All language subtitles for S02E02.Death.and.Divorce.Court.eng

Previously on Marriage Boot Camp
Reality Stars...

A surprise lie detector test
exposed dark secrets.

- When Rachel gets married,
will it be with you?

- Do you regret
getting married?

- Yes.

- Spencer was called out
for being fake.

- How can I make sure that
we got the real you on here?

- Tempers flared and
battles lines were drawn.

- I don't need a stranger
getting in my face

and calling me fake.

- As tension mounted
in the house.

- It's hell for me.

- Tonight they are
pushed over the edge...

- This has become unlivable.

- When everything they love...

- I can never love her
more than she loves me.

- Is taken away.

- He would have
primary custody.

- Just [ bleep ] shoot me.

- And the unthinkable happens.

- Jake, I love you so much.

- Five famous couples
face a whole new reality.

- Who the [ bleep ]
are you talking to?

- They must fight to save
their failing relationships.

- I'll knock you
the [ bleep ] out.

- Or decide whether
to call it quits.

- It's time to move on
in our lives.

- This has become unlivable.

- You don't want this tornado!

- I'm gonna beat your ass!

- Marriage, that's why
I'm here.

- When reality comes
crashing down...

- It's disgusting!
And it's awful!

- Jim and Elizabeth Carroll
are their last chance.

This is Marriage Boot Camp
Reality Stars.

- On Day Two I woke up
and then I thought

I had to wake up again,
'cause I was in a nightmare.

The bed rocks.

- Can't make a baby
in that bed.

- No one's making babies.

- You don't see
the bigger picture.

- It [ bleep ] works!

We [ bleep ] live off
of that!

- I didn't like waking up
this morning.

I didn't like seeing
Natalie's ass everywhere.

- Yesterday I was shocked
with my bedroom.

But I love the room.

I thought it's actually
kind of sexy.

I don't give a [ bleep ] if
people see a [ bleep ] nipple!

- Natalie...
- She says things really loud.

- Yeah. She's got
a high volume.

- What the [ bleep ]
is that picture for?

- Riding on the beach,
horseback riding.

What is the problem?

- Well, you gonna pull
your panties up

just so you can get a better
picture of your ass?

- I didn't pull my panties up!
That was the cut of the bikini!

- You're being team hater.

- I'm being team photo album
to show the kids later.

- Hey, if you want
it to rain money...

- Can I shake my ass?

- ...if you wanna
act like a stripper,

then you can be
a stripper then.

- Oh, my gosh,
what a first day.

- I know how you play people.

How can I make sure that we
got the real you on here?

Where I'm from in Los Angeles,

you keep getting
in peoples' faces,

you get punched in the face.

- What did we get
ourselves into?

- We'll find out.

- Attention all couples,
to the Boot Camp room now.

- Good morning.
- Morning.

- Hey.

- Yesterday, we identified
some of the problems,

but today we're gonna
look at some harsh futures.

- What are your futures gonna
look like if you don't survive

the Marriage Boot Camp?

- So the question is,
do you guys have the strength

to get after the stuff
that you're struggling with.

- Follow us and
let's find out.

- I want to like be excited
to see Jim and Elizabeth,

but I'm not.

- Today's drill is designed
to show the Boot Campers

one alternative future
if they don't dig deep

to put hard work
into the Boot Camp.

- I have butterflies.

- Oh, Lord.

- Oh, that's gonna
be interesting.

- It's a courtroom.

- Oh, my God.

- Divorce.

Some of you use it
as a threat.

Others of you have
seriously considered it.

Now you're gonna live it.

- If you do not give 100%
to the Boot Camp,

you could very well
end up right here.

- I should probably
call my lawyer.

- Marriage Boot Camp
has an 80% success rate

when it comes
to saving relationships.

- For this drill,

we've brought in an expert
on failed marriages.

- Say hello to your
worst nightmare.

The Honorable Judge Lynn Toler
of Divorce Court.

- The minute I saw Judge Toler,
I knew that she was a bitch.

- By the end of that court,

Natalie probably
gonna go to jail.

- Ladies, we need you over here
on the right side.

- Court for bad girls
is nothing new, so...

- Natalie and Jacob.

- Natalie's bad girl attitude
has been the cause

of a lot of problems
in their marriage.

- Jacob needs to step up

and be more assertive
in this relationship.

- You two don't
have any children.

You are ending
your relationship.

I want to see
how we got here.

So I'm gonna show you
your intake tape...

And then we'll go from there.

- I just didn't
see that coming.

- The intake tape
is a pre-interview we conduct

with each couple
to help us assess the problems

and issues within
the relationship
prior to Boot Camp.

- Natalie, she's a
social media whore.

- I'm definitely
not gonna sit here

and tell you I'm gonna put
clothes on on my Instagram

because I get more likes
when I'm half naked.

- She's a spoiled brat.

- He's more, oh,
let's have kids.

Like what?

- If I would have known
she was Natalie

from the Bad Girls club,
then I probably would have ran.

- You're gonna
leave this behind?

I highly doubt it.

- Jacob, why don't
you tell me why you think
this marriage is ending?

- I'm ready for children.

[ sighs ]

All she's concerned about is
what she can do for her career.

- He's always trying to slow
somebody down, Your Honor.

All he wants me to do
is sit in the house,

pop out a bunch of babies,
put an apron on and cook.

- I think you're confusing
loud and angry,

which are both signs of fear,
with strength.

I think you're
scared to death.

- Let me say this.

You gotta put up a whole lot
of crash, boom and bang

because you're really not quite
sure what your worth is.

- Girl?
- Don't call me girl.

- What my worth is?

Okay, let me explain
something to you.

With or without Jacob,
I'm gonna be good.

I mean, we come
from two completely different
places on the map.

I feel like, for Jacob,
it's you need to sit down

and this is what
a woman does.

- Let's not imagine
what he thinks.

Let's ask him.

What do you think
a good wife looks like?

What does she do?

- A good wife has respect.

They are supportive of
what he's doing.

- Do you feel
she's not supportive
of what you're doing?

- Not 100%.

- Do you at all see
that thirsty look in women

when they look at that
thing over there?

This man, he can bop out
your house tomorrow

and have women 35 deep
waiting on him.

Trust that.

- I just don't think
he's going anywhere.

- So you don't think
he has options?

- Not better than this.

- Okay. I can't talk to her.

And if you can't
talk to her,

you gotta ask yourself
what you got.

It might be
a good thing

that you don't have
children with her.

- Like, bitch,
shut the hell up

before I come across
this damn podium

and smack you in your face.

- There will be no recovery.

- Aviva and Reid, will you
please take the stands?

- I prefer if Aviva
could explain her issues

at work in three minutes
opposed to three hours.

- When I read
things on Twitter

that make me feel hurt,
he gets sad for me,

but he also gets angry at me.

- I find Aviva more willing
to spoil the children.

- When I get my 13 year old
an expensive watch,

I don't think it's gonna
turn him into a Kardashian.

- I don't think
that's great parenting.

- Do you believe you ought to
have custody of the children?

- 100%.
- Why?

- Because I raise them.
I've been a stay at home mom,

and I'm their mother.

- So you would fight
hard for your kids?

Are you fighting that hard
for your marriage?

- I only believe
that divorce should happen

if things become unlivable.

And this has
become unlivable.

- Aviva and Reid
are faking it.

They should go
on Broadway together.

and do like the Aviva
and Reid Show where they try

to be real each night for
like a couple of hours.

- Tell me about
the concerns that you have

about the children of
a television mother.

- If there are negative press,
she'll be upset about it

and the kids sense that.

- Nothing worse than having
a bothered mother.

- I think that my husband is
saying this because he wants

full custody of the children
really just because he wants

to keep all the money.

- How much of his money do
you think you'll end up with?

- Alimony and child support.

- Child support,
I have no problem with

as long as the money goes
directly to the children.

- You see how
controlling he is?

- I don't want
the kids being spoiled.

- Oh, please.

- If you want your children
to turn out crappy,

give 'em everything
they want.

- Thank you, Your Honor.

- Final word, Judge.
Who gets the kids?

- I would love
to give them to him

but I think she deserves them
simply because she has been

the primary caretaker
all of this time.

- I learned in
divorce court

that I never want
to go back to divorce court.

You always can settle.

- I'd like to call
Syleena and Kiwane.

- Since Kiwane has retired
from the NBA,

Syleena has taken on all the
financial responsibilities.

- This has put
a strain on their marriage

because Kiwane feels
that Syleena has not been

present with the family.

- Syleena focuses
on her job

more than the stuff
that's going on at home.

- One of the biggest problems
I have with Kiwane,

he can talk to our
kids real good,

but he doesn't communicate
the same with me.

- Intimacy is
really not there.

- There's no spontaneity.

In the beginning,
we used to just,

boom, let's go over
to the closet.

Boom, we were in
on the stairs.

- Syleena, I'm gonna
start with you.

Make the best case you can
for keeping your children.

[ sighs ]

- Well, first of all, I can
barely like talk in here

because...

when it
comes to my children,

the thought of not having
them is a devastation.

I cannot split my family up

because that's just not
an option to me.

- Do you give as much to
your marriage as he does?

- I don't know.

I've just been really fighting
to keep us stable financially.

- I don't have a problem
with her working.

I have a problem with her being
able to step back from work.

- You know that doesn't bode
well for the custody issue.

- If you're gonna
take my kids,

just [ bleep ] shoot me
right now.

- I would give you visitation,

but he would have
primary custody.

Not only is he stable
with it,

but he's the primary
caregiver at this time.

- Coming up on
Marriage Boot Camp
Reality Stars...

- You think
I'm a bad mother, too.

- No, I don't.
- Yes, you do.

- She's always been willing
to go with the flow.

- You didn't say I love her.

- Well...
- This matter is adjourned.

[ crying ]

- When I ran out, I needed
to get out of that room

and I wanted to get away
from everybody,

because she took my children.

Right now, I feel like
I'm being kicked,

you know, while I'm down.

And this is one of
the issues that we have

is that we're not a team.

- Right?
To stop these things.

- Oftentimes, things get very
emotional during Boot Camp.

And when this happens,
we like to give the couples

a chance to work things out
before Jim and I step in.

- No, I don't think you're a bad
mother.

- Okay.

- I take up for you.

- Whoo, it got hot in here.

- That was intense.

- To work so hard
and lose your family...

- This is what happens
to people when they don't

work on the issues.

- The reality of my kids
being taken from me

means everything that
I'm doing is wrong.

- Maybe you are doing
something wrong.

That doesn't mean
you're a bad person.

It just means you got
to figure out what it is
and fix it.

So you got a choice.

- I don't want to get into
anymore arguments.

- You walk out of Boot Camp
right now,

you'll be here
five years later.

- I'm not gonna walk out.

- And this is gonna get tough.

- I'm gonna give
100% to myself.

- Me as well.

- Ready to go back in?

- Divorce is not an option.

Nothing makes me
fight for change,

that right there
is the fight for change.

- Heidi and Spencer?

- Sometimes I feel like
Spencer's mom.

And he'll like joke and be like,
"I'm the baby."

I'm like, "You are the baby,
but you need to grow up."

- Finances are definitely
an issue in our relationship

because I don't
currently have a job.

- Just turned 28.

I am definitely
ready to be a mom.

- All she does
is talk about kids

and wanting to have kids,

and it is beyond stressful.

- His idea of a perfect family
is just him, I and our puppies.

- We can't even walk
down the street

without her literally going
up to every kid or baby.

And be like, hi, hi,
little baby, hi, kid.

- I need to have kids
in the next two years.

- You two have been married
for six years,

and you have no children.

That makes divorce court
a little easier place to be.

- There's really nothing
between the two

to split down
the middle because

they've spent all their money
on Heidi's plastic surgeries.

- You know she wants kids,
right?

Do you love her enough
to get a job?

- I would get a job
to secure our marriage,

but I'm not sure I'd get a job
to secure somebody else.

- Who's somebody else?

- Some little kid.

- Do you have debt?

- Emotional.

- He's still a kid.

He doesn't have a job
and he's kicking it.

So what about that to you
says good daddy?

- I think he just
downplays himself

and doesn't give himself
enough credit.

- I don't know what to say,

but get the fairy dust
out of your eyes.

Ask yourself do you
want to be with a man

who does not want children?

You can't hang on
to something

because you hope it's gonna
be something else.

- I'm not gonna ask him again to
have children.

- You take it so personal.
- That is personal.

That is the most personal
you can possibly get.

- No, it's not.
- Spencer, yes, it is.

- Rachel and Tyson.

- Rachel has approached me
numerous times and been like,

"If you really love me,
you would marry me."

- It's time.
I need a ring on my finger.

- Weddings are a total
waste of time and money.

- He did win a million dollars.
We can afford it.

- That's $30, $40,
or $50 grand

that I could spend
on designer jeans.

- Why is she the woman
you want to be with?

Go.

- She's always been
willing to compromise,

which is what
I prefer to do.

- You didn't say I love her.

That's all you told me
is that she's convenient.

- As much as I love her,

I can never love her
more than she loves me.

- Did you hear that?

- I think he's okay
with getting married...

it's just him being
kinda lazy.

- Never make a man
tell you he don't want you

more than once, ever.

You hearing me?

- Tyson is who I love.

- If you were my daughter,
we'd be in the woods

and I'd be hitting on
your head with a stick.

You put yourself
in an untenable position,

untenable.

No matter what happens with him,
create a life of your own.

The stronger you get,
the more leverage you have,

'cause right now,
you got none.

God bless you, God love you
and I hope it gets right.

- Tyson, I have not
seen you bring your heart
to the Boot Camp yet.

- Not that I'm not trying.

That's just always
been the way I am.

- But is it working
in the relationship?

Stand up, will you?

If I could rip you open
and see your heart right now...

- What would it look like?
- Um, physically?

- If everybody in here got
to see your heart right now,

what would it look like?

- I really don't know.

- It's super annoying
that Jim's always on my case.

I think it's about time

that Tyson feels Jim's
bad breath in his face.

- You love her to
the best of your ability.

But if you're not able
to release this,

I'll bet she will go find
some other man someday

that says I think
you're so special,

I would do anything
to marry you.

If you don't want to lose her,
you'd better get in here.

- Rachel and Tyson
are on two different pages.

Rachel wants to get married

and Tyson has been
manipulating the relationship

to keep Rachel
while staying single.

- Since they are not married,

there's not near as much
on the line for these two.

- I'll tell
you from experience.

Divorce is not an easy way out.

It destroys families.

It destroys a piece of you
that you will never get back.

- You don't want this
to be your future.

- You might have
had it worse than me.

- I did have it
worse than you.

- Guess what every one of them
said their main problem was.

- Communication.
- Yeah.

- So you have to be
honest with people.

And when you're honest,
people will know it.

- Who has the most trouble
coming that you saw today?

- Spencer should no longer get
away with the least he can do

and man up and do
the most he can do.

- I'm a little worried
about Rachel and Tyson.

- Yes. That would be
the conversation

my mother would have
had with me.

And it wasn't
to say leave him.

It's be in a position
to leave him.

- Today's not going very well.

This next drill, I don't think
it's gonna be much better.

- I think it's something
really intense.

- Oh, good. More intense.
- Yeah.

- I was hoping for something
a little more intense.

[ chuckles ]

- I feel Rachel.
I feel her pain.

And like, wanting Tyson
to understand

something she's trying to say
and it's not really connecting.

- I wanna pee.

- I just want you to be a str--

I want you to be, well,
just a little stronger.

- Mm-hmm.
- That's it.

I was just watching and I want
to be a little bit of you, too.

Like a little softer.

But I was like,
you're just a sweet person

which is really nice
and you have a great spirit.

- Rachel, what part of
that hit you the hardest?

- I'm always just
accommodating Tyson.

And I just let that happen.

- I know.

- Tyson manipulates Rachel.
It's disgusting.

- Well, I think we should
all make a toast.

Cheers to everybody
working so hard.

- Sorry, Rachel.
- [ bleep ]

- Spilled some...

- Crazy.
It's so weird.

- Coming up on
Marriage Boot Camp
Reality Stars...

- Something really terrible
has happened.

- I'll do anything
that you say.

- Well, I think we should
all make a toast.

Cheers to everybody
working so hard.

- Cheers.
- Cheers.

- Sorry, Rachel.
- [ bleep ]

- When Rachel started crying,
that was a deep moment.

I agree that Tyson
doesn't care enough

if she agrees that Tyson
doesn't care enough.

- I didn't really think
that it was worth crying over.

- So I feel like there's a huge
selfishness issue going on,

but also that Tyson needs a take
little more initiative.

- I don't think so.

- I'm really questioning it
at this point.

- Ladies and gentlemen,

meet us in
the Boot Camp room now.

Will the following people stand
up?

Kiwane, Natalie,

Aviva, Tyson and Spencer.

You five will go
with David and Elsa.

- All right, you guys
have a seat anywhere you want.

Uh, probably right there.

- Anywhere?
- Almost anywhere.

- The rest of you come
with Elizabeth and me.

Earlier today, we saw how
the Boot Campers' relationships

could end up in a courtroom.

Now they're gonna see how it can
potentially end forever.

Let's line up
right here, please.

There's been
a terrible accident.

Your accident.

- Spouses often have lists of
complaints about their partners.

So this next drill
is designed to help them

determine what
really matters.

We've chosen you all
to be in the vehicle,

because your spouse has a very
important lesson to learn.

You'll all have a one on one
time with Jim and Elizabeth

here in a little bit
with your spouse, okay?

We're just gonna have
you guys in here.

We're gonna ask you
some questions.

We're gonna start with you.

Stand up and let's go back
to the courtroom.

Your feelings and your emotions,
what all was going on?

- I learned so much
from the judge.

She has such good values.
And just really...

- Kiwane, I need to have
you for a one on one.

- I started following Elizabeth.

I didn't know what to think.

This is definitely not good.

- Stand right here.

Something really terrible
has happened.

- So you and
Syleena got into it.

She stormed out
of the house,

but you continued
to fight over text.

I know you've told her many
times not to text and drive,

but you guys were so in it.

- She was distracted
by your text.

She took her eyes off the road.

[ sirens blaring ]

- The car accident
felt real to me.

It was a scene I always think
of when Syleena's out.

She's come home late.
It could be real.

This could happen.

- Read your last words to her.

- "You put all of yourself
into your job.

You're not home.
The kids feel it.

You are so selfish."

- So, Kiwane,
is that what you want

your last words
for her to be?

- Never.

- But you say these things
all the time to her.

- I want you to take this moment
to speak from your heart.

In these last moments,
what you want to say to her.

- I'm so sorry, baby.

I love you.

I would never want anything
to happen to you.

I'd do...

I'll do anything
to have you back.

[ crying ]

- What would you do different
if you had a second chance?

- I'd change me first,

because I know
I am part of the problem.

I'd do my best to understand

and make this thing work.

- And, Syleena, tell him what
you would do different.

- I would prioritize.

Our family has got to come
before everything else.

- Kiwane,
Step back.

You get to have
a second chance.

- Something's fishy here.

- Read your last words to her.

- "I don't want children now.

I'm so sick of hearing
all the baby talk."

- So is this what you want
your last words to be to her?

- Absolutely not.

- So I want you
to take a moment

and tell her what you would want
her to hear from your heart.

- Heidi, I absolutely

want to have
children with you.

I just don't feel...

- Is this from your heart?
I'm not feeling you.

- I mean, it's the truth.
- I'm hearing your head.

I wanna hear your heart.

- We asked two things
from every Boot Camper.

Honesty and commitment
to the program.

I want you to tell her
how much you loved her.

How much she meant to you.

- And right now, Spencer
is giving us neither.

Spencer, you're just
playing us now.

Why don't you come out
of the car?

- Coming up on
Marriage Boot Camp
Reality Stars...

- All right. Spencer,
you're just playing us now.

- I love you so much.

- Spencer, you've become
the spoiled brat reality star.

- What I'm trying to understand
is why do you shut down?

- I have a hard time
being sincere.

And it seems like the harder
I try to be sincere,

the more insincere I seem.

- I don't trust a man 100%.

- When I was younger,
I was reaching out to my parents

and they weren't there.

- All right, Spencer,
you're just playing us now.

- Well, I'd never
text and drive, so...

- As you shouldn't.
But this is a drill.

And that's another
disrespect of the process.

I want you to come out
of the car.

There's something missing here.
Not sure what it is.

There is a reason for all
of the stuff in your life

and I'm not seeing it
coming together yet,

and you're not gonna
get there

until you can get
completely, completely naked.

Don't make a joke.

- The problem is,
he's still 18.

He's still immature.

- I really stopped
liking their style

when they tried to tell me
I wasn't doing it right.

I'm not over here
claiming I'm Johnny Depp,

like I can't just snap into like
my feelings so deep

and like,
I connect to like my heart.

- You know what?
You guys got work to do.

- I didn't get anything
out of the drill

that I feel like
I can apply to us.

- This is all he has.

He doesn't have
the emotional intelligence

yet to do much more.

- I wonder if...

You know, he loves her
but I wonder if he loves her

like a family member
loves a family member.

- He loves her
like a boy loves his mama.

- Now we got some work to do.
- Yeah, we do.

This drill not only
shows how quickly

a loved one can
be taken away,

but it's also
a diagnostic tool

to see how in touch they are
with their emotions.

- Share from your heart
what you want to say to him.

What your last minute
would be.

- Um, that I think that
you're the most incredible

human being I've ever met,

and I'm honored that you're
the father of my children.

- Anything else?

- I love you.

- I am definitely not
liking how Jim and Elizabeth

are telling me
that I'm needing faith.

She's the housewife
terminator.

I know she's a cyborg.

- Reid, I want you
to be able to share

from your heart
what you'd like to say.

- I love you with all my heart.

I wouldn't wanna
live without you.

- Is that all you have to say?

Okay, we have
some work we need to do.

- She does look real
from like where I'm standing.

Like my heart sinks
a little bit.

I'm like, oh, I don't wanna
see Rachel like this.

- There are times when
I texted Jacob mean things.

And storm off
and he drives off.

So this hit home.

I was just like
this could be real life.

This could really be happening
right in front of my eyes.

This is horrible.

- I know you will stay with me
if we get married or not.

You're not going anywhere.

- I bring home the money.

I can't be following you
all over the world.

I'm going to do what
I'm going to do

and I will be good with that.

- Probably not really
the last words

you want her to hear,
are they?

- No, they're not
the last words I want--

- So can you kneel down here?

I want you to share
from your heart.

- I just want you to know
that I love you

and I always only
wanted you to be happy.

- I'm so sorry, Jake.
I love you so much.

I hate when
I say mean things to you.

I'm so sorry.

- My life without you would be
lonely.

And I should've
married you.

- I'm so sorry.

- You are the most beautiful,

amazing woman
I've ever met in my life.

- Will you open your eyes

and take his hand?

- I love you.

I just want you to know that,

that I always wanted
to marry you and to be with you.

- You can let her
out of the car.

- I'm glad you're alive.
- I'm alive.

- Tyson knows exactly
what to say

to pull Rachel
right back into his web.

But is that just talk?

Will he ever act
on those promises?

- I'm so sorry
for always being mean,

'cause I don't wanna hurt you,

and I don't wanna
be mean to you.

- Jacob, do you know
what she needs from you?

She needs for you to be
that container

for the monster
that she carries around.

- It's gonna be the hardest
thing you've ever done.

- You can give her a hug.

- My baby.

Everything hit home.
They are breaking me down.

- Could you relate to it?

- I was relating
to the mean things.

Don't make me [ bleep ]
feel more sorry.

I already felt that.

- Uh, I don't like
stuff like that.

- Uh, just kind of take
a deep breath, relax.

That was a
very intense exercise.

Each of you handled it
very differently.

- And then I want you guys
to go on inside

and meet us in
the Boot Camp room

for your very
first evaluation.

- Are you disappointed
about the way this went?

- No, not at all.
I think it was good.

- I just felt so disappointed
in some of the responses

in the people.

- Well, I think
it's really diagnostic.

- Coming up on
Marriage Boot Camp
Reality Stars...

- We end each night
of the Boot Camp

with an evaluation.

Spencer, you've been
18 long enough.

You've become the spoiled brat
reality star.

- Why are you saying
that I love you more
than you love me?

- We love each other different.
- Why are you saying that?

- This is fun.

- We end each night
of the Boot Camp

with an evaluation.

- This is where we can discuss
the progress you've made

or the setbacks
you've suffered.

- Today was about what your
future might look like

if you don't give 100%
to the Boot Camp.

- We have to burn your
relationship to the ground

so you can properly rebuild it
over your stay in Boot Camp.

We began to peel back the layers
of the surface issues

and discover there is much
more work than you realized.

- Natalie and Jacob,
will you all stand up?

- There are two distinct
sides of Natalie.

Today in divorce court,
we saw Natalie, the bad girl.

- With or without Jacob,
I'm gonna be good.

- And this bad girl part
of you stems from fear.

We don't know what
you're afraid of,

but we need to find that out.

- I'm not okay with
what they're saying.

I'm being nice.

You don't wanna see me
start coming out.

Because I don't have any fear.

- And, Jacob, we saw
that you don't understand
your self-worth.

- So you don't think
he has options?

- Not better than this.

- Until you both realize
Jacob's worth,

your relationship is moving
in the wrong direction fast.

Heidi and Spencer?

Both the divorce court
and what we saw in

"Till Death Do Us Part" drills
made two things evident.

Spencer, you been
18 long enough.

You're not going to
the next level of adulthood.

- I think a lot of it
has to do with

I left college at 20
to do a reality show.

The whole time,
like I was always rewarded
for bad behavior.

- It's amazing how much
insight you have.

But, Heidi, he's not gonna
go from 18 to 30 overnight.

He has no reason to grow up.

- I definitely thought it was
a little inappropriate

when they said
I'm an 18 year old.

- Does that make me a cougar?

- Um...

- You have a beautiful
maternal side,

but you are stunting
his growth.

- When you're a kid,
you do certain things
that works for you,

pouting, complaining
to your parents.

All of a sudden, you're 28

and none of those
things work anymore.

And if you don't go through
the proper process

of growing out of 'em,

you become this
spoiled brat reality star.

If you don't grow up,
this thing's gonna fall apart.

- Syleena and Kiwane,
stand up.

Syleena,
you're motivated by fear.

- I've just been really fighting

to keep us
stable financially.

- You recognize the problem
which is important.

We just need to find out
what you are afraid of.

And, Kiwane, for a man that
supposedly doesn't communicate,

in both divorce court
and dying breath drill,

you were raw and open.

But you also shut down
when we need to find you

the middle ground.

- But if you start shutting down
again in this relationship,

you know where it's gonna go.

- Aviva and Reid?

We suspect that there
is something deeper

about your parenting issues
that we need to discover.

In the divorce court,
neither of you

became passionate until
the children came up.

In the dying breath drill,
Aviva, you reacted

with complete shutdown,
almost emotionally comatose.

- Um, that I think
that you're the most

incredible human being
I've ever met.

- And you know what?

Reid met you
in almost the same place.

From that point,
he was all in his head.

There is something
deeper here.

- Tyson and Rachel,
stand up.

- Okay, so in
divorce court today,

Tyson, you said
two horrible things.

- I can never love her
more than she loves me.

But she has always
been willing to compromise

or even just go with the flow.

- The only thing worse
than that is

that you're probably right.

- It wasn't that I'm holding
back love from her

and she's giving
me everything.

It was the type of person
she is is this much love

and the type of person I am,
this is all of my love.

- You've been holding
back your love for so long

by being shut down.

It's just a matter of
letting that sucker out.

And, Rachel, your entire life
revolves around Tyson

and you've lost yourself.

Tyson, the winner
in the Boot Camp

is not
the last man standing.

It's the man that can learn
to love with his heart

and his mind and his spirit.

- For me, the Marriage
Boot Camp is harder

than I expected it to be.

I thought I was just
gonna come in here.

And everybody's like, whoa,
you are so totally perfect.

- Of course you
would think that.

- Every problem you all
brought up,

everything we've seen,
is very common

in the Marriage Boot Camp.

The rest of Boot Camp
gets harder.

- When Jim says that,
it's the only thing

I do believe out of his mouth

and I'm super excited for it.

- We will see you guys bright
and early in the morning.

- Elizabeth and Jim are
trying to break us down.

They are trying
to dig so deep

that it's probably
going to get ugly.

So I'm just giving everyone
a heads up now

that I can't make any
promises that I'm not going

to act a fool in this house.

- There is no way that she
has more love capacity than...

- Yeah, what does that mean?
- I totally agree.

- What are you talking about?

- No, it's not.

It just keeps
coming out wrong,

so that I look
like an [ bleep ].

- Rachel has no idea.

She's just standing there
like a deer in the headlights.

I don't like that [ bleep ].
I don't like Tyson.

He makes me [ bleep ] sick.

- Why are you saying that I
love you more than you love me?

- We love each other different.
- Why are you saying that?

- I got a few friends
I could call

and they'd be here
in a minute

and they'd marry
Rachel on the spot.

- I think that he's [ bleep ]
manipulative as [ bleep ].

He's disgusting.
I don't like him.

- He's being a boyfriend.

- A boyfriend, yeah,
exactly the problem.

- He's being a boyfriend.

- Next on
Marriage Boot Camp
Reality Stars...

- Who are you?

- You don't want
this [ bleep ] tornado!

- Who [ bleep ] knows
what you're doing

at 5:00 in the morning
running around the streets?

- Natalie, I shot you.
- What?

Bitch, we're supposed
to be on the same team!

- Let me do an
exercise, Rachel!

Let Natalie let you know
how I feel!

Here's my exercise.