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Well, this is it.

The grown up, single life.

From now on it's getting a job and having kids, right?

Or... start with cleaning your mess.

Is this part of being an adult?

That you are never completely satisfied?

But you also don't really know what it is... What you're not satisfied with.

I mean, it's nice, being independent.

Graduate, and have relationships...

...but I still don't really know... what I'm doing.

And, I also don't really know what would make me happy.

Or…

Yeah.

Seriously?

Hello? Heyyy.

Hey! -Hey.

You're early. -What were you doing?

Nothing special. A little bit of cleaning.

Hello. -Hey.

My parents are coming over, so... I forgot.

Oh, Jos and Liesbeth. Nice.

Wow, Lil. That's so cool. -Yes, it's super chill...

...I start next month. It's just really...-

What you always wanted.

Yes, what I always wanted. -Good for you.

Yes. -And you look really good.

Well, thank you. -No...

... but I mean just good. Just, happy.

Well, I do feel really good.

And, Doris. -Yes, and Doris yes.

Yes. We have been together for almost a year now. -She's a pretty girl.

Yes, Doris does not necessarily identify as a girl.

Oh, wow.

Usually we just say Doris. Sometimes he, sometimes she.

There isn't really a neutral term in Dutch.

No, there isn't? -Can you come up with something?

You're like the word wizard, aren't you? -Ah, yes sure.

Yes. That's true. I will work on it. But you have to pay me...

...because I'm almost broke.

But ehm...

Do you have... -A Doris?

A Doris. -Ehm. No, no.

Well, I did have a Sara. But that is over.

So now nothing.

Nice and quiet. Right?

Yeah, nice and quiet.

But? Not nice? -Ehm...

...yeah.

Yes. -Yes.

Hello. -Hi sweetie.

Come on in. -Oh, hey.

Hello. Hi Liesbeth.

What a surprise. -Well.

How nice, what a surprise. -Hi Sweetie.

Yes. Well, I was just leaving. -Yes.

Well, that's a pity. -I'll walk you out.

Say hi to your mom from me, will you? -Yes, I will.

Yes, definitely. Well, have a nice day. -Yes.

Yes, bye. -Bye.

Have fun with your parents. -Yes, thank you.

Bye.

Okay.

That was...

...I don't know.

This is nice. With Bluetooth?

Yes. -Oh, it spins.

Are you alright? -Yes.

Wel, it looks pretty nice. -Yes, very nice.

There is still a lot that needs to be done. I don't even have a toilet brush.

Wanna go to IKEA? -Honey, it's Sunday...

...I'm not going to IKEA on a Sunday. -I don't mean today.

I can go on Wednesday. -No, no. I can't...

...I have meetings on Wednesday. -Yes, But I can go.

Oh, yes. Are you going to carry everything?

We can go pick up a toilet brush. I think we'll manage.

Am I going to be like this in 30 years? Arguing with my wife?

Dressed like my father? -What was Lily doing here?

Are you two ehm... -Eh, no we are not. No.

She just came to visit. Catch up.

She's a nice girl. She looks good.

Yes. Yes, she does.

But, what do you mean? -Yeah, I don't know...

...looking for work and stuff. I don't think I know what I want.

Annie, you graduated with a very good grade, you are talented...

...of course you will find a job. I graduated in the crisis of the 1980's...

...and I found a job. -Yes, mom. That's different...

...that's ages ago, a lot has changed.

Why? You graduate, you apply for jobs and find one.

And you generation has so much more opportunities.

Exactly . That's why. But... Never mind. It's not just work.

What is it? Hm?

Is it love? Is it Sara?

Are you sad? -No, no. She is not- there is no one.

Is that it? Are you feeling lonely? -No. No. I...

...I don't always need to have a girlfriend, you know.

Well. I just want to know what is going on.

Nothing is going on! Okay? Nothing.

Well. I'm just in a weird mood. Never mind.

But Anne, listen. We all feel like that sometimes.

You don't need to have an answer for everything.

No. Life is all about finding your way. And making mistakes. And learning from them.

Exactly. -Like marrying your father.

Well.

What? -Nothing.

Just... the usual 'my parents say everything will be alright' talk.

Oh. That's a thing? -Apparently.

Well.

I am proud of you, sweetie. -Thanks, dad.

Well, see you Wednesday. We'll go to IKEA...

...I will pick you up, take you out for breakfast, okay?

Yes. -Bye baby.

Bye bye. Yes. They're probably right.

What did you guys forget this time? You know, I don't feel like...

...overthinking everything.

I will always keep making mistakes.

Oh. Hey.

Hey. I eh...

...forgot my sunglasses.

Okay.

Okay.

I mean, I'm not perfect.