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(Knock on door)
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What's going on with you?
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nothing.
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then why aren't you
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answering your phone?
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and why haven't
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I seen you in class?
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ned, what are you-
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I've just been thinking,
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that's all.
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I was thinking
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about stuff.
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away from everyone.
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ok.
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including-including me?
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ok.
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how's your face?
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does it still hurt?
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it's fine.
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let me take a look
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at it.
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no, don't. Just stop.
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(sighs)
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you can talk to me,
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you know.
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are you still really
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angry, is that it?
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you want to go beat
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him up or something?
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no, that's not-
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is this how it felt
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when I hit you?
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what?
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this is how it felt,
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isn't it?
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ned, it's not the same.
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i-i don't know about that
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'cause this is-
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this is bad.
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and I don't know why.
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if it's me
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or if it's you
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or if it's something
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about the two of us
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when we're together
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that makes me-
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I don't like it when
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I get angry at you.
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I don't like it when
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you end up crying.
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ned.
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no, listen to me!
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I've been thinking
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about this.
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this is what I've
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been thinking about.
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the two of us,
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it's just not good.
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that's not true.
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and I want it
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to be over.
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I want you
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to leave me.
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or I'll leave you.
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it doesn't matter.
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am I supposed
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to say thank you?
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you can't make a decision
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like this on your own.
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yes, I can.
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no, that's not fair!
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you can't punish me
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for what Griffin did.
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you can't punish me
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for the fact
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that you get angry.
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I'm not punishing you.
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I'm just saying enough.
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you should be glad
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I'm doing this, Julia,
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'cause I don't want you
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to end up like this.
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and I can't be sure of
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that unless you go away.
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no, no, you have
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to go away.
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? Everybody wants to live ?
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? like they wanna live ?
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? and everybody
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wants to love ?
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? like they wanna love ?
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? and everybody
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wants to be ?
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? closer to free ?
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? closer to free... ?
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Just-just relax, ok.
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it's not a test.
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I know. Ha ha ha.
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you want me
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to take her back?
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no, not yet.
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(gurgling)
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ha ha ha.
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wow, that's-
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she kind of looks
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more like me now,
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don't you think?
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you mean her mouth?
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yeah. Ha ha ha.
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yeah, yeah, definitely.
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she recognizes you.
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you can tell.
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(gurgling)
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no.
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yeah. Look
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how calm she is.
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she's never that way
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with strangers.
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I am a stranger.
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(gurgles)
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there's no harm done,
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you know.
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I mean,
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she doesn't understand.
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she doesn't-
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she doesn't blame you.
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Charlie.
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I'm just saying.
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what? What is he saying?
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what is your daddy
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saying to me, hmm?
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what is he saying?
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do you know? Oh!
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you're not supposed to
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have favorite students?
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that's, like,
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something they
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tell you not to have
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because the other kids
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pick up on it?
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but I couldn't help it.
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as soon as Owen
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came into my classroom,
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Mr. salinger?
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he's bright. He's sweet.
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he's got this glow?
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I know. I know. I've been
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spending time with him.
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more than usual and he's
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all the stuff you're saying.
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so you must
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have been surprised
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when I called you in?
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uh, the parent-teacher
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conference.
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isn't this
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the usual thing?
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the usual thing's
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in the fall.
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I called you 'cause
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I'm observing something.
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something that
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could be a problem,
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but I'm not sure?
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a problem?
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what kind of problem?
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ok. Owen was
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one of those kids
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who was already reading
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when he started school?
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then I started noticing
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how he'd get
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word order wrong?
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typical problems.
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typical of what?
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kids with l.D.
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learning disabilities.
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but you were just saying
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how bright he is.
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that's exactly
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what we look for,
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when they're bright and
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there's still a problem.
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Ms. lo?
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could this be at all because
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he's stressed out at home?
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because my brother Charlie's
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got this new baby.
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and-and it's been
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really rough on him.
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I couldn't say.
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maybe that's what
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the test will tell us?
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tests?
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we usually don't
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give them this young,
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but if
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something's wrong,
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the sooner the better?
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she held her for
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like 45 minutes.
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she wouldn't even
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let me take her back.
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they were-they were
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giggling with each other.
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it was, uh-
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I haven't say
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anything to her yet
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about what I'm thinking,
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but, uh,
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they were so good
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together. Ha ha ha.
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Daphne was so good
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with her.
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this might actually
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work out.
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Kirsten?
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what? Oh, that's great,
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Charlie.
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that's really great.
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you don't have to hang
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around with me, you know.
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I'll be fine by myself.
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I'm not going to run out
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and beat up someone.
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just in case,
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you know, I'll stay.
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Did you try
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calling her again?
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doesn't seem like
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much of a point right now.
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Griffin, are you
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still in love with her?
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she doesn't
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deserve it, Griffin.
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you care and care
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and care about someone
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and they don't do
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anything back.
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it's not that simple.
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I'm not doing this.
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what? Julia-
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I'm not doing this your way
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just 'cause you say so.
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that's not how it works
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with 2 people.
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ok, but could we not-
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I did this last year.
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ned, I had a relationship.
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I was in love with someone.
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and things got bad
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and I walked away.
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and I'm not doing it again.
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maybe it's about me.
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'cause I don't-
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I don't want to say
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that every person
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that I choose
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is the wrong person.
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or that I don't know
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what the hell I'm doing
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when I fall in love.
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or maybe, I don't know,
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I just don't want to be
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the kind of person
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who gives up on things
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as soon as they get bad.
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ned, I love you.
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I love being with you.
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I love sleeping with you.
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I love the way
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that you take care of me.
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'cause no one has
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taken care of me
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in a really long time.
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ok, maybe you have a problem.
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so, you get angry and you
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don't know how to control it.
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but that doesn't make you
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a bad person.
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and you can get help
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for stuff like that.
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I can help you get help,
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and I'll stay with you.
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I'll stay with you
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if you get help.
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I don't know.
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I thought we could, um,
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take a walk
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or something.
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go down to the pier,
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walk around.
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I have to go to work.
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right now at this hour?
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it's telephone
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solicitation, Charlie.
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this is when people
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are at home.
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right.
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what?
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what what?
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oh, come on.
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don't do this to me, ok?
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what do you want?
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you come down to L.A.,
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and you tell me stuff
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about my life
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that I guess
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I'm supposed to face.
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and now we're
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just hanging out.
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and I don't know
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what you expect,
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walks on the pier?
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what do you think
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is going to happen?
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I want you
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to come back with me.
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Charlie-
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listen.
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I went to
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a psychiatrist.
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and-and I showed her
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the police report.
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and I told her
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the whole story.
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everything
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that happened.
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you shouldn't
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have done that.
331
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listen to me. Listen.
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she said that-
333
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that it makes sense.
334
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all this stuff with Diana.
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everything that you're
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feeling or can't feel
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is because of
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what happened to you.
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and?
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and...now that
341
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we know that,
342
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we can-we can
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deal with it together.
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oh, no.
345
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no, Charlie, no, no.
346
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oh.
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god, you are
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a sweet man
349
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and everything
350
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you've done for me.
351
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and don't get me wrong,
352
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it's wonderful.
353
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I want the truth.
354
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believe me, it is
355
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a hell of a lot easier
356
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for me to hate my mom
357
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than it is
358
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to hate myself.
359
00:10:04,938 --> 00:10:08,275
but-but this is
360
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who I am.
361
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ok? This is
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really who I am.
363
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and that's all
364
00:10:11,861 --> 00:10:13,780
you've proved.
365
00:10:13,905 --> 00:10:16,074
so it's not my fault,
366
00:10:13,905 --> 00:10:16,074
so what?
367
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children grow up
368
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all the time
369
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with-with defects
370
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that are no their fault.
371
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so just think of me
372
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as someone who was
373
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born with a bad heart.
374
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That's giving up.
375
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and it's not even true.
376
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I mean, talk
377
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to the psychiatrist
378
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I talked to.
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talk to anybody.
380
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you're not doomed
381
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unless you decide to be.
382
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and it's not like you
383
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have some kind of fatal
384
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disease or something.
385
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even if you did,
386
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you'd try to fight it.
387
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you'd try
388
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to-to survive.
389
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(sighs)
390
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so, I'm-I'm happy you
391
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got all the facts, but-
392
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just so you know,
393
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from this point on,
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you can stop blaming
395
00:11:04,956 --> 00:11:07,501
your mom...
396
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and start
397
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blaming yourself.
398
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You understand that
399
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anything you say to me
400
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is completely confidential.
401
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I may work for
402
00:11:19,678 --> 00:11:21,181
the university,
403
00:11:21,306 --> 00:11:22,849
but this is
404
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just between us.
405
00:11:22,974 --> 00:11:24,024
ok.
406
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ok.
407
00:11:27,521 --> 00:11:29,356
what did you want
408
00:11:27,521 --> 00:11:29,356
to talk to me about?
409
00:11:42,035 --> 00:11:46,581
I hit sometimes.
410
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I hit-
411
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I hit her.
412
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Owen's tests-
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the district psychologist
414
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will follow up.
415
00:12:02,096 --> 00:12:03,931
but meanwhile,
416
00:12:02,096 --> 00:12:03,931
it looks like he's got
417
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what we call
418
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a processing disorder.
419
00:12:06,601 --> 00:12:08,769
translation?
420
00:12:08,895 --> 00:12:13,274
look, we asked him
421
00:12:08,895 --> 00:12:13,274
to draw a picture
422
00:12:08,895 --> 00:12:13,274
about a story he read.
423
00:12:13,400 --> 00:12:16,194
what he said about the story
424
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was, like, brilliant,
425
00:12:16,319 --> 00:12:19,489
but here's the picture.
426
00:12:22,701 --> 00:12:25,828
that's way below the level
427
00:12:22,701 --> 00:12:25,828
of what other kids can draw.
428
00:12:27,372 --> 00:12:29,457
the good news is
429
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in the long run
430
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he can do what
431
00:12:29,583 --> 00:12:31,042
any other kid can do.
432
00:12:31,167 --> 00:12:32,627
the bad news is?
433
00:12:32,751 --> 00:12:34,504
it's gonna be
434
00:12:32,751 --> 00:12:34,504
harder for him.
435
00:12:34,629 --> 00:12:37,465
and for the people
436
00:12:34,629 --> 00:12:37,465
around him.
437
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there's a study routine
438
00:12:37,591 --> 00:12:40,677
2-3 hours a night.
439
00:12:40,801 --> 00:12:42,011
2-3 hours?
440
00:12:42,136 --> 00:12:43,971
same time, same room.
441
00:12:44,097 --> 00:12:45,390
but it works.
442
00:12:45,515 --> 00:12:49,394
that's if you're willing
443
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to do it with him.
444
00:12:49,519 --> 00:12:51,145
we are.
445
00:12:51,271 --> 00:12:53,648
I am.
446
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can I suggest something else,
447
00:12:53,772 --> 00:12:56,859
Mr. salinger?
448
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sure. Yeah.
449
00:12:56,984 --> 00:12:59,820
like I said,
450
00:12:56,984 --> 00:12:59,820
I'll do whatever.
451
00:12:59,946 --> 00:13:01,322
then come to class.
452
00:13:01,448 --> 00:13:03,450
we have parent volunteers.
453
00:13:03,575 --> 00:13:05,243
you'd be the first father
454
00:13:03,575 --> 00:13:05,243
we've seen in awhile.
455
00:13:07,287 --> 00:13:08,337
father?
456
00:13:08,413 --> 00:13:10,248
sorry. You know what i-
457
00:13:10,373 --> 00:13:12,125
yeah, I do.
458
00:13:17,297 --> 00:13:18,881
Julia?
459
00:13:19,006 --> 00:13:20,759
oh, hey.
460
00:13:19,006 --> 00:13:20,759
what are you-
461
00:13:20,883 --> 00:13:21,933
is something wrong?
462
00:13:22,009 --> 00:13:23,678
no. No. I just-i was
463
00:13:22,009 --> 00:13:23,678
looking for you.
464
00:13:23,802 --> 00:13:25,888
I wanted to talk
465
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for a minute.
466
00:13:26,013 --> 00:13:28,224
no one's gonna know what
467
00:13:26,013 --> 00:13:28,224
we're talking about.
468
00:13:28,349 --> 00:13:30,560
I promise.
469
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all right.
470
00:13:32,437 --> 00:13:35,064
um, look, I don't know
471
00:13:32,437 --> 00:13:35,064
if you know this,
472
00:13:35,189 --> 00:13:37,984
but apart from any
473
00:13:35,189 --> 00:13:37,984
of the sessions that
474
00:13:35,189 --> 00:13:37,984
I have with you and ned,
475
00:13:38,109 --> 00:13:40,903
the university also
476
00:13:38,109 --> 00:13:40,903
has a group for women.
477
00:13:40,904 --> 00:13:41,027
for women?
478
00:13:41,028 --> 00:13:42,078
yeah.
479
00:13:42,155 --> 00:13:43,535
who are similar situations.
480
00:13:43,657 --> 00:13:44,741
so that they can talk
481
00:13:43,657 --> 00:13:44,741
to each other
482
00:13:44,865 --> 00:13:47,201
and get counseling
483
00:13:44,865 --> 00:13:47,201
and advice.
484
00:13:47,327 --> 00:13:48,536
ok.
485
00:13:48,662 --> 00:13:50,246
I don't-i don't
486
00:13:48,662 --> 00:13:50,246
think I need that.
487
00:13:50,371 --> 00:13:51,421
but ok. Thanks.
488
00:13:53,916 --> 00:13:55,502
look, I'm not trying
489
00:13:53,916 --> 00:13:55,502
to push you.
490
00:13:55,627 --> 00:13:57,878
but there are a lot
491
00:13:55,627 --> 00:13:57,878
of things that go on
492
00:13:58,004 --> 00:14:00,173
when you're the victim of
493
00:13:58,004 --> 00:14:00,173
violence in a relationship.
494
00:14:00,298 --> 00:14:01,549
there are issues of
495
00:14:00,298 --> 00:14:01,549
self-esteem-
496
00:14:01,675 --> 00:14:05,886
I'm not a victim
497
00:14:01,675 --> 00:14:05,886
of violence, ok?
498
00:14:06,012 --> 00:14:07,764
look, Julia, I know-
499
00:14:07,888 --> 00:14:10,350
what is this,
500
00:14:07,888 --> 00:14:10,350
some kind of battered
501
00:14:07,888 --> 00:14:10,350
women's group?
502
00:14:10,475 --> 00:14:12,811
'cause that's-
503
00:14:10,475 --> 00:14:12,811
that is not what's
504
00:14:10,475 --> 00:14:12,811
going on here.
505
00:14:12,935 --> 00:14:14,646
and once you talk
506
00:14:12,935 --> 00:14:14,646
to ned a little more,
507
00:14:12,935 --> 00:14:14,646
you'll see that.9
508
00:14:14,771 --> 00:14:18,065
he just-he has
509
00:14:14,771 --> 00:14:18,065
problems with his anger
510
00:14:14,771 --> 00:14:18,065
sometimes, that's all.
511
00:14:18,191 --> 00:14:21,611
Julia, ned is not
512
00:14:18,191 --> 00:14:21,611
here right now.
513
00:14:21,736 --> 00:14:25,615
if this is the kind
514
00:14:21,736 --> 00:14:25,615
of help that you want,
515
00:14:25,740 --> 00:14:28,075
but you're afraid of
516
00:14:25,740 --> 00:14:28,075
what ned will think-
517
00:14:28,201 --> 00:14:30,745
if you're afraid
518
00:14:28,201 --> 00:14:30,745
of ned in any way-
519
00:14:30,746 --> 00:14:31,870
that's what you think?
520
00:14:31,871 --> 00:14:33,373
you think
521
00:14:31,871 --> 00:14:33,373
I'm afraid of ned
522
00:14:33,498 --> 00:14:34,957
and that's why
523
00:14:33,498 --> 00:14:34,957
I came to see you?
524
00:14:34,958 --> 00:14:36,249
I'm just listening to you.
525
00:14:36,250 --> 00:14:38,044
I'm giving you
526
00:14:36,250 --> 00:14:38,044
the opportunity-
527
00:14:38,169 --> 00:14:39,920
don't patronize me, ok?
528
00:14:40,046 --> 00:14:42,923
you don't know me.
529
00:14:40,046 --> 00:14:42,923
you don't know us.
530
00:14:45,760 --> 00:14:47,261
right.
531
00:14:50,973 --> 00:14:52,726
I'll see you
532
00:14:50,973 --> 00:14:52,726
at the session.
533
00:15:01,317 --> 00:15:02,367
Hey.
534
00:15:04,028 --> 00:15:05,946
you wouldn't happen
535
00:15:04,028 --> 00:15:05,946
to know anything about
536
00:15:06,072 --> 00:15:08,115
the, uh, imagery of
537
00:15:06,072 --> 00:15:08,115
birth and renewal
538
00:15:08,241 --> 00:15:10,159
in Shakespeare's
539
00:15:08,241 --> 00:15:10,159
the tempest, would you?
540
00:15:10,284 --> 00:15:13,120
uh...no.
541
00:15:13,246 --> 00:15:15,874
yeah. Same here.
542
00:15:17,333 --> 00:15:19,419
what's with
543
00:15:17,333 --> 00:15:19,419
the suitcase?
544
00:15:19,544 --> 00:15:22,463
oh. Um, I'm gonna go away
545
00:15:19,544 --> 00:15:22,463
for a little while.
546
00:15:22,589 --> 00:15:24,965
what? Why?
547
00:15:25,091 --> 00:15:28,803
well, I haven't seen
548
00:15:25,091 --> 00:15:28,803
my parents in a really
549
00:15:25,091 --> 00:15:28,803
long time.
550
00:15:28,928 --> 00:15:30,889
and I thought it would be
551
00:15:28,928 --> 00:15:30,889
a perfect opportunity.
552
00:15:31,013 --> 00:15:35,101
ok. But Charlie's
553
00:15:31,013 --> 00:15:35,101
gonna be kind of bummed.
554
00:15:35,226 --> 00:15:37,771
I mean, he's been
555
00:15:35,226 --> 00:15:37,771
leaning on you a lot
556
00:15:35,226 --> 00:15:37,771
lately.
557
00:15:37,896 --> 00:15:39,564
and if you're not here
558
00:15:37,896 --> 00:15:39,564
when he gets back...
559
00:15:39,689 --> 00:15:41,566
I don't think he's
560
00:15:39,689 --> 00:15:41,566
gonna mind that much.
561
00:15:41,691 --> 00:15:43,192
to be honest with you,
562
00:15:41,691 --> 00:15:43,192
I think I'd just-
563
00:15:43,317 --> 00:15:45,612
I'd kind of be in the way.
564
00:15:45,737 --> 00:15:47,113
that's not true.
565
00:15:47,238 --> 00:15:49,449
in any case, um,
566
00:15:49,574 --> 00:15:51,951
it's not good for me
567
00:15:49,574 --> 00:15:51,951
to be here right now.
568
00:15:52,076 --> 00:15:53,994
I'm not liking myself
569
00:15:52,076 --> 00:15:53,994
very much.
570
00:15:54,120 --> 00:15:58,416
sitting here waiting for-
571
00:15:58,541 --> 00:16:00,334
I'm just rooting for
572
00:15:58,541 --> 00:16:00,334
all the wrong things.
573
00:16:00,460 --> 00:16:03,254
it's just-it's just
574
00:16:00,460 --> 00:16:03,254
rotten timing.
575
00:16:03,379 --> 00:16:04,923
I'm not getting this.
576
00:16:07,174 --> 00:16:09,385
never mind. Just, um...
577
00:16:09,510 --> 00:16:11,429
will you just give
578
00:16:09,510 --> 00:16:11,429
this to Charlie
579
00:16:11,554 --> 00:16:13,180
when he gets back?
580
00:16:13,306 --> 00:16:15,015
it's just a little
581
00:16:13,306 --> 00:16:15,015
good-bye note.
582
00:16:15,141 --> 00:16:17,977
tell him I'll be away
583
00:16:15,141 --> 00:16:17,977
for a few weeks.
584
00:16:18,102 --> 00:16:20,438
can he call you
585
00:16:18,102 --> 00:16:20,438
in Chicago if he wants?
586
00:16:22,356 --> 00:16:24,150
if he wants.
587
00:16:25,944 --> 00:16:27,445
I'll see you later, ok?
588
00:16:33,451 --> 00:16:35,369
Hi. Ok.
589
00:16:35,495 --> 00:16:37,497
ok. I'm making a rash,
590
00:16:37,622 --> 00:16:39,791
spur-of-the-moment,
591
00:16:37,622 --> 00:16:39,791
caution-to-the-wind
592
00:16:37,622 --> 00:16:39,791
kind of decision here.
593
00:16:39,916 --> 00:16:41,960
shh. Diana's
594
00:16:39,916 --> 00:16:41,960
still sleeping.
595
00:16:42,084 --> 00:16:43,837
(whispering)
596
00:16:42,084 --> 00:16:43,837
oh. Sorry.
597
00:16:43,962 --> 00:16:46,589
I'm sorry. Um...
598
00:16:49,300 --> 00:16:50,677
I'm gonna go back
599
00:16:49,300 --> 00:16:50,677
with you.
600
00:16:50,802 --> 00:16:54,555
I'm gonna try, ok?
601
00:16:54,681 --> 00:16:57,433
and I'm not gonna let
602
00:16:54,681 --> 00:16:57,433
my mother have the last
603
00:16:54,681 --> 00:16:57,433
word in my life.
604
00:16:57,558 --> 00:17:01,312
and I will see
605
00:16:57,558 --> 00:17:01,312
that psychiatrist
606
00:16:57,558 --> 00:17:01,312
expert person of yours.
607
00:17:01,437 --> 00:17:03,481
great. That's great.
608
00:17:03,606 --> 00:17:05,483
except that, um,
609
00:17:03,606 --> 00:17:05,483
we have to leave now.
610
00:17:05,608 --> 00:17:07,485
I mean, we have to go
611
00:17:05,608 --> 00:17:07,485
immediately because
612
00:17:07,610 --> 00:17:08,778
I'm really, really
613
00:17:07,610 --> 00:17:08,778
not sure.
614
00:17:08,903 --> 00:17:10,363
right now?
615
00:17:08,903 --> 00:17:10,363
yeah.
616
00:17:10,488 --> 00:17:14,074
um, I've packed up
617
00:17:10,488 --> 00:17:14,074
all the essentials.
618
00:17:22,124 --> 00:17:24,377
Put me on a plane, Charlie.
619
00:17:26,379 --> 00:17:28,214
I'm not gonna do that.
620
00:17:28,339 --> 00:17:30,299
oh, for god's sake.
621
00:17:30,424 --> 00:17:31,968
this is it, daph.
622
00:17:32,092 --> 00:17:33,469
this is it. This is
623
00:17:32,092 --> 00:17:33,469
the final move.
624
00:17:33,470 --> 00:17:33,593
and we gotta
625
00:17:33,594 --> 00:17:34,636
do this right.
626
00:17:34,637 --> 00:17:35,930
meaning?
627
00:17:36,055 --> 00:17:38,016
you got a job, right?
628
00:17:38,140 --> 00:17:40,518
mm-hmm.
629
00:17:40,643 --> 00:17:43,229
are you owed any money?
630
00:17:43,230 --> 00:17:44,396
mm-hmm.
631
00:17:44,397 --> 00:17:45,732
ok, then.
632
00:17:45,857 --> 00:17:47,650
go pick up
633
00:17:45,857 --> 00:17:47,650
your final paycheck.
634
00:17:47,775 --> 00:17:49,318
then go back and pack up
635
00:17:47,775 --> 00:17:49,318
all your stuff.
636
00:17:49,443 --> 00:17:51,571
Diana and I'll take care
637
00:17:49,443 --> 00:17:51,571
of renting the u-haul,
638
00:17:51,696 --> 00:17:53,322
and we'll meet you back
639
00:17:51,696 --> 00:17:53,322
at your place.
640
00:17:53,447 --> 00:17:56,200
I'll have you home
641
00:17:53,447 --> 00:17:56,200
by midnight.
642
00:17:58,202 --> 00:18:00,120
is that fast enough
643
00:17:58,202 --> 00:18:00,120
for you?
644
00:18:09,338 --> 00:18:11,382
Everything ok,
645
00:18:09,338 --> 00:18:11,382
Mr. salinger?
646
00:18:11,507 --> 00:18:13,885
he's just plain Bailey.
647
00:18:14,010 --> 00:18:16,095
just plain, that's me.
648
00:18:16,220 --> 00:18:17,430
yeah, I'm fine.
649
00:18:19,098 --> 00:18:20,641
are you
650
00:18:19,098 --> 00:18:20,641
Owen's father?
651
00:18:20,767 --> 00:18:21,935
nope. My brother.
652
00:18:22,060 --> 00:18:23,686
actually, I'm
653
00:18:22,060 --> 00:18:23,686
nobody's father.
654
00:18:23,811 --> 00:18:24,896
well, are
655
00:18:23,811 --> 00:18:24,896
you married?
656
00:18:25,021 --> 00:18:26,773
nope. Not even married.
657
00:18:26,898 --> 00:18:29,275
you got really long arms,
658
00:18:26,898 --> 00:18:29,275
Owen's brother.
659
00:18:29,400 --> 00:18:31,193
you could be
660
00:18:29,400 --> 00:18:31,193
Ms. lo's boyfriend.
661
00:18:31,318 --> 00:18:33,195
she doesn't
662
00:18:31,318 --> 00:18:33,195
have one.
663
00:18:33,320 --> 00:18:34,948
well, she did,
664
00:18:35,073 --> 00:18:36,282
but he couldn't
665
00:18:35,073 --> 00:18:36,282
get his act together
666
00:18:36,407 --> 00:18:38,451
and get a job,
667
00:18:36,407 --> 00:18:38,451
so she dumped him.
668
00:18:38,576 --> 00:18:39,744
I see.
669
00:18:39,869 --> 00:18:42,329
I can ask for you
670
00:18:39,869 --> 00:18:42,329
if you want.
671
00:18:42,455 --> 00:18:43,790
he's got a girlfriend.
672
00:18:44,999 --> 00:18:46,584
you've got a girlfriend.
673
00:18:46,709 --> 00:18:48,502
you think I don't know?
674
00:18:49,963 --> 00:18:52,715
hey. You're not tracing.
675
00:18:52,840 --> 00:18:54,634
better grab a marker
676
00:18:52,840 --> 00:18:54,634
before there's
677
00:18:52,840 --> 00:18:54,634
none of me left.
678
00:18:54,759 --> 00:18:57,177
I wanted red.
679
00:18:54,759 --> 00:18:57,177
hughly took the red.
680
00:18:57,303 --> 00:18:58,763
you can have it.
681
00:19:04,644 --> 00:19:06,520
Thanks for coming, bay.
682
00:19:12,944 --> 00:19:14,320
It's just like I said-
683
00:19:14,445 --> 00:19:17,740
he was always critical
684
00:19:14,445 --> 00:19:17,740
all the time.
685
00:19:17,865 --> 00:19:20,576
nothing I did was ever
686
00:19:17,865 --> 00:19:20,576
good enough for him.
687
00:19:20,701 --> 00:19:23,830
Julia knows.
688
00:19:20,701 --> 00:19:23,830
she saw it.
689
00:19:23,955 --> 00:19:25,414
so that's gotta mean
690
00:19:23,955 --> 00:19:25,414
something, right?
691
00:19:25,539 --> 00:19:27,541
that my dad was
692
00:19:25,539 --> 00:19:27,541
always angry?
693
00:19:27,667 --> 00:19:29,543
I'm not sure.
694
00:19:29,669 --> 00:19:32,338
you mean, is that the reason
695
00:19:29,669 --> 00:19:32,338
why you're angry?
696
00:19:32,463 --> 00:19:33,714
because your father
697
00:19:32,463 --> 00:19:33,714
was angry?
698
00:19:33,840 --> 00:19:35,424
yeah, I guess.
699
00:19:35,425 --> 00:19:35,548
well, it's not a question
700
00:19:35,549 --> 00:19:36,717
of being angry.
701
00:19:36,843 --> 00:19:38,302
everybody gets angry.
702
00:19:38,427 --> 00:19:40,304
it's a question of being able
703
00:19:38,427 --> 00:19:40,304
to control your anger.
704
00:19:41,973 --> 00:19:43,557
ok. But still-
705
00:19:43,683 --> 00:19:45,518
did your father
706
00:19:43,683 --> 00:19:45,518
ever hit you?
707
00:19:45,643 --> 00:19:46,727
no.
708
00:19:46,853 --> 00:19:48,646
ok.
709
00:19:50,648 --> 00:19:52,108
well, what about
710
00:19:50,648 --> 00:19:52,108
your brother?
711
00:19:52,232 --> 00:19:53,359
tell me about Richie.
712
00:19:53,484 --> 00:19:56,029
Richie has nothing
713
00:19:53,484 --> 00:19:56,029
to do with this.
714
00:19:56,154 --> 00:19:59,448
uh-huh. What kind
715
00:19:56,154 --> 00:19:59,448
of a kid was he?
716
00:19:59,573 --> 00:20:04,537
was he, uh, really
717
00:19:59,573 --> 00:20:04,537
quiet and withdrawn?
718
00:20:04,662 --> 00:20:07,081
I guess. Sometimes.
719
00:20:07,206 --> 00:20:08,708
did he ever get violent?
720
00:20:08,833 --> 00:20:11,085
some autistic children
721
00:20:11,210 --> 00:20:14,755
can exhibit bouts of
722
00:20:11,210 --> 00:20:14,755
aggressive behavior.
723
00:20:14,881 --> 00:20:17,675
I don't know.
724
00:20:17,800 --> 00:20:19,844
ned, it's ok.
725
00:20:19,969 --> 00:20:22,722
was Richie ever violent?
726
00:20:22,847 --> 00:20:25,016
look, even if he was,
727
00:20:22,847 --> 00:20:25,016
it's got nothing
728
00:20:22,847 --> 00:20:25,016
to do with this.
729
00:20:25,141 --> 00:20:26,893
he's not responsible
730
00:20:25,141 --> 00:20:26,893
for what he does.
731
00:20:27,018 --> 00:20:29,187
I'm not saying that he
732
00:20:27,018 --> 00:20:29,187
is responsible for this.
733
00:20:29,311 --> 00:20:31,939
what you do, you're
734
00:20:29,311 --> 00:20:31,939
responsible for.
735
00:20:32,065 --> 00:20:33,149
I'm just trying
736
00:20:32,065 --> 00:20:33,149
to find out why.
737
00:20:33,273 --> 00:20:35,193
and you want to blame
738
00:20:33,273 --> 00:20:35,193
your father.
739
00:20:35,317 --> 00:20:36,610
no, I don't.
740
00:20:35,317 --> 00:20:36,610
yes, you do.
741
00:20:36,736 --> 00:20:38,404
because you're angry
742
00:20:36,736 --> 00:20:38,404
at your father.
743
00:20:38,405 --> 00:20:39,696
what did your father do?
744
00:20:39,697 --> 00:20:41,908
I don't know.
745
00:20:42,033 --> 00:20:44,994
what did your father do
746
00:20:42,033 --> 00:20:44,994
when Richie got violent?
747
00:20:45,119 --> 00:20:46,169
nothing.
748
00:20:46,204 --> 00:20:47,454
he did nothing?
749
00:20:47,455 --> 00:20:47,579
did he tell Richie
750
00:20:47,580 --> 00:20:48,630
to stop?
751
00:20:51,959 --> 00:20:54,879
look, this has got
752
00:20:51,959 --> 00:20:54,879
nothing to do with
753
00:20:51,959 --> 00:20:54,879
why I hit people.
754
00:20:55,004 --> 00:20:57,381
did your father blame you?
755
00:20:57,506 --> 00:21:00,176
when you and Richie
756
00:20:57,506 --> 00:21:00,176
were together
757
00:20:57,506 --> 00:21:00,176
when you were younger,
758
00:21:00,300 --> 00:21:01,427
and he got violent-
759
00:21:01,552 --> 00:21:02,872
did your father blame you?
760
00:21:02,970 --> 00:21:04,597
you know what?
761
00:21:02,970 --> 00:21:04,597
I'm not doing this?
762
00:21:04,722 --> 00:21:06,099
ned-
763
00:21:04,722 --> 00:21:06,099
just shut up.
764
00:21:06,224 --> 00:21:07,683
what's the matter, ned?
765
00:21:07,808 --> 00:21:10,644
is this not going exactly
766
00:21:07,808 --> 00:21:10,644
the way you planned it to go?
767
00:21:10,770 --> 00:21:12,688
is that why you lose
768
00:21:10,770 --> 00:21:12,688
your temper sometimes?
769
00:21:15,733 --> 00:21:18,111
I guess I might lose
770
00:21:15,733 --> 00:21:18,111
my temper sometimes, too-
771
00:21:18,236 --> 00:21:20,362
if I'd been raised
772
00:21:18,236 --> 00:21:20,362
the way you were-
773
00:21:20,487 --> 00:21:23,824
hit by my brother
774
00:21:20,487 --> 00:21:23,824
and blamed by my parents.
775
00:21:27,745 --> 00:21:29,956
ok. You know what I
776
00:21:27,745 --> 00:21:29,956
don't get about college?
777
00:21:30,081 --> 00:21:33,459
the teachers,
778
00:21:30,081 --> 00:21:33,459
they have these ph.D.'S
779
00:21:30,081 --> 00:21:33,459
and everything, right?
780
00:21:33,584 --> 00:21:35,335
and they're supposed
781
00:21:33,584 --> 00:21:35,335
to know a million things
782
00:21:33,584 --> 00:21:35,335
that we don't,
783
00:21:35,461 --> 00:21:36,754
which is why we go
784
00:21:35,461 --> 00:21:36,754
to them to study.
785
00:21:38,589 --> 00:21:39,799
I'm with you so far.
786
00:21:39,924 --> 00:21:42,927
ok. So, my poetry
787
00:21:39,924 --> 00:21:42,927
professor, Ms. kellard,
788
00:21:43,052 --> 00:21:46,305
assigns a paper on
789
00:21:43,052 --> 00:21:46,305
Madonna's second album.
790
00:21:46,430 --> 00:21:49,642
I mean, we can do
791
00:21:46,430 --> 00:21:49,642
Madonna on our own,
792
00:21:46,430 --> 00:21:49,642
you know?
793
00:21:49,767 --> 00:21:51,310
we can be the kids.
794
00:21:51,435 --> 00:21:53,520
it's Emily Dickinson
795
00:21:51,435 --> 00:21:53,520
that we need
796
00:21:51,435 --> 00:21:53,520
the help with.
797
00:21:53,646 --> 00:21:54,730
Emily who?
798
00:21:54,855 --> 00:21:56,023
what label's she on?
799
00:21:57,691 --> 00:21:58,859
I'm kidding.
800
00:22:01,862 --> 00:22:04,323
I'm definitely kidding.
801
00:22:04,448 --> 00:22:08,619
but you do remember that
802
00:22:04,448 --> 00:22:08,619
I at least half-sucked
803
00:22:04,448 --> 00:22:08,619
at school?
804
00:22:08,744 --> 00:22:11,080
don't remember you
805
00:22:08,744 --> 00:22:11,080
on the inter-school
806
00:22:08,744 --> 00:22:11,080
math squad,
807
00:22:11,205 --> 00:22:12,414
but you had
808
00:22:11,205 --> 00:22:12,414
your moments.
809
00:22:12,539 --> 00:22:13,707
I was smart.
810
00:22:13,833 --> 00:22:15,751
I'm not saying
811
00:22:13,833 --> 00:22:15,751
that I wasn't.
812
00:22:15,876 --> 00:22:20,047
just never showed up
813
00:22:15,876 --> 00:22:20,047
in my grades-homework.
814
00:22:20,173 --> 00:22:23,634
I could have died from
815
00:22:20,173 --> 00:22:23,634
homework the other kids
816
00:22:20,173 --> 00:22:23,634
just zipped right through.
817
00:22:27,429 --> 00:22:30,099
you know what, Sarah?
818
00:22:30,224 --> 00:22:32,101
I think that's why I need
819
00:22:30,224 --> 00:22:32,101
to be there for Owen.
820
00:22:32,226 --> 00:22:34,436
what do you mean,
821
00:22:32,226 --> 00:22:34,436
Bailey?
822
00:22:34,561 --> 00:22:35,771
you are there for him.
823
00:22:35,896 --> 00:22:38,232
yeah. But I think
824
00:22:35,896 --> 00:22:38,232
I understand how he feels.
825
00:22:38,356 --> 00:22:40,818
I think I know-
826
00:22:40,943 --> 00:22:42,569
I think I know
827
00:22:40,943 --> 00:22:42,569
what he's going through.
828
00:22:44,613 --> 00:22:47,867
I need to make sure he gets
829
00:22:44,613 --> 00:22:47,867
all the help he needs.
830
00:22:49,035 --> 00:22:50,786
everything.
831
00:22:50,911 --> 00:22:53,747
it all gets
832
00:22:50,911 --> 00:22:53,747
twisted around.
833
00:22:53,873 --> 00:22:54,923
no, ned-
834
00:22:54,999 --> 00:22:56,709
yes.
835
00:22:56,834 --> 00:22:58,460
he takes everything
836
00:22:56,834 --> 00:22:58,460
and turns it against me.
837
00:22:58,585 --> 00:23:03,549
my brother...And you.
838
00:23:05,634 --> 00:23:08,721
he's just trying
839
00:23:05,634 --> 00:23:08,721
to figure out how all
840
00:23:05,634 --> 00:23:08,721
the pieces fit together.
841
00:23:08,846 --> 00:23:10,597
what pieces?
842
00:23:10,723 --> 00:23:12,058
I lose my temper
843
00:23:10,723 --> 00:23:12,058
sometimes.
844
00:23:12,183 --> 00:23:13,351
that's all it is.
845
00:23:13,475 --> 00:23:14,525
I don't think so.
846
00:23:14,601 --> 00:23:16,020
that's all it is.
847
00:23:22,068 --> 00:23:24,402
No. Don't. 'Cause i-
848
00:23:27,323 --> 00:23:28,699
(door opens)
849
00:23:28,824 --> 00:23:30,701
hey.
850
00:23:30,826 --> 00:23:32,870
didn't know
851
00:23:30,826 --> 00:23:32,870
you guys were-
852
00:23:32,995 --> 00:23:34,496
what's going on?
853
00:23:34,621 --> 00:23:37,083
get out of here, ray.
854
00:23:34,621 --> 00:23:37,083
what?
855
00:23:37,208 --> 00:23:38,258
get out of here!
856
00:23:39,752 --> 00:23:42,004
do you mind?
857
00:23:39,752 --> 00:23:42,004
I'm sorry.
858
00:23:42,129 --> 00:23:44,464
no.
859
00:23:44,590 --> 00:23:46,092
it's ok.
860
00:23:47,467 --> 00:23:48,844
god.
861
00:23:52,223 --> 00:23:54,392
it doesn't matter
862
00:23:52,223 --> 00:23:54,392
what he thinks.
863
00:23:54,516 --> 00:23:57,103
no. I want to get
864
00:23:54,516 --> 00:23:57,103
out of here.
865
00:23:57,228 --> 00:23:59,146
I want us
866
00:23:57,228 --> 00:23:59,146
to get out of here.
867
00:23:59,272 --> 00:24:02,233
I can't do therapy
868
00:23:59,272 --> 00:24:02,233
any other way.
869
00:24:02,358 --> 00:24:05,611
I can't go through
870
00:24:02,358 --> 00:24:05,611
all that and have
871
00:24:02,358 --> 00:24:05,611
to come home to him...
872
00:24:05,736 --> 00:24:08,906
or Maggie.
873
00:24:09,031 --> 00:24:11,658
I just want
874
00:24:09,031 --> 00:24:11,658
to come home to you.
875
00:24:15,121 --> 00:24:17,455
you cannot find
876
00:24:15,121 --> 00:24:17,455
parking for a u-haul
877
00:24:15,121 --> 00:24:17,455
in this neighborhood.
878
00:24:18,868 --> 00:24:19,916
you're not done yet,
879
00:24:19,917 --> 00:24:20,875
huh?
880
00:24:20,876 --> 00:24:23,503
um, no.
881
00:24:23,629 --> 00:24:25,256
Daphne?
882
00:24:25,381 --> 00:24:27,091
what've you been doing
883
00:24:25,381 --> 00:24:27,091
all afternoon?
884
00:24:27,216 --> 00:24:28,926
you're only
885
00:24:27,216 --> 00:24:28,926
half way done.
886
00:24:29,051 --> 00:24:31,387
I know. See...
887
00:24:33,013 --> 00:24:34,063
what's going on?
888
00:24:36,392 --> 00:24:39,770
oh. We should have
889
00:24:36,392 --> 00:24:39,770
left this morning.
890
00:24:36,392 --> 00:24:39,770
I told you.
891
00:24:39,895 --> 00:24:42,106
what?
892
00:24:42,231 --> 00:24:43,523
don't get mad at me, ok?
893
00:24:43,649 --> 00:24:45,359
are you getting cold feet,
894
00:24:43,649 --> 00:24:45,359
is that what it is?
895
00:24:45,483 --> 00:24:46,986
it's more
896
00:24:45,483 --> 00:24:46,986
than just that.
897
00:24:47,111 --> 00:24:49,238
what's the problem? You
898
00:24:47,111 --> 00:24:49,238
want to talk about it again?
899
00:24:49,239 --> 00:24:49,362
you want to talk about what
900
00:24:49,363 --> 00:24:50,683
the psychiatrist told me?
901
00:24:50,781 --> 00:24:51,949
no.
902
00:24:52,074 --> 00:24:53,200
no. You don't want
903
00:24:52,074 --> 00:24:53,200
to talk about it?
904
00:24:53,326 --> 00:24:55,453
you're just changing
905
00:24:53,326 --> 00:24:55,453
your mind.
906
00:24:55,577 --> 00:24:57,288
I mean, did you listen
907
00:24:55,577 --> 00:24:57,288
to anything I even said?
908
00:24:57,413 --> 00:24:58,914
I listened
909
00:24:57,413 --> 00:24:58,914
to everything.
910
00:24:57,413 --> 00:24:58,914
no, you couldn't have!
911
00:24:59,039 --> 00:25:00,333
yes, I did!
912
00:24:59,039 --> 00:25:00,359
you really couldn't have!
913
00:25:00,458 --> 00:25:01,834
I listened
914
00:25:00,458 --> 00:25:01,834
to everything,
915
00:25:00,458 --> 00:25:01,834
and I believed you.
916
00:25:01,959 --> 00:25:03,009
and that's why.
917
00:25:04,920 --> 00:25:07,547
I can't go.
918
00:25:09,383 --> 00:25:11,051
what?
919
00:25:11,177 --> 00:25:13,053
because of what you
920
00:25:11,177 --> 00:25:13,053
said in the diner
921
00:25:11,177 --> 00:25:13,053
yesterday morning.
922
00:25:13,179 --> 00:25:15,806
you said that
923
00:25:13,179 --> 00:25:15,806
she didn't blame me.
924
00:25:15,931 --> 00:25:17,766
and that no damage
925
00:25:15,931 --> 00:25:17,766
had been done.
926
00:25:17,891 --> 00:25:19,685
yeah?
927
00:25:19,810 --> 00:25:24,648
so that's, um,
928
00:25:19,810 --> 00:25:24,648
that's what I've been
929
00:25:19,810 --> 00:25:24,648
thinking about.
930
00:25:27,234 --> 00:25:28,861
what?
931
00:25:28,986 --> 00:25:32,823
see? It's not-
932
00:25:28,986 --> 00:25:32,823
it's not that my mother
933
00:25:28,986 --> 00:25:32,823
abandoned me.
934
00:25:32,948 --> 00:25:36,743
it's that she did it
935
00:25:32,948 --> 00:25:36,743
when I was old enough
936
00:25:32,948 --> 00:25:36,743
to understand.
937
00:25:36,869 --> 00:25:40,122
it's like she gave me
938
00:25:36,869 --> 00:25:40,122
this disease that she
939
00:25:36,869 --> 00:25:40,122
passed on to me.
940
00:25:40,247 --> 00:25:41,332
but see,
941
00:25:40,247 --> 00:25:41,332
I've stopped it.
942
00:25:41,457 --> 00:25:42,749
as of right now,
943
00:25:41,457 --> 00:25:42,749
I have stopped it.
944
00:25:44,460 --> 00:25:47,505
but if I go home,
945
00:25:44,460 --> 00:25:47,505
and I go in therapy,
946
00:25:47,629 --> 00:25:49,089
and I try to get well,
947
00:25:49,215 --> 00:25:51,758
and all this time,
948
00:25:49,215 --> 00:25:51,758
I convince Diana
949
00:25:49,215 --> 00:25:51,758
to depend on me-
950
00:25:51,884 --> 00:25:54,552
and then I fail-
951
00:25:54,678 --> 00:25:56,805
then I will have
952
00:25:54,678 --> 00:25:56,805
given my daughter
953
00:25:56,930 --> 00:25:58,891
what my mother
954
00:25:56,930 --> 00:25:58,891
passed on to me.
955
00:25:59,016 --> 00:26:02,436
that-that is so many ifs.
956
00:26:02,560 --> 00:26:06,648
but I can't take
957
00:26:02,560 --> 00:26:06,648
that risk.
958
00:26:06,773 --> 00:26:08,984
she's already
959
00:26:06,773 --> 00:26:08,984
growing up.
960
00:26:09,109 --> 00:26:11,820
you can see it.
961
00:26:11,945 --> 00:26:14,448
you can see it
962
00:26:11,945 --> 00:26:14,448
in the way that
963
00:26:11,945 --> 00:26:14,448
she looks at you.
964
00:26:14,572 --> 00:26:18,285
and in the way that
965
00:26:14,572 --> 00:26:18,285
she listens to you.
966
00:26:18,411 --> 00:26:20,413
and in the way that
967
00:26:18,411 --> 00:26:20,413
she understands you.
968
00:26:28,254 --> 00:26:29,671
So...
969
00:26:33,300 --> 00:26:35,261
this has to be it.
970
00:26:35,386 --> 00:26:37,971
and there's
971
00:26:35,386 --> 00:26:37,971
no more good-byes.
972
00:26:40,891 --> 00:26:44,478
you can't ever
973
00:26:40,891 --> 00:26:44,478
come here ever again.
974
00:26:46,188 --> 00:26:48,899
and I can't-
975
00:26:49,024 --> 00:26:50,943
I can't ever hold her
976
00:26:49,024 --> 00:26:50,943
again.
977
00:26:51,068 --> 00:26:52,486
and I can't ever
978
00:26:51,068 --> 00:26:52,486
kiss her again.
979
00:26:52,610 --> 00:26:55,989
and I can't ever...Tell
980
00:26:52,610 --> 00:26:55,989
her that I love her.
981
00:26:56,115 --> 00:26:58,158
so...
982
00:27:03,163 --> 00:27:04,915
Take her and go.
983
00:27:05,040 --> 00:27:06,750
go.
984
00:27:33,611 --> 00:27:35,362
Don't go right
985
00:27:33,611 --> 00:27:35,362
to work, Bailey.
986
00:27:35,488 --> 00:27:37,239
I can't come in
987
00:27:35,488 --> 00:27:37,239
every day, Owen.
988
00:27:37,364 --> 00:27:39,283
I told Mrs. lo
989
00:27:37,364 --> 00:27:39,283
I'd come in
990
00:27:39,408 --> 00:27:41,118
one afternoon
991
00:27:39,408 --> 00:27:41,118
every week, and I will.
992
00:27:41,243 --> 00:27:42,293
I promise, ok?
993
00:27:42,328 --> 00:27:43,870
sometimes
994
00:27:42,328 --> 00:27:43,870
I'll make it 2.
995
00:27:43,996 --> 00:27:45,914
don't worry
996
00:27:43,996 --> 00:27:45,914
about me being there.
997
00:27:46,039 --> 00:27:48,417
you're gonna
998
00:27:46,039 --> 00:27:48,417
have a great day
999
00:27:46,039 --> 00:27:48,417
at school today.
1000
00:27:48,542 --> 00:27:50,503
and tonight, after we read
1001
00:27:48,542 --> 00:27:50,503
some more dinosaur...
1002
00:27:50,628 --> 00:27:52,045
Charlie'll come pick you up.
1003
00:27:52,046 --> 00:27:53,212
oh, boy.
1004
00:27:53,213 --> 00:27:54,381
oh, come on.
1005
00:27:54,507 --> 00:27:56,175
you're gonna do great
1006
00:27:54,507 --> 00:27:56,175
with Charlie.
1007
00:27:56,300 --> 00:27:58,177
I'm gonna be great
1008
00:27:56,300 --> 00:27:58,177
at school.
1009
00:27:58,302 --> 00:27:59,761
I'm gonna be great
1010
00:27:58,302 --> 00:27:59,761
with Charlie.
1011
00:27:59,886 --> 00:28:01,847
how come
1012
00:27:59,886 --> 00:28:01,847
you know so much?
1013
00:28:01,848 --> 00:28:02,930
because I'm smart,
1014
00:28:02,931 --> 00:28:04,558
like you.
1015
00:28:04,682 --> 00:28:05,732
come here.
1016
00:28:09,647 --> 00:28:10,697
go on.
1017
00:28:13,359 --> 00:28:16,111
hello!
1018
00:28:16,236 --> 00:28:18,238
anybody home?!
1019
00:28:18,364 --> 00:28:19,823
hey.
1020
00:28:18,364 --> 00:28:19,823
hey.
1021
00:28:19,948 --> 00:28:21,200
let me help.
1022
00:28:21,325 --> 00:28:24,203
oh! Diana. Ohh.
1023
00:28:21,325 --> 00:28:24,203
look at you, girl.
1024
00:28:24,328 --> 00:28:25,787
look at you.
1025
00:28:25,788 --> 00:28:26,954
come here.
1026
00:28:26,955 --> 00:28:28,332
(Diana coos)
1027
00:28:28,457 --> 00:28:29,507
ahh.
1028
00:28:32,961 --> 00:28:34,296
what?
1029
00:28:34,421 --> 00:28:35,922
you got my message?
1030
00:28:36,048 --> 00:28:38,133
about Daphne?
1031
00:28:38,258 --> 00:28:39,308
Charlie, i-
1032
00:28:39,385 --> 00:28:41,220
yeah, I gave her
1033
00:28:39,385 --> 00:28:41,220
another chance,
1034
00:28:41,345 --> 00:28:42,929
for herself,
1035
00:28:41,345 --> 00:28:42,929
not for me.
1036
00:28:43,055 --> 00:28:46,600
it's up to her
1037
00:28:43,055 --> 00:28:46,600
to take it or not take it.
1038
00:28:46,725 --> 00:28:48,185
but we're copacetic,
1039
00:28:46,725 --> 00:28:48,185
right, girl?
1040
00:28:49,853 --> 00:28:50,937
what's up here?
1041
00:28:51,063 --> 00:28:53,566
Kirsten around?
1042
00:28:53,691 --> 00:28:57,361
i-i think
1043
00:28:53,691 --> 00:28:57,361
she figured that you'd
1044
00:28:53,691 --> 00:28:57,361
be back with Daphne.
1045
00:28:57,486 --> 00:28:58,904
that's what
1046
00:28:57,486 --> 00:28:58,904
you told her.
1047
00:29:01,198 --> 00:29:04,618
well, she just figured
1048
00:29:01,198 --> 00:29:04,618
she'd go and make room
1049
00:29:01,198 --> 00:29:04,618
for everyone.
1050
00:29:04,743 --> 00:29:07,120
she went back
1051
00:29:04,743 --> 00:29:07,120
to her folks in Chicago.
1052
00:29:07,246 --> 00:29:08,296
ppfft. Chicago.
1053
00:29:08,330 --> 00:29:10,708
but she left
1054
00:29:08,330 --> 00:29:10,708
a note for you.
1055
00:29:10,832 --> 00:29:12,125
I put it upstairs.
1056
00:29:12,251 --> 00:29:14,920
she said that you
1057
00:29:12,251 --> 00:29:14,920
could call her for sure.
1058
00:29:15,045 --> 00:29:16,755
ok.
1059
00:29:25,174 --> 00:29:27,181
Where's Julia?
1060
00:29:27,182 --> 00:29:28,232
what? Oh.
1061
00:29:28,267 --> 00:29:30,310
I told her
1062
00:29:28,267 --> 00:29:30,310
not to come.
1063
00:29:30,436 --> 00:29:33,188
uh-huh.
1064
00:29:33,313 --> 00:29:34,898
I think that's a mistake.
1065
00:29:35,023 --> 00:29:36,316
I think that, uh...
1066
00:29:36,442 --> 00:29:38,569
you should be
1067
00:29:36,442 --> 00:29:38,569
dealing with this together.
1068
00:29:38,694 --> 00:29:40,279
no, I don't think so.
1069
00:29:40,404 --> 00:29:42,740
I mean,
1070
00:29:40,404 --> 00:29:42,740
a lot of this stuff...
1071
00:29:42,864 --> 00:29:46,410
I just-i just
1072
00:29:42,864 --> 00:29:46,410
don't think she needs
1073
00:29:42,864 --> 00:29:46,410
to hear everything, ok,
1074
00:29:46,535 --> 00:29:48,328
all this crap
1075
00:29:46,535 --> 00:29:48,328
you drag out.
1076
00:29:48,329 --> 00:29:49,412
it's difficult.
1077
00:29:49,413 --> 00:29:50,914
huh?
1078
00:29:51,039 --> 00:29:52,291
and it's embarrassing.
1079
00:29:52,416 --> 00:29:54,042
but the two of you-
1080
00:29:54,167 --> 00:29:56,378
look, she's part
1081
00:29:54,167 --> 00:29:56,378
of the problem, ok?
1082
00:29:56,503 --> 00:29:59,172
she makes me get angry.
1083
00:29:56,503 --> 00:29:59,172
I told you that.
1084
00:29:59,298 --> 00:30:00,966
and I don't
1085
00:29:59,298 --> 00:30:00,966
need her here-
1086
00:30:01,091 --> 00:30:02,259
come off it, ned.
1087
00:30:02,384 --> 00:30:03,434
what?
1088
00:30:03,469 --> 00:30:04,720
you gonna stand there
1089
00:30:04,844 --> 00:30:07,640
and tell me you hit her
1090
00:30:04,844 --> 00:30:07,640
because of what she does?
1091
00:30:07,765 --> 00:30:10,684
come on. It's just
1092
00:30:07,765 --> 00:30:10,684
the two of us now.
1093
00:30:10,809 --> 00:30:12,561
this has nothing
1094
00:30:10,809 --> 00:30:12,561
to do with her.
1095
00:30:12,686 --> 00:30:13,736
it's you!
1096
00:30:13,812 --> 00:30:16,148
you hit because
1097
00:30:13,812 --> 00:30:16,148
you're a hitter.
1098
00:30:16,273 --> 00:30:17,941
how the hell
1099
00:30:16,273 --> 00:30:17,941
do you know?
1100
00:30:18,066 --> 00:30:20,235
you don't know anything
1101
00:30:18,066 --> 00:30:20,235
about her or me or us.
1102
00:30:20,360 --> 00:30:22,613
have you ever hit
1103
00:30:20,360 --> 00:30:22,613
anyone else?
1104
00:30:22,738 --> 00:30:24,072
if it's Julia,
1105
00:30:24,197 --> 00:30:27,033
if Julia
1106
00:30:24,197 --> 00:30:27,033
makes you hit her,
1107
00:30:27,159 --> 00:30:29,995
then I assume that you've
1108
00:30:27,159 --> 00:30:29,995
never hit anyone else.
1109
00:30:30,120 --> 00:30:31,955
have you ever hit
1110
00:30:30,120 --> 00:30:31,955
anyone else, ned?
1111
00:30:32,080 --> 00:30:33,248
I'm not doing this.
1112
00:30:33,373 --> 00:30:35,208
have you ever
1113
00:30:33,373 --> 00:30:35,208
hurt anyone, ned?
1114
00:30:35,334 --> 00:30:37,210
I mean really hurt
1115
00:30:35,334 --> 00:30:37,210
someone?
1116
00:30:37,336 --> 00:30:38,587
no.
1117
00:30:38,712 --> 00:30:40,213
well, do you think
1118
00:30:38,712 --> 00:30:40,213
that's impossible?
1119
00:30:40,339 --> 00:30:42,341
do you want to know
1120
00:30:40,339 --> 00:30:42,341
the statistics
1121
00:30:42,466 --> 00:30:43,842
on beaters
1122
00:30:42,466 --> 00:30:43,842
who put their wives
1123
00:30:43,967 --> 00:30:45,302
or their girlfriends
1124
00:30:43,967 --> 00:30:45,302
in the hospital?
1125
00:30:45,427 --> 00:30:46,512
just cut it out.
1126
00:30:46,637 --> 00:30:48,263
do you love her?
1127
00:30:48,388 --> 00:30:51,975
do you want her
1128
00:30:48,388 --> 00:30:51,975
to end up with a broken nose
1129
00:30:48,388 --> 00:30:51,975
or a broken arm?
1130
00:30:52,100 --> 00:30:55,145
or maybe things really
1131
00:30:52,100 --> 00:30:55,145
get out of control one time
1132
00:30:55,270 --> 00:30:57,022
with a concussion
1133
00:30:55,270 --> 00:30:57,022
or worse.
1134
00:31:04,321 --> 00:31:06,490
No.
1135
00:31:08,158 --> 00:31:11,119
then let's sit down
1136
00:31:08,158 --> 00:31:11,119
and talk about what you do.
1137
00:31:15,791 --> 00:31:17,292
(plucking strings)
1138
00:31:21,380 --> 00:31:23,507
baby still sleeping?
1139
00:31:23,632 --> 00:31:24,924
yeah.
1140
00:31:25,050 --> 00:31:26,844
traveling really
1141
00:31:25,050 --> 00:31:26,844
knocked her out.
1142
00:31:26,968 --> 00:31:28,220
Griffin: Hey, Claudia.
1143
00:31:28,345 --> 00:31:30,180
hey, I'm going
1144
00:31:28,345 --> 00:31:30,180
to the market.
1145
00:31:30,305 --> 00:31:32,015
I didn't know
1146
00:31:30,305 --> 00:31:32,015
if you wanted...
1147
00:31:32,140 --> 00:31:34,601
hey, Charlie.
1148
00:31:34,727 --> 00:31:36,144
what are you
1149
00:31:34,727 --> 00:31:36,144
doing here?
1150
00:31:36,269 --> 00:31:39,398
what?
1151
00:31:39,523 --> 00:31:42,108
man, don't you have
1152
00:31:39,523 --> 00:31:42,108
any sense of when
1153
00:31:39,523 --> 00:31:42,108
it's time to go?
1154
00:31:42,234 --> 00:31:44,778
you heard
1155
00:31:42,234 --> 00:31:44,778
about what happened.
1156
00:31:42,234 --> 00:31:44,778
I didn't-
1157
00:31:44,903 --> 00:31:47,531
pack your bags
1158
00:31:44,903 --> 00:31:47,531
and get out.
1159
00:31:47,656 --> 00:31:49,157
and leave
1160
00:31:47,656 --> 00:31:49,157
Julia alone.
1161
00:31:49,282 --> 00:31:51,243
listen, Charlie,
1162
00:31:49,282 --> 00:31:51,243
it's-it's kind of
1163
00:31:49,282 --> 00:31:51,243
complicated.
1164
00:31:51,368 --> 00:31:53,704
no, no, claud.
1165
00:31:51,368 --> 00:31:53,704
everything else in my life
1166
00:31:51,368 --> 00:31:53,704
is complicated, ok?
1167
00:31:53,829 --> 00:31:55,372
this is real simple.
1168
00:31:55,497 --> 00:31:57,165
Charlie- you beat up
1169
00:31:55,497 --> 00:31:57,165
my sister's boyfriend.
1170
00:31:57,290 --> 00:31:58,667
now get your stuff
1171
00:31:58,792 --> 00:31:59,842
and get out.
1172
00:32:01,545 --> 00:32:03,714
I was just gonna say
1173
00:32:01,545 --> 00:32:03,714
that you're right.
1174
00:32:17,728 --> 00:32:19,521
That one's
1175
00:32:17,728 --> 00:32:19,521
got trees, too?
1176
00:32:19,646 --> 00:32:20,696
mm-hmm.
1177
00:32:20,731 --> 00:32:21,781
nice.
1178
00:32:40,292 --> 00:32:41,342
Sarah...
1179
00:32:44,212 --> 00:32:47,591
why does Charlie
1180
00:32:44,212 --> 00:32:47,591
have to be the one
1181
00:32:44,212 --> 00:32:47,591
to raise Owen?
1182
00:32:47,716 --> 00:32:48,884
to be his father?
1183
00:32:52,512 --> 00:32:54,180
I'm thinking
1184
00:32:52,512 --> 00:32:54,180
of keeping Owen.
1185
00:32:54,306 --> 00:32:55,933
uh...
1186
00:32:56,057 --> 00:32:58,310
i-i don't think I...
1187
00:32:58,435 --> 00:33:00,270
like keep, raise him?
1188
00:33:00,395 --> 00:33:01,730
Charlie's
1189
00:33:00,395 --> 00:33:01,730
not his father.
1190
00:33:01,855 --> 00:33:03,732
he's his brother,
1191
00:33:01,855 --> 00:33:03,732
like I am.
1192
00:33:03,857 --> 00:33:06,485
yeah, but isn't he
1193
00:33:03,857 --> 00:33:06,485
his legal guardian?
1194
00:33:03,857 --> 00:33:06,485
I mean, isn't that-
1195
00:33:06,610 --> 00:33:07,986
he's his legal guardian
1196
00:33:08,111 --> 00:33:10,656
because
1197
00:33:08,111 --> 00:33:10,656
when we all decided,
1198
00:33:08,111 --> 00:33:10,656
I was 16 years old,
1199
00:33:10,781 --> 00:33:12,699
but a lot has changed
1200
00:33:10,781 --> 00:33:12,699
since then.
1201
00:33:12,825 --> 00:33:15,702
I'm older now, and-
1202
00:33:12,825 --> 00:33:15,702
and taking care of Owen
1203
00:33:15,828 --> 00:33:18,497
is suddenly
1204
00:33:15,828 --> 00:33:18,497
a bigger deal,
1205
00:33:15,828 --> 00:33:18,497
a lot of work.
1206
00:33:18,622 --> 00:33:19,672
but Charlie...
1207
00:33:19,790 --> 00:33:21,750
Charlie's got Diana now,
1208
00:33:21,875 --> 00:33:23,335
and with Daphne
1209
00:33:21,875 --> 00:33:23,335
coming back,
1210
00:33:23,460 --> 00:33:25,921
he's gonna be more
1211
00:33:23,460 --> 00:33:25,921
into his own thing
1212
00:33:23,460 --> 00:33:25,921
than ever.
1213
00:33:26,045 --> 00:33:27,965
Bailey, having Owen
1214
00:33:26,045 --> 00:33:27,965
here full-time-
1215
00:33:28,089 --> 00:33:30,634
have you-have you thought
1216
00:33:28,089 --> 00:33:30,634
about what it means?
1217
00:33:30,759 --> 00:33:32,594
do you know
1218
00:33:30,759 --> 00:33:32,594
what it means to me?
1219
00:33:32,719 --> 00:33:34,220
you don't.
1220
00:33:34,346 --> 00:33:37,390
you don't,
1221
00:33:34,346 --> 00:33:37,390
because I'm just
1222
00:33:34,346 --> 00:33:37,390
realizing it myself.
1223
00:33:37,516 --> 00:33:39,685
it's about knowing
1224
00:33:37,516 --> 00:33:39,685
that I can be the one
1225
00:33:39,810 --> 00:33:41,311
that makes a difference
1226
00:33:39,810 --> 00:33:41,311
for him.
1227
00:33:41,436 --> 00:33:42,896
I can make
1228
00:33:41,436 --> 00:33:42,896
the difference
1229
00:33:43,021 --> 00:33:44,898
between him
1230
00:33:43,021 --> 00:33:44,898
growing up and doing
1231
00:33:43,021 --> 00:33:44,898
anything he wants
1232
00:33:45,064 --> 00:33:47,609
or always struggling,
1233
00:33:47,734 --> 00:33:50,236
being behind
1234
00:33:47,734 --> 00:33:50,236
other people.
1235
00:33:50,362 --> 00:33:53,031
how do I not be there
1236
00:33:50,362 --> 00:33:53,031
for him, Sarah?
1237
00:33:58,954 --> 00:34:00,205
It's nice.
1238
00:34:00,330 --> 00:34:02,916
yeah. I think-
1239
00:34:00,330 --> 00:34:02,916
I think it's pretty good.
1240
00:34:03,041 --> 00:34:05,210
I mean, it's not
1241
00:34:03,041 --> 00:34:05,210
amazing or anything,
1242
00:34:05,335 --> 00:34:06,962
but we can afford it,
1243
00:34:07,086 --> 00:34:09,965
and, uh,
1244
00:34:07,086 --> 00:34:09,965
there's enough space
1245
00:34:07,086 --> 00:34:09,965
we can both work
1246
00:34:10,089 --> 00:34:12,759
and not climb all over
1247
00:34:10,089 --> 00:34:12,759
each other's backs.
1248
00:34:16,638 --> 00:34:18,348
the kitchen's
1249
00:34:16,638 --> 00:34:18,348
not so terrible.
1250
00:34:18,473 --> 00:34:20,642
I said it was nice.
1251
00:34:20,767 --> 00:34:22,185
come.
1252
00:34:22,310 --> 00:34:23,687
uh, sit.
1253
00:34:23,812 --> 00:34:26,648
sit, uh,
1254
00:34:23,812 --> 00:34:26,648
sit right here.
1255
00:34:26,773 --> 00:34:27,858
look around.
1256
00:34:30,151 --> 00:34:33,196
it feel big from
1257
00:34:30,151 --> 00:34:33,196
this perspective?
1258
00:34:33,321 --> 00:34:34,447
it feels...
1259
00:34:34,573 --> 00:34:35,623
like our place?
1260
00:34:36,610 --> 00:34:38,701
yeah.
1261
00:34:38,702 --> 00:34:40,078
it kind of does.
1262
00:34:40,203 --> 00:34:42,247
this is gonna be good.
1263
00:34:42,372 --> 00:34:44,041
this is what we needed,
1264
00:34:44,165 --> 00:34:47,836
just to get away
1265
00:34:44,165 --> 00:34:47,836
from all those
1266
00:34:44,165 --> 00:34:47,836
other pressures.
1267
00:34:47,961 --> 00:34:50,171
yeah. It'll be fun
1268
00:34:47,961 --> 00:34:50,171
to do this place.
1269
00:34:50,296 --> 00:34:52,758
you're perfect for me.
1270
00:34:52,883 --> 00:34:54,051
I mean it.
1271
00:34:54,175 --> 00:34:55,761
I love you.
1272
00:34:55,886 --> 00:34:59,472
and even with
1273
00:34:55,886 --> 00:34:59,472
all the bad stuff
1274
00:34:55,886 --> 00:34:59,472
that's between us,
1275
00:34:59,598 --> 00:35:00,891
it's really...
1276
00:35:01,016 --> 00:35:03,351
you're the only person
1277
00:35:01,016 --> 00:35:03,351
I can talk to.
1278
00:35:03,476 --> 00:35:05,437
I know.
1279
00:35:05,562 --> 00:35:07,814
can't talk
1280
00:35:05,562 --> 00:35:07,814
to that other guy,
1281
00:35:05,562 --> 00:35:07,814
that therapist guy.
1282
00:35:07,940 --> 00:35:09,482
ned-
1283
00:35:07,940 --> 00:35:09,482
no, I mean it.
1284
00:35:09,608 --> 00:35:11,693
he makes me feel
1285
00:35:09,608 --> 00:35:11,693
like I'm a criminal,
1286
00:35:11,818 --> 00:35:13,236
like I'm evil
1287
00:35:11,818 --> 00:35:13,236
or something.
1288
00:35:13,237 --> 00:35:14,403
no, that's not-
1289
00:35:14,404 --> 00:35:15,906
no, I'm telling you,
1290
00:35:16,031 --> 00:35:19,117
he can't just say,
1291
00:35:16,031 --> 00:35:19,117
"what do you two
1292
00:35:16,031 --> 00:35:19,117
fight about?"
1293
00:35:19,242 --> 00:35:22,079
it's always,
1294
00:35:19,242 --> 00:35:22,079
"let's find out what's
1295
00:35:19,242 --> 00:35:22,079
wrong with you."
1296
00:35:22,203 --> 00:35:25,082
"let's find out what's
1297
00:35:22,203 --> 00:35:25,082
really wrong with you."
1298
00:35:25,206 --> 00:35:27,834
do you think
1299
00:35:25,206 --> 00:35:27,834
there's something
1300
00:35:25,206 --> 00:35:27,834
really wrong with me?
1301
00:35:29,461 --> 00:35:31,379
no.
1302
00:35:31,504 --> 00:35:34,007
and then I just feel...
1303
00:35:34,132 --> 00:35:35,926
I don't know, ashamed...
1304
00:35:36,051 --> 00:35:37,260
and angry.
1305
00:35:37,385 --> 00:35:39,638
I mean, why is that
1306
00:35:37,385 --> 00:35:39,638
a good thing?
1307
00:35:39,763 --> 00:35:41,807
I mean, that just
1308
00:35:39,763 --> 00:35:41,807
makes it worse.
1309
00:35:41,932 --> 00:35:44,350
I'm supposed to try
1310
00:35:41,932 --> 00:35:44,350
not to be angry.
1311
00:35:44,476 --> 00:35:46,770
angry is exactly what
1312
00:35:44,476 --> 00:35:46,770
I'm trying to avoid.
1313
00:35:46,895 --> 00:35:48,021
right.
1314
00:35:48,146 --> 00:35:51,274
but if I'm here
1315
00:35:48,146 --> 00:35:51,274
with you...
1316
00:35:51,399 --> 00:35:52,484
(sighs)
1317
00:35:53,902 --> 00:35:55,445
so here's
1318
00:35:53,902 --> 00:35:55,445
what I'm thinking.
1319
00:35:55,570 --> 00:35:57,530
we put one desk
1320
00:35:55,570 --> 00:35:57,530
in the bedroom
1321
00:35:57,656 --> 00:36:00,241
and one desk out here
1322
00:35:57,656 --> 00:36:00,241
in the living room,
1323
00:36:00,366 --> 00:36:03,787
or we could put both desks
1324
00:36:00,366 --> 00:36:03,787
out here in the living room,
1325
00:36:03,912 --> 00:36:06,372
and then you could choose
1326
00:36:03,912 --> 00:36:06,372
which wall you want.
1327
00:36:06,498 --> 00:36:08,333
so which wall
1328
00:36:06,498 --> 00:36:08,333
do you want?
1329
00:36:08,458 --> 00:36:09,626
oh, I don't know.
1330
00:36:13,630 --> 00:36:14,680
that one, I guess.
1331
00:36:15,924 --> 00:36:16,974
good.
1332
00:36:19,928 --> 00:36:20,978
good.
1333
00:36:30,015 --> 00:36:31,981
Charlie.
1334
00:36:31,982 --> 00:36:32,731
hey.
1335
00:36:32,732 --> 00:36:32,731
hi.
1336
00:36:32,732 --> 00:36:33,732
hi.
1337
00:36:33,733 --> 00:36:34,775
how you doing?
1338
00:36:34,776 --> 00:36:36,736
I mean,
1339
00:36:34,776 --> 00:36:36,736
are you doing ok?
1340
00:36:36,862 --> 00:36:38,947
'cause I heard that
1341
00:36:36,862 --> 00:36:38,947
Daphne's coming back.
1342
00:36:39,072 --> 00:36:40,448
no, that's, uh...
1343
00:36:40,573 --> 00:36:41,658
that's not happening
1344
00:36:40,573 --> 00:36:41,658
actually,
1345
00:36:41,659 --> 00:36:42,783
at all.
1346
00:36:42,784 --> 00:36:43,869
oh.
1347
00:36:43,994 --> 00:36:45,411
what's not happening?
1348
00:36:45,537 --> 00:36:48,289
Daphne. Decided that she,
1349
00:36:45,537 --> 00:36:48,289
uh, she couldn't hack it,
1350
00:36:48,414 --> 00:36:51,292
made up her mind
1351
00:36:48,414 --> 00:36:51,292
that she couldn't hack it,
1352
00:36:51,417 --> 00:36:54,046
that she was gonna fail.
1353
00:36:51,417 --> 00:36:54,046
it's-it's a long story.
1354
00:36:54,171 --> 00:36:55,922
so sit. Tell it.
1355
00:36:56,048 --> 00:36:58,383
actually, no.
1356
00:36:56,048 --> 00:36:58,383
she, uh, she didn't come home
1357
00:36:56,048 --> 00:36:58,383
is the thing,
1358
00:36:58,508 --> 00:37:00,635
which means I gotta
1359
00:36:58,508 --> 00:37:00,635
get back to Diana now.
1360
00:37:00,760 --> 00:37:02,804
Claudia's got her,
1361
00:37:00,760 --> 00:37:02,804
and of course Claudia
1362
00:37:02,929 --> 00:37:04,681
would rather do Diana
1363
00:37:02,929 --> 00:37:04,681
than do her homework, so...
1364
00:37:04,806 --> 00:37:06,599
did you pack up
1365
00:37:04,806 --> 00:37:06,599
Owen's stuff? Owen!
1366
00:37:06,725 --> 00:37:09,561
wait. Hey, he's-
1367
00:37:06,725 --> 00:37:09,561
hey, he's-he's conked.
1368
00:37:06,725 --> 00:37:09,561
he's asleep.
1369
00:37:11,563 --> 00:37:13,398
well, he's asleep, man.
1370
00:37:11,563 --> 00:37:13,398
you know, why-
1371
00:37:13,523 --> 00:37:15,567
why get him up?
1372
00:37:13,523 --> 00:37:15,567
kids need their sleep.
1373
00:37:15,692 --> 00:37:17,819
right. So you don't
1374
00:37:15,692 --> 00:37:17,819
have to wake him up.
1375
00:37:17,944 --> 00:37:19,863
I'll just-I'll just
1376
00:37:17,944 --> 00:37:19,863
carry him out to the truck.
1377
00:37:19,988 --> 00:37:21,740
that's a mistake.
1378
00:37:21,865 --> 00:37:24,868
it's a mistake
1379
00:37:21,865 --> 00:37:24,868
because we had to do
1380
00:37:21,865 --> 00:37:24,868
all this work tonight,
1381
00:37:24,993 --> 00:37:26,912
and he'll wake up
1382
00:37:24,993 --> 00:37:26,912
exhausted,
1383
00:37:27,037 --> 00:37:29,206
and then school
1384
00:37:27,037 --> 00:37:29,206
will be even harder
1385
00:37:27,037 --> 00:37:29,206
for him tomorrow,
1386
00:37:29,330 --> 00:37:31,583
and he's gotta
1387
00:37:29,330 --> 00:37:31,583
do the same 2 hours
1388
00:37:29,330 --> 00:37:31,583
of work tomorrow night.
1389
00:37:31,708 --> 00:37:32,788
he's in kindergarten.
1390
00:37:32,876 --> 00:37:35,128
where's he getting
1391
00:37:32,876 --> 00:37:35,128
2 hours of work?
1392
00:37:35,253 --> 00:37:37,505
bay, look, thanks
1393
00:37:35,253 --> 00:37:37,505
for taking care of him,
1394
00:37:37,630 --> 00:37:39,883
but you obviously don't know
1395
00:37:37,630 --> 00:37:39,883
what you're talking about.
1396
00:37:40,008 --> 00:37:41,509
actually, Charlie...
1397
00:37:41,634 --> 00:37:43,762
I've had a couple
1398
00:37:41,634 --> 00:37:43,762
of long talks
1399
00:37:41,634 --> 00:37:43,762
with Michelle.
1400
00:37:43,887 --> 00:37:45,471
Michelle who?
1401
00:37:45,597 --> 00:37:47,265
Ms. lo, his teacher.
1402
00:37:45,597 --> 00:37:47,265
that's her name.
1403
00:37:47,390 --> 00:37:48,892
whatever. You're-
1404
00:37:47,390 --> 00:37:48,892
you're being weird, bay.
1405
00:37:49,017 --> 00:37:50,185
I'll just get him.
1406
00:37:50,309 --> 00:37:52,604
I can take him out
1407
00:37:50,309 --> 00:37:52,604
without waking him up.
1408
00:37:52,729 --> 00:37:53,980
that's-
1409
00:37:52,729 --> 00:37:53,980
that isn't possible,
1410
00:37:54,106 --> 00:37:55,815
to carry somebody
1411
00:37:54,106 --> 00:37:55,815
without waking them up.
1412
00:37:55,941 --> 00:37:58,235
what is going on
1413
00:37:55,941 --> 00:37:58,235
with you?
1414
00:37:58,359 --> 00:38:00,445
just let him sleep.
1415
00:38:00,570 --> 00:38:01,947
ok?
1416
00:38:02,072 --> 00:38:04,490
and then tomorrow,
1417
00:38:02,072 --> 00:38:04,490
you can get him
1418
00:38:02,072 --> 00:38:04,490
from school.
1419
00:38:04,616 --> 00:38:05,825
or I'll get him.
1420
00:38:05,951 --> 00:38:07,535
no. I'll get him.
1421
00:38:09,328 --> 00:38:11,081
I haven't seen him,
1422
00:38:09,328 --> 00:38:11,081
you know.
1423
00:38:14,042 --> 00:38:16,628
so, fine,
1424
00:38:14,042 --> 00:38:16,628
keep him for the night.
1425
00:38:16,753 --> 00:38:18,546
you know, Charlie,
1426
00:38:16,753 --> 00:38:18,546
you could still sit.
1427
00:38:18,671 --> 00:38:20,423
I mean, you haven't
1428
00:38:18,671 --> 00:38:20,423
seen us either.
1429
00:38:20,548 --> 00:38:23,093
thanks, but I
1430
00:38:20,548 --> 00:38:23,093
should get back
1431
00:38:20,548 --> 00:38:23,093
to the house.
1432
00:38:28,056 --> 00:38:29,682
Bailey,
1433
00:38:28,056 --> 00:38:29,682
why didn't you-
1434
00:38:29,808 --> 00:38:31,851
I know.
1435
00:38:31,977 --> 00:38:33,478
I couldn't.
1436
00:38:33,603 --> 00:38:34,653
not yet.
1437
00:38:39,234 --> 00:38:42,028
so you have to promise
1438
00:38:39,234 --> 00:38:42,028
that you'll call me
1439
00:38:42,154 --> 00:38:45,073
and give me the number
1440
00:38:42,154 --> 00:38:45,073
of where you're gonna be.
1441
00:38:45,198 --> 00:38:46,658
I'm not gonna do that.
1442
00:38:48,326 --> 00:38:49,744
yes, you are.
1443
00:38:49,869 --> 00:38:52,455
even if no one else
1444
00:38:49,869 --> 00:38:52,455
in this family
1445
00:38:52,580 --> 00:38:54,624
wants anything to do
1446
00:38:52,580 --> 00:38:54,624
with you anymore...
1447
00:38:54,749 --> 00:38:56,293
I do.
1448
00:38:56,417 --> 00:38:59,378
they've all got their own
1449
00:38:56,417 --> 00:38:59,378
stupid stuff to deal with,
1450
00:38:59,504 --> 00:39:02,966
but you care
1451
00:38:59,504 --> 00:39:02,966
about me, and...
1452
00:39:03,091 --> 00:39:05,010
I care about you.
1453
00:39:05,135 --> 00:39:07,179
I think it works
1454
00:39:05,135 --> 00:39:07,179
pretty well.
1455
00:39:08,888 --> 00:39:10,974
yeah. We do love
1456
00:39:08,888 --> 00:39:10,974
each other, but...
1457
00:39:20,608 --> 00:39:21,860
(Rings)
1458
00:39:22,437 --> 00:39:24,528
hello.
1459
00:39:24,529 --> 00:39:25,529
Mr. salinger?
1460
00:39:25,530 --> 00:39:26,823
this is Michelle?
1461
00:39:26,948 --> 00:39:29,450
uh, Ms. lo?
1462
00:39:29,451 --> 00:39:30,617
Owen's teacher.
1463
00:39:30,618 --> 00:39:32,871
yeah. Is, uh,
1464
00:39:30,618 --> 00:39:32,871
is he all right?
1465
00:39:32,996 --> 00:39:35,540
well, the psychologist
1466
00:39:32,996 --> 00:39:35,540
spent a good hour?
1467
00:39:35,665 --> 00:39:37,416
psychologist?
1468
00:39:37,542 --> 00:39:39,502
why is a psychologist
1469
00:39:37,542 --> 00:39:39,502
seeing Owen?
1470
00:39:39,627 --> 00:39:43,006
I told you this was
1471
00:39:39,627 --> 00:39:43,006
her day to swing by
1472
00:39:39,627 --> 00:39:43,006
the school,
1473
00:39:43,131 --> 00:39:45,133
and she did some
1474
00:39:43,131 --> 00:39:45,133
multisensory stuff
1475
00:39:43,131 --> 00:39:45,133
with him?
1476
00:39:45,258 --> 00:39:46,843
uh, multisensory?
1477
00:39:46,968 --> 00:39:48,887
what?
1478
00:39:49,012 --> 00:39:52,224
'cause l.D. Kids,
1479
00:39:49,012 --> 00:39:52,224
that-that's one thing
1480
00:39:49,012 --> 00:39:52,224
they have trouble with,
1481
00:39:52,349 --> 00:39:53,850
is coordinating senses?
1482
00:39:53,975 --> 00:39:56,228
are you asking me
1483
00:39:53,975 --> 00:39:56,228
or telling me?
1484
00:39:56,353 --> 00:39:58,396
look, you...
1485
00:39:56,353 --> 00:39:58,396
you gotta back up.
1486
00:39:58,521 --> 00:40:01,107
I don't even know
1487
00:39:58,521 --> 00:40:01,107
what you're talking about.
1488
00:40:01,233 --> 00:40:03,401
ok, look, I suffer
1489
00:40:01,233 --> 00:40:03,401
from upspeak, you know?
1490
00:40:03,526 --> 00:40:05,362
I can't help it?
1491
00:40:03,526 --> 00:40:05,362
it's a condition?
1492
00:40:05,486 --> 00:40:07,655
and-and in all the times
1493
00:40:05,486 --> 00:40:07,655
we've talked lately,
1494
00:40:07,780 --> 00:40:09,074
you've been
1495
00:40:07,780 --> 00:40:09,074
perfectly nice,
1496
00:40:09,199 --> 00:40:11,659
and now I don't see
1497
00:40:09,199 --> 00:40:11,659
why you're teasing me
1498
00:40:11,784 --> 00:40:13,619
about something
1499
00:40:11,784 --> 00:40:13,619
I can't help?
1500
00:40:13,745 --> 00:40:16,248
Ms. lo, this is...
1501
00:40:16,373 --> 00:40:19,625
I think you've been
1502
00:40:16,373 --> 00:40:19,625
talking to-to Owen's
1503
00:40:16,373 --> 00:40:19,625
other brother, Bailey.
1504
00:40:21,836 --> 00:40:25,298
you didn't come here
1505
00:40:21,836 --> 00:40:25,298
and-and lie on the floor?
1506
00:40:25,423 --> 00:40:26,799
what? No. No.
1507
00:40:26,925 --> 00:40:28,843
that was-that was
1508
00:40:26,925 --> 00:40:28,843
Bailey, I guess.
1509
00:40:28,968 --> 00:40:31,637
but I still
1510
00:40:28,968 --> 00:40:31,637
need to know why Owen's
1511
00:40:28,968 --> 00:40:31,637
seeing a psychologist,
1512
00:40:31,763 --> 00:40:33,181
so can you...
1513
00:40:33,306 --> 00:40:35,850
could we just start
1514
00:40:33,306 --> 00:40:35,850
at the beginning?
1515
00:40:35,975 --> 00:40:38,811
I have to say
1516
00:40:35,975 --> 00:40:38,811
I've seen people do this
1517
00:40:35,975 --> 00:40:38,811
with Chinese,
1518
00:40:38,937 --> 00:40:40,939
and I've seen people
1519
00:40:38,937 --> 00:40:40,939
do this with pizza,
1520
00:40:41,064 --> 00:40:44,025
but I've never seen
1521
00:40:41,064 --> 00:40:44,025
anyone do this with
1522
00:40:41,064 --> 00:40:44,025
Chinese and pizza.
1523
00:40:44,150 --> 00:40:45,443
hey, we're celebrating.
1524
00:40:44,150 --> 00:40:45,443
aha.
1525
00:40:45,568 --> 00:40:47,737
besides, the Chinese
1526
00:40:45,568 --> 00:40:47,737
invented pasta,
1527
00:40:45,568 --> 00:40:47,737
you know.
1528
00:40:47,862 --> 00:40:50,615
right, and I'm sure
1529
00:40:47,862 --> 00:40:50,615
that means something.
1530
00:40:50,740 --> 00:40:52,409
ok.
1531
00:40:52,533 --> 00:40:53,659
the new rule:
1532
00:40:53,785 --> 00:40:56,288
from now on, our life
1533
00:40:53,785 --> 00:40:56,288
is our business,
1534
00:40:56,413 --> 00:40:57,830
our business
1535
00:40:56,413 --> 00:40:57,830
and nobody else's.
1536
00:40:57,956 --> 00:40:59,791
meaning?
1537
00:40:59,916 --> 00:41:02,961
meaning my family's
1538
00:40:59,916 --> 00:41:02,961
never been anything
1539
00:40:59,916 --> 00:41:02,961
but a big, big hassle,
1540
00:41:02,962 --> 00:41:04,128
and your family...
1541
00:41:04,129 --> 00:41:05,922
your family's
1542
00:41:04,129 --> 00:41:05,922
even worse.
1543
00:41:06,047 --> 00:41:07,424
oh, really?
1544
00:41:09,050 --> 00:41:10,100
ok.
1545
00:41:10,176 --> 00:41:12,262
"no family"
1546
00:41:10,176 --> 00:41:12,262
sounds like a good plan.
1547
00:41:12,387 --> 00:41:13,846
no anybody.
1548
00:41:13,972 --> 00:41:16,099
no Maggie. No ray.
1549
00:41:16,224 --> 00:41:17,976
no nobody but us.
1550
00:41:18,101 --> 00:41:19,936
if we have stuff
1551
00:41:18,101 --> 00:41:19,936
to talk about,
1552
00:41:20,061 --> 00:41:21,687
then we talk
1553
00:41:20,061 --> 00:41:21,687
to each other.
1554
00:41:21,813 --> 00:41:24,690
if we have a problem,
1555
00:41:21,813 --> 00:41:24,690
then we deal
1556
00:41:21,813 --> 00:41:24,690
with each other.
1557
00:41:24,816 --> 00:41:27,860
everyone else can mind
1558
00:41:24,816 --> 00:41:27,860
their own beeswax.
1559
00:41:27,986 --> 00:41:29,946
all right.
1560
00:41:30,071 --> 00:41:31,406
to the new plan.
1561
00:41:31,530 --> 00:41:32,865
the new plan.
1562
00:41:34,826 --> 00:41:38,246
pass the kung pao
1563
00:41:34,826 --> 00:41:38,246
and the pepperoni please.
1564
00:41:39,705 --> 00:41:41,124
thank you.
1565
00:41:43,918 --> 00:41:45,337
Bailey!
1566
00:41:45,462 --> 00:41:46,754
great!
1567
00:41:46,879 --> 00:41:47,929
how's my man?
1568
00:41:47,964 --> 00:41:49,507
led the pledge
1569
00:41:47,964 --> 00:41:49,507
allegiance today.
1570
00:41:49,632 --> 00:41:50,682
yeah?
1571
00:41:50,758 --> 00:41:52,302
didn't forget
1572
00:41:50,758 --> 00:41:52,302
any of it.
1573
00:41:52,427 --> 00:41:53,477
that's excellent.
1574
00:41:53,511 --> 00:41:55,013
how come you came
1575
00:41:53,511 --> 00:41:55,013
anyway, Bailey?
1576
00:41:55,138 --> 00:41:56,348
yeah.
1577
00:41:55,138 --> 00:41:56,348
good question.
1578
00:41:56,473 --> 00:41:57,807
didn't figure we'd
1579
00:41:56,473 --> 00:41:57,807
see you here today.
1580
00:41:57,932 --> 00:41:59,517
no, I know.
1581
00:41:59,642 --> 00:42:01,686
it's good,
1582
00:41:59,642 --> 00:42:01,686
'cause we need to talk
1583
00:41:59,642 --> 00:42:01,686
about the, uh...
1584
00:42:01,811 --> 00:42:03,062
(low)
1585
00:42:01,811 --> 00:42:03,062
testing and so forth.
1586
00:42:03,188 --> 00:42:04,856
you don't need
1587
00:42:03,188 --> 00:42:04,856
to lower your voice.
1588
00:42:04,981 --> 00:42:07,275
Owen and I have talked
1589
00:42:04,981 --> 00:42:07,275
about it already, right?
1590
00:42:07,400 --> 00:42:10,445
how the school thinks
1591
00:42:07,400 --> 00:42:10,445
his mind works differently
1592
00:42:07,400 --> 00:42:10,445
than other kids,
1593
00:42:10,569 --> 00:42:11,904
handles words and sounds
1594
00:42:10,569 --> 00:42:11,904
differently.
1595
00:42:12,030 --> 00:42:13,406
whoa, whoa.
1596
00:42:12,030 --> 00:42:13,406
wait a minute.
1597
00:42:13,531 --> 00:42:15,158
I've been away
1598
00:42:13,531 --> 00:42:15,158
a few days,
1599
00:42:15,283 --> 00:42:17,076
and you're deciding
1600
00:42:15,283 --> 00:42:17,076
that Owen's this
1601
00:42:15,283 --> 00:42:17,076
and he's that,
1602
00:42:17,202 --> 00:42:18,619
and you're talking
1603
00:42:17,202 --> 00:42:18,619
to him about it
1604
00:42:18,744 --> 00:42:20,205
without even me having
1605
00:42:18,744 --> 00:42:20,205
any idea what's up?
1606
00:42:20,330 --> 00:42:22,332
well, we can talk
1607
00:42:20,330 --> 00:42:22,332
about it, Charlie.
1608
00:42:22,457 --> 00:42:24,959
listen, Ms. lo
1609
00:42:22,457 --> 00:42:24,959
filled me in
1610
00:42:22,457 --> 00:42:24,959
this afternoon
1611
00:42:25,084 --> 00:42:27,379
on what she-
1612
00:42:25,084 --> 00:42:27,379
what she thinks,
1613
00:42:27,504 --> 00:42:30,256
the diagnosis
1614
00:42:27,504 --> 00:42:30,256
of a perfectly nice
1615
00:42:27,504 --> 00:42:30,256
22-year-old
1616
00:42:30,382 --> 00:42:31,883
with almost zero
1617
00:42:30,382 --> 00:42:31,883
teaching experience.
1618
00:42:32,008 --> 00:42:34,386
so, you're an expert now?
1619
00:42:34,511 --> 00:42:36,679
I don't have to be.
1620
00:42:34,511 --> 00:42:36,679
I'm his parent.
1621
00:42:36,804 --> 00:42:38,223
it's my responsibility.
1622
00:42:38,348 --> 00:42:39,807
Owen is
1623
00:42:38,348 --> 00:42:39,807
my responsibility.
1624
00:42:39,932 --> 00:42:42,852
well, maybe
1625
00:42:39,932 --> 00:42:42,852
he should be mine.
1626
00:42:48,691 --> 00:42:50,943
Look, I'm...
1627
00:42:51,069 --> 00:42:52,278
I'm not hearing this.
1628
00:42:52,404 --> 00:42:53,530
let's go, Owen.
1629
00:42:52,404 --> 00:42:53,530
come on.
1630
00:42:56,782 --> 00:42:59,618
you're gonna hear this,
1631
00:42:56,782 --> 00:42:59,618
Charlie.
1632
00:42:59,744 --> 00:43:01,787
Charlie, listen to me.
1633
00:43:01,913 --> 00:43:04,416
this-this l.D. That he has,
1634
00:43:01,913 --> 00:43:04,416
possibly dyslexia,
1635
00:43:04,541 --> 00:43:06,376
I may have had that
1636
00:43:04,541 --> 00:43:06,376
my whole life,
1637
00:43:06,501 --> 00:43:08,503
and I can help him
1638
00:43:06,501 --> 00:43:08,503
with it.
1639
00:43:08,627 --> 00:43:10,505
they're talking about
1640
00:43:08,627 --> 00:43:10,505
3 hours of work every night.
1641
00:43:10,629 --> 00:43:13,091
you know what?
1642
00:43:10,629 --> 00:43:13,091
I did it all this week,
1643
00:43:10,629 --> 00:43:13,091
Owen and me,
1644
00:43:13,216 --> 00:43:14,300
and it was great.
1645
00:43:14,426 --> 00:43:15,476
I want him, Charlie.
1646
00:43:15,552 --> 00:43:17,136
I want Owen
1647
00:43:15,552 --> 00:43:17,136
to come live with me,
1648
00:43:17,262 --> 00:43:19,722
and I want
1649
00:43:17,262 --> 00:43:19,722
to be in charge of him,
1650
00:43:17,262 --> 00:43:19,722
responsible from now on.
1651
00:43:19,847 --> 00:43:21,474
you can't be serious.
1652
00:43:21,599 --> 00:43:23,768
well, give me one reason
1653
00:43:21,599 --> 00:43:23,768
why not, why I can't be.
1654
00:43:23,893 --> 00:43:25,144
you were
1655
00:43:23,893 --> 00:43:25,144
baby-sitting him,
1656
00:43:23,893 --> 00:43:25,144
Bailey.
1657
00:43:25,270 --> 00:43:27,063
you had him
1658
00:43:25,270 --> 00:43:27,063
for a couple of days.
1659
00:43:27,188 --> 00:43:29,774
you don't think I'd know
1660
00:43:27,188 --> 00:43:29,774
if there was something
1661
00:43:27,188 --> 00:43:29,774
wrong with him, huh?
1662
00:43:29,899 --> 00:43:32,318
look, I'll take him in
1663
00:43:29,899 --> 00:43:32,318
for the testing now that
1664
00:43:29,899 --> 00:43:32,318
they think that-
1665
00:43:32,444 --> 00:43:34,195
no, but you won't
1666
00:43:32,444 --> 00:43:34,195
do what I would do.
1667
00:43:34,320 --> 00:43:35,572
you-
1668
00:43:34,320 --> 00:43:35,572
you have a baby,
1669
00:43:35,696 --> 00:43:36,896
and you've got Claudia,
1670
00:43:36,989 --> 00:43:38,366
and you've got
1671
00:43:36,989 --> 00:43:38,366
a job that doesn't pay
1672
00:43:38,491 --> 00:43:39,617
and nobody
1673
00:43:38,491 --> 00:43:39,617
to help you out,
1674
00:43:39,742 --> 00:43:41,619
so don't say
1675
00:43:39,742 --> 00:43:41,619
that you would do it,
1676
00:43:41,744 --> 00:43:43,538
that you'd sit with him
1677
00:43:41,744 --> 00:43:43,538
for the 3 hours,
1678
00:43:43,539 --> 00:43:43,661
because that's
1679
00:43:43,662 --> 00:43:44,704
what it takes.
1680
00:43:44,705 --> 00:43:45,915
you think
1681
00:43:44,705 --> 00:43:45,915
I can't do it?
1682
00:43:46,040 --> 00:43:47,125
I think
1683
00:43:46,040 --> 00:43:47,125
I can do it better.
1684
00:43:47,250 --> 00:43:49,085
and if you want
1685
00:43:47,250 --> 00:43:49,085
what's best for Owen,
1686
00:43:49,210 --> 00:43:50,587
then you
1687
00:43:49,210 --> 00:43:50,587
would admit that.
1688
00:43:50,711 --> 00:43:52,464
if I want what's best
1689
00:43:50,711 --> 00:43:52,464
for Owen?
1690
00:43:54,924 --> 00:43:57,009
who do you think
1691
00:43:54,924 --> 00:43:57,009
you are, man?
1692
00:43:58,719 --> 00:43:59,887
I want him, Charlie.
1693
00:44:00,012 --> 00:44:01,062
that's it.
1694
00:44:01,091 --> 00:44:03,023
I want him.
1695
00:44:03,024 --> 00:44:07,574
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