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Hello there. I'm Dr.

Raymond Donald Reynolds.

As a practicing psychiatrist in the city of Los Angeles and formerly a consultant

to the Department of Mental Health, I've seen too many marriages destroyed by

sexual ignorance and Victorian inhibitions.

The film you are about to see, as described by Dr. Ann Forster,

is, in my opinion, the most graphically illustrated documentation of what is

known as the marital neurotic syndrome in the world today.

There is no generation gap where sex is concerned.

The problem is universal.

Everyone, both newlyweds and those long established in marriage, should see this

film.

Any act between husband and wife when it is mutually enjoyed is natural.

No mutually enjoyable act is a perversion.

Was a feeling, a feeling I don't usually get.

And you made a wonderful favorite.

Love made me, I'll never forget.

I'm talking about those good times spent together.

And great times made my loving backers. Good times I went through

and they could do. So happy to take.

Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you.

Doctor.

I'm bored with sex.

This is supposed to be the age of enlightenment, particularly as it

pertains to sex.

We read and hear constantly about the new freedom from sexual taboos, about

the greater sexual understanding between marital partners, about the increased

knowledge of the joys of physical intimacy within marriage.

We get the impression that everyone is well informed and that today every wife

is experiencing the full measure of marital love.

Yet not a week passes, but that wives, some new to marriage, some long

established in it, sit across the desk from me, hesitantly confessing that the

thrilling fulfillment of sex has escaped them, asking for help.

What's the matter with me?

Why can't I respond?

Am I... frigid?

When Bob and I were married, our honeymoon was fantastic.

And for quite a while after that, sex was thrilling.

I was excited just to be close to him.

I thought love like that could never end, but get deeper and better.

Because we're so much in love.

But now, it's not the same.

There's no excitement. It's just routine.

Dull.

Unsatisfying for me.

Doctor, why haven't I learned to make love to my husband?

Marie Johnson.

A pretty young thing.

Big blue eyes, long blonde hair.

Very contemporary and with it.

Twenty-two years old. She's been married just about a year and a half.

A bright young college graduate.

Now an accomplished executive secretary, but with a serious marital problem.

Doctor. I've been looking at the fellows in the office with more than just a

passing interest.

I'm so ashamed.

But I'm getting downright horny.

Can you give this to Mr. Greer?

Oh, sure. He'll be in a little while.

Oh, pretty flowers.

Do you like them? They're from my secret admirer.

Almost as pretty as these.

It's not a very nice crack.

On the contrary, I think it's a pretty crack.

You're terrible.

Don't knock it unless you try it.

Bob, come on to bed.

I'm ready for some lovin'. Oh, for God's sake, darling, let me try on.

Do you still read these romance magazines, honey?

You know, I'm going to have to invest in a magazine stand if you keep reading

them. You just think I might want you.

If I catch you messing around with anybody else but me, young lady, I'm

going to lock you in a chest and belt and throw the key away. Would you do

that for me? Mm-hmm. Huh?

Why don't you take that thing off for me?

What am I going to do?

What's the matter with me?

Am I oversexed?

Oversexed? No.

Rather inexperienced and a bit naive to the ways of lovemaking.

But there is certainly nothing the matter with Marie physically.

She is more than capable of responding warmly and passionately to lovemaking of

the right kind.

But for all their modern looks, up-to-date clothes, and hip thinking,

neither Marie nor her loving husband Bob know how to please each other sexually.

The failure to communicate and fornicate, and there's the wrath.

But Marie and Bob are not alone.

As a marriage counselor, I interview many women with a similar problem.

Not only brides of a few months, but wives in their 30s. Middle-aged wives

have found themselves floundering and frustrated in their marital relations

because they really know nothing about sex.

And what is even more surprising, neither do their husbands.

No matter how hip these modern married couples are, they still unconsciously

cling to the old-fashioned idea that to be a good sex partner and have success

in marital relations is something which comes naturally.

That's all we...

All right.

You should do something.

You weren't even moving, honey.

I thought you were going to sleep.

Might as well have, for all the good it did me.

As you always say.

What you have just seen may be the cause for more divorces than alcoholism,

adultery, money problems, gambling, infidelity, and all other causes

combined.

unfortunately not enough is said about marital sex because of the victorian

attitude towards the discussion of such a personal subject but if you've never

baked a cake you don't try the first one without using a recipe and you don't

play a musical instrument without instruction and a lot of hard study and

marie would not have become a top executive secretary without first

learning shorthand and typing

Why then does a woman think she is supposed to be totally knowledgeable

about sex without instruction?

Surely all women have built-in desires, and nature has certainly given Marie the

means to be stimulated and the means to respond.

It is obvious nature gave us the divine equipment for the greatest satisfaction,

and we were meant to enjoy these sensuous pleasures.

But nature can't show us how to take advantage of the gifts we've been given.

We have to learn.

There are no schools for adult sex education, and the old Victorian hang

-ups still prevail among most young marrieds, even in this modern jet age.

That's the thing.

I mean, for generations we've been taught that it isn't ladylike to know

about these things. I mean, like sexual techniques, creepy, kinky-type sex

positions, you know, like they show in the Oriental books.

It just wouldn't seem right for me to be the one to ask Frank if he'd do that to

me.

Janet Wilson had been married for four years.

And for four years she had suffered the frustration of restraint in her

lovemaking, because until she had come to me in desperation, she had been under

the delusion that it wasn't nice to know about sexual techniques, or understand

stimulation, or be aggressive in making love to her husband, letting him know

what made her more responsive.

You want to be a good sex partner to your husband, whether you are 20 or 50.

It's the natural essence of life.

The intimacy, the closeness, the touching, the warmth. To give and to

receive the personal love you share with no other.

What happens then?

Where is that extra sparkle, the excitement, the heights of passion that

poets sing about?

The answer is in something Marie said.

I believe the word she used was routine.

And when lovemaking becomes routine, it becomes a bore. And boredom can be fatal

in marriage.

So what we must do is help Marie and Janet, and thousands like them, defeat

boredom, avoid frustration, and find out how to increase, not diminish, sexual

pleasure with their husbands for the rest of their lives, and discover that

marvelous I'm-a-woman type of pride that makes you sing at your housework, and

look forward with eager anticipation and excitement to your man's homecoming. How

can a wife accomplish this?

There are a number of important ways that Janet and Marie can improve their

sexual pleasure and find complete fulfillment, not only for themselves,

but for their husbands too.

First of all, Janet's Victorian restraint has caused a lack of

communication. Therefore, she may have to take the lead in their lovemaking.

How can I take the initiative to make love to my husband?

More wives than I can name are shocked at the idea of being the aggressor. They

feel they lose their femininity.

But nothing could be further from the truth.

It is sometimes mandatory that the wife become the seducer, if she is to be a

good sex partner.

It is true that society accepts the notion that the man should be the

aggressor, and a woman's desire should come in response to her husband's.

But if you always wait for your husband to make the first move, your intimate

life will be narrowed considerably.

However, if he sees that certain look in your eyes, and you tell him how much you

love him, the chances are he'll find you as desirable as you find him, and he'll

respond.

The special look across the living room, the snuggling close while listening to

the hi-fi, even the special way you say, I love you, are all part of taking the

lead. You're simply telling your husband that you desire him.

And believe me, there's hardly a man alive who doesn't feel virile and eager

when his woman lets him know she desires him.

Psychologically, A man's confidence in his virility makes him a far better sex

partner.

A lot of traditions have been broken in recent years, and one that should

definitely be discarded is the feeling that sex should only be performed in the

dark, when the darkness would hide the shameful act.

This archaic tradition dates way back to the time when there was thought to be

something shameful about sex, even marital sex.

We know better now.

There should be no shame whatsoever in marital passion.

Mid-morning, mid-afternoon, even when the sun is at its brightest, intimacy

can be enjoyed at any time.

Take the timetable out of love-making.

As a matter of fact, for many young married couples who have small children,

Bedtime is about the worst lovemaking time possible.

The wife has probably put in an exhausting day, and when at last the

kids are in bed and the dishes washed, she is just plain tired.

Early morning lovemaking may be the answer when both partners are refreshed

and the children aren't awake yet.

For some wives and some husbands who have been brought up with rigid ideas of

right and wrong, it is not easy to break away from the old taboos.

But you must approach your times of intimacy with open minds.

You must rid yourselves of any thought of sexual shame.

There is no shame.

Relax completely.

Throw the old inhibitions out of the window. Let yourself go in bed.

Nothing can stimulate a husband more.

Nothing make him feel more virile than a wife's total abandonment, giving herself

up to complete sexual joy.

Forget everything you've been told about marital relations.

Forget what your mama told you.

Don't even try to be nice now.

Cry. Say words you don't even know you're saying. Dig your fingers into his

back. Let your whole body respond.

Does this make you a harlot? A hussy?

Of course not.

There's that old Puritan idea again.

The old-fashioned idea that a woman must be modest in bed.

Of course, modesty is an attractive trait in the living room or with

friends.

But it acts like ice water in bed with your husband.

He is part of you.

He wants you wholly as you want him.

Mommy's coming, honey.

But I can't tell him what to do. He's supposed to know, isn't he?

How can he know if he hasn't been told?

You must tell your husband how to stimulate you.

One of the biggest failures on the part of the husband is the failure to fully

stimulate and arouse his wife in lovemaking.

And one of the biggest failures on her part is not telling him how she can best

be stimulated.

The mere fact that her husband is a man does not give him any magical powers of

perception or knowledge of sexual techniques, specifically as it may

pertain to you as an individual.

It does not teach him that you as a woman have special erotic zones, your

breasts, your nipples, the palms of your hands, the most intimate parts of your

body. The current saying, blow in my ear and I'll follow you anywhere, is quite

true.

His kiss, his caress, his love play with these sensitive areas can arouse you

fully and make you ready for his intimacy.

Unfortunately, many husbands do not even realize how necessary love play is.

Because he may not need it to make himself ready, he may be ignorant of the

fact that you do.

Perhaps he has never read any book on the subject, never discussed it with

anyone.

Most men don't compare notes on sex.

No wife can find satisfaction in the simple act of sex, although her husband

can find physical release in such an act.

Eventually, however, her unresponsiveness will affect his

performance too.

Marital intimacy suffers, and the marriage can be seriously endangered.

You are the wife, and you are the one who can tell him and show him what

stimulates you.

The kisses, the murmured words, the touch of his hand, his rhythmic

manipulations. All of these help bring you alive to his love.

And as a wife, these are part of what you need if you are to be a good sex

partner to him.

As you slip into bed together, you can guide his hand, indicating sensitive

areas that thrill you.

You can slowly pull his lips to your bosom.

The love sounds you make, the response which you show, tell him that he's

pleasing you.

I have known many women who were too prudish to tell or show their husbands

how best to stimulate them.

And invariably they blamed their husbands for not knowing instinctively

what would please them.

But wives should remember that many husbands are as inexperienced as they

are. They need to be shown.

They need a wife, a bed partner who will indicate subtly her desires.

The whispered word, the response of the body, the wife's mounting arousal, let

him know very definitely that he is being a successful lover.

And thus the act of intimacy will be heightened for him as well as for his

wife.

What either of you do to achieve the greatest mutual satisfaction is right

and good.

If you don't tell your husband how to stimulate you most fully, there is no

way he can know.

Sex can be boring if it becomes routine, just as daily household chores become

tiresome, the dishes, the dusting.

If marital relations are the same day after day, week after week, they too

become tiresome.

Chicken every Sunday is nice, but monotonous.

Monotony in marital relations is one of the major things which kills the thrill

of intimacy.

A great many wives fail to realize this.

Somehow they believe that mere repetition of the joys of the honeymoon

night will always fulfill them sexually.

This is not true.

In the honeymoon, intimacy is new, and by its very newness, exciting.

The first discovery of each other, the first union, the belonging to each other

so completely provides its own fulfillment.

The sexual technique at such time is often the simplest.

the standard man above woman position.

But as a husband and wife become familiar with each other, they need to

vary their methods of lovemaking.

They need to experiment, to try new positions, to discover that with every

new technique, there can be a new thrill and a new peak of success in marital

relations. There are any number of positions which husband and wife can

take in lovemaking.

There are kneeling positions, reverse positions, Standing positions.

In fact, as many positions as your imagination can devise. Each can offer

exciting new stimulation.

Perversion? It's not natural.

Oh, nonsense, Marie.

No position that you can take with your husband.

No sexual act that you may perform with your husband is a perversion.

If inhibitions are holding you back, if the thought of some sexual act you may

perform with your husband shocks you, then you must put it out of your mind.

There is no right or wrong, proper or improper in marital relations.

But Bob would think I was awful if I did what you say.

He'd think I was a...

A whore.

Well, good. Why not? Let yourself go.

But you'll find Bob won't think you're awful. On the contrary, he'll think he's

virile and as successful as the lover.

Bob will feel that she loves him passionately.

So passionately that she does not try to control herself.

And by abandoning herself in bed with him, she will lose her own frustrating

inhibitions which restrict lovemaking.

She will find the full experience of true marital love and all those tight

little knots which have been tying her down will go

Let them go.

Bed is a private place.

Be free and abandoned there with your husband.

Be free yourself.

Be a wild animal if you wish.

The sounds you make are the sounds of love.

The sweat between your bodies is oil.

The hard rhythm, the rhythm of love.

And the complete exhaustion which follows is the exhaustion of true

emotion and deep love.

Don't be afraid of these things.

Enjoy them. They belong to marriage.

Anything your bodies can perform together is wholesome, normal and

healthy. You must not be reluctant to learn new positions, to experiment with

new acts of lovemaking.

You will rediscover the excitement of each other, as marriage partners are

bound to when their intimacy is free and varied.

There are any number of positions which husband and wife can take in lovemaking,

as this young couple will now demonstrate.

How do I love thee?

Let me count the ways.

This is the classic position adopted by most of the Western world.

The man lies on top of the woman, whose legs are spread to give ease of access

to the vagina.

Both partners are able to kiss, but since the man must support his weight on

his arms, he is not able to caress the woman.

He is in sole control of the degree and force of penetration, however, while the

woman is quite able to caress his body.

By wrapping her legs around the man's thigh, the woman makes it possible not

only for the man to achieve deeper penetration, but she is also free to

take a more active part in the proceedings if she wishes.

The woman draws her parted knees down towards her breath and rests her heels

on the man's buttocks. The position allows maximum penetration and is

considered to be particularly favorable for conception.

The man is able to move freely.

I love thee to the depth and breadth and height my soul can reach

when feeling out of sight for the ends of being an ideal grace.

I love thee to the level of every day's most quiet need, by sun

and candlelight.

The woman has now lifted even more of her body. This position allows extra

deep thrusts by the man, and is equally exciting for both.

However, the woman is liable to experience muscular strain quite quickly

and the position should not be maintained for long.

The woman now raises her legs even higher and links her ankles at the small

of the man's back.

In this position, penetration is so deep that the man can usually feel the top of

the cervix, which can greatly stimulate the woman.

This depth of penetration also enables the man's body to rub against the

clitoris.

I love thee purely as they turn from praise.

By opening her legs wider and placing them around the man, the woman enables

greater penetration.

The man is also afforded greater freedom of movement, but the position is liable

to be tiring for the woman.

The kneeling man now supports the woman's entire weight. She is impaled

upon his penis, but both are able to make limited movements.

Again, this is a tiring position and should not be maintained for long.

The couple lie side by side facing each other and are free to embrace and kiss.

Most couples will find the position easier to assume if penetration takes

place with the man on top.

The woman then closes her legs and the couple roll onto their side.

Penetration is not deep however and movements have to be carefully

controlled if the penis is not to slip out.

Many people prefer to use this position without penetration for the erect penis

can then be rubbed against the clitoris.

producing pleasurable sensations for both partners.

This is the most common of the rear entry positions.

Penetration is good and the man has a great deal of freedom to move.

His hands are free to caress the woman, who is unable to make much movement.

A further variation in which the woman is lifted upwards by the man.

who supports her weight at the thigh.

Her legs extend beyond him and considerable strain is placed on her

arms.

Penetration is extremely good, but movements are limited.

The man increases penetration by bringing his knees up towards the

woman's buttocks. She can support herself on one arm.

Again, there is little scope for movement.

I love thee with the passion put to use in my old griefs and

with my childhood's faith.

By bending one leg, the woman makes the entry easier and enables deeper

penetration. This position is often very stimulating, particularly for the woman,

who however may find that she tires quickly.

If the woman turns slightly onto her front and the man firmly embraces her

thigh with his leg, The movement he is then able to make often produce greater

stimulation for the woman.

I love thee with the breath, smiles, tears of all my life.

The man lies on his back while the woman straddles him. By supporting her weight

on her hands, the woman enables her partner to caress her breasts.

Penetration is good, and even the slightest movements, which are

recommended because the penis is liable to slip out easily, provide the woman

with excellent stimulation.

She is, of course, responsible for making the movements.

Now the man has spread his legs and linked them on his partner's buttocks.

Penetration is very good and by moving his hips from side to side the man can

give his partner considerable pleasure.

The woman is able to make more definite movements and the position is ideal for

kissing.

In this squatting position, provided she keeps her thighs as closely together as

possible, the woman lessens the danger of the penis escaping.

She is able to make good deep movements and penetration is excellent.

By lifting the man's bent knees and raising them towards her back, the woman

secures the penis even more firmly and increases penetration.

The man is free to caress her breast, but all other movements must be made by

the woman.

The position is a strenuous one and should not be maintained for long.

If thou must love me, let it be for naught, except for love's sake

only.

By changing her position to a kneeling one, the woman permits greater

penetration, but her movements are limited to shallow ones. This is,

however, a favoured and satisfactory position.

Here both partners kneel, the woman's legs being placed outside the man's.

Penetration is reasonably good, and both partners are able to make good coital

movements, as well as being free to kiss and caress.

The man lies down while the woman remains in virtually the same position.

This is an extremely good position for those who enjoy observing their

lovemaking, but little movement is possible for either partner.

Do not say I love her for her smile, her look, her way of speaking gently.

But love me for love's sake, that evermore thou mayst love all

through love's eternity.

By kneeling over the man and grasping his knees, the woman can perform good up

and down movements, or she can leave all the activity to the man, who is able to

move his hips freely.

The woman now faces away from the man and supports her weight on his thighs.

She is kneeling and is able to make good up and down movements.

The man is also able to contribute to the movements.

Penetration is quite good, and the position affords excellent simulation.

The face of all the world is changed, I think.

since I first heard the footsteps of thy soul.

Although a very tiring position, this is a most pleasurable one. It is easier if

the man rests his back against a wall. The woman literally sits on the penis,

and the man raises one or both of her legs.

By keeping her legs closely together, the woman exerts considerable pressure

on the penis, and penetration is extremely deep.

By clenching and unclenching her buttocks, the woman can stimulate the

penis, but no other movements are practical.

The woman faces the man's feet and kneels astride him.

There is a great danger of losing the penis in this position, which is perhaps

best regarded as one of rest.

It is however very stimulating for the woman.

A variation of the previous position, the man raises his torso a little in

order to grasp the woman's arms.

Penetration is deep and the back wall of the vagina is again greatly stimulated.

A rocking movement backwards and forwards executed simultaneously by both

partners is the most effective and results in very pleasurable stimulation

of the woman.

It is, however, a difficult position to maintain for long and both partners soon

tire.

The man now kneels with his buttocks resting on his heels. His weight is

supported by his hands.

The woman sits upon him, her feet braced.

Penetration is reasonable, but movements are limited because of the danger of

losing the penis.

This is, however, a good resting position and a starting point for a

number of variations.

By kneeling before the man with his knees between her spread thighs, the

danger of losing the penis is greatly lessened. The man can make good

thrusting motions, while the woman is best advised to limit her activity to a

side-to-side rocking movement.

This causes good stimulation, which the man can augment by limited thrusting.

By supporting himself on his hands, his toes braced against the floor, the man

enters his partner at an angle.

The result is extremely stimulating, particularly for the woman, and the man

is able to make long deep thrusts that are mutually exciting.

Love me sweet with all thou art, feeling, thinking,

seeing.

Love me in the lightest part.

Love me in full being.

By leaning backwards, taking her weight on her hand, the woman allows the man to

straighten and thus increases his freedom of movement.

This is a very comfortable, untaxing position for the man, as well as being

stimulating to both partners.

Love me with thine open mouth in its frank surrender.

with the vowing of thy mouth, with its silence tender.

By lengthening her legs around the man, her heels against his buttocks, the

woman enables greater depth of penetration.

Again, this is a very stimulating position for the woman.

and allows the man complete freedom of movement with maximum penetration.

It is taxing on neither partner and gives the man complete control.

As your eyes, made for earnest granting, taking color from

the skies, can heaven's truth be wanting?

The woman's legs hook over the man's shoulders. By keeping her thighs as

closely together as possible, pressure is brought to bear on the penis.

In this position, the woman can also make some movements of her own.

Penetration remains deep, and the man's freedom to move is unimpaired.

Love me with their lids, that fall snow-like at first meeting. Love

me with thine heart, that all the world can then see beating.

The woman turns onto her side and her calves are supported by the stool.

The man gains great freedom of movement and the angle of entry is very

stimulating to the woman.

The man sits on a low stool and the woman sits astride his lap.

Penetration is easy and good. The woman is the active partner and has good

freedom of movement.

The man lies on his back, his feet reaching to the floor. The woman astride

him also supports herself by her feet on the floor.

This is a very comfortable, relaxed position for both man and woman.

Penetration is deep, and there is little danger of losing the penis, although the

woman can make quite free movements.

Love me with thy voice that turns sudden faint above me.

Love me with thy blush that burns when I murmur, love me.

With a man lying down, his legs on the floor, the woman straddles him, facing

his feet. Her movements must be small to avoid loss of the Venus.

but stimulation is good and is obtained from quite slight motions.

Another position that is outstandingly rewarding for the woman, producing much

stimulation against the back wall of her vagina.

Moreover, she is able to move fairly freely, and even slight movements will

prove to be greatly stimulating.

thy gorgeous airs when the world has crowned thee.

Love me kneeling at thy prayers with the angels round thee.

The woman sits across the man's lap with one leg crooked over the arm of the

chair to give access to her vagina.

Penetration is not deep, but a rocking motion executed by the woman across her

partner's thighs is very stimulating.

The position is also a good one for manual stimulation of the clitoris.

The woman sits on the man's lap but faces away from him. She can again make

rocking motions while the man is able to contribute side-to-side movements of his

hips.

The front wall of the vagina is greatly stimulated and the position is a

comfortable one, particularly if the woman takes her weight on her hands

which rest on the man's knees.

This is an extremely difficult position requiring a good sense of balance on the

part of both partners.

movements are necessarily slight but a great deal of pressure is exerted both

on the penis and within the vagina the position of course cannot be maintained

for more than a few moments but stimulation is good and the position

presents an interesting if extreme variation

This position is particularly good for partners whose height differs

considerably. The man lifts the woman until penetration is possible, and then

draws her onto his penis.

Love me pure, as muses do up the woodland shady.

Love me gaily, fast and true, as a winsome lady.

Although very strenuous, particularly for the woman, this is an exciting

position. The woman supports her weight on her hands and is supported at the

hips by the man.

Penetration is deep and very stimulating.

The man is able to make brusque, forceful, controlled movements.

He drew his smile across her folded eyelids as the swallow dips,

breathed as finely as the cold did through the locking of her lips.

So when life looked upward, being warmed and breathed on from above,

What sight could she have for seeing evermore but only love?

O must thou have my soul, dear, commingle with thy soul?

Red grows the cheek and warm the hand.

The part is in the whole.

Nor hands nor cheeks keep separate when so.

is joined to soul.

The classic position known as the 69 is an integral part of marital sexual

relations. This oral and anal sex affords immense erotic excitement and

pleasure to both the male and female partner.

The male partner may also move the female in a kneeling position above his

head, allowing his tongue the maximum insertion into the vagina and, at the

same time, by a sucking motion of his mouth, cause the ultimate inerotic

sensation.

It may be more comfortable for the male to be in slight elevation, allowing his

female partner to kneel below, licking and sucking his penis and testicles for

further pleasure. Again, anal sucking by the female may provide tremendous sexual

excitement to the male partner.

How do I love thee?

Let me count the ways.

I love thee to the depth and breadth and height my soul

can reach when feeling out of sight for the ends of being and

ideal grace.

If thou must love me, let it be for naught.

except for love's sake only.

Do not say I love her for her smile, her look, her way of speaking gently.

But love me for love's sake, that evermore thou mayst love her

through love's eternity.

Love me with thine nasure eyes, made for earnest granting.

Taking color from the skies, Can heaven's truth be wanting?

Love me with their lids That fall snow-like at first meeting.

Love me with thine heart That all the world can then see beating.

Love me with thy gorgeous airs When the world has crowned thee.

Love me kneeling at thy prayers with the angels round thee.

Love me pure, as musers do up the woodland shady.

Love me gaily, fast and true, as a winsome lady.

He drew his smile across her folded eyelids as the swallow dips.

Breathe as finely as the coal did.

through the locking of her lips.

So when life looked upward, being warmed and breathed on from above,

what sight could she have for seeing evermore but only love?

O must thou have, my soul dear, commingled with thy

soul?

Red grows the cheek, and warm the hand, the part

is in the whole.

Nor hands nor cheeks keep separate when soul

is joined to soul.

Anything, whether it's manual stimulation, oral, the excitement of a

new position, any and all acts of intimacy are normal and healthy between

husband and wife.

Whatever pleases.

Whatever helps fulfill you both is good.

Any act between husband and wife, when it is mutually enjoyed, is natural.

No mutually enjoyable act is a perversion.

Love to make love to your marriage partner.

Be free and relaxed in your lovemaking.

There are no taboos between husband and wife.

No shame. No guilt.

Only love.

And love can take so many forms.

How do I love thee?

Let me count the ways.

The beginning and life begin.