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Previously on
"90 Day Fiancé, The Other Way."

Chloe, Chloe!

Aw!

We did it.
Well, I did it.

Ooh!

I'm so happy
Chloe's back in Aruba.

What scares me is
that Chloe is spoiled.

I need to find
my other silk pillowcase

'cause I know I had another one.

Makes me think, like, "Hey,
is she really ready for this?"

I'm so stressed
it's even brought

a massive pimple out of my nose.

Don't worry, honey.

I'll still hug you and make
love to you, even if you have

a giant spot on your face.
- You'll still love me.

I'm about to change my whole
life, because Matthew's

the connection
I've been waiting for.

But I'm not going to sugarcoat
what a sacrifice it is to leave

my baby behind.

Madelein thinks I'm coming
in two days.

Uh, but I've changed my flight,
so I'm flying out tonight.

The wedding is
in just over three weeks,

and 's getting real.

We've been fighting
because of money challenges,

and she blocked me.

Ouch.

It'd be
absolutely heartbreaking

if it-- if it fails.

I know you're struggling
with money and that,

so I've just got
you a little...

- I love you, Dad.
- I love you so much.

Let's go, let's go.

Anthony said to my face
that he feels that he is

the solo parent.

That's just like a dagger
in my heart.

Here's Mommy and Papi.

Hello, we're here, we made it!

I cannot be like,
"Yeah, Marseille, I love it

so much."
No, I don't.

Manon, no.

I don't know what the
am I gonna do.

I just landed a day early
to surprise Madelein.

Madelein and I haven't spoken,

so I'm a little nervous
about what I'm walking into.

I don't know if she's still

super upset with me.

I don't know if she's gonna be
happy to see me.

There's a lot going on.

The last time I decided
to surprise a past girlfriend

of mine, I showed up
to her apartment,

walked up the stairs,

and I saw her cuddling in bed
with her ex-boyfriend.

We are just a few weeks
from the wedding,

and since Madelein and I have
been fighting over finances,

I thought it would be
a big deal

to surprise her and start

the rest of our lives off
on a really good note.

So I hope that this surprise
goes a lot better

than the last one.

I love this work.

I love hair, makeup, and helping
people feel beautiful.

I hate that.

I think she's gonna see

the flowers and forget
about everything.

Say, "Oh, my God,
I can't believe you're here.

I love you."

I think that's how
it's gonna go.

But I've been known
to be wrong sometimes,

so we'll see.

I really need
this surprise to go well.

To be honest,
I'm not feeling confident

about anything right now.

I've given up
almost everything.

I've quit my job.
I'm scared about my money.

I'm scared
about my investments,

and, most importantly,
my relationship with Madelein.

If she isn't happy to see me,
what the heck am I doing here?

We just arrived to Marseille

and to my parents' house.

There you go, buddy.

And honestly, staying
at their house is just

surreal, yeah, it's surreal.

Mwah!

Anthony!

Hi, Marie.

I'm exhausted after the whole
trip that just, like, happened,

so I just wanna go to bed.

I'm feeling super grateful
to be moving in

with Manon's parents
just so that we have

a place to stay
without paying rent.

I love seeing my son having
a lot of fun with my parents.

You know, it's really nice.

But this is not actually
the house I grew up in.

Like, my parents just sized
down to less space

for just the both of them.

So the house is a...

Ouch!

OK.

There's only one wall

between my bedroom
and their bedroom.

There's no intimacy.
There's no privacy.

There's no space.

Oh, my God.

- It's not your space.
- Yeah, no.

OK.

Can you go get Ben?

I don't know if he's
gonna wanna come up.

Say...

Yeah.

It was a long day.

- Yeah, and I'm just exhausted.
- - Yeah.

I loved seeing
everyone, but I'm--
I'm just-- I'm just tired.

- You know, it's a lot.
- Yeah.

But, uh...

OK, so

the conversation in the car.

What you said,
the solo parenting,

you know it hurt me.
I'm not forgetting.

- I shouldn't have said it.
- Thank you.

I will not be here

if I don't agree with I need
to spend more time with Ben.

We need to spend
more time together.

I'm moving here for us.

I know.

I was just saying that

what we were doing
before you quit your job,

I was doing
the brunt of childcare.

Yeah, but why?
Because we talked about it.

- I understand, but that's what...
- I was the sole provider.

- OK, but that's...
- That's why I could not be

the parent,
that doesn't make sense.

But that's where-- that's where
my comment came from.

It's been a super long day.
I'm very exhausted.

And a lot of these arguments,
she'll say to me,

"Oh, that really hurt me.
I don't like that.

I'm gonna remember that."

But I'm sitting here, hearing
all these hurtful things,

and I never sit there and say,
"Well, I'm hurt.

I'm gonna remember that."

'Cause I feel like that's almost
escalating things further.

I'm just expressing
how I'm feeling,

and she's invalidating
the way I feel

because it's not
what she wants to hear.

I need you to be more,
like, aware of, like,

how you talk to
me.

You always use the fact that
you're the primary caretaker

to actually, like,

shut me off.
- That's...

I feel like that's not valid.

Every day, I tell you how much
you're a good dad,

how much I'm happy
to be with you,

how much I'm grateful
to have someone like you.

I try to, like, show how much
I love you by touching you,

kissing like, I'll do my best.

OK.

Well, I'm doing my best.

You're doing your best
as being a dad.

You're an amazing dad.

Well, right now,
you're not a husband to me.

And look at how
you are with me.

I'm just expecting you
to be a loving man.

Show me your love.
I'm your wife, kiss me,.

Like, this is expectation.
This should be natural.

Our marriage needs saving.

I miss my husband.

We moved to France because
we want to deal

with these issues.

So Anthony needs to understand
that it's not just the balance

as a mom and a dad,
it's the balance also

as a wife and husband.

You also have
to nurture your wife.

If Anthony and I,
we are not on the same page,

I really don't know
if this move

is actually going to be
worth doing.

I need to at least eat first.

Can you think you can manage
making boiled eggs?

Ugh.

No, I don't like the noise.

It's very, very ridiculous
to me that Chloe is afraid

to turn on the stove.

She thinks she's gonna blow up
the house or something.

I just don't wanna burn myself.

I was really hoping
for a better reaction than this.

You're not happy I'm here?

♪ I wanna love
I wanna tease ♪

♪ I wanna hear you say ♪

♪ Johnny, please,
please, please ♪

♪ I'll be candy
To a girl like you ♪

♪ A girl like you ♪

♪ I'll be candy
to a girl like you ♪

♪ A girl like you,
A girl like you ♪

It feels good
to be back in Aruba.

The last time I was here was
about a month ago,

so Jonathan and I

were very excited
to see each other.

My first night was great,
but I was exhausted,

and I literally went to bed
'cause I was just too tired.

I just give him the eyes of,
like, if you touch me,

I'm literally swinging.

Like, that was
my mood yesterday.

You'd be so proud
of me right now.

Yeah.
You finally woke up?

No.
Even better.

- Even better?
- I unpacked an entire bag.

Not this one, definitely
not that one-- the small one.

Yeah, the small one, OK.
Baby steps.

- But I-- I unpacked the entire thing.
- - So proud of you.

Yeah, alright.

So what's the plan, Stan?

- I took a couple days off work, so...
- To spend with me?

Yeah, so we can go out.

Wanna go to your favorite beach?

Yeah, Manchebo.

I-- I could be there every day
and do nothing and I'd be happy.

I need to at least eat first.

Do you think you can manage
making boiled eggs?

- You can do it.
- I mean, I know I can.

I don't know how to use
the stove,

because any time
we've wanted to eat,

I took us out to breakfast,
lunch, or dinner.

So really, there's no use
of the stove,

because we're not
even home ever to use it.

- Do I have to use a lighter?
- No.

I just don't think...

I believe in you.

Ugh.

Go ahead.
I'll get the beach stuff ready.

OK.
Any else?

No, I'm-- I'm more than capable
of making eggs and other things

that a stove requires,
but, um, it's gas.

Gas stove or propane stove,
whatever it is.

To me, a stove is very
appealing when it's, like,

flat and electric,
and controlled.

That's probably
what my problem is.

It's, like, a flame
I can't control.

Like, if it wants to light
something on fire, like...

what am I gonna do?

No, I don't like the noise.
See what I mean?

Like, it's just gas coming out.

Jonathan, I'm afraid.

I'm scared of the stove.

I just don't wanna burn myself.

Is this on fire, too?
Oh, that's hot.

What the is that?

Is it supposed to be smoking?

Oh, it's the little
incense thing.

I can't-- I can't do it.
I'm literally afraid.

- Oh, man.
- Wait.

- Coming, coming.
- Help me.

Please, if you start it once,
I'll restart it.

Let me put the eggs in.

I love sometimes how naive
Chloe can be, but, you know,

it's very, very ridiculous
to me that Chloe is afraid

to turn on the stove.

She thinks she's gonna blow up
the house or something.

All you have to do is just
press it down,

twist just a little bit.
You feel the click?

Bring it back.

I feel like she's like this
because she's always had

everything done for her.

But now we're living together,
and I can't have her have

this vacation mode all the time.

I'm not expecting to come home
every day and having

a full-cooked meal, but,
you know, she needs to know

how to cook dinner.

OK, here I go, ready?

- Press it down.
- This is a big deal.

Oh!

- Good.
- Ready?
Watch this.

- Oh, wow, wow!
- Yeah.

Now we wait for seven
to eight minutes.

It's good that,
you know, you can start

learning how to use the stove,
and then we can have more

breakfasts together,
things like that, so we don't

have to go out all the time
and save time,

save money, you know.

When Chloe visits me,
short term, like, we go out

every night,
and we can't do that.

Like, we really have
to focus on stability.

Like, I really need her
to understand, like,

I need a family,
I need something

to keep moving forward.

Now that I know, I'm not going
to be at home playing

with the stove all night.
- That's not the idea.

No, it's totally fine.

It's just gonna take forever.

Yeah.

Don't worry.

I'm hungry.
It's been seven minutes.

I don't know.
We didn't even set a timer.

- It hasn't even boiled yet.
- Damn it.

♪ Don't let her
See me breaking ♪

♪ Don't let her
See me cry ♪

Hazel.

Are you ready to go meet
your new parents?

Come here.

Today is the day
I'm saying goodbye to Hazel

and I've been thinking
about this moment for weeks

and how I would feel about it.

Every time I think about it,
I start to cry,

and then I hug her
really closely,

and I tell her
how much I love her.

Come in!

- Hey, guys, how are you?
- Hello!

Oh, my gosh.
She's so sweet.

Hi, Greta, hi, Hazel.

I love her, oh, my God.

I just can't believe
the day is finally here.

I feel really sad
about saying goodbye to her,

especially because I don't
think she fully understands

what's going on.

Hazel is extremely
emotionally sensitive,

and she is someone who has gone
through a lot in life.

She lived outside,
and she had kittens.

She looks kinda tired.
How you doing, Hazel?

I think she's exhausted.

It's destroying me to leave
Hazel behind,

but moving her across the pond
to a small house

with other animals
wouldn't be fair to her.

She likes to be held
all the time,

and she likes to fall asleep
in your arms, and, um.

Just, like, as many hugs
as you can offer, she'll take.

We feel lucky to get
to help look after her.

Yeah, just thank you so much.

If you guys wanna get her stuff,
I'll bring her out to you guys.

I know.

I know.

Shh, it's OK.

I think I would want Hazel
to know if I could tell her

what I was feeling.

Well, I do tell her,
but if she could understand.

I would just want her to know
that I love her unconditionally.

Um, and I'm, like, really,
really grateful for her.

Thank you for helping heal
my heart a little bit.

Thank you for all the smiles
and laughs.

You literally made my days,

like, a thousand times
more special.

Saying goodbye to Hazel
feels like my heart

is being ripped from my chest.

OK.
Bye, honey.

At the same time, I am moving
to the UK to be with Matthew,

the love of my life.

He's the only person
that has understood me

the way Hazel does.

I really hope that Matthew and I
can get our own place soon

so me and Hazel can reunite.

Bye, Hazel.

Probably when I go to sleep
tonight and I realize

she's not there, that's gonna

be the most
heart-wrenching part.

Hopefully it's worth it.

We agreed on a budget.

So you happy I'm here?

- No.
- No?

OK.

Oh,.

I know she's not talking
to me, but I was really hoping

for a better reaction than this.

You're not happy I'm here?

Mnh-mnh.

OK.

I don't like surprises

at all, at all, at all, at all.

But really, when I see him,
I really forget

about why I was mad to him.

But no more surprises.

- You like the flowers?
- Yeah

You know, I...
You blocked me.

OK.
Well, how much is?

- Mm...
- We agreed on a budget

that was adjusted up.

And then now
it's adjusted up again.

You're not telling me
how much more we have to pay.

So we'll meet her tonight.

We'll talk about it,
we'll figure it out.

Everything's gonna be OK.

Obviously, having a meeting
with Madelein's wedding planner

is not what I had planned
for my first night in Colombia,

but leaving my job
has definitely made me

be a lot more frugal.

So I do have a lot of questions.

There are a ton
of financial discrepancies

that I need to look into,
but I don't know who's to blame,

the wedding planner
or Madelein.

I know it's not me.

Let's get out of here.

I could not sleep,

because I feel
I'm never good enough.

I'm here in France
to save our marriage.

I have a lot to work on,
and she has a lot to work on.

Oh, I know.

Yeah...

I am very grateful
for a place to stay.

Very grateful, but it's
definitely way too small.

And as you can see,
,

I don't know where
I'm gonna put my clothes,

except on the floor
or in the baby bed.

And then Ben
is gonna sleep with me, I guess.

I mean,
I slept more than she did.

Uh, he likes to sleep
in the bed.

And yesterday, he's sideways,

so I'm curled up
on the bottom of the bed.

And he's not giving her
enough space on the side,

so she's on the edge.

Uh, so I don't even think
she got any sleep last night.

It feels--

it feels good to be
back home because of the family.

Actually, I had, like,
a realization yesterday

when I saw my mom being
so happy with Ben.

And she bought so
many little gifts for him,

which is so much.
It feels good.

I have to do
some stuff in the garage.

OK.

Whoa.

I could not sleep,
so we kept on talking.

I said, "You know, by being
this way, you're kind of, like,

pushing me away, because I feel
I'm never good enough."

I was feeling like
I'm failing as a mom.

I was exhausted 'cause I had
a very busy long day.

He apologized,
which I appreciated it.

And I know I do have
a lot of things to get done

and work on-- I know.

He doesn't want me
to ask anymore.

He wants me to say,
"I'll do this."

"OK, I hear you, I hear you.

I'm sorry if I haven't done as
much as you wanted me to do."

So I apologize to Anthony.

I feel a little bit better,

we-- we're
now on the same page.

Like, I know I need to be more
attentive and affectionate

and show her
how much I do love her,

'cause I do tremendously.

We've always been
Anthony and Manon,

glued with each other.
We were such a big team.

We were in that place before.

So we just need
to go back to it.

Let's just work on it for real
and start acting on it.

I think moving forward is
important 'cause I'm here

in France to save our marriage.

I have a lot to work on,
and she has a lot to work on.

And I think if we both
work on it with--

like, determination
and, like motivation,

we'll be in a good place.

Goodbye, Norman.

♪ I don't know
What I don't know ♪

♪ But you better stay ready,
Keep your eyes on the road ♪

How are you doing
this evening?

I am good.

I am moving to England
to be with my fiancé.

- Oh, really?
- Yeah.

- That's a big step.
- Yeah.

Have y'all already set a date
or have y'all talked about that?

For the wedding?

- Mh-hmm.
- No, we haven't.

We have never live together.
We've only visited each other.

So I'm not really comfortable
setting a wedding date

until we have lived together.

Living with someone's
way different than just

visiting somebody.
- It's different, right, exactly.

♪ When I was young,
I had it all planned out ♪

♪ Then, something big
was down the road ♪

- Alright.
- - It was so nice meeting you.

It was very nice meeting you.

♪ That's when you said,
"Hey, my love ♪

♪ We're nowhere near the end" ♪

Now that I'm leaving for the UK,

I'm getting more
and more nervous.

- Bye.
- Bye, have good travels.

Because I'm going from living
alone with my cat

to living with my fiancé
and his parents.

It's been hard being apart,

but I can't wait
to see Matthew again

and feel that spark
and finally start my life

with the person that I love.

♪ Hey ♪

♪ Yeah ♪

♪ Oh, no, you ain't seen
Nothing yet ♪

I sent over $4 million.

Don't come here to say
you already sent me more money

when you don't.

♪ La, la, la, la, la, la, la ♪

OK, I'm exhausted.

I need to take a shower
and wake up, baby.

Luke arrive early,

and he come to surprise me,
and I really feel so happy.

Hello.

Hi.

I have a meeting
with my wedding planner today,

so it's so good Luke is here,

because we are very behind
in payments in our wedding.

Come here, come on.

What's the plan?
When's she coming?

I think she's almost here.

Lots to talk about, huh?

I'll get it.

Oh.

Madelein and I went back
and forth on the budget

for the wedding
for quite some time.

And we finally agreed
on a budget of $12,000.

Compared to US prices,
it's a bargain.

And I thought it was paid for.

So hearing that there's
an outstanding balance

is pissing me off.

This conversation
made me be stressful.

Makes you stressed?

There's not really
any accountability

or bookkeeping
that's been happening.

Every time Madelein and I talk
about the wedding it's,

"Oh, we're gonna get this,"
and, "Oh, we're gonna get

a helicopter ride for only me."

So part of me is frustrated

that there's items that keep
getting added to the list.

And before I give Madelein
any more money,

I would like
to better understand

where the money I sent
actually went.

I wanna see the receipts.

OK.

OK, I'm ready.

No.

Hmm.

I know exactly how much I sent
Madelein and when I did,

because I knew this would happen
and I wrote it down.

- We can look at the bank account
transactions.
- Yeah, we can't.

Sure, perfect, I already have.

I'm not trying to accuse
my fiancé of mismanaging money,

but she seems to have
a track record

of me sending money

that's supposed to be used
for something,

and then it gets used
for something else,

like shopping.

Who gets?

This guy.

In early December,
I sent over $4 million

because she said
that you asked for...

Maybe I should have helped you
be organized.

Like, we need
to add everything up,

figure out what was spent,
what was paid for, what's left.

- I mean...
- Luke, are you so, so rude?

- I don't mean to be rude.
- Like, are you so rude?

Because...

You say I don't pay
nothing money to her.

He sent me that money
for the rent

and just one million
for my dress.

And I have all the receipt.

Like, he's crazy.

Don't come here to say
you already sent me more money

when you don't.

- Be real, man.
- OK.

That is my biggest problem
with him.

He never know where
he take the money.

We clearly miscommunicated
about what we paid

the wedding planner.

But I only have $3,000,
and $3,000

goes a long way in Colombia.

She needs to figure out how
to do this with this

current budget, that's it.

I'll just be frank.

I have $3,000.

We have
3,000 US dollars to spend.

Next time on
"90 Day Fiancé, The other Way."

- Hi, darling.
- Hi!

I'm really excited
to see Matthew.

I haven't seen him
in six months.

- Hey, sweetie.
- Oh.

I can tell it was a long journey
because you stink.

You're welcome.

Is this where I put my stuff
in these drawers?

Uh, yeah,
everything with a G on it.

But there's stuff in there.

Oh, God, really?

It doesn't even seem like
he was expecting me

to arrive here.

I just don't know why all this
wasn't done beforehand.

I definitely worry
that Manon dwelling on the past

is gonna make her family
less interested in helping us.

You have to understand,
I work in hospitality, Chloe.

I have to be nice to people.

His sole purpose on his job is
to entertain young drunk girls.

I know you wanna put on a show.

Leave girls
and dental floss out of it.

I don't spend a lot of time
around his extended family.

Hey!

Still having a problem
with our age gap?

I've had a real...

I don't-- I don't know
what you want, Madelein.