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I am Lola Riley, and this is my husband, Devon Riley.

Before we met, I did a lot of experimenting, actually, with men and

And we kind of got into the lifestyle together as a couple. The more I got to

understanding and loving her is when it became more about her being pleased and

having pleasure and being happy.

And as long as she's having fun and she likes it, I love it.

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you feeling?

I didn't make it really perfect.

I'm going to go home and move my wife because she's pretty.

what's good it's hollywood cast i'm back on set today i like the studio today we

got lola and devon hope y 'all ready for that they come

beautiful

How are you?

How are you?

Better now.

I'm going to take it easy.

Take care of yourself. All right. Are you ready for that? I am.

Are you ready? I'm confident.

You have no idea.

I'm ready.

Here we go.

A little token of our appreciation.

Aww.

To be part of the Whitefish family. Right? Yay.

All right. You ready to do this?

Fuck yeah. Let's go.

I'm from Louisville, Kentucky, and he's from Frankfort. I'm sorry. No, you're

fine.

Sorry, I'm originally from Frankfort, Kentucky, so right down the street from

where she's from. So our first date would have been I invited her, some

friends of mine, down to Gatlinburg, Tennessee for a weekend, just kind of

getaway.

At the time, I was actually separating from my marriage and happened to meet

this little fairy here who was just... I invited her to come down and hang out

with... Me and my friends. But it was honestly just a platonic kind of hangout

down in Gatlinburg, Tennessee. It's always a fun time.

The problem was all my friends backed out.

The only person who did not back out was this one. So we wound up having like a

two -room, very large resort all weekend by ourselves.

Two completely separate. Yeah, two separate rooms connected.

But it was just ours for the whole weekend. And we haven't been apart

And we actually stayed in the pull -out couch while.

They all stayed in the big bed.

I think the moment that I knew that this one was for me was that first weekend

we hung out together because if it wasn't, I don't think we would have

every weekend after that together.

So much so that we drove down separate but wound up riding back together, if

that makes sense. We put her car on a tow dolly and drug it with us back to

Kentucky. Towed it back.

I didn't want her to go yet. We did not want to leave.

Before we met, I did a lot of experimenting, actually, with men and

couples.

And I know you have as well. What?

No, me?

You? Crazy.

No, as far as, like, experimenting before we were together, I think I had

experience and see a lot of few different kind of lifestyle -type

been to a couple parties.

You know, been into, like, I got invited to a gangbang once that was...

That was fun. It was in college. I wound up being one of my professor's wives on

accident. So at the time, I think Craigslist was the way people

with each other.

And I think I responded to like a gangbang ad. And I realized it was like

down the street from where I was staying in college.

I show up to this nice house. This guy opens the door, and he legit has a

handheld camera in his hand.

And then he has a charcuterie board in the other hand. It was like, hey, you

want a snack? Everybody else is in the back. And I was like, okay, this is

happening. Got back.

Everybody kind of did a little introduction and whatnot.

And the husband starts telling, you know, like who they are and whatnot.

Next thing out of his mouth was, yeah, I'm a professor right down the street.

And he was like this at a third. And my eyes got big. He was like, why?

I was like, I go there. He was like.

I said, trust me, if I'm here, I'm not telling on you. So that was that

experience. And luckily, I never had to have that professor again.

We discovered a lifestyle together in a new way. So I had, like I said, I had

been seeing a party or two, but didn't really enjoy what I had, I guess, come

across. So when I met my lovely wife here, I think I asked her.

I asked her what she was interested in, what she had done before.

I tried to ease it in to if you ever had a threesome, been with a girl. I didn't

want to come out and be like, you trying to do a gangbang?

Or you want to do an orgy?

12 men and you, what are you trying to do? So I broke it in easy and once I saw

how she responded to that simple question, I let her take it from there

explain what she was into. So from that, I just kind of worked on what she

wanted or wanted to try.

It was the easiest way instead of me trying to say, I want this.

Nah, I let her do it. And five years later, you're still in it? I've cracked

code, fellas. It's never up to you.

It's what they say is gold.

The things that he brought up to me to basically get us

into the, or start us in the lifestyle was, of course, he started with the girl

on girl.

Have you ever done that? Yes.

Have you ever been with multiple guys?

Yes. Have you ever been with a couple? I have.

So I was lifestyle before I was lifestyle.

She didn't know it.

But after we had met and talked about those things, I wanted to try

more. I did want to try gangbangs.

I wasn't ready for that. I honestly did not know that that was coming.

But once I got, you know, used to it versus being in relationships that

have this level of honesty, it was automatically like feelings. I was like

jealous. I was like, no, no, what? No.

The more I got to understanding and loving her is when it became more about

being pleased and having pleasure and being happy. And as long as she's having

fun, if she likes it, I love it.

After getting together, our lifestyle group we came up with is called

Again,

after getting together, we went to a party, our first party together.

And we kind of got into the lifestyle together as a couple out the gate. So

seeing a lot of the lifestyle, different events, different parties, different

functions, different gatherings.

We kind of took what we felt like was the best of all worlds and brought it

to where we're from and to start growing and hosting our own events.

Our plan was to grow a community of like -minded people who had the same kind of

outlook and, you know, kind of just passion for life as we did.

So when you have that many people around you who feel and think like you do,

nothing feels weird, nothing feels out of place, nothing feels lost.

So it's easy for someone who may have been hidden before or didn't really...

I guess never felt like who they were was good enough or be able to come out

a shell.

We built that shell around them people and told them it's okay to be you.

And just watching people over a year or a couple months' time of visiting an

event is insane. How much they grow and learn different things in life. It's

freaking awesome.

How do you feel about that? Like when you first started seeing all of our

friends together, like different, not to mention everybody's different

background, play styles and whatnot.

So it's...

as you are come as you who you are because a lot of different groups and

doesn't have doesn't allow male male play or different kind of you know

homosexual type play but whereas we were like it doesn't matter if it's not

something that we like or she liked you know you can do it over there it's not

going to bother us but there's never a place where we feel like we have an

opinion about what you do what you like is that it should be looked down upon so

we just move past it like he says you like it i love it

And not to mention, there's also the same with different races, different

play, racial play.

Race comes into a large effect of different groups, believe it or not. So

even just so much as playing, you know, with black and white or whatever it is.

It may necessarily be this group just collectively doesn't necessarily cross

over to different races. And that can feel kind of stingy sometimes, but at

same time, I was like, I don't ever want no one to feel like that when they're

with us. Being an interracial couple,

Not just in the regular life and regular world, but then crossing over and going

to a world that feels a lot of hush -hush and a lot of different kind of,

you know, rules that they play with.

I think I've come to the point where I've learned to really just ignore if

not for me, and if it is, then play into it. But I know she gets bothered

sometimes when, like, we see people talking, their first thing out of their

mouth is, well, we don't play with BBC.

Or I want to try it. That's not something you try.

No. As a person.

I do get a little bothered by that sometimes, but we

don't do any of that in

our group.

So our first official hot wife experience, we had

found something on 3Fun.

It was one of the dating apps. Yeah, one of the dating apps.

And had him come over where we were at the time.

I thought we were house -sitting.

Yes, we were house -sitting. And we had him come over.

I did not know what to expect or what to do, honestly, with two at first.

But kind of start with him and then go see the other guy together.

And it was great because I think that was the first time that I got DVP'd.

Yeah. Yeah.

So that was fun. Two poles, one hole. Love that.

And to be fair, I think probably like the first experience like that,

together as a new couple, it's kind of awkward, kind of weird. It's like you

don't know how much fun you're allowed to like really have and how much you're

actually allowed to enjoy with your partner watching.

Thinking that he actually liked it. Are they upset?

Are they not happy that you're having a lot of fun or what?

We've seen that too where couples were doing that and the husband or wife got

mad because they had too much fun while...

playing with someone else and being a couple you should together want you know

both of you all to be happy and both of you all to be satisfied and and we try

to stay away from the well you had fun so it's my turn now that was never that

was never one of our things that you know played into a factor of how we

or what we played but mine more so was did you have fun yet did you come here

like i love freaking listen she makes a noise when she comes That, I'm sorry, I

know this is wild, but listen, she makes a noise when she comes in. Everybody

knows. Like, it doesn't matter what room she's in, the moment she comes, it is,

whoop, logo's coming.

It's automatic. So I know she's always having a good time with that.

Okay, cheeks.

Why are you not in uniform?

When jealousy comes up, I tend to think of it in the very back of my head.

Sometimes there's a little bit of jealousy there, but then I think, why?

Why am I jealous? I have somebody who is with me, who lets me be me.

I let him be him. We're just better together.

And the jealousy just kind of goes away. The love that I have for him, it

shows that there's no reason to be jealous. The way we've been for the past

years,

I don't see that, again, I don't need to be jealous.

I'm not doing it again.

This is it. This is my death buddy. Like, this is over.

But I think in terms of, like, for me, if jealousy or kind of, like, things

that were to come up, it's more so of is it me that I'm projecting some kind of,

like, energy out on what's happening or, you know, just trying to assume the

worst or don't want the worst to happen.

It just comes from reassurance.

Before, after, during, let your partner know, I'm here because I love you. I

love you. I'm not worried about this or that or the third. Are you having fun?

Are you enjoying it?

That's what I cared about. Now, anytime the feelings did come up, it was a

conversation afterwards that we had between ourselves.

And we knew no matter how this conversation goes, we still love each

the end of it, no matter what. So we chose to do this action. Now, I can't be

upset that the action happened and want to make us think about it.

It was supposed to be okay.

So anytime there was something that may have happened during the situation, hey,

babe, I didn't like that too much, or I don't know if I like that, you know, or

however it comes out.

We talk matter -of -fact, blunt, and just straight to the point. Like, no,

not going outside. Leave me alone.

I love you. I don't know.

That kind of thing. So it's not necessarily ever, like, really angry. I

think there's anybody in our household that could be upset longer than 15

seconds. It's not possible.

So a lot of talking, a lot of...

Like, reassuring, a lot of, you know, just confirmation of you're my person.

That's all that matters.

So one thing I love about him is he is very open -hearted and kind and caring.

He will help anyone off the street. He will help when disasters happen,

like the flood that we had in Frankfort, Kentucky.

It was really bad, and he...

Took his time to go down there, drive back and forth from where we live to

Frankfurt multiple times and help bring clothes, bring food, whatever the case

was. He always is trying to help other people and better other people.

What I love most about Lola is the fact that she discovers herself every day.

She wakes up and there's a new version of herself that she may have not known

yet. But I can see it because I get to watch her change every day. From the

moment I met her until now, this is not the same person that I met when we met

on Tinder.

It was a whole different atmosphere, a whole different personality attitude.

The way she carried herself, the way she walked, talked, and the way she cared

about others has completely changed because someone told her it was okay to

herself first.

So the moment she loved herself, you knew you could see it on her physically.

It's just that.

It's a lot to be able to find somebody that every day can be easy, and it

doesn't ever feel like work, even though no matter how many times in our lives

we've been told, it's a lot of work, it's hard work, it's this, and I'm like,

I'm waiting for the honeymoon phase to end. It has not, and it's been five

years, and I don't think that'll ever go away.

I'd probably say high -wifing has helped our relationship in terms of

communication because it takes so much communication and trust, especially with

us at the beginning. We started out doing it separately.

You know, where she would go off and play and then come back and get to tell

about it. But that part of the time is when communication wasn't super great.

it was coming home, how was it? Fine.

It was good.

All right, yeah, that's not a lot for me to go off of here, ma 'am. Okay, I'm

trying to, you know, rub one out here. That's not any good fodder. I mean, you

know, what happened? Did he lick your toe? Did he twist you over?

What did he say? You know, those kind of things. It got better.

Yeah. But it's about being together.

It's about us.

Doing the experience together.

So hot wifing.

Has made our relationship stronger. Because of that.

I was not a people person.

Until I got in the lifestyle.

And I.

I am who I am now.

Because of him.

No because of you.

You decided to change.

I just told you it was okay.

You said it was okay for me to be me.

The lifestyle.

brings out personal traits of you that you didn't know you had.

Hopefully. Some people can.

People reading.

Understanding people's body language, things that they don't say, is probably

the most important part, I believe, in a lifestyle. Because you can tell me what

you want to say, but that doesn't mean that you're believing it or doing it.

Now, if you're saying, yes, I would love to come in here with you, but your feet

are trying to move this way while your body's going forward, there's just, you

know, small things like that. It matters a lot.

And being able to read body language is...

also helped our relationship a lot too because i could tell when she's pissed

mad happy glad i don't know i just i kind of like throw a pebble in the room

test the waters first see how far it ripples out throw me a cookie there is

there are a lot of different like you know cookie cutter are y 'all swingers

they are kinksters they are you know uh poly polyamory poly love i was like oh

okay there's a lot of a lot of terms let's call it lifestyle

And the lifestyle gives it that umbrella term. If I had to describe it to

somebody so they could understand if they didn't know us at all, I would say

we're swingers that are just swingers.

We don't poke everything that walks by us. That's what a lot of people's

misconception is. Like, oh, you're swingers. I don't want to have sex with

I'm like, first off, fam, I promise. We didn't want to play with you.

And then it's for us to play more into.

the personalities, attitudes, everything else. So it's not just first meet and

greet and dump and pump.

It's get to know people sometimes and then kind of go from there. The best pot

-waving experience I had was the pregnancy gangbang.

So again, the pregnancy gangbang was four guys, myself, my pregnant self.

Was that your... We're going to have to because...

First of all, I would say that we're more so like fag and vixen for the most

part, unless she wants me to join in every whatever.

Towards the beginning, when we're still learning ourselves and how everything

works, I had to quickly realize that I did have to step further back from the

hot wife situation just because the other men would have problems performing

once I was involved.

Then I started thinking it was something about me, and then I realized what was

actually happening. So I actually, I'll leave the room, and I'll let whoever the

other person is get, I guess, warmed up and acclimated before I kind of creep in

and, you know, sit in the corner like, yeah, you cool, babe. I like that.

Yeah. You know, that kind of thing. But probably the best one that happened was

the one she was talking about because we all were involved. It was hot, heavy,

and for the most part, I got to sit there and watch that too.

Before we got together, I was previously married. I started a Pornhub page with

my ex -wife. Yeah.

Shocking enough that she was even okay that that allowed that to happen because

you got to have, you know, signatures and consent forms and all that stuff. So

she signed all that just to not be okay with it.

But, like, still, like, allowed me to do it and post it, but she was like, it

can only be this, that, or the third.

However, it's ours now, and we have over five -something million. Oh, no,

there's, well, yeah, there's five million views on there now, but.

we go to glory holes so we do a lot of content there so even before the hot

experience which was in the very beginning of our relationship we went he

me to an adult theater an adult bookstore where they have toys and they

books videos don't make it sound like a library but secret a secret

door there's a couple secret doors you go behind those doors and there are

There are rooms where the booths set up to where there's a chair in there,

there's something you can watch, well, different porns you can watch, and

there's a hole in the wall.

See a dick?

You suck it.

I loved going to the glory hole.

We used to have people meet us there so I could have somebody on, you know, the

other side, and that's fun.

It's really fun for me. And him. It's my favorite. Again, I get to sit in the

back of the corner where it's already dark.

I'm good.

It's kind of an open play with the whole being on the wall, but then it's still

privacy because we're in a small booth that locks.

So I can, she can stop if she's too hot and wants to display with me. We can

just do that at the same time.

So it kind of like adds a couple of different variables for our dynamics of

whatever we choose to do while in that room with our own privacy.

And then not to mention there's porn playing on the TV too.

Oh, fuck.

I think it's really important to see real couples like us to see what the

lifestyle can offer you. I'm not going to say that's what the lifestyle is, but

it can definitely offer you that in your relationship if you take the time to

communicate and just be okay with each other, whatever that case is,

boundaries, things like that.

We feel like it's important for people to see couples like us in this

Just to give a variety.

Not so much as in a racial couple, but a couple who's actually happy.

A couple who is not constantly fighting. A couple who, it's more than just

whatever it is that y 'all are there for.

It just has to mean more.

And I feel like it does when people get to see us.

Along with us meeting, us meeting our friends, us meeting other people who are

around the lifestyle and who's got 10, 20 years in it, the only thing that we

asked was, like, what makes it work? Like, you know, you said 20 years,

What did it?

No one really ever gave us real answers aside from, you know, it's a lot of hard

work. You just got to stick it out. I'm not sticking shit out if I'm not happy.

That's dumb.

But that was never a thing with meeting Lola. It was we met and instantly.

We just never separated. I mean, not a joke. We literally have been together.

It's been ever since then.

Nonstop. Of course, there's a couple days here and there, but we have nonstop

been together.

But just to be able to see somebody you love every day.

And like I said, we were asking our other friends we met what they felt like

most important to them, and they all used the love.

They all said love.

We love love.

And I was like, I've never heard anybody explain it like that or say it, but I

was like, that's exactly what we feel and how we feel. So making our group and

anybody that we had around us, if your relationship wasn't the same, I mean,

saying the same as ours, but you all have to love each other for us to feel

comfortable around you and want to be around you. And when we get to see our

friends who are happy, when we see our friends who pop back up and they're

oh my God, we tried this for the first time because you all were this at a

third. And we was like.

Love it. Great.

We love it.

We've seen more couples stay together or get together and go further in their

relationship since we've been together than we've seen split up.

And I say that like that because outside the lifestyle, a lot of couples get

together and break up instantly over whatever is crazy.

A little jealousy thing.

Planning on getting into hot wiping or anything of the sort.

Talk. Communication. The only.

thing i will even offer anybody is if i make sure you have boundaries and rules

and things set up because you go and you go into it some people are like oh we

don't have any rules at all we don't have any boundaries we walk away from

idea we run yeah we're we're okay what i hope to get out of this experience

today um for one is honestly to be able to know how to do different poses

different um positions on camera the actual Angles of the camera or where

are. I wanted to feel like, honestly, get, get all done up and

just feel really good and really self confident about myself. And it

really has helped me.

And I feel like I, I just look like a million bucks right now.

She did.

I don't say that often.

Ever. Actually, she's never said it ever.

Let's be honest.

And you look fucking gorgeous. And not to mention, typically she's not in

colorful items. So it's awesome to get to see her seeing herself as we all

else see her.

You look so hot.

Thank you.

You look sexy on the couch.

You look sexy anywhere you go, girl. Shit.

Well, we have Hollywood Cash.

Excited to meet you. Are you ready to share your wifey experience with the

world? I absolutely am.

Let's get started.

Be

nice

to her, okay? She fights back.

I like that.

Why don't I get you out of this chair?

I'm going to spit out the back end, too.

Ugh.

Let's hear the joy going.

Mmm.

Mm -hmm.

We'll do a tour around.

Come join her.

Hmm.

I think my most favorite part, besides the sex, was

how everybody has been so nice.

And they have done so much for me.

Hair done, makeup done.

I got all dolled up and dressed.

And it made me feel so great about myself. And I loved every minute of

here. And I would love to be back.

Guys, that was so hot.

How's everyone feeling?

I feel great.

Amazing.

That was fun. I'm happy.

I wouldn't even hit it, but I'm happy.

I'm good.

It was better than I expected.

Amazing. I don't know what to expect, but I'm happy with what I got, for sure.

I actually really did like that Hollywood walk -a -face.

Yeah, that was fun.

My favorite part was probably I love it. And the fact that, you know, like you

was able to relax after a minute and you really got comfortable. You can kind of

see when you got.

More relaxed. It was like, okay, nobody here is going to bite me.

Yeah, that was definitely my favorite part. The moment when you completely let

me in, I'm like, oh, yeah.

Are you off to the races now? Yeah.

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