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Making love can be one of the most enjoyable, satisfying, and important

elements in any long-term relationship.

But many couples become so focused on reaching orgasm that they lose out on

the fun of sex.

This video will offer a wide variety of suggestions which can help you put the

fun back into your sexual activities.

And if you're already having fun, you may get a few creative notions to make

your sex life even more enjoyable.

When was the last time you had fun with sex?

If it isn't the last time you made love, or lots of times before then, then

chances are you're missing out.

With all the cultural emphasis placed on intercourse, it's taken on the aura of a

goal. Even though good sex takes some work, it doesn't mean it can't be fun.

So here are some suggestions that you can experiment with to get the fullest

enjoyment and relaxation from the F word, fun.

Feel free to stop this tape at any point and discuss anything you see with your

lover, or better still, experiment.

Anything you want to try should be agreeable to both partners and

respectful of each other's wishes.

A warm shower is an intimate way to start a romantic encounter with the

sensuous, relaxing spray of the water and the closeness of bodies.

For those who like squeaky clean bodies, this can be a great prelude to an

exciting evening.

Lovers can playfully dry each other off, stopping along the way to offer some

kisses and maybe oral stimulation to the genitals.

Starting a sexual encounter in a place other than the bedroom can add to the

excitement and break monotony.

Nothing is less fun than boredom.

Having a variety of sexual activities helps keep things fresh.

Of course you can't enjoy the fun if you're worried about the daily grind.

So clear your mind the same way you would as if you were going out for the

evening. Just because you're at home doesn't mean you can't park your

anxieties and conflicts at the door.

Oral sex for us is more than foreplay.

For me, it's exciting to get her so hot.

Sometimes we can just...

both spend a long relaxing time enjoying the pleasure and building anticipation

Women especially enjoy the pampering of erotic massages.

It makes them feel that their lover is there to pleasure them and not just for

his own sexual appetite.

It also lets them show their partner a vulnerability, which adds to the

intimacy.

While some men are in a hurry to get to intercourse, this activity can slow down

the pace and let the male enjoy a gradual rise in sexual excitement.

he can become aroused running his hands over his lover's oil-slicked body.

The skin is our largest erogenous zone, so tender touching all over the body is

important for great sex.

When the moment's right, attention can move to the genitals.

Rubbing and stroking the clitoris from a different angle like this adds something

new to the stimulation.

Some people hold back sounds of pleasure during lovemaking because of

embarrassment Tell your partner how much you appreciate them through sounds of

pleasure. It's all part of the fun of sex

For lovers who'd like to add some playfulness to their sexual activities,

a good way is to include the sense of taste.

Taste lets you enjoy an erotic feast of sensual delights, making sex a truly

sweet experience.

You may wish to experiment with different flavors, like chocolate syrup,

honey, or whipped cream.

Such an activity can be messy if you use too much syrup or a sticky substance.

Have a towel handy just in case.

Also, with such heavily sweet syrups, don't put on more than you care to eat.

The idea is to enhance your activity, not overwhelm it.

This kind of activity helps add some humor because when you're doing

something like this, it's hard to be serious.

There are other commercial products that are designed for sexual appetites like

body butter, flavored gels, and flavored massage oil.

All of these can add some fun to your lovemaking.

New York, sir.

My partner and I communicate about different sexual positions simply by

saying, let's do this.

We simply tell each other when we want to try something new.

Oftentimes we'll bring in a new book that we've read or something in a

magazine that we've found.

We're very open about it verbally.

I could say it's probably two different ways. Sometimes it's verbal. We'll just

say, hey, how about this?

Or it's just a matter of touch or something or movement or you just roll

over. I think if you have a good relationship, you can communicate.

wanting to do new things or experiment new things.

Looking at your partner is an important part of sexual arousal, especially for

men. Images and fantasy can also be a real turn on.

In fact, studies report that many couples fantasize about visual images

while masturbating.

Women also like the stimulation of loving words, caresses, tenderness, and

a romantic mood.

One playful route to arousal can combine both fantasy and visual stimulation,

erotic videos.

Study after study reveals that couples from all walks of life in every part of

the country enjoy them.

Although there are thousands to choose from, you should carefully pick the ones

you want to view.

Some are graphically explicit and may be a turn-off to women, while others depict

sexual activities that most couples would never dream of.

The good ones will stimulate your imagination and maybe even your

fantasies. After all, fantasizing about sex can be a pleasurable activity both

you and your partner can share.

Another way to increase fun by fantasizing is to use erotic videos.

But don't let watching supposedly perfect bodies intimidate you. Remember,

the actors have been made up, rehearsed, choreographed and edited, so don't

compare yourself to them.

Your body is capable of giving you the same amount of pleasure and even more.

Many sex therapists highly rate Candida Royale's videos.

Her approach and professionalism fill her films with sensual images and

stories that can arouse both men and women.

These videos can be a great way to get in the mood for lovemaking.

Many couples only get to watch about 10 minutes at a time because they get so

turned on.

They get too involved to keep watching.

X-rated videos like this can provide a lot of sensual fun while invigorating a

relationship.

i used to resist watching videos i thought they were pretty raunchy but we

found some that were pretty arousing i like the ones where couples are romantic

as well as hot watching a loving couple make love is what turns me on sometimes

i get so turned on i play with him first he likes that a lot videos are also a

good way to see lots of different sex that give us some ideas that's the fun

of it

If you're really adventurous and have wondered what it'd be like to play out

your own sexual fantasies, you can make your own X-rated video.

A favorite fantasy for many is to be a voyeur.

All you need is a video recorder and a little privacy so you can see what it's

like.

This bit of sexual fun can be a real turn-on because everyone has a little

bit of the voyeur in them.

And it can be exciting to loosen your inhibitions.

Some women are afraid to try an activity like this because they feel they aren't

attractive enough or are self-conscious about their bodies.

Find something you like about your body and feature it.

Some people get especially aroused by being behind the camera, photographing

their lover.

You can watch the video later and get aroused again, pretending you're

watching the stars of an X-rated film you've rented.

If you don't particularly like it, you can always do it again, another time.

The important thing is you're being creative and having fun with sex.

And remember, erase the tape or put it in a safe place if you're going to keep

it.

Most couples initiate sex in the bedroom.

There's nothing wrong with that, except if you're looking for something a little

bit different.

A change of scenery can be exciting and adventuresome.

Just imagine what it would be like if you ate hamburgers for every meal.

Wouldn't you want to change a menu once in a while?

Well, it's the same thing with sex.

You'd be surprised how different surroundings can enhance your sexual

fun.

Consider making love in the kitchen or the dining room.

Some lovers even get really turned on by making love outdoors.

Of course, it does take some planning, but the anticipation and the rewards are

well worth it.

We like to be creative. We like to do different.

We'll do it, well, I'm not saying we'll do it anywhere also, but we'll kind of

do it almost anywhere. So it's really exciting.

I did it on a bar that I used to work at, like right on the bar top after

closing time.

And I also did it in the reference section in college at the library.

Yeah, definitely do another place besides bedroom. Definitely like

outside, beach.

I'm right near the beach, right in the sand, the water.

A day at the beach can be a welcome opportunity to experiment.

If you find the right spot that affords enough privacy, you can enjoy some

erotic pleasure.

Some couples like the idea that someone could be watching them from the

distance.

Performance is a turn on for some couples and the risk of getting caught

heightens it.

If you can find a private place, you can have a picnic for sexual pleasure.

A secluded private spot may be just the place to discover the freedom and

pleasure you can enjoy from making love outdoors.

Teasing each other playfully with your clothes on first could build your level

of arousal and anticipation.

Take the time to talk and caress before making love.

Tender words of caring are especially arousing for some couples.

This can deepen the emotional experience for both lovers.

Don't forget to kiss all of the erogenous areas.

A leisurely, relaxed pace will probably be a welcome relief from the everyday

pressures.

It took a little planning, and I had to get over some anxiety, because I'm not

as adventurous as she is.

But I finally made the move, and we had some of the most enjoyable sex we've

ever had.

It got us out of the bedroom and put us in a whole new setting.

It was the same kind of excitement as the first time we made love.

i've always been a bit of a closet exhibitionist it's like i've got the

urge but not the nerve when we went on a picnic i couldn't believe how excited

and turned on i felt and i just kept having one orgasm after another that

never happened to me before i had so much fun on our afternoon i couldn't

wait for him to surprise me with another picnic

Exercise is another way for couples to maintain a healthy and vibrant

sexuality.

It also helps create a positive outlook, boost self-confidence, increase

positivity, and reduce stress.

In the last several years, studies have found a positive connection between

exercise and sexual performance.

Improved fitness provides more sexual endurance and can increase the

satisfaction level and sexual experiences.

It's also an opportunity to incorporate some outdoor sexual pleasures into the

workout.

I think it's fun to exercise outdoors without clothes.

That way we can play with each other while we're doing the exercise.

and one thing usually leads to another.

I touch him in a playful way, or he touches me, and then we're getting

really hot for each other.

But we have a rule that we have to exercise for at least 20 minutes before

we treat ourselves to sex play.

Since we've both been working out, it's increased our stamina and agility, so we

can try a lot of positions we never could do before.

After our workout, we sometimes jump into this great old bathtub.

And after that, it's whatever we feel like doing.

And we usually feel like doing it all.

A home workout can also be a venue for exciting sexual fun.

After a training session and a shower, both partners can reward each other with

sexual treats.

Oral sex has become more mainstream in recent years.

A playful attitude can help couples who may have anxieties about oral sex.

some couples are uncomfortable receiving or giving oral sex because they think

it's unsanitary as in other areas cleanliness and an openness to

experimentation is all that is needed to make this part of lovemaking more fun

Hello.

I love experimenting with all kinds of different positions, whether it's on

top, from behind, on the bottom, sunny side up, sunny side down. If you have

any ideas, keep them coming because I'll try anything.

We love to experiment with different positions.

It wasn't always so, but I had a friend who brought home a great book one day,

and so we decided that was a good idea. My favorite sexual position would have

to be...

when my partner's lying with his back on the bed and I am sitting up on top

facing towards him.

Another way to add something fresh is to vary positions for intercourse.

For some couples, standing positions are wonderful because the woman can place

herself in a way that allows maximum stimulation of her clitoris.

Maintaining balance can be tricky and tiring.

of course you need to consider body weight, height, flexibility, and

stamina. But once you get it right, you can have a lot of fun with it.

The standing rear entry position is just as convenient and much easier to

maintain since balance is less of a problem, especially if a chair or

dresser can lend support.

The deeper the bend, the deeper the penetration.

By changing the height and tilt of her pelvis, the woman controls the thrusting

action. Both partners' hands are free for exploring.

And, as for other rear entry positions, Whispers, kisses, and caresses can

communicate intimacy.

When we were young, the one thing we did regularly was play with games and toys.

Just because we're older doesn't mean we can't have that kind of fun.

For adults, games and toys can really be erotic, and they're easier to play than

you think.

There are even sexy versions of board games we played as children.

Good games stimulate us to be creative and use our imagination when it comes to

sex. All you need is a good sense of humor and a willingness to let anything

happen. So don't be afraid to laugh when you try a new activity.

Take a game like An Enchanting Evening, for example. It offers a playful and

sensual range of suggestions.

Imagination does the rest.

Verbal communication is an important part of game playing.

In An Enchanting Evening, both partners can read the cards in a sexy and

suggestive way, depending on their tone.

It's the kind of game that helps people say things that they may be shy about.

Lovers can use this game to get in the mood for sexual activities.

While daydreaming, you've imagined your partner putting his what?

Where?

His lips.

My lips.

Romeo and Juliet.

Antony and Cleopatra.

are all famous twosomes.

Gently fondle something your partner has a pair of.

You put this in here.

Eyes,

ears, nostrils, cheeks,

lips,

legs.

Lips. Breasts.

Breasts. Wow.

Winner! Okay.

So how do I know what card's mine?

Mine's this card.

Okay. I didn't read yours.

But you have to read mine.

Oh, I have to read yours?

Yeah, because I won.

This is exciting.

Frontal body massage.

Culminating in eating pussy pudding?

Just in case I won.

Oh, you're delicious.

You're vanilla.

You can play a fun game by making clues for your partner and leaving them in

different locations.

To the man of the house, if you want to light my fire, go to the top right

kitchen drawer, the lady of the house.

It can be an especially arousing activity when you surprise your partner

after an average work day.

If you want to burn with desire, go to the CD player.

If you want our hearts to sing, push play.

Head for the master bathroom.

If this moves you, go to your dresser drawer.

Fine cloth like this you'll find on a bed made of love.

Finding the opportunities for joy and passion in our day-to-day lives is a way

to incorporate fun into lovemaking.

One way to learn to capture opportunities for playfulness is with

games like this. Be creative.

Invent your own games.

Let your imagination go.

Planning the activity can add to the expectation and excitement.

If a man knows he's in for an evening of wild sexual fun, he'll probably be more

interested in playing along when his partner suggests a fun alternative.

In this case, a vibrator directed to all parts of her body arouses the woman, and

there's no rush to get to the genitals.

Good sex is like a dance, with both partners taking the opportunity to lead,

follow, and introduce new dance steps.

After becoming aroused with the vibrator, both partners are free to

enjoy each other in any way they desire.

For me, the idea of playing a sexy game is all the fun.

It's really intimate, because it's the kind of game you can only play with a

lover. And it's teasing, so I can really get him aroused with imagining what

we're going to do.

When we play a game like this, our sex play is much better than just the usual

evening in the bedroom.

For those who wish to experiment with vibrators, there are many different

kinds available.

This one is a battery operated mini massager.

It's handy, portable, and very effective.

It's small enough to carry in a purse, briefcase, or in your luggage on

vacation. It's even compact enough to avoid a second look during a customs

check. The mini massager can produce the same level of arousal as a large

vibrator.

How's that?

You like that better, don't you?

With one hand holding the massager and the other hand following it around his

body, a man can be pleasured with both vibrations and sensual touch.

Some women like this new type of vibrator called the aerosolator.

It's one of the best vibrating devices which oscillates side to side rather

than up and down and could provide a new, more intense sensation to the

clitoris.

Let's try one of the other ones. Which one do you want to try?

Yeah,

or just a little bit less pressure.

Yeah. Yeah, yeah, yeah.

Some men like the sensations too.

Have fun discovering where your partner likes to be touched.

While not for everyone, the new bungee love swing offers couples a variety of

different positions and a whole new spin on sexual pleasure.

The swing hangs from a heavy-duty bungee cord instead of a chain like most other

swings and offers a feeling of weightlessness.

With the woman lying back in the harness, her lover can penetrate her

while she moves not only from side to side, but also up and down.

This gives both partners the opportunity to experience many new varieties of

stimulation without any pressure on the back or legs.

This is especially welcome for lovers who may have back problems.

When the woman leans forward in the harness, her lover can penetrate her

from behind and move her to exactly the best level for his and her stimulation.

I didn't even know how to do it with the head set.

Boom.

A common fantasy that is fun to act out is having sex in the office.

If you're not the boss, this can be a little easier on the weekend when the

office is closed and you know you're alone.

Make sure you have complete privacy before starting.

Then play act all you want.

For many people, it's very exciting to have sex in a place where you aren't

supposed to.

Being naked where you're normally dressed is arousing just because of

where you are.

But make sure your partner enjoys this kind of stimulation and doesn't feel

uncomfortable.

Remember, sex can be fun and funny, not just serious business.

Have a seat.

Miss Executive, would you be kind enough to pledge your tits when I do that?

Some couples can really get carried away with the excitement of fantasy and

discover new levels of sexual pleasure.

I'm gonna get a raise, boy.

I mean, if I do this right, I get a raise.

You like that?

Uh-huh.

Strip it.

Strip it for my lips.

I hope you've had a good time.

We hope you've learned something new from the ways we've shown you to have

fun with sex.

There are many other titles in our library of sexual enhancement videos,

which may also give you some creative ways to enjoy sexual pleasure.

You and your partner can have a lot of great time satisfying each other with

any or all of the techniques you've seen in these videos.

So take what you've seen and reach for new levels of sexual ecstasy.

Give yourself permission to relax and have a wonderful time.

You and your lover deserve it.

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