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Previously on The Real Housewives of
Beverly Hills.
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My God, what did you buy, Dorit?
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What was your total?
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Dorit. She's just like, hey, look, like
Dorit buying things and perhaps it's
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like her moods are erratic a little bit.
Have you talked to Dorit? No. She was
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shopping like crazy, by the way. Maybe
we could have a conversation with Dorit
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one -on -one without the group. Yes.
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Are you ready to enjoy the Italian dolce
vita?
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Look!
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This coat is life. The coat is great on
you. The coat is life, right? Your total
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amount is $3 ,340.
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You might come down for dinner with my
four Gucci bags. Say, hey, I want to
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everyone what I got.
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If Kyle saw me walking around with four
Gucci bags, she would consider this part
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of the manic behavior.
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Should we all get masks?
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Who's going to be Pinocchio?
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Amanda.
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Did you hear Bo say, like, Amanda?
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Yeah. Oh, she was joking. It's the
insinuation that I'm fake.
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Do you think I'm fake? You are not being
clear about your life. I can't have a
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life that looks good and feels good.
Well, your life is not pure.
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In this town, stars come and go, but
diamonds last forever.
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I'd die for fashion, but now I'm living
for me.
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I turn ambition into an art form.
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And I am the masturbator.
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I might live on a main road, but I
definitely bring main character energy.
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I didn't marry him for money.
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I manifested it.
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Survival isn't my story.
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It's my superpower.
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I'm unfiltered, unbothered, and finally,
unburdened.
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Hey, let's live it up. It's our last
night in Tuscany. Let's make it
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Yeah, okay. You're tanning in a full
caftan.
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Your big toe. This one's about to be
tan.
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Can I get a hot latte, an oat milk, and
two shots?
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Thank you.
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Good morning.
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Good morning.
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I'm going to stay in bed all day.
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That sounds like a move. I know. But I
think we're supposed to stomp grapes or
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something. Okay, well, I need to stomp
something out.
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Last night's dinner was a little weird.
I don't know.
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How did you feel?
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Good. It was nice to be strong and just
feel true to myself. Yeah, well, I
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finally saw you talking, so that was
good.
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Here's the difference.
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Before, I was answering whatever
question was there.
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This time I was pushing back. You know
what I mean? Yeah. But I've got to tell
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you something, and it's sitting on me.
It's almost a confessional for myself as
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well.
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In the car on the way home from Florence
yesterday, Erica got
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out her phone and did that chat thing.
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GPT? Yes, and put in your name just to
see what came up and read it out loud.
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And it had little snippets of reviews.
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And they weren't great.
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It just felt very mean -spirited to me.
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If they're looking for bad reviews and
reading them out loud, I would
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consider that mean -spirited.
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And I don't know why, it just got to me.
I just didn't like what I saw.
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And so I did say something.
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But probably not enough.
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I don't like the bathroom business
stuff.
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Girl, what are you talking about?
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Oh, come on. Girl, please. Come on. What
happened after that is Bo's got her
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phone out. Okay, who is Bo's missing
shot? She began her marketing journey at
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Spike Lee's agency and joined PepsiCo in
2005, working on major campaigns with
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superstars like Beyonce.
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I'm just making a comparison. Giving
your leavey. Never give her a leavey.
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Bo's is very impressive.
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And I suppose we know what she did. And
she said, I just want to compare.
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Why do you think Bo is just trying to
compare her own accomplishments to
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I'm sure her digital course doesn't make
money and mine makes millions of
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dollars.
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I just want you to know that, like, I'm
on your side. Thank you. Here,
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entrepreneur and mindset coach.
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Rise to success, global reach, audience
in 185 countries.
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JotGPT is going on and on about how
great I am. So what did she type? Did
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type bad reviews on Amanda Francis?
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I don't know.
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Yeah, it would be. I think they're
trying to build up a scam artist case.
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And if they are, where's the scam?
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I have very happy customers.
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80 % of people.
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No, let me build your business if you
didn't. Right. It wouldn't be here 15
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years later. Right. Making millions of
dollars. That's right.
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Amanda does not have a bad bone in her
body.
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I know we all think that she's trying to
like show off. But when the bedroom
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door is shut, she is still talking about
her business.
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Like still.
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She really loves her business.
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Like, a lot.
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My book was number 19 when it came out
on Amazon out of 40 million books.
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Wow. So do they want to play this game
with me?
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It's so shitty. Like, this is my
livelihood.
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This is how I support my children.
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They know I'm the breadwinner.
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I am shocked.
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Boze is acting like she wants to clear
things up and make progress, but I don't
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think that's true if she's just
speculating about me behind my back and
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to dig up dirt.
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It's mean -spirited, it's hurtful, and
it's got to end.
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How am I supposed to go wine -stomp
grape tasting with Boze? Like, if Boze
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there, how am I not going to say
anything?
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I don't know. Maybe talk, you know,
instead of from a good place.
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Absolutely.
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Oh, good morning.
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I just ordered another coffee.
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I want my second one.
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Oh, I need a coffee.
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I went to bed at five in the morning.
Five.
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I never do that. And I never get up to
eat in the middle of the night. I was
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scrounged like a little burglar in the
night. Hello.
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Where are you going?
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I'm going to go into town right now
because I'm going to be able to look
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for about an hour. And you like to do
that? I love to do it.
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I just cannot believe last night.
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You're lying.
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And you know what doesn't lie?
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The cameras.
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Well,
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it's the truth.
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The truth is
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I have liked Natalie all along, but if
Amanda had not been there and the
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had not been there, it would have been
my word against hers and who knows what
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people would think.
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No, I'm sorry. I don't play that game.
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I can't with this story. I know.
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But, Kyle, that's what we kept asking.
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What are the words that basically came
before and after the word Amanda?
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Well, she's lying. That's why I called
her a liar.
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There we go.
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But are you sure?
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Okay. It's a very strong word.
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Kelly, I'm your sister.
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I know. I'm telling you she told me
something, and then last night she
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the word. No.
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Do you want to believe me?
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Or do you want to believe this person
you just met?
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Okay, then I believe you. Okay.
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So is it a strong word? Yeah. But if
you're lying, then you're lying.
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Yeah. Can I ask you another question?
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Three came in late. Yeah.
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And then she left. Well, she's always
been late.
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And men don't like... Condath Hilton
couldn't be married to Josh at the
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anymore. It was too much.
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Oh, she was late. Oh, we're constantly
getting ready, and it was just...
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I couldn't take it. She was lost.
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Jesus Christ.
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Beyond. Yeah.
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When I told her, I said to me, like,
you're giving me anxiety.
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She said, you know, I just want you to
be here. I want you to be a part of the
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conversation. I don't want you to be
late.
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When she sits down, she's like literally
on her phone texting all of a sudden.
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Dorit's behavior lately has just been so
strange.
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She's either late or always on her
phone.
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Everyone feeling good today?
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I had such a nice day. I had a great
day. I mean, it wasn't long enough.
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I'm worried about her, and I want to
help or get to the bottom of this.
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Coming up.
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When does the stomping start? It starts
now.
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Oh, my God, my trash.
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Do you think this stains?
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I'm not going to be singled out when
everyone thinks the same thing. Both can
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literally say about this and that, and
that's okay. I trust both. I don't trust
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you.
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Not a chance in hell.
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We're going to ride in the van.
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I'm leaving.
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I'm so glad I'm not riding those bikes.
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They look actually really dangerous. Not
dangerous, but terrifying.
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It would be fun to go to a winery and do
a little grape stomping. Grape
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stomping. With shoes on?
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I'm not quite sure how it works.
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I'm wearing heels.
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That's the pool that I was swimming in
this morning.
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I love it. That's great.
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I'm going to do some splashing.
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Italian water is more refreshing than
American water.
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Can we call her and ask how much longer?
Because maybe we go ahead and she
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meets us there. Okay.
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Oh, my God. They did not bring me.
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Okay.
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Kyle's been talking behind my back,
telling the whole group that I'm acting
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erratic. Do you think I want to go for a
walk and sightseeing and grab gelato?
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Not really, but at the same time.
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Maybe this is Kyle's way of extending an
olive branch.
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Maybe she wants to apologize.
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Make me later and later and later.
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I'm really getting antsy. I'm not going
to lie.
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Everyone left but us.
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It's the sun.
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It is so pretty. The sun's going to
regret not doing this. She would have
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crushed it.
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What did you do this morning, Rachel? I
went to Doreen's for a minute, but other
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than that, nothing.
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But honestly, I was super quiet last
night. There was a lot happening, and I
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felt like none of it was... It was like
a three -ring circus.
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It really was, and I felt like a
spectator. I felt like I had front -row
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in the house car.
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Woo! We'll start!
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Rub, don't crash into me. I know!
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We've all seen the movies, the people
riding their bikes through open spaces
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fields, and it's glamorous.
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It is not that way in real life.
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Oh, thank you.
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It's too sweaty.
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All right. Am I bringing my shoes?
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Yes, but I'm not stomping great. Are you
going to put them in your purse? I'm
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just going to keep my fingers on. Oh.
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Hello. Is this a glass of wine I see in
your hand?
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Of course.
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My gosh.
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I love it. We're all finally here.
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And when does the stomping start? It
starts now.
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I have never stomped grapes before. And,
of course, you think of I Love Lucy and
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that famous grape stomping scene. I'm
actually looking forward to it. As an
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actress, now I can put on my red
teammates under special skills, grape
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Some of you will share one of these and
let's see doing the stomping. You don't
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use like a wood thing or anything?
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No, bare feet. Actual bare feet. Your
actual bare feet.
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Oh, no, no. I don't dump grapes.
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I drink grapes.
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I mean, I don't like squishy things.
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I don't, like, first of all, I hate
feet.
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Do I have to take off my shoes?
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Yes. It involves taking off my heels.
So, I'm already uncomfortable with that.
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Rachel's coming in here.
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I'm scared.
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Oh, my gosh, it's so squishy!
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The texture is amazing. You've got to
squeeze the grapes with your toes!
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It feels very strange.
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Oh, my God, my dress. Do you think this
stains?
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Probably. Great.
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Boze is literally the tallest person.
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When I took my shoes off and I realized
our height difference, it was mental.
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You're not even stomping. No, I was
going to stomp. You literally moved the
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grape. I think I've done enough wine
squishing. Oh, my God, I have grape
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between my toes. The fact that I didn't
get injured in that bucket was an
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absolute, like, Tuscan miracle.
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That was fun.
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reaction. Yay!
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So how was the bike ride, girl? We were
in the car, so we didn't get to
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experience it. We missed you on the
bike. Well, I thought we had an
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car ride.
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Oh, yeah? We did. What happened? We kind
of talked about last night.
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I felt like I was playing tennis against
someone who was more skilled than me.
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I'm just curious why, if Amanda's saying
she feels I confirmed that I heard it,
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that I'm being called a liar.
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You didn't really have a secure answer.
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Something about a mask and Amanda, and
it was funny.
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And, you know, I didn't know how that
could be a joke, really.
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And you were called a liar. liar, and
then you were called a liar, which seems
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like harsh words to me. Well, what I
also noticed was nobody thought that
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was a liar. She has more reputation
among the group, so people aren't just
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to jump in and say she's a liar.
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Boze has a commanding presence, so I
think it's normal for people to sort of
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fall in line, but you still have to have
a sense of questioning something that
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they do.
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You can't just be blind.
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That's a very dangerous relationship.
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You do not think you said it? I don't
believe I said it, no. Okay, I think
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that's what I heard. And my point is
that it is best for friendship if when
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say something, you just stand on the
business and say it. I think we have a
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bigger thing to talk about.
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Why were people trying to find things
about me on ChatGBT?
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Because the question was, who is Amanda
Francis?
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And ChatGBT said what?
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You're the money queen, and then it had
a bunch of criticism about you.
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Okay, so.
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I don't know what you want to know about
my business, but I have all the stats.
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80 % of people who buy a course buy a
second course. I have less than a 3 %
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refund rate, which is unheard of in my
industry. That is a very, very low
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of people wanting refunds on digital
products. I don't know why we have to do
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this in the vineyard.
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It feels like the wrong vibe.
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Okay, so here's the problem, Amanda. You
are defending your business instead of
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telling us what you actually do. Who
wouldn't be on the defensive if their
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livelihood and how they support
themselves and how they came from the
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in question? You can counter it by
actually saying what the heart is in it.
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when you jump right to defense, then
obviously people want to come and
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continuously attack.
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The baseline of Amanda's defense
mechanism whenever she gets criticism is
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she's insecure.
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Because if she was actually secure,
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in how she is, how she runs her
business, how she lives her life, then
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able to defend it without getting
watered, without getting angry.
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I'm asking you just a very human
question. Didn't you look at yourself
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and say, this is why I'm great, let's
compare?
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Well, because we were already looking at
you. And I said, oh, this is the person
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who thinks I'm talking about her?
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Reviews of Bozoma St.
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John. Skepticism about short tenures,
brand over substance skepticism.
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Stop.
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Stop.
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This is what she says about me. Her
courses are inspirational, but they lack
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tactical depth.
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High energy, affirming confidence
forward.
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but no concrete advice for people who
need step -by -step execution and
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transformation. They say what she says
about me about her.
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This is why she's doing this.
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Amanda, who told you that what everyone
was talking about in the call? It was
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me. We know it wasn't me. But what was
your intention in telling her about
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comparison? Well, I'll tell you why.
Because when I came into this group six
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years ago, I had just opened my store.
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And the women in the group supported me.
So I want you to know.
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that we support you. I do not have your
support. It's very close to my heart.
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It just is. So my point is that, like,
bring the wall down and let us see you.
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But I have shared my heart multiple
times in multiple conversations.
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Let's do a little manifesting.
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Oh, are we already?
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This is a question I like to ask myself
a lot.
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If I could have anything, what would I
let myself want?
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But it's still hard for me.
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You can simply say what your origin
story is, why you created the business,
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you do what you do. I would love to hear
that. I would love to say it. I will
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say one thing. Outside of our group, I'm
in a world where everyone gets me and
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everyone loves it. All my friends take
my courses and everyone has this
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foundation of what Amanda's about.
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And I haven't been in a world in a long
time where people didn't know who I was
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and what I built and why.
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What? I walk into rooms every day where
people don't know who I am.
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Amanda thinks she's the Beyonce of
business.
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We don't know you.
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I've never heard you in my life.
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I want to get to know you. Take down the
wall and let me see you. Absolutely.
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And that would be fantastic.
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Of course I'm guarded. You're dragging
me through the mud at every dinner,
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making me go on and on and on and on
about stuff that I have tried to clear
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What about that makes you think I'm
going to open up more to you?
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I want to tell you about my business. I
want you to understand me. I want you to
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understand me. But not all the time.
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Just talk about yourself.
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Talk about your babies.
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Coming up.
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Erica, I'm having a conversation with
Kyle. You interjecting. Yeah, I'm going
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still do it. Okay, let's go, girl. I'm
not going anywhere.
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I am. Oh, no.
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I feel like a little kid sitting back
here like...
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Are we there yet? What town are we going
to?
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Oh.
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There's nothing like the exhibit we're
doing there. We'll have a gelato.
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Oh, wow.
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That's a pretty view, though.
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Erica and I are the closest to Dorit in
the group, in spite of what Dorit may be
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saying now that she and Bo's are
besties. So we want to have this
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with her in a more private setting so we
can try to get to the bottom of what's
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going on with her. First, get some
gelato. As far as Dorit knows, we're
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do a little sightseeing and have a
little gelato.
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You're going to be okay?
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Hold on to me.
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Wait, wait, this is too fast for me. I'm
smaller. Okay, okay, okay.
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That's all right. We got it. Both of
you, more heels.
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I thought I was going for gelato at a
normal place. I know you did.
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Fashion first.
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I mean, who comes to a place like this
with stairs like this with these shoes
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on?
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What are we, morons?
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Don't answer that.
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Oh, my God. This place is dead.
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Oh, wow.
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One lonely soul over here.
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This is very pretty, I have to say.
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Okay, I feel awkward. I care about you
both.
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But you two are still at odds. And I
hope whatever this is gets resolved in
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way. And I don't know.
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That's what I got.
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Well, I don't think that's the only
situation going on. I don't like what's
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going on between the two of you.
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Honey, I didn't know that there was
anything going on between us. All I know
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I'm being told that Kyle has these
conversations saying that I'm acting
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and brings up being late and spending.
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I know I used the word erratic. It's
actually too strong of a word. I didn't
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really mean that word. I said it may
even be a little OCD.
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I agree. You've been late, and it feels
disrespectful.
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And I love you. I don't want anything
bad. Eric, am I acting erratic?
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No, you're acting overwhelmed to me.
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That's what I just said, though. I said
erratic is maybe too strong of a word.
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But here's what's not cool.
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I can say something, and you get mad,
but, you know, Bo said that you were in,
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like, you know, a dire situation with
your finances, whatever word she said.
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did. She mentioned, what was the word
she used? She said something about life.
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Was I there?
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No. It came to me that you had concerns
about me.
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So why don't you come to me?
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I know, I get all that. By the way,
everyone has been saying this, yet the
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thing I've received from a friend of
mine is that you have concerns. I feel
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anything anybody says to you, including
myself, is immediately like, you're
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defensive.
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And I understand you're going through a
tough time. I went through a tough time,
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too. And I was very defensive and acted
horribly toward everybody.
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When you're going through a tough time
and your friends who you're leaning on
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for support are coming at you, not from
a concerned place. Who's coming at you?
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Okay, you guys. Who's coming at you?
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Well, Erica's now having an issue with
me. You have an issue with me. No, I'm
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having an honest conversation with you
about my feelings. Do you appreciate her
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or are you mad at me? No, no, no.
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I'm not going to let you do.
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You literally do it every time. You do
it so well that it's almost scary, Kyle.
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Here's the thing, Kyle. I trust Boze. I
don't trust you.
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Unbelievable.
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Dorit is just up Boze's ass, and it's a
little off -putting.
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Last year, there was trust issues, the
whole text message with PK thing. This
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year, we're supposed to be working back,
getting to a place where we do trust
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one another. And how am I supposed to
trust someone who's going behind my back
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in my most vulnerable time talking bad
about me?
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I've given you nothing not to trust me
about. You've given me every reason not
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to trust you. Tell me what it is.
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You're the one who read my text for
millions of people to see. Oh, we're
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back. Yeah. Oh, we'll go back. I don't
mind. Where do you think the trust comes
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from? When you had drastic changes and
were going through something, and I
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didn't even know because you weren't
being honest about it, I didn't go
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your back and express concern.
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Boze asked what was going on. I shared
with her. And I'm saying nothing that
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rest of the group has not said. Rachel
also said this stuff. Is it possible for
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us to talk about just our friendship?
No, you're not bringing everyone up. But
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I'm not going to single that when
everyone thinks the same thing. I'm not.
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did not come to me and voice her
frustrations. So if she came to you and
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frustrations, I do have a problem with
it. Just like I have a problem with you
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voicing your concerns to Boze and not
coming to me.
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Kyle is doing everything but owning her
own opinion right now.
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Let's walk a little because it's really
under the hot beating sun. It's not an
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ideal place for this conversation.
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And getting more and more and more mad
and heated at me, thinking that she can
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deflect from what she's done and how
she's been such a sweet friend by
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my other friends into it. You know I'm
going through a lot. You know I'm
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overwhelmed. Yes. You just said yourself
it's understandable.
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You can't show me some grace, Kyle. I
haven't shown you some grace. That's why
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didn't say anything yet.
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You said it to other people. We've all
said it. Oh, my God. In the heat? You
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guys, seriously? This is not supposed to
be something you get defensive about,
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Kyle. Kyle, I'm not being defensive.
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I'm trying to have a conversation.
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You're the only one screaming, Kyle.
Well, it's really annoying and
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Thank you so much.
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Okay, I will do the same as her.
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Oh,
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we have to
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pay.
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Thank you.
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Listen, I want to have a conversation
about the fact that I feel you have a
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tough time showing me support.
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Dorit, you know you've not asked me
anything about Mo and me ever.
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I'm also separated from my husband. And
it was made a lot longer than you can
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pay. Three times the amount of time. All
you say is everything is perfect. You
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don't seem to want to talk. When you
were depressed, you told us after the
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I ask questions. How do you measure
support?
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If you want to find a problem in every
single thing, you're going to find it.
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You're looking for problems.
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Please, what?
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No, Erica, I'm not doing this.
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I'm having a conversation with Kyle
about issues that I have with Kyle.
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You interjecting in one... Yeah, I'm
going to still do it. Okay, then if you
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want to interject... I'm not going to
stop talking to you. Erica, I don't want
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you to stop talking.
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I want to be able to... Ever. Is that
what you think I want to do? Make you
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talking? Right now, it certainly is. All
right, let's go, girl.
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I'm not going anywhere.
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I am. Oh, yourself.
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She doesn't want to hear anything. She
doesn't want to hear it.
461
00:25:45,540 --> 00:25:46,860
She wants to see the worst in me.
462
00:25:47,320 --> 00:25:48,320
Always.
463
00:25:49,020 --> 00:25:51,060
She really just drove off and left us
here.
464
00:25:53,340 --> 00:25:54,340
Hey!
465
00:25:54,380 --> 00:25:57,960
You've got to be kidding me. How are we
getting home? We'll have to call a...
466
00:25:58,379 --> 00:25:59,379
Italian Uber.
467
00:26:00,520 --> 00:26:01,520
Oh, hi.
468
00:26:01,740 --> 00:26:02,740
Okay.
469
00:26:10,860 --> 00:26:14,060
I'm not going to stop talking to you.
Erica, I don't want you to stop talking.
470
00:26:14,060 --> 00:26:15,060
I'm not going to make you stop talking
ever.
471
00:26:15,700 --> 00:26:16,700
Yourself.
472
00:26:17,340 --> 00:26:18,340
Hey!
473
00:26:19,000 --> 00:26:21,160
She really just drove off and left us
here.
474
00:26:21,540 --> 00:26:24,760
What the hell? When are we getting home?
We're going to have to call Italian
475
00:26:24,760 --> 00:26:25,760
Uber.
476
00:26:28,240 --> 00:26:33,900
Hi, this is Erica, and I'm a guest at
the villa with my friend Kyle. We're in
477
00:26:33,900 --> 00:26:38,560
this town. Our friend left us. We're at
this town, San Miniato. San Miniato.
478
00:26:38,840 --> 00:26:39,840
San Miniato.
479
00:27:15,629 --> 00:27:16,590
I think
480
00:27:16,590 --> 00:27:24,390
that
481
00:27:24,390 --> 00:27:31,310
while all these women are claiming
482
00:27:31,310 --> 00:27:35,530
to be like closer than they are with
Dorit, none of them want to do the dirty
483
00:27:35,530 --> 00:27:37,910
work. They are just saying whatever she
wants to hear.
484
00:27:38,250 --> 00:27:41,250
I'm not just kissing her ass and saying,
I'm going to say anything that makes
485
00:27:41,250 --> 00:27:42,250
you happy.
486
00:27:42,390 --> 00:27:44,170
That's what real friends are. They're
all friends.
487
00:27:45,110 --> 00:27:47,550
I want what's good for her, and I love
her.
488
00:27:47,750 --> 00:27:49,230
I'm not a spider or a fly.
489
00:27:50,270 --> 00:27:51,270
Relax. It's okay.
490
00:27:52,450 --> 00:27:53,149
It's okay.
491
00:27:53,150 --> 00:27:54,150
It's okay.
492
00:27:54,330 --> 00:27:55,129
It's okay.
493
00:27:55,130 --> 00:27:55,889
It's okay.
494
00:27:55,890 --> 00:27:57,530
It's okay.
495
00:28:05,770 --> 00:28:06,770
What was that?
496
00:28:06,810 --> 00:28:08,410
I don't know, but we're going to make
it.
497
00:28:08,650 --> 00:28:09,650
It's going to go away.
498
00:28:10,610 --> 00:28:12,350
I can't let this stay.
499
00:28:12,750 --> 00:28:13,750
I can't.
500
00:28:17,130 --> 00:28:18,130
Did you get everything?
501
00:28:18,370 --> 00:28:19,370
Yeah.
502
00:28:21,070 --> 00:28:23,650
Ah! Oh, I fell down the stair. It's
fine.
503
00:28:25,470 --> 00:28:27,370
Did you text her? Should we go up there?
504
00:28:27,650 --> 00:28:28,649
To her?
505
00:28:28,650 --> 00:28:29,629
Hell no.
506
00:28:29,630 --> 00:28:30,770
I think she's just asking.
507
00:28:31,660 --> 00:28:34,220
Why is it so quiet? Oh, they're probably
still all out.
508
00:28:34,480 --> 00:28:37,040
Okay, and we're late, because we've got
to be at dinner.
509
00:28:37,860 --> 00:28:41,380
I haven't had a falling out with Dorit
like this since Hong Kong. That's like
510
00:28:41,380 --> 00:28:42,380
eight years ago.
511
00:28:42,640 --> 00:28:46,500
You're the only one in this group that I
haven't managed to somehow connect
512
00:28:46,500 --> 00:28:49,120
with, because I don't like both Dorit,
and that's what I think you are.
513
00:28:50,500 --> 00:28:51,980
Oh! Hi!
514
00:28:52,500 --> 00:28:57,880
How was the stomping? The stomping? Oh
my gosh, it was just really gross and
515
00:28:57,880 --> 00:29:00,100
squishy, and we all have purple feet
now.
516
00:29:00,590 --> 00:29:01,590
Wait, where's Dorit?
517
00:29:01,810 --> 00:29:05,950
Well, we don't know. We don't know. She
left us at the place with no ride.
518
00:29:06,310 --> 00:29:06,949
Are you kidding?
519
00:29:06,950 --> 00:29:10,970
No, I'm not kidding. We got into an
intense conversation, and she didn't
520
00:29:10,970 --> 00:29:14,510
what we said, and she got mad and left.
She got mad and left. What? She got in
521
00:29:14,510 --> 00:29:17,890
our car and left us at the place. Today?
Right now? This is before you even got
522
00:29:17,890 --> 00:29:18,469
to town.
523
00:29:18,470 --> 00:29:19,470
No, we were in town.
524
00:29:19,490 --> 00:29:23,610
Wait, okay, sorry, guys. We were walking
and talking. Okay. It got heated, and
525
00:29:23,610 --> 00:29:24,610
she left us.
526
00:29:24,709 --> 00:29:28,430
We're just giving an update on what
happened. Doris got mad and left and
527
00:29:28,430 --> 00:29:31,150
off. Because we were talking to her
about everything and she didn't like it.
528
00:29:31,250 --> 00:29:32,750
Where is she now? We don't know.
529
00:29:33,070 --> 00:29:36,890
It came up about our conversation in the
Hamptons. In the Hamptons, yes, where
530
00:29:36,890 --> 00:29:38,310
you and I talked about her.
531
00:29:39,290 --> 00:29:44,050
So she was upset with me about that. And
I said, everyone has shared the same
532
00:29:44,050 --> 00:29:47,750
sentiment. You know, you've been late a
lot, kind of all over the place. I think
533
00:29:47,750 --> 00:29:50,390
I said erratic or maybe that's too
extreme of a word.
534
00:29:51,210 --> 00:29:52,530
more excessive than usual.
535
00:29:52,750 --> 00:29:56,070
And we've all noticed that. She was
getting really upset about that.
536
00:29:56,310 --> 00:30:00,890
I don't appreciate being dragged into
this whole conversation, Kyle, because I
537
00:30:00,890 --> 00:30:04,870
had a concern that I only expressed
because you were talking about your
538
00:30:04,870 --> 00:30:08,370
concerns. And guess what? I took my
concern to the reef.
539
00:30:08,800 --> 00:30:11,500
So then she started going into this
whole truck thing with me, and I said,
540
00:30:11,560 --> 00:30:14,380
everybody thinks this. And she's like, I
don't want to talk about boats.
541
00:30:14,660 --> 00:30:16,860
And I said, Rachel noticed it in the
airport.
542
00:30:17,240 --> 00:30:18,099
Noticed what?
543
00:30:18,100 --> 00:30:20,660
Noticed what? Noticed, like, we were
left on the same airport.
544
00:30:21,040 --> 00:30:22,040
Oh, my God.
545
00:30:22,500 --> 00:30:26,160
When we were the wheels up, private
plane to Sedona. Look, here's the thing,
546
00:30:26,160 --> 00:30:28,500
guys. It's different for me. I've known
Dorit for two months.
547
00:30:28,920 --> 00:30:32,520
I don't know that this isn't how it's
always been. It doesn't matter. The
548
00:30:32,520 --> 00:30:34,320
is that you noticed it. Of course.
549
00:30:34,640 --> 00:30:35,640
It was, like, stressful.
550
00:30:36,040 --> 00:30:40,360
100%. But stress is a fact. It does
because I can't live like that. It gives
551
00:30:40,360 --> 00:30:44,120
a panic attack. But I actually have
friends that do live like that, and they
552
00:30:44,120 --> 00:30:48,100
on different clocks. And I guess what
I'm saying is, like, yes, it makes me
553
00:30:48,100 --> 00:30:51,640
mental. Yes, it makes me anxious. But I
just assume she's been like this since
554
00:30:51,640 --> 00:30:54,000
you guys know her. I didn't know that
this is new behavior.
555
00:30:54,260 --> 00:30:57,460
I have said, okay, she's late. Okay,
she's this.
556
00:30:57,880 --> 00:31:02,840
But I am not going to jump in on the,
I'm worried about your finances. I'm
557
00:31:02,840 --> 00:31:05,960
worried about your spending. I'm worried
that you're not mentally stable.
558
00:31:06,060 --> 00:31:11,680
Because I don't know that to be true. I
think there has to be a very clear line
559
00:31:11,680 --> 00:31:14,420
of who is you all? Who is we all?
560
00:31:14,940 --> 00:31:17,720
Who is we all? And I'm not part of the
all.
561
00:31:18,320 --> 00:31:20,780
Internet cells, we don't really know
where to go.
562
00:31:21,200 --> 00:31:24,940
I think he's going to be like, I know
you were just coming from a place of
563
00:31:24,940 --> 00:31:26,920
concern. Kyle, don't do your imitation.
564
00:31:27,220 --> 00:31:30,100
Stop it. No, I won't. If I did that, I
would have the accent going, too.
565
00:31:30,680 --> 00:31:31,680
Accent.
566
00:31:33,820 --> 00:31:36,800
Listen, everybody needs a shower. We all
need to change.
567
00:31:37,080 --> 00:31:38,700
Wash all the grapes off our feet.
568
00:31:38,900 --> 00:31:41,940
That is literally grapes in between my
toes. Lovely.
569
00:31:42,140 --> 00:31:43,140
Sounds exciting.
570
00:31:44,529 --> 00:31:47,770
Coming up... I don't care if you bought
a Kelly with your advancement.
571
00:31:47,990 --> 00:31:51,170
It seems I could do it. Quit riding my
ass all the f***ing time.
572
00:32:27,769 --> 00:32:32,490
Here we go. Here we go.
573
00:32:33,770 --> 00:32:35,310
You guys, is Dorit in the car?
574
00:32:35,590 --> 00:32:36,309
She is.
575
00:32:36,310 --> 00:32:39,370
I can't see her. Hey, can I touch you
for a minute?
576
00:32:39,910 --> 00:32:41,650
Yes, of course I can.
577
00:32:42,090 --> 00:32:43,250
Did you speak to Kyle and Erica?
578
00:32:43,450 --> 00:32:46,710
We all came in around the same time, and
we walked in, and they were at the
579
00:32:46,710 --> 00:32:51,610
table. They started talking about being
concerned, about different things, and
580
00:32:51,610 --> 00:32:52,910
being late all the time.
581
00:32:53,390 --> 00:32:58,310
Kyle was saying that everybody in the
group, everybody feels that way. I'm not
582
00:32:58,310 --> 00:32:59,309
okay with that.
583
00:32:59,310 --> 00:33:04,790
At this point, it feels like Kyle is
just trying to drive a wedge between me
584
00:33:04,790 --> 00:33:08,990
whomever. I don't know if it's magnetic,
or if it's just sort of like...
585
00:33:19,280 --> 00:33:26,100
And if she can get the entire group on a
different side to me, she
586
00:33:26,100 --> 00:33:27,180
feels victorious.
587
00:33:28,540 --> 00:33:32,360
The reason why I ended up leaving is
because I don't want to have
588
00:33:32,360 --> 00:33:35,980
about the other girls when the other
girls are not here.
589
00:33:36,780 --> 00:33:39,460
She always gets so mad at me, even
though everyone's thinking the same
590
00:33:39,460 --> 00:33:41,560
saying the same things, and she will
slide with everybody.
591
00:33:41,760 --> 00:33:42,760
I'm tired of that.
592
00:33:43,060 --> 00:33:46,920
You know, I've been a really good
friend, and I'm tired of her with the
593
00:33:46,920 --> 00:33:49,060
narrative of me not being a good person.
594
00:33:51,620 --> 00:33:57,040
She's so disheveled because of her
situation at home, and she's trying to
595
00:33:57,040 --> 00:34:01,540
it all together. But we're all noticing
this, and is it that big of a deal? No.
596
00:34:01,660 --> 00:34:04,820
But what is a big deal to me is that
she's annoyed with me about it and not
597
00:34:04,820 --> 00:34:05,820
anyone else.
598
00:34:06,110 --> 00:34:09,550
I don't know what else I can do. I've
tried talking to her.
599
00:34:09,870 --> 00:34:11,790
I've tried talking to people around her.
600
00:34:12,030 --> 00:34:14,989
I mean, at this point, I don't think she
has a problem with the things I'm
601
00:34:14,989 --> 00:34:17,210
doing. She just has a problem with me.
602
00:34:18,210 --> 00:34:23,230
It's not a nice, gentle conversation
where it's like to be, you know, worried
603
00:34:23,230 --> 00:34:24,929
about you. I spoke to both.
604
00:34:25,190 --> 00:34:29,730
It just feels like someone who's looking
to wind things up. This friendship
605
00:34:29,730 --> 00:34:30,730
sucks.
606
00:34:30,770 --> 00:34:31,770
Like, it sucks.
607
00:34:32,330 --> 00:34:33,330
Oh, I'm not getting any enjoyment.
608
00:34:34,400 --> 00:34:36,780
Friendship. It's like this is not a girl
friendship.
609
00:34:37,199 --> 00:34:41,300
They're questioning each other's
motives, and I don't know how you have a
610
00:34:41,300 --> 00:34:42,699
friendship without trusting each other.
611
00:34:42,920 --> 00:34:44,820
I can't have any relationship with
anyone.
612
00:34:45,080 --> 00:34:47,540
I don't even think I can have a
relationship with my gardener if I don't
613
00:34:47,540 --> 00:34:49,880
him. Right? Because I'm going to kill
all my flowers.
614
00:34:57,020 --> 00:34:58,180
Warning. This way.
615
00:34:58,460 --> 00:35:00,340
I had no idea it was going to be a tram.
616
00:35:00,840 --> 00:35:01,840
Ridiculous.
617
00:35:03,720 --> 00:35:07,440
Oh, my God, this is so cute. This looks
like it was built in the 1920s.
618
00:35:07,820 --> 00:35:12,880
Okay. Now, y 'all, is this the safest
corner? I'll hold your hand.
619
00:35:13,140 --> 00:35:14,480
I really hope it's safe.
620
00:35:14,800 --> 00:35:18,360
Are we doing a dance right now? What is
it? We're taking this out of the
621
00:35:18,360 --> 00:35:20,520
restaurant. Is it high up? It's kind of
high.
622
00:35:23,120 --> 00:35:25,420
I got so upset just now.
623
00:35:28,750 --> 00:35:29,750
I feel good about this.
624
00:35:30,510 --> 00:35:33,170
This is not as scary as it seems.
625
00:35:33,470 --> 00:35:34,830
We don't know what's happening.
626
00:35:35,410 --> 00:35:36,530
Dorit, how are you, babe?
627
00:35:39,210 --> 00:35:44,490
Just when I thought things couldn't be
more uncomfortable, now Dorit is
628
00:35:44,490 --> 00:35:46,950
completely acting like Erica and I are
invisible.
629
00:35:47,430 --> 00:35:51,930
I thought that maybe Dorit would get
back to the house and think about it a
630
00:35:51,930 --> 00:35:55,970
little bit and then come up to us and
say, listen, at some point we should
631
00:35:56,030 --> 00:35:57,270
but I'm sorry I left you guys.
632
00:35:57,690 --> 00:36:00,290
I mean, that would be the normal, right
thing to do.
633
00:36:01,450 --> 00:36:02,450
Well, we are here.
634
00:36:03,570 --> 00:36:09,130
And we are off. There cannot be four
neither.
635
00:36:09,350 --> 00:36:10,350
Oh, my God, look at those heels.
636
00:36:10,550 --> 00:36:11,750
Just a light hike to dinner.
637
00:36:12,150 --> 00:36:13,430
Watch out for the potholes.
638
00:36:14,570 --> 00:36:15,570
Is this where we're going?
639
00:36:16,070 --> 00:36:17,070
Beautiful.
640
00:36:18,950 --> 00:36:19,950
That's gorgeous.
641
00:36:21,410 --> 00:36:22,590
There's a bug. Okay.
642
00:36:26,000 --> 00:36:29,580
Did you order any drinks or anything
like that? No, we have not. I think we
643
00:36:29,580 --> 00:36:35,060
should. Do you have a nice Cabernet or
Super Tuscan? Cabernet, Super Tuscan.
644
00:36:36,100 --> 00:36:37,100
Oh,
645
00:36:37,640 --> 00:36:38,640
what's the best wine?
646
00:36:38,900 --> 00:36:40,440
We're fancy people, can you tell?
647
00:36:42,620 --> 00:36:43,620
Hi.
648
00:36:45,220 --> 00:36:47,940
Can you do like a mojito, but no
alcohol?
649
00:36:48,200 --> 00:36:49,800
Can I have a mojito and an alcohol also?
650
00:36:50,220 --> 00:36:51,220
Are we going to order?
651
00:36:51,520 --> 00:36:53,620
Lasagna bolognese. Una bruschetta.
652
00:36:58,020 --> 00:36:59,000
And then I'm going to have the
653
00:36:59,000 --> 00:37:07,500
spaghetti
654
00:37:07,500 --> 00:37:08,500
con bongole.
655
00:37:08,660 --> 00:37:11,060
Okay. With the profumo di lean.
656
00:37:11,960 --> 00:37:15,200
We're taking James to school on
Saturday. That's nice.
657
00:37:15,560 --> 00:37:21,040
Yeah, it'll be nice. I got our rooms in
Spartanburg. Oh, Lord, Spartanburg,
658
00:37:21,080 --> 00:37:23,260
honey. It's gotten really pretty. South
Carolina?
659
00:37:23,500 --> 00:37:24,960
You know, I went to school in
Spartanburg.
660
00:37:25,280 --> 00:37:27,940
You did? Did I know that? It's a fun
town.
661
00:37:28,240 --> 00:37:30,160
We move him in, and we say goodbye.
662
00:37:30,980 --> 00:37:36,760
I'm about to leave Italy to get James to
fly to South Carolina, where I am
663
00:37:36,760 --> 00:37:39,920
dropping him off for his freshman year
of college.
664
00:37:40,510 --> 00:37:41,510
It'll be fun.
665
00:37:41,710 --> 00:37:42,589
I think.
666
00:37:42,590 --> 00:37:44,810
He's going to be all the way across the
country.
667
00:37:45,170 --> 00:37:47,030
It's just very emotional.
668
00:37:47,650 --> 00:37:50,410
You know, he's my youngest and my last.
669
00:37:51,690 --> 00:37:53,850
Excuse me. Raise our glasses.
670
00:37:54,670 --> 00:38:00,190
I want to thank you both for putting
together such an incredible trip. Oh,
671
00:38:00,190 --> 00:38:05,570
you so much. This is truly so beautiful,
and I hope that we're all taking in how
672
00:38:05,570 --> 00:38:07,630
special this is. Amen. Thank you.
673
00:38:07,970 --> 00:38:08,970
Cheers.
674
00:38:09,370 --> 00:38:16,250
Cheers, everybody. Cheers. I love your
hair pieces that you were breaking out.
675
00:38:16,310 --> 00:38:21,470
My favorite by far was that hat. I want
every headdress you have. I love them. I
676
00:38:21,470 --> 00:38:22,470
collect them.
677
00:38:22,549 --> 00:38:23,970
Erica, that is like a big pie.
678
00:38:24,230 --> 00:38:27,750
Yeah, that's why I only ordered one
thing. Was it good? Is it good? It is
679
00:38:27,910 --> 00:38:29,290
Can I say something, guys? Yes.
680
00:38:29,870 --> 00:38:33,170
It feels awkward. It's like weird that
we're not acknowledging what happened
681
00:38:33,170 --> 00:38:34,770
today. All right, here we go.
682
00:38:44,810 --> 00:38:48,610
Can I say something, guys? Yeah. It
feels awkward. It's like weird that
683
00:38:48,610 --> 00:38:49,990
not acknowledging what happened today.
684
00:38:50,270 --> 00:38:52,190
All right, here we go. You left.
685
00:38:52,490 --> 00:38:53,890
I left because...
686
00:38:54,250 --> 00:38:57,710
It didn't feel like it was
conversational. It didn't feel gentle.
687
00:38:58,030 --> 00:39:00,790
It felt deflective. It felt aggressive.
688
00:39:01,610 --> 00:39:04,590
What I said to you was I wanted to talk
about our friendship, how you're
689
00:39:04,590 --> 00:39:07,690
feeling, and you kept bringing it back
to the group. And I said everyone's
690
00:39:07,690 --> 00:39:08,690
sharing the same sentiment.
691
00:39:08,790 --> 00:39:11,270
Right. I did hear you say that. You said
it multiple times.
692
00:39:11,490 --> 00:39:17,030
You kept bringing Rachel and Boze into
it. You said Rachel was very frustrated.
693
00:39:18,930 --> 00:39:24,230
Nothing mean or negative or malicious.
It was just an observation that Rachel
694
00:39:24,230 --> 00:39:26,470
and I talked about when we were sitting
at the airport.
695
00:39:27,170 --> 00:39:29,310
I don't want it to be confused.
696
00:39:29,880 --> 00:39:34,340
My frustrations with anyone who is late,
be it Dorit or anybody else, it's an
697
00:39:34,340 --> 00:39:38,060
overall feeling that someone else's time
is more important than someone else's.
698
00:39:38,080 --> 00:39:40,740
Well, in the Hamptons, you said we're
running on Dorit's time.
699
00:39:40,940 --> 00:39:42,940
Dorit is still MIA.
700
00:39:43,260 --> 00:39:44,900
On Dorit's time.
701
00:39:45,320 --> 00:39:46,520
We're on Dorit's time, exactly.
702
00:39:46,960 --> 00:39:51,400
I said that to Dorit, that she has her
time, but I learned that in Arizona that
703
00:39:51,400 --> 00:39:53,060
there's a different time that she runs
on.
704
00:39:53,280 --> 00:39:54,280
Where is Dorit?
705
00:39:54,400 --> 00:39:57,160
She's a late person. The amount of time.
706
00:39:59,210 --> 00:40:02,770
There's nothing that Rachel has said
just now that she hasn't said to me. I
707
00:40:02,770 --> 00:40:06,870
think what you're missing, and what I
kept saying is, I'll address it with
708
00:40:06,870 --> 00:40:10,350
when I'm with both. I'll address it with
Rachel when I'm with Rachel. And you
709
00:40:10,350 --> 00:40:13,350
kept bringing it back to the group.
Because I'm not going to have you single
710
00:40:13,350 --> 00:40:14,350
out all the time, Dorit.
711
00:40:14,610 --> 00:40:17,230
When everyone was saying the same thing,
I'm not going to have you do that.
712
00:40:17,470 --> 00:40:20,570
You're off the hook. They're fine.
They're talking. I'm not off the hook.
713
00:40:21,270 --> 00:40:23,890
What is the difference? So you came to
my house.
714
00:40:24,320 --> 00:40:29,300
And you told me you'd spoken to Kyle
when we were in the Hamptons. She said
715
00:40:29,300 --> 00:40:30,480
I was acting erratic.
716
00:40:30,940 --> 00:40:34,740
Kyle and I, we were sleeping 10 feet
from one another. And if she had any
717
00:40:34,740 --> 00:40:39,700
concern, she would have at any point in
four days that we spent together, come
718
00:40:39,700 --> 00:40:44,120
say to me, how you doing? I'm a little
worried about you. I'm concerned.
719
00:40:44,830 --> 00:40:47,750
And that never happened. We were having
fun. We had the best time.
720
00:40:47,990 --> 00:40:51,870
Why would I sit there and say that when
I didn't feel it was the time? So you
721
00:40:51,870 --> 00:40:55,050
didn't feel it was the time to speak to
me about it, but it was the time to
722
00:40:55,050 --> 00:40:59,650
speak to both about it. It was more for
me about the erratic, you know, like,
723
00:40:59,770 --> 00:41:03,070
you know, it's all over the place. Like
even like coming out of the car today,
724
00:41:03,130 --> 00:41:06,210
you're like this in your bag for like 10
minutes. We're like, what you doing in
725
00:41:06,210 --> 00:41:07,210
the car?
726
00:41:15,850 --> 00:41:17,230
You're not waiting for me, are you?
727
00:41:17,670 --> 00:41:21,710
No. It was stuff like that that we're
like, what's going on with her? And I
728
00:41:21,710 --> 00:41:25,270
don't really care about your spending.
As a friend, I would say, don't spend
729
00:41:25,270 --> 00:41:27,470
that much. And I ask my friends, do that
for me too.
730
00:41:27,730 --> 00:41:31,050
Other than that, do what you want with
her. I don't care about that.
731
00:41:31,270 --> 00:41:35,090
I will, thank you. I don't think it's
anyone's business. What I'm spending,
732
00:41:35,090 --> 00:41:39,690
I'm buying, and if anyone has any
concern, I would expect that it's direct
733
00:41:39,690 --> 00:41:42,570
me. It's come up with the people that
have the same concern.
734
00:41:43,180 --> 00:41:47,140
I can see clearly what Kyle is doing.
She's trying to garner support for her
735
00:41:47,140 --> 00:41:52,860
opinion so that it can seem more
palatable to Dorit. But in actuality,
736
00:41:52,860 --> 00:41:56,760
should just stand on her own opinion
versus trying to pull anybody else in.
737
00:41:58,260 --> 00:42:03,400
You express concern to everybody behind
my back but to me. Stop, okay?
738
00:42:03,900 --> 00:42:07,820
All I keep hearing from Kyle is, I've
basically been talking about you with
739
00:42:07,820 --> 00:42:11,360
everybody. Rachel and Boze and the
entire group.
740
00:42:11,900 --> 00:42:13,720
What's the common denominator here,
people?
741
00:42:14,380 --> 00:42:15,380
Kyle!
742
00:42:16,020 --> 00:42:18,220
I don't care if you bought a Kelly with
your advancement.
743
00:42:18,460 --> 00:42:19,460
It seems like you do.
744
00:42:20,120 --> 00:42:23,500
I didn't say that. Boze is the one who
talked about the Kelly. I don't care
745
00:42:23,500 --> 00:42:26,700
you bought the Kelly. Please stop saying
you don't care about something after
746
00:42:26,700 --> 00:42:31,400
you've just said and mentioned it about
something when you've just mentioned.
747
00:42:31,500 --> 00:42:33,620
Quit biting my ass all the time.
748
00:42:35,260 --> 00:42:36,260
Gosh.
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