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[tense music playing]

Just two months ago,
our couples accepted an ultimatum

and agreed to get married or move on.

They broke up, chose new partners,
and experienced two trial marriages.

All to find out if they arrived here

with the person they'll spend
the rest of their lives with,

or is there someone else out there
who might be a better fit?

Now, the Ultimatum has come to term,

and it is time for the couples to make
the biggest decision of their lives.

Who has found lifelong love?

Who will propose?

Who will get engaged?

Who will leave here together?

And who will choose to walk away forever?

I'm nervous,
but I'm also excited for them.

Their choices will change
their lives forever.

Let's see what happens.

♪ There's no other road ♪

♪ Now is our time to end the ♪

♪ Adrenaline rush
Adrenaline's rushing through our veins ♪

[Haley] I issued Pilar the Ultimatum.

She's been my person for ten years,
so I wanted that next milestone.

I wanted to get married.

But now, I'm still not 100% sure
about the Ultimatum that I'd given her.

I have so many thoughts about

the fact I was able
to fall in love with someone else

and how much it's hurt Pilar.

My whole head is very clouded.

I love you.

I love you too. [laughing]

♪ Expectation ♪

[Haley] I'm definitely
still coming to terms with

everything that happened
in my first trial marriage with Magan.

The more time that goes by,

I find myself questioning,
"Was that real? Was that not real?"

♪ Twisting 'round ♪

[Haley] Confronting Magan
is really more about closure.

She led me on in an insane way.

So I feel like
that deserves some owning up.

Like, how dare you?

♪ Whoa ♪

[Haley] I have this for you.

It was supposed to get here
before the end of our trial marriage.

Oh.

-Want me to open it now?
-You don't have to.

[Magan] Okay.

How are you?

I have come to accept whatever happened
in our trial marriage, but…

I don't think
you're being honest about it.

I don't know. I feel like…

I've accepted our trial marriage
for what it was.

After processing, I've realized
that I want different things.

I feel like we're too similar.

Seeing who you are now,
clearly this is also you.

Just because it's different than
the person that I feel like I got to know,

it's still you.

I'm grateful for, like,
all the work that we did,

and, like, it's made me better for Pilar,

and that's really all that I wanted.

All I wanted was the space

for my second trial marriage with Dayna,

and I feel like… you didn't give me that.

It was disrespect towards us,

and if there's anything to be
in the future

with us being
in each other's lives as friends,

then I feel like you owe her an apology…

for not giving me the space.

I would never let someone in my life
treat me the way that you've treated me.

And…

I don't want you in my life
in any capacity.

Okay.

I respect your wishes.

Thank you.

♪ What happens now? ♪

[Haley] I'm feeling frustrated.

Dayna's not getting an apology from me.

I think that it's really clear
in the way that Magan is talking now

that these are words
that Dayna wants me to hear,

not that Magan wants me to hear.

Magan is trying to take
everything that's happened

and spin it to be a certain way,

spin it to be that
I've been disrespectful to her.

And I'm like,
what could be more disrespectful

than going back on everything
that she told me for three weeks straight?

I'm really not surprised.
I think this is who Magan is.

At this point, I really have two options.

I can walk out of here engaged to Pilar,

or I might walk out of here single.

♪ What happens now? ♪

♪ I will survive
But I'm in the deep end ♪

[Britney] Today is a huge, huge day.

I came into this,
and I issued AJ the Ultimatum.

I feel worried.

[crying] I'm emotional.

[sobs]

[clears throat]

Oh God, I'm a gangster. I got this.

[laughs quietly]

I'm putting my heart
in someone else's hands.

That's a weird feeling.

Usually I'm more in control,
and I don't know what to expect.

♪ I will survive, whoa ♪

[AJ] I'm feeling a bunch
of different emotions right now.

Can't really eat.
Just really trying to push through today.

Britney is literally
a catch above all catches.

She is that boss bitch.

But most of my hesitation

comes from the insecurity
of her business coming first.

And I want to reach things
that Britney has already attained.

I think maybe I'm just scared
that one day you'll wake up,

and you'll know that you can do better.

I just want to be more.

Then be more. Stop talking about it.

I love you.

♪ I've seen it in the air ♪

[Britney] I need AJ
just to overcome her fears.

I've showed up with who I am.

I've reassured her.

And the ultimate "I love you"
is marrying me.

♪ I feel it in the air ♪

[AJ] I'm hesitant because…
marriage, that's it.

There's no divorce.
The D-word does not exist.

The weight does not amount

to any other pressure
that I've ever been under.

Hello, gorgeous.

Hi, beautiful.

Hi.

Oh my God.

Oh my gosh, look at you.
You look beautiful.

You look gorgeous.

Your hands are shaking.

Oh my God.

Why are your hands shaking?

This experience has been so crazy.

[exhales]

[AJ] It's all come down to right now.

Literally right now.

[Britney laughs nervously] It's just like…

-[AJ] Yeah.
-Wow. Wow.

I have to say,
throughout our trial marriage,

I'm very appreciative of you hearing me

and being present.

I've literally seen, like,
so much work that you've put in

to make sure that we could have,

like, a really good run
in our trial marriage.

You too. You too.

Truly.

I adore you, baby. Like…

From the beginning of our relationship
until now, like, you've blown me away.

I've never, ever had a love… like you.

It's been something that, like,
it… feels too good to be true.

Still, even up till today.

I…

[laughs] You brought tissues?

Just in case. Here.

[Britney] Great. Great, great.

Thank you.

Ah!

But truly, like,
nothing literally compares to you.

Like, no matter what disagreements,
like, how many times we may clash,

or maybe not even see eye to eye,

it doesn't matter because I just know

the person you are at your core
is someone I always will fight for,

and I always want,
and I always will ride for

and do anything for. Like…

[laughs while crying]

You bring a light out of me
that… I didn't even realize I had.

It was always there.

Ugh, I told myself I'm not gonna cry
too… not too early.

Ah! Okay.

[sighs]

It's crazy that the Ultimatum
has come to term.

[exhales]

I've had a lot of fears coming into this.

-[Britney] Mm.
-And…

I put myself there
because I didn't feel like a priority.

I didn't think that I would be a priority
over your business.

I saw us not having
more and more time together.

It was less and less.

It's been hard for me
to come up with the words to say.

I don't want life
with anyone else but you, babe.

Nothing compares…
to the love that we share.

And nobody cares for me like you do.

You've seen me
through all my darkest days.

You're the love of my life,
my peace, my soulmate.

And I can't say "I do" without you.

[exhales]

[both exhaling]

Britney…

So pretty!

Would you do me the greatest honor

and marry me?

[sobs] Oh wow! Yes, baby. Oh my God.

Yes.

Oh baby.

[laugh]

[AJ] I'm so sorry
it took me so long to get married.

[Britney] Oh my God, yes.

Oh man, wow.

I am over the moon.
I am like, this isn't real.

-[AJ] No, not at all. I, like…
-Pinch me.

Like, what the heck?
Oh my God, this is like the wildest dream.

-And it came true. I'm so happy.
-I'm so elated right now.

♪ 'Cause this is
slightly higher than high ♪

Oh my God.
Wow, it just looks so beautiful.

You made me literally the happiest woman.

-I love you.
-I love you so much.

I love you so much.

I love you to the universe and back.

-Do you know why?
-I know why.

-Why?
-The moon is too close.

The moon is too close.

I truly see the value in ultimatums.

I know, like, I gave it to you,
but… even for both of us.

I feel we both grew in a way
in our relationship that we wouldn't have

if we didn't go through
something like this.

-I feel like we fell in love over again.
-All over again.

This is what I want forever.

♪ 'Cause I'm happy ♪

[screaming]

Oh my God!

♪ Sunshine is breaking in ♪

[vocalizing a beat]

[AJ] Oh my God.

-Baby, I love you.
-[Britney] I love you.

I love you so much.

[AJ] I'm so in love with you.

[Britney] Oh my God.

[Pilar] As the Ultimatum receiver,

I came into this with a lot of fears.

I didn't realize that I really had, still,
a wall up against Haley.

I think it's just my way
of defending and protecting myself.

But now my mentality completely changed.

[Haley] I am noticing
a lot of differences in Pilar,

and pleasantly surprised with

how much she's willing to work towards
finding our way back to each other

instead of just cutting things
where they are.

[Pilar] There is so much that
I learned from my first trial marriage.

I didn't realize how much
I've been festering over my parents

and childhood stuff
that I can move on from

if I simply let go and forgive them

without necessarily having
that reconciliation with them.

Just let your parents work through it,

and know that their love
is still holding you up.

[Haley] I don't know if I owe it to Pilar
to tell her that she shouldn't be with me

because I fell in love with someone else,
and set her free.

There's a lot on the line.

[Pilar] It's the life that Haley and I
have built over the past decade,

and this decision will change
the course of our lives forever.

♪ Stay with me ♪

♪ Pray for me ♪

-[Haley] Damn!
-So beautiful.

Hello.

Hi.

Wow. Oh my God, that dress looks so good.

Thank you. Did you know it was this dress?

I totally forgot about this dress.

You look gorgeous.

You look beautiful.
Really excited to see you.

How was, uh, seeing Magan?

As expected.

The final thing
I really wanted to say to her was,

"I don't want you in my life
in any capacity."

Are you okay?

Oh yeah.

I feel like… all that doesn't even matter.

Yeah.

I appreciate you.

And giving me the time and space
to figure that out.

It was…

[laughs]

…definitely not easy.

It hurt to see you hurting
about someone else.

I think this experience,
like, as challenging as it was…

it was the best reminder
of, like, what we have.

You know, I feel like I almost lost you.

This experience has forced me
to really stop being afraid.

I was focused on the wrong things,

and trying to prove myself
to people that don't matter.

I don't know how to express to you
how much you meant to me over the years.

I don't think I say it enough.

You were my best friend

before we loved each other.

And we've grown closer
and closer together,

not through complacency or time,

but through hard work,
and crying, and forgiving.

I choose you, and it's always been you.

And I'll always choose you every day
for as long as you'll let me.

I think that that's
what's been so beautiful

about these last three weeks together,

is I think this really has felt
like a marriage.

And to see what that would look like is

the ultimate taste that I'm like,
"I can't not have more," I feel.

With that said, Haley…

will you marry me?

Oh! Every day.

[joyful song playing]

[both giggling]

[Pilar laughs]

[Pilar laughs]

Oh my God, it's beautiful.

-[both] I'm shaking!
-[Pilar laughs]

♪ You're the stars
That light up my night sky ♪

-It's perfect.
-[Pilar laughs]

It is exactly what I wanted.

I choose you,
and it was always going to be you.

You're so cute.

♪ Baby, all your love ♪

-[Haley] Hi.
-[Pilar] Hi.

We're engaged!

No way!

-Oh my God! Oh my God!
-[Pilar laughs]

I'm so happy for you guys! Yay!

-[Pilar] Thank you. Love you.
-[Haley] We love you.

As unexpected as it could be
to fall in love with someone else,

it never changed the love
that I had for Pilar.

Pilar did such an amazing job,

like, making me feel safe,
and prioritized, and, like, heard.

It was distinctly different
than the last ten years.

I think that's the most beautiful thing,
is, like, that we are so open

to just, like,
continuing to grow together.

♪ Fight it, baby, all your love ♪

[Pilar] Crazy. [laughs]

♪ The moments we held onto only reflect ♪

♪ A part of a story
But I still recall the rest ♪

♪ I can't forget ♪

[Ashley] Waking up today,
I'm not feeling the best.

When I came into this experience,
I issued an Ultimatum to Marita,

and I felt very confident and strong
in my relationship,

but now I feel very unsure.

I feel like everything's up in the air
at this point.

♪ Don't you remember
How you saw me then? ♪

[Marita] A lot is going through my mind.

I'm feeling extremely scared,

because I don't want to lose
the person that I love.

♪ Broken to pieces ♪

♪ But got on my feet ♪

I'm having a really tough morning.

♪ Welcome back to the new me ♪

♪ I'm not the same anymore ♪

Throughout my marriage with Britney,
there are so many highlights,

and I can't even pinpoint one.

In so many ways,
Britney was able to do the small things.

She was showing me
this is what love's supposed to feel like.

[Britney] Here you go.

Thank you, wifey!

You handed me a fork.

That was so sweet.

♪ I feel at home
With my back to the ropes ♪

[Ashley] I do have some regrets
in my trial marriage with Marita.

I wish I would have went all out
like she was asking me to.

She is, at the end of the day,
the person that I love.

I just want to make sure
we're both making the right decision.

♪ I got nothing left to lose ♪

[Marita] I could just walk away.

Maybe that's the best thing for me,
maybe it's not. I don't really know.

I'm someone who follows my heart.

I'm not so much of a thinker.
To me, love and, like,

being a hopeless romantic
isn't ridiculous.

This is the woman I love, and it's scary.

I don't know what the future looks like,
but I just hope that it's us.

[Ashley] Oh my gosh!

Hi.

You look so pretty.

[Marita] Thanks, honey.

[Ashley] Hi.

[exhales] This is crazy.

How do you feel?

Overwhelmed.

You look so pretty in that.

-[Marita laughs]
-I'm sorry, I can't get over it.

Thank you.
I'm spreading my sparkles on you.

I love it. You make me sparkle.

-[laughs]
-[Marita] Aw!

You look beautiful.

Thank you.

I'm shaking right now.

There's a cat. Is that a bad sign?

Yeah.

Last night I felt like I would just
keep going around in circles

on, like, what I wanted to do today.

I came in here so sure,
and I issued you the Ultimatum.

But this experience
has opened a lot of doors to things

I didn't even know I needed to work on.

I did write you something,
and I want to read it.

[Marita] Okay.

[Ashley exhales]

-"My honey, I can't believe we are here."
-[Marita laughs softly]

"This entire four years
has been nothing but pure bliss."

"You always show up
with a smile on your face

and so much love for me
since the day I met you."

"Sometimes I struggle with thinking
I deserve someone as pure as you,

but then I'm reminded by you every day
of how much love I do deserve."

"You always uplift me
and push me to be my best."

"I want to always remind you
and show you how much I love you,

because my heart has been yours
since we met."

"I'm in front of you now,
and you're looking beautiful as ever."

-"As I knew you would."
-How'd you know?

[both laughing]

"We have a big decision to make."

"I love you more than anything,
and you deserve the world."

"Whether that world
is with me or without me…

[crying] just know I will always be
your biggest supporter in life,

no matter what."

[sniffles]

I'm crying. [laughs]

I hate crying.

"I'm so thankful for my life with you,

and you've shown me a new way to life
that's exciting and worth living for."

"You're amazing, Marita.
Don't ever forget that."

[Ashley sighs]

Ah!

That was beautiful,
and this is the emotion I need from you.

I know. I just have a hard time
showing it, and, like, I've worked on it.

-Everything that I want, I want with you.
-Same.

I definitely couldn't imagine

my life without you.

Am I someone that you see
being with forever?

Am I your forever?

I want you to be my forever,

because I can't imagine
a life without you,

which is why I'm still here,
which is why I'm still trying…

-Mm-hmm.
-…giving my all.

I still have this… fantasy in my head.

I'm obsessed with love,
and I want that with you.

You do deserve all the love in the world.

Have you been truly happy
these past couple months with me?

No.

This experience has finally given us
the tools necessary to figure out

ourselves and what we need.

What if I'm holding you back
from finding a love that you…

want?

My gut and my heart
is telling me to do one thing,

but my head's like, do another thing.

I don't know if I can go through
with, like, an engagement.

It's not right
at this point in time for us.

When I've been thinking about this moment,

I… I was ready.

So if you were going to commit to me
and ask me to get engaged to you,

I was going to say yes.

But then you took it away, so…

Well, I guess I'm ready to leave here.

You're not even gonna hug me?

Ashley! [scoffs]

I don't want to lose you. I don't.

[exhales]

'Cause I do love you.

[crying]

Honey, I know you love me.

[Ashley crying] This is so tough.

[Ashley sobs]

♪ Ooh ♪

♪ I really tried to be my best for you ♪

♪ Ooh ♪

Like, just know this is not easy for me.

If I were to propose to you,
I'd want to be waking up happy as hell,

singing… probably Taylor Swift songs.

-And then…
-[both laugh]

Like…

I don't want to feel the way I felt today,
waking up and coming here.

That's not how it should be.

I love you.

[Ashley] I love you.

I'm sorry.

Bye.

Bye.

♪ I'm pretty sure
That you might be surprised ♪

♪ I'm thinking that
It's time we say goodbye ♪

I'm heartbroken.

If she can't do any more
than she already does,

then it is only fair that I can go find…
someone who does that for me.

And I don't want to.

I want it to be her.

And I don't know why
she can't get to that point.

I'm leaving here without her.

♪ Bye now, bye now, oh ♪

[Marita sobs quietly]

[sniffles, exhales]

[crying]

♪ So I let you go, go
So I let you go ♪

I had to do it.

[sighs]

Hm. Jesus.

Like, I love her enough to let her go.

♪ So I let you go, go ♪

♪ How long till you're home? ♪

[Kyle] I'm definitely feeling nervous,

but also really excited and hopeful.

I issued Bridget an Ultimatum

because I feel really sure
that Bridget is who I want to marry.

She is incredibly loving and caring.

I feel like we would have a very happy,
fulfilling life if we left here together.

There's still the unknown,

but I think holding this
makes me really excited.

That's why I came here,
and so I feel like it's within my reach.

♪ When we get a little closer ♪

[Bridget] I received
the Ultimatum from Kyle,

because I've never really understood
the point of marriage.

How can I get married if I don't know
who I'm going to be in ten, 20, 30 years?

So I'm feeling stressed out,

and I want to make sure
I'm making the right decision.

♪ All the light is not lost ♪

[Kyle] Coming into this,

I didn't feel like our relationship
had that many issues,

but my first trial marriage with Pilar

revealed a lot of areas
that I need to work on myself.

You're not taking accountability
for, like, any of your actions.

Sorry, I don't know
why I'm getting emotional.

♪ So just say it out loud ♪

♪ Can we get a little closer? ♪

[Bridget] My trial marriage with Ashley
has definitely taught me

that marriage is really just
choosing someone

that you're willing to change with

and listen to and grow with.

I became really insecure
through this process,

and then Kyle showed me
she can be a bit of a people pleaser.

I really don't want to be in a marriage

where I feel like you're going
to just do whatever to be nice.

I feel terrible…
something physical happened.

If you loved me that much,
why did those things happen?

♪ I'm still here ♪

I love Kyle so deeply,

to not have her in my life
would be catastrophic.

On the other hand,
leaving here engaged to Kyle

would be a huge change.

It all was building up to this moment.

♪ And I love it ♪

♪ Every word that you say ♪

[Kyle laughs]

Hi, you look so cute.

Thanks, so do you.

[Kyle] How are you doing?

I'm okay. How are you?

I'm good.

I'm going to take this off,
though, because it's hot.

[exhales]

Are you okay?

Yeah, I'm just…

feeling nervous.

-But…
-Feeling what?

-Nervous.
-Why?

I don't know, because… it's just a lot.

I'm going to put this down.

-I love you so much.
-I love you too.

And I'm very happy to be here with you,

because I gave the Ultimatum,
and I just appreciate you so much

for doing this with me.

You know?

Yeah.

It was hard.

[Kyle] We worked through a lot of stuff

over the course
of the whole trial marriage,

and I feel, I don't know, really happy.

A lot of challenges came up
that were new to us,

and learning to communicate with you
when you get frustrated

was new to me, to that extent.

But I'm proud of how far we came.

Me too.

Because it wasn't easy.

[Kyle] Before I met you,

I couldn't really imagine

spending the rest of my life with someone.

But now I can't imagine

my life without you in it forever.

Neither one of us really knew,

-like, what a marriage looks like.
-Mm-hmm.

And I think that's part
of, like, that responsibility

and that growing up is, like,
considering each other all the time.

Yeah, I'm getting better.

[Bridget] You are.

[Kyle] When I think of my future,

I'm not… scared anymore
because you're there.

These past two and a half years
have been such a dream.

I don't know why I'm crying. [laughs]

[Bridget laughing] It's okay.
You're going to make me cry, though.

When you kissed me after our first date,

there was just this feeling
of pure happiness,

and I never felt like that before.

And I still feel that

whenever we kiss.

Like, you still give me butterflies.

To this day,
I get so happy when I see you.

I'm so… excited

when your name pops up on my phone.

You've brought so much joy to my life,

and loving you is just so fulfilling,

and I want this joy

for the rest of my life.

So…

-Bridget…
-Oh my God. [laughs]

Will you marry me?

Yes. [laughs]

-Here's your little finger ring.
-Oh my goodness.

I love you.

I love you too.

Oh.

You okay?

I'm glad you said yes.

-It feels good to be engaged.
-It feels incredible.

Kyle's always wanted to go by fiancé.
It's the only gender-neutral label.

-I'm excited to be a fiancé.
-Yeah.

Having received the Ultimatum

and not really caring
about marriage before this all,

I think what this entire thing
has shown me was that

it didn't matter
what anyone else had to say

or how anyone else defines marriage.

It only matters how we do,

and, like, I know
I want to be with Kyle forever,

so if she wants marriage,

I know that we'll have
a really happy and lasting marriage.

[both laughing]

-[Kyle] I love you.
-[Bridget] I love you too.

♪ Tell me how to live my life
If we can't be open ♪

♪ I was in a forest of my feelings
last night ♪

I issued an Ultimatum to Magan
because I wanted her to be proud of us

and wanted to be able
to live our lives together.

Unfortunately, in her growing,
we lost each other.

Damage was done,
and a lot of things changed.

♪ In the forest of my mind ♪

[Dayna] The Ultimatum still stands,
but it's not just up to her anymore.

It's also now, is this what I want?

All the things that have happened here.

I met Mel, and she met Haley.

There's new factors involved.

It changes a lot of things.

I never knew how much I needed you.

I wish I could know you
in all the phases of your life.

♪ Something's coming
I can feel it ♪

[Dayna] It's not
a little bit of shit to get over.

It's a lot of shit on both sides.

So it's just kind of scary

to wonder what the damage
will do to us in a marriage.

I'm in love with Haley.

[Dayna] Oh my God.

How could you do this?

The amount of judgment you passed on me?

No wonder you hate me.
You've been trying to hate me.

So you feel better about yourself!

[Magan] So many things have happened…

♪ I can feel it in the air ♪

…but I'm just so proud of being
so vulnerable and transparent.

Things definitely feel more aligned.

I've really gotten my family
on board to support me.

I respect Haley's decision,
cutting ties with me.

I'm just going to move on

and hope that Dayna and Mel do the same.

♪ I ♪

♪ I couldn't do it ♪

[Dayna] It's so hard to process it all
and how big it all is.

I told Mel multiple times
during our trial marriage

that we did have a connection.

There was feelings there.
I just don't really know what they are.

But now I can give her
a true, honest answer.

I'm just like, let's do this shit.

You look good.

How are you?

[Dayna] Good.

-Hey.
-[Dayna] How are you feeling?

-I'm going to throw up any second.
-Really?

[Mel] Really.

[Dayna] Okay. Why do you feel like
you're going to throw up?

[Mel laughs] What do you mean why?

[Dayna] You're just nervous?

Yeah, in my stomach, in my fingertips.

I was going through my stuff last night,

and I read the letter
that you wrote to me.

I think it's probably
the most beautiful letter

anyone's written me.

I hadn't really thought about our time,

I guess, like, the way it was
between us, in a while.

I forgot how cared for I felt by you.

It made me remember
how close we really were.

I forgot how real everything was,

and it made me realize
maybe you didn't forget as much as I did.

[Mel] It was all real to me.
Like, you mean the world to me, truly.

I don't think
I'm going to meet another Dayna.

The second I saw you,
you felt very safe to me.

You felt like just someone
that was going to be important.

Yes, I was scared and I had fears,
but I wasn't ever going to let them

dictate how I treated you,
the things I felt for you.

I just care about you that much, you know.

And I don't want to make this harder
on anybody than it needs to be.

We have both admitted
having feelings for one another.

There's something there.
We have a connection.

But I don't have the capacity

to open my heart to somebody else
when I am in love with somebody else.

No one could ever replace
the spot you hold in my life.

You're someone who knows me in ways that

so few people have ever known me,
and probably ever will.

I'm going to love you forever.

I'm going to put my emotions
aside for the moment, and

I'm just gonna… take this as this could be
the last time we talk to each other.

You don't want a friendship with me?

No.

-What made you come to that?
-I'm not saying that to hurt you.

I don't think you're trying to hurt me,
but I just think you're a liar.

-Okay.
-You're literally a liar.

That wasn't the decision I had
coming in here, no.

-But hearing what you have to say--
-What was the decision you had?

Things meant more for me
than they did for you, it's like…

-Is that what I just said?
-That's what I'm taking it as.

No, no. I'm saying that there's a lot more
for me that I need to unpack there

because I don't think
I processed any of it.

So don't do that.

What was your proposition
coming into this? What was your plan?

I just wanted to talk about
where we were going today.

I wanted to voice to you what I'm feeling.

-And what I plan on doing today.
-Okay. Tell me.

I got Marie a ring.

Good. Okay.

The whole morning I've been so nervous.
I feel like I'll throw up.

I wanted to see you before I saw her,

because I'm scared
of making the wrong decision.

I'm nervous.

Who are you doing it for?

For her because it's what she wants.

[Mel groans anxiously]

You don't do something like this
for somebody.

You don't marry somebody
because they want to marry you.

You marry somebody
because you want to marry them.

That's what Marie wants.

If it's not what you want,
you're hurting her too.

And then guess what?

You're gonna break her heart
a year from now, two years from now

when you aren't happy
and you sabotage your relationship.

You need to figure out what you want.

Okay.

Okay.

-[Dayna] Thank you again for everything.
-Yeah. You too.

I don't let myself
love other people that often.

Losing Dayna, yes, it breaks my heart,

but I'm at the point
where me forcing myself into her life,

it's just going to end badly anyway.

So I'm kind of in a lose-lose
no matter what I do.

♪ She always saw the glass full ♪

♪ Left things on a good note ♪

♪ Always had high hopes ♪

[Dayna] Part of me thinks
I broke Mel's heart.

There was feelings there.
There was a connection beyond friendship.

But I'm not really looking
to open that door

out of respect for my partner
that I came here with.

♪ To being less painful ♪

Magan is everything to me.

My family, my home, my best friend.

So, I am scared as hell.

I could lose Magan today.

♪ Ah ♪

♪ Love is so cold ♪

Hi, babe.

You look so good.

How was last night?

-It was okay.
-Yeah?

-How about you?
-Huh… It was--

-I ate a whole tub of ice cream. [laughs]
-Really?

I honestly didn't know
how you were going to be, like,

affected after talking to Haley.

It's a long story.
We don't have to talk about it now.

-No, we're gonna talk about it right now.
-Okay, okay, okay.

I basically told Haley,
if you ever want to be friends,

you have to talk about that with Dayna,
and you owe her an apology.

-[Magan laughs]
-Wow.

Do you feel like it was authentic to you,
though, or did you do it for me?

I did it for me, and I did it for us.

And I appreciate you.

-Of course. Yeah.
-And I'm proud of you.

How about with you?

Last night, I found a letter
that Mel wrote me before we left.

There was a connection that we had
that was more than friends,

and there were feelings
that need to be processed,

and we need to let them dissolve.

I've never wavered
in how much I believe in us until now.

That's one time out of all this time
we've spent together.

Yeah.

How are you feeling about us?

I wrote something
that I wanted to read to you.

I wrote something too.

[Magan] Okay.

[Dayna exhales] Here we go.

Hoo! Okay.

"Everyone always says that when I met you,
I changed, and you softened my heart,

but they don't know how much more
you've done since I met you."

"You've completely changed
my entire life."

"You've made me a better person
every day that I spend by your side."

"You've given me purpose
and hope in life and in love."

"When I'm with you,
I know everything will be okay,

as long as you're by my side."

"You make the hard times easier
and the good times better."

"I can't imagine
a world without knowing you,

or how I ever lived without you before."

"I've never felt more safe
than when I'm with you,

and I promise to protect you
and stand by your side

through everything life brings our way."

"I can never begin to thank you enough for
showing me the beautiful sides of life."

"You are my family, my heart, my soul,
and the best friend I've ever had."

"I love you." [laughs]

[Magan] Here's mine.
I wrote it last night.

"I used to define myself
by achievements and abilities."

"I spent so long trying to prove my worth,
so people thought I was special."

"You're the first who saw something in me

when I was going through
some of the hardest times."

"Throughout spending time with you,

I opened my eyes
to a different side of life,

a side that made me appreciate just being
and not filling my time with doing."

"I love my days being with you

and thinking how magical
and special life truly is."

"I want to make my way
in this world with you."

"I want all the first things together."

"First house, first car, first kid,

and a first ring."

"I don't know what life holds for me or
what will happen when my parents are gone,

but as long as I have you,

my family, and my home, it will be okay."

[both laughing]

[Dayna] Baby.

I love you.

[chuckles]

[Dayna] You're worth trying
until there's nothing left.

I couldn't even begin
to think about giving up right now.

Well then, let's do it.

[both laughing]

Mm. Dayna…

will you marry me?

[Dayna] Yes.

♪ Beat back the fire ♪

♪ I've always been brighter ♪

♪ Don't look away ♪

[Dayna] I'm trying so hard not to cry.

-I love you so much.
-[Magan] I love you too.

♪ Beat back the fire ♪

♪ I've always been brighter
Don't look away ♪

♪ 'Cause I'm undeniable ♪

[Dayna] Let's get out of here.

Wait, I have something to ask you, though.

[both laughing]

Magan, I'm not getting down on my knee
because I will bust this dress.

Will you marry me
and spend the rest of your life with me?

-Yes.
-Yeah?

-Yeah. Yeah.
-[both laughing]

♪ When you go to sleep
We're living in your dream ♪

[Magan] Ultimatums work.

With enough pressure,
you create a diamond.

[Dayna laughs]

I'm so proud of you.
I wanted you to stand up for yourself.

-I did. I did that shit.
-You did.

You did. I'm so proud of you.
It's all I've ever wanted for you.

[Magan sighs]
Can we get out of here? Let's go.

[laughter]

[Dayna] I love you.

♪ Holding the focus in your eyes ♪

♪ This is the moment you choose to fight ♪

[Marie] I feel very calm
for Ultimatum Day.

Of course, there's nerves
that are a part of that,

but I was ready to marry her
coming in here.

♪ I'm ready for the world
To come to life ♪

Mel and I have known each other forever.

-I love it.
-[laughing]

[Marie] But Mel and Dayna
had a connection.

Dayna was the first person to see her,
to hear her, which really hurt my soul.

I could lose all of the last four years,

whether it be a business or my apartment,

ties with friends and family.

It's a life that we built together.

[Mel] I think that
Marie has grown a lot in this experience,

and she has proven to me
time and time again she will fight for us

till the end of time.

And I've discovered a lot about myself.

I am open to the idea
of marriage, for sure.

And to me, home is not a place,
it's a feeling,

and Marie always makes me feel like home.

Four years of being together,
it's a daily choice to choose one another,

and every day is different.

♪ Oh ♪

[Marie] We learned a lot in this process.

Quality time doesn't mean
working together.

Quality time is spending time
with one another.

[Marie] We have this great foundation now.

♪ Oh ♪

[Mel] I'm very conflicted.

All the feelings
are happening all at once.

I'm literally still trying to figure out
whether or not I want to propose,

but there's no more time.

-[Marie] Hi.
-Hey.

[Marie] You look lovely.

Thanks. You look beautiful.

I missed you.

[Marie] I missed you too.

I had a lot of words to say,
and now I'm like…

[Marie] I can see it on your face.

What's happening up there?

-Everything. Everything.
-I know, baby.

[Mel] I'm very nervous.

I know.

I did learn a lot about myself…
going through this whole experience.

I'm able to be way more open with you
than I ever was.

I know I was always scared
of, like, hurting you. And--

-Scaring me away.
-Yeah.

I value how…

honest you've been.

Not all of it is pretty.

But it's worth it. You're worth it.

I wholeheartedly feel like
we can get through,

and get over, everything.

You deserve so much happiness.

I really felt very up and down.

There's moments when I'm so sure

I couldn't walk away,
and I didn't want to spend

a day without you.

And then there's days
when I think to myself,

it would be a disservice to you

for us to

try so hard and not work.

It's very rewarding to see how we've grown

since the beginning of this,
knowing where we came from four years ago.

You're pretty special.

You think so?

I know so.

I definitely know so.

[Mel exhales]

Every day with you is special.

Every day with you means so much to me.

[Mel laughs nervously]

You and I have put so much time into this,

and no matter what I'm scared of,

and no matter how scared

I am to do this,
I know I just want to do it with you.

And I feel really lucky
to have you by my side.

[Mel laughs]

You always said
you're the most simple person,

and you don't need
anything insane or crazy.

[Marie] Right.

[Marie laughs]

I got you this Ring Pop.

[Marie] A sour one, no less!

It's lovely, thank you.
I feel like a gangster now.

All jokes aside…

[Mel exhales]

I'm sure today.
I could be unsure tomorrow,

but then I'll be sure the next day,

and then I'll be unsure again,

and I don't want to promise you
that you won't ever have doubts as well.

Agreed.

I just want us
to be able to work through those

and to be able to be there for each other,

and to just know that…
at the end of it, it's you and me,

no matter what that looks like.

-This is mine!
-[both laughing]

[Mel] Marie Angeline…

[laughing]

[Marie] Stop!

Will you marry me?

[sniffles]

Today, every day, tomorrow,
just answer quick,

because I'm going to throw myself
in that lake soon.

Yes! Yes, please.

♪ Oh, it's nice with your arms around me ♪

♪ Quiet and still
Where would I rather be? ♪

[Marie] Ah! [sniffles]

-[Mel] I'm shaking. I'm literally shaking.
-Yeah.

-[Mel] Hey!
-[Marie laughing]

Congrats, my God.

-All right. Okay, these are mine.
-Oh, oh, oh!

That's fine. Enjoy. Cheers.

Hey, what are we cheering to?

Miss? Missus?

[Marie exclaims]

To the missus.
You're my missus now, you old broad.

♪ What have you waited for? ♪

Can you believe I did that?
I'm in actual shock.

♪ You took my breath away ♪

-Did you say yes? I blacked out.
-I did, I said yes.

And you also have lipstick
all over your face, from here to here.

-Come here. Take it off. Take it off.
-[Marie laughing]

That was beautiful, you know?

Did you expect that?

-No.
-[laughing]

I love you.

[Mel] Since when?

Forever.

♪ This is the moment ♪

♪ Everything changes ♪

♪ I'll never be the same ♪

[laughing uproariously]

Yeah!

[laughing]

Cheers, I love you.

♪ There's no place I'd rather be ♪

♪ We finally made it ♪

-To getting engaged.
-We're engaged!

-Can you believe it?
-No.

-I can't.
-I can't.

♪ Now we celebrate ♪

-Cheers.
-Cheers.

To the hottest fiancé ever.

My wife for life, baby, let's go.

[Magan] Gimme a kiss on the lips.

-You haven't kissed me all day.
-I know.

Wait, yes, I did.

-Do it again.
-Okay.

-We're going to throw a banger.
-You're all invited to the wedding.

♪ It's on
See you later ♪

We're going to have rich sex, drunk sex,
we're going to have fiancé sex.

-[Britney laughs] Period.
-All of the above.

-D, all of the above.
-All of the above.

-[AJ] We're going to be together forever.
-I'm excited!

Forever, baby, forever.

-[AJ] Forever ever?
-[Britney] Forever ever?

♪ Once in a lifetime ♪

♪ I make it hardcore
Hurt more ♪

♪ What else did you take me for? ♪

♪ I will buy your soul ♪

♪ Make you doubt the things you saw ♪

♪ Hey, oh ♪

♪ Don't you know I'm cold
I'm a hailstone ♪

♪ Yeah, that's how I roll ♪

♪ The flood, boy ♪

♪ You can't escape it ♪

♪ Hardcore ♪