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There are so many ways to excite your
lover.
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From the way you look at each other.
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To how you touch each other.
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From what you say to each other.
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Even the way you taste and smell to each
other.
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The ultimate in pleasure.
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comes from a deep exploration of sensory
experiences.
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Sensory exploration is the pathway to
more than 101 ways
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to excite your lover.
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Our five senses allow us to perceive
everything in our world.
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Sight.
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Smell.
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Hearing.
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taste and touch.
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The ability to intensely focus on each
one of your senses will provide the
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ultimate in peak sexual experiences with
your lover.
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The sense of sight enables us to explore
and understand everything around us
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without having to touch anything.
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we can be excited and stimulated into a
sexually heightened awareness.
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Many people believe the eyes are the
windows to the soul.
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Challenge yourselves to spend several
minutes staring into each other's eyes.
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What do you see?
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Love?
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Desire? The eyes are one of our most
powerful communicators.
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Why the rush to get married now?
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Well, do you think I'm going to let a
funny little redhead like you run around
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loose here?
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Suppose the mother fella came along
and... Oh, Judy, I've got to have you.
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The sense of sight is a powerful tool
which stimulates specific moods and
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feelings. When you first see your lover,
how do you respond?
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Be aware and greet each other in a warm
and loving way.
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Create a romantic mood by providing the
visual stimulus of a classic romantic
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movie.
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When you watch two people on the screen
you can tap into their same emotions and
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feel that rush of love toward your
partner Many couples enjoy
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watching more directly erotic material
on television Not only does watching it
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together create an exciting mood, but it
can also provide stimulating ideas
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Don't be bashful about buying or renting
adult videos many many couples take
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advantage of the diverse range of erotic
video material available
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The
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ultimate visual stimulation for many
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couples is watching themselves in a
loving and erotic situation You can get
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pleasure from both shooting the video
and viewing it later.
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One of the funny things about sight is
that we tend to see what we expect to
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see. Our eyes glance quickly around,
scanning the scene.
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and our brain fills in the rest for
memory.
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It's easy to see what you expect to see,
and not what's really there.
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But you can take advantage of the clever
way our sense of sight works.
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Offer a visual surprise to your lover.
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Tease your partner with a glimpse of
sexy lingerie or bare skin.
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Create a sight-only game. Tell your
partner, you can look, but you can't
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touch.
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You can provide your partner with an
exciting dose of visual stimulus by
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modeling something new or an outfit that
has special meaning.
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Think about what colors and styles look
good on you and make you feel good.
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Be creative with your visual aids.
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Try videotaping your partner.
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Play the role of the director.
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Don't be shy to ask for what you'd like
to see.
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You want to capture visual images that
will later have a positive association.
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Not only is dressing up fun for your
partner to watch, but it's stimulating
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to explore the different parts of your
own personality.
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Look at yourself, and along with your
partner, enjoy the many yous.
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One of the most direct ways to fully
enjoy the sense of sight is to use a
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mirror. Watch as you and your partner
intimately kiss.
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Look at your faces as they express your
pleasure.
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When you look at your partner in a
loving fashion, you're giving him a
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special gift.
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When he sees the look of desire and love
in your eyes, it anchors in his
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subconscious mind all the positive
beliefs you have about how sexy and
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desirable he is to you.
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By photographing your partner, you can
practice looking at her objectively.
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Help your lover position herself in a
flattering pose.
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Using soft lighting and avoiding using a
flash will make the photos more
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attractive.
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Composing and shooting photographs helps
you concentrate on your visual sense.
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And as you pose, think about your body
language.
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Try imitating some of the sexy poses
you've seen in magazines.
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Think loving, positive thoughts.
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Because your eyes will send a message
directly into the camera.
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Your photographs will reflect just what
you were thinking.
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Then, let your lover have the pleasure
of photographing you.
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It's not unusual to think of creating
glamour and erotic photographs of women.
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But be fair.
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It's equally fun for a woman to
photograph a man.
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Neither of you need to be an experienced
photographer to experiment with shooting
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erotic pictures.
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The results can be fun and gratifying,
even with the most basic equipment.
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And finally, create an erotic photograph
together.
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Take a deep breath.
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Concentrate on the many scents you can
detect.
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We have the amazing ability to identify
a limitless number of aromas.
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We start to detect a scent the moment
the molecules accumulate on the surface
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of the nasal passage in order to smell
something We must come in contact with
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its very substance Smelling may be
considered the most intimate
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way of sensing the world
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Throughout
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history It's been known that the sense
of smell could powerfully affect
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emotions and feelings.
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Early peoples believed that magic
spells, like love potions, had to be
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ingested through the nose to be their
most effective.
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Now we know why smelling and emotions
are so related.
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There is a family of genes in nose
cells.
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that is responsible for detecting smells
and transmitting them to the brain.
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And this olfactory system works closely
with the same area of the brain that
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controls mood and emotion.
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As your partner inhales the very
individual sense of your own body, he
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becomes emotionally aroused.
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He connects those senses with the
experiences of being intimate with you.
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The sense of smell and sexuality are
joined by a link as old as man himself.
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Smell and sexuality are both engraved in
the oldest part of the brain.
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In fact, many people who lose their
olfactory abilities also lose
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interest in sex.
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Use this powerful link between smell and
emotion to arouse your partner by
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sharing some specific aromas with him
Try
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blindfolding your partner so he can
really focus in on just his sense of
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smell Let him guess what the scent is
that you are sharing with him
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Maybe he has a favorite food that smells
sweet and enticing
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Guide him in sharing the smell of the
food mingling with your own body sense.
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A blindfolded exercise also emphasizes
the trust that you share in your
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relationship.
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You might try a tempting, tasty smell,
like chocolate.
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Or maybe a certain scent, like flowers,
will remind him of a special place or
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time you've shared together.
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Remember that for most scents, a little
bit goes a long way.
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You don't want to overwhelm your partner
with a scent that is too strong.
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You just want to give him the deeper
pleasure.
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that comes from intensely focusing on
one of our five senses.
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The sense of smell can alter your
emotions, your state of mind, and, as
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many people believe, even your health.
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In aromatherapy, essential oils
extracted from plants and flowers
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are used for many types of healing and
mood elevation.
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Specific aromas are said to provide
specific effects.
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Chamomile helps headaches.
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Ginger soothes the sore throat.
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Orange blossom is invigorating and
revitalizing.
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The oils can be mixed with distilled
water and sprayed right into the air or
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onto the edge of your pillows.
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Some of the aromas that are said to be
aphrodisiacs are sandalwood, ginger,
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rose, vanilla, jasmine, and patchouli.
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These aromas come in the form of incense
and candles, or can be directly
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sprinkled around the room, or can be
used as bath oils.
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You can apply a small amount of oil
directly to your skin.
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Peppermint daubed at the temples is
revitalizing.
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Try mixing some of your favorite oils to
create your own individual perfume
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Essential oils can be mixed with body
oil and used
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for massaging The combination of your
chosen aromas and the warm feel
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of the massage Will create a deeper
sense of pleasure for you and your
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partner
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The power of hearing to arouse the
emotions has been known throughout
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history. The ancient Greeks knew that
music had the power to make men lose
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their inhibitions.
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Philip V of Spain was cured of
depression by listening to an opera
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singer. As we've all heard, music has
charms to soothe the savage beast.
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In this day and age, with so many
artificial mechanized sounds bombarding
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our ears, it is important to spend time
focusing on natural sounds, like birds,
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cricket, or the roar of the ocean.
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One of the most stimulating sounds is
that of running water.
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Tune out the rest of the world, let go
of your inhibitions, and listen to the
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sounds you and your partner can create.
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Using water, imagination, and a sense of
adventure.
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There you go.
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There you go.
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Tuning into natural sounds.
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Helps you feel relaxed and sensuous.
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Put your head on your partner's chest
and listen to his heartbeat and the
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soothing rhythm of his breathing.
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Concentrate on listening to your own
thoughts.
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What you say when you talk to yourself
determines your mood and your outlook on
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every aspect of your life.
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Keep your internal dialogue positive.
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Talk to yourself about your partner and
your relationship.
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focusing on the strength.
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Actively think about the things you love
about your partner.
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The human voice has great capacity for
erotic suggestiveness.
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With a little imagination, you can
derive enormous pleasure.
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From just listening to your partner's
voice.
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Steve Thomas.
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Hi. It's me.
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Oh, hi, honey.
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Don't say a word.
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Just listen.
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Okay.
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Imagine I'm with you right now.
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very close to you in your office.
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First, I loosen your tie.
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I begin to rub your strong, hard
shoulders
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and your neck.
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I unzip my blouse.
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And I gently rub my breasts.
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I'm running my warm tongue all the way
down your neck.
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Now, I run my tongue very lightly
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down your chest
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to your stomach.
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Slowly.
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I unbuckle your belt.
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And slowly, I pull it out of your pants.
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I hope you can't take it anymore.
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Sit very still.
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I have a little surprise for you.
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Because I'm coming in.
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Your voice is one of your most powerful
tools for exciting your lover.
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And the telephone can be an important
link.
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Talking over the phone is a wonderful
way to share sexual intimacy when you
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and your partner are geographically
separated.
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Don't be shy. You can step outside
yourself and play the seductive role.
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Take the initiative and lead your
partner through a sexy conversation.
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You'll be pleasantly surprised by how
your partner responds.
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I wrote a little something that I want
you to say to me.
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Oh, I see.
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It's my turn to play the game, huh?
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Uh-huh.
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Okay.
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They stared for a moment into each
other's
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eyes.
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that she was longing to feel the
pressure of his firm body next to her
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own.
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But now that they were alone, he wanted
to save her every moment.
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He reached out to her face and gently
traced the curves of
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her mouth with his finger.
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While men often rely on their sense of
sight for sexual stimulation,
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Women often respond to their sense of
hearing for sexual arousal.
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Don't be afraid to ask your partner to
talk to you or read to you. It will
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inspire him.
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Into her chest.
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Following the swell of her breath.
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And slowly, tenderly wandering
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to her hips.
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And while your partner is talking, don't
forget to concentrate on active
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listening. Look into his eyes.
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Show him with your body language that
you're savoring his every word.
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Enjoy the sound of his voice.
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And if you'd like him to speak a little
slower or whisper a little more, tell
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him.
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Letting his fingers glide across the
lace of her stockings.
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flipping under the thin garter, and
grabbing the warm flesh of her inner
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thigh.
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He's gone.
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Unsure how far to go, she grabbed his
hand and
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encouraged him to intimately explore her
body.
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To his delight.
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You found out she was already nude.
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Already moist.
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And wanting.
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As his fingers entered her, she arched
back in pure delight.
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Grasping and rubbing at his swelling
pump tent.
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I love you. I love you.
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Here,
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you do the honors.
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When you talk to your partner, be aware
that the tone of your voice, how you say
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something, is just as important as what
you are saying.
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The words that you emphasize, the rhythm
of your speech, how loudly or softly you
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project your sentences.
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all add up to make as big an impact on
your listener as your actual choice of
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words. Practice using a low, gentle tone
and speaking slowly to your lover.
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Concentrate on your caring feelings for
your partner and your voice will reflect
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the warmth and intimacy you feel for
each other.
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You're here.
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We know that undressing each other is a
visual and a touching treat.
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But if you concentrate on your sense of
hearing, it can also be an audible
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treat. Listen to the sounds of
undressing.
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Zippers unzipping.
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Fabrics rustling. And maybe even
ripping.
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And listen to the sounds of pleasure
your partner makes as the two of you
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undress.
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Isn't that much better?
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Yeah.
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The power of background sound is often
underestimated, but they're very
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valuable in mood setting.
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Set the right mood with your own
background sound.
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Play your partner's favorite music, or
choose traditional lovemaking music.
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Classical, jazz, new age.
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And remember, you can use music to
create your own private cocoon.
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Turn up the music to create privacy.
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and express yourself vocally through
talking, heavy breathing, moaning, or
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even screaming.
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As Shakespeare wrote, if music be the
food of love, play on.
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The talking you and your partner share
during lovemaking can add a whole new
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dimension to your sensual pleasure.
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Tell your partner what you like.
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Compliment your partner.
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Share your emotions and feelings.
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Sometimes nonverbal sounds like purring
and howling can best communicate
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your enjoyment to your partner.
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One of the primary aspects that
successful long-term relationships have
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in common is that the couples enjoy
daily small talk.
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The little stories you communicate to
your partner, the way you tell your
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partner about your day, things that may
seem insignificant, but are really very
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important expressions of your love for
each other.
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I don't know how to open the
refrigerator and pull everything out
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onto the floor.
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Our sense of taste lets us
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appreciate so much pleasure.
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There are countless mouth-watering
treats that please the over 10,000 taste
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buds we each have, all there ready to
enjoy the sensations of sour,
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bitter, salty, and sweet.
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We use our mouth throughout lovemaking
for touching, but that's only getting
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half the pleasure.
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Try focusing on just your sense of
taste.
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Using the tip of your tongue,
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Gently taste your partner's body.
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Travel across her skin with little
licks.
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Then, try licking her body with more
passion.
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See how the skin tastes different when
you touch it with different parts of
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your tongue.
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If you and your partner have been
together for a while, Chances are that
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you like how each other tastes, even
though you may have never consciously
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thought about it before.
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The kitchen provides a world totally
devoted to concentrating on the sense of
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taste. But the food that we eat on a
daily basis often does not stretch our
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capacity for tasting different flavors.
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Create the opportunity to experience
food in a new way.
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Playing with food can take you back to
childhood innocence.
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It lets you release adult inhibitions
and be free in your quest for sensual
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pleasures.
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Preparing a meal together as a team lets
you focus on your partnership and create
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a sense of team spirit.
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You share a mutual feeling of heightened
anticipation when you know you will soon
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be eating.
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When you select food, consider not only
the taste of the food, but the aroma,
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texture, color, and size.
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Finger food can be satisfying in more
ways than one.
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Try creating a meal with foods that have
been considered to be aphrodisiacs.
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Oysters and other seafood have a high
zinc content which is said to increase a
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man's sexual potency.
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But even if aphrodisiacs are just
folklore, try creating some folklore of
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your own with a meal made of food that
is sensuous and sexual to you and your
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lover.
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Put your concentration and focus on each
other.
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as you stretch the boundaries of your
sense of taste.
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Enjoy the mingling of the food's flavor
with the taste of your partner's.
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The sensation of the flesh of fruit,
such as papaya, against your own flesh
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can be especially sensual.
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Fruit takes on your body temperature and
makes a good lubricant.
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By intensely focusing on your sense of
taste, you can expand the boundaries of
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your sexual experiences.
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Your kitchen just might be the ideal
place for an intimate rendezvous.
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Most of us have a lot of experience in
using our sense of touch.
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But isolating and focusing on this sense
will expand your pleasure.
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Our skin is sensitive to the slightest
vibrations.
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We can feel and identify an unlimited
number of textures and surfaces.
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There is a wide array of sensations that
affect our emotions and define how we
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feel.
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Biofeedback has shown that body
temperature is directly related to
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stress levels.
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If your hands and feet are cold, you
might be feeling stressed.
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Think relaxing thoughts.
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Touch each other gently and feel
yourself warm up.
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Touching each other is something we do
all the time, and we tend to take it for
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granted. To truly focus on your sense of
touch, create the opportunity to touch
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your partner in a way you don't normally
do.
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Shampoo each other's hair, massaging the
head and temples.
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share the physical sensations of the
soapy lather warm water and steam on
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your skin rub up against each other's
warm slippery bodies
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Close your eyes. Close your eyes. What
are you doing?
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Close your eyes.
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Where do you want to?
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To intensify your focus on the sinful
touch, while you're in the heated
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environment, try using an icy cold
liquid to stimulate specific parts of
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your partner's body.
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Your sense of touch will be revitalized
by the contrast between the cold liquid
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and the warm shower.
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Contrast is a key invigorator to your
sense of touch.
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Tantalized parts of the body that are
particularly rich with nerve endings and
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sensitive to touch.
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Nipples, fingertips, the spine, the
tongue.
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A full-body blast of cold water will
alert your senses and awaken your entire
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body.
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Thanks.
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When shared with your partner, the daily
rituals of grooming can become an
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intimate experience which expands the
trust and enjoyment of your
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relationship.
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Do some of the little things for your
partner that she normally does alone
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Even brushing your teeth can become a
mutual challenge when you brush each
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other's teeth
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Don't
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worry if you can't give him as close to
save as he can do himself The point is
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to enjoy the attention that you're
giving each other
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As individuals, our personal hygiene and
grooming are among the most private
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things we do.
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The sharing of these daily rituals can
be very gratifying and can increase the
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intimacy and trust in your relationship.
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And don't forget to play.
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Playing can be a fun way to initiate
lovemaking.
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Just be sure your partner is in the same
mood. Oh, my God.
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Alex, I don't believe you.
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Creating physical sensations like an
adrenaline rush and dizziness can be
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stimulating. But don't hurt yourselves.
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The physical exertion of a pillow fight
or a chase around the bedroom leads to
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accelerated heartbeats and flushed
faces.
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Focus on the physical sensations in
yourself and your partner.
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And touching yourself is a source of
pleasure not only for you, but for your
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partner.
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Intense focus on your sense of touch
expands your lovemaking pleasure.
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Our five senses are directly related to
how we feel emotionally and physically.
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Now that we've isolated and concentrated
on each individual sense, it's time
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to combine all five senses for a peak
lovemaking experience.
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For the ultimate sensory experience,
create a special time and design an
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environment that caters to each and
every sense.
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Light incense or scented candles to
provide a romantic aroma.
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Nibble on your favorite foods.
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Design an area that pleases your sense
of sight and wear something you find
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visually appealing.
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Remember how important lighting is.
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Try to avoid making love in a room lit
with fluorescent lights.
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They are known to make people irritable.
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Colored lights, especially warm colors
like pink and orange, will make your
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skin tones look attractive and make you
feel warm and sexy.
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Include your favorite music to please
your ears and savor it. Special drink.
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Remember that how you move, your body
language, will also set the tone for
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lovemaking.
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Moving in a slow, sensual way makes you
feel sexy and tells your partner how you
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feel. Be direct in your signals to your
partner.
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Smile at each other.
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The power of the smile cannot be
overestimated.
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Smiling and laughing.
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cause the release of endorphins, the
chemical in your brain that elevates
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your mood.
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Another effective way to concentrate on
your sensual side is to try some deep
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breathing exercises.
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Deep breathing oxygenates the body.
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causing an elevated state of well-being.
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As you focus all your sensory perception
on each other, you become receptive to
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the many ways you communicate your
desire for each other. The looks, the
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touches, the words.
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You've seen how each and every sense can
cause you to experience specific
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feelings and emotions.
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And you can utilize this potent link
between your sensory experiences and
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your state of mind in order to have the
ultimate in sensuous lovemaking with
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your partner.
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Your five senses are so powerful that if
you learn to associate a specific
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sensory experience
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like the feel of a soft feather against
your skin, with a heightened emotional
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state, you will be able to re-experience
that same mood every time you recreate
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the sensory experience.
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All the senses are equally capable of
being linked with emotions and moods.
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Do you and your lover have a special
song?
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Chances are that whenever you hear your
song, you are so strongly reminded of
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the time you shared that now, every time
you hear it, you can emotionally relive
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the experience.
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Your sense of hearing is so powerful
that just listening to a song can
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completely alter your physical and
emotional state.
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This kind of association or anchoring is
an extremely potent tool.
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It gives you the power to excite your
lover in ways you never dreamed of and
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to create peak intimate experiences for
both of you.
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When you cater to each of your senses
and anchor a peak emotional state to a
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food, an aroma, a kind of touch, a word,
a piece of clothing,
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or a photograph,
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you are taking full advantage of your
powerful senses.
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And then, when at last you combine all
your sensory experiences,
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you and your partner will enjoy a
transcendent sexual encounter.
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And remember how the five senses can
help you continue to excite your lover
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even after you've made love.
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Lie together, talk, share a drink and
caress each other.
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Oh.
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Now it's your turn. Through the use of
sensory isolation, you can come up with
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an infinite number of ways to excite
your lover. As you enjoy the ultimate in
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lovemaking experiences, remember to
fully appreciate your five senses. You
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will be more than pleased at how they
reward you with unsurpassed pleasure and
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the ability to excite you and your lover
for a lifetime.
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