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[announcer] This season on "90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way" --

I'm here, buongiorno bitches!

We have not done the home run yet.

Two years I've waited.

I'm moving to Ghana.

I'm going to be with my wife.

But she has no idea I don't plan to go back home.

My name is Andi Jane.

Nigel is my soulmate,

but singing is my first love.

When I move to Australia, I am starting completely over.

What the [bleep] am I doing?

[theme music plays]

Living in France isn't just baguettes and berets.

My parents don't know that I'm pregnant.

Being pregnant and unmarried,

that's the worst thing ever.

-No. -Hey...

[Matilda speaking]

[Niles] I cannot keep hiding this secret from her.

I just can't.

If you want your social status, then go

be with an Italian girl.

Oh, my God, because you lied to me.

[Kenny] I'm on my way to get to Hannah.

Hannah has a dire medical emergency.

I feel unbelievably bad for Armando that he's not here.

I miss my baby girl.

I don't wanna lose her.

[ominous chord strike]

♪ Yeah ♪

[singing in Spanish]

[Jessy] I'm very biased. If you were to ask me,

I think the Bronx is the best borough.

Don't shoot the messenger.

Whoo!

Ay, Josefina...

[speaking Spanish]

What makes me a Bronx girl is that

I don't take [bleep] from anyone.

[speaking Spanish]

I'm a lot to handle, but I like to say

that means there's more of me to love.

[singing in Spanish continues]

I'm Jessy, I'm 29 years old, and I'm from

the Bronx, New York.

[speaking Spanish]

I am the three L's.

I'm loud, I'm Latina, and I'm a Leo.

I'm Dominican-American, I was born and raised in the US,

but my entire family is from Dominican Republic.

Josefina, I heard you brought empanadas today.

[Jessy] You didn't save me an empanada?

-No. -Your favorite client.

You should have saved me an empanada.

-Yes. -[Jessy, speaking Spanish]

I'm not gonna find empanadas in Italia.

[Josefina] No. [laughing]

Yes, I like spaghetti.

In a perfect world, I would have loved

to find my man in the Bronx.

But unfortunately, he's not just in another borough.

He's on another continent.

[singing in Italian]

My boyfriend's name is Vittorio.

He's 29 years old, and he lives in Florence, Italy.

[singing in Italian]

I met Vittorio about a year ago,

when we both were working

for a designer during Miami Art Basel week.

Towards the end of our work assignment,

Vittorio came up to me and just asked me out

on a formal date.

We went to this Italian restaurant.

We got the full premium treatment.

Like, food just kept coming out.

And the conversation was just flowing.

And he just made me feel so special.

Then about a week later, he invited me to the Bahamas

for a little getaway.

♪ You, me, and the universe ♪

And I was over the moon excited.

I couldn't really believe it.

♪ We could break it down like ooh ♪

We had the most incredible time.

He completely swept me off my feet.

♪ We could break it down like that ♪

He's so kind, so genuine,

and it's just a breath of fresh air compared to

the American jerks that I've encountered

in the US.

[speaking Spanish]

I'm not crazy. I'm just in love.

So Jess, you're really going to leave?

Yes, you know love makes you do crazy things.

All right.

For the past year, Vittorio and I have been in

a long-distance relationship.

We've been on a couple of vacations together,

but for the most part, it's been a lot of

video calls and phone calls.

It's been difficult being apart, so a few months ago,

Vittorio asked me to move to Italy.

I actually visited Vittorio over the summer,

and Florence is so incredible.

It reminded me kind of of New York.

Lots of, like, shops and things like that around.

And he has no real desire to live in the US right now.

So, I've decided to pack up my entire life

and take this leap of faith.

And hopefully it's my happily ever after.

-[Josefina] Bye-bye. -Bye-bye.

♪ La, la, la, la, la, la, la ♪

[singing in Spanish]

♪ They turn the heat up ♪

[Jessy] My friends and I,

we like to say every girl has her gay bestie.

So, now we call ourselves ladies and gay-dies.

[overlapping exclamations]

We have a lot of fun.

We go on trips together. We'll do brunch.

I know I can trust them with all of my secrets.

They're basically like family.

-That was so much fun, you guys. -Yes, girl.

We needed that one time for the one time

before I move to Italy.

But I'm so nervous.

Like, I'm trying something new, you guys.

[Brian] Is he gonna be able to pick you up?

He seems fragile.

[Jessy] He's just thin, you know.

I told him he has to do leg day, he has to squat

and lift heavy so he can lift me up.

That's my dream, like coming home from my wedding.

Your legs look bigger than his.

I don't know if he gay or European.

My relationship history,

I've been through some things.

I seem to always go for the bad guys.

Your 6'5", tatted, dark-skinned man

with a beard, muscles.

But Vittorio is not quite that.

He is about my height, has curly hair, and he likes

to wear double-breasted linen suits.

My concern is that I know you, and I know you have

a certain type...

So, you're gonna move all the way to Italy.

Like, this is a big move.

You know, I've been holding out as long as possible to

really see if he's there for me, and not just gonna,

like, leave once he, you know,

gets the golden ticket, and he stays.

Vittorio and I, we've had our fair share of foreplay,

but we have not,

he has not done the home run yet

in this baseball game.

I've been holding out because I've had my heart broken

in the past, you know, I've been cheated on, unfortunately.

You know, I wanted to make sure he was with me

for the right reasons.

But, you know, Vittorio is not really my physical type,

so I'm curious to know if he can keep up with me,

if he can satisfy me.

Fingers crossed.

[Yesenia] But I have a question.

If it doesn't work, what are you going to do?

I haven't thought that far yet.

I just kind of want to get there first.

But he's very romantic. He's very sensual.

No, no, no. Pause, pause, pause, pause.

-[Brian] You said sensual? -Sensual?

-He's romantic. -Through the phone?

And I'm not really sure if you're really attracted to him.

Knowing who you are, like, you get

turned off easily. -I am very anxious.

Like, believe me.

Like, that's definitely in the back of my mind.

I want to have that connection with him, you know,

in and outside of the bedroom. But, like, we'll see.

I'm a lot to handle.

[Manny] OK, I'm going to be very frank.

You know, you've had a little bit of, you know,

delulu situations with your past boyfriends. -Uh-huh.

And we just want to make sure that, you know, like, this one

is, like, really the one. -[Jessy] He treats me really well.

He gives me gifts. We go on trips together.

-Chica, I understand, but, like -- -[Jessy] He's very sweet.

Like, let's look at the positive things about him.

[Manny] He's so sweet, he's so nice, he's so kind.

I sometimes feel like he might be like, trying to like,

overcompensate for something, -Like, love bomb her.

-Yes, love bomb. -Love bomb her, yes.

That's where I am a little confused.

Yes, I agree with that.

The overshowering of gifts,

the whole, like, overabundance,

generosity, and there's no cookie involved.

That's the problem, that's the thing that

has me like, "What is going on?"

If he's too perfect, he might be

hiding something [indistinct].

I get the concerns, but like, trust me,

like I have a good feeling about this, OK?

[drum tapping]

[fiddle plays]

[woman] One, two, three, four.

♪ Once you have the lay of the land ♪

♪ Will you lie away? ♪

[fiddle plays]

♪ Another heart in your hand ♪

♪ That you will have to break ♪

[fiddle plays]

♪ You may have made mistakes ♪

♪ But no one was ever hurt ♪

♪ Oh ♪

♪ Those thousand little lies ♪

-[cheering] -[clapping]

[Andi] Thank you so much!

My name is Andi Jane. I appreciate you guys.

All right folks, so about three years ago,

I went to see a psychic,

and she told me that my soulmate was going to be

a foreign man.

That I was going to meet him at the beach.

Now, I live here in Tennessee, and I do not frequent

the beach, so I'll be honest with you, I wrote that one off.

Until about two years later, when I met an Aussie

by the name of Nigel.

On the second day that we spent together, he invited me

to meet him at the beach in Mexico.

-[man] Yeah! -[woman] Whoo!

[Andi] So of course, I'm like, "This might be

"my potential soulmate,

"so obviously I'm going to go to the beach

in Mexico with this man that I barely know."

And one year later, we are still together,

so I figured it was about time

I wrote a song about it.

All right, this one is called "Worlds Apart."

♪ Oh, ever since we started ♪

♪ I've only had eyes for you ♪

Nigel is a charismatic, adventurous, wild man

from Australia. He is my man.

He's my partner in crime.

♪ We were two peas right there in a pod ♪

♪ And I never thought I would see ♪

Traveling to Mexico with a man I barely knew just because of

a psychic prediction was kind of insane,

but I'm so glad it led me to Nigel.

-[man] Yeah, let's go! -[cheering]

I have a tendency to be a little serious sometimes,

and I find myself drawn to people who can be very playful

and fun and make sure that I am not too uptight.

And Nigel does this so well. He is just so funny.

Dance for me.

[Andi] OK.

He's weird.

He just keeps my life exciting.

He keeps my heart beating.

Sometimes I need somebody to push me outside of

my comfort zone, and he's not afraid of anything.

And I love that about him.

Thank you all so much.

I appreciate you for coming out.

-[cheering] -[applause]

I've just never had a love quite like this before.

That was a great show.

Everyone who plays here, we ask them to sign the wall,

and we'd appreciate if you'd sign the wall.

Yes! Oh my God, I can be

right next to Jack White?

[Kevin] Jack White, yep.

Nigel is the love of my life,

but singing is my first love.

Eight years ago, I moved to Nashville, and now my career is

really starting to take off.

My bluegrass band is kicking ass right now.

We just started booking shows all around Nashville,

and I just released an album.

[Kevin] I don't wanna keep bugging you about Rocky Tonk,

but it's coming up in a month.

We gotta get you locked in.

What do you think?

I'm actually moving to Australia in a few weeks.

[Kevin] Wow.

[Andi] It's kind of crazy that I'm leaving all of this behind.

I'll be giving up a lot of momentum.

I am playing decent-sized shows.

And when I move to Australia,

I am starting completely over.

But I love Nigel with all of my heart,

and I feel like I have to go all in

to figure out if this is my soulmate.

♪♪

-I need a butter knife, please. -OK.

[Andi] I'm leaving for Australia in just over a week.

And while I feel really excited, leaving my family is

one of the hardest parts about this move.

We're super close, and we only live

a short drive away from each other.

And now I am going to be halfway across the world.

[Wanda] Take these out to your dad and tell him to

get them on A-S-A-P, please. -OK.

Yes, ma'am.

[Kari] How many pairs of boots do you have?

[Andi] Well, I'm about to have a few less.

Would either of you like these?

[Kari] Oh, those are cute.

I know, I have not worn them ever.

[Robin] Let me try -- let me try them on.

Try them on.

[Robin] No, I want some glittery boots.

-[Kari] Yeah, what about the glitters? -No, I'm keeping those.

-Are you taking them? -[Andi] Yes!

These are my pride and joy.

She's always been artistic and dramatic.

[Robin] Our parents called her annoying Annie

because she was always like, "Hey, look at me, don't forget

about me." -[Andi] Those are performance boots.

Those, those have to come.

When I first saw a picture of Nigel, I thought,

"Yeah, OK, that tracks." -Yeah.

-[Robin] Immediately. -Mm-hmm.

That's Annie's type.

-All right, I'm hungry, how's... -Yeah.

-Let's see if Dad's done cooking. -Yeah.

Come on, let's check on the burgers.

Yeah.

Hey, how long is that stuff taking outside?

Uh, he hasn't flipped the burgers yet.

[Wanda] OK.

Perfect, perfect, perfect. OK, I need a knife.

This looks good. Nigel, can he cook?

-[Wanda speaking] -We're gonna find out.

[Andi] We did camping food, yeah.

-OK, OK. -We made some, like, fun,

creative, like, whatever you got.

OK, OK.

Have you made plans for your timeshare vacation?

[Andi speaking]

-[Wanda] What? -No.

-I'm paying for it. -Is he gonna pay you back?

[Andi] Hopefully, that's the plan.

I mean, he said, "I'm gonna pay you back."

[Andi] No, he didn't say that.

I'm gonna talk to him.

I think he will pay for it.

I think we're good.

-OK. -[Andi] Yeah.

When Nigel and I were on that first trip to Mexico,

we got roped into a timeshare presentation.

We were doing it for the freebies, but then Nigel

basically said, "We should get one."

I was like, "Are you sure you want to

make a 10-year commitment to me?"

He's like, "Well, yeah, there's water slides involved."

And I was a little bit swept away by that.

But once we'd made a few payments,

he wanted to cancel it.

And at that point, it was too late.

And it was all on my credit card,

so I was the one paying for it.

I didn't know that he wasn't making payments.

Are you kidding me? That's ridiculous.

[Kari] She told me not to tell you.

[Wanda] When did she tell you not to tell me?

[Kari] Pretty soon after they bought it.

It's not even that they got scammed into a timeshare.

You know, that happens to a lot of people.

But he signed a contract,

and then he said, "Eh, you know,

"I don't think I'm gonna pay, and I'm going to leave you

on the hook for that -- for $10,000."

She asked my advice, and I said, "I don't know,

man, that sucks."

[Wanda] Well, crapping out on a timeshare

is a pretty... -Yeah?

-Mm-hmm. -...[bleep] thing to do.

Yes, yep, yeah.

My good thoughts of hoping they make it, I kind of want to

be positive, but my positivity...

[Kari] Mm-hmm. -...just kind of

flew out the window. -[Kari] Yep.

You're gonna have to talk to her about that.

Well, I guess I will.

She's a really good human being

and she's got a lot to give.

[Robert] Annie, they ready for burgers yet?

-[Andi] Yeah. -I'm gonna need a bigger plate, though.

[Andi] OK.

And unfortunately, she is a bum magnet.

I hate to say those words, but it's true.

They see how good she is and...

she's so easy to take advantage of.

Because she just sees the good in everybody.

You know, she thinks they're going to be good like her,

and they're not. They are not.

I know.

Agh, I don't know.

That's some cool stuff you got.

Hi, I'm Niles.

How much is she?

She represents how I see my wife.

I told Matilda that I would bring her to the US

in five months.

Two years later, and that has not happened.

That was really stupid.

I was single, partying,

and then I met this really hot guy from America.

He was the best sex I've ever had.

My parents don't know that I'm pregnant.

I am afraid to tell my parents that I'm pregnant.

It's like a disgrace to my family.

[humming]

♪♪

[humming continues]

Ahh.

Mothers, breathe. I don't hear you breathe.

Ahh.

I don't hear you moan.

[Megan speaking]

Rock front, back. Move it.

♪ And my hips go crazy ♪

♪ Then I give them more than they're asking for ♪

♪ Where my girls at? ♪

♪ Let's shake it, shake it ♪

♪ Let's shake it, baby, Where my girls at? ♪

How you feel?

but everyone calls me Ally.

I'm 28 years old and I'm from Singapore.

Come, off from the ball.

[burps] Sorry.

I never feel good, I'm pregnant.

My bra is so tight. I hate wearing a bra.

OK, anyways. OK.

Each contraction brings me closer to my baby.

All right, good.

Pass the card to her.

She was telling me another affirmation.

[woman] What is it? What affirmation tell me?

[Ally] It's crazy that I am six months pregnant,

because it's not something I saw coming.

Couple years ago, I was single, having fun,

partying almost every night.

And then one night...

I met this really hot guy from America

and he was the best sex

I've ever had in my entire life.

♪ I'm a stranger in a strange land ♪

♪ Oh my god, my lungs ♪

♪ I'm feeling good ♪

♪ I feel it deep in my bones ♪

-[buzzing] -Ope.

I can turn that off.

Sorry about that.

My name is John, I'm 49 years old

and I'm from Groton, Connecticut.

Nice and tight.

I don't have what you'd call a "typical job."

I design and manufacture sonar equipment.

Basically underwater listening devices.

All right, nice and full.

So, yeah, I'm basically a nerdy mad scientist who somehow

landed a hot girlfriend on the other side of the world.

♪ He wants to sip Bacardi ♪

♪ Backseat a Maserati ♪

[Jonathan] Two years ago, I got sent out to Malaysia to do some work.

We met at a little bar and we started talking.

♪ Don't know if I believe him ♪

♪ Tonight I don't want to leave him ♪

[Jonathan] I didn't think I had a chance or was on the menu.

There was no chance in hell this young, beautiful woman

would be interested in an old dude like myself.

♪ I got you ♪

[Ally] He was very tall and handsome.

He had, like, his tall socks.

He gives off daddy vibes.

[laughing]

♪ Ooh, ooh ♪

♪ No one loves you like I do ♪

She asked me out on a date, which I obviously accepted.

♪ Ooh, ooh ♪

From that point on, the sparks were flying.

[Ally] John has an amazing personality.

He always makes me laugh.

He always makes, like, dad jokes.

Well, hello, Clarice.

John has a lot of responsibilities

back in the States.

He has his two sons,

and he also has a business that

he's running with his father.

So we have to go long stretches without seeing each other.

Things got so hard that I wanted to break up with him.

Several times, actually.

But then I asked for a sign.

And like a week later, found out I was pregnant.

So...

Everything changed when

we found out Ally was pregnant.

John tried to expedite a visa for me to move to the US,

but it got denied.

And so now John is moving out here to Singapore

to be with me and our baby.

So, Ally, what will be the birth that you envision?

I have Megan to help me, but I don't have my family

to help me because...

my parents don't know that I'm pregnant.

Right, OK.

And it's very taboo.

And I mean, I'm not even, like, engaged yet.

Even though I am not a very traditional Indian Muslim girl,

I really do want my parents' approval.

So, I am afraid to tell my parents that I'm pregnant.

So it's been tough, like, kind of doing this alone.

[woman] I hear you, OK?

You are walking on the path of unknown.

You don't know.

But having a baby, it's a good thing.

It's a happy thing, right?

OK, just stay positive, stay strong.

-Yeah. -They would kill me

if I have a kid without... -Before, before marriage.

-Before marriage. Yeah.

Listen, thank you so much

for your attention today.

[all] Thank you.

[Megan speaking]

Look at all these people, like, with their husbands.

And I'm just here -- I'm grateful for you.

I'm really, really grateful for you.

But like, just another one more thing

of me being pregnant and not having my partner there.

You know, I was looking...

-I feel like crying. -Yeah, it's OK.

-It's OK. -[Ally] I was like...

Just let it all out.

I was looking forward to, like, doing this pregnancy

with him by my side.

But, like, I feel so lonely all the time.

-I feel so alone. -I know. I know.

-I feel like I'm a single mum sometimes, you know? -Yeah.

I love John with all my heart, and it's been so hard

without him or my family.

So, of course, I want him here, but I'm scared.

Like, what if my parents

reject him, reject us just because I'm pregnant?

I'm not even married yet.

It's like a disgrace to my family.

And I don't know how they're going to take the news.

I'm just so afraid of, like, disappointing them.

Our anniversary is coming up, and I want to kind of walk in

with a surprise. -Oh.

The surprise that I have for her,

I'm 1,000% sure she's going to explode.

♪♪

[Niles] For years, a devoted knight crossed borders

and battled dragons to be with the one he loved.

And at last, he arrives to join his princess,

and they live happily ever after.

That is the story of Niles and Matilda.

Wow! Cool story, bro.

-Um, how much for this? -$25.

♪ Hey, I'm looking so sharp, I'm a well-dressed man ♪

♪ Living my life, doing what I can ♪

♪ Let me share a little something with you ♪

♪ Yeah, I'm feeling like I can't lose ♪

♪ Can't lose, I'm feeling like I can't lose ♪

♪ Can't lose, I'm feeling like I can't lose ♪

♪ Can't lose, I'm feeling like I can't stop ♪

Hi, I'm Niles.

I'm 29 years old, and I'm from Mobile, Alabama.

-Hey! -[Niles] Oh, hey, how you doing?

Fantastic!

I see you got a nice little display here.

What's this all about?

Well, need to sell a few things.

I'm into fantasy games. I'm into role-playing games.

I have been playing these types of games since I can remember.

-Oh, is that a...? -[Niles] Both the pocket watch...

-Oh. -...and if you want a miniature set of dice.

I have amassed a real and serious collection.

And when I sell this, I plan to invest in the future.

That's some cool stuff you got.

I know. Accumulated over a few years

of being a gamer.

What kind of games?

-Yes. -Yes, all kinds of games?

Yes.

I am not always so good with the social situations

and the saying of the words and them coming out

like they are supposed to.

At age 14, I was diagnosed with autism spectrum disorder,

and you know, what you see is what you get.

Hope nobody's blind.

She's interesting.

How much is she?

She is

quite, quite close to my heart, actually.

I, honest to God, didn't think that I would find love.

I really thought that, you know, I would just be

single for the rest of my life.

She represents...

how I see my wife.

[customer gasps]

I like to imagine that Matilda and I are an epic love story.

We're just two young, Black people that fell in love,

who happen to live 4,000 miles away.

[Matilda] Oh, God.

My name is Matilda.

I'm 26 years old and I'm from Offinso, Ghana.

[speaking foreign language]

Thank you.

[Niles] I met my wife on social media.

I told her to slide into my DMs, and so she did.

♪ I know you're looking for me ♪

♪ How are you looking for me? ♪

♪ Find me happiness ♪

You know, we actually started off as friends at first.

She had another relationship before me, and I just thought,

of course, someone like her would already have someone.

Then they broke up.

And suddenly I said, "Oh, wow, this is actually,

this might actually work." That sounds so horrible

to say out loud.

This guy got his heart torn in half.

Now it's my -- here's my chance to swoop in.

[Niles] I just knew Matilda was the one for me.

So after two years of talking online,

I finally flew out to Ghana to meet her in person.

[indistinct].

Matilda!

[indistinct].

When I saw Niles for the first time, gosh...

I saw this man was very, very handsome.

Welcome to Ghana.

[Niles speaking]

We are in public. You know this, right?

It was the happiest day of my life.

I didn't want to rush things, but the more time I spent

with her in person, the more I realized

that I wanted to get married to her.

-[cheering] -[clapping]

Is it the lady that you intend marrying?

Yes, she is the one.

-[cheering] -[clapping]

I was over the moon the day that we got married.

But having to leave her, it was heartbreaking.

I'll see you soon.

[Matilda] I'm going to miss you.

I told Matilda that I would bring her to the US

in five months.

-I love you. -I love you more.

[Niles] Although let me just say right now,

that was really stupid.

That was really dumb on my part.

Because two years later and that has not happened,

nor have I seen her since,

you better believe we definitely argued about that.

-[Matilda speaking] -[man] Good morning.

[speaking foreign language]

It's been two years since me and Niles got married.

[speaking foreign language]

-How you doing, brother? -Good, how about yourself?

I'm doing wonderful.

OK, are you looking to get out of the game?

Something like that. I'm going to Ghana.

Oh, Ghana? Oh, OK.

-That sounds nice. -Oh, it's very nice.

-[man] Really? -Especially when you have a wife there.

-[man] Oh, really? -Yes.

Our anniversary's coming up,

and, you know, I want to kind of walk in

with a surprise.

OK, so have anything in mind you want to give her?

What I plan to give her is

something that money honestly can't buy.

The surprise that I have for her...

it's me, and in a very surprising way.

Matilda thinks that I'm coming to Ghana for only two weeks.

But I have made the decision to move to Ghana.

And she kind of, sort of, maybe,

definitely doesn't know at all.

She has no idea I don't plan to go back home.

Guess you can tell your friends you got

a screeching wyvern for $75.

All right, that's what I'm talking about.

I haven't told her yet because, quite frankly,

I'm 1,000% sure she's going to explode.

And only thing to do is just...

deal with it when it happens.

Thank you very much.

And I hope you and your wife have a great time.

I am Vittorio from Firenze, Italy.

Working in the fashion industry, I've been approached

by many gay men.

Maybe also a scarf we can make for Jessy.

I'm 25% gay, but the gay is lesbian.

Oh my dear.

I have a feminine side, but the feminine side

likes woman, cause it's lesbian.

I'm having to do some dishes

my friend left me, but whatever.

You know who.

I live at home with my dad,

my youngest son,

and my ex-wife.

[Ally speaking]

But you got to understand that

I'm dealing with the mother of my children here.

Oh lovely, she left dishes for me.

Excellent.

♪ Hey ♪

[phone ringing]

Hey, baby. What are you up to?

I was supposed to go out,

but now I'm lazy. -No.

-Where were you going? -I was gonna go hang out with the girls.

Oh that's fun. Oh you look super pretty tonight, by the way.

-Thank you, wow. -[Jonathan] My goodness.

[Jonathan] Maybe it's good you didn't go out looking like that, huh?

[Jonathan] Yeah? Oh.

You know, some of the guys out there, it wouldn't stop 'em.

I'm having to do some dishes my friend left me, but whatever.

You know who.

-Oh -[Jonathan] Yeah.

Right now, I live at home with my dad,

my youngest son, and my ex-wife.

Oh, I don't know.

I was married to my ex-wife for 25 years

and we have two beautiful boys together.

But we grew apart, and it just wasn't working anymore.

So, about two years ago we finally decided to end things.

She's still getting on her feet after the divorce,

and I really just don't have the heart to kick her to the curb like that.

And I want to make sure that she's OK ultimately,

because I do care about her.

Yeah, I know. I know, I know, I know.

[Ally] I'm not really comfortable with that situation.

Like, how the [bleep]

did I even get myself in such a situation, honestly?

The five times that I visited John,

his ex-wife was, like, in the room next to the bathroom.

And so, like, I was just trying my best not to, like,

make any noise, like, during sex, you know?

Cause he's like, "Shh."

It was kind of awkward.

[Jonathan] I do apologize, babe.

But you got to understand that

I'm dealing with the mother of my children here.

I'm just giving it a little bit of time.

I know I've put off, like,

any evictions or anything like that.

But I did do something that I promised to do.

What?

I told Ryan about me moving out there and about our little baby

that's on the way.

He's on board. He's a happy dude.

-Yeah. -Yeah.

I was definitely nervous about telling my kids about the move

and the baby, but it actually went better than expected.

So look, like I implore you to make the choice to stay

with Ally and take care of the baby, because I feel like

that's the most important thing.

I can be sad about it.

I can grumble. I can deal with it.

But the people who need you most right now,

I feel, is Ally and the baby.

Wow.

That's really cool to hear you say that, man.

Thank you.

Ryan being supportive just meant the world to me.

But it's going to be so hard moving away from my sons.

We're very close.

And for the last 22 years,

those guys have been my entire world.

He um, he responded really well to it, so it went well.

[Ally] That's good.

Well, anyway, I'm probably going to the office

to work on some stuff.

How's your job application out here?

Well, definitely I'm still looking for a job right now.

But the good news is, is that with my business,

I've got a lot of orders and things like that.

So I should have the money that we talked about in hand by

the time I get out there. -How much do you have saved?

Not as much as I should.

Ally puts a lot of pressure on me.

I mean, get the ex out of the house,

get money saved, get a job.

And I'm moving 10,000 miles away from my kids

and my business.

I don't want you to stress about stuff.

-You need to just relax. -[Ally speaking]

[Jonathan] I need to figure out a way to support two households in

a giant city that's foreign to me.

Not to mention that we're having a baby out of wedlock,

and we still have to tell her very religious family about this.

She's got to realize I'm doing the best I can.

Don't worry, I'm coming.

Everything is going to be good. I will take care of you.

-You promise? -I swear.

OK.

["Largo al factotum" from "The Barber of Seville" playing]

[singing in Italian]

[Vittorio] My motorcycle, it has a beautiful symphony when

you turn it on.

You hear the engine... [imitating engine revving]

When I ride a motorcycle, it's almost like you are

at one with the engine.

[singing in Italian continues]

I am Vittorio from Firenze, Italy, 29 years old.

I am a very passionate person.

I'm a lot to handle.

People, either they love me or they hate me.

There's nothing in between.

[speaking Italian]

The best butcher in Florence [indistinct].

[butcher] Oh, wow. Thank you.

-They are thick. -Amazing. Look at that.

-Beautiful. -[butcher] I -- I --

You do the usual. You know.

-[butcher] I know. -Exactly.

-You know me. -The good size.

Fantastic. Yes, yes.

My lifestyle has always been study hard, work hard,

experience hard. -This is your...

[speaking Italian]

Tomorrow, I want to take a plane and go

wherever I can go.

I don't need to ask permission or say anything to nobody.

My motorcycle, my freedom.

-Hi! -[mumbled chatter]

I'm so happy to see you! How are you?

I work in fashion.

I am a manager for fashion brand, and then I also have

my personal brand on the side where I design clothes.

I spent the last few years working on smaller projects

in different parts of the world.

What do you think? It seems a little bit...

-I don't like it. -No, we need more structure.

-No, no. -More structure.

Clearly working in the fashion industry, I've been approached

by many gay men thinking that I was gay.

No, not.

I appreciate the gay.

I'm 25% gay, but the gay is lesbian.

It means that I also have a feminine side,

but that feminine side doesn't like men, but likes women.

Because it's lesbian.

I think this we could get for real.

[Irma] Wow, this is really beautiful.

This could be maybe more feminine, but we can do

something very nice. So, this, I think, definitely.

-[Irma] Wow, this is beautiful. -This can be nice, you think?

Maybe also a scarf we can make for Jessy.

-What do you think? -For Jessy?

She like roses and flowers and stuff.

If you think.

[Vittorio] Jessy and I met when I was working in Miami.

She come in all dolled up with the high heels,

wearing this dress.

♪ [indistinct lyrics] ♪

And I remember saying, "Wow, who is this girl?"

We fell in love in a way that was very innocent

and was very genuine.

She was beautiful. She was different.

She had this New York accent that made me go crazy.

And I felt something inside

that I never did with any woman.

Everything felt right.

-Yeah. -You can be my model, right?

Of course, when I drape all of this, as usual.

-You can be my model. -I can do it as usual.

My muse, my muse. Don't tell Jessy, please.

[Irma speaking Italian]

-Are you nervous about it? -Yes, now even more.

But I need you because you tell me the truth

and I need to understand that. -Yeah.

-Because I know you really good. -Yeah.

with Italian style.

[Vittorio] You're right. Oh my God.

[speaking Italian]

[Vittorio] Italian women are boring for me.

She's American, Dominican. I love this.

You know, I can not be bored.

[speaking Italian]

[in English] ...your relationship...

[speaking Italian]

Si.

You're right, up until now, I was being free here and there,

Vittorio, this and that.

You could say that I'm a bit of a playboy.

I will disappear and not answer anymore, and this and that,

things that I'm not proud of

because I would not want to commit.

I feel that she, for some reason, is the right one.

-I have this feeling. You're right. -Yeah, why?

Why, why, why, why do you think that?

Why? It's hard to explain.

You feel something.

I don't want to be committed, but then with her,

something clicked.

-I don't know to tell you what specifically. -Yeah.

Now, I need to step up if I want to be a committed man.

Temptation are always gonna be there,

but I believe it's gonna work.

You meet her and you will see, you will see how it is.

[Irma] OK.

[Vittorio] But there is one thing.

I didn't tell Jessy something.

There is one thing that I did not disclose to Jessy.

So Jessy might be shocked, but when you play poker,

you don't put all your cards out in the moment.

You wait until the moment. So I wait.

[speaking Italian]

No, yeah, but now it's too late.

She's coming.

I'm going to create something special.

She see how romantic I am. Let's see.

Let's see how it goes. Let's be positive.

Yeah? Are you positive?

No less, because I talk to you.

-This is the problem. -I'm not positive.

-[Vittorio] No, exactly. -[Irma] OK, OK, OK.

You're an impulse, everything.

You like that feeling, that dopamine rush.

[Andi] Maybe that's why Nigel is perfect for me.

-What does that mean? -Oh, boy.

OK, it's a little different than what you're used to, but.

I don't think I want to hear this.

♪ It's going down like a hammer ♪

Aw, dang.

♪ Eye to eye with the danger ♪

Whoa.

♪ It might get -- ♪

♪ Hey, rowdy ♪

♪ Hey ♪

♪ It might get -- hey ♪

-Oh, God. -[groaning]

-God. -[laughing]

-How's the burgers? -I haven't tried it yet.

Hot dogs are good, though.

Make sure I can not pull a Wanda.

-Yeah, really. -Spill mustard down your shirt.

I already did it.

My family hasn't met or talked to Nigel yet, but when I told

them I was moving to Australia,

suddenly they have tons of questions.

[Wanda] Have you got your bags packed?

No, I've got a lot to do.

Does he understand how big this is to us?

-I don't think so. -I don't think so either.

I don't think so.

You know, I want to like Nigel, I want to respect Nigel,

but I'm having a hard time already.

I didn't know he wasn't making payments on the timeshare.

That upsets me.

Why is that?

After we bought it, we obviously looked into it

and all the promises they made.

And it was very clear that it was not what they said

it was going to be.

And Nigel said, "I'm not paying for this."

Which I tried to get us to split the payments.

I was like, "Can we put two credit cards down?"

And they said, no, they said, "Only one credit card."

And he's like, "Well, I don't have a credit card

that works here." -How convenient.

I know.

I don't want everything to land on me.

Everything to land on me.

But honey, you're already doing more of the giving.

And you're hardly even started.

-I do give a lot. -You give a lot.

-And he seems to take. -You tend to find takers.

He's spontaneous and fun, and she likes that.

-She's very impulsive. -Yeah.

But I think once they start living together in the monotony

of everyday life, that's when you see someone's true nature.

She's either going to realize this is exactly what she's ever

wanted, or she's going to get down there and say,

"Oof, huge mistake. I'm out."

You're an impulse shopper. You're an impulse everything.

You like that feeling, that dopamine rush,

that like... -Maybe that's why Nigel is

perfect for me, because we are in

a non-monogamous relationship.

-What does that mean? -Oh, boy.

-Oh, my God. -It's -- OK --

It's a little different than what you're used to, but...

Oh, my God.

-For somebody -- -I don't think I want to hear this.

-You know what it means. -I know what it means.

I don't want to hear it.

[Andi] When I first met Nigel, he told me that he doesn't feel

naturally monogamous and that he wants an open relationship.

I haven't practiced non-monogamy with any of

my previous boyfriends.

However, I did feel that it makes sense

when you're long-distance.

That doesn't sound like a relationship.

Well, it's long-distance, you know?

Scary. That's scary.

I don't know.

Well, when I get there, my feeling is

that we will be monogamous.

Have you discussed that with him?

No.

I feel like that'll be kind of understood.

To me, it seems obvious that if I'm coming all the way to

Australia for him, he's not going to be running off trying

to bang other ladies.

So...

I feel like you need to talk about that.

[Andi] Yeah.

Yeah, you're right.

-You've dated some doozies. -[Andi] Mm-hmm.

Yeah.

And I can't say that anything I have learned today...

has made me believe that he's not another doozy.

I have a lot of experience with toxic relationships.

The last relationship was the worst of them all

and when we finally broke up,

I basically hit rock bottom. My life was a mess.

I know my family thinks that I'm repeating my past mistakes,

but he's different from my exes.

He is a really thoughtful, caring soul,

and he's super genuine and loves me so much.

And this relationship just feels really freaking special.

I mean, no offense, darling.

I love you, but your track record sucks.

[Andi] I am taking a risk.

But I have a real shot at true love.

I have a real shot at my soulmate

and building something with somebody that I truly care about.

But you've got so much to give.

You need to find someone

that treats you like your dad treats me.

That's what I want,

that's what you deserve. You deserve more,

you deserve it all.

You've got it all, and you deserve it all.

I do believe in Nigel, though.

I really do.

I believe that we can build something strong

and beautiful and special.

I do have some -- I have some worries that I am giving more

than he is.

[Robert] You got to listen to them little voices in your head.

Those little red flags.

Them little voices in your head know..

No, you're not sniffing my armpits.

Oh God.

When we tell her parents about this, like, oh my God,

it's gonna be pretty intense, so...

-I'm really scared. -I know, I'm scared too.

-I'm scared. -Yeah.

Passport -- very important.

So this is crazy, leaving the US.

I mean, it was pretty hard saying goodbye to my boys.

You know?

Not really knowing exactly when I'm going to see them again

and still trying to keep them calm at the same time.

Right now, I got a lot of stuff going through my mind.

I am dreading having to tell

Ally's family about this pregnancy.

And who knows what's going to happen?

It could just be a disaster.

♪ Take me [indistinct] put my feet on the ground ♪

♪ Don't look back 'cause this is what I live for ♪

♪ This is what I live for ♪

I feel like a dog waiting for its owner

to come back from work.

I'm just so excited. I might pee my pants a little.

Today, John arrives in Singapore and I cannot wait.

I'm excited to cuddle.

I'm excited to cook together, eat together, sleep together.

Like, not sexually, but just sleep together.

I'm just so excited.

It's been really tough going through this pregnancy alone

without John here.

Oh, I miss him so much, I'm so excited to see him.

24 hours later, and we are here.

I'm so excited. It's been such a long flight.

This always wears me out so bad, but totally worth it every

time, as soon as I see her.

♪ What do you feel inside? ♪

♪ Cause all around you, you've got high hopes ♪

And we're off.

Whew.

♪ The best of me, the best of you ♪

♪ Still to come ♪

[Jonathan] So glad to be off the plane.

I'm so stoked.

Can't wait to see Ally, touch the belly bump.

The last time I saw her, she was barely showing.

And I'll give her a big old kiss, for sure.

[Ally] I just can't wait.

We can finally go back to how it was in our little bubble.

♪ Now is the time, now is the time ♪

♪ Now what are we waiting for? ♪

♪ Now is the time, now is the time ♪

♪ Now what are we waiting for? ♪

♪ Oh, whoa-oh-oh ♪

♪ [indistinct lyrics] ♪

He was gone for a long time.

And finally he's back, so I'm happy.

I'm happy he's back.

Look at that. You did good, baby.

-You did good. -[mumbled chatter]

[Jonathan] I've done this flight a few times, but this time

was different. It really was.

I felt like I was coming home.

-You smell great. -You smell good.

Yeah, right.

No, you're not sniffing my armpits.

Oh, God.

There you go.

-Mmm! -Wonderful.

I always need John's armpit. All the time, every day.

-It's like my favorite thing ever. -Yeah.

I feel like I'm high.

It's funny, I'll be at home and I'll get a random text,

I can't wait to smell your armpits, and I'm just like...

I'll check and be like, "You don't know what you're

asking for, this is a..." -You make me sound like a weirdo.

I'm a weirdo, she's a weirdo, together we're super weird,

and I love it, I wouldn't trade it for the world.

-So we're leaving? -[Ally] Yeah.

I'm trying not to walk fast.

[Ally speaking]

Right now I'm just trying to enjoy the moment that we have

before we do all the things we have to do.

We have a big stack of obstacles.

Ally wants me to find a job.

I need to navigate this new city.

We can finally, like, tell my parents about the pregnancy.

Yes.

So when we tell her parents about this, like, oh my God,

it's going to be pretty intense, so....

-I'm really scared. -I know.

-I'm scared, too, yeah. -I'm scared.

Yikes.

Amazing.

You've been having a bit of a hard time with Matilda.

Like, what does she think about it, that you are planning

to move there?

I definitely didn't tell her that.

Why?

I promised her I would never lie to her, but what I don't

trust is her temper.

Are you just gonna go over there, and then you're gonna be

like, "Oh, by the way, I'm living here now"?

Nigel, I was on the phone with him and he told me that

he had planned on camping with a lover and that they were

going to spend the weekend camping together.

What if I get there and he's in love with somebody else?

It feels like I'm making a huge mistake.

[Niles] So I have bacon flavored soda, I have ranch dressing soda.

I also have buffalo wing soda.

Buffalo wing flavored soda?

[Niles] And peanut butter and jelly soda.

[Gabe] You know that one

sounds considerably better than the others.

♪ We popping bottles, bottles ♪

♪ We popping bottles, bottles ♪

♪ We popping bottles, bottles ♪

♪ We popping bottles ♪

Why's it got a bread smell?

It's peanut butter and jelly soda.

It tastes like stale bread and peanut butter and jelly.

-This is the weirdest... -What are you talking about?

Maybe I should have picked the bacon-flavored.

Odd flav -- those are odd flavors to you, man.

You've had a salad with ranch before, right?

And you've drank drunk a soda with your salad

before, correct? That's what ranch soda is!

Just a liquid salad.

Yummy.

-You good there, brother? -Mm.

-It's good, isn't it? -Instant regret.

-Mmm. -[laughing]

Gabe is a good friend of mine.

Press options.

-Options. -Is that the options?

In my adult life, I don't really have a lot of friends

because, well, let's be honest...

I am a lot to deal with and I know that.

-You have to be blocking first before you can grab. -[Gabe] OK.

Are you gonna still be able to game when you're in Ghana?

Of course, I don't see why I can't.

They have internet over there.

Uh, what's the -- the housing situation like over there?

So, I don't know.

Matilda moved out of the apartment,

and she just says that she just needs money to go get

another place. I'm like, "What's going on?

What's happening?"

We do not have money lying around like that.

She temper tantrum, basically,

and wouldn't talk to me.

A couple of months ago, Mat and I got into a fight

because she mismanaged the money that I sent her.

And she told me that she was going to be left on the streets

and she needed money for a new apartment.

I told her, move back home with your family and we'll figure

something out when I get there.

She didn't take that well, but she has really no choice

in the matter.

So, I will have to stay with her family, too, until we find

a new place for us.

You've been having a bit of a hard time

with Matilda right now.

Like, what does she think about it, that you are planning to

move there and set down roots?

Well, I should probably at some point tell her I want to

put roots down in Ghana.

I definitely didn't tell her that.

-Why? -You know how Matilda is.

Yeah, OK, fine. She's a bit of a diva.

But you should bring it up.

Are you just gonna, like, go over there and then you're

gonna be like, "Oh, by the way, I'm living here now."

You know, when you say it like that,

that does sound like -- that does sound pretty stupid, doesn't it?

Yeah.

I have heard a lot about Matilda's temper from Niles.

She's a bit of a brat.

But I cannot believe that he has not told Matilda that

he is outright planning to move there.

What's wrong with you? Talk to your wife!

Please! Please!

[Niles] I'll say this.

If she blows up, I would rather be right there, face to face,

let her let it all out,

and then I will explain my reasoning.

When I know someone's gonna have a bad reaction,

I don't always tell the full, whole truth.

Matilda and I, we've been arguing about how much time

we've been apart, you know,

how long the visa process has taken.

I promised her I would never lie to her, but to be honest

with you, what I don't trust is her temper.

You probably should have told her the first time this ran

across your mind. -[Niles] You're right, man.

She did at one point say that she would be happy living

anywhere as long as it is with me.

You know, this is going to be a real test of that, isn't it?

Matilda is not going to be very happy that her,

like, planned escape might not happen.

And Niles is leaving behind a lot here.

Moving to Ghana, there's culture shock.

Things are different in Ghana. He's less prepared

for that than any man I have ever seen.

There might be a little bit of trial and tribulation

on the way for this one.

I'm packing up everything.

I'm completely changing my life.

I'm giving up so much.

But not having that solid ground,

it feels really unstable.

I've been so convinced he's my soulmate that I have just

overlooked all of these red flags.

♪♪

This is a worry stone.

Nigel gave me this in Mexico.

It's a stone that you can rub to calm you down.

This is gonna be my friend on the plane.

So if I am worrying,

trying to not, you know?

But a lot of things are going on.

I'm supposed to move to Australia today,

and even though I've been really excited for this moment,

I'm not feeling good about it.

Couple weeks ago, Nigel was preparing for

a festival, and he...

told me that he had planned on camping with a lover,

and that he had bought her ticket, and that they were

gonna spend the weekend camping together.

And I thought, that's like girlfriend-y to me.

My understanding of our non-monogamy relationship

is that it is more spontaneous.

No feelings involved.

But as time goes on, I am starting to see that Nigel is

really prioritizing his and planning things out in advance,

which is not what I agreed to.

I'm in the place where he's the only thing on my mind

and I want to be the same for him.

I told him that didn't feel good and I didn't like that,

and he accepted that, you know.

He was a little bit bummed.

He made sure I knew that he was a little bit bummed about it,

but he canceled them camping together.

And then the other day,

I sent him a message asking how his weekend was.

And he sent me this whole long text about all the things that

he was doing, and at the very end he put,

and then Saturday night I spent with a lover.

And I'm like, "Why'd you say that?"

He told me he had copy-pasted it

from a text that he sent to somebody else.

And I'm like, you couldn't be bothered to write out a text

to your girlfriend.

And also, he's just telling everybody

that he's spending a night with a lover.

So I didn't really like that.

I have ignored many red flags in my life.

And it's very important that I really listen to my intuition

on this one.

[singing] That don't mean you gotta...

And then bridge was...

[singing] Baby, I get it, you're not used to being with a girl

who says it's all right.

[speaking normally] I started writing a song

about Nigel because I am just realizing that this lover

that he spent the night with is the same girl

that he was gonna camp with.

So now this is like a kind of an ongoing thing with her.

So this feels a little more like feelings for somebody,

like a developing sort of relationship.

So that doesn't feel good.

I'm feeling really uncomfortable because it seems

like there's no way that there's not feelings here.

What if I get there and he's in love with somebody else?

There is definitely a part of me that feels like take

the risk, go fight for love, be with the man.

Like, I just really want true, true love.

But I'm packing up everything.

I'm completely changing my life.

I'm giving up so much,

you know.

When I look at even just like this piano, you know,

like the things that I can't take,

the people that I'm walking away from,

you know, my family I'm super close to,

and like having some level of

not really being sure what's happening

and like not having that solid ground,

it feels really unstable.

He is weird, creative, sweet, thoughtful, strange...

soul.

Like I really love his soul.

But now I'm wondering if I've been so convinced

he's my soulmate that I have just overlooked

all of these red flags.

I've been hurt by past partners and every one of those past

relationships, I knew when it was time to go, and I didn't.

And the closer I get to moving there...

there is a part of me that

feels like I might be repeating some past mistakes.

And I hope not.

But I'm afraid.

It's really scary to not be sure.

It seems like I should be sure by now.

Giving everything up.

It feels like I'm making a huge mistake.

You know?

My flight's in four hours.

I don't know if I should even get on the plane today.

Hey, come on. Really?

Nothing. What the [bleep]?

[Jonathan] What are you talking about?

Here you are my love.

[Ally speaking]

[Jonathan] I'm hungry.

My favorite thing about Singapore, Asia in general,

is what? The food.

No, you're good too.

Spicy.

[Ally] What do you want to eat?

Should I eat things I can't eat after the conversion?

Yeah, let's just do all, like, let's do a pork out,

because I won't be able to eat it

for the rest of my life, right?

When I asked Ally's parents if we could get married,

they had one stipulation. I needed to convert to Islam.

Religion is kind of a funny thing to me.

I was raised by hippies and scientists, so honestly,

it's just not my thing.

But I really want to do this because it's important to

Ally's family, and it's important to Ally.

And I want to make her happy.

All right, I got a read up on the five pillars.

Let's see, the first one is like,

don't fart when you have diarrhea, right?

And...

-Boo boo! -I don't know the five pillars.

You can't make jokes like that.

-I know! -You gotta stop.

-OK. -[Ally] It's offensive.

One of the things that I love about John is that he always

makes me laugh, but sometimes it's inappropriate.

I don't know what you got planned for tonight,

but I'm going to be praying.

Five times.

[Ally] John promised my parents

that he was gonna convert to Islam,

and it's important to them,

so I need him to take this seriously.

You're stressing me out.

Sorry, I'm going to stop stressing you out.

A lot of people are asking me about this conversion being,

am I going to be able to do all the things you have to do?

Literally the only thing I have to change

is the pork and drinking, right?

I think it's OK to drink once in a while.

That's good to know.

I mean, I don't know if you actually want me

to commit hardcore, 'cause I --

-I think my parents want you to commit hardcore. -Right.

And they're hoping that...

once you convert, then maybe you can make me more religious

also, you know?

Oh, I'm willing to do whatever you want me to do.

Vaping? No.

I don't have any vapes.

I don't recall. I really don't.

Was the last time when I caught you?

After I found out I was pregnant and then remember when

it fell off your pocket? -No, no, no.

-So that was the last time? -Yeah, of course.

-You swear? -Mnh-mnh.

No, I can't swear to that.

-You vaped after that? -More maybe.

I don't know.

But...

-[bleep] -I don't want to talk to you anymore.

Oh, well, sorry.

[Ally] John was supposed to quit vaping because, first of all,

it's illegal to vape in Singapore.

Don't be mad at me. I just got here.

My God.

He could be fined 10,000 Singapore dollars or he could

even be put in jail.

But also, it's really unhealthy and I want him to live, like,

till he's 100 years old or something.

-I don't trust you anymore. -What are you talking about?

Am I vaping? I'm not vaping.

If you want to vape, go ahead and vape.

-Of course. -Like, if you want to die early, go ahead.

But just be honest instead of me having to find out

on my own.

Hey, come on.

Really?

-What else are you hiding from me? -Nothing.

What the [bleep]? What the hell would I be hiding from you?

[Ally] I don't notice a thing.

Dude, let me, let's put something out there right now.

I'm 49 years old. You're not my mom.

I don't ever want to feel like I'm in trouble over something

a grown man should be able to [bleep] do if he wants, you know?

You can't just go around cutting off my nuts

and expect me to be this proud, providing man.

[Ally] Don't you understand?

If you can hide like one thing from me, what's to say

you're not hiding other things?

How am I supposed to trust you if you hide things from me?

I don't hide things from you.

I'm trying to be honest with you.

I'm not trying to lie to you.

No, but after that day you say you're not gonna do it.

Yeah, OK. Relax.

I'm making big, big changes for you.

I'm converting to Islam, I quit weed smoking, I'm not [bleep] drinking

anymore, and I'm not vaping anymore.

-Right? -But you lied to me.

How many things have you had to give up to be with me?

You're not having to do what

I'm having to do to make this relationship work.

It's a bunch of bull[bleep].

This season on 90 Day Fiance The Other Way.

This is a surprise for you.

[turkey calling]

Uh... What exactly am I supposed to do with this thing?

If you can dance on the dance floor,

you can dance in the bedroom.

No pressure.

[laughter] Okay.

I don't want to spend my whole life trying

to make somebody into what I want them to be.

You gotta face the truth.

I'm moving across the world to be with Felix,

but I'm taking a massive terrifying risk

because his family is always in our business.

Y'all robbed my house, then you say you're going

to put a curse on my mother and my daughter.

You can't marry my son.

Ben went on vacation with his friends.

He told me he, like, formed a bond with this girl.

Oh, my gosh!

Ben is lying to me.

I can just feel it.

What is, like, the truth?

Everything is over with this girl.

So, can I take your phone?

No!

I'm concerned because you say a lot of things to plan,

but then it doesn't really come to action.

She could be better off without you.

Give me a [bleep] break.

Then you close! Close!

Just look at the ball and hit.

Make me look good in front of them!

Shut the [bleep] up.

The fact that he is talking to me this way.

You realize how stupid it is...

So now my feelings are stupid?

I'm seeing his true [bleep] colors now.

I don't know where we go from here.

[bleep] you! Like...