All language subtitles for Toisen Kanssa 2014 E01

Olivia has settled in well.
Olivia has settled in well.

She has friends and hobbies.
She's going to a riding camp -
She has friends and hobbies.
She's going to a riding camp -
She has friends and hobbies.
She's going to a riding camp -

with her foster sister.
- There's a riding school near us.

You could take classes there.
- Okay.

Olivia needs a safe environment.
Olivia needs a safe environment.

But dad doesn't drink anymore.

His rehabilitation has only started.
- A year is a long time!
His rehabilitation has only started.
- A year is a long time!

Are you sober for real
or just to get Olivia back home?

Pentti doesn't drink anymore.
- Dad?
Pentti doesn't drink anymore.
- Dad?

Say something.
Stand up for yourself.

It's very hard...
- We'll help you.

A child should be
looked after by adults.
A child should be
looked after by adults.

Not the other way around.
- Of course not.

I'm over 12 and I have a say.
I want to move home.
I'm over 12 and I have a say.
I want to move home.

What's your view?

Pentti has been sober for a year.
Pentti has been sober for a year.

That went well.

How was it?
- A disaster.
How was it?
- A disaster.

Pentti couldn't even lie
he would stay sober.

What did he say?
- Oili did the talking.

Is Olivia moving back home?
- That's what she wants.
Is Olivia moving back home?
- That's what she wants.

Now I have to run.

I keep my fingers crossed.
- Thanks.
I keep my fingers crossed.
- Thanks.

"Good luck, darling!
Ring me when you know the results."

There's no sign of ovulation.

Sometimes the drugs don't work.

Are you saying...
Are you saying...

... that I can't get pregnant?

In medical terms it's unlikely.

Adoption is a good alternative.

I want to have a baby.

I'm really sorry.

It's not your fault.
- I should have been there.

Yes, you should have.

I'll just be someone's aunt
or godmother forever.
I'll just be someone's aunt
or godmother forever.

Let's get a second opinion.

There's something wrong with me.
There's something wrong with me.

We can't have a baby.

Everything is okay.
- No, it isn't!
Everything is okay.
- No, it isn't!

I can't do this anymore.
I'm done with the treatments.

Calm down.
- I don't want to. I want a baby.

Adopting a child
from Finland or abroad
Adopting a child
from Finland or abroad

I don't want this.
I don't want this.

You said you did.
- I want our child.

An adopted child would be ours.
- You know what I mean.
An adopted child would be ours.
- You know what I mean.

I don't.
- I'd be responsible for the child.

If he's bullied for being different,
it's my fault -

for dragging him here to suffer.
for dragging him here to suffer.

To suffer! These children are
orphans, their lives are at risk.

I won't commit to something
I don't understand.
I won't commit to something
I don't understand.

What? No child from China or Africa?
- Not even from Finland.

Can't you love a child
you didn't conceive?

I don't know.

What are you afraid of?
- I don't know.

Where are you going? Would it ruin
your selfish world view -
Where are you going? Would it ruin
your selfish world view -

if we had a foreign child
who you would love?

Do you want to split up?
- I realize this is hard for you.
Do you want to split up?
- I realize this is hard for you.

How is it for you?
- I'm sad, too.

It's an overwhelming idea
to look after a child -
It's an overwhelming idea
to look after a child -

torn apart from his family,
culture and background.

You must understand.
You must understand.

I don't want to force you.

And I can't adopt a child
just to please you.

SECOND CHANCE
Part One

Good morning.

I've neglected you.
And our sex life. Everything.
I've neglected you.
And our sex life. Everything.

One of those is easy to fix.

I can't let this ruin our life.
I can't let this ruin our life.

Why don't we go somewhere
on the autumn break?

Iceland might be nice.
- Or the Swiss Alps, for hiking.
Iceland might be nice.
- Or the Swiss Alps, for hiking.

I must run now, I'm late.
What is it?
I must run now, I'm late.
What is it?

It can't be.
- What?

You're in a good mood.

I will be from now on.
I will be from now on.

"It's true what they say: you need
one reliable adult. Thanks."
"It's true what they say: you need
one reliable adult. Thanks."

Come in.

You were right.
- Let's sit down.

Tell me.

I went home
and mum started to make coffee.
I went home
and mum started to make coffee.

What is it?
- I'm out of cigarettes.
What is it?
- I'm out of cigarettes.

I should pop out to the shop.

Go now
and then we'll have coffee.

Do you want anything?
- No.

Buy a chocolate bar for Olivia.
Buy a chocolate bar for Olivia.

How can he always ruin everything?

I hate him.

You spent the night
at the Tamminens.
You spent the night
at the Tamminens.

Can I still live there?
- You can.

Let's just cancel the decision
that was made yesterday. - Not yet.
Let's just cancel the decision
that was made yesterday. - Not yet.

It might be a good idea. - Can I live
with mum if they split up?

We'll see about that.
We'll see about that.

Why doesn't mum leave dad?

It's frightening
to change one's life entirely.
It's frightening
to change one's life entirely.

Do you have children?
- No, I don't.

Why not?
Why not?

At least you have me.

How about a vase?
Anna loves flowers.

She has dozens of vases.
- A nightie then.

A book, bag, nightie, vase
or a piece of jewellery.
A book, bag, nightie, vase
or a piece of jewellery.

Even a sixty-year-old
needs something.

Can't I chip in your gift?
- Susanna's family got their own.
Can't I chip in your gift?
- Susanna's family got their own.

Remember Anna
in your own way.

Sing her a song.
- Okay then. Bye bye!

Don't put them there!

Oili.
Oili.

Oili, wait.

Are you okay?
Has something happened?
Are you okay?
Has something happened?

You don't have to do this.
You're not helping Pentti.

Let me help you! You'll lose Olivia,
if you let Pentti threaten you.
Let me help you! You'll lose Olivia,
if you let Pentti threaten you.

Where's my change?

Olivia rang. She asked for you.
- I'll give her a ring.
Olivia rang. She asked for you.
- I'll give her a ring.

I just saw Oili buying booze
for Pentti. He's beaten her up.

Please, try to reach her.

Where are you?

Are you okay?
Are you okay?

You should be at school.

What if dad kills her?
What if dad kills her?

Oili should report this to the police.

Will you help mum if she rings you?
- I will. We all will.
Will you help mum if she rings you?
- I will. We all will.

She's so dear to me
even if she is weak.

There's nothing wrong
with loving your mum.

We're just not authorized
to force her into anything.
We're just not authorized
to force her into anything.

She said she fell.
- On her face?

How did you get on at the doctor's?

There are other options.
- Touko doesn't want to adopt.

But I've decided to focus
on the positive aspects of life.

That's more like it.
- I just don't know what they are.

You should make a treasure map.

A treasure map?
Okay, sounds good.

Hi!

Are you working on something?
- A treasure map.
Are you working on something?
- A treasure map.

I'm visualizing my dreams
to make them come true.

Was this Helena's idea?
Was this Helena's idea?

I should replace the baby
with something.

Let's get leathered
at Anna's party tomorrow.
Let's get leathered
at Anna's party tomorrow.

I suppose we have to.

Let's just have a good time together.
Let's just have a good time together.

In the presence of your relatives?

Don't take them seriously.

If you get uncomfortable,
I'll come to your rescue.
If you get uncomfortable,
I'll come to your rescue.

And please, rescue me
if I start to bicker with my sister.

Are you alright?

Who's driving?
- You.

We're late by the way.

What now?
- I can't do this.
What now?
- I can't do this.

Do what?
- I can't do this!

We don't have to adopt...
- I'm not coming to the party.

I get out here.

Your relatives
don't know the word "private".

For them personal and intimate
equals common and shared.

My manhood and dignity doesn't
depend on getting you pregnant.

Nobody thinks...
- Really?

You must impregnate her
with your eyes.
You must impregnate her
with your eyes.

Hockey player bags the puck,
you use your eyes.

What is your working position?

And when you fire the shot, -
And when you fire the shot, -

Saara raises her legs,
and there's the uterus...

Loads of children,
all of them conceived while...
Loads of children,
all of them conceived while...

"Do it when Saara has her period.
A bit messy but..."

Put some rags underneath
so everything doesn't get soiled!
Put some rags underneath
so everything doesn't get soiled!

You're like a F1 driver.
Your piston pumps...

Sheets and quilts.
- Friction and spark.
Sheets and quilts.
- Friction and spark.

Do you want to have a baby!?

You're exaggerating.

I'm sick of all the sex advice
and bragging about size and ability.
I'm sick of all the sex advice
and bragging about size and ability.

You should have told me.
- I'm telling you now.

I'm not coming.

Hi!
- Where's Touko?

He got out
half-way here.

Did he get sick?
- I'd rather not talk about it.
Did he get sick?
- I'd rather not talk about it.

It's Anna's party.
- Thanks.

For what?
- For coming anyway.

I hope you feel the same way
tomorrow.
I hope you feel the same way
tomorrow.

Hello Saara,
are you pregnant yet?

Nice to see you, too, Olavi.

Let's find Anna.
Let's find Anna.

How lovely you could make it.
- Happy birthday, sweet Anna.

You've cut the cake
and sung the song. - Yes -
You've cut the cake
and sung the song. - Yes -

but if you want to sing
something later, please do.

Move over!
How are you?
Move over!
How are you?

Where did you leave Touko?
- Not now, dad. I'll explain later.

You can't draw on the walls!
What a silly thing to do!
You can't draw on the walls!
What a silly thing to do!

Where's Touko?
- Don't you start.
Where's Touko?
- Don't you start.

He got out of the car half-way.
How are you?

We're just fine.

You should visit us.
- I should.
You should visit us.
- I should.

We're always home.

Mum, Aino peed her pants.
- It was an accident!

I'll help you. Let's go together
to see who needs to go.

She's not wearing diapers anymore.
- She hasn't worn them for years.
She's not wearing diapers anymore.
- She hasn't worn them for years.

How's your project going?
- Hasn't mum told you?

You could ring sometimes.
- I've been busy at work.
You could ring sometimes.
- I've been busy at work.

Hi, Topi!

Saara,
this is my girlfriend, Kira.

Pleased to meet you.
- You can hug me, too.

What's up, cousin?
- Not much, the usual mischief.
What's up, cousin?
- Not much, the usual mischief.

That's a pretty dress.
- Thanks.

Arja is there.
Come and say hi.

Hi, Arja.
- Long time, no see.

Your jeans fit really well.
Your jeans fit really well.

You like to cycle.
You could cycle to our place...

It's so hot. Aren't you hot?
It's so hot. Aren't you hot?

A cute dress.

How are you?
- Just fine.
How are you?
- Just fine.

Why do you freeze like that?

I can talk about children
even if I can't have any.

It's hard to know...
- How to be around me.

Yes.
- If we mention our baby, -

it can be hard for you but if we don't,
that can be hurtful, too.
it can be hard for you but if we don't,
that can be hurtful, too.

Do you mean my infertility
is difficult for you? - Well, it is.

I hope you're not offended.
- I'm not. I appreciate your honesty.
I hope you're not offended.
- I'm not. I appreciate your honesty.

It's wonderful to have a baby.

Should we have talked
about our baby openly?
Should we have talked
about our baby openly?

No idea. There's no right or wrong.
The situation is what it is.

The costumes are ready.
You're up next.

Do I have to?
- You do.
Do I have to?
- You do.

Arms through the holes.
- I hate this!

Excuse me, artists.
You forgot this.
Excuse me, artists.
You forgot this.

Good luck, sweeties!

He's so annoying!
- Not true. He's great.

You should be happy
with your husband and children.

I'm so sick of pampering you.

I'm not being pampered.
- Neither am I!
I'm not being pampered.
- Neither am I!

I can't talk to anyone about
my lack of sleep and personal time -

or any family concerns.
or any family concerns.

Should I apologise to you
for being infertile?

We can't just discuss the weather!
- Susanna, please.

Mum is always helping you
while she has four grandchildren -
Mum is always helping you
while she has four grandchildren -

who would also need care
and company at times. - I got it.

I've always wanted to share
everything with you.

Why don't you ever ring or come by?

You never ask how I am.
Are you even listening? - Stop it!
You never ask how I am.
Are you even listening? - Stop it!

I can't do this. Fuck!

All set?

There's been a minor change.
There's been a minor change.

The Gingerbread cancelled.
The Scone sings a solo.

Don't swim this way.

Hi.
- Hi!

Who are you?
- Matti.

I'm Saara.

Do you often swim to strange jetties?
- When I see a living pastry.
Do you often swim to strange jetties?
- When I see a living pastry.

Why's the muffin getting wet
on a beautiful summer night?

Jesus Christ.

Fancy a drink?
- Why not.

There's a bottle.

I've had a terrible day.

He's such an eye specialist,
an ocularist!

He thinks he can solve everything
by adding plus or minus.
He thinks he can solve everything
by adding plus or minus.

And if the problem doesn't go away,
he disappears.

You just listen
without giving advice, I love it.

Are you cold?
Are you cold?

Are you still asleep?

Surely you didn't go swimming
in the night?

I only went to the sauna.

How was the rest of the party?
How was the rest of the party?

Did you sing our pastry song solo?
- I didn't.

Send our love to Touko.
Try to talk things over.
Send our love to Touko.
Try to talk things over.

Bye then!

What's this?
- It's your name day soon.
What's this?
- It's your name day soon.

Name day gifts are for children.
- You are my baby!

Have a safe journey.

Say hello to Touko.
- Stay on the road.
Say hello to Touko.
- Stay on the road.

Hi there.
- Hi.
Hi there.
- Hi.

Are you angry?

I'm not. I'm angry with Olavi
on your behalf.
I'm not. I'm angry with Olavi
on your behalf.

Did you have a good time?
- It was alright.

How did you get home?
- By taxi.
How did you get home?
- By taxi.

It must have cost a fortune.
- It sure did!

Our trip to Iceland
is now a cruise to Tallinn.

I'm only joking!
I'm only joking!

It's the nail varnish, I had to buy it.
I'm making your dreams come true.

If you still want to go,
there are the tickets to Iceland.
If you still want to go,
there are the tickets to Iceland.

Are you mad?
These must have cost a lot.

I took money from the child savings.
Let's invest in our quality time.
I took money from the child savings.
Let's invest in our quality time.

Don't be mad.
- Of course not.

That's what we agreed.
- Let's do that.
That's what we agreed.
- Let's do that.

Let's take the trip
and have a good time.

We can think of this
as a new beginning.
We can think of this
as a new beginning.

Lift your arm.
A bit more...

I'll take my shirt off.

Sorry, darling!
- It's alright.

Are you beeping?

Don't get angry.
- I don't believe this!
Don't get angry.
- I don't believe this!

You left it on
on purpose!

Sorry.
- I can't...

You wanted to measure your fuck!
- I got excited about the prospect.

I wish you had been as excited
when we tried to have a baby.
I wish you had been as excited
when we tried to have a baby.

It felt oppressive,
not like making love.

We'll get over this.
- Why is this so difficult?
We'll get over this.
- Why is this so difficult?

We haven't made love
for several months.

Is there something wrong with me?
- No, of course not.
Is there something wrong with me?
- No, of course not.

I love you.

I love you, too.

Happy name day!
- How can you remember it?
Happy name day!
- How can you remember it?

I even got a gift.

Thank you.
I don't believe this.

Thank you.
- You're welcome.
Thank you.
- You're welcome.

We have a new case:
Ella Koivula, 12.

Her parents died in a car crash.

Any relatives?
- An aunt.
Any relatives?
- An aunt.

Ella won't accept
what has happened.

I'll take a look at my calendar.
- Great.

Olivia is here with her mum.

I'm sorry we didn't ring first.

Olivia said we could come here.

Of course.
Please, come in.

Does Pentti know you're here?
- No.
Does Pentti know you're here?
- No.

Maybe that's better.
- Mum can't go home.

Is he there?
- Not now.

But he'll come back.

Have you packed?
- No, I have just this bag.

Thanks.

So mum has only that bag.

First we'll find you a place
in a women's shelter. - Thanks.
First we'll find you a place
in a women's shelter. - Thanks.

You're entitled to it.

Then we pack your belongings.
- I can't go there.

Someone else will do it.
- Pentti will get mad.
Someone else will do it.
- Pentti will get mad.

Now you need to focus on yourself.
Don't tell Pentti where you are.

Don't take his calls.
You must be strong now.
Don't take his calls.
You must be strong now.

Can I move in with mum?
- Maybe later.

Everything is going to be alright.
Everything is going to be alright.

Five sausages.
And lots of relish, please.

Is that sausage I'm smelling?
- Five sausages.

Did you eat them?
Did you eat them?

You've always hated fast food.
- Now I felt like it.

I didn't consider it any further.
I didn't consider it any further.

What are you doing?

In the past month I have got
four identical nail varnishes.
In the past month I have got
four identical nail varnishes.

From you, Touko, mum -

and a makeup consultant
at Stockmann's.

You can exhange them.
- I don't wear nail varnish!
You can exhange them.
- I don't wear nail varnish!

You don't get it.
- Nope.
You don't get it.
- Nope.

That's the same shade
I put on my treasure map.

Now I have four of them
and I don't wear nail varnish!

Why are you so emotional?
- How should I know!

7,60. Do you need a bag?
- No, I'll use it right now, or...
7,60. Do you need a bag?
- No, I'll use it right now, or...

Pregnancy test

I'll take these, please.
I'll take these, please.

Hi. We have to meet.

Congratulations!
I am so happy for you.
Congratulations!
I am so happy for you.

Such great news! And you were told
you couldn't have children! - True.

How's Touko?
You've told him, right?
How's Touko?
You've told him, right?

That's right...

I will have to tell him.
I will have to tell him.

He's a doctor after all.
He's bound to notice it at some point.

You've lost me.
You've lost me.

Touko is not the father.

The father is called Matti.
The father is called Matti.

You're really kind.

For listening to the confessions
of a stranger.
For listening to the confessions
of a stranger.

I could hardly abandon you.

Is this wise?
- No.

I don't have any condoms.
- I can't get pregnant.

What will I do?

Is this Matti good-looking?
Is this Matti good-looking?

He's alright.

Okay, we'll look into it.
I'll get back to you.
Okay, we'll look into it.
I'll get back to you.

It was Olivia's foster mum.
Olivia didn't come home last night.

She's probably with Oili
at the shelter. - I'll go there.
She's probably with Oili
at the shelter. - I'll go there.

Let me.

You slag!

It's Saara Vartia.
Olivia, are you there?
It's Saara Vartia.
Olivia, are you there?

Minna rang.
She's really worried about you.

Sorry for the wait.
- Oili's daughter is my client.

Olivia's gone missing
from her foster family.

If she's not here
you must report her missing.
If she's not here
you must report her missing.

Hi.
Hi.

Why didn't you open the door?

Hello.

We made some coffee.
We made some coffee.

This is a women's shelter.
- And we are safe here.

Why are you here, Pentti?
Did you force your way in?
Why are you here, Pentti?
Did you force your way in?

I invited Pentti.
- Why?

What are you doing here?
- This is my family.

Do you really want to risk
your child's security -

and possibly her life
for a drunken man?
and possibly her life
for a drunken man?

How many beatings does it take
for you to realize this has to stop?

You have to ask Pentti to leave
or you might lose Olivia.
You have to ask Pentti to leave
or you might lose Olivia.

Do you get it?
- Will you ask dad to go?

You can't come here
and pressure my family.

Are you threatening me?
Are you threatening me?

He didn't say anything like that!
- Let's all have coffee.

Will you leave now?

You'll go to jail for threatening
and assaulting an authority.
You'll go to jail for threatening
and assaulting an authority.

God damn!
- Calm down, Pentti!

Shut up!

You should have told...
- I couldn't leave mum alone.

You live with the Tamminens.
Minna is really worried.

I did the wrong thing, I'm sorry.

Can I stay a bit longer?
Can I stay a bit longer?

That was out of line.
That was out of line.

Excuse me, are you alright?

I'm pregnant.
I'm pregnant.

My husband is not the father.
I was almost stabbed today.

I've tried to get pregnant for years.
What will I tell my husband?
I've tried to get pregnant for years.
What will I tell my husband?

Good luck!

Unbelievable.

Saara!
Saara!

Hi.

You should have called me!

We're going to have a baby.
We'll be a family. I'll be a father.
We're going to have a baby.
We'll be a family. I'll be a father.

Touko, wait.

I'm pregnant.

Translation
Rosa Aaltonen