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Hi,

I'm Paisley, and this is my husband,
Justin.

It makes me feel good about myself, and
it turns him on, you know? So it made

sex twice as better.

I definitely love the attention part
because I'm so open and free.

Our local bar, you pull your tits out,
and they've got a special bell for you.

That they ring when she pulls her, yeah.

It's like having your own personal porn
star, like, in your living room, in your

face.

You'll change clothes or walk out naked,
and you don't even think about it. I

don't. And people are like, you know,
their minds blown.

Mailman? Yeah, he's seen my boobs.

And you're watching wifey.com.

Alright guys, we just got here.

Our first time. I'm so nervous.

Yeah, I told her don't be nervous. Just
be normal.

Don't know what to expect.

I think it's going to be good though.

Class is playing.

First time in California.

First time flying.

And now we're doing this. Alright, you
ready?

I'm ready. Alright, let's go.

Yep, that fits you.

That fits you.

I'm excited now.

Turn around, I think you dropped
something.

Oh yeah. Are you excited?

Yeah, for sure.

I always like watching you show off.

This is really nice.

Yeah. I feel all professional.

Yeah. I feel like a star.

Thank you. I look hotter on camera, like
good cameras.

Are

you

ready? Let's do this.

have been together for five years from
the moment i met him i knew i was going

to spend the rest of my life with him
whether we were friends or together we

actually met it was kind of odd thing
but uh through her father that he

wasn't really around in her life and
they later reconciled a booty call is

how this started and then it just it
became way too regular and it's

happening too much and it's like

hey, we need to maybe back off on this
or something because I didn't want to

lose the friendship.

The reason I wanted to start dating him
was because he has a huge heart and he

is easy to talk to and it's just very
comforting to have someone in your life

that you can talk to about anything and
feel safe and comfortable.

And originally when we started talking
about the feelings part of it,

tried to back off like and just stay at
a friendship level but um it uh it

didn't work out like that and i'm i'm
happy it didn't now we couldn't have

asked for a better life together
honestly so i first got introduced to

the lifestyle through my ex's boss and
he was an older guy and he kept

saying about his wife and himself, went
to these clubs and wanted us to go, and

I kept pushing it off. I don't want to
go to this club. This is crazy to me.

I'm thinking you go in this place, and
everybody rips their clothes off, and

you just have a giant pile of people.

That's what I'm envisioning. I've never
seen nothing like this.

We finally went, and it wasn't like
that. It was just people laughing and

having a good time.

It's like going to a normal bar you
would go to or club setting, but it's

more open. Like, there's no reason to
worry about an argument or a fight.

Everybody's just so chill.

Well, like our local hole-in-the-wall
bar by the house. It's like we know

everybody there, and we know everybody
that's cheating on everybody there. And

it's like Joe Schmo will be like, hey,
if you see...

my girl don't tell her I was with this
girl and then and then you'll see his

girl with some guy be like hey don't
tell him I was with but then they're

like oh my god you're you're open about
that like how can you do that but

they're doing the same thing except for
they're doing it behind their partner's

back which is crazy to me like there's
people that work a nine-to-five job and

they they do the same thing every day
and they are so scared to come outside

their little box and enjoy life that

We're not here that long. If you're not
harming somebody else and you're

enjoying whatever it is that you do, go
enjoy that.

Experiment. Have fun.

And there's so many people that are so
shallow-minded that are so scared of

that. And there's also so many people
that really would love to do something

like that, but they're so scared of what
someone else might think.

And we're the couple that's like...

The hell with it. Have fun. It's our
life.

I definitely love the attention part
because I'm so open and free.

You can't go to a bar and pull your tits
out.

Being in the lifestyle, there's so many
people that are just open. You can get

compliments without having to go too far
with anything.

So I take it all in.

I don't know, though. Our local bar, you
pull your tits out, and they've got a

special bell for you.

They ring and she pulls her, yeah, it's
a whole different vibe.

So when I first introduced her to the
lifestyle, showed her, you know, kind of

what it was about, it was the typical
response you get 90% of the time from

anyone. It's like, oh, how can you do
that? Ooh, like what is this? And then

it was like, okay, these people are like
way cooler than, you know, the vanilla

people, and they're open-minded. They
don't judge. Like, I could go there and

be myself and not, you know, not have to
have sex with anybody.

I think it kind of opened your eyes to,
like, it's not something you're

not expected to perform or be something
you want to be. When we originally got

together, I was very vanilla.

And he kind of expanded my mind into
thinking about fantasies.

So, I mean, before, I didn't really have
too many, but before I met Justin, I

had the hugest crush on my gym teacher.

And I've been working to try and make
that happen.

When we first started our relationship,
and he had already...

been in the lifestyle before introduced
it to me it was i felt like i was

cheating or like i felt like i was doing
something wrong and then it finally

clicked and i'm like no this is a cool
thing you know like it makes me feel

good about myself and it turns him on
you know so it made sex twice as better

yeah it's like i i tell the best way i
explain to people that have never been

around it and they can't wrap their head
around it it's like Say I've got a

really nice car that I love. I take it
to car shows, and I take care of it.

And my buddy's got a really nice car,
but it's not my car.

Hell yeah, I want to test drive it. I
don't want the payments.

It's a test drive. That's what it is.

You've got a car to show it off.

And I don't want it to sound like I'm
with her to show it off, because when we

first got together, like, It wasn't like
a physical attraction thing. It was her

heart, you know, and it's led to where
it's at now. And, like, I kind of won

because, like, she turned out to be
super hot.

But, yeah.

So I got into content making because I
have a flirty personality in

general. Like, he had to point it out to
me, like, that person's flirting with

you. And I'm like, no way.

You know, but it was just a way for me
to be flirty and send pictures

and, you know, to people who hit me up
or whatever. And then I'm like, you know

what? Why don't why don't I just start a
page? You know, let's try it out. And

it's just my way of being flirty and
taking in comments. I love the comments.

I mean, like we're at the house or
something like.

you'll change clothes or walk out naked
and you don't even think about it. And

people were like, you know, their minds
blown.

Mailman. Yeah. He's seen my boobs. You
might as well post some content and, you

know, have some fun with it.

So we recently had an experience that
was totally her style. It was just

not expected. Like we're playing some
beer pong.

and hanging out, and she kind of hit it
off with this guy.

And, you know, me, I'm always
instigating stuff. So I'm like, what are

you guys playing for?

And they're just like, oh, we're playing
for fun.

I'm like, no, we've got to ramp this up.
So somebody said, like, we'll play for a

blowjob or something like that.

And she actually liked this guy.

Next thing I know, like, we've got some
of our vanilla friends with us and all

this stuff.

She's giving this dude a blowjob.

They start fucking, like, in the middle
of the club, like, all over the place.

Like, there's a crowd gathered around.
Like, there's applause.

Like, it's like a live set. Like, it was
pretty hot. Yeah, and then we decided to

move to a couch because it would be more
comfortable.

And we had, like, everybody that was in
the room, like, follow like a train.

Hot Wife Thing has...

increased our relationship because when
it's you and your partner for a lifetime

you've already committed you know it's
fun like he said to show off but it's

also new experiences meeting new people
and figuring out fantasies or you know

you set yourself a goal like someone,
you know, you think is hot or attractive

and you question about it. It's like
open enough to talk about it and then,

you know, to try and pursue that and it
all be okay.

Yeah. I think it's, it's a team building
exercise in a way, you know, like,

you know, it's just, it's, it's really
opened up communication like to where

nothing's taboo. Like you can,

Talk about it with your partner and be
comfortable.

To me, it's like a fun situation, then
it turns into, like, a vulnerable

situation, and then you have, like, the
aftercare, and then you bond again.

Yeah. So it's kind of like, I don't
know, it's kind of like you're separated

for a minute and you're enjoying
yourself, and then you get back together

and, you know, you get to talk about it.

Enjoy the situation more after and bond
and get closer and closer.

I've watched you evolve, you know, with
being able to discuss things. It's

easier for you to open up about.

Yeah, like I said.

In the beginning, it's like an awkward
situation. I feel like I'm doing

something wrong.

Like before, you would just beat around
the bush and hint about something. And

now you're like, hey, I'm really
thinking about fucking my teacher.

Yeah. And I'm like, oh, cool. That's a
thing.

Yeah, it becomes more and more of a fun
thing. Like I'm so happy for you. Yeah.

Normal households, I think it's like
weird or frowned upon. And we're like,

high five.

You got this.

So. I think the turn on and the
attraction for me is having your own

personal porn star, like in your living
room, in your face, like right there,

you know, for you, it's like you get
turned on by putting on that show.

My biggest thing. Yeah. Is I love all
the attention for one and for

two, I'm a lot younger than he is. So a
lot of our, friend group or people we

hang out with are more his age and i'm
the younger hot girl that comes in the

picture you know so i get to take in all
the compliments and be the star of the

show i do enjoy older men it's um it's
become a thing for me since i

met justin because she has daddy issues
yeah i have daddy issues But honestly,

if you think more personal, it's because
most older men, like, have their head on

their shoulders and they've experienced
life and they've got to experience what

they like about themselves, you know. So
I feel more comfortable going into

situations with older men because, you
know, they're not nervous or they

already know about it and know what
they're doing. You know, I find someone

my age and they ain't got rhythm.

You know, there's ups and downs to it
all, but I do enjoy older men.

Yeah, that's for sure.

Jealousy and insecurity has come up.

Jealousy, though, is one of Justin's
major kinks.

So him being jealous just makes it ten
times better for me. I get to have fun

and then have fun again.

So, but, and insecurities, Justin's been
like my Superman, you know.

Whether I look at myself different or
don't like something about myself, you

know, he helps change my mindset about
it, you know.

It makes me more what they call dirtier,
you know. Knowing that it's his kink,

you know, I can show off and tease, you
know, and enjoy showing off and teasing

because I know it's okay. You know, it's
just going to make things better.

And we're just so open with each other,
like.

If there ever was any problem, like we
stop each other and be like, hey, like

I'm not liking this or, you know, and
it's done. Whether we're confronting a

situation or, you know, talking about it
later. And, you know, you have

conversations with your partner that are
funny or, you know, down the dumps. But,

you know, you have to have like be open
to talk about it all.

What I would tell couples about getting
into hotlifing is definitely being

secure with your partner. You know, your
partner needs to know everything. You

know, how you feel, your likes, your
dislikes. You have to be 100%

comfortable with the person you are with
and completely honest about every

situation that happens or comes up.

And, I mean, some of it's like the most
minute details that you wouldn't even

think matters to your partner.

It might be a big deal to them, but it's
the trust.

Don't break that at all because any
breach in trust, it's ruined.

But if it's done right, it brings you
closer, and it's just an amazing

experience if you do it right. Right,
and you need to put your insecurities

and your fears.

on a pause when you're talking to your
partner. You know, if they mention

something or a kink or something they'd
like to try, you need to keep an open

mind and respect that they're interested
in that. It may not be for you, but you

need to, like, approach that situation
like it's a vulnerable situation and

understand. Yeah, like, don't dismiss. I
feel like that's why so many, I mean,

there's lots of reasons why
relationships end.

I feel like that's a major one is like
one person will say, hey, I'm interested

in this. I want to try that. And the
other person just kind of brushes it

off. And then that other person feels
shame. They don't want to talk about it

anymore. And they keep that to
themselves.

Right. Or like getting defensive about a
situation. You know, I could say, hey, I

want to try three guys at once.

You know, and if you got defensive about
it, you'd be like, whoa, like, you know,

like it's not your style.

Honestly, my experience today, I'm
hoping to get just, like, my fun

princess superstar moment. Like, it
feels awesome to be here and, you know,

being filmed. And, you know, I just feel
like a star.

And, like, that's the biggest thing
about it is, I mean, not only do I get

to have fun, you know, but it's also,
like, I don't know. It's just awesome.

And everybody is super nice and chill.

Like, it feels welcoming.

Like, it's a cool vibe.

Well, we have the amazing Dan Damage
ready in the wings. Are you ready to

share your wifey experience with the
world?

Let's do it.

Do you like that?

She's so good, baby.

Are you doing the interview and thinking
about it?

There you go.

You can just lean back there.

Yeah. Yeah.

Overall today, I have had a blast, and
it has been the best experience I think

I've had.

It was so much fun.

And I tell you, when I get home, taking
a nice nap.

All right, guys. If you're thinking
about it, stop. Just do it. Have fun.

Get out here and enjoy your life.

Everybody that we've met today has been
amazing.

It's just been so easy and fun. It's
like you're hanging out with your

friends and your wife's getting laid.

So it's a bonus, I guess. But for real,
get out here, have some fun, enjoy your

life before it's gone.

It was a lot of fun.

Good times.

It was a blast.

It was pretty cool.

I think it went a lot easier than you
thought it would. It went a lot easier

than I thought it was going to.
Literally.

It was funner. Is that a word?

A lot more fun. Better than you did
before.

For me, like, when she came, because she
said she was coming, but, like, you

could feel it, like, tightening.

Yeah? Yeah.

Mine was probably, I don't know. I
enjoyed all of it, really.

But I think, like, your confidence,
honestly.

Yeah. The vibe is just super chill.
Like, we're all having fun. Yeah.

That was a good time. I think everybody
had a great time.

That was awesome to watch.

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