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RIP-FIXES-SYNC
by VaVooM
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For those continuing
with the second part
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of this course next semester,
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we will explore the
development and evolution
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of social customs.
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For example, the first recorded
marriage contract
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can be traced back 4,000 years.
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Those records were found
primarily in Mesopotamia
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and seem to have only existed
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as ways of preserving power
and furthering lineages.
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I'd like to think times
have changed since then.
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It wasn't until the
Enlightenment that the notion
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of marrying for love
became widely accepted.
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All right, who forgot to
turn their cellphone off
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from the last class?
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I think
it's coming from outside.
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That's so weird.
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- Is that Professor Larson?
- What?
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I will be right back.
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What is all of this?
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Happy anniversary!
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Hold that thought.
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So six months ago today
was our very first date,
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and ever since the moment
that you bumped into me
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and spilled my coffee
everywhere,
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I knew you were the one.
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And I never understood
the saying,
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"When you know, you know",
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till I met you.
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So...
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Dr. Stephanie Bishop,
will you marry me?
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- Yes.
- Yes?
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Yes, a million times, yes.
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It's a little loose.
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It doesn't matter.
I love it.
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- And I love you.
- I love you too.
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I love how you basically
highlighted this entire article.
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He makes a lot of good points.
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You know, between his books
and his Ted Talks,
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you're kind of a fanboy.
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And I am very proud of it.
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Are you almost done?
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We still have to
swing by my apartment.
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Hey, quick question.
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Which color bathing suit conveys
to your family how honored I am
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to spend the summer with them
at their vacation house?
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And also how much I love you,
and I'm excited to marry you?
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I'm not sure you can get all
that from a bathing suit color.
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I think green.
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You know you have nothing
to be nervous about.
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I'm not nervous.
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Okay, I'm a little nervous.
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I met them one time for like
five minutes in passing.
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Now I'm spending a significant
amount of time with them,
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and you are so close.
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I just really want them
to like me.
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They will love you
because I love you.
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Besides, after a few rounds of
golf on the course with my dad,
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you will be best buds.
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I never played golf.
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- Like ever?
- No.
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Don't worry.
You will be fine.
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Okay, maybe I could
take a few lessons.
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We don't leave for a few hours.
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Ben, how many sweaters
did you pack?
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- I like to layer.
- Yes, but it's Palm Springs,
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and we're gonna be in
flip-flops most of the time.
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And I was a Boy Scout.
I go prepared.
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See? Now it actually closes,
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and you have room
for other things like...
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a magazine,
some light reading by the pool.
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You make fun, but James Quincy's
article on emerging markets
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will make you rethink everything
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you thought you knew
about economics.
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I'm sorry you got passed over
for that job with Quincy.
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I'm not. If I got
the teaching job at Oxford,
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I never would've met you.
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Then I guess everything worked
out the way it was supposed to.
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Sure did. Now I'm engaged to
an almost-tenured professor,
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and we're going to Palm Springs
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to spend time with people
that you love most.
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I love the sound of that.
"Tenured professor".
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You worked really hard.
I'm proud of you.
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Life is good.
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- How's it fit?
- It fits perfectly.
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I'm sorry it was
a little loose before,
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but I didn't wanna
ruin the surprise
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by asking you
what size ring you wear.
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- Thought I guessed right.
- You were close.
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I know you get superstitious
about that kind of stuff,
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so please, for me,
do not read into it.
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You mean how like
in 16th century Persia,
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if the ring didn't fit,
it was seen as a bad omen?
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It might've crossed
my mind for a moment,
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but then I realized
it's a myth and not at all real.
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The perks of dating
an entomology professor.
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Engaged to.
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Hi, Dad.
Calling for an ETA?
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Yes, yes, your mom wants to know
how much to make for dinner.
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We're gonna leave here
in a few hours,
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so we should be on time.
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Are Tracy and Preston there yet?
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No, their flight was
delayed out of San Francisco.
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Listen, Stephanie...
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Yeah?
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Drive safe.
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We will. Love you.
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Love you too.
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Okay.
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- Did you tell her?
- I was about to,
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but it didn't feel like
the right moment.
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It's a lot to spring on them,
but the girls will understand.
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I hope so.
They love this house
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and all the summers
we've spent here.
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It's hard telling them
we're selling it.
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I know, but they know
you're retiring
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and that we've always
wanted to travel.
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I know, but it's big news.
We should tell them in person.
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All right.
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Then somebody better go take the
"For Sale" sign off the lawn.
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Right.
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Good thinking.
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So every summer, Dad would take
a month off from the clinic
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so that we could all be
together at the house
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for some Bishop family
bonding time.
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It's where I took
my first steps,
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it's where I learned to swim,
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and the country club hosts
this super fun jamboree
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on the Fourth of July.
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This place sounds like
more than just a house.
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What?
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I have an idea.
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Okay.
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What if we get married
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at the vacation house
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on the Fourth of July?
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Fireworks and all.
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Like this Fourth of July,
in four weeks.
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No, of course not
this Fourth of July.
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Next summer.
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We've got the time.
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- I love it.
- You do?
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Yeah, if it's your dream to get
married on the Fourth of July
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at your family vacation house,
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then it's mine too.
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This place is amazing.
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- Home away from home.
- I love it.
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Wait till you see the backyard.
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- Here we are.
- There she is!
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Hi, Mom!
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Perfect timing.
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And Ben.
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Ben, we're so glad you are here.
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Come on, everybody, follow me.
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Are you okay?
What's going on?
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Oh, yeah. Oh, my gosh,
I'm never better.
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I'm so excited, you two.
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- Come on, your Dad's waiting.
- Okay.
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Hey, hey, hey,
did you tell her already?
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No. Maybe one of my students
posted on social media.
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Maybe.
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Honey, sweetheart, they're here.
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They just arrived.
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Tracy, Preston, you made it.
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We're so excited.
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- Here you go.
- Welcome to the desert.
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Stephanie, Ben,
so glad you're here.
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Big news.
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What's going on?
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A soon-to-be wedding.
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Wait, who told you
that we're engaged?
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You're engaged?
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- You and...
- Ben.
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Ben, right.
How can you be engaged?
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Didn't you just start dating?
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Is that not what
this champagne is for?
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I'm so confused.
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No! The champagne is because
Preston and I are engaged.
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No!
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- Congratulations!
- Congratulations to you!
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Can you believe this?
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No, not a bit.
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Congratulations, Preston.
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Thank you.
Congratulations to you as well.
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Stephanie and Ben are engaged.
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So how long have you two
been dating again?
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Six months,
but we knew right away.
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Six mo... Fast.
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And when did this happen?
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A couple days ago.
What about you guys?
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Last week.
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Mr. Bishop, thank you for
inviting me into your home.
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Your house is beautiful.
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Technically,
Stephanie invited you.
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I just didn't say no.
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Steph, let me see your ring.
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Obviously,
you're my maid of honor.
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And obviously you're mine.
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And since it was always
our favorite holiday,
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Preston and I
decided to get married
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right here at the house
on the Fourth of July.
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I was just telling Ben
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that I wanted to get married
on the Fourth of July.
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No way! Did you guys want
this Fourth of July?
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No. Next year.
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Okay, great,
because Preston and I
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wanna get married this summer.
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Honey, that's only
four weeks away.
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I know it's fast, but Preston's
grandma's getting older,
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and he really wants her
to be at the wedding.
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The longer we wait, the harder
it is for her to travel,
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and I know how much
it means for Tracy
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that we get married
right here at the house.
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Well, that works for us.
We can have our turn next year.
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Let's just see
how everything pans out.
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Tracy and Preston were together
quite a long time
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before even considering
an engagement.
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Dad.
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I just don't want anyone
rushing into anything.
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A toast... to us.
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- We're both engaged!
- Yay!
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Toast!
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All right,
let's give Ben the tour.
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Yes.
So how was the drive out?
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Enjoy!
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They've been together
six months.
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Tracy wants to get married
in four weeks.
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Oh, boy.
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Boy is right.
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So where do you want these?
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You're two doors down from me,
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and it has an amazing view.
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I don't think your parents
were very thrilled
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about the engagement.
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They just weren't expecting it.
They'll come around.
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Hope so. I know you mentioned
you were engaged before.
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You think that's why
they're hesitant?
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No, I don't think that has
anything to do with it.
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It was a long time ago.
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I think it's just that
Tracy and Preston
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have been together
for like 10 years
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and not used to a relationship
moving this quickly.
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Okay, well, I won't worry then.
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Okay, good.
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Morning!
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Hi.
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Morning, morning, welcome.
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Please help yourselves.
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Waffle and pancakes.
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You don't see that too often.
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Well, I know it's silly,
but it's a tradition.
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When the girls were little,
they couldn't decide
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between waffles and pancakes,
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so first breakfast
of every summer, we have both.
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You're in full planning mode,
aren't you?
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Just under four weeks
is not a lot of time.
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We've gotta be smart
and diligent about this.
258
00:12:57,503 --> 00:12:59,803
Divide and conquer.
Lists are key.
259
00:12:59,839 --> 00:13:01,772
Can you tell Tracy's a lawyer?
260
00:13:01,807 --> 00:13:03,607
Ben, please help yourself.
261
00:13:03,643 --> 00:13:05,376
Shouldn't we wait
for Preston and Robert?
262
00:13:05,411 --> 00:13:07,478
No, I'm sure they grabbed
something at the club.
263
00:13:07,513 --> 00:13:09,413
I told them to wait to see
if you wanted to go,
264
00:13:09,448 --> 00:13:11,059
but they didn't wanna
lose their tee time.
265
00:13:11,083 --> 00:13:12,483
Trust me, I do not blame them.
266
00:13:12,518 --> 00:13:14,885
I do not know the first thing
about golf.
267
00:13:14,921 --> 00:13:17,354
Now that you and Stephanie are
engaged, you'll have to learn.
268
00:13:17,390 --> 00:13:20,958
No, he doesn't have to learn.
It is not mandatory.
269
00:13:20,993 --> 00:13:22,326
So what's first?
270
00:13:22,361 --> 00:13:24,795
Mom and I are going to
look at dresses today.
271
00:13:24,830 --> 00:13:26,341
I already sent out
the save-the-date email,
272
00:13:26,365 --> 00:13:28,299
but I need you to order
the invitations face-up.
273
00:13:28,334 --> 00:13:30,167
- And look into the cake.
- Frankie's?
274
00:13:30,202 --> 00:13:32,169
- Where else?
- What's Frankie's?
275
00:13:32,204 --> 00:13:34,939
It's a bakery we used to
go to when we were little.
276
00:13:34,974 --> 00:13:36,740
I was thinking layered.
277
00:13:36,776 --> 00:13:38,287
- Obviously.
- With fresh strawberries.
278
00:13:38,311 --> 00:13:40,311
And blueberries
and cream-filled,
279
00:13:40,346 --> 00:13:41,523
and then it's red,
white, and blue.
280
00:13:41,547 --> 00:13:43,113
And if we do that,
we might as well
281
00:13:43,149 --> 00:13:45,449
make the whole wedding
coordinate with those colors.
282
00:13:45,484 --> 00:13:46,695
I mean,
it is the Fourth of July.
283
00:13:46,719 --> 00:13:48,085
And my dress will be white.
284
00:13:48,120 --> 00:13:49,553
And mine will be blue.
285
00:13:49,589 --> 00:13:50,988
And that works on two levels
286
00:13:51,023 --> 00:13:52,501
because it will work
with the wedding colors,
287
00:13:52,525 --> 00:13:54,491
but also you can bring me
something blue.
288
00:13:54,527 --> 00:13:56,160
And we can do
red floral arrangements.
289
00:13:56,195 --> 00:13:57,494
Love it!
290
00:13:57,530 --> 00:13:59,229
Here you go, honey.
You're gonna need it
291
00:13:59,265 --> 00:14:00,931
to keep up with them.
292
00:14:00,967 --> 00:14:03,133
- Thank you.
- You're welcome.
293
00:14:03,169 --> 00:14:05,135
All right,
so cake and invitations.
294
00:14:05,171 --> 00:14:08,606
That's not too bad, seeing as
Tracy's list was very long.
295
00:14:08,641 --> 00:14:10,207
Easily doable.
296
00:14:10,242 --> 00:14:13,344
The best part is we can use
their list for our wedding.
297
00:14:13,379 --> 00:14:15,613
Easy breezy.
298
00:14:17,483 --> 00:14:18,549
Good morning!
299
00:14:18,584 --> 00:14:20,217
Good morning.
Can I help you?
300
00:14:20,252 --> 00:14:22,686
I'm guessing you're
one of the Bishop daughters.
301
00:14:22,722 --> 00:14:24,154
Yes. I am Stephanie.
302
00:14:24,190 --> 00:14:27,691
- And this is my fiancé Ben.
- Nice to meet you.
303
00:14:27,727 --> 00:14:29,960
That's the first time
I introduced you as my fiancé.
304
00:14:29,996 --> 00:14:31,195
- I like it.
- Me too.
305
00:14:31,230 --> 00:14:33,130
Well, congratulations
to you both.
306
00:14:33,165 --> 00:14:34,743
Your parents said
nothing but great things
307
00:14:34,767 --> 00:14:35,866
about you and your sister.
308
00:14:35,901 --> 00:14:37,368
Thank you.
309
00:14:37,403 --> 00:14:39,169
Who are you?
310
00:14:39,205 --> 00:14:42,306
I'm so sorry.
Where are my manners?
311
00:14:42,341 --> 00:14:44,475
I'm Anna Kim, your parents'
real estate broker.
312
00:14:44,510 --> 00:14:45,442
Their what?
313
00:14:45,478 --> 00:14:47,478
Broker for the house.
314
00:14:47,513 --> 00:14:51,482
I couldn't wait to tell them.
We have our first offer.
315
00:14:51,517 --> 00:14:53,417
My parents are
selling the house?
316
00:14:58,791 --> 00:15:00,591
We wanted to tell you
last night,
317
00:15:00,626 --> 00:15:02,037
but then you both announced
you were engaged,
318
00:15:02,061 --> 00:15:04,094
and it took us by surprise.
319
00:15:04,130 --> 00:15:06,797
I can't believe that
you're selling this house.
320
00:15:06,832 --> 00:15:08,732
Honey, it was
a really hard decision,
321
00:15:08,768 --> 00:15:10,334
but with your dad
about to retire,
322
00:15:10,369 --> 00:15:13,303
selling this house means
we could travel the world.
323
00:15:13,339 --> 00:15:14,905
We got married so young,
324
00:15:14,940 --> 00:15:16,674
and then I went straight
to medical school,
325
00:15:16,709 --> 00:15:18,275
and then you guys came along.
326
00:15:18,310 --> 00:15:22,212
I loved every second of it,
but now we have the time.
327
00:15:22,248 --> 00:15:24,248
I want you guys
to have this opportunity.
328
00:15:24,283 --> 00:15:25,816
You deserve it.
329
00:15:25,851 --> 00:15:29,053
It's just gonna be hard
not to have this place.
330
00:15:29,088 --> 00:15:30,988
How about a compromise?
331
00:15:31,023 --> 00:15:33,590
Your dad and I put off selling
the house for a year or two,
332
00:15:33,626 --> 00:15:36,160
that way you can still get
married here next summer.
333
00:15:36,195 --> 00:15:38,095
The buyer that put in an offer
334
00:15:38,130 --> 00:15:40,364
wants the house
by the end of the summer.
335
00:15:44,770 --> 00:15:46,870
Well, we'll just have
to decline the offer.
336
00:15:46,906 --> 00:15:49,406
I highly advise against that.
337
00:15:49,442 --> 00:15:51,875
I mean, it's well over
the asking price,
338
00:15:51,911 --> 00:15:53,510
and you know the saying:
339
00:15:53,546 --> 00:15:56,080
Your first offer's
always the best offer.
340
00:15:56,115 --> 00:15:58,682
I don't know if this helps,
but it is a smart time to sell.
341
00:15:58,718 --> 00:16:00,796
I mean, with what you could
save on property taxes alone,
342
00:16:00,820 --> 00:16:02,453
it'd do wonders
for your retirement fund.
343
00:16:02,488 --> 00:16:05,823
Spoken like
a true economics professor.
344
00:16:05,858 --> 00:16:07,591
He's right.
345
00:16:07,626 --> 00:16:10,127
I don't want you guys to miss
out on a good deal 'cause of me.
346
00:16:10,162 --> 00:16:12,496
Stephanie, would you
really be okay
347
00:16:12,531 --> 00:16:14,898
not getting married here?
348
00:16:14,934 --> 00:16:17,167
Yeah. Ben and I will
find somewhere else.
349
00:16:17,203 --> 00:16:18,402
Definitely.
350
00:16:18,437 --> 00:16:20,270
Might be a blessing in disguise.
351
00:16:20,306 --> 00:16:22,439
That way you could
take your time
352
00:16:22,475 --> 00:16:24,374
finding the perfect place.
353
00:16:24,410 --> 00:16:27,544
Nothing wrong with
a long engagement.
354
00:16:27,580 --> 00:16:31,315
This just means we'll have to
make your wedding the best ever
355
00:16:31,350 --> 00:16:34,518
'cause it'll be
our final hurrah here.
356
00:16:40,827 --> 00:16:42,560
So these are more
traditional ones.
357
00:16:42,596 --> 00:16:44,462
Clean backgrounds.
358
00:16:44,498 --> 00:16:46,297
I like that one.
359
00:16:46,333 --> 00:16:48,266
Okay.
360
00:16:48,301 --> 00:16:49,567
Stephanie.
361
00:16:49,603 --> 00:16:50,735
What do you think?
362
00:16:50,771 --> 00:16:52,237
It's nice.
363
00:16:52,272 --> 00:16:55,240
It's just a little plain.
364
00:16:55,275 --> 00:16:57,175
You okay?
We should pick one soon.
365
00:16:57,210 --> 00:16:59,544
Tracy told me she has a print
shop on standby for tonight.
366
00:16:59,579 --> 00:17:02,046
Right. I'm just
a little distracted. Sorry.
367
00:17:02,082 --> 00:17:04,349
You know what?
Let me go grab the other binder.
368
00:17:04,384 --> 00:17:06,484
There might be something
more your taste in there.
369
00:17:06,520 --> 00:17:08,486
- One sec.
- Thank you.
370
00:17:09,456 --> 00:17:10,666
Still thinking about the house?
371
00:17:10,690 --> 00:17:14,159
Minor aftershock, I think.
372
00:17:14,194 --> 00:17:16,227
Just wasn't expecting it.
373
00:17:16,263 --> 00:17:19,097
I completely get
where your dad's coming from.
374
00:17:19,132 --> 00:17:20,765
Although with that being said,
375
00:17:20,801 --> 00:17:22,178
I didn't spend
my childhood vacations here.
376
00:17:22,202 --> 00:17:23,902
I mean, I get
why they're selling it.
377
00:17:23,937 --> 00:17:29,073
I guess I just always envisioned
bringing my own kids here.
378
00:17:29,109 --> 00:17:30,508
Our kids.
379
00:17:33,146 --> 00:17:37,649
What do you think of these?
380
00:17:37,684 --> 00:17:38,950
Ooh, I like this.
381
00:17:38,985 --> 00:17:40,785
I mean, it's not really
in our theme,
382
00:17:40,821 --> 00:17:44,422
but it is the shade of purple
that is my favorite color.
383
00:17:44,457 --> 00:17:46,057
- Really?
- Totally.
384
00:17:46,092 --> 00:17:48,560
In middle school, I wore the
same purple hoodie every day.
385
00:17:48,595 --> 00:17:50,228
- Drove my mom nuts.
- That's funny.
386
00:17:50,263 --> 00:17:53,398
Yeah, took my fashion sense
a little bit of time.
387
00:17:53,433 --> 00:17:57,335
No, I mean, it's funny that I
didn't know your favorite color.
388
00:17:57,370 --> 00:18:01,706
Well, I guess
it just never came up.
389
00:18:01,741 --> 00:18:03,575
What's yours?
390
00:18:03,610 --> 00:18:04,509
Orange.
391
00:18:04,544 --> 00:18:07,045
- Orange.
- Yeah.
392
00:18:07,080 --> 00:18:09,080
Yeah, I prefer the burnt tones.
393
00:18:10,417 --> 00:18:12,550
I did not expect that.
394
00:18:14,354 --> 00:18:15,553
- That one.
- This one.
395
00:18:15,589 --> 00:18:17,222
Okay.
396
00:18:17,257 --> 00:18:20,258
You know, you guys make
a very cute couple.
397
00:18:24,998 --> 00:18:26,831
Where are we off to now?
398
00:18:26,867 --> 00:18:29,734
Off to Frankie's
to get a cake, of course.
399
00:18:40,914 --> 00:18:42,580
- Stephanie!
- Frankie.
400
00:18:42,616 --> 00:18:43,882
It's been too long.
401
00:18:43,917 --> 00:18:45,917
I know.
Last summer I was in Antigua,
402
00:18:45,952 --> 00:18:48,453
researching the indigenous
people of the Arawak.
403
00:18:48,488 --> 00:18:50,922
As one does.
404
00:18:50,957 --> 00:18:54,158
Hey, I saw that your parents
listed their house.
405
00:18:54,194 --> 00:18:55,994
Yeah, they already
have an offer.
406
00:18:58,164 --> 00:19:00,164
This is my fiancé Ben.
407
00:19:00,200 --> 00:19:01,532
Fiancé?
408
00:19:01,568 --> 00:19:03,034
Nice meeting you, Ben.
409
00:19:03,069 --> 00:19:05,703
Nice to meet you too.
It smells amazing in here.
410
00:19:05,739 --> 00:19:07,338
Well, you have to have a sample.
411
00:19:07,374 --> 00:19:10,408
Frankie used to spoil us with
her samples when we were little.
412
00:19:10,443 --> 00:19:12,388
Well, you and your sister
were my favorite customers.
413
00:19:12,412 --> 00:19:15,713
Now, these are
our newest creation.
414
00:19:15,749 --> 00:19:17,181
Okay.
415
00:19:17,217 --> 00:19:18,449
Thanks.
416
00:19:21,021 --> 00:19:22,153
What do you think?
417
00:19:22,188 --> 00:19:23,988
Oh, my gosh, that's so good.
418
00:19:24,024 --> 00:19:25,635
No wonder we're getting
the cake from here.
419
00:19:25,659 --> 00:19:27,792
Cake? For your wedding?
420
00:19:27,827 --> 00:19:29,193
No, for Tracy and Preston.
421
00:19:29,229 --> 00:19:30,728
They got engaged
at the same time,
422
00:19:30,764 --> 00:19:33,398
but their wedding is first
on the Fourth of July.
423
00:19:33,433 --> 00:19:36,301
That's wonderful!
424
00:19:36,336 --> 00:19:39,170
Wait. Do you mean
this Fourth of July?
425
00:19:39,205 --> 00:19:40,571
Yes.
426
00:19:40,607 --> 00:19:43,074
We're backed up on orders
for months.
427
00:19:43,109 --> 00:19:46,744
I'm so sorry, but that's
the busiest time of the year.
428
00:19:46,780 --> 00:19:48,379
Oh, no.
429
00:19:48,415 --> 00:19:50,281
Little Frankie
would be so disappointed
430
00:19:50,317 --> 00:19:53,217
if she knew we couldn't get
the wedding cake here.
431
00:19:53,253 --> 00:19:57,155
Well, I would never
disappoint Little Frankie.
432
00:19:57,190 --> 00:19:59,958
Let me go check the order book.
I'll see what I can do.
433
00:19:59,993 --> 00:20:03,828
Little Frankie!
434
00:20:03,863 --> 00:20:05,997
Who's Little Frankie?
435
00:20:06,032 --> 00:20:09,334
When I was like 10 or so,
I wanted an extra cookie,
436
00:20:09,369 --> 00:20:12,070
so I told her that I would name
one of my kids after her.
437
00:20:12,105 --> 00:20:14,339
- Good to know.
- Yeah, so take note.
438
00:20:14,374 --> 00:20:16,674
Number four or five
has to be named Frankie.
439
00:20:16,710 --> 00:20:18,176
Wait, you want
four or five kids?
440
00:20:18,211 --> 00:20:20,244
Try five or six.
You knew that.
441
00:20:20,280 --> 00:20:22,146
I did not know that.
442
00:20:22,182 --> 00:20:23,381
How many do you want?
443
00:20:23,416 --> 00:20:25,016
I don't know.
One, maybe two.
444
00:20:25,051 --> 00:20:27,085
- Really? That's it?
- Yeah. I was an only child.
445
00:20:27,120 --> 00:20:28,553
I came from a small family.
446
00:20:29,756 --> 00:20:32,357
Okay, I'm not supposed
to do this,
447
00:20:32,392 --> 00:20:34,459
but I've moved things around,
448
00:20:34,494 --> 00:20:37,528
and I will personally see
that your cake gets done.
449
00:20:37,564 --> 00:20:42,333
Thank you so much.
Tracy's gonna be very excited.
450
00:20:46,673 --> 00:20:48,439
Making some progress
on our to-do list.
451
00:20:48,475 --> 00:20:49,974
Yeah.
452
00:20:50,010 --> 00:20:53,511
Have you given any thought
to our plan B for the wedding?
453
00:20:53,546 --> 00:20:55,246
- Not yet. You?
- Nah.
454
00:20:55,281 --> 00:20:57,115
I was so focused
on the proposal,
455
00:20:57,150 --> 00:20:59,884
I hadn't thought much
about our next steps.
456
00:21:03,189 --> 00:21:04,355
What?
457
00:21:04,390 --> 00:21:07,258
I just got an email
from James Quincy.
458
00:21:07,293 --> 00:21:11,595
Another riveting article
on emerging markets?
459
00:21:11,631 --> 00:21:15,533
The guy they hired for the
Oxford spot just dropped out.
460
00:21:15,568 --> 00:21:18,102
Apparently they're going over
my application from last year.
461
00:21:18,138 --> 00:21:20,257
- Wait, really?
- This is amazing.
462
00:21:20,907 --> 00:21:22,106
What does this mean?
463
00:21:22,142 --> 00:21:24,342
That I have another shot
at the job.
464
00:21:24,377 --> 00:21:26,044
I could be teaching
and doing research
465
00:21:26,079 --> 00:21:28,279
at the Oxford School
of Economics.
466
00:21:28,314 --> 00:21:29,947
Under your hero.
467
00:21:29,983 --> 00:21:32,216
I can't even believe
I have this opportunity.
468
00:21:33,253 --> 00:21:35,653
Well, what does this mean
for us?
469
00:21:35,688 --> 00:21:37,221
We move to England.
470
00:21:37,257 --> 00:21:40,258
I can't move to England.
I'm about to make tenure,
471
00:21:40,293 --> 00:21:42,960
and you know how rare that is
for a professor my age.
472
00:21:42,996 --> 00:21:44,629
I can't just walk away.
473
00:21:44,664 --> 00:21:46,497
Right, I'm sorry.
474
00:21:46,533 --> 00:21:48,733
I didn't mean
to jump ahead like that.
475
00:21:48,768 --> 00:21:52,103
You know, when I applied,
I hadn't met you yet.
476
00:21:52,138 --> 00:21:54,038
I don't wanna be responsible
477
00:21:54,074 --> 00:21:56,274
for you missing
something like this.
478
00:21:57,710 --> 00:21:59,710
We don't have to talk
about this right now.
479
00:21:59,746 --> 00:22:01,179
They already passed on me once.
480
00:22:01,214 --> 00:22:02,358
I'm sure there's
hundreds of candidates
481
00:22:02,382 --> 00:22:03,881
more qualified than me,
482
00:22:03,917 --> 00:22:06,084
so I doubt they'd even
offer it to me.
483
00:22:06,119 --> 00:22:08,519
Maybe, but none
more hard-working
484
00:22:08,555 --> 00:22:10,555
or talented than you.
485
00:22:10,590 --> 00:22:11,956
Thank you.
486
00:22:11,991 --> 00:22:15,159
I just wanna be spending
some time with my girl.
487
00:22:15,195 --> 00:22:16,961
- We can do that.
- Yeah.
488
00:22:22,235 --> 00:22:24,035
So close.
Maybe next time.
489
00:22:24,070 --> 00:22:27,605
I can't wait for you all
to see my wedding dress.
490
00:22:27,640 --> 00:22:29,240
You know, I really lucked out.
491
00:22:29,275 --> 00:22:30,953
Only a few alterations,
and it will be ready.
492
00:22:30,977 --> 00:22:33,478
We successfully picked out
your cake and invitations,
493
00:22:33,513 --> 00:22:35,613
so creating your dream wedding
in four weeks?
494
00:22:35,648 --> 00:22:37,248
No problem.
495
00:22:37,283 --> 00:22:39,684
There's still a lot to do.
496
00:22:39,719 --> 00:22:40,985
Don't jinx us.
497
00:22:41,020 --> 00:22:43,988
Mom, don't worry.
We've got this.
498
00:22:48,094 --> 00:22:50,161
Yes!
499
00:22:51,397 --> 00:22:53,331
You guys win again.
500
00:22:53,366 --> 00:22:54,665
Rematch later?
501
00:22:54,701 --> 00:22:55,900
Always.
502
00:22:56,736 --> 00:23:00,304
All right, come and get it!
503
00:23:00,340 --> 00:23:03,708
Here we go.
Ribs a la Robert.
504
00:23:03,743 --> 00:23:07,111
And my famous corn on the cob.
505
00:23:07,147 --> 00:23:09,213
My favorite.
506
00:23:09,249 --> 00:23:10,314
All right.
507
00:23:12,218 --> 00:23:13,951
This smells amazing,
Mr. Bishop.
508
00:23:13,987 --> 00:23:16,187
It's the slow roast method.
509
00:23:16,222 --> 00:23:18,389
The longer it waits,
the better it is.
510
00:23:18,424 --> 00:23:19,924
Should I be at all concerned
511
00:23:19,959 --> 00:23:23,427
that the fire extinguisher
is so close to the grill?
512
00:23:23,463 --> 00:23:25,730
- Dad?
- It's always been there.
513
00:23:25,765 --> 00:23:27,565
When the girls were little,
514
00:23:27,600 --> 00:23:29,678
Stephanie would use the grill
to roast her marshmallows.
515
00:23:29,702 --> 00:23:31,135
We never had to use it,
516
00:23:31,171 --> 00:23:34,639
but let's just say
we had a few close calls.
517
00:23:34,674 --> 00:23:36,641
I didn't like to wait.
It's always faster
518
00:23:36,676 --> 00:23:38,576
if you just catch 'em on fire
and blow it out.
519
00:23:38,611 --> 00:23:39,777
I'm with her.
520
00:23:39,812 --> 00:23:41,212
Can you tell me more about
521
00:23:41,247 --> 00:23:43,047
Stephanie as a young kid?
522
00:23:43,082 --> 00:23:45,416
She was a little bit
of a troublemaker.
523
00:23:45,451 --> 00:23:46,717
That is not true.
524
00:23:46,753 --> 00:23:48,653
Yes, it is true.
525
00:23:48,688 --> 00:23:51,656
Don't you remember the time
you gave all my dolls a haircut?
526
00:23:51,691 --> 00:23:53,624
It was trendy.
527
00:23:53,660 --> 00:23:55,159
Or the time
we had to go to the ER
528
00:23:55,195 --> 00:23:57,106
when you thought it was wise
to jump off the roof
529
00:23:57,130 --> 00:24:02,200
with an umbrella
after seeing Mary Poppins.
530
00:24:02,235 --> 00:24:04,368
Tracy was
our practical daughter.
531
00:24:04,404 --> 00:24:07,305
Stephanie, she always moved
to the beat of her own drum.
532
00:24:07,340 --> 00:24:10,041
AKA Tracy was more responsible.
533
00:24:10,076 --> 00:24:12,109
Now, I didn't say that.
534
00:24:12,145 --> 00:24:13,477
Hey, I'll take it.
535
00:24:13,513 --> 00:24:16,514
Because of my responsibility,
I met Preston.
536
00:24:16,549 --> 00:24:18,249
How'd you guys meet?
537
00:24:18,284 --> 00:24:21,452
It's my first day of law school,
very first class,
538
00:24:21,487 --> 00:24:24,455
and I read the syllabus
the wrong way
539
00:24:24,490 --> 00:24:26,257
and showed up
with the wrong textbook.
540
00:24:26,292 --> 00:24:29,360
I look over,
and this beautiful girl
541
00:24:29,395 --> 00:24:32,063
is just watching me scramble.
542
00:24:32,098 --> 00:24:35,099
She reaches out,
hands me the correct book,
543
00:24:35,134 --> 00:24:37,134
and that was that.
544
00:24:37,170 --> 00:24:39,971
I cannot believe
you had an extra textbook.
545
00:24:40,006 --> 00:24:41,572
To be fair, I had two textbooks
546
00:24:41,608 --> 00:24:43,374
because there were
two different editions,
547
00:24:43,409 --> 00:24:45,943
and I didn't know which one
the professor would teach from.
548
00:24:45,979 --> 00:24:47,612
Been together ever since.
549
00:24:47,647 --> 00:24:50,881
So what about you two?
Was it love at first sight?
550
00:24:50,917 --> 00:24:52,683
It was.
For me, at least.
551
00:24:52,719 --> 00:24:55,753
I mean, from the moment
she gave me a handful of tissues
552
00:24:55,788 --> 00:24:58,089
to clean the coffee
I just spilled all over myself.
553
00:24:58,124 --> 00:25:01,592
And for me, it was that he
didn't seem that upset at all.
554
00:25:01,628 --> 00:25:03,227
Well, it was iced coffee.
555
00:25:04,697 --> 00:25:07,732
I met Eleanore in second grade.
556
00:25:07,767 --> 00:25:09,267
Well, that's incredible.
557
00:25:09,302 --> 00:25:11,168
Yep. Knew her nine years
558
00:25:11,204 --> 00:25:12,336
before I even asked her out.
559
00:25:12,372 --> 00:25:14,572
Twenty-two
before we were engaged.
560
00:25:14,607 --> 00:25:16,340
That is a long time.
561
00:25:16,376 --> 00:25:19,510
I think we knew each other
better than we knew ourselves.
562
00:25:19,545 --> 00:25:23,147
Built a solid friendship first,
then the romance came.
563
00:25:23,182 --> 00:25:26,350
And we had the same values,
the same vision for the future.
564
00:25:26,386 --> 00:25:27,885
That's the important thing.
565
00:25:27,920 --> 00:25:30,388
Yes, hey,
but that was our story.
566
00:25:30,423 --> 00:25:32,657
Everybody's story is different.
567
00:25:32,692 --> 00:25:36,360
And our Stephanie has always
moved at a faster pace.
568
00:25:36,396 --> 00:25:38,796
And it's worked out so far.
569
00:25:41,634 --> 00:25:43,067
Pass the salad, please.
570
00:25:43,102 --> 00:25:45,303
Who's ready for
some of this, huh?
571
00:25:49,875 --> 00:25:51,308
Okay, who's next?
572
00:25:51,343 --> 00:25:54,478
Well, we gotta find
a great spot for Sam and Gary.
573
00:25:54,513 --> 00:25:56,980
- How about table four?
- Great.
574
00:25:57,016 --> 00:25:58,382
Seating chart?
575
00:25:58,417 --> 00:26:00,050
Yeah, it's a bit tricky though,
576
00:26:00,085 --> 00:26:02,352
as we're doing it based on
the save-the-date responses,
577
00:26:02,388 --> 00:26:03,921
but we gotta get a jump on it.
578
00:26:03,956 --> 00:26:05,622
Hey, have you seen Stephanie?
579
00:26:05,658 --> 00:26:10,093
She's outside marking
where the tables will go.
580
00:26:10,129 --> 00:26:12,362
When was that taken?
581
00:26:12,398 --> 00:26:16,332
Let's see, I was 17,
so Stephanie was 15.
582
00:26:16,435 --> 00:26:18,468
It's definitely
the awkward years.
583
00:26:18,504 --> 00:26:21,004
Like you had awkward years.
No. The only reason
584
00:26:21,040 --> 00:26:22,851
that we're not having
a slideshow at the wedding
585
00:26:22,875 --> 00:26:26,810
is because I had braces
and headgear for three years.
586
00:26:26,845 --> 00:26:28,979
She still has
that beautiful smile.
587
00:26:31,216 --> 00:26:34,117
Look, anyway, I will let you
guys get back to the chart.
588
00:26:34,153 --> 00:26:35,519
Good luck with that.
589
00:26:37,556 --> 00:26:39,957
Nope, we gotta have
one less at table five.
590
00:26:39,992 --> 00:26:42,192
I just got an email earlier
from my cousin Timothy
591
00:26:42,227 --> 00:26:44,094
that he already has
Fourth of July plans,
592
00:26:44,129 --> 00:26:45,896
so he won't be able to make it.
593
00:26:45,931 --> 00:26:50,801
There's another one of my family
members who's not able to come.
594
00:26:50,836 --> 00:26:54,671
But the important thing is
that your grandma is coming,
595
00:26:54,707 --> 00:26:58,175
and she's sitting right here,
front and center.
596
00:26:58,210 --> 00:27:00,010
That's true.
597
00:27:02,881 --> 00:27:05,682
- Did you just splash me?
- What if I did?
598
00:27:06,652 --> 00:27:09,119
Okay, all right, truce.
Truce?
599
00:27:10,155 --> 00:27:11,355
All right.
600
00:27:12,558 --> 00:27:14,091
Can I ask you something?
601
00:27:14,126 --> 00:27:16,159
Anything.
602
00:27:16,195 --> 00:27:18,862
Do you worry that people think
we moved too fast?
603
00:27:18,897 --> 00:27:21,064
By "people," do you mean my dad?
604
00:27:21,100 --> 00:27:22,299
Yeah.
605
00:27:22,334 --> 00:27:25,936
He keeps dropping these
not-so-subtle hints
606
00:27:25,971 --> 00:27:28,638
about us waiting,
taking things slower.
607
00:27:29,575 --> 00:27:30,640
I know.
608
00:27:30,676 --> 00:27:33,477
I'm trying to just let it go.
609
00:27:33,512 --> 00:27:36,079
Just don't want people thinking
we made a snap decision.
610
00:27:36,115 --> 00:27:38,315
I don't want you thinking that.
611
00:27:38,350 --> 00:27:40,283
That's why...
612
00:27:40,319 --> 00:27:42,252
I thought a lot about this.
613
00:27:42,287 --> 00:27:44,888
Of course I don't.
And I don't want you to think
614
00:27:44,923 --> 00:27:48,425
that me saying yes was, okay?
615
00:27:48,460 --> 00:27:49,593
Okay.
616
00:27:50,763 --> 00:27:52,029
Don't you do it.
617
00:27:53,966 --> 00:27:55,565
Pretty sure we called a truce.
618
00:27:55,601 --> 00:27:58,068
We called a truce,
are you kidding me?
619
00:28:03,108 --> 00:28:04,408
Cheers.
620
00:28:06,645 --> 00:28:09,980
I'm so glad that we're finally
all doing a double date.
621
00:28:10,015 --> 00:28:12,783
And we should go to the Fourth
of July Jamboree together too.
622
00:28:12,818 --> 00:28:14,117
Yeah, the jamboree.
623
00:28:14,153 --> 00:28:16,219
Tracy and Stephanie
get pretty into it.
624
00:28:16,255 --> 00:28:17,287
That's because it's fun.
625
00:28:17,322 --> 00:28:19,489
- This place is so cute.
- Right?
626
00:28:19,525 --> 00:28:20,991
I heard good things
about the band,
627
00:28:21,026 --> 00:28:23,427
and apparently
they play weddings.
628
00:28:23,462 --> 00:28:24,572
Yes!
I've been looking forward
629
00:28:24,596 --> 00:28:25,695
to hearing them.
630
00:28:25,731 --> 00:28:28,165
So, Ben,
what's your go-to music?
631
00:28:28,200 --> 00:28:29,499
- Punk underground.
- Really?
632
00:28:29,535 --> 00:28:31,435
Yeah, I did my undergrad
at Oxford,
633
00:28:31,470 --> 00:28:34,037
and I kinda got wrapped up
in the whole scene.
634
00:28:34,073 --> 00:28:35,806
I didn't know
you lived in England.
635
00:28:35,841 --> 00:28:37,619
- Did you like it?
- I loved it, yeah.
636
00:28:37,643 --> 00:28:41,278
Hoping to go back someday,
if the timing were right.
637
00:28:41,313 --> 00:28:44,147
Well, at least your music taste
is better than Stephanie's here.
638
00:28:44,183 --> 00:28:45,549
She loves techno.
639
00:28:45,584 --> 00:28:47,551
Yeah. I've learned
to embrace that one.
640
00:28:47,586 --> 00:28:48,819
It's fun to dance to.
641
00:28:48,854 --> 00:28:50,053
I don't know about that.
642
00:28:50,089 --> 00:28:51,366
Pretty good
to work out to though.
643
00:28:51,390 --> 00:28:54,724
Oh, my gosh,
is that Dave Robinson?
644
00:28:54,760 --> 00:28:57,461
- That is Dave Robinson.
- Is this his band?
645
00:28:57,496 --> 00:28:59,496
- Must be.
- Did you guys know?
646
00:28:59,531 --> 00:29:02,566
- No, of course not.
- The Dave you were engaged to?
647
00:29:02,601 --> 00:29:05,035
- That Dave?
- A very long time ago.
648
00:29:05,070 --> 00:29:07,304
I like Dave.
Hey, Dave!
649
00:29:07,339 --> 00:29:08,505
Stop!
650
00:29:08,540 --> 00:29:09,506
Preston, no.
651
00:29:09,541 --> 00:29:10,941
Dave.
652
00:29:12,377 --> 00:29:14,311
Stephanie Bishop.
653
00:29:14,346 --> 00:29:15,445
He's coming.
654
00:29:17,349 --> 00:29:19,416
- No way.
- Hi, Dave.
655
00:29:19,451 --> 00:29:22,652
Hey, long time, no see.
What are you doing here?
656
00:29:22,688 --> 00:29:24,821
My parents have
a vacation house here.
657
00:29:24,857 --> 00:29:26,790
I remember that, yeah.
658
00:29:26,825 --> 00:29:28,792
Never got the invite.
659
00:29:28,827 --> 00:29:29,993
Is this your band?
660
00:29:30,028 --> 00:29:31,194
Yeah, for now.
661
00:29:31,230 --> 00:29:32,629
Till something better
comes along.
662
00:29:32,664 --> 00:29:34,831
You remember
Tracy and Preston, right?
663
00:29:34,867 --> 00:29:35,867
Yeah, of course.
664
00:29:35,901 --> 00:29:37,367
You guys are still together.
665
00:29:37,402 --> 00:29:38,680
You should be married
with kids by now.
666
00:29:38,704 --> 00:29:40,303
Actually, I just got engaged.
667
00:29:40,339 --> 00:29:41,238
Congrats.
668
00:29:41,273 --> 00:29:44,174
And this is my fiancé Ben.
669
00:29:44,209 --> 00:29:46,076
Fiancé.
670
00:29:46,111 --> 00:29:50,180
Hopefully you guys make it
further than we did, huh?
671
00:29:50,215 --> 00:29:51,448
We will.
672
00:29:51,483 --> 00:29:53,083
So how'd you guys meet?
673
00:29:53,118 --> 00:29:55,685
Los Angeles College,
where we teach.
674
00:29:55,721 --> 00:29:59,656
You became a professor.
That's... that's great.
675
00:29:59,691 --> 00:30:00,691
Archeology.
676
00:30:00,726 --> 00:30:01,892
Anthropology.
677
00:30:01,927 --> 00:30:03,326
Close enough, right?
678
00:30:03,362 --> 00:30:04,928
Not really.
679
00:30:04,963 --> 00:30:06,630
Well, I'm gonna finish
setting up,
680
00:30:06,665 --> 00:30:09,266
but, man, it was really good
to see you, Steph.
681
00:30:09,301 --> 00:30:10,534
You too.
682
00:30:10,569 --> 00:30:12,102
Don't judge me on these guys.
683
00:30:12,137 --> 00:30:14,204
They won't let me play
my original stuff, so...
684
00:30:14,239 --> 00:30:16,006
See you, Dave.
685
00:30:19,211 --> 00:30:20,977
You okay?
686
00:30:21,013 --> 00:30:22,179
Yeah.
687
00:30:25,217 --> 00:30:28,285
All I'm saying is
I kinda liked the band.
688
00:30:28,320 --> 00:30:30,587
We could at least
see if they're available.
689
00:30:30,622 --> 00:30:33,056
No, that would be so weird.
690
00:30:33,091 --> 00:30:36,026
I don't want that guy
at our wedding in any capacity.
691
00:30:36,061 --> 00:30:38,628
I don't think that you
would've gone to grad school
692
00:30:38,664 --> 00:30:40,797
or got your doctorate
if you guys stayed together.
693
00:30:40,832 --> 00:30:42,432
It's true.
694
00:30:42,467 --> 00:30:46,136
Him leaving you was the best
thing that could've happened.
695
00:30:46,171 --> 00:30:48,838
Wait, he left you?
696
00:30:51,610 --> 00:30:53,109
Could you just give us a minute?
697
00:30:53,145 --> 00:30:54,444
Yeah, we'll meet you at the car.
698
00:30:54,479 --> 00:30:55,712
Thanks.
699
00:30:58,150 --> 00:31:00,083
So we dated freshman year,
700
00:31:00,118 --> 00:31:02,285
and the band that
he was with at the time
701
00:31:02,321 --> 00:31:04,654
asked him to go on tour,
702
00:31:04,690 --> 00:31:06,690
so he proposed,
703
00:31:06,725 --> 00:31:08,625
and I thought
it would be so cool
704
00:31:08,660 --> 00:31:11,361
to be engaged to a rock star,
and I said yes.
705
00:31:11,396 --> 00:31:14,030
My mom and dad were not thrilled
when I told them
706
00:31:14,066 --> 00:31:16,333
that I was gonna drop out
of school and follow him,
707
00:31:16,368 --> 00:31:19,903
so they talked me out of it,
thank goodness.
708
00:31:21,073 --> 00:31:23,240
And then he never came back.
709
00:31:24,676 --> 00:31:27,377
But it all worked out
because I was able to figure out
710
00:31:27,412 --> 00:31:30,146
what I wanted
to do with my life.
711
00:31:32,484 --> 00:31:34,050
So we have
your parents to thank.
712
00:31:34,086 --> 00:31:37,721
Yes, my parents were right.
713
00:31:37,756 --> 00:31:39,189
It wasn't until he was gone
714
00:31:39,224 --> 00:31:42,792
that I realized how much
he was holding me back.
715
00:31:44,596 --> 00:31:47,564
I'd like to think I would've
figured it out at some point.
716
00:31:50,202 --> 00:31:52,969
But I'm glad I went
through all of that
717
00:31:53,005 --> 00:31:56,840
because it led me to you.
718
00:32:26,838 --> 00:32:29,172
This a 1955 Thunderbird?
719
00:32:29,207 --> 00:32:30,473
It sure is.
720
00:32:30,509 --> 00:32:32,108
I didn't know
you had this in here.
721
00:32:32,144 --> 00:32:33,810
This is stunning.
722
00:32:33,845 --> 00:32:35,378
My pride and joy.
723
00:32:35,414 --> 00:32:39,382
I may have to sell it soon
to pay for all these weddings.
724
00:32:39,418 --> 00:32:40,984
You don't have to do that.
725
00:32:41,019 --> 00:32:43,153
Stephanie and I said
we'd pay for it ourselves.
726
00:32:43,188 --> 00:32:45,455
You don't think I can pay
for my daughter's wedding?
727
00:32:45,490 --> 00:32:47,557
What? No, no, no.
I just mean that,
728
00:32:47,592 --> 00:32:49,693
you know, you don't have to,
if you don't want to.
729
00:32:49,728 --> 00:32:51,428
Not a traditional guy, huh?
730
00:32:51,463 --> 00:32:54,030
I am with some things.
731
00:32:54,066 --> 00:32:57,500
Not in paying
for the wedding or, say,
732
00:32:57,536 --> 00:33:00,370
asking my permission
before proposing.
733
00:33:06,578 --> 00:33:08,745
So Thunderbird, huh?
734
00:33:10,048 --> 00:33:11,581
Where'd you get her?
735
00:33:11,616 --> 00:33:13,850
My dad used to own one.
736
00:33:13,885 --> 00:33:15,785
Few years ago,
I found this one online.
737
00:33:15,821 --> 00:33:17,987
- Been restoring it.
- Does it run?
738
00:33:18,023 --> 00:33:19,989
Almost.
739
00:33:20,025 --> 00:33:21,891
I restored it
with all original parts,
740
00:33:21,927 --> 00:33:23,993
but I still need an idler arm.
741
00:33:24,029 --> 00:33:25,695
Can't find
an authentic one anywhere,
742
00:33:25,731 --> 00:33:27,342
and I don't wanna risk
putting something in
743
00:33:27,366 --> 00:33:29,299
that wasn't made specifically
for this model,
744
00:33:29,334 --> 00:33:32,302
so still on the hunt.
745
00:33:33,405 --> 00:33:35,372
Do you mind if I take a look?
746
00:33:37,342 --> 00:33:39,409
- Yeah, sure.
- Thanks.
747
00:33:41,580 --> 00:33:44,214
You got a 292 cubic inch OHV.
748
00:33:44,249 --> 00:33:47,550
You got a 292 wide block
V8 engine.
749
00:33:47,586 --> 00:33:49,686
This is all first of its kind
stuff, sir.
750
00:33:49,721 --> 00:33:52,389
I didn't realize
you're into classic cars.
751
00:33:52,424 --> 00:33:54,290
My dad was a mechanic.
752
00:33:54,326 --> 00:33:58,495
Some of my best memories are
him picking me up from school,
753
00:33:58,530 --> 00:34:01,464
taking me to the shop,
showing me all the cool cars.
754
00:34:01,500 --> 00:34:03,032
But this?
755
00:34:03,068 --> 00:34:05,969
This was my favorite.
All Thunderbirds.
756
00:34:06,004 --> 00:34:09,072
Is that all
original interior as well?
757
00:34:09,107 --> 00:34:10,740
Yeah, you bet.
758
00:34:11,843 --> 00:34:13,076
Here, come, come.
759
00:34:13,111 --> 00:34:14,878
Come sit.
760
00:34:14,913 --> 00:34:16,646
- Really?
- Yeah.
761
00:34:16,681 --> 00:34:18,448
Check it out.
762
00:34:25,490 --> 00:34:27,991
Now this is how a car's
supposed to feel.
763
00:34:29,828 --> 00:34:32,429
Ben, you should hit the green
with Preston and me tomorrow
764
00:34:32,464 --> 00:34:33,863
before the food tasting.
765
00:34:33,899 --> 00:34:35,610
I would love to hit the green
with you guys.
766
00:34:35,634 --> 00:34:37,901
You're talking
about golf, right?
767
00:34:37,936 --> 00:34:39,402
Yes.
768
00:34:39,438 --> 00:34:41,337
But I have to warn you
I'm not very good,
769
00:34:41,373 --> 00:34:44,741
seeing as I've actually
never played before.
770
00:34:44,776 --> 00:34:46,387
That's all right.
You seem like a sharp guy.
771
00:34:46,411 --> 00:34:48,611
I'm sure you'll pick it up
in no time.
772
00:34:48,647 --> 00:34:50,213
Hope so.
773
00:35:01,626 --> 00:35:03,460
Why are you smiling?
774
00:35:03,495 --> 00:35:06,095
Your dad just asked me
to play golf with him tomorrow.
775
00:35:06,131 --> 00:35:07,197
That's great.
776
00:35:07,232 --> 00:35:09,232
I'm pretty sure we just bonded.
777
00:35:09,267 --> 00:35:11,634
I knew you would.
778
00:35:11,670 --> 00:35:14,838
He did make a comment about me
not asking his permission
779
00:35:14,873 --> 00:35:16,239
before I proposed.
780
00:35:16,274 --> 00:35:19,909
I didn't even really
consider that.
781
00:35:19,945 --> 00:35:22,312
He's kind of old school,
but he can be swayed.
782
00:35:22,347 --> 00:35:24,180
When I told him
that I was taking a year off
783
00:35:24,216 --> 00:35:26,227
between high school and college,
I thought he'd freak out,
784
00:35:26,251 --> 00:35:28,985
but after a six-hour
conversation about my future,
785
00:35:29,020 --> 00:35:30,520
he was totally cool.
786
00:35:30,555 --> 00:35:32,388
Don't worry.
787
00:35:32,424 --> 00:35:36,125
It's an archaic tradition.
Trust me, I would know.
788
00:35:36,161 --> 00:35:37,660
Who wants some fresh lemonade?
789
00:35:37,696 --> 00:35:39,662
Yes, thank you.
790
00:35:41,800 --> 00:35:43,533
That is amazing.
791
00:35:43,568 --> 00:35:45,201
Isn't it?
It's the cucumber.
792
00:35:45,237 --> 00:35:47,136
My secret weapon.
793
00:35:47,172 --> 00:35:50,206
Hey, Steph, did you look at the
photographers that I sent you?
794
00:35:50,242 --> 00:35:52,742
Yes, I think we should go
with this one,
795
00:35:52,777 --> 00:35:55,612
since your first choice
is hard to get in touch with.
796
00:35:55,647 --> 00:35:57,191
You know what, I'm gonna
leave this to you guys.
797
00:35:57,215 --> 00:35:58,626
I'm gonna go watch
some YouTube videos
798
00:35:58,650 --> 00:36:01,084
- on how to hit a golf ball.
- Good luck.
799
00:36:06,424 --> 00:36:07,924
I like him.
800
00:36:07,959 --> 00:36:09,759
Me too.
801
00:36:31,383 --> 00:36:33,283
Setting the bar high
like always, sir.
802
00:36:33,318 --> 00:36:34,951
My axis is slightly off.
803
00:36:34,986 --> 00:36:37,921
Couldn't tell.
Your downswing was perfect.
804
00:36:37,956 --> 00:36:39,656
Yeah, great downswing.
805
00:36:45,597 --> 00:36:47,397
Hey, did you ask
for Robert's permission
806
00:36:47,432 --> 00:36:48,898
before you proposed to Tracy?
807
00:36:48,934 --> 00:36:50,266
I did.
808
00:36:50,302 --> 00:36:51,701
You didn't, I presume?
809
00:36:51,736 --> 00:36:53,147
I honestly didn't even
think about it.
810
00:36:53,171 --> 00:36:54,704
I mean, we're not that close,
811
00:36:54,739 --> 00:36:57,640
and Stephanie's more modern
with that kind of stuff.
812
00:36:57,676 --> 00:36:59,709
He didn't say anything
to you, did he?
813
00:36:59,744 --> 00:37:01,711
- No.
- Okay, good.
814
00:37:01,746 --> 00:37:03,391
I figure that's why
he's being so rough on me.
815
00:37:03,415 --> 00:37:05,782
Hey, look,
he was rough on me, too,
816
00:37:05,817 --> 00:37:07,483
when I first started
dating Tracy,
817
00:37:07,519 --> 00:37:08,952
but just give him
a little while.
818
00:37:08,987 --> 00:37:09,953
He'll warm up.
819
00:37:09,988 --> 00:37:11,321
What's a little while?
820
00:37:11,356 --> 00:37:12,789
About six years.
821
00:37:14,559 --> 00:37:15,858
Hey, you're up, Ben!
822
00:37:23,068 --> 00:37:26,469
Hey, I wouldn't go
with that one.
823
00:37:26,504 --> 00:37:27,704
- No?
- You don't wanna go
824
00:37:27,739 --> 00:37:29,305
with a high iron
on this first drive.
825
00:37:29,341 --> 00:37:31,140
You want a driver.
826
00:37:31,176 --> 00:37:32,709
Yeah, here you go.
827
00:37:32,744 --> 00:37:33,643
Driver.
828
00:37:33,678 --> 00:37:35,845
- Thank you.
- Yeah.
829
00:37:35,880 --> 00:37:37,647
Here we go.
830
00:37:46,224 --> 00:37:47,790
Easy peasy.
831
00:38:03,074 --> 00:38:04,741
Sorry.
832
00:38:04,776 --> 00:38:06,009
Okay.
833
00:38:13,451 --> 00:38:17,854
Look, golf is a game of time,
patience, and precision.
834
00:38:17,889 --> 00:38:20,490
Try looking at the ball
the entire time.
835
00:38:20,525 --> 00:38:21,924
Okay.
836
00:38:25,764 --> 00:38:27,697
Wha...
837
00:38:29,968 --> 00:38:31,401
I'm so sorry.
838
00:38:31,436 --> 00:38:33,670
I have no idea what happened.
839
00:38:33,705 --> 00:38:36,139
That was my dad's favorite club.
840
00:38:36,174 --> 00:38:37,640
Are you serious?
841
00:38:37,676 --> 00:38:39,942
Sir, I'll go get it right now.
I am so sorry.
842
00:38:39,978 --> 00:38:42,278
Careful not to swallow
any of that water.
843
00:38:42,313 --> 00:38:44,547
No clue what's in it.
844
00:38:46,751 --> 00:38:48,451
Ben, Ben, Ben, Ben.
845
00:38:48,486 --> 00:38:50,820
Stop, stop, I'm kidding.
846
00:38:50,855 --> 00:38:52,889
It's an old set
from a yard sale.
847
00:38:52,924 --> 00:38:55,124
You don't have to go in there.
848
00:38:59,831 --> 00:39:01,464
All right.
849
00:39:01,499 --> 00:39:03,132
I'm so sorry.
850
00:39:03,168 --> 00:39:05,301
I didn't think
you'd really go in.
851
00:39:05,336 --> 00:39:10,373
May not be a great golfer,
but you've got, zest.
852
00:39:10,408 --> 00:39:13,409
Gonna be a long day.
853
00:39:14,512 --> 00:39:15,912
It's all right.
854
00:39:18,717 --> 00:39:21,651
And you're sure that we can't
just have one of everything?
855
00:39:21,686 --> 00:39:24,053
We do have to narrow it down
a little bit.
856
00:39:24,089 --> 00:39:26,456
I wanted you all here
to get your feedback,
857
00:39:26,491 --> 00:39:28,458
so please be honest.
858
00:39:28,493 --> 00:39:29,892
Well, of the salads,
859
00:39:29,928 --> 00:39:31,728
I'm liking
the spinach goat cheese.
860
00:39:31,763 --> 00:39:33,963
- That's a really good dressing.
- Okay.
861
00:39:33,998 --> 00:39:36,099
Oh, my dear,
I think the mixed spring greens
862
00:39:36,134 --> 00:39:38,935
with the crumbled bleu cheese
is the way to go.
863
00:39:38,970 --> 00:39:41,871
I don't know. I think that
the simple iceberg with bacon
864
00:39:41,906 --> 00:39:43,473
is always the best choice.
865
00:39:43,508 --> 00:39:45,308
So everyone likes
something different.
866
00:39:45,343 --> 00:39:48,444
Great. That should
make things easier.
867
00:39:48,480 --> 00:39:51,414
Salads are the safe choice
for appetizers,
868
00:39:51,449 --> 00:39:53,816
but if this was my wedding,
I'd do the coconut shrimp.
869
00:39:53,852 --> 00:39:55,685
Yeah, me too.
I mean, it's really good.
870
00:39:55,720 --> 00:39:58,621
But, honey, you have
to have a salad at a wedding.
871
00:39:58,656 --> 00:40:00,089
Why? Can't mix it up?
872
00:40:00,125 --> 00:40:02,425
Because there's a reason
for traditions,
873
00:40:02,460 --> 00:40:04,594
like having salad before a meal.
874
00:40:04,629 --> 00:40:06,262
Yeah, sure.
875
00:40:06,297 --> 00:40:08,798
I mean, because, you know,
that's what people expect.
876
00:40:11,836 --> 00:40:13,002
Thoughts on main dishes.
877
00:40:13,037 --> 00:40:14,771
Chicken, hands down.
878
00:40:14,806 --> 00:40:17,440
I say pot roast.
The sauce on top is incredible.
879
00:40:17,475 --> 00:40:20,843
No! I know pot roast. I...
880
00:40:20,879 --> 00:40:23,012
I make an old family recipe
every Christmas.
881
00:40:23,047 --> 00:40:26,516
Girls, you have to admit
mine's way better.
882
00:40:26,551 --> 00:40:27,850
Yeah, how do you make it?
883
00:40:27,886 --> 00:40:29,619
Sorry, Ben, secret recipe.
884
00:40:29,654 --> 00:40:31,420
Only for family members.
885
00:40:31,456 --> 00:40:34,857
Well, then I guess you're gonna
have to let me know pretty soon.
886
00:40:34,893 --> 00:40:36,092
We'll see how it goes.
887
00:40:36,127 --> 00:40:37,794
- Dad!
- Robert!
888
00:40:37,829 --> 00:40:39,162
I'm kidding!
889
00:40:40,832 --> 00:40:43,833
Excuse me real quick.
I have to take this.
890
00:40:43,868 --> 00:40:46,002
Well, we should probably
eat the rest of the food.
891
00:40:46,037 --> 00:40:47,670
We don't want it to go to waste.
892
00:40:47,705 --> 00:40:49,416
You just want
the rest of mine, don't you?
893
00:40:49,440 --> 00:40:50,851
- Are you serious?
- If you don't want it.
894
00:40:50,875 --> 00:40:53,709
Okay, take the rest of this too.
895
00:40:53,745 --> 00:40:55,812
Yeah, yeah.
896
00:40:55,847 --> 00:40:58,948
Yeah, thank you so much.
Okay.
897
00:40:58,983 --> 00:41:02,518
Preston will finish all of them.
That shrimp was so good.
898
00:41:02,554 --> 00:41:04,320
Who was it?
899
00:41:04,355 --> 00:41:05,688
That was James Quincy.
900
00:41:05,723 --> 00:41:08,925
He just offered me
the job at Oxford.
901
00:41:10,428 --> 00:41:11,794
That is great.
902
00:41:13,298 --> 00:41:14,564
Congratulations.
903
00:41:14,599 --> 00:41:15,731
Thank you, sir.
904
00:41:22,207 --> 00:41:26,142
Okay, so how many chairs
does that package come with?
905
00:41:26,177 --> 00:41:31,113
So can we do half the amount
for a little less of the cost?
906
00:41:31,149 --> 00:41:32,348
I see.
907
00:41:32,383 --> 00:41:35,518
Okay, thank you.
I'll let you know.
908
00:41:35,553 --> 00:41:36,686
Everything okay?
909
00:41:36,721 --> 00:41:38,287
I never realized how complicated
910
00:41:38,323 --> 00:41:40,189
chair and table rentals
could be.
911
00:41:40,225 --> 00:41:41,969
Well, you think you'll have
time for a little break?
912
00:41:41,993 --> 00:41:43,125
I'd love to talk.
913
00:41:43,161 --> 00:41:44,861
I'd love a break.
914
00:41:44,896 --> 00:41:46,562
Good, 'cause I have
the perfect place.
915
00:41:46,598 --> 00:41:47,730
Where?
916
00:41:47,765 --> 00:41:49,065
It's a surprise.
917
00:41:49,100 --> 00:41:51,167
Intriguing.
918
00:41:53,905 --> 00:41:56,305
Ben, you did all this?
919
00:41:56,341 --> 00:41:57,907
I did. Tracy mentioned it,
920
00:41:57,942 --> 00:42:00,376
and I figured
this was the perfect spot.
921
00:42:00,411 --> 00:42:01,711
What's all this for?
922
00:42:01,746 --> 00:42:02,945
Us.
923
00:42:02,981 --> 00:42:04,981
I figured we could talk
about the job offer
924
00:42:05,016 --> 00:42:08,484
and just get away for a minute.
925
00:42:08,519 --> 00:42:09,986
Have a seat.
926
00:42:10,021 --> 00:42:11,888
- Thank you.
- Yeah.
927
00:42:16,027 --> 00:42:20,463
So did you find out when you
have to give your decision?
928
00:42:20,498 --> 00:42:23,332
I did. Two weeks.
July third.
929
00:42:23,368 --> 00:42:25,368
That's right before the wedding.
930
00:42:25,403 --> 00:42:29,538
If I did take the job,
would you come with me?
931
00:42:29,574 --> 00:42:32,708
Me moving to England
would be such a fun adventure,
932
00:42:32,744 --> 00:42:37,813
and there's a part of me that
would say yes in a heartbeat.
933
00:42:37,849 --> 00:42:39,649
But I'm scared.
934
00:42:39,684 --> 00:42:42,818
If I leave my job,
I have to start all over.
935
00:42:42,854 --> 00:42:46,122
I've built this great career
at Los Angeles College
936
00:42:46,157 --> 00:42:49,392
that no one really expected.
937
00:42:49,427 --> 00:42:53,562
And I can't let that go.
I have to see it through.
938
00:42:56,100 --> 00:42:57,700
I won't take the job.
939
00:42:57,735 --> 00:43:00,303
Then there's that other side.
I can't live with myself
940
00:43:00,338 --> 00:43:02,571
if I know you didn't take it
because of me.
941
00:43:02,607 --> 00:43:05,608
What if we don't
talk about it right now?
942
00:43:05,643 --> 00:43:07,688
I have two weeks before
I have to give them an answer,
943
00:43:07,712 --> 00:43:10,279
and it is a beautiful day.
944
00:43:10,315 --> 00:43:12,748
It's a beautiful lake.
945
00:43:12,784 --> 00:43:14,483
A beautiful woman.
946
00:43:16,054 --> 00:43:18,120
This decision
won't just go away.
947
00:43:18,156 --> 00:43:20,656
I know but maybe we don't have
to make a decision
948
00:43:20,692 --> 00:43:22,491
right this second.
949
00:43:22,527 --> 00:43:24,160
We can hold off,
950
00:43:24,195 --> 00:43:27,063
and maybe it'll change
if we don't harp on it.
951
00:43:27,098 --> 00:43:30,132
I think I can try to do that.
952
00:43:30,168 --> 00:43:31,500
- Yeah?
- Yeah.
953
00:43:31,536 --> 00:43:34,570
Besides, we've got some
fun stuff coming up.
954
00:43:34,605 --> 00:43:35,871
Got the jamboree.
955
00:43:35,907 --> 00:43:39,342
Yes, I cannot wait
for this jamboree.
956
00:43:39,377 --> 00:43:43,946
Please tell me there's
a charcuterie plate in there.
957
00:43:43,982 --> 00:43:45,948
You mean this?
958
00:43:51,522 --> 00:43:52,822
I love you.
959
00:43:52,857 --> 00:43:54,523
I love you too.
960
00:44:03,067 --> 00:44:06,002
I wish I could tell him to stay,
forget about the job.
961
00:44:06,037 --> 00:44:08,704
- So why don't you?
- I'm worried he'll listen.
962
00:44:08,740 --> 00:44:10,106
And then later,
when it's too late,
963
00:44:10,141 --> 00:44:12,541
he'll realize
what he missed out on.
964
00:44:12,577 --> 00:44:14,510
Should I just go with him?
965
00:44:14,545 --> 00:44:17,079
I don't think that
there's an easy answer here.
966
00:44:17,115 --> 00:44:18,848
What are you ladies
talking about?
967
00:44:18,883 --> 00:44:19,915
Nothing.
968
00:44:19,951 --> 00:44:21,984
Today is a fun day.
No stress.
969
00:44:22,020 --> 00:44:24,053
No talking about
the wedding or England.
970
00:44:24,088 --> 00:44:25,654
That's gonna be
a little difficult,
971
00:44:25,690 --> 00:44:28,124
considering this is
an Independence Day celebration,
972
00:44:28,159 --> 00:44:30,393
and England had a little
something to do with that.
973
00:44:30,428 --> 00:44:31,560
You know what I mean.
974
00:44:31,596 --> 00:44:32,995
Look at this.
975
00:44:33,031 --> 00:44:36,766
Guess how many jelly beans
to win a free dinner.
976
00:44:36,801 --> 00:44:38,968
There's at least 200 in there.
977
00:44:39,003 --> 00:44:41,704
What? No.
There's over a thousand.
978
00:44:41,739 --> 00:44:43,072
Hey, how many are you putting?
979
00:44:43,107 --> 00:44:44,707
I'm not telling.
980
00:44:46,611 --> 00:44:47,877
Fine.
981
00:44:50,515 --> 00:44:52,248
See, Ben?
Isn't this fun?
982
00:44:52,283 --> 00:44:53,883
- Be honest.
- It is.
983
00:44:53,918 --> 00:44:55,818
It's my first jamboree.
984
00:44:55,853 --> 00:44:58,187
This was always Tracy and I's
favorite part of the summer.
985
00:44:58,222 --> 00:44:59,889
Especially the balloon pop.
986
00:44:59,924 --> 00:45:02,158
Yes, the balloon pop.
We have to do that.
987
00:45:02,193 --> 00:45:04,326
- What is the balloon pop?
- Don't ask.
988
00:45:04,362 --> 00:45:06,328
Preston's just bitter
because we always win.
989
00:45:06,364 --> 00:45:07,663
I always let you win!
990
00:45:07,698 --> 00:45:09,465
Tracy, that sounds like
a challenge.
991
00:45:09,500 --> 00:45:11,534
It does sound like a challenge.
992
00:45:11,569 --> 00:45:13,969
- We accept.
- Good.
993
00:45:19,310 --> 00:45:21,477
So the team that pops
the most balloons
994
00:45:21,512 --> 00:45:23,412
after throwing
all the darts wins.
995
00:45:23,448 --> 00:45:24,480
Sounds easy enough.
996
00:45:24,515 --> 00:45:25,614
Not as easy as you think.
997
00:45:25,650 --> 00:45:27,016
Boys versus girls?
998
00:45:27,051 --> 00:45:28,484
It's on.
999
00:45:28,519 --> 00:45:32,154
Careful, Ben, the Bishop girls
get very competitive.
1000
00:45:32,190 --> 00:45:33,656
We'll see.
1001
00:45:33,691 --> 00:45:35,357
Ladies first.
1002
00:45:36,594 --> 00:45:38,861
- Yeah!
- Okay, lucky shot.
1003
00:45:39,697 --> 00:45:41,730
Where is this coming from?
1004
00:45:41,766 --> 00:45:43,365
Played a lot of darts
in college.
1005
00:45:43,401 --> 00:45:45,634
Wait till you see Tracy's arm
at the dunk tank.
1006
00:45:54,212 --> 00:45:55,978
You guys put up a good fight.
1007
00:45:56,013 --> 00:45:57,413
We didn't stand a chance,
did we?
1008
00:45:57,448 --> 00:45:59,515
You guys won every game
at the jamboree.
1009
00:45:59,550 --> 00:46:01,183
That's how we roll.
1010
00:46:01,219 --> 00:46:03,297
Well, at least we didn't
come out totally empty-handed.
1011
00:46:03,321 --> 00:46:04,253
Ben won.
1012
00:46:04,288 --> 00:46:05,855
In Constitution trivia.
1013
00:46:05,890 --> 00:46:08,290
Yeah, and he got
that super cool flag.
1014
00:46:08,326 --> 00:46:11,360
Which makes no sense at
an Independence Day celebration.
1015
00:46:11,395 --> 00:46:14,096
- Maybe it's a sign.
- Maybe.
1016
00:46:14,132 --> 00:46:16,031
Ladies and gentlemen,
1017
00:46:16,067 --> 00:46:18,801
may I have
your attention, please?
1018
00:46:18,836 --> 00:46:22,571
The winner of the guess the
number of jelly beans contest
1019
00:46:22,607 --> 00:46:27,710
with a guess of 1,776 is...
1020
00:46:27,745 --> 00:46:29,178
Tracy Bishop!
1021
00:46:29,213 --> 00:46:32,081
1776! Of course!
1022
00:46:34,952 --> 00:46:37,586
- Redheads? No way.
- Yes.
1023
00:46:37,622 --> 00:46:38,866
I'm telling you, there's no way.
1024
00:46:38,890 --> 00:46:40,422
Studies have shown
1025
00:46:40,458 --> 00:46:42,791
that a significant amount
of Neanderthals were redheads.
1026
00:46:42,827 --> 00:46:45,528
All right, yeah,
and who's doing these studies?
1027
00:46:45,563 --> 00:46:46,629
Scientists.
1028
00:46:46,664 --> 00:46:49,398
Okay, I got it.
1029
00:46:49,433 --> 00:46:51,000
You okay?
1030
00:46:51,035 --> 00:46:52,902
No. That was our firm
on the phone.
1031
00:46:52,937 --> 00:46:54,603
They've been trying
to reach us all day.
1032
00:46:54,639 --> 00:46:56,205
Apparently there was an issue
1033
00:46:56,240 --> 00:46:57,907
with the paperwork
Preston and I submitted
1034
00:46:57,942 --> 00:46:59,720
for the case we were just
working on before we left.
1035
00:46:59,744 --> 00:47:03,179
Now we have to go refile
back in San Francisco ASAP,
1036
00:47:03,214 --> 00:47:04,780
or our client could
go into bankruptcy.
1037
00:47:04,815 --> 00:47:06,326
What? Don't they know
you're on vacation,
1038
00:47:06,350 --> 00:47:07,950
or that you're
planning your wedding?
1039
00:47:07,985 --> 00:47:09,585
It doesn't matter.
It has to get done.
1040
00:47:09,620 --> 00:47:10,986
So what are you gonna do?
1041
00:47:11,022 --> 00:47:12,721
Preston's looking up
flights right now.
1042
00:47:12,757 --> 00:47:14,723
I'm hoping we can sort it out
in a day or two.
1043
00:47:14,759 --> 00:47:17,960
But that means I need you to
take over all of the planning.
1044
00:47:17,995 --> 00:47:20,129
Of course.
Whatever you need.
1045
00:47:20,164 --> 00:47:21,463
Thanks. You're a lifesaver.
1046
00:47:21,499 --> 00:47:23,832
Mom says she and Dad
will help out too.
1047
00:47:23,868 --> 00:47:25,267
The most important thing
1048
00:47:25,303 --> 00:47:27,114
is that my dress
needs to be picked up tomorrow.
1049
00:47:27,138 --> 00:47:28,382
- Done.
- We also have to figure out
1050
00:47:28,406 --> 00:47:30,873
- something with centerpieces.
- On it.
1051
00:47:30,908 --> 00:47:34,243
And make sure that all of the
rentals are arriving on time.
1052
00:47:35,246 --> 00:47:36,579
No problem.
1053
00:47:37,481 --> 00:47:38,747
Thank you so much.
1054
00:47:38,783 --> 00:47:40,227
Mom said it would be
a lot for you to handle,
1055
00:47:40,251 --> 00:47:42,551
but I told her
that you got this.
1056
00:47:56,767 --> 00:47:58,701
- Hi. Welcome.
- Hi.
1057
00:47:58,736 --> 00:48:01,203
I'm Becky.
Would you like to try that on?
1058
00:48:01,239 --> 00:48:02,805
No, thank you.
I'm actually here
1059
00:48:02,840 --> 00:48:05,841
picking up for my sister,
Tracy Bishop.
1060
00:48:05,876 --> 00:48:07,810
Yes! It just came in.
1061
00:48:07,845 --> 00:48:10,012
- I'll go grab it.
- Thanks.
1062
00:48:20,491 --> 00:48:24,193
I'm so glad we were able to get
it sized correctly in time.
1063
00:48:24,228 --> 00:48:26,829
- It's stunning.
- It is.
1064
00:48:26,864 --> 00:48:29,932
And so is the one you have
in your hand there.
1065
00:48:29,967 --> 00:48:31,767
Huge misconception
in my line of work
1066
00:48:31,802 --> 00:48:34,103
that only brides-to-be
can try dresses on.
1067
00:48:34,138 --> 00:48:37,139
Well, ironically
I am also a bride-to-be.
1068
00:48:37,174 --> 00:48:39,942
- Even better!
- I shouldn't.
1069
00:48:39,977 --> 00:48:43,345
Lots to do, and I don't even
have a date picked out yet.
1070
00:48:43,381 --> 00:48:45,214
No date means no pressure.
1071
00:48:45,249 --> 00:48:48,484
That's the best way
to try these things on.
1072
00:48:48,519 --> 00:48:50,519
True.
And in Roman times,
1073
00:48:50,554 --> 00:48:52,121
the bridesmaids
were actually required
1074
00:48:52,156 --> 00:48:55,524
to wear the same dress
as the bride to pose as decoys
1075
00:48:55,559 --> 00:48:57,426
in case enemy kingdoms
or evil spirits
1076
00:48:57,461 --> 00:48:59,261
tried kidnapping the bride.
1077
00:48:59,297 --> 00:49:01,563
So really it's tradition.
1078
00:49:01,599 --> 00:49:03,866
I'm an anthropology professor.
1079
00:49:03,901 --> 00:49:06,902
Okay.
That makes more sense.
1080
00:49:06,937 --> 00:49:08,570
Yes.
1081
00:49:08,606 --> 00:49:11,573
I mean, I guess
I could try one on.
1082
00:49:11,609 --> 00:49:13,809
What's the harm in that?
1083
00:49:49,613 --> 00:49:51,213
See, I like this one.
1084
00:49:51,248 --> 00:49:55,918
The neckline and the waist,
it's exactly what I want.
1085
00:49:55,953 --> 00:49:58,420
You look beautiful.
1086
00:49:59,657 --> 00:50:02,157
- Trying on dresses already.
- Hi, Mom.
1087
00:50:02,193 --> 00:50:05,361
I was picking up Tracy's,
and I got a little carried away.
1088
00:50:05,396 --> 00:50:06,762
It fits you perfectly.
1089
00:50:06,797 --> 00:50:08,330
It does, doesn't it?
1090
00:50:08,366 --> 00:50:09,865
I love it.
1091
00:50:09,900 --> 00:50:11,567
You look beautiful, honey.
1092
00:50:12,703 --> 00:50:14,269
Why don't we go get
an iced coffee?
1093
00:50:14,305 --> 00:50:15,537
What do you say?
1094
00:50:15,573 --> 00:50:17,473
Sure. I'll go change.
1095
00:50:25,216 --> 00:50:27,983
Just don't want you
to rush into this marriage,
1096
00:50:28,018 --> 00:50:29,451
at least until we find out
1097
00:50:29,487 --> 00:50:31,086
where Ben's job
is gonna take him
1098
00:50:31,122 --> 00:50:32,688
and where that leaves you both.
1099
00:50:32,723 --> 00:50:34,923
Mom, I'm not like everybody else
in this family,
1100
00:50:34,959 --> 00:50:36,625
and I don't plan things
right away,
1101
00:50:36,660 --> 00:50:38,727
but that doesn't mean
I don't know what I want.
1102
00:50:38,763 --> 00:50:41,663
Sweetheart, you've only
known Ben for six months.
1103
00:50:41,699 --> 00:50:45,634
Marriage is for life.
It's okay to take your time.
1104
00:50:45,669 --> 00:50:48,470
Maybe we did jump in
a little quickly,
1105
00:50:48,506 --> 00:50:51,640
and we didn't think out
every single future decision,
1106
00:50:51,675 --> 00:50:55,177
but I have never been so sure
of anything in my life.
1107
00:50:56,881 --> 00:50:59,481
I just don't want it
to be like with Dave,
1108
00:50:59,517 --> 00:51:02,718
with you wanting to follow him
without thinking things through.
1109
00:51:02,753 --> 00:51:04,787
I don't wanna see you get hurt.
1110
00:51:04,822 --> 00:51:07,589
This is a completely
different situation,
1111
00:51:07,625 --> 00:51:09,691
and I've grown so much
since then.
1112
00:51:09,727 --> 00:51:10,826
You're right.
1113
00:51:10,861 --> 00:51:12,661
You have.
1114
00:51:12,696 --> 00:51:16,432
And I am so proud
of the woman you've become.
1115
00:51:16,467 --> 00:51:18,567
But you're still my baby girl,
1116
00:51:18,602 --> 00:51:20,469
and I reserve
the right to worry.
1117
00:51:20,504 --> 00:51:23,705
And you also need to trust
that I can make my own choices,
1118
00:51:23,741 --> 00:51:26,942
like getting engaged,
moving to England.
1119
00:51:26,977 --> 00:51:28,277
Ben is a good guy,
1120
00:51:28,312 --> 00:51:30,646
and I can see how much
you care for each other.
1121
00:51:30,681 --> 00:51:33,115
Just promise me when
you're making those choices
1122
00:51:33,150 --> 00:51:35,717
that you'll think about
what's right for you, too,
1123
00:51:35,753 --> 00:51:38,982
'cause that's what's gonna
be best for both of you.
1124
00:51:39,090 --> 00:51:41,390
I promise.
1125
00:51:42,760 --> 00:51:44,393
That dress was gorgeous.
1126
00:51:44,428 --> 00:51:46,562
- Wasn't it?
- Oh, my God.
1127
00:51:46,597 --> 00:51:48,364
I love it.
1128
00:52:20,598 --> 00:52:21,764
Hey, how's it going?
1129
00:52:21,799 --> 00:52:24,466
Not good.
Things are snowballing.
1130
00:52:24,502 --> 00:52:26,936
And Preston just received
some really bad news.
1131
00:52:26,971 --> 00:52:29,638
- No, what happened?
- His grandmother fell,
1132
00:52:29,674 --> 00:52:31,318
and she's not gonna be able
to make it to the wedding.
1133
00:52:31,342 --> 00:52:33,475
Oh, my God, that's horrible.
1134
00:52:33,511 --> 00:52:36,378
I know, and he was so looking
forward to her being there.
1135
00:52:36,414 --> 00:52:38,080
When do you guys think
you'll be here?
1136
00:52:38,115 --> 00:52:39,915
Hopefully soon.
1137
00:52:39,951 --> 00:52:41,795
Look, I know you're already
doing a million things.
1138
00:52:41,819 --> 00:52:44,453
I haven't received confirmation
from the florist yet.
1139
00:52:44,488 --> 00:52:45,921
Can you go check on the order?
1140
00:52:45,957 --> 00:52:47,356
Absolutely.
First thing tomorrow.
1141
00:52:47,391 --> 00:52:49,291
Okay, thanks.
You're a lifesaver.
1142
00:52:49,327 --> 00:52:50,659
Of course. Good luck.
1143
00:52:50,695 --> 00:52:52,461
Thanks. Love you.
1144
00:52:52,496 --> 00:52:54,697
Love you.
Give Preston my love too.
1145
00:52:54,732 --> 00:52:55,931
Bye.
1146
00:53:10,781 --> 00:53:14,283
But my sister placed the order
on the website two weeks ago.
1147
00:53:14,318 --> 00:53:17,553
I am so sorry. I'm not seeing
anything under that name.
1148
00:53:17,588 --> 00:53:18,554
Could it be under Preston?
1149
00:53:18,589 --> 00:53:20,289
We just updated our website.
1150
00:53:20,324 --> 00:53:22,358
It might just be
an unfortunate glitch.
1151
00:53:22,393 --> 00:53:24,827
- What were you looking for?
- We're doing red rose bouquets.
1152
00:53:24,862 --> 00:53:27,363
That shouldn't be a problem.
Let me start a new order.
1153
00:53:29,433 --> 00:53:31,934
Now, when's the wedding?
1154
00:53:31,969 --> 00:53:33,068
July Fourth.
1155
00:53:33,104 --> 00:53:34,536
This year?
1156
00:53:34,572 --> 00:53:35,804
Yes.
1157
00:53:35,840 --> 00:53:36,939
That's next week.
1158
00:53:36,974 --> 00:53:39,308
Technically, six days.
1159
00:53:39,343 --> 00:53:41,410
I'm not sure we can fill
such a big order
1160
00:53:41,445 --> 00:53:42,811
in such short time.
1161
00:53:42,847 --> 00:53:45,214
That's why she placed the order
two weeks ago.
1162
00:53:45,249 --> 00:53:47,616
Right.
1163
00:53:47,652 --> 00:53:50,019
Let me see what I can do.
1164
00:53:50,054 --> 00:53:51,520
Thank you.
1165
00:53:53,424 --> 00:53:54,701
Of course
Tracy puts me in charge,
1166
00:53:54,725 --> 00:53:56,258
and it's already falling apart.
1167
00:53:56,294 --> 00:53:58,794
It's not falling apart.
It's a minor hiccup.
1168
00:53:58,829 --> 00:54:00,229
I just feel like this wedding
1169
00:54:00,264 --> 00:54:01,608
is getting closer
and closer by the minute.
1170
00:54:01,632 --> 00:54:02,965
I know.
1171
00:54:03,000 --> 00:54:06,135
And so is this decision
you have to make about the job.
1172
00:54:06,170 --> 00:54:07,469
I know.
1173
00:54:07,505 --> 00:54:09,438
- We need to discuss it soon.
- And we will,
1174
00:54:09,473 --> 00:54:12,041
as soon as we finish
all the wedding errands, okay?
1175
00:54:14,345 --> 00:54:16,578
We probably won't be able
to do all roses.
1176
00:54:16,614 --> 00:54:18,347
Are you okay with other flowers?
1177
00:54:18,382 --> 00:54:20,582
Yeah, we're going with
red, white, and blue,
1178
00:54:20,618 --> 00:54:21,984
so as long as they're red.
1179
00:54:22,019 --> 00:54:23,585
We can totally do that.
1180
00:54:23,621 --> 00:54:29,124
Ranunculus, sugarbushes,
dahlias, anthurium, peonies.
1181
00:54:29,160 --> 00:54:31,138
There are so many beautiful
flowers that come in red.
1182
00:54:31,162 --> 00:54:32,494
Great.
1183
00:54:32,530 --> 00:54:34,763
Hey, it may even be better
than plain roses anyway.
1184
00:54:34,799 --> 00:54:35,964
Problem solved.
1185
00:54:36,000 --> 00:54:37,866
One problem solved.
1186
00:54:51,048 --> 00:54:52,414
Stephanie, Ben!
1187
00:54:52,450 --> 00:54:54,283
Hi, Frankie!
1188
00:54:54,318 --> 00:54:56,719
Tracy's cake is looking great.
1189
00:54:56,754 --> 00:54:58,120
That's so good to hear.
1190
00:54:58,155 --> 00:55:00,522
Come decorate
some Fourth of July tarts.
1191
00:55:00,558 --> 00:55:02,691
We really shouldn't.
We still have so much to do.
1192
00:55:02,727 --> 00:55:05,361
I think we can make time.
Plus, they smell amazing.
1193
00:55:06,797 --> 00:55:09,098
Okay, why not?
1194
00:55:12,670 --> 00:55:15,471
Why, why tarts?
1195
00:55:15,506 --> 00:55:18,607
This was the favorite food
of our founding fathers.
1196
00:55:18,642 --> 00:55:21,143
That actually makes sense
because raspberry tarts
1197
00:55:21,178 --> 00:55:23,912
were very popular
in the late 1700s.
1198
00:55:23,948 --> 00:55:25,647
Decorate.
1199
00:55:27,151 --> 00:55:31,787
You both started
with the same color icing.
1200
00:55:31,822 --> 00:55:33,655
A sign it's meant to be.
1201
00:55:36,360 --> 00:55:37,626
All right.
1202
00:55:38,629 --> 00:55:40,362
What are you making?
1203
00:55:40,398 --> 00:55:46,101
The original flag with the stars
for the original colonies.
1204
00:55:46,137 --> 00:55:48,637
- I love it.
- What about you?
1205
00:55:48,672 --> 00:55:51,907
Obviously
a very detailed portrait
1206
00:55:51,942 --> 00:55:55,677
of Thomas Jefferson
with spiky hair.
1207
00:56:07,158 --> 00:56:10,793
So the chairs
will be in rows over here.
1208
00:56:10,828 --> 00:56:12,428
And where's the band gonna go?
1209
00:56:12,463 --> 00:56:14,897
Well, there's no band,
but the DJ will be over here.
1210
00:56:14,932 --> 00:56:16,765
Hi!
1211
00:56:16,801 --> 00:56:20,068
You guys can put those on the
side of the house for storage.
1212
00:56:20,104 --> 00:56:22,204
Thank you.
1213
00:56:22,239 --> 00:56:24,673
It's coming along great.
I'm very proud of you.
1214
00:56:24,708 --> 00:56:27,276
For being able to direct
people where to store chairs?
1215
00:56:27,311 --> 00:56:29,878
No, no, because...
1216
00:56:29,914 --> 00:56:31,947
well, for helping your sister
plan this wedding,
1217
00:56:31,982 --> 00:56:33,215
for,
1218
00:56:33,250 --> 00:56:36,218
for being on track for tenure.
1219
00:56:36,253 --> 00:56:39,221
For just being
an amazing daughter.
1220
00:56:39,256 --> 00:56:40,556
Thanks, Dad.
1221
00:56:40,591 --> 00:56:42,624
You deserve the best.
1222
00:56:42,660 --> 00:56:43,692
Always.
1223
00:56:43,727 --> 00:56:46,428
Are you talking about Ben?
1224
00:56:54,071 --> 00:56:55,204
Look, Stephanie,
1225
00:56:55,239 --> 00:56:57,239
the first date
I ever took your mom on
1226
00:56:57,274 --> 00:56:59,308
was to grab a cheeseburger
at a diner
1227
00:56:59,343 --> 00:57:01,276
when we were just teenagers.
1228
00:57:01,312 --> 00:57:03,579
I was worried
it wasn't nice enough,
1229
00:57:03,614 --> 00:57:07,883
not good enough for someone
as special as she was,
1230
00:57:07,918 --> 00:57:11,053
but it was all I could afford.
1231
00:57:11,088 --> 00:57:14,089
Your mom didn't care at all.
She loved it.
1232
00:57:15,693 --> 00:57:18,727
Anyway, we spent that whole date
1233
00:57:18,762 --> 00:57:20,829
talking plans for our future,
1234
00:57:20,865 --> 00:57:24,700
dreaming about things
we wanted out of life,
1235
00:57:24,735 --> 00:57:26,201
and we quickly discovered
1236
00:57:26,237 --> 00:57:29,771
we pretty much wanted
the same things.
1237
00:57:31,308 --> 00:57:34,476
I left knowing I'd marry her.
1238
00:57:34,512 --> 00:57:39,448
Years later,
after I'd become a doctor,
1239
00:57:39,483 --> 00:57:41,550
I took her to this
very fancy restaurant
1240
00:57:41,585 --> 00:57:43,785
for our 15th anniversary.
1241
00:57:43,821 --> 00:57:46,355
She looked at the menu
and was sad.
1242
00:57:46,390 --> 00:57:48,757
There were
no cheeseburgers on it.
1243
00:57:49,927 --> 00:57:51,393
She asked if we could leave
1244
00:57:51,428 --> 00:57:54,563
and go back to the diner
where we had our first date.
1245
00:57:54,598 --> 00:57:56,465
I asked her why.
1246
00:57:56,500 --> 00:57:59,268
She told me the cheeseburger
reminded her
1247
00:57:59,303 --> 00:58:02,471
that we had, in fact,
made our lives
1248
00:58:02,506 --> 00:58:06,708
what we wanted together.
1249
00:58:07,945 --> 00:58:10,279
I like that.
1250
00:58:10,314 --> 00:58:11,647
If you love someone
1251
00:58:11,682 --> 00:58:12,993
you wanna spend the rest
of your life with,
1252
00:58:13,017 --> 00:58:15,450
the only thing that matters
1253
00:58:15,486 --> 00:58:18,453
is that you have the same
vision for the future.
1254
00:58:18,489 --> 00:58:21,623
Well, why on earth did you
wait so long to marry her
1255
00:58:21,659 --> 00:58:23,559
after that first date?
1256
00:58:23,594 --> 00:58:26,795
Seems like you could've
eloped that night.
1257
00:58:28,032 --> 00:58:29,498
Stephanie...
1258
00:58:29,533 --> 00:58:33,235
that is not at all the point
I was trying to make.
1259
00:58:33,270 --> 00:58:35,137
I know.
1260
00:58:35,172 --> 00:58:37,906
My point is that you knew
1261
00:58:37,942 --> 00:58:41,743
Mom was the woman for you
right away,
1262
00:58:41,779 --> 00:58:45,714
and I know that Ben
is the man for me.
1263
00:58:46,984 --> 00:58:50,218
He's so kind and thoughtful.
1264
00:58:51,522 --> 00:58:53,155
We laugh every day,
1265
00:58:53,190 --> 00:58:57,459
and he cheers me on
in every part of my life.
1266
00:58:57,494 --> 00:58:59,962
So you may think
that this is fast,
1267
00:58:59,997 --> 00:59:05,734
but in 10 years
or 20 or 30, whatever,
1268
00:59:07,171 --> 00:59:10,872
he's the one I wanna have
the cheeseburger with.
1269
00:59:14,311 --> 00:59:17,346
Well, everything seems
to be coming in on time,
1270
00:59:17,381 --> 00:59:18,814
which is a good sign.
1271
00:59:18,849 --> 00:59:21,850
Just talked to Tracy,
and they are wrapping things up.
1272
00:59:21,885 --> 00:59:24,987
They'll be home tomorrow,
so we are on track.
1273
00:59:25,022 --> 00:59:27,289
I know she's so grateful to you
for taking over.
1274
00:59:27,324 --> 00:59:30,659
Well, I know she'd do the same
if the tables were reversed.
1275
00:59:34,131 --> 00:59:35,564
Hello?
1276
00:59:37,935 --> 00:59:39,368
Oh, my gosh.
1277
00:59:39,403 --> 00:59:41,536
Tell her congratulations.
1278
00:59:42,506 --> 00:59:44,072
No, I totally understand.
1279
00:59:44,108 --> 00:59:46,141
Thanks for letting me know.
1280
00:59:47,711 --> 00:59:49,678
The photographer
can't make it anymore.
1281
00:59:49,713 --> 00:59:51,246
- Oh, no.
- What happened?
1282
00:59:51,281 --> 00:59:52,381
She had a baby.
1283
00:59:52,416 --> 00:59:53,715
What?
1284
00:59:55,085 --> 00:59:56,351
Okay...
1285
00:59:56,387 --> 00:59:58,754
- We'll find another one.
- Four days out?
1286
00:59:58,789 --> 01:00:00,555
Do you know how hard it was
to book her?
1287
01:00:00,591 --> 01:00:02,591
If anybody can do it, you can.
1288
01:00:02,626 --> 01:00:04,526
I'm sure they're out there.
1289
01:00:04,561 --> 01:00:06,728
Okay, I'll help you look.
1290
01:00:08,465 --> 01:00:11,066
Yeah, this July Fourth.
1291
01:00:11,101 --> 01:00:13,769
Yes, as in four days from now.
1292
01:00:15,239 --> 01:00:17,372
Hello?
1293
01:00:17,408 --> 01:00:20,342
Yeah, so it'd just be
for the basic package.
1294
01:00:20,377 --> 01:00:23,945
Great. The wedding
is this Tuesday.
1295
01:00:25,382 --> 01:00:27,616
You're already booked.
1296
01:00:28,819 --> 01:00:30,585
Okay, thank you.
1297
01:00:34,058 --> 01:00:35,168
Hey, have you tried this guy?
1298
01:00:35,192 --> 01:00:36,825
Renaldo Salks.
1299
01:00:36,860 --> 01:00:39,161
Says he's the best wedding
photographer in Palm Springs.
1300
01:00:39,196 --> 01:00:40,540
Yeah, I tried him
a couple weeks ago
1301
01:00:40,564 --> 01:00:42,264
before we booked this other one,
1302
01:00:42,299 --> 01:00:44,966
but his messages were full,
and I couldn't get through.
1303
01:00:45,002 --> 01:00:46,802
Well, his social media says
1304
01:00:46,837 --> 01:00:48,904
he's working
an engagement party tomorrow
1305
01:00:48,939 --> 01:00:50,338
at the country club.
1306
01:00:50,374 --> 01:00:52,908
It's too bad
we can't go ask him.
1307
01:00:52,943 --> 01:00:54,276
Why can't we?
1308
01:00:54,311 --> 01:00:57,212
Because we're not invited.
1309
01:01:12,763 --> 01:01:14,262
Just act like
you've been invited
1310
01:01:14,298 --> 01:01:15,897
and nobody knows the difference.
1311
01:01:15,933 --> 01:01:17,866
Why do I feel like
you've crashed a party before?
1312
01:01:17,901 --> 01:01:19,101
It was a long time ago,
1313
01:01:19,136 --> 01:01:20,769
and I was writing
a dissertation.
1314
01:01:20,804 --> 01:01:22,504
Okay.
1315
01:01:22,539 --> 01:01:24,439
Relax your shoulders a bit.
1316
01:01:24,475 --> 01:01:26,308
There he is.
1317
01:01:26,343 --> 01:01:27,620
Can I get you to...
Yeah, beautiful.
1318
01:01:27,644 --> 01:01:29,044
Smile a little bit. Yeah!
1319
01:01:29,079 --> 01:01:31,747
Okay, so what's the plan?
1320
01:01:31,782 --> 01:01:33,148
We're just gonna wing it.
1321
01:01:33,183 --> 01:01:34,694
He's gonna work his way
through the guests,
1322
01:01:34,718 --> 01:01:36,463
and then we wait for
our chance to talk to him.
1323
01:01:36,487 --> 01:01:38,320
Okay, and what do we do
till then?
1324
01:01:38,355 --> 01:01:40,889
Enjoy a party
we didn't have to plan.
1325
01:01:40,924 --> 01:01:42,524
I like that.
1326
01:01:46,196 --> 01:01:47,596
You're right.
1327
01:01:47,631 --> 01:01:49,865
When you act like you belong,
no one even notices.
1328
01:01:49,900 --> 01:01:51,733
It's a bizarre human trait.
1329
01:01:52,736 --> 01:01:53,702
Listen, about the job...
1330
01:01:53,737 --> 01:01:55,837
Before you say anything,
1331
01:01:55,873 --> 01:01:57,839
I've been thinking about it,
1332
01:01:57,875 --> 01:01:59,775
and I want you to take it.
1333
01:01:59,810 --> 01:02:01,143
What about you?
1334
01:02:01,178 --> 01:02:04,746
Lovely couple.
May I take your picture?
1335
01:02:04,782 --> 01:02:06,414
- You may.
- Yes...
1336
01:02:06,450 --> 01:02:08,416
if we can ask you a question.
1337
01:02:08,452 --> 01:02:10,196
I don't use filters,
if that's your question.
1338
01:02:10,220 --> 01:02:12,220
No, that's not it.
Are you available
1339
01:02:12,256 --> 01:02:16,391
to shoot a wedding
on the Fourth of July?
1340
01:02:16,426 --> 01:02:18,760
This Fourth of July,
as in a few days from now?
1341
01:02:18,796 --> 01:02:22,764
Yes, here in Palm Springs
at our vacation home.
1342
01:02:22,800 --> 01:02:25,267
Are you friends
of John or Ellie?
1343
01:02:26,537 --> 01:02:27,669
Neither.
1344
01:02:27,704 --> 01:02:29,204
I don't understand.
1345
01:02:29,239 --> 01:02:31,773
Well, we weren't able
to get in touch with you,
1346
01:02:31,809 --> 01:02:33,809
and we knew you'd be here.
1347
01:02:33,844 --> 01:02:36,011
I think this is the first time
1348
01:02:36,046 --> 01:02:38,113
I've been stalked
for my services.
1349
01:02:38,148 --> 01:02:39,514
Flattered?
1350
01:02:39,550 --> 01:02:41,082
A little scared.
1351
01:02:41,118 --> 01:02:42,584
It's for my sister.
1352
01:02:42,619 --> 01:02:44,419
Our photographer had a baby
and can't make it,
1353
01:02:44,454 --> 01:02:46,121
and we are desperate.
1354
01:02:47,457 --> 01:02:49,691
Normally I'd say no
because this is weird,
1355
01:02:49,726 --> 01:02:51,393
but since you've gone
to all this trouble
1356
01:02:51,428 --> 01:02:53,028
of tracking me down,
1357
01:02:53,063 --> 01:02:55,130
and you've been at this party
for half an hour
1358
01:02:55,165 --> 01:02:57,632
without being noticed,
1359
01:02:57,668 --> 01:02:58,800
I guess okay.
1360
01:02:58,836 --> 01:03:00,101
- Yes!
- Thank you so much!
1361
01:03:00,137 --> 01:03:01,137
Thank you.
1362
01:03:01,171 --> 01:03:02,504
You're welcome.
1363
01:03:02,539 --> 01:03:04,840
Better not take any
photos of you at this.
1364
01:03:04,875 --> 01:03:06,508
Yeah, it's probably best
you don't.
1365
01:03:06,543 --> 01:03:09,110
People are starting to stare,
so we should probably head out.
1366
01:03:10,380 --> 01:03:11,546
Thank you again.
1367
01:03:11,582 --> 01:03:12,881
You're welcome.
1368
01:03:12,916 --> 01:03:14,616
Thank you.
1369
01:03:14,651 --> 01:03:16,418
May I take your photo?
1370
01:03:27,497 --> 01:03:28,530
You're back!
1371
01:03:28,565 --> 01:03:29,764
Yes, finally.
1372
01:03:29,800 --> 01:03:31,733
Every time we were
close to finishing,
1373
01:03:31,768 --> 01:03:33,201
something else came up.
1374
01:03:33,237 --> 01:03:34,569
Where were you guys?
1375
01:03:34,605 --> 01:03:37,305
You know,
just getting Renaldo Salks
1376
01:03:37,341 --> 01:03:38,707
to photograph your wedding.
1377
01:03:38,742 --> 01:03:40,876
- No way.
- That's great.
1378
01:03:40,911 --> 01:03:42,811
But what about
the other photographer?
1379
01:03:42,846 --> 01:03:44,980
She had a baby,
but the important thing
1380
01:03:45,015 --> 01:03:47,482
is that we are on track with
everything for the wedding.
1381
01:03:47,517 --> 01:03:49,184
I know.
It's so incredible.
1382
01:03:49,219 --> 01:03:50,619
You're the best.
1383
01:04:05,168 --> 01:04:08,303
See, now you wanna keep
your shoulders, waist, and knees
1384
01:04:08,338 --> 01:04:09,871
all parallel to the ground
1385
01:04:09,907 --> 01:04:11,172
so that when you swing,
1386
01:04:11,208 --> 01:04:14,376
you get the full momentum
of the twist.
1387
01:04:14,411 --> 01:04:15,944
- Okay.
- Okay?
1388
01:04:15,979 --> 01:04:17,078
Okay.
1389
01:04:27,624 --> 01:04:29,824
Better, nice.
1390
01:04:29,860 --> 01:04:31,092
Now just make sure
1391
01:04:31,128 --> 01:04:32,961
that you curve that club
around your body.
1392
01:04:32,996 --> 01:04:34,462
You don't hit the club straight
1393
01:04:34,498 --> 01:04:36,164
in order to make the ball
go straight.
1394
01:04:36,199 --> 01:04:38,199
- Okay.
- All right.
1395
01:04:38,235 --> 01:04:39,567
Hey, I appreciate your help.
1396
01:04:39,603 --> 01:04:41,836
If Robert actually ever
invites me back out,
1397
01:04:41,872 --> 01:04:43,338
I wanna show off
my golfing skills
1398
01:04:43,373 --> 01:04:46,174
and not my ability
to chuck a club into the lake.
1399
01:04:46,209 --> 01:04:50,445
Of course. Besides, it helps
keep my mind off things, so...
1400
01:04:50,480 --> 01:04:51,579
The wedding?
1401
01:04:51,615 --> 01:04:53,782
Yeah.
1402
01:04:53,817 --> 01:04:55,216
Is everything okay?
1403
01:04:55,252 --> 01:04:57,552
No, not exactly.
1404
01:04:57,587 --> 01:04:58,987
Cold feet?
1405
01:04:59,022 --> 01:05:00,555
No, no, it's nothing like that.
1406
01:05:00,590 --> 01:05:02,357
I can't wait to marry Tracy,
1407
01:05:02,392 --> 01:05:05,160
but once I found out that
my grandma couldn't make it,
1408
01:05:05,195 --> 01:05:07,095
along with pretty much
half of my family,
1409
01:05:07,130 --> 01:05:10,065
I started to wonder if we should
have the wedding now at all.
1410
01:05:10,100 --> 01:05:13,735
I wanna share the most
important day of my life
1411
01:05:13,770 --> 01:05:15,103
with the ones that I love,
1412
01:05:15,138 --> 01:05:17,839
and I know that
Tracy has her heart set
1413
01:05:17,874 --> 01:05:21,876
on having this wedding here
at the vacation house and...
1414
01:05:23,280 --> 01:05:24,746
I'm sorry.
1415
01:05:24,781 --> 01:05:26,259
I didn't mean
to dump this all on you.
1416
01:05:26,283 --> 01:05:27,716
I just don't know what to do.
1417
01:05:27,751 --> 01:05:28,950
Look, it's fine.
1418
01:05:28,986 --> 01:05:30,518
I get it.
1419
01:05:30,554 --> 01:05:33,722
I'd say your best bet
is just go talk to Tracy.
1420
01:05:33,757 --> 01:05:35,223
Tell her how you're feeling.
1421
01:05:35,258 --> 01:05:37,492
But she is so excited
about this wedding.
1422
01:05:37,527 --> 01:05:39,394
I can't ask her not to have it.
1423
01:05:39,429 --> 01:05:41,196
Look, you love
each other, right?
1424
01:05:41,231 --> 01:05:44,032
Then she'll understand
how important it is.
1425
01:05:47,270 --> 01:05:48,470
What?
1426
01:05:48,505 --> 01:05:50,572
Just realizing I should
be taking my own advice.
1427
01:05:50,607 --> 01:05:52,607
I have to give an answer
on the job tomorrow,
1428
01:05:52,642 --> 01:05:57,345
and Stephanie and I
have a lot to talk about.
1429
01:05:59,383 --> 01:06:02,584
I'm just not sure what jewelry
to wear with the dress.
1430
01:06:02,619 --> 01:06:03,752
You should do an earring.
1431
01:06:05,055 --> 01:06:06,221
Dad, can you get that?
1432
01:06:06,256 --> 01:06:08,323
You guys expecting
more deliveries?
1433
01:06:08,358 --> 01:06:09,924
Not until tomorrow.
1434
01:06:11,628 --> 01:06:12,594
Hi.
1435
01:06:12,629 --> 01:06:14,896
Thank you, thank you.
1436
01:06:16,633 --> 01:06:17,866
Has my name on it.
1437
01:06:17,901 --> 01:06:19,968
Did you order something?
1438
01:06:20,003 --> 01:06:21,169
Nope.
1439
01:06:28,211 --> 01:06:30,412
- Can't be.
- What is it?
1440
01:06:31,815 --> 01:06:34,549
It's the idler arm I need
for my Thunderbird.
1441
01:06:34,584 --> 01:06:36,551
Who sent it to you?
1442
01:06:38,388 --> 01:06:39,754
There's a note.
1443
01:06:42,125 --> 01:06:44,592
"Robert, Ben told me
you could use one of these.
1444
01:06:44,628 --> 01:06:45,794
Enjoy.
1445
01:06:45,829 --> 01:06:47,462
Thomas Larson".
1446
01:06:47,497 --> 01:06:49,297
That's Ben's dad.
1447
01:06:49,332 --> 01:06:51,032
Ben did this.
1448
01:06:51,068 --> 01:06:52,700
Told you he was thoughtful.
1449
01:06:53,870 --> 01:06:56,204
I can't believe
he did this for me.
1450
01:07:04,247 --> 01:07:06,214
This looks beautiful.
1451
01:07:09,019 --> 01:07:10,552
Thank you.
1452
01:07:14,791 --> 01:07:16,124
Thank you.
1453
01:07:18,095 --> 01:07:19,572
I can't believe that
guessing the right number
1454
01:07:19,596 --> 01:07:21,996
of jelly beans in a jar
got us a dinner here.
1455
01:07:22,032 --> 01:07:23,565
I'm glad it did.
1456
01:07:23,600 --> 01:07:28,503
It gives us a chance to take
a step back from work and from...
1457
01:07:28,538 --> 01:07:30,004
From wedding planning.
1458
01:07:31,675 --> 01:07:33,608
Tracy...
1459
01:07:33,643 --> 01:07:36,678
I wanna talk to you
about the wedding.
1460
01:07:40,383 --> 01:07:42,016
Give it a try.
1461
01:07:42,052 --> 01:07:43,518
You bet your life.
1462
01:07:45,689 --> 01:07:47,789
That sounds good.
1463
01:07:47,824 --> 01:07:49,357
Thanks to you.
1464
01:07:49,392 --> 01:07:51,137
I'm gonna take it for a spin.
You wanna come along?
1465
01:07:51,161 --> 01:07:54,129
Stephanie and I have some
stuff to do, but maybe later.
1466
01:07:54,164 --> 01:07:56,164
All right, later it is.
1467
01:07:58,201 --> 01:08:00,201
Enjoy! Bye-bye.
1468
01:08:03,039 --> 01:08:05,340
You know you just validated
his obsession, right?
1469
01:08:05,375 --> 01:08:06,808
You mean his hobby.
1470
01:08:06,843 --> 01:08:08,376
Same thing.
1471
01:08:10,046 --> 01:08:12,447
Look, I have to tell Quincy
an answer tomorrow,
1472
01:08:12,482 --> 01:08:15,216
so we should probably
talk about it.
1473
01:08:15,252 --> 01:08:16,985
I'll go to England with you.
1474
01:08:20,223 --> 01:08:21,868
I was gonna tell you
I'm not gonna take the job,
1475
01:08:21,892 --> 01:08:24,292
but you would move to England?
1476
01:08:24,327 --> 01:08:25,660
You don't wanna take the job?
1477
01:08:25,695 --> 01:08:27,162
No, I do.
1478
01:08:27,197 --> 01:08:29,275
To work with Quincy would be
a highlight of my career,
1479
01:08:29,299 --> 01:08:32,300
but without you,
then it doesn't mean anything.
1480
01:08:33,703 --> 01:08:36,004
You would really move?
1481
01:08:36,039 --> 01:08:37,338
I would for you.
1482
01:08:39,476 --> 01:08:41,643
I can't ask you to do that.
1483
01:08:43,146 --> 01:08:45,146
I know how hard
you've worked for everything,
1484
01:08:45,182 --> 01:08:47,515
and I couldn't live with myself
1485
01:08:47,551 --> 01:08:49,684
if I knew I made you
give it all up.
1486
01:08:51,555 --> 01:08:53,688
Maybe if we'd been together
for a couple years
1487
01:08:53,723 --> 01:08:57,158
and were actually on the same
page about what we wanted,
1488
01:08:57,194 --> 01:09:00,094
but we haven't even
talked about this.
1489
01:09:00,130 --> 01:09:03,531
And we don't actually know if we
want the same amount of kids.
1490
01:09:08,305 --> 01:09:10,438
Maybe we did rush into this.
1491
01:09:14,578 --> 01:09:15,710
So what now?
1492
01:09:17,814 --> 01:09:20,014
You take the job,
and I stay here.
1493
01:09:22,018 --> 01:09:23,117
And us?
1494
01:09:24,387 --> 01:09:27,255
Put a pin in it, take a break.
1495
01:09:27,290 --> 01:09:28,856
You could really do that?
1496
01:09:31,595 --> 01:09:34,062
If it meant
you following your dreams.
1497
01:09:35,732 --> 01:09:37,599
And you following yours.
1498
01:10:17,507 --> 01:10:19,507
Glad I caught you
before you left.
1499
01:10:19,542 --> 01:10:21,809
Mr. Bishop,
what are you doing here?
1500
01:10:21,845 --> 01:10:25,179
Thought I'd take
another drive in the T-Bird,
1501
01:10:25,215 --> 01:10:26,314
brought me here.
1502
01:10:26,349 --> 01:10:28,449
Which brings me
to my next point.
1503
01:10:28,485 --> 01:10:30,451
What are you doing here?
1504
01:10:30,487 --> 01:10:32,587
Stephanie thought
this was for the best.
1505
01:10:35,058 --> 01:10:36,691
When Stephanie
was a little girl,
1506
01:10:36,726 --> 01:10:38,259
she dug a hole in the wall
1507
01:10:38,295 --> 01:10:40,695
and thought the fiberglass
insulation was cotton candy
1508
01:10:40,730 --> 01:10:42,630
and that it led
to a magical land,
1509
01:10:42,666 --> 01:10:45,166
so no, Stephanie doesn't
always know what's best.
1510
01:10:46,703 --> 01:10:49,671
She thought I'd be happy
taking my dream job,
1511
01:10:49,706 --> 01:10:53,508
but Stephanie doesn't
realize that I can't be happy
1512
01:10:53,543 --> 01:10:55,109
without her in my life.
1513
01:10:57,047 --> 01:11:00,648
Then I think there's something
you've been meaning to ask me.
1514
01:11:01,751 --> 01:11:03,918
My blessing
to marry my daughter.
1515
01:11:03,953 --> 01:11:07,689
I didn't think you liked me,
Mr. Bishop.
1516
01:11:07,724 --> 01:11:09,824
Isn't about time
you called me Robert?
1517
01:11:11,761 --> 01:11:13,661
Look, I admit I...
1518
01:11:15,231 --> 01:11:17,298
I didn't get you at first.
1519
01:11:17,334 --> 01:11:19,345
But now I see how thoughtful
you are about my daughter,
1520
01:11:19,369 --> 01:11:21,869
how you put her needs
before your own,
1521
01:11:21,905 --> 01:11:26,007
how you went above and beyond
to get me a little car part.
1522
01:11:26,042 --> 01:11:28,543
Bottom line, I've never seen
Stephanie smile more
1523
01:11:28,578 --> 01:11:29,944
than when she's with you.
1524
01:11:29,979 --> 01:11:32,513
And I wish we could be together.
1525
01:11:34,984 --> 01:11:37,518
Sometimes when I'm working
on the car,
1526
01:11:37,554 --> 01:11:40,188
and it's just not doing
what I want it to,
1527
01:11:40,223 --> 01:11:42,857
I stop, I breathe,
1528
01:11:42,892 --> 01:11:46,627
I look at it
from a different angle,
1529
01:11:46,663 --> 01:11:48,663
try to see my other options.
1530
01:11:48,698 --> 01:11:52,033
There's always another way
to go about things.
1531
01:11:56,406 --> 01:11:59,207
Parked in a loading zone.
I'd better get going.
1532
01:12:01,711 --> 01:12:03,244
So anyway, you have it.
1533
01:12:03,279 --> 01:12:05,079
Have what?
1534
01:12:05,115 --> 01:12:07,115
My blessing.
1535
01:12:07,150 --> 01:12:09,751
For whenever you need it.
1536
01:12:12,689 --> 01:12:15,189
Thank you, Robert.
1537
01:12:20,764 --> 01:12:23,097
All aboard.
1538
01:12:31,007 --> 01:12:32,707
Take care.
1539
01:12:51,294 --> 01:12:52,527
You're up early.
1540
01:12:52,562 --> 01:12:55,296
Couldn't sleep.
1541
01:12:55,331 --> 01:12:57,231
There's something
that I have to tell you.
1542
01:12:57,267 --> 01:12:59,934
- Me too.
- Do you wanna go first?
1543
01:12:59,969 --> 01:13:01,669
No, you go.
1544
01:13:03,339 --> 01:13:05,206
Preston and I
are calling off the wedding.
1545
01:13:05,241 --> 01:13:06,441
What?
1546
01:13:06,476 --> 01:13:07,753
Preston doesn't wanna
get married
1547
01:13:07,777 --> 01:13:09,221
unless all of his family
can be there,
1548
01:13:09,245 --> 01:13:11,245
especially his grandmother.
1549
01:13:11,281 --> 01:13:12,547
And I agree.
1550
01:13:12,582 --> 01:13:14,115
I was just on such a whirlwind
1551
01:13:14,150 --> 01:13:16,717
with getting the wedding
ready in time.
1552
01:13:16,753 --> 01:13:20,621
I never realized how he was
feeling till last night.
1553
01:13:20,657 --> 01:13:21,889
I get it.
1554
01:13:21,925 --> 01:13:23,424
It'd be really hard
to get married
1555
01:13:23,460 --> 01:13:25,204
without all the people
that you love most there.
1556
01:13:25,228 --> 01:13:28,896
Thank you for being
so understanding.
1557
01:13:28,932 --> 01:13:31,833
I know you've worked so hard
on this wedding,
1558
01:13:31,868 --> 01:13:34,769
and I was terrified
to tell you that it's off.
1559
01:13:36,072 --> 01:13:38,773
I have to follow my heart.
1560
01:13:38,808 --> 01:13:40,408
Where's Ben?
1561
01:13:40,443 --> 01:13:42,810
At the bus station.
1562
01:13:42,846 --> 01:13:44,612
Why? What happened?
1563
01:13:44,647 --> 01:13:48,549
I told him to take the job
and to put a pin in us.
1564
01:13:48,585 --> 01:13:52,720
Stephanie, you and I both know
you're supposed to be with Ben.
1565
01:13:52,755 --> 01:13:54,188
- Go after him.
- I can't.
1566
01:13:54,224 --> 01:13:56,591
I have to let him
go after what he wants.
1567
01:13:56,626 --> 01:13:57,959
Do you love him?
1568
01:13:58,895 --> 01:14:00,194
With all my heart.
1569
01:14:00,230 --> 01:14:02,163
I've seen the way
that he talks about you,
1570
01:14:02,198 --> 01:14:03,798
the way he looks at you.
1571
01:14:03,833 --> 01:14:05,633
You think some job
is more important
1572
01:14:05,668 --> 01:14:08,135
than what the two of you have?
1573
01:14:08,171 --> 01:14:10,771
It just all happened too fast.
1574
01:14:10,807 --> 01:14:12,807
I didn't even know
his favorite color
1575
01:14:12,842 --> 01:14:14,208
until a couple weeks ago.
1576
01:14:14,244 --> 01:14:15,510
Who cares about that?
1577
01:14:15,545 --> 01:14:18,980
That's not important,
and you know it.
1578
01:14:19,015 --> 01:14:22,016
I can't give up what I've
been working for for some guy.
1579
01:14:22,051 --> 01:14:24,452
I didn't do it with Dave,
and I'm not gonna do it now.
1580
01:14:24,487 --> 01:14:29,757
Ben is not some guy,
and he is definitely not Dave.
1581
01:14:31,361 --> 01:14:33,094
You need to ask yourself
1582
01:14:33,129 --> 01:14:36,697
what is best for you and Ben
as a couple.
1583
01:14:38,067 --> 01:14:41,402
You need to be honest
with each other.
1584
01:14:41,437 --> 01:14:42,570
I wanna be.
1585
01:14:42,605 --> 01:14:44,438
Well?
1586
01:14:44,474 --> 01:14:46,674
What is your heart telling you?
1587
01:15:02,326 --> 01:15:04,593
He wasn't at the bus stop.
1588
01:15:04,629 --> 01:15:06,262
I missed him.
1589
01:15:06,297 --> 01:15:08,097
Maybe check outside?
1590
01:15:09,033 --> 01:15:10,033
Why?
1591
01:15:10,671 --> 01:15:12,401
Trust me.
1592
01:15:26,584 --> 01:15:27,850
Hello, beautiful.
1593
01:15:27,885 --> 01:15:29,285
Hi.
1594
01:15:29,820 --> 01:15:32,087
So I just got off the phone
with Quincy,
1595
01:15:32,122 --> 01:15:37,726
and I told him that
I'm not taking the position.
1596
01:15:37,761 --> 01:15:40,328
But I did pitch him a new one.
1597
01:15:40,364 --> 01:15:43,565
One where I can stay in LA,
do my research,
1598
01:15:43,600 --> 01:15:45,834
and for once a year
for a couple of weeks,
1599
01:15:45,869 --> 01:15:48,737
I go to Oxford,
and I teach my findings.
1600
01:15:48,772 --> 01:15:51,506
And I thought for those
couple weeks, maybe...
1601
01:15:51,542 --> 01:15:53,008
that you'd come with me,
1602
01:15:53,043 --> 01:15:55,610
as long as I schedule it
over the summer.
1603
01:15:55,646 --> 01:15:58,947
I like this plan.
What'd he say?
1604
01:15:58,982 --> 01:16:01,716
He said he thought
it would work.
1605
01:16:02,953 --> 01:16:05,687
And as far as kids go,
1606
01:16:05,722 --> 01:16:07,255
we'll figure it out.
1607
01:16:07,291 --> 01:16:09,691
Maybe I'll want six kids.
1608
01:16:09,726 --> 01:16:13,929
Maybe I could just do four
with like two dogs.
1609
01:16:13,964 --> 01:16:17,065
I don't care how long
we've known each other
1610
01:16:17,100 --> 01:16:19,034
or that we don't know
every single thing
1611
01:16:19,069 --> 01:16:20,402
about each other yet
1612
01:16:20,437 --> 01:16:23,805
because, Stephanie,
what we have is real,
1613
01:16:23,841 --> 01:16:27,275
and it's lasting.
1614
01:16:27,311 --> 01:16:29,277
I'm here for you,
1615
01:16:29,313 --> 01:16:32,914
and I wanna be here for you
for the rest of my life
1616
01:16:32,950 --> 01:16:35,083
'cause my only dream is you.
1617
01:16:38,956 --> 01:16:40,989
So I'm gonna ask you
a familiar question
1618
01:16:41,024 --> 01:16:43,625
that's all about what you want,
1619
01:16:43,660 --> 01:16:48,163
not what you think is right or
what you think is best for me.
1620
01:16:48,198 --> 01:16:50,498
Do you think you could
answer it honestly?
1621
01:16:55,839 --> 01:16:59,140
Stephanie, will you
still marry me?
1622
01:16:59,176 --> 01:17:00,775
With all my heart.
1623
01:17:13,991 --> 01:17:15,357
What is this?
1624
01:17:15,392 --> 01:17:17,459
Stephanie,
I wanna give this to you.
1625
01:17:17,494 --> 01:17:19,261
Mom bought it for you.
1626
01:17:20,264 --> 01:17:22,364
With it comes a wedding.
1627
01:17:22,399 --> 01:17:26,101
A perfect Fourth of July
dream wedding.
1628
01:17:26,136 --> 01:17:27,769
Are you sure?
1629
01:17:28,705 --> 01:17:29,738
It's your wedding.
1630
01:17:29,773 --> 01:17:31,072
It always really was.
1631
01:17:33,510 --> 01:17:35,154
Well, I guess I'm gonna
have to get my parents
1632
01:17:35,178 --> 01:17:36,278
on the next flight out.
1633
01:17:36,313 --> 01:17:37,779
Yeah!
1634
01:18:15,452 --> 01:18:16,752
Hey.
1635
01:18:16,787 --> 01:18:18,220
Good luck.
1636
01:18:20,958 --> 01:18:22,291
Thank you, sir.
1637
01:18:29,133 --> 01:18:31,633
You may now all be seated.
1638
01:18:35,105 --> 01:18:37,205
Ben...
1639
01:18:37,241 --> 01:18:39,875
you are my everything.
1640
01:18:39,910 --> 01:18:43,812
I am so lucky that I found you,
1641
01:18:43,847 --> 01:18:46,782
and there's no one else
I'd rather grow old with.
1642
01:18:48,452 --> 01:18:50,886
I know what I want.
1643
01:18:50,921 --> 01:18:52,087
It's you.
1644
01:18:53,457 --> 01:18:54,623
Now and forever.
1645
01:19:02,166 --> 01:19:04,299
Stephanie...
1646
01:19:04,335 --> 01:19:06,902
no matter what roadblocks
come our way,
1647
01:19:06,937 --> 01:19:11,206
I will always support
and love you.
1648
01:19:11,241 --> 01:19:14,509
You are the most amazing
woman that I ever met.
1649
01:19:14,545 --> 01:19:17,145
I'm so lucky that I found you.
1650
01:19:19,383 --> 01:19:20,782
Thank you.
1651
01:19:22,519 --> 01:19:25,554
Do you, Stephanie, take Ben to
be your lawfully wedded husband?
1652
01:19:25,589 --> 01:19:27,089
I do.
1653
01:19:27,124 --> 01:19:30,492
Do you, Ben, take Stephanie
to be your lawfully wedded wife?
1654
01:19:30,527 --> 01:19:31,560
I do.
1655
01:19:31,595 --> 01:19:33,695
You may now kiss the bride.
1656
01:20:21,311 --> 01:20:23,445
Ben is such a lovely young man.
1657
01:20:23,480 --> 01:20:25,414
Go get yourself a drink, Tom.
1658
01:20:25,449 --> 01:20:27,115
- Mom, Dad.
- Yeah.
1659
01:20:27,151 --> 01:20:29,017
There's something
we wanna tell you.
1660
01:20:30,988 --> 01:20:33,488
- Good news?
- Very.
1661
01:20:33,524 --> 01:20:36,258
We just got off the phone
with the realtor.
1662
01:20:36,293 --> 01:20:39,127
Preston and I have decided
to buy the house from you.
1663
01:20:39,163 --> 01:20:40,662
What? Oh, my...
1664
01:20:40,698 --> 01:20:42,964
What about the other buyer?
1665
01:20:43,000 --> 01:20:44,366
Well, it took
a little convincing,
1666
01:20:44,401 --> 01:20:45,600
but we got him to drop out.
1667
01:20:45,636 --> 01:20:46,902
Did I just hear this right?
1668
01:20:46,937 --> 01:20:48,704
- Are you guys buying the house?
- We are!
1669
01:20:48,739 --> 01:20:52,441
- You sure you wanna do this?
- Yes.
1670
01:20:52,476 --> 01:20:55,277
We can't imagine not having
this house in our family.
1671
01:20:55,312 --> 01:20:58,280
Besides, when Preston's grandma
feels better,
1672
01:20:58,315 --> 01:21:00,982
we still wanna have our wedding
right here in the backyard.
1673
01:21:01,018 --> 01:21:03,685
Well, that's
just wonderful, honey.
1674
01:21:03,721 --> 01:21:05,487
You're gonna make me cry again.
1675
01:21:05,522 --> 01:21:08,790
Hey, would you mind
if I have this dance?
1676
01:21:08,826 --> 01:21:11,059
This one and every one.
1677
01:21:21,138 --> 01:21:22,738
What?
1678
01:21:22,773 --> 01:21:25,474
I was just thinking how they
found proof of humans dancing
1679
01:21:25,509 --> 01:21:27,576
on cave paintings
from 9,000 years ago.
1680
01:21:27,611 --> 01:21:28,788
That's what you were
thinking about?
1681
01:21:28,812 --> 01:21:31,680
Yeah. I like how
it's in our DNA
1682
01:21:31,715 --> 01:21:33,682
to wanna connect like this.
1683
01:21:34,029 --> 01:21:37,250
- I like it.
- Me too.
1684
01:22:23,251 --> 01:22:29,250
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