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[somber music]
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CAROLA SAYS HÅKAN SOLD HER
AS A SEX SLAVE.
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HE SAYS IT NEVER HAPPENED.
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WHO'S TELLING THE TRUTH?
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THE SEX SLAVE
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[Håkan] First of all, I want
to emphasize that I feel
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compelled to take part in this.
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All the podcasts, all the
magazines, all the TV channels,
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all the media out there
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are always giving her side
of the story.
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And she's very good.
She's eloquent.
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It's hard not to believe her.
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If you see the common thread,
ask the right questions,
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then she won't be able
to be manipulative,
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because then
the truth will come out.
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That's what I'm saying.
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There are recordings,
documentation,
there are witnesses.
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Despite these things,
I'm the culprit.
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[somber music]
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I'm innocent.
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ALL THE SMS & MESSENGER MESSAGES
ARE FROM THE POLICE'S
PRELIMINARY INVESTIGATION.
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Feel free to ask me any
questions you want.
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I don't really have anything
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to hide. I've been telling
the same story all along.
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My only wish is for Carola
to be questioned as well.
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As far as I'm concerned,
there's no evidence.
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It's her word against mine.
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[Ia] My name is Ia Sveger.
I'm a lawyer.
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I knew Håkan from before.
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IA SVEGER
HÅKAN'S DEFENSE ATTORNEY
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When Håkan is arrested,
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he has sole custody
of their two children.
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Putting him behind bars
was the easiest way
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for Carola to regain custody.
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The relationship was more
or less over for Håkan's,
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maybe more so than for Carola.
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[Erik]
Håkan wanted to leave her.
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I think she panicked a little.
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"ERIK"
HÅKAN'S FRIEND
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I think Carola lied,
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and fabricated these allegations
for her own personal benefit.
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Only time will tell.
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[Håkan]
Damn, it's really raining!
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So much of this
is just plain crazy.
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There's nothing in my story
that you can question.
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They'll come
to the same conclusion.
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I'm innocent.
Carola lied. Period.
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SPORTS FIGURE RELEASED
WANTS REDEMPTION
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I want a retrial.
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My hope, of course,
is that I will be acquitted.
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That would give me
a better chance of seeing
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mine and Carola's children.
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And that's what means
the most to me.
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[dramatic music]
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You have to start looking
at the rule of law.
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You have to be objective.
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If there was a nuclear bomb
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and it took out all the police,
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social services,
and prosecutors
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I'd just say
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[chuckles] "Yeah, who cares?"
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Can we take a break,
two seconds?
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[sighs heavily]
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[solemn music]
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You know, it brings up
a lot of memories.
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Even the apartment.
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Carola and I were supposed
to decorate it.
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I feel so awful that it's
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I've tried not
to discredit Carola.
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I mean, children are brought
into the world
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because there's love
between a couple.
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[birds chirping]
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To a large extent,
I trusted Carola.
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That's what our whole
relationship has been about.
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I should have seen the red
flags, but in hindsight,
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she's been cheating on me pretty
much our whole relationship.
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To be honest, I wasn't really
looking for a relationship.
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I was in the middle
of a custody battle.
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At that point, my focus
was on the situation
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with my oldest
daughter's mother.
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That took all of my attention.
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But at the same time,
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there was this void in me
that was crying out for
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closeness.
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In this frustration
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HÅKAN NORRTÄLJE - SWEDEN -
SINGLE MAN SEEKS WOMAN -
192 CM - 95 KG - ATTRACTIVE
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I went online again.
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And started communicating
with Carola.
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WHERE DO YOU LIVE?
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When she asked me, "Can I call
you instead? I'm driving."
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And I got to hear her voice.
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I knew then that
this is a person
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I want to spend time with.
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[♪]
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There was something
about Carola.
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It just clicked.
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It fit right away.
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Her opinions.
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The way she spoke,
and most of all,
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the way she listened to me.
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At the same time,
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I knew that this
really wasn't good.
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These red flags
started coming up.
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[tense music]
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I CAN'T DECIDE ABOUT TOMORROW.
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I DON'T KNOW IF I WANT
TO SEE YOU ALONE
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OR WITH MY HUSBAND
HOW DO YOU FEEL?
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Carola wanted things
I'd never tried.
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[♪]
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She then tells me
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"I want a gang bang."
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It was maybe five or six
different men.
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"And my husband's
going to film it."
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And then I just
immediately felt
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this shock.
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I had to read it several times.
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What is she writing?
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Once this had sunk in,
I just felt like,
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"This is not me. I don't want
to take part in this."
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[faint music playing
over speakers]
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I just wrote,
"I had a great time with you,
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but this isn't for me.
I'm out.
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Thank you for this, and I wish
you all the best in the future."
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[solemn music]
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And then she asked me,
"Can I come to your house?"
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When I opened the door,
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she's standing outside crying.
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That's when she told me
she didn't want to have
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this gang bang anymore.
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She didn't want an open
relationship with her husband.
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She had, in a short time,
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fallen in love with me,
and wanted to give it a try.
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I WON'T BE WITH ANYONE ELSE.
I ONLY WANT YOU, EVEN IF
YOU DON'T WANT ME ANYMORE.
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[♪]
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I couldn't do it.
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I couldn't handle the longing
for my eldest daughter,
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and Carola's warmth.
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It's some combination of this
that made me go back again.
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[somber music]
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[♪]
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And we started
seeing each other.
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I made it very clear that
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if we were going to keep
seeing each other,
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I didn't want her seeing
any other guys.
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[♪]
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[♪]
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She had e-mail
conversations with,
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as far as we know today,
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at least eight different men
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SEND ME A PICTURE OF YOU
AND ALL THE COCKS.
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[Håkan]
when she had
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YOU HORNY LITTLE THING.
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[Håkan]
made it very clear to me
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that I was the one
she wanted to commit to.
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SO YOU'RE UP FOR A BUKKAKE
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[grunting with effort]
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She set up meetings
with these men.
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DO YOU WANT TO BE FUCKED
BY ALL FIVE OF THEM
IN ALL THE HOLES?
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At her workplace.
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Before, after, and on breaks.
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I WANT TO HAVE SEX
WITH ALL FIVE
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When it came out, it hurt.
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[birds chirping]
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NORRTELJE NEWSPAPER
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Maj.
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LISTING MEN CONVICTED OF RAPE
IN NORRTÄLJE
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It's in the Norrtelje
newspaper again.
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Here. It's a full page.
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-[Maj] No.
-Again.
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-[Maj] That, too?
-[Håkan] Yes.
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"For ten years, the man,
a former teacher,
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subjected the woman
to violence and abuse.
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He broke down her own will,
monitored her every move,
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harassed and threatened her.
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The man invited an unknown man
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for a fee to sexually abuse her
at their residence."
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It's
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well, what can I say?
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I live in a small town.
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There's been a total
media storm about this.
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Everyone's read this.
Everyone knows about this.
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And if it's only one side that
gets to tell their version,
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then, eventually,
it becomes a reality.
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A rapist is the lowest piece
of garbage on the planet.
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[solemn music]
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People you thought were friends,
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that you've been hanging out
with for 30 years,
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contact me and tell me they've
removed me from Facebook.
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[♪]
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Hmm.
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[speaking in another language]
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I mean, I have nothing left.
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Housing, it'll be fine.
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Work, it'll be fine.
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But this time with the kids,
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you can never get that back.
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[sobbing]
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And then this thought,
"What do they think of me?
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What have they found out?
Why is Dad gone?"
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[♪]
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It's so hard to explain
this feeling
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like you're being watched
all the time.
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[♪]
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All the time, I feel like
I'm being followed.
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I can't even go into a store
and shop here in Norrtälje.
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I don't want to. I panic.
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[♪]
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[car horn honking]
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I wouldn't have dared
to cheat on Håkan.
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This evidence are emails
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that were date-stamped long
before I even met Håkan.
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And yet, he's been
obsessed with it.
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PUT THE BEDROOM CAMERA
WHERE IT SHOULD BE
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[Carola] He had control
of everything.
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I HAVEN'T TOUCHED IT
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[Håkan]
I didn't control her in any way.
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At some point,
you have to start
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questioning her statements
again.
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"When did Håkan do this?
How can you prove it?
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On what grounds? What do you
mean, this happened?"
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No one asked. No one asked
my side of the story.
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[tense music]
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I had a surveillance system.
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I have my race boat
out in the garage.
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We set up a camera there.
Very simple.
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Then we also had a camera
inside the bedroom
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that was pointed at a dresser.
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Did I had those two cameras?
Absolutely.
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[♪]
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[Ia] Too much emphasis
has been placed on that aspect
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of Håkan's control over Carola.
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He did have cameras, which a lot
of people have in their homes.
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[Håkan]
According to her version,
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I sit and look
at these cameras every day.
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I'm a teacher, the only teacher
at a small school.
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When is this supposed
to have happened?
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If my students
saw me sitting here,
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watching this on my phone,
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what do you think they'd say?
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[wind gusts softly]
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[Jenny]
He was my children's teacher.
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They also confirmed
that he constantly called
to keep tabs on Carola.
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JENNY
CAROLA'S FRIEND
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Everyone in her class
knew about it.
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CAN YOU WRITE DOWN
WHAT POINTS WE TALKED ABOUT
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AND WHAT WE'VE AGREED ON
TO EVEN THINK
ABOUT TRYING AGAIN?
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NOT TO LIE.
NOT TO HAVE CONTACT WITH JENNY
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[Jenny]
Håkan forbade Carola
from seeing me.
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THAT YOU CAN TRACE
AND CHECK MY PHONE
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[Jenny]
He wanted to cut off
the last of her contacts.
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[Carola] When things
are at their worst
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I don't have any open channels
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and there's very few people
that I'm allowed
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to have contact with.
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COME DOWN, TAKE YOUR CLOTHES OFF
AND I'LL GET YOU
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I was under so much stress
the whole time.
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I felt like I was going
to fall apart.
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It's all about his needs.
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Sex is more important
than anything.
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There was no way out anymore
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I couldn't get away from it.
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I'LL TAKE THE KIDS TOMORROW
SO YOU CAN SEE ÅSA
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The only free moments I had
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were when he was having sex
with someone else,
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and I wasn't there.
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So I was uh
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I was the one who suggested
that she and Håkan
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start seeing each other.
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-[man speaking indistinctly
on telephone]
-Uh-huh.
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I see. No, I understand.
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I was going to come
and pick you up.
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Take you to lunch.
Does it work?
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I never said I didn't like sex.
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I like to have sex.
I have sex a lot.
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Carola had offered Åsa
to be alone with me.
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[unsettling music]
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And that Carola
would go away with the kids.
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I'm sure many men would
have been happy about this.
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But I saw problems.
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I made it clear. I told Carola,
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"You're the one
I want to be with."
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[♪]
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Carola says to me,
"Well, write Åsa."
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And I'm like, "No."
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So I didn't at first.
But then
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[half-laughs, half-sighs]
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I own my decisions,
and I can only say that.
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Yeah, then I wrote.
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They made that decision for me.
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I mean, I wasn't even part
of this decision.
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I could see that this
wasn't going to end well.
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And most of all, I'm thinking,
"Why did you do this?"
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[pensive music]
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[Carola] It was my suggestion,
so that I could find a way out.
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That gave me a chance
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to go to a friend's house,
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and catch my breath
for a few hours.
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She and I had great sex.
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I can't deny that.
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YOU'VE BEEN GOING ON AND ON
ABOUT ÅSA ALL NIGHT,
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EVEN WHEN WE'RE HAVING SEX,
YOU CAN'T STOP TALKING ABOUT HER
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It was Carola's idea for Håkan
to have sex with Åsa.
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I WANT SOME ALONE TIME WITH YOU
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Then, once this started,
Carola wasn't exactly, hmm
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IA SVEGER
HÅKAN'S DEFENSE ATTORNEY
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comfortable with it.
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Instead, she got
a little jealous,
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and wasn't happy
with the relationship at all.
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[wind gusting gently]
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[Håkan] That's when Carola
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started telling me
and writing to me
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that our relationship hadn't
been good for a long time.
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She then wanted to have
what's known as a BDSM session.
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[intense music]
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[Ia] BDSM is a form of sex
that involves violence.
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It involves having whips,
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you can wear a choke chain,
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or you're tied up.
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[insects chirping]
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[Håkan] I told her this
is not something I can do.
321
00:19:08,200 --> 00:19:12,320
I mean, regular sex,
I know my way, if I may brag.
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I'm good at that.
323
00:19:13,840 --> 00:19:15,760
Um
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but this was a whole new
plan for me.
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There were many discussions.
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I remember we talked
about it a lot.
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But through it all,
328
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Carola continues to make
veiled threats.
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So in the end,
I realized that
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I had two options.
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Either separate
or agree to this.
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Those were my two options.
333
00:19:47,760 --> 00:19:49,760
[telephone ringing]
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[Ia] Both Håkan and Carola
had a very strong
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interest in sex.
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You can't ignore that.
337
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Sex was one of the most
important aspects
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of their relationship.
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00:20:01,800 --> 00:20:05,240
Carola knew full well
that this person
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00:20:05,320 --> 00:20:07,160
was coming to the residence
for the purpose
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of a sexual encounter.
342
00:20:09,320 --> 00:20:11,600
[children shouting distantly]
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[Håkan] She was adamant
about being tied up.
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She wanted to be blindfolded.
345
00:20:21,360 --> 00:20:23,120
She wanted to be whipped.
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She wanted to be on the table.
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00:20:25,480 --> 00:20:27,760
Everything I was accused of,
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had already been discussed
long before the meeting.
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THEN YOU LEAD ME OVER
TO THE COUCH, AND BOTH OF YOU
COME UP TO MY MOUTH,
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00:20:37,400 --> 00:20:38,720
[Håkan] After this meeting,
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AND I JERK OFF WHILE I SUCK YOU
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she then writes that
"It felt really good yesterday.
I trusted you."
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I'LL ADMIT ONE THING
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[he continues]
She knows the truth.
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THAT I FELT SAFE WITH YOU
LAST TIME HE WAS HERE
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[he continues] She knows
I didn't force her.
357
00:20:52,760 --> 00:20:56,400
There's a recording,
documentation, witnesses.
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00:20:56,520 --> 00:20:58,920
Even so, I'm the bad guy.
359
00:21:03,280 --> 00:21:05,360
I DON'T WANT TO PAY THAT
360
00:21:06,880 --> 00:21:09,280
THEN WHAT ARE YOU OFFERING?
361
00:21:09,360 --> 00:21:11,960
[director] Then how come
you've been taking money?
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00:21:12,080 --> 00:21:15,480
[tense music]
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00:21:15,560 --> 00:21:19,520
As I've said, at some point
you have to examine yourself.
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00:21:19,600 --> 00:21:22,640
And I can be honest and say,
yes, I took money.
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00:21:23,400 --> 00:21:26,400
But not for sex,
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00:21:26,480 --> 00:21:28,040
not for anything like that.
367
00:21:28,160 --> 00:21:30,720
The idea,
as the conversation makes clear,
368
00:21:30,800 --> 00:21:33,640
was that the money would be
handed over to Carola
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00:21:33,720 --> 00:21:35,440
so she could buy sex toys.
370
00:21:35,560 --> 00:21:37,040
And that's exactly what I did.
371
00:21:37,600 --> 00:21:40,840
WHEN ARE WE GOING TO BUY TOYS?
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00:21:41,160 --> 00:21:45,480
[he continues] She then,
as a thing, wanted this person
who came home
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NAUGHTY ADVENTURES LOOKING FOR
FUCK BUDDY SOME WEEKDAY FUN
374
00:21:47,240 --> 00:21:51,400
to bring BDSM things
for me to use on Carola.
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00:21:52,880 --> 00:21:56,680
I explained to Carola.
"Now I found one, but he doesn't
have any BDSM things."
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00:21:56,760 --> 00:21:58,800
BENGT66, 52 - STOCKHOLM, SWEDEN
MAN IN RELATIONSHIP LOOKING FOR
WOMAN, SOMETHING SHORT-TERM
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[Håkan continues]
So his suggestion was,
378
00:22:01,480 --> 00:22:04,640
"Why don't I send Carola some
money, so she can buy them?"
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00:22:04,760 --> 00:22:07,120
WHAT'S THE PLAN?
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00:22:08,560 --> 00:22:10,040
WE'LL BUY A WHIP THAT YOU PAY
FOR WHEN YOU GET HERE.
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00:22:10,120 --> 00:22:11,240
I TIE AND WHIP HER.
WHEN WE'RE DONE, YOU LEAVE.
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00:22:11,360 --> 00:22:12,600
[he continues]
But then she says,
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00:22:12,680 --> 00:22:13,880
"I don't want him to know
who I am,
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and I don't want
to know who he is.
385
00:22:15,880 --> 00:22:17,480
That's the whole thing."
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00:22:17,600 --> 00:22:21,560
And here, I've asked myself
that question a thousand times.
387
00:22:21,680 --> 00:22:23,640
Why, Håkan? Why?
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00:22:25,760 --> 00:22:29,000
But he sent me money.
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00:22:29,120 --> 00:22:30,800
I sent the money to Carola.
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00:22:32,640 --> 00:22:36,160
It was stupid.
But did I sell her? No!
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[office din]
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00:22:43,240 --> 00:22:46,680
I don't think I've ever been
involved in a case
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where there's so much
documentation
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00:22:48,760 --> 00:22:50,480
between the two parties.
395
00:22:51,280 --> 00:22:55,720
And here, Carola herself
has expressed what she wants.
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00:22:55,800 --> 00:22:57,120
She wants to be blindfolded,
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00:22:57,240 --> 00:23:01,600
to be restrained,
to be fucked on the couch.
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00:23:01,720 --> 00:23:04,400
This is something
that she did voluntarily.
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00:23:04,520 --> 00:23:08,200
[tense music]
400
00:23:08,280 --> 00:23:11,360
[Håkan] Did I want this man
to join the game? No.
401
00:23:14,040 --> 00:23:16,080
I didn't make any requests.
402
00:23:16,200 --> 00:23:19,000
I haven't made any demands.
403
00:23:19,080 --> 00:23:20,640
But I have asked her,
404
00:23:20,720 --> 00:23:22,440
"What do you want
to be a part of?
405
00:23:22,520 --> 00:23:24,280
What do you think I should
do with you?"
406
00:23:25,440 --> 00:23:29,480
DO YOU HAVE A REQUEST?
407
00:23:29,560 --> 00:23:33,280
I WANT TO BE BLINDFOLDED
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00:23:33,680 --> 00:23:36,200
[Rebecca] There are chats
where Carola herself
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00:23:36,320 --> 00:23:38,400
says she wants to have BDSM sex.
410
00:23:38,520 --> 00:23:39,800
REBECCA LAGH
CAROLA'S LAWYER
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00:23:39,880 --> 00:23:42,040
And in my world,
having read the whole thing
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00:23:42,160 --> 00:23:44,440
and knowing this case,
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00:23:44,560 --> 00:23:47,920
I understand that she's doing it
414
00:23:48,040 --> 00:23:51,880
because she knows that's
what Håkan wants to hear.
415
00:23:51,960 --> 00:23:54,040
And if she says these things,
416
00:23:54,120 --> 00:23:56,120
he won't punish her.
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00:23:57,280 --> 00:24:00,960
[tense music]
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00:24:02,520 --> 00:24:05,640
WHAT DO YOU WANT TO HAPPEN?
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00:24:08,800 --> 00:24:11,440
I'M STRAPPED TO THE TABLE
WHEN HE COMES
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00:24:11,560 --> 00:24:14,000
YOU TOUCH AND CARESS ME
YOU FUCK ME
421
00:24:14,120 --> 00:24:20,400
Håkan very often wanted me
to write things to him
in text messages.
422
00:24:20,480 --> 00:24:22,720
[cell phone ringing]
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00:24:22,840 --> 00:24:27,040
He told me exactly what
to write, word for word.
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00:24:27,120 --> 00:24:28,880
THEN YOU LEAD ME OVER TO
THE COUCH AND BOTH OF YOU
COME UP TO MY MOUTH
425
00:24:29,000 --> 00:24:30,520
AND I JERK OFF WHILE I SUCK YOU
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00:24:30,640 --> 00:24:35,280
[Carola continues] He knows
what he's doing is wrong.
427
00:24:37,160 --> 00:24:42,640
He wants proof that
it's my idea and not his idea.
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00:24:42,760 --> 00:24:47,840
[♪]
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00:24:47,960 --> 00:24:50,920
If I didn't want
to send the texts,
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00:24:51,000 --> 00:24:53,440
he could go on for hours.
431
00:24:55,480 --> 00:24:57,760
There were times
when I'd just do it
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00:24:57,840 --> 00:25:00,040
so he'd leave me alone,
and I could go to sleep.
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00:25:00,120 --> 00:25:02,480
I'M HERE
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00:25:02,880 --> 00:25:06,680
[she continues]
I didn't want Håkan
to bring some strange man
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00:25:06,760 --> 00:25:10,120
to have sex with me
while I was strapped
to the table.
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00:25:10,240 --> 00:25:11,960
COME IN
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I didn't even know
anything about it,
438
00:25:15,480 --> 00:25:17,360
about those payments
or any of that,
439
00:25:17,480 --> 00:25:19,840
I had no idea any of it
had happened.
440
00:25:19,960 --> 00:25:23,080
[solemn music]
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00:25:23,200 --> 00:25:29,280
TRIAL AUDIO RECORDING
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[Bengt on recording]
It was Håkan who asked me
if I wanted to come.
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"BENGT" - SEX BUYER
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00:25:35,320 --> 00:25:36,880
[officer on recording]
Was it Håkan who contacted you
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00:25:37,000 --> 00:25:38,520
on all those occasions?
446
00:25:38,640 --> 00:25:39,680
[Bengt] Yes.
447
00:25:43,880 --> 00:25:47,120
[officer] Is it true that you
sent the money to Håkan?
448
00:25:47,200 --> 00:25:48,360
[Bengt] Yes.
449
00:25:49,720 --> 00:25:51,560
[officer] Why did you send
the money?
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00:25:51,640 --> 00:25:56,480
[Bengt] So they could buy a sex
swing that costs 6 000 kronor.
451
00:25:56,600 --> 00:25:58,480
[officer] Okay.
452
00:25:58,600 --> 00:26:01,400
Then why did you
pay them so many times?
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00:26:01,480 --> 00:26:03,280
SENDER - RECEIVER -
SUM HÅKAN - 1 200 KR
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00:26:03,400 --> 00:26:05,720
[Bengt] I couldn't afford it
all at once.
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00:26:07,080 --> 00:26:09,000
[officer] Okay.
456
00:26:09,080 --> 00:26:11,760
Telling the truth in court
is essential.
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00:26:11,880 --> 00:26:14,120
[Bengt] Absolutely. Absolutely.
458
00:26:16,080 --> 00:26:20,440
When we questioned
the suspect about soliciting
sexual services,
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00:26:20,560 --> 00:26:22,080
he denied it.
460
00:26:22,160 --> 00:26:24,280
But this is a deeply
shameful offense.
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00:26:24,360 --> 00:26:25,200
TOMAS
POLICE
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00:26:25,280 --> 00:26:26,480
So it's not surprising
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00:26:26,600 --> 00:26:28,200
that he didn't want
to talk about it.
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00:26:31,520 --> 00:26:34,120
[officer on recording]
You've admitted to paying
for sex.
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00:26:34,240 --> 00:26:36,240
[Bengt on recording]
I'm very scared right now.
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00:26:36,360 --> 00:26:37,840
[officer]
Yes, I understand that.
467
00:26:37,920 --> 00:26:39,440
That makes it
all the more important
468
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that you answer truthfully.
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00:26:42,080 --> 00:26:43,880
[Tomas]
He was questioned again.
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00:26:43,960 --> 00:26:47,760
Eventually he admitted that he
had purchased sexual services,
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00:26:47,880 --> 00:26:49,600
and explained what happened.
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00:26:49,720 --> 00:26:52,240
[somber music]
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00:26:52,320 --> 00:26:55,600
[Bengt on recording]
Then he put her on the table.
474
00:26:55,720 --> 00:26:58,840
He tied her down
with those ropes.
475
00:26:58,960 --> 00:27:02,000
And he whipped her.
476
00:27:02,080 --> 00:27:05,640
Then he motioned for me
to come over to the table.
477
00:27:07,160 --> 00:27:11,360
I had already paid to do it,
so I did.
478
00:27:11,440 --> 00:27:12,920
I-- I didn't know any better.
479
00:27:13,040 --> 00:27:15,280
BENGT WAS CONVICTED
OF PURCHASING SEXUAL SERVICES.
480
00:27:15,360 --> 00:27:18,160
HE WAS SENTENCED TO 80 DAY-FINES
TOTALING 26,400 KRONOR.
481
00:27:18,280 --> 00:27:21,240
Those who buy sex
don't care about
the vulnerability
482
00:27:21,320 --> 00:27:22,760
of the person
they're buying sex from.
483
00:27:22,880 --> 00:27:23,840
REBECCA LAGH
CAROLA'S LAWYER
484
00:27:23,920 --> 00:27:25,280
I think that generally
holds true.
485
00:27:27,240 --> 00:27:29,200
If you're buying sex,
you're doing it
486
00:27:29,320 --> 00:27:32,520
so you can do all the things
that you can't do
with anyone else.
487
00:27:35,800 --> 00:27:39,280
[Tomas] She told me that this
had happened many times.
488
00:27:39,400 --> 00:27:42,640
These were the times that
we were able to prove it.
489
00:27:44,320 --> 00:27:49,320
So, that part of her story
remains uncertain today.
490
00:27:49,440 --> 00:27:52,760
It could be what she says,
or it could be what he says.
491
00:27:52,880 --> 00:27:57,320
[unsettling music]
492
00:27:59,360 --> 00:28:04,160
I'M VERY DOMINANT
AND I DEMAND OBEDIENCE
493
00:28:04,240 --> 00:28:09,560
I WANT YOU TO FEEL COMPLETELY
INFERIOR AND GRATEFUL
THAT I EVEN LET YOU SUCK ME
494
00:28:09,960 --> 00:28:14,840
It starts off with
this incredible warmth
and appreciation,
495
00:28:16,000 --> 00:28:19,840
until he starts making
little demands.
496
00:28:21,440 --> 00:28:26,400
And every boundary you cross
is not that difficult in itself.
497
00:28:26,520 --> 00:28:29,000
It becomes normal.
498
00:28:32,480 --> 00:28:35,880
[♪]
499
00:28:35,960 --> 00:28:39,400
[Björn] Basically, their stories
are pretty consistent
500
00:28:40,720 --> 00:28:42,440
with each other's.
501
00:28:44,520 --> 00:28:45,680
BJÖRN
POLICE
502
00:28:45,800 --> 00:28:48,000
But how can these experiences
be so different?
503
00:28:48,720 --> 00:28:52,200
We went through tens
of thousands of chat messages,
504
00:28:52,280 --> 00:28:55,080
seeing how they communicated
back and forth.
505
00:28:56,480 --> 00:28:58,520
24 hours a day.
506
00:28:59,280 --> 00:29:02,520
[Rebecca] It's very rare
for the police even recover
507
00:29:02,600 --> 00:29:04,800
all these chat messages.
508
00:29:04,920 --> 00:29:06,680
But in this case, they did.
509
00:29:06,760 --> 00:29:08,600
That's what made the difference.
510
00:29:08,720 --> 00:29:10,640
To truly understand
the scope of it,
511
00:29:10,760 --> 00:29:12,760
you almost have to read
every single one.
512
00:29:12,960 --> 00:29:14,720
DO WE HAVE A DEAL?
513
00:29:14,800 --> 00:29:16,040
YES
514
00:29:16,160 --> 00:29:17,480
[Rebecca] How Håkan,
515
00:29:17,600 --> 00:29:20,880
in a very calculated
and manipulative way,
516
00:29:21,000 --> 00:29:25,040
makes her do things that
she doesn't really want to do.
517
00:29:25,120 --> 00:29:29,280
I'M SORRY, BUT I CAN'T GIVE YOU
ANOTHER CHANCE
518
00:29:29,400 --> 00:29:32,160
I UNDERSTAND. I'M SORRY
FOR EVERYTHING I PUT YOU THROUGH
519
00:29:32,280 --> 00:29:34,640
[Björn] In the material
we reviewed,
520
00:29:34,720 --> 00:29:38,040
we could see a clear process
of normalization.
521
00:29:38,120 --> 00:29:40,560
That's what set this case apart.
522
00:29:41,640 --> 00:29:44,240
I FEEL THAT I'M TRYING, BUT
I CAN STILL IMPROVE EVEN MORE!
I REALLY LOVE YOU.
523
00:29:44,360 --> 00:29:46,400
[Tomas] You put on
financial pressure.
524
00:29:46,520 --> 00:29:50,160
HOW ARE YOU GOING TO AFFORD
FIVE KIDS ON YOUR OWN?
525
00:29:50,240 --> 00:29:51,840
[Tomas] Emotional pressure.
526
00:29:51,960 --> 00:29:54,880
YOU CAN'T TAKE CARE OF YOUR KIDS
527
00:29:56,240 --> 00:29:57,640
[Tomas] Criticizing the kids.
528
00:29:57,840 --> 00:30:00,120
YOUR DAUGHTER TREATS YOU
LIKE CRAP
529
00:30:00,240 --> 00:30:02,640
But also the plaintiff herself.
530
00:30:02,720 --> 00:30:04,920
That's she's not good enough.
531
00:30:05,520 --> 00:30:07,840
[tense music]
532
00:30:08,160 --> 00:30:09,120
WHO IS ---?
533
00:30:09,240 --> 00:30:10,680
[Tomas]
This rather strict control
534
00:30:10,760 --> 00:30:12,360
DELETE HER FROM FACEBOOK.
535
00:30:12,440 --> 00:30:13,720
THAT'S AN ORDER
NOT A REQUEST
536
00:30:13,800 --> 00:30:15,920
that takes away, little
by little, her self-esteem.
537
00:30:16,000 --> 00:30:17,160
I'VE ARRANGED FOR A WOMAN
TO COME OVER ON SUNDAY
538
00:30:17,280 --> 00:30:18,800
[Tomas] And constantly pushes
the boundaries
539
00:30:18,920 --> 00:30:20,280
OK. WHAT DOES SHE WANT TO DO?
540
00:30:20,400 --> 00:30:22,760
of one's personal space
541
00:30:22,840 --> 00:30:24,360
IT DOESN'T MATTER.
YOU WILL OBEY ME
542
00:30:24,440 --> 00:30:26,440
until there isn't much left.
543
00:30:26,640 --> 00:30:30,080
I SUCK AT EVERYTHING
544
00:30:31,760 --> 00:30:33,560
[somber music]
545
00:30:33,680 --> 00:30:35,200
[Björn] Throughout it all,
546
00:30:35,280 --> 00:30:39,120
there was a constant cycle
of warmth, love and care,
547
00:30:39,200 --> 00:30:42,360
followed by coldness,
demands, and control,
548
00:30:42,480 --> 00:30:44,520
and it just went back and forth.
549
00:30:44,640 --> 00:30:50,240
YOU HAVE A LIFETIME CONTRACT
TO HAVE SEX WITH ME.
I DECIDE WHO YOU SEE.
550
00:30:50,360 --> 00:30:53,440
Legally, it was the first
time that a court
551
00:30:53,560 --> 00:30:54,960
actually based its judgment
552
00:30:55,040 --> 00:30:56,080
NORRTÄLJE DISTRICT COURT
COURTS OF SWEDEN
553
00:30:56,200 --> 00:30:58,400
on the normalization process.
554
00:31:00,760 --> 00:31:05,360
[intense, pounding music]
555
00:31:05,440 --> 00:31:07,480
Every second
is like an eternity.
556
00:31:08,240 --> 00:31:10,200
I didn't get my sentence
read out.
557
00:31:10,280 --> 00:31:12,960
In my case, I was in custody.
558
00:31:13,080 --> 00:31:14,720
Then they call you
out to a room.
559
00:31:16,640 --> 00:31:20,200
Then once they've checked
that all the doors
and everything are closed,
560
00:31:20,320 --> 00:31:23,560
you can to turn the sentence
over, and start reading.
561
00:31:23,640 --> 00:31:24,920
And so
562
00:31:26,360 --> 00:31:28,600
When I saw ten years, then
563
00:31:28,720 --> 00:31:30,520
[tense music swells]
564
00:31:30,600 --> 00:31:33,160
[high-pitched whine]
565
00:31:35,400 --> 00:31:36,920
I don't know what
I was thinking.
566
00:31:39,440 --> 00:31:42,080
I didn't sleep at all
last night.
567
00:31:43,720 --> 00:31:45,360
It's hard.
568
00:31:45,480 --> 00:31:46,520
It's really hard.
569
00:31:47,560 --> 00:31:49,320
After what happened.
570
00:31:49,400 --> 00:31:52,600
He's sentenced to ten years,
which was a shock to Håkan,
571
00:31:52,720 --> 00:31:55,320
and also to me,
as his defense attorney.
572
00:31:55,400 --> 00:31:57,560
I really don't understand.
573
00:31:57,640 --> 00:32:02,840
They threw everything
they had at this case
to try to convict Håkan.
574
00:32:07,680 --> 00:32:10,440
It was aggravated rape, rape,
575
00:32:10,520 --> 00:32:13,640
violation of a woman's
integrity, procuring.
576
00:32:13,720 --> 00:32:15,760
It was 16 counts altogether.
577
00:32:15,880 --> 00:32:21,360
[somber music]
578
00:32:21,480 --> 00:32:24,360
[Carola] The lawyer calls
and she just says,
579
00:32:24,480 --> 00:32:25,880
"Ten years."
580
00:32:26,760 --> 00:32:31,640
I kind of understood that
now we're going to be free.
581
00:32:31,760 --> 00:32:34,280
There's time to heal.
582
00:32:34,400 --> 00:32:36,640
It was like a relief
that he won't be able
583
00:32:36,760 --> 00:32:38,520
to get to us for a long time.
584
00:32:40,200 --> 00:32:44,800
[Ia] Regardless, there's always
an opportunity to appeal
to the Court of Appeals.
585
00:32:44,880 --> 00:32:48,720
And the Court of Appeals will do
a very thorough examination.
586
00:32:48,840 --> 00:32:51,640
There was an enormous
amount of material
587
00:32:51,720 --> 00:32:54,040
in the preliminary
investigation.
588
00:32:54,120 --> 00:32:57,600
That's why the Court of Appeal
reviewed all the evidence
589
00:32:57,720 --> 00:33:00,600
that had been presented
in the District Court.
590
00:33:00,720 --> 00:33:04,520
SPORTS STAR'S APPEAL REDUCES
SENTENCE TO 3 YEARS AND 4 MONTHS
591
00:33:04,600 --> 00:33:07,080
When the Court of Appeals comes,
592
00:33:07,200 --> 00:33:10,040
they lower the sentence
by two-thirds.
593
00:33:10,160 --> 00:33:13,040
That's from 10 years
to 3.4 years.
594
00:33:13,640 --> 00:33:16,040
They dropped about
half the charges.
595
00:33:18,480 --> 00:33:20,920
[Rebecca] The aggravated
rapes disappeared.
596
00:33:21,040 --> 00:33:23,080
The procuring charge
was dropped.
597
00:33:23,200 --> 00:33:27,400
But the reason the sentence
became so severe
598
00:33:27,520 --> 00:33:31,520
was because the aggravated rapes
carry a high penalty value.
599
00:33:31,640 --> 00:33:35,960
[tense music]
600
00:33:38,120 --> 00:33:39,520
[Carola] He's been in custody,
601
00:33:39,600 --> 00:33:41,520
and he'll get credit
for time served,
602
00:33:41,600 --> 00:33:44,160
so I know he's gonna
get out sooner.
603
00:33:44,240 --> 00:33:48,560
It became a bit of a rush
to find a plan B in life,
604
00:33:48,640 --> 00:33:50,040
where we were gonna go.
605
00:33:51,880 --> 00:33:53,880
[♪]
606
00:33:53,960 --> 00:33:57,120
[low hum of conversation]
607
00:34:00,360 --> 00:34:06,200
[♪]
608
00:34:10,239 --> 00:34:14,639
[Rebecca] He was convicted
of aggravated violation
of a woman's integrity,
609
00:34:14,760 --> 00:34:16,400
procuring, and rape.
610
00:34:19,320 --> 00:34:20,440
COURTS OF SWEDEN
611
00:34:20,520 --> 00:34:22,120
[Rebecca] They're confirming
that
612
00:34:22,239 --> 00:34:24,520
the normalization process
exists,
613
00:34:24,639 --> 00:34:26,719
and it has legal significance.
614
00:34:28,840 --> 00:34:32,280
They argued that she had
gone through such a profound
615
00:34:32,360 --> 00:34:37,280
process of normalization
that she was no longer able
to defend herself,
616
00:34:37,360 --> 00:34:39,239
or her sexual integrity.
617
00:34:39,320 --> 00:34:41,360
In a way, she had no choice.
618
00:34:42,760 --> 00:34:45,760
[somber music]
619
00:34:45,840 --> 00:34:47,400
[door slams]
620
00:34:47,480 --> 00:34:50,040
[Ia] This raises a very
difficult issue
621
00:34:50,159 --> 00:34:51,679
of legal certainty.
622
00:34:52,679 --> 00:34:56,639
How can you actually
determine whether there
was consent or not?
623
00:35:00,440 --> 00:35:03,680
[Håkan] As I understand it,
they claimed I'd been
raping her from the start,
624
00:35:03,760 --> 00:35:06,000
three to four times a week,
625
00:35:06,080 --> 00:35:10,040
but it's not clear where, and
especially when, this happened.
626
00:35:10,120 --> 00:35:13,960
[♪]
627
00:35:14,040 --> 00:35:17,480
In this normalization process,
you can be more vague.
628
00:35:18,400 --> 00:35:21,760
This expression is bullshit.
It doesn't exist.
629
00:35:21,840 --> 00:35:26,720
But if it does exist,
I'm telling you, if anyone
is normalized, it's me.
630
00:35:29,040 --> 00:35:32,840
[♪]
631
00:35:33,280 --> 00:35:36,840
[Tomas] Legally, it was rape.
632
00:35:36,920 --> 00:35:39,720
But, to be perfectly honest,
633
00:35:39,800 --> 00:35:43,120
I still don't think
he sees this the same way
634
00:35:43,240 --> 00:35:46,360
that the legislator does at all.
635
00:35:47,520 --> 00:35:52,000
CONVICTED OF RAPE IN NORRTÄLJE
636
00:35:53,560 --> 00:35:56,800
[Håkan] Had I known somewhere
in the back of my mind,
637
00:35:56,920 --> 00:35:59,760
"Håkan, you actually
did this"
638
00:35:59,840 --> 00:36:01,840
The more I think about it,
639
00:36:01,960 --> 00:36:06,120
the more how could it
have come to this?
640
00:36:06,240 --> 00:36:07,720
I can't believe it.
641
00:36:07,840 --> 00:36:10,600
I can't understand
why I was convicted.
642
00:36:11,280 --> 00:36:12,560
I don't get it.
643
00:36:12,680 --> 00:36:13,800
I really don't.
644
00:36:14,840 --> 00:36:19,280
[unsettling music]
645
00:36:19,360 --> 00:36:21,560
[Carola] We're going back
to the courthouse.
646
00:36:21,640 --> 00:36:23,160
[woman on phone] Okay.
647
00:36:23,280 --> 00:36:26,240
[Carola] He's accused of
violating the restraining order.
648
00:36:26,360 --> 00:36:28,560
[woman on phone] Has he
appealed the restraining order?
649
00:36:28,640 --> 00:36:32,280
[Carola] These years that
he was away from us,
650
00:36:32,400 --> 00:36:36,040
both me and the kids
grew so much.
651
00:36:36,120 --> 00:36:40,080
[woman on phone] You could run
into him at any grocery store
you walk into.
652
00:36:40,760 --> 00:36:43,960
I avoid going into grocery
stores for that very reason.
653
00:36:44,080 --> 00:36:45,680
[woman on phone] Hmm.
654
00:36:45,760 --> 00:36:48,960
And then the fact
that today he's a free man
655
00:36:50,520 --> 00:36:55,240
and you have to constantly think
about what his next step is.
656
00:36:55,880 --> 00:36:57,080
Um
657
00:36:58,040 --> 00:37:00,080
it's incredibly unfair.
658
00:37:03,200 --> 00:37:08,760
[tense music]
659
00:37:10,560 --> 00:37:14,560
[Håkan] I believe Carola
is dangerous along with
the authorities.
660
00:37:16,720 --> 00:37:21,440
Deep down, she's a good person,
but she got swept up in it.
661
00:37:21,520 --> 00:37:24,400
Because she didn't put
a stop to it soon enough,
662
00:37:24,520 --> 00:37:26,440
it just kept escalating.
663
00:37:26,520 --> 00:37:30,160
Eventually, it was moving so
fast that she couldn't stop it.
664
00:37:32,440 --> 00:37:34,000
And I don't understand.
665
00:37:35,720 --> 00:37:37,480
Of course, I want redemption.
666
00:37:39,280 --> 00:37:43,160
Social Services, the police,
and everyone's against me,
667
00:37:43,240 --> 00:37:44,400
so it's hard.
668
00:37:46,120 --> 00:37:48,280
But someone has to put
their foot down.
669
00:37:49,480 --> 00:37:51,480
Believe me,
if there's one thing I wish,
670
00:37:51,600 --> 00:37:53,840
it's that someone else
had taken my place.
671
00:37:55,880 --> 00:38:02,160
[♪]
672
00:38:08,600 --> 00:38:10,920
How much longer am I supposed
to live with all this
673
00:38:11,000 --> 00:38:13,720
so-called evidence
hanging over my head?
674
00:38:15,120 --> 00:38:18,040
How much longer
am I supposed to sit here
675
00:38:18,160 --> 00:38:21,360
and accept that
it's just being dismissed?
676
00:38:22,400 --> 00:38:24,720
She's ruined my life.
677
00:38:24,840 --> 00:38:27,040
I don't care
what happens to her.
678
00:38:27,120 --> 00:38:30,720
I felt absolutely
nothing for her.
Nothing.
679
00:38:30,840 --> 00:38:33,640
I didn't feel hatred.
I didn't feel love.
680
00:38:33,760 --> 00:38:36,360
I felt completely indifferent.
681
00:38:37,000 --> 00:38:39,160
[woman on phone] You have to
prepare yourself for the fact
682
00:38:39,240 --> 00:38:42,400
that he's going to do this
for the rest of your life.
683
00:38:43,400 --> 00:38:46,640
What makes Håkan dangerous
684
00:38:46,720 --> 00:38:50,520
is that he believes that
he was wrongfully convicted.
685
00:38:50,640 --> 00:38:52,240
And not
686
00:38:53,760 --> 00:38:56,240
taking responsibility
687
00:38:56,320 --> 00:39:00,760
will also prevent him from
getting any kind of treatment.
688
00:39:04,480 --> 00:39:08,360
It's clear that I was
wrongfully convicted.
689
00:39:08,480 --> 00:39:11,160
There's no such thing
as normalization.
690
00:39:11,240 --> 00:39:14,040
There's no documentation,
no research.
691
00:39:14,160 --> 00:39:17,040
There are witnesses
who heard Carola admit
692
00:39:17,160 --> 00:39:19,840
that she made it all up
to gain custody of the children,
693
00:39:19,960 --> 00:39:21,800
and financial compensation.
694
00:39:21,880 --> 00:39:23,440
I'm going to get a retrial.
695
00:39:24,560 --> 00:39:26,880
I finally have the proof
in my hands.
696
00:39:27,000 --> 00:39:29,600
And now I want
to show it to them.
697
00:39:29,680 --> 00:39:32,440
We've already written
everything up.
698
00:39:32,520 --> 00:39:36,840
Tomorrow, we'll go
to the police station,
and file a police report.
699
00:39:36,920 --> 00:39:41,760
[tense music]
700
00:39:45,280 --> 00:39:48,720
[Eva] Carola definitely
didn't make up what happened.
701
00:39:50,800 --> 00:39:53,560
There is absolutely no way.
Why would she do that?
702
00:39:53,640 --> 00:39:54,400
"EVA"
CAROLA'S FORMER MOTHER-IN-LAW
703
00:39:54,480 --> 00:39:55,680
What's in it for her?
704
00:39:55,800 --> 00:39:58,720
It's her life
that's been ruined.
705
00:40:02,280 --> 00:40:04,840
[Anneli] Håkan was always
saying in court,
706
00:40:04,920 --> 00:40:08,520
"She did this. I have proof.
I have proof."
707
00:40:10,640 --> 00:40:13,800
But no evidence
was ever presented.
708
00:40:15,560 --> 00:40:16,680
There's nothing.
709
00:40:16,760 --> 00:40:17,600
ANNELI
HÅKAN'S EX GIRLFRIEND
710
00:40:17,720 --> 00:40:19,320
Because there is absolutely
711
00:40:19,400 --> 00:40:21,680
no evidence to support
what he's claiming.
712
00:40:23,600 --> 00:40:27,440
[solemn music]
713
00:40:27,520 --> 00:40:32,560
[Björn] It's an investigation
where the system has worked
from start to finish.
714
00:40:32,640 --> 00:40:35,880
From an anonymous tip
someone called in to the police,
715
00:40:36,000 --> 00:40:38,080
to convictions
in the District Court,
716
00:40:38,200 --> 00:40:40,720
and convictions
in the Court of Appeals.
717
00:40:40,840 --> 00:40:43,320
Then appealed
to the Supreme Court.
718
00:40:43,400 --> 00:40:44,920
They won't grant a retrial.
719
00:40:45,000 --> 00:40:47,280
[♪]
720
00:40:47,360 --> 00:40:50,600
We can help people who don't
think they can be helped.
721
00:40:52,520 --> 00:40:56,440
Today, law enforcement
has a completely different
set of tools
722
00:40:56,560 --> 00:40:59,800
and skills than we did
five or ten years ago.
723
00:40:59,880 --> 00:41:01,240
[Tomas] Yes.
724
00:41:01,320 --> 00:41:02,720
-Hi.
-Hi.
725
00:41:03,560 --> 00:41:06,280
[Tomas] It's very important
to send a clear message.
726
00:41:06,400 --> 00:41:08,800
You can't do this,
because you'll be convicted.
727
00:41:10,080 --> 00:41:11,720
[gentle music]
728
00:41:11,840 --> 00:41:13,840
Children can be given
reassurance.
729
00:41:13,920 --> 00:41:15,320
This is not okay.
730
00:41:16,680 --> 00:41:19,320
This is not how
you're supposed to live.
731
00:41:19,400 --> 00:41:21,560
And that's not unimportant.
732
00:41:21,680 --> 00:41:25,320
[♪]
733
00:41:25,400 --> 00:41:27,760
[Carola] The shame
and the guilt
734
00:41:27,840 --> 00:41:30,120
are never going
to fully leave me.
735
00:41:30,200 --> 00:41:34,040
[♪]
736
00:41:34,120 --> 00:41:37,160
It's so much easier
with your own feelings.
737
00:41:38,960 --> 00:41:41,360
Putting a lid on them
when it gets too hard.
738
00:41:44,760 --> 00:41:49,080
But not being able
to protect my children
739
00:41:52,240 --> 00:41:56,560
and knowing I played a part
in four children
740
00:41:57,640 --> 00:41:59,640
growing up in misery.
741
00:42:01,520 --> 00:42:04,680
[♪]
742
00:42:04,800 --> 00:42:08,560
Children who grow up with
parents like these become
743
00:42:10,720 --> 00:42:12,320
very adaptable.
744
00:42:12,440 --> 00:42:14,480
[♪]
745
00:42:14,600 --> 00:42:17,560
[children shouting distantly]
746
00:42:17,680 --> 00:42:21,120
But their own needs
usually go unmet.
747
00:42:22,920 --> 00:42:25,360
[speaking in another language]
748
00:42:26,360 --> 00:42:30,200
I mean, my hope is that they
will grow up with caring,
749
00:42:30,320 --> 00:42:31,960
dependable adults,
750
00:42:34,040 --> 00:42:39,600
who treat others
with dignity and respect.
751
00:42:40,520 --> 00:42:42,640
[laughing]
752
00:42:42,720 --> 00:42:49,720
TODAY, CAROLA HAS SOLE CUSTODY
OF THEIR CHILDREN.
753
00:42:49,840 --> 00:42:52,560
[hopeful music]
754
00:42:52,680 --> 00:42:59,280
SHE'S PUBLISHED A BOOK
ABOUT HER EXPERIENCES.
755
00:43:01,560 --> 00:43:04,920
HÅKAN HAS APPLIED FOR A RETRIAL
TO TRY HIS CASE AGAIN,
756
00:43:05,000 --> 00:43:09,640
BUT TO THIS DAY
HAS NOT BEEN ABLE TO PRESENT
THE NECESSARY EVIDENCE.
757
00:43:23,080 --> 00:43:26,600
[solemn music]
758
00:43:37,720 --> 00:43:42,000
[♪]
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