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You didn't want that job.

It's different.

I need stability.

I have money.

And if you wanted to do anything, I'd... I'd back you.

You don't even know me.

I don't think that's true.

You forgot to vote.

No, I just didn't vote.

Well, if everyone thought that way, we could have lost.

What do you mean by we?

Was I meant to give you a bullet point list of all my political beliefs?

I feel like I don't even know you. Was I supposed to change my personality?

Become a new human being just to make you more comfortable in your own

insecurities?

Emily, if you want to go, you can go, but do it on your own. You tell me to

fuck off.

In my beginning is my end.

In succession houses rise and fall, crumble, are

extended, are removed, destroyed, restored.

Where in their place is an open field or a factory or a bypass, old stone to new

building, old timber to new fires, old fires to ashes.

Ashes to the earth.

As we go from this place, may we carry with us our own warm memories of Morgan.

I well remember many years ago, my dear brother, very patiently

Trying to teach me leg spin bowling with a tennis ball in our backyard cricket

game.

Never really got the hang of that.

May we live our lives inspired by Morgan's example.

His kindness.

His strength.

Let us pray.

Almighty God, in our sorrow, we turn to you for comfort.

and for healing.

We thank you for the great gift of Morgan's life and for the many ways he's

touched our lives.

This is the hope and light that Morgan shared with us every day.

The hope and the light within us all.

We're now going to hear from Ryan, Morgan and Lorna's grandson, who will

share with us his own memories of Morgan.

Ryan?

Thank you, Ian.

Hi, thanks for coming.

Um... I don't know.

Pop never liked being in here, in the church.

That's not a secret. After Mum died, he always...

Said that he would only come here for weddings and funerals So I guess he's

kind of keeping that pledge. I hope this is okay with him

Nan

and I were there when he

passed it was Something that happened very quickly

Morgan? Darling, you all right?

Get the aspirin. Get the aspirin.

What is it, darling?

Oh, my God, he's in pain. Get me the aspirin.

Here, darling.

Morgan,

what's wrong?

And it was weirdly... It was weirdly peaceful.

He just took one long breath and looked at Nan and said, I can see your light.

Not the light.

Hers.

And then he started smiling like he knew something.

And then that was it.

So many memories have flooded back to me over the last couple of days.

Strange memories of my mum.

I remember when I was younger, she used to sit with me and sing me to sleep.

It wasn't always like that.

It was really tough for Nan and Pop sometimes.

I think we all just dealt with that a bit differently.

Lately I'm beginning to wonder if maybe pop handled it better than the rest of

us.

It was always open to how people could be more hopeful.

I thought I was like that too until recently. I thought maybe I'm not.

Maybe I'm not.

I remember once I told him about something I'd read.

That time is not a line, but a loop.

And that each moment we're in is a fixed point that we travel through many times.

And that's why we feel deja vu, or that we've been there before, or that we have

certain connections to certain people.

Even if we mess it up sometimes.

Especially today, I hope it's true.

Here's a poem that Pop loved from T.S. Eliot.

In my beginning is my end.

In succession houses rise and fall, crumble, are

extended, are removed, destroyed.

Thanks for coming.

Thanks for organizing everything.

You too. Appreciate it. You too. Give me two seconds.

Excuse me.

Hey.

I'm so sorry for your loss.

Thanks for coming.

Another beautiful speech.

That was a bit random, but...

Ryan, I should, um... Sorry, I have to...

Yeah.

I... Be coming to the house later?

Could you?

asking you to stay between

all these whispers that won't go away it's

been a while since you and i woke up

Don't be tempted by people that lead me astray.

Cause it's been a while since you and I woke up.

Do I settle down and show you how?

Can I get you anything?

We thought it-

Do you mind if I sit?

Oh, yes, please. Goodness.

They're either all over me or trying to avoid me.

Thank you for coming.

I'm so sorry.

Did you kill him?

I'm sorry, that's not funny.

It's just so sad.

It would have been a lot sadder if I hadn't spent the last 50 years with him.

Oh, I will miss him.

But we didn't miss anything.

Oh, we had a long time.

Did he say that before he died, that he could see your light?

Yes, he did.

That's beautiful.

It's very beautiful.

Did you really get married after eight dates?

Yep. We did.

How did you know... that... he was...

The right person for you.

I didn't know.

I mean, we were just silly kids.

It's wild.

It is a bit wild, isn't it?

Oh, I don't know. We just had this... Feeling.

Yeah.

I don't think it was any one thing.

It's just that...

He calmed me and I challenged him and we just sort of

grew up together.

And then we got old and we never,

ever tried to change each other.

Even in the hard times.

There was a very hard time.

Of course, there were many things we did not agree on.

But we did agree on the things that really matter, and I really think that

that is what counts.

Oh, I don't know, we might have missed out on some things, but I don't think we

did. I don't think you did either. You don't think so?

No, I don't.

Thanks for coming.

Thank you.

Ian, really appreciate it.

You had a fight.

He was very upset.

Yeah, well, it was pretty bad.

Was it the last one?

Totally the last one that really met.

I heard you.

I think you should know then.

Excuse me.

Oh.

Did he get off okay?

He did.

Good.

I'll call and organise a time next week to pick up the ashes.

Good.

They tried to upsell us on the urn.

Of course they did.

Well, I'm going to make a cup of tea.

I'll get it.

You sit. I'll help.

How are you?

Okay.

What a day, huh?

What a day.

Thanks for coming.

Are you?

Why didn't you call me and tell me?

I didn't think you'd want to hear from me.

Why? Because I got pissed and acted like an asshole and I floated all my

insecurities on you.

No, I was the asshole.

You were right.

It's something I need to work on.

It's okay that we don't agree on everything.

That's not the point.

The point is there is something real here between us.

And that's the most important thing.

I'm sorry.

I'm sorry too.

I missed you.

I missed you too.

I guess it's my turn for the next one.

Wait, are you calling this a date? I've been on way worse.

Do you want

to speak this to Laura?

Sure.

Hey, sweet.

Ah, thanks for coming.

Thank you.

That was a beautiful speech.

I'm glad you liked it.

I painted this for you.

You work really hard so that people don't feel lonely in your presence.

That must be exhausting.

So I wanted you to have this, so that you know that I see you.

And that you are not alone.

Not ever.

Okay?

Okay.

Excuse me. Okay.