All language subtitles for S02E04.Picture.Perfect.Revenge.eng

The blame game sparked
big drama in the house.

- You're always trying to
[ bleep ] blame me for
everything.

- Natalie continued to
lay down the law with Jacob.

- Don't walk around
the house with your shirt off.

- You make me so mad,
I possibly can end up in jail.

- It could take us
five years to have a kid.

- Spencer revealed
how he truly feels.

- I don't respect you and
I don't respect our marriage.

- While Tyson exposed
Rachel's secret escapades.

- How many times did you get
home at 2:00 in the morning?

- Fire!
- Oh, [ bleep ]!

- But when Rachel
defied Natalie.

- I shot you.

- What, bitch, we supposed
to be on the same team!

- It was a Marriage
Boot Camp meltdown.

- You're being
fake as [ bleep ].

- There it is.
- Who are you?

- You don't want
this [ bleep ] tornado!

- Tonight, stars swap spouses.

- I'll go for a choke.

- We have to take
our pants off?

- Jacob, you want
to take off your shirt?

- Unleashing a jealous rampage.

- It's inappropriate.

Girl, you already know that
I'm gonna beat your
[ bleep ] ass.

- Five famous couples face
a whole new reality.

- Who the [ bleep ]
are you talking to?

- They must fight to save
their failing relationships.

- I'll knock you
the [ bleep ] out!

- Or decide whether
to call it quits.

- It's time to move on
in our lives.

- This has become unlivable.

- You don't want this tornado!

- I'm gonna beat your ass!

- Marriage, that's why I'm here.

- When reality comes
crashing down...

- It's disgusting
and it's awful.

- Jim and Elizabeth Carroll
are their last chance.

This is "Marriage Boot Camp:
Reality Stars."

- Jacob.

Jay.

I mean, let's be real.

I had went many days walking
past that, thinking to myself,

I'm just gonna be good
and go to sleep,

but I was tossing
and turning in my bed.

- A yes or no
question that directly speaks

to your biggest issue.

Jon will give us the answers.

We will seal it in this envelope
and we will give you the truth

at the end of the boot camp.

- Everything we do
at the Marriage Boot Camp

has a specific purpose.

By keeping the deal breaker
envelopes accessible,

but asking the boot campers
to refrain from opening
them, is a test.

- Jay.

- A test of their willpower
and their ability to have faith

in a larger process

that they might not
immediately understand.

- The truths they reveal
might be too much for them

to handle right now.

They're not in the place
in the boot camp

where they can deal with it.

- I was gonna check the game
changer box and then Natalie

said she was also gonna
check the game changer box.

And I thought, what are
we waiting for.

- I opened up Tyson's.

I wanted to see what was
inside of Tyson's envelope.

- Just push it.

- Do you still want to
be single in five years?

- Oh, my God.

- I couldn't believe my eyes.

I was shocked.

This is playing Rachel.
It's annoying.

- It seems a
little unfair to leave

the game-changing relationship
question till the very end.

So I game-changed the game
rules.

- What-what-what are
you guys doing?

- Nothing.
- Nothing.

- You're not allowed
to go in there.

- Don't tell Spencer.

- Game-changer question, do you
want to have children with me?

- Oh, wow.

- I'm gonna rat you guys out.
Pull out-- pull out Aviva's.

I'm gonna touch it.

- Are you going to persist
that we have another child?

- I saw the girls break into
the boxes,

but I still don't know what
was inside the boxes.

- Well, if you read anything,
I hope that you tell me.

You have to tell me
everything that you see.

- I tell you everything.

- Okay.
- I'm gonna get out of here.

- Reid, don't say anything.

- I just haven't posted
anything on Instagram,

like, in five days.

- That's why
we're here, right?

- I need to post
a picture on Instagram.

- She's-she's tweaking
at this point.

- Just one sexy picture, 'kay?

And I'm just gonna
go like that.

- How is this
showing the dress?

- Right here.

- You can't stand up and
show it from the side?

- Just take the picture, Jacob.

It's not that big of a deal.

- For who?

- My fans are wondering
where I am.

I'm literally stuck in this
boot camp house going crazy.

Jacob needs to just take this
picture and let it be done.

- Take the picture.
- I took a picture already.

- Take one more
and then tell me...

- I'm taking one more.

- Count like
you're supposed to.

- One...
- Thank you.

- ...two, three.

- Jacob is doing
a horrible job on purpose.

At this point, you need to do
one, two, three, fearless.

One, two, three, beautiful.

You're just liter--
don't [ bleep ] do that.

Let's do it like this now.

What are you doing?

- It's not-- it's not
why we're here.

- No!
Do one more like this.

- Stand up.
- Jacob, I'm serious.

I swear to God.
Don't do that.

- If you stand up,
I'll take the picture for you.

- I'm not standing up.

- Well, we can't come
to an agreement, then.

- Four days is forever
to not post something.

- She can't go four minutes
without posting something.

- You're letting Jim
and Elizabeth...

- It has nothing to do
with them.

- ...you're letting
their little program...

- I've always said [ bleep ]
before this.

- ...get me more mad.

- I've said [ bleep ]
before we got here

about these pictures,
all of them.

- They're trying to change you
and I married you for you

because you were
on Team Natalie.

- I still am.

- Now, you're on
Team Marriage Boot Camp...

- Let's stop.

- ...trying to [ bleep ]
run my life.

It's exactly what
they're doing!

- Let's stop.

- Boot campers, you'll find a
present outside your door.

I want you to put it on and meet
us down in the boot camp room.

- Come on.
I'm not doing this alone.

I gotta have somebody
to fight with.

- Before we start
today's drills, I'd like

to talk to you about
your deal breaker questions.

Apparently, some of
them have been opened.

- Those who opened
the envelopes

are demonstrating
severe trust issues,

a need to control things
and deceptive behavior.

All these are
relationship killers.

- We already have an idea
who broke into the boxes.

Now, we want to see
if they have enough integrity

to come forward.

Just the extent of the damage
done yet, we don't know.

- David, will you please
go get the following
people's envelopes?

Natalie, Heidi.

- You're gonna go
into solitary confinement.

- Aviva.
- Me?

- Ooh.

- Sounds like you're going
to solitary confinement.

- I did not touch it.
Somebody else touched mine.

- That's what they all say.
Ask the judge.

- Yeah, I did.
- Tyson.

- What?
I didn't touch it.

- And Spencer.

[ whistles ]

- So we need to find out
who did this and why.

- Who opened mine?
- Who opened mine?

- I did almost everybody's.

- Okay. Stand up, Heidi.

Why did you get
into the deal breakers?

- Well, I didn't know
we were only allowed
to open that at the end.

- Heidi, I find that
very hard to believe

'cause we were very,
very clear.

So was Heidi the only one
that opened the envelopes?

[ laughing ]

- Obviously, not.
- Apparently, not.

- I joined Heidi.

I wanted to know what was
in Tyson's envelope so

that I can try to help Rachel
without giving her the answer,

what was in the envelope.

- One of the benefits of
being on "Survivor"

as opposed to
"Marriage Boot Camp"

is when somebody gets annoying,
you just vote them out.

Right now, I'd definitely
vote Natalie out.

- Heidi, by doing what
you've done,

you've compromised the rules
for the entire group.

And then, to lie by saying
you don't know the rules,

not the way to go.

- You have this impression
that sometimes the rules apply

and sometimes they don't.

- We told you that there
would be consequences.

You two are going to
be shoveling the stables

for breaking
into the envelopes.

- These boot campers
are used to getting their way

and their bad behavior is often
tolerated by their partners.

In fact, they make
excuses for them.

But not in boot camp.

They're here to learn and to
grow and there are no excuses.

- We hope disciplining
bad behavior here

will eventually make
them think twice

before taking the action
in the future.

- You two have disrupted
the process enough for today

so let's move on
to today's drill.

- You guys are not giving your
spouses what they need.

- We all have needs and wants.

We will do anything to
get our needs met.

Sometimes, we will go
outside of our marriage.

- We don't know what
the needs are of our spouse

because many times, we don't
ask or we don't listen.

- Here's the drill.

Elsa and David are going
to hand you each a marker.

You are going to explain
to your partner a need

or a want that you have.

Try to keep it to one word.

And then, your partner
is going to write that
need on your T-shirt.

Research has proven that
seeing something in writing

helps people process and
retain information better.

- Marriage.

- By having the boot campers
write their partners needs down,

it's branding it
on their minds.

- The hope is that this
will make them more aware

of their partners needs
in the future

and we've added a twist.

This will make it clear
what an unmet need does

to the fabric
of a relationship.

- Compromise.
- Okay.

- It's got to be your way
or the highway.

- More respect.
- On your titty?

- You just want
to touch my tits.

- Spencer! You're supposed
to write a word...

- Don't get the ink on my tits.

- Self-confidence.
- Sex.

I think I could have
sex every day.

- Do you know how tired I'd be?

- That's probably why
using some of them workouts,

you can use sex when
you miss a workout.

- Time.
You should make a clock.

- Quality time.

- You should
bring home the money.

- Money, money, money.

- Natalie is definitely
money-hungry.

If Natalie had a favorite dress,
it would be made of...

- Money.
- Money.

- I would like Natalie
and Jacob to come up.

- So stand there and
face each other.

- All right, Natalie.

I want you to look at
your shirt and determine

what your most
pressing need is.

- More money.

The money will make me
feel more secure and, like,

I won't have to work
all the time and, like,

not posting things on
Instagram that make me money

that you don't like.

- All right. Elsa?

So what I'd like you to do...

- What is Jim
and Elizabeth saying?

Bring the scissors out and
we gonna stab each other

until we get our needs
and wants?

Like, 'cause at this point,
child, like, anything goes.

- You're gonna cut this out

because that's what
she's lacking.

- You better watch
them scissors.

- Don't pop those puppies.

- Yay, my cleavage.

- Somebody take a picture of it.

- Take a picture!

- All right.

So now, you tell her what
your number one need is.

- Respect.

That's the main thing
that you should have

in a marriage and
that's the main thing
we're here fighting for.

- Yeah, you.

- You don't respect me as
a husband and it angers me.

- Coming up, on "Marriage Boot
Camp: Reality Stars."

- Natalie and Heidi, you guys
are gonna go shovel the stables.

- Reid, he's all so...
- Oh, my God, it's disgusting.

- So you were an accomplice.
- I was not an accomplice.

- You should be
shoveling [ bleep ].

- Natalie and Spencer
stand up.

- Your legs should be
wrapped above his butt.

- I can't stand that Natalie's
going on a date right now.

- More, right there.

- You tell her what you're
number one need is.

- Respect.

You don't respect me
and it angers me.

- Natalie?
- Okay.

- Oh, God.

- First off, why are you handing
Natalie the scissors

to point out Jacob when
she's already really mad?

- The respect thing is really
getting out of hand.

- You poked me a little bit.

- No, I didn't.
Shut up.

- Never give Natalie
something dangerous.

- I agree.
I'm ready to chop his ass up.

- All of these are holes
in your marriage, right?

I want you
to cut these out.

Cut everything out.

- Writing your needs
and wants down

is the first step
in realizing

what you're missing
in your relationship.

By cutting these words out,
it shows how incomplete you are

when these needs
and wants are missing.

- We see his chest, Natalie.
- Better not be looking.

- And when someone feels
incomplete in the relationship,

they will seek to
fill those holes elsewhere,

sometimes with an affair.

- Heidi, Spencer, come on up.

Tell him what one of these
needs are that you want.

- I need a baby and you're not
listening to my need of that.

- Although the baby issue
comes up time and time again,

it truly is just
a symptom of larger issues

that they must confront.

- I need time to have a plan
in place so, like, time.

- And Spencer's not ready
to have a baby right now

because he's knows
he's not emotionally ready
or financially.

- All right.

So now, we're gonna split up
and we're gonna be able

to give you guys some
one on one time.

- Stand up.

- Syleena, what's your
most important need?

- Forgiveness.

- Uh, marriage.
That's why I'm here.

- Appreciation.

Why are you doing it
so big around?

Okay, thanks, Tyson.

- Listen.

- I'm not getting enough
alone time.

- Respecting my time.

- We're giving you
a cool T-shirt.

- Go ahead and have a seat.

- Got me out here exposed.

- You've laid bare your
needs and your wants

and what's missing
in your relationships

and these are gaping,
revealing holes

that desperately
need to be filled.

- When we regroup,
we'll see what if feels

like to have those needs
and wants met.

Natalie and Heidi, you guys are
gonna go shovel the stables.

The rest of you can
go take off and eat.

- Oh, we can't eat?
- No. No lunch.

Take a break.

- I already had a
problem with the horses

when we got here and
the horse was [ bleep ].

- How are you?

- How about we say we did it and
we really don't have to do it?

- Can we pay you?

- Well, you know black people
don't like no wild animals.

Oh, my God.
That [ bleep ] right there.

This [ bleep ] is disgusting.

-
[ horse whinny ]

- Let's talk about
the envelopes first.

Natalie turns on and
off this bad girl thing.

- She's transitioning.

She feels very unnatural
in the nice girl.

It was, like, temptation
was in front of me,

what else do you do?

- What do you think
about Heidi?

- I think she's playing a role.

- I think she may be playing us.

- Heidi's acting all innocent
when she knows that she's not.

She's not fooling us
with this behavior

that suggests that she would
never deliberately behave badly.

- The fact is she has
no regard for the privacy

of the other boot campers
is very telling

about her own agenda
and her own marriage.

Let's go through
the needs and wants, then.

- So this is what I've seen
in every single couple.

One person's need is the same,

but the mirror opposite
of another person's need.

He wants more sex.

She wants more passion.

He wants her to listen to him.

She wants him to speak up.

And I think
that's true of everybody.

- Well, they got some
surprises coming up.

We're gonna put them
in a situation

where they can get
their needs and wants met

from somebody else.

- I feel so bad for Natalie

and Heidi, they have
to clean the stables.

- Do the crime, pay the time.

- They opened up the glass case,
now they're banned from eating?

- You want to get deep?
- Let's get deep.

- You're sitting next to
Keyser Soze himself.

Tell 'em.
- Oh, what?

- Put you on blast, Reid.

- I'm gonna rat you guys out.

- What? We're leaving.

- Pull out-- pull out Aviva's.
I want to see it.

- You were an accomplice.
- I was not an accomplice.

- You should be
shoveling [ bleep ].

- Reid, you're
a [ bleep ] liar.

- You know they're sitting
there all self-righteous,
especially Reid.

He's all self-righteous.

- Oh, yeah.
This is definitely unfair.

Reid was looking over
my shoulder at Aviva's thing

'cause he didn't want to put
his fingerprints on it.

Reid's ass should've been up
there picking up horse [ bleep ]

with me and Heidi.

- I said, you know what?

I don't feel comfortable
violating her trust.

- Reid is just trying
to answer in a way that

Aviva doesn't get mad at him
later behind closed doors.

- I will not touch
that envelope.

- You can read it, too.
- I don't recall that part
of the story.

- Oh.

- But my fingerprints are
not on that envelope.

- Do the crime, pay the time.

- That is disgusting.
I'm done.

- Boot campers, meet us back
in the boot camp room now.

- What have you learned
so far today?

Clearly, when you're
not fulfilling the needs

and wants of your partner,
you're left with gaping holes

in your relationship.

- When there are holes, people
slip through them and stray.

Today, you have permission
to do just that.

- So it's time
to mix things up a bit

and see if someone else
can fill those holes.

- Will Heidi and
Jacob stand up?

- No.
- No.

- Will Heidi
and Jacob stand up?

- You're gonna be
going on a date.

- What?

- The best person for Jim and
Elizabeth to pair me up

with right now
would be God himself.

- That's the only person you're
allowed to go on a date with.

- Because he's the only person
that can save me right now.

- The two of you will
saddle up and go horseback
riding together.

- Oh, horseback riding?

- And we will see you
after your date.

- Don't worry.
That's not romantic.

- The dates are not
accidental pairing.

Each person needs something
from other that their partner

is not giving them.

Something crucial to the
survival of their relationship.

- The spouse swap not only
puts those needs

in a different light,
it reinforces

to the person's spouse
if they don't start

making some changes,
their partner can easily

get their needs met elsewhere.

- Rachel and Kiwane,
you two are going for
a romantic canoe ride.

- Come on.

- Take care of my man, Rachel.

- Syleena and Reid, you two
will be shaking things up

with a lesson in mixology.

- I like it.
Change your shirt.

- Natalie and Spencer,
you two are gonna get physical

as you learn jujitsu.

- I have no idea really
what jujitsu is,

but I know it's fighting and
kicking ass so I'm game.

- And finally,
Aviva and Tyson,

you two will get some time
together while making sushi.

- Let's go.

- Each pairing and activity
was chosen

for a specific purpose
and goal.

Let's see if the boot campers
can figure out why.

- You need to be very
assertive with horses,

like more than even
with Natalie.

- We paired Heidi and Jacob
together because deep down,

they both crave
a simpler life.

But they've married spouses
obsessed with money

and a warped sense of what it
means to provide for a family.

- We'll see how Heidi does
with a family man

and we'll see how
Jacob's behavior changes
with a nurturing woman.

- I'm just letting him ride.
- That horse is going nowhere.

- So I'm gonna go backwards.

- And then, I'll go forward?

- Yeah, there you go.
- Oh, here we go.

- Both Kiwane and Rachel
are considered the quiet ones
in their relationships.

But in actuality, they're
both desperate to be heard.

- Now, this is
good quality time.

- Exactly.

- Oh, wow.
- Oh, this looks fun.

- What we're gonna be doing
is called craft cocktails.

- Cool.

- Syleena and Reid have similar
dynamics in their relationships.

She's the diva.

She has a hard time
listening and is used
to owning the spotlight.

He's constantly overshadowed
by his famous "Housewife."

- We want to see if,
given the opportunity,

Syleena is able
to focus on Reid

and if Reid will
take center stage.

- So when you go out for
business, do you have to drink?

- I don't like to drink
a lot when I'm out.

I don't want them to have
the perception of me

that I won't be professional.

Is it the same in your business?

- Well, there are a lot of
professionals on Wall Street

that do go out and party.
- You work on Wall Street,
awesome.

- I do, but I choose not
to do as much business
with those people.

- Oh, [ bleep ]! Oh.
- That's it.

- I can't stand that Natalie's
going on a date right now.

- Your legs should be
wrapped around his waist,
above his butt.

- More. Right there.

- I don't want to have
to whip nobody's ass tonight

for getting too touchy, feely.

- Throw the leg
over the shoulder.

Yes. So see there?
You have a hard time do that...

- As long as no one's gonna
pop up on a horse right now,
we're good.

- Coming up on "Marriage Boot
Camp: Reality Stars."

- Maybe I'll go for a choke!
No, no!

- Oh, my gosh!
He's gonna beat up a girl.

- Let's take a
Instagram photo.

Jacob, you want to take off
your shirt for Natalie?

- Oh, [ bleep ]!

- That's it.
That's...

- I can't stand that Natalie's
going on a date right now.

- Your legs should be wrapped
around his waist above his butt.

- I don't want to have
to whip nobody's ass tonight

for getting
too touchy, feely.

- More, right there.

- We put Natalie and Spencer
together because Spencer

needs to step up,
take control and be confident,

and Natalie needs
to relinquish some control

and trust that her partner
can take the lead.

- This is going to be real
challenging for both of them.

- Put a little wrist in...

That's it, that's it.

- Oh, my God!
He's gonna [ bleep ] me up.

- You want to keep them in
the danger zone.

- He is not letting her
get away with it easy.

He's making her work for it,
which is kind of interesting.

- Well, Heidi, clearly runs
their relationship.

Now, that he's in a position
where he's allowed

to take the lead, we're seeing
a different side of Spencer.

- Oh, [ bleep ]!

- Sushi.

- Sushi-making is fun and
it's creative, but it also

requires you to follow a strict
set of rules and customs.

- What is that, dude?
- I don't know.

- Aviva has a hard time
loosening up

and Tyson cracks
jokes all the time.

But you know,
they're not so different.

Both of them live almost
entirely in their heads.

Fun activity, but one with
guidelines and structure

might be just enough
to distract them

and open them up and have
them live in the moment.

- Oh, look, we get
to wear robes.

- Yay, kimono thingies.
- Awesome.

- Oh, you have to wear shorts?

- I'm not wearing shorts.
- I can wear the shorts.

- Okay, thank you.
All right.

So then, we have
to take our pants off?

- I'm not gonna tell you to do
that or not to do that, Aviva.

I do not want to Reid's wrath.

Being with Aviva is fine
because I know that Reid

is not going to blow up and
gouge my eyeballs out.

You ready?
Let's do this.

- Thanks for wearing the shorts.
You're a good sport.

- Yeah.

- Jacob, why do you think they
put us on this date together?

- The main thing I would say
is we have such big hearts

and we're so caring
that it sometimes can
be taken for weakness.

- I feel like we're very
similar in the way we want

to raise children and the way
we prioritize money and say,

I don't need all
the money in the world.

I wish Spencer had
a continual income.

That's one of
the hardest things for us.

And, honestly, Jacob, it
just breaks my heart because,

like, when I met Spencer,
it was so different.

Like, he was the most confident,

like he was gonna take over
the world, you know.

- Maybe he feels he doesn't
want to bring a child

into this life because
he feels like he's

maybe at a negative
state of mind.

- I have two businesses
that I run.

One, an investment banking
firm and the other is a fund.

- Wow.

I think they paired me and
Reid together

'cause I'm the only one
with enough patience

to sit up there and
just listen to everything

that Reid has to say,
'cause clearly, Aviva don't.

You're very knowledgeable about
what you do and that's awesome.

That should be reassuring,
you know, for a wife to know

that her husband's very good
at what he does.

- Thank you, I appreciate that.

- What were your needs
from, uh, Rachel?

- Respect of my time.
She's late.

Like, even if it's not,
like, 'til, 2:00 or 3:00
in the morning.

- It really is disrespectful
to the other person.

- Right.
- So it's a little selfish.

But the good news is,
I was that same person.

- Yeah.

- It just-- by nature,
it gets better.

It really does.

You know, you're really lucky
that in the six years

that you've been together
and the four

that she's wanted to get married
that she hasn't bailed.

A lot of girls
would've bailed.

- I know,
but I'm pretty kick-ass.

- You're supposed to be
fulfilling my needs, by the way.

- I am?

- You need to keep
telling me how gorgeous I look

making the sushi.

- You're [ bleep ] bad ass
at making sushi.

- Okay, thank you.

- There's a politeness
to Tyson and Aviva.

I think they're
uncomfortable

and Tyson's covering it
with jokes.

- Tyson needs to stop
hiding behind humor

if we're gonna get any
serious work done.

- We had an awesome date
making sushi.

You're like one of the baddest
ass sushi chefs I've ever met.

- Thank you, so much.

- And you look dope
in this costume.

- Oh, my God!

He's gonna beat up a girl.

Syleena and I see
Natalie and Spencer

wrestling on the
floor and it was hysterical.

They were grabbing each
other and rolling around.

He's straddling Natalie.
Damn!

I'm thinking, oh, my God.

If Jacob finds out about
this, he's gonna flip.

- Help!
Jacob!

- All right.
Let's go back and tell Jacob.

Jacob!
- I'll be your witness.

- Very good.

- Tequila break.

- Thank you for those moves
so far, appreciate it.

- This is good, good stuff.

- You went to Vegas and you
had a really small wedding.

- Yeah, it was real small.

I'm glad I did it that way
because one of the reasons

we probably would've did a big
wedding is for other people.

And it wasn't
for us, you know.

- Yeah.
- Yeah, this is nice, though.

Real peaceful.

- Today's way more
relaxing than yesterday.

- Natalie, I shot you.

- Why, bitch? We're supposed
to be on the same team!

Here's my exercise, 'kay?

- I'm with you.

- Kiwane is easy-going
and so calming.

At this point, I need that
peace and that calm.

- These two kind of laid-back
people, real lovable and loving,

that in their
current relationships,

struggling
to find the balance.

- Oh.

- You want some vegan oatmeal
chocolate chip cookies?

- Oh, man.

- This must be Kiwane's
dream date

because he is
a quality time guy.

- Vegan, we going vegan.
This is cool, though.

- So what made you want
to marry Natalie?

- It was really like
love at first sight.

I really seen how much
of an impact this person

really had on my life
so fast.

- But shouldn't you be--
nicer about what she does then?

What does it do to you
to that and go,

"It's nothing.
It's fine."

- You're so hard core
that you would rather

get put to sleep
than tap out.

- Right.

- And so I feel like that
is definitely

what Jacob's talking
about with the Instagram.

I'm-- I totally get...

- I told him to stop.
- I totally get it.

I'm not on--
but I think it's...

- Right. And I just
don't want to tap out.

Like, I just definitely
don't want to be like,

okay, I'm gonna stop doing it.

- That's what I mean.
You don't want to...

- Jacob, you want to take off
your shirt for Natalie?

That's what she
would do, right?

- I mean, I'm obsessed
with Jacob.

Like, when I first walk in the
door, don't you look at anybody.

Don't take your shirt off.

Don't cook
breakfast for anybody.

Like, I don't, I mean,
you know,

there's a little
jealousy thing there.

- Oh, my God.

- I'm not worried about
him going with Heidi.

I'm just worried about me
having to whoop her ass

for doing some
stupid [ bleep ]

because I'm not the one
to be [ bleep ] with.

- All right.
Take it off, Jacob.

She loves Instagram, right?

- Coming up on "Marriage Boot
Camp: Reality Stars."

- Take your shirt off.

You want to show
a little butt or what?

- We had fun today.

- We're just pow-wow pals.
- Pow-wow pals.

- I'm just gonna be honest,
like, be careful what
you say tonight.

- I really
don't like sashimi.
- I don't either.

Plus, it looks like
you really have to be
intimate with the rice

- Yeah.

- We get the activity of
making sushi, which, for me,

is like weirdly sexual.

It's like finger the rice
a little bit and then,

finger the rice
onto the fish.

Sashimi.

Look at this, dude.

You guys are telling me
this isn't--

finger your rice
onto the fish.

- Jacob, you want to take off
your shirt for Natalie?

That's what
she would do, right?

She loves Instagram.

Take your shirt off.

- I'm just telling you
right now, don't walk around

the house with your shirt off.

- Do you want
to take it off for Natalie?

- Jacob is jealous.

He doesn't like when I post
up Instagram pictures.

- If I was on Instagram and
on Twitter doing all that,

that would
make me bad, too, right?

- No, you don't get it.

- I need a cowboy hat, too.

- Does anybody
have a cowboy hat?

- When a person's
extremely jealous,

often they become
their own worst enemy.

Right now, Jacob's head
is spinning on what he thinks

might be happening
on the other date.

- Take your shirt off.

- And we know that Jacob
has a violent side

that he keeps suppressed.

And what happens with
this is it often surfaces

in a more passive
aggressive way.

- Want to show a little butt?

- Butt? That's Natalie's
cup of tea.

- Three, two, one.
- That's enough.

- All right, good.

- We brought out
all the sushi we made.

- Wow.

- I will be honest with you.

Jujitsu was really touchy,
feely.

And I kept looking
over my shoulder a few times.

Like, we-- we were like...
- Oh.

- I can understand it,
by the mechanics of it

is why did Natalie's gi
come off so many times.

Is that part of
the flow of the art?

- Jacob is sitting
at the table.

- People do have feelings.
So...

- Yeah, he's gonna get mad.
- Oh.

- I'm sorry.

- Boot campers, join us in
the boot camp room

for your nightly evaluations.

- Wait. Were you guys first?

- No, you guys were.
- You guys were.

- Good memory.
Non-drinkers.

- Way over there, Jacob.
Way over there.

- That's rude.
- Thank you.

- It's always dangerous in
close proximity to Natalie, so.

- And just as dangerous
having Jacob sit next to me.

For all of us, I'm not sure
which one's more dangerous.

- It's a very good point.

- I thought we had fun today.

- Not that much.
We're just pow-wow pals.

- Pow-wow pals.

- Okay, it's the fourth
day of boot camp and today,

we focused on needs and wants.

If all your needs
were being filled,

none of you would be here.

- Just look at you.
You're full of holes.

When spouses do not get
their needs and wants met,

they will go
find them elsewhere.

- Here at the marriage
boot camp, we define

cheating more broadly
than just going outside

of your marriage to have sex.

It includes anything
where you go outside

of your relationship to get
your intimacy needs met.

- Aviva and Tyson, stand up.

Did Tyson give you
anything Reid has not?

- Verbal appreciation.
- Right.

- And Tyson gave that to me
in terms of my sushi-making.

- Completely agree that I could
step it up as far

as validating Aviva
and appreciating

and recognizing
how great she is.

- Reid, go ahead
and have a seat.

And Tyson?

- Well, honestly, I learned
that doing something new,

it automatically brings a
little bit of excitement

to you, the relationship.

I think that would help us.

- All right.
You guys can sit down.

- Syleena.

- Reid's very passionate.
- What?

- And I was really inspired
by the way

he was talking about--
about his stuff.

- I really don't show
the passion sometimes.

I'll work better on
expressing that to you.

- Okay.
- And Reid.

- She was very interested
in my business.

- Should be reassuring for
a wife to know

that her husband's very good
at what he does.

- Over the last year or so,

more of the focus
goes on the work you do.

- I actually feel angry.

I feel like you're taking all
my years of listening

and support and dedication
for granted.

- This is exactly purpose
of the needs and wants.

If you don't feel like
you're getting something,

it starts driving a wedge and
you start growing apart.

And sit down.

Rachel?

- I could ask him, how do you
feel about this and this

and he would respond very
seriously without any jokes.

- Too many people are
too serious all the time

and so I counter that with being
too hilarious all the time.

- Is this a need
that you sometimes
go to your friends for?

- Yeah. We talk
about relationships.

- So is this part of the staying
out all night kind of thing?

- It's definitely
a part of it.

- Rachel's all-night
escapades are clearly

an issue in
their relationship.

But the fault lies
equally with Tyson.

- If Tyson were meeting
Rachel's need for intimacy

and serious conversation,
Rachel wouldn't need to look

to her friends
to fill those voids.

Okay.
Tyson, you can sit down.

Kiwane?

- What I got out of
Rachel is the team effort

and she listened and I was
able to express myself.

We was just there.

Sometimes, that's all
I need you to be is there.

- He's right.
Sorry, Kiwane.

- I just want to say
one last thing.

We take the two quietest
people in the house,

put them alone together and
the two of you

become these incredibly
expressive people.

- Natalie and Spencer,
stand up.

So Natalie, what did you
get out of Spencer today

that you don't
get out of Jacob?

- He said things like, I can
relate to some of the stuff

you say about posting
things on the internet.

- That Instagram, I'm--
I totally get...

- And to totally stop, yeah.
- I totally get it.

- I knew somebody else doesn't
think it's that bad.

- So what was it
you got from him?

- I got the acceptance
from him.

- And Jacob,
how does that feel?

- It makes me kind of mad.

- Okay, Spencer.

- You don't feel like we need
to have all this money

planned ahead 'cause your
parents didn't have it.

I found that Natalie disagrees
with that and sees my logic.

It-- it is, uh, nice to have
somebody, like, validate you,

but Natalie's not like,
this speaking of life
and I'm like,

oh, like when I-- in my--
it's almost like a deterrent.

Like, oh,
I agree with Natalie.

Oh, [ bleep ]!

It's not weird to want to have
a bigger life for your kids.

- It makes me feel inadequate
that I can't do that for you

'cause I'm not from that
and I don't know that

and I don't feel that way.

- Spencer, you practice
at jujitsu.

By having an activity
that you're good at,

we got to see you step on
the mat,

confident, self-assured.

- I started getting a
little upset

when I started talking about
you and your confidence.

When I met Spencer,
it was so different.

He was the most confident.

He was gonna take over
the world, you know.

'Cause I believe in you.

- So your objective to have
a healthier marriage is

to forgive yourself
and approach the rest

of your life
with that confidence.

- Trust me, I know.
I feel it.

- All right.
Thank you, guys.

Heidi and Jacob, stand up.

Heidi?

- I felt like Jacob was
a little bit more easygoing.

I could just enjoy myself
a little more 'cause it wasn't

as serious as a lot of the
situations we have are.

- Jacob, I'm just
gonna be honest.

Like, just be careful
what you say right now.

- I know what Natalie likes.

I know she loves her pictures
and I know she loves to see

pictures of me so I took
a picture for her.

- Ready?
Three, two, one.

- You took a picture?

- On my horse.

- To frame.

- For us to frame at our
house, being a bad boy.

- Is this appropriate?
- It's for you.

- You like that, Spencer?
Yeah?

Your wife's taking picture.
Multiple pictures?

With your shirt off.

- Coming up on "Marriage Boot
Camp: Reality Stars."

- [ bleep ] sit there and
give me that [ bleep ]

crooked ass [ bleep ]
plastic surgery ass [ bleep ]

look on her face.

- Where did Heidi go?
- Heidi.

I'm gonna beat
your [ bleep ] ass.

- Jacob, what did Heidi give
you that Natalie has not?

- I'm just gonna be honest.

Just be careful
what you say right now.

- I know what Natalie likes.

I know she loves her pictures
and I know she loves to see

pictures of me so I took
a picture for her.

- Ready, Jacob?
Three, two, one.

- To show her.
- You took a picture?

- On my horse.

- To frame.

- For us to frame
at our house.

- My stance is, show Natalie
really how it feels, like,

how Jacob's feeling about
these Instagram things.

- Is this appropriate?

- It's for you.

- You like that, Spencer?
Yeah?

Your wife's taking pictures.
Multiple pictures?

- Just three.

- She's a photographer now.

- Just three, but how long
did you wrestle for?

- Multiple pictures,
like a whole...

Heidi, all due respect, I--
I am, like, telling you

right now to take pictures of
my husband with his shirt off

and think that it's like
okay, it's inappropriate.

- Anger is a reaction
that's rooted in fear.

Jealousy is rooted in control.

From breaking into
the game-changer envelopes

to arguing about the actions
on their dates,

Heidi and Natalie
are showing us that

they're severely insecure
in their relationships.

- And it's interesting today
that Jacob broke the rules, too.

He took his shirt off.

I think that was an act
of rebellion against Natalie

saying, hey, if you can do it,
I can do it, too.

- I don't like people
touching my husband.

So with your legs wrapped
around him and wrestling

and it's an activity, I don't
like people hugging my husband.

If someone should be mad,
it should be me, not you.

- No [ bleep ] way.

I wouldn't be entertaining
pictures like that because,

girl, like, you already know
I will [ bleep ]

black out of this bitch
and lose my [ bleep ] mind.

- You're missing the point
and you're missing the point.

I mean,
you're the one at fault.

When you came in the house,

you told Jacob,
don't take your shirt off.

Number one thing, I don't want
you-- don't take your shirt off.

And he violated the rules.

- All right.

So the bottom line of this,

getting our needs
met feels good.

It just does.

And when we're getting
those needs met

outside of our marriage,

we put our marriages
at risk, right?

That's the key
to this exercise.

And here's the thing.

The grass ain't greener and
I want to learn something

from this so we don't
have to do this.

- The ass ain't fatter
on the other side.

- All right.

- And the hard work
continues tomorrow.

Get some rest and
have a good night.

- Take you [ bleep ] right
upstairs 'cause I'm not

about to play
no [ bleep ] games.

- Holy cow, dude.
Kaboom!

This is gonna be the best movie
I've ever seen in my life.

- Jacob, why'd you take
your shirt off, man?

You're the one with the shirt.

- Inappropriate ass, [ bleep ]
pictures and [ bleep ].

- Maybe he was trying
to prove a point.

- Well, it is.
I was gonna say...

- Yeah, he might be trying
to prove a point.

- It is a double standard.

- Here's the deal.

I really don't want
no problems with her.

And Heidi's goofy and funny
and everything like that.

Oh, but, 'cause see,
now they're gonna be funny.

You see all the pictures
on the wall?

I will break their [ bleep ]
TV screens, seriously.

Turn it off right now.
- That's what I do.

- Like, it's not okay.

- Her one thing is
don't take your shirt off,

like it's a thing.
And he went along with it.

It's not your fault,
but it's all good.

It's not like...
- Whatever.

I really don't care because,

uh, you guys were
physically touching,

so it's like
that doesn't matter.

- That wasn't your fault.
- It's a martial art.

I'm trying to break her arms
and choke her out, like.

- But you were having
a good time out there.

- I would've had more
fun choking you out.

- Heidi needs her
ass whooped for that.

I'm not from a
little town in Colorado.

Where I come from,
I'm gonna go the [ bleep ] in

and I'm gonna beat
your [ bleep ] ass.

You understand me?

The first thing
she should've said was

I did not mean to disrespect
you and I'm sorry.

She just [ bleep ] stood there
and gave me that [ bleep ]

crooked ass, [ bleep ]
plastic surgery ass [ bleep ]

look on her face.

- Heidi?
- Yeah?

- It's Aviva.

Do you want to talk?

I won't take their cameras.
- She's so crazy.

It's like, oh,
do I think I want you,

like, physically assaulting
my husband?

I don't think so.
Like, you're just being crazy.

- Here's the deal.

Don't ever do no [ bleep ]
like that again

because I will
[ bleep ] snap.

You are my husband.

You shouldn't even have
went on that [ bleep ] date.

How about that?

You should've said,
I'm not gonna go on this date

because I know that
it'll somehow become
a problem somehow.

- The role is
vice versa as well.

- Whatever.
I don't care.

Not my marriage.
Not my life.

I don't have
to deal with her.

- You know
I don't trust bitches.

- What makes you think
I trust guys?

- I will [ bleep ] lose it.

- She goes from here to here
and never here.

- I'm telling you right now,
Jacob, I'm about to [ bleep ]

that little bitch up.

- Why you shaking
your head at me?

- What?

- Why are you shaking
your head at me?

- Is she okay, man?

How long is she gonna be mad?

Until Natalie calms down?

- Who knows?
After Boot Camp?

- I don't want to have
to break that bitch's face.

I don't want to do that.
I don't.

But people keep [ bleep ]
with me.

Do you understand?

And I'm going to address it.

- Where did Heidi go?
- Did you talk to her?

- I can't find her.
- Oh.

- Let's address it.

- Inappropriate, [ bleep ]
is getting really old.

I don't want
to hear apologies.

Just don't [ bleep ] me.
Just leave me alone.

We come from different
walks of life.

Like, it's just crazy.

Heidi!

I'm gonna beat
your [ bleep ] ass.

- Next, on "Marriage Boot Camp:
Reality Stars."

- Today, you've all been
promoted to the front seat.

- Go right, right.
- Left, left, left.

- I'm listening.

- Now, you're not communicating.

[ shouts ]

- Here's the deal.

Because you want
to be a [ bleep ].

- You started it.
- Hey.

- This ain't the [ bleep ]
Hills no mo'.

- Oh.
- Oh, [ bleep ]!

- What the hell is that?
- I don't even want you anymore!

- I'm done!
- I'm sick of this, okay?