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This programme contains strong language, scenes of sexual nature and nudity

I'm nervous. I'm going to take it one step at a time.

In a world saturated with sex...

I'm absolutely petrified.

...more young adults than ever are living without it.

The thought of having sex with someone... Scares me.

It gives me the ick. I'm missing out.

Terrified. Nerve-racking. Gut-wrenching.

Embarrassing.

All I think about is what I'm going to get wrong.

Can you point to the outer labia?

Nope.

Now... Oh, my God!

...12 virgins are getting a crash course in intimacy.

Social media, porn, dating apps.

There are so many negative messages and we can help them blossom.

Use it by stimulating the area.

They'll be guided by experts...

You see yourself as...? Repulsive.

...to explore all aspects of intimacy...

...and maybe even have sex with a trained therapist.

Do you want to put a condom on?

Or each other.

Get a room, guys!

THEY SCREAM

I really do need to change my life. Who will be ready...

Desperate times call for desperate measures.

...to go all the way?

Horny Island!

Over the past few days on Virgin Island...

I'm slutty Stephanie.

...things got steamy in the seductive phase.

It's not how I thought I would feel. It feels good.

Marianne got to grips with a naked Andre.

I could do this all day.

THEY LAUGH

Can I give you a spank? Yes.

Bertie found his voice in the bedroom.

Thanks for asking.

And Callum and Katie's connection deepened.

HE KISSES

THEY LAUGH

Now... KISSING

...as the group enter the climax phase...

HEAVY BREATHING

...time is running out to fulfil their island ambitions.

A lot of people think climax is just about orgasm,

but climax is actually having a peak sexual experience.

Your partner might be stimulating your clit.

And we want all of

them to have their peak sexual experiences in their lives.

After 15 days...

Ah, the last letter.

...the group are nearing graduation from Virgin Island.

Let's see what the last phase is.

"Prepare for the end of the course as it reaches its climax."

Well, I'm pleased that they took my advice on the pun.

I'm actually quite excited.

This one could be quite a fun one. A lot of the stuff

we've done previously has got me into a confident mood.

Yeah, I'm looking forward to it.

100%.

For me, being on the island, it has had an ending.

It was sex and reaching orgasm.

Um...

Twice.

I wonder what we're going to be doing because it's, like,

have we not?

I mean, I've already climaxed.

THEY LAUGH

While some of the group have found what they came for...

The final phase! Hmm.

...others have yet to reach their goals.

It's going to come to an end soon. I know.

Today has to be positions, right? Surely. No, climax.

We're going to get in front of each other and have a wank.

THEY LAUGH

For the final workshop of the retreat...

Callum, are you ready? Yeah. So ready.

...the experts want the group to realise...

There's actually a literal bed. ...just how far they've come.

Morning, guys. Morning, all. Morning.

All right. The final phase of the course,

the climax.

Climax is really having this peak experience

that you can have in your sex life.

And we want to make sure that you get every tool

that you need in order to do that.

Now, if you remember the very

first demo we showed you at the start of the course,

pillow talk. Mm-hm.

Most of you were like deer in the headlights.

My God, your eyes are so beautiful.

When they first saw the pillow talk

demo, they couldn't even look.

They were extremely intimidated.

It's a bit, "Uh!" Yeah.

So now, with everything you've discovered,

it's time to step up and try it yourself.

I'll go, if anyone's keen. If anyone's keen!

First up, advanced students Alex and Joy.

You look so nice today. No, no. No "nice".

"Beautiful," "sexy"... Like, not anything that's sweet.

That's great. It's important communication here.

You look so sexy today. Thank you.

You drive me crazy. That turns me on. Good.

Move your legs on top of me.

I really want to kiss you right now. Do it.

THEY APPLAUD

It's not just Alex and Joy...

You smell so good. You're giving me the eyes.

...who are keen to show off their pillow talk prowess.

We can get lost together.

Amazing.

But the final exercise will teach the group the ultimate sex tips.

So for your final lesson, we will show you some sex moves.

It's really, really important that they practise with

the different sexual positions to be erotically confident.

We've chosen these sex positions because they're the most common.

Which include one partner on top...

...missionary position.

Also, oral sex is really, really important.

SHE EXHALES

And doggy style.

No-one's going to be doing wheelbarrow out there.

SHE LAUGHS

Mm!

GIGGLING

Who want to start? I'll do it.

CHEERING AND APPLAUSE

After a nervy start...

Put this leg between her legs.

Like this? Yeah.

...Bertie has thrown himself into more and more of the exercises.

Good, good. Perfect.

And it's paying off.

Good. Is this right? Yeah. Very smooth.

I want to get out from the retreat

as much as I can, but so many people just do it naturally.

They know what they're doing. They're confident in themselves.

I just want to be that guy.

HE LAUGHS

Do you want a spank? Always.

THEY LAUGH

Woohoo!

I feel really proud. If you had a strap-on,

it would be a great position for that.

At first they were all hesitant.

I assume.

HE LAUGHS

But they have completely supported

each other through the whole process.

Yeah! Do you want a spank?

Um... I'll have a pat.

It's unprecedented.

APPLAUSE

And for one couple... You ready? Oh, go on, then.

Don't act like you haven't been doing this in the day bed anyway.

THEY LAUGH

...the bond has intensified.

Naughty.

THEY LAUGH

I've always grown up reading, like, sexy stories,

even when I was a teenager.

But the word virgin means you haven't had sex.

But in my head, I know what I like.

OK, take a second to connect.

I don't really want to be intimate with someone I don't know.

When I build a connection up, start laughing with them

and have a fun time with them, that's what I want in the future.

Pull her on top of you.

Ready? Mm-hm. Yeah. Perfect.

Change to missionary and connect your pelvises together.

Yeah. There you go. Perfect.

The next one is going down.

You can flip her into doggy style.

Yeah! Exactly.

CHEERING

How did it feel to do that? I think, like, doing half these workshops,

it just leaves me, like, massively, like, horny all day.

Well, that's great.

Bye!

How do we feel? That was our last ever workshop.

I didn't expect that. There were times when people would say,

"I want to do it,

"but I'm not comfortable doing it with someone in the group."

That was practically my catchphrase at one point.

The sex positions, like, they were a bit awkward,

but when you're

in the mood with your partner, it'll all just flow. Yeah.

For Callum and Katie...

Pew, pew, pew, pew, pew, pew...

...as they near the end of the retreat,

their mutual affection...

Oh, you're funny. I like you.

...is on full display.

I'm very excited to see a budding

romance in this environment. It's beautiful

people feel the freedom to use the skills

and the tools they're learning in the retreat.

That's actually my dream.

I can bloody feel you on my stomach.

It's like that all the time. Don't worry about it.

It's... it's quite a hard life.

Literally.

My main focus moving forward

is obviously getting closer to Katie because,

like, I'm not being funny, I like her.

Stop teasing yourself.

THEY LAUGH

I've never felt this way with a boy before.

I've never been close to a boy before,

but I don't think I know my body at all.

And I have literally no experience.

So I think I'm just scared for, like,

not knowing what to do.

Mm-mm!

SHE GIGGLES

As Callum and Katie get closer than ever,

the experts want to make sure they're properly prepared.

Katie, she has this budding romance with Callum,

which is very sweet,

and I also feel like there's so much more

for her to learn around her own body and pleasure.

Yeah. I want this session to be

about her starting to step into her womanhood,

building some kind of a relationship with her genitals.

Kat, you're going to be seeing Callum today.

And this is your last session with him.

Yes. We're going to be doing clothes off, erotic touch,

and I feel like it's a good place stopping him here

because he has the skills to go forth and enjoy with Katie.

THEY LAUGH

I have no sexual history at all. I haven't done anything.

I haven't ever had an orgasm. When I was younger,

I thought I would have been married and had kids by now.

Multiple kids.

Hello, beautiful.

And I feel disappointed in myself that I haven't

been able to achieve anything that I wanted to.

So have you explored your vagina in any way?

I haven't. With time at the retreat running out...

So what could be motivating about getting to know your genitals?

So I'm able to tell them exactly what I like already.

Yeah. ..Katie's meeting sexological bodyworker Ilil

to learn more about pleasure.

Something that can feel really nice is

if you have your finger in, or your partner has,

and it kind

of might be stimulating your clit at the same time.

Hmm. I mean, just doing that could feel really nice.

I never went to, like, sex ed at school or anything.

So this is, like, totally new to me.

I don't know why I get so uncomfortable over my own body.

Exactly. While Katie has her very own sex ed lesson...

How's it going? Me and Katie, we've hit it off a lot.

How's that feeling? Awesome. ...Callum is responding well

to hands-on therapy with surrogate partner Kat.

What do you feel like you want to do with Katie?

I just want to experience everything that I can in the right way.

I have never touched anyone intimately.

So when it comes to it, the fear is not knowing anything

about it and what to do. OK, so we'll start.

I'll let you kind of lead. It's a lot of pressure.

And, you know, you don't want to have sex

with someone if you don't know how to have sex.

Sex should be something that should be cherished,

not something that should just be a quick form of just getting off.

While you're holding my hand down, start to touch me.

Yeah.

How does that feel, me touching you? Great.

Yeah. Like that.

I think I need more boy knowledge. OK.

Do you want to explore some dicks? Let's do it!

So it really changes from a person to a person.

But usually the parts that have the most pleasure is, like, the head.

So you can kind of, like, go around.

The balls can feel really nice. For some, it's very sensitive,

and for some, you can really squeeze them.

Thank you. You're welcome.

This has been so good.

It's quite scary because it's just very unknown.

But I know what to explore, so it's going to be fun.

I felt you, like, really present and, like, following things.

Good job. Genuinely, I can't explain how much you've helped me.

I never thought I'd be at this point.

Ever. That's amazing.

Like, just to do this alone is unbelievable.

You really have all of the tools you need. Yeah.

It's crazy how much I've changed as a person.

I've actually got closer to Katie.

The heart wants what the heart wants.

It's afternoon on Virgin Island.

This is really good.

It's good? Mm. Good.

While Callum and Katie's chemistry is impossible to miss...

Is it fun, Callum? Yeah, it is.

THEY LAUGH

...Marianne has been steadily

exploring her own connection with surrogate partner Andre.

What I love about Andre is he has

a way of making people feel calmer and relaxed,

and he reads you very well. You arrive with boundaries in terms

of, "I'm just too scared to try something,"

but now it's more just about having fun exploring.

Marianne, she's really embracing her sexiness. She really is glowing.

And you're going to be having a session with her, Andre, today.

She's a very curious individual. She wants to learn about herself.

She's very interested to see if she wants to go even further.

So we'll check in. But there's that potential.

Everyone expects a virgin to be like this horrible,

ugly thing that hides and has no confidence.

But I'm a very sexual person.

I read a lot of books, and I have one fantasy,

which it's a recurring one.

I love the idea of spanking

and maybe having that dominance,

but I still feel as if I have my autonomy.

I'm good and I'm safe.

Knock, knock! Hello.

Though making good progress, Marianne is still setting

her own pace with Andre. How are you doing today?

Doing well. You? I'm good today.

Surrogate partner therapy is structured around consent.

And it's all about their full body understanding

that this is their time and they get to choose.

So today, was there anything

that you came in with wanting to try?

Mm...

Can we try the mutual massage? Mm-hm.

And... possibly a spanking.

OK. So I was like, that's... Yeah.

I love... I love that. How did you learn about it?

You said you know... Books. Books. Read a LOT of books.

And just take my inspiration from that.

I'm like, "Cool. Noted." You deserve to be happy.

You deserve to feel pleasure.

And sometimes that can also allow the building

in of trust and safety

to other intimate connection that we could

potentially share.

To get things started...

...Andre performs a sensual massage.

It feels so lovely. Hmm.

I'm glad you're enjoying it. Mm-hm.

Next...

Can we do the spanking? OK.

...Marianne has some ideas of her own.

Put your body over. Like this? Mm-hm. Yeah.

If you want, you can even lean on it. How does that feel?

It feels nice. OK, good.

I like starting slowly, to just feel your skin.

You feel my hand getting familiar with my touch, waking up the skin.

And I usually like working on a number scale

so I get to know how hard you want to be spanked.

So from zero to five, zero being,

"I didn't feel that at all,"

and five being, "That's the hardest hit I can take."

What is that? That's zero.

How about that. Hmm, two. It's a two?

So we'll stay with the two. Mm-hm.

SHE MOANS

SHE BREATHES HEAVILY

How does that feel?

Really good. Really good? Mm-hm.

SHE LAUGHS

What would feel good to receive in the way of care?

Cuddles.

THEY LAUGH

OK, let's do that.

Thank you for the spanks. Oh.

Why don't we go ahead and get dressed?

Thank you, Andre. You're welcome. Thank you.

That was so fun. And super fucking hot.

SHE LAUGHS

It was nice because I felt really in it and really safe and horny.

Very, very horny.

When I first came, everything seemed so far away.

And now it made me confident in what I'm feeling,

how I can communicate it, and asking for what I want as well.

Hi! Hi, Marianne. Welcome back.

Oh, you guys are back on the bed.

Marianne, you've missed so much. What happened?

Oh, my God. Where do you think

Katie and Callum have gone? On a date?

They're having a special nap. Swear on your life.

Genuinely, they are. With their relationship

the talk of the island...

I'm really excited for this connection.

Yeah? Yep.

...Callum and Katie are keen to spend some time alone together.

In order to make sure that everyone feels safe,

I wanted to check a little bit about your readiness.

Anything that you feel

like it's hard for you to share with each other,

and you want to use me to support you in sharing that?

I think I've pretty much told you everything,

like my worries and stuff. Mm-hm.

Obviously, I had a lot before coming here,

but I've gone through the entire experience.

All them worries and everything that I've felt have gone.

Consent is essential to everything we do at the retreat.

One of the most powerful things is

that we teach people to speak their boundaries.

So when they actually consent, they mean it.

You're both adults.

Always feel like you can say no and say yes.

I'm really proud of seeing both of you really blooming,

and I'm excited for your developing connection.

Thank you. Thank you. You're so cute.

I would love to have a partner. I would love to have a boyfriend.

I have kindness and patience to offer to someone.

I want to do that, and I can't wait to do that.

One day.

I feel like a genuine connection comes from,

you know, meeting someone in person.

I want to see if I can really, actually let it happen.

Oh, fancy.

KATIE LAUGHS

Are you ready? Mm-hm. Take your top off.

You take it off.

What begins as foreplay...

That tickles! SHE LAUGHS

...eventually evolves...

...as Callum and Katie take a significant step together.

MOANING

HEAVY BREATHING

CALLUM LAUGHS

BOTH LAUGH

Oh, my God!

Mm-hm. Mm-hm.

Mm-hm.

When I first arrived on this island, I was scared.

And I was shy and so insecure.

I didn't expect to lose my virginity at all.

But I think it was really a natural

thing because I trust Callum so much, and it was really good.

I'm just so excited to go back

and show everyone this new version of me.

Such a good nap. Yeah. Yeah, sorry.

Very, very good nap. Yeah. We made the experience ours.

We both helped each other a lot, and what a perfect way to end it.

It's the start of the final day on Virgin Island.

Good morning, guys. Good morning. Morning.

Oh, mushrooms. Oh, I like mushrooms. Did you sleep well, Callum?

Mm-hm. Bet you did.

Got a lot of muscle pain today.

JOY LAUGHS

Millie, do you think you'll fit in my suitcase?

If you give me a little bit of room to breathe.

How are you feeling, Bertie, about the end?

It'll be nice to go back

and see my friends and family, but at the same time,

I am going to miss this.

I feel like it's going to be weird, just not being horny every day.

Who says you're not going to be horny every day?

Yeah, that's true.

Ahead of this evening's graduation ceremony,

the experts have set the group one final exercise.

Read it out to us, Tegan.

"Now you're at the end of the course,

"we want you to write a letter to your past self

"to read out in front of the group at this graduation ceremony."

So I've got to think of a bloody speech to say.

I think mine will be

quite short, actually, because it's the climax phase.

THEY LAUGH

Realising how far you've come is really emotional.

It's a moment to reflect and help them cement

the journey of their progress and development.

Having made real progress in his previous session...

...Bertie's due

to meet surrogate partner Kat for the final time.

Bertie was like the real sleeper. When I first saw him,

you felt like he was going to talk himself out of everything,

and then he talked himself into everything.

And I think he has so much sensuality.

As soon as he gets aroused, he really surprised me.

He's been so fun to work with. So we're going to see what he wants

to do today to feel, like, really complete.

I'm not getting any younger, in terms of the dating game.

I just want to try my very best to do

all the things that I want to push myself to do

and to come back telling people how much

of a different person I am and being able to just...

...feel free.

Good afternoon. Can I have a hug?

For the first time,

Kat feels Bertie is ready for the bedroom

and the next step in his sexual education.

So would you want to try oral?

Um...

It's the nervous excitement, but, uh, yeah.

So... HE LAUGHS

So I'm going to let you practise leading.

Um, OK.

Oh. Will you take off my shirt?

I thought you'd never ask.

OK, so I want you to just relax

and just notice the sensations, OK? OK.

Mm!

HEAVY BREATHING

Do you want to try switching? Yeah.

Where's...? Where do you like to be...?

Um, I would say first, just explore. Just, like, it's new,

it's weird.

So see what it feels like for you, and if you even like it.

It's quite salty, actually.

THEY LAUGH

I'm not sure if oral is going to be for me, but, uh...

Would you like to pivot to do what is for you?

Yeah. Yeah? Let's do that.

Oral experiment over...

What would feel good? Maybe you can keep doing that.

...Bertie leads the way.

I can touch you like this.

Yeah. That's it.

That feels really good. Yeah?

KAT BREATHES HEAVILY

This is so nice.

So fucking sexy.

HEAVY BREATHING

Didn't go in your this time. I'm very happy.

So that's some progress made.

How are you feeling? I'm feeling super good.

How are you feeling? I'm feeling amazing.

You've been so good to me

when we've done our sessions and some of the things that I've done,

I never thought I'd do in a million years.

And then you came along. And you honestly mean so much.

Thank you for everything. Thank you.

It's just this experience that I've

had has been nothing short of surreal...

...fantastic. I never thought that in such quick succession,

I'd be able to have my first kiss,

touch my first vagina, make a woman orgasm.

I will never forget Kat

and never forget the ups and downs that I've had here.

It's been nothing short of phenomenal.

Fuck me sideways. That was amazing. That was a great experience.

As Bertie reaches the end of his surrogate partner therapy...

...ahead of her final session with Andre,

Marianne meets with clinical therapist Abby...

Hi. Hello.

Come on in.

...to reflect on how far she's come

and how far she wants to go.

How's everything been? It's been good.

Yeah. I just wanted to, like, check in,

see how your work is going with Andre.

I think everything's been going really well,

which has surprised me. Yeah.

I feel like before when I came in, I was like,

there's no possible way I could see myself,

like, maybe having sex, all these blocks and stuff,

that I could see myself doing, like, comfortably. Yeah.

I've still got my one-on-one session today.

And noticing where you're finding your flexibility.

Like saying, "I know how to check in. I know how to use my voice."

I'm not... Yeah, I'm not feeling panicked about anything.

I'm feeling very supported.

Take all of that in because you really do

deserve everything that you're doing for you.

Marianne is a superstar and a straight A+ student.

She's really learning in a somatic way how to trust her body.

Being a virgin at 26, I think about sex every day.

It's just nagging in my ear.

And I think that's because I haven't done it.

Hello! I want to lose my virginity because I could

just get on with my life.

I could just not think about it all the time.

I'm just going to lay out all the possibilities for today.

Continued escalation of kissing.

Mutual erotic touch.

Touching breasts, touching genitals.

Oral pleasure. Those sound good, yeah.

And if there is a desire and you feel comfort

and you're in your full yes, penetration.

In her final session... Allowing yourself just a moment

to think about being able to be

in a vulnerable state with someone else.

...Marianne has reached a defining

moment in the surrogate partner programme.

You can feel nervous. You can feel orgasmic.

I want to kiss you.

Mm-hm.

Can we try it? Me being inside you? Mm-hm.

Yes, we can.

I might need your help. OK.

Good. Mm-hm.

SHE MOANS

SHE MOANS LOUDLY

SHE MOANS

SHE EXHALES LOUDLY

SHE MOANS

How did that feel?

Did it feel like a milestone?

It felt good. Really nice and natural.

Hmm.

Thank you so much for trusting me.

For trusting yourself.

Let's get dressed.

How are you feeling? Kind of have a clear head.

Like, "Ooh!" You know? In a good way. Mm-hm.

Feeling happy as well.

Good. Yeah. Me, too.

Thank you. Thank you for making me feel safe.

Mm-hm.

It's such a pleasure.

I knew the possibility of having sex

was on the table, and so I'm no longer a virgin.

I felt comfortable in my body and safe in my environment.

And Andre was incredible. So I wasn't really nervous.

Like, I haven't lost anything. I've just gained something.

And I just had pure elation.

So I'm very, very lucky with that.

As a therapeutic part of the course draws to a close...

...the sun sets on the retreat for the final time.

Graduation is such an important

moment in this group's journey.

It helps them see all the achievements

that they've got throughout this process.

All that remains is for everyone to dress up for one last step.

I'm really sad to be saying goodbye. Yeah. It's hard.

I'm looking forward to graduation.

It'll be a nice way to celebrate all of the weird

and wonderful things we've done on this island.

Very bittersweet, how I'm feeling.

It's been an incredible three weeks.

A few weeks ago, they were complete strangers.

Fire smells nice.

Yeah, they're going to sacrifice us, aren't they?

THEY LAUGH

Hi!

Wow. Look at you.

Now, together,

they have reached the climax of their time on Virgin Island.

It's graduation!

THEY CHEER

You made it!

And we're so proud of you.

Your bravery and your courage is unparalleled.

Earlier today, we asked you to write a letter to your younger self,

and now we want you each to come up and share that.

Who want to start?

Arriving as one of the least confident,

Ellen now has the courage to step forward with pride.

A letter to my younger self. Don't listen to them.

It will be hard. But what they say isn't true.

It's OK to look and fancy girls. You're gay.

It's a thing. And it's OK.

You get to choose the life you lead.

You do you at your speed.

For goodness' sake, go buy a vibrator.

Fuck it. Buy two.

CHEERING AND APPLAUSE

And Ellen isn't alone in confronting the way they see themselves.

You may find you like certain things.

Don't be embarrassed.

Don't be afraid to embrace the kinkier side of life.

Be a sexy Viking, not a whiny little bitch.

It's important for you to experience cringe,

and that's OK, because it's growth.

Don't worry about being thicker around the body.

It's more to be grabbed and spanked.

THEY LAUGH

Dear my younger self, you are gay. Like, super gay.

I promise you, you'll end

up actually liking the person you are.

FYI, you'll love being held and cuddling, even

if you do deny it to your last breath.

For others, reflection brings a new kindness towards who they are.

Dear baby Alex, you are enough. You are worthy of love.

Don't ever feel like you never do enough.

You always bring smiles and laughter to everyone around you.

Dear Bertie, in a decade or so's time,

you'll be on an intimacy retreat.

Now, believe it or not, it's there where you will find more confidence.

I know how hard it has been for you to feel truly safe,

appreciated, and free. But trust me,

you feel that almost every day now.

Pay no mind to those who try to bring shame into your life.

You will still be a virgin and unmarried at 22.

But you still like boys with brown curly hair.

Love, Joy from the future.

PS - when you get your own money, invest in a short pink wig.

Just trust me.

THEY LAUGH

Woo!

For Katie, this journey meant facing

the internal voices that had been holding her back.

Katie, I'm so sorry for treating you like shit for so many years.

You deserve so much better.

You really went through so much and are truly so strong.

I'm so proud of you and everything you have achieved.

You are beautiful, so kind

and deserve every little bit of love you receive.

Stop letting your anxiety and bullies hold you back in life.

Its so upsetting to see.

Don't let others bring you down or dictate your life.

I love you so much, beautiful girl.

Wow.

Having realised how much they've all changed...

Can I stand up and say a couple of things?

Yeah, of course.

...Marianne takes a moment to reflect.

I would like to thank you, Celeste and Danielle, for everything.

We love you so much.

And then I will direct my whole attention to Andre.

Thank you for making me feel safe.

And thank you for allowing me to just feel no judgment and enjoy.

So thank you.

After struggling to find his voice, Jason now has the courage to speak.

I know for the first, like, week or two,

I was very difficult to work with.

It took a lot for me to kind of, like,

speak more about myself and be more emotional.

Um... Thank you, Aisha, as well.

Um...

I'm good. You're good.

Um, yeah. I'm sorry. I'm...

HE EXHALES

Honestly, I don't really know what's in my head,

so it's a bit difficult for someone else to figure it out as well.

Thank you for everything.

One by one...

Ilil, you probably provided the biggest breakthrough for me.

...the others take their opportunity to give back.

Getting over the pressure, performance anxiety of sex.

Thank you so much for that. Risdon, you've got my heart.

You showed me how to use a strap-on, and that is all I can ask for.

Thank you.

Thank you very much for helping me get over my fears.

You've changed my life.

The empathy that you lead with in every single session

has just made me feel so safe and so understood.

All I can say is I'm not a virgin any more.

Thank you very much. Thank you, everyone.

Taking things at his own pace is Bertie with the final word.

This has been the most

fantastic experience of my entire life.

Some of the workshop activities, I thought

I'd never be able to do.

But that growth was all thanks to you both.

Kat, you are an amazing person and I will never forget you.

I would like to thank all of you.

Yes, I know that I'm not the most sociable person,

but regardless of that,

you still made me feel like that I was part of you

and you still accepted me for who I was.

And that means so...

...so much more than you could know.

If someone said to me, "Would you do this again?"...

...in a fucking heartbeat!

We just need a moment, OK?

The retreat is a huge success, beyond anyone's imagination.

It makes me emotional.

It is really beautiful to see how much they got here.

I'm so proud of them. They're so brave.

Now that they have all of these tools,

they're ready to go out into the world and create the lives

and relationships they want for themselves.

I think to myself, "My work here is done."

The world is so not ready for me. Big, bad world,

I am coming for you. It's changed me.

I'm so much happier as a person. I enjoy life again.

And I lost my virginity.

Yay!

I've not graduated anything in my life,

so to graduate sex camp is just amazing.

I'm excited to go back to the real world.

I came here really shy and insecure.

I'm leaving really confident, really sure of myself

and no longer a virgin!

The first time that we started to connect

in an erotic way, I was like, "Holy shit."

THEY LAUGH

I feel fantastic.

I didn't go into this island with the intention of having any firsts.

If they happened, they happened.

And well, they did bloody happen.

What an absolute ride I've been on.

You did it! Congratulations!

THEY CHEER

We graduated!

Woo!

We're ready for a group orgy now.

Cheers to orgies!

CHEERING AND LAUGHTER

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