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♪♪

- Hi!

- You're doing tequila?

- Gotta warm up!

- Did you bring Gemma?

- No.

- Previously, on "In the City"...

[Gemma crying]

- Since becoming a mom,

my life has been absolute chaos.

- Does Gemma ever eat this stuff?

My dogs love them.

- I would not have been able

to get through this last year

without my girlfriends.

- Is this brunch?

I thought we were going to some kind of fun--

I mean, this is fun but...

[children fussing]

- Just come out in your scrubs.

- No, she needs to change.

- Do you even have anything here?

When I got pregnant,

Georgina was the first person I called.

- Casual clothes, black tie,

and-and in the little sterile package,

bras and underwear. - Wow.

- Black shirt memo.

- It's New York. [laughing]

- I've known Kenny at least ten years.

We had a lot of different mutual friends.

I'm just getting to know Whitney,

but she seems awesome.

- Growing up in Minnesota, I always thought, like,

New York felt so intimidating.

- Yeah. - And people are actually,

like, way more open and nice here.

- She moved across the country before the ring.

You can't (BLEEP) around with this.

- I'm getting "I hate men" vibes.

- I'm just allergic to, like, annoying men.

- I would love to have a baby by 38. Yeah.

- I'd love to do it with you.

- She's moving in with this man,

who's still married. - No.

- You're blowing my mind, right now!

I need you to stop!

I don't even know Danielle's guy's name.

On?

- I was wondering if you might be open

to, like, a lunch.

- Can I think about it?

I'm a little busy these days.

- I know the therapist was like, "Let's meet tomorrow."

- We're moving backwards.

I'm gonna move out, and this isn't permanent.

This is, like, a month.

- I've never heard of a couple physically separating

and using that as a tool to get back together,

but maybe this is what we need.

[horn honking]

♪♪

- New York is a hustle, baby.

All you do, is hustle in this city.

[dogs barking]

- Are you ----ing kidding me?

- This is a New York moment.

♪♪

- I've heard before,

from an agent of mine, about the eleven.

- The angry elevens.

- So, scrunch your eyebrows together for me.

So, those are the 11s.

- Do you see the number 11 in between your eyebrows when--

- I see a lot of 11s. [laughing]

- Kyle gets Botox.

- Kyle's nine years older than me.

- You're right.

♪♪

- Can a guy pull off a mockneck?

Probably not, right? - Yes.

- No, you can, for sure. - This is badass.

- Yeah, it looks really, really elevated.

- Yeah, it's really, really nice.

- All amazing. - These are all the new

sweatshirts with the embroidery.

Is there still time to just have Amanda weigh in?

- Today? - Um, I'll go next door.

♪♪

[music slowing down]

- Is this the best way to pack shoes?

I don't even know.

These are good.

- Should we go say hi to mom?

Look who I found.

- Hi, Miss Ryder.

- What you doin'? [Amanda sighs]

- Trying to pack some of this sh-- up.

- This has gotta be the most organized closet in the house.

- I'm organized.

It's just the stuff that I don't know where to put,

I just don't know where to put it.

Oh, I like these.

Oh, but I need the black ones, also.

After dropping the news to Kyle

and, like, making the decision to move out,

I feel lighter. I feel good about this decision.

I feel like this could be what we need

to potentially save this relationship.

- Are you gonna have enough stuff where you're gonna need,

like, a van, or a truck, or what?

- I have no idea.

Maybe we could pack up your car.

I mean, it's not gonna be, like,

a crazy amount of sh--.

It's like a month long vacation.

- Are you gonna, like, surprise me?

Like, you're gonna keep your key

and just, like, pop in, or how does that work?

- Yeah, I'll just show up at 4 AM and wake you up,

like you do to me all the time.

Do you not want me here?

I feel like you are more excited for me to leave.

- No, you-- that's the opposite

of how I think this has felt.

I think you're-- - Okay.

I mean, we're trying to figure this out, right?

Spending some time apart but, like,

courting each other and dating, again.

- We knew something drastic needed to-to happen.

- Oh, I need these. - I don't think we knew what.

Therapy wasn't necessarily

giving us everything we needed.

Look, I think that there was a side of me

that I felt like we could've kept on continuing

and playing this, like, broken record.

So, I give you props for confronting this,

like, head on.

- Oh, I need these sneakers, too,

just in case I need to run away.

- Run away from your own problems? - From you.

- Wow, okay, harsh.

[horn honking]

[dog barking]

♪♪

- There's so many dudes.

- Yo, that's why we get the hot girls here.

- Is it always like this, like this busy?

- Thursday through Sunday-- - This is crazy!

- It's awesome. Yes, it's awesome.

- Good for you. - Like, such a vibe.

- Oh, my God, congratulations.

- I'm, like, really excited about it. - What an accomplishment.

- I wanted to be in the hospitality business

before I even knew it was a business.

I remember having a party in high school,

and the neighbor came over the next day

and alerted me that he was gonna tell my parents.

And then, before he left, he said,

"But I'm not gonna lie. You threw a great party."

[laughing]

- I told my assistant,

"Yeah, I'm gonna go and meet up with my friend, Gavin."

And I was, like, telling her about you.

She asked if we ever hooked up,

and I said, "No." [laughing]

- Oh! [laughing]

- I thought you were--

- You thought I was going in for the real thing.

- I was like, oh, sh--, it's happening!

Me and Gavin have known each other many, many years.

I met him through Kyle.

We were both in hospitality.

He's the perfect amount of fun, flirty, messy.

Like, I enjoy Gavin's vibe.

I love the short kings. [laughing]

- I'm making you laugh.

- And I love that you get messy.

- I do. - Like, we were giggling

when we were talking to Kenny.

- So much. - And-and I was like,

yes, Gavin, yes. - I was going for it.

Shooter McGavin-- that's what they call me.

[laughing]

- I'm gettin' grilled over here on relationship.

- This is now a panel. - This is a panel.

- This is a panel. - I'm gettin' grilled.

- Wait, so, okay, Kenny. - Yeah, where do we start?

- What is his deal, 'cause I don't really know Kenny

or Whitney? - Yeah.

- He was, like, kind of treating me like,

I'm some sort of, like, man-hater

just because I was taking his girlfriend's,

like, perspective.

In order for you

to move across the entire country,

without a commitment such as a ring,

it's a very big deal.

You can't (BLEEP) around with this.

- I'm getting "I hate men" vibes.

- What you're saying, is probably true,

and he knows that,

and he wants to, like, discredit you.

That's what-- that's-that's his--

- Oh, you think I struck a nerve with him.

- Kenny is my best friend.

He can dish it out, but he can't take it.

- I can't believe my stuff's gonna be here

this week already. - I know.

- We really need to figure out where it's gonna go.

[laughing] - Mister.

- I know.

- I think I have 30 boxes coming.

[whimpering]

I have my workout outfits. I have my seasonal stuff.

I have my coats. I have boots.

- Um... - A billion things.

I'm not really an outfit repeater.

[rattling]

So, we might have to turn that second bedroom

into more of a closet.

[laughing]

- I'm down to let you do your thing

in the second bedroom,

but I want it to still also be a guest room,

like if your sister comes into town and DJ.

Like, Gavin has stayed in that room a million times.

- Yeah, we kicked Gavin out, finally.

- Gavin is-- Gavin's done.

My apartment's virtual,

and Gavin's always had a code.

Gavin used to just show up.

He would walk in, and he'd be like, "Hey,"

and I'd be like, "Hey," and then we'd hang out.

It was kinda like he lived there,

even though he didn't, but that has changed.

- It's out of-- out of respect for me, too.

What if I'm walking around naked?

Like, Gavin can't just, like, walk in.

- Well, he came-- he came home one time, and we were, like,

hookin' up on the couch. [laughing]

And I'm like, "No mas on the code."

How are you feeling with your adjustment to the city?

- It's been really nice, but I think I am,

like, missing that, like, girl time.

It's just weird, like, trying to make new friends,

like, at this stage in life.

- Yeah. - You know?

I did go to get a pedicure with Danielle the other day,

which was nice.

- Oh, man, finally, Kenny, like,

this woman is amazing 'cause it's like--

- Aww, 'cause you've known him a while, or...?

- Yeah, through Gavin.

- It was really nice.

We're just starting to get to know each other,

and I actually learned some things

about her relationship that I didn't realize.

I thought her and Eoin had been together

a really long time. - Okay.

- And, they started officially dating

in, like, April,

and he's been in the process of a divorce,

which, you know, can linger,

and she was kind of saying, like, it was amicable.

- But then she found out about me.

It has not been as friendly.

- When did that relationship end?

- I can't remember exactly, but she did tell me

that he had been kind of checked out

of that relationship for a while.

- Oh, sounds like overlap.

- What do you think about Danielle's boyfriend?

[bell dings]

Do you wanna get to know him or no?

- I think it's weird for me to, like,

wanna get to know him

and then, like, not really talk to her.

I'm just sort of, like,

playing the avoiding game at the moment.

- He didn't tell me we had a VIP here, so, you know.

- Oh, my God!

- It's the boss. - Hi. Can we reach up?

Can you get over there?

How are you? - How are you?

It's been a while. - It's been, like, three years.

How's the baby?

- She's amazing. - Yeah.

- Thank you for asking.

- My next question is, whose side are you on?

- That's not gonna work.

- I don't wanna say, like,

I had a falling out with Danielle.

I just, like--

- We don't need to talk about...

- I just don't need it in my life.

- I don't even want to relive those moments.

That's-- those are in the past.

I gotta get back there.

Good seeing you. - Yeah.

Wait, Robert is the chef. - Did we not know this either?

I was, like, is this gonna be a problem?

I feel like there's a lot that I don't know.

- So, no, yeah, there's, like,

a lot of history between Danielle and I.

At least once a year, she does something,

and I've given her pass after pass after pass.

She, like, asked me to go for a coffee,

and I was like-- - Well, that's good.

Is that like an olive branch?

- I am way more picky about who I give my energy to

these days. So... - Right.

Well, I feel special then. - Yeah, you should.

- It's wild to me.

We've got Danielle that is dating a guy,

and the guy is still married.

Lindsay, who had a baby with a guy

after, like, two months,

and Lindsay's interrogating me

about us moving in together

after hanging out for a year.

And her and Gavin were, like, laughing

and making a joke of what I was going through

with my mom and, like-- - Gavin said something?

- Yeah, he was making, like, (BLEEP) boy comments.

- The stages of grief-- anger, pain, ----in' around.

[laughing]

- Just really rubbed me the wrong way.

If anybody in this scenario knows what I went through

and-and could have my back, it would be Gavin.

Last fall, we found out that my mom had stage four cancer,

and it was out of the blue.

[clears throat]

I struggle to even talk about my mom still,

at this point, 'cause we were just very close.

It was a really difficult period.

Um, Whitney and I were dating, but, like,

I just felt like I wasn't in the place

to-to be what she deserved in a relationship,

and we broke up.

- Sometimes this can happen in dynamics of, like,

best friends and someone getting in a relationship

when another one isn't.

Does he feel like you're not spending

as much time with him... - I don't know, maybe.

- ...and that's why he's, like, saying these comments?

- I-- he's-he's just so bad at using his words

that it's like, I would never know,

until something blows up.

♪♪

- Coming up...

- There are times where I think

Amanda's already given up,

and now she's telling me she wants to

move out of the apartment. - Dude...

♪♪

♪ Let's go flying over mountains ♪

♪ I am now the queen of the castle ♪

♪ If you want to rule with me ♪

- What are you doin', girlfriend?

[cork popping]

Hi!

- Hello. - Guess who's here.

- Is that your friend, Gemma? - It's Eloise!

- Is that your friend?

I literally came straight from the office.

- Say hi.

- I came straight from work. - Hi, Eli.

- But I did remember-- I did remember

the hand-me-downs. - Hi.

- You got some baby Louboutins in there, actually.

- You're giving me baby Louboutins?

- Yeah, you outgrew them.

- This is why we love Eloise's hand-me-downs.

- Yeah.

- Do you want water or anything?

- Wine is good. Thank you. - Okay.

One of those days, I see. - Yeah.

♪♪

If there was, like, a first aid kit for mothers,

bottle of champagne would be in there.

I don't know how any parents do it sober.

- I put Gemma to bed, and I'm, like, wine. Um...

- I smell it, and I feel better.

You're dealing with things that are just so insanely stupid.

The other day, my son and my daughter were painting,

and I'm, like, doing the dishes, and I pop out.

I'm like, why is it so quiet?

And my son painted his penis blue,

which was shocking because green is his favorite color.

[laughing]

I know this is non-toxic, like, organic paint

but, like, probably not good for your scrotum.

- I look at you having two kids,

and I think I might just be one and done.

- One and done-- you did it right.

- Honestly, like, I don't know how I would have

gotten through without you. - You would have been fine.

- No, I wouldn't have. I don't have any, like,

other friends that are in similar situations.

Over summer, no one ----ing knew about anything

I was dealing with

that was, like, very serious, like, legal.

No one at the ----ing Summer House

is gonna understand. Like, nobody has kids.

- What is going on with mediation?

- I don't know. - How is he with that stuff?

Like, do you agree on anything? - We basically--

- Like, school-wise, at least? - Well, we agree on a lot.

- It's amazing that you're supposed to plan

18 years in, like, now.

- My baby daddy and I are near the end

of mediation for Gemma,

and it's been an up and down roller coaster.

You know, we are making decisions

that are very impactful on Gemma's entire future.

So, the sooner we can get through

all of the legal stuff, then the easier it will be.

And, hopefully, that document is just in a drawer somewhere

and doesn't have to ever be taken out.

It can fit in the bottom drawer of my nightstand,

next to the condoms that are never used.

That's the hope and dream for the agreement,

not the condoms.

- I wanted, at one point, when I was still hoping

it would work out, to put into

the custody agreement that we all had to hang out

with each other one time per week

for at least three hours.

I wanted to force family time.

This lawyer was like,

"You can't force somebody to hang out with you."

[laughing]

My relationship with my ex, Bobby,

is in a good place, right now.

Obviously, it's taken a lot to get here.

This is the guy who moved out on me

when I was 30 weeks pregnant and had a toddler to raise,

but I've made a conscious effort to put aside the hatred,

focus on what's gonna be best for my kids

and for my own health.

It's better than planning to buy a ----ing voodoo doll

and stab it every night.

I choose civil and friendly over voodoo doll.

Well, you know, that's still in the back of my head.

Did you do a poopy?

No, okay. Um-- - Is it mine?

Do you smell poop? - No, no, no.

She farts a lot. [laughing]

♪♪

♪♪

- All right. All right.

- Boys night.

- Boys night-- I know.

What's up, D? - How we doin', Kenny?

- How you doin', brother? - Chilling, bro.

- There he is. - Good to see you.

What's going on? [laughing]

- Is this ----ing real? We have good taste.

- Good taste. - That's what it is.

- Gav, you want a shot and a beer?

- Come on. You know that's my drink, bro.

- I-- It is. - Friends that drink together

stay together, all right?

- Boys night. - Yes.

- Oh, you guys just rip one? - Rip-rip the shot.

- Oh, my goodness.

- Drinks on the house tonight, right, Gavin?

- Yeah, exactly, my man.

- Has Whitney witnessed a boys night?

- Whitney has witnessed too many boys nights.

That's the problem.

- I've had nights, but I've been pretty good.

Cleaning my act up.

- Does she-does she get after it?

- Whitney has an alter ego...

- Oh! - ...named Claire.

♪♪

- How is that going, actually?

- She has a really, really, really good friend group in L.A.

- She's gotta have a good one in New York, too.

- I know. It's just difficult

when you are trying to introduce your girlfriend

and have her welcomed by a group of girls,

and there's one girl that's, like,

kinda causing all this drama.

Last time we were here,

Lindsay was, like, hammering me.

I'm like, "Lindsay, we don't even know each other.

You're comin' in hot." - And I was-- I was--

- Were you poking the fire? - I was poking.

We had Kenny in, like, a nice situation.

I know Kenny can handle it.

- I'm saying it's a big commitment

to move across the country for a guy.

- This is now a panel. - This is a panel.

- This is a panel.

- It came across very judgy,

and then she was making comments about, like,

all men, and-and this and that.

She just came across the wrong way.

- Do you think it was projecting or just, like,

asking from a good place? - It was either projecting.

No, no, no. - I will say,

I think she was just trying to be a girls' girl.

- You're rubbing me the same way, honestly,

that you rubbed me that night where it was, like,

it was a dogpile.

Lindsay has her little crew, her little minions,

and for some reason, you were, like,

standing over there with Lindsay.

I am not happy with the way that went down.

You gotta have your boy's back.

♪♪

- Gavin is used to Kenny being in a relationship,

but he's used to Kenny probably having issues

or being unhappy, and,

you know, Gavin's there for him.

Like, "Oh, let's go have a boys night."

I don't think Gavin's used to Kenny in a relationship, happy,

and I think that's-that's what we're-we're dealing with here.

Like, Gavin thinks he's about to lose his boy.

- And maybe I'm being over-overly protective,

overly sensitive. It's a real possibility.

- No, but you have every right. Dude, you love this girl.

- Always defend your woman.

- Lexi's been great, by the way.

She loves-she loves Lexi,

and Lexi's been very, like, she reaches out,

she's welcoming.

"Let's grab brunch. Let's do this."

[horn honking]

[siren wailing] - How are you feeling?

I mean, moving in together is a big step.

- Totally. I feel like it'll just take some time,

but it's , like, an exciting chapter.

I feel like we're in a really good place.

Oh, my God, this is just chaos. Like--

- I know. Like, this is really crazy.

- I've never seen so many fire trucks.

- To the chaotic New York life.

- Literally, welcome to New York.

- We're doing a kind of welcome to New York party.

- That's nice.

- Obviously, we're boys, and we spend time together,

and I want her to feel comfortable

and welcomed in this group. - Yeah.

I mean, listen,

Amanda and I have been goin' through a lot,

and so she probably-- - I've said that.

I'm like, listen. - She-she's almost been in,

like, a-a- a no new friends headspace.

- You know, I'm Team Amanda and Kyle.

- I mean, listen, I'm trying to be receptive

and open-minded about the kind of drastic measures

that we need to take to try to figure out

if we're meant to be.

There are times where I think Amanda has already given up,

and she's just waiting for me to do something stupid,

so she can officially end it.

And now, she's telling me she wants to

move out of the apartment. - Dude...

- She keeps talkin' about, like, this is for a month or two.

- Yeah, listen, Kyle.

Bro, I think that speaks for itself.

I am Team Kyle and Amanda,

but I'm also Team Kyle, and I'm Team Amanda,

if they're not Team Kyle and Amanda.

You need to take the space and see how that feels,

and maybe it feels great for you.

- That ----in' sucks. Let's be honest.

♪♪

♪♪

- Whoa, that was way too much.

I haven't, like, celebrated

someone moving to New York in--

ever, it feels like. - I know.

- My life the last year has been so ultra serious,

and I almost feel like I'm coming out of the other end.

Now, I can have fun. That's all I'm interested in.

- That's called self-love, and you deserve this.

It's time to have fun.

- It's not always easy to get a night out on the town

like I used to.

Yvonne and I are hospitality girls.

When I was 23, I was running the entire city,

opening a club, restaurant, and hotel lounge bar

every single month.

- Between the two of us, you really had

an all-access pass to the city. - I love Yvonne so much.

I just wish that she would remember that I'm a mom now.

- Are you gonna be around, around, like, 11:00?

- No.

- Can you come and meet me for a glass of wine?

- I have a baby.

- She's like, "Yvonne...

I'm a mom." - I'm a mom.

- Sometimes she says yes, though,

but, like, then sometimes she gets activated.

There is a brand-new restaurant opening tonight.

- Oh, my God.

- I'm so excited for tonight.

- I'm actually surprised Kenny invited me.

Andrea was telling me this week,

he's like, "Yeah, Kenny doesn't really like you

because you pressured him to propose."

I was like, what?

- What are you wearing tonight?

- I think I'm gonna wear this brown cocktail dress.

- That's hot. I think I'm gonna do this linen.

I think I'm gonna do the black on black

with the T-shirt.

I think you're gonna love this space.

It's the Campbell Building up in Grand Central.

- I know you don't like to go above 14th Street,

but, you know. - For you...

I'll go anywhere in Manhattan,

maybe not Brooklyn.

- I think it's just like, here's this party

that I'm throwing for you,

so you forget about the lack of closet space

that you have in my apartment.

- So, when's my party?

- You're not getting a party.

- Do you think we'll ever get to the stage

where I don't just have, like, one little closet,

and then your stuff isn't, like, in the living room?

- I don't want this out here either,

but I have a lot of jackets.

I mean, closet space in New York

is hard to come by, right?

You've been here for two months, right?

- I know.

I feel like I can graduate on to a little bit more space.

- I think I've been pretty generous, actually.

[laughing]

- Anyway, how are you feeling about tonight

'cause you-you haven't seen Lindsay since you,

uh, got turned down by her for your date?

- Yeah, turned down is the right word.

I'm just, like, I guess I'm nervous.

I'm anxious.

There's tons of history there, so, like, you know.

- Yeah.

- It makes-- it makes it a little heavier,

but I'll figure it out.

♪♪

- I've never been here. Hi.

- Can I get you started with a drink?

- I think I'm gonna start with an espresso martini.

- I think we're around here.

- That's what I was gonna go with, too.

- Okay. - Done. Perfect.

- Thank you.

Oh, they're here.

Hi! - Hey.

How we doin'? - Good. How are you?

- Thanks for coming. - Of course.

You look beautiful. - Aww, thank you. So do you.

- Hi. - Hi. How are you?

- Good. How are you? - Hi.

- Good to see you, Linds. - Hi. How are you?

- How are you doing?

- How you been? You look sharp.

- Hi. - Hi.

- Thank you for having us.

- Hi. Welcome to New York.

- Hi. How are you? Good to see you.

- How are we doing? Good to see you. - Good. Good.

- Uh, where's Kyle?

- He had to drop something off for work,

so I just came up with Katie.

- Hi, Gavin.

It's so good to see you.

- Too long. Too long. - It's been too long.

- Welcome to New York. - Hey, you look beautiful.

- How was your anniversary?

- We had, like, a really nice time at dinner,

and drinks, and stuff. - Okay, good.

- But, um, I told Kyle that I'm moving out.

♪♪

- Oh, my God, you did.

- But then I explained to him

I'm gonna find somewhere, like, temporary.

- Right. - Like, we're not separating.

We're not calling off the relationship.

- Yeah. - Like, we're still gonna

see each other, dating.

Like, we're gonna have to make efforts

with each other. - Yeah, yeah.

- I was so nervous to say something to him,

but he took it so well.

- He did? - Yeah.

Like, something just has to change.

He's like, "I don't think it's, like, the worst idea.

Like, it's"-- [laughing]

Um, but yeah.

- Hey!

- Flirting versus charming. - Charming.

- Where am I at with--

- You're chirting.

Don't ----ing kiss my girl.

- Gavin's a little sh--.

- Muah! - Nice to meet you.

- Nice to meet you. How are you? - Hi. How are you?

- Frank. Nice to meet you. - Yvonne. Nice to meet you.

- I got ready at the office today.

I used the laser hair removal to shave my legs.

I was like, you know what?

I don't have time to go home, so this is what it is.

- Yo, how we doin'? - How you doin'? How you doin'?

- Ciao! - I wanted to say hello to the ladies.

- Who is that? - What perfect timing.

- Rico Suave with the hair.

- What did he just say?

- No!

Frank, come meet the ladies.

This is Lindsay. - Hi, Lindsay.

- Hi, Frank. Lindsay. - Frank Acosta.

Nice to meet you. How are you? - Nice to meet you.

- You guys were, uh, at my wedding.

- Oh, that's right. - Oh.

- If I think two people are amazing,

and they're single, I try to get them together.

And, Frank remembered Lindsay.

He remembered exactly the dress she was wearing that night.

I thought she was wearing red,

but then she was wearing green,

and Frank knew, and I didn't.

- And he's a great-looking guy,

and Lindsay's great-looking,

so I think it's a good match.

- I can see some steam...

- Yeah. - ...coming in.

- Where are you from originally?

- Michigan-- I moved to New York,

started a milk and dairy company.

- Milk and dairy.

Frank is so ----ing hot.

- But I don't like to party-party.

Do you? - Those days are long gone.

Um, I have a ten-month-old baby.

She's, like, the most perfect baby on earth.

It's been a while since I've gotten,

like, flustered like this.

I'm gonna run to the restroom real quick.

I'll be right back.

I'm, like, sweating a little.

I think Andrea brought this guy to introduce me to,

and I'm drinking an espresso martini

and eating cheese and meats,

and I'm like, I need to go to the bathroom

and, like, spray something in my mouth.

- Let me see.

Oh, yeah, you're good.

- Hi!

Hello. - Hey, how are you doing?

How are you?

- This is a vibe. - Hi. How are you?

- I'm good. How are things? Good to see you.

- Good to see you, homie. - How are you things?

- Good, good, good.

- Thanks for having us. This is great.

- Hey, absolutely.

- I wanna get a cocktail.

What are you drinking? - Prosecco.

- Hi, Lindsay. - Prosecco-- oh, hi.

How are you? - Nice to see you.

Good. How are you?

- Um, okay, so...

- Yeah, now I need one. - Yeah, I get it.

- What is going on, right now?

- Yeah, tell me. What's going on?

- Danielle just showed up-- - What?

- And gave me a kiss on the cheek to say hi.

- Like, what?

She stiffed me for wanting to go out for coffee and chat,

and now she can't even, like, say two sentences to me.

It just feels like I'm a stranger to her now.

It just sucks.

- What is happening around here?

- Next time-- - There is so much going on.

- It's just so sh---y.

She looked at me, and she was just, like, cold as ice.

It makes me so sad.

♪♪

- This is Jackson's best friend.

- As in your dog? - Yeah.

- Okay. - Oh, we're-we're homies, bro.

And he's got the ----ing best hair in New York.

- Can we give you a mullet? - He's on his--

- Yeah, I did. That was an era.

- Kyle just keeps walking right past me.

Does he even know that I'm here?

- Kyle used to be a little more fun with a mullet.

Now, he's like, uh, you know, growing up, being--

- Don't tempt me, Nick.

The place is busy.

Hi. - I know.

Why didn't you say hi to me?

- I-I guess I walked by you.

- I heard you, your voice, right behind me.

I said, "Oh, Kyle's here."

- I walked in and-- - I could feel the vibrations

in my chest of you talking.

I said my-- I think Kyle's here.

- You know, Amanda, she's moving out.

But we're not separated, We're just creating separation.

But it's confusing. This is foreign territory.

I don't know how I'm supposed to act.

- Did you feed the dogs? - Yeah.

- Did you take 'em out? - No.

It's still hard to believe this is happening.

[glass clinking]

- Hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey!

- I wanted to give a toast to Whitney.

We're all here as, you know,

her welcome to New York.

She is the best person that I know

and the best person in my life,

and I'm so excited to be dragging her

across the country to New York.

- On the subway. - We took the subway today for the first time.

[cheering]

She's an amazing woman. To Whitney.

[cheering]

- Go, Whitney!

- I love you. - Whoo!

- Katie, I like that green on you.

- I do, too. - Thank you, honey.

- Green's my favorite color. So...

- Oh, thank you. I appreciate that.

- Is that right? - He's obsessed with it, though.

It's really weird.

Green shoes, green socks, green underwear, green shorts,

green shirt, green jacket, green hat.

- Aww, that's adorable.

I love that. - It's a lot of laundry.

- Do you want a drink? - Yeah.

- Did you and Lindsay get the lace memo?

- No, I don't know. - This is a vibe, I'm not gonna lie.

- We don't talk. So, that would be--

- Can I steal you for a minute?

- Yeah, 100%.

- Fill me in on the ----ing tidbits

'cause I-I've got a bone to pick, as well.

- I was joking 'cause in an-- in an alternative universe,

you and Lindsay would have coordinated a little lace.

- I-I miss you.

- I didn't mean to, like, be insensitive.

- Eoin! - How are you?

Good to see you. - Good to see you.

- How are things? I love your hair.

- I'm trying to broker a common ground.

We're too closeknit for there to be awkwardness.

Just confront her now and squash it.

You own it, she owns it.

- She literally texted me that summer.

She said, "You said something punchy."

- The beach was harsh.

- I mean, we don't even live together, let alone--

- You don't live together? - No.

- You don't live with this man?

- No. - And he has put

a baby inside you? - Yeah.

- And now, she has all sorts of opinions

about how you've carried yourself.

I think Lindsay-- I don't want to say the word "slut,"

but she has opinions on your behavior.

- Before Carl and I got engaged,

she gave him a hand job in the back of an Uber

a week after we broke up.

- The word "boy crazy" has come up.

- Are you ----ing kidding me? - I'm not.

- Are you ----ing out of your mind

bringing this to me?

- Don't freaking shoot the messenger.

- (BLEEP) that.

Now, all of a sudden that I'm in a serious relationship,

you have this laundry list of issues with me

about guys that I have dated.

I mean, to call me boy crazy,

like, I wouldn't be pointing in this direction.

Like, girl...

What did you think was gonna come from that, Kyle?

There's no chance I'm gonna go over and be like,

"Hey, can we have a conversation.

I'm so sorry about everything."

No, thanks.

- Of course.

- Excellent.

You're tan, which means you were out in the sun

without sunscreen, but I'll let it pass.

- He looks great for 45. - Yeah, yeah, so, you're good.

- Really? - Yeah.

- It's 99% genetic, honestly.

My job is the 1%.

- Okay, can we talk? - Okay.

- What's that? Can we talk? Yeah.

- First of all, lovely party, lovely speech.

- Thank you for coming.

- Well, thank you for inviting me.

Um, I did hear that you felt grilled by me

at The Garrett, right?

- That's correct. It felt like you were

grilling me, interrogating me.

You were-- - Was it just me?

- You were recruiting people.

- I didn't recruit people. - Literally, you were,

like, literally, like, "Come over here."

- I was just asking you questions

'cause that's how you get to know somebody.

This is who I am.

Like, I just-- and I question everyone in my life.

I'm a very curious person,

and I want to get to know

everyone's interpersonal relationships.

- I-I wish it felt genuine like that.

You think that that line of questioning was normal,

and everyone ----ing rolling in and piling in--

- It's normal in my life with all of my friends.

- ...was normal? Is it?

Well, I love that for you and your friends

'cause it seems like you have

a lot of disagreements with a lot of people.

It's just like drama, drama, drama,

and it feels like it's just you're creating

these narratives that just are, like, unnecessary.

- No, I call out ----ing truths and facts,

and I'm sorry that you don't like to hear

the ----ing truth.

- You're grilling me about moving a girl

across the country after knowing her for a year.

You had a kid with a guy

after ----ing two months. - You're right.

So, what's the problem about that?

- The problem is, don't project your insecurities

on my relationship.

- I'm not. - It feels like you are.

♪♪

- You're grilling me about moving a girl

across the country after knowing her for a year.

You had a kid with a guy

after ----ing two months. - You're right.

So, what's the problem about that?

- The problem is, don't project your insecurities

on my relationship.

- I'm not. - It feels like you are.

You're telling me that you, and your personal life,

and the fact that you had this relationship with this guy,

and you have a child has nothing to do with the fact

that you are grilling me on-on my commitment level.

- It sounds like you're judging me.

It sounds like you're judging me. No.

- No, I just don't need to be pressed on my commit--

on my commitment level. - You and your commitment level.

Kenny acts like he knows who I am,

and he doesn't know sh--, but I know narcissistic men,

and that's what he's giving, right now.

So, Whitney, good luck.

- You just asked me about bringing someone

across the country without a ring.

- No, I didn't. - I'm like--

Stop with the nonsense. - What I said was--

and maybe you're not ----ing remembering-- was,

"Wow, she moved across the country for you

"without you putting a ring on her finger.

"That shows commitment." - That's a normal occurrence.

- That shows-- no, it's not.

I have multiple girlfriends that would never do that

without a ring on their ----ing finger.

- That's a you thing. - That is--

- Oh, they're still going.

- I don't really wanna step in because I feel like--

- I know. I'm like you, where, like,

it's other people's problems, not mine.

- I obviously wanna, like, stand up for my relationship,

and that's why I stepped into that conversation

at The Garrett when you weren't there.

- But I don't think she's questioning your relationship.

I think she wants the best for you,

and I think she's trying to protect you.

- Why is she trying to protect me, like,

when we know what we're doing?

- Yeah. - And that's, like,

our own decisions and-- - Lindsay-- she's a mom.

She's just like mama bear. - Yeah.

- It's just her personality.

- I just think you have drama that follows you around

everywhere you go.

- Like, I don't have time for drama.

I don't care for that. - Think about it.

You're in the middle of a fight with me

in the middle of Whitney's welcome to New York party.

Is that dramatic?

- You're the one fighting with me.

- Okay.

- Thank you for inviting me.

- I'm glad you came.

♪ We got what you need ♪

[bell tolling]

♪ You know you need me ♪

♪ You know it ♪

- Two-bedroom-- that was my, uh,

highly requested. - Oh, this is nice.

- Primary's this way. - Okay, perfect.

- That's where you're gonna be spending all your time.

[laughing] - Potentially.

- You got a great soaking tub.

- Oh, wow. - Oh, my God!

- No, that's a pool. - Wait, this is a hot tub.

I'm bringing Gemma to bathe in your tub.

- Oh, Gemma wants bathtime.

- No, she can-- she can splash around.

- I'm trying to find somewhere that's, like, furnished,

month to month, outdoor space,

pet-friendly, with a doorman,

and has sunlight.

- Good size primary. - Yeah, and good lighting.

My bedroom, right now, faces, like, a brick wall,

so it's a dungeon.

I wanna wake up with the sun beating on my face

where I leave my house in the morning,

and I have sunburn.

All right, and then there's a second bedroom.

- Oh, my God.

- Also, gets really great light.

You get a little bit of a water view here, too.

- Beautiful, yeah, this gets really nice light.

- More closets. - More closet--

this would be my closet, like a clo-office.

You know, a closet-office situation.

I've never lived by myself before.

The last apartment I looked for

before moving in with Kyle,

our budget was, like, next to nothing.

We were looking for, like, a two-closet apartment,

you know, not even a two-bedroom.

Just, like, give us two closets.

- Oh, look at all the wine.

Is the wine available for grabs?

[laughing]

That's a selling point for me. - [indistinct].

I'll let you guys chat. I'll leave you alone.

- Okay, thank you so much. Yes.

- All right, have a good one, ladies.

- Thank you. - Thank you so much.

- I mean, it's a cool view. - It's really nice.

- Have you talked to your parents at all

about any of this? - Not yet.

- Oh.

- I don't wanna make them worried.

- I get it, yeah. It's hard with parents, yeah.

- Because especially at this point, right now,

when, like, we're really on that brink of, like,

will they, won't they.

I hate change so much.

When I was younger, I handcuffed myself

to our cast iron railings in our house

because my parents wanted to get beautiful,

new, solid wooden ones,

and I did not want them to change them.

But, at this point,

whatever I'm doing has not been enough,

and I need to make a bigger change,

and it's scary.

I just wanna be happy.

I just want to be with someone that, like, adores me.

- He needs to just, like, understand

that you're gonna ----ing lose her

if you don't get it together.

♪♪

- All right, Ryder, I heard you ate bread

out of this trash bag. I know.

You're like, if it's this low, it's fair game.

Not anymore.

All right. [phone ringing]

Hey!

- Kyle Cooke.

- I love when you use my first and last name.

[laughing]

- Well, uh, fancy hearing from you

in the middle of a workday.

- I know. I know.

How are you? How-how was surgery?

How's recovery?

- Um, you know, I'm doing well,

and dad got precancerous melanoma,

and he's having that dug out tomorrow.

- What the (BLEEP)?

- We're looking to 2026 to be a big comeback year.

- All right, same. - Same for you?

- Oh, yeah, yeah, this was a rough one.

I've been open to you guys about the business front

and, you know, some of the challenges

that Amanda and I have had.

We had a pretty rough summer.

I told you bits and pieces of that.

- Yeah.

- And, we've kind of been in this place before,

where even if we have a good summer,

it-it quickly slips into us living

kinda two different lives.

Like, we don't do anything together.

I mean, like, I'm like pickleball,

kickball, traveling.

Like, I'll-- tell me what you want to do.

She wants to go shopping, you know.

- You married me. [laughing]

- That's just weird, ma.

Um, Amanda and I, we're like, all right,

what are we-- what are we gonna do differently?

And-and her idea was some separation.

Well, not like we are separated, but, like,

I think she needs a fresh, clean start,

and I need to feel like, you know,

I can walk into my home

and not feel like it's as cluttered and stressful

as the rest of my life.

She was in the mindset of, like, all right,

maybe we need, like, a month apart.

- Oh, gee...

- She's trying to find an apartment. Uh--

- Ooh, this is big.

Well, we know you've been unhappy, you guys,

for quite a while.

[sighs]

And, uh, you know, I know you also have love

for each other.

So, it's, you know, I feel so sad.

Um...

- I just feel guilty because, in-in-in the heat of the moment,

she'll yell at me and tell me

I-I've wasted ten years of her life,

and, like, I don't really--

[sniffling]

It's just, like, I tried to make it work.

- That's-- yeah, that's not a good thing to hear.

You know, but think of dad.

He was in a ten-year marriage.

He knows what feeling stuck feels like.

He had two kids, so it was really hard to leave,

but he did, and it gave me a chance

to, you know, find him.

♪♪

- This isn't, like, the end,

but it-it does feel like a huge, drastic move.

- I know. - Like, I'm--

it's just-- it-it's been a-a tough year.

- I feel sad for you both.

- I wanna be with you.

- You have the keys to my heart.

It's about time you get the keys to my apartment.

[laughing] - Kyle.

- Your coming out and supporting Loverboy

means the world to us.

Will you marry me?

- Yes!

So, Kyle thinks he may or may not have COVID.

- No, we can't catch a break with this ----ing wedding.

[crying]

- If we can make it through this,

I feel like we can make it through anything.

- You never gave up on us, on our love,

and I promise to do the same.

- I can't wait to spend a lifetime loving you.

[applause]

[cheering]

- There was a period of time

we were building a life together,

building a business together.

Yeah, I just never thought I'd be sitting here alone.

Now, I just feel like a failure.

- You know, I-- I think you can't--

you can't look at yourself as a failure.

The key thing is, sweetie, we want you happy.

♪♪

- Next time, on "In The City"...

- Look at us.

This makes me so happy, right now.

- You guys gotta eventually just, like,

chill out, all right?

- West has been fighting for this his whole life.

[laughing]

- So, you're a master in the streets,

but how are you in the sheets?

- Yeah.

- That was a joke, by the way.

- So, I finally found a place.

It is a year-long lease.

- Kenny told me,

"Sometimes I worry we don't have that spark."

- You moved your whole life here for him.

- And, like, I will move it right back out.