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Oh, my God,
this is so romantic!
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[Ziad]
Yep.
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[Lisa] Previously on"Before the 90 Days."
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[Emma speaking]
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...I've been lied to a lot.
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Do you not care about my past?
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I really wanna be able
to tell Ziad
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about my last engagement.
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But this does make me wonder
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if Ziad just
doesn't want to talk
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about the past because he has
something that he doesn't want
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to tell me.
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Hey, boo, it's your wife.
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[Jovon] Annalyn and I have been
married for three years.
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And now I'm leaving
for the Philippines tomorrow
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to meet her for the first time
in person.
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But lately, it feels like
we're fighting more
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than we're getting along.
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[Annalyn speaking]
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[Birkan speaking]
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Why don't you go
some sleep and...
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[Laura]
I don't know what's happening.
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It was, like, great
when we first met,
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but now I feel like
there's something really wrong.
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Maybe he's just
not attracted to me in person.
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It's freaking me out.
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You lied about the fact
you've been married to women
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several times.
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Well, I'm gonna come clean
on this trip.
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I'm not gonna accept
the marriage proposal
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until we have this conversation.
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[Daniel speaks]
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You were giving
your parents money.
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Why did you not tell us?
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[Sheena crying]
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It's hard to say no to a parent,
especially when --
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yeah, especially, um --
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He's just got the blinders on,
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and I will not stop trying
to find out why she lied.
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♪ I'm gonna break
the rules... ♪
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[singing in Tagalog]
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[upbeat music plays]
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Wow, look at all the clothes.
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Oh, yeah.
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[Sheena]
Check what you want...
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[singing in Tagalog]
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Hey, Sheen.
-Yeah.
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What do you think of these?
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-Oh, you want to get that?
-Yeah, maybe.
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[Sheena] Oh...
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How do you think
it looks on me?
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[Sheen giggles]
Looks like...
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[both laugh]
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I've been in the Philippines
for a couple days now,
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and despite all the drama,
being with Sheena every day
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is amazing.
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-Thank you, thank you.
-Thank you so much.
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Yeah, thanks.
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What is stuff you need?
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I kind of need some shorts.
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-Mm-hmm.
-Well, I like that.
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Yeah, that's cool.
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Going out and eating food,
sharing meals,
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holding hands, kissing her,
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it's just something I've been
wanting my entire life.
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-Make sure you're holding me.
-Yeah, I'm holding you.
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-Make sure you're holding me.
-Yeah, I'm holding you.
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-OK, there we go.
-Does it fit?
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Uh...
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Oh, it's a little bit small.
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-Mnh-mnh.
-OK.
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OK.
Sorry, that's too sad.
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I'm sorry, I'm a giant man.
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I kind of packed really light,
since Sheena was going on
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and on about how easy and cheap
it is to go and get clothes
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here in the Philippines.
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Turns out,
you can find clothes.
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It's just,
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I'm a big man.
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Yeah, if she has some T-shirts,
we'd like to check that out.
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[Sheena speaks Tagalog]
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[Sheena]
Nah, that's too small.
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Man, why do I have to be
so ginormous?
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Forrest,
he's around like 6'2" or 6'3".
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It's not too common to have
a height like
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that here in my country.
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My previous partner, that
was around, like, 5' or 5'2",
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but for me, Forrest...
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Wow, you look like a macho.
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You look like
a professional guy.
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-You look like a tennis player.
-Yeah.
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-It's too tight.
-It's too tight?
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Oh.
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So, yeah, we'll just look
somewhere else.
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Yeah.
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Right now,
I'm kind of regretting bringing
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just a backpack
with a couple fresh shirts
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and a pair of undies
on my multi-week trip
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here in the Philippines.
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But, thank goodness,
I was able to find
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some banana hammock underwear.
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Hopefully, I get to try
those on later.
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You never know.
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Hey, baby.
It's so hot.
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You know, maybe I'll just take
a sit real quick.
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OK.
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-Let's take a seat.
-Yeah.
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[Forrest]
I'm really grateful to have
this alone time with Sheena.
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Since my mom and my stepdad,
Dev, joined me on this trip
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to the Philippines, it's been
kind of hard to come by.
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And, unfortunately,
having them around has not been
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rose petals and unicorns.
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So, Sheena, how are you feeling
after last night?
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I'm actually better now,
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so you don't have
any problem with that.
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[Forrest] Last night, my mom
confronted Sheena about lying
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and giving the money
to her parents
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and not actually saving
anything.
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I feel bad about how ugly
things got, but I'm very glad
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Sheena agreed to finally
confront her parents
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about this issue and kind
of get the ball rolling.
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The big issue next is
to take you to meet up
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with your parents and confront
them about, you know,
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the money issues
and everything.
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I believe that after everything,
the last seven years,
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cutting off your family is
the only thing we can do.
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It's time to be independent,
trying to be strong,
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and I'm gonna be behind you
and be your backbone
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every step of the way.
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I understand that, babe.
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This is the best thing
that I could do.
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I would plan a meeting for you
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so you could explain to them
the situation that --
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Sheena,
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why didn't you explain this
to me beforehand?
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Why didn't you just come out
and tell me?
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[Sheena]
It's complicated.
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Sheena has never told me that
I need her parents' approval
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to marry her.
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I feel like after everything
I've heard about them
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and how they have been
mistreating Sheena,
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I don't believe that I need
their blessing at all.
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So now I have to go and
get their approval
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while I have to tell them
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that their days
are basically numbered
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with getting money away
from their daughter,
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this does not sound
like an easy task.
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Also, what happened last night
with talking with your mom,
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I have been thinking about,,
what if we could meet,
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you could meet my parents
first, personally,
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before we introduce
your parents?
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[tense music plays]
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So you think that we should
have me come see your parents
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a day ahead of my parents?
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[Sheena] I think it's
the best way to meet everyone.
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Well, Sheena,
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all right.
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But my mom is definitely
going to blow her lid.
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She's not gonna take this
too well.
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I know, babe.
I understand about that.
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My mom's pretty much
going to freak out
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and really think now
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that Sheena is cutting
my mom out of the situation.
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She already doesn't trust
Sheena, and I believe
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that this is just going to make
things worse, and I'm scared.
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[Lisa speaks]
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Don't wear a strapless bra
on a flight
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that's gonna take two days.
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I'm ready to whip them out,
fling them around,
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get some air, do whatever needs
to be done with my titties,
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because they're hurting.
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[singing]
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[Daniel sighs]
Today's my big day.
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Oh, my God.
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Where should I put this?
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[Daniel speaks]
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Oh, my God.
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I...
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[Lisa]
So we have begun to descend.
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I have to do a happy dance!
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I have to do a happy dance!
I'm so excited!
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I'm finally gonna meet
Daniel for the first time!
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But I'm nervous because there's
so much to tell him,
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like the fact that I'm still
married to a woman
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and that I've been with women
for the past 21 years.
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Oh, my gosh!
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I am so ready for this
to come to fruition!
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I want to marry Daniel,
but I promised my daughter,
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Faith, I wouldn't get married
while I'm in Nigeria,
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and that I will tell him about
my past before getting engaged.
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But I don't want to tell him
everything right away.
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I want to get comfortable
with him and eventually open up
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when the time is right.
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Oh, touch down!
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[giggles]
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[mouthing]
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[anticipatory music plays]
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Oh, my God! Oh, my God!
Oh, my God!
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Oh, my God!
Oh, my God!
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[Lisa]
I'm so nervous I feel like...
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a drowned rat, from the heat
and the humidity.
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I did not sleep at all
on the plane,
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and my nerves are
just going crazy.
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I'm feeling really
self-conscious right now.
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Oh, my God.
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I think he's gonna be
as handsome as ever.
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And I think he's gonna look
at me and say,
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"Oh my God, she's older
than I thought she was."
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'Cause everything,
with this heat,
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I can't camouflage anything.
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And my age of 52 is
showing today.
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Oh, God.
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It was such a long flight.
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The bags are under my eyes,
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and the wrinkles are
in my forehead.
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Normally, when I talk
to Daniel on video,
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I have the opportunity
of getting my makeup perfect,
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getting my lighting just so,
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putting my camera angle just
where it needs to be,
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and trying to be perfect.
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I don't feel perfect right now.
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Aye, aye, aye, aye, aye.
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There.
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I'm getting it.
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I have a million thoughts going
through my mind right now.
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How am I going to be able
to keep all these promises
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I made to Faith?
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What if I come clean about
my past and he just leaves me
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stranded in a foreign country?
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And then, my worst nightmare.
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What If I'm not
what he expected?
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I'm terrified.
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I'm afraid
he's gonna reject me.
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And if he rejects me,
it's all for nothing.
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I am here.
I am waiting.
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I'm done, I'm done.
I'm done.
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All right, here we go.
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Trying to get
comfortable, man.
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Oh, hey, hey,
don't you get comfortable!
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I know, man.
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Cute, sexy.
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[Annalyn]
Jovon and I had a fight
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because he told me that
he's been talking to this woman.
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But we have some problems
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that are way worse
than this.
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[Susana speaks in Tagalog]
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[Laura speaks]
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OK.
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[Laura]
The thing I have planned today
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is probably the least romantic
and the most awkward date
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we could have on my second day
here in Türkiye.
252
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-Are you nervous?
-A little bit, yeah, actually.
253
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[Jovon sighs]
254
00:16:10,567 --> 00:16:13,266
No, I'm just trying to get
comfortable, man.
255
00:16:13,433 --> 00:16:15,567
Oh, hey, hey,
don't you get comfortable.
256
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I know, man.
257
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The only time you gonna be
comfortable is
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when your ass asleep.
259
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♪ You got me in a love haze ♪
260
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♪ Call it a love haze ♪
261
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♪ Babe... ♪
262
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[Nick speaks]
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♪ You're driving me crazy ♪
264
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All right.
Love you too, man.
265
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-Have a safe trip, man.
-Yeah.
266
00:16:42,567 --> 00:16:46,967
Just arrived at the airport,
you know, ready to see
267
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my lovely wife, Anna.
268
00:16:50,166 --> 00:16:51,100
Yeah, man, I'm excited.
269
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This is it.
270
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Today's the day I fly
to the Philippines
to meet my wife
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for the first time in person.
272
00:17:03,567 --> 00:17:06,066
I just got past checkpoint
273
00:17:06,233 --> 00:17:09,667
and, you know, I'm heading
to my gate right now.
274
00:17:09,834 --> 00:17:12,800
I got a long flight
ahead of me.
275
00:17:13,000 --> 00:17:16,567
But I'm one step closer
to seeing Anna.
276
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♪ I take this heart
made for my... ♪
277
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[Jovon]
This trip for me determines
my future with Annalyn,
278
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because if it doesn't go well,
279
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I need to figure out what that
means for this relationship.
280
00:17:32,767 --> 00:17:34,166
I really do love her,
281
00:17:34,367 --> 00:17:36,266
so I'm praying
that this marriage
282
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wasn't a huge mistake.
283
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♪ Call you a hit-and-run,
so call that time of night ♪
284
00:18:00,934 --> 00:18:03,900
[singing in Tagalog]
285
00:18:19,266 --> 00:18:20,667
Cute.
286
00:18:20,834 --> 00:18:22,266
Sexy.
287
00:18:23,567 --> 00:18:25,100
Oh...
288
00:18:27,567 --> 00:18:30,367
Hey, Jovon, it's me,
your wifey.
289
00:18:30,533 --> 00:18:31,567
[laughs]
290
00:18:31,734 --> 00:18:33,567
[singing in Tagalog]
291
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I'm Annalyn.
292
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I'm 38 years old
from Cavite, Philippines.
293
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I've always been, I would say,
bubbly, happy person,
294
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talkative, but there's also
a hardworking part of me
295
00:18:58,266 --> 00:18:59,367
as well.
296
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I went to university and I
studied mass communication
297
00:19:03,667 --> 00:19:07,000
because I like talking,
sometimes a lot.
298
00:19:08,900 --> 00:19:12,400
But I decided to stop working
full time because Jovon and I
299
00:19:12,567 --> 00:19:16,667
are on opposite time zones,
so I have to change
300
00:19:16,834 --> 00:19:19,066
my sleep schedule.
301
00:19:19,233 --> 00:19:21,767
And that has made it really
difficult to keep up
302
00:19:21,934 --> 00:19:23,767
any kind of job.
303
00:19:23,934 --> 00:19:28,667
Thankfully, Jovon sends me
$400 to $500 once a month.
304
00:19:31,767 --> 00:19:33,467
[speaking in Tagalog]
305
00:19:37,166 --> 00:19:39,867
My mom and I live next
to each other,
306
00:19:40,033 --> 00:19:42,700
and she has a small store.
307
00:19:44,166 --> 00:19:46,900
[speaking in Tagalog]
308
00:19:49,367 --> 00:19:51,767
I feel like we're more like
best friends,
309
00:19:51,934 --> 00:19:55,166
but she's a very timid,
shy woman,
310
00:19:55,333 --> 00:19:57,000
and I'm more like...
311
00:19:57,166 --> 00:19:58,266
Ey! [laughs]
312
00:20:03,200 --> 00:20:05,467
[speaking in Tagalog]
313
00:20:18,600 --> 00:20:19,967
Ah, wow!
314
00:20:31,300 --> 00:20:33,867
This will be the first time
that we get to spend time
315
00:20:34,033 --> 00:20:37,867
together physically,
and intimacy-wise,
316
00:20:38,033 --> 00:20:41,500
we'll be able to discover a lot
more about each other.
317
00:20:41,667 --> 00:20:43,467
So, yeah, good luck to us.
318
00:20:47,800 --> 00:20:49,567
[speaking in Tagalog]
319
00:21:53,500 --> 00:21:56,800
Jovon and I had a fight
recently because he told me
320
00:21:57,000 --> 00:21:59,867
that he's been talking to
this woman that he used to have
321
00:22:00,100 --> 00:22:01,066
feelings for.
322
00:22:02,367 --> 00:22:04,367
Even though we talk about it,
323
00:22:04,533 --> 00:22:07,867
I feel like he still
doesn't understand
324
00:22:08,033 --> 00:22:11,166
why it feels
like a betrayal to me.
325
00:22:11,333 --> 00:22:12,700
But at the same time,
326
00:22:12,867 --> 00:22:15,266
At the same time, Jovon and I
have some problems
327
00:22:15,433 --> 00:22:19,300
that are way, way
worse than this.
328
00:22:19,467 --> 00:22:21,166
[speaking in Tagalog]
329
00:22:39,000 --> 00:22:42,567
Jovon and I have a lot
of struggles and at times
330
00:22:42,734 --> 00:22:44,400
we fight a lot.
331
00:22:46,867 --> 00:22:51,166
...but how I see it is that he's
the one that really changed.
332
00:22:52,567 --> 00:22:55,367
What happened was,
after we got married...
333
00:23:08,967 --> 00:23:10,867
Suddenly you have
this idea in your head
334
00:23:11,033 --> 00:23:12,767
that I should be like this
as a woman.
335
00:23:12,934 --> 00:23:15,100
Like, what the hell?
336
00:23:15,266 --> 00:23:16,700
We were not like this before.
337
00:23:17,767 --> 00:23:19,700
I feel like he's trying
to change me
338
00:23:19,867 --> 00:23:21,266
to a person that I'm not.
339
00:23:22,967 --> 00:23:25,066
He thinks that even
if I don't agree with him,
340
00:23:25,233 --> 00:23:26,867
I should just be quiet.
341
00:23:27,033 --> 00:23:29,567
And I'm a type of woman
that I just don't agree.
342
00:23:29,734 --> 00:23:31,000
I question things.
343
00:23:33,166 --> 00:23:34,867
[speaking in Tagalog]
344
00:23:46,300 --> 00:23:49,166
I love Jovon, and I know
he loves me,
345
00:23:49,367 --> 00:23:53,500
but my biggest fear is
Jovon will come here
346
00:23:53,667 --> 00:23:55,300
and we can't get along.
347
00:23:56,567 --> 00:23:58,567
But it's not like
I'm meeting a boyfriend,
348
00:23:58,734 --> 00:24:00,767
I'm meeting a husband.
349
00:24:00,967 --> 00:24:04,667
I can't just, you know, give up
after everything I did
350
00:24:04,834 --> 00:24:06,100
for six years.
351
00:24:07,100 --> 00:24:11,266
If we can't resolve our issues
and we fight the whole time,
352
00:24:11,433 --> 00:24:12,800
what am I gonna do?
353
00:24:14,767 --> 00:24:15,767
[speaking in Tagalog]
354
00:24:26,567 --> 00:24:28,667
[middle eastern music plays]
355
00:24:44,400 --> 00:24:48,800
To be completely honest,
I was really frustrated,
356
00:24:49,867 --> 00:24:53,567
disappointed,
because I went to bed alone.
357
00:25:01,166 --> 00:25:04,100
When I got here, there were
lots of moments where it felt
358
00:25:04,266 --> 00:25:07,767
really awkward, like we were
359
00:25:07,934 --> 00:25:09,500
not sure what to say.
360
00:25:11,000 --> 00:25:16,166
I internalized those things,
and so last night, I decided
361
00:25:16,333 --> 00:25:20,567
to go out into the living room
and see if I could have
362
00:25:20,734 --> 00:25:22,767
a little bit of a conversation
with Birkan.
363
00:25:24,200 --> 00:25:27,567
I felt really disconnected
that whole first day.
364
00:25:27,734 --> 00:25:29,166
Mm.
365
00:25:29,333 --> 00:25:31,867
I wanted to give you
some space, so...
366
00:25:32,033 --> 00:25:33,567
But at the time, I'm thinking,
367
00:25:33,734 --> 00:25:36,300
"Oh, [bleep] my worst fear."
368
00:25:36,467 --> 00:25:39,100
That he's just not attracted
to me in person
369
00:25:39,266 --> 00:25:40,400
has just come true.
370
00:25:44,667 --> 00:25:46,900
Yeah, we ended up, like,
making out pretty good.
371
00:25:53,567 --> 00:25:58,567
We have time to explore this
further as we get to know
372
00:25:58,734 --> 00:25:59,834
each other better.
373
00:26:00,066 --> 00:26:03,367
But, you know, I am still
kind of feeling a little,
374
00:26:03,533 --> 00:26:06,600
like, unsure
about the situation because...
375
00:26:10,400 --> 00:26:12,600
And also, I am worried
376
00:26:12,767 --> 00:26:15,266
because we have some things
to do later today
377
00:26:15,433 --> 00:26:17,600
that I'm really anxious about.
378
00:26:29,700 --> 00:26:30,567
[Laura speaks]
379
00:26:30,734 --> 00:26:31,767
[Birkan]
Yeah.
380
00:26:33,767 --> 00:26:35,900
I feel like he's crying on us.
381
00:26:38,367 --> 00:26:39,367
OK.
382
00:26:40,367 --> 00:26:42,166
I think this is where
we're going.
383
00:26:42,333 --> 00:26:43,567
OK.
384
00:26:45,367 --> 00:26:49,867
The thing I have planned today
is probably the least romantic
385
00:26:50,033 --> 00:26:54,500
and the most awkward date
we could have on my second day
386
00:26:54,667 --> 00:26:56,700
here in Türkiye.
387
00:26:59,166 --> 00:27:00,266
-[Laura] Hello.
-[woman] Hi.
388
00:27:00,433 --> 00:27:01,867
[Laura]
Oh, hi, kitty.
389
00:27:02,066 --> 00:27:03,467
-You must be Laura?
-Yeah.
390
00:27:03,667 --> 00:27:05,467
-Nice to meet you.
-Nice to meet you.
391
00:27:05,633 --> 00:27:06,467
-Please take a seat.
-OK.
392
00:27:06,633 --> 00:27:07,767
Thank you.
393
00:27:07,934 --> 00:27:11,567
Before I came to Türkiye,
I had been researching
394
00:27:11,734 --> 00:27:13,000
skin removal surgery,
395
00:27:13,166 --> 00:27:17,166
and Türkiye has such
high-quality plastic surgeons.
396
00:27:17,333 --> 00:27:21,300
So fortunately, I was able
to secure an appointment
397
00:27:21,467 --> 00:27:24,000
with one, but unfortunately,
398
00:27:24,166 --> 00:27:28,567
the only appointment they had
was for today.
399
00:27:28,734 --> 00:27:31,100
[bleep], so awkward.
400
00:27:32,266 --> 00:27:34,700
-Are you nervous?
-A little bit, yeah, actually.
401
00:27:35,667 --> 00:27:37,800
So you want me to come
inside with you,
402
00:27:37,967 --> 00:27:39,767
or you want to do it alone?
403
00:27:42,166 --> 00:27:43,166
If you want to come, you can.
404
00:27:44,567 --> 00:27:45,567
OK.
405
00:27:45,567 --> 00:27:48,266
A few weeks ago,
I asked Birkan to come with me
406
00:27:48,467 --> 00:27:53,066
because I kind of wanna see how
our future could look together
407
00:27:53,233 --> 00:27:56,066
as someone who's supposed
to support me.
408
00:27:56,233 --> 00:27:59,000
But now I kind of think
it just feels weird.
409
00:27:59,166 --> 00:28:00,567
Even though
we made out last night,
410
00:28:00,734 --> 00:28:03,100
I am still feeling insecure
411
00:28:03,266 --> 00:28:07,400
about how he actually
perceives me physically.
412
00:28:07,567 --> 00:28:09,533
Is he attracted or not?
413
00:28:12,000 --> 00:28:16,300
[Birkan]
Laura thinks too much
about her appearance.
414
00:28:16,467 --> 00:28:21,967
It is a curse that
you always try to be perfect,
415
00:28:22,133 --> 00:28:23,600
but nobody's perfect.
416
00:28:36,567 --> 00:28:37,567
-Hi.
-You must be Laura.
417
00:28:37,734 --> 00:28:38,567
-I am.
-Nice to meet you.
418
00:28:38,734 --> 00:28:39,867
-Nice to meet you.
-Birkan?
419
00:28:40,033 --> 00:28:41,166
-Nice to meet you.
-Yeah, thank you, thank you.
420
00:28:41,333 --> 00:28:43,000
Please take your seats.
OK.
421
00:28:44,066 --> 00:28:45,166
So I'm Dr. Ömer.
422
00:28:45,333 --> 00:28:47,567
I'm a board-certified
plastic surgeon.
423
00:28:47,734 --> 00:28:48,600
How can I help you?
424
00:28:48,767 --> 00:28:52,600
Um, I have recently lost
140 pounds,
425
00:28:52,767 --> 00:28:55,867
and so I have some, like,
loose skin in places
426
00:28:56,033 --> 00:28:57,900
that I am looking
to have removed.
427
00:28:58,066 --> 00:29:00,400
Which areas bothers
you the most?
428
00:29:00,567 --> 00:29:02,000
Mainly, like
in my stomach area.
429
00:29:02,166 --> 00:29:05,000
-The stomach part.
-My least confident spot.
430
00:29:05,166 --> 00:29:06,266
[Ömer]
uh-huh.
431
00:29:06,467 --> 00:29:08,400
-So I will take you
to the studio.
-OK.
432
00:29:09,667 --> 00:29:10,600
That's fine.
433
00:29:10,767 --> 00:29:12,467
And then you can ask
your questions.
434
00:29:12,633 --> 00:29:13,667
OK, I love that.
435
00:29:13,667 --> 00:29:15,600
And we can figure out
a treatment plan for you.
436
00:29:15,767 --> 00:29:16,700
-I love that.
-All right.
437
00:29:16,867 --> 00:29:18,100
Thank you very much.
438
00:29:20,567 --> 00:29:21,567
Just knock the door
when you're ready.
439
00:29:21,734 --> 00:29:22,500
-OK.
-I will come in.
440
00:29:22,667 --> 00:29:23,667
-Thank you.
-All right.
441
00:29:25,400 --> 00:29:26,367
Can I?
442
00:29:26,533 --> 00:29:27,667
[nurse]
For sure you can.
443
00:29:32,100 --> 00:29:33,700
-I'm sorry.
-[laughing]
444
00:29:38,066 --> 00:29:39,100
[Birkan speaks]
445
00:29:48,166 --> 00:29:49,767
[Laura] I guess at least
you're having fun.
446
00:29:51,200 --> 00:29:52,767
[Ömer]
Perfect.
447
00:29:52,934 --> 00:29:54,200
This is going to be
enough for me.
448
00:29:54,367 --> 00:29:56,100
Can you come closer
to the background?
449
00:29:56,266 --> 00:29:57,767
-Come closer?
-Perfect.
450
00:30:01,166 --> 00:30:02,266
-A little bit more.
-OK.
451
00:30:02,433 --> 00:30:03,667
Yeah, so this is the area
that I...
452
00:30:03,834 --> 00:30:06,066
-Yeah, I gotta it.
-...want to look at.
453
00:30:06,233 --> 00:30:07,367
-I got it.
-OK.
454
00:30:07,567 --> 00:30:08,667
-Perfect.
-Ooh!
455
00:30:08,834 --> 00:30:11,000
-Nothing is...seen.
-OK.
456
00:30:11,166 --> 00:30:12,367
Perfect.
457
00:30:12,533 --> 00:30:13,467
All right.
458
00:30:14,467 --> 00:30:16,867
OK.
Just a few pictures.
459
00:30:17,033 --> 00:30:18,367
-OK.
-And it will be over.
460
00:30:18,567 --> 00:30:21,767
Your arms will be on your back,
exactly like that.
461
00:30:21,934 --> 00:30:23,367
-Thank you very much.
-Mm-hmm.
462
00:30:27,500 --> 00:30:28,700
So...
463
00:30:34,500 --> 00:30:36,700
[Laura]
I feel really awkward
464
00:30:36,867 --> 00:30:41,367
because my stomach area is
my biggest insecurity.
465
00:30:41,533 --> 00:30:42,600
[Ömer]
Perfect.
466
00:30:42,767 --> 00:30:44,000
Same thing to the other side.
467
00:30:45,967 --> 00:30:50,100
I have worked my ass off,
literally and figuratively.
468
00:30:50,266 --> 00:30:53,767
And the fact that I still have
the loose skin,
469
00:30:53,934 --> 00:30:55,367
it's been really hard.
470
00:30:55,533 --> 00:30:57,767
Thank you very much.
That's great.
471
00:30:57,934 --> 00:31:00,500
When I look in the mirror,
I don't want to see myself
472
00:31:00,667 --> 00:31:02,900
at 315 pounds anymore.
473
00:31:03,066 --> 00:31:05,767
I want to see myself now
474
00:31:05,934 --> 00:31:07,500
and the work that I've put in.
475
00:31:11,567 --> 00:31:12,867
Oh, OK.
476
00:31:13,867 --> 00:31:15,600
So, uh...
477
00:31:16,500 --> 00:31:22,000
So the problem at the tummy
part is actually really common
478
00:31:22,166 --> 00:31:24,266
after losing so much weight.
-OK, yeah.
479
00:31:24,467 --> 00:31:26,300
I will just show you
some pictures.
480
00:31:30,367 --> 00:31:31,500
[tense music plays]
481
00:31:33,000 --> 00:31:36,200
[Ömer] So as you can see,
a horizontal problem here.
482
00:31:36,367 --> 00:31:39,000
-Mm-hmm.
-We should cut vertically.
483
00:31:41,266 --> 00:31:45,467
I was not expecting the doctor
to take the things
484
00:31:45,633 --> 00:31:48,900
that you know are your most
insecure flaws
485
00:31:49,066 --> 00:31:52,300
and project them for everyone
to see, like that.
486
00:31:54,200 --> 00:31:57,600
I am immediately regretting
having Birkan come with me.
487
00:31:58,700 --> 00:32:02,166
Here I am sitting next
to my boyfriend
488
00:32:02,333 --> 00:32:04,667
who happens to be 20 years
younger than I am.
489
00:32:04,834 --> 00:32:06,967
Like, "What the hell
was I thinking?"
490
00:32:08,166 --> 00:32:11,600
This is not romantic.
It's not that's sexy.
491
00:32:11,767 --> 00:32:13,066
It's [bleep] awful.
492
00:32:19,367 --> 00:32:20,967
[Emma speaks]
493
00:32:25,900 --> 00:32:28,500
So I'm not going to meet anyone
in your family while I'm here?
494
00:32:30,400 --> 00:32:32,500
[Emma]
It's really odd that he wouldn't
want to introduce me.
495
00:32:32,667 --> 00:32:33,767
It just makes me feel
496
00:32:33,967 --> 00:32:36,467
like he's hiding something
about his life.
497
00:32:41,467 --> 00:32:43,100
[middle eastern music plays]
498
00:32:47,200 --> 00:32:48,200
Hello.
499
00:32:49,700 --> 00:32:51,266
How are you?
500
00:32:51,467 --> 00:32:52,467
Salam.
501
00:32:52,633 --> 00:32:54,667
Do you know where I can buy,
like, hair oil?
502
00:32:54,834 --> 00:32:56,266
Like, to make my hair shiny?
503
00:32:59,100 --> 00:33:00,467
Oh.
504
00:33:00,633 --> 00:33:02,700
Excuse me? Do you know
where I can get hair oil?
505
00:33:02,867 --> 00:33:04,000
[man speaks]
506
00:33:04,166 --> 00:33:06,767
No, not -- like, hair oil.
Not spice.
507
00:33:06,967 --> 00:33:08,266
-Down there?
-[indistinct]
508
00:33:08,433 --> 00:33:09,467
OK.
509
00:33:09,633 --> 00:33:10,867
OK.
510
00:33:11,033 --> 00:33:12,700
Maybe here?
511
00:33:12,867 --> 00:33:14,567
No.
512
00:33:14,734 --> 00:33:15,700
No.
513
00:33:15,867 --> 00:33:17,667
Bags.
Not oil.
514
00:33:19,900 --> 00:33:21,567
Can you get stuff
for your hair?
515
00:33:21,734 --> 00:33:22,867
-Here?
-Oh, really?
516
00:33:23,033 --> 00:33:24,367
Here?
Perfect.
517
00:33:26,667 --> 00:33:27,667
I love tea.
518
00:33:36,500 --> 00:33:38,000
[Emma] We're going to be
cooking today.
519
00:33:39,266 --> 00:33:40,500
Thank you.
520
00:33:40,667 --> 00:33:41,667
[Jovon speaks in Arabic]
521
00:33:42,900 --> 00:33:44,300
This doesn't really
match my outfit.
522
00:33:47,967 --> 00:33:49,200
Thank you.
523
00:33:50,700 --> 00:33:53,567
[Emma]
This morning, I took a walk
through the Medina
524
00:33:53,734 --> 00:33:55,567
to try and clear my head.
525
00:33:55,734 --> 00:33:57,266
This isn't really sexy.
526
00:33:57,467 --> 00:34:00,367
Right now, I'm feeling really
concerned about everything
527
00:34:00,533 --> 00:34:02,400
that's happened since I landed.
528
00:34:02,567 --> 00:34:06,100
Ziad's been very distant with me
emotionally and physically
529
00:34:06,266 --> 00:34:08,066
the whole time
that I've been here,
530
00:34:08,233 --> 00:34:10,567
and it's making me
a little suspicious.
531
00:34:10,734 --> 00:34:13,767
I'm actually really
excited for this.
532
00:34:13,934 --> 00:34:17,467
But Ziad is taking me
to a cooking class today,
533
00:34:17,667 --> 00:34:21,200
and I really think it's such
a cute idea.
534
00:34:21,367 --> 00:34:24,767
I'm going to really try
not to just be in my head
535
00:34:24,934 --> 00:34:26,500
and overthink things.
536
00:34:26,667 --> 00:34:29,066
And I'm hoping this could be
a fun bonding moment
537
00:34:29,233 --> 00:34:30,266
between us.
538
00:34:30,433 --> 00:34:31,700
What are we making?
539
00:34:31,867 --> 00:34:33,567
[Jovon speaks Arabic]
540
00:34:38,367 --> 00:34:40,100
Yum!
That sounds good.
541
00:34:42,100 --> 00:34:43,567
[speaks Arabic]
542
00:34:43,734 --> 00:34:44,767
[Jovon]
Uh-huh.
543
00:34:48,200 --> 00:34:49,200
[Jovon speaks]
544
00:34:49,367 --> 00:34:51,133
OK.
545
00:34:53,600 --> 00:34:55,000
-Oh, you peel it.
-Exactly.
546
00:34:55,166 --> 00:34:56,800
[Emma] Oh!
547
00:34:56,967 --> 00:34:58,767
-So we're peeling the lemon.
-Exactly.
548
00:34:58,934 --> 00:35:00,200
All right.
549
00:35:00,367 --> 00:35:01,533
I could do that.
550
00:35:04,000 --> 00:35:05,100
-I did it.
-Yeah, yeah, yeah.
551
00:35:06,467 --> 00:35:09,367
-She said,
"You make it perfect."
-Perfect.
552
00:35:14,266 --> 00:35:15,367
Ooh.
553
00:35:17,166 --> 00:35:18,700
No.
[clears throat]
554
00:35:20,100 --> 00:35:21,100
Got it.
555
00:35:21,266 --> 00:35:23,467
Don't I look like a wife
right now?
556
00:35:23,667 --> 00:35:26,000
I have an apron on.
I'm cooking.
557
00:35:26,166 --> 00:35:27,767
This is like real
wife material.
558
00:35:28,967 --> 00:35:30,900
-This is actually a lot of fun.
-Yeah.
559
00:35:31,066 --> 00:35:32,367
I like this.
560
00:35:32,533 --> 00:35:34,967
[Jovon speaks]
561
00:35:39,166 --> 00:35:40,567
Yeah, I don't --
I don't cook.
562
00:35:41,567 --> 00:35:42,667
No.
563
00:35:45,667 --> 00:35:46,767
I don't like breakfast.
564
00:35:50,567 --> 00:35:52,000
Coffee is my breakfast.
565
00:35:52,166 --> 00:35:53,767
I could make you, like, toast.
566
00:35:57,567 --> 00:35:58,800
I'll order you something.
567
00:36:03,867 --> 00:36:05,867
-That's -- yeah, yeah.
That's better.
568
00:36:08,100 --> 00:36:09,066
What's your favorite food?
569
00:36:13,367 --> 00:36:14,266
What's my favorite?
570
00:36:14,433 --> 00:36:15,667
Do you remember?
571
00:36:17,600 --> 00:36:19,000
-Yeah.
-I know it.
572
00:36:19,166 --> 00:36:21,000
Oh, you remember.
573
00:36:21,166 --> 00:36:24,100
Have you ever cooked
for your other ex-girlfriends
before?
574
00:36:32,400 --> 00:36:34,000
Oh, so you don't eat
in the house?
575
00:36:43,467 --> 00:36:45,367
Did you tell your family
about me yet?
576
00:36:45,567 --> 00:36:46,567
[Ziad]
Yeah, yeah.
577
00:36:46,734 --> 00:36:49,367
They know you are here
and I'm with you.
578
00:36:51,667 --> 00:36:54,767
Before I came to Morocco,
Ziad mentioned
579
00:36:54,934 --> 00:36:58,467
that he didn't tell anyone
in his family that I was coming.
580
00:36:58,633 --> 00:37:00,066
I was upset.
581
00:37:00,233 --> 00:37:03,867
So I'm glad that Ziad finally
told them, but...
582
00:37:05,266 --> 00:37:08,166
I'm a little disappointed
that he hasn't set up a meeting.
583
00:37:09,400 --> 00:37:10,900
I wanna know more about him
584
00:37:11,100 --> 00:37:12,500
and understand him
a little bit more,
585
00:37:12,667 --> 00:37:13,900
and I feel like meeting
his family
586
00:37:14,100 --> 00:37:16,200
is the best way
to do that.
587
00:37:16,367 --> 00:37:18,100
So do you think
I can meet your family?
588
00:37:19,567 --> 00:37:23,600
Uh...I don't know which time
they will be free
589
00:37:23,767 --> 00:37:26,400
or they will be there.
For example...
590
00:37:30,367 --> 00:37:31,767
So I'm not going to meet
anyone in your family
591
00:37:31,934 --> 00:37:33,100
while I'm here?
592
00:37:37,867 --> 00:37:39,567
Don't you think that's
a little frustrating for me?
593
00:37:39,767 --> 00:37:41,767
-It is, it is.
-Like I'm not seeing
your apartment.
594
00:37:41,934 --> 00:37:44,367
-I'm not meeting your family.
-It is.
595
00:37:51,467 --> 00:37:53,266
You know,
this is the man that I love
596
00:37:53,433 --> 00:37:55,000
and that I want to be with.
597
00:37:55,166 --> 00:37:58,000
It's really odd that he wouldn't
wanna to introduce me
to his family.
598
00:37:58,166 --> 00:38:02,800
And it just makes me feel
like he's hiding me or hiding
599
00:38:03,000 --> 00:38:06,900
something about his life.
And that's not OK.
600
00:38:08,500 --> 00:38:10,200
Have you ever introduced a girl
to your parents?
601
00:38:11,266 --> 00:38:13,100
-Yeah.
-No, no, no.
602
00:38:13,266 --> 00:38:14,967
Then the girls you date
normally are just
603
00:38:15,133 --> 00:38:17,467
Moroccan girls.
-Yeah, yeah.
604
00:38:17,667 --> 00:38:20,467
Have you ever talked to
an American girl, like online?
605
00:38:21,700 --> 00:38:22,900
Or just me?
606
00:38:24,000 --> 00:38:25,066
Uh-huh.
607
00:38:26,500 --> 00:38:28,900
Have you talked to girls
from like Europe or...?
608
00:38:29,066 --> 00:38:31,400
Uh, no, no.
609
00:38:33,600 --> 00:38:35,767
Because the app that we met on
is international.
610
00:38:42,567 --> 00:38:43,800
You didn't message
any of them?
611
00:38:43,967 --> 00:38:45,066
No, no.
612
00:38:47,266 --> 00:38:48,567
[Emma]
I feel like he's lying to me.
613
00:38:50,467 --> 00:38:52,667
Before I came to Morocco,
me and Thea had gotten
614
00:38:52,834 --> 00:38:55,300
into a huge fight
because I found out
615
00:38:55,467 --> 00:38:57,867
that he's still talking
to woman online.
616
00:38:58,033 --> 00:39:00,567
He told me that he wasn't
cheating on me,
617
00:39:00,734 --> 00:39:02,667
but I'm not so sure about that.
618
00:39:03,667 --> 00:39:09,900
So I downloaded this extension
on my laptop, and it shows you,
619
00:39:10,066 --> 00:39:12,567
in order, who people follow.
620
00:39:12,734 --> 00:39:14,000
Cut the garlic.
621
00:39:18,166 --> 00:39:20,467
This morning,
I checked on my computer,
622
00:39:20,633 --> 00:39:25,066
and I found out that
he's still adding more women.
623
00:39:25,233 --> 00:39:27,266
They're all
from different countries.
624
00:39:27,433 --> 00:39:29,567
I mean, it's like he's never
stopped looking
625
00:39:29,734 --> 00:39:31,567
for other options.
626
00:39:31,767 --> 00:39:34,000
It feels like everything is
hitting me all at once,
627
00:39:34,166 --> 00:39:36,667
and I'm putting
the pieces together,
628
00:39:36,834 --> 00:39:39,800
and it's just making me wonder
if he did cheat on me
629
00:39:39,967 --> 00:39:42,266
or if he even really wants
this relationship.
630
00:39:43,667 --> 00:39:48,567
I think it's time to find out
what's the real story here.
631
00:39:52,467 --> 00:39:54,667
I still really want to talk
to your family.
632
00:39:55,767 --> 00:39:59,300
It would be best if Forrest
wanted to meet my family first
633
00:40:00,400 --> 00:40:02,567
so they could have
a better understanding.
634
00:40:03,700 --> 00:40:06,266
[Molly]
I can't even imagine what
her parents would try and do
635
00:40:06,433 --> 00:40:08,100
if Forrest went over there
by himself.
636
00:40:08,266 --> 00:40:12,367
I need to be there
with Forrest.
637
00:40:12,533 --> 00:40:13,467
Forrest?
638
00:40:23,567 --> 00:40:24,967
[Sheena speaking]
639
00:40:32,667 --> 00:40:35,100
That's something we're going
to have to do, you guys.
640
00:40:38,700 --> 00:40:42,100
Forrest, it's not the point
of replacement.
641
00:40:42,266 --> 00:40:45,767
It's the point of just
observing other things.
642
00:40:47,266 --> 00:40:49,967
I have no interest in women,
643
00:40:50,133 --> 00:40:52,500
but the human body
is beautiful.
644
00:40:52,667 --> 00:40:55,233
I don't even go
to those in the States.
645
00:40:57,700 --> 00:40:59,467
...'cause they cooked
the best hamburgers.
646
00:41:04,000 --> 00:41:05,000
Oh, man.
647
00:41:07,367 --> 00:41:09,967
[funky music plays]
648
00:41:14,467 --> 00:41:15,667
[Dev]
I know, that's neat, huh?
649
00:41:15,834 --> 00:41:17,900
Mm.
650
00:41:18,100 --> 00:41:20,166
My conversation with Sheena
yesterday forced me
651
00:41:20,333 --> 00:41:23,800
to reevaluate how I'm going
to approach Sheena's parents.
652
00:41:23,967 --> 00:41:27,200
And we decided that it's best
to meet Sheena's family first
653
00:41:27,367 --> 00:41:29,266
without my mom and dad.
654
00:41:29,433 --> 00:41:32,100
So what other things are in,
what do you call it?
655
00:41:38,467 --> 00:41:39,500
[Molly] Oh, man.
656
00:41:39,667 --> 00:41:41,767
I just have such a thing
for history,
657
00:41:41,967 --> 00:41:44,500
because you have to learn
from history
658
00:41:44,667 --> 00:41:46,367
because history repeats itself.
659
00:41:47,400 --> 00:41:50,367
You can kind of predict
what's going to happen
660
00:41:50,533 --> 00:41:53,600
if you don't learn from mistakes
from the first time.
661
00:41:53,767 --> 00:41:56,800
You know,
that's how I've always felt.
662
00:41:57,000 --> 00:41:58,900
[Forrest]
I'm not looking forward
to talking to my mom
663
00:41:59,066 --> 00:42:00,500
about this at all.
664
00:42:00,667 --> 00:42:03,166
She's pretty much going
to freak out
665
00:42:03,333 --> 00:42:04,400
and really think now
666
00:42:04,567 --> 00:42:06,266
her family is trying to get
the hooks into me.
667
00:42:06,433 --> 00:42:07,767
Like, I'm going to go
the first day,
668
00:42:07,967 --> 00:42:09,467
and they're just going
to set me down,
669
00:42:09,667 --> 00:42:11,000
they're going
to open up my brain,
670
00:42:11,166 --> 00:42:14,266
and they're just going to pour
the brainwashing juice directly
671
00:42:14,433 --> 00:42:16,066
into my soul.
672
00:42:16,233 --> 00:42:18,266
And she's going to fight me
tooth and nail
673
00:42:18,433 --> 00:42:20,367
to allow herself to go.
674
00:42:21,667 --> 00:42:23,467
[Sheena speaks]
675
00:42:25,767 --> 00:42:26,767
[Molly]
Whoo!
676
00:42:28,867 --> 00:42:30,700
[Sheena speaks]
677
00:42:33,166 --> 00:42:34,400
[Dev]
For all the important guys.
678
00:42:34,567 --> 00:42:36,066
[Sheena]
Yes, yes, yes.
679
00:42:36,233 --> 00:42:39,100
For Spanish rulers
at that era, yes.
680
00:42:40,500 --> 00:42:41,800
[Dev]
That is neat.
681
00:42:42,000 --> 00:42:43,867
[Molly]
Look at the fountain!
682
00:42:44,033 --> 00:42:45,367
[Sheena] Yeah,
that's the good stuff here.
683
00:42:45,533 --> 00:42:46,667
-Oh, my God.
-You want to see?
684
00:42:46,834 --> 00:42:48,333
-It's so beautiful.
-Yeah.
685
00:42:48,500 --> 00:42:50,567
[Forrest]
You can definitely tell that
you're not in America anymore.
686
00:42:50,734 --> 00:42:52,100
[Sheena speaks]
687
00:42:53,467 --> 00:42:56,367
Do you know what one thing
Dev and I talk about
all the time is?
688
00:42:56,567 --> 00:43:00,266
We'll look at a rock
and we say,
689
00:43:00,433 --> 00:43:03,667
"You know, imagine how much
this rock has seen."
690
00:43:05,900 --> 00:43:08,200
It all blows my mind
right there.
691
00:43:08,367 --> 00:43:09,567
Oh, man.
692
00:43:11,700 --> 00:43:14,667
To Sheena's credit,
she really is making the effort
693
00:43:14,834 --> 00:43:17,100
to show us the best
of her country.
694
00:43:17,266 --> 00:43:19,000
-[Molly] Oh, my God.
-[Sheena] Yes.
695
00:43:19,166 --> 00:43:20,166
[Molly]
How old is this?
696
00:43:20,333 --> 00:43:21,166
[Sheena speaks]
697
00:43:21,333 --> 00:43:22,367
[Molly]
I don't know if I --
698
00:43:23,867 --> 00:43:26,166
Oh, no, no,
I don't want to open it.
699
00:43:26,333 --> 00:43:29,367
But honestly, I don't regret
going so hard on Sheena
700
00:43:29,533 --> 00:43:30,667
the other night like that.
701
00:43:32,166 --> 00:43:33,767
-[Forrest] Whoa!
-[Molly] Oh, my God.
702
00:43:33,934 --> 00:43:35,767
-I wanna get one of these hats.
-Mom and her hats.
703
00:43:36,967 --> 00:43:38,967
Yeah, that's
how it'll look like.
704
00:43:39,133 --> 00:43:41,066
[Forrest]
Oh, hey, that's perfect.
705
00:43:41,233 --> 00:43:43,767
I want to believe
she has good intentions.
706
00:43:43,967 --> 00:43:46,200
[Sheena] Yeah, babe.
You look so handsome.
707
00:43:46,367 --> 00:43:49,900
But we're just sitting here,
stirring in the [bleep] pot.
708
00:43:50,066 --> 00:43:52,166
I'm still struggling
to figure out
709
00:43:52,333 --> 00:43:53,867
why Sheena lied.
710
00:43:54,033 --> 00:43:56,000
And I know in my heart
711
00:43:56,166 --> 00:43:58,166
that there is more
to this story.
712
00:43:58,367 --> 00:43:59,700
There.
There.
713
00:43:59,867 --> 00:44:01,567
There.
There.
714
00:44:01,734 --> 00:44:03,667
[Molly speaks]
715
00:44:04,767 --> 00:44:05,867
I'm going to sit down, guys.
716
00:44:06,033 --> 00:44:07,767
-All right.
-I'm sweating like crazy.
717
00:44:07,934 --> 00:44:09,667
Oh, God.
718
00:44:09,834 --> 00:44:12,000
This is all wonderful.
719
00:44:12,166 --> 00:44:15,900
I didn't realize how truly
beautiful the Philippines is.
720
00:44:16,100 --> 00:44:18,000
[Sheena] Yes.
Thanks so much.
721
00:44:18,166 --> 00:44:20,266
I mean, seeing this,
722
00:44:20,433 --> 00:44:23,800
meeting you is so important.
-Yes, Molly.
723
00:44:23,967 --> 00:44:25,033
Mm-hmm.
724
00:44:25,033 --> 00:44:29,300
But there's still
one little piece of the puzzle,
725
00:44:29,467 --> 00:44:31,266
and that's with your family.
726
00:44:32,800 --> 00:44:36,467
So I still really want to talk
to them and discuss things.
727
00:44:38,400 --> 00:44:41,066
[Forrest] Well,
I'm glad that you brought up,
728
00:44:41,233 --> 00:44:42,800
you know, Sheena's family.
729
00:44:46,967 --> 00:44:48,166
Sheena and I had a discussion
730
00:44:49,166 --> 00:44:51,066
about, you know,
going by ourselves
731
00:44:51,233 --> 00:44:53,066
to meet your parents
and how it's important
732
00:44:53,233 --> 00:44:57,166
that I meet them
before Mom and Dad meet them.
733
00:44:57,333 --> 00:45:00,500
So, Mom, I know that you wanted
to go as a group to meet
734
00:45:00,667 --> 00:45:01,967
with Sheena's family,
735
00:45:02,133 --> 00:45:05,000
but we would really like it
if you come the next day.
736
00:45:07,467 --> 00:45:08,767
-Of course.
-Isn't that right, babe?
737
00:45:10,166 --> 00:45:13,600
It would be best if Forrest
wanted to meet my family first
738
00:45:13,767 --> 00:45:15,867
so they could have
a better understanding.
739
00:45:16,033 --> 00:45:17,800
[tense music plays]
740
00:45:19,000 --> 00:45:21,266
[Molly]
I can't even imagine what
her parents would try and do
741
00:45:21,433 --> 00:45:23,600
if Forrest went over there
by himself.
742
00:45:23,767 --> 00:45:27,100
If Sheena's family is able
to manipulate Sheena
743
00:45:27,266 --> 00:45:28,900
the way that they do,
744
00:45:29,066 --> 00:45:31,066
with the whole tradition
745
00:45:31,233 --> 00:45:33,700
and the oldest daughter thing,
746
00:45:33,867 --> 00:45:35,467
and that we're broke,
747
00:45:35,633 --> 00:45:38,667
then who's to say
they can't manipulate Forrest?
748
00:45:39,667 --> 00:45:43,600
I need to be there
with Forrest and Sheena.
749
00:45:46,066 --> 00:45:51,300
I feel it is important
that you have me and Dev
750
00:45:51,467 --> 00:45:53,367
to stand by your side.
-OK.
751
00:45:53,567 --> 00:45:56,867
Just we will come in
and say our greetings.
752
00:45:57,033 --> 00:45:58,266
Hello, how are you?
753
00:45:58,433 --> 00:46:00,500
No going and yelling
and screaming.
754
00:46:00,667 --> 00:46:01,600
I promise.
755
00:46:02,767 --> 00:46:06,100
And so I was hoping
756
00:46:06,266 --> 00:46:09,000
that you would be
in agreement to doing that,
757
00:46:09,166 --> 00:46:10,400
allowing us to come.
758
00:46:14,367 --> 00:46:18,166
Mom, we're not saying that
we don't want you to be there.
759
00:46:18,333 --> 00:46:19,667
We want you to be there.
760
00:46:19,834 --> 00:46:23,667
We just want you to go
the next day.
761
00:46:23,867 --> 00:46:27,066
Because we can talk
about special pink fairy dust
762
00:46:27,233 --> 00:46:29,066
and all these other
great things,
763
00:46:29,233 --> 00:46:32,000
but we live in reality, OK?
764
00:46:32,166 --> 00:46:37,000
And in reality,
you are a very hardcore person.
765
00:46:37,166 --> 00:46:41,500
You know you are going to go
and look for anything
766
00:46:41,667 --> 00:46:44,100
to be said.
And I'm an adult.
767
00:46:44,266 --> 00:46:46,266
You need to treat me
like an adult.
768
00:46:46,433 --> 00:46:47,700
I am not a child anymore.
769
00:46:49,500 --> 00:46:52,200
And you should be able
to trust me and Sheena
770
00:46:52,367 --> 00:46:55,000
in our judgment.
-I cannot trust Sheena yet.
771
00:46:55,166 --> 00:46:56,000
Sheena's not perfect.
772
00:46:56,166 --> 00:46:57,500
This is the perfect opportunity.
773
00:46:57,667 --> 00:46:59,066
And I cannot trust you now.
774
00:46:59,233 --> 00:47:00,166
This is the perfect opportunity.
775
00:47:00,333 --> 00:47:01,600
I cannot trust you now.
776
00:47:03,500 --> 00:47:04,700
[Molly]
I know Forrest.
777
00:47:04,700 --> 00:47:10,100
He will sacrifice his own self
and do anything for Sheena.
778
00:47:10,266 --> 00:47:13,367
This was the whole reason
why I came here was to protect
779
00:47:13,533 --> 00:47:16,000
Forrest from Sheena's parents.
780
00:47:16,166 --> 00:47:18,000
This is total bullshit!
781
00:47:22,867 --> 00:47:24,567
[Jovon speaking]
782
00:47:26,667 --> 00:47:29,166
I'm meeting my husband,
not just any man.
783
00:47:29,333 --> 00:47:32,467
I have a feeling
that we're going to have
784
00:47:32,633 --> 00:47:33,800
some communication
problem again.
785
00:47:33,967 --> 00:47:35,600
I don't know.
786
00:47:38,100 --> 00:47:39,367
Come on!
787
00:47:43,767 --> 00:47:45,900
[gasps]
Oh, my God!
788
00:47:55,166 --> 00:47:58,166
[singing in Tagalog]
789
00:48:07,567 --> 00:48:09,100
[Annalyn speaks]
790
00:48:11,066 --> 00:48:12,166
Oh!
791
00:48:12,333 --> 00:48:15,367
Today is the day
that I'm going to meet my...
792
00:48:16,700 --> 00:48:20,367
loving husband,
and I'm so excited.
793
00:48:20,533 --> 00:48:22,266
It's just so surreal.
794
00:48:26,066 --> 00:48:28,500
After being married
for three years,
795
00:48:28,667 --> 00:48:31,467
in a relationship
for six years,
796
00:48:31,633 --> 00:48:35,700
I finally get to meet
my husband in person
797
00:48:35,867 --> 00:48:39,900
for the first time.
So crazy.
798
00:48:41,767 --> 00:48:43,066
Hi, hello, good morning.
799
00:48:43,233 --> 00:48:44,967
I'm finally picking up
my husband.
800
00:48:45,133 --> 00:48:48,867
Could you please bring us
some champagne later on?
801
00:48:49,066 --> 00:48:52,700
I suggested that we start
this trip on our honeymoon.
802
00:48:52,867 --> 00:48:57,800
So this morning, I check
into this beautiful resort
in Bicol,
803
00:48:57,967 --> 00:49:00,367
but it's been raining ever
since I showed up.
804
00:49:02,300 --> 00:49:06,767
Some people would think that
it's a bad sign, but, you know,
805
00:49:06,934 --> 00:49:10,266
I'm Catholic, and for us,
water is cleansing.
806
00:49:10,433 --> 00:49:11,667
For me, it's a blessing.
807
00:49:14,000 --> 00:49:16,367
...for the first kiss ever.
808
00:49:16,533 --> 00:49:19,367
My God, Jovon, here I come!
809
00:49:19,533 --> 00:49:20,667
OK.
810
00:49:25,767 --> 00:49:27,633
Wow, I feel like puking.
811
00:49:30,100 --> 00:49:33,367
There's just so many emotions
going on in my system
812
00:49:33,533 --> 00:49:34,467
right now.
813
00:49:36,000 --> 00:49:38,266
I feel happy.
I feel excited.
814
00:49:38,433 --> 00:49:40,100
I feel intense.
815
00:49:40,266 --> 00:49:43,567
It's just the fact
that I'm meeting my husband,
816
00:49:43,734 --> 00:49:45,000
not just any man.
817
00:49:46,100 --> 00:49:48,367
At the same time,
I have a feeling
818
00:49:48,533 --> 00:49:50,100
that we're also going
to have
819
00:49:50,266 --> 00:49:52,000
some communication
problem again.
820
00:49:52,166 --> 00:49:53,667
I don't know.
821
00:49:53,834 --> 00:49:55,767
But I don't want to be
822
00:49:56,767 --> 00:49:59,467
negative because this moment
is very special to me.
823
00:49:59,633 --> 00:50:02,000
I've been waiting
for a long time.
824
00:50:02,166 --> 00:50:06,667
So for today, I'm going
to focus on the positive,
825
00:50:06,834 --> 00:50:08,367
which is the love
and the feelings we have
826
00:50:08,533 --> 00:50:10,000
for each other.
827
00:50:19,266 --> 00:50:20,567
[Jovon]
Just touched down.
828
00:50:27,867 --> 00:50:30,367
I can't believe that
even though we've almost been
829
00:50:30,533 --> 00:50:33,000
married for three years,
I'm about to meet my wife
830
00:50:33,166 --> 00:50:34,433
for the first time.
831
00:50:35,166 --> 00:50:39,467
This moment is huge because
it's been a buildup over years.
832
00:50:39,633 --> 00:50:42,867
I'm excited, but also I have
a lot of anxiety
833
00:50:43,033 --> 00:50:46,166
because things are far
from perfect right now.
834
00:50:47,600 --> 00:50:51,000
I would love to get back
to the place where me and Anna
835
00:50:51,166 --> 00:50:54,266
can have fun and laugh together
and be happy
836
00:50:54,433 --> 00:50:55,700
in our relationship,
837
00:50:55,867 --> 00:50:57,500
like how it was
in the beginning.
838
00:51:04,767 --> 00:51:07,667
[Annalyn] This has been like
an overdue dream for me.
839
00:51:07,834 --> 00:51:11,266
I would always daydream
on how it's going to be,
840
00:51:11,433 --> 00:51:13,200
how it would feel like.
841
00:51:13,367 --> 00:51:17,066
I wonder how it feels
to touch him, to hold him.
842
00:51:18,000 --> 00:51:19,867
Oh, my God.
843
00:51:20,033 --> 00:51:24,000
The nervousness
is just leveling up.
844
00:51:24,166 --> 00:51:26,367
It's like ordering
something online,
845
00:51:26,533 --> 00:51:28,700
and when it finally arrives,
846
00:51:28,867 --> 00:51:32,200
you're just excited
to unpack the package.
847
00:51:42,266 --> 00:51:43,867
[Jovon]
Just passed customs.
848
00:51:44,033 --> 00:51:46,400
I'm one step closer
to seeing Anna.
849
00:51:46,567 --> 00:51:48,367
And I'm just so ready.
850
00:51:50,367 --> 00:51:51,567
♪ I'm gonna get up today ♪
851
00:51:51,767 --> 00:51:53,667
♪ And I will finally
see the sun ♪
852
00:51:53,867 --> 00:51:55,300
-♪ Let's go inside... ♪
-Come on!
853
00:51:57,667 --> 00:52:00,066
♪ Beating on my skin ♪
854
00:52:00,233 --> 00:52:01,367
♪ I soak it in ♪
855
00:52:01,533 --> 00:52:03,033
Oh...
856
00:52:05,467 --> 00:52:08,800
♪ Better days have just arrived
and I am ready now ♪
857
00:52:09,000 --> 00:52:12,767
♪ I'll be waiting for my time
and I wondered how ♪
858
00:52:12,967 --> 00:52:16,467
♪ Everything I want
can now begin ♪
859
00:52:17,567 --> 00:52:20,867
♪ Take every day as it comes ♪
860
00:52:22,500 --> 00:52:24,300
[gasps]
861
00:52:24,467 --> 00:52:26,166
Oh, my God!
862
00:52:26,333 --> 00:52:27,467
[Annalyn giggles]
863
00:52:28,700 --> 00:52:30,667
[shouts and giggles]
864
00:52:34,667 --> 00:52:37,000
[Annalyn] Mm!
865
00:52:37,166 --> 00:52:38,967
[cries]
866
00:52:39,133 --> 00:52:40,266
[giggles]
867
00:52:46,367 --> 00:52:50,400
Look at you in pink!
Like a peach on a windowsill.
868
00:52:50,567 --> 00:52:52,600
-[Jovon laughs]
-Yeah, I told you.
869
00:52:52,767 --> 00:52:54,000
Yeah.
870
00:52:56,500 --> 00:52:59,000
[Annalyn cries]
871
00:53:00,767 --> 00:53:02,166
Stop crying.
It's OK.
872
00:53:02,333 --> 00:53:04,800
-You're supposed to be happy.
-I'm happy.
873
00:53:05,000 --> 00:53:07,734
-[Jovon laughs]
-It's tears of joy.
874
00:53:10,200 --> 00:53:13,166
I rehearsed the moment
in my head a thousand times
875
00:53:13,367 --> 00:53:15,000
of how I was going
to approach her
876
00:53:15,166 --> 00:53:16,800
and what she was going
to look like.
877
00:53:17,000 --> 00:53:21,867
And she's just everything
that I ever hoped for and more.
878
00:53:24,100 --> 00:53:26,266
Oh, my God!
879
00:53:28,667 --> 00:53:34,066
You're very handsome and tall
and, yeah, perfect.
880
00:53:34,233 --> 00:53:37,567
It just feels like a dream.
It feels surreal.
881
00:53:37,734 --> 00:53:43,266
Like, I still can't believe it,
but I just want more kisses.
882
00:53:46,767 --> 00:53:48,633
-Yeah.
-Still not enough.
883
00:53:51,100 --> 00:53:53,300
-I got you some chocolate.
-[gasps]
884
00:53:53,467 --> 00:53:57,700
-Some more stuff for you
in my other suitcase.
-Very smart, mister.
885
00:53:57,867 --> 00:54:00,400
Like, I can't even wrap
my brain around it
886
00:54:00,567 --> 00:54:04,000
that I am standing next
to my wife.
887
00:54:04,166 --> 00:54:05,200
It just feels amazing.
888
00:54:18,667 --> 00:54:20,166
You look uncomfortable
right now,
889
00:54:20,333 --> 00:54:22,166
-so I'm curious
if you're OK with this.
-No, no, no.
890
00:54:22,333 --> 00:54:23,767
Everything is fine by me.
891
00:54:23,934 --> 00:54:25,367
I am comfortable
with everything.
892
00:54:26,467 --> 00:54:28,900
Seeing your photos is just,
893
00:54:29,066 --> 00:54:30,166
it is just...
894
00:54:39,667 --> 00:54:41,500
[Ömer] I will just show you
some pictures.
895
00:54:50,867 --> 00:54:54,266
So, as you can see,
a horizontal problem here
896
00:54:54,433 --> 00:54:57,266
that we should cut vertically.
-Mm-hmm.
897
00:54:57,467 --> 00:54:59,266
We call it
abdominoplasty, but...
898
00:55:01,066 --> 00:55:03,600
-OK.
-So, fix this area here
899
00:55:03,767 --> 00:55:05,300
and here in this part.
900
00:55:05,467 --> 00:55:06,900
-We can remove it.
-OK.
901
00:55:08,467 --> 00:55:11,667
When we do an FDL tummy tuck,
we have to cut in the middle
902
00:55:11,867 --> 00:55:14,767
of your tummy, so it's almost
impossible to hide it.
903
00:55:14,934 --> 00:55:16,567
[Laura]
Right, OK.
904
00:55:16,767 --> 00:55:18,200
You look uncomfortable
right now,
905
00:55:18,367 --> 00:55:19,700
so I'm curious if...
-No, no, no.
906
00:55:19,867 --> 00:55:21,166
I'm comfortable with everything.
907
00:55:32,166 --> 00:55:35,867
It didn't make me uncomfortable.
908
00:55:36,033 --> 00:55:38,100
I kinda surprised me,
but it's just --
909
00:55:38,266 --> 00:55:39,900
it is just --
910
00:55:40,066 --> 00:55:43,767
people's life, you know.
911
00:55:43,934 --> 00:55:46,166
Just not a problem for me.
912
00:55:49,867 --> 00:55:55,367
[nurse] So overall,
all for $7,175.
913
00:55:55,533 --> 00:55:57,467
-[Laura] OK.
-That's pretty much all.
914
00:55:58,567 --> 00:55:59,867
That's what I was gonna ask.
Uh-huh.
915
00:56:00,100 --> 00:56:01,266
[Ömer]
Usually patients ask.
916
00:56:01,433 --> 00:56:02,667
So, it's six weeks.
917
00:56:02,834 --> 00:56:04,066
-OK.
-All right?
918
00:56:04,233 --> 00:56:06,266
So, like, anything I do
at the gym, pretty much,
919
00:56:06,433 --> 00:56:08,467
would be done for six weeks.
-Almost, yes.
920
00:56:08,633 --> 00:56:09,667
Almost.
921
00:56:09,834 --> 00:56:11,700
But approximately two
to three weeks later,
922
00:56:11,867 --> 00:56:15,000
you can start jogging
and light exercises.
923
00:56:15,166 --> 00:56:16,266
Excellent.
924
00:56:16,433 --> 00:56:18,300
And I'll have a packet
of all this information?
925
00:56:18,467 --> 00:56:19,467
-[nurse] Of course.
-All right.
926
00:56:19,633 --> 00:56:20,667
It's already printed up.
927
00:56:20,834 --> 00:56:22,100
OK.
Thank you very much.
928
00:56:22,266 --> 00:56:24,166
-But we'll be in touch.
-Yes, absolutely.
929
00:56:24,333 --> 00:56:27,767
And if you have additional
medical questions,
930
00:56:27,934 --> 00:56:29,500
feel free to ask.
-I love that.
931
00:56:29,667 --> 00:56:31,100
I was just going to ask
if there was an email.
932
00:56:31,266 --> 00:56:32,367
-Thank you.
-Thank you.
933
00:56:32,533 --> 00:56:33,700
Nice to meet you.
934
00:56:33,867 --> 00:56:34,967
I appreciate your time.
935
00:56:36,467 --> 00:56:37,734
[Laura]
I'm glad I did it.
936
00:56:37,734 --> 00:56:42,266
But I feel really embarrassed
about going to this appointment
937
00:56:42,433 --> 00:56:44,066
with Birkan.
938
00:56:44,233 --> 00:56:48,166
I'm not fully confident
that he's, like,
939
00:56:48,333 --> 00:56:50,600
physically attracted to me.
940
00:56:50,767 --> 00:56:53,166
And having him in there with me
941
00:56:53,333 --> 00:56:55,600
has made me more insecure
than ever.
942
00:56:59,100 --> 00:57:02,300
[Birkan] So, what are you
thinking about surgery?
943
00:57:02,467 --> 00:57:03,500
It's something
that I've thought about
944
00:57:03,667 --> 00:57:06,166
for a long time now.
-Yeah.
945
00:57:06,333 --> 00:57:09,567
I feel like sometimes
I'll catch a glimpse of myself,
946
00:57:09,734 --> 00:57:11,867
and I feel like I don't look
any different than I did
947
00:57:12,033 --> 00:57:15,100
140 pounds ago,
and I hate that.
948
00:57:15,266 --> 00:57:16,400
Yeah.
949
00:57:17,967 --> 00:57:21,467
If you feel more confident
when you do it,
950
00:57:21,633 --> 00:57:23,100
just do it.
951
00:57:23,266 --> 00:57:25,000
This is your life.
952
00:57:25,166 --> 00:57:27,800
You have to make
your own decisions.
953
00:57:28,867 --> 00:57:32,266
That shows you how brave
you are, you know?
954
00:57:32,433 --> 00:57:33,300
Thank you.
955
00:57:33,467 --> 00:57:35,900
I don't feel
like it's brave, though.
956
00:57:36,066 --> 00:57:38,200
This feels exactly
the opposite of brave.
957
00:57:38,367 --> 00:57:39,867
I feel, like,
958
00:57:40,033 --> 00:57:44,000
scared and embarrassed,
and, like, it's not brave.
959
00:57:47,767 --> 00:57:50,867
But you have nothing
to be ashamed
960
00:57:51,033 --> 00:57:53,467
or embarrassed.
961
00:57:53,667 --> 00:57:56,266
You have the power to change
your life.
962
00:58:01,100 --> 00:58:03,767
You lost all
the weight you want.
963
00:58:03,934 --> 00:58:05,367
This is the best part.
964
00:58:05,533 --> 00:58:09,400
You just go into surgery
and enjoy your --
965
00:58:09,567 --> 00:58:11,066
the rest of your life, you know?
966
00:58:12,100 --> 00:58:14,166
And you are gorgeous.
967
00:58:19,000 --> 00:58:22,000
I will always be on your side.
OK?
968
00:58:26,066 --> 00:58:28,066
OK.
OK.
969
00:58:28,233 --> 00:58:29,166
OK.
970
00:58:29,333 --> 00:58:30,367
[Laura speaking]
971
00:58:30,533 --> 00:58:31,667
I appreciate that.
972
00:58:33,800 --> 00:58:37,500
[Laura] I love
how supportive Birkan is.
973
00:58:37,667 --> 00:58:42,367
His words are so touching.
974
00:58:42,533 --> 00:58:47,767
I feel like I'm finally starting
to get some reassurance from him
975
00:58:47,934 --> 00:58:49,867
that, yeah,
he really does love me,
976
00:58:50,033 --> 00:58:52,300
and I can trust
what he's saying.
977
00:58:52,467 --> 00:58:54,166
-You want to go?
-Mm-hmm.
978
00:58:54,333 --> 00:58:55,266
Then let's go.
979
00:58:55,433 --> 00:58:57,300
-OK.
-OK.
980
00:59:00,900 --> 00:59:03,400
-[Laura] You're the best.
-[Birkan] I know.
981
00:59:03,567 --> 00:59:05,767
-[Laura chuckles]
-That's my mojo.
982
00:59:12,467 --> 00:59:14,867
Since we've been dating,
have you talked romantically
983
00:59:15,033 --> 00:59:16,000
to any other girls?
984
00:59:17,467 --> 00:59:18,433
No, I don't.
985
00:59:18,600 --> 00:59:20,567
I just don't want us to have
any secrets.
986
00:59:40,100 --> 00:59:41,200
[Emma]
Cute!
987
00:59:42,367 --> 00:59:44,166
That is so cute.
988
00:59:45,467 --> 00:59:47,767
That's like the cutest thing
I've ever seen.
989
00:59:47,934 --> 00:59:48,867
Can we eat now?
990
00:59:53,100 --> 00:59:55,066
[middle eastern music plays]
991
01:00:01,166 --> 01:00:02,867
-This is so pretty.
-Yes, so nice --
992
01:00:03,033 --> 01:00:04,367
Do you want to sit over here?
993
01:00:04,533 --> 01:00:06,767
We can sit right
at this table.
994
01:00:06,934 --> 01:00:09,166
I'm feeling a little frustrated
after the cooking class
995
01:00:09,333 --> 01:00:11,900
because I feel
like the past couple days,
996
01:00:12,100 --> 01:00:13,667
he's just been changing
his story.
997
01:00:13,834 --> 01:00:15,900
He's been telling different
things to me online
998
01:00:16,066 --> 01:00:17,166
and in person.
999
01:00:17,333 --> 01:00:18,667
Oh, this is what we made.
1000
01:00:19,767 --> 01:00:23,300
And then seeing what Ziad is
doing on social media,
1001
01:00:23,467 --> 01:00:25,567
I feel like he has something
that he's hiding
1002
01:00:25,734 --> 01:00:27,467
or that he doesn't want
to tell me.
1003
01:00:28,767 --> 01:00:31,967
This is all the more reason
that I think every girl needs
1004
01:00:32,133 --> 01:00:33,367
to do a little bit of stalking.
1005
01:00:35,100 --> 01:00:36,700
I would never, like, show up
at someone's house
1006
01:00:36,867 --> 01:00:37,867
in the middle of the night.
1007
01:00:38,033 --> 01:00:40,567
Like, that's, like,
creepy stalker status.
1008
01:00:40,767 --> 01:00:43,667
But...you know, like,
some light digging is,
1009
01:00:43,834 --> 01:00:45,100
like, totally normal.
1010
01:00:47,066 --> 01:00:49,400
I investigate.
I don't stalk.
1011
01:00:51,500 --> 01:00:53,667
[Ziad speaking Arabic]
1012
01:00:53,834 --> 01:00:55,867
-We did a really good job.
-Yeah.
1013
01:00:56,033 --> 01:00:57,400
Should we try it?
1014
01:00:59,467 --> 01:01:00,600
Taste it all.
1015
01:01:01,600 --> 01:01:03,300
Mmm.
1016
01:01:03,467 --> 01:01:06,166
That's really good.
Do you like it?
1017
01:01:06,367 --> 01:01:08,500
-It's so delicious.
-Good.
1018
01:01:19,367 --> 01:01:20,567
Yeah, I'm eating.
1019
01:01:25,066 --> 01:01:29,000
I have a lot on my mind.
I'm thinking...
1020
01:01:31,467 --> 01:01:33,500
I don't know, I'm just, like,
thinking about...
1021
01:01:35,367 --> 01:01:37,200
Just, like, the whole...
1022
01:01:39,667 --> 01:01:41,767
argument we got
into a couple weeks ago.
1023
01:01:41,934 --> 01:01:43,066
What?
1024
01:01:43,066 --> 01:01:45,200
When I found out that you were
still talking to girls.
1025
01:01:47,200 --> 01:01:48,500
And you haven't talked
to any girls since?
1026
01:01:48,667 --> 01:01:49,700
No.
1027
01:01:49,700 --> 01:01:51,567
So you don't talk to girls
on your social media?
1028
01:01:55,867 --> 01:01:57,367
I've been looking
at your page.
1029
01:01:58,767 --> 01:02:00,600
-Every day.
-Mm-hmm.
1030
01:02:00,767 --> 01:02:02,367
You follow new girls.
1031
01:02:02,533 --> 01:02:03,967
Just girls, girls,
girls, girls, girls,
1032
01:02:04,133 --> 01:02:05,367
girls, girls, yeah.
1033
01:02:05,567 --> 01:02:08,533
And it's like thousands
of people that you follow.
1034
01:02:11,000 --> 01:02:13,266
So what if they message you?
Do you respond to messages too?
1035
01:02:17,500 --> 01:02:19,600
If girls try to flirt with you,
what do you say?
1036
01:02:19,767 --> 01:02:21,166
I will say, "Thanks."
That's all.
1037
01:02:22,500 --> 01:02:24,467
So since we've been dating,
1038
01:02:24,667 --> 01:02:26,667
have you talked romantically
to any other girls?
1039
01:02:36,600 --> 01:02:37,633
[Ziad]
So that's...
1040
01:02:37,800 --> 01:02:39,467
So you don't think you've ever
cheated on me?
1041
01:02:43,266 --> 01:02:44,667
-You would never cheat?
-No.
1042
01:02:44,867 --> 01:02:47,200
-Or lie?
-No.
1043
01:02:47,367 --> 01:02:50,100
I just don't want us to have
any secrets between each other.
1044
01:03:23,600 --> 01:03:26,300
I want to feel like I can
trust you and that,
1045
01:03:26,467 --> 01:03:28,467
like, you're not ever going
to do something behind my back.
1046
01:03:28,633 --> 01:03:30,600
Like, I don't ever want to have
to worry about it.
1047
01:03:30,767 --> 01:03:32,100
I don't hide nothing.
1048
01:03:33,300 --> 01:03:34,467
[Ziad]
So...
1049
01:03:42,767 --> 01:03:43,767
No.
1050
01:03:45,266 --> 01:03:46,300
[Emma]
Mm-hmm.
1051
01:04:12,767 --> 01:04:16,367
Um, I was just going through
a bad breakup.
1052
01:04:22,700 --> 01:04:24,100
No, I was going
through a breakup.
1053
01:04:32,266 --> 01:04:33,967
-You know?
-Yeah.
1054
01:04:34,133 --> 01:04:35,266
Well, I was going
through a breakup.
1055
01:04:40,367 --> 01:04:41,834
[Emma] Like, going through
a breakup means...
1056
01:04:44,300 --> 01:04:45,667
...we're going through
a breakup.
1057
01:04:47,667 --> 01:04:48,767
No.
1058
01:04:49,900 --> 01:04:51,567
Babe, I was going
through a breakup.
1059
01:04:51,767 --> 01:04:54,100
That's my answer.
I was going through a breakup.
1060
01:04:55,200 --> 01:04:56,767
-Oh, OK.
-I wasn't in the right headspace
1061
01:04:56,934 --> 01:04:58,467
to start a relationship.
1062
01:04:58,633 --> 01:05:00,100
Ah.
1063
01:05:01,667 --> 01:05:04,667
[Emma]
Me and Ziad have actually
never talked about why I ended
1064
01:05:04,834 --> 01:05:07,166
things with him when we first
started dating.
1065
01:05:07,333 --> 01:05:09,667
So I'm really shocked
to hear Ziad bringing this up
1066
01:05:09,834 --> 01:05:11,100
right now.
1067
01:05:11,266 --> 01:05:14,567
I mean, honestly, I did kind
of just drop him disappear
1068
01:05:14,767 --> 01:05:17,834
because I was trying to make
things work with my ex.
1069
01:05:20,300 --> 01:05:23,667
I really want to be open
with Ziad about Mohammed,
1070
01:05:23,834 --> 01:05:26,767
but I feel like with the way
Ziad is badgering me
1071
01:05:26,934 --> 01:05:30,667
for this information right now,
he wouldn't take it well.
1072
01:05:32,667 --> 01:05:37,266
So I'm just not really ready
to tell him in this moment.
1073
01:05:38,467 --> 01:05:41,967
That was a long time ago, right?
1074
01:05:42,133 --> 01:05:43,567
I'm here -- I'm here --
1075
01:05:43,734 --> 01:05:45,066
I'm here with you now,
1076
01:05:45,233 --> 01:05:46,767
and I want to be with you now.
1077
01:05:46,934 --> 01:05:48,166
Yeah.
1078
01:05:48,333 --> 01:05:50,100
I'm talking about now,
'cause I want to be with you now
1079
01:05:50,266 --> 01:05:52,667
and focus on right now
us being together.
1080
01:05:55,000 --> 01:05:56,967
[Ziad speaking]
1081
01:06:11,667 --> 01:06:13,100
I see, like --
1082
01:06:26,567 --> 01:06:28,367
[Jovon]
Wow, did you do all this?
1083
01:06:28,533 --> 01:06:29,667
[Annalyn]
Yeah.
1084
01:06:29,834 --> 01:06:33,867
I am very nervous because it
has been almost a decade
1085
01:06:34,033 --> 01:06:35,300
since I had sex.
1086
01:06:36,400 --> 01:06:37,400
OK.
1087
01:06:38,500 --> 01:06:41,767
What if the positions
have changed?
1088
01:06:41,934 --> 01:06:44,567
Do I still know
how it's gonna go?
1089
01:06:44,734 --> 01:06:47,100
Jovon, you ready for me?
1090
01:06:48,467 --> 01:06:49,900
[giggles]
1091
01:06:50,066 --> 01:06:53,767
Now, how is it all of a sudden
you can miraculously change
1092
01:06:53,934 --> 01:06:55,333
and stand up to your parents?
1093
01:06:57,800 --> 01:07:00,066
Now the story changes again.
1094
01:07:01,166 --> 01:07:04,100
Lying, not keeping
her story straight,
1095
01:07:04,266 --> 01:07:06,000
that's where I have an issue.
1096
01:07:06,166 --> 01:07:08,467
I still don't know
if this isn't something
1097
01:07:08,633 --> 01:07:10,467
that you're involved in either.
1098
01:07:10,633 --> 01:07:11,800
They're gonna have you snookered
1099
01:07:11,967 --> 01:07:13,667
before you even realize it,
Forrest.
1100
01:07:26,200 --> 01:07:27,100
[Annalyn speaks]
1101
01:07:27,266 --> 01:07:28,367
-[Jovon] Really?
-[Annalyn] Yeah.
1102
01:07:29,467 --> 01:07:30,567
What?
1103
01:07:35,400 --> 01:07:38,066
Oh, my gosh.
Oh, my God.
1104
01:07:42,200 --> 01:07:44,567
♪ When you're streeted,
you can stay with me ♪
1105
01:07:44,767 --> 01:07:46,567
♪ Into the sunrise ♪
1106
01:07:46,734 --> 01:07:48,266
♪ As long as I've got you,
give me a smile ♪
1107
01:07:53,166 --> 01:07:56,367
[Jovon] I just met my wife
for the first time in person.
1108
01:07:57,467 --> 01:07:59,500
Man, I dreamed about this day
for a long time.
1109
01:07:59,667 --> 01:08:01,233
This is freaking huge.
1110
01:08:03,700 --> 01:08:07,300
Right now, we're on our way
to the resort that Anna booked.
1111
01:08:07,467 --> 01:08:09,667
And it's a very surreal feeling.
1112
01:08:11,567 --> 01:08:12,967
Before I --
1113
01:08:19,567 --> 01:08:20,567
Yeah.
1114
01:08:22,867 --> 01:08:24,867
But then it's funny because...
1115
01:08:31,166 --> 01:08:32,266
Mm-hmm.
1116
01:08:40,100 --> 01:08:42,900
Anna's personality
is a big ball of energy,
1117
01:08:43,066 --> 01:08:44,700
and she's a little wacky,
1118
01:08:44,867 --> 01:08:48,166
and she can literally hold
a conversation all on her own.
1119
01:08:50,667 --> 01:08:52,567
Pretty much the opposite of me.
1120
01:08:52,734 --> 01:08:54,867
But what can I say?
That's my wife.
1121
01:08:57,367 --> 01:08:59,667
So am I what you were expecting?
1122
01:08:59,834 --> 01:09:01,867
You're exactly
what I was expecting.
1123
01:09:06,767 --> 01:09:08,000
Oh, my...
1124
01:09:10,467 --> 01:09:11,667
Here we are.
1125
01:09:15,200 --> 01:09:16,500
[Jovon]
This is really nice, boo.
1126
01:09:16,667 --> 01:09:18,600
[Annalyn]
That's why I pick it.
1127
01:09:18,767 --> 01:09:21,967
-It's got good taste, you know.
-[Annalyn] Yes.
1128
01:09:22,133 --> 01:09:23,667
-So...
-[Jovon] Ready?
1129
01:09:24,967 --> 01:09:26,667
[giggles]
1130
01:09:26,867 --> 01:09:27,767
-OK.
-[Jovon] You got it?
1131
01:09:27,967 --> 01:09:29,467
-[Annalyn] Yeah.
-All right.
1132
01:09:29,633 --> 01:09:30,967
-No.
-[both giggle]
1133
01:09:31,133 --> 01:09:32,367
You heavy.
1134
01:09:34,266 --> 01:09:36,100
No.
Don't throw me away.
1135
01:09:36,266 --> 01:09:39,000
-Don't throw you?
-No.
1136
01:09:39,166 --> 01:09:41,567
You may look tiny,
but you heavy, though.
1137
01:09:41,734 --> 01:09:43,767
-Wow, would you do all this?
-[grunts]
1138
01:09:43,934 --> 01:09:47,166
-Yeah.
-[Jovon] OK.
1139
01:09:47,367 --> 01:09:50,367
[Jovon] I've been waiting
on this night for six years.
1140
01:09:50,533 --> 01:09:53,367
It's our honeymoon,
and seeing the rose petals
1141
01:09:53,533 --> 01:09:55,567
on the bed, you know,
1142
01:09:55,734 --> 01:09:58,900
the environment's right for us
to, you know,
1143
01:10:00,800 --> 01:10:02,000
[bleep] get it in.
1144
01:10:06,667 --> 01:10:08,800
Boo, this is yours.
1145
01:10:11,266 --> 01:10:13,266
-You can take off your...
-These come with the room?
1146
01:10:13,433 --> 01:10:14,567
-Yeah.
-OK.
1147
01:10:14,734 --> 01:10:16,100
You can take this off.
1148
01:10:16,266 --> 01:10:19,000
Ooh, I'm kind of scared
to take my socks off.
1149
01:10:22,867 --> 01:10:24,867
[Annalyn speaks]
Ooh!
1150
01:10:25,033 --> 01:10:26,600
[both giggle]
1151
01:10:28,300 --> 01:10:30,400
Oof, boy.
1152
01:10:32,867 --> 01:10:34,467
I was wearing boots.
1153
01:10:34,633 --> 01:10:35,800
I haven't taken
a shower in like,
1154
01:10:35,967 --> 01:10:37,767
33 hours.
-Why would you wear boots
1155
01:10:37,934 --> 01:10:40,266
on a 33 hour flight?
1156
01:10:42,667 --> 01:10:43,667
Get a big whiff, man.
1157
01:10:43,834 --> 01:10:45,000
That's what you're going
to have to deal with
1158
01:10:45,166 --> 01:10:47,100
on a day-to-day basis.
-You want to take a shower?
1159
01:10:48,500 --> 01:10:50,266
-Please do.
-All right.
1160
01:10:50,433 --> 01:10:52,133
-OK?
-I'll be right out.
1161
01:10:54,600 --> 01:10:57,700
I knew that I would learn
a lot of things about Jovon,
1162
01:10:57,867 --> 01:11:02,166
but I did not expect
that the feet would smell...
1163
01:11:03,367 --> 01:11:04,867
so badly.
1164
01:11:06,967 --> 01:11:08,467
It smells terrible.
1165
01:11:11,467 --> 01:11:13,000
Ugh.
1166
01:11:13,166 --> 01:11:14,800
OK.
1167
01:11:14,967 --> 01:11:18,266
I am very nervous because,
oh, my God,
1168
01:11:18,433 --> 01:11:20,500
I've never been with a man
for a long time.
1169
01:11:22,467 --> 01:11:26,767
It has been almost a decade
since I had sex.
1170
01:11:26,934 --> 01:11:28,600
OK, yeah!
1171
01:11:28,767 --> 01:11:30,266
Look at you.
Better.
1172
01:11:30,433 --> 01:11:31,900
I am worried a little bit
1173
01:11:32,066 --> 01:11:34,967
I'm not going to be able
to satisfy him?
1174
01:11:35,133 --> 01:11:36,300
I don't know.
1175
01:11:38,467 --> 01:11:41,166
What if the positions
have changed?
1176
01:11:41,333 --> 01:11:43,667
Do I still know
how it's gonna go?
1177
01:11:43,834 --> 01:11:45,000
Like, I don't know!
1178
01:11:50,367 --> 01:11:53,300
-Jovon, you ready for me?
-Mm?
1179
01:11:54,967 --> 01:11:56,100
Hey.
1180
01:11:56,266 --> 01:11:59,200
-Yeah, look at you.
-Mm-hmm.
1181
01:11:59,367 --> 01:12:00,767
Looking good, boo.
1182
01:12:02,000 --> 01:12:04,000
I know we have
a lot to figure out
1183
01:12:04,166 --> 01:12:08,066
about each other
the next few weeks, but so far,
1184
01:12:08,233 --> 01:12:11,400
Jovon and I are off
to a really romantic start.
1185
01:12:11,567 --> 01:12:13,667
-All right, you ready?
-You ready? Yeah.
1186
01:12:13,834 --> 01:12:15,700
[Annalyn]
But, oh, my God!
1187
01:12:15,867 --> 01:12:18,567
I've never seen any married
couple that took
1188
01:12:18,734 --> 01:12:19,867
three years before...
1189
01:12:20,967 --> 01:12:22,667
doing it.
1190
01:12:22,834 --> 01:12:23,767
Wish me luck.
1191
01:12:25,467 --> 01:12:27,166
Two, three!
1192
01:12:27,333 --> 01:12:28,867
[both giggle]
1193
01:12:37,467 --> 01:12:39,300
Sheena, if we go
1194
01:12:39,467 --> 01:12:41,567
and meet your parents,
1195
01:12:41,734 --> 01:12:45,767
I agree to not speak
out of turn.
1196
01:12:45,934 --> 01:12:48,100
I don't believe
you're going to do that.
1197
01:12:48,266 --> 01:12:50,567
-I wont.
-And we cannot...
1198
01:12:51,867 --> 01:12:53,166
mess this up
with Sheena's family.
1199
01:13:03,667 --> 01:13:05,367
OK.
1200
01:13:05,533 --> 01:13:09,367
Sheena, your parents are going
to do the same line
1201
01:13:09,567 --> 01:13:11,800
that they've used on yo --
all along,
1202
01:13:12,000 --> 01:13:15,800
the cultural thing
and the duty of the family.
1203
01:13:16,000 --> 01:13:19,066
Now how is it all of a sudden
under one day
1204
01:13:19,233 --> 01:13:22,300
you can miraculously change
and stand up to your parents?
1205
01:13:28,400 --> 01:13:30,700
Oh, now the story
changes again.
1206
01:13:30,867 --> 01:13:31,867
Again.
1207
01:13:32,033 --> 01:13:35,066
-You told me yourself.
-Yes, Molly, but --
1208
01:13:35,233 --> 01:13:38,166
That you are pressured
and you're scared
1209
01:13:38,333 --> 01:13:39,900
of your family, remember?
1210
01:13:41,100 --> 01:13:43,166
You're scared of your family.
1211
01:13:44,367 --> 01:13:46,567
But now you feel
totally safe and...
1212
01:13:46,734 --> 01:13:48,400
Yes, I understand, Molly.
1213
01:13:48,567 --> 01:13:50,900
Aaaah, how that switches.
1214
01:13:51,100 --> 01:13:55,367
Sheena telling me that
her parents aren't bad people,
1215
01:13:55,567 --> 01:13:58,166
it's like,
"What are you saying?"
1216
01:13:58,333 --> 01:13:59,900
That's a total different story
1217
01:14:00,133 --> 01:14:02,400
from what you've been telling me
all along.
1218
01:14:02,567 --> 01:14:05,567
They're mistreating me,
they're gonna kick me out,
1219
01:14:05,734 --> 01:14:07,667
they call me names,"
all of this,
1220
01:14:07,834 --> 01:14:10,066
and now the story switches.
1221
01:14:10,233 --> 01:14:12,200
It's hard to think bad
of your parent.
1222
01:14:13,266 --> 01:14:15,367
You can't go and slam her
and judge her just because
1223
01:14:15,533 --> 01:14:16,667
she thinks highly
of her parents.
1224
01:14:16,867 --> 01:14:19,900
Where my problem is,
is her lying,
1225
01:14:20,066 --> 01:14:22,166
not keeping her story straight.
1226
01:14:22,333 --> 01:14:23,967
That's where I have an issue.
1227
01:14:25,266 --> 01:14:27,800
I still don't know
if this isn't something
1228
01:14:27,967 --> 01:14:29,700
that you're involved in either.
1229
01:14:29,867 --> 01:14:32,467
It would be the most perfect
setup for your family
1230
01:14:32,633 --> 01:14:33,734
and you guys.
1231
01:14:34,600 --> 01:14:38,266
Your family, of course,
doesn't want you to leave
1232
01:14:38,433 --> 01:14:40,367
this country
and go to the United States.
1233
01:14:40,567 --> 01:14:42,900
So you get forced
to come over there,
1234
01:14:43,066 --> 01:14:46,700
and then it's twice the amount
of money to your parents.
1235
01:14:46,867 --> 01:14:50,500
And he will be the grunt
just like you are.
1236
01:14:50,667 --> 01:14:52,300
Stop, don't.
I don't do that.
1237
01:14:52,467 --> 01:14:54,400
I love my person.
I love your son.
1238
01:14:54,567 --> 01:14:55,567
I love more than anything.
1239
01:14:55,734 --> 01:14:57,166
I have self respect
for your son.
1240
01:14:57,367 --> 01:15:00,867
But I'm just saying, my fear
is that Forrest is going to say
1241
01:15:01,033 --> 01:15:05,567
and do anything just to keep
your love and then find out
1242
01:15:05,734 --> 01:15:07,567
that it was all a con.
1243
01:15:09,100 --> 01:15:12,467
Mom, you acting this way
has proven my point.
1244
01:15:14,567 --> 01:15:18,600
I ask you to please just wait
one day so I can go and greet
1245
01:15:18,767 --> 01:15:20,900
Sheena's family.
That was it.
1246
01:15:21,066 --> 01:15:22,667
And look at where we're sitting
right now.
1247
01:15:22,867 --> 01:15:24,867
You can't even hold
your temper.
1248
01:15:26,467 --> 01:15:30,100
My mom is saying things
that are way out of line.
1249
01:15:30,266 --> 01:15:33,000
Sheena is a person with such
a kind heart that she would
1250
01:15:33,166 --> 01:15:36,867
never do anything to put me
in danger or hurt me.
1251
01:15:37,066 --> 01:15:40,900
I brought my mom to Manila
to kind of support me
1252
01:15:41,066 --> 01:15:43,567
and give me advice,
1253
01:15:43,767 --> 01:15:45,667
but instead,
she's always just nuking it,
1254
01:15:45,834 --> 01:15:47,567
which makes everything worse.
1255
01:15:50,600 --> 01:15:52,767
Mom, I don't think one day
1256
01:15:52,934 --> 01:15:55,900
is truly going to change
everything.
1257
01:15:56,100 --> 01:15:57,266
Forrest,
that's not even the point.
1258
01:15:57,433 --> 01:15:59,767
-We can't even have a decent...
-We've gone beyond that.
1259
01:15:59,934 --> 01:16:01,000
It's already gone beyond that.
1260
01:16:01,166 --> 01:16:02,900
You know why
it's gone beyond that?
1261
01:16:03,066 --> 01:16:06,767
Because of the fact
that you don't trust me.
1262
01:16:11,400 --> 01:16:17,700
I have bust my ass trying
to make sure to be there
1263
01:16:17,867 --> 01:16:20,000
for you and to be there for her.
1264
01:16:20,166 --> 01:16:22,000
You think that
if I didn't trust you
1265
01:16:22,166 --> 01:16:23,900
that I would bring you
all the way here
1266
01:16:24,066 --> 01:16:25,033
to the Philippines?
1267
01:16:25,200 --> 01:16:27,967
That took a lot of trust
to bring you here.
1268
01:16:29,667 --> 01:16:33,266
Forrest's saying
that he doesn't trust me
1269
01:16:33,433 --> 01:16:35,000
that I won't blow up.
1270
01:16:35,166 --> 01:16:39,467
The reason why I blow up
has always been to protect him.
1271
01:16:41,767 --> 01:16:43,333
But to see how...
1272
01:16:45,800 --> 01:16:48,400
he's taken that protection
1273
01:16:48,567 --> 01:16:52,100
and made it a problem,
it's painful.
1274
01:16:52,266 --> 01:16:54,600
And I will not be
anybody's problem.
1275
01:16:56,900 --> 01:16:57,967
[Molly]
You guys want your life?
1276
01:16:58,133 --> 01:16:59,233
-You want your thing?
-Mom.
1277
01:16:59,400 --> 01:17:02,266
-Go handle it now.
-We're not trying to hurt you.
1278
01:17:02,433 --> 01:17:03,467
They're gonna have you snookered
1279
01:17:03,633 --> 01:17:05,266
before you even realize it,
Forrest.
1280
01:17:06,667 --> 01:17:08,867
So, good luck, guys.
Good luck.
1281
01:17:15,967 --> 01:17:19,667
Yes, it's for the best
that she's not coming.
1282
01:17:27,667 --> 01:17:29,700
Oh, my God,
is it really you?
1283
01:17:36,567 --> 01:17:37,567
[Lisa speaking]
1284
01:17:38,700 --> 01:17:39,967
[Daniel speaking]
1285
01:17:42,100 --> 01:17:43,467
-No, stop!
-Huh?
1286
01:17:46,867 --> 01:17:48,367
Oh, my God.
You better stop.
1287
01:17:49,500 --> 01:17:50,800
Oh, my God, Daniel.
1288
01:17:50,967 --> 01:17:52,300
[Lisa laughs]
1289
01:18:01,800 --> 01:18:04,667
I don't mind being here
from morning to night.
1290
01:18:04,834 --> 01:18:06,500
I will wait.
1291
01:18:07,667 --> 01:18:09,000
I will wait.
1292
01:18:17,767 --> 01:18:19,600
I am having a little nervous.
1293
01:18:24,867 --> 01:18:28,100
[Lisa]
I can't believe I'm finally
about to meet Daniel.
1294
01:18:28,266 --> 01:18:29,367
Excuse me.
1295
01:18:30,900 --> 01:18:32,266
Hello.
1296
01:18:32,433 --> 01:18:34,767
This is a beginning chapter.
1297
01:18:34,934 --> 01:18:37,700
No matter what it is,
whether it's good or bad,
1298
01:18:37,867 --> 01:18:40,600
it's going to change everything
in my life right now.
1299
01:18:40,767 --> 01:18:43,667
[romantic music plays]
1300
01:18:51,367 --> 01:18:53,400
[laughs]
1301
01:18:53,567 --> 01:18:57,166
[triumphant music plays]
1302
01:19:01,000 --> 01:19:01,967
Oh, my God.
1303
01:19:11,166 --> 01:19:13,500
I wanna look at you.
Let me look at you.
1304
01:19:23,266 --> 01:19:24,567
[Lisa]
Oh, my God!
1305
01:19:24,734 --> 01:19:27,467
I don't even have words for how
I felt when I first saw Daniel.
1306
01:19:27,633 --> 01:19:29,667
He started running towards me
and I was like,
1307
01:19:29,834 --> 01:19:31,300
"Oh my God, that's him!"
1308
01:19:31,467 --> 01:19:37,100
And my heart just exploded
and he devoured me.
1309
01:19:40,867 --> 01:19:43,266
Daniel!
Oh, my God, Daniel!
1310
01:19:43,433 --> 01:19:44,767
[Lisa laughs]
1311
01:19:49,300 --> 01:19:50,967
No, stop!
1312
01:19:54,066 --> 01:19:55,800
Oh, my God!
You better stop!
1313
01:19:57,000 --> 01:19:57,967
Oh, my God!
1314
01:19:59,000 --> 01:20:00,667
Oh, my God!
Is it really you?
1315
01:20:00,867 --> 01:20:02,767
Is it really you?
Oh, my God!
1316
01:20:13,867 --> 01:20:15,066
Don't cry.
1317
01:20:15,233 --> 01:20:17,166
I'm trying not to cry.
Don't you cry.
1318
01:20:28,000 --> 01:20:29,367
-Really?
-Yeah.
1319
01:20:29,533 --> 01:20:31,767
No, I'm a mess.
I've been on a plane for hours.
1320
01:20:37,066 --> 01:20:38,667
Oh, my God, baby.
1321
01:20:38,834 --> 01:20:39,700
I love you!
1322
01:20:39,867 --> 01:20:40,800
[Daniel speaking]
1323
01:20:42,767 --> 01:20:45,266
Oh, my God!
I don't know what to do.
1324
01:20:45,433 --> 01:20:47,300
I don't know what to do next.
OK, we should go.
1325
01:20:47,467 --> 01:20:49,066
Let me get my...
Are you gonna get the luggage?
1326
01:20:49,233 --> 01:20:51,667
-I will get this.
-You get that one?
1327
01:20:51,834 --> 01:20:52,767
Which way?
1328
01:21:02,667 --> 01:21:04,100
[tribal music playing]
1329
01:21:15,767 --> 01:21:17,266
Did you?
1330
01:21:23,667 --> 01:21:25,266
Oh, my God, honey!
1331
01:21:37,900 --> 01:21:40,066
I walked out,
and there's music,
1332
01:21:40,233 --> 01:21:42,700
and it's loud, and there's
dancers dancing around,
1333
01:21:42,867 --> 01:21:44,567
and I'm thinking,
"What the hell?
1334
01:21:44,734 --> 01:21:48,867
Is this how they welcome all
foreigners into their country?"
1335
01:21:49,033 --> 01:21:52,667
But no, this is about me.
Daniel set this up for me.
1336
01:21:52,834 --> 01:21:57,000
What the hell is going on here?
This is nuts.
1337
01:21:59,467 --> 01:22:00,667
[Lisa] Wait a minute.
Hold this.
1338
01:22:00,834 --> 01:22:01,800
Let me try.
Wait.
1339
01:22:01,967 --> 01:22:04,367
Hold the flower.
Wait.
1340
01:22:16,567 --> 01:22:17,567
[laughs]
1341
01:22:41,166 --> 01:22:43,100
[Lisa laughs]
1342
01:22:43,967 --> 01:22:46,533
Oh, my God.
That was amazing.
1343
01:22:49,000 --> 01:22:50,166
Thank you!
1344
01:23:01,166 --> 01:23:02,567
What are you doing?
1345
01:23:08,467 --> 01:23:09,867
[Daniel speaking]
1346
01:23:13,700 --> 01:23:16,734
[suspenseful music plays]
1347
01:23:19,200 --> 01:23:21,900
[Annalyn] Next time on
"Before the 90 Days."
1348
01:23:22,066 --> 01:23:24,066
This one is for you, Aviva.
1349
01:23:25,367 --> 01:23:26,600
[cars honking]
1350
01:23:26,767 --> 01:23:28,166
[Sheena speaks]
1351
01:23:28,333 --> 01:23:30,900
Today we're traveling to meet
Sheena's family with our goal
1352
01:23:31,066 --> 01:23:33,100
of getting their blessing
to be married.
1353
01:23:33,266 --> 01:23:35,100
[Sheena speaks]
1354
01:23:49,567 --> 01:23:51,867
I brought condoms too, baby.
Go take your shower.
1355
01:23:52,033 --> 01:23:54,100
Get everything ready.
1356
01:23:54,266 --> 01:23:56,767
It's been 21 years
since I've been with a man.
1357
01:23:56,934 --> 01:23:58,166
[Daniel speaking]
1358
01:23:58,333 --> 01:23:59,500
[Lisa speaking]
1359
01:23:59,667 --> 01:24:01,467
What if I want it and he
doesn't want me?
1360
01:24:04,467 --> 01:24:06,000
[breathes with difficulty]
1361
01:24:08,467 --> 01:24:12,066
When we first started talking,
he was so sweet...
1362
01:24:15,100 --> 01:24:16,667
[Ziad's friend speakin¿]
1363
01:24:16,834 --> 01:24:18,066
Yes.
1364
01:24:18,233 --> 01:24:19,567
[speaking in Arabic]
1365
01:24:27,400 --> 01:24:30,100
Sometimes you overstep
just a little bit.
1366
01:24:34,467 --> 01:24:36,900
I love you, but you are
a little bit unhinged.
1367
01:24:38,700 --> 01:24:39,867
Oh, my God.
1368
01:24:40,066 --> 01:24:42,266
I can't believe
you're Jovon right now.
1369
01:24:42,467 --> 01:24:45,100
-You done?
-Done with this conversation.
1370
01:24:47,567 --> 01:24:49,967
Well, this is something
you didn't tell me about.
1371
01:24:51,600 --> 01:24:55,066
You've been holding a secret
for, what, four months now?
1372
01:24:55,233 --> 01:24:58,367
Now I'm thinking her
ghosting me for five days
1373
01:24:58,533 --> 01:25:00,266
directly has to do with her ex.
1374
01:25:00,433 --> 01:25:01,667
[Trisha speaking]
1375
01:25:17,900 --> 01:25:19,967
-Did you say, "your debts?"
-Yeah.
1376
01:25:21,567 --> 01:25:22,900
How much is it?
1377
01:25:25,367 --> 01:25:27,266
[Birkan speaking]
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