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What you're about to see is real, real couples in love, having sex outside

their relationship.

They call it the lifestyle.

Other people call it swinging.

In fact, inside this house behind me are some completely normal...

Undeniably sexy, swinging couples who insist that sleeping with other people

actually improves their own relationship with their partner.

Now, one new couple is about to join the party.

Here's the video they sent me.

Hi, I'm Giselle.

And I'm Josh.

And we've been together for two and a half years.

We're both very into music.

I'm a lot more raw.

Yeah. up on the mic, rapping, you know, freestyling.

To whom it may consume while we play a tune and celebrate the moon until it

takes us to the sun.

It's all in tune as one.

We have a very strong sex drive and we have sex pretty often.

This will be our first time doing anything in the lifestyle with other

couples. I can't wait for it to start.

So. I've secured Josh and Giselle an invitation to an exclusive anything-goes

swing party going on in this house.

What happens next is entirely up to them.

I'm Anna David.

I give relationship advice for a living. But I have a feeling I'm going to have

my hands full on this one. Hold on tight.

This is Swing.

So we're on our way.

This is it.

Pretty excited, maybe?

Yeah, I'm pretty excited, actually.

I don't know what I'm expecting.

I have, like, butterflies right now, actually.

So I am a complete virgin to swinging. I hadn't really ever considered it. It was

definitely more Josh's idea to swing than mine. And he didn't ever push it on

me. He was like, do you want to do this? And I was like, yes, I do. I want to try

it. I can't wait to meet the couple.

Definitely. Giselle is just so cute when she's nervous. I think she's kind of

like a little kid about to step into a candy shop.

We're here. We're here. You ready? Yeah.

Okay, baby.

You ready? I'm ready.

All right, let's go.

Hello.

How are you? I'm Anna. I'm Giselle.

Nice to meet you, Giselle. I'm Josh.

Nice to meet you, Josh. You guys, welcome to the house. Thank you. I think

you guys are going to be very, very popular here.

That's good to know.

Let's do it.

What was it like when we started doing this 10 years ago? 10 years ago? It was

amazing. Yeah? Holy shit, yeah. You don't remember?

I don't. You really don't. I mean, bits and pieces.

I can't believe. Do you remember our wedding?

Welcome to the house. How are you feeling now, now that you're inside?

I feel great.

But is it becoming a little more real, what's about to happen? Definitely. The

ride up here was, you know, I started getting the butterflies, but I'm

still... you know, very eager to meet the couple.

Giselle, you do know that you look like, you know, the just-hatched, like,

newbie. Yeah, I'm, you know, I'm like that secretary freak, you know, like,

you wouldn't expect it. Like, take her hair out of the bun and just watch out.

Yeah, you know, we're looking to have just a good, fun, party-type vibe, you

know, party naked.

What would your ideal couple be?

I'm actually kind of hoping to hook up with an experienced, like, older couple.

And Josh?

Honestly, I'm hoping that everybody's really cool and we could maybe just have

a big orgy.

I, you know, your wish may come true here.

So, the people in this house, they have some rules. You know, each couple sort

of works out what they're comfortable with. Have you guys talked about what,

you know, your rules are?

We've talked about our rules, yeah, and we'd definitely like to, um... do

everything together. We definitely want to do this as a unit.

Like, you know, we want to be in the same room so we can experience the whole

thing together.

Giselle and I have been discussing our rules and our limitations, and we've

both thus far agreed that as long as there's no sex between her and another

male while I'm not playing, then I'm fine.

but you know if somebody wants to uh eat her pussy or something like that you

know if if she gets a little ravished in a situation that is what she came here

to do that'll be perfectly fine with me what i have here is a contract that

basically says um what happens in this house stays in this house which just

means you're not going to use it against her you're not going to use it against

him later why don't you read it so you guys know what you're signing we

agree to embark upon a special and unique adventure during which all rules

of a monogamous relationship are suspended.

We give one another full and complete permission to explore, pursue, and

engage in relationships with other partners, both male and female, knowing

that the ultimate goal is a stronger, healthier, more fulfilling relationship

for both parties.

Sounds good? Sounds good. Sounds good.

Swinging is definitely all about trust.

This is an important piece of paper for you to, you know, honor and take

seriously.

And I will hold on to it.

All right, you guys, so now it's time for you to go get changed, go out to the

pool where the couples are waiting for you. Cool.

And, you know, remember that the goal of this is to make your relationship

stronger. I think it will.

I hope so.

I just started feeling like a rock star like the old limo thing this big room

like it's just wow I feel like special Maybe we should have a quickie before we

go. I'm gonna have a quickie before I go out there I'm getting in this house. I'm

getting in this vibe. I'm like okay. I this is real. I'm here I need to start

getting excited not that I wasn't already excited

I'm not nervous at all about the situation.

I'm actually just very anxious. I'd like to get in there and get it started.

I'm definitely glad we're here to do this. Thank you.

This is definitely, I think, taking the next step in our relationship.

Like, seriously, really?

About the aspects of other people, like, you know? It's just, it's a big thing. A

lot of people wouldn't even consider it. A lot of people wouldn't even be

comfortable with this.

We probably should go.

Okay. We're being anti-social. I know.

I'm really ready to get it kicked off myself.

I really feel like this is going to be a great experience and we're going to have

a good time. Let's get in there.

So, ready or not, let's go for it.

The first time Michael introduced me to the lifestyle, he approached me and

he was like, hey baby, this is something I've experienced in the past and what do

you think? And I was all for it.

And so we go.

to the first lifestyle party. And the first one was amazing.

The first one was really fun.

And I couldn't wait for the next time.

You were literally asking, when's the next party? When's the next party?

Look at me now.

are walking out to the pool area to meet all these couples and you know I was

nervous I'm nervous it's been awesome I would actually

yes I'm extremely bisexual I would say that I'm much more attracted to girls

than guys this is my beautiful beautiful beautiful

beautiful girlfriend of nine years

Nine years. How old are you?

27 and 30. We're definitely open to learning from everyone.

It's about asking permission, and it goes back to that, you said it, it's

respect.

All the couples had something different to say about it. I feel like I was

gaining knowledge.

The do's and don'ts are swinging, you know. If the door is closed, it means

you can't come in.

You don't just barge in, you have to knock.

I feel like Giselle and I might be like kids on our first day at class, and

we're out here, and we're getting a little bit of an education on the

situation. If the door's partly open, it means they want you to come in and see,

but, you know, if it's wide open, it means come on in.

When I first met Early, I thought he was attractive.

He's really nice, he's really funny, he made me laugh, and my first thought, you

know, is, I've never been with a black guy, but...

I would be really down to get with this black guy.

I like to give and receive, so.

And he does too.

Everyone's like, well, we just do girl, girl. We just do soft swap. We just do,

you know. We don't do anything. We just like to sit and look at each other.

Immediately.

I already knew who Giselle was vibing on, and I already knew who I was vibing

on. Ashley is a gorgeous little five-foot stick of dynamite, and I'm

really hoping that we can get a little time with Ashley in early tonight. That

would be great.

All right, guys, we're going to play a game. Let's play a game. All right,

let's play a game.

Game time!

Going to our first lifestyle party,

I was...

Kind of nervous, but I kind of knew what to expect.

I wasn't really nervous, but I knew what to expect, right?

Yeah, but we were both on the same page as far as knowing what we were getting

into. And we just kind of went in both feet.

But again, you can't know what your limitations are if you don't try them.

If you don't try them out, right? Absolutely.

This is called Eat My Cherry.

I want to get all the guys. All the guys sit over here. Grab a seat and take the

bowl. Girls are going to take the cherries one by one out of the bowls

with your mouth only. Take the cherries and then put it in the bowl on the man's

side. Whoever has all the cherries out of the bowl on this side is the winner

of this game. Okay. All right? Use your mouths on the cherries. On your mouth!

up with early we won the game and I'm thinking in my head I want Ashley to

give me a lap down I'm

really attracted to Ashley I think she's really cute

I'm watching Ashley grind on Giselle and I'm thinking I'd like to see a lot more

of this later on tonight.

When she kisses me, it took me by surprise, but I really enjoyed it.

That's what happened.

Yay.

Good job on winning.

Oh, shit. Very beautiful.

When Ashley was on my lap, I was just thinking about how much I wanted to just

grab her ass.

I like this girl. I want to experiment and play with her later. That's what I

was thinking.

Like, let's do some stuff.

What's next?

So we're walking up to our room covered in grass and cherry juice and we want to

shower off and get ready for the rest of the night and all of a sudden Mike and

Meg pop out of nowhere wanting to take a shower with us. So, okay.

each other out right now and that's good you know I like it I like the

assertiveness I like that they came in and showed us that they were interested

We're seeing them naked and we're touching each other.

And so, yeah, I definitely thought they were probably going to be, you know, the

couple.

You know, I actually kind of felt like doing more, but I was, I don't know, I

had these, like, reserves.

Okay, I think we're done.

Okay.

I mean, the ice was definitely starting to break.

Well, thank you for letting us join you.

Ready to hear?

We'll see you guys at dinner.

That was fun.

Swap is really hard to define in the lifestyle.

It could mean you're in the same room with another couple just doing your own

thing. It could mean that you do oral on other people and you do everything

except penetration.

It might just be girl, girl and the guys watch.

And then there's full swap, which is what we do. That's basically anything

goes.

It's more fun.

So what do you guys think about the other people here this weekend?

They're great.

They're laid back, cool.

Both of them have made the decision.

They know what they want. They know what they don't want.

And that's that. Yeah, she's hot. She's a cutie. She's really cool.

She's got a good personality.

We showered with them. They're fun.

Brag on, Blair. Brag on.

That was really fun.

I really enjoyed my kiss with Ashley.

Did you? Yeah, I did. I'm getting in this vibe, and I think it's human

nature. Like, we all have desires to get with other people sometimes. Like, you

know, I definitely want to, and I'm ready to do it.

But what about Meg and Ryan?

They're fun.

They're fun, huh?

That was really cool that they came in the shower with us.

Well, you know, I really feel like, too, in this situation, you know, like, I

don't think any doors should be closed. You know, I think we should just go all

out. Yeah, for sure.

What do you think of the newbie?

Hot. You like Giselle?

Yeah, she's very pretty.

Very nice, yeah.

So what do you think of him?

I like him. I like his long hair.

So what do you think about Giselle and how interested she is in women and

stuff? I mean... All girls either want to find out or want to try it.

That's right.

Who are you most down for?

Honestly, probably Ashley.

I would say I'm more attracted to girls than guys.

There's just something about girls that I'm just way more down for.

You know that I don't have any problems, like, making the first move, you know?

But I guess in this situation, it's like I don't really know what to do, and I

don't want to, like...

freak anyone out.

Yeah, I think everybody's here to get their freak on, though. I know. We're

not trying to freak out. We're trying to freak on. I know. You know, I thought I

was going to be able to make the first move, but I think I'm going to have more

trouble with that than I thought I would.

I guess that's what I'm trying to do. So if I make the first move, would that

make it easier?

Probably.

I'm nervous.

I, you know, we just met all these couples and, you know, I'm starting to

get to know them, but I still, you know, I don't...

I don't know what to expect.

Is there anything that you'd really like to do tonight?

Um, I just want to, like, you know, have some girl play, you know?

That would be fun.

That sounds like fun.

You want to do full swap?

What are we here for?

Okay, well, I'm down for that.

Okay, well, let's go for it.

Okay. I'm really ready to get it kicked off myself.

You know, my nerves are very tamed right now because, you know, I know Giselle's

coming back to me at the end of the night, and I'm really just completely

going with the flow right now. It's great.

I mean, like, this is awesome.

It's crazy.

So here's the deal, you get to have as much fun as you

want, you get to do whatever you want, but you also have to deal with whatever

consequences come up. Does that sound fair?

Yes, absolutely.

Okay then. Now the rest of you, remember, they're new to this.

So you're going to be the ones that are showing them the ropes.

Okay, who's got the ropes?

I'm going to be back in the morning to check up on you.

You promise? We'll have tons of stories probably for you then. I can only

imagine. I would like to propose a toast.

To Giselle and Josh.

May you have a night that you absolutely, positively never forget.

To the lifestyle.

This has definitely been something we've wanted to do for a

really long time.

And so, I don't know, we're really excited about it.

And I'm blushing right now.

I think Giselle is a lot less nervous than when she first started. I think

that the ice has been officially broken. I think her comfortability level has

gone up leaps and bounds.

She's just really flowing with it and just really in the moment.

It's really awesome to see.

We want to kick off the night with a little activity.

Us beautiful women are going to...

Have a lingerie party.

We are going to go get changed into lingerie.

Now that's a party.

So let's guys, why don't we go into the living room, hang out, talk, drink,

and... We're going to go in the guest room and all get changed and come out

for our meeting.

I like dressing up in lingerie. I mean, what girl doesn't? You know, we like

looking sexy.

So all those girls go up to my room to change into the lingerie. Cute.

It was cool.

And what are you going over there for, Giselle?

The same thing.

That's that? That's perfect.

So raise your hand if you've had sex today.

Jesus. Any questions for us?

Well, I know you mentioned you do just soft swap.

Are you the only couple here that does just soft swap?

Cool. So everybody else is full swap, though.

Okay. That's a big question. You know what I mean? That tells a lot.

It's just being comfortable and having fun.

When we first started in the lifestyle, we had...

I mean, we had tons of rules. There was no kissing, and there was no oral, and

there was just all kinds of rules. You never know how far the boundaries are

going to be unless you test them, and we tested them, and we decided that that's

not for us anymore. Our feelings are very important.

Yeah, the emotions of the lifestyle can be really tricky, so you've got to make

sure it's something that both you and her are comfortable with.

Are you having a good time?

It's just very, like, different.

Josh and I talked about it, and we're both stoked that, like, everyone's

really cool.

What do you think of Early?

I think he's cute.

Because he's so outgoing and so funny and chill and just, like, yeah, I like

him. He's cool.

He's a cool guy. What's your ultimate fantasy?

I just want to have a big orgy.

I just think, like... Everyone together is just like so much better because it's

like you know absolutely.

I'm not really that nervous anymore You know I'm getting I'm starting to get

really comfortable, and I'm I'm letting go so earlier Did you like the kiss your

little lap dance?

It's so hot Popped your cherry for you.

Yeah, let's have a kiss again

what do you guys want to have happen tonight my picture perfect we would have

a complete orgy honestly you know i like to go big or go home

Why is it called the red room?

There we go.

Oh my God. And the red room.

And I am just super nervous.

What's up with this, right?

This is dope.

I am getting, oh my gosh, I am just turning beet red. My heart is pounding

out of my chest.

Wow, this is the red room for a reason.

It's just amazing. It looks like the...

It looks like just a big playpen for adults.

This is good stuff right here. Like a big bed.

Not that I want to instigate, but I think you guys are way overdressed.

Right when we get in the red room, Giselle looks at me, and I can tell that

she'd like to talk.

Are you eager to get back in there? I absolutely am.

God.

Okay, I'm nervous, but I'm okay.

It's like the exciting, it's like before you get on a roller coaster.

It's like you're really nervous, but once you get on the ride, it's like so

fun.

The whole vibe is set up so sensual.

And that is so awesome. I'm so glad it's sensual.

That's definitely, from my first experience, I couldn't ask for more.

Are you comfortable?

Are you okay?

I said I'm ready to get back in there.

You know, of course first things first Ashley and Giselle have some business to

tend to and They're all over each other and it's just fucking amazing

It was so amazing.

It was just so incredible to feel.

There were so many hands just touching every inch of my body, and different

girls are kissing me.

And I closed my eyes because I just wanted to completely let go.

I'm completely letting go.

The Red Room is just amazing.

I mean, everybody is just so open.

Everybody's just really enjoying each other, and I really like the way it's

developing. I like that nobody's really pushing each other's limits.

Nobody's disrespecting one another, and everybody just really seems to be here

to have a good time.

I loved everybody's vibe.

I loved everybody's interaction.

People left when they were ready to.

And early, Ashley, Giselle, and myself, you know, continued on and

turned into just a full swap by the end. And, yeah, it was a great time.

How do you feel?

I'm speechless, honestly.

That was such an amazing experience.

I had no idea, honestly.

When I started getting involved, I was a little nervous, but then once I

started, I let go, and it was awesome.

I wasn't nervous at all.

And I just wanted to just enjoy myself.

And I did. I feel like, yeah, that's awesome.

Most of the time we find that we get up the next morning and there's no tension

between couples. We have breakfast. We chat about things from the night before.

We chat about, you know, the next party. Yeah. They're making coffee and, you

know, sometimes we'll come out nude and they'll slap you on the butt or, you

know, grab your boobs or something. But it's all... joking and it's just normal.

Then you get dressed and you start your day.

This was such an amazing experience. I think we're both really lucky to have

had this experience.

I feel that I really dove into the whole lifestyle like very

confidently.

I actually got comments, you know, like everyone was like, wow, you're really

comfortable right now. And it was really just because everyone was just so

comfortable to be with. And I'm a really sexual person, you know, and I just let

go.

I had a lot of fun last night.

Did you?

Yeah. I really don't know how to describe when I was getting...

Like, completely, like, ravished by everyone.

I just, like, I don't even know. I wasn't even there, I felt like.

I was just, like, out of my body. Just letting it all happen.

I just didn't even know how, like, orgies even went. Like, I've seen orgies

on TV, you know. But once you're in the situation, like, what do I do now?

What did you think of Early?

I like him.

He's cool.

He's, like, funny.

and confident.

I like that.

Watching Giselle have sex with Early, definitely an interesting experience.

Very interesting seeing it from the outside view, watching somebody that you

have sex with on a daily basis have sex.

And it actually, it's quite a turn on.

Ashley was great.

Yeah, Ashley was.

She's hilarious.

She's got a really big personality.

All bottled up in a little five foot body. Yeah.

I feel like our relationship has, like, been taken to the next level.

This was definitely, like, a trust thing for me.

You know, I wouldn't have been able to do it if you weren't, like, really

chill, you know, really cool about it. We didn't have any problems.

We didn't.

We got through our first swinging experience not pissed off at each other.

That's a good thing, right?

What all went down last night?

I think Josh and Giselle definitely fit in quite well with everybody.

I think it'll work for her. I was like, look at these two, you know. They're not

beginners anymore.

And everybody kind of started moving closer. It started off spread, you know,

like mattress, you know, everybody had a mattress.

The lines on the mattress, between the mattress, started becoming more blurred,

you know.

Then we had a couple little interesting issues of nipple rings lost.

Where's the balls?

Well, I've got balls, not those balls, the metal balls, Will.

Giselle did a great job of getting to know everybody a little bit last night.

Yeah, she's a good kisser. She kind of went around to everybody.

A little taster.

A little smack on the ass.

So

who

instigated the Ashley Giselle format?

We started out there with the game, when we played the cherry game, and then she

kind of instigated it when we were in the Red Room, and that really... Yeah.

Don't they just look like a good pair anyway?

And I just made the decision to let go.

No worries about Josh freaking out or being... If I say I'm willing to try

something, I'll see it out.

You know what I mean? Either way. And then if we decided we didn't like it,

then maybe we wouldn't do it again, you know? So you do like it. You are going

to do it again. There was, like, one moment in time where I had, like, looked

over and I saw Josh, and I was just thinking, like...

It was like weird for like one second, and then it totally wasn't anymore.

Good morning, Lifestylers. Good morning, Hannah.

You look like you had a fun night.

We did, we did.

Well, this was a big deal. You swapped for the first time ever.

Yeah.

And for the second time.

So that's bound to bring up some emotions, right?

Possibly jealousy.

Maybe just joy.

I've got a wonderful therapist, a couples counselor for you guys to talk

to, to sort of, you know, suss everything out. And the only thing that

I ask, just be honest with her and with each other.

Deal? Deal.

All right, then. Let's get going. You know, therapists charge by the hour.

This lifestyle forces you to communicate because you know people want to have sex

with your wife or you want to have sex with another world. And you can't just

go off and do that.

You can try. You have to talk about it.

But then you're going to have a whole other issue. So you can, you know, but

you have to talk about it. The lifestyle forces you to do that. It helps to get

to know your partner better, too.

Hi, Giselle and Josh.

Welcome. I'm Dr. Lori Buckley.

And I'm here to talk to you about your relationship, your experience.

Tell me what it's been like so far.

It was amazing, honestly.

crazy experience I let everything go in my mind I didn't question myself so I

just kind of felt around and like crawled around and early had started

like you know feeling me up and everyone was kind of feeling me up actually it

was very intense so this was the first time that you had seen Giselle

with another guy mm-hmm tell me a little bit more about what that was like for

you So it was fun.

And hearing her say it, you're good. It doesn't bother me.

I'm the kind of person that I either go big or I go home.

Well, speaking of going big or going home, I think now would be a good time

to speak with you alone.

Why don't I first speak with you, Giselle?

When Josh met me, I was a pretty conservative girl.

And Josh just, you know, he's wild. He's very wild.

He's really helped me, like, be more confident and be, like...

you know, I don't know, stand out for myself.

So Giselle, this is just a time for us to spend together if there's anything

maybe that's on your mind that you didn't feel comfortable talking about in

front of Josh.

My only concern with swinging with Josh is that we're going to be in a really

cool situation and we're having a lot of fun and just suddenly his mood just flip

-flops and then kind of he kills the vibe and then it's all weird.

And I don't want to be selfish, you know. Nothing wrong with that. Of course

you're going to be selfish, right? You want to be able to enjoy yourself, to

take care of yourself. You know, selfish gets a bad rap sometimes.

Go forward, enjoy yourself, take advantage of this opportunity and see

what happens.

This lifestyle is definitely about, you know, testing the waters and pushing the

boundaries, and I'm very ready to do that. And I think Josh is too. I just

think he needs to ease himself in a little bit, whereas I could just, like,

dive headfirst in.

Now I'm going to spend time with you. I just wanted to have a chance just to see

if there was anything that you wanted to talk about.

It's really funny what's happened with us. It's like...

we've had this really weird flip where it's like she's like calmed me down

quite a bit turned me into a bit of a homebody but at the same time i kind of

flipped her wig and made her want to get real rowdy you compliment each other so

i want your honest opinion what do you think about the lifestyle for a couple

that's in our situation well i'll just say generally speaking

the lifestyle people couples who choose to engage in it for some it's great yeah

it can be something that can enhance your relationship instead of it being

something that is a way for you to get pleasure outside of your relationship do

you see the difference it's a subtle distinction but it's really really

important so i'm going to say to you if you continue to be open and talk talk

about your concerns, talk about your feelings with Giselle, then it could be

something really great for you. I care very deeply about Giselle. I think

that's obvious.

I mean, I'm all in with Giselle. I could see how this lifestyle could really

bring people closer together.

Hey, guys.

Josh, Giselle. It's been a mind-blowing couple of days.

definitely yes it really has yeah you came in here swinger virgins now you're

like lifestylers right we're getting there you know well alas it's now time

to say your goodbyes and for you guys to say your goodbyes to them i'll give you

a few minutes i'll meet you out front okay okay all right we'll be right out

Have fun.

Nice meeting you.

You're gorgeous.

Thank all of you for making our experience so awesome.

I had the best mind-blowing time of my life.

I can't wait to do it again.

Hope to see you again.

Kiss everyone.

Bye.

Gosh, I'm going to miss them.

Okay,

guys. There's just one more thing before you head back to your real life. This is

the contract you signed.

Basically, it was a two-day pass to do whatever you want with whoever you want.

So here's the question.

Do we tear it up? You guys go back to your regular life and monogamy?

Or do you want to try this again? Just basically, was it a fling?

Or do you want to swing again?

Well, actually, I want to answer your question with a question.

We've been talking about it, and we'd actually really like to stay if we

could.

Really? Yeah. If we could. Yeah.

Awesome. That can certainly be arranged.

I'm feeling like I don't want to leave.

Giselle doesn't want to leave.

You know, fucking rock on. You know, we get to stay. I'm really looking forward

to getting to know the other couples a lot better. I'm definitely willing and

ready.

to move forward with any one of them as long as Giselle likes their partner.

As I said, I'm a connoisseur of women and I'm ready to pour my glass.

Looks like you get the rest of the day off.

Thank you very much. And Josh, Giselle, welcome back to the house.

Thank you.