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Previously on The Real Housewives of
Beverly Hills. Hi, how are you?
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That's so funny. That's really good. We
all got the memo.
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I'm best known for my best -selling
book, Riches, which has given me the
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nickname The Money Queen.
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My marriage has been eradicated from the
Catholic Church.
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The letter came to Sutton Brown.
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Oh. Have you gone on any dates?
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Are you dating now?
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I'm not. I just haven't been leaving my
house. Girl, wait!
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The truth about if Kyle is seeing
somebody, it's like, I'm sorry, are we
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or not?
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I don't feel like being asked all the
time about my private life. I was seeing
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someone who, unfortunately, I'm single
now.
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Since separating from Mo, I was at a
very vulnerable place in my life, and I
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felt hard for this person.
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If it was only me, I would give all the
answers they want. Yeah, it's not just
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about you.
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In this town, stars come and go, but
diamonds last forever.
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I'd die for fashion, but now I'm living
for me.
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I turn ambition into an art form, and I
am the masterpiece.
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I might live on a main road, but I
definitely bring main character energy.
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I didn't marry into money.
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I manifested it.
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Survival isn't my story.
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It's my superpower.
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I'm unfiltered, unbothered, and finally,
unburdened.
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Nico! Are we ready?
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Thank you!
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I'm ready. I'm in my matchmaking bag. I
know, you got the roses.
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I feel like I'm like the hostess of The
Bachelorette.
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And what are the men called? The
bachelors?
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Yes. That's what single men are called.
I've never seen The Bachelorette.
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I've come to a striking realization.
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Almost everybody is single in this
friend group. These girls are going
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it. We've got our questions. I think
Dorita's going to be the most
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Erica, too. No, Erica might scare them.
And secretly, I think Kyle is going to
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be very nervous.
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I want all the girls to come out and
enjoy themselves. But I think this might
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an opportunity for Kyle to really let
her hair down. Lurt a little. I want to
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see that side of her.
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I think the guys are already, like,
comparing their resumes.
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Look at them. Good to see you. Cheers.
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Cheers, fellas.
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Great to be here with you.
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Do you not have your cocktails yet?
Sorry, bad timing.
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I went through my contact list and found
eligible bachelors that match the
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interests of my friends.
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We are going to describe, like,
keywords, okay?
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Protector. Chivalrous.
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Safe. Sexy.
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Sexy? What does that mean?
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Someone who likes sex, and you can tell
by looking at them. Oh, what?
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I have done my research.
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I mean, this is a pretty good group.
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They look good, too.
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Oh, I'm so glad everybody's here.
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Hi,
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so nice to see you. Thank you for
coming.
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Hi, how are you?
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Hello. Oh, good to see you.
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Now, I'll tell you a secret.
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These ladies are very nervous.
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I can't tell you the group chat with the
like, what should I wear?
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What should I say?
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What am I going to do?
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It would be really great if one or all
of them found true love tonight. And
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if it doesn't happen, I'm still excited
for them to flirt a little bit. Because
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maybe it'll loosen up the old wires that
aren't necessarily clicking all the
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way. They should be nervous. We are
intense.
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Look, you better cut it out, okay?
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Give them a break.
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I want to look like a normal human
being.
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Right? Because, you know, men get
scared.
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Yeah. See? I agree. For the face, I
think that we keep it young,
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but not. Could give you a blowjob in the
alley, but probably won't.
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Okay, we have to make me look very
pretty.
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We're going to make you look extra
snatched.
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I think I need a Coca -Cola.
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I am going to struggle tonight.
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I need a beverage now. Where are these
ladies?
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Why are you giggling already? I know. I
feel really weird. That might feel
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weird. I don't know.
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How about have a seat right there?
Because they are over there.
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Oh, no. I know.
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If you make me take my shoes off. No,
no, no. You don't have to.
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This is the first time. I don't know
what to make of Kyle's single state. Is
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single because she has accepted her
separation from Moe? For somebody who's
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nervous, you certainly don't look it.
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Is he single because he isn't dating
anyone at all?
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Why did you bring the most expensive
bag? See, this is clearly signaling your
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high maintenance.
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Oh, my. Don't mess with me. Don't.
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Wow. You are a goddess.
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We all look like we're going to a
funeral, you guys.
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No, she is not. Oh, my God.
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Everybody's wearing black.
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Everybody's wearing black.
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Hello, beautiful.
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Oh, my gosh.
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Everybody's wearing black. Let's see
what Sutton has on. Hi.
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Is that Sutton? Oh, my God.
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The key is you can't look like you tried
too hard because that reads desperate
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and thirsty.
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Don't look like you spent three hours
getting dressed.
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Like, oh, I just threw this on. I look
like the maid that's going to.
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Bend over and get it. I do think if you
wear a little black dress on a first
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date, you're saying I want to have sex
with you.
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Oh, my God. She's wearing black.
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Everybody's in black. I cannot even
believe you. Do we look like we're going
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a funeral? That's what I just said. Our
subconscious is talking right now.
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We do not look like a group of women
that are looking to find a date. We're
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dressed in black like we just came from
some sort of witch convention.
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I think it just says where we all are in
our lives is black.
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It's a black cloud over all of us.
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We have to get out of our heads.
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She happens to know that they're all
good guys. They're all successful.
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They're all very nice.
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Don't ask for any dick pics.
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What? That is horrible.
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How dare you?
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I've gotten enough of those dick pics in
my DM.
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Do they really think you're going to be
like, oh, my God, that's so great. Hi.
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Can we go say hi to them?
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Let's go.
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Let's go, girls.
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Let's go.
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I'm rallying the troops. Are you taking
your bag? I'm wearing my sunglasses.
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Oh, that's so rude.
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Is that rude?
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No. Yes.
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It's rude. But they're Rachel's old
glasses. Hello, everyone.
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Hi. Okay.
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Good job, Dorit. Hi, guys. I'm so proud
of her. I'm Dorit. Hi, Ben. Pleasure.
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Hey, Dorit. I'm Chase. Nice to meet you.
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What happened?
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Let's go to Jack in the Box. I didn't
realize how many of these women...
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are so socially awkward. Come on. Oh, I
hate this.
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Just kidding. Yes.
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Kyle. Erica.
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Cheers. Weird Tuesday.
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Sutton. Okay, well, I knew Sutton was.
It's itching because I have neuropathy.
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It's going to bother me.
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Yeah. Hey. Rick.
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Greg. Nice to meet you.
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Rick. Nice to meet you. Hi. Hi. Rachel.
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Erica. Hi.
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Hi. How are you? Nice to meet you. How
are you doing?
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I said. Hi.
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What was your name? Rachel. Hi, Rachel.
Nice to meet you. Nice to meet you, too.
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Rachel. Rachel. Nice to meet you.
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Wait, does this feel like a receiving
line, you guys?
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Fun fact. I actually won the biggest
flirt award when I was six years old in
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camp. A ribbon and everything.
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Where is your accent?
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Australian. Yeah, accent has two girls
already. I get it. Always, always works,
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doesn't it? They asked us to choose a
husband to marry on our campus.
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And you know who I picked?
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My 18 -year -old counselor.
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Do you have a drink?
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No, but I think I need one. Oh, my God,
I feel so awkward. Hold on one second.
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I got to go to the bar.
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What? I've never seen this side of Erica
before. Where's a woman who is twirling
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around on stage, making people nervous
when she walks in the room?
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Probably got a whips and chains
somewhere.
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Where is she?
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Can I have a cocktail?
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Yes. I don't know.
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Do you want to take a shot?
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Do you want to take a shot?
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No, I don't need a shot.
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Erica Jane can do anything. She can talk
to anybody, flits on stage, run around
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in a costume. But Erica?
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is very awkward.
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I thought you had like some icebreaker
activity.
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I do. But we lost one. I know, we lost
one. Or we could just let it do it the
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old -fashioned way. We lost somebody?
Yes.
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How long have you been single?
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Like a week. No, I'm kidding.
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A year. About four hours? Yeah. Okay,
that's long enough for me. No. Well, I
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guess a year.
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I'm not going to suggest that I'm
emotionally in the best place to date
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now. I've never heard a lemon referred
to as the carcass when it's done.
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Listen, it's just a drink that I like.
It's clean.
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It's easy.
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Is that how you would describe yourself?
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Not easy.
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I'm definitely not easy.
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I mean, but she is.
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Make sure you tell her I told you. I
will.
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I'm a little out of practice, but that
doesn't mean it's gone. I know I'm a
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flirt.
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Yeah, it's working, right? Oh, good. I
got everybody's attention.
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Well, welcome.
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I'm so glad everybody was able to come
over. So welcome.
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Cheers to you.
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Cheers. Yes.
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So we have some stations where the
ladies will sit.
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Some questions that I've written, but
you are free to ask your own questions.
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And then we'll keep going around and
around until everybody's met everybody.
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I'm game. Yes. Okay, very good. Kyle,
you can sit here. Okay. Erica, you're
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going to go inside.
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Sutton, you're going inside too.
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I've never done anything like this. I'd
be more comfortable, like, standing on
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stage with no clothes. I would like to
gouge out my own eyeballs, but I'm going
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to go with a smile on my face.
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Let me start my clock.
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Okay, here we go.
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Um, hey?
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Oh.
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Let me start my clock.
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Okay, here we go. I hear the noise.
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Well, yeah.
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That was a little... So you were a
lawyer, too?
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I was, but I'm still active with the
bar, but I'm not pregnant. Thank God.
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do you do for fun? No, I don't think
I've had that in a very long time, so
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almost forgot. You're such a sexy dress.
How could you not have fun?
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Well, thank you. Are you more of a
dominant or a submissive?
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I've learned to be a bit more dominant
in life.
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I think the question means sexually.
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Oh.
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I've been on a lot of bad dates.
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And, you know, I did go on that one
date. It was just all about the mother.
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My mom still is in the house, but I've
been working from home, so I can still
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mom. I'm the only guy whose mother tried
to pull the what happens in Vegas stays
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in Vegas rule.
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Oh.
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I kind of have this fearless factor when
it comes to dating.
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So show me what you got. Let's do this.
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I started Comic -Con, so if you're ever
into superheroes...
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No. Oh.
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I can't. I did a lot not in Los Angeles.
Why is that?
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Girls here are pretty bad.
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Where do you live? You live on this
side?
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I think we're on the west side, right?
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I think we're on the east side now.
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Okay, so I don't know what side I live
on.
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Oh. I live in the valley.
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Okay. Do you know where that is? That
way.
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Okay, who do you think is amazing?
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Maybe like Led Zeppelin on the Rolling
Stones and that's like it. I don't know.
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Chris Martin?
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What's up?
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Coldplay sucks.
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What? Coldplay sucks, dude. White women
love Coldplay.
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What? When I was younger, I was always
in love with a guy that I shouldn't be
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love with. What I've realized is I'm
still her.
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I am still her. I am still the girl that
is attracted to a very certain kind of
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person. I'm not the guy that probably
everybody wants to set me up with. Oh,
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God. This is so much harder than I
thought. It is? Yes. Is it a little
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for you? It's so stressful.
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I'm a real estate agent, by the way. My
husband would die right now while I'm
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separated.
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We made a deal. I'm sure you did. I
honestly cannot get away from Mel.
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I mean, I wouldn't be surprised if he
was here tonight as one of the
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I mean, he does good deals.
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Have you been married? I married a
stranger in Las Vegas for a day. It was
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bucket list.
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I was just going to say it was a bucket
list. It was a bucket list. Because it's
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completely legal in your country.
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You get married.
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When I turn the charm on, I'm not the
girl that's like, oh, wow.
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Oh, you look good. Have you been working
out?
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I'm more of the, it's in the eyes.
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Maybe a little hair flip.
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Anyway, so, productive.
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I've been asking the guys.
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Everybody loves Dorit.
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Look at them right now. I have to tell
you. Thank you, my darling.
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But I think everybody likes Sebastian.
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Yeah, I like Sebastian.
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Yes, everybody likes Sebastian. Go back.
But look at them. This is a match made.
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They both have accents. That's how I
knew it was going to work.
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People will say I'm loquacious.
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What a word.
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Were you like a big comic fan as a
child? Yeah, I grew up collecting sports
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cards and comic books as a kid. I love
sports cards. What kind of sports cards
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are we talking about? Baseball,
basketball.
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Oh, cars. Oh, yeah.
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C -A -R -D -F. Yeah.
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I have zero game.
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I can't small talk. I don't know how to
do it.
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Wait, you're in the law, right?
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Yeah, but I do other things too. You're
a slimy weasel.
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Sutton has a lot more game than I do.
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Soft and feminine and southern and, you
know, ha.
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Your accent's great. Just a hint of
Georgia. But it's more if I go home or
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talk to my mother too long. Listen, when
I'm on the phone with my family back
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home, New York comes right out. It'll
just come right back. I've been
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to work in baseball. I've represented a
bunch of players.
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My apologies. You are halfway through
your conversation.
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Oh, okay, ma 'am. Time is flying by. I
know, when you're having fun.
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I like Rick. He is easy to talk to. He
seems interested in me.
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He has potential, this Rick.
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Our time is up. Okay. Now, we're all
going to get back together.
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Sure. Okay. So we can go back in here.
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Okay, what's happening, you guys?
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Well, everybody, I would like to say
goodnight to our gentlemen.
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Goodnight, guys.
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It was nice meeting all y 'all.
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Wait, wait, this is me.
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All right, done. Let me know. All right,
I'll let you know. It's in your court.
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Still got it, obviously.
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I love both, and there's nothing I won't
do for her or with her. I need fire
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pit. But, like, I knew full well there
was 0 % chance I was meeting a guy at a
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speed dating event.
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Jory, was that your first, like, meet
new guys moment? And I feel like you did
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great. Oh, I feel like you were, like,
by the way, I feel like you were fully
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rolling. You were doing great, right?
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Tonight was a boost of confidence.
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It felt like...
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The feminine, flirty, fun Dorit was
here.
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And it felt good.
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Who was our favorite guy? The Aussie guy
was great. It was really fun.
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I liked Rick.
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Did he give you his car? Because he gave
me his car. Okay.
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Okay. I'm just saying, your attorney
husband didn't work out so well.
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Coming up.
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In order to be friends, I want to know
the information so that I can also be
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helpful. Why don't you ask what you
really want to ask?
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Okay, okay. Who is our favorite guy? I
like Rick.
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Did he give you his card? Because he
gave me. Okay.
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Your attorney husband didn't work out so
well.
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I'm about to do something really
important. She's going to throw it in
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No. In the spirit of kindness and being
like a good friend, truthfully, this is
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for you.
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Whoa.
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It's taken a long time for Sutton and I
to get to a good place. And Rick seems
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like a really nice guy.
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Yeah, Sutton, enjoy him. I'm going to
give the lawyer thing a rest.
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Case is smooth.
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Kyle, do you feel that you are actively
looking to meet someone?
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Of course not.
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I mean, I'm not.
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What do you mean, of course not? What do
you mean, of course not? No, I'm not. I
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mean, you're not actively looking for
anybody.
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I'm not three years in.
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I mean, like, is that what you want?
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I would be looking for a life partner.
Like, I would want to get married again.
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You want to be married again?
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I think I would want to get married
again. Really?
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Dorit, do you want to come talk with me
for, like, five minutes?
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Pardon?
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Come here. Come talk with me for a
minute. I want to talk to you.
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Oh, okay. Go ahead.
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I just want to catch up with you and how
you're doing and PK and all of that.
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Sutton, do you want to sit here? Yeah.
Is that okay? Have a seat. I was asking
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Doreen what's going on. I said I was
just trying to check in on her and see
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the kids are.
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Did they go to Florida?
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My kids are supposed to go to Florida
with their grandparents.
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And PK is now, I got a letter today from
the lawyer saying that he's going to
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block it.
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They did go to Florida.
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So the kids are having a good time?
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They are having the greatest time ever.
What are you doing now that they're not?
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Are you resting?
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The best thing that you can do is take
care of yourself.
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Yes. You have to. I know. I have to. And
you don't want to use it against you.
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You know what I mean? Exactly.
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That's, by the way, that's by design.
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Here's the thing. When you're going
through a divorce, your state of mind is
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like a big deal.
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Anything and everything will be used
against you to make you look.
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Not the best. So you have to be careful
what you say, how you say it, who you
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say it to, where you're hanging out, who
you're hanging out with, where you're
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spending money.
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And it's a long road. Yes.
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Dudes can get away with a hell of a lot
more than mothers.
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The great news is this. You will come
ashore, and you will survive this. Yeah,
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you will. And your children will, too.
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And all for the better, you know? You
just have to get through it, and it
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and I'm really sorry.
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Yeah, it does suck.
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This is really nice to see a different
side of Sutton. She's talking to me from
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her heart.
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I know she has the experience, and it
feels genuine. I completely sympathize
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with Dorit. I see a little bit of myself
in this broken wing
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that she's walking around with. It's so
sad.
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It's the hardest thing to watch.
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I want to be a good friend to everybody.
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Of course.
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You know? I think Kyle is somebody that
I'm like, okay.
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I'm like peeling back the onion.
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Do you like me?
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No. No. You are not a one night only
girl. No. So we got to find somebody
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substance.
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How many times have you been in love?
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Have I been in love? How many times have
you been in love? Like three. Oh, in
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love. Three times?
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Three. Yeah. In my life.
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How many have you been in love? Four.
How many times?
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Three. Yeah.
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Have you found love again?
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Yeah. Okay, yeah.
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Well, that's a good feeling.
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Yeah, I have love for me, but... Okay,
but now you don't.
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No, and now I'm just figuring it out.
No, now I'm just, I mean, I did, but now
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I'm on my own again, so... Okay, okay.
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00:20:10,770 --> 00:20:14,930
Yeah. Boze is acting like she's never
heard anything or seen anything, and
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asking me all these questions, and I'm
like, okay, Boze.
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Was it by choice not to be in love now?
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No, it's not.
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It's just complicated.
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I think it's been really challenging for
Kyle to be vulnerable.
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You said that you had never before
questioned your sexuality, but when
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speculation went into overdrive, you
would even talk to your daughters about
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Just a really proud moment for me as a
mom, how my daughters reacted.
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They supported you. Oh, my gosh.
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And it was a really uncomfortable, hard
conversation to have.
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But I'm really glad that she's at least
sharing a little bit with me now because
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I want to be there for her. I want to be
able to support in every way that I can
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as a friend.
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I told you, I'm a girl's girl. I want
to, like, be in everybody's business.
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You're a lady's lady. Not because I want
to be in the business, but because I'm
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like, but in order to be friends.
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Why don't you ask what you really want
to ask? What's that?
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What do you think I want to ask? I don't
know. I could go Brad. I could go
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Angelina.
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That's what you want me to say, right?
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Is that serious?
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That we go Brad or Angelina?
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00:21:26,400 --> 00:21:30,440
No, I mean, I'm like half joking, but
not fully joking.
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Okay. I don't know.
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Listen, I've learned a lot about myself.
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00:21:34,020 --> 00:21:39,080
I think gender doesn't matter. I think
it's a connection with a...
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You know, a soul connection.
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00:21:40,940 --> 00:21:46,620
I think my biggest worry after Mo and I
separated was really that I was going to
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maybe be alone one day.
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And then to find someone that you have a
lot in common with and you can laugh
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with and have fun is exciting for me
because I proved to myself, oh, you
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I actually can meet someone after a
marriage of this many years.
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I've always been.
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attracted to men, you know, like tall,
dark, and handsome.
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Could that apply to women?
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I also felt nervous about why go out
with somebody?
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Like, what is Mo gonna think about that?
437
00:22:20,290 --> 00:22:21,970
What are the girls gonna think about
that?
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00:22:22,510 --> 00:22:24,990
What is the public going to think about
that?
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00:22:25,810 --> 00:22:29,450
I don't really know, so. Kyle, to be
honest with you, I actually don't think
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have to know. You have been with Mo for
ever.
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00:22:32,830 --> 00:22:37,160
She's been 30 years. And I think it's
okay to now be like, I'm freely being me
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and whatever that feels like and whoever
I connect with the most.
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I've gone through so much in these past
few years and it really has changed my
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perspective on life and how I want to
live.
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While I am sad about the relationship,
I'm also really grateful.
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You get lost in being a wife and a
mother and you can kind of forget about
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you are.
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And I learned a lot about myself.
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In that time.
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I'm going to go back in my contact list.
No.
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No.
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You know what?
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I'm a fake kind of person.
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Coming up.
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Maybe I'll change my name back to Brown.
I dropped my married name to Stella.
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00:23:22,600 --> 00:23:27,720
It's like my last little. It is. It is.
But you're not married to me anymore.
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You guys can absolutely.
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Oh.
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00:24:04,730 --> 00:24:08,590
She's right behind you. She's literally
right next to you.
460
00:24:09,910 --> 00:24:11,650
Oh, hi. You want to paint a dragon?
461
00:24:11,970 --> 00:24:13,710
No. KK wants to help.
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00:24:14,170 --> 00:24:15,850
Let's go over here. Here, Mama, help.
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00:24:16,170 --> 00:24:17,630
You want me to help you get the stuff?
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00:24:17,850 --> 00:24:20,930
I'll show you. I've never done that
activity before.
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00:24:21,190 --> 00:24:22,670
Hey, KK, look at my side.
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00:24:22,890 --> 00:24:27,070
What if we both paint on both sides and
we work together collaboratively?
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00:24:35,730 --> 00:24:41,090
Okay, so I come from a pretty humble
beginning. We didn't really have a lot.
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Friday nights, I used to hang out at
Walmart.
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We would, like, go walk.
470
00:24:44,690 --> 00:24:45,810
I would walk around Walmart.
471
00:24:46,350 --> 00:24:48,010
You want to go jet skiing with Dada
tomorrow?
472
00:24:48,310 --> 00:24:50,290
We're going jet skiing in the morning.
Of course, of course.
473
00:24:50,870 --> 00:24:54,190
They will never grasp that the reason I
have them in a stroller...
474
00:24:54,520 --> 00:24:57,280
walking around Beverly Hills, like,
getting ice cream and going to lunch or
475
00:24:57,280 --> 00:25:01,940
whatever, is because I dreamed this for
them. Like, we walk the street that I
476
00:25:01,940 --> 00:25:04,460
watched on Clueless. Like, that, you
know?
477
00:25:05,080 --> 00:25:09,420
It looks like I'm going to Disney on
Monday. Daddy has a new project at
478
00:25:09,420 --> 00:25:12,000
World. Sunday, you have water polo,
correct?
479
00:25:12,480 --> 00:25:15,760
At 11, yeah, I'm going to take Liam. And
I'm going to try to go to Pilates that
480
00:25:15,760 --> 00:25:16,760
day during nap time.
481
00:25:17,230 --> 00:25:23,890
Eddie is my partner and fiancé and
lover. We met in 2019, and so we've been
482
00:25:23,890 --> 00:25:24,890
together five years.
483
00:25:25,150 --> 00:25:26,430
Eddie is in construction.
484
00:25:26,990 --> 00:25:28,070
Isn't he so cute, though?
485
00:25:29,110 --> 00:25:30,290
He's, like, so good.
486
00:25:30,490 --> 00:25:34,630
Okay, before Daddy proposed, like, I
kept having the dream that he got me a
487
00:25:34,630 --> 00:25:36,470
with the Smart and Final logo on it.
488
00:25:38,730 --> 00:25:40,350
Get your Oklahoma ass out of here.
489
00:25:40,610 --> 00:25:44,130
So once Eddie and I were living
together, he asked me what I wanted,
490
00:25:44,130 --> 00:25:45,750
priorities were. I was...
491
00:25:46,030 --> 00:25:50,490
About to turn 36, and I remember telling
him that there was an expiration date
492
00:25:50,490 --> 00:25:54,030
on my ovaries more than there was an
expiration date on my ring finger, and I
493
00:25:54,030 --> 00:25:55,750
thought we should get to making babies.
494
00:25:58,130 --> 00:26:02,450
It did take a while for us to get
engaged, but then Daddy crushed it. He
495
00:26:02,450 --> 00:26:05,590
the exact ring that had been on my
vision board, literally.
496
00:26:05,830 --> 00:26:10,250
Okay. As a financial empowerment teacher
and coach, I'm the embodiment of
497
00:26:10,250 --> 00:26:13,470
everything I teach. I'm my biggest
testimonial.
498
00:26:13,850 --> 00:26:18,030
I remember someone who was in one of my
courses and they're like, of course,
499
00:26:18,050 --> 00:26:21,090
Amanda wouldn't come through just
manifesting a man. Amanda comes through
500
00:26:21,090 --> 00:26:22,450
manifesting a whole ass family.
501
00:26:22,810 --> 00:26:24,230
I'm really thankful you cook.
502
00:26:25,830 --> 00:26:27,030
I hope nobody would eat.
503
00:26:27,490 --> 00:26:28,490
No.
504
00:26:54,810 --> 00:26:58,790
Hello. You are so sweet. Hi, you look so
gorgeous.
505
00:26:59,150 --> 00:27:02,110
Hi. You seem so casual. I'm so sorry.
You look gorgeous.
506
00:27:02,310 --> 00:27:03,410
Why are you... I'm in jeans.
507
00:27:03,690 --> 00:27:06,670
Okay, we're both in jeans. Yeah, I love
your house. Thank you. I'll have a
508
00:27:06,670 --> 00:27:07,670
penchant for White House.
509
00:27:07,770 --> 00:27:11,530
I love White House. Me too. You drink
white wine. Yes. So I brought you some
510
00:27:11,530 --> 00:27:14,270
white wine. And I love this. I love
Poulet Foussé. Yeah.
511
00:27:14,570 --> 00:27:16,030
Thank you so much. No, you're welcome.
512
00:27:16,230 --> 00:27:18,570
I know Sutton because we have...
513
00:27:19,639 --> 00:27:24,060
like, some mutual friends. So I end up
seeing her at different, like, events
514
00:27:24,060 --> 00:27:28,100
lunches and parties when I do that sort
of circuit, you know, around the
515
00:27:28,100 --> 00:27:30,000
holidays especially. I always see her at
cafes.
516
00:27:30,760 --> 00:27:35,640
But she was always someone who was very,
like, friendly and outgoing, invited me
517
00:27:35,640 --> 00:27:38,440
to all these parties and things like
that. I just had never gotten close with
518
00:27:38,440 --> 00:27:41,020
her. Wait, I feel like we have so much
to discuss.
519
00:27:42,040 --> 00:27:43,040
How's it going?
520
00:27:43,060 --> 00:27:45,960
I mean, can we talk about Bo's house?
521
00:27:46,590 --> 00:27:49,990
I can't believe we just did, like, a
speed dating night. Like, I didn't know
522
00:27:49,990 --> 00:27:52,850
that there was a name for this. Did you
think any of the guys were cute?
523
00:27:54,650 --> 00:27:58,530
Did you think the guy with the hair, I
feel like he was, like, good -looking
524
00:27:58,530 --> 00:27:59,910
cute. Yeah. Right?
525
00:28:00,150 --> 00:28:01,630
Yeah. I felt like not.
526
00:28:04,930 --> 00:28:05,930
It's all relative.
527
00:28:06,850 --> 00:28:11,430
You know, I think I'm still so fresh out
of marriage, so I think I'm really
528
00:28:11,430 --> 00:28:13,230
enjoying not being married. Right.
529
00:28:13,710 --> 00:28:14,710
Would you get married?
530
00:28:15,070 --> 00:28:20,410
So, you know, for me it's complicated
because I found out a little over a year
531
00:28:20,410 --> 00:28:24,970
ago. My ex -husband, he asked for an
annulment with the Catholic Church.
532
00:28:25,550 --> 00:28:28,830
Like within the church, our marriage
never existed.
533
00:28:29,470 --> 00:28:35,950
But when I got the letter from the
Catholic Church, it came
534
00:28:35,950 --> 00:28:38,550
to Strack Brown.
535
00:28:39,330 --> 00:28:40,910
And Brown is my maiden name.
536
00:28:41,130 --> 00:28:43,290
I'm like, okay. I kept looking at it.
537
00:28:43,610 --> 00:28:44,610
Strack Brown.
538
00:28:45,090 --> 00:28:50,030
And so I thought, well, maybe I'll
change my name back to Brown.
539
00:28:50,250 --> 00:28:52,410
I dropped my married name the day I
left.
540
00:28:52,770 --> 00:28:53,770
Really? Yeah.
541
00:28:53,850 --> 00:28:56,590
Well, the truth is, I'm not a Strack.
542
00:28:57,690 --> 00:29:00,510
So unstruck yourself. I'm not. You
should destruck.
543
00:29:00,710 --> 00:29:03,050
I know, but it's like my last little
threat.
544
00:29:03,430 --> 00:29:05,470
It is, but you know what?
545
00:29:06,230 --> 00:29:07,630
You're not married to him anymore.
546
00:29:08,650 --> 00:29:11,050
I always felt that.
547
00:29:11,600 --> 00:29:13,920
I could get Christian back whenever I
wanted to.
548
00:29:14,640 --> 00:29:19,600
Sometimes when we talk, I'm like, this
little moment, like, did I just win him
549
00:29:19,600 --> 00:29:20,620
back for a second?
550
00:29:21,900 --> 00:29:28,900
I think I realized with this annulment,
he is not going to take
551
00:29:28,900 --> 00:29:29,900
me back.
552
00:29:31,320 --> 00:29:32,320
It's over.
553
00:29:34,600 --> 00:29:39,460
Oh, Rachel, why do you want to make me
cry? I don't want to make you cry, but I
554
00:29:39,460 --> 00:29:42,480
also want you to... It's like when I
think about grandchildren, I'm like...
555
00:29:42,480 --> 00:29:46,780
what? Grandma and Grandpa Strack over
there are the good ones with all the
556
00:29:46,780 --> 00:29:47,960
houses all over the world.
557
00:29:48,740 --> 00:29:54,300
I'm just Grandmommy Brown over here with
my four dogs and probably 18 cats.
558
00:29:54,560 --> 00:29:58,160
Look, 18 cats is a problem in and of
itself, but that's a whole different
559
00:30:00,560 --> 00:30:04,140
I know a lot of women who want to keep
their married name, and sometimes it's
560
00:30:04,140 --> 00:30:07,980
status. Sometimes it's because they're
not over the marriage and they want to
561
00:30:07,980 --> 00:30:11,500
hold on to it. And I'm not one of them.
562
00:30:11,840 --> 00:30:12,840
Something around is not bad.
563
00:30:13,120 --> 00:30:14,120
What's your middle name?
564
00:30:15,320 --> 00:30:16,320
Oh, no.
565
00:30:16,500 --> 00:30:18,120
What's your middle name? It's Thurman.
566
00:30:19,780 --> 00:30:20,780
Okay.
567
00:30:21,260 --> 00:30:22,260
Harder.
568
00:30:24,680 --> 00:30:26,260
Coming up.
569
00:30:26,600 --> 00:30:29,320
Do you know about your retirement
account? No retirement account.
570
00:30:29,770 --> 00:30:31,030
exist as far as I'm concerned.
571
00:30:32,690 --> 00:30:33,690
Money's not invested?
572
00:30:34,070 --> 00:30:36,050
I'm in the unknown.
573
00:30:47,350 --> 00:30:48,390
How did it get flowers?
574
00:30:48,950 --> 00:30:52,490
No, thank you. Another thing we're
checking off the list, we need to get
575
00:30:52,490 --> 00:30:53,490
the program.
576
00:30:56,930 --> 00:30:58,010
How are you?
577
00:30:58,440 --> 00:30:59,560
Hi, welcome to Orchid Republic.
578
00:30:59,960 --> 00:31:02,060
We have an appointment for her.
579
00:31:02,360 --> 00:31:05,720
Hi, Margarita. Hi, Margarita. Nice to
meet you.
580
00:31:06,040 --> 00:31:10,040
We're trying to get some info and ideas
for her wedding flowers.
581
00:31:10,380 --> 00:31:15,280
What is your color scheme and what are
the flowers maybe that you're thinking
582
00:31:15,280 --> 00:31:16,280
about?
583
00:31:16,340 --> 00:31:18,100
I don't have a color scheme.
584
00:31:19,520 --> 00:31:25,940
I do want colorful bohemian. I like the
wild, unique -looking flowers, you know,
585
00:31:25,960 --> 00:31:27,420
like artichoke.
586
00:31:30,280 --> 00:31:35,140
Alexia's ideas get me a little stressed
sometimes because my wedding was more
587
00:31:35,140 --> 00:31:41,080
traditional. Black tie, at a country
club, I had 12 bridesmaids, and very
588
00:31:41,080 --> 00:31:43,540
traditional flowers like pink and white
roses.
589
00:31:44,020 --> 00:31:47,320
Let's just look in here for a second and
see if we can find something. Ooh, look
590
00:31:47,320 --> 00:31:48,320
at that one right there.
591
00:31:48,400 --> 00:31:50,960
That's too many purples. Too many
purples, of course.
592
00:31:51,460 --> 00:31:58,240
Alexia, my earth child, free spirit. So
I expect this to be very eclectic.
593
00:32:03,080 --> 00:32:03,520
I love
594
00:32:03,520 --> 00:32:13,600
that
595
00:32:13,600 --> 00:32:18,600
she has her own unique style.
596
00:32:20,600 --> 00:32:25,480
Frozen. But it's just trying to get her
to nail down the actual look she wants.
597
00:32:25,640 --> 00:32:27,080
So we can just put this to rest.
598
00:32:27,820 --> 00:32:28,820
This looks so pretty.
599
00:32:28,940 --> 00:32:30,100
Look at that. Do you like that? I do.
600
00:32:30,360 --> 00:32:33,340
This matches, like, the bridesmaids'
dresses color scheme.
601
00:32:33,700 --> 00:32:34,880
You said there were no bridesmaids.
602
00:32:35,500 --> 00:32:39,840
Mother. I'm still having, like,
bridesmaids. I'm just not doing the
603
00:32:40,040 --> 00:32:41,100
And not matching dresses.
604
00:32:41,560 --> 00:32:42,560
I want matching dresses.
605
00:32:42,860 --> 00:32:45,900
You didn't say that. You said colors,
not matching dresses. Yeah. That's still
606
00:32:45,900 --> 00:32:49,900
matching. Dad and I are both walking in
with you? Yeah. Okay. Of course.
607
00:32:50,380 --> 00:32:51,700
Yeah, you're going to walk me down.
608
00:32:52,000 --> 00:32:53,000
That's so crazy.
609
00:32:53,540 --> 00:32:55,900
It does feel strange now to think
that...
610
00:32:56,330 --> 00:33:01,070
My daughter, our daughter, is getting
married, and we're not together.
611
00:33:01,950 --> 00:33:06,150
I would like to take the flowers home so
that Jake can give the green light.
612
00:33:06,370 --> 00:33:08,250
I always like him to have the final yes.
613
00:33:08,650 --> 00:33:12,290
When I look at Alexia and Jake getting
married, I just hope that they have a
614
00:33:12,290 --> 00:33:16,690
long, happy marriage. I hope that they
can always trust each other.
615
00:33:16,970 --> 00:33:22,370
I hope that neither one of them ever
hurt each other.
616
00:33:28,680 --> 00:33:31,640
I hope that Jake always looks at Alexa
the way he looks at her today.
617
00:33:35,580 --> 00:33:40,880
But when you look back one day at your
wedding photos, as long as you look back
618
00:33:40,880 --> 00:33:45,520
and you're like, oh, that's exactly
what, you know, what I wanted. And, you
619
00:33:45,520 --> 00:33:46,600
know, that's what I wanted at the time.
620
00:33:47,400 --> 00:33:50,500
Mo and me, we were also really happy.
621
00:33:53,380 --> 00:33:56,580
So do I get scared thinking I hope one
day they don't.
622
00:33:56,940 --> 00:33:59,360
go through what we're going through. Of
course, I think like that.
623
00:34:00,440 --> 00:34:06,720
I'm hoping that they have both learned
from Mo and me through all of this and
624
00:34:06,720 --> 00:34:13,659
love and respect each other as much, you
know, 30, 40 years from now as they
625
00:34:13,659 --> 00:34:14,659
do today.
626
00:34:14,840 --> 00:34:17,860
I'm telling you, I'm going to have a
very different wedding with each of your
627
00:34:17,860 --> 00:34:18,860
sisters. Yeah.
628
00:34:18,940 --> 00:34:20,320
God help me with Sophia's.
629
00:34:27,980 --> 00:34:30,380
Hi, welcome to Gemma. Feed me.
630
00:34:30,620 --> 00:34:33,620
Give me pasta and tell me I'm pretty.
Oh, we love that.
631
00:34:33,960 --> 00:34:36,340
Thank you.
632
00:34:36,699 --> 00:34:37,699
Fabulous.
633
00:34:37,840 --> 00:34:41,360
Can I get you a soda with some still or
sparkling water? Still would be great.
634
00:34:41,400 --> 00:34:42,400
Sounds good.
635
00:34:43,639 --> 00:34:44,679
Hi, how are you?
636
00:34:44,920 --> 00:34:46,080
Oh, hey, honey, how are you?
637
00:34:46,280 --> 00:34:47,920
I am good. Good, good.
638
00:34:48,139 --> 00:34:50,500
Can I get a soda with something to drink
over here?
639
00:34:50,739 --> 00:34:52,239
Can I have a nice tea? Yeah, absolutely.
640
00:34:52,880 --> 00:34:55,780
I'll have the Arnold Palmer, actually.
You got it. Thank you. I met Amanda at
641
00:34:55,780 --> 00:34:59,320
Jennifer Tilly's party. Whose jacket is
that, by the way? This is my mom.
642
00:34:59,540 --> 00:35:00,540
This is my mom. Okay.
643
00:35:00,760 --> 00:35:04,440
I would knock you down, put you in that
pool out there, and take the jacket and
644
00:35:04,440 --> 00:35:07,180
go. Thank you. I'm taking both those
things as a compliment. She seems
645
00:35:07,180 --> 00:35:08,720
interesting. She's a businesswoman.
646
00:35:09,080 --> 00:35:12,040
She's getting married. So I want to get
to know her better.
647
00:35:12,420 --> 00:35:14,760
Did you ever start in, like, the
corporate space?
648
00:35:15,640 --> 00:35:19,580
No. I have no formal business
experience. Really? You've always been
649
00:35:19,580 --> 00:35:20,920
entrepreneur. I have a master's in
counseling.
650
00:35:21,520 --> 00:35:23,900
I don't know that I had this language at
the time, but I was like, let's make
651
00:35:23,900 --> 00:35:25,280
this a personal development brand.
652
00:35:25,740 --> 00:35:27,320
Like, what do I want to be about?
653
00:35:27,540 --> 00:35:30,240
So I started putting out really good
content online every day.
654
00:35:30,480 --> 00:35:34,620
I started out as a therapist and life
coach and later a business coach. As my
655
00:35:34,620 --> 00:35:39,380
audience grew and I wanted to help more
people, I began to create online courses
656
00:35:39,380 --> 00:35:43,560
to help people create both the
professional and personal life of their
657
00:35:43,880 --> 00:35:47,600
Oh, interesting. So then I created a
digital course called Become a Life
658
00:35:47,840 --> 00:35:50,240
Oh. And then I found that I had a...
659
00:35:50,590 --> 00:35:56,850
a gift, a niche around money, but not
around, like I'm not a financial
660
00:35:56,970 --> 00:36:00,650
you know, around like the energetic part
of money, the mindset part, the
661
00:36:00,650 --> 00:36:01,970
psychology around it.
662
00:36:02,410 --> 00:36:07,510
Most people who teach on money focus on
the practical aspects of money
663
00:36:07,510 --> 00:36:08,510
exclusively.
664
00:36:09,030 --> 00:36:12,670
I think the practical aspects are really
important, but I think the foundation
665
00:36:12,670 --> 00:36:17,070
is our relationship with money, which
involves the psychological, the
666
00:36:17,250 --> 00:36:18,250
and the energetic.
667
00:36:18,870 --> 00:36:21,870
That's really what I became known for.
That's what I wrote my book on. I have a
668
00:36:21,870 --> 00:36:23,050
best -selling book called Riches.
669
00:36:23,350 --> 00:36:24,129
Oh, yeah.
670
00:36:24,130 --> 00:36:26,290
So then I became known as the money
queen.
671
00:36:26,550 --> 00:36:28,810
Yes. But I create courses on all kinds
of things.
672
00:36:29,170 --> 00:36:31,270
Well, hello, Mrs. Fabulous. Hi.
673
00:36:33,299 --> 00:36:37,680
Love you. You look just so gorgeous. Hi.
So good to see you. Good to see you,
674
00:36:37,680 --> 00:36:39,780
too. Here, I'll take your bag. Thank
you, thank you, thank you.
675
00:36:40,100 --> 00:36:41,100
I'll take her bag.
676
00:36:41,760 --> 00:36:44,960
That's not what I meant, Doreen. I'll
take her bag. So I've been thinking
677
00:36:44,960 --> 00:36:48,380
you a lot since the party. I really
have. Sending you love and good vibes
678
00:36:48,380 --> 00:36:51,340
day. I'm praying you're getting some
sleep. Oh, me too. I really have. I
679
00:36:51,400 --> 00:36:52,400
Every day you've been on my mind.
680
00:36:52,700 --> 00:36:55,360
Yeah. That's really very sweet. No, I
mean it.
681
00:36:55,790 --> 00:36:59,190
My first impression of Amanda, to be
honest, I didn't know what to make of
682
00:37:00,890 --> 00:37:07,850
But now, hearing her say how she was
thinking about me all weekend and
683
00:37:07,850 --> 00:37:12,970
prayed for me, it's incredibly kind and
sweet and caring.
684
00:37:13,629 --> 00:37:16,690
The French fries, because that's the
most important thing. Yes, it is.
685
00:37:16,970 --> 00:37:18,030
Let's do the kale salad.
686
00:37:18,370 --> 00:37:21,630
It looks like this calamari is gluten
-free. Calamari is gluten -free. Well,
687
00:37:21,670 --> 00:37:23,710
that never happens. I don't have
calamari in here. I mean.
688
00:37:23,990 --> 00:37:26,270
They have to. I have to do that.
Awesome. I'll get that started.
689
00:37:27,910 --> 00:37:31,010
What do I say? My husband? My ex
-husband? I don't know what to say. I
690
00:37:31,010 --> 00:37:32,010
saying estranged.
691
00:37:32,110 --> 00:37:33,490
Okay, yeah, I know. Estranged husband.
692
00:37:33,730 --> 00:37:36,950
That's your official phrase. But in any
case, he's very much an alpha male, a
693
00:37:36,950 --> 00:37:39,650
businessman. He built a very big
business.
694
00:37:40,300 --> 00:37:47,120
In the UK, and when the world tilted on
an access in 2008, he lost his business.
695
00:37:47,320 --> 00:37:50,960
When PK and I married, we did not have a
prenup. PK came into the relationship
696
00:37:50,960 --> 00:37:55,580
broke. He had lost his business, and he
was really starting from scratch.
697
00:37:56,040 --> 00:37:58,020
So there was nothing to protect.
698
00:37:58,280 --> 00:38:04,260
And when we got married, the finances,
he really was handling everything.
699
00:38:04,660 --> 00:38:07,820
And you had kind of delegated it out of
your mind. Yeah. You weren't thinking
700
00:38:07,820 --> 00:38:09,160
about how the finances worked. No.
701
00:38:09,790 --> 00:38:14,190
We had a business manager. I filed for
divorce a couple of months ago. There
702
00:38:14,190 --> 00:38:17,550
wasn't, like, a handoff. There wasn't,
like, an agreement.
703
00:38:17,950 --> 00:38:18,950
There was nothing.
704
00:38:19,670 --> 00:38:23,530
I just would find out that he's not
going to pay this anymore.
705
00:38:33,110 --> 00:38:35,930
I filed for divorce.
706
00:38:36,440 --> 00:38:40,600
A couple of months ago, there wasn't
like a handoff. There wasn't like an
707
00:38:40,600 --> 00:38:42,300
agreement. It was nothing.
708
00:38:43,160 --> 00:38:47,020
I just would find out that he's not
going to pay this anymore.
709
00:38:49,080 --> 00:38:52,900
Wait, wait, wait. So you're living in
the house, the family home. Yes. And
710
00:38:52,900 --> 00:38:56,380
trying to not pay the mortgage. Like,
for example, he's currently paying the
711
00:38:56,380 --> 00:38:59,040
mortgage. He's just randomly deciding
you're on your own.
712
00:38:59,260 --> 00:39:01,960
Absolutely. He's thinking she's making
X.
713
00:39:02,380 --> 00:39:03,380
No.
714
00:39:04,460 --> 00:39:05,900
For the last 14 years.
715
00:39:06,280 --> 00:39:10,380
PK's been paying the lion's share of our
family outgoings. When we separated, he
716
00:39:10,380 --> 00:39:12,140
said that the finances would stay the
same.
717
00:39:12,560 --> 00:39:17,020
She's now having more financial
responsibility than in the past.
718
00:39:17,240 --> 00:39:18,240
Right,
719
00:39:18,580 --> 00:39:22,100
but it hasn't been mutually decided
upon. No. A month later, I got an email
720
00:39:22,100 --> 00:39:25,120
saying that he decided he's no longer
going to do that.
721
00:39:25,500 --> 00:39:29,560
And I was like, how can you change this
all of a sudden? And his answer was, I
722
00:39:29,560 --> 00:39:31,000
only agreed to that for one month.
723
00:39:33,100 --> 00:39:36,680
For you to have a fair position in
mediation, you have to know what you're
724
00:39:36,680 --> 00:39:38,660
working with. Do you know about your
retirement account?
725
00:39:38,900 --> 00:39:41,660
No retirement account exists as far as
I'm concerned.
726
00:39:43,360 --> 00:39:44,920
And money's not invested?
727
00:39:45,280 --> 00:39:50,800
I have yet to discover everything, and I
can tell you I'm in the unknown.
728
00:39:51,540 --> 00:39:56,780
When Peter died, I was left with the
financial responsibility of raising Leo
729
00:39:56,780 --> 00:39:57,759
my own.
730
00:39:57,760 --> 00:40:01,660
Dorit is in a similar position. She
needs to understand where the money is.
731
00:40:01,920 --> 00:40:04,780
I'm hoping, I'm saying that there's been
many invested. Like these are things
732
00:40:04,780 --> 00:40:06,120
that people live off of.
733
00:40:06,640 --> 00:40:07,980
How do you get here?
734
00:40:08,220 --> 00:40:13,680
Like you have to turn a blind eye to
your bank account for a long time to be
735
00:40:13,680 --> 00:40:16,220
a state where you have no idea if you
have retirement.
736
00:40:16,500 --> 00:40:19,940
I mean, this is like basic information
every woman should know about their
737
00:40:19,940 --> 00:40:20,940
financial reality.
738
00:40:21,660 --> 00:40:24,100
My husband's a complex person.
739
00:40:24,460 --> 00:40:28,780
He's complex. He's not a bad guy, like a
terrible bad guy, vicious.
740
00:40:29,900 --> 00:40:31,600
Does he have some bad behavior?
741
00:40:32,080 --> 00:40:37,620
Absolutely. And then you throw drinking
into the mix, and that, for someone of
742
00:40:37,620 --> 00:40:40,540
his character, it gets even more
complicated. Right.
743
00:40:40,860 --> 00:40:44,140
Not only that, but my name is on
everything.
744
00:40:46,040 --> 00:40:49,600
When I found out our house was in pre
-courclosure, I wasn't just worried
745
00:40:49,600 --> 00:40:50,600
losing the house.
746
00:40:50,660 --> 00:40:55,380
The house is in my name. So if TK stops
paying for something or doesn't make
747
00:40:55,380 --> 00:40:58,300
payments, it's me that suffers the
consequences.
748
00:41:00,170 --> 00:41:03,530
I can't do anything right now. My hands
are tied behind my back. So you need the
749
00:41:03,530 --> 00:41:07,310
clean break to start building everything
back up. Exactly. What can Dorit do,
750
00:41:07,490 --> 00:41:11,370
like proactively, knowing like all of
these unknowns?
751
00:41:11,630 --> 00:41:15,010
Is there anything that she can
proactively do to protect herself?
752
00:41:15,770 --> 00:41:17,110
Or to, like, help the situation.
753
00:41:17,530 --> 00:41:20,850
I think you have to decide what you
want, what you're creating, and, like,
754
00:41:20,850 --> 00:41:23,550
you're going to be. Like, I know that's,
like, a big overarching question. But
755
00:41:23,550 --> 00:41:26,050
who do you want to be as a provider? Who
do you want to be as a woman who earns?
756
00:41:26,170 --> 00:41:28,710
Who do you want to be as a woman who has
been screwed her and now she has to
757
00:41:28,710 --> 00:41:32,210
fill in the gaps? Like, who are you
going to be no matter what he does?
758
00:41:32,270 --> 00:41:34,090
You know what I'm saying? Totally.
Because you're going to have to keep
759
00:41:34,090 --> 00:41:36,250
mind right to go through this battle
with this man. Oh, yeah.
760
00:41:37,310 --> 00:41:39,770
What is this frou -frou mess we're
talking about?
761
00:41:40,430 --> 00:41:42,710
I was looking for one plus one equals
two.
762
00:41:43,690 --> 00:41:47,390
Intention. What kind of provider does
she want to be? What does that even
763
00:41:47,770 --> 00:41:49,770
This is not financial advice.
764
00:41:50,410 --> 00:41:52,030
The math ain't math -ing.
765
00:41:52,290 --> 00:41:58,250
The road we're going, there are no
winners. It is going to get very, very
766
00:42:02,990 --> 00:42:05,730
Next on The Real Housewives of Beverly
Hills.
767
00:42:06,110 --> 00:42:10,810
Erica said, boring. I got her in that
moment. Don't think for two seconds that
768
00:42:10,810 --> 00:42:11,890
you got her in that moment.
769
00:42:14,290 --> 00:42:16,250
Just go now. Here we come.
770
00:42:16,850 --> 00:42:17,850
Let's go, baby.
771
00:42:18,070 --> 00:42:20,750
This is hot girl summer, Rachel. See? I
don't know if I like it.
772
00:42:21,230 --> 00:42:23,970
What? Not the fact that Nisa with no
clothes.
773
00:42:24,330 --> 00:42:29,330
Did you see that picture of Eric in the
tabloids with that guy? Did he approach
774
00:42:29,330 --> 00:42:30,330
you?
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