All language subtitles for S01E08.Proposal.or.Disposal.eng

If you're not going
to give this 100%,

we should leave
'cause I can't do
this anymore.

This is so unhealthy
for both of us.

- That's the way I feel.
- Tanisha:
Shut up.

I'll let you speak.
You have every right--

- Shut the [ bleep ] up.
Shut up.
- You get mad.

Back the [ bleep ] up!
Shut up!

I will punch you
in the face.

Call 911.
I'm having a heart attack.

[ siren chirps ]

Narrator:
And on this episode,
the final conclusion.

Today we are going
to tackle truth.

So it's time
to be honest.

Elizabeth:
Do you really want
to get married?

Have you been faithful
to Traci?

Jim:
Are you still sleeping
with your ex?

Oh, the truth
[ bleep ] hurts,
[ bleep ].

Make a decision on whether
to stay with this person
or move on.

I'm really just 50-50
right now.

I know I have to do
what's right for me.

I love you, but...

Are you guys not
gonna be together?

Man:
I want to let her go.

I'm just so confused.

Jim:
Open your ring boxes.

Narrator:
Five famous couples

-
face a whole new reality.
- Want to hit me?

They must fight to save
their failing relationships,

or decide whether
to call it quits.

Gretchen:
I might love him
more than he loves me.

Jenni:
I don't want to know what
it's like to be without you.

- Kevin:
You degrade me.
- Traci:
You treat me
like a child.

Ryan:
You make me feel like
I'm not a priority.

Tanisha:
Stand up and be a man.

Narrator:
When reality comes
crashing down...

- [ bleep ] this place.
-
...Jim and Elizabeth Carroll

are their last chance.

This is "Marriage Boot Camp:
Reality Stars."

[ siren chirps ]

Here they come.
They're here.

Well, I heard
Tanisha scream.
What happened?

They had to call
an ambulance.

She felt like she was
having some chest pains.

Some tightness in her chest.

That stressed her out, too.

I talked to her for a while
until the paramedics came.

She hadn't eaten
or drank a lot.

She was totally dehydrated.

She started getting
some, you know,

chest pains which probably
added to her anxiety.

- Glad you were
there for her.
- Yeah.

- Just talked to her.
- That's big.

Yeah.

Oh, my God.

Tanisha:
Clive cooked me breakfast
this morning.

I feel really great
and it was really nice.
It was really nice of him.

Clive:
I was really just trying
to get some that night.

In the morning?

Yeah, that night
because, you know--

you know, you would probably
give me that in the nighttime.

'Cause you'd think
in your head, like,

"Damn, this guy made me
some breakfast.

Well, I'm gonna give him
some in the nighttime."

So I was trying
to get me some.

Why are you always thinking
about having sex?

What is wrong with you?

Jim:
Attention, all couples
to the Boot Camp room now.

Jenni:
Honestly, what else could there
possibly [ bleep ] me?

Like, seriously,
just bring it on, punch me in
my face and get it over with.

Yeah, it's
the most draining--

I'm emotionally [ bleep ]
right now.

I'm like [ bleep ]
emotionally [ bleep ].

Jim:
First off, Tanisha, we are
so glad to have you back

and we are glad
you're okay.

Today, we are going
to tackle

one of the most
important foundations
to every relationship--

truth.

If you leave this house
and you have been deceptive,

that could
compromise everything

you've been trying to earn
while you're here.

So it's time
to be honest.

One couple at a time,
Jim and I will take you
into the next room

and introduce you to our
polygraph expert John Grogan.

He will hook you up
to a polygraph machine.

Jim:
We're gonna have you write
down yes and no questions

that you want
to ask your spouse

and you want
to know the truth,

I literally think Roger
just [ bleep ] his pants.

Roger:
Bring it on.
Not worried about a thing.

But Jenni on the other hand,
oh, yeah.

I'm gonna enjoy this.
I am definitely gonna enjoy

- seeing you
in the hot seat.
- Shh.

John is the real deal.
If you try to pull one
over on him,

he's gonna expose you.

Oh, [ bleep ].

So think long and hard,

because if Elizabeth and I

think that you're not asking
tough questions, we will.

Elizabeth:
Now that the couples
are coming into

the homestretch
of the boot camp,

this is their last chance

to lay everything
out on the line,

to make sure that the decision
that they make,

whether to stay
together or not,

is fully informed.

Jim:
This is essentially
your final test

to see if they're hiding
stuff from each other

and how are they going to handle
it when the truth is exposed.

Jim:
Okay, and one couple
at a time,

we are gonna take you
guys into the other room.

First couple up
is Traci and Kevin.

I have some
unanswered questions
that I need to ask him.

Let's see if he's
gonna speak the truth.

Come on in, guys.

- This is what we're here for.
- Bring it on.

Elizabeth:
I want to introduce you
to John Grogan,

a polygraph expert.

Jim:
You try to beat him,
you'll get busted.

So tell the truth.

Answer only yes or no
during the test.

No head movements.
If you move it can affect

your score in a bad way.
Arms up.

Elizabeth:
A polygraph test measures
a person's respiratory rate,

their sweat gland activity,
and their blood pressure

to see if what they're
answering is honest.

Jim:
So we'll be asking you
Kevin's questions.

Are you really able
to believe in me?

Yes.

Will you really
be faithful to me?

Yes.

Do you still resent Kevin
for cheating?

Yes.

And now Traci's questions.

Did you ever want
to leave Traci?

No.

Have you been faithful
to Traci in recent months?

No.

Jim:
Traci, do you have
any follow-up questions?

Traci?

No.

Infidelity is an issue

that has plagued
their relationship for years.

And hopefully
by getting the truth out
in the open today,

they can leave
the past in the past
and move forward.

So you cheated
in the recent months?

No. I thought that was
a trick question.

No, not recent months.

I thought that was meaning,
like, have I cheated on you--

[ mumbles ]

No, that's not--

You say yes,

it's like my stomach
and everything just dropped.

I look at the lie detector test
as a blessing in disguise

because, honestly,
I've been waiting to prove
to Roger

my honesty and this is
a perfect way to do it.

I am the lie detector
in this room.

- All right.
- That machine is not.

- I am a human lie detector.
That's right.
- All right.

Roger would like to know
would you marry me

in a private,
non-publicized ceremony?

Yes.

Will you respect my opinion

to keep certain things
in our life private?

Yes.

Are you holding
any secrets from Roger?

No.

When you have children,

are you planning
on broadcasting their
lives on TV?

Yes.

Roger, do you have
any follow-up questions?

All right.
Let's switch it over to Roger.

Elizabeth:
Roger, Jenni wants to know

do you really want
to get married?

- Yes.
- Do you want Jenni
to quit TV?

No.

Are you ever going
to 100% trust Jenni?

Yes.

Do you currently
trust Jenni?

Jenni:
Roger says I still need
to earn his trust,

but what if I don't
earn his trust back?

Then what?
Then what'll happen
in our relationship?

You have it in your power
to earn my trust back.

It's simple.

Do you have any
follow-up questions, Jenni?

No, I think
they were [ bleep ] great.

Narrator:
Coming up on "Marriage
Boot Camp: Reality Stars..."

Jim:
Are you still sleeping
with your ex?

Oh, the truth [ bleep ] hurts,
[ bleep ].

No, I don't even want
no cameras around.

Tanisha:
Ain't this about a bitch?

- Y'all are up.
- Okay, let's do this.

The foundation
of a successful marriage

is honesty and openness.

All right, come on in.

Today we're gonna put
them to the test

and see if they can
handle their own truths.

Elizabeth:
Slade, Gretchen wants to know

do you really want to start
a family with Gretchen?

Yes.

Are you determined
to find a job outside
of our business together?

Yes.

Are you okay with being
a stay-at-home dad?

Yes.

Jim:
We'll switch it over.

Slade wants to know
do you trust me

to be the leader
in our relationship?

Yes.

Are you resentful
that Slade is not actively
working on his career?

Yes.

If Slade refuses to have
children with you,

will you still marry him?

No.

Jim:
Okay, guys, we'll get results
back to you in a bit.

It was less about whether you
were gonna tell the truth

and more about I wonder
what I'm going to have to
tell the truth about.

- Let's start with Trista.
- Okay.

Trista, do you want
more kids?

No.

Is Ryan the one you want
to spend your life with?

Yes.

Do you wish Ryan had chosen
another profession?

No.

Okay, move 'em over.

Ryan, Trista wants to know

can you truly say that you
won't hold me accountable

for your ex's betrayal
any longer?

Yes.

Have you every wished
you had married someone else?

No.

Do you have any secrets
that you're hiding from Trista?

Whoa.

Um...

I don't think so.
No.

Thank you. We will find out
your results in a bit.

We ask that you answer
just a simple yes or no

without a nod.

I could only imagine
the questions

that Clive has asked
for me to answer.

Clive wants to know
will you be with me

after I work on myself?

Yes.

Are you still sleeping
with your ex?

No.

Did you cheat on me
in 2011?

Yes.

Who did I sleep with?
You told these people
I slept with somebody?

Stop the [ bleep ]
cameras.

Stop it.
I'll break every
[ bleep ] camera.

You know what?
[ bleep ] this [ bleep ].

Clive, do you have any
follow-up questions?

No.

Clive:
Out of all the questions,
the most important one

was did she sleep around
in 2011,

the year we actually
got married.

First of all,
that wasn't the question
you asked.

You asked did I cheat on you
in the year 2011.

You didn't say
did I sleep around.
You said did I cheat.

It's the same [ bleep ].
It's the same thing.

All right, okay.
I guess you're right.

Elizabeth:
Clive, Tanisha wants to know

have you ever cheated
while you were together?

No.

Are you seeing
someone else?

- No.
- Whoo.

Tanisha, do you have
a follow-up question?

Yes.

Are you talking to someone
else right now?

Yes.

Black people call it
talking, not seeing.

He really does not
give a damn about me.

- I don't want
to talk to you.
- Huh?

I don't want to talk to you.
Do not talk to me.

Why are you really here?
Do you even love me?

Clive, you know what?
You're full of [ bleep ].

I'm full of [ bleep ]?
I don't have nothing to say.

'Cause you proved you don't
want to fix [ bleep ].

You mad
'cause you got caught.
Go have a seat.

What are you here for?

I was here to come
fix the marriage.

What the [ bleep ]
you think I'm here for?

- Bull[ bleep ].
- Why the [ bleep ]
did I dress you?

Why the [ bleep ] did I get
everything ready?

Why the [ bleep ]
did I make sure you had
a hearing aid?

I feel like Clive
is attacking me because--

because he got called out.

Oh, the truth [ bleep ]
hurts, [ bleep ].

The truth hurts.

No, I don't want
no cameras around.

No. No, I don't want no
cameras around me right now.

Ain't this about a bitch?

You see this [ bleep ]?
She's making it turn into
a whole big story.

"Oh, you don't love me."

I had no idea
that he was still talking
to somebody.

This is bull[ bleep ], man!

Let's go talk to Tanisha.

All I [ bleep ] do
is try to help your ass

with all this
bull[ bleep ]

and all I ever do
is get [ bleep ] over.

That's it.

I knew whether it was
going to be him or me,

somebody was gonna blow
and it just happened
to be Clive.

My bad.

This is really sad.

Jim:
Attention, all couples
to the Boot Camp room now.

Now that you've gone through
the polygraph exam,

it's time to see
the results.

The first couple
will be Trista and Ryan.

Will y'all stand up?

You guys got truthful
all the way through--

every single question.

And you guys asked
some tough questions.

No offence, Trista and Ryan,
you guys are boring.

You're too perfect.

- Thank you.
- Thank you, guys.
Who's next?

Traci and Kevin.

A troubling answer came up
when you said, "Yes,

I have been unfaithful in
my marriage in the recent past."

I misunderstood the question.

No, no, no, no,
no, no, no, no.

What was the question again?

Have you been unfaithful

to Traci in recent months?
And you said yes.

When he said yes,
I wanted to punch him
in his face.

Mmm.

That would be something
you guys need to talk about.

Jim:
Gretchen and Slade,
stand up.

Slade, you showed deception

when we asked you
would you be okay with being
a stay-at-home dad.

Gretchen, you showed signs
of deception on one question.

Do you know what
that question is?

Maybe the thing about
him being a leader?

That is the question that came
up with deception detected.

I trust that he wants
to be the leader,

but do I trust that he is
going to be the leader?

I haven't seen that yet,
so until I see it, I don't
think I can trust that yet.

Okay, you guys,
please sit down.

Jenni and Roger.

Jenni, you showed signs of
deception on one question.

Do you know what
that question is?

Um, the secrets one.

Yes, I was hiding stuff.

'Cause with work
or whatever it is,

even if it has nothing
to do with Roger,

I don't feel like it's necessary
to bring it to the table.

Roger, how do you
feel about that?

I just think that was
really not surprising,

'cause that was my biggest
issue coming here.

It's something you need
to think about tonight.

Okay, y'all can sit down.

Tanisha and Clive,
stand up.

So deception was detected
when you were asked

are you still sleeping
with you ex.

That's a [ bleep ] lie.
I haven't [ bleep ] my ex

since the beginning
of this [ bleep ] year.

Call him if you want.

So, Clive...

you passed
with a perfect score,

but you answered some
pretty tough questions.

Jim:
And a few other things
that were pretty hard

for Tanisha to hear.

Including having
a relationship with
someone else.

This is our relationship
off-camera as well.

Off-camera it's up and down
just like a roller-coaster

that you probably
do not want to get on

because it just keeps
stopping and starting
and stopping and starting.

It's just--
it's really crazy.

So that gives y'all extra
things to think about.

Now that the lie detector

has forced everything
into the open,

we're gonna see how these
couples handle themselves

with these new truths
in the final exercise--
the hall pass.

Elizabeth:
We're giving them some time
away from each other

to give this decision
some very serious thought.

Elizabeth:
Tonight you're getting
a hall pass.

Girls, you're going
to one place,

guys, you'll be going
to another.

Women, you'll be sleeping
in Trista's room tonight.

Men, you'll be sleeping
in Clive's room tonight.

Take the time to think about
what you really want to do

without the influence
of your spouse.

Jim:
Use tonight to make
the decision

that's gonna impact
you and your family for
the rest of your lives.

Be smart.

And we'll see you guys
back here tomorrow.

Narrator:
Coming up on "Marriage Boot
Camp: Reality Stars..."

- Tanisha:
Clive, behave yourself.
- Who, me?

Do not come back
in here sick.

Honey, we're gonna
turn it up.

I saw Clive turn up
and almost die.

Clive, I'm gonna
get you something, dude.

Elizabeth:
By giving the couples
a hall pass

and separating them
for the night,

we're giving them an opportunity
to really reflect

on this decision that
they're having to make,

and to blow off
a little steam,

because tomorrow
they're making a very,
very difficult choice.

This isn't
too much, is it?

I think we should
just stay home.

Yes, honey.

Tanisha:
Clive, behave yourself.

- Clive:
Who, me?
-
Yes, you.

I always behave myself.

What Clive doesn't know is
that tonight is a true test.

Do not come back
in here sick.

Go out, have a good time,
but be careful.

- Clive, behave yourself.
- I'll try.

I still, in the back of my mind,
have a major decision to make

and I don't know which way
I'm going to go with it.

We're about to turn up
this bitch.

Turn up!

After that whole lie detector
thing happened,

I'm not worried
about Tanisha at all.

I'm tired of this [ bleep ].

And right now, all I want
to do is just go to the club
and have fun.

Let's go, girls.
Whoo, whoo!

Whoop it up.
Whoop it up.

Slade and I came into
this Marriage Boot Camp

with some pretty hard-hitting,
deep issues

that him and I needed
to address.

So I definitely need
tonight to truly make sure

that this is the man
I want to be walking
down the aisle with

and that I'm 100% on-board

for happily ever after
with Slade.

Clive:
I haven't been out
in a long time.

Roger:
It's cool that we can have
a guys' night out

and have a little
male bonding.

And I just want to thank
each and every one of you.

That's what's up.

I don't really want
to be a bachelor,

but since we're gonna party,
pop some bottles,

I'm gonna do it.
I'm gonna do it well.

All right, bitches,
let's do this.

Boot Camp is seriously
emotionally and physically
draining me.

And to be honest,
I really need this night out

with the girls to get,
like, recharged.

[ music playing ]

I definitely think
at this point it's probably
past Trista's bed time.

She probably normally
in bed at about 8:00
with the kids.

Cheers!

When I go out to party,
I'm always in the center
of attention.

Girls coming around
trying to dance with me.

I'm not thinking about
Tanisha at all right now.

Clive instantaneously went
from just normal old Clive

to 18-year-old
first time drinking
kind of problems.

Kevin:
I hope Traci
is up in the club,

like, you know,
sitting in the corner

reading the Bible

showing her godly side
and not that flesh.

Turn it up, Traci!
Turn it up, Traci!

Turn it up, Traci!

I'm not even worried
about Kevin tonight.

I'm just worrying
about myself.

Go, go, go!

Go, go, go!

What? You hanging
with a bad girl.

What do you
think was gonna happen?

I'm the godmother
of bad girls.

When I was in
Jenni's cleavage,

I guess you're supposed
to go, "Bbbbb."

I don't know.
I don't even know.

I don't know.

I was trying
to get my drink on
and I did.

I don't remember [ bleep ]
that happened after that.

[ glass shatters ]

Okay, we're out.

Ryan:
For that brief moment,
he had a great time.

I'm not mad at Clive
but I have a feeling he's
gonna be paying for this.

Why the [ bleep ] did you
make me motorboat her?

Tanisha,
I'm pissed at you.

Clive: Ho, ho.
Tell him to pull--
tell him to pull--

Tell him to pull over!
Pull over!

Kevin:
This way, this way, this way.

I got you.
There you go. My man.

Clive:
[ bleep ] Give me a rag.
Give me a rag.

Give me a rag.
Give me a rag.

I feel really bad
for Clive.

I think Tanisha is going
to wreck this guy.

- Are the boys here?
- No.

Would you get Clive?

I need to take
a [ bleep ] shower.

Come on, bro.

Step it up!

One, two, three.
We did it.

Good, good, good.

Since we've been
in this house,

Tanisha has been using
the term "turnt up".

I'm a white boy from Maine.
I don't know what
"turnt up" is.

But I can honestly say
now I've seen turnt up a lot.

Here, buddy. Ready?

I saw Clive turnt up

and I saw him fall down
and almost die

because he was so drunk
at the club.

I think now I can finally say
I know what turnt up is...

other than a vegetable.

Clive, I'm going to
get you something, dude.

- Clive, are you okay?
- What's going on?

Can you drink water
if I get it for you, Clive?

- Is he talking?
- No.

He's not talking.
Oh, God, I'm tired.

Tanisha:
I'm tired, I've danced
the night away,

and it's like the frame
of the crime scene
with the chalk.

He just looks dead.

All right, honey.

I know you need to lay
down right now.

You're laying down.
Just relax, okay?

I am honestly pissed off

that he went outside
and got this drunk

knowing that we have
a major decision to make.

This just may change my mind
about everything.

I can't believe
he got that turnt up.

He gets that turnt up!

Good night, John Boy.

Good night, Mary Ellen.

Good night, Taylor Bob.

Aw, man, I'm tipsy as hell.

I had a good old time.

You okay?

Damn. I drank
so much last night.

I don't remember nothing
that happened.

Drink that and lay there.

I got messed up

and I wasn't really
supposed to.

I know I got a big
decision tonight to make,

but, hey,
[ bleep ] happens.

[ muttering ]

Jim:
Attention.

All couples
to the boot camp room now.

[ muttering ]

As you know,
this is the final day
to boot camp.

It's been a very rough,
tough, tumultuous journey.

But the trip isn't over
just yet.

We're going to take
your rings back.

And later we will be returning
your ring to your spouse.

[ bleep ] you [ bleep ].

This is mine.

Nobody's taking
this [ bleep ].

I don't care if I'm dead.

They're not removing this
from my finger.

Elizabeth:
Tonight there will be
a final ceremony,

where you will have to make
a very important decision--

Do you want to save
your relationship

or are you better off apart?

Announcer:
Coming up on "Marriage Boot
Camp: Reality Stars..."

It's all the crap
you don't want.

What are you going to
do about that?

Honestly, Jim,
I'm undecided.

I'm really just 50-50
right now.

I want to let her go.

Roger:
We take every opportunity
we can around here to eat,

and I see some fruit
laying there.

So I think here's
the perfect opportunity

to make something to eat
for my very dear friend Ryan.

I made him
a little fruit salad...

Jenni:
Looked like a penis.

...with a twist.

Later, Slade shows up,

he was Mr. French Bread Penis.

They're saying
that's you, babe.

Moments later,
I show up with a penis.

Mine is pretty small.

It's a little
jalapeno pepper.

I don't know what
that says about me.

Elizabeth:
Tonight there will be
a final ceremony

where you will have to make
a very important decision.

Do you want to save
your relationship?

or are you better off apart?

If you make a decision
to stay in the relationship
with your partner,

tonight you'll re-present
the ring to them.

If not, you'll leave
the ring box empty.

So Ilsa and Bobby,
if you could come down

and hand out
the ring boxes?

Kevin:
I don't ever take mine off,

so I wasn't feeling it
at all.

At all.

Having a real hard time
letting you take this
right now.

Before we send you
on your way

to think about
your decision,

let's take a look
at the progress

you've made in your
relationships at this point.

Traci and Kevin...

You came to boot camp

with trust
and infidelity issues,

but you guys made
some really big strides.

Traci:
I can't shut you out.

I have to tell you everything
that's on my heart.

Thank you.

Elizabeth:
Things were on the way up,
but then...

a question mark arose
in your relationship

during the lie detector test.

Whether there was infidelity
three months ago,

ten years ago, whenever,

that's the challenge
for you guys.

Are you going to be willing

to take whatever
is in your past,

one at a time,
and get rid of them?

Or are you going to
let this stuff continue

to fester and poison
your marriage?

Jim:
All right, you can sit down.

Trista and Ryan.

So you guys came
to the marriage boot camp

rating your marriage
as a 9 or a 10.

Along the way,
you guys discovered

that there were some other
things you wanted to work on.

Step up in front of the door
that you choose.

Let's walk back around there

and we'll figure out
what happened, okay?

I don't know why
he would be here,

if he didn't want to change.

Are you guys
going to continue to
work hard to grow?

'Cause if you don't,
you'll be America's favorite
perfect couple

that's unhappy.

Tanisha and Clive.

Tanisha, we've seen
incredible growth in you,

calming and taking that
down and notch and everything.

- That's it.
- Clive, don't lie.

I really need this.
So go.

Yesterday, Tanisha,

it was revealed that you have
romantic feelings

for somebody else.

Clive, you've stepped up.

You've blossomed.

You became an open,
loving man.

All the mean things
you ever said to me,

I always do forgive you.

I honestly
don't want to lose you.

You two really
love each other.

But the question is,

do you have the kind of love
that will sustain a marriage

through the short term
and the long term?

Jenni and Roger,

you came here
with many issues.

Elizabeth:
But your number one
issue has been

how much of your private life

are you willing to play out
in the public arena?

Because of my commitment
to being in front
of these cameras

and to air my life out,

will you give me a break
in the future

on not having to do this
anymore?

No.

Until you guys are able
to find a balance,

you guys are going to
struggle here.

You're going to have to
make a decision.

What is the balance
for the both of you?

Jim:
Thank you.

Gretchen and Slade.

When you first came in,

we saw your constant
need for approval

and justification
for your relationship.

Elizabeth:
Once you guys did
the hard work

of really digging down
into the core issues,

we started to see
a different Gretchen and Slade.

Jim:
What do you need to forgive
yourself for?

For making bad decisions

and now it's hurting
my relationship.

Jim:
You've chosen to
heal yourself.

However, you have two
serious issues.

Gretchen wants babies,
and also,

are you going to step up
and be the man

that gets the job,

that gives her the security
that she wants?

Elizabeth:
Because if not,

Gretchen will hold
resentment against you

and that will poison
your relationship.

Okay. We will leave you now

to get ready for the big
ceremony tonight.

While you're all
getting ready,

we'll be pulling you
each individually

for your last one on ones
before the final ceremony.

We'll see you tonight.

You're upset with him still?

It's just that
lie detector thing.

I just can't get it
out of my head

that you said you didn't
understand the question.

I took Traci
through a lot.

It's just stirring up
feelings, emotions.

That's all. I'm good.

Do you trust him?
Do you trust his word?

I trust his word,
but it just hurts.

It just hurt.

Elizabeth:
Hi, ladies.

Hi, gorgeous girls.

You guys look amazing.

Okay, we're going to start
with Traci.

Jim:
All right, Kevin, come on.

Where's your heart,
where's your mind,

regarding
the final ceremony?

- Hurt.
- Yeah.

Real hurt.

What do you still need
to work on?

Kevin:
Having trust in Traci.

I think a lot of it's me.

The infidelity--
I brought that into
my marriage.

That was the one thing
that really damaged us.

I'm not looking for someone
to give me the answer,

because I have to do it
on my own.

I just have to go
with my heart.

Neither one of you
needs to condone

what the other person did.

I'm going to give you
the ring back.

Okay.

As counselors,
we try to help you discover
what you want,

and I think that you and Kevin

are going to have to
use the tools you have
to do that work.

Yes.

- Ryan, let's go.
- Let's do it.

Trista:
I worry about his
insecurities

in our relationship.

I worry that it will fester
and cause problems.

If I don't get over
the insecurities,

that would be detrimental.

If I were her,
I wouldn't continue

to take that kind of stuff.

I'm not sure.
Should I pressure him
to do the ceremony

or should I put him first?

I see how you guys
really fit together.

I just pray you guys bring
that institution together

like you want to.

Jenni:
It's just another thing
that's like...

Woman:
You feel like you're
almost pushing him--

I'm pushing.

Roger:
Oh, [ bleep ].

So, Roger, let's do it.

All right, let's go.

I don't know if I should
just not show up.

Elizabeth:
Miss Jenni,

I wondered
if we could touch base

and make sure that
everything's cool

as we go into
this next part.

We're going to do
a ceremony.

It's going to be on TV.

It's all the crap
you don't want.

I know.

What are you going to do
about that?

Honestly, Jim,
I'm undecided.

I'm totally cool and confident
and okay with this.

On the other side,

I feel guilty for putting
Roger second

and putting
my career first

and making him do something

I know he probably
doesn't want to do.

I'm really just 50-50
right now.

I'm just drawn.

Elizabeth:
With a baby on the way,

this is an even tougher
decision for you.

Yeah.

She said she was still being
deceptive toward you.

- Right.
- And we don't know
what that means.

Exactly.

We're going to let you
sit with your thoughts.

Thank you.
Thank you, thank you.

Tanisha:
Clive loved me,

and he's known me before
the world knew Tanisha.

We met at 18,

and I feel like
he's still in that

"I'm going to depend
on Tanisha,

I'm going to depend on-- "

It's hard for me.

Yeah. Well, of course,

because you want
to progress in life.

Right.

Jim:
If you put the ring
in the box,

it means you want
to stay together.

I see a difference
in Clive.

Yes, and a difference
in how we interact.

Yes.

If there's no ring
in the box,

it means you want to go
your separate ways.

But you still have deep issues
in your relationship.

The time that we spent apart,
I'm afraid,

has probably done
more harm than good.

You know what
you're going to do?

I don't know.
I don't think--

I'm confused right now

because I don't want
to be with nobody

that I know is
going to go around

and sleep with an ex.

But I really do love her
and want to be with her.

I just don't want to make
the wrong decision.

Oh, my God,
I'm taking pictures.

Oh, yeah.
Totally.

Time's up.
Slade, you're up. Let's go.

Elizabeth:
All right, Miss Gretchen.

I'm drinking a beer.
That means I'm very stressed.

Are you stressed?

I am a little stressed.

We went through a lot here,

and I feel like
I know the direction
I definitely want to go,

I just-- sometimes
I second guess myself.

Oh, gosh.
Well, let's talk about that.

Can you be the man
that Gretchen wants you to be?

You still got a lot of things
to think about.

Can you do that?

I don't want to be 80
and look back and say

I wish I had children.

I don't want to look back
and be 80 and say

I wasn't with the man

that I feel like
I deserve to be with.

If he doesn't focus on
being the leader
in this relationship,

than I would need to tell him

that the relationship
is over.

Slade:
Part of my does get afraid,

that what if I can't
give her what she wants?

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Elizabeth:
You will have to make
a very important decision.

I know I have to do
what's right for me.

I love you, but...

Jim:
One, two, three...

Slade:
Waiting to walk out
and face Gretchen,

I don't remember
feeling this nervous

in probably 20 years.

Gretchen:
I really want him
to take into effect

what it is that I said.

Him and I have been through

more than two people
should have to go through

in a relationship.

I'm truly just overwhelmed.

Jim:
At one point,
you got engaged

and you decided you wanted
to spend the rest of your life
with this person.

But the question now is
have you grown together
during this boot camp?

Or have you been
growing apart?

Elizabeth:
On the first day
of the marriage boot camp,

we made a promise to you.

We assured you
that when you left here,

you would know that
the person standing
in front of you

is the person that you
are meant to spend

the rest of your life with.

Gretchen,
would you like to
share your heart?

This was hard.

I don't think I ever
imagined facing
what we faced here.

I want to have a family.

I want to grow old together.

And I--
I just want to make sure

that you're that person
that's going to make those
things happen for me.

Slade, do you have any words
you would like to share?

I had a lot
to think about today.

I was having some
challenges

between my heart
and my head,

and what I need to do
became clear.

Please open your ring box.

[ Gretchen sniffles ]

Don't cry.

There's some things
I need to tell you.

Part of the lessons
I've learned in being here
at this camp...

was that I have to take the time
to heal myself.

You and I both know
that we wouldn't survive.

The man that
you proposed to is dead

because the man
that I am now

is ready to take control.

That's why I'm doing this.

Gretchen, I want you
to be my wife.

I want you to be
the mother of my children.

I'm asking you
to please reconsider
marrying me.

Of course, of course!
Of course, of course!

I love you.

Oh.

Gretchen:
When Slade got down
on one knee

and proposed to me,

my heart just fluttered
and did backflips.

It really kind of
blew my mind.

I think it was important
that you know

how much you mean to me
and how much I love you.

Well, you definitely
showed that,

although you pissed me off
on the journey to get there.

You just proposed to me.

I know.

Ryan:
I'm pretty sure Trista
will have my ring in her box,

but you never know
with her.

Having gone through all
of that emotional turbulence,

it was tough for us.

Trista:
I walk outside
and I get butterflies.

When we got engaged
and when we got married

there were cameras around.

So it brought back
a lot of very, very happy
memories for me.

Jim:
You have both experience
incredible growth.

The question is,
have your grown together

or have you grown apart?

Trista, do you have
any last words?

I have loved your
for 11 years

and I know I'm going to love you
for the rest of my life

in a deeper way
than I ever have before
because of boot camp.

I just want you to know
how much I love you

and how much I always will.

And, Ryan, do you have
any last words for Trista?

Ryan:
I realize that
we aren't perfect.

I'm certainly not perfect,

and that our relationship
does have issues.

And for the first time
in the ten years

that we've been married,

I was legitimately scared.

Jim:
Please open your ring boxes.

I was scared because
I always thought that
I was strong,

I always thought
that I could persevere
through anything.

What I didn't perhaps realize

was that when I was faltering,

that it was you
that was keeping
me elevated.

And when I was successful,

it was your shoulders
that I was standing on.

Would you please
place the ring back
where it belongs?

I love you.
Ha ha ha.

You finally beat her.

You have made me realize
just how lucky I am

to be your husband,
and thank you for that.

- I love you.
- I love you, too.

Tanisha, this is so hard,
you know?

I know.

And the choice
that I'm thinking I'll make,

I'm glad this experience
opened his eyes

with a lot of stuff.

Kevin:
Standing here waiting
takes me back to our wedding

where she made me wait
for 2 1/2 hours.

I'm feeling the same
as I was feeling then.

It's overwhelming.

Jim:
17 years ago...

you decided you wanted
to spend the rest of your life
with this person.

And then you hit
a lot of roadblocks

which made you question
that decision.

You both experienced
incredible growth.

Traci, do you have
any last words?

17 years ago I said
I'm going to spend the rest
of my life with you.

You're my best friend.

I know I have to do
what's right for me.

Kevin...

We've been through
a lot of rough times

throughout these years.

I brought stuff to you
that should really hurt you.

I know I feel like
second-best sometimes.

I chose that door,
and it made sense to me.

You guys hold your boxes
out in front of you.

On the count of three,
I want you to open your boxes.

One, two, three.

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Jim:
Is there anything that
you would like to share?

I love you, though.

Jim:
Put your ring boxes
out in front of you.

Okay.

Jim:
Please open your ring boxes.

Kevin:
I look at our future
and I say,

"Am I blocking her?

"Am I there for her?"

And I tell myself,
you got to understand her.

So the future is yours.

Ooh.

[ sighs ]

I know that you are my life.

That other ring
is the past.

This is our future.

Traci:
You have a new ring for me?

I can't live without you.

Ha ha.
Got you, Traci.

Think you know everything.

Got this ring on
our anniversary.

I was just waiting for
the right moment
to give it to you.

I'm so thankful
for this boot camp.

You're the best.

- I love you so much.
- I love you, too,
lipstick and all.

- Hey, hey, hey!
- Hi!

Kevin:
I gave her a new ring.

[ gasps ]
Oh, my God, honey!

This is unbelievable!

- Yes!
- Exciting!

Jenni:
In Marriage Boot Camp

we broke down a ton of walls.

I had to really
look into your heart

and you had to
look into mine.

I know one of the biggest things
that bothers you

is pressuring you
to be on TV.

Is it all right if we
no longer do the ceremony

and gracefully bow out?

We came here for a reason.

You convinced me
to come here

because this was going to be
a good thing for us.

Clive:
For these eight years,

I've done so much
for Tanisha.

I've been the most supportive
person for her

and her career.

I'm not sure if I'm making
the right decision or not.

Tanisha:
I started to see
a change in Clive.

I started to see him
talk more.

I saw him get
his confidence back.

He came alive
at Marriage Boot Camp.

It's hard to see the guy
that I initially
fell in love with.

Jim:
This is a big decision.

Is love enough?

That would be the question.

Clive, is there anything

that you would like
to share with Tanisha?

Just wanted to let you know
that, you know,

I love you, though.

If we got married in 2011,

and you cheated
that same year we got married,

you know...

Jim:
Tanisha, what words would
you like to share with Clive?

Wow, um...

I know what
I want to do,

but I have to do
what I need to do,

and I'm just so confused.

I don't know if I'm ever
going to find

anybody to love me
the way you love me.

Jim:
Put your ring boxes
out in front of you.

Okay.

Jim:
Go ahead.

Clive:
I wish I could just
keep being around you,

we could be friends,
lovers,

and everything like that.

But, um,
I just have to focus
more on myself.

I've never respected you
in a long time,

but I have to honestly say
I respect your decision.

It's the first time
that you actually stepped
up to the plate.

I love you,

but I'm done.

Oh, God.

I am in shock.

I feel weak.

I've always wanted Clive
to step up to the plate.

I always wanted him
to get his stuff together.

Why did it take
coming all the way
to California,

to the west coast,
to Jim and Elizabeth,

for you to realize
that you need to fix you?

Clive:
I guess I'm a single person
right now.

[ sighs ]

We both had empty boxes.

I'm good.

One to go.

Jenni:
You want to stay or
you want to go?

I put you in these positions.

I make you go
on these shows.

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Are you guys
not going to be together?

One to go.

Jenni:
You want to stay
or you want to go?

I put you in these positions.

I make you go
on these shows.

Even though you put
your foot down,

I still drag you along.

Roger:
Today is ceremony day,

and Jenni has just
expressed to me

that she doesn't
want to do it.

I have to say,
I'm surprised,

but there's probably
some ulterior motive there

that I'm not aware of.

Are you giving 100%
by backing out
of the ceremony?

I'm giving 100% to you

and what you want
out of our relationship.

I would do the ceremony,

and I'm dressed and willing

- and ready to go down there.
- [ knock on door ]

Jenni:
Come in.

- Hello.
- Hey.

Hey, guys.
There some kind of
problem going on?

We're kind of waiting
outside for you guys
for awhile.

As I was trying
to explain to Roger,

I would not like
to go through
with the ceremony.

Are you guys
not going to be together?

It has nothing to do
with our relationship.

It actually has to do with
what I'm learning at boot camp

and what I've learned.

I never really put
Roger's needs and wants first.

I want to have our kids

and marriage
and everything on TV.

This is going to be
my first opportunity

not to put our relationship
center stage

where he would love
that to be private.

What to do you want
to do, Roger?

Removing Marriage Boot Camp
from the equation?

Removing all of this
from the equation.

I would not do it on TV, no.

So the only reason
you would do it

is because it's
on Marriage Boot Camp.

Because I already
committed to this,

and I committed
100% before we got here.

It sounds like
she's trying to do
a selfless act

to express her love to you.

How does it feel
for you, Roger,

that she's saying
I'm willing to do this
for you?

It feels good.

You do need
to make a commitment

that you will
continue to grow,

so when that day comes
when you do get married,

you will use the tools
and everything
you've learned here,

so that you have
peace about it.

I want to see heartfelt
committed change

that you really are
considering his needs

and are really ready
to take on the fact

that some things
need to be private,

and that it's real
for you

and not just a symbolic act.

It really has changed us

Jim:
Well, make a commitment
to each other,

and I'm going to let you
off the ceremony.

We're going to celebrate
with everybody else.

- Hell, yeah.
- Okay.

Coming to Marriage Boot Camp,

I definitely though
that we were in
an okay position.

I thought we came
leaps and bounds from
where we once were.

But we didn't realize
who we are now

and the walls that were broken
because of Marriage Boot Camp

and the true needs and wants

that you as my fiancé
truly need from me.

I feel like because
of Marriage Boot Camp,

I completely
understand you more.

And I can go home
and use these tools

to help me be the best
fiancée for you.

I accept that
and I appreciate that

and I love you so much.

I think both of us
have learned so much
from this experience.

I look forward to doing
things in a new way,

having conversations
in a new way

that we've never done before

and figuring things out
the right way

with the tools and the skills
that we learned here
at Marriage Boot Camp.

It took me a few minutes

to understand what
you were trying to do here
by this gesture,

but I truly,
truly appreciate it.

I love you more than ever

and I look forward to
a very bright and happy
future together.

- I love you.
- I love you.

Roger and I needed
to find the balance

between what is private
in our life

and what is public.

What do you guys say
we go down and join the party?

Hell, yeah.

Clive:
What's up?

Girl, you not my friend?

- You want a kissy?
- Relax.

Come on, let me
give you a hug.

I am not your wife anymore.

I'm trying
to give you a hug.

No, you're trying
to get some still,

even though I'm not
your wife.

Tell the truth.

Oh! So you don't want
to sleep with me?

Hello?

Clive:
I'm trying to pack.

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Clive:
Are you made because I didn't
put the ring in the box?

- Hell, yeah, I'm mad!
-
Get over it.

Don't talk to me.

I just want to
[ bleep ] you up.

Tanisha:
You think it's a game?
You think it's a game?

You heart was under
the influence.

Clive:
But--

I don't even know
if you're in the right state
of mind right now.

Clive:
You mad because I didn't
put the ring in the box?

Hell, yeah, I'm mad!

I'm not mad.
I just feel like--

I just--
I don't know.

Something wrong with you.
Get over it.

Don't talk to me.
I don't care no more.

You ain't had no ring
in a box, too, also.

So how you going to try
to get mad at me?

I just want to
[ bleep ] you up.

Jim:
Congratulations.

I hope everything for you guys
turns out great

and you go out and have
the happiest marriages ever.

Elizabeth:
Go out and inspire
other people

to the same growth
and hard work

that you guys
have put in here.

All right,
so let's toast!

Bring on the champagne!

Never thought
I'd see the day

when Clive wasn't
in love with me anymore.

Clive:
My main focus
is to focus on myself

and maybe later on
if it was meant to be,

me and Tanisha will
get back together.

It's all right.

You're going to want some
later, anyway.

No, I'm not.
Not from you.

You broke up with me.

I've given him so many breaks
to get it right,

and he hasn't.

It's over...

and I'm not looking back.

Trista:
You might be
incredibly happy,

insanely happy,

and looking forward
to the future.

But you can always
better yourself,

and there's nothing
wrong with that.

I'm just so proud
to call you friends--

including you guys.

[ muttering ]

We came into
Marriage Boot Camp

rating our marriage
at a 9 and 10.

And I think we're even happier
than when we started.

Gretchen:
I am just so excited
for my life with Slade,

and I think that he's going to
impress the hell out of me.

- Yeah!
- Yeah!

- Oh, yeah!
- So, to babies!
Right, honey!

- Babies! Babies!
- No pressure!

Gretchen:
I'm excited.

I have a lot of visions
of me walking down the aisle

in a big white dress
to you,

and seeing you there
and seeing the man
of my dreams

that I've been waiting for
my whole life

standing at the end
of that aisle.

I can't wait for that.

Just remember,
I'm in charge.

Jenni:
I came in here a skeptic

thinking that
my relationship was perfect.

I realize that it was
far from perfect,

but we're building up
new walls.

And I appreciate it,

and I think I'll appreciate
my relationship so much more.

I'll cheers to that.

Roger:
I think of everything
that I learned here.

I need to let myself
off the hook

and in doing so
I'll let other people
off the hook.

I'll let Jenni
off the hook...

with certain things.

There's always
going to be things

that I'm not going to accept--

I'm a natural pain in the ass.
I get it.

But with everyday living,

it's going to make my life
a lot simpler.

And, no, you can't go back
the just lying all the time.

I would like that.

Traci:
Thank you for having us grow.

Even though we still look
at our down faults

and we feel as though
we can't make it,

I thank you for giving us
those tools

that we can go home
and continue

to evaluate for
the rest of our lives.

Thank you.

I'm in this good place,

and hopefully this love place

will last for another
17 years.

- 17?
- Uh-huh.

We're going to live
longer than that.

I'm just saying
another 17 years,
because, I mean--

I look serious, don't I?

- Really?
- I look serious.

- Thank you!
- Yeah, Jim!

Being the public eye
and having their
relationships scrutinized

will never change
for these boot campers.

But it has been our privilege
to work with them

and to give them the tools
that they can use

to make their
relationships stronger,

healthier, and happier.

We going to get turnt up!
Ahh! Yeah!