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If you think swingers are something out of 70s movies and back -of -the -rack

magazines, think again.

These days, couples from all walks of life are embracing the lifestyle, and

they're changing the way people think about marriage. I'm standing outside a

luxurious mansion with some sexy, very happy couples.

are having the time of their lives.

Now a new couple who's never done anything like this before is about to

on the action, too.

Take a look at this.

Hi, I'm Daryl. Nikki.

And we're from Barfield, California.

We've been married for seven and a half years.

I am very happy with my current sex life.

I always wish I could have more.

It feels like to have sex five times a day, every day.

I'm looking for just overall sexual raw energy, like fun, excitement.

I'm interacting with guys and girls, so I'm pretty open.

We're here to find out if it's cool or not.

I'm giving Daryl and Nikki an exclusive pass into the hot, passionate, clothing

-optional party going on inside.

Can they really share their partner with someone else? And how will it affect

their relationship?

I'm Anna David. Hold on tight.

This is Twig.

Well, I think this is like a big step for us.

I think it's going to be awesome.

It'll be just another day in paradise.

It was Daryl's idea to start swinging.

I thought he was crazy. There's no way. You know, what am I doing wrong?

I'm really nervous and scared, wondering what these people are going to be like.

You know, I'd like to see you get pleased by a guy. I think it's going to

awesome. The group dynamic, definitely the whole girl -girl thing.

But overall, I'd like to see you just...

to be yourself and have a good time. That's really what this is about, us as

couple. After having a couple of kids, I was kind of looking for extra stuff to

spice up our relationship and marriage.

So I kind of came upon this whole swinging thing.

After a year of talking to her, she kind of gave me a good thumbs up, said,

let's try it.

Ultimately, I guess it was my decision, but since it's a team effort, I couldn't

have done it without her.

Honey, we're home.

We're here. Are you ready?

Ready as I'm going to get.

Let's do this.

Hi.

I'm Anna. Nikki.

And you must be Daryl.

Yes, ma 'am. Nice to meet you both.

How are you guys doing? Good.

Outstanding. Outstanding. Outstanding.

Any nervousness? Any butterflies?

That's why I'm so outstanding. I'm just bundling nerves right now. You're

outstandingly nervous? Yes.

There's just one thing.

Before I let you loose in the house, we need to talk about something. So you

want to follow me?

Yes, ma 'am. All right. All right, let's do it.

I introduced you to the lifestyle because that's kind of where I knew I

to be always.

Funny because you didn't really introduce me. You just kind of threw me

It's a good thing I'm a good swimmer.

So, what I have here is a contract.

Okay. And we're going to sign it, and it basically says that, you know, you give

each other permission to hook up with other people while you're here.

Right now, we're on the threshold of something that a lot of people dream

a lot of people fantasize about. And here we are, ready to take that step

the threshold.

One of you want to actually read it out loud?

I'll do that.

We have agreed to take part in a sexual venture over the next two days, during

which all the normal rules of a monogamous relationship will be

aside. We promise not to hold what happens here against each other once the

venture is over. What happens in the swing house stays in the swing house.

Daryl and I have been together for almost nine years.

Coming to the house, I was really scared, not knowing what was going to

I'm hoping for just overall good time with a bunch of different couples.

Any special rules we have for each other during our time will be written in the

space below. We hope to have fun and explore everything the lifestyle has to

offer, knowing that the ultimate goal is a stronger, healthier, more fulfilling

relationship. Okay, so do you have any of these additional rules? And if so,

you write them in the space there?

Same room. Same room until we're comfortable?

Mm -hmm.

No taking one from the team.

Yep.

And then sign at the bottom.

I'm going to hold on to this.

So, why don't you guys, you know, go up to your room, get refreshed, do what you

want to do, and come downstairs. I know the other guys are excited to meet you.

Ready to do this?

Yep. All standing.

Huge. Awesome.

This house is amazing.

It's huge. It has a lot of things that I would like in my own personal house, so

I'm ecstatic.

Are you nervous?

I get nervous meeting new people anyway, even when I'm just being myself, and

these people are going to see me naked.

We're going out to meet the couples.

We're excited. We're nervous, wondering what these people are going to be like.

Rock and roll.

How you guys doing?

I'm Nicoletta. Nikki.

Nikki, nice to meet you. I'm Daryl. Hi.

I felt comfortable once I got out there. All of the couples that were out there,

they were all very good looking. There was no weird vibes.

They just seemed like a great group of people.

Hi, Ashley. Nice to meet you. Daryl. I don't really know if my jaw actually

dropped and hit the ground, but I was shocked with the quality of people.

single woman there is outstanding.

And I stared at everybody's ass and tits.

Probably was annoying.

Probably wouldn't do a very good job of peeking.

More of like a... Darryl, it's Clayton. Nice to meet you.

Hi, Amanda.

Hi. I'm Black Guy 1. Black Guy 1.

I'm Early. Nice to meet you.

He's Early. I'm Clayton. Nice to meet you. You too? Darryl. Nice to meet you.

Amanda. Amanda. Nikki.

Nice to meet you.

I'm Mike. And you're Black Guy 2? Darryl.

The first time we met, Nikki and her other half, They walked out the door. We

all waved hello.

I gave them a quick glance.

And as she swept her eyes across the whole crowd, she looked at me for a

second, but she didn't stare at me. And then she looked away.

The lack of eye contact is what gave her away.

So that the next time we made eye contact, I could totally read her

her thought was, that guy I would do.

So how long have you guys been together?

We've been married seven, but we've been together nine.

Nine days?

Nine years.

Are you confident in your ability to communicate together and to be open

things are happening?

First thing I know about Kristen, blonde hair, very gorgeous body and eyes and

she had a good smile.

She was very open and warm.

You know, are you wanting to do more girl action or are you guys okay with

exploring couples?

I think we're pretty much open to... Or just good old -fashioned orgies. Just

about anything. Pretty open to...

Like I said, jumping head first in the water. Hopefully we don't hit our head

the bottom of the pool.

What about you guys? We have a couple. No fish hooking, no eye gouging.

I think at one point in time we talked about no kissing, but then we're like...

Kissing and sex is like peanut butter and jelly. It kind of meshes together.

Okay,

so I'm taking your drink orders really quick.

Anybody need anything?

Can I order a dirty leprechaun?

Don't forget that Jeff, the body painter, is inside with his assistant,

So as soon as you guys get a chance, go get painted.

And he's amazing.

Awesome. Sexy body painting. I've never seen it done.

I've seen pictures online.

I've never seen it before in person.

But I like a room with full sexual intention and a pool of cool people.

what I had envisioned.

You know, when a new couple comes in and exploring fantasies with them, it's

just so much easier if they're confident enough to say what they're looking for

and to say what they want.

They know that we're more experienced and that we're apt to help them achieve

that. And not only...

Telling us their fantasies, but also discussing between each other before so

it's not a surprise to them when You know I want to be tied up comes out and

other partner just freaks out and and knowing what their boundaries are and

bringing it up to us correct and Letting what happened happen?

The first shocker for me is when I looked over and there are girls naked,

completely fuck -ass naked.

It was extremely smoking hot.

All right. Okay.

Get you started.

So we get inside, and Megan sits down to nothing real quick. Now, I'm used to

that. But Daryl, he was like... I thought it was the funniest

thing I ever saw.

Sometimes when you have new couples in this environment for the first time, you

have to take them by the hand and leave them. Megan and I have done that for a

lot of new couples.

We really like doing it, and we are really good at it.

As the other girls were getting body painted, at that time I was not hoping

it was me because I was feeling nervous.

And halfway through playing with them, you could even be like, I'm sorry, I'm

not really feeling it. Like, I thought I would.

And nobody's going to judge you. Nobody's going to be like, oh, well, you

Or if you even just say no.

All the girls had a lot of good information about the whole swinging

After talking about it, I loosened up.

Some of the newbies, when they get into the lifestyle, they come not of any

fault of their own, but with their roles, they never pass this.

And they're all in anticipation.

It takes an awful lot of time to break. It takes time to get past that. It

really does.

Everybody asks that same question. How do you deal with the jealousy?

Jealousy is an emotion based in insecurity.

Plain and simple. Or trust.

Well, it's either insecurity in the relationship or insecurity within

themselves. So, yeah, lack of trust is an insecurity in a relationship.

Absolutely. You're not secure.

Who's next?

Nikki is next.

Nikki, you said you're next.

Are you going to get body painted?

Yeah.

Have fun.

I've never been body painted, and I was really nervous, but it was an experience

I didn't want to miss.

You ready? Yeah. Okay.

After having a few drinks, I felt really comfortable getting body painted. I

took all my clothes off. Don't worry, honey, it won't hurt.

One thing that's been really important to me as a body painter is the person's

comfort level and what they're real comfortable with. You can usually tell

off the bat.

If somebody wants to get naked, they'll just stand there, get naked, and boom,

they're right on the table.

So what I'll do is if somebody isn't too sure whether they want to be naked,

we'll paint the top first, and then ask for comfort. If she starts to feel more

and more comfortable about it, realize what the body paint is, and we kind of

progress on it.

I go down there looking at her, watching the brush, and paint her form a little

bit. It was awesome. The girl's being completely naked.

But you're not really seeing anything because everything's all painted. It's

very hot.

Swing's all about you.

It's about you as a couple.

You're the most important part of Swing.

Because without you being a couple, it's just another single part.

So you guys having a good time so far?

Yes, it's very fun. I enjoy myself.

After getting naked and getting body painted, I felt really comfortable

all the girls were naked and body painted as well.

I know, like, when we first started talking about it, she was, like I said,

they, moms don't do this.

When she relaxes and she's herself, she's awesome.

Now she walks around naked, so, yeah. You know, people have their little boxes

sometimes, and they can't escape that box. They're going to try to make you

bad about yourself, you know? And that's just, when you say, oh, I'm a mom, how

do I feel?

Are you still a person?

Just because you had kids, just because you have a family.

It doesn't mean you're not a person and you don't have things you like to do.

Just because you're a mom, it doesn't have to define you. You can still fish,

ski, have group sex, whatever you like to do. That is true. It ain't no

different from baseball practice or any other thing you do as a family. It's

just a different thing you like to do.

So I got a plan.

Now I just have to go out and execute it. As long as Daryl's cool with it,

will be a very interesting night.

You know, life is short.

May not have a lot of time in the future.

I know what I'd like to have happen tonight.

I'd like to get to know Nikki in the bedroom.

So in the world of Karen, there are always three P's.

Patience, persistence, and perseverance.

And three P's will get you four.

And that's whatever the fourth P you want it to be.

Prosperity, pussy.

Okay, guys, so it's time to get ready for the night. You're going to go

upstairs, do your last touch -up, and come back down here when you're done.

Ready?

I think people in the lifestyle definitely have...

at least 10 times more sex than vanilla couples because we appreciate it more

and we keep it interesting and we know how to spice it up.

Even if it's the same person, after you've been with somebody else, it

feel like the same person when you go back.

I can see us having fun with anybody. I mean,

I guess it's kind of broad in general, but I think... Earlier in the day, Daryl

had actually planned Garen out and was like, yeah, you think he's cute and

you're going to hook up with him.

And I'm like, okay, yeah, whatever.

But he was cute.

How about you?

I thought that's all of them.

That's a top -out answer.

Really happy with the communication level that this couple has.

He definitely knows how to communicate with her more, and I think that if

they're uncomfortable with something, I'm thinking they're going to be more

comfortable voicing it.

You know, I sat down and talked to her, and she actually seems pretty confident,

pretty straightforward.

She seems to be okay with everything.

I didn't get a sense of any boundaries with them other than they want it to be

fun, and as long as it's fun, they're fine with it.

Got any idea what you think is going to happen tonight?

Um, I think it'll happen a little bit, maybe role reversal, where maybe you

can just jump in the middle and I'll just stand in the back. Because I don't

feel like she's really in the girl.

I don't know where it's going to go, but I do know at some point. Once I've got

the all clear from her guy, I'm just going to walk up to her and take her by

hand and see if she follows me.

But I just got this really strong feeling that she'll follow me.

Do you have anybody picked out or is that on?

Sometimes we go to a party and nothing happens and that's okay. We have fun

about anywhere we go. So it doesn't really matter. And that's kind of what

focused on. So you may go to a party and nothing happened.

You may go to a party and just flirt all night.

You know, if we go to a party with expectations, that's where we found that

have issues, that we get upset.

If you go in without expectations and you just let things happen the way they

naturally will happen, and your focus is just having a good time, you'll end up

having a good time. And if it ends up going somewhere, fantastic. But if not,

get to go home with him.

Okay, so you guys ready for your first night in the lifestyle?

Yes, most definitely.

And how are you feeling? Are we, like, excited, nervous?

I think I'm a little over the nervous bug and more excited now.

So, see anything you like around here?

Most definitely.

Well, remember, this is not window shopping. You actually get to touch.

You have to live with what happens. You don't get to, like, wake up tomorrow

morning, have an extra person in your bed, and go, what the hell are they

here? You know what I'm saying?

Only if you drink too much, you'll remember it.

May I propose a toast to a night of indecent proposals?

Outstanding. Cheers.

Cheers. Cheers.

Have a blast, guys. And who knows, maybe even more than one blast.

There you go. Right now, I'm feeling...

I'm excited.

Hey, I think it's a good time for us fellas to adjourn to the living room and

let's let the girls give us a nice little fashion show with their new body

paint. Okay.

Sounded like a plan.

Sounded like a good idea at the time, but then I got really nervous and didn't

want to do it.

I was still just really nervous.

Megan,

she has an outstanding body.

Pan everything's where it's supposed to be and you know, so it's outstandingly

awesome.

Ashley is probably more my type than anybody. She's a petite blonde.

Yeah, definitely more my quote -unquote type for Miss Ashley.

I love fashion shows. Seeing sexy ladies stretch themselves is my definite idea

of a good time.

Nicolette seems gorgeous.

The blonde hair, the tall, just awesome personality. First impressions, just

amazing.

I was really nervous about the fashion show, and I didn't want to do it, but

Kristen helped me out, so I walked out with her.

I felt weird just because I was the last one. I think I'd have been better if I

was mixed up in the middle of it.

Attention, everybody.

We're going to play a game. We are going to mix Finn the cock and Jack Finn the

hat. All right.

So Nikki looks really good in her body paint, but it's obvious she's a little

nervous. Hey, that happens sometimes.

But once she settles in, once I flirt with her a little while and break that

ice, I'll move in.

Okay Have

someone

lick and suck one body part you choose Wow

Okay, I choose Megan to lick

Amanda's pussy

It was sexy seeing another woman to another woman.

It was actually hot.

Seeing that go on like live action porn is pretty awesome because they're both

pretty smoking hot and the only way it could get better is if my wife was

involved in it.

Give the gift of one free blank to the person of choice.

Whatever you want, you get to give to one person of your choice.

Slow job.

I get to give it, so you say I get to fuck you in the ass?

So it's good to see that Nikki's not as nervous

now. She's in a much more playful mood.

Like the way this is going you're starting to float a little more and have

fun

This one is my favorite.

Ride the Sibian or command someone else to do until they

orgasm. This is my favorite toy. Who wants to go Sibian?

I will make it cream tonight.

Seeing that go on, like, it's outstanding.

It's better than TV because it's all 3D.

That's hotter than just about anything else I can think of.

On top of this?

Yeah. Okay.

During the game, Garrett kept rubbing his feather on me and tickling me, and I

thought that was a form of flirting.

At that point in time, I was excited. I thought it was hot, it was exciting, and

we should do it some more.

So everyone gets real quiet watching Ashley and Nicoletta do their thing.

It's a huge turn on, so I'm really ready to take this thing to the next level.

Oh, oh, yeah.

Oh, oh, oh.

Oh, oh, oh.

Oh, oh, oh.

Oh, oh, oh.

Oh, oh, oh.

I believe everybody's well on their way to get hot and heavy. Like for me, I

know it was a good start. I am ready to go.

I'm hot and bothered. I love you.

So the

next plan of action is giving Nikki what she wants.

So I'm going to have to find Daryl and sit down with Daryl and explain to him

what's going on.

But first, I always ask the guy's permission.

Like, you know, is it cool that I pursued your idea?

Why possibly?

Okay, see, there you go.

That's the most important part. Make sure you know how he feels.

I was a little shocked when Garen had said that.

I was kind of freaking out. I was like, wow, it's really going to happen.

If you could give us a little time to talk about it, and we'll get back to

sir. Perfect.

That is perfect.

Are you digging it?

Are you digging him?

Oh, yeah, but I'm not going to leave you left out.

I mean, I'm cool with such the group thing.

Let me know what you're looking for, you know, what you want, and then we can go

from there and let him know.

Okay. Deal? Yep.

We had talked, and we decided that Daryl was not okay doing one -on -one, that

he wanted to do the whole group dynamic.

We're cool with it.

Our biggest thing is I don't want to be left out, she don't want to be left out,

and she's not sure if it's going to be a group thing or a one -on -one. We like

to group it. Okay.

I don't want to go play without my friends.

I was longing for the whole party to be in one place. Oh, yeah, no, no, no. It's

much more fun.

She didn't want me to be left out because... Oh, of course not.

I don't want to be left out either, so... My girl, she's pretty much 90 %

lesbian, 10%.

whatever so That's all that you'd have to try to cut your own.

I'm gonna be a lot easier to do It's a really gross award to that, but that's

what the whole group thing is. Yeah, everybody does things at their own speed

You know we all have a good time I'm glad we can see eye to eye I like this

my speed Alright,

everybody we've come to the conclusion that we're all gonna take this party

upstairs to the bedroom upstairs

And have a good time, just like our game.

Sounds good.

When Daryl and Garen had come down to tell all the girls that we were going to

go back upstairs, at that point in time, I was excited. I thought mine and

Daryl's fantasy was going to come true.

We get upstairs.

Megan's not shy.

She throws me down into bed, and she immediately starts to give me a feast to

see it, and they realize, okay, we'll get comfortable and get started, and so

they do the same, and we're ready to get this party started.

So here we go. Megan gets things started like she always does.

And when the time is right, I'm going to get Nikki and I'm going to show what

the lifestyle is really all about.

I did bring a towel.

We really didn't waste any time.

We just got right down to business.

There were three couples on our bed. It was hot. And at one point in time, I

were on the bed. Me and Daryl were messing around.

And then me and Darren started messing around.

I am into the whole oral sex group pleasure thing.

Everybody was having a good time. My wife started moaning like she was giving

head. I knew she was enjoying herself, so it was even more of a turn -on for

Nikki's giving Daryl head, and I'm laying next to them, and I'm kind of

on her, letting her know I'm there, and really just letting them experience the

experience of being not alone while having sex.

So we're all good.

Everything's a go. We just got to keep him comfortable, me comfortable, her

comfortable, and most of all, Megan comfortable.

Thank you.

Me and Garen started fucking, and it was awesome. He has an amazing body.

Nikki really let loose. She kind of let her hair down, so to speak. It really

got kind of wild, and we both drifted off into some really good sex.

This is a fantasy that she had, two guys and her, maybe even a deeper fantasy of

the big black cock.

And this is what we're about. We're still in fantasy and having a good time.

Right now I'm feeling I have to work with the team because Clayton and

they got so hot and bottled they wanted to have their own sex instead of sharing

with everybody.

I was hoping for...

the whole group thing you know maybe maybe give me get another female on my

well i can go down to her i probably failed to try to close the deal

but i'm a happy person so i kind of i think the whole time it was hot

um female life get pleasure karen ramon is a very very awesome thing for me

because her fancy coming true tonight was

An awesome gift just for myself.

Even if it's something I can just give her one night.

How do you feel about last night?

Last night was interesting.

A lot went on, a lot of cool stuff.

Still kind of processing, trying to figure out where everything fits in.

Last night was bittersweet. Not meeting my ideal foursome kind of was a downer.

On the bright note, my wife got to achieve one of her fantasies, which I'm

ecstatic for, and I'm sure I'll hear more stories about it later on when we

home.

Kind of took one for the team so to speak there's only like three people for

people upstairs that I guess maybe he even heard that we're all coming up here

and It's just so happy. They were just into women.

I don't know I think how the The dice landed who hooked up with who and it's

I enjoy watching and seeing you With the other guy and also with me same time,

you know, too.

That's just pretty hot

I really don't feel like I took one for the team. I really don't. There's going

to be some fantasies that I may not be involved in.

She may want to tie me to a chair and make me watch, which is cool.

I respect that because I know she has fantasies about women, and sometimes

women with me involved or women with just women.

She's cool with it, or I'm cool with it.

I absolutely did not take one for the team. I really didn't.

I do wish that maybe some kind of action.

Why? Because you get that at home.

But it's still very nice.

If you're not getting anything added, then it's kind of pointless.

Even being with you, I'm not doing this to replace you, so it's not like you're

not doing enough for me. You could just sit at home and be the babysitter, and I

could go out and have fun.

And this experience, I learned that Daryl is a lot more open to

things than I thought.

I figured he'd be somewhat jealous, but he seems not to be. I love you. I love

you, too.

She needed somebody to lead the way. That's what you're really good at,

When you told her that she wanted you in the bar, she was like, nuh -uh, nuh

-uh, nuh -uh.

And her husband was like, stop lying.

And you could just tell I was They were like in middle school.

Who wrote the do you like me, yes or no letter?

They communicated really well, both with themselves and with me. They didn't

have hang -ups. They were really good with each other, which made it really

easy. It's just they were so good with each other.

Everything else was simple.

That was an experience she wanted, and so he gave it to her. Any guy can give a

girl a diamond ring, a car.

whatever it is that's monetary, but not every guy can give that girl another

guy. Or it's a big smile on their face and say, hey, is there something we

get at home or buy at the store? I brought home the bacon last night.

You sure did.

And we're eating it this morning.

Morning. Morning. How are you guys?

Wonderful.

How was last night?

Good. It was great. Pretty awesome.

Good.

The thing about something like swinging or any kind of fantasy, it's like you

have the fantasy and it's one thing, and then actually feeling it may have

stirred up some emotion.

Either way, downstairs we have a relationship expert. She specializes in

and she's going to talk to you and help you sort out everything that happens.

Sounds like a plan.

Okay, good. And after that, you get more time in the house.

Outstanding. Ready?

Let's go.

If you're thinking about this as a fantasy situation, and sometimes fantasy

isn't as great as reality, this is going to fast -forward your relationship.

You're either going to grow and be really committed with your relationship,

you're not, because you know what people, their general intentions are.

want to have sex with you guys.

I mean, they want to play with you guys. It'll help you see your partner a lot

better.

Welcome, Daryl and Nikki.

I'm Dr. Lori Buckley, and I'm a therapist who works with individuals and

around relationship and sexual issues.

So I know last night you were able to explore some fantasies. What were your

expectations before you actually got here? When we came here, it was kind of

just like almost like a preview.

Okay, maybe like an experiment. Yes, that's a good word for it. And whose

was it?

It was his.

Yeah, and when he first told you about it, what were your thoughts?

Are you crazy? Like, what am I doing wrong?

Like, you know, like... Wide -eyed enough.

Yeah, yeah. That type of thing, you know? Yeah. What was it like for you

night?

It was a lot last night. It wasn't what I expected, I guess.

Seeing her with, like, another guy, it was hot. It really was. You know, got

motor running.

And then later on, the old questions pop in. You know, was he better, you know,

bigger or smaller? Just kind of... Those aren't really normal, common concerns.

Yeah. No, she's not going to leave me over her penis.

When one just does, I'm always top dog.

Now it's like, am I really top dog anymore?

Yeah. So in the moment, it seemed fine. Yeah, it was awesome. You were actually

aroused by it. Yeah, and then when you started thinking about it, then you had

those insecurities. Nikki, what's that like for you?

I felt bad last night just because he didn't think anything. He got stuck with

me, which, you know, it probably isn't a bad thing, but, you know, he gets that

all the time when he wants something different, you know?

The way the cards fell that night just... All the girls went somewhere

Maybe they're not attracted to me.

Maybe I just can't close the deal. But until I get my half of it or whatever, I

won't really know if it's something that we want to do. Like watching her last

night, we could do that again. It'd be awesome.

But I just don't want it to be where I'm always like the third wheel.

I feel bad because I feel like he's not really getting, I guess, the whole

benefit of the whole swinging thing.

So you won't feel so bad if he's able to be sexually pleased by another woman?

No. Do you feel bad now that you had sex with another guy?

I feel bad because he didn't get any attention.

So you feel bad for him? For him, yes.

You don't feel bad about what you did?

No. Not at all.

I can see it sounds like you're both open to having some other experiences.

And if that should happen, to make sure that, again, you two are really

communicating. And just go out there and enjoy the rest of your time here. Okay.

Thank you. You're welcome.

Sandy, how are you? Yeah. What time did you guys end up going in last night?

Probably about 3 .30. Yeah.

So did you guys have any concerns or issues from your night that you had to

through?

No, not really. I didn't.

We enjoyed it. I have no regrets last night.

It's all about experiences.

Some are learning experiences. Some are just experiences. You sit back and go,

ha, ha, ha, ha, you know.

And it's fun for you guys to have this experience.

It is.

I'm glad I came.

I'm glad you came.

Even though we decided not to do it, I'm still glad I came, because at least by

then I'll know it's not for me or it's for me.

I'm glad you came.

Me or... Both of you. Oh, God. You never know where you're going to find a

friend. Nikki and Daryl came here looking for that something special, and

to give it to them. I got to have sex with Nikki and have a great time, and he

got to watch her have sex and probably do some things with me he's never seen

before. It was just a great night all the way around. When new people come

the lifestyle, I think there's a dynamic that they don't understand yet. When

you're married, your spouse's emotions are now number one to you.

So when, you know, I could be getting really turned on and I could be having a

great time and I look over and I see my husband and he's not playing. We're not

feeling it. He's not having a good night. It doesn't matter what my

at that point in time.

His emotions are number one and I need to cater to him.

And unfortunately, sometimes what happens is because I need to cater to

then to me, other people can feel shunned or hurt.

So initially, like I kind of didn't even allow myself to really get into what

was going on last night just because I'm thinking of how is this going to work?

How are we going to make everybody happy here? And so I had to cater to him and

say, okay, we have to pull back.

no matter what I might be feeling. Kristen said that just because a woman

attracted to me, but it may not be me, but it might be just an issue with her

husband that they have a rule that she can't play with me even though she wants

to just because of this issue that's going on with their significant other,

which I took to heart because sometimes I take it personal.

You never know what the dynamics are.

Generally, the hardest thing is to learn to not take things personal.

and it's really, really hard to do. Sometimes things hurt, and you have to

you know, I am a good guy.

I'm married to a great girl, so there probably was something else going on.

But you still look in the mirror and go, yeah, that's probably not me.

Daryl did not get any action, and it comes out that, you know, there's some

personal issues that the couples are going through, and so it wasn't nothing

do with Daryl, and I think that made him feel a lot better.

Hello.

Hi.

How is everybody?

Good. How are you?

I'm good.

Alas, I'm the buzzkill.

Yeah. It's time for you guys to sort of say your goodbyes to everybody. Time for

you guys to say your goodbyes to them. And then you want to meet me out front?

I'll see you soon.

When Darrell had first talked to me about swinging, I thought he was crazy.

was never going to happen.

but actually as an experience in it, I think it's going to be a great thing.

communication is there.

You're able to go out and have fun and have sex with other people without being

jealous and just without cheating.

All right, darling.

We'll see you guys.

Say goodbye to the couple. It's kind of sad.

They're not afraid to hide anything.

They're not afraid to flirt or, you know, have a good time.

Just to be themselves and be honest with each other. Thank you for sharing your

beautiful... I had a lot of good conversations with everybody. I'm not

call any of these folks my friends at all.

Nice meeting you guys. Bye, guys.

Okay, there's just one more thing before you guys go back to your regular life.

I have the contract that you signed when you got here. Remember that? Yes. Gave

you permission to hook up with other people. So do you want to tear it up

million little pieces, forget any of this ever happened? Do you want to put

in the family album?

I guess what I'm asking is, was this a fling, or do you think you want to swing

again?

I thought you were going to swing.

Well, thank you, you guys. You've been really great guests. Thanks for having

us. Have a safe trip home. Thank you.

There you go. Yep.

It was a good time. It was an awesome experience.

And I'm glad that we could, I'm glad me and Nikki could do this on a kind of

like a trial by fire basis.

And we were trusting enough to each other, give each other a free pass just

do it. It was awesome.

I guess what I had built in my head, the whole perfect fantasy when it comes to

real life, now it's perfect.

But I enjoyed watching you get pleased.

It was awesome.

It's still a fantasy, but it wasn't, I guess, the main one that I wanted to

fulfill this time. Any fantasies that you fulfilled or didn't fulfill that you

wanted to?

I'm going to have to say mine was not fulfilled.

It's because I wanted to see you get pleased.

Awesome.