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-How did she sound on the phone?
-Normal.
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Even nice, if you ask me.
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Sounds better than the other way around.
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Yeah.
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But she'll finally have a grandma.
That's really nice.
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I never met mine.
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When I learned
that I was gonna have a baby,
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she... my mom's mom...
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she didn't say a word.
She just hugged me tight.
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But Mom yelled for two days.
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Having a cool grandma's gold.
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-Shall we?
-Yep.
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Hey. Number 12.
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Did you talk to Pawel?
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No. He won't take my calls.
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Maybe you ought to talk to--
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Maybe you ought
to start talking to Adam, right?
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Thanks.
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Good afternoon.
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-Good afternoon.
-Afternoon.
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Filip Raczynski.
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I know. Please, come in.
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Thank you for coming today.
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I know my call
must have caught you by surprise.
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It's all right. Please, call me Filip.
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And you are?
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Kiki.
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Yeah, I am the... was Anka's best friend.
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This is a baller house.
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Ah, you brought muscle. Are you scared?
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I might be.
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My granddaughter.
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She's so cute.
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She is.
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On our way here, she fell asleep.
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Follow me.
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Don't take your shoes off.
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Elegance is key
in this household, my friends.
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Please.
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This is Filip.
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And this is...
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-Kiki.
-Kiki.
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And that's my granddaughter, Antonina.
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-Ada.
-Filip.
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-Kiki. Hi.
-A pleasure.
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-My husband, Jeremi.
-Jerek.
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-Nice to meet you.
-Nice to meet you.
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This is our son.
Will you introduce yourself?
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-What's your name?
-Ksawery.
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-Really?
-Hi.
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And this is my brother, Hubert.
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-Hubert.
-Kiki. Hi.
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Hubert. Hi.
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It's good you're here.
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Mom cooked a lot of food,
so now it won't go to waste.
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She's so sweet.
Totally resembles Krzysztof.
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True, she is.
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Who'd like a drink?
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Hubert!
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Quiet, you'll wake her up.
Let's go to the studio.
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I wouldn't mind a glass of water.
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Come on, there's wine.
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-Red, white...
-Should I close the door?
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No, I'm driving, so water's fine.
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Ah, yeah, but it'll loosen you up
just a bit. Come on.
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Don't push it. Do you want lemon?
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Oh, yes, please. Thanks.
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-And you?
-No, I've got Tosia.
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-Here you go.
-Thanks, thanks.
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Oh, speaking of Krzysztof. Open the door.
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I got Tosia a little present.
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We'll try it on when she wakes up.
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Because I'm not sure how tall she is.
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Well, I think you nailed it.
Thank you, ma'am.
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Now, the family is complete.
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Can you and I talk about this?
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We're talking in this moment.
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I'll be in the kitchen.
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Just a minute.
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I bet Krzysztof
isn't happy with our visit.
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Tell me something else new.
I've never seen that man happy.
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I told you he would be angry.
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Please be quiet. All you ever do is talk.
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-Don't start with that.
-Here we go.
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Well, let's get Mom's birthday over with.
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Nice and quick.
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It's amazing that you're here.
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Any traffic on the way here, you guys?
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You know, it's Warsaw.
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-Right, right.
-Krzysztof!
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Son, listen, please stay.
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If we had known it was your birthday,
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we would have got you a present.
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Don't worry.
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How could you have known about this?
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You're not related to us.
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I'm very happy to see all of you,
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that we are all here today,
but I must say,
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I'd like to see you on a regular basis.
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-Why the circus, Mom?
-Easy now, man.
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I wanted to personally thank Filip
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for being so splendid with Tosia.
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Not the best timing or moment,
but I am convinced
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that these situations
should be discussed like real adults.
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We shouldn't bury our heads in the--
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Ksawery, stop doing that. Oh, where was I?
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We shouldn't bury our heads in the sand,
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so I believe Krzysztof
should try to adopt little Tosia.
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Please don't tell me what I should do.
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Krzysztof.
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-Stay out of it, idiot.
-Krzysztof. Calm down.
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Ksawery, please take my phone
and go watch something in the other room.
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Watch something fun.
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You know, a child needs a family.
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Tosia already has one.
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I was very clear. I don't want that child.
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"I don't want that child.
I don't want that child."
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A responsible man
should always rise to the occasion.
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I'm not a responsible man, you know?
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I wonder who's to blame.
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Let me take a guess, please.
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-Your mom, right?
-I don't know.
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I didn't say that, but it's possible.
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That's why we have marriages,
to avoid talking such nonsense.
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People get married,
they make a commitment,
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and then they have kids. Not like now,
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open relationships,
single mothers, suicides.
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In your head, it's all connected,
is that right?
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One leading to the other.
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Being unmarried, suicide, yeah.
Is global warming in there, too?
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Doesn't matter, honestly.
It's all about fun, right?
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-You only live once.
-Maybe stop drinking alcohol.
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-Are you worried about me?
-Damn right I'm worried.
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I haven't seen you sober for days.
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Okay.
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-Mom.
-Are you happy now?
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Amazing, Mom. Fuck.
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Amazing as always. Thank you.
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I hope it doesn't leave a stain.
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You shouldn't even be trusted with a dog.
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Let alone trusted with children.
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Fill me up, please.
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Have you ever felt
like something was missing?
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Yeah. You, Mom.
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I was a latchkey kid, remember?
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You were always at work,
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and then you were pissed
that you had to take care of us,
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not to mention our home.
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-You're being unfair, son.
-Really?
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You know Ada cut herself.
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Yeah. Did you know?
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Come on, Kiki. Let's go.
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Don't go. I'm sorry. Please sit down.
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We're only talking about family matters,
as a family.
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Now sit down.
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You weren't the only child
with working parents.
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Every family has its problems.
All of them.
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We're not dysfunctional.
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But we are dysfunctional, Mom.
Let's call things by their name.
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Yes, we are dysfunctional.
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My best childhood memories
are with the neighbor's sitter.
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My best childhood memories
are with a stranger, Mom.
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Stop that now.
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My gosh, she used to slap us.
Ada, what was that again?
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"A burning cheek
for a cheeky mouth," right?
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For fuck's sake, please stop.
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Ada, please pull yourself together.
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We weren't happy kids, Mom.
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Krzysztof. What, are you stupid, son?
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Who's happy nowadays?
Do you see anyone happy here?
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Life's like that.
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No, Mom, the thing is,
life doesn't have to be horrible.
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This crap about marriage
being a fucking magic cure.
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But it is.
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It's the responsible thing to do.
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You get someone,
and you dedicate your life to your kids.
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Right. And did you ever ask yourself
if you'd be a good mother?
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Did you even ask yourself
if you wanted to have kids? Huh?
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You don't even love your grandson.
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I'm exactly like you and I'm sick of it,
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because I've never loved anyone.
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I wasted my life trying to raise a family,
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but your dad and I were so busy that we--
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Oh, throw dad into
this picture of a family as ideal
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is nonsensical. Our dad!
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Please, you were always arguing.
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Yeah, couples argue all the time
because that's just how it is.
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Oh, and the silent treatment.
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Huh? When you fucking sulked,
you wouldn't even bring food.
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When there was nothing to eat?
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When I had to ask Dad for money
to buy fucking food for the house?
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When he'd come home and we were so scared
you'd start fighting again
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and he wouldn't talk to us
for two weeks again?
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Totally ignoring all of us?
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It wasn't ideal, I know that,
but he cared about us!
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About us?
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The fuck are we talking about here?
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He didn't give two shits about Ada.
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He treated Hubert like an idiot,
just because he didn't get straight A's?
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Is that caring, Mom?
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He just wanted you all to give your best.
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-Like responsible human beings.
-Responsible human beings?
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Is a kid that age supposed to do that?
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I was her age, Mom!
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The irresponsible human beings
were you two for fighting
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and not talking
and for not treating each other
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like two fucking normal adults!
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Filip, my dear...
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no one in this family
can really expect you
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to bear the level of responsibility.
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So, listen, Krzysztof
will take care of his daughter.
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Put the wine away.
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I'm just worried about Tosia.
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You're very young
and you've got your life ahead of you.
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-Stop it.
-Just let me solve this, okay?
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A child needs care and love.
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And unlike us, he cares about her.
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Only he's a faggot.
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I pity you, Mom.
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The pot roast was good. Hey, cheer up.
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Hey, maybe this is weird.
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I feel sorry for her.
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Fuck her.
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We weren't supposed to be there, so...
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Want some? On your hand?
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No, hey, hey, hey, no, no, no!
Don't eat it!
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Hey.
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You left Tosia's presents, Filip.
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Our first meeting didn't go
as well as planned.
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You really think there should be others?
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We're family now.
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Family looks pretty in pictures.
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Get in the middle of that picture
or they'll cut you out.
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May I come in?
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Of course.
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Hello, baby girl.
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-How are you doing?
-So, would you like something to drink?
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-Yes.
-What?
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Water would be fine.
Oh, aren't you a doll?
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Tell me, what have you got there?
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Hey, look at this here, Tosia.
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So, baby, look at this nice present
Granny got for you.
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So pretty. Look at this.
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What a pretty dress
for a princess like you.
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I've only got sparkling.
Is that all right?
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Of course. Yes? Do you like it?
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-There, there.
-With lemon?
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Please.
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Right. Would you make Grandma happy
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and please try this pretty dress on?
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All right, I think it's about time
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we get this princess to bed,
nice and easy.
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She'll try it on later.
I'm sorry, but it's her bedtime.
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We could make an exception
for Grandma, right?
255
00:15:50,160 --> 00:15:52,840
When it comes to bedtime,
there are no exceptions at all.
256
00:15:55,320 --> 00:15:56,360
Very well.
257
00:16:03,760 --> 00:16:06,040
Bye, baby girl. Bye-bye.
258
00:16:10,080 --> 00:16:11,160
What's this about?
259
00:16:12,400 --> 00:16:14,400
Inviting us over,
coming here, giving gifts,
260
00:16:14,480 --> 00:16:16,200
calling yourself her grandma?
261
00:16:16,280 --> 00:16:18,080
Well, like it or not, I'm her grandma.
262
00:16:18,160 --> 00:16:19,480
Please do not come here again.
263
00:16:22,240 --> 00:16:24,200
I filed an application to adopt Tosia.
264
00:16:26,000 --> 00:16:27,600
I just hope you understand.
265
00:17:15,160 --> 00:17:16,359
Did you know about it?
266
00:17:18,319 --> 00:17:19,400
Know about what?
267
00:17:19,480 --> 00:17:22,960
Your mother came last night
saying she wants to adopt Tosia.
268
00:17:25,760 --> 00:17:27,920
-Say something!
-Hey, hey, come in, please.
269
00:17:28,000 --> 00:17:29,200
Tell me if you knew!
270
00:17:30,920 --> 00:17:33,400
-No, I didn't.
-Help me. She can't do this.
271
00:17:35,320 --> 00:17:36,920
-I understand that--
-You don't understand shit.
272
00:17:37,000 --> 00:17:39,360
Please talk to her.
Maybe if you forbid her...
273
00:17:42,120 --> 00:17:43,400
Fuck her!
274
00:18:15,200 --> 00:18:17,160
You got a strong bond, you know.
275
00:18:17,240 --> 00:18:20,000
You're her nearest kin.
Tosia's like your daughter.
276
00:18:20,080 --> 00:18:22,040
That'll be our line of argument.
277
00:18:22,520 --> 00:18:25,800
If we actually manage
to get final and total custody,
278
00:18:25,880 --> 00:18:29,040
we'll have a big chance
for adoption and full parental rights.
279
00:18:29,120 --> 00:18:31,440
I met Tosia's grandmother yesterday.
280
00:18:31,520 --> 00:18:32,600
Krzysztof's mother.
281
00:18:33,640 --> 00:18:34,640
What for?
282
00:18:35,480 --> 00:18:37,600
She wanted to meet
her granddaughter finally.
283
00:18:37,680 --> 00:18:40,040
They could have sampled
Tosia's genetic material.
284
00:18:40,120 --> 00:18:42,600
And I wanted to put
in doubt his fatherhood.
285
00:18:42,680 --> 00:18:45,640
-But he's her biological father.
-You can't know for sure.
286
00:18:46,840 --> 00:18:48,920
Besides, it would have
gained us some time.
287
00:18:49,000 --> 00:18:50,360
We need it.
288
00:18:50,440 --> 00:18:53,920
The longer Tosia is with you,
the deeper your bond becomes.
289
00:18:54,000 --> 00:18:57,280
You're proving yourself as a caregiver.
The court will have that in mind.
290
00:18:57,360 --> 00:18:59,520
They didn't sample anything.
I watched her nonstop.
291
00:19:00,400 --> 00:19:03,760
Some courts routinely rule
for the biological parent.
292
00:19:03,840 --> 00:19:06,760
He never showed any interest
and never even tried to contact her.
293
00:19:06,840 --> 00:19:09,240
Yeah, but they can say
that Anka blocked him away
294
00:19:09,320 --> 00:19:11,960
because she wanted her
for herself and he suffered
295
00:19:12,040 --> 00:19:13,440
because he loves her.
296
00:19:13,520 --> 00:19:14,800
Just because somebody says something
297
00:19:14,880 --> 00:19:18,640
doesn't mean it's true,
but... it's not a big deal.
298
00:19:18,720 --> 00:19:20,440
Next time, keep me posted about everything
299
00:19:20,520 --> 00:19:22,640
that's connected
to the case, please. Okay?
300
00:19:25,040 --> 00:19:26,560
She visited me yesterday.
301
00:19:27,240 --> 00:19:29,240
She's trying really hard to adopt Tosia.
302
00:19:34,120 --> 00:19:35,200
Then we are fucked.
303
00:20:12,560 --> 00:20:14,480
-Hey.
-Hey.
304
00:20:18,040 --> 00:20:19,920
I'm sorry. I really needed
to clear my head.
305
00:20:20,680 --> 00:20:21,680
It's cool.
306
00:20:24,640 --> 00:20:25,640
How's Tosia?
307
00:20:26,520 --> 00:20:27,920
Good. She's asleep.
308
00:20:29,320 --> 00:20:32,240
I never thanked you for what you said
at the station that night.
309
00:20:33,280 --> 00:20:36,160
You said Tosia needs a father,
not a fucking drunk uncle.
310
00:20:36,240 --> 00:20:37,920
I'm always here, so...
311
00:20:41,160 --> 00:20:42,480
How did it go with Teresa?
312
00:20:44,760 --> 00:20:46,840
She said that we'll crush
that witch easily.
313
00:21:08,040 --> 00:21:10,680
I love you. Got it? Come.
314
00:21:11,800 --> 00:21:14,640
You guys ready? Let's do this.
315
00:21:14,720 --> 00:21:16,520
I'm gonna puke. I'm so nervous.
316
00:21:16,600 --> 00:21:17,600
Hold her.
317
00:21:21,240 --> 00:21:23,440
Filip, listen to me. Please.
318
00:21:25,600 --> 00:21:27,320
-It's okay.
-No, please listen.
319
00:21:33,600 --> 00:21:34,920
Adam is waiting.
320
00:21:36,840 --> 00:21:38,040
Well...
321
00:21:38,920 --> 00:21:39,920
I'm glad.
322
00:21:40,640 --> 00:21:43,520
-Because?
-Adam is waiting for us.
323
00:21:43,600 --> 00:21:44,920
Get the stroller?
324
00:21:52,640 --> 00:21:55,120
-I wish you good luck.
-Thank you.
325
00:21:57,040 --> 00:21:58,920
-Come here.
-But why?
326
00:21:59,000 --> 00:22:00,280
'Cause I fucking say so.
327
00:22:05,360 --> 00:22:08,880
As a neighbor, you were a total prick.
328
00:22:18,720 --> 00:22:21,920
-My comments turn you on?
-Jesus, that's my phone.
329
00:22:22,000 --> 00:22:24,920
-I'm glad it's just that.
-You're nuts, Beata.
330
00:22:25,720 --> 00:22:27,120
You lost the bet.
331
00:22:28,920 --> 00:22:31,560
-Was I sober?
-Yeah, now you owe me.
332
00:22:31,640 --> 00:22:34,040
-I asked if I was sober.
-No.
333
00:22:34,680 --> 00:22:38,200
My God, taking advantage
of a woman under the influence.
334
00:22:44,360 --> 00:22:45,760
What was the bet about?
335
00:22:48,200 --> 00:22:50,280
At the beginning,
that Filip wouldn't manage
336
00:22:50,360 --> 00:22:51,520
and that he'd give up.
337
00:22:53,560 --> 00:22:57,160
Even when there's
a high degree of confidence in the tests,
338
00:22:57,240 --> 00:23:00,520
the opinion is also grounded
in the interview performed.
339
00:23:00,600 --> 00:23:02,720
Tests are subject to interpretation,
340
00:23:02,800 --> 00:23:06,680
but a test based on an interview
gives the most credible opinion.
341
00:23:07,960 --> 00:23:09,000
And Filip...
342
00:23:09,600 --> 00:23:12,280
Well, he displays
a very high level of empathy.
343
00:23:12,360 --> 00:23:15,040
He has sound judgment, treasures kindness,
344
00:23:15,120 --> 00:23:17,640
and he's aware of the challenges
and responsibilities.
345
00:23:17,720 --> 00:23:19,720
The child is safe under his care,
346
00:23:19,800 --> 00:23:21,680
and all her principal needs are met.
347
00:23:22,320 --> 00:23:25,960
Following a detailed visit
and inspection of the facility,
348
00:23:26,040 --> 00:23:30,320
I conclude that the house
is really clean, well-organized.
349
00:23:30,400 --> 00:23:33,880
The child has a suitable nursery
for a kid her age.
350
00:23:34,440 --> 00:23:36,760
In light of Mr. Filip's young age,
351
00:23:36,840 --> 00:23:39,720
his lack of experience, marital status,
352
00:23:39,800 --> 00:23:42,040
despite the positive opinions of him,
353
00:23:42,120 --> 00:23:44,880
I believe that the child
should be placed in a foster home.
354
00:23:48,560 --> 00:23:49,880
Madam Custodian...
355
00:23:51,800 --> 00:23:55,480
may I remind you that foster care is,
without a doubt, a godsend
356
00:23:55,560 --> 00:23:58,520
for unfortunate cases
of abandoned children.
357
00:23:58,600 --> 00:24:00,760
But honestly, they're still orphanages.
358
00:24:00,840 --> 00:24:02,520
Let's face the reality.
359
00:24:03,240 --> 00:24:05,960
So, what's truly important?
Bond, love, connecting,
360
00:24:06,040 --> 00:24:09,080
or preserving
an idealized view of foster care,
361
00:24:09,160 --> 00:24:10,920
which is just a way
to appease our conscience,
362
00:24:11,000 --> 00:24:12,240
because to be completely honest,
363
00:24:12,320 --> 00:24:14,880
we would never send our own kids
to a place like that.
364
00:24:15,960 --> 00:24:18,040
Can someone who is out of control...
365
00:24:19,320 --> 00:24:22,760
who likes to drink and party,
become a role model
366
00:24:22,840 --> 00:24:25,600
for a small child overnight? Really?
367
00:24:25,680 --> 00:24:28,720
Do we think such a person
can be a caregiver?
368
00:24:28,800 --> 00:24:32,240
Can someone who doesn't shy away
from alcohol and God knows what else
369
00:24:32,320 --> 00:24:34,040
look after a vulnerable being?
370
00:24:35,000 --> 00:24:37,520
Ensure her safety, a set of values?
371
00:24:38,480 --> 00:24:39,640
Please, Your Honor,
372
00:24:39,720 --> 00:24:43,040
this description fits so many citizens
in this country.
373
00:24:43,120 --> 00:24:45,240
Beer after work, wine for dinner,
374
00:24:45,320 --> 00:24:47,040
no other interest in people's affairs,
375
00:24:47,120 --> 00:24:50,480
incredible amounts of time spent
on the phone or TV screen.
376
00:24:50,560 --> 00:24:53,200
I'm not-- A conjugal family
is not ideal either.
377
00:24:53,280 --> 00:24:57,800
This room shouldn't be fooled
by dominant cultural stereotypes.
378
00:24:57,880 --> 00:25:00,800
Let's ask ourselves,
with absolute honesty.
379
00:25:00,880 --> 00:25:04,040
Haven't I neglected my kids
despite all of my love and care?
380
00:25:04,640 --> 00:25:07,360
-He's gay.
-See, Your Honor?
381
00:25:07,440 --> 00:25:11,520
Counselor, please proceed
to inform your client
382
00:25:12,120 --> 00:25:14,880
about the rules
and procedures in this court.
383
00:25:14,960 --> 00:25:16,480
Yes, Your Honor. I'm very sorry.
384
00:25:16,560 --> 00:25:19,440
-Are you not a homosexual?
-That's what I told you.
385
00:25:19,520 --> 00:25:22,120
That has nothing to do
with the matter before the court.
386
00:25:22,200 --> 00:25:23,320
Now, Counselor,
387
00:25:23,400 --> 00:25:26,120
can you please ask your client
to be quiet?
388
00:25:26,760 --> 00:25:27,880
Of course, Your Honor.
389
00:25:27,960 --> 00:25:30,960
Thank you, Madam Custodian.
You better, Counselor.
390
00:25:31,560 --> 00:25:34,520
As great as my patience may be,
I won't tolerate this.
391
00:25:34,600 --> 00:25:35,680
Please proceed.
392
00:25:35,760 --> 00:25:37,440
This is about my client's concerns
393
00:25:37,520 --> 00:25:39,600
for the future
of her cherished granddaughter.
394
00:25:40,120 --> 00:25:41,960
Filip's efforts to be a good dad
395
00:25:42,040 --> 00:25:45,440
after losing his sister
are admirable and brave, but...
396
00:25:45,520 --> 00:25:49,680
we all in this court know perfectly well
that, well, youth must be enjoyed.
397
00:25:49,760 --> 00:25:51,760
And don't the elderly deserve some rest?
398
00:25:51,840 --> 00:25:53,520
Counselor, please.
399
00:25:54,160 --> 00:25:56,280
Your Honor, a single father
is not a full home.
400
00:25:56,360 --> 00:25:58,120
Although it's a loving home.
401
00:25:58,720 --> 00:26:01,680
My client Olga, Tosia's father's mother,
402
00:26:01,760 --> 00:26:05,560
is willing to create
a stable, bountiful, trustworthy,
403
00:26:05,640 --> 00:26:07,120
and good home for her granddaughter.
404
00:26:07,200 --> 00:26:09,280
But you'll agree with me, Counselor,
405
00:26:09,360 --> 00:26:11,840
that love can't be weighed
just in money terms.
406
00:26:11,920 --> 00:26:13,320
That's demagoguery, Counselor.
407
00:26:13,400 --> 00:26:14,840
It's the first time we agree, Your Honor.
408
00:26:14,920 --> 00:26:16,000
Excuse me?
409
00:26:17,400 --> 00:26:19,000
I beg you to listen to this.
410
00:26:20,520 --> 00:26:22,160
And your name is?
411
00:26:24,320 --> 00:26:29,600
Kiki. I am... I was...
best friends with Anka...
412
00:26:30,680 --> 00:26:31,880
Filip's sister.
413
00:26:32,480 --> 00:26:37,000
And I've known Filip
since they came to Warsaw, Your Honor.
414
00:26:37,080 --> 00:26:39,240
But that's not what I wanted to say.
415
00:26:40,840 --> 00:26:42,520
I wanted to say that
416
00:26:43,040 --> 00:26:44,960
I had my daughter when I was only 16.
417
00:26:47,560 --> 00:26:48,960
And no one showed interest
418
00:26:49,040 --> 00:26:51,560
whether I'd give the kid basic support
419
00:26:51,640 --> 00:26:53,480
or if I'd be a good mother at all.
420
00:26:54,960 --> 00:26:56,520
Nobody prepared me for that.
421
00:26:58,640 --> 00:26:59,720
But I managed.
422
00:27:00,880 --> 00:27:02,080
And being honest...
423
00:27:04,000 --> 00:27:05,320
it's all about love.
424
00:27:07,520 --> 00:27:08,560
Period.
425
00:27:09,680 --> 00:27:10,920
Beyond reasonable doubt.
426
00:27:11,000 --> 00:27:12,480
I don't see how that's at all relevant.
427
00:27:12,560 --> 00:27:13,760
But it is!
428
00:27:13,840 --> 00:27:16,280
Because you're all discussing
what's best for her,
429
00:27:16,360 --> 00:27:19,600
and no one seems to care about the fact
that he'll give his life for her.
430
00:27:19,680 --> 00:27:23,120
He's been a father to Tosia from day one.
He hasn't even asked for any--
431
00:27:23,200 --> 00:27:26,480
Your Honor, I still don't understand
why this woman is allowed to testify.
432
00:27:35,680 --> 00:27:36,960
May I continue now?
433
00:27:38,960 --> 00:27:41,040
As I was saying, Tosia's grandmother
434
00:27:41,120 --> 00:27:43,200
will give her a stable environment.
435
00:27:43,280 --> 00:27:45,560
Her stable family situation
436
00:27:45,640 --> 00:27:48,880
and solid financial situation
will create a safe space
437
00:27:48,960 --> 00:27:50,920
and environment for Tosia's growth.
438
00:27:54,000 --> 00:27:55,560
Do you have a problem with alcohol?
439
00:27:55,640 --> 00:27:56,760
Excuse me?
440
00:27:56,840 --> 00:27:59,640
I'm asking if she has
a problem with alcohol.
441
00:27:59,720 --> 00:28:01,800
-It's a simple question.
-It's not relevant.
442
00:28:03,080 --> 00:28:05,200
That's a fascinating answer,
but nevertheless.
443
00:28:05,280 --> 00:28:07,920
Please, Counselor, to the point.
444
00:28:08,000 --> 00:28:10,440
Yes, Your Honor.
I'm afraid the picture painted
445
00:28:10,520 --> 00:28:12,240
by the Counselor is far from reality.
446
00:28:12,320 --> 00:28:14,560
It's a distortion.
May I please share this article
447
00:28:14,640 --> 00:28:16,320
from the press, and I quote,
448
00:28:16,400 --> 00:28:18,480
"Boozed-Up Mother
Loses Child at the Beach."
449
00:28:18,560 --> 00:28:21,000
We can't trust a tabloid
as a credible source.
450
00:28:21,080 --> 00:28:23,080
We don't have to
because her son is right here.
451
00:28:23,160 --> 00:28:26,120
She left him on the beach when he was six.
452
00:28:26,200 --> 00:28:28,240
Because you were
the boozed-up mother, right?
453
00:28:51,400 --> 00:28:52,400
So?
454
00:28:52,480 --> 00:28:56,080
It depends on what the shrink says
after talking to Krzysztof and his mother.
455
00:28:57,160 --> 00:28:58,760
But we have to stay positive.
456
00:29:18,080 --> 00:29:19,760
I don't know, I can't decide.
457
00:29:50,280 --> 00:29:54,640
I put it all in a letter
so I wouldn't leave anything out.
458
00:30:09,760 --> 00:30:11,520
It's true, a kid complicates things.
459
00:30:11,600 --> 00:30:14,320
-No, listen to me.
-No, no, just give me a second.
460
00:30:15,360 --> 00:30:16,600
I'm sorry.
461
00:30:18,760 --> 00:30:19,840
Please listen.
462
00:30:23,280 --> 00:30:24,320
The thing is...
463
00:30:28,240 --> 00:30:29,520
I think I'm in love with you.
464
00:30:31,440 --> 00:30:32,880
I want you to know that.
465
00:30:32,960 --> 00:30:37,520
And that some people manage
to be happy after having children.
466
00:30:40,760 --> 00:30:44,520
Okay, I know that Tosia
is not your child, and I'm...
467
00:30:45,600 --> 00:30:48,640
I'm hardly an expert
when it comes to relationships.
468
00:30:49,360 --> 00:30:51,040
But when something feels real...
469
00:30:53,440 --> 00:30:56,160
when you understand
that there's something...
470
00:30:57,840 --> 00:30:59,920
precious, like, you know, love,
471
00:31:00,000 --> 00:31:02,680
as long as there's love,
then it's worth the fight.
472
00:31:02,760 --> 00:31:03,840
And that I do know.
473
00:31:10,480 --> 00:31:11,520
Okay.
474
00:31:16,640 --> 00:31:17,800
Filip, Filip.
475
00:31:19,520 --> 00:31:20,840
Are you wearing my shirt?
476
00:31:21,880 --> 00:31:23,680
Yeah, because it smells good.
477
00:31:27,400 --> 00:31:28,840
I get off work at 11:00.
478
00:31:32,120 --> 00:31:33,360
Wanna hang out?
479
00:31:35,200 --> 00:31:36,560
Well, I might be asleep.
480
00:31:38,000 --> 00:31:39,440
It may be a bit late for us.
481
00:31:51,720 --> 00:31:53,760
You don't worry about anything.
482
00:31:54,800 --> 00:31:56,400
Nothing makes you nervous.
483
00:31:59,160 --> 00:32:01,160
My sweet little carefree birdie.
484
00:32:03,520 --> 00:32:05,000
No, right?
485
00:32:06,640 --> 00:32:08,880
It's you I'm talking to. It's you.
486
00:32:20,880 --> 00:32:22,200
Are you liking your eggs?
487
00:32:25,800 --> 00:32:26,960
Oh, it's okay.
488
00:32:43,760 --> 00:32:46,640
And the next thing I know,
your mom broke her arm.
489
00:32:47,720 --> 00:32:51,640
Remember, drinking and climbing trees
is never a good idea.
490
00:32:55,040 --> 00:32:57,480
Oh, look. That's the three of us.
491
00:33:01,600 --> 00:33:02,880
We're doing fine.
492
00:33:04,360 --> 00:33:07,680
The laundry is not rotting
and the trash is taken out.
493
00:33:08,640 --> 00:33:09,680
Tell her.
494
00:33:12,480 --> 00:33:14,200
She says she's not hungry at all.
495
00:33:15,200 --> 00:33:16,360
She loves veggies.
496
00:33:22,560 --> 00:33:24,080
We're doing everything we can.
497
00:33:27,080 --> 00:33:28,560
Let's leave it here.
498
00:34:30,159 --> 00:34:31,480
They're ready for you.
499
00:34:45,639 --> 00:34:46,960
We'll find out in a moment.
37461
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