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Previously on "90 Day: Hunt for Love."

Welcome to Salsa Night.

Ooh.

Why is this too much fun right now?

I never knew you were seriously interested in Brian

up until the night after the bar,

where me and him kissed.

OK, it's a lie, but that's fine,

'cause I-- I did tell you.

She's absolutely lying

at the fact that she does not know that I said I liked Brian.

I would never treat you like that.

- I would never do that. - Stop, Chloe.

You're embarrassing, bro, and your girl left you.

That's crazy, dog. You a bitch.

- We can do this. - Bro, get the off me.

Fake bitch walking away.

Oh, my God. Oh, my God.

You guys ruin everybody's night,

every single night. - No, we're not. We're great.

Can someone get that dog out of here?

- Try me, bitch. - I'm six foot tall.

Wow.

She's literally a chihuahua barking all night.

Chloe is accusing me of something I didn't do.

Now, I have this random girl calling me a barking chihuahua.

these fake-ass people.

I don't know.

Whoa, whoa.

All my focus was towards Iris,

but it definitely feels like I'm now back at square one.

What's the point of even being here?

I mean, I want to date again,

but it's so hard for me to let a guy in

because it's like, oh, like,

they're just gonna leave.

And I don't see myself, you know, exploring

any other connection here.

Opening up to Brian, it's like a relief.

I feel like I've been holding back opening up to someone

for a really long time.

It doesn't hurt that he's a good kisser.

♪ You look so good with it ♪

♪ You make me feel something ♪

♪ You got me craving this dangerous feeling ♪

♪ Can't get enough of it ♪

♪ Can't take my mind off it ♪

♪ You got me craving... ♪

♪ You got me craving this dangerous feeling ♪

♪ You got me craving this dangerous feeling ♪

♪ Can't take my mind off it ♪

♪ Can't get enough of it ♪

♪ You got me craving this dangerous feeling ♪

♪ You got, you got my attention ♪

♪ Ain't nobody gotta mention ♪

♪ Yo te quiero dar mi atención ♪

♪ 'Cause you got, you got my attention ♪

- Hey, gorgeous. - Oh, my gosh.

Y'all look so good today.

- Turn, turn, turn. - Hey.

- I love it. - Give me a kiss.

Mmm.

- What a kiss. - I know, right?

I'm so excited.

Thank you.

Are you a good scrubber, Michael?

Scrubber?

Yeah, you're like a good scrubber, you know?

Can rub me down at the spa?

"Don't play."

We are taking the girls to a coffee scrub date.

I don't know what is that, but I'm truly hoping

after this date, Iris is not going on other dates

with other guys.

She's not kissing, she's not looking on other guys.

No Steven, no boos, no nothing.

Especially with all the stress that we've been going through.

Oh, my God.

I'm down for some Truth or Dare.

I have a truth I've been waiting to ask.

- What? - Yeah, I've been boiling.

OK.

I'm very different than your ex.

So what is your actual type?

Big ass, boobs, you know.

Yeah.

I know...

You knew that, Raz? You knew that was a thing?

Oh, my goodness.

OK. All right.

OK. OK, who wants to go next?

You ask me. Dare.

- Uh-oh. - Dare.

- A Dare, yeah. - Ah.

What?

We gotta show a little bit with what we work with.

So we got to synchronize, right?

- OK. - OK, so three, two, one, go.

Oh!

OK!

What?

- OK! - I'm fine.

I can see you got the hips.

I liked that.

- OK, Truth or Dare? - OK.

Truth.

Is it true that you're really open to a connection here,

a possible connection here, with Raz?

I don't know. We have to figure that out.

Last night, when Razvan made a point to kiss me

in front of everybody and mark his territory,

I was there for it. It was really hot.

I like a man who takes initiative,

but Razvan has to show me that I'm his center focus.

And then I really see this going in the direction

of something serious.

Hopefully. We'll see.

♪ It's time ♪

♪ We're here to occupy ♪

♪ So take a seat and... ♪

We're playing volleyball.

You girls brought the wrong shoes.

Oh, yes.

I can play in my boots. What do you mean?

Last night ended up being a screaming match

with Chloe and Brian.

She stormed off in the middle of our conversation,

so things were kind of left unresolved between us.

And now today, we have a workshop

with everybody.

So I am a little nervous, but

I know that with Jamal by my side,

I'll be able to get through it.

- Hello. - Good morning.

It's a big crew we got here today.

You guys ready for

an unconventional workshop today?

We got it! Let's go!

OK, so as you guys know, when you first start connecting

with someone, it is normal, natural, to really focus

on the things that you have in common, right?

Today, though, we are going to be looking at a different

set of similarities.

What happens when you hate the same things?

- Oh, hell yeah. - Interesting.

This is the perfect workshop for me.

I should be the teacher. I love to hate things.

Like, I'm just a hater.

Like, my dream date is we could go off of things that we hate.

Like, I want to know all of your icks.

You can know all of mine.

We'll be here all night, but at least you'll know.

So today, as you discover each other's dislikes,

you might be like, "Oh, my goodness!

hat actually drives me closer to someone."

And similarly, you might discover

"They might actually be harder to get along with

than I might have realized."

You're going to either Hate it or Date it.

- Ooh. - I like that.

- I see. - I like that.

So how this game works is the red flag over here is

the Hate it flag,

and the yellow flag is the Date it flag.

And you will choose to walk over

to the Date it side or stay at the Hate it side.

All right, Anastasia, we're gonna start with you.

What is your pet peeve?

My pet peeve is when a guy doesn't let my dogs

sleep in the bed, 'cause I love my dogs.

Wow. OK, let's go.

OK, Hate it or Date it.

No dogs in the bed?

So if someone gets in a relationship with you,

they also in a relationship with your dogs?

Absolutely.

Anastasia is a very attractive girl,

but I don't want dog fur on my ass

when I'm sleeping naked.

I understand that we love our fur babies,

but love your fur baby on the floor.

All right, Kara.

I'm a big person on communication.

And so in that vein, someone for me that, like,

beats around the bush instead of attacking a subject head-on

gets on my nerves.

- Mmm. - And I'm like, "Ugh."

I just need fully formed thoughts, please.

So beating around the bush and not being direct,

is that a huge red flag? Or would you Date it?

I would date.

Stay away from my bush.

No, I'm, like, get up in my bush.

It's not that big of a deal. Yeah.

It doesn't have to be a big deal to you.

I like direct.

Wait, so...

I'm a little bit confused right here.

So with what she said, if I...

a little bit more so agree with it,

I would stay on that side then.

- OK. - Do you Hate it?

Would you date someone who can't get to

their point immediately? - No, not immediately.

No, not immediately.

It's about half and half almost.

Yeah-- so how about you guys over here?

It's like, no, not doing it.

I feel like we all got things to say, absolutely.

You have your feelings. You should feel your feelings.

But I kind of need it direct.

I'm from New York.

You better be direct. You know?

All right-- so Emma and Jamal, we have you both over here

as well as Chloe and Brian, which is great.

I also noticed that you're both wearing cherries today.

- We're matching. - Was that planned?

Well, we didn't pack here together.

We just happened to both have it.

She said she was wearing cherries.

Oh, so you wore cherries too.

Cutesy!

I mean, matching can be cute for, like, a Christmas card,

but I'm confused.

Like, did she bring those shorts for him?

'Cause there's no way you guys both just bought the same print.

Like, did Emma bring matching shorts

for the guy that she was gonna meet?

I believe it.

Let's go on to the next question.

Jamal, what is a pet peeve of yours?

I would say a pet peeve of mine

when I'm trying to date someone is

if they are friends with their ex.

So, Hate it or Date it?

Yeah.

Come on over. Come on over.

Is that a deal breaker

or is that something you can work together through?

- We can work it out. - that.

Jamal's a hard no on that one.

- OK, anybody else hard no? - I agree with that.

Although I feel the same way,

I love how Jamal doesn't want to stay friends with an ex,

but he's literally sleeping with Emma, who is literally

his best friend Rob's ex.

How does that work?

Is that like a loophole?

Like, your current partner

sleeping with your current friend doesn't ick you out.

Got it.

I don't really think you guys can just keep it platonic

at that point. - Yeah.

I have many friends who I've ,

who are still my friends in my life.

Period.

Friends? Yeah.

Let's say your partner, they have past experience

with someone. That's their life.

You can't pretend to black out the rest of someone's life

and pretend that that never happened.

Maybe I approach sex different from everybody.

Clearly.

It's really not that big of a deal, guys.

What, am I not supposed to talk to Guillermo?

Because my next person deems it inappropriate for me to be

in contact with an ex?

For JT to say that he doesn't think it's OK,

it just shows an overall lack of maturity.

It's reassuring that Skyler feels the same way that I do.

All right, let's go with Steven.

For me, a deal breaker is

"We have to fix this right now, right now."

I want to take a moment to gather this,

not just my point of view.

I'm trying to see your point of view as well.

And then we can both come back when we're calmed down

and talk about this maturely so words don't get spiraled.

So Hate it or Date it?

Imma go 'cause I'll date myself.

Ew!

Wait, Steven, you have to stay over there, fool.

That's your pet peeve. That's your pet peeve.

Oh, I got to stay over here?

Steven.

Oh, all of you guys want to date that?

Do you want to fix it right now or you don't?

Yeah, I don't.

I'm like, "Let me think about this for a second."

Yeah, I'm confused.

With this workshop today, I'm not entirely sure, like,

how this is supposed to go.

I am a little bit down today,

like, seeing Iris and Raz make out the night before.

It's kind of taken away from my own, like,

critical thinking.

Like, damn, like, you humiliated me.

All right, what is your pet peeve, Chloe?

OK, mine's kind of like

not knowing how to dress for an occasion.

Like, if I...

if we're going to dinner and you pull up in, like,

sweatpants,

I'm going home.

Thanks, Jamal.

No.

What do you mean, no?

We're not.

Babe, don't do that right now.

Are you serious?

All right, so Hate it or Date it?

I do low-key hate that.

I'm not talking to him.

I mean, he's being so fake to me right now.

Last night was a little bit crazy.

I take some ownership of that.

And apologies need to be made all around.

When it comes to Emma,

I understand she's mad at Chloe,

but you can't just walk away when things get tough.

If this is how Emma's gonna act here,

I don't know how we're gonna make this work

in the real world.

I'm definitely feeling a lot more comfortable today.

You made it clear that

we are not exploring multiple connections anymore.

Mnh-mnh.

Just because you don't want me to talk to people

who don't like you,

that's gonna make things way harder

for the both of us.

I--

♪ Let me show you the way out ♪

♪ Come on now, come on, let go ♪

♪ We can have it all ♪

- Hi. - Hi.

- We made a reservation. - Great.

My name is Janie Lair. You can call me Nani.

- Thank you for being here. - Of course.

You can take your clothes off.

And you're gonna connect with each other,

just to feel each other,

just like light and long strokes.

Michael and I are definitely in a good place.

But I'm a little nervous doing the coffee scrub,

'cause I imagine that we would possibly be getting massages

individually, but not giving each other massages.

I've been single for a crazy five years now.

So I'm usually not a PDA type of a person,

'cause I like to take my time.

But I also came to this retreat to kind of

get me out of my shell.

And maybe it'll give us a little chance to have

a little bit more intimacy without being too intimate.

What does it feel like to you?

- Right? - Yeah.

I kind of want to taste it.

Want to taste it?

OK.

- Not bad. - Not bad.

It is salty.

Mm-hmm.

like a kid. And...

OK.

Was it good? Will you recommend?

No.

No compliments to the chef?

I, too, have tasted pee.

- And it's very bitter. - Yeah, it's very bitter.

It's very bitter and like tart.

The flavor profile is not my thing.

Iris and I, we have a lot in common.

We are both hot. We are both freaks.

And we both tasted pee.

And I love that.

Damn.

Sexy.

Thank you, thank you.

Oh, oh, you getting into it.

You're turning me on.

Am I?

Well...

I'm really enjoying this, Michael.

I really like... to see the side of you

that really takes charge.

Mmm. You like it?

Yeah, I like seeing that in you.

OK.

I'm definitely feeling a lot more comfortable today.

Oh, really?

I almost think this is what we needed.

Yeah.

Oh, my goodness.

- Let me relax. - Relax, relax.

- I got you. - I believe in you.

- I got you. - You know...

I like that the more that we talk, the more time that

we spend with each other, I can feel you opening up.

'Cause at first I felt like you were kind of in a shell

- a little bit. - In a shell?

Yeah, a little quiet.

Like you say, "I'm shy."

But yeah, you came off as a bit quieter.

I don't think I'm shy anymore.

Yeah, OK, yeah, I would agree from today for sure.

And I also like that you made it clear that

we're not exploring multiple connections anymore.

Mnh-mnh.

Yeah, OK.

Figuring things out for me right here,

and I was learning how to be a father

before I even knew, like...

what being a man was.

I feel like a lot of the mistakes

that I've made in my past does hold me back

from finding actual love.

And truly, I just don't know if it'll ever happen for me.

♪ OK ♪

Uh-oh.

Yet again, the whole attention

and focus gets derailed on Emma and Jamal's

every-single-day.

Either they're fighting everybody else

or they're fighting each other.

Jamal's being held hostage in his own relationship.

It's just exhausting.

So, up next, I'm gonna ask you, Joan,

what is your pet peeve?

I would say someone that's not adventurous.

Hate it or Date it?

Uh-oh.

Paola, yeah.

Somebody that doesn't pick up after themselves.

There you go, that's great-- yeah.

- OK. - All right.

Hate it or Date it?

Don't hoard your.

I'll throw it out.

My pet peeve is when someone that you're talking to,

their entire, like, Explore feed is either, like,

- naked women or men. - All right.

So, Hate it or Date it?

- That's not fair. - Yeah.

I'm sorry.

So what's on y'all's Explore pages?

- No one's. - Ass and.

My Explore page is handstands.

I have this obsession with handstands right now.

So I practice every day.

Clothes...

hair, makeup.

Hair, hair, makeup, hair, styling.

Wow, is this my Explore page? So much hair.

My Explore page is mostly dudes.

Because I go to the gym,

so you see shirtless dudes on my page giving "tips"

about how you should do this or this,

and that's my whole page.

I'm like, eh, don't really take it for anything serious.

So who feels that the connection that

they thought might have been the right one for them

has changed?

Jamal, where did Emma go? What happened to her?

Um, well...

me and Chloe did this.

- Shut the up. - For a thumbs up?

She was upset that I even talked to you,

and she walked away.

She's controlling as.

Obviously, Emma and I still need to have a conversation

'cause we're clearly both mad at each other,

but her walking away is actually crazy.

It's funny how Jamal can give me a thumbs up

and that's a problem, but, like,

she can make out with somebody on the floor and it's like,

"Oh, yeah, she did that. It's fine."

The world is backwards.

All right, well, that concludes

our unconventional workshop today.

Jamal, I'm gonna grab you real quick.

Thank you all so much.

Enjoy the rest of your day, y'all.

- Thank you. - Bye.

All right, sir.

I feel like I just had like 20 conversations with everybody

that I've been wanting to have. So it's really good.

- It's really good. - Aw.

I mean, she's just upset that

I'm talking to people she's upset with.

But if I stopped talking to everyone that she's upset with

or they're upset with her, I would not talk to anybody.

Well, you can't have a genuine, authentic experience if

that is the controlling factor.

Even if you don't kind of succumb to it,

you're gonna always feel like you're being watched.

You're not getting to have your experience cleanly here.

And I don't see this as being sustainable.

I know that a conversation needs to be had between us,

but Emma is the kind of person

who does not like to be told the hard truths

and lacks a bit of maturity

when it comes to taking accountability

and dealing with her problems.

And if Emma's not gonna actually take the help

and use it, then I don't see the point.

Let's go find Emma. Let's go sit down

and have a little conversation with her.

Hopefully you can show her what I'm trying to convey.

Yeah.

♪ Aquí en la playa o en la arena ♪

♪ Aquí en la playa o en la arena ♪

All right, Steven, thanks for taking some time

and being able to catch up.

I'm happy that it's you. No, like I love Tanya,

but, you know, sometimes like guy-to-guy is a little bit

- better than like... - Yeah.

For me at least.

Yeah.

I want to talk with Steven

'cause he was a little bit more reserved

in today's workshop.

I think Steven's struggling a little bit coming into this

and I want to encourage him to get out of his comfort zone.

So I just want to see how he's feeling being here.

I heard last night was wild, man.

What happened?

Well, I was, uh, I was feeling Iris, um...

but we get to salsa and...

I catch over and I see her and Raz like making out.

- I was like, "All right." - So you haven't talk to her since?

No, no, she actually went on a date with Raz right now.

Mmm.

How does it feel right now between you and Iris?

Not interested anymore in Iris.

Oh, wow.

I do think that Iris showed her true colors to me.

So Razvan can have her.

He may have gotten the girl, but at least I got my hair.

I'm good.

That kind of sucks because I'm more careful

with the way I move.

- Yeah. - Especially as a father.

Yeah, and it seems like you really want to

just get to the truth and you want to get to

a real connection.

I'm just like, I'm figuring things out for me right here.

And you know, when I got back to the room,

it made me think back on my past and things,

and like what had happened,

and what I did wrong with my kid's mom.

Looking back now and like just seeing things here,

learning new things about myself,

I know I was the problem

and.

Yeah.

I was toxic.

I was...

insecure.

I was immature.

And it's hard because, like, for me back then...

Ugh!

...I was learning how to be a father before I even knew,

like, what being a man was.

You know, like, you're young.

and.

I didn't expect to have all the drama that unfolded

last night to kind of bring up old...

wounds,

when it comes to my past relationship.

Like, even though Olga and I have been separated

for two years, I still have things I need to figure out

when it comes to, like, my own mind,

and I feel like a lot of the mistakes that

I've made in my past does hold me back

from finding actual love.

Honestly, love-- love scares me.

Truly, I just don't know if it'll ever happen for me.

You want to be the only person at the resort that I see?

Like...

It says, like, property.

I really like Iris, but there's another woman.

OK. All right.

OK. I think I'm good.

My ex, Olga, is a topic I've been wanting to avoid

for a while, and I hope-- I had hoped that

it wasn't gonna come up while I'm here,

but, you know, I knew I needed to get it off my chest.

I think the issue was me holding back my own guilt

from certain things, and trying to portray this guy

that has it together

and everything,

when I clearly don't.

And honestly, it is a relief.

So what Iris is triggering within you is

awakening something that you're just learning how to feel.

Yeah.

You're not doing anything wrong, brother.

You're processing the emotion in real time of...

that is still stored within your body.

And so there's no shame, there's no changing the past,

I know you know that. And it's all good.

I think Steven really wants to find love

and find his partner.

And I'm really grateful that

he's honestly looking at himself and what he did right

and what he did mostly wrong in his last relationship.

Do you mind if we just sit inside for a second, dude?

Like, I'm actually getting torn up.

Yeah, me too.

I think Steven's just working through it, which is huge

for him and his growth.

Much better and cool.

I'm really proud of how far Steven has come.

And I'm really confident that Steven is mature enough

and here for the right reasons, that he's gonna find

a romantic partner and to really work things out.

The fact that you're able to be honest about your role

that you played, that's all you need.

And then how you move on from there is,

"I'm aware now, and so in the future

I won't make these mistakes."

The goal is just continue to put yourself in spaces

where you get to know new people and just kind of navigate

a little bit of different options.

- I have two in mind. - OK, cool.

- I'm good. - Who is it?

Shaye.

And Paola.

Both of these girls, they're not like center of attention,

like pick-me girls. And I respect it.

Yeah, non-drama or playing games, so...

I do think Brandon's right.

I mean, I do have to open up and be more receptive

to the other singles.

You know, like, I still want to give people a chance.

I won't know what could be

unless I actually try something.

I just don't want to be strung along again

like I did with Iris.

But it's like, the clock is ticking.

Soak it up, man.

Like, this is just once in a lifetime.

It's so nice! It feels so good!

You're a natural.

You working hard back there, Michael?

Yeah.

Dee, dee, dee, dee, dee, dee, dee.

- You know I like the booty. - I know.

So...

Wow, I'm not sure about that.

What are my chances right now?

Just give me a percentage of chances right now.

A percentage?

Yeah, just in this moment.

- What? - 69.

- 69? - Percent-- yeah.

- That's pretty good. - Yeah, I think so.

OK.

I'm really excited to have sex with Iris.

She's very hot and sexy.

And if she's as weird in bed as she's outside of bed,

then game on.

She's saying 69.

I think that she's trying to say 99% of the time.

Yes, 69 is a position.

When, you know,

both partners do... a 69.

What's happening there?

They have something over there.

Oh...

You've been turned on this whole day.

Yeah, I've been turned on the whole time,

but I'm just being a gentleman.

Yeah.

And why do I have to always initiate every kiss?

- Mmm? - I don't want you to feel that way.

Turn around.

I think this is your way of saying that you want a kiss.

I'm looking forward to get to know more about you, though.

I'm sure there's so many conversations

still left to be had.

So, you want to be the only person at the resort

that I see? Like...

Like a little like,

around your neck that says like property.

- Wear it. - You have that?

Of course I have a freaking collar.

Are you kidding me? Yes, I do.

And would you-- you would wear it?

Yeah.

So then I guess maybe we are on the same page.

Yeah.

I really like Iris because I feel myself

and I feel comfortable being around her.

But there's another woman.

I can't get her out of my mind,

and it's really hard to be 100% locked in with Iris

when I know she's out there.

Is it because it was Chloe and Jamal in that moment

in the workshop that you're specifically upset?

Yeah.

Do you not care at all

of the bad things she was saying about me?

Just because you don't want me to talk to people

who don't like you...

I'm my own person.

I don't want it to be an experience

where we have to be just with us.

I really don't know what's going on

with me and Jamal right now.

I think with him staying at the workshop,

it did make me feel like

maybe he doesn't care about my feelings

or that it's not a big deal.

It's just a really feeling

because Jamal knows that I talked to Chloe

earlier today in her room.

It wasn't a productive conversation.

And Jamal knew that I was upset.

Emma, let's come chat a little bit.

- Is that cool? - Yes.

All right.

I just think that I want to be with someone

who loves me unconditionally and always has my back,

but I don't feel it in this very moment.

Give me some context, Emma. I know you were upset, and...

during the workshop and you left.

Tell me a little bit about what was going on for you.

I mean, there was a lot of things that happened last night,

and I just feel like a lot of people aren't,

I don't know exactly why, but maybe aren't so fond of me.

OK.

So, what happened last night

that is making you upset now?

I thought me and Chloe were really good friends,

and her being mad at me completely took me off guard.

What do you think has changed?

I mean, she's starting to build a connection with Brian.

And Brian and I briefly,

like, talked for 24 hours.

And then, Chloe said that I wasn't being a real friend

because I kissed Brian.

But before the bar, I didn't know

she had even a connection with Brian.

And I don't know, I just felt very, like, attacked last night.

OK. That's fair.

So was it because it was Chloe and Jamal in that moment

in the workshop that you're specifically upset?

Yeah.

Jamal, how did you feel in that moment

where you were just sharing sort of like a natural

sort of reaction with Chloe?

That was not an issue at all.

Do you not care at all of the bad things

she was saying about me?

Just because you don't want me to talk to people

who don't like you,

if I do that, Emma, respectfully,

that's gonna make things way harder for the both of us.

I feel like I'm being isolated

and then like you're mad at me.

Like, why are you mad at me? What did I do to you?

You think you walking away--

Because I'm upset!

Regardless on if you talk to her or not, Emma,

I am my own person.

I don't want to fight with anyone.

I don't wanna do this right now.

Can I please, can I go?

Please, I'm crying and like a mess.

I'm a little disappointed in you.

Why are you still disappointed?

Because we're supposed to be doing this together,

and you're walking away again.

Because it's like...

So we're really gonna try...

Guys, just take a minute.

The pattern that I'm starting to see with Emma is

this flight response.

But how are you ever gonna build something

if you're always running?

It seems like Emma doesn't have a whole lot of self-management.

So this is not really going to be the healthy beginning

of a strong foundation.

And I'm a little bit worried

that we're starting this relationship off

on the wrong foot.

It's just been a lot the past couple of days.

Honestly, this experience is really emotional.

But you walking away, Emma,

I think you're lacking mindfulness

of how other people feel.

Everyone is like, "There goes Emma again."

But when we're alone, when we're on dates,

when we were hanging out outside of this resort,

it's like we don't have any issues.

I don't want it to be an experience

where we have to be just with us

because you're not willing to show them that--

But... I'm just overwhelmed from last night.

That's it, OK? That's it.

We have to get clear on what the expectations are.

Tanya, if I'm being respectful.

- Yeah. - Y'all need to talk.

Me being here is in the way, so I'm gonna go.

- No, but I don't want you to go. - No, I-- you--

No, I-- I need to go.

Thank you, Tanya. I'll talk to you later.

What do you see happening with you and Jamal?

I mean, I want to be with him outside of this.

What do you think is in the way of that happening?

I think it's the drama with the resort

that's getting between me and him.

When people say, you know,

"We don't fight outside of this,"

that's not real life.

This was happening, this is real life.

And no, there might not be 45 other singles

staring at you in your real life,

but there will be exes,

and there will be family members,

and all of that will interfere with your life, I promise you.

You're seeing who he is

and he's seeing who you are right now.

This is the real you.

He cares about you, right?

There's an investment here.

Clearly, you're invested too.

So I want you to be paying attention now.

I want you to be paying attention to

if how he's reacting is something you can live with.

I want you to be able to be like,

"OK, wait a second.

"When I've asked you for certain things,

"like not talking to so-and-so,

you're not respecting that."

Because what does that look like in real life?

What does that look like three weeks from now?

I don't know.

I want love so badly

that sometimes I do ignore when things are bad

or I do ignore red flags.

But having this conversation with Tanya,

it seems like there might be more cracks in the relationship

that I didn't really realize.

And I'm starting to question,

what if Jamal just might not be the one?

That is completely terrifying for me.

So these are the moments where I need you to stay firm

and committed to the process.

But this is the real , this is what's happening.

Next time on "90 Day: Hunt for Love."

Ground just like a tree.

I haven't done yoga before.

This is gonna be my first time.

I'm not killing.

- Oh. - Oh!

It's really important for me to get to know Ericka

and show her how life-changing it can be to date a woman.

Do you think we could, like, do a little icebreaker

and maybe do a little peck?

Richie wants to talk to you and you.

And I need to talk to you.

I'm a natural wingman.

You know, I really like helping people find each other.

And my boy Steven's handsome.

He can get them if he wants to.

He just needs a little push.

- I'm horrible at flirting. - I forgot!

It was my elevator pitch when I'm talking to someone.

Exactly.

I've been trying to get a little time with you,

and it's been hard.

- Well, I'm sorry for that. - That's OK.

Yeah.

Matt, you know, Skyler.

Me and Brian put in the work. We put in the effort.

We let them know that we're interested,

and I'd hate for that to go away

just because of some drinks in a pool.

You know what I'm saying?

I don't like when you lie to women.

So the issue is that

he's getting called out on his BS.

You honestly probably need to talk to the dating coaches,

because all the girls think you're a piece of , so...

It's really hard to have a conversation with Jamal,

because Jamal thinks he's just better than everyone.

Sit by the fire. Think about your life,

because you're a piece of.

You are a piece of.

- Keep your ass out there. - No one with you, bro.

this , loser.

You're going to be a loser

- your whole-entire life. - - Hey!