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- Previously
on "The Bold Type"...
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- Ryan and I haven't had sex
since he got back
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from his book tour,
and it's becoming a problem.
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- I'm okay, but you're not.
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- So Ryan couldn't get it up.
It happens.
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- I don't know.
It feels like we're broken.
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- Mark has a team
going to Ukraine
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to cover the Russian invasion.
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He wants me to join,
and I said yes.
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- How unhappy are you
with our marriage, Ian?
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- I think about
as unhappy as you, Jacqueline.
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- I've been looking
for something
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to make me feel better
about losing.
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I learned a lot about myself
and about what I wanted.
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I think if I don't run from it,
I can turn it
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into something
really incredible.
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I need to find myself again.
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- I really want to thank you
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for you you've embraced
the new "Scarlet."
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- Since I lost
the election,
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it's a different way
for me to help people.
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- Oliver did say
that he wanted to promote you.
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He just can't.
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So make yourself
more promotable.
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- Make yourself a brand.
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Get a bunch
of Instagram followers.
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- A fashion influencer?
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- Sutton Brady,
fashion influencer.
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- Oh, Jane, I think
this is working.
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- I can see that.
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- Mm, we're definitely
getting harder.
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- Well, that's the goal,
isn't it?
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[door opens, closes]
- Yes, it is.
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- Alex, is that you?
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- Yeah.
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- Come in here, join us.
- Yeah, check this out, dude.
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- ♪ I just let it go
and roll off my back ♪
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♪
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- Ah, spa day... again.
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- Yep.
- And you're in luck.
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I got a face mask just for you.
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- [gasps]
No, thanks, I'm good.
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- Come on.
Get over here.
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- Come on, roomie,
you're gonna love this.
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I'm a convert.
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- Okay, so hate to break it
to you, but I've been noticing
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that you have some dry spots
there, there, there, and there,
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and guess what.
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I'm a good friend,
so I'm gonna help you out.
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- Oh.
- Got you this vitamin C mask.
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It's gonna fix
all your problems.
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You are gonna be glowing.
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We won't even need
the sunshine, okay?
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- Mm-hmm.
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- Just wait till
it starts tingling.
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- [chuckles]
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- How long?
- Eh, 45 minutes.
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- [softly]
Great.
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- Okay, smile.
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- ♪ Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh
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♪ Ooh, ooh, ooh
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[elevator bell dings]
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- Have you talked
to Jane recently?
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- Is that a real question?
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- Oh, I'm just
a little concerned.
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This is the second week
in a row
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Ryan ditched a publishing
party so he could stay at home
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in sweats
and make face masks with Jane,
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which they were very
eager for me to join.
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- Yes, we did see
the Insta story,
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and your skin--
well, it looks fantastic.
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- Hmm.
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- I think we should
talk to Jane.
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- Why? 'Cause they're
into a little self-care?
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I think it's fine.
- It's more than a little.
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It's all they do.
- Are they having sex?
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- That's a tough question
for a roommate to answer
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without seeming pervy.
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- So what?
- No, not going there.
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- Alex?
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[gasps]
Sage, hi.
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- Hi.
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- I tried the selfie stick
last night.
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- Uh-huh.
- I think I'm in love.
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- [laughs]
- It's a vibrator.
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- [gasps] Oh, fun name.
- Mm.
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- Well, I have a lot more
where that came from,
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and if you like them,
you should give 'em
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a shout-out
on your Insta story.
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- Yes.
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- So your friends created
this vibrator company?
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- Yeah, five years ago
from their apartment.
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And they're launching
with a huge billboard.
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Check it out.
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- "Yes, yes, yes,
I'm so good."
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- [scoffs]
Killer billboard.
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- You know, with a phone app,
someone in, I don't know,
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San Francisco
can control that one.
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- [gasps]
Thank you.
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- Hey, what are we looking at?
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- State-of-the-art vibrators
courtesy of Sage's friends.
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- Hmm.
- Jane...
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- I'm good.
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- What?
- Excuse me?
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- Did you just say no
to a free vibrator?
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- So?
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- A vibrator.
And you could use it with Ryan.
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- And it's free.
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[indistinct chatter]
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- I'm just not interested.
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- So confusing to me.
- Oh, no.
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- Think you were right.
- I was.
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- Right about what?
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- Fashion closet.
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- Come on, Jane.
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- I have no idea.
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- Come on, Jane.
- Oh, my G--okay.
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Am I in trouble?
- Yes.
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- Okay, what is this?
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Because this feels like
an intervention.
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- Well, that's because it is.
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We saw your Instagram story
with Alex.
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- I know you saw it.
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You commented that you wish
you had been invited.
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- Well...
- Indeed.
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That was before we
found out
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about all of the other
sad spa dates.
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- Why is he talking to you
about this?
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- We know Ryan's been having
a little trouble, you know...
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- Pitching a tent.
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- Taking it from six to noon.
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- You know, flying the flag
at half-mast.
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- Full salute.
- Getting an erection.
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- Yeah, no, I get it.
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There's nothing wrong
with having a chill night
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with your boyfriend
and watching old movies
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and giving
each other facials.
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- I think they're the wrong
kind of facials, though.
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- Oh, it's like
lesbian bed death,
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and you guys
aren't even lesbians.
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- Okay, you guys,
I really appreciate
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your concern,
but there's not a problem.
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Ryan and I are fine.
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So...bye.
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- Mm.
- Hmm.
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Well, that went well.
[door opens]
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- Hey, do you have any
cute styling pics to show me?
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[door closes]
- Yeah.
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So I got that at a consignment
shop in Williamsburg.
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- So cute.
I love these.
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But why aren't you in them?
- Ooh, I'm not a model.
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- You know that your brand is,
like, 10% your style
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and the other 90%
is you.
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- Hmm.
- You know?
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- Mm-hmm.
- I mean, think about it.
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Selby Drummond, Erin Foster--
they're influencers you know
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because they're
in their photos.
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- I don't know
if I want to do that, though.
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In the clothes, in the photos.
- Right.
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So that when the time comes
for a promotion,
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everybody knows
who Sutton Brady is,
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and they can't say no, right?
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- Right.
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- Great, can't wait to see
more photos with you in them.
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- Yeah.
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[door opens]
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[sighs]
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[door closes]
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- Okay, small team,
who's next?
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Alex.
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- I have an interview
with Antoni from "Queer Eye"
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set for next week.
- Fantastic.
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- He's so hot.
- I know.
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- Also, I want to make
"Ask Alex" "Ask Alex Live."
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- Live?
- Yes.
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Readers will send in questions,
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and then you will answer them
on a live podcast format.
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- Live? [clears throat]
- You just said that.
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- [giggles]
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- And I think
you're gonna do a great job.
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- Live.
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- Sage...
- Mm-hmm.
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- How is your millennial
sex-party piece coming?
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- Well, I scored two tickets
to the very exclusive
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high-end Bacchanal
on Wednesday night, so, yay.
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- Fantastic.
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- But I'm having
a little herpes flare-up,
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so, morally, boo.
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- I applaud your restraint.
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- Jane, might be
a nice follow-up
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to your
tantric-sex marathon piece.
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- Uh, well, actually,
I was thinking
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of pitching
a beauty story
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about how face masks
are the new Friday night.
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[chuckles]
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- Are they?
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[dramatic music]
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- So, um,
actually, I have an idea.
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Sage's friends just started
a vibrator company.
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They're called Broads.
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They are very focused
on female pleasure,
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run by women.
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I would really like to promote
them on social media, but--
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- It's too close
to advertorial.
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- Yeah.
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- We walk that line
all the time, Kat.
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I will leave that up to you.
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I know you'll do
the right thing.
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- Okay.
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- All right,
that's it for now.
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Uh, Sage.
- Yeah.
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- Are these, uh,
available for sampling?
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I'd like to try one.
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- Yes.
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- Ian might be gone,
but I'm not sitting at home
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in my sweats doing nothing.
- [chuckles]
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Okay, uh...
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might I suggest
Her Royal Vagesty?
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- Oh.
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- Um, I'll do it.
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Uh, the--the sex-club story.
I'll do it.
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- You know
you have to go, right?
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- Yeah, I know.
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- Okay.
- Great.
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I look forward to seeing
what you come up with.
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Oh, oh.
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- [clears throat]
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[device vibrating]
- Hmm, very interesting.
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This should be fun.
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- A live podcast--
isn't that just radio?
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- Yeah, but it's--you know,
it's a podcast
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with a livestream, you know.
- Wait. Video?
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- Yeah.
- Oh, my God.
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- Hey, Tiny Jane.
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Sex club?
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- If you get a plus-one,
I'm coming.
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- Uh, it's already taken.
- How could you do this to me?
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- I am inviting Ryan.
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- Oh.
- Huh.
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- You guys are right.
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Our sex life is
a little dead right now,
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and maybe a sex party
will fix it.
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- Yes, we fixed it.
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[line trilling]
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[device vibrating,
cell phone ringing]
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- [moans]
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[line trilling]
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[cell phone continues ringing,
Kat moans]
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[sighs]
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Oh, my God.
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[sighs]
252
00:08:51,400 --> 00:08:53,271
[cell phone continues ringing]
253
00:08:53,315 --> 00:08:54,446
[sighs]
254
00:08:54,490 --> 00:08:56,100
What?
255
00:08:56,144 --> 00:08:58,320
- Hello to you, too.
How are you?
256
00:08:58,363 --> 00:09:00,583
- Oh, you know,
honestly, I've been better.
257
00:09:00,627 --> 00:09:04,413
I was, uh, closing in
on an orgasm when you called.
258
00:09:04,456 --> 00:09:06,415
- Why did you answer?
- Don't know.
259
00:09:06,458 --> 00:09:08,373
Might hang up.
- No, no, no, no, don't, don't.
260
00:09:08,417 --> 00:09:09,636
I need your help.
261
00:09:09,679 --> 00:09:12,508
I have no idea
what to wear to a sex club.
262
00:09:12,552 --> 00:09:14,336
- And you think I do?
263
00:09:14,379 --> 00:09:16,077
- Well, to be fair,
I did call Sutton first,
264
00:09:16,120 --> 00:09:17,557
but she didn't answer.
- Really, Jane?
265
00:09:17,600 --> 00:09:18,601
That hurts.
266
00:09:18,645 --> 00:09:21,343
But I also get it.
267
00:09:21,386 --> 00:09:23,258
[sighs] Are you sure
this is a good idea, though?
268
00:09:23,301 --> 00:09:25,434
It's a pretty big swing.
269
00:09:25,477 --> 00:09:27,697
- Yeah, well, Ryan and I
need a big swing.
270
00:09:27,741 --> 00:09:30,221
I mean, tantric sex
didn't work,
271
00:09:30,265 --> 00:09:32,484
and now he's in his head,
272
00:09:32,528 --> 00:09:35,444
and I just think I need
something to shock his system,
273
00:09:35,487 --> 00:09:37,446
get him out of his sex slump.
274
00:09:37,489 --> 00:09:39,100
- No, that makes sense.
275
00:09:39,143 --> 00:09:41,755
- Okay, so what do we think,
like, a little black dress?
276
00:09:41,798 --> 00:09:45,541
- Uh, no, it's not
a cocktail party, Jane.
277
00:09:45,585 --> 00:09:47,630
It's an orgy.
- You don't know that.
278
00:09:47,674 --> 00:09:50,067
- I might.
- You've been to one?
279
00:09:50,111 --> 00:09:52,504
- Okay, fine,
so I've never been,
280
00:09:52,548 --> 00:09:54,376
but I feel like
it's a pretty good guess.
281
00:09:54,419 --> 00:09:55,377
- [groans]
282
00:09:55,420 --> 00:09:57,553
Okay, so what do we think,
283
00:09:57,597 --> 00:10:00,295
like, a trench coat
or something?
284
00:10:00,338 --> 00:10:04,212
- Uh, yeah, yeah,
and lingerie...
285
00:10:04,255 --> 00:10:05,561
but sexy lingerie.
286
00:10:05,605 --> 00:10:08,390
Do not show up
in a plain black camisole.
287
00:10:08,433 --> 00:10:11,393
- Yeah, no, absolutely not.
288
00:10:11,436 --> 00:10:13,003
- Okay.
289
00:10:15,310 --> 00:10:17,355
Can I go now?
I got to get back to this.
290
00:10:17,399 --> 00:10:19,793
- All right, bye.
- Bye.
291
00:10:19,836 --> 00:10:22,143
[device vibrating]
292
00:10:22,186 --> 00:10:23,535
[sighs happily]
293
00:10:26,843 --> 00:10:29,672
- [gasps]
[cell phone ringing]
294
00:10:29,716 --> 00:10:31,152
- Hi, beautiful.
295
00:10:31,195 --> 00:10:33,415
- Finished with work already?
- Kind of.
296
00:10:33,458 --> 00:10:36,418
Some investors are taking us
for a sail in the marina.
297
00:10:36,461 --> 00:10:38,159
- Wow, that sounds fun.
298
00:10:38,202 --> 00:10:40,291
- Technically,
it's still work.
299
00:10:40,335 --> 00:10:42,163
Seems like people here
are actually attempting
300
00:10:42,206 --> 00:10:43,512
this whole
work-life-balance thing.
301
00:10:43,555 --> 00:10:45,383
- I have something
to add to that balance.
302
00:10:45,427 --> 00:10:47,211
I have a vibrator
that you can operate
303
00:10:47,255 --> 00:10:49,692
through an app
from San Francisco.
304
00:10:49,736 --> 00:10:51,346
- Really?
305
00:10:51,389 --> 00:10:53,696
- Yeah, I'm gonna have
the IT guy help me set it up.
306
00:10:53,740 --> 00:10:55,698
- [stammers] No way an IT guy
with a man bun
307
00:10:55,742 --> 00:10:57,352
is gonna help you
set that up.
308
00:10:57,395 --> 00:10:59,397
- [laughs]
We'll figure it out later.
309
00:10:59,441 --> 00:11:01,573
- How's the fashion-influencer
thing going?
310
00:11:01,617 --> 00:11:03,271
- Honestly, it isn't.
311
00:11:03,314 --> 00:11:05,273
Kat keeps telling me
that I have to put myself
312
00:11:05,316 --> 00:11:07,405
in the photos
and show the world who I am,
313
00:11:07,449 --> 00:11:10,278
but I don't want to walk around
Manhattan snapping selfies.
314
00:11:10,321 --> 00:11:12,062
- So do it from our apartment.
315
00:11:12,106 --> 00:11:14,674
Show them Sutton Brady
in her cool, new home.
316
00:11:14,717 --> 00:11:17,154
- Yeah, maybe.
317
00:11:17,198 --> 00:11:18,590
- You can do it.
318
00:11:18,634 --> 00:11:21,637
[light music]
319
00:11:21,681 --> 00:11:27,643
♪
320
00:11:27,687 --> 00:11:29,079
[liquid pouring]
321
00:11:29,123 --> 00:11:30,559
- Hey.
- Hi.
322
00:11:30,602 --> 00:11:34,128
- If Broads goes public,
I've decided I'm buying stock.
323
00:11:34,171 --> 00:11:35,129
- [gasps]
324
00:11:35,172 --> 00:11:36,434
You tried the Ex Machina.
325
00:11:36,478 --> 00:11:38,175
- Oh, yeah.
Ten out of ten.
326
00:11:38,219 --> 00:11:41,570
Even Tiny Jane's tiny little
face couldn't kill my buzz.
327
00:11:41,613 --> 00:11:43,441
- Hmm?
- That company is amazing.
328
00:11:43,485 --> 00:11:45,313
I can't wait
for their billboard to go up--
329
00:11:45,356 --> 00:11:47,184
something that publicly says
it's okay for a woman...
330
00:11:47,228 --> 00:11:48,664
- No, Kat--
331
00:11:48,708 --> 00:11:50,448
- To please herself
and she doesn't need a partner.
332
00:11:50,492 --> 00:11:52,755
- No, the billboard company
pulled the ad this morning.
333
00:11:52,799 --> 00:11:54,626
- What?
Why?
334
00:11:54,670 --> 00:11:57,107
- They said it was profane.
335
00:11:57,151 --> 00:11:59,414
- Profane?
336
00:11:59,457 --> 00:12:03,113
The ad said,
"Yes, yes, yes, I'm so good."
337
00:12:03,157 --> 00:12:04,680
What is profane about that?
338
00:12:04,724 --> 00:12:07,291
- I don't know,
but it's City Billboard's call.
339
00:12:07,335 --> 00:12:09,554
There's nothing my friends
can do about it now.
340
00:12:09,598 --> 00:12:11,295
- Hmm.
341
00:12:11,339 --> 00:12:12,775
Okay.
342
00:12:12,819 --> 00:12:14,385
That's bullshit.
343
00:12:14,429 --> 00:12:16,866
- [stammers]
344
00:12:16,910 --> 00:12:19,521
[indistinct chatter]
- [sighs]
345
00:12:19,564 --> 00:12:22,393
[smooth music]
346
00:12:22,437 --> 00:12:25,701
Hey, I'm Alex,
you must be the new tech.
347
00:12:25,745 --> 00:12:28,530
- You're Alex as in "Ask Alex"?
348
00:12:28,573 --> 00:12:29,792
- You seem surprised.
349
00:12:29,836 --> 00:12:33,317
- I just kind of assumed
you'd be, you know...
350
00:12:33,361 --> 00:12:34,362
- Older?
351
00:12:34,405 --> 00:12:35,537
- A woman.
352
00:12:37,278 --> 00:12:40,368
- Well, I'm Alex, a man.
353
00:12:40,411 --> 00:12:43,284
- I'm Lisa, a tech.
354
00:12:44,459 --> 00:12:46,417
I have some deodorant here.
355
00:12:46,461 --> 00:12:49,333
You want a hit?
You seem a little nervous.
356
00:12:50,334 --> 00:12:53,207
- [chuckles]
No, I'm all right, thanks.
357
00:12:53,250 --> 00:12:55,862
- Oh, pit stains in front
of 10,000 live viewers...
358
00:12:55,905 --> 00:12:57,559
authentic, I like it.
359
00:12:57,602 --> 00:12:59,779
- 10,000 viewers?
360
00:12:59,822 --> 00:13:01,693
- Mm-hmm.
361
00:13:03,913 --> 00:13:05,697
- You know, maybe I'll take
a hit of that.
362
00:13:07,351 --> 00:13:10,615
- ♪ One day
I'm gonna be a big kid ♪
363
00:13:10,659 --> 00:13:13,444
- You really didn't have to
bring all this down.
364
00:13:13,488 --> 00:13:15,272
- It's my pleasure,
Mrs. Hunter.
365
00:13:15,316 --> 00:13:18,362
- Sutton, Roy, not married yet.
366
00:13:18,406 --> 00:13:20,756
- Well, you got to take it for
a test-drive before you buy it.
367
00:13:20,800 --> 00:13:22,323
How do you like living here?
368
00:13:22,366 --> 00:13:23,846
- It's great, but I usually
carry my own dresses.
369
00:13:23,890 --> 00:13:25,413
- You'll get used to it.
370
00:13:25,456 --> 00:13:27,371
If you need anything,
just buzz.
371
00:13:27,415 --> 00:13:29,852
- Thank you.
- Okay.
372
00:13:29,896 --> 00:13:31,767
- ♪ So you've been
around the block ♪
373
00:13:31,811 --> 00:13:33,769
♪ Well, watch what'll happen
374
00:13:33,813 --> 00:13:35,379
♪ If you don't let me walk
375
00:13:35,423 --> 00:13:37,555
♪ I might as well
get flattened by a car ♪
376
00:13:37,599 --> 00:13:40,732
♪ You wouldn't let me
drive it, anyway ♪
377
00:13:40,776 --> 00:13:44,998
♪ I won't have
to prove myself someday ♪
378
00:13:45,041 --> 00:13:48,349
♪ One day
I'm gonna be a big kid ♪
379
00:13:48,392 --> 00:13:49,829
♪ Gonna be a big kid
380
00:13:49,872 --> 00:13:52,396
- I'm gonna count you down.
Headphones look dumb.
381
00:13:52,440 --> 00:13:56,357
Five, four, three, two...
382
00:13:56,400 --> 00:13:57,749
We're live.
383
00:13:57,793 --> 00:14:00,752
- Hey, I'm Alex Crawford
from "Scarlet" magazine,
384
00:14:00,796 --> 00:14:03,538
and I write
the "Ask Alex" column.
385
00:14:03,581 --> 00:14:05,888
I'm gonna be answering
questions in real time,
386
00:14:05,932 --> 00:14:08,891
so hit me up.
387
00:14:08,935 --> 00:14:11,024
Here's one
that we can all relate to.
388
00:14:11,067 --> 00:14:12,373
[chuckles]
389
00:14:12,416 --> 00:14:14,027
"I'm stuck in the friend zone.
390
00:14:14,070 --> 00:14:18,770
How do I take this relationship
from platonic to romantic?"
391
00:14:18,814 --> 00:14:21,686
Okay, so the first step
of getting
392
00:14:21,730 --> 00:14:25,299
out of the friend zone is
making it clear you want out.
393
00:14:25,342 --> 00:14:28,780
Uh, so you could just tell
that person how you're feeling,
394
00:14:28,824 --> 00:14:31,696
which I did once--
twice, actually.
395
00:14:31,740 --> 00:14:33,481
Different people.
396
00:14:33,524 --> 00:14:37,398
Uh, "What happened
to the first one?"
397
00:14:37,441 --> 00:14:40,488
We're just friends and--
398
00:14:40,531 --> 00:14:41,706
[chuckles awkwardly]
399
00:14:41,750 --> 00:14:44,709
Well, no, not exactly.
She's engaged now.
400
00:14:44,753 --> 00:14:47,538
Getting back to it,
alternatively, you could just
401
00:14:47,582 --> 00:14:52,326
take the plunge and go
straight right in for a kiss.
402
00:14:52,369 --> 00:14:53,675
If you have consent,
403
00:14:53,718 --> 00:14:56,417
because consent
is the most important part
404
00:14:56,460 --> 00:14:59,333
of any physical advance...
405
00:14:59,376 --> 00:15:00,769
though it kind of defeats
406
00:15:00,812 --> 00:15:03,772
the whole
taking-the-plunge idea.
407
00:15:03,815 --> 00:15:05,295
Uh, right.
[clears throat]
408
00:15:05,339 --> 00:15:07,428
So, "What happened
to the second one?"
409
00:15:07,471 --> 00:15:09,343
You guys want to know
about that.
410
00:15:09,386 --> 00:15:12,563
She left me
to go on "The Bachelor."
411
00:15:12,607 --> 00:15:15,653
Hmm, a lot of laughing emojis.
412
00:15:15,697 --> 00:15:19,092
Uh, dating these days
is a real minefield,
413
00:15:19,135 --> 00:15:23,400
which is, you know,
why you asked my opinion,
414
00:15:23,444 --> 00:15:27,535
because this is "Ask Alex."
415
00:15:29,450 --> 00:15:31,365
- Thanks for letting me shoot
at my old digs.
416
00:15:31,408 --> 00:15:33,628
Richard's was feeling
too glamorous and decadent.
417
00:15:33,671 --> 00:15:36,631
You know, this is
more accessible.
418
00:15:36,674 --> 00:15:38,938
- I will try to take
that as a compliment.
419
00:15:38,981 --> 00:15:41,114
- It is.
- Hmm.
420
00:15:41,157 --> 00:15:43,464
So you like these better?
421
00:15:43,507 --> 00:15:45,727
- I think so.
I don't know.
422
00:15:45,770 --> 00:15:47,729
I'm still trying to figure out
what I want to put out there.
423
00:15:47,772 --> 00:15:49,209
It's kind of weird.
424
00:15:49,252 --> 00:15:51,820
- You will, but you're gonna
have to do it at Richard's,
425
00:15:51,863 --> 00:15:53,604
because Ryan's
gonna be home any second
426
00:15:53,648 --> 00:15:55,345
and I have to invite
him to a sex club.
427
00:15:55,389 --> 00:15:58,000
- Yes, and, of course, if he's
not into the sex-club thing--
428
00:15:58,044 --> 00:15:59,828
- You will be
my plus-one, yes.
429
00:15:59,871 --> 00:16:01,351
[door closes]
430
00:16:01,395 --> 00:16:02,570
- Hello, ladies.
431
00:16:02,613 --> 00:16:03,658
- Hello, Ryan.
- Hi.
432
00:16:03,701 --> 00:16:05,007
Right on time.
433
00:16:05,051 --> 00:16:06,835
Hi.
- Did you win?
434
00:16:06,878 --> 00:16:08,663
- Oh, man, it was a crazy game.
435
00:16:08,706 --> 00:16:10,012
2-2 going
into the third period--
436
00:16:10,056 --> 00:16:11,492
- Yes or no
would have been good.
437
00:16:11,535 --> 00:16:12,536
[softly]
See you.
438
00:16:12,580 --> 00:16:13,668
- [softly]
Okay, yep.
439
00:16:13,711 --> 00:16:15,496
It was a yes, by the way.
440
00:16:15,539 --> 00:16:17,454
[refrigerator door opens,
closes]
441
00:16:17,498 --> 00:16:19,500
It really was a crazy game.
- Yeah?
442
00:16:19,543 --> 00:16:20,501
- Yeah.
- Glad you went?
443
00:16:20,544 --> 00:16:21,850
- Yeah, thanks for pushing me.
444
00:16:21,893 --> 00:16:25,506
Felt good to get
back on the ice again.
445
00:16:25,549 --> 00:16:27,682
- Well, uh, speaking of getting
back out there,
446
00:16:27,725 --> 00:16:29,989
I had an idea.
447
00:16:30,032 --> 00:16:31,512
- Takeout from
that new Malaysian place?
448
00:16:31,555 --> 00:16:33,166
I heard they make you
sign a waiver
449
00:16:33,209 --> 00:16:35,603
if you get
the ghost pepper curry.
450
00:16:35,646 --> 00:16:37,387
- Not exactly.
451
00:16:37,431 --> 00:16:38,867
Um...
452
00:16:38,910 --> 00:16:42,871
well, I was just wondering
if maybe you wanted
453
00:16:42,914 --> 00:16:45,700
to go to a sex club with me
tomorrow night.
454
00:16:45,743 --> 00:16:47,049
- Excuse me?
455
00:16:47,093 --> 00:16:50,400
- Well, Jacqueline
assigned me this story
456
00:16:50,444 --> 00:16:52,881
about how sex clubs
457
00:16:52,924 --> 00:16:55,710
are becoming more popular
among millennials.
458
00:16:55,753 --> 00:16:58,713
- You want to go
to a sex club?
459
00:16:58,756 --> 00:17:01,716
- It's my job
to go to a sex club
460
00:17:01,759 --> 00:17:03,457
and to write about it.
461
00:17:03,500 --> 00:17:06,895
I just thought that it might be
fun for us to go together,
462
00:17:06,938 --> 00:17:09,202
observe.
463
00:17:09,245 --> 00:17:11,073
- Ah, I don't know.
- We've watched porn together.
464
00:17:11,117 --> 00:17:12,901
- What?
Yeah, but that's different.
465
00:17:12,944 --> 00:17:17,471
Just think of it like that,
except just live.
466
00:17:17,514 --> 00:17:19,081
Come on.
467
00:17:19,125 --> 00:17:22,084
We've been in
kind of a sex rut lately,
468
00:17:22,128 --> 00:17:26,480
and, I don't know, maybe this
could snap us out of it.
469
00:17:28,525 --> 00:17:30,745
- Okay, okay.
470
00:17:30,788 --> 00:17:32,747
If you want to go
to a sex club,
471
00:17:32,790 --> 00:17:34,531
I will go with you.
472
00:17:36,229 --> 00:17:39,145
[both chuckle]
473
00:17:39,188 --> 00:17:41,451
- ♪ I guess you think
I'm not as good... ♪
474
00:17:41,495 --> 00:17:43,149
- Oh, hot date tonight?
475
00:17:43,192 --> 00:17:44,150
- Nope.
476
00:17:44,193 --> 00:17:46,456
[laughter]
477
00:17:46,500 --> 00:17:47,936
I still don't get
478
00:17:47,979 --> 00:17:50,156
what they could possibly think
is profane about this ad.
479
00:17:50,199 --> 00:17:51,896
- Maybe someone
at City Billboards
480
00:17:51,940 --> 00:17:53,507
just doesn't want
to promote sex toys.
481
00:17:53,550 --> 00:17:54,812
- Yeah, but have you
seen the ads
482
00:17:54,856 --> 00:17:57,946
for that erectile dysfunction
medication--Rect?
483
00:17:57,989 --> 00:17:59,948
- Ugh, the one
with the corn on the cob
484
00:17:59,991 --> 00:18:01,123
shaped like a penis?
- Mm-hmm.
485
00:18:01,167 --> 00:18:02,907
- That's profane.
- Exactly.
486
00:18:02,951 --> 00:18:05,519
And they're all over Manhattan,
including billboards,
487
00:18:05,562 --> 00:18:08,043
and pulling the ad is a full-on
sexist double standard,
488
00:18:08,087 --> 00:18:09,958
and we have to do
something about it.
489
00:18:10,001 --> 00:18:12,526
- Kat, my friends at Broads
have made peace with it.
490
00:18:12,569 --> 00:18:14,049
- Well, I haven't.
491
00:18:14,093 --> 00:18:17,139
Come on, Sage, this is the kind
of thing Scarlet can fix.
492
00:18:17,183 --> 00:18:19,054
Do you have plans tonight?
493
00:18:19,098 --> 00:18:21,622
- I am going to order in
and watch Trevor Noah.
494
00:18:21,665 --> 00:18:23,189
- So...no?
495
00:18:23,232 --> 00:18:24,842
- No. [chuckles]
- Come on.
496
00:18:24,886 --> 00:18:26,148
- Where are we going?
497
00:18:26,192 --> 00:18:27,628
- Oh, we're not
gonna go anywhere.
498
00:18:27,671 --> 00:18:28,629
We're gonna make tweets.
499
00:18:28,672 --> 00:18:30,805
- [gasps]
Yes, yes.
500
00:18:30,848 --> 00:18:33,024
I love when you get like this.
501
00:18:35,679 --> 00:18:38,204
- Okay.
- Let's burn it down.
502
00:18:38,247 --> 00:18:40,554
- [chuckles] Yeah.
- [laughs]
503
00:18:44,253 --> 00:18:46,777
[indistinct chatter]
504
00:18:46,821 --> 00:18:48,779
- All right, step away
from the free sandwiches,
505
00:18:48,823 --> 00:18:50,129
and let's review
your Instagram.
506
00:18:50,172 --> 00:18:51,826
- This one's good.
507
00:18:51,869 --> 00:18:53,828
It's a little Kardashian,
but...
508
00:18:53,871 --> 00:18:56,222
You know what?
You're owning it.
509
00:18:56,265 --> 00:18:58,615
- I literally don't own
any of it.
510
00:18:58,659 --> 00:19:01,183
- Oh, right.
This one's cute.
511
00:19:02,924 --> 00:19:04,534
Hey, why'd you take off
your engagement ring?
512
00:19:04,578 --> 00:19:06,188
- I don't know.
It just didn't feel right.
513
00:19:06,232 --> 00:19:07,798
I mean, don't get me wrong.
514
00:19:07,842 --> 00:19:09,800
I'm so happy
to be engaged to Richard.
515
00:19:09,844 --> 00:19:12,020
I just hoped that I would be
516
00:19:12,063 --> 00:19:14,196
in a different spot
in my career when it happened.
517
00:19:14,240 --> 00:19:16,938
I don't know. I feel like
I'm two Sutton Bradys--
518
00:19:16,981 --> 00:19:18,157
the one who works
as an assistant
519
00:19:18,200 --> 00:19:20,811
making 750 a week...
and the other one
520
00:19:20,855 --> 00:19:23,074
who wears a vintage
diamond engagement ring
521
00:19:23,118 --> 00:19:25,207
and sleeps
in a $4 million apartment,
522
00:19:25,251 --> 00:19:27,166
and neither of them
really feel like me.
523
00:19:27,209 --> 00:19:30,995
I'll pick one--I just
don't know which one yet.
524
00:19:31,039 --> 00:19:34,564
Oh, Al,
my sincerest condolences.
525
00:19:34,608 --> 00:19:37,219
- Oh, come on, I--
I personally didn't think
526
00:19:37,263 --> 00:19:38,655
the podcast was that bad.
527
00:19:38,699 --> 00:19:40,570
It wasn't.
It was...
528
00:19:40,614 --> 00:19:42,529
- Mm, don't lie.
529
00:19:42,572 --> 00:19:45,140
- It was pretty bad.
- Yeah.
530
00:19:45,184 --> 00:19:47,229
But you should keep doing it.
531
00:19:47,273 --> 00:19:48,274
- [chuckles]
532
00:19:48,317 --> 00:19:49,666
Why?
533
00:19:49,710 --> 00:19:51,233
- Do you remember
the advice you gave me
534
00:19:51,277 --> 00:19:52,626
when I was trying
to write my bio?
535
00:19:52,669 --> 00:19:55,019
- I've given
a lot of advice this year.
536
00:19:55,063 --> 00:19:56,891
Jog my memory.
537
00:19:56,934 --> 00:19:59,676
- You have an opportunity
to make a difference.
538
00:19:59,720 --> 00:20:02,679
In my case, it was
as a queer black woman,
539
00:20:02,723 --> 00:20:05,160
and in your case,
it's as a straight black man
540
00:20:05,204 --> 00:20:07,249
working at
an all-women's magazine.
541
00:20:07,293 --> 00:20:08,250
- I agree.
542
00:20:08,294 --> 00:20:10,861
However,
being on the spot,
543
00:20:10,905 --> 00:20:13,864
having to have all the answers
right away...
544
00:20:13,908 --> 00:20:15,866
that's not me.
- Hmm.
545
00:20:15,910 --> 00:20:17,172
- I'm a writer.
546
00:20:17,216 --> 00:20:19,218
I like to take my time
with my ideas, craft them.
547
00:20:19,261 --> 00:20:22,308
- Okay, I get that, but just
because it's called "Ask Alex"
548
00:20:22,351 --> 00:20:25,049
doesn't mean you have to have
all the answers.
549
00:20:25,093 --> 00:20:29,053
Maybe think of it
as more of just listening
550
00:20:29,097 --> 00:20:31,186
and starting the conversation.
551
00:20:31,230 --> 00:20:33,232
What do you think?
552
00:20:33,275 --> 00:20:35,277
- Hmm.
553
00:20:35,321 --> 00:20:37,888
I think I'm listening.
554
00:20:37,932 --> 00:20:39,281
- Hey.
- Hey.
555
00:20:39,325 --> 00:20:41,240
- He's got the first step.
- Thanks, Kat.
556
00:20:41,283 --> 00:20:44,243
- You got it.
[cell phone vibrates]
557
00:20:46,897 --> 00:20:49,248
- Yeah, I will be home soon
to help you with your homework.
558
00:20:49,291 --> 00:20:51,902
- [whispering] See, I mean,
I don't know why we're here.
559
00:20:51,946 --> 00:20:53,817
- I got held up.
I'm on my way.
560
00:20:53,861 --> 00:20:55,863
All right, okay.
561
00:20:58,257 --> 00:21:01,303
Do you know why
I am running late?
562
00:21:01,347 --> 00:21:04,306
Because I had to talk
Robbie Davis from Rect
563
00:21:04,350 --> 00:21:06,961
out of suing us
because of your tweets.
564
00:21:07,004 --> 00:21:11,095
- But I mean, all--all press
is--is good press, right?
565
00:21:11,139 --> 00:21:13,272
- Uh, yeah, I, too,
have heard that said.
566
00:21:13,315 --> 00:21:18,277
- Not when you are calling
for men to boycott his product.
567
00:21:18,320 --> 00:21:19,669
- Technically, that wasn't us.
568
00:21:19,713 --> 00:21:21,149
We were just trying to say,
569
00:21:21,192 --> 00:21:23,760
if Rect is allowed to advertise
on City Billboards,
570
00:21:23,804 --> 00:21:25,414
then Broad should be allowed
to do so as well.
571
00:21:25,458 --> 00:21:29,418
- Yeah, I recognize that,
but you inspired boycott talk,
572
00:21:29,462 --> 00:21:31,768
and you did nothing to stop it.
573
00:21:31,812 --> 00:21:33,988
Now, I understand that these
are your friends, Sage.
574
00:21:34,031 --> 00:21:36,947
- Oh, I-I feel like
I should take responsibility.
575
00:21:36,991 --> 00:21:39,254
This was my idea.
576
00:21:39,298 --> 00:21:40,908
But I do feel like we have
577
00:21:40,951 --> 00:21:43,345
every right to be mad,
you know?
578
00:21:43,389 --> 00:21:44,912
I mean, this isn't even
about the way
579
00:21:44,955 --> 00:21:46,087
that the Broads ad looks.
580
00:21:46,130 --> 00:21:48,132
It's actually
about an advertising outlet
581
00:21:48,176 --> 00:21:50,221
that doesn't want to promote
a woman's desire
582
00:21:50,265 --> 00:21:52,963
to please herself
despite not having a partner.
583
00:21:53,007 --> 00:21:56,967
- Broads is promoting
sexual independence for women.
584
00:21:57,011 --> 00:21:58,404
- Yes.
585
00:21:58,447 --> 00:22:02,277
And I think it's really
important for women to see
586
00:22:02,321 --> 00:22:06,325
that you can be alone
and be sexually satisfied.
587
00:22:06,368 --> 00:22:10,720
- I understand,
and I respect the message,
588
00:22:10,764 --> 00:22:14,158
just not the way which you were
trying to get it across.
589
00:22:14,202 --> 00:22:17,248
- Got it.
We will change the messaging.
590
00:22:18,424 --> 00:22:19,381
- Thank you.
591
00:22:22,079 --> 00:22:26,388
That said...
by all means, use our platform
592
00:22:26,432 --> 00:22:28,912
to promote women's pleasure.
593
00:22:28,956 --> 00:22:31,088
[soft dramatic music]
594
00:22:31,132 --> 00:22:32,394
- [gasps]
595
00:22:32,438 --> 00:22:34,178
[both giggle]
596
00:22:34,222 --> 00:22:37,051
- [inhales deeply]
597
00:22:40,359 --> 00:22:41,490
Wow.
598
00:22:41,534 --> 00:22:44,232
- [chuckles]
You like?
599
00:22:44,275 --> 00:22:47,017
- Yeah, very much.
600
00:22:47,061 --> 00:22:48,192
- [chuckles]
601
00:22:48,236 --> 00:22:50,194
- I just, um...
602
00:22:50,238 --> 00:22:52,196
guess I feel
a bit underdressed now?
603
00:22:52,240 --> 00:22:55,286
Overdressed?
I don't really know what to--
604
00:22:55,330 --> 00:22:57,201
- It's fine as long
as you're comfortable.
605
00:22:57,245 --> 00:22:59,334
Do you think we need
to bring anything?
606
00:22:59,378 --> 00:23:01,423
- I--what would we bring?
607
00:23:01,467 --> 00:23:04,252
- I don't know.
It's my first sex party.
608
00:23:04,295 --> 00:23:09,213
Do we bring hand sanitizer, uh,
condoms, a cheese plate?
609
00:23:09,257 --> 00:23:11,128
- Why would we need condoms?
610
00:23:11,172 --> 00:23:13,304
- What do you mean?
611
00:23:13,348 --> 00:23:14,871
- What do you mean?
612
00:23:14,915 --> 00:23:19,136
You said we were gonna just
observe a sex party, right?
613
00:23:19,180 --> 00:23:21,530
Like watching live porn?
614
00:23:21,574 --> 00:23:25,273
Are you planning on us
having sex at this club?
615
00:23:25,316 --> 00:23:28,407
- I don't know, maybe.
616
00:23:28,450 --> 00:23:30,321
- Maybe.
617
00:23:31,148 --> 00:23:32,367
Uh...
618
00:23:32,411 --> 00:23:35,544
- I don't know.
I'm just--I'm just trying to--
619
00:23:35,588 --> 00:23:37,459
- Trying to what?
620
00:23:37,503 --> 00:23:42,116
- [sighs]
You know, help you.
621
00:23:42,159 --> 00:23:45,293
- It's just--it's kind of
making things worse.
622
00:23:47,121 --> 00:23:48,818
[sighs]
623
00:23:48,862 --> 00:23:50,559
I don't expect you
to forgive me
624
00:23:50,603 --> 00:23:51,995
for what I did with that woman.
625
00:23:52,039 --> 00:23:54,389
- But that's the thing--
I have forgiven you.
626
00:23:54,433 --> 00:23:55,608
- I know
that you say you have.
627
00:23:55,651 --> 00:23:59,089
- Ryan, I'm telling you,
I have forgiven you.
628
00:23:59,133 --> 00:24:01,178
- [stammers softly]
629
00:24:03,224 --> 00:24:04,355
- What do you want me to do?
630
00:24:04,399 --> 00:24:06,923
You want me to go
to the sex club
631
00:24:06,967 --> 00:24:08,316
and kiss someone else?
632
00:24:08,359 --> 00:24:11,319
Will you feel better
about yourself then?
633
00:24:11,362 --> 00:24:14,322
[soft dramatic music]
634
00:24:14,365 --> 00:24:16,106
♪
635
00:24:16,150 --> 00:24:18,848
Seriously?
- I don't know.
636
00:24:18,892 --> 00:24:20,807
- Okay, wow.
637
00:24:20,850 --> 00:24:24,158
- I don't know, but...
638
00:24:24,201 --> 00:24:26,203
maybe you should go
without me.
639
00:24:26,247 --> 00:24:30,207
♪
640
00:24:30,251 --> 00:24:31,470
- I'm on it.
641
00:24:31,513 --> 00:24:34,908
I mean, I'm not on it,
but I'm on Wi-Fi.
642
00:24:34,951 --> 00:24:37,388
- Okay, let's give it a go.
643
00:24:39,347 --> 00:24:40,827
[vibrator rumbles]
644
00:24:40,870 --> 00:24:43,003
- Houston, we have contact.
645
00:24:43,046 --> 00:24:46,310
- [laughs]
Amazing.
646
00:24:46,354 --> 00:24:49,488
Okay, I'm gonna try something.
647
00:24:49,531 --> 00:24:51,359
[vibrator rumbles rapidly]
That work?
648
00:24:51,402 --> 00:24:53,317
- [laughs]
Yeah.
649
00:24:53,361 --> 00:24:54,318
That should do it.
650
00:24:54,362 --> 00:24:56,451
Listen, uh, call me in an hour
651
00:24:56,495 --> 00:24:58,975
and start slow so I can...
[clicks tongue]
652
00:24:59,019 --> 00:25:00,020
Get into it.
653
00:25:00,063 --> 00:25:01,282
- Of course.
654
00:25:01,325 --> 00:25:03,066
You know, people say
that technology's
655
00:25:03,110 --> 00:25:04,459
making us all isolated.
656
00:25:04,503 --> 00:25:07,244
- Yeah, well, thankfully,
it's bringing us together.
657
00:25:07,288 --> 00:25:10,421
- ♪ Visions I vandalize
658
00:25:10,465 --> 00:25:12,641
♪ Cold in my kingdom size
659
00:25:12,685 --> 00:25:14,643
[indistinct chatter]
660
00:25:14,687 --> 00:25:18,560
♪ Fell for these ocean eyes
661
00:25:18,604 --> 00:25:21,215
♪ You should see me
in a crown ♪
662
00:25:21,258 --> 00:25:23,217
♪ I'm gonna run
this nothing town ♪
663
00:25:23,260 --> 00:25:24,392
- Welcome.
664
00:25:24,435 --> 00:25:26,307
- I-I'll keep my coat, thanks.
665
00:25:26,350 --> 00:25:28,527
- ♪ One by one by one
666
00:25:31,225 --> 00:25:34,141
[dramatic electronic music]
667
00:25:34,184 --> 00:25:35,925
- Hey.
- Cavalry's here.
668
00:25:35,969 --> 00:25:37,884
- Oh, my gosh, thank you
so much for coming.
669
00:25:37,927 --> 00:25:39,494
- Oh, yeah, of course.
We got you.
670
00:25:39,538 --> 00:25:42,845
Tiny Jane dressed
to slay the sex party.
671
00:25:42,889 --> 00:25:44,412
- So Ryan wants you
to kiss somebody?
672
00:25:44,455 --> 00:25:47,894
- Well, he didn't say that,
but he didn't not say that.
673
00:25:47,937 --> 00:25:49,243
- Oh, maybe if you kiss
someone, it'll help.
674
00:25:49,286 --> 00:25:51,071
- Yeah, you're in
the right place for it.
675
00:25:51,114 --> 00:25:52,812
- Yeah, I don't know.
676
00:25:52,855 --> 00:25:54,683
[indistinct chatter]
677
00:25:54,727 --> 00:25:56,163
I just need to focus
on my story,
678
00:25:56,206 --> 00:25:58,165
and I can think
about Ryan later.
679
00:25:58,208 --> 00:26:00,689
- Good idea.
- Yeah.
680
00:26:00,733 --> 00:26:02,125
- Welcome to Bacchanal.
681
00:26:02,169 --> 00:26:05,215
Playpen to the right,
bar and lounge to the left.
682
00:26:05,259 --> 00:26:07,957
Those are warm-ups--
after that, the further you go,
683
00:26:08,001 --> 00:26:09,393
the sexier it gets.
684
00:26:09,437 --> 00:26:12,919
- Great, um, thanks.
We're all kind of new to this.
685
00:26:12,962 --> 00:26:16,052
- Just use protection, ladies.
Dental dams are still a thing.
686
00:26:16,096 --> 00:26:17,271
- Oh.
- Oh.
687
00:26:17,314 --> 00:26:20,840
- And consent
will always be a thing.
688
00:26:20,883 --> 00:26:22,972
- Right.
- So have fun.
689
00:26:23,016 --> 00:26:23,973
- Ready, Jane?
690
00:26:24,017 --> 00:26:25,801
- I'm gonna go
into the playpen.
691
00:26:25,845 --> 00:26:28,195
But, uh, I think I should do
my interview alone.
692
00:26:28,238 --> 00:26:29,849
- Really?
693
00:26:29,892 --> 00:26:31,851
- Yeah, knowing you're in the
building really helps, though.
694
00:26:31,894 --> 00:26:33,243
- Of course.
- Yeah, we'll be at the bar...
695
00:26:33,287 --> 00:26:35,506
you know,
if you need anything.
696
00:26:35,550 --> 00:26:36,986
- Okay.
697
00:26:37,030 --> 00:26:38,814
- Thank you.
- Thanks.
698
00:26:38,858 --> 00:26:40,860
- Enjoy.
699
00:26:40,903 --> 00:26:43,863
[Georgi Kay's "Wake Up"]
700
00:26:43,906 --> 00:26:46,866
[spooky pop music]
701
00:26:46,909 --> 00:26:50,043
- Oh, man, I should have
brought my swimsuit.
702
00:26:50,086 --> 00:26:52,219
- Well, it seems like
you don't need it.
703
00:26:52,262 --> 00:26:55,135
- Mm.
Look at these drinks.
704
00:26:55,178 --> 00:26:56,919
- [gasps]
Cute.
705
00:26:56,963 --> 00:26:59,443
- Almost too cute to consume.
706
00:26:59,487 --> 00:27:01,097
- Almost.
Thank you.
707
00:27:01,141 --> 00:27:02,359
- Mm-hmm.
708
00:27:02,403 --> 00:27:05,188
♪ Wake up
709
00:27:05,232 --> 00:27:08,975
♪ I'm ready when you are
710
00:27:09,018 --> 00:27:13,762
♪ I've had enough, I'm sick
and tired of the lies ♪
711
00:27:13,806 --> 00:27:15,764
- That's a person.
712
00:27:15,808 --> 00:27:18,549
♪
713
00:27:18,593 --> 00:27:21,248
♪ Shake up
714
00:27:21,291 --> 00:27:24,904
♪ The fear in your heart
715
00:27:24,947 --> 00:27:27,167
♪ You talk too much
716
00:27:27,210 --> 00:27:31,911
♪ The walls you made
are crumbling down ♪
717
00:27:31,954 --> 00:27:35,088
[indistinct chatter]
718
00:27:35,131 --> 00:27:37,090
♪ No, it's never enough
719
00:27:37,133 --> 00:27:40,920
[smacking, muffled groaning]
720
00:27:40,963 --> 00:27:42,922
♪ Can you hear me?
721
00:27:42,965 --> 00:27:44,793
♪ No, it's never enough
722
00:27:44,837 --> 00:27:47,187
♪ Do you understand?
723
00:27:47,230 --> 00:27:48,492
♪
724
00:27:48,536 --> 00:27:51,191
[purse rumbles]
- Oh, no.
725
00:27:51,234 --> 00:27:52,583
Do you know if we can
use our phones in here?
726
00:27:52,627 --> 00:27:56,152
Did they say anything about it?
- I don't know.
727
00:27:56,196 --> 00:27:58,198
- It's not my phone.
Can you hold this?
728
00:27:58,241 --> 00:27:59,547
- Yeah.
729
00:27:59,590 --> 00:28:01,027
- ♪ No, it's never enough
730
00:28:01,070 --> 00:28:03,986
♪ Do you understand?
731
00:28:04,030 --> 00:28:06,641
- [gasps]
Oh, no.
732
00:28:06,685 --> 00:28:08,077
- Hmm?
733
00:28:08,121 --> 00:28:10,079
- I had a vibrator sex date
with Richard.
734
00:28:10,123 --> 00:28:11,690
- Ah.
735
00:28:11,733 --> 00:28:13,866
- And then Jane called, and
I forgot to set this thing up,
736
00:28:13,909 --> 00:28:16,129
and I just...
737
00:28:16,172 --> 00:28:18,914
stood up my fiancé
[camera shutter clicks]
738
00:28:18,958 --> 00:28:20,481
- ♪ No, it's never enough
739
00:28:20,524 --> 00:28:23,005
♪ Are you listening?
740
00:28:23,049 --> 00:28:27,053
♪ No, it's never enough,
can you hear me? ♪
741
00:28:27,096 --> 00:28:29,577
- Here's your drink.
- Thanks, babe.
742
00:28:29,620 --> 00:28:31,187
- [chuckles]
743
00:28:31,231 --> 00:28:37,150
♪
744
00:28:37,193 --> 00:28:38,673
- Hi.
- Hi.
745
00:28:38,717 --> 00:28:41,981
Um, this might be weird.
746
00:28:42,024 --> 00:28:45,114
- We like weird.
- Uh, not that kind of weird.
747
00:28:45,158 --> 00:28:48,074
Um, I'm a writer
for "Scarlet" magazine,
748
00:28:48,117 --> 00:28:51,164
and I'm doing a piece
on why sex parties
749
00:28:51,207 --> 00:28:53,383
are so popular
with millennials.
750
00:28:53,427 --> 00:28:55,516
- You can ask
my husband anything.
751
00:28:55,559 --> 00:28:57,997
I'll be back soon.
[chuckles]
752
00:28:58,040 --> 00:29:04,046
♪
753
00:29:05,656 --> 00:29:07,528
- So what do you want to know?
754
00:29:07,571 --> 00:29:09,878
- Oh, I have
so many questions.
755
00:29:09,922 --> 00:29:11,967
Um, so she's kissing
another man.
756
00:29:12,011 --> 00:29:14,187
That isn't a problem
for you?
757
00:29:14,230 --> 00:29:16,189
- We like to mix it up.
758
00:29:16,232 --> 00:29:19,192
As long as each of us
gets a turn, it works.
759
00:29:19,235 --> 00:29:21,672
- Did you meet
at one of these or...?
760
00:29:21,716 --> 00:29:23,196
- We did.
761
00:29:23,239 --> 00:29:24,545
When we kept coming back
to each other,
762
00:29:24,588 --> 00:29:25,546
we just realized...
763
00:29:25,589 --> 00:29:28,114
might as well.
- Wow.
764
00:29:28,157 --> 00:29:30,899
What a love story.
- Yeah.
765
00:29:30,943 --> 00:29:32,509
- Yeah.
766
00:29:32,553 --> 00:29:34,207
[camera shutter clicking]
767
00:29:34,250 --> 00:29:35,556
- What are you doing?
[chuckles]
768
00:29:35,599 --> 00:29:38,341
- Capturing
the real Sutton Brady.
769
00:29:38,385 --> 00:29:40,996
See this lady right here?
770
00:29:41,040 --> 00:29:42,693
- [laughs]
771
00:29:42,737 --> 00:29:45,087
- That's the real you, baby.
- I'm confused.
772
00:29:45,131 --> 00:29:47,133
- Come on, a Marc Jacobs
sample sale bag,
773
00:29:47,176 --> 00:29:49,483
a free tampon
from Orangetheory,
774
00:29:49,526 --> 00:29:52,138
a leftover sandwich
from the kitchen,
775
00:29:52,181 --> 00:29:54,227
and a vibrator that you were
supposed to use
776
00:29:54,270 --> 00:29:56,446
on your sex date
with your fiancé,
777
00:29:56,490 --> 00:29:58,057
but then your best friend
called and said,
778
00:29:58,100 --> 00:29:59,275
"Hey, do you want to come
to a sex club?"
779
00:29:59,319 --> 00:30:00,711
And so you had to
just book it.
780
00:30:00,755 --> 00:30:01,974
- Yeah, I mean, who wouldn't?
781
00:30:02,017 --> 00:30:04,019
- You know,
a lot of people wouldn't.
782
00:30:04,063 --> 00:30:06,239
And I know you have that rock
on your finger,
783
00:30:06,282 --> 00:30:07,588
and you live
in a fancy apartment,
784
00:30:07,631 --> 00:30:10,243
but that's just
part of who you are.
785
00:30:10,286 --> 00:30:12,158
There's also your style,
786
00:30:12,201 --> 00:30:16,075
which is sophisticated
but, you know, accessible.
787
00:30:16,118 --> 00:30:18,555
- Is it chic yet whimsical?
788
00:30:18,599 --> 00:30:21,515
- Mm-hmm, it's also, um...
789
00:30:21,558 --> 00:30:23,778
messy.
- Mm-hmm.
790
00:30:23,822 --> 00:30:25,388
- But you're hella cute
about it, honey.
791
00:30:25,432 --> 00:30:27,260
- Mm, thank you.
- Yeah.
792
00:30:27,303 --> 00:30:31,090
I feel like that should be your
first Instagram post, you know?
793
00:30:31,133 --> 00:30:34,093
I think you can do it
if you want it.
794
00:30:34,136 --> 00:30:37,096
[electronic music]
795
00:30:37,139 --> 00:30:40,099
[woman singing in Spanish]
796
00:30:40,142 --> 00:30:47,149
♪
797
00:31:05,689 --> 00:31:07,169
- Hi.
- Hi.
798
00:31:09,171 --> 00:31:11,260
- Um, I'm--I'm Jane.
799
00:31:11,304 --> 00:31:14,046
I'm doing a story
about sex parties
800
00:31:14,089 --> 00:31:15,525
for "Scarlet."
801
00:31:15,569 --> 00:31:19,573
Uh, do you mind if I ask you
a couple questions?
802
00:31:19,616 --> 00:31:21,662
- Actually, I do mind.
803
00:31:21,705 --> 00:31:24,230
- Oh, uh, I'm sorry.
804
00:31:24,273 --> 00:31:26,536
- It's just
I'm not here to talk.
805
00:31:28,321 --> 00:31:30,497
- Yeah, yeah, I get that.
806
00:31:30,540 --> 00:31:37,547
♪
807
00:31:46,817 --> 00:31:48,471
[dark electronic music]
808
00:31:48,515 --> 00:31:50,386
- You're right, Kat,
it's perfect for Instagram,
809
00:31:50,430 --> 00:31:51,953
and I think I can do it.
810
00:31:51,997 --> 00:31:53,520
- Yeah.
811
00:31:53,563 --> 00:31:55,522
- I'm also pretty sure
we can't have our phones.
812
00:31:55,565 --> 00:31:56,915
- Mm-hmm.
813
00:31:58,960 --> 00:32:00,440
- Okay, don't look now,
but, um, there are
814
00:32:00,483 --> 00:32:02,442
three women
masturbating behind you.
815
00:32:02,485 --> 00:32:04,052
- Ooh.
816
00:32:04,096 --> 00:32:05,445
Mm, this way?
- Mm-hmm.
817
00:32:05,488 --> 00:32:06,968
- Hmm.
818
00:32:07,012 --> 00:32:09,492
♪
819
00:32:09,536 --> 00:32:11,016
Wow, that's
kind of incredible, right?
820
00:32:11,059 --> 00:32:12,887
- Mm-hmm.
[woman moans]
821
00:32:12,931 --> 00:32:14,976
- I think this is
the angle I need
822
00:32:15,020 --> 00:32:16,847
to promote female pleasure.
823
00:32:16,891 --> 00:32:18,545
I mean, they could be
having sex with anyone.
824
00:32:18,588 --> 00:32:19,763
- Mm-hmm.
825
00:32:19,807 --> 00:32:22,723
- And they're choosing
to please themselves.
826
00:32:22,766 --> 00:32:24,986
- You should talk to them.
- Yeah.
827
00:32:25,030 --> 00:32:29,469
- Uh, maybe wait
till they're finished.
828
00:32:29,512 --> 00:32:31,514
- Probably.
- Probably, yes.
829
00:32:31,558 --> 00:32:32,689
[woman moans]
830
00:32:32,733 --> 00:32:36,955
Mm, you're a wise lady,
Sutton Brady.
831
00:32:36,998 --> 00:32:38,173
- [scoffs]
832
00:32:38,217 --> 00:32:45,180
♪
833
00:32:45,224 --> 00:32:47,878
- Um...
834
00:32:47,922 --> 00:32:50,011
- Everything okay?
835
00:32:50,055 --> 00:32:54,146
- Yeah, I'm fine.
I just, uh--I have to go.
836
00:32:54,189 --> 00:32:55,582
But thank you.
837
00:32:55,625 --> 00:33:02,110
♪
838
00:33:02,154 --> 00:33:03,546
Hey.
839
00:33:03,590 --> 00:33:05,679
You guys,
I'm so glad I found you.
840
00:33:05,722 --> 00:33:07,898
I just kissed somebody,
and it was terrible.
841
00:33:07,942 --> 00:33:10,118
- Oh, that sucks.
- Oh, yeah, sorry, Jane.
842
00:33:10,162 --> 00:33:12,207
- No, no, no, no,
this is great,
843
00:33:12,251 --> 00:33:13,730
'cause now I get it.
844
00:33:13,774 --> 00:33:16,907
I get why Ryan came back
from his book tour to find me,
845
00:33:16,951 --> 00:33:20,041
because now all I want to do
is go home and be with him.
846
00:33:20,085 --> 00:33:22,478
- Oh, Jane,
that's so beautiful.
847
00:33:22,522 --> 00:33:24,872
- What about you,
did you, uh, find a wife?
848
00:33:24,915 --> 00:33:28,745
- Uh, no, but I did find
a new work angle.
849
00:33:28,789 --> 00:33:29,790
- Oh.
850
00:33:29,833 --> 00:33:31,487
- And I got some
great interviews.
851
00:33:31,531 --> 00:33:33,924
You know what? I feel like this
place is actually pretty dope.
852
00:33:33,968 --> 00:33:35,665
[device vibrating]
- Oh--[laughs]
853
00:33:35,709 --> 00:33:37,580
- Wait, is that--
- [giggles]
854
00:33:37,624 --> 00:33:41,149
Richard...
is calling,
855
00:33:41,193 --> 00:33:44,892
so I'm gonna...
856
00:33:44,935 --> 00:33:46,067
I'm gonna take it.
857
00:33:46,111 --> 00:33:48,591
I think I'm gonna take it.
Take it.
858
00:33:48,635 --> 00:33:50,071
[clears throat]
Mm.
859
00:33:50,115 --> 00:33:51,855
♪
860
00:33:51,899 --> 00:33:53,901
[laughter]
861
00:33:53,944 --> 00:33:56,077
- I was afraid
she was gonna tip over.
862
00:33:56,121 --> 00:33:57,687
[both chuckle]
863
00:33:57,731 --> 00:34:00,125
So should we wait for her
by the naked lady?
864
00:34:00,168 --> 00:34:01,952
- Sure.
865
00:34:01,996 --> 00:34:04,172
- We need a little grape.
- Or a pear.
866
00:34:04,216 --> 00:34:06,174
- Mmm, lovely.
867
00:34:08,002 --> 00:34:10,961
Well, look who's here.
868
00:34:11,005 --> 00:34:12,485
Go get him, baby.
869
00:34:12,528 --> 00:34:17,794
♪
870
00:34:17,838 --> 00:34:20,797
- Hey.
- Hi.
871
00:34:20,841 --> 00:34:24,105
- Can we--can we get out
of here, talk somewhere else?
872
00:34:24,149 --> 00:34:25,802
- No, come with me.
873
00:34:25,846 --> 00:34:28,979
- Uh, Jane, we really
should talk.
874
00:34:29,023 --> 00:34:31,765
- No more talking.
I'm done talking.
875
00:34:31,808 --> 00:34:35,247
♪
876
00:34:35,290 --> 00:34:38,511
- Can we just hang on a second?
- Shh.
877
00:34:38,554 --> 00:34:39,990
- Hang on.
878
00:34:40,034 --> 00:34:42,689
[Grimes & io's "Violence"]
879
00:34:42,732 --> 00:34:44,256
♪
880
00:34:44,299 --> 00:34:46,780
- Jane, listen to me.
I have to--
881
00:34:46,823 --> 00:34:49,130
Mm.
Just hang on.
882
00:34:49,174 --> 00:34:52,829
- I kissed someone just now,
883
00:34:52,873 --> 00:34:56,659
and I hated it, and now
I understand how bad you feel
884
00:34:56,703 --> 00:34:59,662
and how much you just want
all of this to go away
885
00:34:59,706 --> 00:35:02,187
because I feel
the same way.
886
00:35:02,230 --> 00:35:03,188
I love you.
887
00:35:03,231 --> 00:35:09,803
♪
888
00:35:09,846 --> 00:35:12,675
Now let's put this
behind us for real.
889
00:35:12,719 --> 00:35:16,157
- ♪ Want to party,
want to wake up ♪
890
00:35:16,201 --> 00:35:19,247
♪ Baby, it's violence,
violence ♪
891
00:35:19,291 --> 00:35:23,033
♪ Baby, it's violence
892
00:35:23,077 --> 00:35:24,209
♪
893
00:35:24,252 --> 00:35:30,345
♪ You can't see what I see
894
00:35:30,389 --> 00:35:34,784
♪ You can't see
what I see ♪
895
00:35:34,828 --> 00:35:41,574
♪ 'Cause you, ha, ha,
feed off hurting me ♪
896
00:35:41,617 --> 00:35:44,577
♪
897
00:35:48,058 --> 00:35:51,018
[upbeat music]
898
00:35:51,061 --> 00:35:55,196
♪
899
00:35:55,240 --> 00:35:57,198
[cell phone vibrates]
900
00:35:57,242 --> 00:35:59,287
- [chuckles]
901
00:35:59,331 --> 00:36:02,421
[indistinct chatter]
902
00:36:03,987 --> 00:36:05,859
Hey.
- Hi.
903
00:36:05,902 --> 00:36:07,513
You see them likes, baby?
904
00:36:07,556 --> 00:36:08,862
- Yeah.
- You see that engagement?
905
00:36:08,905 --> 00:36:10,864
- I saw it,
and I want to say thank you.
906
00:36:10,907 --> 00:36:12,779
- You're welcome.
907
00:36:12,822 --> 00:36:14,215
- How's Ryan?
- Good.
908
00:36:14,259 --> 00:36:15,782
- He gave me the other kind
of facial last night.
909
00:36:15,825 --> 00:36:17,218
- Oh.
- Your skin looks great.
910
00:36:17,262 --> 00:36:18,263
- [laughs]
911
00:36:18,306 --> 00:36:20,003
- You into that?
- No, I'm kidding.
912
00:36:20,047 --> 00:36:22,528
But we're really good.
913
00:36:22,571 --> 00:36:23,746
Yay.
[chuckles]
914
00:36:23,790 --> 00:36:25,008
- Oh, I got to go talk
to Jacqueline.
915
00:36:25,052 --> 00:36:27,054
Jacqueline.
- [gasps] Jane.
916
00:36:27,097 --> 00:36:28,316
- Hi.
917
00:36:28,360 --> 00:36:29,926
- I loved your piece,
by the way.
918
00:36:29,970 --> 00:36:32,407
"How Millennials Say Intimacy:
Sex Party,"
919
00:36:32,451 --> 00:36:33,408
great title.
920
00:36:33,452 --> 00:36:34,627
- [chuckles]
Thank you.
921
00:36:34,670 --> 00:36:36,455
It was a little
out of my comfort zone,
922
00:36:36,498 --> 00:36:37,717
but I'm glad I did it.
923
00:36:37,760 --> 00:36:39,066
- Well, that's
how we grow, right?
924
00:36:39,109 --> 00:36:41,373
And right now we need to.
- Right.
925
00:36:41,416 --> 00:36:44,376
Speaking of, I know you said
that there was gonna be
926
00:36:44,419 --> 00:36:46,595
the possibility
of more verticals,
927
00:36:46,639 --> 00:36:49,468
and I would really love
that opportunity.
928
00:36:49,511 --> 00:36:52,949
- Okay, well, verticals
are a huge commitment
929
00:36:52,993 --> 00:36:54,734
of resources from "Scarlet."
930
00:36:54,777 --> 00:36:57,084
You'd virtually be
your own editor.
931
00:36:57,127 --> 00:37:00,740
- I understand,
and I'm up for that challenge.
932
00:37:00,783 --> 00:37:02,394
- Well, that's good to know.
933
00:37:02,437 --> 00:37:04,613
Let's see how
your next piece does.
934
00:37:04,657 --> 00:37:06,920
- Okay.
935
00:37:06,963 --> 00:37:09,923
[punchy music]
936
00:37:09,966 --> 00:37:13,056
♪
937
00:37:13,100 --> 00:37:16,408
- I grew up
in a religious family,
938
00:37:16,451 --> 00:37:21,413
and I was raised to think my
sexuality should be protected,
939
00:37:21,456 --> 00:37:24,764
a prize I saved
for the right man,
940
00:37:24,807 --> 00:37:27,636
and when I met him, I could
use it to win his love,
941
00:37:27,680 --> 00:37:29,986
and if I enjoyed it,
that was good.
942
00:37:30,030 --> 00:37:33,773
But for me,
that wasn't good enough.
943
00:37:33,816 --> 00:37:35,514
When I went to college,
I realized
944
00:37:35,557 --> 00:37:37,994
that my sexual pleasure
was a gift
945
00:37:38,038 --> 00:37:40,823
that God gave to me and that
I should experience it
946
00:37:40,867 --> 00:37:42,434
any way I wanted to,
947
00:37:42,477 --> 00:37:46,438
be it alone, in a hot tub,
at a sex party,
948
00:37:46,481 --> 00:37:48,527
or with the love of my life.
949
00:37:48,570 --> 00:37:51,486
I control
my own sexual pleasure.
950
00:37:54,837 --> 00:37:58,363
[cell phone beeps]
951
00:38:07,023 --> 00:38:08,503
[knock at door]
952
00:38:08,547 --> 00:38:11,376
- Kat.
- Hey.
953
00:38:11,419 --> 00:38:13,334
- I saw your piece
954
00:38:13,378 --> 00:38:15,684
about the ladies
at the sex club,
955
00:38:15,728 --> 00:38:17,382
and it was great.
956
00:38:17,425 --> 00:38:19,384
You have been working
so hard lately--
957
00:38:19,427 --> 00:38:21,037
early mornings, late nights.
958
00:38:21,081 --> 00:38:23,866
- Well, I mean, it's a good
thing I like my job, right?
959
00:38:23,910 --> 00:38:27,653
- You've done so much
since you ran for city council.
960
00:38:27,696 --> 00:38:31,004
Between getting Chloe
to run in that marathon
961
00:38:31,047 --> 00:38:33,006
and trying to get
that billboard company
962
00:38:33,049 --> 00:38:35,138
to change its mind
about Broads,
963
00:38:35,182 --> 00:38:37,532
changing RJ's mind about me.
964
00:38:37,576 --> 00:38:40,405
- Well, that was easy 'cause--
965
00:38:40,448 --> 00:38:42,450
- I just wanted to make sure
966
00:38:42,494 --> 00:38:45,105
that you are taking time
for you.
967
00:38:45,148 --> 00:38:46,541
- Yeah.
968
00:38:46,585 --> 00:38:49,588
- Good.
Life is about balance, Kat.
969
00:38:49,631 --> 00:38:53,461
You can make a difference
and have a personal life...
970
00:38:53,505 --> 00:38:55,376
if you want one.
971
00:38:57,247 --> 00:38:58,988
- Yeah.
972
00:38:59,032 --> 00:39:00,686
Thank you.
973
00:39:00,729 --> 00:39:02,427
- Cheers.
- Cheers.
974
00:39:02,470 --> 00:39:03,819
- Now take your tea...
- Yeah.
975
00:39:03,863 --> 00:39:05,517
- And get back to work.
- Yes.
976
00:39:05,560 --> 00:39:07,823
Okay, thank you.
977
00:39:07,867 --> 00:39:10,522
- ♪ I only start
something better ♪
978
00:39:10,565 --> 00:39:12,959
♪ If I say nothing
979
00:39:13,002 --> 00:39:13,960
♪ Nothing at all
980
00:39:14,003 --> 00:39:15,744
- [sighs]
981
00:39:15,788 --> 00:39:18,051
- ♪ When I open my mouth,
open my mouth ♪
982
00:39:18,094 --> 00:39:21,446
- It's not always easy
to put yourself out there,
983
00:39:21,489 --> 00:39:25,232
but taking risks is important.
984
00:39:25,275 --> 00:39:27,234
Vulnerability can be a gift.
985
00:39:27,277 --> 00:39:30,977
Yes, it can open us up
to pain or embarrassment
986
00:39:31,020 --> 00:39:34,763
but can also bring us
connection and acceptance.
987
00:39:34,807 --> 00:39:37,157
I have to admit
that vulnerability scares me,
988
00:39:37,200 --> 00:39:38,680
but it's necessary
989
00:39:38,724 --> 00:39:41,553
to ask the questions
we're embarrassed to ask
990
00:39:41,596 --> 00:39:44,860
and to give the answers
we're afraid to say aloud.
991
00:39:44,904 --> 00:39:47,950
- ♪ We never evolve,
I'm dodging all your calls ♪
992
00:39:47,994 --> 00:39:50,736
- Ultimately, it's what
allows us to grow,
993
00:39:50,779 --> 00:39:52,128
which is what I want
to do along with you
994
00:39:52,172 --> 00:39:54,740
here on "Ask Alex Live."
995
00:39:54,783 --> 00:39:56,742
Though, from here on out,
I'll be doing
996
00:39:56,785 --> 00:39:58,961
as much listening
as I will be answering.
997
00:39:59,005 --> 00:40:03,096
So each week
I'm gonna pose a new question,
998
00:40:03,139 --> 00:40:07,056
invite guests ranging
from experts and laymen
999
00:40:07,100 --> 00:40:10,277
to tell us what they know
and what they don't
1000
00:40:10,320 --> 00:40:13,889
and how we can
bridge that gap together.
1001
00:40:13,933 --> 00:40:18,067
This week's topic is self-love.
1002
00:40:18,111 --> 00:40:21,984
And I've invited "Scarlet's"
very own to weigh in--
1003
00:40:22,028 --> 00:40:25,248
Jane Sloan, Sutton Brady,
1004
00:40:25,292 --> 00:40:28,904
Kat Edison, and Sage Aiello.
1005
00:40:28,948 --> 00:40:30,123
Happy to have you here.
1006
00:40:30,166 --> 00:40:32,604
- Glad to be here.
- Thanks for having us.
1007
00:40:32,647 --> 00:40:34,780
- It's a pleasure to be
on the show, Alex.
1008
00:40:34,823 --> 00:40:36,999
- Are we gonna talk
about sex or what?
1009
00:40:37,043 --> 00:40:38,958
all: Yes.
- Wow.
1010
00:40:39,001 --> 00:40:40,960
We're really excited.
1011
00:40:41,003 --> 00:40:43,919
Well, um, Jane,
why don't you start?
1012
00:40:43,963 --> 00:40:45,617
- Um, I just went
to a sex club.
1013
00:40:45,660 --> 00:40:47,183
- [gasps]
Get out.
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00:40:47,227 --> 00:40:50,491
- That's it.
[laughter]
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