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The Supreme Court
today ruled that abortion
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is completely a private
matter to be decided
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by mother and doctor
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in the first three months of pregnancy.
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The 7-2 ruling to that
effect will probably result
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in a drastic overhaul of
state laws on abortion.
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Specifically the court today overturned
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laws in Texas and Georgia
and ruled the government
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- has no right to enter...
- I couldn't get any work done.
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a decision which should be made
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- by the mother and her doctor.
- They're winning.
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During the second three
months of pregnancy...
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It's a great decision because
it puts right on the line
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that a woman has the right
to remain pregnant or not.
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It gives freedom of choice.
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I respect the conscience of
those who oppose abortion
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on moral grounds.
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I do not believe that
they have the right
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to deprive other women of abortion.
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Abortion may be legally permissible.
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It is still morally wrong.
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I cannot believe it.
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- You heard the news?
- I know.
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Roe v. Wade. It's the law of the land.
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I was in the Supreme Court
during oral arguments.
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My God. You're Betty Friedan.
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I am.
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Your book... it changed my life.
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Can I hug you?
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Well... please.
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- Aw.
- Thank you, Gloria Steinem!
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Tomorrow you'll meet
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a crowned head of Europe and marry.
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I will have a fat attack.
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Eat 300 peanut butter cups and die.
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You know, now that
you're my upstairs neighbor,
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I feel like I'm Mary
coming up to visit Rhoda.
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- Mary never visits Rhoda.
- Never? Why?
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Why?
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Rhoda, I'm running...
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You're going out in that blouse?
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Mom, it's just a blouse.
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That you can wear when
you turn 18. No, 20.
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Where did you get that?
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Noreen doesn't wear it anymore,
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so she gave it to me.
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Change now, please.
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They share clothes now.
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Looked expensive.
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Carl loves spending
money on his new wife...
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Money I made from my book.
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You know, it makes him feel superior.
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You know, I may have someone for you...
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Friend of Leon's, divorced,
two children, grown.
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Maybe. When I get back
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from the Women's Caucus Convention.
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You seen any of them since Miami?
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I shouldn't have slammed
Gloria and Bella in the press.
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They slammed you right back.
Didn't they convince Nora Ephron
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to write that bitchy account of you
for "Esquire"?
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Nora doesn't need convincing
to write something bitchy.
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Well...
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And is that what everybody thinks?
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That I'm the Wicked Witch of the West,
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and Gloria is Glinda?
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No one thinks that.
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You know, somebody should tell Nora
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that the real Wicked
Witch of the movement
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is that Phyllis "Schafly" woman.
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She the one that
looks like Dolly Parton?
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- What's the name of her group?
- No.
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She's the other one from Illinois.
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The one with the "STOP"
signs and the blonde beehive?
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- She is terrifying.
- And I do not buy
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for one second that she's a real blonde.
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The ERA is in danger,
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and everyone is too busy fawning
over Gloria to listen to me.
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It's absurd!
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Are they so blinded by all the hair?
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So make them listen.
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You're Betty Friedan, for chrissake.
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Thanks.
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- Thank you.
- Well, you know who is
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a rising star in the Republican Party?
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Audrey here,
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and I have recruited her
to run for Vice President
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of the national caucus.
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I do not know if I'm a rising star,
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but I definitely stand out.
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- You were raised Republican?
- No.
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And my folks were
not too happy about it.
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You know, I told you,
you did not need to bring a fur coat.
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Well, I hauled it all the way down here.
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I'm not taking it off.
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But now you're schvitzing
all over the place.
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- Schvitzing?
- What? I'm trying.
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Schvitzing?
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We should bring Betty over.
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You think?
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So she wants to be Mother Superior.
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She's earned it. We were
in the wilderness for 40 years.
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She lit a match.
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Shirley! I wasn't sure
if you were coming.
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Hello, everybody.
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- Shirley.
- Shirley, Betty.
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This is Audrey.
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Are you okay? You don't look yourself.
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- Is it the investigation?
- It's been a long year.
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You need a lawyer,
I can get you some names.
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It's just outrageous.
It's a witch hunt, you know.
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Investigating you for
misuse of campaign funds
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instead of Nixon.
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I bet you're having a great time
at the White House right now.
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- It isn't dull.
- So can you tell us which
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of his advisors they'll
be calling to testify?
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Who do you think?
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Well, my money is
on Haldeman and Erlichman.
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Of course. German.
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Yes.
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You know who the government
should be looking into...
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- Phyllis "Schafly."
- Schlafly.
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I was inspired by Woodward and Bernstein
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to do some digging into the funding
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of her STOP ERA operations,
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and you'll never guess
what I discovered.
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She's a member of
the John Birch Society.
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Do you think someone like her
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will care if she gets called a Bircher?
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You'll have to do better than that.
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Well, no, but if she's a Bircher,
there's a good chance
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that she's got some white
sheets in her closet.
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But we don't have proof.
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And they don't exactly share
their membership rolls.
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Well, we should use our
resources to find evidence.
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Take her down.
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That is exactly what the men
with money want us to do.
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They use women as a cover
to orchestrate a catfight
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to distract everyone
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so they can sit in dark
rooms and smoke cigars
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and count their money.
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The smartest thing for us to do
is not engage with her at all.
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It'll only create more headlines.
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I agree. Gloria's right.
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We should stick to the program,
as they say in Weight Watchers.
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Like you would know what
they say at Weight Watchers.
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Can we all make a pact
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right here and now not to
give her the time of day?
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Betty.
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Fine. I agree.
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I only show up when my help is needed.
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Phyllis "Schafly"
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did not get this money from
her housekeeping money.
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I have found evidence that she
and her STOP ERA organization
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received funding from
the John Birch Society,
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and I believe she has ties to...
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the Ku Klux Klan.
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Yes, this is she.
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Yes.
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Who?
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Good morning.
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Funded by the Birch Society?
I'm sorry, what?
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The Klan? No.
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This charge is ridiculous.
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I have not, received
a dime from any organization,
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unlike... well, that's all...
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No, wait. Here's a quote.
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I hope Ms. Friedan keeps investigating,
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because it keeps her out of trouble.
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Sorry, when...
when's this article coming out?
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All right. Thank you for calling.
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This is terrific news.
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Betty Friedan,
the most famous of the libbers,
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is attacking me in the press.
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I thought Gloria Steinem
was the most famous libber.
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Well, the point is that
they are acknowledging
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that we are a force to be reckoned with.
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But isn't it kind of awful?
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I don't wanna be associated
with the John Birch society
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or the Klan or any racist groups.
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No, the John Birch Society is...
is not a-a racist group.
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It's anti-communist.
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- Exactly.
- Anyway, doesn't matter,
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because we're...
we're not affiliated with anybody.
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You're not suggesting
that I'm prejudiced.
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- I...
- No, no, of course not.
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No one thinks that.
The libbers lie all the time.
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And they're getting even more desperate
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- now that we're winning.
- That's right.
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If people only knew how
close you are with Willie...
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You taught her daughter how to read.
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But is it possible some
of the state chapters
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are taking money from these groups?
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Maybe Mary Frances?
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Alice, now you know I run a tight ship.
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Of course you do.
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All right. Well, I will,
I will talk to her just in case.
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- Good.
- Now the fact is that
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the libbers are running scared.
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They have not a single good
argument to make for the ERA,
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so they're launching this,
smear campaign.
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My husband and I are
John Birch Society members.
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Well, I... Well,
that... that's your right,
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and I think maybe you should
just keep that to yourself.
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Now this article is coming out tomorrow,
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so we need to make a few hundred copies
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and send them out to all our chapters
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and every radio news program,
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'cause we need to let
them know that the,
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women's lib leaders are making
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these ludicrous attacks against me.
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I'll just go and fill this up.
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All right. Let's get to it?
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No, I can... I can wait.
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Please. Go ahead.
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The article will call
attention to the fact
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that even though thousands
of lives will be saved,
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abortion isn't affordable
for poor women.
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My pitch is also about abortion.
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I know we're all eager
to write about Roe,
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but we should at least
have a couple of articles
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about other areas of the movement.
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But it's all I can think about.
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Margaret, you have something?
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I would like to explore the idea
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of tokenism in the workplace.
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This phenomenon that
happens where one minority
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is propped up to cover the experience
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of an entire population.
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Like the white population,
we are diverse within ourselves.
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What does that mean,
diverse within ourselves?
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There is not a monolithic
black experience.
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Wait. Sorry, you're not
saying you feel that way here.
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Look at our latest issue.
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No. No, not at all.
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If you ever feel that way,
you should say something.
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- There's no hierarchy here.
- Right.
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I've been doing a lot of research
about a new organization
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that just sprang up... STOP ERA.
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Phyllis Schlafly and a
bunch of housewives
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take bread to legislators.
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God, yes, we know about the bread.
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My feelings exactly.
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I know, but now...
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I don't think we should
give her any airtime at all.
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I know, but now that Betty's
been invited to debate her...
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What?
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At Illinois State University.
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- Excuse me?
- How can I help you?
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"Ms." Magazine. How can I help you?
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What's going on with the phones?
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"Ms." Magazine.
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What?
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Where did you get this number?
257
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Which magazine?
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No, you're not gonna find
anyone to lick your balls.
259
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I'm wearing a...
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I guess you could
say it's a coral sweater.
261
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Excuse me?
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Can we get a copy of "Screw" Magazine?
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Yeah...
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I was leading the same kind of life
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that all of us were supposed
to be leading at that time.
266
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You know, I had my three children.
267
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And I'd had a newspaper job
268
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and been fired because I was pregnant,
269
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and I wasn't even aware or conscious
270
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of the women's problem.
271
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I thought there was something
wrong with me because
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I-I didn't have an orgasm
waxing the kitchen floor.
273
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I'm...
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How did you come to write
"The Feminine Mystique"?
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I was feeling that my education at Smith
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hadn't prepared me for
being just a housewife.
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So I decided to send out a questionnaire
278
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to my fellow Smith alumni
to find out if anyone else
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- felt like freaks in the suburbs.
- Did you have any idea
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that your book would
have the effect it did?
281
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You know, it was like
everybody was waiting
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00:14:51,883 --> 00:14:55,569
to have it put into words...
The problem that has no name.
283
00:14:55,594 --> 00:14:57,463
- And so what...
- Well, seems like you got
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a runaway best-seller on your hands.
285
00:14:59,047 --> 00:15:01,132
And it seems like you have
a habit of interrupting.
286
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Do you know what I do if
my husband interrupts me?
287
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I say the word "orgasm" 10
times in a row, and it gets...
288
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So it shuts him right up.
289
00:15:10,992 --> 00:15:12,721
- Well, I think it...
- Orgasm.
290
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Orgasm.
291
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Orgasm. Orgasm.
Orgasm. Orgasm.
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Orgasm. Orgasm. Orgasm. Orgasm.
293
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And I'm growing even more impassioned,
294
00:15:36,712 --> 00:15:41,023
completely unaware that the
strap of my dress had broken
295
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and my boob was hanging out.
296
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And... Well,
you can imagine the pictures
297
00:15:47,603 --> 00:15:48,993
that ran in the press the next day.
298
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- I can.
- You know?
299
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And I am.
300
00:15:52,446 --> 00:15:55,132
So I will say that that kind of press
301
00:15:55,157 --> 00:15:57,206
was invaluable in getting out the word.
302
00:15:57,231 --> 00:16:00,947
I will never forget
watching that march
303
00:16:00,972 --> 00:16:04,650
down 5th Avenue, women, arms linked.
304
00:16:04,675 --> 00:16:08,939
Yes. When I got up to speak
to the crowd at Bryant Park,
305
00:16:08,964 --> 00:16:11,674
it suddenly hit me that
down through the generations
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through history, our ancestors prayed,
307
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"I thank thee, Lord,
I was not created a woman,"
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and I said, from this day forward,
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00:16:20,785 --> 00:16:23,064
women all over the world
will be able to say,
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"I thank thee, Lord,
I was created a woman."
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00:16:27,082 --> 00:16:30,619
You know,
there's a saying in Pirkei Avot...
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"Every assembly that is
for a hallowed purpose
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shall in the end be established."
314
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I feel that mission strongly, yeah.
315
00:16:44,736 --> 00:16:48,963
Well, I'm gonna have another.
You want another?
316
00:16:54,833 --> 00:16:58,002
Next week,
I'm going all the way to Bloomington
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00:16:58,027 --> 00:16:59,603
to debate Phyllis "Schafly."
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00:16:59,628 --> 00:17:01,627
- You've heard of her, yeah?
- No.
319
00:17:01,652 --> 00:17:04,878
Well, you will soon.
She's very media-savvy.
320
00:17:04,902 --> 00:17:06,634
Everyone else underestimates her
321
00:17:06,659 --> 00:17:08,306
because she looks like a Barbie doll,
322
00:17:08,331 --> 00:17:11,447
but she opens her mouth and
sounds like George Wallace.
323
00:17:11,472 --> 00:17:13,374
So it's up to me
324
00:17:13,399 --> 00:17:16,783
to go save the ERA from
her specious arguments.
325
00:17:16,808 --> 00:17:19,553
And I'm sure Gloria
thinks it's a mistake.
326
00:17:19,578 --> 00:17:21,416
Gloria Steinem... I have heard of her.
327
00:17:21,441 --> 00:17:24,110
- Yeah.
- What's she like in real life?
328
00:17:27,092 --> 00:17:30,325
Why is everyone
so infatuated with her?
329
00:17:30,350 --> 00:17:33,966
I think it is because she's very pretty.
330
00:17:40,229 --> 00:17:42,005
So have you ever been to Bloomington?
331
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It's a shithole.
332
00:17:43,202 --> 00:17:45,458
I can say that because I'm from Peoria.
333
00:17:45,483 --> 00:17:49,419
Peoria. Peoria is very goyish.
334
00:17:49,444 --> 00:17:51,434
I bet you grew up drinking lime soda.
335
00:17:51,459 --> 00:17:52,966
Yeah, yeah.
336
00:17:53,522 --> 00:17:57,388
All... All my friends got into
the sorority in high school,
337
00:17:57,413 --> 00:18:00,692
and I didn't, of course, being Jewish.
338
00:18:01,563 --> 00:18:03,198
So they dropped me.
339
00:18:21,060 --> 00:18:23,707
You might wanna
look at it in your office.
340
00:18:28,821 --> 00:18:30,496
It's okay.
341
00:18:37,110 --> 00:18:40,879
_
342
00:19:28,717 --> 00:19:29,949
Thanks, Dad.
343
00:19:29,974 --> 00:19:31,340
I won't be home for dinner.
344
00:19:31,365 --> 00:19:33,700
You've been out
every night this week.
345
00:19:33,725 --> 00:19:35,199
Where are you going?
346
00:19:35,224 --> 00:19:37,496
Sweetheart, the man has got plans.
347
00:19:37,521 --> 00:19:39,152
- Thanks.
- Have fun.
348
00:19:39,652 --> 00:19:43,090
If you are seeing someone that
you have to sneak around with,
349
00:19:43,115 --> 00:19:45,005
the chances are you shouldn't be
seeing her in the first place.
350
00:19:45,029 --> 00:19:46,630
I'm not.
351
00:19:46,655 --> 00:19:48,285
Well, then where are you going?
352
00:19:48,310 --> 00:19:49,863
Church, okay?
353
00:19:49,888 --> 00:19:51,949
Tommy asked me to play at his wedding.
354
00:19:51,974 --> 00:19:54,076
I've been practicing on
the church's organ at night
355
00:19:54,101 --> 00:19:55,840
when no one's there.
356
00:19:57,759 --> 00:19:59,285
Ready?
357
00:20:02,584 --> 00:20:05,818
You think they'll
have us facing each other.
358
00:20:05,843 --> 00:20:07,904
Well, that's how we did it at Harvard.
359
00:20:09,217 --> 00:20:12,498
All right, what... what do I do if,
360
00:20:12,523 --> 00:20:15,600
Ms. Friedan brings up
the John Birch Society?
361
00:20:15,625 --> 00:20:18,857
Deny and deflect,
just like you did in '67.
362
00:20:19,007 --> 00:20:21,037
Even better,
go on the attack and accuse her
363
00:20:21,062 --> 00:20:23,842
of being a... a member
of the, Radicalesbians...
364
00:20:23,867 --> 00:20:25,163
Or whatever they're calling themselves
365
00:20:25,187 --> 00:20:27,748
these days, and using the ERA
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00:20:27,773 --> 00:20:29,732
to make it legal for
homosexuals to marry.
367
00:20:29,757 --> 00:20:31,193
Well, that's good,
368
00:20:31,452 --> 00:20:33,647
but she's actually the only one of them
369
00:20:33,672 --> 00:20:36,256
who has disavowed the homosexuals.
370
00:20:36,281 --> 00:20:38,084
And she called them the,
371
00:20:38,109 --> 00:20:39,295
"Lavender Menace."
372
00:20:39,734 --> 00:20:40,873
That's clever.
373
00:20:40,898 --> 00:20:43,732
But I could accuse
her of pushing the ERA
374
00:20:43,757 --> 00:20:47,068
to enshrine abortion on
demand in the Constitution.
375
00:20:47,093 --> 00:20:48,912
Not the right crowd.
376
00:20:48,937 --> 00:20:51,514
- It's important.
- Not the right crowd.
377
00:20:52,043 --> 00:20:54,662
So I'll be Betty.
378
00:20:54,955 --> 00:20:58,436
Betty, you're...
You're quite handsome.
379
00:21:01,414 --> 00:21:03,863
First, you'll each get
an opening statement.
380
00:21:03,888 --> 00:21:08,332
Well, I have a-a good,
joke, to start.
381
00:21:08,357 --> 00:21:10,387
It's, comparing the ERA
382
00:21:10,412 --> 00:21:12,855
to trying to kill a fly
with a sledgehammer.
383
00:21:13,395 --> 00:21:14,934
So you're probably not
384
00:21:14,959 --> 00:21:17,762
going to kill a fly,
but you almost surely will
385
00:21:17,787 --> 00:21:19,988
break up some of the furniture.
386
00:21:22,354 --> 00:21:24,371
- You don't think that's funny?
- I do,
387
00:21:24,396 --> 00:21:25,691
but Betty doesn't.
388
00:21:27,052 --> 00:21:28,654
So let's start with the draft.
389
00:21:29,117 --> 00:21:33,144
Right, well, Congress,
currently has the power
390
00:21:33,169 --> 00:21:37,527
to exempt women from the draft,
but the ERA would unfairly
391
00:21:37,552 --> 00:21:40,168
take away that power, and,
send our daughters
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00:21:40,193 --> 00:21:42,793
into the front lines,
into combat duty...
393
00:21:42,818 --> 00:21:45,684
But, earlier this year,
the Secretary of Defense
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00:21:45,709 --> 00:21:47,207
announced the end of the draft.
395
00:21:47,232 --> 00:21:49,676
Yes, but there are
already bills in Congress
396
00:21:49,701 --> 00:21:51,480
to reinstate the draft.
397
00:21:51,505 --> 00:21:55,113
Now, I don't know
anybody who has the solution
398
00:21:55,138 --> 00:21:57,121
to any wars for all time.
399
00:21:57,146 --> 00:21:59,301
So the question is,
400
00:21:59,326 --> 00:22:02,621
do we want women to be
treated just like men?
401
00:22:02,646 --> 00:22:04,415
Vietnam,
402
00:22:04,440 --> 00:22:07,527
did you see any women running
to the draft board, saying,
403
00:22:07,552 --> 00:22:10,082
"I want my equal rights to be
drafted just like the men"?
404
00:22:10,107 --> 00:22:11,349
Well, that's a distracting argument.
405
00:22:11,373 --> 00:22:12,951
No, I think it's a crucial
argument, because...
406
00:22:12,975 --> 00:22:16,035
If the ERA passes,
and they do reinstate the draft...
407
00:22:16,060 --> 00:22:17,801
Women would not be forced
408
00:22:17,826 --> 00:22:19,652
to go to war because the military
409
00:22:19,677 --> 00:22:22,160
has the right to determine
who goes into combat.
410
00:22:22,185 --> 00:22:24,036
Yes, but they wouldn't be able
to make those determinations
411
00:22:24,060 --> 00:22:26,644
on the basis of sex.
It would be unconstitutional.
412
00:22:26,669 --> 00:22:28,184
Fine.
413
00:22:28,937 --> 00:22:30,426
Let's...
414
00:22:30,707 --> 00:22:33,457
you say that the ERA will take away
415
00:22:33,482 --> 00:22:35,871
the rights of, full-time homemakers.
416
00:22:35,896 --> 00:22:36,896
- That's right.
- But...
417
00:22:36,921 --> 00:22:38,824
Since it is the woman who has the baby.
418
00:22:38,849 --> 00:22:40,793
So our current law recognizes this fact,
419
00:22:40,818 --> 00:22:43,667
and it allows the woman her
right to stay in her home
420
00:22:43,692 --> 00:22:45,824
with her baby and be
supported by the husband.
421
00:22:45,849 --> 00:22:47,699
That is not the law. That is the norm.
422
00:22:47,724 --> 00:22:51,441
Yes, but the law clearly
places the financial burden
423
00:22:51,466 --> 00:22:53,154
- on the husband.
- When your father lost his job,
424
00:22:53,178 --> 00:22:55,278
did the law protect your mother?
425
00:22:56,509 --> 00:22:58,302
Fred...
426
00:22:59,361 --> 00:23:01,403
Betty Friedan doesn't know about that...
427
00:23:01,428 --> 00:23:02,857
Didn't she have to go
out and get two jobs
428
00:23:02,881 --> 00:23:04,630
just to keep food on the table?
429
00:23:04,802 --> 00:23:05,802
You're not being fair.
430
00:23:05,827 --> 00:23:08,442
It's... I'm making a point.
It's a debate. Fight back.
431
00:23:08,467 --> 00:23:10,239
- Stop...
- Did the law protect your mother?
432
00:23:10,264 --> 00:23:11,857
- Stop it.
- Who took her privileges away?
433
00:23:11,881 --> 00:23:14,294
I said stop it. You're just trying
to make me emotional.
434
00:23:15,060 --> 00:23:17,052
See, that's how you win a debate.
435
00:23:37,316 --> 00:23:38,970
Why aren't you at your lesson?
436
00:23:39,695 --> 00:23:42,360
Aunt Eleanor said I
didn't have to go in.
437
00:23:42,385 --> 00:23:44,720
Well, it's not up to Aunt Eleanor.
438
00:23:44,745 --> 00:23:46,033
Come on. Your swim teacher's waiting.
439
00:23:46,057 --> 00:23:48,103
Well, Anne wasn't up for it today.
440
00:23:48,191 --> 00:23:52,142
When you were in Philadelphia,
she had a scare in the pool.
441
00:23:52,167 --> 00:23:55,345
Well, the longer she waits,
the harder it will be.
442
00:24:00,890 --> 00:24:04,743
- I don't want to.
- Let her take her time.
443
00:24:04,768 --> 00:24:07,738
Fear will not be something
that stops my child.
444
00:24:07,968 --> 00:24:10,485
Now fear is not gonna stop you.
445
00:24:16,128 --> 00:24:17,860
All right.
446
00:24:18,414 --> 00:24:19,982
Aah!
447
00:24:38,703 --> 00:24:41,733
See? Now it's done.
448
00:24:42,888 --> 00:24:45,327
You did great, sweetheart.
449
00:24:47,125 --> 00:24:50,350
Yeah. You really did.
450
00:24:58,344 --> 00:24:59,944
It's not even you.
451
00:24:59,969 --> 00:25:03,952
That is me. She has my hair.
She has my face, my aviators.
452
00:25:03,977 --> 00:25:05,569
And my labia.
453
00:25:08,633 --> 00:25:10,444
Well, I had a few blissful months
454
00:25:10,469 --> 00:25:12,655
of feeling I had control over my body.
455
00:25:12,680 --> 00:25:15,069
Hi. It's the copy of the
cease and desist letter
456
00:25:15,094 --> 00:25:17,069
I sent to Al Goldstein's office.
457
00:25:17,094 --> 00:25:18,366
That should shut him up.
458
00:25:18,391 --> 00:25:20,959
The damage is done.
He can't take back that I saw it.
459
00:25:20,984 --> 00:25:22,944
Could you also send a
cease and desist letter
460
00:25:22,969 --> 00:25:24,170
to Betty's apartment?
461
00:25:24,195 --> 00:25:26,639
I don't understand how
a respected university
462
00:25:26,664 --> 00:25:29,498
invites Betty Friedan to
share the stage with a woman
463
00:25:29,523 --> 00:25:31,382
who gets her funding from
the Birchers and the Klan.
464
00:25:31,406 --> 00:25:33,441
She couldn't prove it, and no one cares.
465
00:25:33,509 --> 00:25:36,679
It could go well.
Betty's a force of nature.
466
00:25:36,704 --> 00:25:38,819
She will terrorize her.
467
00:25:38,844 --> 00:25:41,436
The problem is the press
follows Betty wherever she is.
468
00:25:41,461 --> 00:25:43,296
Phyllis will get media attention,
469
00:25:43,321 --> 00:25:45,506
which is what she's after.
It's a mistake.
470
00:25:45,531 --> 00:25:48,592
- So stop her.
- Me? You stop her.
471
00:25:48,617 --> 00:25:50,358
It's not my attention she's after.
472
00:25:50,383 --> 00:25:53,506
We're a political movement,
not a sorority.
473
00:25:55,408 --> 00:25:57,405
Every time I reach a hand out to her,
474
00:25:57,430 --> 00:25:58,655
I pull back a bloody stump.
475
00:25:58,680 --> 00:26:00,737
Well, get used to it.
Men are gonna try and tear you down,
476
00:26:00,761 --> 00:26:02,218
and women are gonna compete with you,
477
00:26:02,242 --> 00:26:04,866
and you have to deal with both.
478
00:26:04,891 --> 00:26:07,303
What I would give to
write a book that women
479
00:26:07,328 --> 00:26:10,303
talk about like they talk about
"The Feminine Mystique."
480
00:26:10,703 --> 00:26:13,061
I would retire to the Hamptons
481
00:26:13,086 --> 00:26:14,647
and listen to the waves crashing.
482
00:26:15,156 --> 00:26:17,147
You're gonna be late for your lunch.
483
00:26:17,282 --> 00:26:19,662
Can you try and get
Betty Friedan on the phone
484
00:26:19,687 --> 00:26:21,741
- when I get back?
- Sure.
485
00:26:22,464 --> 00:26:24,436
Don't try too hard.
486
00:26:37,769 --> 00:26:38,971
Mom?
487
00:26:38,996 --> 00:26:40,748
Please don't make a scene.
488
00:26:40,773 --> 00:26:42,178
If she didn't want a scene,
489
00:26:42,203 --> 00:26:43,671
then she shouldn't
have given you a blouse
490
00:26:43,695 --> 00:26:44,889
that's only appropriate
491
00:26:44,914 --> 00:26:47,483
for a certain type of grown-up woman.
492
00:26:57,001 --> 00:26:59,920
Betty, it's so nice to see you.
493
00:26:59,945 --> 00:27:02,155
Loved your last column.
494
00:27:02,247 --> 00:27:05,498
Who is this mystery man you
went on a blind date with?
495
00:27:06,065 --> 00:27:07,811
It was just a one-time thing.
496
00:27:07,836 --> 00:27:09,461
You know, he hasn't called.
497
00:27:09,680 --> 00:27:11,081
Anyway, he wasn't my type.
498
00:27:11,106 --> 00:27:14,952
Men. I'm so happy you came
to the door this time.
499
00:27:14,977 --> 00:27:18,413
I've been meaning to tell you,
you hear these horror stories.
500
00:27:18,438 --> 00:27:20,061
The kids always hate the new wife,
501
00:27:20,086 --> 00:27:25,100
but Emily has been wonderful,
and I know that comes from you.
502
00:27:25,660 --> 00:27:28,092
I hope it's okay I said that.
503
00:27:39,136 --> 00:27:40,671
Mom?
504
00:27:43,926 --> 00:27:45,394
I love you.
505
00:27:46,631 --> 00:27:48,811
I love you more.
506
00:28:20,585 --> 00:28:21,968
Natalie.
507
00:28:21,993 --> 00:28:23,961
Hi.
508
00:28:24,204 --> 00:28:27,882
I sneak up here
sometimes to water the plants.
509
00:28:27,907 --> 00:28:30,328
Betty has a black thumb.
510
00:28:30,942 --> 00:28:34,054
I live in the apartment below.
We're... We're good friends.
511
00:28:34,079 --> 00:28:35,461
Are you still at "Harper's"?
512
00:28:35,486 --> 00:28:38,223
Yes, but if you ever
start a style section,
513
00:28:38,248 --> 00:28:40,121
I would be happy to consult.
514
00:28:40,146 --> 00:28:42,606
Just know that I am
a very expensive hire.
515
00:28:43,426 --> 00:28:46,074
I... I really need to speak to Betty.
516
00:28:46,107 --> 00:28:47,816
I've been calling and calling.
517
00:28:47,841 --> 00:28:50,926
She's traveling to the debate.
518
00:28:50,951 --> 00:28:53,981
- Do you know which hotel she...
- Well, she didn't mention.
519
00:28:54,460 --> 00:28:58,106
Okay, well... thanks.
520
00:28:58,696 --> 00:29:01,498
Betty knows what she's doing.
521
00:29:07,033 --> 00:29:09,254
It's just we all agreed on a...
522
00:29:09,279 --> 00:29:12,973
Who agreed? You and... and Bella?
523
00:29:14,296 --> 00:29:17,309
We try and work with her,
but she can be...
524
00:29:17,798 --> 00:29:19,504
She has a difficult personality.
525
00:29:19,529 --> 00:29:21,739
Maybe you don't see that side
of her because you're friends.
526
00:29:21,763 --> 00:29:23,934
No. No, Betty is impossible.
527
00:29:24,328 --> 00:29:27,137
But without her, there's no NOW,
528
00:29:27,162 --> 00:29:29,770
no Women's Political Caucus, no NARAL.
529
00:29:30,329 --> 00:29:35,113
We get to do what we do
because she risked everything.
530
00:29:35,853 --> 00:29:40,027
So before you tell her
what she can and cannot do,
531
00:29:40,052 --> 00:29:44,090
consider just saying... thank you.
532
00:29:47,180 --> 00:29:49,801
I'd better get back to the office.
533
00:29:51,522 --> 00:29:53,613
It was good to run into you.
534
00:29:53,638 --> 00:29:55,270
Yeah.
535
00:30:13,704 --> 00:30:15,629
It's 15 of y'all. Tell me I'm wrong.
536
00:30:15,654 --> 00:30:17,755
I don't want nobody crying
that they didn't get a slice.
537
00:30:17,779 --> 00:30:20,715
Can I have mine with vanilla frosting?
538
00:30:21,731 --> 00:30:23,957
What are you teaching this little girl?
539
00:30:23,982 --> 00:30:25,691
You know what, honey?
540
00:30:25,716 --> 00:30:28,223
You go with your mom
to "Ms." and have all
541
00:30:28,248 --> 00:30:29,856
the vanilla frosting you want, okay?
542
00:30:29,881 --> 00:30:31,777
Then we'll listen to a
record by The Beatles.
543
00:30:31,802 --> 00:30:34,426
- Why?
- Well, hey there, Carol Brady.
544
00:30:36,287 --> 00:30:38,082
So how are things at the magazine?
545
00:30:38,107 --> 00:30:41,294
Gloria says they're struggling.
546
00:30:41,319 --> 00:30:44,262
They have an East Side
office with outdoor carpeting
547
00:30:44,287 --> 00:30:46,574
so your feet can feel
good before going inside.
548
00:30:46,599 --> 00:30:49,268
I wanna struggle like that.
549
00:30:49,854 --> 00:30:51,559
You want some milk, honey?
550
00:30:51,584 --> 00:30:52,852
Yes, ma'am.
551
00:30:53,752 --> 00:30:55,285
Now look, she's so precious.
552
00:30:55,310 --> 00:30:57,191
- She is.
- Isn't she good?
553
00:30:57,216 --> 00:30:59,043
Thanks, girl.
554
00:30:59,068 --> 00:31:02,104
Hey, girl. We got cake out there.
555
00:31:02,783 --> 00:31:04,113
- Hey, y'all.
- Hi.
556
00:31:04,138 --> 00:31:06,504
- I just cut the cake.
- All right.
557
00:31:06,529 --> 00:31:08,918
'Cause we don't want white
women to align with us.
558
00:31:08,943 --> 00:31:10,918
- Here she goes again.
- Don't start.
559
00:31:10,943 --> 00:31:12,348
Would you like a slice?
560
00:31:12,373 --> 00:31:14,926
- Thanks, girl.
- No, thank you.
561
00:31:16,091 --> 00:31:19,856
Don't get duped into working
with an alien political project.
562
00:31:20,881 --> 00:31:25,379
You know, I never confuse
a lawn mower with a shoe.
563
00:31:25,545 --> 00:31:28,426
Both are useful
564
00:31:28,451 --> 00:31:32,074
as long as you don't
mistake one for the other.
565
00:31:33,124 --> 00:31:36,113
We can get along with white feminists.
566
00:31:38,794 --> 00:31:40,356
You know, I don't have
a problem with Margaret
567
00:31:40,380 --> 00:31:42,277
and her kind, but their kind of talk
568
00:31:42,302 --> 00:31:43,535
puts gender before race.
569
00:31:43,560 --> 00:31:46,121
Wait a minute. Margaret's kind?
570
00:31:46,146 --> 00:31:48,226
If we include lesbians,
we're not gonna get support
571
00:31:48,251 --> 00:31:49,973
from the Black Power movement.
572
00:31:50,485 --> 00:31:52,582
You've got to be kidding me.
573
00:32:00,611 --> 00:32:03,248
You wanna talk about it?
Let's talk about it.
574
00:32:03,356 --> 00:32:07,360
There will be no
"Lavender Menace" bullshit here.
575
00:32:07,385 --> 00:32:09,220
Lesbians are welcome.
576
00:32:09,383 --> 00:32:12,856
Horizontal hostility is not.
577
00:32:18,936 --> 00:32:21,402
Where's my milk?
578
00:32:21,427 --> 00:32:23,840
Shit, I'm sorry, baby.
579
00:32:23,865 --> 00:32:25,661
Tell everybody what you say
whenever the kids at school
580
00:32:25,685 --> 00:32:27,309
ask you why your mama is gay.
581
00:32:27,334 --> 00:32:29,971
I say, "Why is your mom straight?"
582
00:32:32,270 --> 00:32:33,604
Gimme five.
583
00:32:33,629 --> 00:32:36,082
Doris can start her
own damn organization
584
00:32:36,107 --> 00:32:38,856
because we embrace everyone in this one.
585
00:32:38,881 --> 00:32:41,449
- That's right.
- You call this an organization?
586
00:32:41,474 --> 00:32:43,699
It's just this... Sundays at Flo's.
587
00:32:43,724 --> 00:32:45,848
Well, you think you can do better?
588
00:32:45,873 --> 00:32:48,348
I am sick and tired of y'all bitches
589
00:32:48,373 --> 00:32:50,775
always talking
'bout y'all need to form somethin'.
590
00:32:51,094 --> 00:32:55,531
You wanna form somethin'?
Go on then. Form it.
591
00:33:10,985 --> 00:33:13,106
You must be Betty Friedan.
592
00:33:13,629 --> 00:33:15,457
Phyllis Schlafly.
593
00:33:17,536 --> 00:33:20,139
How do the Birches feel
about you powdering your nose
594
00:33:20,164 --> 00:33:22,324
in an integrated bathroom?
595
00:33:22,668 --> 00:33:25,848
Well, I imagine the same way
that the militant lesbians
596
00:33:25,873 --> 00:33:29,035
feel about you even powdering yours.
597
00:33:29,701 --> 00:33:31,661
Just think if we had the ERA.
598
00:33:31,686 --> 00:33:35,254
All the pedophiles and perverts
lurking in those stalls
599
00:33:35,279 --> 00:33:38,457
would get to witness
this special moment.
600
00:33:48,450 --> 00:33:50,996
Are you here to
escort me to the stage?
601
00:33:51,021 --> 00:33:54,629
- I'm here with my wife.
- My good luck charm.
602
00:33:58,812 --> 00:34:00,480
You'll need it.
603
00:34:04,729 --> 00:34:06,770
Ms. Friedan is, as you know,
604
00:34:06,795 --> 00:34:08,449
the author of "The Feminine Mystique"
605
00:34:08,474 --> 00:34:11,145
and the mother of the women's movement.
606
00:34:12,685 --> 00:34:14,824
Thank you. Thank you very much.
607
00:34:14,849 --> 00:34:17,746
And is, as I recently
found out, a Peorian.
608
00:34:17,771 --> 00:34:19,738
- Yes.
- Welcome back to Illinois.
609
00:34:19,763 --> 00:34:21,137
Thank you.
610
00:34:22,287 --> 00:34:24,340
Mrs. Schlafly, who is going to speak
611
00:34:24,365 --> 00:34:27,449
from the STOP ERA position,
is a Republican,
612
00:34:27,474 --> 00:34:30,988
active in politics,
and lives here in Illinois.
613
00:34:31,864 --> 00:34:34,059
She is going to speak first.
614
00:34:37,155 --> 00:34:39,934
Well, before I start, girls,
615
00:34:39,959 --> 00:34:43,395
I'd like to thank my husband Fred
616
00:34:43,420 --> 00:34:46,215
for letting me come here today.
617
00:34:46,240 --> 00:34:49,176
He never interferes with
my, civil liberties.
618
00:34:49,201 --> 00:34:52,262
Whenever we have an argument,
he always reminds me
619
00:34:52,287 --> 00:34:55,104
of my constitutional
right to remain silent.
620
00:34:59,183 --> 00:35:03,395
Now let me see a show of hands
of how many girls here...
621
00:35:03,420 --> 00:35:04,848
- Women!
- ... want to be drafted.
622
00:35:04,873 --> 00:35:06,918
- We're women!
- Into combat duty. How many?
623
00:35:06,943 --> 00:35:08,285
- We're women!
- I want to say
624
00:35:08,310 --> 00:35:09,872
- to the women...
- And I think that to speak
625
00:35:09,896 --> 00:35:11,755
- to a certain degree...
- they are too old to be called girls.
626
00:35:11,779 --> 00:35:13,449
- Of hypocrisy...
- Men are called men.
627
00:35:13,474 --> 00:35:16,379
Then in a few months,
we will have an all-volunteer army,
628
00:35:16,404 --> 00:35:19,176
and I do believe that if we
want the same rights as men,
629
00:35:19,201 --> 00:35:22,905
we have to be able to accept
the same responsibilities.
630
00:35:25,857 --> 00:35:29,731
Well, you see,
this is a fundamental difference
631
00:35:29,756 --> 00:35:32,191
between the proponents
and the opponents,
632
00:35:32,216 --> 00:35:34,965
is I don't want
my daughters killed in combat.
633
00:35:34,990 --> 00:35:36,946
- But your sons you're okay with?
- And the ERA...
634
00:35:36,970 --> 00:35:38,388
- will positively...
- Because I have two sons,
635
00:35:38,412 --> 00:35:39,785
and I don't want them killed in war
636
00:35:39,809 --> 00:35:41,536
- any more than my daughters.
- Ms. Friedan,
637
00:35:41,561 --> 00:35:42,973
it is still Mrs. Schlafly's time.
638
00:35:42,998 --> 00:35:44,505
- Thank you.
- How about we don't send
639
00:35:44,530 --> 00:35:46,552
any of our children into combat?
640
00:35:48,913 --> 00:35:51,270
No, no, no, no, no.
641
00:35:51,295 --> 00:35:53,388
No, you see...
642
00:35:53,413 --> 00:35:57,185
a lot of, naive people
said that after Korea.
643
00:35:57,210 --> 00:35:58,554
You know, we'll never get involved
644
00:35:58,578 --> 00:36:00,414
in another war in, Asia.
645
00:36:00,439 --> 00:36:03,309
But, unfortunately,
I don't know anybody
646
00:36:03,334 --> 00:36:06,403
who has a solution for
ending wars for all time.
647
00:36:06,428 --> 00:36:08,864
You know, I don't have a crystal ball.
Do you?
648
00:36:10,491 --> 00:36:14,255
You keep insisting that a
woman's place is in the home,
649
00:36:14,280 --> 00:36:17,106
but you waltz around
the country decrying us
650
00:36:17,131 --> 00:36:20,528
for trying to open career
opportunities to women,
651
00:36:20,553 --> 00:36:23,911
and this is what I can't stand...
The hypocrisy.
652
00:36:29,428 --> 00:36:32,653
I have always maintained
that women today
653
00:36:32,678 --> 00:36:35,147
have true freedom of choice.
654
00:36:35,172 --> 00:36:38,622
Now we can choose to be a
full-time wife and a mother,
655
00:36:38,647 --> 00:36:40,489
or you can choose to
go into the workforce
656
00:36:40,514 --> 00:36:43,013
on the basis of equal
pay for equal work,
657
00:36:43,038 --> 00:36:45,240
or you can do both at the same time,
658
00:36:45,265 --> 00:36:48,145
because your life is what you make it.
659
00:36:48,170 --> 00:36:50,773
- Is that what you say...
- Now on the American women...
660
00:36:50,798 --> 00:36:53,388
... to the woman who chooses
to be a full-time wife and mother?
661
00:36:53,413 --> 00:36:54,889
The housewife that you claim
662
00:36:54,913 --> 00:36:55,989
to care so much about?
663
00:36:56,014 --> 00:36:58,692
Because they are the ones that
are really discriminated against.
664
00:36:58,717 --> 00:37:02,778
American women today are
the luckiest class of people
665
00:37:02,803 --> 00:37:04,232
on the face of the Earth.
666
00:37:04,257 --> 00:37:05,960
- The law does not enforce
- We can do anything
667
00:37:05,984 --> 00:37:08,185
- we want to do.
- a woman's right to be provided
668
00:37:08,210 --> 00:37:09,521
for so long as she's married.
669
00:37:09,546 --> 00:37:11,998
- That is a fairy tale.
- I'm sorry, Chairman,
670
00:37:12,023 --> 00:37:14,077
I thought we were having a debate,
not a free-for-all.
671
00:37:14,101 --> 00:37:17,076
A woman cannot be
insured in her own right
672
00:37:17,101 --> 00:37:20,053
for Social Security,
and if her marriage ends in divorce,
673
00:37:20,078 --> 00:37:22,480
all the work she did in the
home for all those years
674
00:37:22,505 --> 00:37:24,967
is not taken into
account in the settlement.
675
00:37:24,992 --> 00:37:27,829
There is no provision in existing law
676
00:37:27,854 --> 00:37:30,974
to enforce alimony and child support.
677
00:37:30,999 --> 00:37:34,734
But, hey, your life is
what you make of it, right?
678
00:37:41,438 --> 00:37:46,273
Now we have heard a lot of,
emotional oratory
679
00:37:46,298 --> 00:37:50,187
from my, opponent,
but not one single fact
680
00:37:50,212 --> 00:37:52,280
about what the Equal Rights Amendment
681
00:37:52,305 --> 00:37:54,656
- will do to benefit women.
- My opponent
682
00:37:54,681 --> 00:37:55,782
- accuses me of...
- You see, it won't give them
683
00:37:55,806 --> 00:37:57,446
- emotional oratory when she...
- any rights or privileges
684
00:37:57,470 --> 00:37:58,883
- that they don't already have.
- scares women that they should
685
00:37:58,907 --> 00:38:00,195
stop the likes of us
686
00:38:00,220 --> 00:38:03,124
as if we're a communist for
asking that the government
687
00:38:03,149 --> 00:38:04,695
fund childcare centers.
688
00:38:05,290 --> 00:38:06,484
I don't believe
689
00:38:06,509 --> 00:38:08,187
that we should look to the government
690
00:38:08,212 --> 00:38:12,383
and our... our Constitution to
solve our personal problems.
691
00:38:15,626 --> 00:38:18,913
You see, this is the false lure
692
00:38:18,938 --> 00:38:21,398
of the women's liberation movement...
693
00:38:21,555 --> 00:38:23,007
happiness.
694
00:38:23,032 --> 00:38:25,117
Because the fact is, girls,
695
00:38:25,142 --> 00:38:29,749
the ERA will not solve
your personal problems.
696
00:38:29,774 --> 00:38:32,742
It will not hand you a happy home life.
697
00:38:32,767 --> 00:38:36,093
It won't give you a Sunday kind of love,
698
00:38:36,118 --> 00:38:40,570
as the, popular song goes,
and it certainly will not,
699
00:38:40,603 --> 00:38:43,882
keep your husband from
being jealous or petty
700
00:38:43,907 --> 00:38:45,601
or dumping you in your middle age
701
00:38:45,626 --> 00:38:48,320
for a new, younger model
after you have,
702
00:38:48,345 --> 00:38:52,726
devoted yourself to keeping
his home for 20 or 30 years,
703
00:38:52,751 --> 00:38:55,960
because you simply cannot legislate
704
00:38:55,985 --> 00:38:59,570
universal sympathy for
the middle-aged woman.
705
00:38:59,595 --> 00:39:03,632
Now remember this,
before you throw away your youth
706
00:39:03,657 --> 00:39:07,023
and your beauty and your virtue
707
00:39:07,048 --> 00:39:09,906
to join in this new
sisterhood of misery...
708
00:39:09,931 --> 00:39:13,046
You are a traitor to your sex.
You're an Aunt Tom.
709
00:39:13,071 --> 00:39:15,585
Now, you are correct on one count.
710
00:39:15,610 --> 00:39:17,242
I do leave my home on occasion,
711
00:39:17,267 --> 00:39:18,851
and I travel all over the country,
712
00:39:18,876 --> 00:39:20,648
and I meet women from all walks of life,
713
00:39:20,673 --> 00:39:22,041
and you, Ms. Friedan,
714
00:39:22,066 --> 00:39:24,445
are the unhappiest
woman I have ever met.
715
00:39:24,469 --> 00:39:25,953
And you are a witch!
716
00:39:25,978 --> 00:39:28,351
God, I'd like to burn you at the stake!
717
00:39:40,012 --> 00:39:41,570
No. Well, on the contrary,
718
00:39:41,595 --> 00:39:44,296
I'm pleased that,
Ms. Friedan made that comment
719
00:39:44,321 --> 00:39:46,335
because maybe now people will realize
720
00:39:46,360 --> 00:39:48,828
just how intolerant and intemperate
721
00:39:48,853 --> 00:39:51,484
the proponents of the ERA really are.
722
00:39:51,509 --> 00:39:52,851
Thanks so much for your time.
723
00:39:52,876 --> 00:39:54,124
Really appreciate it.
724
00:39:54,149 --> 00:39:56,992
- Betty.
- Yes.
725
00:39:57,595 --> 00:40:00,181
- Ms. Friedan...
- I... I... I can't.
726
00:40:50,913 --> 00:40:53,093
There she is.
727
00:40:57,366 --> 00:40:59,035
You're in it?
728
00:41:01,142 --> 00:41:03,344
But you and Conrad are good.
729
00:41:03,527 --> 00:41:06,531
The investigation's
taking a toll on us both.
730
00:41:07,593 --> 00:41:10,663
If you wanna be happy,
if you wanna be sad,
731
00:41:10,688 --> 00:41:12,234
I'm right here...
732
00:41:13,394 --> 00:41:15,117
and I got cake.
733
00:41:20,508 --> 00:41:22,210
We missed you.
734
00:41:26,532 --> 00:41:28,500
We're doing it.
735
00:41:28,851 --> 00:41:33,546
We're calling it the National
Black Feminist Organization.
736
00:41:33,571 --> 00:41:35,554
And we put "National"
737
00:41:35,579 --> 00:41:37,908
in the title just to get folks hooked,
738
00:41:37,933 --> 00:41:40,843
and then they'll break off
and do their own thing.
739
00:41:41,145 --> 00:41:43,812
Two years,
they'll be done with all of it.
740
00:41:43,837 --> 00:41:46,524
- Two years?
- That's all the time folks got
741
00:41:46,549 --> 00:41:48,156
to be into this shit.
742
00:41:48,446 --> 00:41:51,449
Not me, though. I'm a lifer.
743
00:41:53,360 --> 00:41:56,685
The one thing that
everybody could agree on
744
00:41:56,710 --> 00:42:01,182
is that you should be our
first keynote speaker.
745
00:42:04,826 --> 00:42:06,394
Maybe.
746
00:42:06,796 --> 00:42:08,179
Yeah.
747
00:42:13,047 --> 00:42:16,163
I can't accept you boys
are old enough to drive,
748
00:42:16,188 --> 00:42:17,710
much less get married.
749
00:42:17,735 --> 00:42:20,960
Don't worry.
I'm perfectly happy living at home,
750
00:42:20,985 --> 00:42:22,828
running around with
commies and floozies.
751
00:42:24,978 --> 00:42:26,612
Phyllis!
752
00:42:29,038 --> 00:42:31,343
I just wanna say thank you
for the work you're doing.
753
00:42:31,368 --> 00:42:34,071
You put Betty Friedan in her place.
754
00:42:34,096 --> 00:42:35,727
Finally, we have our own champion.
755
00:42:35,752 --> 00:42:37,539
Well, thank you so much.
756
00:42:42,150 --> 00:42:45,047
I know. I should shut
my mouth and wear beige,
757
00:42:45,072 --> 00:42:47,128
but my personal color analysis says
758
00:42:47,153 --> 00:42:48,878
I'm a winter person.
759
00:42:48,903 --> 00:42:50,519
Go. Come on.
760
00:42:55,745 --> 00:42:58,730
- You look absolutely stunning.
- Thank you.
761
00:42:58,755 --> 00:43:01,290
- I'd marry her again right now.
- Aw.
762
00:43:01,595 --> 00:43:04,347
- What a special day.
- My son may be getting married,
763
00:43:04,372 --> 00:43:05,473
but all anyone wants to know
764
00:43:05,497 --> 00:43:07,386
is when the Phyllis Schlafly
is arriving.
765
00:43:07,411 --> 00:43:09,909
You must be on top of the world.
766
00:43:09,934 --> 00:43:12,128
- Congratulations.
- Thank you.
767
00:44:13,235 --> 00:44:17,180
_
768
00:44:26,237 --> 00:44:29,813
_
769
00:45:02,397 --> 00:45:06,274
_
770
00:45:13,475 --> 00:45:16,282
_
771
00:45:22,705 --> 00:45:24,711
I didn't mean to scare you.
772
00:45:27,912 --> 00:45:30,048
We got to talking at Flo's.
773
00:45:33,921 --> 00:45:37,079
If you ever need a place
for meetings or anything,
774
00:45:37,104 --> 00:45:40,368
you're welcome to use our offices here.
775
00:45:41,747 --> 00:45:43,610
Thanks.
776
00:45:44,908 --> 00:45:46,844
We'll find something.
777
00:46:14,618 --> 00:46:16,679
Natalie, I'll come down
to watch "Maude,"
778
00:46:16,704 --> 00:46:19,257
but I'm not hungry,
and I don't wanna talk about the...
779
00:46:19,282 --> 00:46:20,851
It's Gloria.
780
00:46:24,650 --> 00:46:27,007
Hello, Gloria.
781
00:46:28,955 --> 00:46:31,695
If I had to be on the same
stage as that woman...
782
00:46:33,411 --> 00:46:36,593
I would've called her
something worse than "witch."
783
00:46:37,796 --> 00:46:40,617
Yeah, that was restrained for me.
784
00:46:43,540 --> 00:46:45,109
You were right.
785
00:46:46,847 --> 00:46:51,113
We don't get to decide how
the battle lines are drawn
786
00:46:51,138 --> 00:46:54,015
or how the male press portrays us.
787
00:46:54,776 --> 00:46:56,336
I've been thinking about the first time
788
00:46:56,360 --> 00:46:58,562
I read "The Feminine Mystique."
789
00:46:58,953 --> 00:47:02,765
"Why should women accept
this picture of a half-life,
790
00:47:02,790 --> 00:47:06,703
instead of a share in the
whole of human destiny?"
791
00:47:09,039 --> 00:47:11,211
I don't know if I ever told you.
792
00:47:12,539 --> 00:47:15,142
Your book changed my life.
793
00:47:18,166 --> 00:47:19,668
Thank you.
794
00:48:22,743 --> 00:48:29,633
_
795
00:48:32,742 --> 00:48:35,785
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