All language subtitles for 90.Day.Fiancé_.The.Other.Way.S07E08.en (1)

[Manon]
Previously on "90 Day Fiancé:
The Other Way."

Today, I am finally going
to Tasmania to see my honey.

My biggest concern about going
to Australia is his mom being

so darn close to us.

I think it's about time that
he gets off his mom's nipple.

[laughing]

Oh, my God.

[giggling]

I feel like I can start
living life now, so.

-Ring.
-It's coming.

Please make
yourself comfortable.

[Greta] OK.

In Oklahoma,
I get weekly massages.

I couldn't afford the life
that you want.

I don't want you to make
choices because you feel like

that's what I want
in the future.

You don't necessarily appreciate
how much I give to this.

I have an idea
for a business here.

Are you, like, for real?

[Anthony]
Manon will always be hustling.

I know what that leads to --

us divorcing.

[tense music playing]

[Kerriana]
Do you see him?

[Chloe]
Jonathan asked me to stop
his location sharing,

but my eyesight doesn't need
to stop tracking him.

What if something happens
and I just gave everything up?

[upbeat music playing]

[lyrics in French]

[speaking French]

I started learning French
when me and Manon began dating.

She always says
I mispronounce everything,

so Manon's taking every
opportunity she can

to test my French.

[speaking French]

Yeah.

Right?

[speaking French]

[Manon] Everything's gonna
be quatre now?

[Anthony] All right.

[speaking French]

-For sure.
-Oh, my.

[Manon]
You're too much.

[Anthony]
I say we, uh...

[speaking French]

What do you want, Ben?

You want to play?
You want to drink?

You want to eat?

[Anthony] Go play, dude.

[speaking French]

No.
"Jouir" it's...something else.

-[Anthony] It's play.
-No.

"Jouir" it's having an orgasm.

[laughs]

-"Jouer" it's play.
-[Anthony] That's what I said.

No, you said, "Jouir."

[Manon]
You don't wanna say that, no.

[Anthony]
So the baptism's tomorrow...

Yeah, I know.
I'm scared and I'm excited.

This weekend, Benjamin is
going to be baptized,

and I invited my whole family
to the baptism,

just to be polite.

And honestly,
I'm pretty shocked

because everyone said
they are going to be there.

You know, people that I haven't
seen in a long time.

Some people have beef
with each other,

like, in every each family,
you know.

But once you said to me,
and actually I remember,

I took it really at heart,

you said, like, "You know what?

If you go to France, it may be
also a good opportunity

for you to make amends or bury
the hatchet with everyone,

and you are going to be seen
like the first and the only one

who actually initiate
something positive."

We only see each other during,
like, funerals,

which is very sad.

No one is doing an initiative
to actually meet up

and have a good time.

Yeah.

It's really turned into,
like, this big thing

with all your family.

And to be honest, like, for me,
it's a little weird.

-I'm not religious.
-So?

I don't agree with that.
It's uncomfortable for me.

[Anthony]
I don't believe in Catholicism

and just the establishment
of religion in general.

I feel like a lot of people
hide behind it

when they do bad things.

I feel like a lot of
it's greed, power.

I would say that, like,
for the baptism,

I'm against it, you know?

I'm for doing it for Manon,

but as long as we're not
practicing, I'm good.

I get it.
I get it.

But we've done a lot
of things your way

because it was your country,
your family.

It's about my roots.

We are French.

We are Christian-Catholic.

The entire family is.
I am.

And this is just one thing
that I want.

I am doing this for you.

And I'm there for you.

And I love it, and I see it.

Thank you.

My family and my extended family
really stresses me out.

They always peek at me,
and they always like to --

Anthony said, being
the "black sheep" of the family.

So I'm worried that a lot of
uncomfortable moments

are gonna happen,

and the fire in me
is gonna have to...

be put down.

Yeah, it's stressful.

♪ Ah ♪

[lyrics in foreign language]

I invited Kerriana
to come tonight.

Yeah, she's a very,
very sweet girl.

[Johny speaking]

[Chloe] Yeah, I'm excited
to go out tonight.

-Yeah?
-It should be fun.

I hope.

Johny's version of going out
and my version actually

couldn't be more different.

I feel like I need to relax.

Johny doesn't even drink.
And I myself...

I don't want to say
I'm an avid drinker,

but I mean,
I'm not going out sober.

-Man, you really don't like him.
-No.

I don't like it that you don't
like Keyner so much.

[Chloe speaking]

Keyner's a longtime best friend
of Jonathan,

and they work together.

Before I got serious
with Jonathan,

I was already made well aware

of Keyner and Jonathan's
nights out.

They went out together
after work,

and were partying it up
and taking random people home.

They are definitely
partners in crime,

to say the literal least.

OK, remember he's my friend
too, so, you know.

[bleep]

My elbow is, like, itchy.

I think there's, like,
a mosquito problem here.

There it is.

-[Johny] Nice spot, huh?
-[Chloe] It is nice.

So I actually saw
Kerriana today.

We actually went
and spied on you.

You spying on me just makes me
feel like there's no trust

in this relationship.

But I feel like one day,
like, asking me,

it's OK, let's not share
a location to the next day,

I feel like I need more
time than just...

a day or two to feel better.

But the thing is, like,
what I don't like is that

you from the distance thinks
that I go with, like,

a young girl
on my back and flip,

but, like, it's not like that.

-No, I can see.
-No, you can't.

You cannot tell me
what I can and cannot see.

I am there.
I see it.

You don't see it.
It's from too far.

It makes me feel better.

I would really, really like her
to trust me enough

where she wouldn't have to worry

about where I am
and what I'm doing.

The things that worry me
a lot is that

she'll never get over it.

Hi, guys!

[both] Hey.

Hey, Kerriana.
How are you?

Good.
How are you?

Good, come to me because
I don't want to stand up.

OK.

-Hi!
-How are you?

You got your drink
ready, all ready?

I did.
I already got a drink.

She couldn't be sober
around us, so.

Kerriana, I heard you went
spying on me with Chloe today.

I did.

You're viewing it
as malicious.

We're viewing it as...

helpful.
-[Kerriana] Helpful and fun.

I view it as that
you don't trust me.

If it's making you feel better,
just let it be.

If your boyfriend was working,
would you go spy on him too?

-She does spy on her boyfriend.
-Probably.

Probably, yeah.

Why are you women
crazy like that?

-Because you make us crazy.
-You guys make us crazy.

-[Keyner] Hey, man!
-[Johny] My man!

Finally some backup, man.

Finally, man.

Sorry that I'm a little late.

-Oh, man.
-Hi, Chloe.

-Hey, Keyner.
-How are you?

-Good.
-Nice to see you.

-Welcome back.
-Hi.

Thanks.
So happy to be here.

I'm perfectly OK with Jonathan
and Keyner having a friendship.

But once I found out
that he had cheated,

it kind of opened that door
for me to view him differently

because Keyner...

he's the one to create
the perfect space

to enable Johny's bad behavior.

-I am?
-Yeah, a little bit.

-You are.
-Yeah, right? Yeah.

I no longer dislike you.
Thank you.

[laughing]

She went spying
on me at work today.

I saw you.
Yeah.

-You didn't tell me?
-Keyner, you did not see me.

I didn't see her.

-You didn't see her?
-I didn't see her.

Well, she was over there.
I saw her.

[Chloe]
Were you guys together?

No, it's not that I said,
"He's with Keyner, he's fine."

I said, "Oh, [bleep]!

He's with Keyner --
nothing's fine."

Why?

-What do you mean?
-[Johny] Oh, man...

You better be nice.

I don't -- I don't wanna
have a problem with you.

You better not.

No, Keyner, you better not.

-You better not.
-We both better not, yeah.

Yeah, no, we better not.

Don't try to start a fight
right here,

please, right now.

If you've seen me fight,
this isn't me fighting.

This is me conversating.

That's how you talk to people?

Yes, don't be intimidated
by me.

No, I stand on business.

You have to stand on business
with people

or they walk over you.

You should see me when
I'm actually getting mad.

[Keyner talking]

[laughing]

My trust issues come
from your actions,

but you work with him
and you go out with him.

So what am I not going to like?

Him.

So you're telling me right now
that you don't like me?

-I'm not exactly a fan, no.
-OK.

-I have such an issue with him
going out with you.
-Exactly.

Then he's not going to go out
with you anymore.

That's something that you have
to do with him.

I want to go out
with my friend, OK?

You can't control me like that.

You can't do that kind of thing.

Respect me.
Respect what I [bleep] say.

I do respect what you say.

Clearly not, because I'm saying

I don't like to [bleep]
go out with him.

Oh, my God.
This is getting crazy.

-Chloe, come on.
-No, it's not come on.

It's a serious thing.

Like, Chloe, I'm not
defending him, OK?

I'm just trying to tell you --

Well, you're not
defending me either,

so you can't play
[bleep] Switzerland.

Would you be OK with me
cooking my way a little bit?

Dylan, he's a very controlled
type of person.

I don't like to be
told what to do.

I would just love to,
like, tell you what I'd like

and then you cook it.

-Is it this whole house?
-Yes.

[Matthew]
Looks lovely.

[Greta] When I picture
Matthew and I

getting our first place
together,

I did not envision
this three-bedroom house.

Two little twin beds here.

Twins is on the agenda then.

♪ One little spark is
all it will take ♪

♪ To set this whole
world on fire ♪

♪ I'm finally fine ♪

-Welcome to Australia.
-Australia!

[Pattiya]
It's really pretty.

I'm glad you like it.

No, really, it's so pretty.
It's so nature.

[Dylan] Aw!

♪ Nothing can hold me ♪

♪ [indistinct lyrics] ♪

-All right.
-Is that it?

Yeah, that's it, babe.

Oh, it's totally different
from what I expected.

Seriously.

I'm very much excited to show
Pattiya our home

for the first time here
in Tasmania.

I own a couple
of properties here,

and I rent them
out for income.

And I recently
renovated this one

for Pattiya and I to live in.

[Dylan] That's coming out.
That's coming out.

I know it's not a ring,
but it's a house.

That's got to count
for something, right?

[Pattiya] Oh, my gosh, babe,
it's super cute.

You did good with the decorating
and the plants.

Oh, and you have
our pictures up.

This is when we first met.

-I love it.
-You like that?

So you're ready for the rest
of the house tour?

-Yes.
-All right.

This is obviously
the lounge room.

We need to buy a couch.

-OK.
-We can go shopping.

And we can pick out
something that you like.

I love that word, the sound.

-Shopping.
-Yep.

It's been years since Pattiya
and I lived together full time,

so there's going to be a little
bit of an adjustment period.

We're polar opposites.

I like to keep things simple,
but Pattiya prefers

a more luxurious lifestyle.

[Dylan] So this is the master.

[Pattiya] It gets a lot
of sunlight in here.

It's nice, huh?

OK, you did good
with the bed in here.

Do you like the bedding
or not really?

I do, I like the bedding.
I like the curtains.

Yeah?

I'm very sort of structured.

I like to get
all the laundry done,

everything folded.

And this is my closet,
I take it?

That and this is your closet.
And there you get that.

And that's your closet
there, too.

That's a good size.
Oh, and up here for my purses.

And her laundry basket
is overflowing.

So it makes for
an interesting dynamic.

[Pattiya]
Something smells good.

[Dylan]
You're cute with your mask on.

[Pattiya] Oh, my God.
Sorry.

You know, when I travel,
I have to put the mask on.

Is that the secret
to your fountain of youth?

One.
I have many.

Oh, the salmon looks so fresh.

Well, this is fresh
Tasmanian salmon.

And then you're going to be
having 50 grams of asparagus,

and you're going to be having
150 grams of brown rice.

So that's going to be
379 calories.

[Dylan] I like to be very strict
with my diet.

During the day, I will have
100 grams of kangaroo,

and then 150 grams
of brown rice,

and then maybe a little bit of
broccoli or green beans.

And I repeat that meal about
five times throughout the day,

every two or three hours.

You season it?

Well, you know
how I like to cook.

You're going to have to learn
to cook with seasonings for me

now that I'm here.

Yes, well, let's spice
things up a bit.

-You want to make it hot?
-[Pattiya] Hot chili flakes.

Oh, and chipotle seasoning.
I like that.

You really are going nowhere,
aren't you?

Thank you.
I want it on my salmon, too.

Are you going
to season my salmon?

Yes.

The difference between me
and Dylan and how we eat

is like night and day.

Like, he will literally
boil his chicken

to get the fat out.

I'm like, "There's no fat
in chicken breast."

Me and Dylan argue
a lot about food.

I don't know if it's going
to ever stop, really.

And we'll probably be arguing
to our graves.

I'm so happy
that you cooked for me,

but I want to do some
of the cooking too.

I know how you're strict
with your diet,

but would you be OK with me
cooking my way a little bit?

Yes, you can cook your way,
but I need 30 grams of protein,

100 grams of carbohydrates,

and some micronutrients
in every meal.

Why do you always make it
like a science project?

Sometimes the way that you eat,

it's lots of sugar,
lots of oil.

It is a fun cheat meal for me.

Cheat meal?
My cooking's not that bad.

And you're calling it
a cheat meal?

No, it's just like
all those sauces that you use.

No, I don't.

And then all the oil
that you use.

I don't use that much oil.

You don't even measure
when you put the oil in.

You just throw it in.

You don't even put
the measuring cup.

No, but I eye it.
I know.

-Well, there's no eyeing here.
-Babe, I know.

-We're precision.
-I've been cooking a long time.

I know just by eyeing it.

I know you know how to cook,
but I'm just saying,

if I'm trying to keep
my physique in shape,

I can't just be eating whatever.

You act like you're doing
a modeling shoot every day.

You have to lighten up
and enjoy.

But what if that's
how I like to live?

[Pattiya]
Ugh, gosh.

Dylan, he's a very controlled
type of person.

He likes things specific ways.

I'm very independent.

I don't like to be told
what to do.

And he does that to me.

We haven't been together
in years.

And Dylan, he needs
to compromise with me

or it's just going
to be really hard

for me and Dylan
to succeed.

I'd just love to, like,
tell you what I'd like,

and then you cook it.

[upbeat music playing]

♪ 'Cause I will love you more ♪

♪ And I will listen for
the sound of... ♪

-Look! Sheep!
-Bah!

[Greta] Are you excited
to look at houses?

Yeah, very excited.

I know Greta is keen to move
out of my parents' place,

so I've arranged for us to see
a rental property today.

[Matthew] The estate agents
picked out some things.

I've asked for character,
decent size.

I mean, is it going to be
in an urban area?

It's probably not as urban
as you were hoping for,

but we can make it work.

One of the reasons I left
Oklahoma was because

I really wanted to live
in a walkable city

with public transportation.

I like to be able to walk
to a coffee shop

and walk to the store.

I do that in Oklahoma
sometimes,

and people think I'm weird.

[Matthew] There's some really
nice houses around here.

I wonder what the average
age of the people

who live here, though, are.

Matthew's lived
in cities before,

but he also loves
the countryside.

So, I'm hoping we can
find a compromise.

All right, here we are.

This looks really
nice, actually.

There's our estate agent.

Very good, thank you.

That's a good spot.
You've got a nice courtyard.

Nice and quiet.

[Greta]
Very cute, yeah.

Let's go inside and take
a look around, shall we?

-[Greta] OK.
-[Matthew] Absolutely.

Is it this whole house?

-Yes, it is, yeah.
-Oh, wow, that's huge.

[Matthew]
Looks lovely.

-So, come on through.
-[Greta] Wow.

-Nice entrance hallway.
-Uh-huh.

-This is like a legit house.
-This is good.

[Nigel]
Yeah, very nice and spacious.

So, take it through
to the sitting room.

The sitting room?
Is that a living room?

Same as a living room.
You may call it that.

So, dual aspects.

You've got nice light
flowing through here.

View out to the front.

So, right across the hallway,
you've got the kitchen.

Oh, look how cute the oven is.
It's so small.

[Matthew] Yeah,
nice little English oven.

How do you even cook
anything in here?

It's so small.

-Yeah, this is an average oven.
-That's it.

[Matthew] It's only the first
place we're seeing,

but I could picture us
living here.

This is good.
This is a nice functional area.

This house could be a really
good stepping-stone for us.

[Nigel] So, then we're into
the principal bedroom.

You can even maybe put in
a desk as well in this room.

-[Nigel] Definitely.
-Have an office space.

Yeah.

When I picture Matthew
and I getting

our first place together,

I picture us in a tiny flat
cooking vegan meals

in our kitchen and cuddling up
on the couch with our cat.

I did not envision
this three-bedroom house

meant for a family
with multiple kids.

Let's show you
the bathroom now.

OK.

[Greta] If he's so concerned
about our finances,

why would he want
to pay for space

we don't even need?

Let's show you
the other bedroom.

So, this traditionally would be
the second bedroom,

so you've got space
for a double bed.

I think it would make an
excellent kids' bedroom as well.

It would, definitely.

Two little twin beds here.
What do you think, Greta?

I mean, yeah.

[laughing]

Twins is on the agenda.

OK, let's take it
through, then.

Matthew pointing out that
the second bedroom could be

for our two kids...

-Bye, thank you.
-See you.

...definitely put a rock
in my stomach because...

I've become really unsure
if I want kids.

But I haven't told him yet.

Sharp road.

So...

the real estate guy was nice,
wasn't he?

[Greta talking]

But, like, I don't think
I'm ready to settle down

in a neighborhood village yet.

I would just feel really
isolated here.

It's just, like...

it doesn't make any sense
for a house to, what?

Fill out for no reason
right now.

You know what I mean?
Like, it's just --

it doesn't make any sense to me.

I am...

feeling really overwhelmed.

My wants and needs were
kind of mowed over.

Matthew seems pretty certain
about our future,

but I just don't think
I'm in a place

to be moving into a house

in the middle of nowhere,
with a set of twins.

So no...[indistinct]

[speaking French]

[Anthony]
She's already a little tipsy.

I'm going to get out of here
before it gets ugly.

[church organ playing]

[speaking French]

Benjamin's baptism is
happening today.

My relationship with my sister
Marie has been a little bit

complicated, especially since
I moved to the US.

She always kind of
left a little bit

of a distance between us.

So that's why I decided
to make up the godmother

to help us reconnect.

[speaking French]

[upbeat music playing]

-[indistinct chatter]
-[glass clinking]

[speaking French]

[Manon] I haven't seen most of
these people for 10 plus years.

I'm kind of proud of
what I've done

and just enjoying
and having a good time.

That feels good.

Because everything is so good
in France, though.

I know it's going to be
very good.

Everything is so good,
like my sausage thing I had.

You're American sausage.

No, I mean the sausage thing
I got at the boulangerie.

I haven't had the chance
to taste your own sausage

for like two months,
you know that?

Taste?

-I haven't had --
-That's been like over a year.

No, I'm not talking
about that.

-Yeah, the way you phrase it.
-I'm talking about --

[Anthony]
We're at the dinner table
with your family.

Relax...

Mary's [indistinct].

She doesn't hear.

Who cares?
It's just me and you.

[speaking french]

It is definitely
an overwhelming day.

And all of these pessimistic,
toxic, negative,

intrusive thoughts
won't go away.

My parents, they never
went to high school.

They've never moved abroad.

They don't realize how hard
it is coming back to France.

I cannot stop remembering about
my life in LA and what I left.

And I feel like a total failure.

Hey, so he's getting
pretty unruly.

Yeah.

So I'm going to take him home
to get him to sleep.

-You're OK with me staying here?
-Yeah.

[speaking French]

I have no idea what's been
going on, but Manon was crying.

She's already a little tipsy.

I know how stressed
she gets and overwhelmed

when she's around her family.

Nothing good can come from it.

I'm going to get out of here
before it gets ugly.

[speaking French]

That was a lot.

-[Jo] Hey.
-Hi, how are you?

I'm good, and you?
Oh, Pattiya.

[Dylan] My mom and Pattiya
basically hate each other.

-You're here.
-Yes.

Don't know how long until
things are just going

to explode.

So when do you think you'll do
furniture shopping?

Probably this week.

You might have to keep
an eye on her, Dylan.

♪ Oh, oh, hey, hey ♪

♪ Oh, oh, hey, hey ♪

♪ Oh, oh, hey, hey ♪

♪ Oh, oh, oh, hey, hey ♪

[Dylan] Hey, babe, do you want
a protein shake?

Sure.

Hey, what's a tuna for?

You going to put that in
the protein shake?

No, I'm not.

I mean, I'm crazy,
but I'm not that crazy.

[phone ringing]

-Oh.
-Is that your phone?

Hello?

[Jo over the phone]
Hi, it's me.

Hi, how are you, Mom?

[Jo over the phone] Yeah,
not bad -- I'm in the area.

I thought I'd pop in
and see you guys.

Oh, beautiful.

[Jo over the phone]
Is that OK?

-I'm not intruding or anything?
-No, that's great.

[Jo ovet the phone] All right,
I'll be there shortly.

All right, can't wait
to see you.

[Jo ovet the phone]
OK, can't wait to see
you too either.

Bye.

Hey.
Why is she coming now?

I don't want to look like this.

Well, I looked at you
and you said it was OK.

Babe, I haven't seen
her in years --

I want to look appropriate.

The first time she saw you
in Hawaii, her jaw hit the floor

and she's just like,
"She's gorgeous."

Yeah, but I don't want her
to see me like this.

She's gonna be
about five minutes.

[Pattiya]
All right.

I talk to my mom
two, three times a week,

and I do confide in her.

She gives great advice,
but Pattiya and my mom

don't really get along.

Pattiya thinks I have this
abnormal relationship

with my mom, and my mom
sees the animosity

that Pattiya has for her,
and she's not a big fan.

So I'm hoping they can get off
on the right foot

and not just start
fighting immediately.

I can't believe she's already
in her business already.

I just got here.

How long is she staying?

[Dylan]
I don't know.

Probably just stopping by
for five minutes.

-This is --
-[knocking]

Oh, God.

She's here.

-Hey.
-Hi, how are you?

I'm good and you?
Oh, Pattiya!

[Pattiya giggles]

I didn't know you were
coming over.

Sorry, I look like this.

[Jo] That's OK.

I got you some flowers.

And I brought a vase because
I didn't know if Dylan had one.

Oh, that's so sweet.

And there's some Australian
biscuits for you.

Oh, my gosh.
How are you?

So you're here.
Welcome to Tassie.

Thank you so much.

-You look beautiful.
-Thanks, you do too.

-You look great.
-Thank you.

-You look healthy.
-You're having your brekkie?

Yes, Dylan made me
some breakfast.

So you've got
the orchids going?

Yes, that's her favorite flower.

That's lovely.
That's lovely.

[Jo] I actually haven't seen
Pattiya in 11 years.

I've never had
the problem with her.

I think that she's always had
the problem with me,

because I feel that there's
jealousy towards me

with my relationship with Dylan.

I just think it's a little bit
off that she would want

to get in between
our relationship

because, you know,

mother and son,
you're bound for life.

So I really hope she's happy
to share Dylan with me.

-You're here.
-Yes, I'm here.

-I can't believe it --
-He can't believe it either.

-That's fabulous.
-I know.

It was so good seeing him
at the airport.

-Yeah.
-[Jo] Yeah.

-Yeah.
-[Dylan] Yeah, yeah.

-What do you want to sit, Jo?
-Anyway, it's fine.

Yeah, that's fine.
Thank you.

[Dylan] My mom and Pattiya
basically hate each other.

And so far,
everything's going great.

They're both playing a game of
who could be the nicest.

Thank you so much
for the beautiful roses.

-That's OK.
-Oh, look at those.

Would you like to put some
water in there, Dylan?

-Yes.
-[Dylan] But I don't know

how long until things are
just going to boil up

and they're just
going to explode.

Yellow for friendship.
I love it.

[Jo] Yeah.

So what do you think
of the pad?

-Isn't it fab?
-[Pattiya] It is.

But Dylan and I did talk about
going furniture shopping

since there's only,
like, a few items in here.

Yes, he needs a bit of
a sofa or something.

Well, I was thinking,
like, maybe a cream-colored

L-shaped section here.
-Yeah.

And, you know, since there's
not much of a dining space

in this area, I was thinking
something like that,

but right over here.

You might have to keep
an eye on her, Dylan.

[laughing]

Don't worry, both eyes on her.

-Now I've gotten better.
-[Jo] Have you?

-Yes, I have.
-Oh, good girl.

-Yes, yeah.
-Good girl.

So I've settled with it.

-With the spending?
-Yes.

I've only been here less than
24 hours, and she's already

like about my finances.

I'm like, the [bleep].

It's none of her business,
and she shouldn't be putting in

her two cents.

Yeah, I don't want to put you
on the spot right now,

but I just find it, sometimes
I find it hard to believe.

OK, well,
I'll just prove it to you.

-Yeah, prove it to me.
-Yeah.

[Jo] All right, well,
I'm going to have to go.

I really hope that we can all
spend some time together.

That'd be great.

[Jo]
Particularly you and I, Pattiya.

-Oh, OK, definitely.
-Oh, you're dumping me off, eh?

[Jo]
No, no one's getting dumped.

We're going to have
a coming-together.

It makes me nervous and it
makes me mad that she's already

automatically installed
into our relationship.

Thank you for stopping by.

This is exactly what
I was worried about.

[Jo]
Bye.

[Pattiya]
Dylan so needs to stop talking
about our personal business

with his mom.

I'm so damn sick of it.

I'm glad she came by,
but I still feel like

we still need to, you know,
talk about some things.

Yeah.

I mean, obviously,
you talked to your mom

about the spending habits...

Look, I had opened up to her.

...because she said
something here.

Yes, I had opened up to my mom,
and I had told her,

because before you came,
you were down on your bills.

You were struggling with rent.

You were fighting to pay
all the -- you couldn't make

your bills, you know?

Well, that's because
I had all --

Then you went out and dropped
a huge shopping spree,

and now you're saying
that you've changed,

and that was, like, a week ago.

[Dylan] I wish my mom didn't
bring up Pattiya's spending,

but Pattiya does have
a spending problem,

and it's been
going on for years.

I'm going to be financially
supporting her now,

and if she wants
to come here

and have the champagne
lifestyle, unfortunately,

that's not going to work.

I've learned I don't need
all the nice,

fancy things anymore.

[Dylan] Pattiya's been asking
for a commitment

pretty much for 12 years.

I do love her, and I want
things to work out,

but I'm not there yet.

I need to see
some changes in you,

because it's very easy

to slip back into old
habits, you know?

No, no, no, no, no, no.
I've been there, done that.

I have changed.

You have to understand that
letting you come here

to live with him and move
with him and everything,

that's a big thing also.
-It's not the same.

He doesn't have
anything to lose.

I risk my entire future
going out the [bleep] window.

He doesn't risk that.

[upbeat music playing]

[Chloe] If you guy want
to go out alone, then fine,

but at least get me to a point
where I'm like,

"OK, Keyner doesn't hate me.
I don't hate Keyner.

I trust you."

I no longer have
an issue with it.

But don't push it.

OK, but I'm trying to get
there, Chloe.

I'm trying to get there.

Like, I'm bringing you
to my house.

I'm showing you how I live.
I'm giving you my schedule.

I'm giving you access
to my cameras, my location,

just so you can see that
you can trust me enough

where I can just go out
peacefully with my friends.

You have to understand that
he getting into a relationship

with you and letting you
come here to live with him

and move with him
and everything,

that's a big thing also.
-It's not the same.

He doesn't have
anything to lose.

Do you think that he needs
somebody to live with him,

to be with somebody?
-No, he doesn't need anything.

That's what I mean.
He's showing you a lot.

But it's not the same as
if he's risking the same.

It is kind of the same.

If you put a balance,
it is kind of the same.

OK, pause.
What is he risking?

Ready?
Go ahead, I'll wait.

He doesn't need somebody
to live with him

and to be like --
-That's not a risk.

That's a want.

It is a risk.

I risk my entire future
going out the [bleep] window.

He doesn't risk that.

If anything,
he has something to gain.

He has a partner.
He has someone he can be with.

I left a business that my mom
built from the ground-up.

That's all I've ever known.

And I'm coming here
with no job now.

You're not gaining
anything with me.

But I am.

But you're not losing
as much as I'm losing.

I'm leaving everything
I've ever known to come here

to pursue this relationship
with Jonathan,

and not that I'm looking
for a gold star,

but I just don't see
him giving up...

anything other than his,
like, young Johny lifestyle

of hooking up with these
random tourists, which...

I don't know, I guess that's
a big deal to him and Keyner.

It's a big deal.

If you guys are both putting
a lot to be with each other,

why, like, why you guys don't
trust each other, like...?

Because there's a lot to lose.

But at this point, we just have
to trust each other, Chloe.

But it doesn't --
you're right, we do.

But we've had so many issues
in the past to get where we are

that I'm afraid for something
to happen again.

Because I don't
want to lose you,

and I don't want to lose this.

I don't want to have
to move back home.

The trust has been broken
in the past,

which is why I am...

the way I am.

[Johny] I want to go out
with my friend, OK?

Really?

You know,
you can't control me like that.

You can't hold me
down like that.

You know what I mean?

[Chloe]
Jonathan needs to understand
how serious I'm actually being.

My anxiety is through
the roof every day

because I'm so nervous
that he's going to just

break my trust again.

I don't want to stop
being with Jonathan

because I do see it
in the future.

I just think that I have a very
fine line between you wanting

to live your life and you
wanting to cheat on me.

That's not controlling.

If I'm controlling you
to not cheat on me,

then you should go be single.

and, you know,
you want to break up with me

because you thought this
and this happened,

when nothing really,
really happened.

I wouldn't break up
with you on a thought

of something happening.

I would break up with you
because something happened.

You have to trust me
more then that.

If I saw something
and I had proof,

I'm not staying.

[Manon] Next time on
"90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way."

I have [bleep] up.
I want to be with you.

[Chloe] Mom!

My mom is coming down
with a certain expectation

in her head.

I hope Jonathan is ready
for all the scrutiny.

-[Johny] Welcome to my home.
-Johny's house,

would it be where I want
my daughter to live?

Absolutely not!

You're deciding to live here,
and I can't finance it.

You are going to have
to make your own way.

I'm cutting her off.

[speaking French]

My aunt said, I was talking
[bleep] about the family.

This is my chance
to talk to her.

[speaking French]

I'm freaking tired
of always being

the black sheep
of the family.

[speaking French]

I just want to pack up
all my [bleep]

and go back to LA.