this time
trying to get you to say yes.
349
00:14:33,581 --> 00:14:35,166
You don't know everything.
350
00:14:36,417 --> 00:14:37,627
Okay, w-well, w-wait a minute.
351
00:14:37,627 --> 00:14:39,420
S-So a-all that stuff,
352
00:14:39,420 --> 00:14:42,840
t-the therapy, t-the
brownie, the kids,
353
00:14:42,840 --> 00:14:46,385
was all because you
already bought a boat?
354
00:14:46,385 --> 00:14:48,679
I should've known. You
never save me a brownie.
355
00:14:51,140 --> 00:14:54,310
Okay, yes, I did
everything wrong.
356
00:14:54,310 --> 00:14:56,646
But you know,
it just didn't seem fair.
357
00:14:56,646 --> 00:14:59,398
Can we have a boat? I say yes,
you say no, so it's a no.
358
00:14:59,398 --> 00:15:00,483
Why is the wife's no
359
00:15:00,483 --> 00:15:03,027
more powerful
than the husband's yes?
360
00:15:03,027 --> 00:15:05,530
Because without our no,
it's chaos.
361
00:15:05,530 --> 00:15:06,739
A man's life expectancy
362
00:15:06,739 --> 00:15:08,950
would be 30
because you'd all drown
363
00:15:08,950 --> 00:15:11,202
in Jacuzzis filled with beer.
364
00:15:11,202 --> 00:15:15,665
Which reminds me,
you also said no to a Jacuzzi.
365
00:15:15,665 --> 00:15:18,501
Marriage is supposed
to be 50-50, right?
366
00:15:18,501 --> 00:15:20,086
No, no, no, no.
367
00:15:20,086 --> 00:15:22,547
It's 51-49.
368
00:15:22,547 --> 00:15:26,008
Yeah, the house has the edge,
just like blackjack.
369
00:15:26,008 --> 00:15:28,678
How are you the house?
I built the house.
370
00:15:28,678 --> 00:15:31,514
All you did was fill it
with these pillows.
371
00:15:31,514 --> 00:15:35,184
Are you saying that my only
contribution to this house
372
00:15:35,184 --> 00:15:37,186
is pillows?
373
00:15:40,189 --> 00:15:42,191
I think we've gotten off track.
374
00:15:43,776 --> 00:15:45,695
You're only mad about the boat.
Remember that.
375
00:15:45,695 --> 00:15:48,072
Still in the driveway.
Can you believe I did that?
376
00:15:51,117 --> 00:15:52,827
He bought a boat
without telling me.
377
00:15:52,827 --> 00:15:54,245
And then he lied about it.
378
00:15:54,245 --> 00:15:56,956
Yeah. He did that.
While we were married.
379
00:15:56,956 --> 00:16:00,418
Get him, Felicia.
380
00:16:00,418 --> 00:16:02,211
Well, you're clearly very
passionate about boats.
381
00:16:02,211 --> 00:16:03,546
In our last session,
you said you had
382
00:16:03,546 --> 00:16:06,549
to have one because boats
are "bitchin'."
383
00:16:06,549 --> 00:16:08,092
I stand by that.
384
00:16:08,092 --> 00:16:10,428
He stands by it, Felicia.
385
00:16:10,428 --> 00:16:12,638
Okay, look, I know
where this is going.
386
00:16:12,638 --> 00:16:15,641
And if it'll save time, I will
put my own nuts in that box.
387
00:16:17,894 --> 00:16:20,229
That's where I keep
my father's ashes.
388
00:16:22,023 --> 00:16:24,734
Sorry for your loss.
389
00:16:24,734 --> 00:16:28,279
You know, in many relationships,
there's a lot of grey areas.
390
00:16:28,279 --> 00:16:31,741
But in this situation,
we have the benefit of clarity.
391
00:16:31,741 --> 00:16:34,660
Clinically speaking, Adam,
you're super wrong.
392
00:16:36,037 --> 00:16:39,457
That is the best 150
bucks I ever ever spent.
393
00:16:39,457 --> 00:16:40,750
Thanks, Felicia.
You've been very helpful.
394
00:16:40,750 --> 00:16:42,752
Hang on. We're
not done here.
395
00:16:42,752 --> 00:16:44,712
We've identified the problem,
396
00:16:44,712 --> 00:16:47,131
but now let's see if there's
and underlying cause.
397
00:16:47,131 --> 00:16:50,176
Eh, I'm good with super
wrong. Do you take checks?
398
00:16:50,176 --> 00:16:51,260
There's no money
in that account.
399
00:16:51,260 --> 00:16:52,887
I spent it all on the boat.
400
00:16:53,930 --> 00:16:55,306
Adam, you risked
401
00:16:55,306 --> 00:16:57,266
your most important relationship
for this,
402
00:16:57,266 --> 00:16:59,894
so there must be something
deeper going on.
403
00:16:59,894 --> 00:17:02,104
When you think about the boat,
what comes to mind?
404
00:17:02,104 --> 00:17:04,106
The boat.
405
00:17:04,106 --> 00:17:07,777
I'm talking about maybe
a-a special memory or feeling.
406
00:17:07,777 --> 00:17:11,739
Oh. Uh...
407
00:17:11,739 --> 00:17:14,742
I guess I think about my dad
taking me out fishing
408
00:17:14,742 --> 00:17:16,160
when I was a kid.
409
00:17:16,160 --> 00:17:17,828
Now we're getting somewhere.
410
00:17:17,828 --> 00:17:20,081
No, we're not.
Stay with me, Felicia.
411
00:17:20,957 --> 00:17:23,084
When we were on the boat,
412
00:17:23,084 --> 00:17:26,420
we'd laugh
and crack dirty jokes.
413
00:17:26,420 --> 00:17:29,048
He'd let me have
a sip of his beer.
414
00:17:29,048 --> 00:17:32,051
Yeah, it was, like, for one day,
415
00:17:32,051 --> 00:17:36,347
he stopped barking at me
and we were pals.
416
00:17:36,347 --> 00:17:38,099
That's very touching, Adam.
417
00:17:38,099 --> 00:17:41,394
I'm glad my dad was in the
room to hear you say that.
418
00:17:42,436 --> 00:17:43,980
So the idea
419
00:17:43,980 --> 00:17:46,232
of the boat is very emotional
for you.
420
00:17:46,232 --> 00:17:49,318
Yeah. I guess.
421
00:17:49,318 --> 00:17:52,697
(scoffs) You know,
the more I think about it,
422
00:17:52,697 --> 00:17:54,448
when I bought the boat,
423
00:17:54,448 --> 00:17:56,784
I was hoping to have some fun
times like that with our kids.
424
00:17:56,784 --> 00:17:59,203
They're growing up so fast.
425
00:17:59,203 --> 00:18:01,622
Well, that's why I
was against the boat.
426
00:18:01,622 --> 00:18:03,624
Time is precious,
427
00:18:03,624 --> 00:18:06,335
and I didn't want it taking
you away from the family.
428
00:18:06,335 --> 00:18:08,129
That's the thing I'm realizing.
429
00:18:08,129 --> 00:18:10,006
I didn't want
the boat just for me.
430
00:18:10,006 --> 00:18:12,091
I wanted it for us.
431
00:18:12,091 --> 00:18:14,760
I can't believe you
never told me that.
432
00:18:14,760 --> 00:18:16,512
I didn't even know
that was in there.
433
00:18:16,512 --> 00:18:18,848
It snuck up on me, like a burp.
434
00:18:18,848 --> 00:18:20,474
Ah.
(chuckles)
435
00:18:20,474 --> 00:18:22,476
I think I might be deep.
436
00:18:28,858 --> 00:18:31,569
Don, Marcy, come on back.
437
00:18:31,569 --> 00:18:33,487
I'm Dr. Felicia.
438
00:18:34,530 --> 00:18:36,532
Where's Chuck?
439
00:18:36,532 --> 00:18:38,242
Chuck can't save you now.
440
00:18:39,452 --> 00:18:40,870
Up you go.
441
00:18:40,870 --> 00:18:42,872
I don't want to.
442
00:18:48,586 --> 00:18:50,129
Never again.
443
00:18:59,013 --> 00:19:00,389
(sighs)
444
00:19:00,389 --> 00:19:03,225
Hey. Back to flannel, huh?
445
00:19:03,225 --> 00:19:06,437
Dr. Felicia was brutal.
She pounded me like a speed bag.
446
00:19:07,646 --> 00:19:08,898
So you're selling it?
447
00:19:08,898 --> 00:19:10,858
Yeah, it's for the best.
Man.
448
00:19:10,858 --> 00:19:14,987
I learned it wasn't about
the boat, it was about family.
449
00:19:14,987 --> 00:19:17,573
Can't drink beer and pee off
the side of a family, though.
450
00:19:19,200 --> 00:19:22,411
You can take the sign down.
I found a buyer for your boat.
451
00:19:22,411 --> 00:19:23,704
Well, that was fast.
452
00:19:23,704 --> 00:19:24,955
Yeah, it's a lady
453
00:19:24,955 --> 00:19:26,499
who wants to buy it
for her husband.
454
00:19:26,499 --> 00:19:28,959
He was professionally diagnosed
as super wrong,
455
00:19:28,959 --> 00:19:31,045
but, you know,
456
00:19:31,045 --> 00:19:35,257
now that she understands why
the boat's been a dream of his,
457
00:19:35,257 --> 00:19:38,135
she wants to make it happen.
458
00:19:38,135 --> 00:19:39,887
Oh, Andi.
459
00:19:39,887 --> 00:19:41,555
(both laugh)
460
00:19:41,555 --> 00:19:45,184
Wow, that's almost exactly
what happened to you.
461
00:19:45,184 --> 00:19:47,061
Go home, Don.
462
00:19:47,061 --> 00:19:49,063
It's a crazy world.
463
00:19:53,359 --> 00:19:55,736
Thanks, Dr. Chuck.
Great session.
464
00:19:55,736 --> 00:19:57,988
I didn't realize
me wanting you
465
00:19:57,988 --> 00:20:00,574
to wear pants
was smothering you.
466
00:20:00,574 --> 00:20:02,451
I'm sorry.
467
00:20:02,451 --> 00:20:05,496
I-I think you're perfect, Bev,
but it might be worth
468
00:20:05,496 --> 00:20:08,457
making some changes
since Dr. Chuck said so. Hmm?
469
00:20:08,457 --> 00:20:11,210
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