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[Vittorio] "Previously on 90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way."

I consider life to be a permanent vacation.

I was performing a festival and I had a plus-one,

and I was gonna take one of my playmates along, right?

And she was really weirded out by it.

It's kind of annoying that Andi shut that down

because it was something that was well within our agreement.

Ah! [laughs]

[laughing] Oh, my God.

This welcome is really more than I could have hoped for.

[Nigel] Let's go!

[Niles] I don't expect this to be easy, at least, initially.

I've made up my mind. I'm moving to Ghana.

I'm going to be with my wife,

and she has no idea I don't plan to go back home.

She can't be mad forever.

I'm coming to you, Mat.

My name is Zuri.

My name is Benjamin.

[Zuri] When I first saw him, I was like,

"Who's this nerdy guy?"

We was made to be together.

[Zuri] The first time I moved in with Ben,

things in France did not go as planned.

One time, like, his friends threw ice at me.

And I hope, the hell, you threw ice back.

It kind of felt like Ben's friends were just thinking,

"Why can't you just be with a French girl?"

But I'm determined to make this work.

[Zuri speaking]

I should've applied for jobs sooner.

I should've done that. I didn't.

-I need to know why. -[Jonathan] No, you don't.

I have all the success with what I'm doing right now,

and you're telling me to go look for [bleep] jobs?

-I need stability. -Are you suffering right now?

I have been suffering for the past, like,

how many months I've been alone.

[tense music plays]

How far are we from the apartment?

I decided to be not in the city, city center.

So you moved and you didn't tell me?

[Jessy] My blood is boiling.

I'm so upset that he lied to me.

[Vittorio] We are pulling up.

We are going inside the home.

-[Jessy] Oh, hell no! -[speaking Italian]

[Jessy] I don't speak the language. I don't know anyone.

And now I'm isolated in the middle of nowhere.

It's [bleep] up.

[intriguing music plays]

Yeah, Brisbane!

-How far are we -- -"Brisbaun!"

How far is it to your house?

-Like 30 minutes? -Yeah.

♪ We live the life Live! ♪

♪ I wish you'd try this ♪

[Nigel speaking]

[Andi] Listen, we're not in a hurry, babe.

-[car honking] -God damn it!

-[both laugh] -Nigel!

Oh, my God.

[Andi] I arrived in Australia an hour ago.

I'm completely jet lagged, but Nigel and his friends

pulled off this amazing surprise flash mob,

and I absolutely loved it.

[Andi speaking]

-So do you... -Well, I know where they are.

You know where they all are?

Yeah, the camera's right by the speed signs.

-We're actually speeding. -[Andi] Wow.

-Oh, my God. -[Nigel] Yeah.

[Andi] You guys have red light cameras?

-Oh, yeah. -Like, everyone?

No, not everyone.

But they get you if you're on your phone too, right?

Yeah, you can't have your phone in your hand.

They'll get you if it's on your leg.

What?

Yeah, if it's on your thigh, yep.

100% they [bleep] have cameras

that have AI and that are like,

that catch that. -[gasps]

It's the same one that got you with the seatbelt

when you weren't wearing the seatbelt properly.

[Andi] Yeah.

That's crazy, though, 'cause I was wearing the seatbelt.

Yeah, but not correctly.

[Nigel] When Andi was here last,

we got a ticket in the mail later, um,

with a picture of her,

and she was wearing her seatbelt wrong.

It was underneath her shoulder instead of over it,

and the ticket was, I think, $2,000.

I thought she's a grown-ass woman

and she knows how a lap-sash seatbelt's supposed to be worn.

It doesn't matter if you're in America or Australia,

you wear the seatbelt correctly.

Like, that's just common sense.

All you told me is, "You have to wear your seatbelt."

-I did. -So I had to stipulate, "correctly?"

-I just didn't -- -It's not America.

We don't need to put warning labels on absolutely everything.

Like a little label here that says,

"Make sure you put this bit over your shoulder."

Yeah, but a $2,000 fine?

-Yeah. -That's crazy.

Australia is definitely a nanny state.

They're watching us.

Speed cameras, red light cameras,

seatbelt cameras.

They have drug checkpoints outside of festivals

on the way out.

And they test everybody to see if you have

any sort of drugs in your system.

No cause, whatsoever. That's crazy.

You've never, like, put it under your arm because

it's scratching your neck? -No!

Huh.

I do that all the time.

Oh, that's some behavior that's gonna have to change.

[laughing] Yeah, I see that.

So are you proud of me for only having two suitcases?

[Nigel] You've done amazingly well, yeah.

Just minimal.

So that's one thing that's kind of exciting about...

starting over.

It feels nice to just [swoosh]

wipe the slate clean. -Clean slate.

And then, I'll collect all new things in your house.

No, you won't, you [bleep] won't.

Yes, I will.

-No, you won't. -But we won't --

I won't have as many knickknacks.

You can have all your crystals.

I won't have as many knickknacks.

[Nigel] Well, that's good.

t's nice that now that you're moving in,

-Yeah. -I fell -- finally feel like, more grounded

and -- and keen to,

um, really make the house a home.

Well, that's good.

But I also do wanna just, like,

throw it all away and live in my van full time, so...

you know, there's that.

Yeah, I don't know if I'm prepared for van life.

Maybe when we're, like, actually retired, but I got --

I got too much music to make.

Well, you can make music in there.

-No, you can't! -But, like --

if we were, like, full-time gigging festivals,

a campervan. -Yeah, yeah.

Well, once -- once we get...

We'd be having, like, 'cause the whole idea is

you can have all the instruments with us in the truck.

-[Andi] Yeah. -And we can do a gig,

and we don't have to go home first.

So you -- you just run around

and go to hammer out all the festivals

and do all the things that you wanna do.

-Yeah. -And then...

'Cause I ain't got no responsibilities.

Sounds like a good [bleep] plan to me.

Oh, my God.

How's that not a good plan!

Wow!

Nigel is really drawn to living this free, nomadic lifestyle,

while I am ready to put down roots and commit to my person.

-[Nigel] We're here. -[Andi] Yay!

Home sweet home!

-Home sweet home, baby. -[Andi chuckles]

Welcome home.

It does not feel great that I have just moved here,

and Nigel's already talking about packing up his van

and hitting the road.

Ooh!

So it worries me to think that we might not actually want

the same thing.

[intriguing music plays]

[Jessy] Look at this long passage that leads to nowhere.

[Vittorio] Like, this is luxury.

You like flowers, you like nature.

Nature comes from here, not from the city centre.

[speaking Italian] We're here, we're here.

Follow me into the nature,

into the countryside of Florence.

[speaking Italian]

-[Jessy] It's freezing. -Take your flag.

Remember the flag, the excitement you had?

Alright, wave the flag, great.

You look at this, look at how beautiful!

[Jessy] Before I got to Florence,

I was under the impression that Vittorio still lived

in the same place as last time, when I visited him,

which was in the city center.

I never said, "I still live in the city center."

I omitted the truth.

Lie is really say,

I did this and you didn't do.

Omitting the truth is just not saying it.

You omit.

You don't say it.

But omitting the truth is also like a form of deception.

So dress it up how you want. You're still lying.

[Vittorio] Look, beautiful!

Follow me.

[Jessy] I didn't wear the right shoes for this.

[Vittorio] I know, it's a bit of struggle,

but don't worry. Here we are.

How are you supposed to drag luggage to here?

OK, let's do like this.

We leave this here.

I show you the house first,

and I come back to pick it up, OK?

Vittorio, this is not...

[speaking Italian]

I show you, OK? Follow me.

I get you situated inside the house.

This is good. Hi, look how beautiful.

It's a characteristic Tuscan situation.

People pay a lot of money to be here.

Maybe you don't realize this is the top, you know?

-Look down that road! -[in Italian] Va be'.

Like we're literally in the middle of nowhere.

[Vittorio] Don't worry, let's continue. Let's not look back, please.

I used to live in the city center,

but I grew up in the countryside of Firenze.

And after some time, I decided I want to go back to my roots,

to my hills of Tuscany.

I moved here a couple of months ago.

It's a typical Tuscan village

where at the center you have a piazza,

a square,

and then you have different housing units

where you can stay.

It is the countryside,

but it's 15 minutes from the city.

It's not 15 minutes.

No, I timed myself with the Vespa.

Look at this view there, pretty.

-This is beautiful. -It's beautiful.

It's beautiful.

[both speaking Italian]

Eh, grazie!

Finally, you say something positive.

I'm just spooked, because I did not think --

I did not anticipate this is where you lived.

It's a surprise.

I wanted to give a surprise. Ta da!

[Jessy] It's not that this place is not beautiful.

I mean, it is, it's stunning, but

this is a whole new reality that I was not prepared for.

OK, here the house.

[Jessy] And to top it all off,

he didn't even tell me that he moved.

[Vittorio] It's a bit tight, right?

[in Italian] Ecco.

Here we are.

Home sweet home.

-[in Italian] Ecco! -OK.

Look how nice!

It's big!

Come, put this here.

I'll show you a little bit.

This is the main area.

You have the fireplace.

-Oh, that's kind of cool, yeah. -[in Italian] É!

[Vittorio] You see?

And then I get you all these vegetables.

-[Jessy] Aw, thank you! -Look at this color.

Look at this. I'm gonna cook for you,

make you the best meals ever. You see?

And then I show you more. -Gorgeous, wow.

[Vittorio] Here is the more of the situation of the house.

The house looks very... characteristic.

A lot of wood.

[Vittorio] I show you the bathroom.

So here it is, traditional.

Tiny, but intimate, but nice.

-Intimate. -It's very like, boutique.

[speaking Italian] Brava, a boutique! Ecco!

And you see, we have bidet.

Because we are clean people, we have bidet.

Everything just looks a little bit more artisanal.

-You smell... -[Jessy] A lot of wood.

You smell the century, the old things.

[Jessy] Even the furniture just feels very antique.

The house just feels very like Nonna's house.

And there's no Nonna here, it's just him and I.

And you see the ceilings are always like this.

I know you will say, "I've never been in a place like this."

That's the point.

[Jessy] It's fine, I know I'm in Italy,

but again, it's just not what I had in mind.

You see, I put for you a path.

[Jessy] Beautiful.

-Oh, wow. -Oh, this is the bedroom.

Beautiful! Aw!

Thank you!

Balloon! Do you know I love balloons?

[Vittorio] I know you like balloon.

-[indistinct]. -Thank you.

-Mwah! I'm so glad. -Wow!

-I'm so glad. -Wow, this is so special.

-Aw. -[Jessy] These are beautiful.

É, look at that.

Vedi? Come on.

It helps your case, yeah.

I didn't see you for so long.

[Jessy] Thank you.

Oh, this is all very nice, but it's like a lot of things

being thrown at me at once, so. -[Vittorio] Oh, OK, all at once.

-OK, OK, OK. -I'm a little bit,

honestly, a little bit scared.

Like, it's gorgeous, yeah, but when I had envisioned

my new life in Italy,

I didn't think I would be in the middle of nowhere.

It's a lot.

[Jessy] I find Jessy to be a little bit upset.

So I do not think that...

sex will happen for tonight.

I was thinking and hoping because, you know,

she's bellisima, we're finally together,

you know, for good,

and I want finally to see how it is.

If it happen, it happen.

If it don't happen, it will happen.

You kept this from me.

You didn't tell me that you lived here.

Like, I don't know what else you might be lying about.

No, lying is a big word.

I thought if I told you I live here,

you would have been scared and maybe you would have said,

"Ah, no," you would have created problem.

-And I think that you -- -No, I don't create problems.

It's just, you know, you gotta communicate

and tell me big things like... -I know.

where you live, and stuff like that.

Especially if, you know,

I'm coming to move with you. -[Vittorio] If you're -- OK.

Don't worry. You take your time.

It's gonna be fine. It's gonna be fine.

You know, I know it's a lot for you right now,

but please trust me.

I chose this for a reason.

-I'm very tired. -I know you are.

I'll give you the time you need.

We're not off to a good start,

because I feel like if you lie about one thing,

you'll lie about another,

especially something as major as, like, moving.

These are things you have to tell your partner,

because you cannot, like, completely blindside me,

and I don't know what I'm getting myself into.

[speaking Italian]

Him omitting this type of information,

it does put a damper in my trust with him.

So he's gonna have to make it up to me somehow

and earn my trust back.

-I missed you so much, baby. -I missed you too.

Last night was so nice.

It just feels so nice to be back together.

-I love you. -[Jonathan] I love you.

-I love you, squishy mommy. -[Matilda speaking]

I've missed her for two years, it's surreal.

I'm finding out about this apartment

that she's somehow paying for.

I'm very confused right now.

How long have you had the apartment?

Two months.

[Matilda speaking]

♪ I'm a little bit salty and a lot of bit sweet ♪

♪ If you come to my table, you better know what I need ♪

Hey babe, you want warm water or coffee?

-[Ally] Warm water. -OK.

-Hey, baby. -Hey, guess who's awake?

-Who's awake? -Jollybob's awake.

Oh, no. Let me see.

[Jonathan] My first moments in Singapore were way more intense

than I wanted them to be.

But now that I'm here, I'm hoping we can,

you know, start to focus and get back in sync.

Thank you. Is it warm?

-Oh, it's hot. -[Jonathan] It's hot.

Sorry, I tried to cool it off a little bit.

Can drink it? No.

Yeah, let it cool off a little.

We're gonna be staying at a short-term rental

here in Singapore for a couple of weeks,

so we can do the conversion,

and tell Ally's parents about the pregnancy.

After that, we're gonna head 20 minutes away to Malaysia,

where Ally's renting an apartment.

Oh, man. Did you sleep good, babe?

No.

No? Why? What happened?

You were snoring and Jollybob was kicking.

I was snoring?

[Ally chuckles]

Well, who was worse, the snoring or the kicking?

Don't answer that.

-I love you. -[Jonathan] I love you.

-I missed you so much, baby. -I miss you too.

Last night was so nice.

I feel bad because I almost squished Jollybob

and shook her around too much, so...

[Jonathan] Pregnant sex.

It's a geometry problem, man.

You can't use the same angles, you know.

It definitely couldn't do the thing we did

when we made Jolly, it was kind of a --

yeah, different.

It is what it is. I'm sorry.

What?

-It hurts. -No.

-You have to warm up. -I don't know.

Shoot, it's been a while, so.

Exactly, you have to, since it's been a while.

-That's why you have to warm up. -OK.

Every time we go like a long time without doing the nasty,

you have to like ease into it.

Well, I did the foreplay. Maybe I need to five play.

I think that's how I got pregnant in the first place.

It could be.

Yesterday, I felt like we were on different pages.

So I was like pissed off and like, so done at that point.

But at the same time,

it just feels so nice to be back together

like with each other.

So what is the plan for today?

I'm thinking maybe we can go prawning.

-Explain. -Prawning is like...

fishing, but for prawns.

But it's like in a, in a...

hard, like, inside a place.

And they have like a pond type of thing.

OK.

And then you get to like, grill it and eat it.

-Megan's coming? -If she can make it, yeah.

Oh, OK, yeah, I haven't seen her in a while.

That'd be interesting.

Prawning is a fun thing in Singapore,

and John has never tried it before,

so I thought it would be really cool to hang out

with my friend Megan and try it.

Megan has been following me to a few of my OB appointments.

She has been acting as the real baby daddy till this point.

She calls me her wife, I'm her number one wife.

[Jonathan] I'm so glad you have friends here and stuff.

I am super grateful for that.

-Yeah. -[Jonathan] Yeah.

You can tell Megan that you're grateful for her.

Oh, do I have to?

Really? Are you still salty?

-I'm not salty. -You salty.

No, no, you know,

when your girl's hanging out with her girlfriends

and all they're doing is talking that mad [bleep].

It's like...

she gets to experience all the pregnancy stuff without me,

and then she makes comments like, "I'm the real dad."

You're jealous.

-[Jonathan] Maybe, a little bit. -[laughs, mocking]

It really does bother me when she's posting, you know,

she's the dad, and then, you know,

you're on there commenting on it as well, like,

you know, "Best dad ever" type crap.

[giggling]

-We're just kidding. -[Jonathan] I know.

-We just make jokes. -[Jonathan] I know.

But at the same time, when that distance is between us,

it amplifies everything, you know?

And she knows, as well as you do.

If I could be out there for those moments,

I absolutely would.

There's nothing that would stop me.

So...

[Ally] Honestly, John should be kissing Megan's ass

because she's been helping me out quite a bit.

But I am nervous for John and Megan to be hanging out

because I have voiced out all my stresses to Megan.

And she is a very protective friend.

-She can be a little bit scary. -[Jonathan] From here-on-out,

I'm your obstetrician buddy.

-You know? Yeah, yeah. -Really?

[upbeat music plays]

Thank you.

[Matilda] Niles is arriving in Ghana today,

I'm feeling so happy

because it's been a long time that I set my eyes on him.

[chuckles]

[upbeat music plays]

[Niles] Thankfully, this is the last stretch.

Squishy mommy.

I've been sitting on this plane to Ghana for 15 hours.

But you know, I'm gonna be reunited with my squishy mommy

soon enough, so that's just a small price to pay.

And I see Ghana now.

I can't wait to squishy her cheeks like this.

But I'm not gonna lie, I'm kind of anxious.

I want to tell the truth right off the bat,

that I'm gonna be moving here to Ghana,

but I don't know how she's gonna react.

[Matilda speaking]

I'm very, very happy.

[Niles] Went from 32 degrees to almost 90 degrees

like immediately, wow!

Whew!

[soft music plays]

Pardon me.

[chuckles]

I feel absolutely elated about seeing Matilda

for the first time in two years.

I'm probably gonna turn like into like one of them

little school girls, at how happy I'm gonna be.

♪ Whoa, it's been a long time coming ♪

♪ I've been good, I've been brave ♪

♪ And God knows he made me wait for you ♪

♪ All for you ♪

-[Matilda] Babe? -Ma --

♪ When I kiss your lips ♪

♪ I lose my mind ♪

[Niles] I missed you too.

-I love you, squishy mommy. -[Matilda speaking]

Yeah, I've missed her for two years.

It is surreal.

-Yeah... -[both laugh]

-We are ready to go home, OK? -We sure are.

-Mm-hmm. -So, um...

Dad invited me to stay at his house.

-What? -Dad, Mr. Arc.

No, we are not going there.

Yeah, OK, I don't know how we --

[Matilda speaking]

When did that happen?

[Niles] I'm very confused right now.

I was under the impression that she was living with her family

because a couple of months ago,

Mat mismanaged her money.

We ended up getting into a huge argument

when she asked me for more money to get a new place.

Matilda told me she would be out on the streets,

but now I'm finding out about this apartment

that she's somehow paying for,

which...

I've got -- I've got so many questions.

We'll address -- we'll address that.

But right now, I'm just happy to be able to do this.

-OK, let's nod your head. -[Matilda speaking]

OK, yeah, you're right. We're in public.

Behave, behave, OK?

I know, it's just, you tell me to behave, then do that.

-I have missed you. -I missed you more.

I have missed you so much.

Let's go.

I got two years to make up with you.

[Matilda speaking]

Let's go, I think the taxi --

I didn't bring the car, right?

-The taxi is -- -Oh...

[Matilda speaking]

[Niles] OK.

[Matilda speaking]

So you have an apartment now?

How long have you had the apartment?

Two months.

Two months.

As in the two months where

I thought you were mismanaging the money,

and the whole time that wasn't true.

Mat, you weren't telling me what was going on.

[Matilda speaking]

You weren't telling me anything at the time.

Are you serious? Are you being real?

So you'll be happy for your wife to be homeless.

Sleeping outside?

Oh, my God, I'm so happy to see you!

I want to dive into the culture.

I wanna learn the language.

-Do you like my outfit? -Yeah, you look so French.

But I'm really nervous to fail.

We really have to let everything behind, start again.

[Zuri] This move is make-or-break for our relationship.

[singing in French]

[soft, catchy music plays]

[Zuri] I'm in Paris

and I'm headed to the train station.

I'm super super excited to see Ben.

[singing in French]

I'm super excited, really tired, but I'm making it work.

Ben and I have been working on this for so long,

and we thought that the day would never come.

So to be here is everything to me.

Looks like the train is here.

I'm not too far from the platform now, which is good

because I can't wait to sit on this train, put my bags down.

I think I might go on early and grab my seat.

Nancy, I'm coming for you.

[Ben] It's the big day. The big move is today.

The drive to Paris is like four and a half hours.

The train is fast.

It will take her an hour thirty.

So it makes it easier for me to grab her at the train station.

I'm really happy about a new start today.

So I had the idea to make this poster,

"Welcome Home, Zuri."

[all speaking French]

[both laugh]

[Ben] I just can't wait to grab her in my arms.

We should get ready and go to grab her.

[Zuri speaking]

I feel like French now. I love my outfit today.

I think Ben'll think it's really cute.

I just want to put my best foot forward and lead with my heart,

not my head for once.

I'm a little nervous.

Because I know this time, it's the one.

But I'm so happy and I'm so excited to see her.

[Ben] I know it will be challenging this time,

and we have a lot of things to work on,

but I really feel like I just want to appreciate this moment.

It's the first day of our new life,

and I hope for the rest of our lives,

so it's really important.

Oh!

Oh, my God.

I'm so happy to see you.

-Hi! -I'm so happy to see you.

-I brought you some flowers. -Oh, my God.

That's so sweet.

-I'm so happy. -I love you.

I hope you had a nice travel.

It was a lot of travel,

but it was worth it. -I can imagine.

Yeah, I've got the whole squad with me, so...

-Oh, my God. -[Zuri] I'm moving in.

You don't think you had enough stuff at all?

[Zuri] No, I needed more.

-Do you like my outfit? -Yeah, you look so French now.

Do I look Frenchy? Am I fitting in already?

Yeah, I love your beret. You look so French.

More French than me.

No, you look perfect. These are beautiful.

-You're so thoughtful. -Yeah.

I just wanted the little things for you when you arrive.

-Aw, you're so sweet. -Oh, my God, I'm so happy.

-I missed you so much. -I missed you too.

-I can't believe I'm here. -Me too.

-Let's go home. -[Ben] Yeah.

I will help with that big suitcase.

[Zuri] OK, sweet. I'll take the little one.

[Ben] OK.

It feels like so right this time.

-[Ben] Yeah. -[Zuri] No drama.

[Ben] No more drama.

This time, I really wanna put myself out there.

Ben has always been my rock,

but I wanna be the independent woman that he loves.

-There you go. -[Zuri] Thanks, hon.

I wanna be positive and do my best to settle here.

Ah...

Don't start nothing, it won't be nothing.

-Oh... -[chuckles]

[Zuri] I'm so happy to be back and like give it another shot.

Yeah, me too. I'm so happy too.

I think this time is all time.

-It's our turn. -Yeah.

[Zuri] This move is make-or-break for our relationship.

I'm totally ready to do things differently this time

because I know that...

the last time things didn't work,

so there has to be changes.

I think there's a part of me that

just gets really nervous to fail.

And when you're trying something new,

you just fail a lot.

I want to dive into the culture.

I wanna learn the language, but it's gonna take time.

But it's by failing that you will learn everything.

-You have to fail to learn. -Yeah, you're right.

We really have to do this new stuff,

like let everything behind,

start again, like, you know. -Yeah.

[Zuri] I'm excited.

Why you can watch TikToks but not apply for a job?

I think it would give her more reassurance,

if you applied more. -[Jonathan] Yeah.

She could maybe be better off without you.

[Jonathan] Give me a [bleep] break!

♪ Take you for a ride with the look that's in your eyes ♪

♪ I can see that you've been waiting for me all night ♪

♪ Dancing in the dark ♪

♪ La, la, la, la ♪

[indistinct lyrics]

[Nigel] Alright, let's go.

What do you think, babe?

Wow!

-You upped your game. -[Nigel] Right.

[Andi] Nice. It's very clean.

It's got this trendy little apple bowl.

-Yeah, you like that guy? -Yes, that's new.

I have arrived at Nigel's house,

and I am completely shocked.

-How long did it take you? -All night.

-Did you clean it all night? -Yeah.

Aw, that's sweet.

Worth it.

Yeah.

Yeah, so take a look at this.

-[Andi] You're tall, yeah. -Yeah.

'Cause I'm standing here, so...

I had this lying around, so it's my [bleep] sticker.

I stuck this frosted stuff to the window there,

so they can't see. -Oh, my God,

-[Andi] OK, good. -Yeah.

That's great.

The [bleep] sticker, also very thoughtful.

-Very thoughtful guy. -Yeah.

So now your bedroom...is clean!

[gasps] I can't even believe it!

Are you kidding me?

Mama didn't raise no fool.

[laughs]

Aww.

You did good.

-I'm glad you think so. -Yeah.

So, we gonna go run that bath?

-Yeah, can we? -Let's do it.

Mmm. Let's do it.

So far, Nigel's making me feel really special

and really wanted.

And that's giving me a lot of relief.

-Hello! -[Nigel] Oh, hello!

-Look at you! -[Nigel] My sweet.

Oh, my goodness. That's charming of you.

Mm-hmm.

This is the perfect welcome.

And it's really showing me that Nigel is dedicated to me,

and he really might be my soulmate.

[Nigel] Hmm.

[Nigel] Oh, man.

[both laugh]

[upbeat music plays]

-[Jonathan] So are you excited? -Are you excited?

I'm excited to get that shrimp.

♪ Let's get into it ♪

See, boo boo?

Vaping is prohibited.

[Jonathan] I get it.

Again with the vaping.

-Oh, hello. -Hello.

-How are you? -[worker speaking]

Yes, please.

[Ally] Prawning is a popular and unique thing to do

in Singapore.

You're sitting around like this man-made pond thingy

and like they put in the live prawns for you to catch.

I'm just gonna...

sit back here and cheer you on from the side or something.

Oh, it's in my finger.

[Ally] I feel like this is not a very feminine activity.

I'm so scared.

Prawning's no different than fishing for bass in the river

or in the creek in Texas. It's pretty simple.

You put the bait on the hook, you cast it out there,

and when you get a tug, pull it.

-Well, that's a big-ass shrimp. -[Ally] Mommy, I'm scared.

[Jonathan] Whoo hoo!

It's like alive and like it has like...

[laughs in distress]

I mean, if they were like cute and fluffy,

I wouldn't mind. -[Jonathan] Yeah.

-Yeah, me either. -Yeah.

But like prawns are like...

Hey, we're eating good tonight, baby, get that shrimp.

Hey, you better quit it with that claw.

-Hi! -[Ally] Hello!

-Hey, what's up, Megan? -How are you ding?

-How are you? -[Ally] Very good.

John, I'm so glad that you're here.

[Jonathan] Oh, it's good to see you.

[Jonathan] I don't really know too much about Megan,

except for the social media posts where she's claiming

to be the father and making accusations

that I'm just not there and not present.

So I'll be honest, I feel really awkward.

This is the most exciting thing I've done all week.

[Megan] How does it feel like being with Ally again

when, you know, she's like six months now?

-Six and a half. -Six and a half months.

Yeah, no, it sucked being stuck over there,

and not being able to help. -[Megan] Yeah, I can imagine.

Do the things I wanted to do. Yeah.

I don't have to be the father anymore.

-Yeah, yeah. -[Megan] Yeah.

-No. -[Megan] You can take back that role.

You can go to all her OBGYN visits now.

[Jonathan] Yeah, it's been really hard for her, especially

since she hasn't talked to her mom about it yet.

I think that's a lot of stuff that her mom would've been

doing with her. -Yeah.

How is all the job application going?

Yeah, I mean, I'm getting back to that.

I had to get over here and get adjusted.

It's tough for me though, because I'm a foreigner.

Yeah.

-[Jonathan] So. -Does that reassure you, Ally?

How many jobs have you applied for today?

[Jonathan] Today?

-I've been with you all day. -One, two?

I've been with her all day. Just stop.

How many TikToks have you watched today?

Why can you -- why you can watch TikToks,

but not apply for a job? -Well, OK.

I think it would give her more reassurance

if you applied more. -Yeah, yeah, I agree.

Because I think what she is feeling is that

you're not applying to it enough,

and that gives the impression

that maybe you might not want to actually move here.

I mean, that's a real cool story and all, but

I mean, here I am, right?

I do feel like I have to talk to John about

what's bothering Ally because he likes to say things

but, in reality, does not happen.

And maybe, you know,

he does not know the impact as to how it's affecting her.

Well, you know, my intention was never to move out here.

I wanted for her to move out there.

And were you happy with that?

I mean, at first, I thought it made sense,

but after being out there and seeing how, like,

life is out there, like...

it's not something that I want.

Well, I'm sorry to hear you say that.

You know?

But the fact of the matter is you won't have to stay

with her in the house ever again, right?

Yeah, of course -- we are gonna stay here.

[Megan] I'm just a bit concerned because

Ally has told me that she felt like

you say a lot of things to plan,

but then it doesn't really come to action.

She is really frustrated and then, as a friend

who cares for her, and I know she loves you a lot,

but it does give me the impression

that everything that she's doing,

she's been doing it on her own.

She could maybe be better off without you.

[Jonathan] It's easy for y'all to say that,

but I'm the father of her child.

-Ah! -There is a cockroach!

No, no, no, no!

[Ally] It's just coming at me.

[indistinct, conversation ovelaps]

[Megan] I was trying to make it --

[screaming, laughing]

Jesus Christ. Give me a [bleep] break.

[tense music plays]

I'm super pissed.

I mean, you go to a couple OB appointments,

that doesn't give you the right to tell Ally

she's better off without me.

I mean, that's pretty [bleep] up.

And then you got Ally just sitting here, stone quiet,

not even backing me up.

I didn't move across the planet

to be with somebody that's just gonna sit there

and not have my back,

when other people are actually attacking me.

I mean, is this how things are gonna go?

Smell the nature, smell the clean air.

[Jessy] I am in the country.

I am not where I thought I was going to live.

You are being not very grateful

for what I show to you.

No, it's not about not being grateful, it's just...

you didn't tell me any of this.

[soft music plays]

[rooster crawing]

[Jessy] Ew!

I put salt in the oatmeal instead of sugar.

Why? You don't see?

This is S in "sale" -- salty.

That's sugar, the Z?

[in Italian] Zucchero! Che schifo!

Why you do this stuff? Breakfast I do.

You get ready.

I prepare the breakfast and stuff.

[singing in Italian]

Last night, we went to bed, and...

obviously, he tried to...

get it going,

but I was very, very, very tired.

I'm in a new place, like,

all the elements are just new and foreign to me,

so I think all of that combined is kind of why

it hasn't happened yet.

OK, Jess, it's ready when you're ready,

your breakfast, dai.

[Jessy] Vittorio, do you have socks by any chance?

-Like little socks. -I see.

We went to bed last night and we sleep.

Nothing happened.

I help you, I help you.

I was fine because just to sleep in her arms,

holding each other, it was great.

-[in Italian] Bene. -OK.

[in French] Voilà, mademoiselle.

[in English] After you.

But I'm patient until I'm not,

so you know, clearly I expect some action, of course.

It's normal.

-Thank you. -Tell me the green juice.

Look how green it is.

I put all the vegetable we have, so fresh.

-[Jessy] Oh, it's very good. -[Vittorio] É.

-Anyway, it's your first morning here. -Mm-hmm.

[Vittorio] I wanted to show you the location.

So when I'm not gonna be here,

you can see how to get to the town,

how to do your things independently.

So now we take a walk down the hill.

You wanna walk down the hill?

I will I get you a nice bicycle, perhaps

you go down the hill.

It's all down the hill.

Is there like a bus or something that passes?

Passes at very inconvenient hours,

but there is a bus, but... -[Jessy] OK.

No, we could try...

I'm too bella to have to walk down

in a gazillion acres

to get down to the town. -[speaking Italian]

You haven't seen it yet, so please, you see.

I believe that Jessy is gonna love all of this

because this is something she doesn't have in New York.

And I think she's gonna adapt very easily to all of this.

Smell the nature. Smell the clean air.

[Jessy] I hear nothing.

[Vittorio] That's the point.

[Jessy] We're in the middle of nowhere,

so no one can hear my screams.

-[speaking Italian] No one can hear if I need help.

[Jessy] It's just a big adjustment.

I am in the country.

I am not where I thought I was going to live.

It's a bit of an eerie feeling. It's very quiet.

So all I have is me and my thoughts.

And you know, I'm a full-on city girl.

So when I hear nothing going on,

I kind of get freaked out.

This is a lot to take in. It's just very different.

Ah, and here also we have the horse.

[Jessy] Ah, what's his name?

[Vittorio] His name is Giuseppe.

[speaking Italian]

[Jessy] He's eating lunch. I don't want to interrupt him.

[Vittorio] How are you, Giuseppe?

You see, he's so nice. -Everybody love you.

Wow, his hair is gorgeous.

Like yours, almost like yours.

Yeah, look at these bundles, eh?

-[Vittorio laughs] -Right?

Oh, baby, isn't this an enrichment of life?

My Jessy and Giuseppe,

I've been dreaming of this so much.

Fantastico, one day then we ride it.

Yeah.

-[in Italian] Esatto. -OK.

[in English]

-Oh, my God! -[Vittorio laughs]

[Vittorio] You see olive trees.

This is where we make the olive oil.

Ah, there's -- there's chickens and roosters.

Of course, you think I was joking yesterday

when I tell you about that. -Wow!

You have the whole nine here, OK.

[Vittorio] Of course, I come here in the morning.

I go get the eggs.

Isn't this amazing?

This is their house.

This is just like not the side of Italy

that I thought I was going to be in.

[clucking]

I'm not gonna lie, Vittorio, like you not telling me

that you live in the countryside of Florence

makes me a little bit concerned because I sometimes wonder now,

like, what else could you be hiding from me?

-Or what else are you not telling me? -[speaking Italian]

Because, you know, if people lie about, you know,

little things, they lie about big things, so.

I omitted some part of the truth, but it's not I lie.

I lie is if I tell you I live in the city center.

No, I didn't lie.

No, and I had a feeling, honestly,

that if I tell you all of this, you get scared, you don't come.

I know many that will pay a lot of money to be here.

You are being not very grateful for what I show to you.

No, it's not about not being grateful, it's just...

You didn't tell me any of this.

I'm getting a little bit upset because not only did Vittorio

lie to me about where he's living,

he honestly kind of tricked me to coming here.

And somehow he's spinning this all on me

and telling me that I need to be grateful.

The surprise is good,

otherwise, I tell you everything.

[Jessy] I just wonder, like,

if you're being completely honest with me.

[speaking Italian]

Oh, Dio. Watch out, watch out.

[in Italian Giuseppe, ciao. Buona -- calma, calma.

Isn't this beautiful? Giuseppe, come here.

[Jessy] I feel like he's not really listening to me.

I really don't like that because I feel like

that just shows a lot of immaturity and disrespect,

and I've never seen this side of him.

I made such a huge life-altering decision

by moving here for him.

My mind is racing, and now I'm second-guessing

if I made the right decision.

And what if this starts to become too much for me?

Ma no, I don't think that's gonna be the case.

I trust that it's gonna work out.

[Andi] So when did she move out?

A couple of days before you got here.

I'm not really concerned about Andi's other lovers.

So if Andi has any problem here,

I think it's really just her insecurity.

So did you ever use the hall pass?

It's my business if I use it or not.

So did you?

♪ Oh, look at me, look at me, look at that energy ♪

♪ You look 'cause I'm the lead, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh ♪

♪ Oh, look at me, look at me, can't you see ♪

♪ I'm everything you want to be ♪

♪ I work so hard for all the world to see ♪

♪ Look at me, look at me ♪

♪ Oh, she's from another galaxy, another galaxy ♪

[Nigel] It was great to have Andi back in the house.

It was awesome waking up next to her.

First time in six months, so...

So it was really nice to just slowly reconnect to each other

and take our time with things.

[Andi] I think I'm gonna run out of hangers.

[Nigel] She's special, she's the one.

I kept noticing just how tall she is. [laughs]

'Cause when I spoon someone,

I typically have to kind of crouch, you know?

But with Andi, I can just like...yeah.

We're about the same height, so it really works well.

It was a beautiful night.

We had a really romantic reconnection, you know?

Just getting to see each other and talk to each other

in person for the first time in six months.

It wasn't sexual at all.

It was just like talking.

And then the jet lag kicked in.

And at some point I was like,

"I don't know if this is gonna go anywhere else tonight, babe."

So we cuddled. We cuddled and went to sleep.

[Andi] Well, morning was a different story.

It definitely helps that Nigel sleeps naked.

-[smack] -Woo!

[laughs]

-Baby! -[Andi] That was hard.

-Can you make me one? -Of course, here you go.

Yay, thank you. Extra strong?

-Mm-hmm, you know it. -[Andi] A flat white?

-Flat white, mate. -Mm-hmm.

That's the only way I know how to make it.

Mm-hmm.

[Andi] Are you gonna...

put some clothes on?

You're just gonna run around naked all day?

I mean, do we have to leave the house?

We do not have to leave the house.

But I would love to give you a little trim up.

Up?

-[Andi] Yes, yeah. -Why?

[Andi] Because it's a little scraggly.

So, we got split ends, we gotta cut those off.

-Just the tip. -Just the tip, babe.

-[Nigel] Alright. -Alright, let's do it.

Let's go.

[Andi] Oh goodness, we're a little ratty.

Hold on.

When was the last time you brushed this, babe?

I don't know. I brush it most mornings.

-You do? -Yeah.

OK, well, we might have to take off a little more

than an inch.

But the great thing is, when you trim the bottoms,

it actually grows faster.

-[Nigel] Mm-hmm. -[Andi] Alright.

So when did you start propagating all these plants?

[Nigel] I don't really know.

Really, a housemate I had living here

did most of this planting.

So I told her that I wanted passion fruit

and there's some basil.

And I don't know what these are.

Looks like lemongrass or something.

So how did that go, living together?

[Nigel] It was alright.

[Andi] Nigel got this female roommate and doesn't tell me

until the day she moves in

that they had slept together in the past.

And I was like, "Well, are you planning on sleeping with her

now that she lives with you?" and he's like, "Well, yeah,"

and I tell him that I'm not OK with that.

That's a little too close for comfort,

living with somebody that feels like girlfriend-y.

And he said, "Well, can I have a hall pass

maybe, like once a month?"

And after a couple of conversations about it,

I finally was like, "OK, sure, have a hall pass."

Like it was clear that he wanted to sleep with this person,

regardless of how it made me feel.

So when did she move out?

A couple of days before you got here.

A couple of days?

[Nigel] Look, man, I didn't want the awkwardness of her

still being here when you showed up.

-Why would it be awkward? -[Nigel] I don't know.

Because you move into Australia

and there's like this random person

you haven't met living in my house.

You guys have a little bit of a history, right?

[Nigel] Oh yeah, we'd hooked up before.

-[Andi] Yeah? -[Nigel] Yeah.

Did it ever happen while she was living here?

So what if it did?

You gave me a hall pass, that's a hall pass, right?

Yes.

My business if I use it or not.

Did you ever use the hall pass?

Why does this matter to you all of a sudden?

[Andi] Well, because I...

it actually does because I feel like you knew

that I was uncomfortable with it.

But I thought you wanted

a don't-ask-don't-tell situation.

-[Andi] Well, I -- -And now you're asking.

Well, when you ask, then you get to tell.

[Nigel] Yeah, OK, well.

So it sounds like you did then.

So you want to know if I... yeah, you reckon I did?

[Andi] Sounds like it, yeah.

[Nigel] It's kind of annoying that Andi's questioning me

so hard this morning.

I'm not really concerned about

Andi's other lovers.

So if Andi has any problem here,

I think it's really just her insecurity.

The truth is...

-Are you ready for this? -I'm not sure.

I never had sex with her. Not once.

I decided it wasn't right.

I could tell, even though you gave me the hall pass,

I could tell you weren't super comfortable with the idea.

-Yeah. -[Nigel] So...

I just decided not to do it.

It's that simple, babe.

It's because I love you too much.

-Aww. -[Nigel] Yeah.

Well, thank you. I appreciate that,

and I appreciate you telling me.

[Nigel] Of course, babe.

I guess I will really never know

if you were telling me the truth, but...

[Nigel] No.

I mean, you could ask her if you want.

I do believe Nigel did not sleep with his roommate,

and I actually really respected that,

because that means that he actually really does care

about how I'm feeling in the situation.

No, they are expired.

[Nigel] OK.

[Andi] I think that maybe while I was in the US,

I was a little more paranoid than I needed to be.

I really hope so.

[Benjamin speaking]

Oh, gosh.

[Ben] It's impossible to live in a country

and be successful if you don't speak the language.

If she never tried, we will never make it.

Oh.

[chef speaking French]

[singing in French]

[soft, traditional, French music plays]

[Ben] Welcome home.

[Zuri chuckles]

[Zuri] Ah, it's good to be back.

[Ben] Yeah, I can imagine.

It's nice and warm in here.

Oh, my gosh, you made a sign!

[Ben] Yeah.

-Oh, it's so -- -Welcome home!

It's so cute!

Oh, hon.

-That's so sweet. -Yeah.

What's all...

Yeah, this is like a lot of American stuff for you,

so you don't feel like too far from home.

[Zuri] Oh, that's so thoughtful.

You've got all my favorites.

[Ben] Yeah.

[Zuri] Wow, I didn't even know they had some of

this stuff here. -Yeah.

But like, I found it.

-[Zuri] Oh. -I hope it makes you happy.

Yeah.

I'm so happy to be back in France.

Like, I'm happy we're giving it another shot.

I really see myself with Ben and like my future with Ben.

It just feels good to be back.

[Ben] But babe, for real, I don't know where we would put

all your stuff, like, we don't have room.

I can use some of your closet, right?

I don't know, like, oh,

oh you can have like that much suitcase.

That's not even all of it.

-[Ben] Oh. -Like...

I was being mindful because my mom had another luggage

ready for me if I needed it.

And I still have most of my stuff still in the US,

if you can imagine.

I can imagine, but I don't want to.

[Zuri] Oh, Ben, I see your presents.

[Ben] Oh.

[Zuri] Ta da!

Oh! Some coffee?

-Yeah. -Oh, nice.

Thank you so much.

-I knew you would like it. -Yeah, I lo --

-Ooh. -And I got your sauce.

Yep. Homemade enchilada.

Coming soon.

So I guess there's like a stereotype that Europeans

like hate American coffee, like it's garbage.

Ben, like, loves it.

He loves like thoroughly sweet drinks and like

all the crazy flavors.

When we first started dating and he visited me in the US

for the first time,

he tried like an iced coffee

and never had iced coffee, and it like changed his life.

-[Ben] The bar's now open. -I'm back in town.

Sure.

-[Zuri] That's good. -You're happy to be here?

[Zuri] Yeah, I'm happy to be here.

I feel like we do have a lot of memories

in this apartment together.

Yeah, but like good and bad,

because the first time, you know?

Yeah, true.

The first time around was difficult.

I felt...super lonely,

and I feel like that's why it was so difficult

for me to integrate into the culture,

because I just wasn't putting in the effort to do so.

I really don't want to go back to that era this time.

[Ben] Yeah, I think

the key is you to learn French.

We've been together since three years and like,

I see that you -- you didn't really trained.

If you learn French, like it will unlock everything for you.

-You know? -Yeah, definitely.

Like, I think I just take for granted that you speak English,

if I'm just being honest.

But so maybe we can like start practicing.

I see like those notebooks, maybe you can grab one.

-Are you serious? -[Ben] Yeah, I am.

Oh my God, OK, I'll grab one.

[Ben] For Zuri to be successful here,

she will have to learn the language,

be able to go out by herself, be independent.

So I know that I have to be more firm with Zuri because

it's impossible to live in a country and be successful

if you don't speak the language.

[Zuri] Maybe in here.

I'm worried that the story will repeat, and if she never tries,

it will be the same as before and we will never make it.

I will spell you some French things

and you have to write it.

Oh, gosh.

-I'm nervous. -[in French] On va faire.

Excuse me?

[in French] No -- excusez-moi.

-[Zuri] That was cute. -We have to start now.

Oh, I'm gonna need a little bit more.

I don't think it will help you, though.

But when I drink here, I feel like I'm fluent.

When we first got together,

I did, like, apps on my phone to learn the language.

And then before I moved, I was taking lessons online.

I get really embarrassed

because I wish that I had progressed further than I have.

But in the time of being long-distance,

I realized that if I want to have

a real life here, there's a lot of things I need to do.

So it's really bittersweet to be back because I'm nervous

like, about past mistakes resurfacing.

[in French] Parle on Français.

-Moi? -Oui.

Oui, je suis Zuri.

Je suis Américaine.

Je suis contant.

-Contente. -[Zuri] Contente.

-[Ben] Yeah, OK. -Oui.

Because you're a girl. "Contant" is for boy.

Oh, see, everything has a gender here.

-Yeah, but like -- -I don't mean to be too woke,

but like, let's get rid of the genders.

Like, what the hell?

I just thought I was gonna come here,

sip some champagne, have a good night.

Speaking English.

You know?

So give me your phone.

Oh.

You're gonna change my phone to French?

-Oh, get the hell out! -You have to.

[Zuri] Nah, please!

[Ben] Your new life is starting now.

This [bleep] is gonna say "bonjour" instead of

hello when I plug it.

This is nightmare, even my social media will be in French.

You know, my phone is in English

because it helped me to read like English every day

to progress and walk.

Whatever, I'm down to do it. I do need to learn.

I've been a bad, bad student.

-You win. -In French, in French, please.

I don't know how to say that in French.

[Zuri] It's really difficult for me to learn the language,

but I know I need to take this serious

and like show him that I want to build a life here.

So, on y va.

[Zuri] Amour?

[Ben] I got a sign for everything.

[both chuckle]

[Matilda speaking]

This is not the romantic reunion I was envisioning

for the last two years.

[Matilda speaking]

So who's all coming to the party?

[Nigel] Just a bunch of friends.

Is the girl that you were...

trying to go camping with gonna be there?

I feel like we're approaching this non-monogamy

very differently.

I am in Nigel's car right now

in front of Camping Girl's house.

There's something about this that does not feel good.

[intriguing music plays]

♪ Here we go ♪

Jesus, Nigel.

-What? -Can you just

chill out and slow down a little bit, please?

-Don't worry about it. -No, I know.

It's stressing me out.

It's because you used to being

on the wrong side of the road, eh?

Oh, my God.

♪ We never back, back, back, back down ♪

♪ No turning back, back, back, back, no ♪

[Nigel] Hey, we've got heaps to do today.

We've got to go to the grocery store, we've got to go

to printers, print some stuff out.

[Andi] Mm-hmm.

Then I've just got to drop off some eggs

at a friend's house.

Dropping off the eggs, put it on the list.

[Andi] Princess parking, right in front, hell yeah.

Throwing a welcome party for her tomorrow in my backyard

so that she really feels appreciated

and that she can see that I care about her

and that she can start to meet some of

my awesome friends and like

what better way to do that than throw on a party.

-Alright, let's go. -[Andi] Oh, my God.

[Nigel] Just going in the shops, it's fine.

Seriously, just try it.

I don't want to get somebody else's foot fungus.

There's no fungus, it's not like that,

it's not a public toilet, come on, babe.

So I have seen this before

when I was here for a vacation,

and I saw like two or three people barefoot

in the grocery store.

So this is a normal thing, I guess, or sort of normal.

-[Nigel] Is that good? -OK, alright.

Let the dogs breathe, baby.

[Andi] I need a pedicure.

In America -- no shirt, no shoes, no service.

But I am always down for a new experience, so I'm like,

"OK, fine, I will try it."

Oh, my God. It's so weird.

It's actually the floor actually feels kind of nice.

-She's just looked at our feet. -What?

-This is not normal. -It is definitely.

There's mayonnaise on the floor.

Relax. Don't step on that.

[Andi] OK.

Aussies particularly go barefoot wherever we can

because it's healthy.

You know, we're supposed to be electrically earthed

to the planet, and we're not really supposed to wear shoes.

A lot of shoes are not good for your feet.

So, it's pretty normal to go to a shopping centre barefoot

in Australia, it's not so frowned upon.

I cannot help but notice

how everybody else is wearing shoes.

[Nigel] What about that guy?

[Andi] Oh, God.

-Alright, OK. -Yeah, see?

There's a million reasons why one should not be walking

through a grocery store barefoot.

What if somebody spilled the milk or broke a glass?

Who knows what kind of fungus is running around this town?

So, yeah, not my favorite experience.

So, who's all coming to the party?

Oh, you know, just a bunch of friends.

Anybody that I should know about?

[Nigel] What do you mean?

I don't know. Like, any of your lovers?

-I don't know. I sent the invite out. -Serious?

-Whoever shows up, shows up. -Yeah, OK.

Won't be weird?

I don't know, are you gonna be weird about it?

I don't think so.

-They won't be weird. -OK.

Well, then, yeah, if they won't be weird,

then I won't be weird, nobody's gonna be weird, it'll be fine.

Is the girl that you were trying to go camping with

gonna be there? -[Nigel] Maybe.

OK.

-I'm just curious. -She might be though, yeah.

-Yeah. -I invited her.

She lives close by.

-Yeah, she's cool. -[Andi] OK.

OK.

Before I came to Australia,

Nigel texted me about one of his lovers.

He planned to camp with this girl

during a festival.

Right before I was moving to Australia,

and it feels like they're maybe getting a little close,

and it's giving me a little bit of

anxiety, maybe a little bit of some jealousy vibes,

because I don't understand the entire relationship,

and it feels like there's a little bit of secrecy around it.

So it's something that I really need to get cleared up.

Would you like a box for these?

-Yeah, go ahead, yes. -A box, yes.

I don't know if you noticed,

we are walking around your store barefoot.

-Is this normal? -Yeah, it's fine.

-It's whatever. -[Andi] What?

It's weird if you ask about it.

Like...

OK.

I feel like we're approaching this non-monogamy

very differently,

where he's kind of setting himself up to like

build these little mini relationships.

And for me, it's the, you know, if something arises,

then I'm gonna go with the flow.

-See ya. -See ya, mate, thank you.

Nigel is throwing me a welcome party,

and I am gonna be face-to-face

with some of his lovers.

And I don't know how that's gonna go for me.

I am in Nigel's car right now in front of Camping Girl's house.

We were running some errands, and he said he had some eggs

to drop off to a friend's house.

And as he pulls up, he says, "Do you want to come meet?"

Lists off the names, and her name is one of them.

And I'm like...

What?

And he's like, "Oh yeah, didn't you realize

that's who I was dropping off the eggs to?"

I'm like, "No,

"at no point did you say her name, all of today,

at no point did you say her name."

He's like, "Oh,

I'm sorry, well, do you want to go in and meet her?"

And I'm like...

Like, this conversation hasn't happened yet.

We need to talk about this.

Why was her name never mentioned?

It feels like he's keeping it like a secret, and then

he just pulls up and expects me to be cool about it.

There's something about this that does not feel good.

And I'm gonna find out what it is.

I don't even have any words right now.

[Niles speaking]

Are you serious? Are you being real?

[tense music plays]

So you'll be happy for your wife to be homeless,

sleeping outside?

No, I wouldn't be happy about that.

[Niles] Yes.

No, I wasn't.

My instruction to you was to calm down and wait.

That was my instruc -- that was what you were supposed to do.

Calm down and wait?

What were you expecting me to do?

Mat, I honestly thought that you were staying

with your family.

[Matilda speaking]

What would have been so wrong about doing that

if I told you --

No, Mat, you're missing the point.

-Actually, I didn't say that. -[Matilda speaking]

-[Niles] No, there's not. -[Matilda speaking]

The thing is though, you know why I, please --

If you had money to move, why did you ask me then?

I told you to just hold it together, for what?

Right -- right now, I don't have it right now.

That's not me telling you to go

do something impulsive behind my back.

[Matilda speaking]

Are you not happy that I rented a house?

Are you not happy?

Mat, stuff like this, when it comes to major things like,

you know, where you're living,

I expect you to tell me the truth.

OK, thank you for saying that to me.

I was wrong to call you here.

This really is not

the romantic reunion I was envisioning

for the last two years.

And I don't think she has a right

to have the attitude she's having

with me right now.

So I have no idea when it will be the right time

to tell her that I'm moving to Ghana permanently.

I just know that it is most certainly

not right this instant.

[Matilda speaking]

[Megan] If she's gonna cry to me every week,

that will concern me, right?

She's pregnant with my baby, and your advice is

for her to find somebody else.

[Megan] His defense is to attack me.

It does worry me a bit if he is the right person for her.

[Jonathan speaking]

[Jonathan] Jesus [bleep] Christ.

[Megan speaking]

Yeah, it kind of sucks though. Like, I just feel bad.

Like, I am a total, like,

horrible person for even, like, asking him about getting

a job or, like, a concrete plan.

But he's the kind of person that, like, will break

under pressure.

You feel like you have to walk on eggshells?

Yeah.

It just makes me feel like he's not really prioritizing

our lives out here.

Like Jollybob is going to be born like in,

literally like in a couple of months.

Yeah.

Prawning with Megan kind of turned out to be a disaster,

because I feel like John takes things very personally.

I have got to go to the bathroom.

[Megan] OK.

But Megan saying the things that she says are like

the things that

I have been trying to say to John, but, like,

I feel like he doesn't really listen when I say it.

-[Jonathan] You wanna have a seat? -[Megan] Yeah, thank you.

Oh. That was so intense.

I just think it's a little bit

odd that I'm sitting here taking all this heat.

[Megan] I do feel a bit of defensiveness coming from you,

but I will respect your... -Why wouldn't I be?

Exactly, that's why I say respect this.

Look at this big plate of bull[bleep] you laid on me tonight.

-[Megan] Yeah. -You know?

These are coming from her because she feels like

she can't speak to you about it. -No.

[Megan] And as a friend...

You know, actually, she's talked about

all this stuff to me.

Or maybe she's having an emotional moment

where she's... -I feel like you're using emotion as a cop-out.

-[Jonathan] No, I'm not. -You're putting like, just because she's pregnant,

her emotions are still valid.

-Cool. -[Megan] Yeah.

But I just don't know what to say about the fact that

you said earlier that she needs to find somebody else that can

meet those needs.

I think that's a cop-out.

You know, she's pregnant with my baby and your advice is

for her to find somebody else.

I did not think I said exactly those words.

[Jonathan] That's what you said when we were prawning.

I'm dealing with children. You don't have children, right?

[Megan] Yeah.

So maybe get some life experience under your belt

and then come to me and tell me what you would do

in a situation like that.

[Megan] I have not said that, but if she's going to cry to me

every week, that will concern me, right?

-[Jonathan] Yeah. -Yeah.

The other thing is, you know, a lot of the things

that you know about are very private.

[Megan] Yeah.

[Jonathan] And it's very shocking for me to have her friend basically

telling me all my dirt.

To me, that's a major betrayal of trust.

I think it was good on her to share to me

because I do give her that emotional support.

Maybe there should have been a communication of like,

"Hey, let's not tell this to anyone."

Oh, there was.

Yeah.

And is she OK with that?

[Jonathan] I don't know if she's OK or not.

We'll find out, we'll find out when [indistinct].

I think that there is a bit of a gap in communication that I'm seeing here.

I think maybe you're just trying, it's maybe a little

too involved, you know what I'm saying?

OK, that's your opinion and I respect it, but if Ally wants me

to hear her out, then I'm going to hear her out.

-I'm going to step in for her if she needs me to. -Oh, that's fine.

I'm not happy about it whatsoever.

-[Megan] OK. -And Ally and I are gonna have to have a conversation based on

everything that's happened tonight. -OK.

OK.

Hey, babe.

I've had enough of prawning for today.

OK, let's go.

After the conversation I had with him, I have a whole new

impression of him. Bye!

[Jonathan] Yeah, that was pretty [bleep].

I do feel a bit scared because

it feels a lot like he's a sweet-talker and his defense

is to attack me.

It does worry me a bit if he is the right person for her.

I do feel like Ally is better off alone.

John is kind of just adding a bit of burden to her life

right now.

[Jonathan speaking]

[Ally speaking]

[Jonathan speaking]

[Ally speaking]

[Jonathan speaking]

-[Ally] Leaving our relationship? -[Jonathan] Leaving all this.

-[Ally] Our relationship? -[Jonathan] Everything.

[bleep], man, I'm sorry. Just give me some space.

[Jonathan] It's not fair to have to sit there and listen

to this stupid...

[Niles] Next time on "90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way."

Fixed it. I'm Michelle.

I have the worst taste in men.

That's probably why I've stayed single.

But when I met Felix, I thought he was the best man I've

ever met. We were so happy.

We fell in love.

But his family became very involved in our relationship.

You stayed with a lover, and there was the camping trip.

And then last night, you took me to her house

to meet her.

And I thought you were on the same page.

My friend Asriel is my most recent sort of part-time lover.

We just started hooking up.

I look over, and I realize that, oh, this is Asriel.

[Nigel] You been inside yet?

[Andi] Then I see Nigel and Asriel walk up the stairs together.

[Matilda's father speaking]

[Matilda speaking]

[Niles] This is really freaking horrible.

I just uprooted my whole entire life.

I feel sick to my stomach. I really do.

I've never played doubles before.

[Vittorio] Hey, Jessy, go, go, go.

[speaking Italian]

Just look at the ball and hit.

Make me look good in front of them.

He's making fun of me. He's mocking me.

Every time the net. Every time.

He's honestly embarrassing me in front of all of his friends.

I do not want to go home with you.

Like, just respect that.

You're making a scene in front of everybody.

[speaking Italian]

[Jessy] Damn, [bleep] you.

I've got children at home, and you act like I'm giving

up nothing. -[Ally] You know what?

Maybe I should step aside from your life, because I feel like

I am too much, when I should be your [bleep] priority.

What the [bleep] are we doing together?

I don't know.

I don't know.