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- So what do you think?
- You don't want to know.

- Which one?
- Best mamay.

Because you never know.

Sunshine, come to us.

See, she has a daughter with us
one of my father's friends.

and just ended Oxford.

- Can't tell me about it?
- It happened last minute.

- It's the same as a month ago.
- Be nice.

In the end, you decided to show up.

- Martin, introduce them.

- Sure, this is my son Nelson ...
- Celesta Witz.

- Love to meet you, Celesta.
- It's my pleasure.

Dinner was served. We can go
to the dining room? Let's go eat.

This dinner will be hell.

Oy Vey! My son is gay!

Honey, what do you know about this girl?

Celeste is a good party, she has great parents,
are members of a private club, donate to Senegal

They are disgusting but rich.

Apart from this disgusting part of wealth
I think she doesn't fit Nelson.

- You think so?
- Yes.

- Why are you inviting her?
- How is it me? You suggest it!

- As soon as they found out
their daughter finished school talking about it.

Dad, why would you invite?
this girl?

I? That's her. I'm not worried
about you.

- You should know that there is someone
in my life. - Yes?

- Who is she?

- I was going to tell you.
- What are you waiting for? At the Messiah?

- Is that serious?
- Yes, you can say that.

I am so happy. Mazel tov.

- When will we meet her?
- Sweetheart, take it easy, it's not a flood.

- Right. I'll tell you how ready.
- But I think they can be happy.

Agelo, Cybill, I'm sorry
for being late.

- How do I look?
- Sexy and divine.

- And I?
- You're both a beautiful couple.

- Tickets.
- Let's go.

Shirley, leave him alone.
You don't have to look for a woman for him.

Just take care. How many more
can I have my son in life?

Not with me anymore.

I wonder who he is with. My son is
left there alone now.

He is a young, confident man.

But who is she? We know nothing about her.
He may be my age, for example.

- Don't be funny.
- Nowadays, young boys are with ...

Is there a Jew? We don't even know
is he Jewish?

How can I not ask if it is?
ydwk? How can I not do it?

And how is it black? Everything I need
so what 'schwartz' in my family.

- Who are you?
"Angelo Ferraro? Who am I pleased with?"

My name is Hirsch. I am Nelson's mother.
What, would you like to see my evidence?

- What, you want to see my evidence?
- Excuse me. Enter. - Thank you.

- I think Nelson will be home now.
- You went somewhere.

I think I went to the office.

- Have we met? - I'm a Nelson decorator.
I wanted to give him some tips, but he wouldn't listen to me.

I never think this apartment is
it can look so beautiful.

- Do you think so? - I thought that
he could come to me and give me some advice.

- I'd be honored.
- I would be very happy.

- Cybill, this is Mrs. Hirsch, Nelson's mother.

- I'm Cyibill Williams, you know me.
I hear a lot about you. - I'm sure of it.

I am a neighbor and your son lets me
use your jacuzzi.

- Oh, sure. Whirlpool?

Cybill, can we exchange a word?
Privately.

Yes. Maybe I'll buy it
couple to the apartment.

Cybill, I'd like to talk to you.

- I come from California and must use it
in this weather in New York. - Yes, I understand.

- What's wrong?
- No, no ... I'm fine.

And you are fine too.
And thank you for everything.

- Thanks. I think you may want ...
...you know.

What? I'm not like that. You don't have to
worry about it with me.

It wouldn't bother me.

Where have I not seen you before?

Sure. I was the girl of the month
in Playman.

- Is that a problem, Mrs. Hirsch?
- No, no ... It's very interesting.

- Do you want to join? There is room for two.
- No.

- Nelson is fit.
- I'm very clean.

But thank you for being so kind
That he offered me. Maybe another time.

- You and Nelson so often in the hot tub together.
- Still. Kachamy it.

But we like not only the jacuzzi together. We are together
to the theater, to the clubs. We like ... You know, have fun.

Nelson also deals with my finances
because I don't know much about money at all.

Bąbek, I am so happy that you are here
so close so enjoy the hot tub.

- Cybill ... - Yes, Mrs. Hirsch?
- No. Talk to me, Shirley.

Cybill. I would like to know what you think
about my son.

Nelson is wonderful, caring, wonderful
people. It's so sweet. We have a lot of fun.

It's very, very ... you know special.

- By the way, what collage says it will end?
- I'm not saying it, but if you're interested ...

... it was a private institution. - Oh, private?
- Very, very private.

Cybill? Is this a Jewish name? I don't think so.

- Shirley. What are you...
- This is darling Nelson's girlfriend.

- What? Come there.
- Approx.

- Are you kidding? Nalson meets a fold-out girl?
- No, she's the month's timetable.

And as I expect she is 'schikse'

Who cares?

- How do you know that he is not a Jew?
- Because I'm coming back from his apartment. I met her there.

Martin, put the language back in your mouth.

He went to his house to interfere in his life, right?
Shirley shouldn't do that.

Don't be funny. Mothers interfere.
I am a mother, so I have the right to interfere.

- Nelson is 25 years old, he is an adult male
- But I'm still his mother.

- But you don't have the right to spy on him.
- Don't tell me what I have a right to.

Look at her. Just look at her.

- You can't stop looking.
- I'm just proud of my son.

- Good morning, Shirley
- Good morning, uncle Mojsze.

- Are you going to the bathroom? - No.
- Give. This is my uncle Mojsze newspaper.

- Your? - Well.
Take her home and don't give her to him

if you want your husband to earn it,
to suit the rest of our family.

I think we're rich because Martin wouldn't
he had to work so hard and could let him go.

We are not so rich that we waste time on such trash
during working hours. Are you done with what you are paying for?

Come out and see that already
almost everything is over.

I don't know why
I work for this man.

No 'schmegegy'
You are the only family he has.

He has a lot of money, and one day
you will inherit all this business.

One day? Do you think so?
We don't think he's going to die yet.

- Everybody dies.
- Not him.

- He's 80 years old.
- For him it's middle age.

- We think he likes her. - Yes?
- She looks like a girl. - great.

- Besides, how do we explain it to him.
- For what? What does it matter?

If uncle Mojsze finds out that your son is getting married
with 'schiks�' from the spread of the month in Playman

he will hire a lawyer
and change his will.

What do you think Shirley will do?

As usual. Do what works best for you.
Do nothing.

- Martin. Real men come here.
- I'm really overweight here.

You should not worry about anything.
Your father is 103 years old and still fucking.

You're obsessed with this and your uncle
Mojsze is only 80 years old.

Uncle Mojsze no longer fuck?
Do you like that word?

Women, however, more than that
prefer the sound of money.

- You can buy anything for money.
- You can't buy love. - Apparently too little money.

- Speaking of true love Max.
- I think you can buy anything.

- Do you think I bought your sister?
- Are you kidding? She is special.

- How's my nephew? Are you still working in real estate?
- Yes, it's fine. Wild.

- Fuck you?
- Yes. I'm sure I will.

Like father Like Son.

I thought a lot and I think that time
to tell you about my life.

Yes yes honey
I already know everything about her.

What? No, no, mother, listen.
There is no "her" in my life.

Martin, where is my friend?
super-smoothing day cream?

Unbelievable. Your father uses my creams.
I think he will look younger.

All men are so stupid.
You know that they only affect women.

Where are we? Oh yes ...

I warn you that I'm starting a full couple
campaign to introduce her to the whole family.

Maybe not all.

You know what? He could take her to the wedding
cousin tomorrow.

- Mom ...
- Maybe it's better not.

I find it difficult to tell you
and you don't make it easy for me

Where is my hairbrush?
ABOUT! There is.

Again, he used my brush.
Her hair is not mine.

- Mom, please. Listen to me. - You have no idea
what level of IQ prevails in this house.

- All right. Speak on.
- Mom, I'm ... gay.

Ah, your mother again
is tortured. Where's my brush?

Honey, I'm late and hysterical.
We'll talk about it tomorrow, okay?

I send hugs and kisses ...
I love, I love, I love ... Bye.

- What's the problem?
- My mother is a problem.

I tried to tell her about us today.

AND?
She was too busy to hear.

This is not the end of the world.

When I finally tell her
he will start screaming that the world will end.

Hey, take it easy. It is not a big deal.

There is something else. I want to introduce Cybill
to the entire Hirsch family. Tomorrow at the wedding.

- Wait, won't you take me to a wedding?
- I didn't say that.

We agreed to tell your family
before my birthday.

I know, but maybe we should
slow down and do it a little differently.

You don't think that should happen first
tell your parents that you are gay.

And when they are ready to accept it,
fully accept, we will tell them about us.

Do you know that she can also be a bitch?
Take Cybill.

It is too early.
And I'm not ready yet.

Sometimes I have the impression that I already have
the whole world is more ready.

It's your birthday soon.
What will we do?

Pamitae.

I want to go for an exquisite breakfast,
and then again for dinner.

And then I want to go to the club. I want to dance
with you and then you will take me home.

Or ... We will stay here.
It will be nice, warm and intimate.

In my apartment?

Right. In my apartment
no one can see us. This is great Nelson.

This is not what I meant.

Come out Romeo.
You will suffocate when you stay there.

Besides, if you don't leave
you can't go in there. I will not let you.

It's not funny anymore. Open this door.
Immediately.

Ok, ok ... You can go with me.

Tomorrow....
For wedding.

Oh my god
What will I wear?

- Martin, come on for a moment. - What?
- Show me yourself.

You can't wear this shirt.
You were at her funeral a week ago.

- wedding or funeral, what a difference?
- What do I say? - Nothing, I'm changing my shirt.

- Whatever is it can't wait for the wedding?
- Mom, bring someone special to me for my wedding.

I'm so excited.
I am sure everyone will be happy to meet her.

I hope everyone will think that he is a Jew.
Eventually he will come to a Jewish wedding. What do you think

- Mom, you don't understand ...
- Don't be late. I love you ...

Hi. Do you like red?
No, no ... You love me in red.

You always urge everyone on
and as always we have to wait for you.

- Stop the horses. I'm going.
- Hate weds.

What are you doing? I will buy you so many
dress and you will never wear them.

He takes her with him and wants her
introduce to the whole family.

It means that he is serious about it and if it is
he thinks so, we also have to think seriously about her.

You have to talk about it openly. I think it's time
To announce the engagement.

This is my son and this is his fiancée.

No, he is not a Jew.
Yes, she was on the cover of Playman magazine.

No, not on the spread, but
on the timetable of the year.

My sister-in-law Sofie will fall
Mojsze's uncle will get a heart attack

And you next week
he'll fire you.

The question is whether we are satisfied.
Answer: if Nelson is happy, so can we.

- Where's Nelson?
- There will be a moment. Hello Max.

- So?
- Soon, it will be soon.

- Shirley, you look wonderful.
I love this style. - Thank you Max.

- I should buy a new dress for Sofa.
- I'll buy me. That's right. - Excuse me...

Max, Sofie, I want to prepare you,
because Nelson won't come alone.

He will come with someone very, very special.

- Mazel tov. Who is this lucky girl?
- Both are. I hope that you took the number in the morning.

- Nothing says he's dating.
- I didn't know.

- How do you know?
- I didn't know, ok? Now I know.

And now you know. And as you know
everybody knows that.

- His name is Cybill.
- Cybill? It's 'schikse'.

- How do you know?
- By name I see that it is 'schikse'.

- It's on Playman's cover.
- No? - Yes.

She is a girl of the decade.

- And what does he live on?
- I'm not sure.

- Nelson with the fold-out girl? How do you find her?
- I don't know, but I'm glad to find her.

- What is a fold-out girl?
- Who, who you will never be. - Chod� Max ...

Max, why don't you buy a new dress for Sofa. You don't have kids,
so what do you want to do with the money Take with you? Buy a dress for me.

- Max, I noticed that he is not a Jew? - How do you know?
- How can a Cybill be a Jew? It doesn't sound Jewish to me.

- Who is not a Jew?
- ABOUT! Uncle Mojsze.

- Who is not a Jew?
- President.

- Is Nelson here yet?
- He's not here yet.

- What is your problem?

Uncle Mojsze. It always looks
like Yom Kippur.

Look at my beloved sister-in-law. Wani
talks about the whole assembly to Nelson.

Oh, it's here. Who did he come with?

- This is his painter and decorator.
- What is he doing here?

Where do I know from? I don't invite him.

Finally

- Hello Mrs. Hirsch.
- Hello.

- Dad, meet Angelo. - Mother told me. Decorator...
- Nice to meet you. - Me too.

This is Andrea, Nelson's sister.

- I think you'll come with a spread.
- No, I tell you to come with someone special.

She is special, but
not so special.

- But she will come? We are waiting for her.
- On whom? - Cybill.

They can't come.

- Before you enter, you must set up.
- I actually brought my own.

- Where do you have it from? - I will do it myself.
- Wow. Will you do it?

- Do you like it?
- Yes. I've never seen one like this.

- Is it all right?
- He's good on his head. It's perfect.

Mom, I'm gay.

Mother, I'm gay.

I'm gay.

- Martin.
- Excuse me.

- Your son wants to tell you something.
- What?

- Dad, I'm gay.
- All right.

- Your son is homosexual.
- What did you say?

- She said he was gay, dad.
- Andrea, quieter please.

Is the rabbi gay?
I am not a Jew.

Is the rabbi gay?

- Martin, Nelson said he was gay.
- What? - He is gay. Your son

- What are you talking about?
- He says he is homosexual, gay.

Martin, you are drunk.

Pour me some more.

More.

- I didn't know what was so obvious.
- I know, right.

After this boy, Angelo, the decorator, I immediately noticed
but after Nelson I didn't notice anything.

Well, he's so sensitive.

At least he won't marry a girl
from a pornographic newspaper.

You don't have to worry about that anymore.
Are you satisfied now?

Satisfied? Do I look satisfied?
No. I am not satisfied.

Okay, that's enough.

- Don't talk about it.
- What are you doing?

- Do you know you're crazy?
- I know.

Sweetheart. Football makes me happy.

According to the research of the presidential university
43% of young people are gays, lesbians, and bisexuals

or also disputes
your sexual orientation.

The Catholic bishop encourages him to show
homosexual children love because because

homosexual orientation is something
innate, not what you can choose.

What did the Catholic bishop say?

It is a widely known fact that homosexuality is becoming
more and more popular in the country. More in the report.

We're on the college campus, where more and more
people experiment with the gay lifestyle

I changed my name from John to Jane.
You can tell us why.

I live in a lie. Give expression
who I really am.

Name changed from John to Jane
makes me more complete.

How about controversies?
accompanying your decision.

Do not feel any negative reactions.
It's about freedom. Freedom to elect, which gives happiness.

Thank you Jane. Homosexuality after about
becomes cool now.

Damn, what happened to the world?

The world does not change overnight, Martin.
We just didn't pay attention to that.

I don't get it. Why did this happen?
How? Why? Do you think it's because of me?

- Don't think so.
- I don't either.

As I was a kid I could fly
every girl. Even the skirt itself.

- Maybe it's because of the books?
- Books? What books?

Those about standing up and practicing
upside down sex, 'sumo something up there'

- Kamasutra. - And this is only one item.
After all, we tried them all.

I left the door open
come in and see us then.

- Do you think that scared him?
- It scared me.

- What happened to our boy?
- I don't know.

- It's because of you.
- By me?

- Yes, because of you.
- What do you mean by me?

- Through your family side.
- My family side? Please.

Don't be funny. Mother and grandmother
had 11 children. Who must do it?

The guys in your family are so
a bit expressionless, dull.

They are not without expression. This is serious
businessmen with large families.

- Really? Half the guys in your family are without money ...
- What?

- And the other half is safe.
- Safe? - Like your brother Max.

They are not going in this direction. You cross the border.
Exactly.

- My brother Max is a wonderful man.
- And is he able to have a child?

- Right, but I'm still a male guy.
- And this male guy is spending his life at the men's club.

- It's just like you.
- But for another reason.

Your brother Eddy is 47 years old
and he is still not married.

- It's only 45 years old.
- He is 47 years old. - OK then.

What about your cousin Simon?
He is 42 years old, not married and lives in San Francisco.

And he is an actor.

Look at your family
and don't talk about my family like that.

My father was able to support 140 kg.

It must, because 140 kg of weight
his wife's ass.

Leave me alone.

I'll tell you something about the men in my family.

- My father's fucking up to death.
- How can I forget about this 20 year old secretary.

As well as about this 'schmock' Barrym Offer,
who was gay.

And uncle Mojsze is 80 years old and is
the greatest womanizer all over Brooklyn.

Yes? I would like you to be at least
somewhat similar to Uncle Mojsze.

- What? - I don't want to offend your feelings, Martin,
but these past few months ... nothing.

You think that I miss my desire.
I don't think so, but you act like a pensioner.

- Pensioner? Hold it - What are you doing?
- Show me the men in my family.

- What is this?

This is what my family page looks like.
And you load your ass up.

- Should I call 112?
- Do what you want. Nothing will help you anyway.

If I knew it would be like that
I would like Nelson to reveal himself earlier.

- Good morning, Mr. Hirsch.
- Good morning.

- Very colorful.
- Glad you like it.

I didn't say I liked it
only �e is colorful.

-
- terrible.

- Why do they have to do this?
- Because you are a homophobe.

- Because I don't like patterned shirts?
- Stop honey. Forget about this man.

You must come in to look straight
in the face of fear. You can't beat him otherwise.

- If you don't leave in a few minutes
call the police. - Promise

- Gentelmann finally sends you a drink.
- I don't want to owe him anything.

- I live near here.
- What? Excuse me.

If you expect an engagement ring
I'm not that type of guy.

- But if you want to have the best sex in your life ...
- No. No offense, but I'm not like you.

That's good. Opposites attract.
And I like older men.

- And I don't like any.
- You're sensitive.

I'm not here for ... I came here
for research purposes.

I'm sorry professor. When you gather
experience again, check it on you.

I'll wait.

- Jesus Christ! Excuse me.
- When it was much better when courtship was out of date.

It was literally like fast food.

My name is Skipp. Don't ask where I am from
and be sure of nothing, not even me. And what is your name?

- I'm Martin. Listen ... - Can I speak to Marta?
- You can call me whatever you want, Skippy.

- I'm really not ... - I wouldn't have anything
against be the basis of your research.

- Get away quickly. - Sweetie, what's up?
- Don't even ask just one ...

- Ok, ok, take it easy.
- Throughout this music the whole world will be gay.

- What happened there?
- Shirley, I saw Max inside.

- Did you see Max in the middle?
- Two guests joined me.

- Wait a moment and return to Max with you.
- I saw Max. Be there.

- Max, my brother? - Yes.
- He has been married for 20 years.

A lot of married men come to the bar, Shirley.
Call them AC / DC.

- Max AC / DC? Don't be funny.
- I also saw Noodleman.

- Noodlemana? Noodlemana from the office?
- In dress. And he saw me.

- Everyone was there? What about Nelson and the decorator?
- No. Nelson is not like these guys. It's completely different.

Nelson probably doesn't understand women
or he can't find a woman who understands him.

Women do not completely understand men
and that's why it probably happens so often to them.

It doesn't make any sense to me.

So why so many gays I've seen
was it totally crazy here?

Because of ... I don't know ... because of
how they are treated by women

What? This is the stupidest
thing you have ever said.

I am very, very sad because of that
and pissed off.

- Maybe I should have a drink with Skippy.
- Maybe you should.

- Who is Skippy?
- The guy who wanted me.

I order myself there and worship
fear right?

- So I did it. And guess what happened?
- What happened?

- It was quite exciting.
- What?

It was a bit forbidden and attracting in its own way.
Uncomfortable and strange, but also erotic.

- Erotic? - In a strange way ...
Maybe I'm gay

- Maybe you are.
- I may be.

- Maybe you are.
- The whole world is gay.

Marty. What are you doing?

- Stand up, you're bringing me shame.
- God, help us.

- What should we do?
- You know what? I have to I'm going home.

Give me a sign. Anything.

- Thank you, God.
- Your son's life is one big �art for you.

Caring, compassion. It's all about others.
And you can only make fun of it.

- I don't, I don't ...
- You can't face it.

Do you know what is happening to us now? If he forgot.
Everything that happens to children happens to you.

All right. It happens to me, it happens to you.
And what do you think we can do about it?

We should find out first
who our son really is.

And what his life looks like. Who they are friends with.
We must enter his world and try to understand him.

Let us be a family again.

I came to his world today
and it seems to me that I have quite a while.

If our son is really gay
we will have to learn to live with it.

- Because he is our son.
- I know.

I didn't know.

- What?
- That you are a small devil.

Martin, I want to meet Edwin Burnstein
secretary of the National Gay Association.

- What? What association?
- National Gay Association.

- It's a gay organization. We fight for rights.
We print brochures. We publish in newspapers.

I am a friend of Edwin, Lance Smith, a member
community and editor of the "Gayzette" magazine

Mio. Nice to meet you.
I am Martin Hirsch.

It's my pleasure.
Can I tell you Marta?

I do not know. And I you
can I call Lancy?

This is Margaret, of course
she knew you would come.

So you two are ...

- He is very young for an editor ...
- And how handsome.

- Thank you very much.
- He also has a cute face.

- He is 32 years old.
- What? - Looks 18 years old.

- Congratulations.
- Because you look very ... legal.

- All the best.
- I like it, thank you.

The gentlemen came here to talk to us
what is it like ...

Approx. I understand. So tell me how
this is to be ... Come on, tell me how it is to be ...

You can say that ... gay.

Yes. this is the word that
I was desperate for searching.

- They know about Nelson.
- Oh yes. I'm sure.

- Well, you both know your son is gay.
- Yes.

- And it probably was a surprise for you.
- Ma��.

- It surprised you a bit.
- Monday.

- I remember my parents when I told them
they felt sick ... - I can imagine.

Literally sick. As if they were to die.

We thought that it would be a good idea to know
what to expect. How is this between ... You know ...

Maragaret. Tell Andrea that today we don't want any children.
We don't want to be disturbed.

So let's do it the way you want. Well. You want to know
when we feel, we'll have the cards on the table.

We feel terrible, we are shocked, disappointed.
We feel the embarrassment that we hold within us.

- She is terrified. It's a nightmare.
- I'm not scared. It's a temporary nightmare.

- I mean, we don't even know
is our son really ... - Gay, Mrs. Hirsch.

Sorry, you have guests.

I was nearby.
Obstacle?

No. I will hit perfectly. I can't
come at a better time.

What do you mean? Uncle Mojsze. USID
here between Emmet and Lance,

- Who are Shirley's friends. She invited them ...
- They are not my friends. S� from the association.

This is uncle Mojsze, my boss.
Are you satisfied now?

And these two blondes are
gay club.

I'm going too far behind me
though they don't have to.

Margaret, you can bring
wdk�

So what do you think, Mr. Hirsch
about sex education in public schools?

I believe that a girl should be encouraged
to preserve her virginity until marriage.

- As in old times.
- I agree with you.

- What about boys? Would you like to masturbate?
- No, no ... There are other ways to learn sex.

- Boys should go to a brothel.
- Oh my god, Mojsze!

- You didn't use it when you were young?
- No.

I don't think they would like to go to hookers.

- What is your problem?
- Personally, I think hookers are disgusting.

Nothing helps life
sex more than a whore.

Do you think so too?

Don't hide that I feel up
now like on another planet.

I'm currently worried about Nelson, okay?
I don't need them.

Nelson. This is a healthy kid.
There was nothing wrong with his sex education.

- It's for you. - Thank you,
I love orchids. - Enjoy yourself.

- The apartment looks great.
- Come in, feel at home.

- Nelly, your parents have come.
- Nelly?

My table never looks that nice.

Hi honey.

Feel free. What do you want to stretch?
- Truth?

I'll wait for dinner. Have a drink
wine for dinner.

- Double Scottish for me, okay?
- Marty! - Drink wine with you.

I warn you that I gave the least salt
as possible.

- Very wise Angelo. Isn't Marta?
- What? Superbly.

- Do you use salt substitutes?
- No. I feel a strange taste in my mouth.

- Will you try?
- Take one. We� Martin.

- Yes, take it a little later.
- No, take it now.

delicious

I have to tell you how much
it takes time to do this.

It literally takes me as much as it does
in the gym.

I can't stand it.

- Do you hear about the gym?
- Yes, I can hear you. Behave yourself please.

- Stop it.

- More?
- No, thank you.

- I'd still like to stretch.
- Pour him some coffee.

- Would you like a drink after lunch?
- No, thank you.

- Angelo, it was a thundering meal, a thundering meal.
- Thank you.

I can't explain better why I am what I am
than you, why are you the way you are.

I think I can explain why I am
what am I like...

You must understand that it has none
relationship with you. I am who I am.

I have been around since I remember
most likely from birth.

- We understand.
- I don't think we understand.

Read something about it, hear it
or seen?

I'm gay.

Do not steal, do not take drugs,
I'm not killing, I'm just gay.

I don't think I should deny it
just to make you feel comfortable.

I want to be really Saturday
just like Angelo is really Saturday

- Can I tell you how I feel?
- Not now. This is not the right time.

No, this is the right time.

Let him tell you what he wants
fail.

- Angelo, can we talk to my son alone?
- Yes ... - Not Angelo.

Mom, I want you to accept
Angelo as a member of the family.

That's what I think about him.

I will give you advice. Slow down the pace
because you can never be sure.

Mom, I am.
We are.

Where can you be sure? Where can you come from?
be sure of this "we". How can you be confident?

It is too early. Think it over.

Should I spell it for you?
Angelo is not the first.

There were more of them?

- Martin, are you okay?
- No

Listen, Nelson, let's go for a walk like a father
and son All right, Angelo?

- What are you doing?
- I want to talk to my son alone, okay?

No, it's not good.

It is a pity, because it will not lead to anything.

- Where are you going? - I do not know. I want to talk
like a man with men and my son.

- Back.
- Approx.

Do you have a message?

- Dad!
- Yes?

They want a manly conversation
and I can barely think here.

He loves this place.
We always came here.

Here we were both kind of
on the same page

Maybe on the same page
but in two different books.

You like matches
and I like the players.

You want me and my mother
they accepted it like that.

It is obvious that you do not accept
just things if they turn out to be different.

Nelson, maybe if he had told me earlier
together, you and I could fix it.

Dad, that's why
I didn't tell you before.

There is nothing to fix here.
I am not broken.

You know some of these guys
are they gay?

I think sick is that
That they can't reveal themselves.

Martin, why are we doing this?

I am saying that he is an expert, the best in the subject.

We think his knowledge and experience
help us change our son.

Sprbujmy.

A child is born. Mother is
caring and warm.

Feeds the baby, maybe 4-5 months.

He gives the child love and provides him
Everything I need.

Suddenly there is a change
in the life of a child.

Mother wants to live again
and be productive.

There is no more time
for a boy how old he was before.

The boy is lost, devoid of love
and safety you are used to.

There is no mother anymore
which was until now.

So the boy is heading towards his father.

With him, he finds the love he will lose.

The boy falls in love with his father.

The boy is growing up and remembering
That he was with another man

at which they find satisfaction.

Excuse me.

Doctor, if you ever decide
come back to college then pay for it.

C�, this is just one theory.

I understand that you are not like that
really sure of it.

Nobody is. And how was feeding
your breasts?

I feed my son's breast until three.

- Third month?
- No, third year.

What?

There is evidence that for long feeding
he brings the boy so much

That he can't do normal
relationships with other women.

My mother says so ... you know
... so little too long for him ...

Your mother says so
because she is your mother.

This is very interesting doctor.
You tell me there is a possibility

That I may be responsible
for my son becoming gay?

Dr. Freud, who are you for?
damn you think?

Stupid little pussy.

How do you know what love is?
mother to son?

Deprive you of the license. your mother
she should be ashamed of you.

Do you know what I give my son? I gave it to my son
everything. I love and love him.

You know what? I don't even think so
I didn't fall with a woman.

You probably don't even have a dick.

I am begging you to leave this place. stupid
main coffee.

It was nice talking to you
with you?

I am coming to Mr. Hirsch.

- Second room on the right.
- Approx. Thank.

Thank you for coming.
Can I speak to you, Cybill?

- Of course.
- Tell me Martin.

You want a picture ... every picture.

- By the way, your wife is like that
sweet and lovely. - Thank you for saying that.

She is so attractive and sexy

- Sit down please
- Yes, of course ...

- Can I bring you something?
- Nothing, it's good.

You must be wondering
why ... I invited you.

- Can I tell you something openly?
- Just say it.

Do you think it is possible to be
you and my son Nelson ...

It would be great if my son ...

- If you and he ...
- You want me to blow Nelson.

I know how it sounds.

It won't happen.

- He's a handsome boy, don't you think?
- Oh yes, he is very handsome and charming ...

and....

AND?

... is gay.

But you knew it, right?

You are so ... beautiful. You are so sexy.

I'd love to see you and Nelson ...
not literally ... but

if you and Nelson could be quality ...

It's after that, with women like you,
maybe my son would change direction.

I don't think it will happen.

We like each other, but you understand ...
like friends.

Can your friendship not happen?
deepen for 15 minutes?

This is my only son. You can imagine
how do i feel

I just think that if a woman
was close in his life ... maybe ...

I'm begging you, Cybill ... I'm begging you.

That's exactly what I mean. If my son were
as close to you as now.

If his body would rub against you
like now.

If they touch you, be so close, see
your eyes, your skin, hair, lips

He couldn't help himself.

This will not be the case.

- All right?
- Yes.

- Wait a second. Do we know each other?
- Don't judge. They must ...

I saw you. In the men's bathroom.

No. I've never been before
in the men's bathroom. Trust me.

But the picture that was taken of you like that.

You are a divine vision of beauty.

Is there still coffee?

- Do you want to meet his parents?
- Whose parents?

- Angelo.
- I'm not ready for this.

It's time, Martin. It's time.

I want to meet his family and I'm sure
He also wants us to meet her.

You want to agree with them which one
will you get married at your wedding?
.

Martin, our son decided to settle down.

Yes, it makes a perfect relationship.

Maybe it is.

Maybe it is. It's the only one now
rational solution.

I want to meet his parents. I am a mother
Nelson, and I have the right to do so.

And you can't meet them
after I get a heart attack and die?

- Martin, please.
- We'll go, we'll go. I survive.

- It's important.
- Glad I'm still alive.

- All I ask is to know them.
- No.

- I'd like to meet Nelson's mother.
- why?

I can talk to her, share
with her feelings.

It was very nice that she proposed
we would meet together.

I don't like the way you are
treat and how to treat my own son.

Agree. I can organize a nice dinner
in our house.

What is that supposed to be? Engagement party?

Let's meet these people
but not in this house.

No, no, not in our house.

And nowhere in our area.

- So where?
- S� Italy, maybe in an Italian restaurant.

- Italian restaurant? Do I want to shorten my life?
- What are you talking about?

Listen, honey. It means
exactly what I say, you understand?

Boys will find out
and I'm already dead. Feed the fish.

He stopped. You're raising your blood pressure
and you will still get a heart attack.

However, we must meet them.
So what will we do?

They are Jews, maybe they can
let's go to Chinese.

Your father will never go to Chinese
restaurants, because too many people can enter there.

How about sushi?

Forget it. Japanese buy from us.
It's out of the question.

Besides, I hate anything harsh.
I would save them by throwing them into the ocean.

Forget also about Korean eateries
and Thai, because they are also Hirsch's customers.

Everything is Asian
is unacceptable.

And don't even think about French cuisine. wax
it's too heavy and I have gas in Mexico.

- Take off this coat.
- We won't stay here long. - Yes, we will stay.

- I hope you didn't wait.
- No, we just came.

- This is my husband Martin.
- I'm Julie, but my friends call me Terry.

So Terry will speak to you.
And this is my husband.

- This is our daughter Andrea.
- It's cute.

- And this is our very handsome son Anthony.
- Nice to meet you very handsome son.

What will you drink?

- A glass of white wine, please.
- There is no wine. Just fishing.

- It's a strawberry daiquiri.
- Don't please. Just fishing.

I understand that there must be a fishing rod.
With ice please.

If it's just fishing, please
slightly cooled and separately sparkling water.

- And for you?
- Some Russian beer please.

- Beer for me too.
- Only vodka.

- I want a rod.
- No. You will drink col.

- I'll ask you.
- No, she doesn't know what she says.

- Will we take the whole bottle?
- Bottle? Let there be a bottle.

I want to thank you for proposing
we would meet together.

- How sweet. S�ysza�e� Martin?
- Yes. Nothing said.

Glad Nelson and Angelo didn't come.
We can talk more openly about ... you know

... what we need to talk about openly.
- I think so too.

- I brought pictures of Angelo from my childhood.
- Me too. Show you Nelson.

Can we order?
My stomach is already grumbling.

Why this rush?
We have all night.

- Let's order something, how about this?
- Martin. Let's wait. Calmly.

- Here is Angelo when I was one year old.
- Oh my god. It's wonderful.

- Look Martin, isn't he great?
- Yes. He is naked with his face stuck up.

He stopped. Yes they are photographed
all children of this age.

- This is Nelson on his bar mitzvah.
- Very handsome.

- Look. - With this smooth face
and with long hair she looks like a girl.

He was only 14 years old. Boys in this age
not shave yet.

- I started to shave when I was 8 years old.
- Shaving is prohibited in Judaism.

- It's Angelo at confirmation.
- Beautiful.

- This is Nelson in high school.
- He is handsome. Spjrz.

- Would you like to say something?
- No. I don't think they want to hear that.

- Just say it.
- What?

- Tell me what's wrong with my son.
- I would never say anything bad about your son.

- Martin.
- I wouldn't say anything.

Martin, I'd love to dance.
Zataczmy. Come.

Do you want to see my son?

This is Angelo, winner of the Golden Globe.
Spjrz. This is my son.

Show you something. When was my son?
be an athlete.

You see? On skis. It's almost olympics.

Almost the Olympics? I didn't know
That they give medals at almost olympics.

Please, please ... What do we have here?
Your son was a cheerleader.

Let's look at this picture
with your son in a dress.

It wasn't a dress. It was art.
Gra� of Julius Caesar.

Expressions of sympathy. So this
it started in high school.

What the hell are you having a problem with?

My son didn't even know he was gay
until I meet your son.

- I think your son will change him.
- Dad, you can't create a gay man like Frankenstein.

People are born gay or not.

Maybe you should listen to your daughter.
Let me ask you a question?

How do you know that your son was not?
"Flugio" before meeting my son?

- Because I don't even know what 'flu ...' means.
- 'Flugio'.

- What the hell is 'flugio'?
- It's like a 'fagola'. This is not a nice word.

I think they are perfect for the 'Jerry Springer Show'.
We think we would make a lot of money.

This is better than 'Springer'

- Shirley.
- What do you want?

If you want gas, it's downstairs

- You want me to die on my knees.
- It's not such a bad idea.

If you want to kill yourself, I can't
at least do it with me.

I would like to drop everything, I just flowed
and find the island. Just be free.

Honey, you know the islands.

I think they are very expensive.

- You know what I mean.
- Yes I know.

You are a very sweet guy.

They must know where we stand.

And I don't want any more nonsense
non-existent islands.

We, where we live, have
island, right?

I love her like my own island.

We just told parents.
What do you want?

It's not enough.

I love and want you
take the next step.

We talked about it.

Sofie, on which channel? Matin, turn on tv.
S� on television.

- Who's on TV?
- Who? Our boys.

- Fifth channel. Enable.

A gay couple living together
leading a life together

began their efforts in one of the most
controversial issues of recent years.

Nelson Hirsch and Angelo Ferraro performed
to the governor and director of the care department

New York State for release
consent to adoption.

These two young gays want to adopt
child and bring up together in his home.

What do you think of opponents?
your decision

We are grateful to God for that
We live in such a wonderful and brave country

which gives us freedom to live
according to our personal truth.

We just want the same rights
that other families have

It means having children

We will only have to choose
will our son be a Jew or a Catholic?

He must be a Jew.

Nelson Hirsch and Angelo Ferraro
happy father and happy father.

Disable.

- Shirley
- Hello, sofa.

Where were You don't call, you don't write.
We haven't seen Martin long ago.

- We have a good reason for that.
- What's new with you?

- What's new? - I mean messages.
Never call back.

Sofie, you know I won't watch the news.
I don't know what was in them.

Congratulations. In the end you'll be a grandmother.

Nelson will have a child.
And I didn't even know who he had.

Sofie, do you know Yiddish
is the word 'fuck off'?

Gey koken afen yam

Exactly. But I prefer 'fuck off'
much more.

Sofie, leave me alone.

Dry. Everyone knows about Nelson.
You must be proud.

You have to look bold
reality of life.

I do not know. I do not know why.
Sofie, you don't know what I'm going through.

Martin doesn't understand what's going on ...
I mean the pain I experience.

- I know. I've lived it for 20 years.
- I know.

- Do you know about Max?
- Yes. I found out recently.

I am so sorry. I'm so sorry.

It's not so bad.
Everyone knows it. AC / DC.

- I can't believe it's true.
- You must learn to live with it.

It's all about people
they were happy.

Every time someone calls you feel like
court ��da� testimonies in defense of my son.

Yes, I don't answer any more calls.

Nobody calls, even though I know thousands
people are dying to call me.

I will avoid my family until the end
my life.

I don't want a phone. I want to delete
all numbers.

I can't stand it. I'm not
strong enough.

Don't answer.

Hello? Oh, Sofie.

S� on tv?
Martin, are on tv.

Thank you, Jack. This is Christine Anderson
live from downtown New York

where 30 minutes ago it began to be quiet
peaceful demonstration

who changed her abruptly
the picture is quite the opposite.

The police arrived who fenced off
demonstrujcych. It is quite calm now.

The reason for the controversy is adoption
a child by a gay couple

two young men
Nelson Hirsch and Angelo Ferraro.

You are angry, because nobody
I don't want to have a child with you.

Excuse me. I must find
my son.

Oh god. See who came?
My lovely sister-in-law.

I saw boys on TV
and I thought I would come here too.

Look at these people.

- Dad, what are you doing here?
- What do you think?

I want to fight, right?

- Are you ready or not?
- No no no.

- See that asshole with a head?
- Do you want to take care of him?

No, I leave him to you.

You don't think we'll be
they were fighting alone, right?

No, we have Vicki here.
Are you ready

Let me tell you something.
Stay away from me.

And from me too.

I warn you. As you see
I'll put you a ball again.

You can comment on this
as a mother?

- My m�� is wounded and must i��.
- Tell me why you're here today.

I .... only shortly, okay?

Here is my place.
These people here are my family.

I am Shirley, Shirley Hirsch.
And I'm a proud mother of my son Nelson.

And be proud of your granddaughter grandmother.
The child of Nelson and Angelo.

And I'm very happy to be here today.
Very very happy.

Would you like to say that?
what are our viewers today?

Yes, I would like them to know that they have
the law to love everyone they choose.

I can love anyone.
Thank you for now.

It was very touching. Christine Anderson
live from the center. I hear you, Jack.

I need both families on the stairs.

- What are you doing here?
- Keep everything.

Let no one move.

This boy will be circumcised.

Who is this little louse?
This is Uncle Mojsze.

This boy is a member of my family.
He must be circumcised.

- Do you want to circumcise him on the stairs of the church?
- Perfect.

- Who's the father of this child?
- He is.

- And mother?
- He is.

- What?
- Hey, Mojsze, set up for the picture.

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