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You think you know your neighbors?

Think again.

All over the world, normal, everyday couples are taking a bold step in their

relationships.

They're swingers.

And there's no denying they're getting more than their share of incredible sex.

But is the lifestyle right for everyone?

Host and sex counselor Jess O'Reilly is waiting to welcome a brand new couple

into the lifestyle.

Hi, I'm Lisa.

I'm John.

And we've been together for nine years and married for five years.

We actually met in fourth grade out on the playground, but we didn't actually

start hanging out and dating until we were in college.

And even back in college and now, our sex life is pretty fantastic.

I would say that we're ready to push our boundaries.

I would say that we're ready to push our boundaries.

What boundaries?

Oh, wait, right here. We have a comfort zone.

That's true. All right. Well, we're ready to push, go outside our comfort

zone. Yeah.

Push those boundaries.

Push them out. Push them out. Way out.

Will they be glad they took the plunge? Or will they wish they never left home?

Hang on.

It's time to swing.

What do you think you want to do the full swap day?

I'm hoping I think I'd be open for that. Yeah. What about you? Oh, yeah,

definitely.

I think that'd be something I wouldn't try.

We're open to the idea of swinging because, honestly, up until now, it

hadn't gone much beyond some threesomes, and we really didn't know what kind of

resources were out there for people who were interested in the lifestyle.

But then we started doing some research about the lifestyle, and it started

becoming more and more intriguing to us.

A little bit worried about it now.

The other couples were like that. Yeah, I'm more nervous about them not liking

us than I'm not liking them.

Having sex in front of people would be, it's something that I've kind of always

thought about, fantasized about.

I'm a little concerned about all those eyes on you. You're kind of center of

attention. Being the center of attention is something I've always kind of had a

bit of an issue with. I just kind of want to go with the flow and see what

happens.

Hello there. Welcome to the swing house. Hello.

I'm Jess.

Lisa.

John. Lovely to meet you guys. Now, I know you're probably very eager to meet

the other couples and get started, but before we do, we have one really

important piece of business to take care of, okay? Okay. So come with me. All

right.

So now that you're in the swing house, what's going through your minds?

Oh, well, I think we're both kind of a little bit nervous and excited.

both at the same time for the same reason. It's just a totally new

situation, and we're not quite sure what's going to happen.

Very excited and very kind of nervous. You know, my stomach's kind of... I

think that's a very normal feeling because this is something brand new.

Have you talked about some of the situations that might make you feel a

bit more nervous or more at ease?

Well, I know we're going to be nervous when we first meet everybody.

Because, again, it's all new, and we don't know anybody, and, you know, stuff

starts to happen with them. We might get a little bit nervous.

What stuff might start to happen with them?

Well, she definitely wants to try girl-on-girl. She's never had that sort

of experience before.

We've had threesomes in the past before, and there wasn't much interaction

between the two girls. It was more of me interacting with one girl than me

interacting with the other girl, and then back to the one. There wasn't so

much of the two girls interacting together, so I think that would be super

hot.

I'd like to be with two girls, and we definitely want to try a full swap.

Now, have you talked about some of your limitations and boundaries for the stay

in the swing house? Yes.

We basically don't really have a lot of them. The big one is just we want to be

in the same room if anything happens, just so we can see each other and know

how the other one's feeling.

We don't have too many rules in general, so we don't have to worry about that too

much, but we set up the big one just so we have something in place.

A lot of it's most likely going to be playing it by ear and see how things go.

Well, we want you to be happy and safe here in the Spring House, so I have here

a contract that will help to outline some of our rules and will allow you, of

course, to add your own because every couple creates their own rules. So I'm

going to ask you to read through it if you don't mind, Lisa.

Okay. Thank you.

We have agreed to take part in a sexual adventure over the next two days during

which all the normal rules of a monogamous relationship will be

temporarily set aside.

This contract is a free pass to do what we want over the next two days.

We promise not to hold what happens here against each other once the adventure is

over. What happens in the swing house stays in the swing house.

We give each other permission to explore and engage in sexual relationships with

other partners while we are here.

Any special rules we have for each other during our time will be written in the

space below.

We hope to have fun and explore everything the lifestyle has to offer,

knowing that the ultimate goal is a stronger, healthier, more fulfilling

relationship.

So, of course, you guys have the opportunity to add your own rules. You

mentioned that you want to be in the same room. Do you have any other rules

you've talked about?

It's not really a rule, but it's just kind of we talked about how we want to

make sure we communicate with each other so we know at all times how the other

person is feeling so that there's no miscommunication, because that's a big

thing for me in general. But with our relationship, it's really important.

Absolutely, and it's definitely of paramount importance in a new experience

like this.

All right, so I'll ask you to add your rules in there and sign if you're

feeling comfortable.

Okay.

All right, you guys ready for this? Let's do it. Okay, well, I'll hold on to

this here. You can go get checked into your room. Okay. And go meet the other

couples. Great. Great, thank you. See you shortly.

Have fun.

Wow.

Look at this.

So cool.

The most important question is... I'll come for a little bit. Let's find out.

What do you think's going to happen?

I don't know.

You don't know?

Well, I know what I kind of hope... I kind of know what I want to hope

happens. I know what I want to happen.

I'm kind of hoping that something might happen with one of the...

One of the other women. Yeah.

You want to meet a nice girl.

Yeah, I want to meet a nice girl. Meet a nice girl. Yeah.

I've never done much besides make out with a woman before, and I kind of want

to just, wanted to see what it would be like, but in, you know, a safe

environment and somewhere where John could be there, because I know he'd want

to see that.

Actually, we looked around the room. We decided we were going to take a shower,

clean up a little bit before we met everybody else.

Still feeling nervous at all?

You know, actually, the longer I'm here, the less nervous I'm getting. I'm still

excited about meeting everybody, though.

Yeah, I do.

And I still, you know, looking forward to what we're going to do once we meet

them.

One thing I don't know, if you want something to happen, how do you approach

them? Definitely have a lot of questions I need to ask them, but etiquette.

John and I have been together for nine years, so it's been a while since we've

actually had to think about

trying to pick up somebody or impress somebody enough to go on a date or

anything like that. So I know that I'm worried about how my game is and if, you

know, I'm still able to flirt the right way, if there is a right way.

You don't have game anymore.

So feel it. It's soft.

Oh, wow.

I love it.

Feel it. It's soft.

Where? No, the fabric.

Oh, the fabric.

Supposed to be filling the fabric.

Hey. Hey.

Welcome. Hey, guys.

Do some introductions. I'm Daniel. Daniel, nice to meet you. I'm Vicky.

Vicky, nice to meet you. Nice to meet you. Nice to meet you. Hi, Vicky. What's

your name? We first walk outside.

There's these 12 absolutely gorgeous people, and they're all saying hi, and

they're all greeting us, and it's a little overwhelming.

Hi. Hi, Kelly.

Kelly, nice to meet you.

What's your name? I'm John. Yeah, I guess that helps too. It's nice to meet

you. Hi, I'm Emily.

Nice to meet you. I love the red hair.

I am personally not used to being the center of attention.

It's not something I really like, actually.

And actually, John is that way too. So it is a little strange having all that

focus on the two of us.

What are some of the thoughts you had when you think of the fantasies that you

could fulfill?

Where are you at um well? I've never actually I've made out with a woman

before but I've never actually gone any further than that so We kind of

interested in the right place That's good When you say that you've only

kissed a girl is that both giving and receiving like you haven't received

okay? Yeah, you want to experience both right yep, all right?

Wait, wait, where's my notepad?

I would love to be with Emily, but I honestly wouldn't complain if anybody

else wanted to play because I'm liking everybody at this point.

Earlier when you guys had mentioned the group stuff, is there like a certain

etiquette for that? Because we were always kind of curious.

There's a bunch of different things in regards to that.

Or at least an expert on group.

No, I'm not.

The one thing Lisa and I wanted to make sure we did when we got to the swing

house was talk to all the couples, get a lot of feedback, information from them

about proper etiquette, things like that, to talk to other couples in the

lifestyle, to meet other couples in the lifestyle, to play with other couples.

What do you mean? It's a challenge. And you don't really know until you get

there, because do you start with the other partner, or do you start with your

partner? And we've kind of tried it all, and we're actually more comfortable

starting with each other.

And then kind of spreading out, but kind of keeping a bond between us and just

say, hey, you know what? Let's go for it. Speaking of a challenge, I've got

one for you.

We're going to play a game.

Topless chicken fighting in the pool.

Yes. Yeah.

All right. Awesome.

All right. We know the talking's over. Let's get to titties.

Ashley and Nikki, they look absolutely beautiful without any tops on and

they're just playing this game and it actually it kind of made me even more

excited to get in there and play the game too.

I like that Kelly is touching my breasts and playing with my nipples and it

actually makes me feel a little even more comfortable just because she's

being so playful and making me open up a little bit.

We would get home from a party or from a play session or something, and I would

realize that he and I hadn't touched each other the whole night.

We spent the entire night playing with other people, and it's sexy to watch

each other, and we'd reconnect the next day. But during the session or the

party, we hadn't interacted at all.

After the game, we're sitting around the hot tub, and John and I are asking...

Everybody else questions about their experience with swinging, and it was

really great to hear all of the responses.

You know, I think I look at it as just dating as a couple, and... After being

around with the other couples, I'm a lot more comfortable with everybody.

They're very open, they're very friendly, they're very greeting, but I'm

still not sure of how I'm supposed to act in this sort of situation.

Emily's sitting next to me, and then Lisa's sitting next to her, and I'm

sitting there in my head. I'm thinking, is it okay if I touch her? Is it not

okay if I touch her? I mean, if I just reach out and grab her, will she slap

me? Would her husband not like if I did that? Would my wife not like if I did

that? So I should be more vocal and start asking questions, but instead my

shyness kind of kicked in and I just kind of held back.

All right. All right, guys. Well, today's been a lot of fun. Love the

game. So what do you say we wrap it up and get ready for a sexy evening?

All right.

Let's do it.

The lifestyle to me is really a natural feeling.

Like, I feel like when I'm with people that are also...

In the lifestyle, it's like coming home or being with, like, my people.

The lifestyle is all about meeting people, getting together and being

friends or taking it farther.

And it's really exciting, and it's really, it's like a thousand percent

boost in your sex life. Seriously, it's amazing.

Your sex life is fantastic.

I hope they like it.

Me too.

It's looking good.

After hanging out with everybody, we come upstairs and we start thinking

about getting ready for the night. And I think I start noticing that John's kind

of not comfortable and he's feeling really overwhelmed. So I want to try to

start talking to him about that.

Try to be a little more outgoing.

When we're downstairs?

Yeah, just try to be a little bit more relaxed and open.

I'm trying.

I know.

I'm trying.

At this point in the evening, I'm starting to feel a little bit more

tension, more anxiety. The situation is really starting to build up into me. So

I'm really starting to not sure where my head's at. I'm not quite sure what's

going on with me, but I'm definitely starting to feel kind of a little off a

little bit, a little off.

Something's not right.

So what do you think about the new couple, Lisa and John? I think they're a

little bit nervous.

Yeah, they seem a bit nervous.

Although it's to be expected walking in here.

It's got to be a pretty nerve-wracking thing.

You know, I would like to give her the girl experience.

You want to break in the newbie? Well, you know, I think I have good experience

and I can show her a good time, but we'll see what happens.

Yeah, I think she'll appreciate that. I think she'll enjoy that. Right.

I do think that...

they would be more comfortable having someone pull them in rather than, like,

they won't be the ones to initiate anything.

Right. So, yeah, if we get to know them better and we want to play with them,

we'll have to be the ones to sort of... We'll just bonk them on the head and

drag them in.

I don't think that's the most respectful way to do it.

Yeah, probably not.

Maybe we'll just talk to them.

You think that's easier?

Is there anything you're worried about?

I think the base for AB will be about nothing happening at this point.

I mean, there's people here. We know we like them.

We know we want stuff to happen. So I think the worst thing that could happen

now would be as if nothing happened.

Good evening, guys. How's it going?

It's going good. How are you?

Excellent. Thank you.

How's your day been thus far? Everybody here seems really easy to talk to, and

they've been really welcoming. So it's been a lot easier for us to kind of try

to adjust and everything.

Good. So did you get a chance to connect with any particular couple or couples

yet?

I think so. Yeah, I think so too.

There were a couple that we talked to a little bit after this. Nick and Dana

were kind of nice. Yeah, Nick and Dana talked to a lot.

Emily and Sergio. Emily and Sergio.

Yeah. Nice couple.

So do you feel like you're getting chemistry back from those guys?

I think so. A little bit, yeah.

I think so. I hope so. I hope so.

It's been a while since I've had to try to read chemistry.

Well, if you're feeling ready, I'm going to head downstairs to the cocktail party

and you can come meet me when you're ready. Okay, great. Thanks. See you

shortly.

Yubies. Hey, guys.

Welcome. Come on in. Hey, guys.

Hi. Hello.

Welcome. When we first walked into the room, we look around, we see everybody,

all the girls are looking at these sexy little outfits.

Ashley's wearing this little lingerie type thing, more naked than she is

clothed, which is super hot.

Emily was wearing this really tight, crazy dress. It was mind-blowing at

first, just seeing all these people in these open and just kind of out there

outfits.

Can I get your attention?

I'm going to leave now. Excuse myself before all the real fun starts, but I

know you guys are going to have a really wonderful night.

These guys are here to look out for you.

You've only just begun this adventure.

I think that it's going to be a really good one, and I'll be back in the

morning to check on you, okay?

Okay. Great, thank you.

Let's raise a glass to swing.

Swing!

Nice morning, my guys.

Cheers!

At this point, I feel really welcome.

And I really do am starting to feel like we're already part of this community.

We're already around these people who think the same way that we do.

Everybody's just kind of talking and laughing.

And it's just a really fun environment. We're having a great time.

I'm actually wearing panties for once.

I know.

That's kind of hot, actually. I know.

Can we see? Because you don't have her panties. Prove it. They're just basic

black. Prove it. Basic black is always the best.

Those were hot.

They're just basic. I like the feedback.

Very nice.

Nice. How'd that happen?

I was hoping that somebody might earn them from me.

What does somebody have to do to win them?

So my thing is that I love to give them to people after sexual pleasure.

So it could be anything.

Any type of sexual pleasure. It's like a token of appreciation.

It is.

It's a little Emily love.

A little Emily love. Emily token to take home.

I think you should try and win this.

Elise and I are thinking maybe we should try to get those panties later on in the

evening.

How about we continue all this fun into the next room?

All right.

Let's do this. Let's do it. So when Ashley says we're going to go into the

next room, I kind of felt really even more excited because it meant that, oh,

this is another step in the evening.

And I start wondering, you know, what kind of game is this going to be? We

already played Topless Chicken Fight, so what kind of game are we going to have

at this point?

Okay, so the name of our game today is going to be Convince Me.

And you and a partner of your choice will simply act out a simulated sex act

here on the nice bed that we've created for you guys.

And you will then lead to your best simulated and or real orgasm that you

would like to act out.

So the first person I'm going to choose, who will then choose their partner of

choice, is going to be Nikki.

I'm going to go with Emily.

She chooses Emily, and I'm just thinking, oh my god, this is going to be

really hot.

Simulated is a very broad word we're using. In this house it is.

Well, hi.

Do you two know each other? What's your names?

This is insanely hot.

This is, you know, I really hope that I get to experience this later.

Especially if it was Emily or Nikki doing it to me, I would not have a

problem with that.

Who may choose the partner of their choice is going to be John.

You may choose a lovely lady of your choice.

Ooh,

the lucky Nicole.

John picks Nicole, and I'm thinking, you know, what position is he going to use?

And I know the ones that he likes to use with me, like, you know, from behind and

me on top and everything like that. So I'm kind of actually really anxious at

this point to see him go because I want to see.

What happens?

They end up doing this position where she's kind of leaned over this

pillow and he's going from behind.

And I'm thinking, oh my God, I think this is exactly how we look when we do

this because we do this position at home.

So it was really hot watching him do some of the same movements he does with

me with another woman.

Oh, wow.

Cool.

Very nice.

He was so intense and so passionate. And just I could tell that he was feeling at

that moment really confident. And it makes me really happy to see him.

having such a good time.

I think I want him to fake it.

I'm feeling a bit better, feeling a bit more loose.

And the liquor keeps flowing, and the great times.

I know something great's just around the corner. It's going to be great times

about to be had.

Your wife has a great ass. Oh, yeah. That thing is spectacular.

You could just eat off that thing.

Can I eat off it?

That's the best. That's good.

You could just eat off that thing. That's how it works.

The next thing I know, Nikki's up on the table.

And Michael's sitting there putting two scoops of vanilla ice cream right in

between Nikki's ass.

Smiley face.

Two scoops of heaven between

a great ass.

I would call that mass cream sundae.

Damn.

Thank you. That is definitely the highlight of my evening up to this

point.

So after I have my little dessert there, we start noticing that a lot of couples

have kind of disappeared.

Lisa and I are just kind of talking with Nikki and Daniel.

And the next thing that comes up is they start mentioning the red room.

Would you guys like to join us maybe upstairs?

Sure.

Let's go this way.

So we think, okay, well, let's, you know, we've gone this far. Let's go a

little bit further. Where is this going to go? And we decided to go with them

into the red room.

We step into the red room and there is just all sorts of craziness kind

of coming on.

I'm

hearing

moaning. I'm looking there. There's tits everywhere. There's asses bouncing up

and down all over the place.

I don't know.

who's on who, where's on who's on what. I went full on deer in the head like.

Nikki

and

Daniel, they kind of pull us over. We find a nice spot along one side, kind of

away from all the other couples at first.

And we just decide to start out with just a little soft swap.

I start going down on Nikki.

I'm going down on her. I look up at Lisa, and Lisa and I kind of, we have

this eye contact connection.

That moment was so great for me because I'm sitting here looking in my wife's

eyes, my beautiful wife who I absolutely love more than anything else.

And yet at the same time, I'm going down on this other girl that I've only known

for a few hours.

She's cool with it. She's smiling at me. She's getting turned on looking at me.

I'm looking at her. I'm getting turned on looking at her. It's just a great,

great thing for the two of us.

Daniel starts going down on me, and I'm thinking, you know, holy shit, this is

real. This is really happening.

At this point, I'm feeling everything. I'm feeling excited. I'm feeling

nervous. I'm definitely getting turned on.

Then as things progressed, we decided, okay, we'll switch it around a little

bit so the guys lay down, the girls get up, start going down on us.

Nikki turns to Lisa and she says, would you like to share your man's cock with

me? I'm just thinking, wow, this is great. This is awesome.

But I'm also starting to notice things are kind of not happening for me.

I've been dreaming about having two girls sucking on my dick, and this is

finally it. It's finally happening.

And nothing's happening.

You're kidding me.

Come on.

It was pretty much the worst possible thing that could have happened to me at

that moment.

You know, I'm thinking, okay, this isn't quite working, but maybe, you know,

we'll go from there. We'll see what else. You know, let's just...

Keep going. We'll keep trying something else.

This is just a totally hot situation.

I'm looking at these two beautiful women and all this crazy stuff's going on.

Hearing these moans behind me from these other couples. I don't even know what's

going on back there. It's just some crazy stuff.

Again, I'm just kind of like, oh, I'm opening my head. I'm too busy. I'm

thinking, oh, what's wrong with me? Why is this not working? Why am I not, you

know, why is my dick not hard? Why am I not getting erect? What's going on?

After a little bit, I start to notice that John is tensing up a little bit and

he's kind of, he's not as hard as he was. And I start, I ask him if he wants

to step out because I feel like it's just getting to be a little bit too much

for him.

Once we step out of the red room, we're just kind of standing in the hall, and

I'm just, like, asking him if he's okay. And, you know, if he's really nervous,

we can just stop. We can walk away. We can just go to bed.

It's not Lisa. It's not the situation.

I'm totally loving everything that's going on right now. But something in me,

I'm just putting too much pressure on myself to perform or something.

But I'm still trying to salvage the evening. So I figure, OK, well, I'm not

quite working out right now. But there's still a lot of people in there. Let's

just go back in. And, you know, you can might still play around a little bit.

And we'll just kind of see what happens.

The night is young. You still got to earn them. Yeah.

I got

to play with

another couple and experience a couple of the fantasies that I had.

So I was really happy with what happened. And overall, I think John was

too. It's just he wishes that more could have happened. And I do too. It would

have been really great to have done a full swap.

I ended up with Emily's babies.

You won the prize.

I won the prize. Yes, I did.

It was definitely pretty amazing. I really liked it. Yeah, me too. I agree.

It was a lot of fun.

At this point, I'm thinking I let the evening down. I kind of let it die.

If I had been more open, a bit more relaxed, maybe more stuff would have

happened with other couples, more stuff would have happened in the red room.

Maybe if I would have been a bit more relaxed, more stuff just would have

happened.

Wow,

look at that view.

Yeah, that's great.

It's gorgeous.

This morning when we woke up, Lisa and I decided, you know, we're going to get

up, get dressed, kind of walk around, see a little bit of the view and just

kind of get a look of the area, the mountains in the background.

Great views.

A lot of great views.

A lot of great views.

A lot of great views last night.

It was a lot of fun watching you.

Yeah.

We just have to make sure that, you know, next time I get my head straight

and focus more, you know, I just don't worry about anything else. No.

Relax and enjoy the situation.

Try not to worry about what people are thinking, what else is going on. Just

block it all out. Right.

Try to open up more.

Don't think so much. Just have fun. Just go with it. Just have fun.

Oh, I see Jessica.

How's it going?

Good. How was your night last night?

Pretty good.

I had a lot of fun.

Good. Well, I want to hear all about it. So, Lisa, why don't you come chat with

me? Okay. Okay. Have fun.

So I know you had a big night last night, so why don't you tell me what

went down and how you felt about it?

Well, we hung out with everybody downstairs for a while, and then we

ended up going to the Red Room for a little bit, and we ended up having a

soft swap with Nikki and Daniel.

I kind of, you know, made out a little bit with Daniel and then went down on

him a little bit, and then he went down on me, and then John and Nikki were

doing pretty much the same thing.

So you had a soft swap, but you had said that you were really looking forward to

a full swap. So what stopped you guys from having that full swap?

I think some of it was John was kind of overwhelmed.

And I think the nerves kind of prevented him from performing, I guess.

And so then that kind of made me worry a little bit because I was worried about

him. And so then I was kind of like...

What do we do?

Like, I would have been totally fine going forward with the full swab. And I

think John would have, too, but he was really frazzled, I think.

Do you feel that he handled it well, though? Are you proud of him? Yeah.

I mean, I'm glad that he was still able to enjoy himself, even though he knew

that there was that issue and he was overwhelmed.

He was really, really trying to have fun, and so that was good. I'm happy

that he was able to do that.

Good. And overall, how would you characterize your time last night? Did

you enjoy yourself?

I really did, yeah.

Just first meeting everybody. We've never been in a situation where we've

met a whole bunch of new people and we've instantly liked every single one

of them.

Like, they just made us feel so welcome and they're so fun and they're so

beautiful and it's just, it was amazing.

Good. Well, if you're feeling comfortable, I'll have John come in and

we'll sit down and talk one-on-one. Okay. Thanks.

How are you doing this morning?

I'm doing pretty good.

Good. Doing better this morning than I was doing yesterday.

OK. Yeah, I was a lot more nervous yesterday. Today I'm a bit more relaxed.

Good. Because yesterday I was very closed up and trying to kind of come out

of my shell, but was a little hard and had some performance issues when we were

in the red room.

There's a lot going on in there. It's a lot to kind of take in when you first

walk in.

So we started to soft swap with Nikki and Daniel. And I just, again, too much

going around up in my head.

I don't know what was going on up here. I just couldn't let loose.

So you know that every piece of sexual response, every piece of orgasm, every

erection, every ejaculation, it all originates in the brain.

So what was going through your mind?

That's the thing. I can't really place it because it's not like I was

uncomfortable.

Everybody here did such a great job making us feel comfortable, and Lisa did

such a great job making me feel comfortable.

I just couldn't let myself just get comfortable.

I have this thing.

I tend to like to keep people arm's length, and I want to try to let more

people in because...

I'm not a very social person.

That's part of the reason why I want to get into swinging.

It's going to sound weird, but it's not really even about the sex. It's more

about the people.

That doesn't sound weird at all.

Connections are really what make our lives.

Right. I have actually felt more welcome here than I do, like, at home with my

own friends, I guess.

I think that's a very common experience for people in the lifestyle because you

feel you can't be out.

Right. You can't come out of the closet lest you face judgment.

Right.

Look at me.

Don't be hard on yourself, okay? I know. I try. Are you hard on yourself? I'm

very hard on myself. I'm hard on myself more than anybody else.

I believe that. Which is a lot of what I think my issue is.

I have always tried to...

do the best in everything I can do.

And I guess you could say I'm more of a giver than a receiver.

I do think this is probably a really important opportunity for you to realize

that you're much too hard on yourself.

And sex is probably only one arena in which you take that approach to life.

I'm very hard on my job, everything.

I'm very hard on myself.

That's a lot of pressure to carry all day, every day, in and out of the

bedroom, especially going into something.

So high risk and high intensity like the lifestyle.

Right. So you need to start thinking about yourself.

Right. And putting yourself first. Right.

I'm not saying that you want to be a selfish lover. Well, that's the thing.

But you have to learn to take as much as you have to learn to give. Right. It's

just, I think, just as much of a flaw to be too much of a giver as opposed to be

too much of a taker. Can you see things that way?

Yeah. And the good news is you can learn to do that. Okay. And it won't happen

overnight. Yeah. Right.

Well, if you're feeling comfortable, I'll have Lisa come back in, and we can

sit down and talk, the three of us. OK. Sounds great. OK.

How are you feeling right now?

I'm good. I just hope he's OK.

Yeah. Yeah, I feel great. I feel like, you know, the more of just

performance stuff was more mentally about wanting everybody to like me and

things like that, and trying to get along with the other couples when we

really just should have relaxed and just let everything kind of happen.

Would you say that's a fair assessment? Yeah.

He's hard on himself?

Yeah. Is he hard on other people?

No.

Actually, he's never been hard on me or I've never seen him be hard on anybody

else. Like if they make a mistake, he just, you know. I fix it.

You fix it? Yeah, usually you try to fix it. Oh, you're also a fixer. He fixes

other people's mistakes or just fix everything in general. If there's a

problem, he's got to be Mr. Fixer.

And to clarify, none of these are bad qualities. They're just qualities that

make it more difficult for you while you're making it easier for everyone

around you. Right. I definitely think that if we try this a bit more, that

I'll learn to open up more and relax more around other people.

So I think that will just help me out overall in life.

Good. Well, if you're feeling comfortable, you can go spend a little

bit more time with the other couples.

Okay. And I will come get you when it's time to go. Okay, great. Thanks. Thanks,

guys.

So do you think that Lisa and John had fun last night?

I don't think they realize that this is their first experience and that you may

not get to do everything at once.

So I hope they're not disappointed by that. I hope they know this is a first

step. There's a lot more to come.

Hey, beautiful people.

We go back outside to meet with the other couples one last time, and

there were lots of smiles, lots of hugs.

We just kind of start talking about some of the things that happened last night.

How would you guys help a couple when you go back home that's new? What would

you guys say to them?

Just have fun with it. Go with the flow.

If it happens, it happens. If it doesn't, tomorrow's another day.

Don't beat yourself up. Got it. Don't beat yourself up. Yeah. Enjoy every

moment. Enjoy eating ice cream out of a beautiful ass.

Next time they ask if you want a cone or a cup, you're going to be like, well,

don't I have a third option? I want an ass. You got a third option? I got two

scoops and a beautiful ass.

I don't want it to end, I guess.

Neither do we.

Hey,

look at that.

Unfortunately, Lisa and John, it is time to say goodbye. So I'll give you a few

minutes, and I will meet you out front, OK?

OK. See you shortly.

Bye, Jess.

Bye-bye. Bye, Jess.

Every party has a pooper.

It's hard to say goodbye to everybody, because we've never met.

a group of people like that that we instantly liked and we instantly wanted

to be connected to.

Have a safe flight, you guys. Thanks. Bye, guys.

Bye,

guys. See you. Bye.

Join the Mile High Club.

Halfway there on the way out, actually, is the Mile Hands On Club.

There you go.

Lisa and John, it's been such a pleasure to meet you and host you here in The

Swing House, and I really hope that you had a good time.

Yeah, we definitely did. Now, before you leave, we have one more piece of

business to take care of. I have here the contract that you signed upon

arrival that helped to outline the rules of the lifestyle and shed aside the

strict rules of monogamy while you're here in The Swing House. So now I need

to know, what shall I do with this contract?

What I'm asking is, was this just a fling, or do you want to swing again?

I think we want to swing. Yeah, I think we do. We want to swing again. Okay,

well, I'll leave this with you as a reminder of how it all began.

Wish you all the best and safe travels, guys.

Thank you. Thank you. Take care.

The main thing that I'm going to take away from this experience is to relax

and not put so much emphasis on what I do and myself.

I got to cut myself a break.

Are you glad we came?

I absolutely am. Yeah, me too.

Yeah, it was definitely...

Not quite how I wanted it to happen, you know, a little bit more performance

anxiety than I was expecting, but you know what? It was still a great

experience. I learned a lot.

Yeah, I think it's definitely something I'm not going to forget anytime soon.

John learned that he needs to be a little more outgoing and not be afraid

to put himself out there, that we're happy and we're strong.

We can't wait to continue down the road.