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Feel my toy.

- At night, school belongs
to the kids!

-Felix.
We make beautiful humans.

Can we go to the gym?
At parent-teacher night,

everybody plays bloody murder
and murder ball.

All right, sold.
Get outta here.

Come on, Morris.
Come on, buddy.

So, Viv's teacher is obviously
running late,

but Felix's interview
is about to start.

Well, I should take
the Viv interview, right,

because I've been helping her
with her school work?

Hmm, yeah, but there's usually
some kind of behavioural talk

and I've been working with her
on regulating her emotions,

- so...
- Oh.

: There's a lot of ego
involved with raising kids.

: You take
credit for all their successes and failures.

So, as you lead them through
life's complicated maze,

you wanna be the one
choosing a path.

: But if your partner
chooses a different path, it gets tricky.

So, you need a very mature way
to resolve your differences.

You gonna be okay, James?
Tough loss. Yeah.

I thought about it
and I'm gonna be fine

because Felix is always
showered with praise,

- which I will gladly accept.
- Okay, well in that case,

he gets his math brain from me.

I was close to you and now
I'm far so...

Any math praise
is mine, James.

You know.

- Is Mrs. Berney joining us?
No, I'll be handling this.

The Felix stuff kinda
goes through me, so.

- So, you received
my email about taking some extra time today?

- Yeah-huh. I did.
And I, I forget though, what was the extra time um...

- Because Felix defaced
school property.

Felix did? No.

I don't, I don't think he did.

He admitted to it, Mr. Berney.

Some of the staff believe that
this is supposed to be me.

- Oh, it is.
I knew right away.

I taught him this shading
technique and...

It's a... the important thing
is that this is wrong.

- Yeah. Sometimes,
when a child acts out,

it's because there's been
changes at home.

I understand Felix's mother
used to be at home part-time

but is now at work full-time?

- That's true, but now
I'm at home full-time.

- Is she gonna be able
to speak to Felix about this?

I can talk to Felix.

Okay.

You should know we have
a three strike rule.

If he has two more strikes,
he will not be allowed to attend the upcoming field trip.

- There will not be
another strike.

He's gonna be batting
a thousand from now on.

Which is baseball.

It's impossible
in baseball terms,

but not in behaviour ball.

- So, how's Viv?
- Hmm?

- How's Viv?
- Oh, sorry.

There's just not enough
hours in the day.

My God, you guys are heroes.

I don't know how
you're expected to do the work

that you do. It's amazing.

Yeah, I mean,
that doesn't really leave me

a lot of time
to deal with my personal life,

which is why I'm doing it now.

God, my roommate's an idiot.

Great, so anyway, um,

are any of Viv's ADHD
management strategies

helping her keep up with class?

Yeah, yeah, she's doing great.

Uh, I have some work
of hers to show you.

- Oh, okay.
- Um, somewhere.

Just uh...

- The bathroom in public,
not on my watch.

Cut the crap!
- Ah!

Oh, my God!
Oh, my God.

- Don't film that!

Sorry, I was just distracted--

Oh, my God, you're an idiot.
We already talked about this.

I live with an idiot.

Hey, how'd it go in there?

Uh, Leonard threw
poop at a woman.

That makes sense.
And our daughter?

Huh?

- Uh...
- Vivian. How's the Viv doing?

Oh, good. Sorry, yes,
a great problem solver.

Just like me.
How's Felix?

Felix is in trouble for
defacing school property.

What?

Oh, my God, he really captured
Dongall's lack of personality.

I know, right? I think
it's some of his best work.

- It's really good.
- So, he just needs to do it

at home and, you know,
on paper.

- Yes, he's our little Banksy.
- Hmm.

Okay, I'll talk to him and--

Or I could talk to him 'cause
I am also his parent.

Yeah, I've seen
the birth certificates.

You okay, James?

Just that Mr. Dongall
said that Felix's behaviour

is probably because
you went back to work.

Like I'm some goblin dad
encouraging mischief.

What? You're not
a goblin dad, James.

- He's a goblin jerk!
- Thank you!

So, here's what we do.
I'll talk to Felix

and then we can both
donk on his Dongle head

- about what great parents we are.
- Thank you.

Heck yeah, we're good parents!

- Heck yeah, we are!
- Okay.

- Where are our kids?
- I don't know.

You go that way.

- All right, see ya.
- See ya later.

Hey, there ya are.
Lookin' for ya.

Listen, mister, you and I need
to have a little bit of a chat.

Is this about
the drawing thing?

I'm sorry.
I was messing around

with some friends
and it just happened.

It's my fault and
I won't do it again.

I'll just draw at home.

Yeah, don't do it again.

And if you're gonna draw,
draw at home.

Yep, I just said that,
but...

Good.
Good, good, good, good.

You shouldn't have done that.

- I said that, too.
- Yep, all right.

You know, going forward,

I'm gonna start paying a little
bit more attention to you.

All right?

Sure. I get that.
Thanks, Dad.

All right.

I don't know, Astrid,
these ones are hemmed way too short,

and these ones make
my ass look huge,

which is the only thing
I like about them, actually.

Leonard, can we just
please be serious?

The poo throwing incident
caused a major dip in the polls.

It was a brownie,
and she should've watched where she was going.

The video made it look like

you hit a woman in the head
with a bag of poo.

Look, I'm gonna write you
a great apology.

It's gonna, it's gonna show

that you can admit
when you're wrong.

It'll play great
with your younger voters.

But I'm the "cut the crap"
guy, not the feelings guy.

Leonard, people vote
with their feelings.

And right now, "Poop Bully"
is trending locally.

Fine.

But then I'm gonna write it
because people like

a nice, masculine apology.
If they were offended.

Leonard, I really, really
think that I should write it.

So, Astrid knows much better
than Leonard, huh?

Okay, you write it, but
make it nice and short, okay?

You know what?

I'm going with
the big butt pants.

'Cause I'm a big butt boy.

Yeah, I'm just
picking up Ennis for lunch.

Hey, you're early.

- Hey, there he is.
- Hi.

- Hi.
- Hi, yeah, hi.

Yum,
what is that smell?

I'm sorry to hear about
Felix's school troubles.

Astrid and I were brainstorming
solutions earlier.

What do you mean?
I handled it.

So, how did you handle it?

- We came to an understanding.
- Well, that's not enough.

Schools give up
on the troublemakers

and focus on the more
productive students.

You need to take action, James.

- I had a different take.
- You weighed in on this?

Troublemakers are just
disruptors with bad PR.

I mean, rule breakers
rule the world.

I got in so much trouble
as a kid for stealing other kids' lunches,

and I think I turned out
pretty good.

I thought that Felix
should just stay quiet

because even if the teacher
forgets you're in the class,

you can still get a B minus by
default, and that's pretty good.

Thank you! It's my kid though,
so I've got it under control.

I've handled it.
He knows it's wrong. He's not gonna do it again.

But why did he do it, James?

Kids, and employees,
often act out when something deeper is bothering them.

But unlike employees,
you can't just wait a month

and fire a kid for a clause
you buried in their contract.

I'm gonna know
when something's wrong

because I told him I was gonna
watch him like a hawk.

That's the exact words I used.

Are you...
watching him like a hawk?

How was your day?
Was it good?

Is today the pancake thing?

I don't know, wonder girl,
I wasn't the one who was here.

- Okay. We're all set.
- Wait, why aren't we leaving?

Felix, I want you
to apologize to Mr. Dongall about the picture.

Oh, oh, okay, sure.

Mr. Dongall,
Felix has something he would like to say to you.

- Sorry for the drawing.
- Hmm.

I appreciate that, Felix.

And just to clear up
any confusion,

- was that a drawing of me?
- Yep.

- Well...
- You know what?

I was thinking that maybe

I'd volunteer
for that field trip.

- Keep an eye on things.
- Sure.

Nobody ever volunteers,

so we're pretty much
desperate for anyone.

Dad, no!
Why are you coming?

Well, we're all very worried
about this behaviour and uh,

also happen to be very
interested in the uh...

Fort York.

We're gonna walk around
the fort for a couple of hours,

listen to some lectures, and
then partake in fort cuisine.

Can't wait.

Felix, what's on your arm?

You'd better wash this off
before school

so they know
that you learned your lesson.

- And like you bathe.
- I can have a shower without washing it off.

I just learned that for Felix,

washing and showering
are two different things.

Yeah, I've seen him after
a shower with dry hair.

Is he just like,
standing near water?

Why was he so defensive

about going all Keith Haring
on his arm?

- Hmm.
- Something's up.

- Should I go talk to him?
- No, I'm on it.

I'm gonna go on a field trip.
I'm gonna observe.

See if there's bad influences.

Is that why you're
looking up Fort York?

Ooh, did you know that
Fort York defended

the Toronto Harbour
in the War of 1812 against the American army?

Our dinky little colony fought
off the American military?

Nope. Destroyed
in a single day.

Well, I'm trying to prevent
Leonard from destroying

- his whole campaign in one day.
- Hmm.

- Does this sound like him?
- Okay.

- "It is with deep regret..."
- No, it does not.

Perfect.

Oy.

Gulp.

So, I got here as soon
as you got my text.

Not true.
That was over 90 minutes ago.

Yeah, that's right.
I couldn't find my car keys.

And then I got distracted by
this movie I was watching.

How can I quickly help you?

Did you use that advice
that I gave you for Felix?

Oh, absolutely not.
Never would I ever.

Oh, thank God, okay,
'cause I know that I said

that troublemakers
become captains of industry,

but I looked up
some of the troublemakers I went to school with,

and uh, they are not doing well.

That is actually
very sweet of you, Ennis.

Thank you. But I have it
all under control, okay?

- I'm on top of it.
- Okay, good.

I was so worried I could

barely finish "Cloverfield."

Astrid said she just
found something crazy.

Is it like a giant
creature's footprint?

- Whoa, what's going on?
- Hey, look at this.

Look at the eyes.
The eyes in both drawings are exactly the same.

Yeah, 'cause he drew
both drawings.

Hi, Astrid, I'm here to help.

Are there kids behind every
one of these doors?

This drawing was
on his right arm. Felix is right-handed.

He couldn't have done
the drawing. Hi, Ennis.

Hold on a second.
Hold on a second.

Look at this.
Well, what if it was like this, though?

What if you go back?
Is it on the forearm?

No, it's impossible.
Couldn't have done it.

If he didn't do
the arm drawing,

- he didn't do the desk drawing.
- Ooh.

Feels like an episode
of "Law and Order".

You are fantastic at this.
Single-handedly saved your son.

Hey, have you seen
"Cloverfield?"

This is what
I really look like.

We need to talk.

Okay, I can't really do a ton
of talking with this thing on.

Why don't you trust me
to handle something when I tell you that I will?

James, I do, I just,
I thought about it

and the drawing didn't make
sense, so I checked.

Thinking about something
and then checking it is secretly handling it.

James, I did, it's not...

I'm at a real disadvantage
with this thing on.

It's just like you don't
trust me, you know?

- Like, I've got solutions, too.
- I know. And I do.

I just, you know, I was
the at-home parent for years,

so I'm just used
to handling this stuff.

I hear that,
I totally understand that, but we made a plan, right?

And then you just went
and did your own thing.

- You went behind my back.
- Yeah, I did.

God, I'm treating you
like the goblin dad now.

- I'm not a goblin dad.
- I know you're not.

- I'm not a goblin dad.
- You know it and I know it.

I wanna work on not stepping
on your toes.

Thank you.

So, we know that
he didn't do the drawing,

but we don't know why
he admitted to it. So, tomorrow,

I'm gonna find that out right
after I throw these drawings

into the teacher's
ding-dong face.

Sure. But just remember,
this is about helping Felix

and not about being right.
Right?

Mm-hmm.

: You spend a lot
of energy and time looking out for your kids.

: Head injuries,
sun damage, germs,

beating traffic, social media.
You're on the defensive a lot.

: But sometimes
the only way to defend your kids is to attack.

Mr. Dongall, I presume
you got my email?

No, I, I didn't
receive anything.

And I just checked.

Oh, maybe I forgot
to press send.

Doesn't matter. Here we go.
I've got actual proof.

Hold, you hold,
you hold right there.

You see?

Felix couldn't have drawn
this on his own arm.

- Wait!
- Secondly,

the style of this tattoo
exactly matches

the style of the drawing
on the desk.

Therefore, whoever drew
on Felix's arm

is the same person
who drew on the desk.

-Dad, wait!
- In conclusion,

Felix could not...
No, Dad, Dad!

...have defaced
school property.

You're right.

This looks like Maya's drawings.

Oh no.

It's the eyes.

Maya?
Yes, Mr. Dongall?

Maya, Mr. Berney
and I have deduced

that it was your drawing
on the desk, not Felix's.

I'm sorry, Maya,
but that is strike three!

You are not going
on the field trip.

You are going to stay
behind in detention.

- Can I please go?
- Rules have consequences.

- Thank you, Mr. Berney.
- No, no, don't, don't, don't.

- He didn't mean to--
- Dad!

I didn't even want you
to come on the trip.

Uh...

This was all
your mother's idea!

You just come stand
right here.

We'll be with you
in just a moment.

This feels like
a lot of fuss.

Well, we care about you,
Sarah, and maybe that's a silver lining in uh...

Getting hit in the head
with stinky filth?

Yeah, not that it excuses
anything, but it was a brownie.

We put a brownie
in the poop bag.

I don't understand
your euphemisms.

But I did pray
for Leonard Flynn.

Dope. I'm more
of a manifestation guy myself.

It's worked out so far.
Look at how I grew my long hair.

- Jean-Luc, let's go over there.
- Yeah, okay.

Check.

To my constituents,
they say that a man's strength

can't be measured
by his many wins,

but rather how he handles
his controversies.

Okay, good start.

So, let me be the first
to say that I am sorry

for flinging feces

at one of our town's
finest women.

I would like to offer
an apology to you, Miss Sarah Smith.

How devastating it must be
to see a brown bag coming towards your head.

Keep it short.

Oh.

Leonard. No, no, no, no.

Okay.

Stop, stop, stop,
Leonard, stop.

Yikes.

Oh, my God.
Oh, no, no, no.

See, I'm not
so scary, am I?

- Jean-Luc! Stop!
- Oh.

All right,
single file now.

Hey, hey, hey,
come here, come here.

So, I was just trying
to clear your name, right? I was helping.

No, I was helping
and you ruined it.

So, you lied just to keep
Maya out of trouble?

Her first two strikes
were totally unfair,

and now I have to go
on this field trip

without anybody to sit
on the bus with.

And you wanted
to hang out with her?

Mr. Berney, the children
are boarding the bus.

- We'd better hurry.
- Yeah, ahem, listen, Dongall,

I was thinking, and I'm very
disappointed in this young man.

I think he should stay
back from the trip.

He's not going.

But to deny your son
a chance to see a fort?

As his father, I forbid him
from learning about any forts!

He's gonna stay back
here with Maya.

All right.

I respect your right to handle
this situation as you see fit.

It's what a good parent
does, Dongall.

Now, I guess I'll be going home.

Oh, we still need you
as a chaperone.

- You volunteered.
- Huh? No, no. What?

No, Felix is staying here.
I don't know those kids.

And we need your incredible
disciplinary skills.

This class is a nightmare
on the bus.

Confiscate any banana you see.

Dongall.

Dongall.

We have to find some
way to spin it.

Spin it?

You made me manhandle a woman
in front of the cameras.

You know, people who like
apologies didn't like it.

My base hated it.
My wife really hated it.

- It could have gone better.
- It was a disaster.

That's why I, A,
write my own apologies, and B, don't apologize.

Okay, well, Leonard,
just for future reference,

you should know that
it's best never to touch,

let alone pat, the head
of people we say sorry to.

What timely advice.

Maybe you should be
apologizing to me.

Okay, yeah, you're right.
I’m sorry, Leonard.

I understand if you don't want
to work with me anymore.

Hey, so good news is that
all press is good press.

Bad news is that this press
is bad press.

Leonard's approval
ratings plummeted.

Astrid...

...handle it.

Copy that.

- Okay, get on the phone.
- Got it.

: Parenting
is a humbling journey with a lot of missteps.

: So many missteps
that you start planning

for missteps that are
very unlikely.

: Is that
why you bought iodine tablets?

: Yes!
: It's so humbling

you can start to doubt
your decisions.

: But if you're lucky,
you have a partner

who shares the burden
of parenting.

: A partner who also
doubts their decisions.

Felix, stop putting
stickers on my door!

Well, you shouldn't
ask me to do it!

Should we do something
about that?

Let's see how
this one plays out.

You're so confusing!

You see that one
child climb up?

- Stick his--
- Oh, in the cannon, yeah.

I saw two that had guilty
looks so they,

so the whole crew
in on the whole deal.

- This job tends--
- I know.

- I'm... I'm 37.
- Dongall.

Yeah.

It was, it was exceptionally
bad today, I have to say.

- That's every day for you?
- Fort days

or when we go on trips,
that's when it's like, they're infested with--

- The ghosts of 1812.
- Yeah.

That child, Ephraim,
that you were shouting at.

- Yeah.
- It illustrated

to the other children
your anger.

It's good to put
that out there

every once in a while...

I'm just going to come out
and say this.

You wanna go for a drink?

Oh!

You must need a drink.
I, I, and let me say,

this is not something
I do all the time.

I have a thing. I'm not
sure when you said it was,

but I think,
I will check my calendar.

- Check it right now.
- Felix!

I can read your face.
I am...

No, my face is.

...an expert at
micro expressions.

You can't see anything.
My face is...

I'm still haunted
by the cannon situation

with the, and the, and the...
and he tried to...