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Well, I'm wondering if we should try something a little new and fun and maybe

have you take your shirt off.

Somebody spin the bottle, the bottle landed and hit her, and she got pretty

much a male trooper version of a lap dance.

That was pretty hot to see her, like, getting all aroused, and her smile was

just off the chart.

I definitely got turned on.

How can you not?

That was dirty talk, baby.

I mean, it's real.

That's perfect.

I need to lift you again.

I

hope

that Andreas is watching me thinking, damn, this is

hot. You spin well, so I heard.

Bear bear it's gonna be bear

I'll

make all the girls should

come

All the girls start, like, kissing, making out with each other, and that was

an experience that I never had before in my life, so it was amazing.

Good start.

I'm getting hungry here. All right, guys, with that, let's go to the Red

Room. Red Room it is.

When the Red Room was suggested, my stomach dropped a little bit.

A little bit?

This is it. This is really where our sexual experience will happen. And I

felt that we just needed to really kind of check in with each other to see how

each other feels.

Hey!

Andreas and I, we're prepared, but also nervous.

We have talked about this fantasy for so long, and it's going to happen.

Andreas and I walked into that boom-boom room, and I saw naked bodies and

sex, and it was hot.

And at the same time, it felt very surreal.

Pretty much my first thought was, wow, that was a lot of people fucking.

I was nervous to dive in. I

wasn't sure how the etiquette to enter the mat with the

rest of the people.

Mike invited us to lay down next to them. They were fucking right there in

the mattress.

And Nina started giving me a little bit of help to make things happen.

I don't know.

I was totally feeling Ina, but they didn't rush to the red room, so I wanted

to give them a chance to see if they're comfortable, and nobody wants to put any

undue pressure on them.

It was really difficult to make things happen.

Way too much activity, way too much pussy and ass and fucking and blowing.

It was hard to perform.

I look over at Andreas, and he's not enjoying himself.

He's falling down.

I'm drying up. It wasn't good.

It's sweet.

Oh, it's sweet.

He was uncomfortable, and I didn't want to continue to

have him in an environment that would make him feel like that.

I was disappointed that it didn't happen, but at the same time, I just

wanted to go to bed and regroup and see exactly where I was standing at that

point.

How'd you sleep?

I slept well. What about you?

I was out cold.

I didn't move at all.

What do you think about last night?

I have mixed emotions about it. Like, I'm kind of happy it happened the way

that it did, but then there was, like, there's still some disappointment just

because, I guess, like, all the build-up that we had in our head.

So you didn't like the orgy?

In my mind, like, coming there, like, I thought being in a big group like that,

I would be, like, so turned on, but I wasn't.

I would think I would be, like...

extremely excited that I was, but I was not up to a level to enjoy myself, so it

was overwhelming, to say the least.

We had an eye-opening experience, but it wasn't, like, negative.

The rest of the evening was fine.

It wasn't, like, spectacular.

I don't think it was, like, phenomenal.

It was alright. The games were kind of weak.

the chemistry like i didn't feel like strong chemistry with anybody i don't

hear anybody in the house maybe everyone's sleeping still

how do you think it went last night i think she had

a blast i think he was more nervous tough situation to walk into yeah what

she thinks gonna happen when you walk into that room for the first time is a

totally different thing so you may go in there thinking like oh yeah we're gonna

do this or you may go in and think we're not gonna do anything and things change

so When we were in the bedroom, they kind of stuck with each other.

Yeah, they seem like they're really into each other, so I didn't want to go over

there. I mean, they've only been in a relationship together for a year, so

they're still learning about each other.

And then you're trying to bring other couples and everything in.

It's not a race, either. It's not a race. I agree.

I agree. And thank goodness, because I'm not good at running.

You know, I'm a little glad that we didn't end up full-swabbing, because I

don't feel that there was, like...

Strong chemistry.

Good morning.

Good morning.

How's it going today?

Very well. How are you? It's beautiful out. It is perfect. And how was your

night last night?

Very good. Good. Well, I want to hear all about it, so why don't we sit down

and have a one-on-one chat. Nina, we'll start with you if that's cool. Yep. All

right. Andres, we'll see you in a little bit then. I'll see you soon.

Bye, babe.

Nina, you said you had a great night last night. I'd love to hear all about

it. So after I left, tell me what went down.

You know, the drinks were flowing.

Everyone's having a great time.

We did a spin the bottle, a sexy spin the bottle game.

So it was all right. I don't feel that it was spectacular.

Okay. Did you not have any chemistry with another couple? I think the

chemistry part was lacking a little bit.

But I don't really feel like we pushed hard to pursue anybody.

And nobody pushed hard to pursue us.

Were you hoping a couple would be a little bit more proactive with you?

I think it might have helped if another couple was more aggressive.

Did you guys even make it to the Red Room?

We did.

Oh, you did? We did make it into the Red Room. But, you know, we came in the

scene late. And so I think that was also a little intimidating.

Sensory overload.

Okay. We just kind of like froze.

So did you participate in the Red Room activities or did you guys?

We were intimate with each other.

But it was almost like a turn off being in a room with that many people.

Okay. Let me ask you, Andreas really was the impetus for coming here. He was the

one pushing it. Yeah, he was actually. And he was really reserved.

Did he seem turned on?

I guess in like moments throughout the evening, but generally no.

Okay. Why do you think he wasn't so turned on?

There wasn't strong chemistry, so I think that, again, kind of made him feel

rejected maybe a little. I don't know if that's really the right way to word it.

Yeah. I think he just had a lot going through his mind.

I think he kind of also froze in, like, what do I do?

Do you think he was nervous or feeling pressure?

I know often for men there can be performance pressure.

Can you tell me a bit about that? Yeah, I think he was definitely feeling a

little bit of both.

He was.

And I think I just fed off of that. And when you guys arrived, he said that he's

always in the mood and he has a high sex drive.

Well, exactly.

So I guess that's why it was kind of like a, I guess a little bit of a

disappointment. Are you disappointed that you didn't experience the

attraction or chemistry maybe you were hoping for?

You know, I have mixed emotions on it. Like, to a point, I'm happy that it

didn't work out.

Would it be fair to say that the fantasy was, in fact, hotter than the reality?

Yes. Why do you think that is?

I'm not really sure why.

There was just so much buildup in our own mind.

But then we got here in the moment, and it just kind of, like, dissipated.

It was like, like I said, it wasn't spectacular, but it wasn't electric.

To be honest, I would think most people come to the swing house expecting

spectacular. So there must be some degree of disappointment on your end?

No. I think in our mind we were prepared and the reality was we weren't.

I think it's brave of you to admit that because some people act as though

nothing can go wrong and in the swing house or in any lifestyle environment.

But you say go wrong. I don't think anything went wrong. Okay. I just think.

It was just, this is exactly why we came here.

You know, we got exactly what we came for, to experience it and a new

perspective on what we want to go forward with.

Good. And how do you think Andreas is feeling this morning?

I think he feels calm.

Okay. Well, if you're feeling comfortable, maybe I'll have a little

chat with Andreas and then you can come back in and the three of us can sit down

together, okay? Perfect.

Okay, thank you. Thank you. You're welcome.

How's it going, Andreas?

Very well. How are you? Wonderful.

I just had a little chat with Nina, as you know. Okay.

And now I'd love to hear the version of last night's events from you. So I left

after a lovely toast, and then tell me what went down.

We played Spin the Bottle, you know, to start getting heated up a little bit.

I haven't played that game in a long time, so it was a lot of fun, you know,

to see the other people, like, making out with each other and breaking the ice

a little bit between the residents and Nina and myself.

Did you make out with anyone?

Yes, I did. Quite a few kisses here and there, you know. How was that for you?

Oh, that was awesome.

Awesome? Yes, it was good.

And were you feeling a connection or attraction to anyone in particular?

Um, I was enjoying the kisses and everything. A connection per se, I don't

think so.

Okay. You guys seemed really eager when I left, so tell me what happened after

the game.

Well, I think after the game, we went to the red room. Okay. Was it pretty

exciting? It was exciting.

And at the same time, I'd never been in an environment that was such a sex-rich

environment.

Sex-rich.

Sex-rich.

I like that description.

So it was hard to swallow, I'd say.

Hard to swallow? Yes.

Okay.

And so what did you guys do in the Red Room?

They started giving me a blow job.

I believe them with Mike told us to go ahead and land right next to them. They

were like making love, having sex.

And we like sit down.

We look at each other, you know, look at other people, try to make things work

for us. Okay.

Yes. When you say try, why do you say try?

I think because of the whole rich environment, it was a little hard to

concentrate when things happened.

Were you feeling a little bit nervous?

Oh, yes, definitely. The whole skipping steps between, like, freshman to grad

school at that point, it was a little overwhelming for myself.

Okay. Tell me what you mean by that.

Well, I think having sex between a lot of people, that it's a new environment

for myself.

You were clearly the ringleader in this duo.

Did you want to have sex with any of the women in the swing house?

I did, yes.

Did you feel like you had the confidence to be yourself and let yourself shine

last night?

I think the confidence was a little shadowed by the whole environment, yes.

Would it be fair to say that you think you dove in just a little too quickly

here at the swing house? Yes, I believe so, yes.

Tell me what you learned about yourself and your limits here in the swing house.

Like, for example, just like

Being greedy and going too fast and just gotta take baby steps before you can run

so good Well, I think it'd be great for the three of us to sit down very good

Okay, so we'll call Nina in here if you want to go grab her excellent Now that

we're all back together. I thought it'd be useful to just talk about what you're

feeling this morning He's got a big grin on his face great We came here for the

experience and to learn And that's exactly what we got. Yeah, and that's

exactly what we got. So we're walking away with a smile.

Good. It's hard to find chemistry, strong chemistry, between another

couple, you know, with four people, you know. And it just didn't happen, and

we're okay with that. And Andreas, you mentioned that you learned a little bit

more about your boundaries. Is that something you've already shared with

Nina?

Yes. I have to walk before I run.

Is that a common thing? Do you sometimes bite off more than you can chew?

Yes.

Yes. I didn't finish the question. I'm just kidding.

Yes. Okay.

Yes, I do. Okay. And that's no surprise. Usually our pattern behaviors that we

carry in other components of our life, whether it be the professional or the

familial or in the community, we also carry into the bedroom.

Exactly. Is there anything you would have done differently last night had you

known what you know now?

I would have been a little bit more aggressive.

Yeah, the experience was great. Maybe more assertive, like she say.

But then you say there was no chemistry with a couple, so kind of... But, you

know, maybe because we didn't put that oomph in there.

So maybe if we did put that, that chemistry would have built more. Okay,

so it's not that you weren't attracted to the other couples. Correct, correct.

You just didn't make that connection, and you feel like maybe you could have

come out of your shells to a greater degree. Yes.

Okay. We need to digest what we learn here. Good. And maybe in the future we

can use the tools that we grab from here and use it somewhere else. Great.

I'm really glad you said that.

Okay, good. Well, if you're feeling comfortable, you guys can take a little

bit more time to spend with the couples, and I will come get you when your plane

is ready to take you home.

Excellent. Perfect. Thank you. Thank you, guys. Nice talking to you. You too.

I don't think that in flipping a vanilla there's any sense of accomplishment.

No, it's never been about conquering. It's just about having fun with somebody

that wants to have fun.

The times where things never work out is if we're trying to make something

happen. So I don't think we do.

Right. It's more the unexpected where we're just out having a good time and

all of a sudden there's extra bodies in our bed.

I think they like Spin the Bottle.

That was sexy. I apologize for being a little dorky. Why are you apologizing?

I've never played Spin the Bottle. Never have I ever played Spin the Bottle.

You got the hang of it pretty quick. It was fun.

Hey, guys.

Hey, guys. How are you? What's up? How are you guys doing?

Very good. Everyone looks sexy.

So what do you think?

I'm just super grateful that I had the opportunity to come here. It's been an

awesome experience.

We're glad that you guys were able to come and enjoy the time with us.

What do you think you guys will do when you get home?

I definitely think that there's a part for us in the lifestyle, but I just

think it's going to just take a little bit more time to build up this.

Were you expecting that, to come in and just see a bunch of, a sea of bodies?

No. I don't think I put a lot of thought behind it, which maybe I should have.

I felt myself pull back, you know, and I didn't expect that from myself.

You had to pick one thing, though. What was your favorite?

You know what? I don't. know if I could pick just one. I loved every part of it.

You know, I loved getting to know each of you and learning your experiences and

how far each of you have come from the beginning.

You know, we're just a little bit further behind, but we will be where you

are eventually.

But there's no rush.

What we do and what you do is completely different. It's what's comfortable for

both of you that's the important thing. It's good to see you walking away with a

smile. If you don't, then you know what not to do next time.

Yeah, well, there's definitely a smile.

It's been a learning experience.

It's been an amazing experience.

Bring us back next year, and we might be ready for boom boom.

Hello. Hey, guys.

Looks like you're having fun out here, but Nina and Andreas, I know I speak for

everyone when I say that it has been such a pleasure having you here, but

unfortunately, you have a plane to catch, so I'll give you a minute to say

goodbye, and I'll meet you out front, okay? Thank you.

I'm so sad to go. I know.

It was fun, man. Thanks for everything.

Nice to meet you. Thank you.

I can do this one last time.

One last time. One for the room.

Saying goodbye was bittersweet. Thank you, love.

We got to make new friends here and learn from them.

Hi, beautiful.

Great meeting you.

Sparkle.

We're going to come back. Bye, guys.

Bye. Thank you. Bye.

Nina Andreas, I know you said you got what you came for, but we're

experiencing some mixed emotions this morning.

So before you head home, we have one piece of business to address.

I have here the contract you signed that gave you a free pass to indulge those

sexual fantasies inside the swing house, and now I need to know, what do you want

me to do with this contract? Do you want to take it with you?

Do you want to leave it all behind?

What I'm asking is, was this just a fling, or do you think you want to swing

again?

We're going to swing, but in a smaller setting. I agree.

Okay, those baby steps. Baby steps. Okay, well, I'll leave this with you

then. Wish you safe travels and all the best. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you,

guys. Have a safe trip home. Thank you. Bye.

In our mind, Andres and I were prepared for a full swap and

hot, passionate lovemaking with another couple.

And in reality...

We are not there yet, but emotionally, we're walking away content and happy.

You know, it didn't play out the way that I initially thought it was going to

play out. Right. The whole experience was awesome, and we made great friends.

The whole experience that happens here at the swing house, you know, bonded

Nina and myself, like, stronger.

I am more in love with her today than I was yesterday.

Love you. Love you too.