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[Jenny] This season on "90 Day Fiancé, The Other Way."

[upbeat music playing]

I'm leaving a six figure job to move to Aruba

because I fell in love with a man on a pirate ship.

[chuckles]

[shrieks excitedly]

[speaking Spanish]

-[Madelein screams] -[Luke chuckles]

She said, "You need to move or else."

[chuckles]

I'm 58, and I'm still shaking.

[chuckles]

But now I'm moving to Tasmania to be with Dillon.

Welcome home, beautiful.

[chuckles]

[upbeat intense music playing]

We are going to France, yay!

The American Dream is actually killing me.

So we are moving to France to save our marriage.

[Manon] Oh, the smell.

[gags]

I'm going back to LA!

[Sadhna speaking Hindi]

[Jenny] I have no plans of staying with the family permanently.

[Sadhna speaking Hindi]

[bleep] no!

[Jennifer] Do you see him?

[Chloe] I really wanna trust Jonathan,

but it's hard when he's a booze cruise host.

My trust issues come from your actions.

You work with him.

I wanna go out with my friend, OK?

You can't control me like that.

Respect me!

Respect what I [bleep] say!

Ugh...

I didn't touch her.

I mean, what? I didn't.

[dishes breaking]

[tense music playing]

[Madelein speaking Spanish]

[mystery music playing]

Chloe has no idea what she is doing.

My friend is about to make the biggest mistake

of her life, and I really need to stop her.

[upbeat music playing]

♪ Yay ♪

♪ Yay ♪

♪ All I need is to have this one thing ♪

♪ And it's gonna be alright ♪

[Chloe] This is probably the most iconic photo of me.

This is my personality in one photo.

That's it right there.

I mean, nothing's changed.

[producer laughs]

OK.

[inhales and exhales deeply]

♪ Gotta have it, Gotta have it ♪

♪ It's a wonderful thing ♪

♪ Because I dream it and I think it ♪

♪ And it's all I can see ♪

♪ Yay ♪

♪ Yay ♪

I don't really know where to start, actually,

with all this stuff.

It's really overwhelming.

My name is Chloe.

I am 23 years old, and I live in Boxford, Massachusetts.

2008, what is that, first grade?

First grade already winning trophies.

I mean, we're doing something right.

I'm very competitive in anything I do.

These are some accomplishments.

Of course, these aren't all, but there was a few.

I started cheerleading when I was four or five.

I did, like, a club team with my school, and then

I also did competitive cheerleading for years.

Growing up, my mom was able to give me

the most amazing life.

Total, spoiled princess. I got everything I wanted.

Now, I work with my mom as a sales rep,

and it's always been my mom's dream

that I would take over her shipping

and logistics business.

My life was already set on a path.

Money, security, comfortability on a silver platter.

And then on vacation in Aruba, I fell in love with a man

on a pirate ship.

[chuckles]

It's true, though.

♪ Oh, boy, dance with me ♪

♪ It will make you Fall in love with me ♪

♪ Like, ooh, ooh ♪

♪ Ooh, ooh ♪

[Chloe] Jonathan is 32 years old.

He's from Aruba, and he's an entertainer

on a pirate ship party boat.

We first met when I was on a girl's trip,

and I saw him on the boat, shirtless.

I just thought he was gorgeous, and that was it.

But my first impression was...

I don't wanna say kinda he was, like, cocky,

but he definitely knew, like, what he had going on.

And I was like, "Oh, no," like,

"No, you're not gonna do that with me."

Like, "Don't give me that," you know, "energy."

But we later met him at a bar, and he was really funny,

and actually really sweet.

And I remember him just saying, like, "Oh, like, you'll have

to come back." And, like, looked at me.

I'm like, "You're looking through my soul."

I was like, "I -- I don't know," and I'm not a shy person,

but I was like, "Yeah," like, "I'm gonna come back."

A few days after I got back to Boston,

I had already booked my flight back to Aruba.

I went back another time, and another time,

and another time.

And now, after 11 months of long distance...

I'm packing up my entire life in Boston and moving to Aruba.

I know that if I don't make the move to Aruba,

we would not last long distance,

and that's not a risk that I am willing to take.

This isn't gonna all fit.

Are you really gonna wear high heels on the beach?

I mean, not on the beach, but --

[Michelle laughs]

Jeans?

Well, like a cute tank top.

Some little heels.

I've been there five times,

and I've never once even put on a pair of pants.

You know, not all superheroes wear capes.

[both laugh]

[Chloe] Not all people can wear jeans in Aruba.

My parents divorced when I was two or three,

and I lived with my mom predominantly.

She is truly my best friend.

She was like my rock, basically, growing up.

Did you remember to pack all my makeup stuff?

I think so.

I think I did, I'll double check, honey.

-I need that eye cream. -[Michelle] Right.

If you need this eye cream,

you probably shouldn't be living in Aruba,

because you can't get it there.

That's why you're gonna come visit me

and deliver it to me. -[Michelle] Ah, oh, really?

So that's what I am.

I'm gonna be your delivery person, huh?

[chuckles quietly]

I think living in Aruba will be challenging,

to say the least.

I have always grown up --

"when I want something, I kind of get it" type mindset.

And now I'm going to be in the middle of nowhere

in this tiny little, like, sandbox.

I actually don't even know what I'm gonna do.

I can't believe that you're gonna go and live in,

uh, you know, another country.

Packing your way to school was one thing.

This is, um, this is really hard.

I'm not going, like, to prison.

Like, I can also just -- you can come visit and,

like, I can come see you. -[both laugh]

You can come see me.

When we really look at it, Chloe, you are moving

to another country...

for a pirate.

I mean, not everyone wants to work a nine to five.

Understood, but how sustainable is piracy?

I'm -- I'm not gonna be a pirate, hopefully, you know?

I -- you never know.

I mean, you're not gonna have a ton of options there.

I'm just gonna...

wing it.

[Michelle] You're going to be leaving a lot behind.

I feel like I'm getting robbed,

you know, in a sense.

I worked so hard so that she could have opportunities,

and she's leaving those opportunities behind.

She's gonna have a much harder life,

and that's not what I want for my daughter.

You know, how you live here is -- is -- it's very different.

At the end of the day, are you going to be happy

not having your $80 face wash...

and having cold showers every day?

[Chloe] I'm leaving a six figure job with my mom to move to Aruba,

which is obviously insane,

but love does make you do crazy things.

[chuckles]

[melancholic piano music playing]

Johnny has a laundry list of girls behind him,

and he's not the guy that you start your life with.

My husband has grown up with this guy,

and I know a lot of things about him.

Not all of them are good.

I really thought this was just gonna be a fling,

but now that she's really serious about moving there,

I feel like I have to stop her before she just goes

to another country and she doesn't even know

what she's getting herself into.

I just wanna get there already

so I can talk Chloe out of making this decision.

[intense music playing]

[doorbell ringing thrice]

[upbeat music playing]

♪ Let's go ♪

♪ When I walk in the room ♪

♪ Everybody scatter like doom, doom, doom ♪

♪ With a bang and a boom ♪

♪ A little bit dramatic, but I'm coming for you ♪

♪ Danger ♪

♪ Danger ♪

♪ Danger ♪

Love that, love that.

Looking good.

♪ Danger ♪

My name is Manon, I'm 32, and I am from Marseille,

South of France, baby.

But I live in Los Angeles.

Vogue. [chuckles]

Let's do it here on the pavement.

In France, everyone is so judgmental about your weight.

If you dare to wear bright outfit,

but you have a little bit of, like, curves,

you're gonna be stared down all day long.

So 12 years ago, I actually started a social media page

about being plus sized and living in France.

[French music playing]

[Manon] It started becoming actually really popular.

And said, "Hey, I'm the CEO, and I want to invite you

to come to LA for a plus size photo shoot."

I went, and I never came back again.

Three, two...

[upbeat beats playing]

Once I was here,

I was able to meet so many other girls

just like me.

Chastity!

Yes, queen!

These women were not afraid of being who they wanna be,

and afraid of wearing beautiful outfits.

They were just, like, so proud and confident.

It really made me feel I belong.

Scooch out a little bit to your right.

-My right? -[Jorge] The whole body, yeah.

So I can get your head right in between those two girls.

[Manon] My American Dream was starting to become true.

But something was missing.

Come here, sexy. [exhales deeply]

[sniffs] Hmm.

I'm Anthony.

I'm 33 years old and from Corona, California.

[upbeat music playing]

[Manon] We've been married for actually three years.

And new parents of a little baby boy, Benjamin.

[Anthony and Manon giggle]

[Benjamin babbles and giggles]

We are very much opposites.

Yes, we are like the yin and the yang.

[Anthony] I'm a shy person,

and she's very outgoing and passionate.

[Manon] He is the stay-at-home dad,

and I am the one who works, provide.

Guys, since I gave birth, I have cramps in my entire body

now when I pose, I cannot do [bleep] anymore.

♪ Who's that chick ♪

♪ She a bad bitch, thick like Bisquick ♪

♪ She got all her own money ♪

[Manon speaking]

I'm gonna go change my lens and grab another one.

-I'll be right back. -[Chastity] OK, cool.

Oh, well, you did amazing, guys.

-[Chastity] Thank you. -[Angela] Thank you so much.

[Manon] Let me stand up, whoo!

[laughing]

Well, while we are waiting for the camera, I just wanted

to say something to you really quick because you know me

since I first moved.

I think I need to touch my hair for this 'cause it's gonna be --

it's gonna be something. -Are you pregnant?

Girl. I'm struggling with one kid.

[Hayley] I don't know what you are dropping.

-Get my mind around it. -Oh, my God.

OK.

A few weeks ago, I came to the point where I'm like,

I'm at the end of my rope, because I'm overwhelmed

and overworked, right? I don't see my husband.

I don't see my son.

Anthony is also overworked and overwhelmed.

The dad is staying at home full time.

-It is really hard. -Yeah.

And the thing is, like, we both were kind

of losing each other a little bit in the process.

So, um, I'm sorry.

It's just I wanted to let you know something that's really...

It's been on my heart for a few weeks now.

I'm selling my house and I'm going back to France full time.

I'm leaving LA.

[whimpers]

[Cindy] Oh, my God.

[Manon] I don't know if I should, like, laugh or cry.

It's just -- but that's it.

I'm going back home for my family.

Aw.

Yeah, so it's for my husband,

for a good quality of life. -[Chasity] Yeah, yeah, yeah.

He's gonna be the one working fully now, so I can

focus on my son because you know me.

Here it's, like, it's a lot.

-You know, it's a lot. -I totally get it.

The quality of life, the healthcare, like that --

everything makes sense.

But like, you're, like, the most American person I know.

I -- ironically.

You're a confident person that's worked so hard.

[Chastity] That's a huge sacrifice.

I'm really shocked that she's leaving

because she loves LA.

She loves working.

And I know the society hasn't changed as much there,

and isn't as accepting of curvy bodies

and confident women.

So I'm really nervous that they're not gonna be ready

for Manon back in France.

You've been working so much, so long,

that maybe this is your time

to maybe relax. -But I'm scared, Cindy,

I'm not gonna be able to -- you know me.

I'm gonna wanna do something because I need to buy

a house there. -[Hayley] Yeah, you need time.

So we are going to stay with my parents for a little bit

in a very tiny home. -I support you.

-I'm just very scared for you. -Yes, me too.

[Hayley] You left France because how you were treated.

Are you scared at all of, like, that could happen again?

-[Manon] Oh, I'm scared. -[Chastity] Yeah.

I've been bullied my whole life

with my family.

I love them, but -- but,

there's a big, big, big, big but.

They've been living in France their whole life, right?

So I'm still worried that all of the old patterns,

they haven't changed or anything.

When Tony was meeting my family for the first time ever,

you know, when I went to see my grandpa, what happened?

The first thing he said to me, he looked at me, and he's like,

"How a girl like you married a man like that?"

-What -- that's horrible! -[Manon] Like, excuse me?

My grandpa and my -- like, even just, like,

like, my mom would be like,

"Oh, did you gain some weight? Oh, you lost a little bit."

Just -- why is it a criteria?

You cannot just say, "Hi, how are you?"

But this type of thing that makes you feel like [bleep],

you know, makes you feel you're never enough.

You're never enough.

That's why I wanted to do that shoot today.

'Cause I was like, "That's most probably

going to be the last one."

Over there, there's no girls like you guys,

over there, people are bringing you down.

People look at you like a freak,

you know, when you're big and stuff.

[Chastity] Yeah.

And that's what I was missing in France,

is people like you that I could connect with.

'Cause at home, I was always the fat girl.

Like, why does she want to dream like that and go to LA?

I've always felt like I'm a freaking weirdo, you know?

My whole [bleep] life. And being here in LA

saved my life.

Growing up in France always made me feel

like I was less than --

I remember being bullied.

All of the other kids at school were making fun of me,

chewing gum in my hair, spitting on me,

calling me "the whale," calling me fat.

And I know that my parents, they were trying

to do their best.

But I do have a lot of resentment on how I was raised

and the things that they said to me.

So moving back to France with my parents

is definitely going to be a big challenge,

and I feel very, very stressed.

I love my husband. I love my son.

I see the bigger picture, but on the other side,

I'm scared as [bleep], 'cause I'm gonna miss it a lot

here, you know?

[upbeat music playing]

[Lizona speaking Spanish]

[Madelein speaking]

What do you want me to do, like this?

It's horrible.

Baby, let's pack.

We are in financial crisis right now,

and we decide to move in with the family.

[spiritual music playing]

[car honks]

[upbeat music playing]

♪ Yeah ♪

♪ Yeah, I'm gonna keep you up Tonight, baby ♪

♪ Yeah, you need some good love And a good night ♪

♪ Baby, grab a bag You should pack it light ♪

♪ Let me know feel some ♪

♪ Come on, come on ♪

♪ I can't wait for your touch ♪

♪ Yeah, tonight you're Living out your best life ♪

[speaking Hindi]

Look so handsome.

♪ Ooh, ooh ♪

♪ I'll be the reason ♪

♪ Yeah, I'll be the best You've ever had ♪

What is he putting on your face?

These all natural items for the good for the skin.

[Sumit giggles]

I'm Jenny, I'm 67 years old.

I'm from Palm Springs, California,

and this is my cute husband, Sumit.

[upbeat music playing]

[Sadhna speaking Hindi]

-[Jenny] No, no. -[Sadhna speaking]

No haircut, no cut.

After 15 years of being together,

his parents have finally accepted our relationship.

Aw.

[Sumit chuckles]

[Jenny] But it's been a long journey to get here.

[Sumit speaking]

[Jenny] We continued in a long distance relationship

until I finally decided to move to India to marry Sumit.

[Sumit] Jenny!

Oh, my God!

-There you are, hi! -Hi!

I thought Sumit and I were gonna live happily ever after

until I found out he was already married.

That was a big shock.

What do I do? I'm scared.

[whimpers]

You know, it's a nightmare, and how could --

Why is this happening right now?

Why is this happening?

I gave --

Why tell me you love me

and talk to me every single day,

and still marry somebody else, and not tell me?

It was one of the most difficult times

of our relationship.

But he told me he was gonna get a divorce, and he did.

[Sadhna speaking Hindi]

I am not old enough to be his grandmother.

It impacted our relationship a lot.

There were several times

that I threatened to go back to the US.

You promised me we were gonna get married this time,

so I would never have to leave India again.

But do you know the situation or not?

It's always because of your parents every time.

I'm not gonna keep coming back and leaving

every damn six months. I'm not gonna keep doing it.

You're not gonna keep telling me you're going

to marry me, you're [bleep] not!

That's it!

[bleep] this [bleep].

We wanted to be together, we wanted to be married,

but we didn't have his family's approval.

So we decided to get married in secret.

[officiant speaking]

[all clap]

[Sadhna speaking Hindi]

[Sumit] My mother was not happy that I chose Jenny over family.

And that was a very sad time, very, uh, devastated time.

-Oh, my mom. -Oh!

-What a cute little bun. -[Sumit laughs]

Oh it's a cute little -- anybody got a bow?

[Jenny] She couldn't fight it anymore.

Yeah, your skin looks really nice.

-[Sumit] Yeah. -[Jenny] Such a mom.

-It's my mom. -[Jenny laughs]

[speaking Hindi]

-[Jenny] OK. -OK, Jenny.

-See you soon. -Yes, OK, bye.

[Jenny] Bye.

How am I as a daughter-in-law?

Good, good daughter-in-law.

-Yay! -Whoa, yay, oh my God.

[Jenny] We have a good time together, actually.

But now, the real test is gonna come.

[chill music playing]

Baby, let's pack.

[Jenny] OK, I have lots of clothes.

Six months ago, we moved into a nice, fancy apartment.

-It's a gated community. -And it is brand new.

It's everything I wanted, but he lost his job,

and so now we can't afford to pay the rent anymore.

So we are in financial crisis right now, and we decide

to move in with the family.

Oh, boy.

Yay.

I can't wait to see what happens.

This really started to feel like home for me.

I was...

comfortable here, and now I'm just completely devastated.

It's costing us a lot, and, you know, I can't handle

that by myself.

But the financial crisis is giving us a chance that I get

to experience living with family.

I know how you feel about this.

I know this is what you've always wanted.

And that's why I'm happy for you.

And, of course, I love you, and I'm gonna be right there

with you by your side.

But that doesn't mean I'm not worried.

[Sumit speaking]

[Jenny] Absolutely.

But, you know, living with them is a whole 'nother thing.

We're not gonna be able to live like we've been

living here, we've been free.

We've been able to do whatever we want.

And your mom's, you know, she has a lot of rules.

[Sadhna speaking Hindi]

I'm not used to living with parents.

I know.

So I mean, we both have

a different point of view about this.

Sumit thinks that we're all gonna live together

and everything's gonna be great, but I have my doubts.

The acceptance is new...

and I would rather not rock the boat

by us all moving in together,

but we don't have a choice.

I hope everything works out OK,

because I don't want anything to happen to our relationship.

We need to follow a budget.

♪ Beautiful ♪

♪ Beautiful ♪

♪ Beautiful ♪

[speaking Spanish]

[Lizona] Wow, eh! [claps]

[speaking Spanish]

Whoo!

♪ I believe, I believe I believe ♪

♪ It's a brand new start ♪

♪ I believe, I believe, I believe in that ♪

[speaking Spanish]

[speaking Spanish]

Were like "Oh, oh, oh."

[Lizona speaking Spanish]

[Madelein speaking]

♪ Uno, dos, tres, go ♪

[Luke speaking Spanish]

[Madelein speaking Spanish]

[Luke and Madelein speaking Spanish]

-[Luke] Ready to practice? -[Madelein] Yes.

[Madelein counts in Spanish]

You're so cute. [Luke counts in Spanish]

Is this good?

My baby. You want me to be honest?

[Luke] Yeah.

It's horrible.

My name's Luke.

I'm 31 years old, and I live in The Hills

north of Los Angeles.

What do you want me to do, like this?

One, two. You said, "Do one, two."

[Madelein speaking Spanish]

You're gonna marry me.

I know.

Two years ago, I met Madelein on a boy's trip to Colombia.

♪ Looks like ♪

♪ You're a movie star ♪

♪ And I love how you act Like you think you are ♪

♪ You know it ♪

[Luke] We picked Medellin because we've been told they have

the hottest girls there.

My buddies and I downloaded a couple dating apps,

and I met Madelein literally day one.

♪ I just fear on my way home ♪

♪ I don't really care for ♪

My jaw dropped. She was beautiful.

She had this outfit on with the fur coat, and

I was like, "Damn, girl,"

like, "Who the heck is this," right?

When I meet him in Party Zone, he's so [bleep] hot, like, "Oh!"

♪ Touch me here, touch me there, Touch me everywhere ♪

♪ Don't care, don't care ♪

♪ 'Cause I want you ♪

[Madelein speaking]

[Luke] We got along right away.

Like, "What? You know, we just met."

How is this that easy?

When I got home, we talked every day.

After three whole months, I tattooed her name

next to my penis.

I'm not the biggest tattoo person, but I wanted her

to know that I was serious and she was the one.

[Madelein speaking]

What?

You're one special girl, Madelein.

Yes, I am.

♪ I've been dreaming About you ♪

Nine months after meeting Madelein, I proposed.

I've never felt like this with anybody else.

Madelein is a strong and confident person.

She calls me on my [bleep].

Can she be a little bit controlling?

Sure.

But, at the end of the day, I think she's like a voice

of reason for me.

♪ But this is different, Yeah, the color's more true ♪

[Luke] And I had every intention to move down

to Colombia so that we could start our life together.

Unfortunately, that's not how it played out.

[Madelein speaking]

[Luke] I'm trying, baby.

We're supposed to be in person, and it's --

I'm working on it. I'll be there soon, OK?

[Luke speaking Spanish]

It's been a whole year,

and Madelein is pissed that I'm still in the States.

But I keep telling Madelein that I don't have the money

to make this move.

[Luke] OK, well, that's why we're practicing.

Madelein is sick of the long distance.

She's fed up with waiting. She's fed up with my excuses.

And basically, she said, "You need to move to Colombia

so that we could be together, or else."

I don't know what

would happen if I don't move to Colombia,

but I don't wanna find out.

So we're getting married in three weeks,

and after the wedding, I'll be staying there for good.

You excited for the wedding?

[Luke] Why?

[Madelein speaking]

[Luke] OK.

For what?

So you want me to pay for a helicopter for you

to show up to the wedding? -Exactly.

[Luke] Oh, my God.

[speaking Spanish]

I'm about to move.

I'm not gonna have my income from my job anymore.

So we need to follow a budget.

I promised Madelein the wedding of her dreams,

but I'm in a lot of debt.

I invested in sunglasses and a jewelry line,

and it hasn't turned a profit yet.

So once I quit my job as a mining engineer,

I am gonna have no money coming in.

So yeah, that is not the best situation to be in.

[Luke] I mean, yeah, but...

I don't know, babe, like, I'll look into it,

and if I can make it happen

I'll try and make it happen, I mean, we'll see, right?

You still practice dancing, I don't see you dancing.

[Luke] I'll be the first to admit

that I have a very hard time telling Madelein "no."

That's why it's probably better for me to stay here,

continue to work, and save money so that I can

fully provide the wedding and lifestyle that she wants.

But if I stay any longer, I think Madelein

would leave me for good.

So I need to move, and I need to make it work.

End of story.

There's so much at stake. My whole future.

Yeah [bleep].

I think I'm getting the hang of this, babe.

I don't think so.

[Anthony] For the past year and a half,

I've been a full-time, stay-at-home dad.

You are definitely a very rare breed.

That's why I married you.

Look at him, like the mustache.

He made my "hm" tingling, you know?

I was like, "Ooh!"

I feel like I'm a [bleep] mom. I just can't.

The American Dream is actually killing me,

and I need to let it go.

[upbeat music playing]

Yeah, daddy's here.

♪ Hold on ♪

♪ I'm telling you the truth ♪

♪ You need me baby ♪

♪ Just like I need you ♪

'Cause we cannot post later than the 24th.

For the past year and a half,

I've been a full-time, stay-at-home dad.

Benjamin.

Daycare is stupid expensive,

so I quit my job in security to stay at home with Ben.

[Manon] Anthony is an amazing, loving husband,

but what he does the best and who he is the best

is a baby daddy.

You are definitely a very rare breed.

That's why I married you.

We met about four years ago.

She actually swiped left on me at first.

[sighs]

He's terrible at taking pictures of himself.

You could not see his face at first.

I'm like, "Oh, that's probably a creep, right?

But we never know." I shake the phone.

He goes back on the profile.

And I'm like, "Oh, actually kind of cute."

Cute dog, also.

[chuckles]

[Anthony] And then we had our first date in Malibu.

And I think she kinda did a double take

when she first saw me.

[Manon] Look at him, like, the mustache, Mr. Mustache

He made my "hm" tingling, you know?

I was like, "Ooh, I didn't expected that."

You know, keep it. You better keep it.

Ooh, hoo.

Look at you.

I already knew after our first date that I wanted

to marry her.

[Manon] And then, actually, he wrote me

a handwriting letter as well in my mail a few days after.

How freaking cool is that?

And I was like, "OK, well, he's not going anywhere."

And then everything went back-to-back with him.

One month later, we moved with each other.

Six months after, he proposed.

Nine months after we dated, we eloped in Las Vegas.

Seven months.

[sighs] Seven months later, yes.

A year later, we bought the house,

and then right after, bam! The baby.

All of that in less than three years.

OK, finished my meeting. Come here, my baby.

Is that mama?

Oh, come with mama.

[Benjamin babbles]

Come with me. Come here.

Come with me. Yeah.

Yeah. Oh, OK.

-He wants to play. -OK.

I had to go back to work after eight weeks, after giving birth

eight weeks later,

'cause how are we going to pay our bills?

And it was not just a nine to five,

where at five, I'm done, I can shut off my phone.

Babies thrive on routines, but his entire routine's

for everything with Anthony.

And sometimes it makes me feel like the biggest failure

in the world.

I do want to have that bond with that baby that it took me

nine months to create, to carry.

He's my pride and joy.

Good job. Good job.

-[Benjamin cries] -Come here, come to mommy.

I really cannot stand that, you know, he's just always

into you, into you.

Every time I try to play or something, he just goes

straight back at you.

I know.

With Manon working and me taking care of Ben,

there have been a lot of days where we were

at each other's throats.

I felt a lot of resentment coming from her for me spending

so much time with Ben, building this incredible bond,

you know, and everything was always falling on me with Ben,

both of us were actually starting to resent each other.

...'cause you provide for us.

Yeah, but I should be there for him, though.

And you will be in France, and that's why we're going.

See how excited he is about France?

Yeah.

-Woo! -Yeah. [chuckles nervously]

[Anthony] Our marriage was falling apart,

so I said, "Why don't we sell our house and move to France?

"And really focus on us as a family and the quality

of life that can be there."

I thought it seemed -- I'm like, "You know what?

"He is right,

"The American Dream is actually killing me,

and I need to let it go."

It's gonna be better for us.

You're gonna spend more time with him.

-Yeah. -And he's gonna be

more attached to you than he is to me.

[Manon]* I am looking forward to it,

but it's not gonna be completely easy.

It may save our marriage and also make me have

a good relationship with my son.

That's why I'm doing it.

But you're asking me to go back to a country that I used

to hate and I wanted to escape.

You ask me to not be a business entrepreneur girlie that I am.

Like, it's a lot.

So what if it's actually a bit too much, Anthony?

What if it's too much change for me?

You wanna go with Dad? Yeah, go to daddy.

OK.

-[phone chimes] -Oh [bleep].

I gotta go. It's my next meeting.

*

[Jennifer] She thinks I'm coming just to say bye, but I'm really

coming to tell her not to move there.

I think you're making a mistake.

The only thing that he's shown

is that he's not even faithful to you.

I'm so happy that finally we all can live together.

-I'm afraid. -You're afraid?

There are a lot of expectations from the daughter-in-law.

She can't expect us to be there always cleaning and cooking.

I don't want to scare you.

-You are scaring me. -[Shree laughs]

[Jennifer] Chloe is living in, like, Delululand.

She's moving to another country for the wrong man.

He is not the one.

She thinks I'm coming just to say bye and to wish her luck,

but I'm really coming to tell her not to move there.

♪ I see the clouds Breaking over my head ♪

♪ Ground shaking Under my feet ♪

[Jennifer] Aruba is where you go to have fun on vacation,

not where you move to be with someone.

[doorbell rings]

[Jennifer] I don't wanna break her heart,

but I think she's making a mistake.

[both] Hey!

[Chloe] How are you?

-[Jennifer] Good to see you. -[Chloe] You too.

-My God, I missed you. -[Jennifer] It's so cold.

[Chloe] I know. It's freezing.

Alright, you don't really have to wipe your feet.

It's fine.

Jen's husband grew up on the same street as Jonathan.

And they met when Jen was on vacation.

Darren moved to the States about a year ago,

and they just got married.

You want a snack, or, like, tea, or something?

Yeah, I'll take some tea.

[Chloe] I met Jen before they moved to the States.

Jen is, like, my friendship mom.

She'll tell me whether I'm insane or I'm not insane,

but I don't always want Jen's advice,

'cause 99% of the time, she's probably right,

and that's what I try to avoid at all costs.

How are you?

-[Jennifer] Good. -Yeah?

-Drive was a little long. -[Chloe] How long is it?

-Four and a half hours. -[Chloe] Oh, gosh.

So I know I was coming to say goodbye...

but I really came to try to...

talk to you.

There is so much more to life than Aruba,

which I love as a vacation home.

But to live there is

a completely different commitment.

I need to explain to you how crazy it is there

with how the culture is.

There's just thousands of these girls that literally

come to Aruba for one reason, and that is to party

and hook up with the locals.

I've been going there for such a long time.

I've seen it so many times,

and I think you're making a mistake.

I'm so worried that you are

literally leaving your life here for him,

and the only thing that he's shown

is that he's not even faithful to you.

After a few months of Jonathan and I being together,

I thought we were exclusive.

We were going to be boyfriend and girlfriend.

And then Jonathan was on a boy's trip to Florida.

One day, I'm on social media, and I see that he was actually

taking another girl on a trip to Florida for her birthday.

[Chloe] You know, we talked about it.

He told me he was in an open relationship,

quote, unquote, with the girl.

And I just said, "I honestly don't understand it,

'cause that's not how I do things."

He just said, like, "I really do want this to work.

I made a mistake."

It's just -- it seems like he definitely jumps

from females. He's got a long history.

When you say it like that, it sounds bad.

-It is bad. -It was bad.

[Jennifer] And that's why I worry,

because now you're literally six months later,

making the decision to go live with him.

I am worried that it's a trend given the lifestyle

and the culture there.

Having a husband that also worked in tourism that got

constantly hit on, it never stopped.

And guys like Johnny constantly go with these girls.

Like, what do they say about, like,

"Leopard doesn't

change their spots?"

I think Chloe does see successful relationships.

Darren and I, for example, but our situation is

a little bit different, he left Aruba.

In Aruba, these guys know how to get away with cheating.

My husband, he saw these things happen all the time.

The guys on the boat all have each other's back.

I think Johnny knows that he can get away with it

if he wants to. He's already done it before.

Yes, he's gotten caught.

That doesn't necessarily mean he won't do it again.

He may just get more clever about it.

[Chloe] I know you came here

to stop me, in a sense.

-I did. -But I'm going through with it,

I believe in him.

Whether it's my insanity

or the fact that I'm just delusional,

I really do feel this is going to work out.

[upbeat music playing]

[Sumit] Uh-oh, trouble.

[grunts]

-How are you? -Hello!

[Jenny] Look how straight your hair is, oh my God.

[Sumit] We are moving in with my family tomorrow,

and today we are meeting my brother Amit

and my sister-in-law Shree.

So we can buy some stuff for the house.

-[Jenny] OK, OK, see you later, bye! -[Shree] Bye!

I have a great relationship with Amit and Shree.

We get along really well.

Oh, this is the shop.

-We just missed it. -This shop?

This shop, yeah.

[Jenny] They've been living together with the family

since they got married.

And I know that there's been some problems lately

between mom and Shree.

So I'm gonna get the -- the 411 on that.

So what do you think of these pots and pans?

This looks good for chai, right?

-But this little small. -Too small, OK.

-We need a bigger size -Yeah, there's a lot of us there.

[Shree] Yeah, six people.

I think I've only ever made chai for four people.

-That's the max. -That's the max.

Yeah, we've been talking,

of course. -[Shree] Hm, OK.

But I don't think he's telling me everything.

I think he doesn't want to scare me.

So you need to, kind of, fill me in

on what to expect.

So there are a lot of expectations

from the daughter-in-law.

You know, you have to be at certain places,

you have to be wearing certain things

at certain places, and you have to behave a certain way.

[chill music playing]

[Sumit] This guy is getting heavy.

[Amit] He's tired.

[Sumit chuckles]

I'm so happy that finally my dream is coming true.

-Like, we all can live together. -I'm afraid.

You're afraid?

[Amit] Maybe I'm afraid for my wife.

Like, once we'll start living together,

then the responsibility will be double.

What I think is will be double for her.

Jenny wakes up late. She doesn't cook food.

Like, you spent five years together, like,

living by your own way.

But now the things are different.

With family comes the responsibility.

I don't want my wife only the one who will be doing

each and everything.

[Sumit] I understand my brother's concern,

but he also need to understand

it's gonna be very difficult and different for Jenny.

[Jenny] You know how I see it, Shree?

Mom...

this is her way of life,

this is what she's always been doing.

She can't expect us to be there always cleaning and cooking,

because that's her thing.

-That's what she likes to do. -Exactly.

The thing is, this is where we have little mismatch things.

Then I said, "Fine, if you think

that I have not done anything,

then I'll be not doing anything from today onwards."

Oh, God.

Like, what have I gotten myself into?

-[Shree chuckles] -[Jenny] Oh, no.

See, I don't want to scare you.

-You are scaring me. -[Shree laughs]

But I'm giving you a very, very reality picture.

[Sumit speaking]

[Amit] They are not.

Mom just said, "And you have never done anything for us."

-Oh, like, now? -[Amit] And Shree...

You are not the favorite one, huh?

Things have changed. Now you are the most loved

son and daughter-in-law.

And now the dynamics will be different

once you guys move in together.

And let's see who will be the favorite --

favorite daughter-in-law.

[Sumit speaking]

70,000 is a lot of money!

I would love to not have to focus so much

on money, money, money.

We're on the brink of divorce.

♪ Whoa ♪

♪ Take a little ride with me ♪

♪ Come on, Take a little ride with me ♪

[car dealer] You're the original owner?

-[Anthony] Yeah. -[Manon] Yes.

[car dealer] Why are you guys selling the car?

-[Anthony] Moving to France. -[car dealer] OK.

♪ Oh, baby, You take a look at me now ♪

♪ Yeah ♪

Do you know what your payoff is?

-$27,000. -Yeah.

[car dealer] OK, let me book it out real quick.

We put our house on the market a week ago.

And the house is actually already sold.

OK, so, as you know,

we accepted the offer. We took it all cash.

-[Manon] Yeah. -[Kelly] $810.

So the net proceeds we have right now is $88,778.

But we have two weeks that you have to be out

of the house. So just prep yourself.

Wow.

-And now we have two weeks... -Nothing is ready yet.

...to get out of our house, pack all of our belongings,

make sure we have all of our important paperwork.

Sell everything, get rid of everything in two weeks.

I got auction fee, I got detail, I gotta put two tires on,

and then we gotta make a little bit of money.

So the number I'd be at is probably right around 15 grand.

[Manon] Oh, my Lord, 15K?

[Anthony] Whoa, it's something to just take a step back

and to consider.

I'm just trying to help you out the best we can.

Oh, no, no, no, for sure. Thank you.

-I appreciate it. -We're looking at our options.

Sorry about the news.

Wish it could have been better.

It's OK. It is what it is, right?

[Manon] OK, I'm gonna go to bed and cry.

Thanks.

I have to lose $12,000 out of my own money

to get rid of a car? That seems like [bleep] insane.

Fifteen [bleep] K, like, no [bleep] way, like, no.

Well, I mean, it's -- it's one option.

No, but I have to move to France and go there broke?

You think the amount of money we have in our account

after selling our house means we're broke?

We'd be broke, yeah, there,

because there's nothing coming in.

It's only coming out.

$70,000 is a lot of money! Between that --

That money is not even enough for a down payment in France.

I'm not going to rent anymore.

I'm not going to have a [bleep] house that's way

smaller or something. -We are not going there broke.

And we're not going there with the expectation

of not working either.

I know this move isn't easy for Manon, and financially,

we're gonna have to take a hit for a while,

but we're gonna be OK.

We'll be staying with your parents, not paying rent.

You'll still be working part time

with your marketing company,

and as soon as my French gets better,

I can get a job in security

or in some field where they're open

to having someone that's either still learning

or whatever level I'll be at.

-You're delulu. -I'm motivated.

-[Manon] Delulu. -It's different.

Delusional.

Stop focusing so much on we need this amount

or else we're broke and it's not gonna work.

Because, Anthony, every day as a kid,

I see my dad and my mom

stressing because we don't have enough money.

And then I lived like [bleep]

for years in LA trying to make it, OK?

I was homeless. I had nothing under my name.

Nothing.

I'm not just a materialistic bitch

who wants, like, fancy bags and, like, a fancy house.

No, I struggled to get where I'm at today.

So I'm not going to do 10 steps backward.

I wanna enjoy life.

But not everyone has the same definition

of what brings them happiness.

I would love to not have to focus so much

on money, money, money.

Maybe we don't need this fancier house

with the pool and the jacuzzi.

Why is there this constant push for more?

If you make enough to get by and you're happy

with your life, what is wrong with that?

My version of happiness is spending time with you,

spending time with Ben, the roof over our head,

being able to pay our bills.

That's why we are going completely apart,

because what brings you happiness is not the same as me.

And we have, actually,

very different ways of seeing life now.

Anthony, he has a certain standard of, like,

"As long as I have a roof above my head

and food at the table and I'm surviving, I'm happy."

Me, it's actually the opposite.

Makes me feel I'm in danger.

It's being extra comfortable that makes me feel safe.

You wanting more has left me having an amazing relationship

with Ben, you resenting me for it.

It has caused mental health issues for yourself

because of how overworked and stressed you are

to the point where we're on the brink of divorce.

So you know what?

I'm gonna [bleep] say it, like...

Why do I always have to compromise what I want,

who I am, and stuff? Why?

Because your focus on that dream is why we're here.

I'm sorry if I'm someone who's driven in life.

You can be driven, but you can still focus on your family, 100%

Yeah, that's why I'm moving there and that's why

I'm changing all of myself and all of my life for us.

We need some serenity now and really think

about why we're moving to France

because all of this focus on just finances

and finances and finances,

it is like just tearing us apart.

OK.

[Anthony] For her to say we're not compatible, it is very hurtful.

And to hear her say those things,

and not just once, but multiple times,

every single time it's taken a toll.

But it is very important for me to fight for our marriage.

She is easily the best thing that's happened in my life.

Moving to France is very drastic,

and Manon already has a lot of skepticism towards this move.

If this Hail Mary pass doesn't work out,

I have no idea what the future holds for us.

I'm trying to get this wedding done,

and then I'm trying to do the hotel.

Yeah, but it's gonna take a lot of money.

-I know. -[Jim] Does Madelein know

that you're in debt?

[Luke] It is finally sinking in that this is

the highest stakes gamble that I ever made.

-I mean, I -- I'm not stupid. -But you do stupid things.

[chill beats playing]

You want it to be classy.

You know, you don't wanna look like a pimp on your wedding.

-OK. -You wanna look smart.

Madelein hated the shoes that I got for the wedding.

-Is this pimpy? -No, no, that's classy.

So today, I've asked my dad to tag along to go shop

for a new pair.

-I wanted to wear these ones. -[Jim] Those are nice!

-That's the perfect color. -[Luke] It's brown.

Madelein hates brown.

[chuckles]

She texted me.

She said, "You have to understand that shoes

"can't be brown, that color is old people's,

and if you wear brown-colored shoes, I won't marry you."

So she's saying I'm old now, then.

[Luke] Yeah.

"I hate its color, and you need to hate them, too,"

is what she texted me.

Yeah, but at the same time, you don't want her to walk

all over you right now.

You've got to stand your ground.

[Luke chuckles]

Otherwise, your nuts will be gone.

Right.

I don't want to ruin her day over a pair of shoes.

Well, that's a problem if the pair of shoes is gonna

ruin the wedding.

[Luke chuckles]

[Jim] Holy crap.

My dad has always been a really big role model for me.

He runs his own business.

He makes very good life decisions.

I ask my dad for advice quite often, actually.

He is my best friend. We talk all the time.

I don't get it.

You just bought a nice pair of shoes for the wedding,

and now you gotta buy another pair.

You got bills to pay when we get down there.

You don't have to spend a fortune

for it to be a nice day. -Yeah.

You got the rest of your life with her.

And you try and save as much as you can for the future.

I'm just -- I'm trying to get this wedding done and then

I'm trying to do the hotel.

That's, like, the only things I care about right now.

Yeah, but it's gonna take a lot of money.

Trust me, I know.

I know.

I want to provide for Madelein, and since I'm passionate

about investing, I had the chance to purchase

a property two hours outside of Medellin,

and I plan to build a high-end, luxurious resort,

which I'm wholeheartedly planning to become

my primary source of income.

How's your jewelry stuff coming along?

You managed to sell any of that, and your sunglasses?

Yeah, I mean -- I mean, a couple, but I'll be honest,

like, I haven't done any marketing, that costs money.

And with me leaving my job and then the hotel thing,

I just allocated funds towards the hotel and the designs

to try and get that up and running.

You see, that's where you're going wrong.

-Yeah, I mean, I... -No, you are!

[Luke] OK.

[Jim] Everything's like a knee jerk reaction for you,

and you go off on tangents.

You're in quite a lot of debt.

You spent a fortune on that jewelry

and the glasses,

and now you're putting that on the back burner

to do another idea.

But this -- this property

wouldn't have been on the market for long,

and I just needed to do what I needed to do.

I went to school for mining engineering.

I went to school for geology, and I got an MBA in business.

-I mean, I'm not stupid, right? -But you do stupid things.

OK, fine.

Yeah, I took a risk, and it is what it is.

I mean, I love to see people take risks,

but educated risks.

-[Luke] Yeah. -Calculated risks.

Luke comes to for advice, but it's not that he's actually

wanted my advice.

He wants me to back him up on his decisions

rather than give him the negatives.

Even though Luke went to business school,

I sometimes question what they actually taught him,

because he lets money roll through his fingers

like there's no tomorrow.

He's just a very impulsive person with everything.

Now, does Madelein know that you're in debt?

She's aware of all the debt.

It is what it is, and we're -- and we're working through it.

[Jim] The main thing you've got to worry about

is not the business, not the hotel,

not this, not that.

It's Madelein.

She's gonna be your wife soon.

You know, she looks at you as her knight in shining armor.

I mean, has that really sunk in?

-[Luke] Yeah. -Has it?

[Luke] Yeah.

That's why I'm putting almost all my eggs in this basket,

so I can be there, can be with the person that I love.

You know, you called me the second day you were

in Colombia, two years ago.

"I want you to speak to the girl I'm gonna marry."

-Which was wonderful. -Yeah.

[Jim] You saw it then.

Twenty-four hours later, you knew that she was the one.

I just hope she can do you right,

and you do her right.

Because I'm worried about you and your future.

-I mean, we're blood. -Yeah.

I love you to death.

I don't want to see any harm of any kind come to you.

It's gonna hurt you, and that's gonna hurt me.

[melancholic music playing]

I do often worry about Luke because he's got himself

into a sticky predicament. He's got debt to pay.

He's got hotels to build.

He's gonna go down to Colombia, he's not gonna be

earning the money he earns here.

And it leaves him no room to escape or to rectify

the problems that he might have thrown at him.

I love you, Dad. I mean, you know.

[Jim sniffs]

[Luke] I don't know the last time I saw my dad cry.

It adds a lot of weight.

It is finally sinking in that I really need this marriage

to work because I'll lose everything if it doesn't.

This is basically the highest stakes gamble that I ever made.

-I'm always here for you. -[Luke] Thank you.

Goodbye, apartment. Goodbye, freedom.

Today is move-in day.

[speaking Hindi]

What the hell? Get out of my stuff!

[speaking Hindi]

Jenny?

[foreign upbeat music playing]

[Jenny] Everything is gone.

Oh, this is so sad.

I can't believe we're leaving this apartment.

Remember how happy I was to get that chandelier?

Today is move-in day.

I'm excited that I'm gonna move in

with my family again,

and I feel like that it gonna be good.

I feel like I'm leaving my freedom.

I'm giving up everything. Now I have to go deal with Mom.

"Work, work!*

"Do this, clean that.

Cook this, cook that."

She's not that bad.

I mean, do we plan on living with your parents forever, though?

-Yeah, that's what the plan is. -Forever?

Yeah. We're gonna live there.

My life is over now.

I have no plans of staying in this situation

with the family permanently. Not gonna happen, no way.

Goodbye apartment. Goodbye, freedom.

Goodbye, life. Goodbye everything.

I'll miss you.

I don't want to pick a fight with Sumit right now,

but at some point, I'm gonna have to tell him,

"[bleep] no!"

[Sumit speaking]

Your parents aren't gonna wanna eat my American food.

Baby, you just try.

This will be your chance to win more love of my mother.

OK, I'll do my best.

I hope they don't hate me for it.

I'm happy to live together as a typical Indian family.

But Jenny is not traditional housewife.

You want me to carry this?

[Jenny] Can you? It's very heavy.

If Mom tries to tell me what to do,

it's not gonna go down well.

[Sadhna speaking Hindi]

-[Anil] Welcome, welcome! -[Shree] Welcome!

[Sadhna speaking Hindi]

-Jenny, can you believe that this is -- it's you. -No.

Finally, it took a while.

[Sadhna speaking]

This is unbelievable! My Mom is welcoming Jenny

the way they welcome new bride.

[Jenny] Thank you.

-[Jenny] Oh! -[all giggle]

-[Shree] Yay, welcome, welcome. -[Sumit] Awesome.

-Thank you. -Most welcome, Jenny.

[speaking Hindi]

[Jenny] Yeah. [chuckles]

They're doing all these rituals and accepting me

into the family and into their home.

This is something I never really ever expected to happen.

[Sumit] Now touch the feet.

[Anil] Stay blessed, stay happy.

[Jenny] And it feels good,

but I don't really wanna live with them forever

And I don't think I can be

the traditional Indian daughter-in-law.

Now this is our house.

This is our new house.

Yes, I like what you've done with it, it looks nice.

[car honking]

-[Jenny] The movers are here. -Are they waiting downstairs?

[Jenny] Yeah.

So we're gonna start moving stuff in.

OK.

[upbeat music playing]

[Sadhna speaking Hindi]

[both] Oh!

[Jenny] We need to hire someone to come put away all our stuff.

[Sumit speaking]

[Sadhna] Jenny?

Clothes.

Jenny, Jenny, Jenny, Jenny.

[speaking Hindi]

I have a lot of clothes, I know.

[speaking Hindi]

I've had these clothes for a long time, many years.

[Sadhna speaking Hindi]

It's just too small for Jenny.

[Sadhna speaking Hindi]

[Jenny] Why is your mom going through my stuff?

"Jenny doesn't need this, you take it."

Like, what the hell? Get out of --

I want her to say, "Get out of my stuff."

Living in a joint family, everything belongs to everyone.

But I would never just go through their stuff.

I mean, is this a cultural thing,

or is this your mom's thing?

It's more like my mom's thing.

-Like, she... -I had a feeling that was it.

Yeah, she...

[Sadhna speaking Hindi]

Jenny?

My rum!

[speaking Hindi]

Mm-hmm.

If I get a migraine sometimes --

[speaking Hindi]

[speaking Hindi]

Don't, don't, don't do that, don't do that.

-[speaking Hindi] -No, no!

Jenny?

I've only been here for an hour,

and I'm already being criticized.

I don't know how I'm gonna survive this.

So we're gonna move to France.

Shut the front door.

[Sara] I know you guys have had some hard times.

It's not a band aid for a bullet hole.

Are you gonna piss me off, Sara, right now?

-That is why I -- -[Manon] No, I don't think so, I guess.

-Oh, because -- -Because look what, how you do --

Do not speak over me right now.

-OK, get out of my house. -[Sara] OK.

[Manon speaking French]

[piano music playing]

[Benjamin crying]

[Anthony] I don't know how to make these look pretty,

so, nah. -I'll make them for you, move.

[upbeat music keeps playing]

[Manon] The baguette needs to be cut.

-[Anthony] Why? -Anthony.

-Just rip it. -No, you don't.

It's -- ugh, cut it!

-[Anthony] Grip it and rip it. -And then I have nice bread

everywhere, no. What the heck is wrong with you?

It's what's called breaking bread, right?

[Manon] We are moving to France in just a few weeks,

but before that,

I need Anthony to know how to make

a really good charcuterie board

and how to pronounce it properly.

-Charcuterie. -[French pronunciation] Charcuterie.

[French pronunciation] Charcuterie.

No, no. [in French accent] Charcuterie.

[American English pronunciation] Not charcuterie.

-[French pronunciation] Charcuterie. -Thank you.

The grapes here.

I just realized that that's very French.

Oh, my God. I'm really nervous right now.

[Anthony] Yeah, I got you.

And no matter what they say, it is what it is, right?

Yeah, look, we're -- we're in this together.

We know why we're doing this. It's not your decision.

It's not mine, it's ours.

OK.

Today, we have to tell Anthony's family that we are

moving to France and that we are selling the house.

We haven't said anything to anyone yet,

'cause everything happened, kind of like so quickly.

-[Sara] Oh, hi! -[Jacob] Hi, Brandy.

-I know, I did. -Yeah.

[all] Hi!

[Anthony] Waiting to tell my family is very much par for the course

for me and our relationship. -It's your style.

I mean, I don't like to involve my family in,

like, everything that's going on in our marriage.

You left your sweater at my house.

Yes, you did.

We have two different dynamics in terms of families.

Me, it's like we overshare, we overcommunicate,

we say everything.

Our families are very different in that respect,

but they 100% will be sad that we're leaving.

[Manon] Yeah, yeah, I'm not gonna lie, I'm scared.

I'm afraid that they're gonna hate me forever

for taking away their son and their first grandson.

Yeah, I'm scared about that.

Bonjour, everyone!

[all cheering]

You want more prosciutto, baba?

Yes, maybe he wants more. But just small pieces.

Small pieces at a time, please.

Well, thanks for coming, everyone.

We appreciate it, and go ahead.

-I'll let him speak for once. -[all laugh]

Yeah, so we're selling the house

because we're gonna move to France.

-[Nick] Wow. -Shut the front door.

[Sara] That is still -- that's huge, that's huge.

-That's a huge. -Yeah.

So his first words are gonna be in French?

No, his first word was "Brandy," OK?

[Sara] Is this like a permanent move to France?

Like, "Oh, this is it, goodbye forever?"

[Anthony] Yeah, so we're not --

Yeah, it's already --

[both] Yeah.

[Sara] Holy shoot.

[Manon] It's been hard thinking about it.

There's still time to change your mind.

No.

We're set. Yeah, we're set.

Yeah, so we are going to France.

Yay!

Boo.

It just feels like two weeks is a really short amount

of time with a permanent move.

You just don't feel like you're rushing into decisions?

[Anthony] Absolutely not.

No, because what we were doing was not sustainable

as a family. And we're going to essentially

make it better and repair things.

But, like, I know you guys have had

some hard times recently.

I guess it just seems like you're almost adding more fire

to that than really water. -I don't think so.

OK.

It's about slowing down.

Are you going to be able to slow down, though?

I know it's gonna be hard for sure,

and people think that moving away,

moving abroad is like, OK,

all of your problems disappear. No, they don't.

-[Sara] No. -They come with you.

They could also get a lot bigger.

[Anthony] Yeah, but there's a flip side.

We're going there as a means to really be a family unit.

I just hope it's not a band aid for a bullet hole, you know?

[Anthony] I don't think so. Sara, Sara,

we're united in doing this, and you're...

kind of starting to push my buttons a little bit.

So just quit with the whole, like, trying to, like,

push us apart still. -[Sara] I'm just --

I'm not trying to push you apart.

We're doing this to stay together, OK?

I understand that, but my worry is I don't hear

any of the work that has gone into place

outside of "We're just moving."

-It's not -- I don't need -- -[Manon speaking]

I don't need the solution. This is your relationship.

And that's why we have come up with our solution, right?

Whether or not you think that more time together

is gonna be beneficial,

we think this is the best for us and him.

So what's the alternative?

We stay here and we destroy our marriage and family?

Or do we actually go to France and make it work?

I mean, I -- I will be honest.

Manon and I talked about how you guys

were in a really hard spot,

and that things weren't going well.

And so I don't want you to think that I'm trying to drive

a wedge in between you or create further separation.

But you have to understand, Manon, that conversation

was really hard to hear, truly.

Like, it is a lot to take in, and it only happened

a few weeks ago, and now all of a sudden

everything is great.

Which is why I'm a little worried

about the move to France,

because I know when tensions are high and emotions

run high, we say things that we don't necessarily mean,

but there's a reason sometimes things are said.

I was feeling bad, and I was at the end of my rope

because I felt stuck.

And I said things on the moment because I just...

went crazy, it happens.

We are humans, OK?

[Sara] So --

-Yes. -Oh, OK,

so maybe you didn't really understand me.

-Sarah, just let it go. -[Sara] Those were her words.

Those were not mine. Those are... OK, I'm not --

[Randy] And we don't need to...

[Manon] And you probably called everyone in the family

to say that, right?

Yeah, you're gonna piss me off, Sara, right now.

-Sara, let it go. -[Manon] Because, like -- yeah, let it go.

-Did I say to you I want a divorce? -[Sara] Yes!

-I said I want a divorce? -[Sara] Yes, you did, yes!

You said those words to me, which is the only reason

I have these concerns.

I think she said it to you in confidence.

I don't even remember saying the "d" word,

but if I said that, whatever. -Let me pause --

I was trying to create a little bond with you

by sharing how hard it can be.

But OK, if you take it this way, it's fine, Sara.

No, and that bond was real, but that is why I --

[Manon] No, I don't think so, I guess.

Because look how you use it against me right now.

No, no, you just said, "I didn't say that,"

but then you also just said,

"I was trying to create a bond by saying that."

You do not speak over me right now!

-OK, get out of my house. -[Sara] OK.

[speaking French]

[in English] I'm done, I'm done.

♪ My heart is jumpin' around like a kangaroo ♪

♪ ♪

Yeah!

♪ ♪

Matthew thinks that I love my cat, Hazel, more than him.

That's true, but I've never had this

type of connection with a human before.

Hey, sweetie.

I can tell it's been a long journey because you stink.

You're welcome.

What the [bleep] is this?

There's no windows.

And it's sound proof.

Oh.

I was asking for a sexy, romantic night away.

I was definitely not expecting a...um...

A sex dungeon.

[squeals]

[laughter]

♪

[cheers]

Sorry. New. I'm new.

...plugged in.

You know what I can do? I can go home.

I don't like that you control me.

You don't let me control you.

If I had control you wouldn't be working in a strip club.

You're so [bleep] insecure.

You want me to just marry you and all that.

I've known you for a year.

Then don't have the conversation

saying that you're ready when you're not.

'Cause I'm telling you, I'm ready.

What does this mean?

[sniffling]

It was only a matter of time before Sanja lost it.

I can't take it anymore! You understand?

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