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Should we do this?

Yeah.

We're still on the opposite
side of the room.

I know.

I can feel the awkwardness.

And set.

The "In The City" season
1 reunion starts now.

Hey, everybody.

Welcome to the "In
The City" Season 1 Reunion.

I love a season 1 reunion.

I'm Andy Cohen.

And I almost wore
a whitish-pink suit tonight.

But after what
happened to Danielle,

I went right back
in my dressing room

and I changed very quickly.

Good move.

Without further
ado, yes, let's say

hi to the gang from Gotham.

Yvonne and Nick,
congratulations on expecting.

Thank you.

Yes!

Hey, Gavin.

What's up?

Have you noticed a spike
in business at your bars

since the show started airing?
- I have.

- Yes.
- People are showing up.

Excellent.

Hey, Georgina.
- Hi.

- How are you?
- I'm good.

How are you?

Great.

Has Kyle hit you up
for any butt Botox lately?

That would be a HIPAA
violation to answer.

Oh!

OK.

Hey, Amanda.
- Hi, Andy.

- How are you?
- I'm OK.

OK, good.

I know the last few months
have been a whirlwind for you.

How are you approaching
today differently?

I know you actually did
your own hair tonight.

I did.

I did my own hair,
makeup, and styling

so no one can get in trouble.

And if you hate it, then,
you know, that's on me.

That's on you.

Right, right.

As are most
of my actions, but--

- Yes.
- yeah.

All right.

Hi, Lindsay.

Hey, Andy.

Is Gemma still
a master of side-eye?

She is.
And in fact--

Where'd she get that?

I don't know.

It's so crazy how, you
know, genetics work.

Yeah, it is.

DJ Kyle Cook.
- How are we doing?

How are you?

Pretty good, pretty good.

Very good.

The people need to know,
how is your asshole doing?

Well, you're supposed
to ease into Metamucil.

I was taking four times
the recommended dosage.

I like, literally,
like, rip my butt open.

You know, I was
hoping it made the edit.

I-- it took a while.

I finally recovered.

- You did?
- Yeah.

Sounded like it.

Oh, my god.

Hey, Kenny and Whitney.

- Hi.
- How's it going?

Good, good.

How are you?

How's your spark these days?

Phenomenal.

Good.

It's very, very bright.

Hey, Danielle and Eoin.

- Hi, Andy.
- Hi, Andy.

How are you?
- How are you?

You are also expecting.

Congratulations.
- Yes.

Thank you.

You are due when?

Labor Day.

- Labor Day?
- Yeah.

Wow.

And finally, good
news comes in threes.

Congratulations are also
in order to Andrea and Lexi,

who are expecting a baby girl.

Congratulations.

Nice to see you, Andy.

It's been a while.

When are you due?

September 2.

Wow!

I mean, this is--
- Boom, boom, boom.

Within a week.

- Yep.
- Wow.

Yeah, we're all within
a week of each other.

- Oh, my god.
- Lots of labor.

I guess that means
the prosciutto method works.

That's a good method.

- He lifts you up.
- That's my move.

Yeah.

Semi off the ground.

Like a prosciutto.

It's easy.

You just grab her from
the legs, and make sure

it goes straight.

Our daughter is
gonna see this.

All right, well,
let's get into it.

As the entire
world knows by now,

after Kyle and Amanda's
marriage went south,

Amanda found herself
swerving West.

There's been a ton of online
speculation about where

you two stand today.

So let me just start
there and get an update.

How are things going?

I know you were just in Italy.

Yes.

And, you know, this
video or a picture of you

spitting in his
mouth was everywhere.

- It was an olive.
- It was an olive, OK.

Yes.
I wasn't spitting in his mouth.

OK.

Yeah.

I got a lot of heat
for only asking

West if he was on a beta
blocker at the reunion.

Yes.

There was a lot
of people wanted

me to ask if you were, you
know, disengaged chemically.

No.

I did-- I was on a beta
blocker as well.

But that's not why
I was disengaged.

I think after a while, I think
people can see also, you know,

when Kyle and I
have had arguments,

my defense mechanism is to just
shut down and dissociate.

That wasn't
because of medication.

We have heard from
Kyle, Amanda, and Lindsay

at the "Summer House" reunion.

I'm curious for the rest
of you in the group

if anyone had
a reaction or were

you surprised about
Amanda and West

announcing that they
were giving it a shot.

- Yes.
- Yes.

- Shocked.
- Shocked?

- Shocked.
- I didn't believe it.

I thought--
- Disappointed.

Mm-hmm.

Why?

I think because of the way
it all unfolded.

The friendships that were
broken apart because of it.

And then I just-- honestly, I
hate that you kind of doubled

down and you're pursuing
this relationship with him

all the way, you
know, going to Italy.

I know that you had to make a
decision one way or the other.

I just wish for you,
that you would take

some time just for yourself.

Be alone.

What's your reaction
to her disappointment?

No, I understand.

I think and I know the way that
I handled things and went about

the whole situation was wrong.

And you can't go
back and change it.

But you can a little.

I can't go back and change
the fact that I wasn't honest

and, you know, and hid
things and lied.

I'm curious, have y'all hung
out with Amanda and West yet?

Anyone here in this group?
- No.

No?

Gavin, have they turned
up at any of your bars?

They know better than that.

What would you do?

What would happen if they
turned up at one of your bars?

Cut, cut.

Rejected at the door.

Those two.

No.

Amanda, she would
never do that.

Yeah, no.

I mean, we're not going
out much in general, so.

Are you two monogamous now?

Yes.

Are you in love?

That's-- it's a weird
question to answer.

Do you say, I love you?

Not really.

Not really?

Have you ever?

No.

"Love ya" counts.

Yeah, ILY.

Oh!

As you look back on the
reunion, did you watch it?

I lived it.

I didn't-- I have not.

OK.

Did you-- when you left, did
you leave feeling that there

was nothing left unsaid?

Or were you-- like,
were you disappointed

in your performance?

Were you fine with it?

How did you--

For sure disappointed
in my performance.

You know, I definitely
wanted to come in and

be able to apologize
and provide more clarity

and come off as sad and like--

not me not hurt,
but upset about how

I've hurt other people.

And I think the energy,
I went into defense mode.

And that's not to blame anyone.

I understand where
everyone was coming from.

But my natural instinct
was to get defensive.

And I don't love the way
that I handled myself at all.

You wish you had
not gotten defensive?

- Yeah.
- Yeah.

- Not at all.
- I don't know West.

I do care about you.

And I've known you
for a long time.

But he seems like
the things that you

were most upset with Kyle
about, like, 10 times worse.

That's not what I've been
experiencing whatsoever.

And on the flip
side, I'm actually

getting from him
things that I felt

I was lacking in my
relationship with Kyle, so--

Like what?

Just someone
that's been, like,

supportive, that I feel like--

like, like--

Let me know when
he does your taxes,

negotiates your brand deals.
- You feel built up?

- I feel-- I do--
- Make your bed.

Like--

I feel--

How did I not support you?

I didn't say you
don't support me.

But towards the end
of our relationship,

there were things
that were missing.

Not the whole time, but there
were things that were lacking.

To this day, I'm still
doing things to help you.

So it's just-- it still hurts
when you say things like that.

I understand our marriage
is not perfect.

I understand there's
a lot missing.

I don't think support was--

The way that he, like,
talks to me and tells me.

Like, it's just his
actions, just the way--

it's just-- it's different.

And--

Well, I mean, yeah.

He's-- yeah, anyway.

I hope you understand
that everything

that everybody here is saying
is because they care about you.

I know that.

You have people in your--

I just don't want you
to turn your back.

And I know it's
tough to sit here and

do this all over again,
take the criticism.

And it's a lose-lose.

Like, you're coming
into the other reunion.

There's nothing
you're going to say

that's going to make it right.

I know.

And similar
today, so I give you

credit for taking
it on the chin,

and it's not
the first time he's

said the right thing
to somebody to wrap

them around his finger.

Kyle, you've
been very dignified

throughout this whole thing.

No, Kyle's been--

continued to be
amazed by how your--

- the best.
- support--

- Yeah.
- It's a testament to--

Yeah.

I'm wondering, what
was your perspective

about Kyle's conversation
with West, and in general,

his level of support for you?

I mean, I'm eternally
grateful for Kyle.

I think it just shows how much
we do have love for each other

and I think it's
something that we've made

clear from the very beginning.

Unfortunately, like, we
could not communicate,

we could not get
along in our marriage,

but that doesn't take away from
the friendship and the love

that we've had for each
other this whole time.

Which is also why, when
we first separated,

I was always standing up
for him too, because I didn't

want people to attack him.

And I'm just really
appreciative that he's

been there for me
as well, because if anyone

knows each other better,
it's the two of us.

So I've been very
grateful to have him.

I don't know any
other way, so it's--

It's been a ride.

Yeah.

Coming up.

- When I can finish--
- There was a period of time.

let me know.

You just talk over everyone.

Let someone else speak.

sitting here screaming.

OK, we are back.

So, what's it like hanging out
with single Kyle now, folks?

Kenny?

When he's not making
out with somebody?

With all due, is single
Kyle that different--

Not at all.

from married Kyle?

Kyle is true to himself.

I don't have, like,
this guilt trip--

- Yeah.
- hanging over my head.

He's just more public
with his makeouts now.

- Kyle is going to be Kyle.
- Yeah.

And I love
hearing about them.

Are you just being recorded?

- Do you care if--
- I think it was--

- you see him making out--
- years ago.

with someone now?

It wasn't as much years ago.

No, I think I mourned
most of our relationship

when I was still in it, which
is why I think I was so cold

and closed off
towards the end of it,

because I was coming
to terms that it

wasn't going to continue.

And now, like, he tells me
about make outs that he has

and we laugh about it.

Or like, I'll call
him and be like,

I saw you kissing Meghan
on your tippy toes.

What was that?
- Not my tippy toes.

- He wasn't on his tippy toes.
- Not my tippy toes.

He was not on his tippy toes.

And at our premiere party,
we have a laugh about it.

And then, yeah,
at our premiere party.

He was telling Amanda--

Kyle was telling Amanda--

How he has sober sex.

And she was saying,
I'm so proud of you.

- What?
- She had tears in her eyes.

Yeah.

I don't know how
that came about.

I was like, What is
going on right now?

Who's having sober sex?

You're having sober sex?
- Yeah.

And Amanda was so proud.

I guess I was trying
to make a point, but--

- Kyle McGill--
- I forget my point.

Like, how do you know
you're over somebody

when you're proud I them that
they're having sober sex?

Part of me wonders
if you are fully allowing

yourself to process this.

The way you're
showing up for her,

the way that you guys
are still so friendly,

given the level
of betrayal here.

It's like, are you
allowing yourself--

- Well, I didn't betray--
- to process?

- We were--
- Here's the hero.

way separated before.

There was no betrayal.

Like, I didn't cheat on Kyle.

I didn't have an affair.

There was no
crossover, overlap.

Like, our marriage was done.

Oh, it did hurt to hear--

I mean, like, to this day--

Of course, it hurt.

Look, the only
thing I'll say is,

the thing that I can't
compute is our statement

comes out the 19th.

There's two weekends between
the 19th and the Super Bowl and

everybody talks about
the Super Bowl being that

point in time where West--

- Which doesn't make--
- said that--

sense to me--

you guys were an item.

because we weren't
an item at all.

We were texting.

Then take it up with him,
because he's out there running

his mouth before, apparently,
you guys were an item,

saying you were an item.

Yeah, again--

Which again,
like, what's his MO?

I don't know.
- Don't know.

I only bring that up
because I am still--

Like, there's still stuff
that I am processing.

Who do you feel more
betrayed by, West or Amanda?

West.

Because we were boys
and we were done with our--

You made out with someone
before I was even texting

West in any sort of way.

The night before
our premiere party in February?

Yeah.

So, like, Kyle was done.

He was making
out with Sally--

Yeah.

the night before
the "Summer House" premiere.

My point is, Kyle
wasn't, like, in his bed

crying about the marriage.

Like, Kyle was, like,
enjoying his freedom.

Right.

And are you
in Sally hanging out?

I was just in Charleston.

Austin threw a nice
little party.

- And what happened?
- We hung out.

Yes.

- Yes, we hooked up.
- OK.

And there's nothing
wrong with that,

and I didn't have an issue--
- Did you have sober sex?

with it the first time
I heard about it either.

Was it sober?

Your-- your reaction--

Kyle, your reaction--

No, it's prosciutto.

It's the prosciutto.

Lawnmower?

The wheelbarrow.

Wheelbarrow.

So since nothing happens
outside the Bravo sphere,

we've got LaLa from
The Valley saying

that she heard
on good authority

that you are great in bed.

Yeah, I woke up
to some texts from, like,

TMZ and Page Six
asking for comment.

I was like, this is one time
I would like to comment.

But how would
people know that?

So how many people are you
sleeping with and how soon

after--
- No, it was Sally.

- OK.
- It was Sally.

Just Sally.

She had told LaLa,
because, I guess,

they had recorded a podcast.

What were you
guys doing in bed?

Having sober sex, Amanda.

What are you doing in bed?

Wait, was the sober
sex person her?

- No, no, no.
- Oh.

No, no, no.

TBD.

One was my age, one
was 10 years younger,

but reads at an older level.

He certainly was
not on his tippies.

He was not on his tippies,
I'll tell you that.

And I found a bra.
Yeah.

No, it's fine.

We are able to laugh about it.

Well, I should hope so.

I feel like that means
it's been over for--

Well, I want
to put a pin in this,

and we are going to get more
into Kyle and Amanda's marriage

a little later.

Well, these days,
getting activated

looks a lot different
for Lindsay Hubbard.

This new mom found
herself sandwiched

between a baby, a core group
of New York City girlfriends,

and an utterly
unpredictable love life.

Andrea, it was very
entertaining to see

how giddy you got trying
to set Lindsay up.

Have you been on the hunt
for her since then?

Oh, she's still
going decently

strong with Mr. Milkman.

Are you?

Yeah.

They're very cute together.

I met Frank--

Tell me how you really feel?
You have no idea.

when he was
dating Kelly Dodd.

I know.

He loves reality stars.

The Bravo world is so small.

I mean--

I'm not in a place right
now where I'm looking

for a serious relationship.

I really just am not.

I think the last--

You're focused
on your daughter.

Yeah.
And work.

Daughter and work.

And co-parenting.

And if-- dating has to be
fun for me, and I just

am not ready to settle down.

The last two partners that
I decided were going to be

my partners, didn't work out.

So I really am
taking my time when

it comes to that big decision.

Co-parenting is going well?

He's a great father.

Is he dating anyone?

I hope so.

You hope so,
but you don't know?

Wait, you don't talk?

It makes everyone nicer
when they're getting laid.

- That is true.
- Look at Kyle.

He's--
He's glowing.

Danielle, what do you
think of Frank and Dustin

as potential mates for Lindsay?

I'm not going to comment
on Lindsay's

relationships anymore.

We are back with
the "In The City" Reunion.

Georgina and Yvonne, what kind
of guy do you see Lindsay with?

Oh my God.

I see Lindsay with
somebody ambitious.

So Frank did check that box.

But I also see Lindsay
with somebody who doesn't

take himself very seriously.

Honestly, I think
Dustin would have

been a great match if he
lived here, because he

kind of checks those boxes.

Obviously, he's handsome.

She needs somebody
good looking and

somebody who's really
confident and secure

and is not going to be
intimidated by the fact

that she doesn't need
him, she just wants him.

And I think someone
who prioritizes

Lindsay and values you.

I think I'm still
skeptical of Frank,

but I would love to see
you with someone else.

But he's fun for now.

Yeah.

She's right about that
part related to Frank.

He should be more available.

- More available.
- But I was--

Frank has just been
the fling category--

- He's very fun, though.
- not the ring category.

- He's very fun.
- There's something missing.

I won't allow it.

There's something we
don't know about Frank.

He's very cute.

Danielle, what do you
think of Frank and Dustin

as potential mates for Lindsay?

I-- I-- I'm not
going to comment

on Lindsay's
relationships anymore.

You've learned your lesson.

Yes, I've learned--

I've learned several lessons.

I-- I do think that what
Georgina and Yvonne is--

said is spot on, I
mean, perhaps, like,

a little bit more grounded
and ready for-- for someone

like her.

Georgina, are you
currently seeing anyone?

No, but I've decided that
that's my next chapter.

OK.

Well, you have
your photos ready for Raya.

- That's a big decision.
- It is a big decision

- Yeah.
- It's hard with kids, but--

and I kind of didn't
want to confuse them.

And then I am going
to be dating-- actually,

something Whitney and I
spoke about-- intentionally,

where it's not the same.

It's not going
to be just for fun.

One of my patients
and good friends

actually said something to me.

Because I was so cautious.

I was like, I don't--

I don't know.

I-- I was hoping it would
still work out with their dad,

to be honest, as pathetic
as that sounds,

just because then
it's easier on them.

But she said something.

She said, you know,
her parents split up

when they were really young.

And they both got remarried.

And it was just more
people to love her.

Aw.

And I love that.

That-- that's great.

So that really, like,
tipped me over, where

I was like, you know what?

Another person to love
my kids and love me--

Yes.

I think that
would be fantastic.

- Yes.
- Yes.

Lindsay and Georgina,
Ali W. emailed,

congratulations to Danielle,
Yvonne and Lexi.

Lindsay and Georgina,
what's the best

parenting advice you have
to offer our soon-to-be moms?

My best advice is
to just go with it.

You cannot control how
it's all going to go down,

whether it's from the birth
to after the birth,

the postpartum.

You just have to just move
with the motions as they come.

And make sure you have your
support systems in-- in line,

you know?

And I'm here for all
of you, including Danielle.

I think the best advice
is give yourself grace.

Mm-hmm.

Give yourself love.

If you need a minute,
take a minute.

I remember, you know,
holding in my pee

because my baby was crying.

And it was in the morning.

And I, like, had to go to him
and give him his bottle

before I could even pee.

And then with my second, I'm
like, eh, she'll be fine.

I can go to the bathroom,
brush my teeth.

So I wish I knew that
the first time around.

Do what's best for you.

And your-- and your baby.

You know them better than
anybody else ever will.

All right--

Would you agree with that?

I would-- I would
agree with that.

OK.

Yes.

All right, let's switch gears.

Kenny caught a lot
of smoke for moving Whitney

all the way to New York without
giving her a ring or a closet.

But rumors that Kenny
and Whitney's relationship

lacked a spark had this
entire group all lit up.

Watch this.

She moved across
the country before the ring.

You can't around
with this, like, at all.

I'm getting I hate men vibes.

I'm just allergic
to, like, annoying men.

Sometimes you-- you go in a
relationship and you feel this

spark and this buzz and this
fire, where you're like,

this is my person.

Right.

And it's hard to know,
for me, like, is the,

like, this is
the one and I know it

for sure sparked spark there?

Yeah.

Kenny said that
he's unsure if there's

a spark between you guys.

He might have used
the word murky.

All I know is I had
a birthday dinner yesterday.

And my girlfriend was upset
because of the word murky.

Kyle said that you're
doubting-- doubting the spark.

Why is he running his mouth?

But I'm not running my mouth!

I can't deal with a wall.

So Gabby from Houston,
Texas on Threads

said, Kenny, why is it
so crazy for Lindsay

to say to you that it's a big
gesture for your girlfriend

to move across the country from
her friends without a ring?

Do you not agree?

I agree, it's a big gesture.

She's projecting her situation
onto my relationship.

- What situation?
- Let him finish.

Let him finish.
- She was very, like--

Kenny, I think she
was asking you a very--

- Let him finish.
- basic question.

- OK, let's let him--
- You know what?

Let's let him finish.

Let's-- please,
let's let him finish.

OK, before
the minions step in--

How about we just say,
yeah, it's a really big step.

I'm so grateful she's here.

But I want to hear
from Whitney.

I want to know
Whitney's reaction

to watching back when
Lindsey first grilled

Kenny about your relationship.

How did you take it?

I-- it felt very intense.

I think, if you're saying
it was, like, out of my best

interest, you would
have just, like,

asked the questions,
versus, like--

I did ask the questions.

insinu-- but you
were insinuating judgment

on the questions, versus
just understanding

and hearing his perspective.

I'm just asking questions.

And as he's looking
around, making

sure you're not
right there to make

sure you don't know that
he fucked around on you--

- I actually knew that.
- whenever.

We talked about--

- We weren't together.
- I'm paying attention.

Let's be very clear.

I'm paying attention
to his friends.

- We were not together.
- That's OK.

OK, so let's not
paint some picture.

I'm not even--
I'm not painting a picture.

I got out of an 11-year
relationship,

eight-year relationship.

OK, so when I can
finish, let me know--

And there was
a period of time where--

there was a period of time--
- gaslighter.

where--

When I can
finish, let me know.

where we took a step apart.

And I was going through some
very difficult family shit.

When I can
finish, let me know.

And I will let you know.

But when you're going
through something

and you lose the only
person in your life that--

- Misogynistic, narcissistic.
- literally--

- That is so not true.
- What are you talking about?

Then let me know
when I can finish.

I have to say--

Well, you just
talk over everyone.

Let someone else speak.

Coming up.

I think you were
off-the-bat defensive.

As I should be.

When you're going
through something

and you lose the only person
in your life that literally--

Misogynistic, narcissistic.

- That is so not true.
- What are you talking about?

Then let me know
when I can finish.

I have to--
I have to--

Well, you just
talk over everyone.

Let someone else speak.

You're talking-- you're
sitting here screaming.

This has been the whole season.

OK, what do you want to say?

I was making
a point to Kenny,

saying, wow, your girlfriend is
committing hard to right now.

And don't fuck around.

That's me taking
Whitney's side.

That's me taking
the perspective of the female

to say, as you're looking
around, talking about--

and your friends
are saying that you

are a fuckboy,
like, my response

is don't fuck around on her.

She just moved across
the country for you.

I'm literally being a girl's
girl to you, Whitney.

That's what happened.

And if you can't
understand that,

that's because you have
a very different mindset

as a male in this world.

OK, but can I
just say something?

It didn't seem to land
with her that you were--

No, because--

I feel like if you're
a girl's girl,

you would pull me aside--

she wasn't
in that conversation.

I understand.

But I just asked her what she
thought when she watched it.

And she's saying that she
didn't take it that way.

Well, you know,
me and Whitney

are very different people.

Kenny, Amanda from
Arizona on Threads

said, how you going to go off
on Lindsay when you straight

up told Kyle you
were questioning

if there were sparks with
Whitney in the first episode?

Lindsay has you clocked.

We spoke about
the fact that I had

had an 11-year relationship.

I had an eight-year
relationship.

I had just lost my mom.

And I was in this
place where I was

feeling numb to long-term
things working out.

Like, I just wasn't
feeling the spark when

it comes to, like, long term.

OK.

And of course, it's
unfortunate that--

You were scared.

I was grieving and I
was trying to, like--

and be in the moment.

But I was having, like,
these doubts about long term,

in general.

And I said, I think
it's a me thing,

and I have to figure that out.

So Whitney, having watched
the conversation where

Kenny's concerns about your
future as a couple, did they--

how did they land with you?

I had figured, like, when
Lexi and Georgina, like,

brought this, that I was
in disbelief about it

because we had had
these conversations.

But the words obviously,
like, started ruminating,

like, oh, my gosh,
like, the weight

of this move and whatever.

And you see me get upset
because the last thing

I want to do is, like, miss
something in a relationship.

But all I had to do
was go talk to him

and, like, be reassured--

If I can stand up
for my boy for a second--

the feelings
in the relationship.

And with a little bit of--

Are you sure you
want to do that?

I think you were,
off the bat, defensive.

Yes.

And I should be.

And just as--
learn from Amanda.

She just sat-- she just sat
here and said she wishes

she weren't as defensive.

Yeah, a lot of times,
I feel like you

were lacking explanation.
- That would have helped.

That's the thing.

That's why I said that
you haven't been--

If you had just owned
it, less defensive.

accountable
on a lot of things.

No, but I don't think he
was questioning the future.

No, but it's not--

I think he was questioning,
hey, like, I love her, but--

- But he said their future--
- Yeah.

There's a-- you
know, am I at 100%?

And I was-- and I was
identifying with--

I've been
unsuccessful before.

- Yeah.
- Repeatedly.

- But nobody--
- And I just lost my mom.

Nobody's judging.

Why is that so hard
to understand?

Nobody's judging.

We're reacting to the words
that came out of his mouth.

All right, I'm moving on.

Gavin, Jennifer F on email,
"I couldn't believe

when you called Whitney
boring to her face."

I said the spark
comment, to be very clear.

Now that I know that you said
it, it sounds all perfect, bro.

But like, just perfect?

That's kind of boring.

"What is it about Kenny
and Whitney's relationship

that felt boring to you?

They're still together,
so it can't be that boring."

I didn't directly call
her boring or vanilla.

I said that
their relationship is boring.

No, you did.

You said it at me,
not the relationship.

- You said she was boring.
- Because I feel like again--

It read--

they're just trying
to project, again,

not being honest with
themselves and being like,

hey, we're in love.

You moved across country.

We're still figuring it out.
Done.

That's it.

Everything would
have been fine.

She has a tutorial
on how to make toast.

That would be so easy.

Jason P emailed, "Do you
agree with Whitney's take that

Gavin is only used to crazy
toxic relationships

and seeing you miserable?"

Yeah.

Think before you answer.

I think part of the--

I think part of it
was that Gavin

has been in these cycles
of relationships that

are very volatile and toxic.

I have been--

He's really passionate.

Yeah.

And I have been in those
relationships in the past, too.

What I love about this
relationship is that it's not.

It's very grounding.

It feels very safe.

Like, we're
in a really good place.

And I think that that
might come across

to boring as some
people, but for me,

it's like, it's regulating.

It feels good.

Like, we're very
happy about it,

and I just don't think he fully
can like, understand that.

Do you dislike Whitney?

- I love Whitney.
- You do?

Yes.

It just annoys me that they
said their relationship

is all travel and excitement.

That sounds like a honeymoon
phase, which is great.

It's much more
than that, obviously.

Now be honest with
everyone and yourselves

that you're still
working on things.

- It's so much more than that.
- That's fine.

It's so much more than that.

That's absolutely fine.

Whitney, Jasmine said,
on "Watch What Happens Live,"

that the most fame
hungry contestant

from Bachelor Nation is you.

Who do you think was
solely in it for the fame?

Ooh.

Only one?

Um, I'll say Whitney,
who's on "The City."

All right.

Honestly, if you said that--

That's the most
bizarre thing ever.

I like, didn't even go
far in "The Bachelor."

I wasn't even shown.

Whitney, if you
just said you're

with him to be
on reality TV, I would

actually prefer that to saying
you're actually with him.

Are you kidding me?

At this point, yes.

Wait, the show was even a
thing when they were together.

We were together before
this was even an option.

By the way, I said I
don't want to do it.

Coming up--

I almost threw up
watching this last night

because it was so much worse
than as it was explained to me.

We were together before
this was even an option.

And by the way, I said
I don't want to do it.

After watching everything,
we re-talked about it.

- They weren't even part of--
- Nasty.

any of this.

I watched everything.

Guys, they've been
dating for a long ass time.

Yeah.

I can tell that
there is a genuine love

and you guys have been
doing a lot of steps.

So I absolutely
disagree with the fact

that this is just
for-- for reality.

So how is the spark today?

Brighter than ever.

Yeah.

Honestly, it's-- I think
it's-- we have such a good

connection and I just
think we're in such

a great place that--

Why are you upset?

Well, it's just hurtful that
people think that I was like,

on a show with Kenny for fame.

I don't think that.

I just wish that were the case.

I've been accused
of the same thing for 10 years.

Why do you wish
that was the case?

Because I watched back
the whole show like,

it's actually worse
than I thought.

It's like, you want her
to be friends with everybody?

What are you talking about?

You're generalizing
something.

Let me finish talking,
Andy asked me a question.

If you show up to a group
and you want your girlfriend

to be friends with
everybody, you

should be nice to everybody.

You don't attack people.

And maybe this is
a moment for me to own it.

But I felt like
the whole season,

especially
in the beginning, I was

having to defend my
relationship, defend my spark,

defend moving Whitney
across the country.

I was in defense mode
to where I couldn't even enjoy

hanging out with this group.

And it clearly came
across to everyone else

like I was attacking everyone.

But for me, I know
what I said to Kyle.

I know what I said to Whitney.

I felt like I--

it was all out there.

But for some reason, I
was still having to defend

somebody that I love.

And we were in a great
place at that time and now,

and why am I having to defend
this relationship to everyone?

It was also really hurtful
to watch you talk about us

and you didn't even know us.

Like, I had just met
you guys a week before

and your girlfriend
moves to New York.

And the things that you're
saying to her, that Lindsay

has minions--

Lindsay has her
girls, and her girls--

Don't you mean the minions?

That's not minions.

They're called fucking friends.

It's a mean
girl fucking crew.

Kenny's about to get--

And what does that mean?

Like, we're going
to gang up on her

and not give her an opportunity
to be part of our group?

We don't even know you.

And it felt like you were
isolating her and creating,

like, a nasty environment.

We are not opinions
or minions or whatever

the fuck you guys were saying.

But Yvonne, you even
said when we hung out

as the four of us,
it's OK that I'm

hanging out with Danielle
because Lindsay's

OK with Danielle.
- Lindsay approved.

I don't think
you guys realize,

when there's something
that comes up,

you don't think you're
having groupthink,

but you're all having the same
opinion at the same time

against one person.

Lindsay, Bella
from Colorado said,

"You were upset with
Danielle with her comments

about your last
couple relationships.

But they were valid concerns.

It seems like you want friends
that are blindly loyal to you

instead of having friends
who share their true

concerns and opinions."

No, that's
absolutely not true.

Yvonne is one of the biggest--

you know, she is--

Devil's advocate.

devil's advocate
always with me.

Georgina is certainly
highly opinionated.

I mean, even
for years, Danielle

has had a lot of opinions.

It's more about I think
there is a fine line when

big decisions are being
made in someone's life of,

like, letting them figure
it out for themselves

or, you know,
really like, feeling

like you need to take charge
and take over, you know,

the decision.

I'm actually scared of my--

I'm the minion in all
of my friends, quite frankly.

Lexi, do you think
Lindsay and her friends

are a mean girl crew,
as Kenny put it?

No, not at all.

I mean, I consider them
my good friends as well.

And I think, you
know, everybody's

allowed to have
their own opinion,

and it's great that they feel
like they can speak up and

share that and not feel like
they're being silenced or

being led by somebody.

It is lonely on the outside.

The island that I found
myself on was terrible.

I was the oldest girl
in the Summer House for years,

and I was
on an Island for about

five to six years in a row.

If anyone can understand,
it's me, and I'm OK.

And I think what we do
in this situation is we hear,

we listen--

I'm just fucking tired of it.

and we learn.

So maybe from here
on out, when a question

isn't asked to one of you
three, not everyone is--

Yeah, well, we
can't deal with that.

Guys, even after
all of this--

- Like, in terms of this thing.
- I missed it.

- Of course.
- I don't deny it.

- What did you say?
- Did you black out?

I was just saying,
maybe when we hear some--

when we learn from this
as people are feeling this way.

And maybe for the rest of the
evening, when one of you three

aren't asked a question,
not all of you

answer for that one person.

I will apologize.

The word minion, I first
said it at guys' night.

It was not the best
word choice.

It also felt like you
made up your mind about us

before you even gave us a shot.

Kyle, give him
the best advice.

When you apologize,
don't follow up with but

and give an explanation.

Just say you're sorry
and then period.

That's what I just said.

From someone who learned.

And you are wearing yellow.

Minion yellow.

OK, very good.

Looks good on you.

You know it.

I'm wearing pink, right?

Kenny, I loved
the scene where

you reunited with your dad.

I can't believe it.

Oh, my god.

I mean, it was so moving.

That must have been
absolutely just mind blowing

that that happened so quickly.

It honestly was
like, a very unexpected

situation, to be honest.

Like, I'm still, like,
in a little bit of shock

that we talk weekly.

You do?

You speak weekly?

We talk weekly.

Have you met
your half siblings yet?

I've met some of them, yeah.

And you know,
Lindsey and Kenny,

you've talked about
this a lot and

about how your lives were
affected by the absence

of your parents.

I'm curious what
advice you have

for people who might be going
through a similar experience.

Well, first, I
want to say, like,

when I watched
that, I had chills,

and I was completely crying.

It was beautiful to see,
and I'm so happy for you.

Honestly, genuinely
warmed my heart for you

because I feel like
it was a missing

hole that you needed to be
filled that your dad was

able to fill.

I think Kenny and I have
very different situations.

His dad, his
stepmom, were looking

for him, searching for him.

Mine knows where to find me.

She has my number.

She chooses not to.

And that's kind of been
the case my entire life.

So I think it's
a little bit different.

I had to spend years
and years in therapy

to work through those
abandonment issues.

It's never going
to go away for me.

It's more about how I
recognize it, react to it,

communicate it, and not
let it control me,

and it's just therapy
and practice and experience.

I was really
moved hearing you

tell Kenny how what you
went through with your mom

has impacted the mom that
you want to be with Gemma.

I thought that was
so amazing that you're

trying to break that.

Yeah, the interesting part
is I don't actually have to try

that hard to break the cycle.

Right.

It is innate
inside of me and how

I've always been wanting
to show up as a mom to Gemma,

and you, obviously, as a parent
and Georgina as a mom,

like, we all, like,
just try to do

the best that we can
to show unconditional love

at all times, you know?

And I think that's all that,
like, kids need is like,

they just need to be kids,
and they need to be loved.

And that's not
that hard to give.

Whitney, have you
noticed a change

in Kenny since he brought
his dad back into his life?

Yeah, I think it was
a huge weight lifted off him

that he didn't even
know was there,

and I think it brought
us a lot closer.

Whitney, how do you see
your future with Kenny?

I mean, we've had
a lot of conversations

even since the show,
and we've really talked about,

like, getting engaged this
year and taking next steps

and being really
confident in that place.

So it's definitely a different
place than a few months ago.

Coming up--

Lindsey, you
collect apologies

like you collect souls.

We are back with
the "In the City" reunion.

Clearly, this group
has baby fever.

Do you want kids someday?

Definitely want kids.

Kids soon, yeah.

- Maybe minion Martin.
- one.

Maybe minion Martin.

Baby minion Martin.

Well, while Lindsey
was betting on herself

in the New York
City dating scene,

accusations that she was
playing the single mom card

had a few people here dealing
out insults and accusations.

Take a look.

We're taking the primary.

Yeah, because we're two
moms that have not been

away from our kids in a while.

She always plays
the single mom card.

And I'm like, OK, you can't
use that excuse for everything.

You use the word
single mom card.

She's kind of above
everyone else.

Everyone bows down to Lindsay,
and I'm sick of watching it.

OK, I want to see
how the single mom card

comment landed with the group.

Whitney, what
made you go there,

and do you regret
that choice of words?

I am really sorry
that I used that term,

and even watching
it back, I feel

like that was far
from the point

that I was trying
to get across.

Like, I respect you
both as single mothers,

and I see how hard
you work to give

your kids the life that
you do and how you really

are there for them physically.

And I don't want
to disregard that.

And I'm sorry that you felt
a type of way from that comment

because I was really trying
to get the point across

of standing up for Yvonne
and your friendship

with just the gesture
to kind of, like,

do something
to help repair going

into our Friendsgiving weekend.

And I think that it totally
took a different direction.

So I just want
to apologize that you

took it the way that you did
and it came across that way.

And not only did you say
she uses a single mom card,

but how could she when she
has a nanny and she has help?

The double down is
what made it worse.

I almost threw up
watching this last night--

The part.

because it was
so much worse than

as it was explained to me.

It was so bad, Whitney,
that you doubled down.

And it wasn't like, oh,
I'm defending Yvonne.

Like, you had conviction
when you said that.

- It was the--
- And like--

It was when you said there
are plenty of mothers who

are single mothers
who don't have help

and don't have someone around
and don't have this and that.

And I'm like, OK,
what's the next part?

They can't hang out with
their friends either?

I mean, I appreciate
the gesture of the apology,

but like, I don't think
you didn't really mean it,

you know?

Like, I think you
were annoyed that we

took the room because we
said we were moms

and we needed a break.

And Kenny, if you wanted
to do that gesture,

she's your co-host.

You should have
talked to her and

said, hey, why don't we give
Lindsey and Yvonne the room--

Vice versa.

There's also two
other large rooms.

Usually, when
you get to a house,

you say, OK, what
are we going to do?

That's not what happened.

You literally suggested it
in public in front of everyone.

So it was my--
it was my fault.

just because of how much
we messed up your wedding.

Totally.

But either way--

It was coming
from a good place.

Whitney, can you
name any other instance

where Lindsey played
the mom card besides when

she said she and Georgina
were taking the primary rooms

because they were moms
who haven't been away

from their kids in a while?

I misspoke when I said
that you've used that.

It was more coming from I
felt like you have been in--

I've witnessed these
different situations

where you feel like
you're a little more

deserving than other people.
And I--

So when else
have I complained

to you about being a mom?

She just said it was
more about entitlement.

It was more
about entitlement,

and it was not about that.

So I haven't.

- She just clarified.
- I just said that.

OK.

You know cried about what
you said for six months,

and the only time I didn't
fucking cry about it

was when you had a scandal.

So thank you, Amanda,
for taking me out of that

because it was so hurtful.

The reason I have a nanny is
because I have to work while

you complain about
your boyfriend

not paying for a $30,000 closet
in his apartment all season.

I'm providing
for women, and you

are depending on your boyfriend
to provide for your lifestyle.

That's why it's very hurtful.

But I came out here just now,
and I apologized for it, and--

OK, well, you're
going to need

15 more apologies to any
mom in the entire world.

It wasn't about that.

I'm sorry that it came out
that way, but it was a--

Really poor choice of words.

Lindsey, you
collect apologies

like you collect souls.

Coming up in part two
of the "In the City" reunion--

Personally, I think I was,
like, very close to someone

on a dance floor, and--

Your lips touched.

we'll hear from
the moms and the boys.

Boys night.

Boys-- the boys.

Men.

No.

I'll call you a man
when you act like one.

Regarding the information
that you found out,

Kyle had had sex with someone
while you were married, when

did you find that out?

Recently.

The city doesn't sleep,
and the drama doesn't rest.

Your mouth is on her neck.

And I said, who is that girl?

You said, I don't know.

I'm not trying
to do anything shady.

Kyle, come on.

The dramatic conclusion
of the "In the City" reunion.