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These are the user uploaded subtitles that are being translated: WEBVTT FILE 1 00:00:01.601 --> 00:00:03.870 [Jenny] This season on "90 Day Fiancé, The Other Way." 2 00:00:03.970 --> 00:00:05.772 [upbeat music playing] 3 00:00:07.107 --> 00:00:10.110 line:5% I'm leaving a six figure job to move to Aruba 4 00:00:10.210 --> 00:00:12.946 because I fell in love with a man on a pirate ship. 5 00:00:13.046 --> 00:00:14.114 [chuckles] 6 00:00:22.489 --> 00:00:23.456 line:5% [shrieks excitedly] 7 00:00:23.556 --> 00:00:25.658 line:5% [speaking Spanish] 8 00:00:25.759 --> 00:00:26.659 -[Madelein screams] -[Luke chuckles] 9 00:00:26.760 --> 00:00:29.963 line:5% She said, "You need to move or else." 10 00:00:30.063 --> 00:00:32.065 [chuckles] 11 00:00:32.165 --> 00:00:34.267 line:5% I'm 58, and I'm still shaking. 12 00:00:34.367 --> 00:00:35.402 line:5% [chuckles] 13 00:00:36.870 --> 00:00:40.240 But now I'm moving to Tasmania to be with Dillon. 14 00:00:40.340 --> 00:00:41.341 Welcome home, beautiful. 15 00:00:41.441 --> 00:00:43.143 [chuckles] 16 00:00:44.477 --> 00:00:45.812 [upbeat intense music playing] 17 00:00:55.221 --> 00:00:57.724 We are going to France, yay! 18 00:00:57.824 --> 00:00:59.959 The American Dream is actually killing me. 19 00:01:00.060 --> 00:01:04.531 So we are moving to France to save our marriage. 20 00:01:04.631 --> 00:01:07.067 [Manon] Oh, the smell. 21 00:01:07.167 --> 00:01:08.301 line:5% [gags] 22 00:01:12.372 --> 00:01:13.873 line:5% I'm going back to LA! 23 00:01:24.918 --> 00:01:26.286 line:5% [Sadhna speaking Hindi] 24 00:01:28.154 --> 00:01:31.658 line:5% [Jenny] I have no plans of staying with the family permanently. 25 00:01:31.758 --> 00:01:33.993 line:5% [Sadhna speaking Hindi] 26 00:01:34.094 --> 00:01:35.061 [bleep] no! 27 00:01:37.330 --> 00:01:38.398 [Jennifer] Do you see him? 28 00:01:38.498 --> 00:01:39.933 [Chloe] I really wanna trust Jonathan, 29 00:01:40.033 --> 00:01:42.936 but it's hard when he's a booze cruise host. 30 00:01:44.604 --> 00:01:48.141 My trust issues come from your actions. 31 00:01:48.241 --> 00:01:49.542 You work with him. 32 00:01:49.642 --> 00:01:51.478 I wanna go out with my friend, OK? 33 00:01:51.578 --> 00:01:52.979 You can't control me like that. 34 00:01:53.079 --> 00:01:54.080 Respect me! 35 00:01:54.180 --> 00:01:56.149 Respect what I [bleep] say! 36 00:01:56.249 --> 00:01:57.450 Ugh... 37 00:02:00.120 --> 00:02:01.187 line:5% I didn't touch her. 38 00:02:01.287 --> 00:02:02.889 line:5% I mean, what? I didn't. 39 00:02:04.691 --> 00:02:06.659 [dishes breaking] 40 00:02:08.928 --> 00:02:10.463 [tense music playing] 41 00:02:11.998 --> 00:02:13.500 line:5% [Madelein speaking Spanish] 42 00:02:20.373 --> 00:02:21.841 [mystery music playing] 43 00:02:30.150 --> 00:02:33.520 Chloe has no idea what she is doing. 44 00:02:37.657 --> 00:02:39.759 My friend is about to make the biggest mistake 45 00:02:39.859 --> 00:02:42.462 of her life, and I really need to stop her. 46 00:02:47.400 --> 00:02:48.668 [upbeat music playing] 47 00:02:50.103 --> 00:02:51.404 ♪ Yay ♪ 48 00:02:52.839 --> 00:02:53.840 ♪ Yay ♪ 49 00:02:53.940 --> 00:02:56.242 ♪ All I need is to have this one thing ♪ 50 00:02:56.342 --> 00:02:59.546 ♪ And it's gonna be alright ♪ 51 00:02:59.646 --> 00:03:01.614 [Chloe] This is probably the most iconic photo of me. 52 00:03:01.714 --> 00:03:04.651 This is my personality in one photo. 53 00:03:04.751 --> 00:03:06.019 That's it right there. 54 00:03:06.119 --> 00:03:07.987 I mean, nothing's changed. 55 00:03:11.925 --> 00:03:13.293 [producer laughs] 56 00:03:13.393 --> 00:03:14.360 OK. 57 00:03:14.460 --> 00:03:16.930 [inhales and exhales deeply] 58 00:03:17.030 --> 00:03:18.531 ♪ Gotta have it, Gotta have it ♪ 59 00:03:18.631 --> 00:03:19.832 ♪ It's a wonderful thing ♪ 60 00:03:19.933 --> 00:03:21.634 ♪ Because I dream it and I think it ♪ 61 00:03:21.734 --> 00:03:23.102 ♪ And it's all I can see ♪ 62 00:03:23.203 --> 00:03:25.004 ♪ Yay ♪ 63 00:03:25.104 --> 00:03:26.039 ♪ Yay ♪ 64 00:03:26.139 --> 00:03:27.907 I don't really know where to start, actually, 65 00:03:28.007 --> 00:03:30.476 with all this stuff. 66 00:03:30.577 --> 00:03:33.446 It's really overwhelming. 67 00:03:33.546 --> 00:03:34.814 My name is Chloe. 68 00:03:34.914 --> 00:03:39.118 I am 23 years old, and I live in Boxford, Massachusetts. 69 00:03:39.219 --> 00:03:41.287 2008, what is that, first grade? 70 00:03:41.387 --> 00:03:43.289 First grade already winning trophies. 71 00:03:43.389 --> 00:03:45.158 I mean, we're doing something right. 72 00:03:45.258 --> 00:03:48.561 I'm very competitive in anything I do. 73 00:03:48.661 --> 00:03:50.730 These are some accomplishments. 74 00:03:50.830 --> 00:03:53.700 Of course, these aren't all, but there was a few. 75 00:03:53.800 --> 00:03:58.571 I started cheerleading when I was four or five. 76 00:03:58.671 --> 00:04:01.741 I did, like, a club team with my school, and then 77 00:04:01.841 --> 00:04:05.211 I also did competitive cheerleading for years. 78 00:04:06.479 --> 00:04:09.983 Growing up, my mom was able to give me 79 00:04:10.083 --> 00:04:13.086 the most amazing life. 80 00:04:13.186 --> 00:04:17.790 Total, spoiled princess. I got everything I wanted. 81 00:04:17.890 --> 00:04:20.159 Now, I work with my mom as a sales rep, 82 00:04:20.260 --> 00:04:22.161 and it's always been my mom's dream 83 00:04:22.262 --> 00:04:23.796 that I would take over her shipping 84 00:04:23.896 --> 00:04:25.565 and logistics business. 85 00:04:25.665 --> 00:04:28.334 My life was already set on a path. 86 00:04:28.434 --> 00:04:32.505 Money, security, comfortability on a silver platter. 87 00:04:34.007 --> 00:04:36.609 And then on vacation in Aruba, I fell in love with a man 88 00:04:36.709 --> 00:04:38.711 on a pirate ship. 89 00:04:38.811 --> 00:04:40.446 [chuckles] 90 00:04:40.546 --> 00:04:42.649 It's true, though. 91 00:04:42.749 --> 00:04:44.450 ♪ Oh, boy, dance with me ♪ 92 00:04:44.550 --> 00:04:46.486 ♪ It will make you Fall in love with me ♪ 93 00:04:46.586 --> 00:04:48.421 ♪ Like, ooh, ooh ♪ 94 00:04:48.521 --> 00:04:50.456 ♪ Ooh, ooh ♪ 95 00:04:51.724 --> 00:04:53.092 [Chloe] Jonathan is 32 years old. 96 00:04:53.192 --> 00:04:54.994 He's from Aruba, and he's an entertainer 97 00:04:55.094 --> 00:04:56.996 on a pirate ship party boat. 98 00:04:58.331 --> 00:05:00.500 We first met when I was on a girl's trip, 99 00:05:00.600 --> 00:05:04.704 and I saw him on the boat, shirtless. 100 00:05:04.804 --> 00:05:07.307 I just thought he was gorgeous, and that was it. 101 00:05:11.577 --> 00:05:14.347 But my first impression was... 102 00:05:14.447 --> 00:05:16.716 I don't wanna say kinda he was, like, cocky, 103 00:05:16.816 --> 00:05:21.587 but he definitely knew, like, what he had going on. 104 00:05:21.688 --> 00:05:23.489 And I was like, "Oh, no," like, 105 00:05:23.589 --> 00:05:26.192 "No, you're not gonna do that with me." 106 00:05:26.292 --> 00:05:29.162 Like, "Don't give me that," you know, "energy." 107 00:05:31.264 --> 00:05:34.934 But we later met him at a bar, and he was really funny, 108 00:05:35.034 --> 00:05:36.235 and actually really sweet. 109 00:05:36.336 --> 00:05:38.338 And I remember him just saying, like, "Oh, like, you'll have 110 00:05:38.438 --> 00:05:40.139 to come back." And, like, looked at me. 111 00:05:40.239 --> 00:05:42.308 I'm like, "You're looking through my soul." 112 00:05:42.408 --> 00:05:45.411 I was like, "I -- I don't know," and I'm not a shy person, 113 00:05:45.511 --> 00:05:49.148 but I was like, "Yeah," like, "I'm gonna come back." 114 00:05:51.050 --> 00:05:52.418 A few days after I got back to Boston, 115 00:05:52.518 --> 00:05:55.922 I had already booked my flight back to Aruba. 116 00:05:56.022 --> 00:05:59.292 I went back another time, and another time, 117 00:05:59.392 --> 00:06:01.894 and another time. 118 00:06:01.994 --> 00:06:05.198 And now, after 11 months of long distance... 119 00:06:05.298 --> 00:06:09.535 I'm packing up my entire life in Boston and moving to Aruba. 120 00:06:11.204 --> 00:06:13.473 I know that if I don't make the move to Aruba, 121 00:06:13.573 --> 00:06:15.842 we would not last long distance, 122 00:06:15.942 --> 00:06:18.678 and that's not a risk that I am willing to take. 123 00:06:20.780 --> 00:06:22.515 This isn't gonna all fit. 124 00:06:24.884 --> 00:06:27.120 Are you really gonna wear high heels on the beach? 125 00:06:27.220 --> 00:06:28.254 I mean, not on the beach, but -- 126 00:06:28.354 --> 00:06:29.322 [Michelle laughs] 127 00:06:29.422 --> 00:06:30.656 line:5% Jeans? 128 00:06:30.757 --> 00:06:32.492 line:5% Well, like a cute tank top. 129 00:06:32.592 --> 00:06:34.394 line:5% Some little heels. 130 00:06:34.494 --> 00:06:35.561 I've been there five times, 131 00:06:35.661 --> 00:06:37.597 and I've never once even put on a pair of pants. 132 00:06:37.697 --> 00:06:41.134 You know, not all superheroes wear capes. 133 00:06:41.234 --> 00:06:42.702 [both laugh] 134 00:06:42.802 --> 00:06:45.238 [Chloe] Not all people can wear jeans in Aruba. 135 00:06:45.338 --> 00:06:49.142 My parents divorced when I was two or three, 136 00:06:49.242 --> 00:06:52.478 and I lived with my mom predominantly. 137 00:06:52.578 --> 00:06:55.782 She is truly my best friend. 138 00:06:55.882 --> 00:06:59.485 She was like my rock, basically, growing up. 139 00:07:01.354 --> 00:07:03.556 Did you remember to pack all my makeup stuff? 140 00:07:03.656 --> 00:07:05.158 I think so. 141 00:07:05.258 --> 00:07:06.893 I think I did, I'll double check, honey. 142 00:07:06.993 --> 00:07:08.561 -I need that eye cream. -[Michelle] Right. 143 00:07:08.661 --> 00:07:09.595 If you need this eye cream, 144 00:07:09.695 --> 00:07:10.630 you probably shouldn't be living in Aruba, 145 00:07:10.730 --> 00:07:12.064 because you can't get it there. 146 00:07:12.165 --> 00:07:13.232 That's why you're gonna come visit me 147 00:07:13.332 --> 00:07:14.500 and deliver it to me. -[Michelle] Ah, oh, really? 148 00:07:14.600 --> 00:07:15.568 So that's what I am. 149 00:07:15.668 --> 00:07:16.903 I'm gonna be your delivery person, huh? 150 00:07:17.003 --> 00:07:18.271 [chuckles quietly] 151 00:07:18.371 --> 00:07:21.641 I think living in Aruba will be challenging, 152 00:07:21.741 --> 00:07:22.909 to say the least. 153 00:07:23.009 --> 00:07:25.144 I have always grown up -- 154 00:07:25.244 --> 00:07:28.381 "when I want something, I kind of get it" type mindset. 155 00:07:28.481 --> 00:07:31.918 And now I'm going to be in the middle of nowhere 156 00:07:32.018 --> 00:07:35.855 in this tiny little, like, sandbox. 157 00:07:35.955 --> 00:07:38.090 I actually don't even know what I'm gonna do. 158 00:07:39.592 --> 00:07:41.394 I can't believe that you're gonna go and live in, 159 00:07:41.494 --> 00:07:43.963 uh, you know, another country. 160 00:07:44.063 --> 00:07:46.532 Packing your way to school was one thing. 161 00:07:46.632 --> 00:07:48.968 This is, um, this is really hard. 162 00:07:51.237 --> 00:07:52.705 I'm not going, like, to prison. 163 00:07:52.805 --> 00:07:55.241 Like, I can also just -- you can come visit and, 164 00:07:55.341 --> 00:07:57.410 like, I can come see you. -[both laugh] 165 00:07:57.510 --> 00:07:59.946 You can come see me. 166 00:08:00.046 --> 00:08:01.948 When we really look at it, Chloe, you are moving 167 00:08:02.048 --> 00:08:03.883 to another country... 168 00:08:05.117 --> 00:08:06.486 for a pirate. 169 00:08:06.586 --> 00:08:10.990 I mean, not everyone wants to work a nine to five. 170 00:08:11.090 --> 00:08:14.160 Understood, but how sustainable is piracy? 171 00:08:14.260 --> 00:08:16.162 I'm -- I'm not gonna be a pirate, hopefully, you know? 172 00:08:16.262 --> 00:08:17.663 I -- you never know. 173 00:08:17.763 --> 00:08:20.099 I mean, you're not gonna have a ton of options there. 174 00:08:20.199 --> 00:08:22.068 I'm just gonna... 175 00:08:22.168 --> 00:08:23.236 wing it. 176 00:08:23.336 --> 00:08:26.339 [Michelle] You're going to be leaving a lot behind. 177 00:08:26.439 --> 00:08:28.541 I feel like I'm getting robbed, 178 00:08:28.641 --> 00:08:30.009 you know, in a sense. 179 00:08:30.109 --> 00:08:34.413 I worked so hard so that she could have opportunities, 180 00:08:34.514 --> 00:08:37.884 and she's leaving those opportunities behind. 181 00:08:37.984 --> 00:08:39.418 She's gonna have a much harder life, 182 00:08:39.519 --> 00:08:41.020 and that's not what I want for my daughter. 183 00:08:42.722 --> 00:08:48.494 You know, how you live here is -- is -- it's very different. 184 00:08:48.594 --> 00:08:51.597 At the end of the day, are you going to be happy 185 00:08:51.697 --> 00:08:54.834 not having your $80 face wash... 186 00:08:54.934 --> 00:08:56.469 and having cold showers every day? 187 00:08:58.971 --> 00:09:02.174 [Chloe] I'm leaving a six figure job with my mom to move to Aruba, 188 00:09:02.275 --> 00:09:04.744 which is obviously insane, 189 00:09:04.844 --> 00:09:07.880 but love does make you do crazy things. 190 00:09:07.980 --> 00:09:09.916 [chuckles] 191 00:09:10.016 --> 00:09:11.984 [melancholic piano music playing] 192 00:09:14.053 --> 00:09:17.924 line:5% Johnny has a laundry list of girls behind him, 193 00:09:18.024 --> 00:09:20.860 line:5% and he's not the guy that you start your life with. 194 00:09:20.960 --> 00:09:23.162 My husband has grown up with this guy, 195 00:09:23.262 --> 00:09:25.498 and I know a lot of things about him. 196 00:09:25.598 --> 00:09:27.900 Not all of them are good. 197 00:09:28.000 --> 00:09:30.670 I really thought this was just gonna be a fling, 198 00:09:30.770 --> 00:09:32.905 but now that she's really serious about moving there, 199 00:09:33.005 --> 00:09:35.875 I feel like I have to stop her before she just goes 200 00:09:35.975 --> 00:09:38.477 to another country and she doesn't even know 201 00:09:38.578 --> 00:09:40.413 what she's getting herself into. 202 00:09:40.513 --> 00:09:41.814 I just wanna get there already 203 00:09:41.914 --> 00:09:46.218 so I can talk Chloe out of making this decision. 204 00:09:46.319 --> 00:09:48.254 [intense music playing] 205 00:09:50.723 --> 00:09:52.692 [doorbell ringing thrice] 206 00:09:54.093 --> 00:09:56.996 [upbeat music playing] 207 00:09:57.096 --> 00:09:58.798 ♪ Let's go ♪ 208 00:09:58.898 --> 00:10:00.166 ♪ When I walk in the room ♪ 209 00:10:00.266 --> 00:10:03.302 ♪ Everybody scatter like doom, doom, doom ♪ 210 00:10:03.402 --> 00:10:04.604 ♪ With a bang and a boom ♪ 211 00:10:04.704 --> 00:10:07.006 ♪ A little bit dramatic, but I'm coming for you ♪ 212 00:10:08.708 --> 00:10:10.643 ♪ Danger ♪ 213 00:10:10.743 --> 00:10:12.445 ♪ Danger ♪ 214 00:10:12.545 --> 00:10:13.813 line:5% ♪ Danger ♪ 215 00:10:13.913 --> 00:10:16.349 line:5% Love that, love that. 216 00:10:16.449 --> 00:10:17.483 Looking good. 217 00:10:17.583 --> 00:10:18.618 line:5% ♪ Danger ♪ 218 00:10:18.718 --> 00:10:21.554 My name is Manon, I'm 32, and I am from Marseille, 219 00:10:21.654 --> 00:10:24.890 South of France, baby. 220 00:10:24.991 --> 00:10:27.259 But I live in Los Angeles. 221 00:10:27.360 --> 00:10:28.894 line:5% Vogue. [chuckles] 222 00:10:38.137 --> 00:10:39.405 Let's do it here on the pavement. 223 00:10:39.505 --> 00:10:43.542 In France, everyone is so judgmental about your weight. 224 00:10:43.643 --> 00:10:46.912 If you dare to wear bright outfit, 225 00:10:47.013 --> 00:10:49.915 but you have a little bit of, like, curves, 226 00:10:50.016 --> 00:10:52.685 you're gonna be stared down all day long. 227 00:10:52.785 --> 00:10:55.721 So 12 years ago, I actually started a social media page 228 00:10:55.821 --> 00:10:59.091 about being plus sized and living in France. 229 00:10:59.191 --> 00:11:00.559 [French music playing] 230 00:11:03.262 --> 00:11:05.097 line:5% [Manon] It started becoming actually really popular. 231 00:11:11.704 --> 00:11:14.607 line:5% And said, "Hey, I'm the CEO, and I want to invite you 232 00:11:14.707 --> 00:11:17.877 to come to LA for a plus size photo shoot." 233 00:11:17.977 --> 00:11:20.880 I went, and I never came back again. 234 00:11:20.980 --> 00:11:22.815 Three, two... 235 00:11:22.915 --> 00:11:24.183 [upbeat beats playing] 236 00:11:26.052 --> 00:11:27.153 Once I was here, 237 00:11:27.253 --> 00:11:31.590 I was able to meet so many other girls 238 00:11:31.691 --> 00:11:32.858 just like me. 239 00:11:32.958 --> 00:11:34.360 Chastity! 240 00:11:34.460 --> 00:11:36.062 Yes, queen! 241 00:11:36.162 --> 00:11:39.832 These women were not afraid of being who they wanna be, 242 00:11:39.932 --> 00:11:42.468 and afraid of wearing beautiful outfits. 243 00:11:42.568 --> 00:11:45.671 They were just, like, so proud and confident. 244 00:11:45.771 --> 00:11:48.374 It really made me feel I belong. 245 00:11:48.474 --> 00:11:49.909 Scooch out a little bit to your right. 246 00:11:50.009 --> 00:11:51.210 -My right? -[Jorge] The whole body, yeah. 247 00:11:51.310 --> 00:11:53.512 So I can get your head right in between those two girls. 248 00:11:53.612 --> 00:11:56.482 [Manon] My American Dream was starting to become true. 249 00:11:56.582 --> 00:11:59.485 But something was missing. 250 00:11:59.585 --> 00:12:01.187 Come here, sexy. [exhales deeply] 251 00:12:01.287 --> 00:12:03.622 [sniffs] Hmm. 252 00:12:03.723 --> 00:12:04.657 I'm Anthony. 253 00:12:04.757 --> 00:12:08.227 I'm 33 years old and from Corona, California. 254 00:12:08.327 --> 00:12:09.595 [upbeat music playing] 255 00:12:09.695 --> 00:12:13.099 [Manon] We've been married for actually three years. 256 00:12:13.199 --> 00:12:17.636 And new parents of a little baby boy, Benjamin. 257 00:12:17.737 --> 00:12:19.972 [Anthony and Manon giggle] 258 00:12:20.072 --> 00:12:21.340 [Benjamin babbles and giggles] 259 00:12:21.440 --> 00:12:23.442 We are very much opposites. 260 00:12:23.542 --> 00:12:26.078 Yes, we are like the yin and the yang. 261 00:12:27.513 --> 00:12:28.647 [Anthony] I'm a shy person, 262 00:12:28.748 --> 00:12:31.650 and she's very outgoing and passionate. 263 00:12:31.751 --> 00:12:33.552 [Manon] He is the stay-at-home dad, 264 00:12:33.652 --> 00:12:37.123 and I am the one who works, provide. 265 00:12:37.223 --> 00:12:40.092 Guys, since I gave birth, I have cramps in my entire body 266 00:12:40.192 --> 00:12:42.728 now when I pose, I cannot do [bleep] anymore. 267 00:12:42.828 --> 00:12:43.929 ♪ Who's that chick ♪ 268 00:12:44.029 --> 00:12:47.133 ♪ She a bad bitch, thick like Bisquick ♪ 269 00:12:47.233 --> 00:12:49.468 line:5% ♪ She got all her own money ♪ 270 00:12:49.568 --> 00:12:50.636 line:5% [Manon speaking] 271 00:13:01.714 --> 00:13:03.115 I'm gonna go change my lens and grab another one. 272 00:13:03.215 --> 00:13:05.351 -I'll be right back. -[Chastity] OK, cool. 273 00:13:05.451 --> 00:13:07.486 Oh, well, you did amazing, guys. 274 00:13:07.586 --> 00:13:08.921 -[Chastity] Thank you. -[Angela] Thank you so much. 275 00:13:09.021 --> 00:13:10.890 [Manon] Let me stand up, whoo! 276 00:13:10.990 --> 00:13:12.825 [laughing] 277 00:13:12.925 --> 00:13:15.528 Well, while we are waiting for the camera, I just wanted 278 00:13:15.628 --> 00:13:18.197 to say something to you really quick because you know me 279 00:13:18.297 --> 00:13:19.532 since I first moved. 280 00:13:19.632 --> 00:13:22.701 I think I need to touch my hair for this 'cause it's gonna be -- 281 00:13:22.802 --> 00:13:26.038 it's gonna be something. -Are you pregnant? 282 00:13:26.138 --> 00:13:28.841 Girl. I'm struggling with one kid. 283 00:13:28.941 --> 00:13:31.043 [Hayley] I don't know what you are dropping. 284 00:13:31.143 --> 00:13:33.312 -Get my mind around it. -Oh, my God. 285 00:13:33.412 --> 00:13:34.413 OK. 286 00:13:36.549 --> 00:13:40.319 A few weeks ago, I came to the point where I'm like, 287 00:13:40.419 --> 00:13:42.555 I'm at the end of my rope, because I'm overwhelmed 288 00:13:42.655 --> 00:13:45.457 and overworked, right? I don't see my husband. 289 00:13:45.558 --> 00:13:46.759 I don't see my son. 290 00:13:46.859 --> 00:13:49.195 Anthony is also overworked and overwhelmed. 291 00:13:49.295 --> 00:13:51.297 line:5% The dad is staying at home full time. 292 00:13:51.397 --> 00:13:53.465 line:5% -It is really hard. -Yeah. 293 00:13:53.566 --> 00:13:55.968 line:5% And the thing is, like, we both were kind 294 00:13:56.068 --> 00:13:59.605 of losing each other a little bit in the process. 295 00:13:59.705 --> 00:14:02.408 So, um, I'm sorry. 296 00:14:02.508 --> 00:14:06.178 line:5% It's just I wanted to let you know something that's really... 297 00:14:06.278 --> 00:14:09.148 line:5% It's been on my heart for a few weeks now. 298 00:14:09.248 --> 00:14:13.252 line:5% I'm selling my house and I'm going back to France full time. 299 00:14:13.352 --> 00:14:14.420 I'm leaving LA. 300 00:14:14.520 --> 00:14:15.487 [whimpers] 301 00:14:15.588 --> 00:14:16.722 [Cindy] Oh, my God. 302 00:14:16.822 --> 00:14:19.191 [Manon] I don't know if I should, like, laugh or cry. 303 00:14:19.291 --> 00:14:21.493 It's just -- but that's it. 304 00:14:21.594 --> 00:14:24.496 line:5% I'm going back home for my family. 305 00:14:24.597 --> 00:14:25.731 line:5% Aw. 306 00:14:27.600 --> 00:14:30.102 line:5% Yeah, so it's for my husband, 307 00:14:30.202 --> 00:14:32.504 line:5% for a good quality of life. -[Chasity] Yeah, yeah, yeah. 308 00:14:32.605 --> 00:14:35.341 line:5% He's gonna be the one working fully now, so I can 309 00:14:35.441 --> 00:14:38.777 focus on my son because you know me. 310 00:14:38.878 --> 00:14:40.813 Here it's, like, it's a lot. 311 00:14:40.913 --> 00:14:43.182 -You know, it's a lot. -I totally get it. 312 00:14:43.282 --> 00:14:46.285 The quality of life, the healthcare, like that -- 313 00:14:46.385 --> 00:14:47.486 everything makes sense. 314 00:14:47.586 --> 00:14:51.056 But like, you're, like, the most American person I know. 315 00:14:51.156 --> 00:14:52.992 I -- ironically. 316 00:14:53.092 --> 00:14:57.096 You're a confident person that's worked so hard. 317 00:14:57.196 --> 00:14:59.665 [Chastity] That's a huge sacrifice. 318 00:14:59.765 --> 00:15:01.834 I'm really shocked that she's leaving 319 00:15:01.934 --> 00:15:03.802 because she loves LA. 320 00:15:03.903 --> 00:15:05.137 She loves working. 321 00:15:05.237 --> 00:15:08.641 And I know the society hasn't changed as much there, 322 00:15:08.741 --> 00:15:11.844 and isn't as accepting of curvy bodies 323 00:15:11.944 --> 00:15:13.579 and confident women. 324 00:15:13.679 --> 00:15:16.348 So I'm really nervous that they're not gonna be ready 325 00:15:16.448 --> 00:15:18.083 for Manon back in France. 326 00:15:19.652 --> 00:15:23.255 You've been working so much, so long, 327 00:15:23.355 --> 00:15:24.823 that maybe this is your time 328 00:15:24.924 --> 00:15:27.192 to maybe relax. -But I'm scared, Cindy, 329 00:15:27.293 --> 00:15:28.794 I'm not gonna be able to -- you know me. 330 00:15:28.894 --> 00:15:30.896 I'm gonna wanna do something because I need to buy 331 00:15:30.996 --> 00:15:32.264 a house there. -[Hayley] Yeah, you need time. 332 00:15:32.364 --> 00:15:35.200 So we are going to stay with my parents for a little bit 333 00:15:35.301 --> 00:15:37.469 in a very tiny home. -I support you. 334 00:15:37.569 --> 00:15:40.439 -I'm just very scared for you. -Yes, me too. 335 00:15:40.539 --> 00:15:43.275 [Hayley] You left France because how you were treated. 336 00:15:43.375 --> 00:15:47.046 Are you scared at all of, like, that could happen again? 337 00:15:47.146 --> 00:15:48.914 -[Manon] Oh, I'm scared. -[Chastity] Yeah. 338 00:15:49.014 --> 00:15:50.382 I've been bullied my whole life 339 00:15:50.482 --> 00:15:51.650 with my family. 340 00:15:51.750 --> 00:15:54.286 I love them, but -- but, 341 00:15:54.386 --> 00:15:57.456 there's a big, big, big, big but. 342 00:15:57.556 --> 00:16:00.025 They've been living in France their whole life, right? 343 00:16:00.125 --> 00:16:02.928 So I'm still worried that all of the old patterns, 344 00:16:03.028 --> 00:16:05.831 they haven't changed or anything. 345 00:16:05.931 --> 00:16:09.234 When Tony was meeting my family for the first time ever, 346 00:16:09.335 --> 00:16:11.503 you know, when I went to see my grandpa, what happened? 347 00:16:11.603 --> 00:16:15.007 The first thing he said to me, he looked at me, and he's like, 348 00:16:15.107 --> 00:16:18.477 "How a girl like you married a man like that?" 349 00:16:18.577 --> 00:16:20.746 -What -- that's horrible! -[Manon] Like, excuse me? 350 00:16:20.846 --> 00:16:22.982 My grandpa and my -- like, even just, like, 351 00:16:23.082 --> 00:16:24.249 like, my mom would be like, 352 00:16:24.350 --> 00:16:27.052 "Oh, did you gain some weight? Oh, you lost a little bit." 353 00:16:27.152 --> 00:16:29.288 Just -- why is it a criteria? 354 00:16:29.388 --> 00:16:31.056 You cannot just say, "Hi, how are you?" 355 00:16:31.156 --> 00:16:33.392 But this type of thing that makes you feel like [bleep], 356 00:16:33.492 --> 00:16:34.960 you know, makes you feel you're never enough. 357 00:16:35.060 --> 00:16:36.395 You're never enough. 358 00:16:39.398 --> 00:16:41.700 That's why I wanted to do that shoot today. 359 00:16:41.800 --> 00:16:43.602 'Cause I was like, "That's most probably 360 00:16:43.702 --> 00:16:45.337 going to be the last one." 361 00:16:45.437 --> 00:16:49.008 Over there, there's no girls like you guys, 362 00:16:49.108 --> 00:16:51.477 over there, people are bringing you down. 363 00:16:51.577 --> 00:16:53.545 People look at you like a freak, 364 00:16:53.645 --> 00:16:55.014 you know, when you're big and stuff. 365 00:16:55.114 --> 00:16:56.081 [Chastity] Yeah. 366 00:16:56.181 --> 00:16:58.584 And that's what I was missing in France, 367 00:16:58.684 --> 00:17:01.687 is people like you that I could connect with. 368 00:17:01.787 --> 00:17:04.356 'Cause at home, I was always the fat girl. 369 00:17:04.456 --> 00:17:08.193 Like, why does she want to dream like that and go to LA? 370 00:17:08.293 --> 00:17:11.730 I've always felt like I'm a freaking weirdo, you know? 371 00:17:11.830 --> 00:17:14.700 My whole [bleep] life. And being here in LA 372 00:17:14.800 --> 00:17:16.235 saved my life. 373 00:17:19.138 --> 00:17:21.874 Growing up in France always made me feel 374 00:17:21.974 --> 00:17:24.676 like I was less than -- 375 00:17:24.777 --> 00:17:27.079 I remember being bullied. 376 00:17:27.179 --> 00:17:29.548 All of the other kids at school were making fun of me, 377 00:17:29.648 --> 00:17:32.584 chewing gum in my hair, spitting on me, 378 00:17:32.684 --> 00:17:34.486 calling me "the whale," calling me fat. 379 00:17:34.586 --> 00:17:36.455 And I know that my parents, they were trying 380 00:17:36.555 --> 00:17:37.756 to do their best. 381 00:17:37.856 --> 00:17:41.393 But I do have a lot of resentment on how I was raised 382 00:17:41.493 --> 00:17:44.930 and the things that they said to me. 383 00:17:45.030 --> 00:17:47.800 So moving back to France with my parents 384 00:17:47.900 --> 00:17:50.035 is definitely going to be a big challenge, 385 00:17:50.135 --> 00:17:52.237 and I feel very, very stressed. 386 00:17:52.337 --> 00:17:54.373 I love my husband. I love my son. 387 00:17:54.473 --> 00:17:56.942 I see the bigger picture, but on the other side, 388 00:17:57.042 --> 00:18:00.212 I'm scared as [bleep], 'cause I'm gonna miss it a lot 389 00:18:00.312 --> 00:18:01.814 here, you know? 390 00:18:06.552 --> 00:18:08.353 line:5% [upbeat music playing] 391 00:18:11.490 --> 00:18:13.358 line:5% [Lizona speaking Spanish] 392 00:18:13.459 --> 00:18:14.626 line:5% [Madelein speaking] 393 00:18:18.263 --> 00:18:20.299 What do you want me to do, like this? 394 00:18:20.399 --> 00:18:22.968 It's horrible. 395 00:18:23.068 --> 00:18:25.037 Baby, let's pack. 396 00:18:25.137 --> 00:18:27.673 We are in financial crisis right now, 397 00:18:27.773 --> 00:18:29.908 and we decide to move in with the family. 398 00:18:33.912 --> 00:18:35.881 [spiritual music playing] 399 00:18:45.724 --> 00:18:47.693 [car honks] 400 00:18:49.328 --> 00:18:52.764 [upbeat music playing] 401 00:18:52.865 --> 00:18:54.133 ♪ Yeah ♪ 402 00:18:54.233 --> 00:18:56.502 ♪ Yeah, I'm gonna keep you up Tonight, baby ♪ 403 00:18:58.403 --> 00:19:01.874 ♪ Yeah, you need some good love And a good night ♪ 404 00:19:01.974 --> 00:19:04.409 ♪ Baby, grab a bag You should pack it light ♪ 405 00:19:04.510 --> 00:19:06.078 ♪ Let me know feel some ♪ 406 00:19:06.178 --> 00:19:07.279 ♪ Come on, come on ♪ 407 00:19:07.379 --> 00:19:09.014 ♪ I can't wait for your touch ♪ 408 00:19:09.114 --> 00:19:12.584 line:5% ♪ Yeah, tonight you're Living out your best life ♪ 409 00:19:12.684 --> 00:19:14.987 line:5% [speaking Hindi] 410 00:19:17.489 --> 00:19:18.924 Look so handsome. 411 00:19:19.024 --> 00:19:21.593 ♪ Ooh, ooh ♪ 412 00:19:21.693 --> 00:19:23.896 ♪ I'll be the reason ♪ 413 00:19:23.996 --> 00:19:28.834 ♪ Yeah, I'll be the best You've ever had ♪ 414 00:19:30.469 --> 00:19:32.538 What is he putting on your face? 415 00:19:32.638 --> 00:19:36.542 These all natural items for the good for the skin. 416 00:19:38.577 --> 00:19:39.978 [Sumit giggles] 417 00:19:40.078 --> 00:19:43.115 I'm Jenny, I'm 67 years old. 418 00:19:43.215 --> 00:19:45.851 I'm from Palm Springs, California, 419 00:19:45.951 --> 00:19:48.954 line:5% and this is my cute husband, Sumit. 420 00:19:58.130 --> 00:20:00.566 [upbeat music playing] 421 00:20:03.368 --> 00:20:05.404 line:5% [Sadhna speaking Hindi] 422 00:20:11.677 --> 00:20:13.512 line:5% -[Jenny] No, no. -[Sadhna speaking] 423 00:20:13.612 --> 00:20:15.981 No haircut, no cut. 424 00:20:16.081 --> 00:20:18.450 After 15 years of being together, 425 00:20:18.550 --> 00:20:22.287 his parents have finally accepted our relationship. 426 00:20:29.828 --> 00:20:31.029 Aw. 427 00:20:36.101 --> 00:20:37.102 [Sumit chuckles] 428 00:20:38.503 --> 00:20:41.506 [Jenny] But it's been a long journey to get here. 429 00:20:43.408 --> 00:20:44.610 line:5% [Sumit speaking] 430 00:20:46.411 --> 00:20:49.348 line:5% [Jenny] We continued in a long distance relationship 431 00:20:49.448 --> 00:20:53.352 line:5% until I finally decided to move to India to marry Sumit. 432 00:20:53.452 --> 00:20:55.554 line:5% [Sumit] Jenny! 433 00:20:55.654 --> 00:20:57.289 Oh, my God! 434 00:20:57.389 --> 00:21:01.560 -There you are, hi! -Hi! 435 00:21:05.330 --> 00:21:09.268 I thought Sumit and I were gonna live happily ever after 436 00:21:09.368 --> 00:21:12.938 until I found out he was already married. 437 00:21:13.038 --> 00:21:14.840 That was a big shock. 438 00:21:16.241 --> 00:21:18.844 What do I do? I'm scared. 439 00:21:18.944 --> 00:21:20.612 [whimpers] 440 00:21:20.712 --> 00:21:23.081 You know, it's a nightmare, and how could -- 441 00:21:23.181 --> 00:21:24.783 Why is this happening right now? 442 00:21:24.883 --> 00:21:26.318 Why is this happening? 443 00:21:26.418 --> 00:21:27.653 line:5% I gave -- 444 00:21:32.291 --> 00:21:33.825 Why tell me you love me 445 00:21:33.925 --> 00:21:35.193 line:5% and talk to me every single day, 446 00:21:35.294 --> 00:21:37.763 line:5% and still marry somebody else, and not tell me? 447 00:21:48.707 --> 00:21:51.176 line:5% It was one of the most difficult times 448 00:21:51.276 --> 00:21:52.944 of our relationship. 449 00:21:53.045 --> 00:21:56.815 But he told me he was gonna get a divorce, and he did. 450 00:22:03.989 --> 00:22:05.357 line:5% [Sadhna speaking Hindi] 451 00:22:14.666 --> 00:22:17.669 line:5% I am not old enough to be his grandmother. 452 00:22:19.971 --> 00:22:22.974 It impacted our relationship a lot. 453 00:22:23.075 --> 00:22:25.177 There were several times 454 00:22:25.277 --> 00:22:28.947 that I threatened to go back to the US. 455 00:22:29.047 --> 00:22:31.516 You promised me we were gonna get married this time, 456 00:22:31.616 --> 00:22:33.318 so I would never have to leave India again. 457 00:22:33.418 --> 00:22:34.986 But do you know the situation or not? 458 00:22:35.087 --> 00:22:37.689 It's always because of your parents every time. 459 00:22:39.124 --> 00:22:41.426 I'm not gonna keep coming back and leaving 460 00:22:41.526 --> 00:22:43.328 every damn six months. I'm not gonna keep doing it. 461 00:22:43.428 --> 00:22:44.663 You're not gonna keep telling me you're going 462 00:22:44.763 --> 00:22:46.465 to marry me, you're [bleep] not! 463 00:22:46.565 --> 00:22:47.799 That's it! 464 00:22:50.969 --> 00:22:52.904 [bleep] this [bleep]. 465 00:22:54.873 --> 00:22:58.009 We wanted to be together, we wanted to be married, 466 00:22:58.110 --> 00:23:00.946 but we didn't have his family's approval. 467 00:23:01.046 --> 00:23:06.218 So we decided to get married in secret. 468 00:23:06.318 --> 00:23:07.886 line:5% [officiant speaking] 469 00:23:11.256 --> 00:23:12.457 line:5% [all clap] 470 00:23:24.002 --> 00:23:25.103 line:5% [Sadhna speaking Hindi] 471 00:23:35.280 --> 00:23:38.650 [Sumit] My mother was not happy that I chose Jenny over family. 472 00:23:38.750 --> 00:23:42.921 And that was a very sad time, very, uh, devastated time. 473 00:23:52.364 --> 00:23:53.432 line:5% -Oh, my mom. -Oh! 474 00:23:53.532 --> 00:23:55.734 -What a cute little bun. -[Sumit laughs] 475 00:23:55.834 --> 00:23:58.470 line:5% Oh it's a cute little -- anybody got a bow? 476 00:24:08.079 --> 00:24:09.781 line:5% [Jenny] She couldn't fight it anymore. 477 00:24:12.651 --> 00:24:14.419 line:5% Yeah, your skin looks really nice. 478 00:24:16.288 --> 00:24:18.623 line:5% -[Sumit] Yeah. -[Jenny] Such a mom. 479 00:24:18.723 --> 00:24:20.192 line:5% -It's my mom. -[Jenny laughs] 480 00:24:21.460 --> 00:24:22.794 line:5% [speaking Hindi] 481 00:24:35.273 --> 00:24:36.842 -[Jenny] OK. -OK, Jenny. 482 00:24:36.942 --> 00:24:39.845 -See you soon. -Yes, OK, bye. 483 00:24:39.945 --> 00:24:41.813 [Jenny] Bye. 484 00:24:41.913 --> 00:24:43.982 How am I as a daughter-in-law? 485 00:24:44.082 --> 00:24:45.417 Good, good daughter-in-law. 486 00:24:45.517 --> 00:24:49.154 -Yay! -Whoa, yay, oh my God. 487 00:24:49.254 --> 00:24:52.424 [Jenny] We have a good time together, actually. 488 00:24:52.524 --> 00:24:55.694 But now, the real test is gonna come. 489 00:24:57.562 --> 00:25:00.465 [chill music playing] 490 00:25:04.903 --> 00:25:07.339 Baby, let's pack. 491 00:25:07.439 --> 00:25:10.575 [Jenny] OK, I have lots of clothes. 492 00:25:10.675 --> 00:25:15.213 Six months ago, we moved into a nice, fancy apartment. 493 00:25:15.313 --> 00:25:19.150 -It's a gated community. -And it is brand new. 494 00:25:19.251 --> 00:25:23.321 It's everything I wanted, but he lost his job, 495 00:25:23.421 --> 00:25:26.391 and so now we can't afford to pay the rent anymore. 496 00:25:26.491 --> 00:25:30.095 So we are in financial crisis right now, and we decide 497 00:25:30.195 --> 00:25:31.730 to move in with the family. 498 00:25:33.098 --> 00:25:35.166 Oh, boy. 499 00:25:35.267 --> 00:25:36.501 Yay. 500 00:25:36.601 --> 00:25:38.570 I can't wait to see what happens. 501 00:25:40.906 --> 00:25:43.808 This really started to feel like home for me. 502 00:25:43.909 --> 00:25:45.176 I was... 503 00:25:45.277 --> 00:25:48.513 comfortable here, and now I'm just completely devastated. 504 00:25:48.613 --> 00:25:51.416 It's costing us a lot, and, you know, I can't handle 505 00:25:51.516 --> 00:25:53.184 that by myself. 506 00:25:53.285 --> 00:25:58.590 But the financial crisis is giving us a chance that I get 507 00:25:58.690 --> 00:26:01.059 to experience living with family. 508 00:26:01.159 --> 00:26:02.894 I know how you feel about this. 509 00:26:02.994 --> 00:26:05.564 I know this is what you've always wanted. 510 00:26:05.664 --> 00:26:07.399 And that's why I'm happy for you. 511 00:26:07.499 --> 00:26:09.768 And, of course, I love you, and I'm gonna be right there 512 00:26:09.868 --> 00:26:11.937 with you by your side. 513 00:26:12.037 --> 00:26:13.905 But that doesn't mean I'm not worried. 514 00:26:16.174 --> 00:26:17.375 line:5% [Sumit speaking] 515 00:26:36.962 --> 00:26:38.096 line:5% [Jenny] Absolutely. 516 00:26:38.196 --> 00:26:42.200 But, you know, living with them is a whole 'nother thing. 517 00:26:42.300 --> 00:26:44.002 We're not gonna be able to live like we've been 518 00:26:44.102 --> 00:26:46.137 living here, we've been free. 519 00:26:46.237 --> 00:26:49.407 We've been able to do whatever we want. 520 00:26:49.507 --> 00:26:52.811 And your mom's, you know, she has a lot of rules. 521 00:26:55.347 --> 00:26:56.414 line:5% [Sadhna speaking Hindi] 522 00:27:09.728 --> 00:27:12.030 I'm not used to living with parents. 523 00:27:15.433 --> 00:27:16.501 line:5% I know. 524 00:27:20.071 --> 00:27:21.706 line:5% So I mean, we both have 525 00:27:21.806 --> 00:27:23.508 line:5% a different point of view about this. 526 00:27:25.477 --> 00:27:28.079 Sumit thinks that we're all gonna live together 527 00:27:28.179 --> 00:27:32.217 and everything's gonna be great, but I have my doubts. 528 00:27:33.885 --> 00:27:36.354 The acceptance is new... 529 00:27:36.454 --> 00:27:39.491 and I would rather not rock the boat 530 00:27:39.591 --> 00:27:41.526 by us all moving in together, 531 00:27:41.626 --> 00:27:43.361 but we don't have a choice. 532 00:27:46.231 --> 00:27:47.966 I hope everything works out OK, 533 00:27:48.066 --> 00:27:52.303 because I don't want anything to happen to our relationship. 534 00:28:02.080 --> 00:28:03.615 line:5% We need to follow a budget. 535 00:28:13.158 --> 00:28:15.694 line:5% ♪ Beautiful ♪ 536 00:28:15.794 --> 00:28:20.965 ♪ Beautiful ♪ 537 00:28:21.066 --> 00:28:23.668 line:5% ♪ Beautiful ♪ 538 00:28:23.768 --> 00:28:25.136 line:5% [speaking Spanish] 539 00:28:43.221 --> 00:28:44.989 [Lizona] Wow, eh! [claps] 540 00:28:47.192 --> 00:28:49.194 line:5% [speaking Spanish] 541 00:28:49.294 --> 00:28:51.696 Whoo! 542 00:28:51.796 --> 00:28:53.131 ♪ I believe, I believe I believe ♪ 543 00:28:53.231 --> 00:28:55.200 ♪ It's a brand new start ♪ 544 00:28:56.601 --> 00:28:59.037 ♪ I believe, I believe, I believe in that ♪ 545 00:29:06.611 --> 00:29:07.979 line:5% [speaking Spanish] 546 00:29:22.260 --> 00:29:23.261 line:5% [speaking Spanish] 547 00:29:30.602 --> 00:29:33.438 line:5% Were like "Oh, oh, oh." 548 00:29:33.538 --> 00:29:34.873 line:5% [Lizona speaking Spanish] 549 00:29:39.377 --> 00:29:40.645 line:5% [Madelein speaking] 550 00:30:02.167 --> 00:30:04.435 line:5% ♪ Uno, dos, tres, go ♪ 551 00:30:04.536 --> 00:30:05.537 line:5% [Luke speaking Spanish] 552 00:30:05.637 --> 00:30:07.105 line:5% [Madelein speaking Spanish] 553 00:30:09.808 --> 00:30:12.277 line:5% [Luke and Madelein speaking Spanish] 554 00:30:12.377 --> 00:30:14.212 line:5% -[Luke] Ready to practice? -[Madelein] Yes. 555 00:30:15.547 --> 00:30:17.615 line:5% [Madelein counts in Spanish] 556 00:30:17.715 --> 00:30:19.617 You're so cute. [Luke counts in Spanish] 557 00:30:22.554 --> 00:30:23.521 Is this good? 558 00:30:23.621 --> 00:30:26.658 My baby. You want me to be honest? 559 00:30:26.758 --> 00:30:28.593 [Luke] Yeah. 560 00:30:28.693 --> 00:30:30.962 It's horrible. 561 00:30:31.062 --> 00:30:32.063 My name's Luke. 562 00:30:32.163 --> 00:30:34.899 I'm 31 years old, and I live in The Hills 563 00:30:34.999 --> 00:30:36.434 north of Los Angeles. 564 00:30:36.534 --> 00:30:38.670 What do you want me to do, like this? 565 00:30:38.770 --> 00:30:42.307 One, two. You said, "Do one, two." 566 00:30:42.407 --> 00:30:43.808 line:5% [Madelein speaking Spanish] 567 00:30:46.711 --> 00:30:48.746 line:5% You're gonna marry me. 568 00:30:48.847 --> 00:30:50.048 I know. 569 00:30:50.148 --> 00:30:53.952 Two years ago, I met Madelein on a boy's trip to Colombia. 570 00:30:54.052 --> 00:30:55.887 ♪ Looks like ♪ 571 00:30:55.987 --> 00:30:57.755 ♪ You're a movie star ♪ 572 00:30:57.856 --> 00:30:59.924 ♪ And I love how you act Like you think you are ♪ 573 00:31:00.024 --> 00:31:01.259 ♪ You know it ♪ 574 00:31:01.359 --> 00:31:03.528 [Luke] We picked Medellin because we've been told they have 575 00:31:03.628 --> 00:31:04.863 the hottest girls there. 576 00:31:04.963 --> 00:31:07.599 My buddies and I downloaded a couple dating apps, 577 00:31:07.699 --> 00:31:10.602 and I met Madelein literally day one. 578 00:31:10.702 --> 00:31:13.938 ♪ I just fear on my way home ♪ 579 00:31:14.038 --> 00:31:15.640 ♪ I don't really care for ♪ 580 00:31:15.740 --> 00:31:17.809 My jaw dropped. She was beautiful. 581 00:31:17.909 --> 00:31:20.645 She had this outfit on with the fur coat, and 582 00:31:20.745 --> 00:31:21.946 I was like, "Damn, girl," 583 00:31:22.046 --> 00:31:24.782 like, "Who the heck is this," right? 584 00:31:24.883 --> 00:31:30.455 When I meet him in Party Zone, he's so [bleep] hot, like, "Oh!" 585 00:31:32.590 --> 00:31:35.994 ♪ Touch me here, touch me there, Touch me everywhere ♪ 586 00:31:36.094 --> 00:31:37.829 ♪ Don't care, don't care ♪ 587 00:31:37.929 --> 00:31:40.098 ♪ 'Cause I want you ♪ 588 00:31:40.198 --> 00:31:41.666 line:5% [Madelein speaking] 589 00:31:44.869 --> 00:31:47.572 [Luke] We got along right away. 590 00:31:47.672 --> 00:31:49.707 Like, "What? You know, we just met." 591 00:31:49.807 --> 00:31:51.643 How is this that easy? 592 00:32:11.129 --> 00:32:15.400 When I got home, we talked every day. 593 00:32:15.500 --> 00:32:19.037 After three whole months, I tattooed her name 594 00:32:19.137 --> 00:32:21.706 next to my penis. 595 00:32:21.806 --> 00:32:24.876 I'm not the biggest tattoo person, but I wanted her 596 00:32:24.976 --> 00:32:28.279 to know that I was serious and she was the one. 597 00:32:28.379 --> 00:32:30.014 line:5% [Madelein speaking] 598 00:32:41.225 --> 00:32:42.927 What? 599 00:32:43.027 --> 00:32:45.630 You're one special girl, Madelein. 600 00:32:45.730 --> 00:32:47.165 Yes, I am. 601 00:32:47.265 --> 00:32:49.067 ♪ I've been dreaming About you ♪ 602 00:32:49.167 --> 00:32:52.036 Nine months after meeting Madelein, I proposed. 603 00:32:52.136 --> 00:32:55.239 I've never felt like this with anybody else. 604 00:32:55.340 --> 00:32:58.009 Madelein is a strong and confident person. 605 00:32:58.109 --> 00:32:59.677 She calls me on my [bleep]. 606 00:32:59.777 --> 00:33:01.713 Can she be a little bit controlling? 607 00:33:01.813 --> 00:33:02.947 Sure. 608 00:33:03.047 --> 00:33:05.917 But, at the end of the day, I think she's like a voice 609 00:33:06.017 --> 00:33:07.385 of reason for me. 610 00:33:07.485 --> 00:33:10.188 ♪ But this is different, Yeah, the color's more true ♪ 611 00:33:10.288 --> 00:33:12.056 [Luke] And I had every intention to move down 612 00:33:12.156 --> 00:33:14.859 to Colombia so that we could start our life together. 613 00:33:14.959 --> 00:33:17.495 Unfortunately, that's not how it played out. 614 00:33:20.298 --> 00:33:21.499 line:5% [Madelein speaking] 615 00:33:23.368 --> 00:33:24.268 [Luke] I'm trying, baby. 616 00:33:24.369 --> 00:33:26.104 line:5% We're supposed to be in person, and it's -- 617 00:33:31.542 --> 00:33:33.678 I'm working on it. I'll be there soon, OK? 618 00:33:36.314 --> 00:33:37.415 line:5% [Luke speaking Spanish] 619 00:33:38.816 --> 00:33:40.084 It's been a whole year, 620 00:33:40.184 --> 00:33:43.688 and Madelein is pissed that I'm still in the States. 621 00:33:43.788 --> 00:33:46.891 But I keep telling Madelein that I don't have the money 622 00:33:46.991 --> 00:33:47.992 line:5% to make this move. 623 00:33:54.365 --> 00:33:56.834 [Luke] OK, well, that's why we're practicing. 624 00:33:56.934 --> 00:33:59.170 Madelein is sick of the long distance. 625 00:33:59.270 --> 00:34:02.240 She's fed up with waiting. She's fed up with my excuses. 626 00:34:02.340 --> 00:34:06.010 And basically, she said, "You need to move to Colombia 627 00:34:06.110 --> 00:34:08.780 so that we could be together, or else." 628 00:34:08.880 --> 00:34:09.847 I don't know what 629 00:34:09.947 --> 00:34:11.282 would happen if I don't move to Colombia, 630 00:34:11.382 --> 00:34:12.984 but I don't wanna find out. 631 00:34:13.084 --> 00:34:15.686 So we're getting married in three weeks, 632 00:34:15.787 --> 00:34:18.189 and after the wedding, I'll be staying there for good. 633 00:34:19.590 --> 00:34:21.359 line:5% You excited for the wedding? 634 00:34:25.930 --> 00:34:26.864 line:5% [Luke] Why? 635 00:34:26.964 --> 00:34:28.266 line:5% [Madelein speaking] 636 00:34:30.334 --> 00:34:31.536 line:5% [Luke] OK. 637 00:34:34.739 --> 00:34:35.840 line:5% For what? 638 00:34:42.480 --> 00:34:44.015 So you want me to pay for a helicopter for you 639 00:34:44.115 --> 00:34:46.584 to show up to the wedding? -Exactly. 640 00:34:46.684 --> 00:34:48.019 [Luke] Oh, my God. 641 00:34:48.119 --> 00:34:49.320 line:5% [speaking Spanish] 642 00:34:50.721 --> 00:34:51.889 I'm about to move. 643 00:34:51.989 --> 00:34:54.792 I'm not gonna have my income from my job anymore. 644 00:34:54.892 --> 00:34:57.995 So we need to follow a budget. 645 00:34:58.096 --> 00:35:00.264 I promised Madelein the wedding of her dreams, 646 00:35:00.364 --> 00:35:03.201 but I'm in a lot of debt. 647 00:35:03.301 --> 00:35:06.471 I invested in sunglasses and a jewelry line, 648 00:35:06.571 --> 00:35:09.273 and it hasn't turned a profit yet. 649 00:35:09.373 --> 00:35:12.143 So once I quit my job as a mining engineer, 650 00:35:12.243 --> 00:35:15.680 I am gonna have no money coming in. 651 00:35:15.780 --> 00:35:19.917 So yeah, that is not the best situation to be in. 652 00:35:27.158 --> 00:35:28.659 line:5% [Luke] I mean, yeah, but... 653 00:35:30.194 --> 00:35:32.463 I don't know, babe, like, I'll look into it, 654 00:35:32.563 --> 00:35:33.831 and if I can make it happen 655 00:35:33.931 --> 00:35:36.868 I'll try and make it happen, I mean, we'll see, right? 656 00:35:40.338 --> 00:35:43.307 You still practice dancing, I don't see you dancing. 657 00:35:48.279 --> 00:35:49.514 [Luke] I'll be the first to admit 658 00:35:49.614 --> 00:35:53.117 that I have a very hard time telling Madelein "no." 659 00:35:53.217 --> 00:35:56.387 That's why it's probably better for me to stay here, 660 00:35:56.487 --> 00:36:00.758 continue to work, and save money so that I can 661 00:36:00.858 --> 00:36:03.761 fully provide the wedding and lifestyle that she wants. 662 00:36:05.196 --> 00:36:07.331 But if I stay any longer, I think Madelein 663 00:36:07.431 --> 00:36:09.133 would leave me for good. 664 00:36:09.233 --> 00:36:12.069 So I need to move, and I need to make it work. 665 00:36:12.170 --> 00:36:13.638 End of story. 666 00:36:13.738 --> 00:36:15.840 There's so much at stake. My whole future. 667 00:36:17.575 --> 00:36:18.576 Yeah [bleep]. 668 00:36:22.013 --> 00:36:23.681 I think I'm getting the hang of this, babe. 669 00:36:25.917 --> 00:36:26.984 I don't think so. 670 00:36:31.355 --> 00:36:32.523 line:5% [Anthony] For the past year and a half, 671 00:36:32.623 --> 00:36:35.159 line:5% I've been a full-time, stay-at-home dad. 672 00:36:35.259 --> 00:36:37.728 You are definitely a very rare breed. 673 00:36:37.828 --> 00:36:39.197 That's why I married you. 674 00:36:39.297 --> 00:36:40.965 Look at him, like the mustache. 675 00:36:41.065 --> 00:36:42.533 He made my "hm" tingling, you know? 676 00:36:42.633 --> 00:36:45.236 I was like, "Ooh!" 677 00:36:45.336 --> 00:36:47.805 I feel like I'm a [bleep] mom. I just can't. 678 00:36:47.905 --> 00:36:50.274 The American Dream is actually killing me, 679 00:36:50.374 --> 00:36:52.243 and I need to let it go. 680 00:36:57.748 --> 00:37:00.051 [upbeat music playing] 681 00:37:18.569 --> 00:37:20.605 Yeah, daddy's here. 682 00:37:20.705 --> 00:37:21.739 ♪ Hold on ♪ 683 00:37:21.839 --> 00:37:23.641 ♪ I'm telling you the truth ♪ 684 00:37:23.741 --> 00:37:25.243 ♪ You need me baby ♪ 685 00:37:25.343 --> 00:37:27.445 ♪ Just like I need you ♪ 686 00:37:31.749 --> 00:37:33.851 line:5% 'Cause we cannot post later than the 24th. 687 00:37:35.386 --> 00:37:36.520 For the past year and a half, 688 00:37:36.621 --> 00:37:39.156 I've been a full-time, stay-at-home dad. 689 00:37:39.257 --> 00:37:40.958 Benjamin. 690 00:37:41.058 --> 00:37:43.928 Daycare is stupid expensive, 691 00:37:44.028 --> 00:37:47.398 so I quit my job in security to stay at home with Ben. 692 00:37:47.498 --> 00:37:50.401 [Manon] Anthony is an amazing, loving husband, 693 00:37:50.501 --> 00:37:53.070 but what he does the best and who he is the best 694 00:37:53.170 --> 00:37:54.405 is a baby daddy. 695 00:37:55.973 --> 00:37:58.409 You are definitely a very rare breed. 696 00:37:58.509 --> 00:37:59.744 That's why I married you. 697 00:38:01.145 --> 00:38:04.248 We met about four years ago. 698 00:38:04.348 --> 00:38:08.419 She actually swiped left on me at first. 699 00:38:08.519 --> 00:38:09.787 [sighs] 700 00:38:09.887 --> 00:38:12.657 He's terrible at taking pictures of himself. 701 00:38:12.757 --> 00:38:14.025 You could not see his face at first. 702 00:38:14.125 --> 00:38:15.693 I'm like, "Oh, that's probably a creep, right? 703 00:38:15.793 --> 00:38:18.729 But we never know." I shake the phone. 704 00:38:18.829 --> 00:38:20.231 He goes back on the profile. 705 00:38:20.331 --> 00:38:23.067 And I'm like, "Oh, actually kind of cute." 706 00:38:23.167 --> 00:38:24.035 Cute dog, also. 707 00:38:24.135 --> 00:38:26.237 [chuckles] 708 00:38:26.337 --> 00:38:29.307 [Anthony] And then we had our first date in Malibu. 709 00:38:29.407 --> 00:38:31.742 And I think she kinda did a double take 710 00:38:31.842 --> 00:38:32.977 when she first saw me. 711 00:38:33.077 --> 00:38:35.946 [Manon] Look at him, like, the mustache, Mr. Mustache 712 00:38:36.047 --> 00:38:37.515 He made my "hm" tingling, you know? 713 00:38:37.615 --> 00:38:39.684 I was like, "Ooh, I didn't expected that." 714 00:38:39.784 --> 00:38:41.018 You know, keep it. You better keep it. 715 00:38:41.118 --> 00:38:42.453 Ooh, hoo. 716 00:38:44.055 --> 00:38:45.556 Look at you. 717 00:38:45.656 --> 00:38:48.359 I already knew after our first date that I wanted 718 00:38:48.459 --> 00:38:49.960 to marry her. 719 00:38:50.061 --> 00:38:51.562 [Manon] And then, actually, he wrote me 720 00:38:51.662 --> 00:38:55.900 a handwriting letter as well in my mail a few days after. 721 00:38:56.000 --> 00:38:57.134 How freaking cool is that? 722 00:38:57.234 --> 00:38:59.303 And I was like, "OK, well, he's not going anywhere." 723 00:38:59.403 --> 00:39:02.306 And then everything went back-to-back with him. 724 00:39:02.406 --> 00:39:04.575 One month later, we moved with each other. 725 00:39:06.277 --> 00:39:09.547 Six months after, he proposed. 726 00:39:09.647 --> 00:39:13.050 Nine months after we dated, we eloped in Las Vegas. 727 00:39:13.150 --> 00:39:14.151 Seven months. 728 00:39:15.653 --> 00:39:17.922 [sighs] Seven months later, yes. 729 00:39:18.022 --> 00:39:20.725 A year later, we bought the house, 730 00:39:20.825 --> 00:39:23.594 and then right after, bam! The baby. 731 00:39:26.897 --> 00:39:29.400 All of that in less than three years. 732 00:39:35.639 --> 00:39:39.110 OK, finished my meeting. Come here, my baby. 733 00:39:39.210 --> 00:39:40.745 Is that mama? 734 00:39:40.845 --> 00:39:42.446 Oh, come with mama. 735 00:39:42.546 --> 00:39:43.714 [Benjamin babbles] 736 00:39:43.814 --> 00:39:45.416 Come with me. Come here. 737 00:39:45.516 --> 00:39:47.685 Come with me. Yeah. 738 00:39:47.785 --> 00:39:50.588 Yeah. Oh, OK. 739 00:39:50.688 --> 00:39:52.590 -He wants to play. -OK. 740 00:39:54.492 --> 00:39:59.630 I had to go back to work after eight weeks, after giving birth 741 00:39:59.730 --> 00:40:00.965 eight weeks later, 742 00:40:01.065 --> 00:40:02.767 'cause how are we going to pay our bills? 743 00:40:02.867 --> 00:40:04.602 And it was not just a nine to five, 744 00:40:04.702 --> 00:40:06.570 line:5% where at five, I'm done, I can shut off my phone. 745 00:40:14.245 --> 00:40:18.616 line:5% Babies thrive on routines, but his entire routine's 746 00:40:18.716 --> 00:40:20.718 for everything with Anthony. 747 00:40:21.986 --> 00:40:26.424 And sometimes it makes me feel like the biggest failure 748 00:40:26.524 --> 00:40:27.725 in the world. 749 00:40:27.825 --> 00:40:31.495 I do want to have that bond with that baby that it took me 750 00:40:31.595 --> 00:40:35.232 nine months to create, to carry. 751 00:40:35.332 --> 00:40:37.768 He's my pride and joy. 752 00:40:37.868 --> 00:40:40.070 line:5% Good job. Good job. 753 00:40:44.842 --> 00:40:47.144 line:5% -[Benjamin cries] -Come here, come to mommy. 754 00:40:47.244 --> 00:40:50.648 I really cannot stand that, you know, he's just always 755 00:40:50.748 --> 00:40:51.782 into you, into you. 756 00:40:51.882 --> 00:40:54.585 Every time I try to play or something, he just goes 757 00:40:54.685 --> 00:40:56.187 straight back at you. 758 00:40:56.287 --> 00:40:57.555 I know. 759 00:40:57.655 --> 00:41:00.891 With Manon working and me taking care of Ben, 760 00:41:00.991 --> 00:41:03.360 there have been a lot of days where we were 761 00:41:03.461 --> 00:41:05.429 at each other's throats. 762 00:41:05.529 --> 00:41:09.500 I felt a lot of resentment coming from her for me spending 763 00:41:09.600 --> 00:41:13.904 so much time with Ben, building this incredible bond, 764 00:41:14.004 --> 00:41:17.141 you know, and everything was always falling on me with Ben, 765 00:41:17.241 --> 00:41:19.610 both of us were actually starting to resent each other. 766 00:41:25.716 --> 00:41:28.486 line:5% ...'cause you provide for us. 767 00:41:28.586 --> 00:41:30.821 Yeah, but I should be there for him, though. 768 00:41:30.921 --> 00:41:34.458 And you will be in France, and that's why we're going. 769 00:41:34.558 --> 00:41:36.861 See how excited he is about France? 770 00:41:36.961 --> 00:41:38.596 Yeah. 771 00:41:38.696 --> 00:41:42.266 -Woo! -Yeah. [chuckles nervously] 772 00:41:42.366 --> 00:41:44.602 [Anthony] Our marriage was falling apart, 773 00:41:44.702 --> 00:41:48.439 so I said, "Why don't we sell our house and move to France? 774 00:41:48.539 --> 00:41:52.710 "And really focus on us as a family and the quality 775 00:41:52.810 --> 00:41:54.945 of life that can be there." 776 00:41:55.045 --> 00:41:56.347 I thought it seemed -- I'm like, "You know what? 777 00:41:56.447 --> 00:41:57.381 "He is right, 778 00:41:57.481 --> 00:41:59.917 "The American Dream is actually killing me, 779 00:42:00.017 --> 00:42:01.752 and I need to let it go." 780 00:42:03.254 --> 00:42:04.822 It's gonna be better for us. 781 00:42:04.922 --> 00:42:06.223 You're gonna spend more time with him. 782 00:42:06.323 --> 00:42:08.292 -Yeah. -And he's gonna be 783 00:42:08.392 --> 00:42:11.328 more attached to you than he is to me. 784 00:42:11.428 --> 00:42:13.230 [Manon]* I am looking forward to it, 785 00:42:13.330 --> 00:42:16.166 but it's not gonna be completely easy. 786 00:42:16.267 --> 00:42:20.204 It may save our marriage and also make me have 787 00:42:20.304 --> 00:42:23.140 a good relationship with my son. 788 00:42:23.240 --> 00:42:24.375 That's why I'm doing it. 789 00:42:24.475 --> 00:42:27.144 But you're asking me to go back to a country that I used 790 00:42:27.244 --> 00:42:30.147 to hate and I wanted to escape. 791 00:42:30.247 --> 00:42:34.485 You ask me to not be a business entrepreneur girlie that I am. 792 00:42:34.585 --> 00:42:36.520 Like, it's a lot. 793 00:42:36.620 --> 00:42:39.156 So what if it's actually a bit too much, Anthony? 794 00:42:39.256 --> 00:42:41.525 What if it's too much change for me? 795 00:42:46.297 --> 00:42:47.631 You wanna go with Dad? Yeah, go to daddy. 796 00:42:47.731 --> 00:42:48.866 OK. 797 00:42:48.966 --> 00:42:50.301 -[phone chimes] -Oh [bleep]. 798 00:42:50.401 --> 00:42:53.470 I gotta go. It's my next meeting. 799 00:42:53.571 --> 00:42:55.439 * 800 00:42:55.539 --> 00:42:58.175 line:5% [Jennifer] She thinks I'm coming just to say bye, but I'm really 801 00:42:58.275 --> 00:43:00.477 line:5% coming to tell her not to move there. 802 00:43:01.812 --> 00:43:03.514 I think you're making a mistake. 803 00:43:03.614 --> 00:43:04.949 The only thing that he's shown 804 00:43:05.049 --> 00:43:07.251 is that he's not even faithful to you. 805 00:43:10.087 --> 00:43:13.691 I'm so happy that finally we all can live together. 806 00:43:13.791 --> 00:43:15.859 -I'm afraid. -You're afraid? 807 00:43:18.195 --> 00:43:20.965 There are a lot of expectations from the daughter-in-law. 808 00:43:21.065 --> 00:43:24.902 She can't expect us to be there always cleaning and cooking. 809 00:43:25.002 --> 00:43:27.071 I don't want to scare you. 810 00:43:27.171 --> 00:43:28.839 -You are scaring me. -[Shree laughs] 811 00:43:35.946 --> 00:43:38.415 line:5% [Jennifer] Chloe is living in, like, Delululand. 812 00:43:38.515 --> 00:43:40.851 line:5% She's moving to another country for the wrong man. 813 00:43:40.951 --> 00:43:42.953 line:5% He is not the one. 814 00:43:43.053 --> 00:43:45.756 She thinks I'm coming just to say bye and to wish her luck, 815 00:43:45.856 --> 00:43:48.959 but I'm really coming to tell her not to move there. 816 00:43:53.030 --> 00:43:57.334 ♪ I see the clouds Breaking over my head ♪ 817 00:43:57.434 --> 00:44:00.037 ♪ Ground shaking Under my feet ♪ 818 00:44:00.137 --> 00:44:03.941 [Jennifer] Aruba is where you go to have fun on vacation, 819 00:44:04.041 --> 00:44:06.477 not where you move to be with someone. 820 00:44:06.577 --> 00:44:07.778 [doorbell rings] 821 00:44:07.878 --> 00:44:10.381 [Jennifer] I don't wanna break her heart, 822 00:44:10.481 --> 00:44:12.316 but I think she's making a mistake. 823 00:44:16.020 --> 00:44:18.155 [both] Hey! 824 00:44:18.255 --> 00:44:19.456 [Chloe] How are you? 825 00:44:19.556 --> 00:44:21.725 -[Jennifer] Good to see you. -[Chloe] You too. 826 00:44:21.825 --> 00:44:23.894 -My God, I missed you. -[Jennifer] It's so cold. 827 00:44:23.994 --> 00:44:25.663 [Chloe] I know. It's freezing. 828 00:44:25.763 --> 00:44:27.131 Alright, you don't really have to wipe your feet. 829 00:44:27.231 --> 00:44:28.332 It's fine. 830 00:44:28.432 --> 00:44:30.901 Jen's husband grew up on the same street as Jonathan. 831 00:44:31.001 --> 00:44:33.504 And they met when Jen was on vacation. 832 00:44:33.604 --> 00:44:35.472 Darren moved to the States about a year ago, 833 00:44:35.572 --> 00:44:37.708 and they just got married. 834 00:44:37.808 --> 00:44:40.377 You want a snack, or, like, tea, or something? 835 00:44:40.477 --> 00:44:41.812 Yeah, I'll take some tea. 836 00:44:41.912 --> 00:44:44.515 [Chloe] I met Jen before they moved to the States. 837 00:44:44.615 --> 00:44:47.084 Jen is, like, my friendship mom. 838 00:44:47.184 --> 00:44:49.953 She'll tell me whether I'm insane or I'm not insane, 839 00:44:50.054 --> 00:44:52.122 but I don't always want Jen's advice, 840 00:44:52.222 --> 00:44:54.792 'cause 99% of the time, she's probably right, 841 00:44:54.892 --> 00:44:57.995 and that's what I try to avoid at all costs. 842 00:44:58.095 --> 00:44:59.063 How are you? 843 00:44:59.163 --> 00:45:00.497 -[Jennifer] Good. -Yeah? 844 00:45:00.597 --> 00:45:02.833 -Drive was a little long. -[Chloe] How long is it? 845 00:45:02.933 --> 00:45:05.636 -Four and a half hours. -[Chloe] Oh, gosh. 846 00:45:05.736 --> 00:45:09.173 So I know I was coming to say goodbye... 847 00:45:09.273 --> 00:45:12.409 but I really came to try to... 848 00:45:12.509 --> 00:45:14.178 talk to you. 849 00:45:14.278 --> 00:45:16.947 There is so much more to life than Aruba, 850 00:45:17.047 --> 00:45:19.550 which I love as a vacation home. 851 00:45:21.018 --> 00:45:22.720 But to live there is 852 00:45:22.820 --> 00:45:25.222 a completely different commitment. 853 00:45:25.322 --> 00:45:28.992 I need to explain to you how crazy it is there 854 00:45:29.093 --> 00:45:31.462 with how the culture is. 855 00:45:31.562 --> 00:45:34.098 There's just thousands of these girls that literally 856 00:45:34.198 --> 00:45:36.934 come to Aruba for one reason, and that is to party 857 00:45:37.034 --> 00:45:39.303 and hook up with the locals. 858 00:45:39.403 --> 00:45:41.171 I've been going there for such a long time. 859 00:45:41.271 --> 00:45:43.474 I've seen it so many times, 860 00:45:43.574 --> 00:45:45.042 and I think you're making a mistake. 861 00:45:47.344 --> 00:45:49.947 I'm so worried that you are 862 00:45:50.047 --> 00:45:52.950 literally leaving your life here for him, 863 00:45:53.050 --> 00:45:54.118 and the only thing that he's shown 864 00:45:54.218 --> 00:45:56.587 is that he's not even faithful to you. 865 00:46:01.191 --> 00:46:04.661 After a few months of Jonathan and I being together, 866 00:46:04.762 --> 00:46:07.064 I thought we were exclusive. 867 00:46:07.164 --> 00:46:09.199 We were going to be boyfriend and girlfriend. 868 00:46:09.299 --> 00:46:13.637 And then Jonathan was on a boy's trip to Florida. 869 00:46:13.737 --> 00:46:17.641 One day, I'm on social media, and I see that he was actually 870 00:46:17.741 --> 00:46:22.179 taking another girl on a trip to Florida for her birthday. 871 00:46:25.249 --> 00:46:27.284 [Chloe] You know, we talked about it. 872 00:46:27.384 --> 00:46:31.855 He told me he was in an open relationship, 873 00:46:31.955 --> 00:46:34.792 quote, unquote, with the girl. 874 00:46:34.892 --> 00:46:36.794 And I just said, "I honestly don't understand it, 875 00:46:36.894 --> 00:46:40.531 'cause that's not how I do things." 876 00:46:40.631 --> 00:46:42.466 He just said, like, "I really do want this to work. 877 00:46:42.566 --> 00:46:44.434 I made a mistake." 878 00:46:44.535 --> 00:46:46.436 It's just -- it seems like he definitely jumps 879 00:46:46.537 --> 00:46:49.540 from females. He's got a long history. 880 00:46:49.640 --> 00:46:52.142 When you say it like that, it sounds bad. 881 00:46:52.242 --> 00:46:54.478 -It is bad. -It was bad. 882 00:46:56.713 --> 00:46:57.981 [Jennifer] And that's why I worry, 883 00:46:58.081 --> 00:47:01.051 because now you're literally six months later, 884 00:47:01.151 --> 00:47:02.986 making the decision to go live with him. 885 00:47:03.086 --> 00:47:06.557 I am worried that it's a trend given the lifestyle 886 00:47:06.657 --> 00:47:07.891 and the culture there. 887 00:47:07.991 --> 00:47:11.061 Having a husband that also worked in tourism that got 888 00:47:11.161 --> 00:47:14.131 constantly hit on, it never stopped. 889 00:47:14.231 --> 00:47:17.935 And guys like Johnny constantly go with these girls. 890 00:47:18.035 --> 00:47:20.237 Like, what do they say about, like, 891 00:47:20.337 --> 00:47:21.205 "Leopard doesn't 892 00:47:21.305 --> 00:47:22.272 change their spots?" 893 00:47:24.174 --> 00:47:26.844 I think Chloe does see successful relationships. 894 00:47:26.944 --> 00:47:28.879 Darren and I, for example, but our situation is 895 00:47:28.979 --> 00:47:31.782 a little bit different, he left Aruba. 896 00:47:31.882 --> 00:47:35.152 In Aruba, these guys know how to get away with cheating. 897 00:47:35.252 --> 00:47:37.454 My husband, he saw these things happen all the time. 898 00:47:37.554 --> 00:47:39.990 The guys on the boat all have each other's back. 899 00:47:40.090 --> 00:47:42.526 I think Johnny knows that he can get away with it 900 00:47:42.626 --> 00:47:44.628 if he wants to. He's already done it before. 901 00:47:44.728 --> 00:47:45.829 Yes, he's gotten caught. 902 00:47:45.929 --> 00:47:48.298 That doesn't necessarily mean he won't do it again. 903 00:47:48.398 --> 00:47:50.100 He may just get more clever about it. 904 00:47:51.969 --> 00:47:54.204 [Chloe] I know you came here 905 00:47:54.304 --> 00:47:56.273 to stop me, in a sense. 906 00:47:56.373 --> 00:48:00.244 -I did. -But I'm going through with it, 907 00:48:00.344 --> 00:48:03.146 I believe in him. 908 00:48:03.247 --> 00:48:05.616 Whether it's my insanity 909 00:48:05.716 --> 00:48:09.419 or the fact that I'm just delusional, 910 00:48:09.519 --> 00:48:12.823 I really do feel this is going to work out. 911 00:48:18.662 --> 00:48:20.597 [upbeat music playing] 912 00:48:35.078 --> 00:48:36.413 line:5% [Sumit] Uh-oh, trouble. 913 00:48:38.282 --> 00:48:39.783 [grunts] 914 00:48:41.184 --> 00:48:44.521 line:5% -How are you? -Hello! 915 00:48:44.621 --> 00:48:47.891 line:5% [Jenny] Look how straight your hair is, oh my God. 916 00:48:49.893 --> 00:48:52.329 [Sumit] We are moving in with my family tomorrow, 917 00:48:52.429 --> 00:48:54.798 and today we are meeting my brother Amit 918 00:48:54.898 --> 00:48:57.267 and my sister-in-law Shree. 919 00:48:57.367 --> 00:49:00.103 line:5% So we can buy some stuff for the house. 920 00:49:04.541 --> 00:49:06.610 -[Jenny] OK, OK, see you later, bye! -[Shree] Bye! 921 00:49:08.278 --> 00:49:10.981 I have a great relationship with Amit and Shree. 922 00:49:11.081 --> 00:49:13.717 We get along really well. 923 00:49:13.817 --> 00:49:15.419 Oh, this is the shop. 924 00:49:15.519 --> 00:49:16.653 -We just missed it. -This shop? 925 00:49:16.753 --> 00:49:18.422 This shop, yeah. 926 00:49:18.522 --> 00:49:20.624 [Jenny] They've been living together with the family 927 00:49:20.724 --> 00:49:22.492 since they got married. 928 00:49:22.592 --> 00:49:25.929 And I know that there's been some problems lately 929 00:49:26.029 --> 00:49:27.597 between mom and Shree. 930 00:49:27.698 --> 00:49:32.102 So I'm gonna get the -- the 411 on that. 931 00:49:32.202 --> 00:49:34.638 So what do you think of these pots and pans? 932 00:49:34.738 --> 00:49:36.540 This looks good for chai, right? 933 00:49:36.640 --> 00:49:39.409 -But this little small. -Too small, OK. 934 00:49:39.509 --> 00:49:41.111 -We need a bigger size -Yeah, there's a lot of us there. 935 00:49:41.211 --> 00:49:42.479 [Shree] Yeah, six people. 936 00:50:02.199 --> 00:50:05.268 line:5% I think I've only ever made chai for four people. 937 00:50:05.369 --> 00:50:07.471 line:5% -That's the max. -That's the max. 938 00:50:30.827 --> 00:50:32.863 line:5% Yeah, we've been talking, 939 00:50:32.963 --> 00:50:34.164 line:5% of course. -[Shree] Hm, OK. 940 00:50:34.264 --> 00:50:37.200 But I don't think he's telling me everything. 941 00:50:37.300 --> 00:50:39.569 I think he doesn't want to scare me. 942 00:50:39.669 --> 00:50:41.938 So you need to, kind of, fill me in 943 00:50:42.039 --> 00:50:43.407 on what to expect. 944 00:50:44.808 --> 00:50:46.643 So there are a lot of expectations 945 00:50:46.743 --> 00:50:48.245 from the daughter-in-law. 946 00:50:48.345 --> 00:50:51.114 You know, you have to be at certain places, 947 00:50:51.214 --> 00:50:53.984 you have to be wearing certain things 948 00:50:54.084 --> 00:50:57.254 at certain places, and you have to behave a certain way. 949 00:51:00.123 --> 00:51:01.925 [chill music playing] 950 00:51:03.460 --> 00:51:05.028 [Sumit] This guy is getting heavy. 951 00:51:05.128 --> 00:51:06.496 [Amit] He's tired. 952 00:51:08.865 --> 00:51:10.033 line:5% [Sumit chuckles] 953 00:51:13.403 --> 00:51:16.973 I'm so happy that finally my dream is coming true. 954 00:51:17.074 --> 00:51:20.677 -Like, we all can live together. -I'm afraid. 955 00:51:20.777 --> 00:51:22.612 You're afraid? 956 00:51:22.712 --> 00:51:24.014 [Amit] Maybe I'm afraid for my wife. 957 00:51:24.114 --> 00:51:26.983 Like, once we'll start living together, 958 00:51:27.084 --> 00:51:29.453 line:5% then the responsibility will be double. 959 00:51:31.521 --> 00:51:34.424 line:5% What I think is will be double for her. 960 00:51:34.524 --> 00:51:37.994 line:5% Jenny wakes up late. She doesn't cook food. 961 00:51:38.095 --> 00:51:41.264 Like, you spent five years together, like, 962 00:51:41.364 --> 00:51:43.700 living by your own way. 963 00:51:43.800 --> 00:51:45.902 But now the things are different. 964 00:51:46.002 --> 00:51:48.038 With family comes the responsibility. 965 00:51:53.276 --> 00:51:55.879 line:5% I don't want my wife only the one who will be doing 966 00:51:55.979 --> 00:51:57.247 each and everything. 967 00:52:00.117 --> 00:52:02.886 [Sumit] I understand my brother's concern, 968 00:52:02.986 --> 00:52:04.988 but he also need to understand 969 00:52:05.088 --> 00:52:07.691 it's gonna be very difficult and different for Jenny. 970 00:52:20.570 --> 00:52:22.672 [Jenny] You know how I see it, Shree? 971 00:52:22.772 --> 00:52:24.474 Mom... 972 00:52:24.574 --> 00:52:26.209 this is her way of life, 973 00:52:26.309 --> 00:52:27.978 this is what she's always been doing. 974 00:52:28.078 --> 00:52:31.882 She can't expect us to be there always cleaning and cooking, 975 00:52:31.982 --> 00:52:33.416 because that's her thing. 976 00:52:33.517 --> 00:52:36.052 -That's what she likes to do. -Exactly. 977 00:52:36.153 --> 00:52:39.222 line:5% The thing is, this is where we have little mismatch things. 978 00:53:12.189 --> 00:53:14.691 Then I said, "Fine, if you think 979 00:53:14.791 --> 00:53:16.626 that I have not done anything, 980 00:53:16.726 --> 00:53:20.130 then I'll be not doing anything from today onwards." 981 00:53:20.230 --> 00:53:21.131 Oh, God. 982 00:53:21.231 --> 00:53:24.034 Like, what have I gotten myself into? 983 00:53:24.134 --> 00:53:25.368 -[Shree chuckles] -[Jenny] Oh, no. 984 00:53:25.468 --> 00:53:27.671 See, I don't want to scare you. 985 00:53:27.771 --> 00:53:29.706 -You are scaring me. -[Shree laughs] 986 00:53:29.806 --> 00:53:34.044 But I'm giving you a very, very reality picture. 987 00:53:34.144 --> 00:53:35.679 line:5% [Sumit speaking] 988 00:53:38.915 --> 00:53:40.217 line:5% [Amit] They are not. 989 00:53:40.317 --> 00:53:43.887 line:5% Mom just said, "And you have never done anything for us." 990 00:53:43.987 --> 00:53:47.224 -Oh, like, now? -[Amit] And Shree... 991 00:53:47.324 --> 00:53:49.359 You are not the favorite one, huh? 992 00:53:49.459 --> 00:53:53.930 Things have changed. Now you are the most loved 993 00:53:54.030 --> 00:53:56.666 son and daughter-in-law. 994 00:53:56.766 --> 00:53:59.035 And now the dynamics will be different 995 00:53:59.135 --> 00:54:01.871 once you guys move in together. 996 00:54:01.972 --> 00:54:06.276 And let's see who will be the favorite -- 997 00:54:06.376 --> 00:54:07.911 favorite daughter-in-law. 998 00:54:09.246 --> 00:54:10.780 line:5% [Sumit speaking] 999 00:55:01.097 --> 00:55:03.066 line:5% 70,000 is a lot of money! 1000 00:55:03.166 --> 00:55:05.969 I would love to not have to focus so much 1001 00:55:06.069 --> 00:55:07.704 on money, money, money. 1002 00:55:07.804 --> 00:55:10.006 line:5% We're on the brink of divorce. 1003 00:55:19.949 --> 00:55:21.918 ♪ Whoa ♪ 1004 00:55:26.990 --> 00:55:28.658 ♪ Take a little ride with me ♪ 1005 00:55:28.758 --> 00:55:31.594 ♪ Come on, Take a little ride with me ♪ 1006 00:55:31.695 --> 00:55:32.729 [car dealer] You're the original owner? 1007 00:55:32.829 --> 00:55:33.797 -[Anthony] Yeah. -[Manon] Yes. 1008 00:55:33.897 --> 00:55:35.065 [car dealer] Why are you guys selling the car? 1009 00:55:35.165 --> 00:55:36.833 -[Anthony] Moving to France. -[car dealer] OK. 1010 00:55:38.435 --> 00:55:43.740 ♪ Oh, baby, You take a look at me now ♪ 1011 00:55:43.840 --> 00:55:45.608 ♪ Yeah ♪ 1012 00:55:45.709 --> 00:55:47.210 Do you know what your payoff is? 1013 00:55:47.310 --> 00:55:49.045 -$27,000. -Yeah. 1014 00:55:49.145 --> 00:55:50.914 [car dealer] OK, let me book it out real quick. 1015 00:55:53.350 --> 00:55:55.218 We put our house on the market a week ago. 1016 00:55:55.318 --> 00:55:57.287 line:5% And the house is actually already sold. 1017 00:55:57.387 --> 00:55:58.288 line:5% OK, so, as you know, 1018 00:55:58.388 --> 00:56:00.290 line:5% we accepted the offer. We took it all cash. 1019 00:56:00.390 --> 00:56:01.624 line:5% -[Manon] Yeah. -[Kelly] $810. 1020 00:56:01.725 --> 00:56:05.729 line:5% So the net proceeds we have right now is $88,778. 1021 00:56:05.829 --> 00:56:07.397 line:5% But we have two weeks that you have to be out 1022 00:56:07.497 --> 00:56:09.099 line:5% of the house. So just prep yourself. 1023 00:56:09.199 --> 00:56:10.467 Wow. 1024 00:56:10.567 --> 00:56:12.769 -And now we have two weeks... -Nothing is ready yet. 1025 00:56:12.869 --> 00:56:15.472 ...to get out of our house, pack all of our belongings, 1026 00:56:15.572 --> 00:56:17.273 make sure we have all of our important paperwork. 1027 00:56:17.374 --> 00:56:19.242 Sell everything, get rid of everything in two weeks. 1028 00:56:27.183 --> 00:56:30.587 I got auction fee, I got detail, I gotta put two tires on, 1029 00:56:30.687 --> 00:56:32.021 and then we gotta make a little bit of money. 1030 00:56:32.122 --> 00:56:34.991 So the number I'd be at is probably right around 15 grand. 1031 00:56:36.993 --> 00:56:40.397 line:5% [Manon] Oh, my Lord, 15K? 1032 00:56:40.497 --> 00:56:42.999 line:5% [Anthony] Whoa, it's something to just take a step back 1033 00:56:43.099 --> 00:56:44.134 line:5% and to consider. 1034 00:56:44.234 --> 00:56:45.902 line:5% I'm just trying to help you out the best we can. 1035 00:56:46.002 --> 00:56:47.003 Oh, no, no, no, for sure. Thank you. 1036 00:56:47.103 --> 00:56:48.772 -I appreciate it. -We're looking at our options. 1037 00:56:51.608 --> 00:56:52.942 line:5% Sorry about the news. 1038 00:56:53.042 --> 00:56:54.611 line:5% Wish it could have been better. 1039 00:56:54.711 --> 00:56:57.013 line:5% It's OK. It is what it is, right? 1040 00:56:57.113 --> 00:56:58.648 line:5% [Manon] OK, I'm gonna go to bed and cry. 1041 00:56:58.748 --> 00:56:59.716 Thanks. 1042 00:57:02.786 --> 00:57:06.923 I have to lose $12,000 out of my own money 1043 00:57:07.023 --> 00:57:09.492 to get rid of a car? That seems like [bleep] insane. 1044 00:57:11.094 --> 00:57:17.167 Fifteen [bleep] K, like, no [bleep] way, like, no. 1045 00:57:17.267 --> 00:57:18.968 Well, I mean, it's -- it's one option. 1046 00:57:19.068 --> 00:57:21.438 No, but I have to move to France and go there broke? 1047 00:57:21.538 --> 00:57:23.973 You think the amount of money we have in our account 1048 00:57:24.073 --> 00:57:26.676 after selling our house means we're broke? 1049 00:57:26.776 --> 00:57:28.645 We'd be broke, yeah, there, 1050 00:57:28.745 --> 00:57:30.413 because there's nothing coming in. 1051 00:57:30.513 --> 00:57:31.681 It's only coming out. 1052 00:57:31.781 --> 00:57:34.017 $70,000 is a lot of money! Between that -- 1053 00:57:34.117 --> 00:57:37.287 line:5% That money is not even enough for a down payment in France. 1054 00:57:39.856 --> 00:57:41.858 I'm not going to rent anymore. 1055 00:57:41.958 --> 00:57:44.561 I'm not going to have a [bleep] house that's way 1056 00:57:44.661 --> 00:57:48.498 smaller or something. -We are not going there broke. 1057 00:57:48.598 --> 00:57:51.634 And we're not going there with the expectation 1058 00:57:51.734 --> 00:57:53.736 of not working either. 1059 00:57:56.139 --> 00:57:59.909 I know this move isn't easy for Manon, and financially, 1060 00:58:00.009 --> 00:58:01.344 we're gonna have to take a hit for a while, 1061 00:58:01.444 --> 00:58:03.346 but we're gonna be OK. 1062 00:58:03.446 --> 00:58:06.316 We'll be staying with your parents, not paying rent. 1063 00:58:06.416 --> 00:58:08.318 You'll still be working part time 1064 00:58:08.418 --> 00:58:09.986 with your marketing company, 1065 00:58:10.086 --> 00:58:11.688 and as soon as my French gets better, 1066 00:58:11.788 --> 00:58:13.490 I can get a job in security 1067 00:58:13.590 --> 00:58:16.025 or in some field where they're open 1068 00:58:16.125 --> 00:58:18.361 to having someone that's either still learning 1069 00:58:18.461 --> 00:58:21.231 or whatever level I'll be at. 1070 00:58:21.331 --> 00:58:23.700 -You're delulu. -I'm motivated. 1071 00:58:23.800 --> 00:58:25.235 -[Manon] Delulu. -It's different. 1072 00:58:25.335 --> 00:58:26.669 Delusional. 1073 00:58:30.006 --> 00:58:33.576 Stop focusing so much on we need this amount 1074 00:58:33.676 --> 00:58:35.445 or else we're broke and it's not gonna work. 1075 00:58:35.545 --> 00:58:37.814 Because, Anthony, every day as a kid, 1076 00:58:37.914 --> 00:58:39.082 I see my dad and my mom 1077 00:58:39.182 --> 00:58:41.217 stressing because we don't have enough money. 1078 00:58:41.317 --> 00:58:44.053 And then I lived like [bleep] 1079 00:58:44.153 --> 00:58:47.524 for years in LA trying to make it, OK? 1080 00:58:47.624 --> 00:58:50.994 I was homeless. I had nothing under my name. 1081 00:58:51.094 --> 00:58:52.061 Nothing. 1082 00:58:52.161 --> 00:58:53.630 I'm not just a materialistic bitch 1083 00:58:53.730 --> 00:58:57.066 who wants, like, fancy bags and, like, a fancy house. 1084 00:58:57.166 --> 00:58:59.802 No, I struggled to get where I'm at today. 1085 00:58:59.903 --> 00:59:03.406 So I'm not going to do 10 steps backward. 1086 00:59:03.506 --> 00:59:05.808 I wanna enjoy life. 1087 00:59:05.909 --> 00:59:08.845 But not everyone has the same definition 1088 00:59:08.945 --> 00:59:11.047 of what brings them happiness. 1089 00:59:13.449 --> 00:59:16.386 I would love to not have to focus so much 1090 00:59:16.486 --> 00:59:18.121 on money, money, money. 1091 00:59:18.221 --> 00:59:20.823 Maybe we don't need this fancier house 1092 00:59:20.924 --> 00:59:22.625 with the pool and the jacuzzi. 1093 00:59:22.725 --> 00:59:25.261 Why is there this constant push for more? 1094 00:59:25.361 --> 00:59:27.931 If you make enough to get by and you're happy 1095 00:59:28.031 --> 00:59:31.100 with your life, what is wrong with that? 1096 00:59:31.200 --> 00:59:34.671 My version of happiness is spending time with you, 1097 00:59:34.771 --> 00:59:37.273 spending time with Ben, the roof over our head, 1098 00:59:37.373 --> 00:59:38.575 being able to pay our bills. 1099 00:59:38.675 --> 00:59:40.810 That's why we are going completely apart, 1100 00:59:40.910 --> 00:59:44.047 because what brings you happiness is not the same as me. 1101 00:59:44.147 --> 00:59:45.648 line:5% And we have, actually, 1102 00:59:45.748 --> 00:59:47.850 line:5% very different ways of seeing life now. 1103 00:59:51.888 --> 00:59:55.458 Anthony, he has a certain standard of, like, 1104 00:59:55.558 --> 00:59:57.827 "As long as I have a roof above my head 1105 00:59:57.927 --> 01:00:01.698 and food at the table and I'm surviving, I'm happy." 1106 01:00:01.798 --> 01:00:03.866 Me, it's actually the opposite. 1107 01:00:03.967 --> 01:00:05.768 Makes me feel I'm in danger. 1108 01:00:05.868 --> 01:00:08.204 line:5% It's being extra comfortable that makes me feel safe. 1109 01:00:17.680 --> 01:00:21.784 You wanting more has left me having an amazing relationship 1110 01:00:21.884 --> 01:00:24.420 with Ben, you resenting me for it. 1111 01:00:24.520 --> 01:00:27.056 It has caused mental health issues for yourself 1112 01:00:27.156 --> 01:00:29.025 because of how overworked and stressed you are 1113 01:00:29.125 --> 01:00:32.161 to the point where we're on the brink of divorce. 1114 01:00:32.261 --> 01:00:33.429 So you know what? 1115 01:00:33.529 --> 01:00:35.331 line:5% I'm gonna [bleep] say it, like... 1116 01:00:40.803 --> 01:00:43.239 Why do I always have to compromise what I want, 1117 01:00:43.339 --> 01:00:45.475 who I am, and stuff? Why? 1118 01:00:45.575 --> 01:00:50.246 Because your focus on that dream is why we're here. 1119 01:00:50.346 --> 01:00:53.449 I'm sorry if I'm someone who's driven in life. 1120 01:00:53.549 --> 01:00:57.253 You can be driven, but you can still focus on your family, 100% 1121 01:00:57.353 --> 01:00:59.656 Yeah, that's why I'm moving there and that's why 1122 01:00:59.756 --> 01:01:02.959 I'm changing all of myself and all of my life for us. 1123 01:01:05.495 --> 01:01:09.766 We need some serenity now and really think 1124 01:01:09.866 --> 01:01:12.769 about why we're moving to France 1125 01:01:12.869 --> 01:01:16.239 because all of this focus on just finances 1126 01:01:16.339 --> 01:01:17.707 and finances and finances, 1127 01:01:17.807 --> 01:01:20.243 it is like just tearing us apart. 1128 01:01:23.880 --> 01:01:25.048 OK. 1129 01:01:29.252 --> 01:01:32.422 [Anthony] For her to say we're not compatible, it is very hurtful. 1130 01:01:32.522 --> 01:01:34.257 And to hear her say those things, 1131 01:01:34.357 --> 01:01:36.526 and not just once, but multiple times, 1132 01:01:36.626 --> 01:01:39.228 every single time it's taken a toll. 1133 01:01:39.328 --> 01:01:42.832 But it is very important for me to fight for our marriage. 1134 01:01:42.932 --> 01:01:46.469 She is easily the best thing that's happened in my life. 1135 01:01:46.569 --> 01:01:50.206 Moving to France is very drastic, 1136 01:01:50.306 --> 01:01:55.478 and Manon already has a lot of skepticism towards this move. 1137 01:01:55.578 --> 01:01:58.748 If this Hail Mary pass doesn't work out, 1138 01:01:58.848 --> 01:02:03.386 I have no idea what the future holds for us. 1139 01:02:09.726 --> 01:02:10.927 line:5% I'm trying to get this wedding done, 1140 01:02:11.027 --> 01:02:13.162 line:5% and then I'm trying to do the hotel. 1141 01:02:13.262 --> 01:02:15.531 line:5% Yeah, but it's gonna take a lot of money. 1142 01:02:15.631 --> 01:02:18.167 -I know. -[Jim] Does Madelein know 1143 01:02:18.267 --> 01:02:19.969 that you're in debt? 1144 01:02:20.069 --> 01:02:22.939 [Luke] It is finally sinking in that this is 1145 01:02:23.039 --> 01:02:25.742 the highest stakes gamble that I ever made. 1146 01:02:25.842 --> 01:02:29.011 -I mean, I -- I'm not stupid. -But you do stupid things. 1147 01:02:34.717 --> 01:02:36.919 [chill beats playing] 1148 01:02:50.900 --> 01:02:52.602 line:5% You want it to be classy. 1149 01:02:52.702 --> 01:02:55.338 line:5% You know, you don't wanna look like a pimp on your wedding. 1150 01:02:55.438 --> 01:02:57.840 -OK. -You wanna look smart. 1151 01:02:57.940 --> 01:03:00.977 Madelein hated the shoes that I got for the wedding. 1152 01:03:01.077 --> 01:03:03.780 -Is this pimpy? -No, no, that's classy. 1153 01:03:03.880 --> 01:03:07.884 So today, I've asked my dad to tag along to go shop 1154 01:03:07.984 --> 01:03:09.786 for a new pair. 1155 01:03:09.886 --> 01:03:12.054 -I wanted to wear these ones. -[Jim] Those are nice! 1156 01:03:12.155 --> 01:03:14.123 -That's the perfect color. -[Luke] It's brown. 1157 01:03:14.223 --> 01:03:16.092 Madelein hates brown. 1158 01:03:16.192 --> 01:03:17.927 [chuckles] 1159 01:03:18.027 --> 01:03:19.128 She texted me. 1160 01:03:19.228 --> 01:03:21.030 She said, "You have to understand that shoes 1161 01:03:21.130 --> 01:03:25.134 "can't be brown, that color is old people's, 1162 01:03:25.234 --> 01:03:28.437 and if you wear brown-colored shoes, I won't marry you." 1163 01:03:28.538 --> 01:03:29.639 So she's saying I'm old now, then. 1164 01:03:29.739 --> 01:03:30.907 [Luke] Yeah. 1165 01:03:31.007 --> 01:03:33.943 "I hate its color, and you need to hate them, too," 1166 01:03:34.043 --> 01:03:36.012 is what she texted me. 1167 01:03:36.112 --> 01:03:39.182 Yeah, but at the same time, you don't want her to walk 1168 01:03:39.282 --> 01:03:40.283 all over you right now. 1169 01:03:40.383 --> 01:03:41.717 You've got to stand your ground. 1170 01:03:41.818 --> 01:03:42.752 [Luke chuckles] 1171 01:03:42.852 --> 01:03:44.420 Otherwise, your nuts will be gone. 1172 01:03:44.520 --> 01:03:45.855 Right. 1173 01:03:45.955 --> 01:03:49.458 I don't want to ruin her day over a pair of shoes. 1174 01:03:49.559 --> 01:03:52.195 Well, that's a problem if the pair of shoes is gonna 1175 01:03:52.295 --> 01:03:53.162 ruin the wedding. 1176 01:03:53.262 --> 01:03:54.163 [Luke chuckles] 1177 01:03:54.263 --> 01:03:56.265 [Jim] Holy crap. 1178 01:03:56.365 --> 01:03:59.869 My dad has always been a really big role model for me. 1179 01:03:59.969 --> 01:04:01.304 He runs his own business. 1180 01:04:01.404 --> 01:04:04.507 He makes very good life decisions. 1181 01:04:04.607 --> 01:04:08.110 I ask my dad for advice quite often, actually. 1182 01:04:08.211 --> 01:04:10.680 He is my best friend. We talk all the time. 1183 01:04:12.849 --> 01:04:13.916 I don't get it. 1184 01:04:15.518 --> 01:04:18.321 You just bought a nice pair of shoes for the wedding, 1185 01:04:18.421 --> 01:04:20.756 and now you gotta buy another pair. 1186 01:04:20.857 --> 01:04:23.426 You got bills to pay when we get down there. 1187 01:04:23.526 --> 01:04:25.428 You don't have to spend a fortune 1188 01:04:25.528 --> 01:04:27.964 for it to be a nice day. -Yeah. 1189 01:04:29.198 --> 01:04:32.068 You got the rest of your life with her. 1190 01:04:32.168 --> 01:04:35.905 And you try and save as much as you can for the future. 1191 01:04:36.005 --> 01:04:38.374 I'm just -- I'm trying to get this wedding done and then 1192 01:04:38.474 --> 01:04:40.810 I'm trying to do the hotel. 1193 01:04:40.910 --> 01:04:44.413 That's, like, the only things I care about right now. 1194 01:04:44.513 --> 01:04:46.582 Yeah, but it's gonna take a lot of money. 1195 01:04:46.682 --> 01:04:48.351 Trust me, I know. 1196 01:04:48.451 --> 01:04:49.585 I know. 1197 01:04:49.685 --> 01:04:53.522 I want to provide for Madelein, and since I'm passionate 1198 01:04:53.623 --> 01:04:56.893 about investing, I had the chance to purchase 1199 01:04:56.993 --> 01:04:59.762 a property two hours outside of Medellin, 1200 01:04:59.862 --> 01:05:04.967 and I plan to build a high-end, luxurious resort, 1201 01:05:05.067 --> 01:05:08.704 which I'm wholeheartedly planning to become 1202 01:05:08.804 --> 01:05:10.973 my primary source of income. 1203 01:05:11.073 --> 01:05:13.175 How's your jewelry stuff coming along? 1204 01:05:13.276 --> 01:05:15.344 You managed to sell any of that, and your sunglasses? 1205 01:05:15.444 --> 01:05:17.880 Yeah, I mean -- I mean, a couple, but I'll be honest, 1206 01:05:17.980 --> 01:05:20.182 like, I haven't done any marketing, that costs money. 1207 01:05:20.283 --> 01:05:23.319 And with me leaving my job and then the hotel thing, 1208 01:05:23.419 --> 01:05:27.323 I just allocated funds towards the hotel and the designs 1209 01:05:27.423 --> 01:05:28.824 to try and get that up and running. 1210 01:05:28.925 --> 01:05:29.926 You see, that's where you're going wrong. 1211 01:05:30.026 --> 01:05:31.527 -Yeah, I mean, I... -No, you are! 1212 01:05:31.627 --> 01:05:33.162 [Luke] OK. 1213 01:05:33.262 --> 01:05:35.231 [Jim] Everything's like a knee jerk reaction for you, 1214 01:05:35.331 --> 01:05:37.033 and you go off on tangents. 1215 01:05:37.133 --> 01:05:38.668 You're in quite a lot of debt. 1216 01:05:38.768 --> 01:05:41.070 You spent a fortune on that jewelry 1217 01:05:41.170 --> 01:05:42.538 and the glasses, 1218 01:05:42.638 --> 01:05:44.307 and now you're putting that on the back burner 1219 01:05:44.407 --> 01:05:47.043 to do another idea. 1220 01:05:47.143 --> 01:05:49.912 But this -- this property 1221 01:05:50.012 --> 01:05:51.981 wouldn't have been on the market for long, 1222 01:05:52.081 --> 01:05:54.817 and I just needed to do what I needed to do. 1223 01:05:54.917 --> 01:05:56.886 I went to school for mining engineering. 1224 01:05:56.986 --> 01:05:59.922 I went to school for geology, and I got an MBA in business. 1225 01:06:00.022 --> 01:06:03.392 -I mean, I'm not stupid, right? -But you do stupid things. 1226 01:06:03.492 --> 01:06:04.460 OK, fine. 1227 01:06:04.560 --> 01:06:07.129 Yeah, I took a risk, and it is what it is. 1228 01:06:07.229 --> 01:06:09.765 I mean, I love to see people take risks, 1229 01:06:09.865 --> 01:06:11.434 but educated risks. 1230 01:06:11.534 --> 01:06:13.703 -[Luke] Yeah. -Calculated risks. 1231 01:06:15.137 --> 01:06:19.008 Luke comes to for advice, but it's not that he's actually 1232 01:06:19.108 --> 01:06:20.543 wanted my advice. 1233 01:06:20.643 --> 01:06:23.479 He wants me to back him up on his decisions 1234 01:06:23.579 --> 01:06:26.048 rather than give him the negatives. 1235 01:06:26.148 --> 01:06:28.918 Even though Luke went to business school, 1236 01:06:29.018 --> 01:06:33.222 I sometimes question what they actually taught him, 1237 01:06:33.322 --> 01:06:36.926 because he lets money roll through his fingers 1238 01:06:37.026 --> 01:06:38.527 like there's no tomorrow. 1239 01:06:38.627 --> 01:06:42.665 He's just a very impulsive person with everything. 1240 01:06:42.765 --> 01:06:46.068 Now, does Madelein know that you're in debt? 1241 01:06:47.370 --> 01:06:48.971 She's aware of all the debt. 1242 01:06:50.606 --> 01:06:54.110 It is what it is, and we're -- and we're working through it. 1243 01:06:54.210 --> 01:06:55.544 [Jim] The main thing you've got to worry about 1244 01:06:55.644 --> 01:06:57.313 is not the business, not the hotel, 1245 01:06:57.413 --> 01:06:58.748 not this, not that. 1246 01:06:58.848 --> 01:07:00.449 It's Madelein. 1247 01:07:00.549 --> 01:07:02.118 She's gonna be your wife soon. 1248 01:07:02.218 --> 01:07:06.322 You know, she looks at you as her knight in shining armor. 1249 01:07:06.422 --> 01:07:07.990 I mean, has that really sunk in? 1250 01:07:08.090 --> 01:07:09.191 -[Luke] Yeah. -Has it? 1251 01:07:09.291 --> 01:07:10.559 [Luke] Yeah. 1252 01:07:10.659 --> 01:07:13.863 That's why I'm putting almost all my eggs in this basket, 1253 01:07:13.963 --> 01:07:17.600 so I can be there, can be with the person that I love. 1254 01:07:17.700 --> 01:07:19.602 You know, you called me the second day you were 1255 01:07:19.702 --> 01:07:21.203 in Colombia, two years ago. 1256 01:07:23.305 --> 01:07:26.208 "I want you to speak to the girl I'm gonna marry." 1257 01:07:28.811 --> 01:07:30.413 -Which was wonderful. -Yeah. 1258 01:07:30.513 --> 01:07:31.847 [Jim] You saw it then. 1259 01:07:31.947 --> 01:07:34.750 Twenty-four hours later, you knew that she was the one. 1260 01:07:36.318 --> 01:07:37.653 I just hope she can do you right, 1261 01:07:37.753 --> 01:07:39.622 and you do her right. 1262 01:07:39.722 --> 01:07:42.658 Because I'm worried about you and your future. 1263 01:07:42.758 --> 01:07:44.393 -I mean, we're blood. -Yeah. 1264 01:07:44.493 --> 01:07:46.128 I love you to death. 1265 01:07:46.228 --> 01:07:50.733 I don't want to see any harm of any kind come to you. 1266 01:07:50.833 --> 01:07:53.102 It's gonna hurt you, and that's gonna hurt me. 1267 01:07:55.004 --> 01:07:57.440 [melancholic music playing] 1268 01:08:02.945 --> 01:08:05.614 I do often worry about Luke because he's got himself 1269 01:08:05.714 --> 01:08:09.819 into a sticky predicament. He's got debt to pay. 1270 01:08:09.919 --> 01:08:11.887 He's got hotels to build. 1271 01:08:11.987 --> 01:08:14.690 He's gonna go down to Colombia, he's not gonna be 1272 01:08:14.790 --> 01:08:17.159 earning the money he earns here. 1273 01:08:17.259 --> 01:08:22.064 And it leaves him no room to escape or to rectify 1274 01:08:22.164 --> 01:08:25.501 the problems that he might have thrown at him. 1275 01:08:25.601 --> 01:08:28.437 I love you, Dad. I mean, you know. 1276 01:08:28.537 --> 01:08:30.139 [Jim sniffs] 1277 01:08:37.913 --> 01:08:40.583 [Luke] I don't know the last time I saw my dad cry. 1278 01:08:42.084 --> 01:08:44.286 It adds a lot of weight. 1279 01:08:44.386 --> 01:08:47.957 It is finally sinking in that I really need this marriage 1280 01:08:48.057 --> 01:08:50.993 to work because I'll lose everything if it doesn't. 1281 01:08:52.394 --> 01:08:56.799 This is basically the highest stakes gamble that I ever made. 1282 01:08:59.735 --> 01:09:01.670 -I'm always here for you. -[Luke] Thank you. 1283 01:09:08.444 --> 01:09:11.881 line:5% Goodbye, apartment. Goodbye, freedom. 1284 01:09:11.981 --> 01:09:13.949 line:5% Today is move-in day. 1285 01:09:14.049 --> 01:09:15.451 line:5% [speaking Hindi] 1286 01:09:18.888 --> 01:09:22.057 line:5% What the hell? Get out of my stuff! 1287 01:09:22.158 --> 01:09:23.192 line:5% [speaking Hindi] 1288 01:09:23.292 --> 01:09:24.293 line:5% Jenny? 1289 01:09:29.632 --> 01:09:31.667 [foreign upbeat music playing] 1290 01:09:42.044 --> 01:09:44.513 [Jenny] Everything is gone. 1291 01:09:44.613 --> 01:09:46.515 Oh, this is so sad. 1292 01:09:53.489 --> 01:09:56.125 I can't believe we're leaving this apartment. 1293 01:09:56.225 --> 01:09:59.395 line:5% Remember how happy I was to get that chandelier? 1294 01:10:03.766 --> 01:10:05.467 Today is move-in day. 1295 01:10:06.735 --> 01:10:08.771 I'm excited that I'm gonna move in 1296 01:10:08.871 --> 01:10:10.272 with my family again, 1297 01:10:10.372 --> 01:10:12.841 and I feel like that it gonna be good. 1298 01:10:15.644 --> 01:10:17.246 I feel like I'm leaving my freedom. 1299 01:10:17.346 --> 01:10:22.384 I'm giving up everything. Now I have to go deal with Mom. 1300 01:10:22.484 --> 01:10:25.521 "Work, work!* 1301 01:10:25.621 --> 01:10:26.889 "Do this, clean that. 1302 01:10:26.989 --> 01:10:28.123 Cook this, cook that." 1303 01:10:28.224 --> 01:10:30.259 She's not that bad. 1304 01:10:30.359 --> 01:10:34.597 I mean, do we plan on living with your parents forever, though? 1305 01:10:34.697 --> 01:10:37.166 -Yeah, that's what the plan is. -Forever? 1306 01:10:37.266 --> 01:10:40.402 Yeah. We're gonna live there. 1307 01:10:40.502 --> 01:10:42.104 My life is over now. 1308 01:10:46.141 --> 01:10:50.446 I have no plans of staying in this situation 1309 01:10:50.546 --> 01:10:53.882 with the family permanently. Not gonna happen, no way. 1310 01:10:55.184 --> 01:10:57.853 Goodbye apartment. Goodbye, freedom. 1311 01:10:57.953 --> 01:11:01.323 Goodbye, life. Goodbye everything. 1312 01:11:01.423 --> 01:11:02.858 I'll miss you. 1313 01:11:04.960 --> 01:11:08.063 I don't want to pick a fight with Sumit right now, 1314 01:11:08.163 --> 01:11:11.100 but at some point, I'm gonna have to tell him, 1315 01:11:11.200 --> 01:11:12.635 "[bleep] no!" 1316 01:11:14.069 --> 01:11:15.271 line:5% [Sumit speaking] 1317 01:11:21.744 --> 01:11:25.080 Your parents aren't gonna wanna eat my American food. 1318 01:11:25.180 --> 01:11:26.715 Baby, you just try. 1319 01:11:26.815 --> 01:11:31.320 This will be your chance to win more love of my mother. 1320 01:11:33.422 --> 01:11:34.823 OK, I'll do my best. 1321 01:11:34.923 --> 01:11:37.626 I hope they don't hate me for it. 1322 01:11:39.862 --> 01:11:44.533 I'm happy to live together as a typical Indian family. 1323 01:11:44.633 --> 01:11:47.469 But Jenny is not traditional housewife. 1324 01:11:59.214 --> 01:12:00.649 line:5% You want me to carry this? 1325 01:12:00.749 --> 01:12:02.651 [Jenny] Can you? It's very heavy. 1326 01:12:02.751 --> 01:12:05.154 If Mom tries to tell me what to do, 1327 01:12:05.254 --> 01:12:06.889 line:5% it's not gonna go down well. 1328 01:12:13.028 --> 01:12:14.496 line:5% [Sadhna speaking Hindi] 1329 01:12:18.701 --> 01:12:20.469 line:5% -[Anil] Welcome, welcome! -[Shree] Welcome! 1330 01:12:20.569 --> 01:12:21.937 line:5% [Sadhna speaking Hindi] 1331 01:12:23.605 --> 01:12:26.275 line:5% -Jenny, can you believe that this is -- it's you. -No. 1332 01:12:26.375 --> 01:12:28.210 line:5% Finally, it took a while. 1333 01:12:28.310 --> 01:12:29.645 line:5% [Sadhna speaking] 1334 01:12:29.745 --> 01:12:33.248 line:5% This is unbelievable! My Mom is welcoming Jenny 1335 01:12:33.349 --> 01:12:35.217 the way they welcome new bride. 1336 01:12:39.421 --> 01:12:40.923 line:5% [Jenny] Thank you. 1337 01:12:47.496 --> 01:12:50.265 -[Jenny] Oh! -[all giggle] 1338 01:12:50.366 --> 01:12:51.767 line:5% -[Shree] Yay, welcome, welcome. -[Sumit] Awesome. 1339 01:12:51.867 --> 01:12:55.037 line:5% -Thank you. -Most welcome, Jenny. 1340 01:12:55.137 --> 01:12:56.472 line:5% [speaking Hindi] 1341 01:12:56.572 --> 01:12:58.941 line:5% [Jenny] Yeah. [chuckles] 1342 01:12:59.041 --> 01:13:02.211 line:5% They're doing all these rituals and accepting me 1343 01:13:02.311 --> 01:13:06.148 line:5% into the family and into their home. 1344 01:13:06.248 --> 01:13:10.786 This is something I never really ever expected to happen. 1345 01:13:10.886 --> 01:13:13.722 [Sumit] Now touch the feet. 1346 01:13:13.822 --> 01:13:15.290 [Anil] Stay blessed, stay happy. 1347 01:13:15.391 --> 01:13:16.558 line:5% [Jenny] And it feels good, 1348 01:13:16.658 --> 01:13:20.195 but I don't really wanna live with them forever 1349 01:13:20.295 --> 01:13:22.598 And I don't think I can be 1350 01:13:22.698 --> 01:13:26.802 the traditional Indian daughter-in-law. 1351 01:13:26.902 --> 01:13:29.138 Now this is our house. 1352 01:13:29.238 --> 01:13:30.305 line:5% This is our new house. 1353 01:13:30.406 --> 01:13:35.544 line:5% Yes, I like what you've done with it, it looks nice. 1354 01:13:35.644 --> 01:13:37.279 line:5% [car honking] 1355 01:13:37.379 --> 01:13:40.182 line:5% -[Jenny] The movers are here. -Are they waiting downstairs? 1356 01:13:40.282 --> 01:13:41.250 [Jenny] Yeah. 1357 01:13:41.350 --> 01:13:44.286 So we're gonna start moving stuff in. 1358 01:13:44.386 --> 01:13:46.221 OK. 1359 01:13:49.224 --> 01:13:51.293 [upbeat music playing] 1360 01:13:53.061 --> 01:13:54.396 line:5% [Sadhna speaking Hindi] 1361 01:13:56.131 --> 01:13:57.599 [both] Oh! 1362 01:14:03.338 --> 01:14:06.408 line:5% [Jenny] We need to hire someone to come put away all our stuff. 1363 01:14:06.508 --> 01:14:08.010 line:5% [Sumit speaking] 1364 01:14:10.846 --> 01:14:12.114 [Sadhna] Jenny? 1365 01:14:12.214 --> 01:14:14.349 Clothes. 1366 01:14:14.450 --> 01:14:15.918 line:5% Jenny, Jenny, Jenny, Jenny. 1367 01:14:16.018 --> 01:14:17.619 line:5% [speaking Hindi] 1368 01:14:20.689 --> 01:14:23.058 line:5% I have a lot of clothes, I know. 1369 01:14:23.158 --> 01:14:24.660 line:5% [speaking Hindi] 1370 01:14:24.760 --> 01:14:27.362 line:5% I've had these clothes for a long time, many years. 1371 01:14:27.463 --> 01:14:29.298 line:5% [Sadhna speaking Hindi] 1372 01:14:29.398 --> 01:14:31.967 line:5% It's just too small for Jenny. 1373 01:14:32.067 --> 01:14:34.436 line:5% [Sadhna speaking Hindi] 1374 01:14:34.536 --> 01:14:37.005 [Jenny] Why is your mom going through my stuff? 1375 01:14:37.105 --> 01:14:39.074 "Jenny doesn't need this, you take it." 1376 01:14:39.174 --> 01:14:41.343 Like, what the hell? Get out of -- 1377 01:14:41.443 --> 01:14:44.646 I want her to say, "Get out of my stuff." 1378 01:14:44.746 --> 01:14:48.116 Living in a joint family, everything belongs to everyone. 1379 01:14:48.217 --> 01:14:52.287 But I would never just go through their stuff. 1380 01:14:52.387 --> 01:14:54.423 I mean, is this a cultural thing, 1381 01:14:54.523 --> 01:14:56.658 or is this your mom's thing? 1382 01:14:57.960 --> 01:15:00.395 It's more like my mom's thing. 1383 01:15:00.496 --> 01:15:03.899 -Like, she... -I had a feeling that was it. 1384 01:15:03.999 --> 01:15:05.334 Yeah, she... 1385 01:15:07.436 --> 01:15:08.770 line:5% [Sadhna speaking Hindi] 1386 01:15:10.172 --> 01:15:11.273 line:5% Jenny? 1387 01:15:13.475 --> 01:15:14.877 line:5% My rum! 1388 01:15:14.977 --> 01:15:16.211 line:5% [speaking Hindi] 1389 01:15:16.311 --> 01:15:18.113 line:5% Mm-hmm. 1390 01:15:18.213 --> 01:15:19.982 line:5% If I get a migraine sometimes -- 1391 01:15:20.082 --> 01:15:21.583 line:5% [speaking Hindi] 1392 01:15:23.585 --> 01:15:24.586 line:5% [speaking Hindi] 1393 01:15:28.423 --> 01:15:30.959 line:5% Don't, don't, don't do that, don't do that. 1394 01:15:33.295 --> 01:15:34.730 line:5% -[speaking Hindi] -No, no! 1395 01:15:37.366 --> 01:15:38.467 Jenny? 1396 01:15:38.567 --> 01:15:40.102 I've only been here for an hour, 1397 01:15:40.202 --> 01:15:42.971 and I'm already being criticized. 1398 01:15:43.071 --> 01:15:45.374 I don't know how I'm gonna survive this. 1399 01:15:55.651 --> 01:15:58.887 line:5% So we're gonna move to France. 1400 01:15:58.987 --> 01:16:00.389 Shut the front door. 1401 01:16:00.489 --> 01:16:03.292 [Sara] I know you guys have had some hard times. 1402 01:16:03.392 --> 01:16:05.460 It's not a band aid for a bullet hole. 1403 01:16:05.561 --> 01:16:07.095 Are you gonna piss me off, Sara, right now? 1404 01:16:07.195 --> 01:16:08.997 -That is why I -- -[Manon] No, I don't think so, I guess. 1405 01:16:09.097 --> 01:16:10.432 -Oh, because -- -Because look what, how you do -- 1406 01:16:10.532 --> 01:16:12.868 Do not speak over me right now. 1407 01:16:12.968 --> 01:16:14.403 line:5% -OK, get out of my house. -[Sara] OK. 1408 01:16:14.503 --> 01:16:15.571 line:5% [Manon speaking French] 1409 01:16:20.809 --> 01:16:22.778 [piano music playing] 1410 01:16:25.814 --> 01:16:27.382 [Benjamin crying] 1411 01:16:29.818 --> 01:16:31.486 [Anthony] I don't know how to make these look pretty, 1412 01:16:31.587 --> 01:16:35.190 so, nah. -I'll make them for you, move. 1413 01:16:37.292 --> 01:16:40.529 [upbeat music keeps playing] 1414 01:16:43.599 --> 01:16:44.967 [Manon] The baguette needs to be cut. 1415 01:16:45.067 --> 01:16:46.368 -[Anthony] Why? -Anthony. 1416 01:16:46.468 --> 01:16:47.703 -Just rip it. -No, you don't. 1417 01:16:47.803 --> 01:16:49.037 It's -- ugh, cut it! 1418 01:16:49.137 --> 01:16:50.672 -[Anthony] Grip it and rip it. -And then I have nice bread 1419 01:16:50.772 --> 01:16:52.474 everywhere, no. What the heck is wrong with you? 1420 01:16:52.574 --> 01:16:54.810 It's what's called breaking bread, right? 1421 01:16:56.778 --> 01:16:59.047 [Manon] We are moving to France in just a few weeks, 1422 01:16:59.147 --> 01:17:00.849 but before that, 1423 01:17:00.949 --> 01:17:03.318 I need Anthony to know how to make 1424 01:17:03.418 --> 01:17:04.987 a really good charcuterie board 1425 01:17:05.087 --> 01:17:07.923 and how to pronounce it properly. 1426 01:17:08.023 --> 01:17:09.758 -Charcuterie. -[French pronunciation] Charcuterie. 1427 01:17:09.858 --> 01:17:11.293 [French pronunciation] Charcuterie. 1428 01:17:11.393 --> 01:17:12.861 No, no. [in French accent] Charcuterie. 1429 01:17:12.961 --> 01:17:14.563 [American English pronunciation] Not charcuterie. 1430 01:17:14.663 --> 01:17:17.633 -[French pronunciation] Charcuterie. -Thank you. 1431 01:17:17.733 --> 01:17:18.834 The grapes here. 1432 01:17:22.804 --> 01:17:25.407 I just realized that that's very French. 1433 01:17:25.507 --> 01:17:27.843 Oh, my God. I'm really nervous right now. 1434 01:17:27.943 --> 01:17:29.044 [Anthony] Yeah, I got you. 1435 01:17:29.144 --> 01:17:31.813 And no matter what they say, it is what it is, right? 1436 01:17:31.913 --> 01:17:34.149 Yeah, look, we're -- we're in this together. 1437 01:17:34.249 --> 01:17:37.019 We know why we're doing this. It's not your decision. 1438 01:17:37.119 --> 01:17:39.321 It's not mine, it's ours. 1439 01:17:39.421 --> 01:17:40.455 OK. 1440 01:17:40.555 --> 01:17:43.725 Today, we have to tell Anthony's family that we are 1441 01:17:43.825 --> 01:17:46.528 moving to France and that we are selling the house. 1442 01:17:46.628 --> 01:17:48.630 We haven't said anything to anyone yet, 1443 01:17:48.730 --> 01:17:52.167 'cause everything happened, kind of like so quickly. 1444 01:17:52.267 --> 01:17:54.670 line:5% -[Sara] Oh, hi! -[Jacob] Hi, Brandy. 1445 01:17:54.770 --> 01:17:56.538 line:5% -I know, I did. -Yeah. 1446 01:17:56.638 --> 01:17:57.639 line:5% [all] Hi! 1447 01:18:00.375 --> 01:18:03.679 [Anthony] Waiting to tell my family is very much par for the course 1448 01:18:03.779 --> 01:18:06.314 for me and our relationship. -It's your style. 1449 01:18:06.415 --> 01:18:07.983 I mean, I don't like to involve my family in, 1450 01:18:08.083 --> 01:18:10.552 line:5% like, everything that's going on in our marriage. 1451 01:18:10.652 --> 01:18:12.421 line:5% You left your sweater at my house. 1452 01:18:12.521 --> 01:18:14.222 line:5% Yes, you did. 1453 01:18:14.322 --> 01:18:16.892 line:5% We have two different dynamics in terms of families. 1454 01:18:16.992 --> 01:18:20.062 Me, it's like we overshare, we overcommunicate, 1455 01:18:20.162 --> 01:18:21.463 we say everything. 1456 01:18:21.563 --> 01:18:23.565 Our families are very different in that respect, 1457 01:18:23.665 --> 01:18:27.269 but they 100% will be sad that we're leaving. 1458 01:18:27.369 --> 01:18:28.870 [Manon] Yeah, yeah, I'm not gonna lie, I'm scared. 1459 01:18:28.970 --> 01:18:30.839 line:5% I'm afraid that they're gonna hate me forever 1460 01:18:30.939 --> 01:18:34.443 line:5% for taking away their son and their first grandson. 1461 01:18:34.543 --> 01:18:36.712 line:5% Yeah, I'm scared about that. 1462 01:18:36.812 --> 01:18:39.114 Bonjour, everyone! 1463 01:18:39.214 --> 01:18:40.949 [all cheering] 1464 01:18:42.217 --> 01:18:43.518 You want more prosciutto, baba? 1465 01:18:43.618 --> 01:18:45.887 Yes, maybe he wants more. But just small pieces. 1466 01:18:45.987 --> 01:18:49.157 Small pieces at a time, please. 1467 01:18:49.257 --> 01:18:51.827 Well, thanks for coming, everyone. 1468 01:18:51.927 --> 01:18:54.529 We appreciate it, and go ahead. 1469 01:18:54.629 --> 01:18:57.332 -I'll let him speak for once. -[all laugh] 1470 01:18:57.432 --> 01:19:00.969 line:5% Yeah, so we're selling the house 1471 01:19:01.069 --> 01:19:04.005 line:5% because we're gonna move to France. 1472 01:19:05.774 --> 01:19:07.709 line:5% -[Nick] Wow. -Shut the front door. 1473 01:19:11.913 --> 01:19:13.882 [Sara] That is still -- that's huge, that's huge. 1474 01:19:13.982 --> 01:19:15.383 -That's a huge. -Yeah. 1475 01:19:15.484 --> 01:19:17.285 So his first words are gonna be in French? 1476 01:19:17.385 --> 01:19:21.123 line:5% No, his first word was "Brandy," OK? 1477 01:19:21.223 --> 01:19:23.492 line:5% [Sara] Is this like a permanent move to France? 1478 01:19:23.592 --> 01:19:26.394 line:5% Like, "Oh, this is it, goodbye forever?" 1479 01:19:26.495 --> 01:19:28.530 line:5% [Anthony] Yeah, so we're not -- 1480 01:19:28.630 --> 01:19:29.664 line:5% Yeah, it's already -- 1481 01:19:32.300 --> 01:19:33.168 line:5% [both] Yeah. 1482 01:19:33.268 --> 01:19:35.237 line:5% [Sara] Holy shoot. 1483 01:19:35.337 --> 01:19:37.639 [Manon] It's been hard thinking about it. 1484 01:19:37.739 --> 01:19:39.875 There's still time to change your mind. 1485 01:19:39.975 --> 01:19:41.243 No. 1486 01:19:41.343 --> 01:19:44.913 We're set. Yeah, we're set. 1487 01:19:45.013 --> 01:19:46.948 Yeah, so we are going to France. 1488 01:19:47.048 --> 01:19:49.284 Yay! 1489 01:19:49.384 --> 01:19:50.685 Boo. 1490 01:19:52.154 --> 01:19:54.689 It just feels like two weeks is a really short amount 1491 01:19:54.790 --> 01:19:56.691 of time with a permanent move. 1492 01:19:56.792 --> 01:19:58.627 You just don't feel like you're rushing into decisions? 1493 01:19:58.727 --> 01:19:59.861 [Anthony] Absolutely not. 1494 01:19:59.961 --> 01:20:02.597 No, because what we were doing was not sustainable 1495 01:20:02.697 --> 01:20:06.535 as a family. And we're going to essentially 1496 01:20:06.635 --> 01:20:07.803 make it better and repair things. 1497 01:20:07.903 --> 01:20:09.538 But, like, I know you guys have had 1498 01:20:09.638 --> 01:20:12.040 some hard times recently. 1499 01:20:12.140 --> 01:20:15.544 I guess it just seems like you're almost adding more fire 1500 01:20:15.644 --> 01:20:20.215 to that than really water. -I don't think so. 1501 01:20:20.315 --> 01:20:22.050 OK. 1502 01:20:22.150 --> 01:20:24.052 It's about slowing down. 1503 01:20:24.152 --> 01:20:26.655 Are you going to be able to slow down, though? 1504 01:20:28.256 --> 01:20:30.058 I know it's gonna be hard for sure, 1505 01:20:30.158 --> 01:20:31.593 and people think that moving away, 1506 01:20:31.693 --> 01:20:32.894 moving abroad is like, OK, 1507 01:20:32.994 --> 01:20:34.863 all of your problems disappear. No, they don't. 1508 01:20:34.963 --> 01:20:35.831 -[Sara] No. -They come with you. 1509 01:20:35.931 --> 01:20:38.333 They could also get a lot bigger. 1510 01:20:38.433 --> 01:20:39.568 [Anthony] Yeah, but there's a flip side. 1511 01:20:39.668 --> 01:20:43.505 We're going there as a means to really be a family unit. 1512 01:20:43.605 --> 01:20:46.208 I just hope it's not a band aid for a bullet hole, you know? 1513 01:20:46.308 --> 01:20:48.043 [Anthony] I don't think so. Sara, Sara, 1514 01:20:48.143 --> 01:20:50.645 we're united in doing this, and you're... 1515 01:20:50.745 --> 01:20:53.281 kind of starting to push my buttons a little bit. 1516 01:20:53.381 --> 01:20:57.152 So just quit with the whole, like, trying to, like, 1517 01:20:57.252 --> 01:20:58.820 push us apart still. -[Sara] I'm just -- 1518 01:20:58.920 --> 01:20:59.821 I'm not trying to push you apart. 1519 01:20:59.921 --> 01:21:01.389 We're doing this to stay together, OK? 1520 01:21:01.489 --> 01:21:04.125 I understand that, but my worry is I don't hear 1521 01:21:04.226 --> 01:21:06.294 any of the work that has gone into place 1522 01:21:06.394 --> 01:21:08.463 outside of "We're just moving." 1523 01:21:10.665 --> 01:21:12.267 line:5% -It's not -- I don't need -- -[Manon speaking] 1524 01:21:12.367 --> 01:21:14.202 line:5% I don't need the solution. This is your relationship. 1525 01:21:14.302 --> 01:21:18.807 line:5% And that's why we have come up with our solution, right? 1526 01:21:18.907 --> 01:21:21.743 Whether or not you think that more time together 1527 01:21:21.843 --> 01:21:23.078 is gonna be beneficial, 1528 01:21:23.178 --> 01:21:26.715 we think this is the best for us and him. 1529 01:21:26.815 --> 01:21:28.283 So what's the alternative? 1530 01:21:28.383 --> 01:21:31.620 We stay here and we destroy our marriage and family? 1531 01:21:31.720 --> 01:21:34.356 Or do we actually go to France and make it work? 1532 01:21:38.326 --> 01:21:40.295 I mean, I -- I will be honest. 1533 01:21:40.395 --> 01:21:42.430 Manon and I talked about how you guys 1534 01:21:42.530 --> 01:21:44.099 were in a really hard spot, 1535 01:21:44.199 --> 01:21:45.400 and that things weren't going well. 1536 01:21:45.500 --> 01:21:47.769 And so I don't want you to think that I'm trying to drive 1537 01:21:47.869 --> 01:21:51.006 a wedge in between you or create further separation. 1538 01:21:51.106 --> 01:21:53.742 But you have to understand, Manon, that conversation 1539 01:21:53.842 --> 01:21:55.277 was really hard to hear, truly. 1540 01:21:55.377 --> 01:21:57.545 Like, it is a lot to take in, and it only happened 1541 01:21:57.646 --> 01:21:59.014 a few weeks ago, and now all of a sudden 1542 01:21:59.114 --> 01:22:00.248 everything is great. 1543 01:22:00.348 --> 01:22:01.783 Which is why I'm a little worried 1544 01:22:01.883 --> 01:22:02.951 about the move to France, 1545 01:22:03.051 --> 01:22:04.920 because I know when tensions are high and emotions 1546 01:22:05.020 --> 01:22:07.389 run high, we say things that we don't necessarily mean, 1547 01:22:07.489 --> 01:22:10.892 but there's a reason sometimes things are said. 1548 01:22:10.992 --> 01:22:14.562 I was feeling bad, and I was at the end of my rope 1549 01:22:14.663 --> 01:22:16.364 because I felt stuck. 1550 01:22:16.464 --> 01:22:19.868 And I said things on the moment because I just... 1551 01:22:19.968 --> 01:22:21.703 went crazy, it happens. 1552 01:22:21.803 --> 01:22:23.571 line:5% We are humans, OK? 1553 01:22:23.672 --> 01:22:25.473 line:5% [Sara] So -- 1554 01:22:25.573 --> 01:22:26.775 line:5% -Yes. -Oh, OK, 1555 01:22:26.875 --> 01:22:28.143 line:5% so maybe you didn't really understand me. 1556 01:22:35.116 --> 01:22:37.319 -Sarah, just let it go. -[Sara] Those were her words. 1557 01:22:37.419 --> 01:22:39.754 Those were not mine. Those are... OK, I'm not -- 1558 01:22:39.854 --> 01:22:41.156 line:5% [Randy] And we don't need to... 1559 01:22:41.256 --> 01:22:42.457 line:5% [Manon] And you probably called everyone in the family 1560 01:22:42.557 --> 01:22:43.658 line:5% to say that, right? 1561 01:22:43.758 --> 01:22:44.993 line:5% Yeah, you're gonna piss me off, Sara, right now. 1562 01:22:45.093 --> 01:22:47.062 -Sara, let it go. -[Manon] Because, like -- yeah, let it go. 1563 01:22:47.162 --> 01:22:49.097 -Did I say to you I want a divorce? -[Sara] Yes! 1564 01:22:49.197 --> 01:22:51.132 -I said I want a divorce? -[Sara] Yes, you did, yes! 1565 01:22:51.232 --> 01:22:53.368 You said those words to me, which is the only reason 1566 01:22:53.468 --> 01:22:55.236 I have these concerns. 1567 01:22:55.337 --> 01:22:58.673 I think she said it to you in confidence. 1568 01:22:58.773 --> 01:23:00.842 line:5% I don't even remember saying the "d" word, 1569 01:23:00.942 --> 01:23:02.744 line:5% but if I said that, whatever. -Let me pause -- 1570 01:23:02.844 --> 01:23:06.081 line:5% I was trying to create a little bond with you 1571 01:23:06.181 --> 01:23:08.750 line:5% by sharing how hard it can be. 1572 01:23:08.850 --> 01:23:10.885 line:5% But OK, if you take it this way, it's fine, Sara. 1573 01:23:10.986 --> 01:23:12.654 line:5% No, and that bond was real, but that is why I -- 1574 01:23:12.754 --> 01:23:13.922 line:5% [Manon] No, I don't think so, I guess. 1575 01:23:14.022 --> 01:23:16.324 line:5% Because look how you use it against me right now. 1576 01:23:16.424 --> 01:23:17.792 line:5% No, no, you just said, "I didn't say that," 1577 01:23:17.892 --> 01:23:19.027 line:5% but then you also just said, 1578 01:23:19.127 --> 01:23:21.162 line:5% "I was trying to create a bond by saying that." 1579 01:23:21.262 --> 01:23:24.032 line:5% You do not speak over me right now! 1580 01:23:24.132 --> 01:23:25.600 line:5% -OK, get out of my house. -[Sara] OK. 1581 01:23:25.700 --> 01:23:27.202 line:5% [speaking French] 1582 01:23:27.302 --> 01:23:28.803 line:5% [in English] I'm done, I'm done. 1583 01:23:36.644 --> 01:23:41.316 ♪ My heart is jumpin' around like a kangaroo ♪ 1584 01:23:41.416 --> 01:23:43.685 line:5% ♪ ♪ 1585 01:23:43.785 --> 01:23:44.586 Yeah! 1586 01:23:44.686 --> 01:23:57.232 line:5% ♪ ♪ 1587 01:23:57.332 --> 01:24:00.168 Matthew thinks that I love my cat, Hazel, more than him. 1588 01:24:00.268 --> 01:24:03.338 That's true, but I've never had this 1589 01:24:03.438 --> 01:24:05.073 type of connection with a human before. 1590 01:24:05.173 --> 01:24:06.441 Hey, sweetie. 1591 01:24:06.541 --> 01:24:09.477 I can tell it's been a long journey because you stink. 1592 01:24:09.577 --> 01:24:10.812 You're welcome. 1593 01:24:13.348 --> 01:24:14.616 What the [bleep] is this? 1594 01:24:14.716 --> 01:24:16.151 There's no windows. 1595 01:24:16.251 --> 01:24:17.352 And it's sound proof. 1596 01:24:17.452 --> 01:24:18.386 Oh. 1597 01:24:18.486 --> 01:24:21.423 I was asking for a sexy, romantic night away. 1598 01:24:21.523 --> 01:24:26.394 I was definitely not expecting a...um... 1599 01:24:26.494 --> 01:24:27.362 A sex dungeon. 1600 01:24:27.462 --> 01:24:28.296 [squeals] 1601 01:24:28.396 --> 01:24:29.964 [laughter] 1602 01:24:30.065 --> 01:24:31.933 line:5% ♪ 1603 01:24:32.033 --> 01:24:33.635 [cheers] 1604 01:24:38.273 --> 01:24:40.375 Sorry. New. I'm new. 1605 01:24:42.777 --> 01:24:43.578 ...plugged in. 1606 01:24:48.817 --> 01:24:50.752 You know what I can do? I can go home. 1607 01:24:52.420 --> 01:24:54.322 I don't like that you control me. 1608 01:24:54.422 --> 01:24:56.391 You don't let me control you. 1609 01:24:57.425 --> 01:25:00.628 If I had control you wouldn't be working in a strip club. 1610 01:25:01.463 --> 01:25:02.964 You're so [bleep] insecure. 1611 01:25:06.801 --> 01:25:07.969 You want me to just marry you and all that. 1612 01:25:08.069 --> 01:25:09.304 I've known you for a year. 1613 01:25:09.404 --> 01:25:10.939 Then don't have the conversation 1614 01:25:11.039 --> 01:25:12.974 saying that you're ready when you're not. 1615 01:25:13.074 --> 01:25:14.609 'Cause I'm telling you, I'm ready. 1616 01:25:25.320 --> 01:25:26.588 What does this mean? 1617 01:25:26.688 --> 01:25:29.090 [sniffling] 1618 01:25:42.203 --> 01:25:44.572 It was only a matter of time before Sanja lost it. 1619 01:25:48.109 --> 01:25:50.145 I can't take it anymore! You understand? 1620 01:25:52.914 --> 01:25:54.749 line:5% ♪ 125061

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