All language subtitles for Playboy TV- Swing Season 5 Ep. 4

You think you know your neighbor?

Think again.

All over the world, normal, everyday
couples are taking a bold step in their

relationship.

They're swingers.

And there's no denying they're getting
more than their share of incredible sex.

But is the lifestyle right for everyone?

I'm sexologist Jessica O 'Reilly, and
I'm here to welcome a brand new couple

into the lifestyle.

It's a pretty beard.

Always a pretty beard.

She's not messing it up.

My name is Jess.

And I'm John.

And we've been together for four years
now.

It's actually kind of a funny story how
we met. My roommate's little sister and

I were together at the time.

I was best friends with her.

We met through her at a party. One thing
led to another, and we started dating.

How did it look?

Fantastic. Our sex life is great right
now.

I think we have sex time.

Couple nights a week?

Your boots are more difficult than my
corsets.

We love cosplay, steampunk, and dressing
up as superheroes, that sort of thing.

The only problem is finding a superhero
with a beard.

You should just make your own superhero.

I am a superhero.

I would say we're ready to take it to
the next level.

Cosplay helped spice it up, but I think
we're ready to make it a little bit

spicier.

Will they be glad they dove in
headfirst?

Or will they wish they had never left
home?

Hang on tight.

It's time to swing.

Your breath looks good today. Thanks.
you. You look awesome today.

Thank you.

I think Victoria's attire is extremely
sexy. I mean... Especially when you wear

it. Of course it's sexy.

Hey!

Jess and I both have a bit of a shy
personality.

That's something we hope to work on here
in the Fling House. We want to be able

to come out of our shells a bit and be
able to be a little bit more

I think I'm definitely more excited than
nervous. How about you? I think I'm

definitely more excited than nervous.
I'm definitely interested in...

really learning how to flirt and play
with girls. I'm really interested in you

learning that, too. I'm sure you are.

What guy isn't? We're hoping for a full
flop, and we're hoping that Jess is

going to get a chance to play with women
to see if she really does enjoy it.

I think it's going to be a really good
experience for us. I mean, we're going

learn a lot. I think it's definitely
going to help us with our communication.

mean, we already talk a lot, and we
already communicate pretty well, but...

mean, there's always room for
improvement.

Exactly. I think this will help with
that.

What we're looking to get out of
swinging is mostly we just want to meet

people who are like -minded, who are
pretty much open for anything.

Wow, welcome to the swing house. Thank
you. I'm Jessica O 'Reilly. Jess. Nice

meet you, Jess.

John, nice to meet you. Lovely to have
you both here. You're looking fabulous.

Thank you. I know you're going to make
quite the impression, but before you

all the other couples, we have one
important piece of business to take care

okay? Okay. All right. After you.

Thank you.

Well, the lifestyle has changed me in
many ways, but the most important way, I

feel, is that it's made me more
confident and comfortable with myself.

I personally think that being too shy is
not good, but being able to swing and

be comfortable and make that connection
with people, you have to be able to

communicate on some level. But if you're
not really speaking up, there's just

leaving a lot of room for disaster, for
miscommunication. If you are shy, not to

say that you can't get into this and get
over it, but you have to work on it.

You have to start speaking up.

So what brought you here? What made you
decide to come to the Swing House?

We're always up to try new things. I
mean, we're always looking for the next

adventure. And for us, this is an
adventure into our relationship and

experiencing just more about the
lifestyle.

What are you excited for?

I think threesomes and definitely her.
More experience with girls. I'm so

behind on how to flirt with girls. I
almost come off as...

a freshman in high school. It's kind of
adorable.

All right, so you want to learn how to
flirt with girls. Are you nervous about

the actual performance with girls? I am,
but I think they have a lot of good

knowledge that I could learn on just
becoming more comfortable with my own

sexuality. What kind of ladies are you
attracted to?

Girls like to have fun. And you said
threesomes, not one threesome. So what

you mean by threesomes?

We would love it if we could both be in
separate threesomes at the same time in

the same room. Yeah. Okay. That way
we're both able to have as much fun as

possible with each other, but still
doing something separate but together,

that makes sense. That makes sense. So
you want a full swap plus one.

Right. Okay. Tell me what you want your
threesome to look like. I would love it

to be with two women.

Just as much fun as can be had with
that. And so for your threesome, because

you're into women and guys, how would
you like your threesome to play out? I

mean, I could do a threesome with two
guys, two girls, or a girl and a guy.

pretty much open to any combination of
those.

So I'm picturing two threesomes side by
side. What if only one of you is able to

find a threesome? Perhaps you have
chemistry with two people and you're not

feeling it. Are you comfortable with
just going ahead with that?

Absolutely. We've actually never had a
jealousy issue. We've been together for

four years.

We've never had an argument even once.

You've never had an argument? Not once.

Do you agree on everything?

No, but we bring up our argument to the
other person and come to an agreement.

Okay, and have you talked about what
your rules are, your limitations, your

boundaries, anything you don't want to
do?

She does not do anything anal, and
condoms are a must for us.

Okay. Anything else?

You'll do anything?

Pretty much, with women.

With women, okay. No choking. I don't
like the choking.

Okay, so you don't like it too bad. No.
Fair enough.

So do you have any fears coming into
this? You must be a little bit nervous.

I think we're a little bit nervous that
we'll get along with the other couples

and that they won't see the outfits and
immediately go, who are these weirdos?

And how about you, Jess? Do you have any
nerves or hesitations coming in?

I think my nerves and everything about
the same as his, just, you know, making

sure we get along with everyone.

I mean, we're here to experience
something and have fun and learn, and

what I really just hope we do.

All right, well, I have here a contract
that helps to outline the rules of the

swing house.

I'm going to ask you to read through the
contract, and if you're feeling

comfortable, you can sign at the bottom.
Okay. Sounds great. Okay.

We have agreed to embark on a sexual
adventure over the next two days during

which all the normal rules of monogamous
relationships will temporarily be set

aside. I'm really glad me and John had
that opportunity to talk to Jessica.

And just being able to verbalize what's
going to happen, what the boundaries

are. What's expected?

Perfect. All right, well, I'll hold on
to this.

Okay. Are you feeling excited?

Yes. Okay, you can go check out your
room, and then you're going to meet the

other couples, and I wish you an amazing
day. I'll see you later tonight. All

right.

Oh, wow.

This looks awesome. Oh, my gosh. They're
pretty.

Wow.

Ooh.

We have a little gift box.

Oh.

Awesome stuff.

That's cool. Yeah.

This bed is amazing.

After spending most of the morning
talking about sex, me and John were

kind of hot.

Jeff and I generally don't really role
play, but just wearing the costumes is

exciting and fun, and it kind of puts
you in the mood a little bit.

Very nice.

Jeff is just having a blast.

She's writhing around and she's smiling
and she looks like she's getting close.

That definitely put us more in the mood
for what was to come.

So I have my own special way of...

hitting on people. I call it spark away.

I'd like to do a lot of non -verbal
gestures like looking in the eyes,

biting my finger, you know. Look in your
hair. Look in your hair.

Subtle things that are showing you that
I'm interested without bluntly going out

and saying, I want to fuck you right
now.

Yeah. Yeah. She does. The spark is
coming.

She uses the finger a lot. The finger in
the lip or in the mouth thing, like, a

lot. I look stupid doing it, but you
know what you're doing.

The sparkle way.

You ever been out somewhere and somebody
just offers to have sex with you in the

bathroom? Where's the absolute craziest
place anybody's had sex?

Ferris wheel, I guess, would be our...
Keep it down, Junior! I'm busy!

You can't join the Mile High Club
anymore. It's, like, virtually

But I did give him a hand job.

On the airplane.

On the airplane with somebody sitting
right beside me.

Wow.

I think it's the excitement of getting
caught maybe. Yeah. You're doing

something and nobody else knows what
you're doing. Now that you mention it,

we're going car shopping. I'm taking a
car for a test drive and we're going to

bang in a car.

I like it. Make sure it's got leather
seats, dude. Cruise control.

See you guys.

Hey.

Hey.

John. Chad. Nice to meet you. Hi.

I'm Jess. Nice to meet you.

I'm Jesse. We decided to wear the
steampunk outfits because we wanted to

ahead and get it out there that we're
nerds. We're geeks. We go to

We do this. We don't want it to be a
surprise for them later.

We want them to see right off the bat
what our personalities are like and what

it is that we do for fun.

I love the steampunkies. Thank you. I
love it.

Epic beers, man. Thank you. Hi, Jess.
Hi.

The couples instantly, upon seeing us,
extremely friendly, just welcomed us

open arms.

I'm a little nervous of how the couples
are going to perceive our outfits.

It's not every day you see someone
walking around in full -on Victorian

What are the costumes representative of?

Steampunk. Victorian era, the late
1800s. You got to get out more. You

had a steampunk party in New York? No.

I don't know. They're awesome. Let me
know. What is it?

Steampunk is basically an alternate
history.

I don't usually wear those type of
outfits, but whatever floats their boat,

willing to work with them. So I'm
thinking it's kind of hot. We like to

it as science fiction meets Victorian.

Yes.

Futuristic path.

That's exactly what it is. They all
looked a little surprised at the

outfits, but they absolutely loved them.
They were very welcoming. They were

asking lots of questions about
steampunk. It was just a huge weight off

shoulders. So what made you guys decide
to come to the swing house?

We've had a few friends who are in the
lifestyle, and they've been like, you

guys need to check it out. It's a lot of
fun.

So what is your fantasy while you're
here?

I definitely want to experience girls.

I'm attracted to girls, and I haven't
had the opportunity to play around with

them. There's a lot of girls here
that'll play. I see.

I see.

I think we also, we both want to try a
threesome. It's something neither of us

have done, and we're kind of looking for
each of us having our own just new

experience for us. Have you had any
experiences in the lifestyle at all? Not

really, no. Any parties?

No, not really. Okay.

Do you want someone aggressive towards
you, or do you guys want to be

aggressive? How do you guys want to work
that?

We're both usually pretty shy, so it's
usually a lot easier if somebody kind

of... Yeah, well, you're in the right
place.

What about rules? What do we have rule
-wise?

What's your rules, buddy?

Pretty much just condoms.

Very good, very good. That's a start.
That's a good start.

Talking about sex isn't something that's
too foreign to us. It's something that

happens a lot at conventions and in the
nerd community in general. There's no

better place than here to start because
there's no pressure here.

Nobody's going to make you do anything
you don't want to do.

No expectations.

There's no expectations. We started in
your shoes three years ago. And we were

here last year.

Exactly. We know where you're sitting
at. Yeah, everybody gets you. Gotcha.

We make fantasies happen in this house.
Don't you worry.

Now's a great time for a game so you
guys can get to know us a little better.

Okay. And this game you'll like.

It's called Never Have I.

And so I'm going to tell you something
that I never have done, and then if

you've done it, you need to take off an
article of clothing.

If nobody has done it, then I will take
off an article of clothing. You ready?

Yes. Okay.

Let's do it. You'll like this one.

Never have I had sex with just my socks
on.

I kind of feel like me and John have a
disadvantage,

especially John.

Victorian clothing, there's a lot of
layers involved.

Oh, that was awesome.

All right, you're next.

Okay, well, never have I... I'm already
open.

Never have... I used a strap -on with a
girl.

I

don't

think anyone's objecting.

I'm kind of excited to see the other
couples naked.

I think this game is a really good idea
because it's really going to help break

the ice as far as getting comfortable
with everyone.

Never have I licked balls.

Never have I ever tried queens.

That's not going to work next year.

As everyone's getting naked, I look over
and I see Sparkle, and she has amazing

breath. She has a great personality to
go with her great body.

Everyone is just absolutely gorgeous.

Never have I ever been with a girl.

A few people are already naked.

They have nothing else to lose at this
point, so sparkle up the ante.

Okay, since you have no more clothes to
take off, you have to kiss somebody.

Her picking.

She did ask a question.

She's like, mwah.

This isn't the slow build -up we thought
it would be. Jess just kind of fell

into the pool with the deep end, and
here we go.

And you can leave the glasses on, too,
because they're hot.

Never have I seen a blowjob, lady.

Never have I been to a steampunk party.

I've taken two coughs in my pussy.

The same thing. Wow.

I don't have a vagina.

Never. I know I'm out of that.

Never. So that means you have to be.
That means you have to be. Oh.

Her tits are amazing, so I'd like to put
them in my mouth.

Oh.

Interesting. We have the same vault.

I thought we were all getting it.

I guess that's pretty much it right
here. Yeah.

Pretty much everyone was naked,
including me. I like every John, and

mostly dressed.

The other couple kind of started gearing
their questions towards him, mostly

with beard questions.

Never have I ever gotten poopy juices in
my beard before. Ever.

Never have I had sex after a convention.

I'm excited at this point. This game has
really helped

to cut out kind of the middleman of the
small talk.

It's just, hey, let's get to know each
other and let's get naked.

I feel like I'm off to a good start. I'm
only a few

hours into the swing house, and I've
already had a girl between my legs.

Me and John are pretty excited to see
what's going to happen tonight.

Cleaning's a big, fat vagina part.

That's what it is.

It's like vaginal farting, but it's not
odorous or gross. No, it's not odorous.

When they say if you have to sit down
and you have a good meal, right, and you

belt or you're burping, it's like, oh,
it was a good meal, right?

It's like it's a sign of good stuff.
Yeah, so if you had some really great

and they're like, oh,

look, you were awesome, they just let
out like a whole bunch of air. That's

freaking awesome, right?

Thanks for the good time. Thanks for the
good time. Come again.

Oh, Zinnia, come on. These pants would
be totally off for the night.

No, no.

All right.

I'll wear the white dress.

Tonight we decided to ditch the
Victorian outfits for more modern, sexy

What about these?

Those would be cute. Okay. What about
octopus?

No, no octopus.

We also want to show the residents that
there's another side to us instead of

just the nerd activities.

What do you think of the couples?

Zinnia, like... She's really cute.

Yeah.

Very aggressive.

Ladies taking a lead kind of helps ease
my nervousness. Yeah, I saw. You kind of

jumped right into that. That was hot.

But no, Letitia was awesome, too.

She's really hot. Well, they're all
really pretty.

They're all gorgeous people.

Chad and Letitia and Mick and Andrea are
both really fantastic couples, and

we're finding ourselves really attracted
to both of them.

I felt completely comfortable, so I kind
of just dove on in. Well, you've

definitely had some fun with women so
far.

The opportunity presented itself.

Tonight's going to be epic.

Uh, yeah.

Do you see that coming, that full
corset?

That was elaborate.

His beard was epic.

Did you see me rubbing his beard? Epic
beard. Yeah, I think he liked that. I

think he liked it. I'm sure that's a
turn on a little bit. That's the reason

can't have a beard like that. It's too
much work.

I think they're going to have a good
chance at doing good in lifestyle

they already like to dress up.

Yeah, they were very open minded.
They're interested in trying new things.

Yeah, I like that. And I think I would
like to play with her a little bit

tonight. Yeah, I think she's open to
anything with all you ladies for sure.

Yeah, it was kind of neat to see them
come out in their steampunk stuff. I

costumes.

How do you think they'll do this
evening?

As far as he goes, and if he wants a
girl and a dominant girl, I could be a

dominant girl for her.

Do you think they're ready for what the
evening may hold for them? I think

they're shy, but I think they're very
easily persuaded to be open, especially

you're attracted to somebody.

I mean, and she's definitely cute.

I think if they...

Keep their communication open and they
let their guard down a little bit,

they're going to have a blast.

Yeah, I don't know what tonight's going
to bring, but I think it could be fun.

I like the fact that they're actually
comfortable with the whole situation.

They're comfortable with the game.

They're down, I'm just not sure 100%.

what they're looking for right now. I'd
be willing to have a little fun with

them. You know what I'm saying?

Like, I think they're open. They're
willing and ready to have some fun. You

what I'm saying? Yeah. Can't really go
wrong there. At the end of the day, I

honestly think that they are cool
people. And that's the most important

for me as far as if I'm down to kind of
swing with someone or not.

I have a question for you.

Would you have a threesome with them?

That's their thing.

Maybe. Possibly.

I don't know.

All right. We'll see. Just checking.

If it's any indication of what happened
earlier, tonight's going to be awesome.

Come in.

Hey. Good evening. You guys look lovely.
Thank you.

How was your day?

It was awesome.

Yeah. Awesome. All right, tell me about
it. I missed all the fun, as I always

do. Well, we met the new couples, and
they're all just really nice, really

welcoming, making us feel comfortable.

How's the flirtation going? Because
that's something you wanted to get a bit

more comfortable with. Like, they were
kind of, like, trying to show me

pointers, so I think later tonight I'm
going to try to...

Test it.

Yeah, and when you got here, you were a
little bit nervous. So are you feeling

less nervous?

Yes. You seem a lot more relaxed. You
seem like your energy is up. Yeah.

I guess, riding that adrenaline high.

Yeah. Okay, hopefully it can last
throughout the evening.

Definitely. Oh, yeah.

Okay, good. Well, there's a cocktail
party waiting outside, so when you're

finished and ready to go, I will see you
out there, okay? Sounds great. All

right. Thanks.

How's the beer?

Beer's good.

Go enjoy the party.

We're going to talk about fetishes.

No, seriously, what is the most obscure
fetish either you've partaken in or

you've observed?

I like flossing.

Flossing is?

It's rolling around in baked goods and
pudding.

It's basically messy food.

But pies? And you've never tried it? You
need a really big counter for that. Oh,

great. I think we can arrange that.
Yeah, I've met these guys.

Wow, John and Jess, I know they have a
very exciting and sexy night in store

you, and these guys are pretty excited
as well.

So before I go, I just want to
officially welcome you to the swing

May tonight count.

So let's raise our glasses to John and
Jess and to swing.

Well,

I have a little surprise for all of you
tonight. There is a very sexy party bus

waiting outside for you.

And they're going to take you to a
mixology bar where you're going to learn

art of making craft cocktails.

So, I know, I don't get to come with
you, so I'll send you off. Have a great

time, and I will see you both in the
morning.

Have so much fun.

Bye, guys.

You know what they say, alcohol is a
social lubricant.

The party bus pulls up to the bar, and
we're all just excited to get in there,

learn how to make drinks, and drink some
alcohol.

Is everybody ready to make some drinks
tonight?

We're going to start off with three
simple drinks that will get every party

started. We're going to go ahead and
start off with our hurricane. First,

going to put our ice in the glass and
make sure it's all the way up.

Two basic alcohols in this drink.
There's a white rum and there's a dark

It turns it nasty going.

One little wedge of lime.

Yes, squirt.

Squirt makes it go a long way.

Look at that. It's great.

Everybody's having a great time pouring
some alcohol, and I'm really excited to

learn how to make these drinks.

I'm taking a second date drink. You
don't want to slap that one on the first

date. We slap anything on the first
date.

Now that's a second date drink.

We're hoping this night is a real
icebreaker because truth swingers kind

to pull those newbies in, get them
comfortable, and break the barrier for

and we're going to get them out.

That is the super sexy lemon drop
martini.

I know. In the glasses, not other things
around. A bit of a showstopper in the

night.

Small to dry shake. We all like that
one.

We like licking glasses.

Take a time around the rim.

You can lick it if you want. Then you're
going to have to lick it. You're going

to have to stick it.

Exactly. Thank you, Bo. I love you, Bo.
The mood was awesome. Everyone was just

excited, ready to go.

Your lemon drop martini. Right there,
guys.

That's the best one. That is the best
one yet.

I actually have two shots for some
newbies in the crowd.

Me and John have a special drink made
for us. It's a buttery nipple. So I say

you guys pick somebody to take your
buttery nipples off of.

That can get interesting.

Oh, you're picking me?

I choose Jenny.

Because I'm really feeling her. She's
been kind of aggressive, which I kind of

like, but not too aggressive to turn me
off.

Hold it.

I'm going to put this in your mouth.

Let me tell you, this girl has an
amazing rack to take a shot off of.

John,

who do you want to take your

buttery nipples off of? How about
Sparkle?

I pick Sparkle because I've been wanting
to get my face as close to those boobs

as I can all night.

I got it. Look.

She

just

leans over and basically pours it into
my mouth. I'm just enjoying this

immensely.

Wait,

I feel showed up right now.

It's been a blast so far, and we just
want to keep the party going.

I'm getting really excited to see what's
going to happen the rest of the night.

You know how you got through college.

We're all starting to loosen up, have
some music going on, and we're

seeing them start to come out of their
shell at this point.

Whoa, I didn't know John had that in
him.

Denny and Sparkle. I really want to play
around with them.

Let's go!

Everyone wants to keep the party going.
It's

pretty obvious that everybody kind of
wants to go down to the Red Room.

I'm ready.

And Jeff is too.

Walking into the Red Room is an
altogether different experience. There

mattresses everywhere. There are toys.

It is set up for sex.

He is a wonko.

Wait, do you like the hypoxic?

You're not scared of it, are you?

Aww.

So Jenny and Sparkle pull me down on the
mattress and Jenny pulls out the magic

wand.

They're kissing on me, they're touching
me, and I'm just enjoying every minute

of it.

Watching

her

face, it is just incredibly hot seeing
her transform from Still being a little

bit nervous to kicking back, letting
loose, and just enjoying the moment.

This whole experience is really new, but
I'm just feeling really good.

They're just making me feel absolutely
beautiful.

Did you like it?

Uh -huh.

I look over and I see Jess. So I took
the initiative and I asked her if it was

okay if I could go down on her.

With the red room, it seemed like it was
just anything goes.

Like, if you're feeling connection with
that person, hey, have a little bit of

fun with them.

I'm going down on me, and I feel a hand
on my ass. So I look back, and it's

John. And I'm like, okay, feels kind of
good, so I go with it.

It didn't really bother me that John
didn't check in with me, but in the real

swinging world, just grabbing without
asking, that's definitely a no -no. You

have to really communicate with the
other couple and make sure everything's

first.

The residents are all aware of each
other's roles, and they kind of know a

etiquette. I want the newbies to have
the best experience, but I've got to ask

first.

is sucking me off, and I'm fingering
Mari, and we're really enjoying the

Once you're in the red room, everyone's
touching, kissing, sex is happening left

and right, you gotta know that there's a
little bit of etiquette involved.

I don't think Jonna just really knows
the rules.

John pans wandering, I felt a little
pickle here and there.

As newbies, we're going to make them
feel as comfortable as possible, but in

regular swing communities, it may not be
taken so nicely.

Always ask. Try to build that connection
first.

Me and John decided to take a break.

Check in.

Did you have fun? I'm having fun. I've
not done yet.

Me either.

Well, I have succeeded. I've had a
threesome with two other girls.

Nice. I think it was more than a
threesome.

Do you want to try for a full swap?

Yeah. I mean, if you're okay with it.
I'm totally fine with it. Okay. I'm okay

with it. Yeah. Go for it. Shall we head
back in? Yeah. Okay.

It's cold.

Yeah. Of course. But I'm not
complaining. It's fine.

Dramatic stress. Give me some pizza.

The good thing about coming to the swing
house is you've got a lot of

understanding. So we're going to be more
forgiving if maybe they make a mistake

or they kind of misinterpret something.

That's kind of why they come here, so we
can help them, you know, on their

journey and teach them before they get
out into the real world.

This is fun.

Shall we head upstairs?

Morning. Morning.

So is everything about what you were
expecting?

Yeah. We couldn't do the full swap, but
we had fun.

Nobody was really up for it, it seemed.

No.

Even though the full swap didn't happen,
me and John felt fulfilled.

We really came out. We had fun.

We're going to have some great memories
to take home.

I think coffee is an order.

Yes, coffee.

Coffee.

You should not have told me that. You
should not have told me that. But

definitely etiquette.

You're doing a great job.

You know, one of the things I noticed
that was funny is, you know, we get down

to the red room and they didn't seem to
check in with each other too much.

You know, which I know a lot of us, we
don't need to be on top of each other

you know, follow each other around like
puppies.

You know, you still look in, you check
in, make sure everybody's cool. Like,

hey, you still alive? You still
breathing?

All right, cool. And you can go back to
doing what you're doing because you're

there to enjoy your experience. And
whatever you do is different. But I felt

like I was talking to her and I had
said, hey, look, that's really hot. And

was like, yeah, yeah, give me some more.

I just find it interesting.

I'm wondering if they said, you know, we
don't need to look at each other and

make sure you still got a pulse or, you
know. Right.

I think at this point they're still so
new that just everything is learning.

they're talking about it this morning.
It got a little awkward last night. You

know, his little inching, inching
closer. Every 30 seconds he was like.

You know, I used that one a long time.

If you did that at at least one of our
parties, that's kind of frowned upon.

I mean, we know how to react to it, you
know, and kind of move away from the

situation if we need. But we're kind of
really big on it. We're not all

automatically comfortable.

And that's why they're here, though,
right? Yeah. To fill it out. To figure

out. Yeah, right. And that's why we
didn't, like, we're not going to make an

issue of it. Yeah, it's like, we get it.
We understand. You're inexperienced.

It's in the can store.

Yeah, exactly.

It's tough.

Eventually, they're going to have to
understand that, you know, you've got to

have some kind of connection.

It's like on a playground, you know, you
kind of learn how to play in the

sandbox and you find your way. You know,
I think they'll learn how to play in

the sandbox and find their way. I think
they'll be all right.

Either way, it was a good time.

Either way, it was a good time. Let's
play with fun.

Okay, if you would happen to have a rule
that you may have overstepped, the best

thing you can do after the fact is talk
about it.

Because, I mean, we've had rules that at
specific times throughout the process

that tend to get stepped on or blurred a
little bit.

And the best thing to do is, like, talk
about an afterthought. Don't let it

bottle up. Don't let it build up.

Nobody wants to have hurt feelings, and
that's totally not what swinging's

about. And I'm absolutely sorry.

It's so nice out today.

Cheers and coffee. Yay.

Hey, it's 5 o 'clock somewhere.

Good morning.

Morning.

How was your night last night? It was a
blast. Awesome.

A blast and awesome. Well, I want to
hear all about it, so why don't we sit

and have a little chat?

Sounds great. We'll begin with you,
John, if that works.

Sure.

When I left, you were getting on a party
bus. So tell me, like, what was the

highlight of last night?

Probably watching Jeff's threesome. That
was definitely the highlight of last

night. Okay, and what were you doing
during her threesome?

During her threesome, everyone was
watching.

Okay. Are you surprised at your
reactions last night? Were you expecting

something different?

I was expecting to be a lot more nervous
than I was once we got to the Red Room.

Okay. But once I got there, it was just
fun and hot. After that, Andrea was

sucking me off, and I was playing with
Mari while she was eating Jess out, who

was with another guy at the same time,
and everyone was really open and

welcoming. Tell me how they communicated
that to you. It was mostly eye contact

and nods. It was...

you know, hey, come here if you want to
come.

So it sounds like a lot of nods going on
last night.

There's something I want to talk to you
about separate from your experience last

night, the way you described it to me,
because all the other couples thought

last night there could have been a
little bit more permission asking

Is that a fair assessment that you're
comfortable doing things, but you're not

always comfortable asking about them?

Right. I think that would be somewhat of
a fair assessment. Yeah.

I probably misconstrued some of the...

Okay, okay, fair enough. And I think
that's common for everybody.

Most of us are really comfortable having
sex, but most of us are not comfortable

talking about sex.

Exactly. So maybe that's something you
can work on, too, is your ability to

communicate verbally and say, is this
okay?

Absolutely.

All right, well, I think it would be
great for me to sit down with Jess as

So if you don't mind grabbing her from
me, we'll sit down and have a chat one

-on -one. Absolutely. Okay.

How's it going, Jess?

Good. Yeah, how are you feeling this
morning?

Why so glorious?

I really kind of feel like I've opened
up and it was just kind of freeing, just

being able to interact with girls and
not, I guess, be so shy.

What brought you out of your shop?

After the mixology, more drinks, we were
dancing, there was a lot more

flirtation going on. I know me and
Sparkle.

and jenny were kissing they really made
me feel like the center of attention and

that was just something i've never
really experienced so when we went down

the red room she just approached me and
was like have you ever you know tried a

toy and i was like well no she's like do
you want to and i was like okay i had a

threesome with two other girls and i'm
not gonna be shy about it i loved it it

was great Good. I like the example she
set in terms of actually asking because

hear a lot in the lifestyle and from
couples in and out of the lifestyle, oh,

you just know. And the fact is you don't
just know. You have to ask.

Exactly. So did anybody else ask your
permission?

Yeah. I mean, just about anyone was
like, hey, can I, you know, can I touch

And I'm like, okay, yeah. I mean, I look
over and kind of look at John and you

just be like, yeah. He gives a nod. Go
for it. Now, the more important side of

this is are you comfortable asking
because...

Again, flirtation, initiation.

Was it a concern for both of you coming
in?

I think I'm getting more comfortable.

Like I said, I didn't initiate too much,
and I kind of feel bad that I kind of

let my sinus get a little the best of
me, but that's what we're here for.

here to learn, and I could go back home
and go to a lifestyle party and then

try, you know. It's all a learning
experience.

Do you have any questions or concerns or
thoughts?

No. I'm really happy we've had this
experience.

I think it's really helped me, helped my
esteem, and I think I'll be able to do

a lot better exploring my own sexuality
now.

There are a couple of things I'd like to
sit down and talk with you and John

about. So if you wouldn't mind going and
getting him. Yeah. We can get together,

the three of us, and have a little chat.

All right. Let me go grab him. Thanks.

Anytime you go through such an intense
and exciting experience, it's really

important to debrief, and I'm glad we
each got a chance to speak one -on -one.

think it's important that the two of you
sit down together as well in a more

formal debrief. And, of course, your
debrief is going to last for days and

and months, maybe even longer.

Overall, it was a great experience. I
think we were both a little disappointed

we didn't get to try the full swap.

Some people got a little tired last
night.

That's understandable. We're all human.

We get a little too riled up at first
and kind of crashed.

But we'll take what we learned from here
and try it later.

Yeah, exactly. Good.

Now, Jess, you had mentioned that this
was a bit of a learning experience for

you. Not only did you learn how to
flirt, but you felt a bump in your self

-esteem. You feel a little bit more
liberated.

So is there anything that comes to mind
for you?

I think I learned that I need to be a
bit more assertive and probably more

verbal communication on our part would
be better because, again, the nonverbal

can be misconstrued, like you said.
Yeah. So I think the lifestyle opens up

opportunity for you to shift from just
having sex to really talking about it. I

think so, too.

Is that something you're willing to work
on a little bit, just the verbal part

in terms of moving forward if you decide
to move forward in the lifestyle?

I think so.

Absolutely. Again, it's easier to do
than it is to speak, and that's what

sex exciting and a little bit anxiety
-provoking for every one of us.

I wouldn't say that we have so much
regret about what we could have done

differently last night.

I think we're coming out stronger and
with better communication skills.

So I am certain that you want to see the
other couples and spend a little bit

more time.

Yes, definitely.

Yeah, so why don't you head back out
there, and I will come and get you when

it's time to go catch your flight.

All right. Okay, thank you. Thank you.

We've never been to a resort before.

They have a theme every single night.
That sounds so fun. Yeah, whatever.

all go together. Let's all go.

I don't know. You're drunk enough. You
might be surprised.

Hey, guys.

Hey.

How you guys doing? Good.

Have a seat.

So how was your evening last night,
guys? We enjoyed ourselves last night.

Did we teach you anything about
approaching, like, because you said

that you were... I think you guys really
helped me out, and I'm going to take

that knowledge and all that and go back
home and... So, wait, are you going to

be more aggressive like me, or are you
going to be more passive like... I'm

probably going to be more passive
like... Come on, just go by the horn.

What do you guys think you're going
to...

do from here as far as progressing, like
maybe go start going to parties?

I think so. I definitely think we want
to explore it a lot more now.

That's good. I think so, too. Probably
join a few websites.

A lot of them. So now are your steampunk
outfits going to get a lot steamier?

Probably. Probably.

Hello.

Hi, Jess. How's it going?

You're still having fun, I see.

Yeah. The limo is here to take you to
the airport. You've got a plane to

so why don't you all take a minute to
say your final goodbyes, and I'll meet

both out front.

Okay. All right. Okay, thank you.

I definitely think I got some good
pointers on how to approach girls.

I feel a little shy, but we're going to
try to work on that.

Bye, guys.

Bye. Safe travels.

Jess and John, it's been such a pleasure
having you here, and I'm glad you had a

great time.

Now, before you go, we have one
important piece of business to take care

Okay. I have here the contract you
signed upon arrival at the swing house.

was a two -day pass to indulge your
sexual fantasies, play with other

And now I need to know what you want me
to do with this contract. Do you want to

take it with you into the real world? Do
you want to throw it in the shredder?

What I'm asking is, was this just a
fling or do you want to swing again?

We want to swing again.

All right. You look pretty certain. You
sound pretty certain. So I'm going to

leave this with you.

Thank you so much for visiting us here
and have safe travels home. Thank you.

Thanks, guys. Bye -bye. Bye.

Overall, I think this experience has
been fantastic.

It's really been a lot of birth for me
and John. I feel like I'm leaving the

swing house with a lot more confidence
in myself and who I am sexually.

I think the thing I took away from this
the most is... Don't be afraid to talk

to people. Just communicate and be open.

I think for us, what's next is really
going home and talking to friends who

in the lifestyle and thinking about
joining up and maybe playing around with

them. I don't know about you, but I feel
like we're closer now.

I think so, too. I think we're going to
communicate a little bit even more

openly than we were before.

And on top of that, I mean, you can now
play wingman.

This is true. This is true.

We're definitely going to have to go get
one of those long, though.

Yeah. That's going to be, like, as soon
as we get off the airplane.