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I am Lola Riley, and this is my husband, Devon Riley.

Before we met, I did a lot of experimenting, actually, with men and

And we kind of got into the lifestyle together as a couple out together.

The more I got to understanding and loving her is when it became more about

being pleased and having pleasure and being happy.

And as long as she's having fun and likes it, I love it.

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feeling? I'm great.

I go home and lose my wife because I'm pretty.

what's good it's hollywood cast i'm back on set today i like the studio today we

got lola and devon i'll be all ready for that beautiful

How are you?

How are you?

Better now.

Keep on. Take care of yourself. All right. I think you're ready for that. I

Are you ready? I'm confident.

You have no idea.

I'm ready.

I'm ready to go.

Just a little token of our appreciation.

Aww. To be part of the Wacky family. Right? Yay.

All right. You ready to do this?

Fuck yeah. Let's go.

Louisville, Kentucky.

And he's from Frankfort. I'm sorry. No, you're fine.

Sorry, I'm originally from Frankfort, Kentucky, so right down the street from

where she's from. So our first date would have been I invited her, some

friends of mine, down to Gatlinburg, Tennessee for a weekend, just kind of

getaway.

At the time, I was actually separating from my marriage and happened to meet

this little fairy here who was just...

I invited her to come down and hang out with me and my friends, but it was

honestly just a platonic kind of hangout down in Gatlinburg, Tennessee. It's

always a fun time.

The problem was all my friends backed out. The only person who did not back

was this one, so we wound up having a two -room, very large resort all weekend

by ourselves.

Two completely separate. Yeah, two separate rooms connected, but it was

ours for the whole weekend, and we haven't been apart since.

We stayed in the pull -out couch while they all stayed in the big bed.

I think the moment that I knew that this one was for me was that first weekend

we hung out together because if it wasn't, I don't think we would have

every weekend after that together.

So much so that we drove down separate but wound up riding back together, if

that makes sense. We put her car on a tow dolly and drug it with us back to

Kentucky. Towed it back.

I didn't want her to go yet. We did not want to leave.

Before we met, I did a lot of experimenting, actually, with men and

couples.

And I know you have as well. What?

No, me?

You? Crazy. No, as far as, like, experimenting before we were together, I

I had got to experience and see a lot of few different kind of lifestyle -type

things. I'd been to a couple parties.

You know, been into, like, I got invited to a gangbang once that was... That was

fun. It was in college. I wound up being one of my professor's wives on

accident. So at the time, I think Craigslist was the way people

with each other.

And I think I responded to like a gangbang ad. And I realized it was like

down the street from where I was staying in college.

I show up to this nice house. This guy opens the door, and he legit has a

handheld camera in his hand.

And then he has a charcuterie board in the other hand. It was like, hey, you

want a snack? Everybody else is in the back. And I was like, okay, this is

happening. Got back.

Everybody kind of did a little introduction and whatnot.

And the husband starts telling, you know, like who they are and whatnot.

Next thing out of his mouth was, yeah, I'm a professor right down the street.

And he was like, this at a third. And my eyes got big. He was like, why?

I was like, I go there. He was like, I said, trust me, if I'm here, I'm not

telling on you. So that was that experience.

And luckily, I never had to have that professor again.

We discovered a lifestyle together in a new way. So I had, like I said, I had

been seeing a party or two, but didn't really enjoy what I had, I guess, come

across. So when I met my lovely wife here, I think I asked her.

I asked her what she was interested in, what she had done before.

Like, I tried to, like, ease it in to, like, have you ever had a threesome,

with a girl? I didn't want to come out and be like, you trying to do a

Or you want to do a orgy, you know, 12 men and you, what are you trying to do?

So I broke it in easy, and once I saw how she responded to that simple

I let her take it from there and explain what she was into. So from that, I just

kind of worked on what she wanted or wanted to try.

It was the easiest way instead of me trying to say, I want this.

And I let her do it. And five years later, you're still in it? I figured

cracked the code, fella. It's never up to you.

What they say is gold.

The things that he brought up to me to basically get us

into the lifestyle was, of course, he started with the girl on girl.

Have you ever done that? Yes.

Have you ever been with multiple guys?

Yes. Have you ever been with a couple? I have.

So I was lifestyle before I was lifestyle.

She didn't know it. Before I knew it.

But after we had met and talked about those things, I wanted to try more. I

did want to try gangbangs.

I wasn't ready for that. I honestly did not know that that was coming.

But once I got used to it versus being in relationships that... didn't have

level of honesty it was it was automatically like feelings i was like

like no no what no and the more i got to understanding and loving her is when it

became more about her being pleased and having pleasure and being happy and as

long as she's having fun if she likes it i love it after getting together our

lifestyle group we came up with is called inclusive um we after again after

getting together we went to a party our first party together um and we kind of

got into the lifestyle together at the Couple out the gate. So seeing a lot of

the lifestyle, different events, different parties, different functions,

different gatherings, we kind of took what we felt like was the best of all

worlds and brought it back to where we're from and to start throwing and

our own events.

Our plan was to grow a community of like -minded people who had the same kind of

outlook and, you know, kind of just passion for life as we did.

So when you have that many people around you who feel and think like you do,

nothing feels weird, nothing feels out of place, nothing feels lost. So it's...

easy for someone who may have been hidden before or didn't really i guess

felt like who they were was good enough or be able to come out of a shell we

built that shell around them people and told them it's okay to be you and just

watching people over a year or a couple months time of visiting an event is

insane they grow and learn different things

How do you feel about that? Like when you first started seeing all of our

friends together, like different, not to mention everybody's different

background, play styles and whatnot. So it's as you are, come as you who you

are, because a lot of different groups and whatnot doesn't doesn't allow male

male play or different kind of homosexual type play.

But whereas we were like, it doesn't matter if it's not something that we

or she likes.

You know, you can do it over there. It's not going to bother us. But.

There's never a place where we feel like we have an opinion about what you do,

what you like, and that it should be looked down upon. So we just move past

Like he says, you like it, I love it.

And not to mention, there's also the thing with different races, different

play, racial play.

Race comes into a large effect of different groups, believe it or not. So

even just so much as playing, you know, with black and white or whatever it is.

It may necessarily be this group.

just collectively doesn't necessarily cross over to different races.

And that can feel kind of stingy sometimes, but at the same time I was

don't ever want no one to feel like that when they're with us.

Being an interracial couple, not just in the regular life and regular world, but

then crossing over and going to a world that feels a lot of hush -hush and a lot

of different kind of rules that they play with.

I think I've come to the point where I've learned to really just ignore if

not for me, and if it is, then play into it. But I know she gets bothered

sometimes when we see people talking. Their first thing out of their mouth is,

well, we don't play with BBC.

Or I want to try it. That's not something you try.

No. As a person.

I do get a little bothered by that sometimes.

Okay, a lot of bothering.

But we don't do any of that in our group.

So our first official hot wife experience, we had found

somebody on 3Fun.

It was one of the dating apps.

And had him come over where we were at the time.

And we had him come over.

I did not know what to expect or what to do, honestly, with two at first.

Kind of start with him and then go through the other guy together.

And it was great because I think that was the first time that I got DVP'd.

Yeah. Yeah.

So that was fun. Two bones, one hole. Love that.

And to be fair, I think probably like the first experience like that,

together as a new couple, it's kind of awkward, kind of weird. It's like you

don't know how much fun you're allowed to like really have and how much you're

actually allowed to enjoy with your partner watching.

Thinking that he actually likes it. Are they upset?

Are they not happy that you're having a lot of fun or what?

We've seen that too where couples were doing that and the husband or wife got

mad because they had too much fun while...

playing with someone else and being a couple you should together want you know

both of you all to be happy and both of you all to be satisfied and and we try

to stay away from the well you had fun so it's my turn now that was never that

was never one of our things that you know played into a factor of how we

or what we played but mine more so was did you have fun yet did you come here

like that i love freaking love this and she makes a noise when she comes That,

I'm sorry, I know it's wild, but listen, she makes a noise when she comes in.

Everybody knows. Like, it doesn't matter what room she's in, the moment she

comes, it is, whoops, Lola's coming.

It's automatic. So I know she's always having a good time with that.

Okay, cheeks.

Why are you not in uniform?

When jealousy comes up, I tend to think of it in the very back of my head.

Like, sometimes there's a little...

bit of jealousy there but then I think why why am I jealous I have somebody who

is with me who lets me be me I let him be him we're just better

together and the jealousy just kind of goes away the love that I have for him

shows that there's no reason to be jealous the way we've been for the past

years I don't see that again I don't need to be jealous i'm not doing it

again this is it this is my death buddy like this is over but i think in terms

of like for me if jealousy or kind of like things like that would come up it's

more so of is it me that i'm projecting some kind of like energy out on what's

happening or you know just trying to assume the worst or don't want the worst

happen it just comes from reassurance Before, after, during, let your partner

know, I'm here because I love you. I love you. I'm not worried about this or

that or the third. Are you having fun? Are you enjoying it?

That's what I cared about. Now, anytime the feelings did come up, it was a

conversation afterwards that we had between ourselves.

And we knew no matter how this conversation goes, we still love each

the end of it, no matter what. So we chose to do this action. Now, I can't be

upset that the action happened and want to make us think about it.

It was supposed to have been okay.

So anytime there was something that may have happened during the situation, hey,

babe, I didn't like that too much. I don't know if I like that, you know, or

however it comes out. We talk matter of fact, blunt and just straight to the

point. Like, no, I'm not going outside. Leave me alone.

I love you. I don't know.

That kind of thing. So it's not necessarily ever like really angry. I

think there's anybody in our household that could be upset longer than 15

seconds. It's not possible.

So a lot of talking, a lot of.

Like, reassuring, a lot of, you know, just confirmation of you're my person.

That's all that matters.

So one thing I love about him is he is very open -hearted and kind and caring.

He will help anyone off the street. He will help when disasters happen,

like the flood that we had in Frankfort, Kentucky.

It was really bad, and he...

Took his time to go down there, drive back and forth from where we live to

Frankfurt multiple times and help bring clothes, bring food, whatever the case

was. He always is trying to help other people and better other people.

What I love most about Lola is the fact that she discovers herself every day.

She wakes up and there's a new version of herself that she may have not known

yet. But I can see it because I get to watch her change every day. From the

moment I met her until now, this is not the same person that I met when we met

on Tinder.

It was a whole different atmosphere, a whole different personality, attitude.

The way she carried herself, the way she walked, talked, and the way she cared

about others has completely changed because someone told her it was okay to

herself first.

So the moment she loved herself, you knew you could see it on her physically.

It's just that.

It's a lot to be able to find somebody that every day can be easy, and it

doesn't ever feel like work, even though no matter how many times in our lives

we've been told, it's a lot of work, it's hard work, it's this, and I'm like,

I'm waiting for the honeymoon phase to end. It has not, and it's been five

years, and I don't think that it'll ever go away.

I'd probably say hot wifing has helped our relationship in terms of

communication, because it takes so much communication and trust.

Especially with us, at the beginning, we started out doing it separately.

You know, where she would go off and play and then come back and tell me

it. But that part of the time is when communication wasn't super great. So it

would come home, how was it? Fine. It was good.

All right, yeah, that's not a lot for me to go off of here, ma 'am. Okay, I'm

trying to, you know, rub one out here. That's not any good fodder. I mean, you

know, what happened? Did he lick your toe? Did he push you over?

F you? What did he say? You know, those kind of things. It got better.

Yeah. But it's about being together.

It's about us.

doing the experience together so hot wifing is has made our relationship

stronger because of that i was not a people person until i got in the

and it was rough a couple months even he was not a people first but i am who i

am now because of him no because of you you decided to change it i just told you

it was okay you said it was okay for me to be me

The lifestyle brings out personal traits of you that you didn't know you had,

hopefully. Some people can't.

People reading.

Understanding people's body language, things that they don't say, is probably

the most important part, I believe, in the lifestyle. Because you can tell me

what you want to say, but that doesn't mean that you're believing it or doing

it. Now, if you're saying, yes, I would love to come in here with you, but your

feet are trying to move this way while your body's going forward.

There's just, you know, small things like that. It matters a lot.

And being able to read body language also helps our relationship a lot, too.

Because I can tell when it's his fist, mad, happy, glad. I don't know.

I kind of like throw a pebble in the room, test the waters first, see how far

ripples out.

Throw me a cookie.

There is and there are a lot of different, like, you know, cookie

Are y 'all swingers? Are y 'all kinksters? Are y 'all, you know,

love. I was like, oh, okay. There's a lot of terms. Let's call it lifestyle.

And the lifestyle gives it that umbrella term.

If I had to describe it to somebody so they could understand if they didn't

us at all, I would say we're swingers that are just swingers.

We don't poke everything that walks by. That's what a lot of people's

misconception is. Like, oh, you're swingers. I don't want to have sex with

I promise.

We didn't want to play with you. And then it's for us to play more into

the personalities, attitudes, everything else. So it's not just first meet and

greet and dump and pump.

Get to know people sometimes and then kind of go from there. The best pot

-waving experience I had was the pregnancy gangbang.

So again, the pregnancy gangbang was four guys, myself, my pregnant self.

Was that your favorite one? We're going to have to because...

First of all, I would say that we're more so like fag and vixen for the most

part, unless she wants me to join in every whatever.

Towards the beginning, when we were still learning ourselves and how

worked, I had to quickly realize that I did have to step further back from the

hot wife situation just because the other men would have problems performing

once I was involved.

Then I started thinking it was something about me, and then I realized what was

actually happening. So I actually, I'll leave the room and I'll let whoever the

other person is get, I guess, warmed up and acclimated before I kind of creep in

and, you know, sit in the corner like, yeah, you cool, babe. I like that.

Yeah, what you doing? You know, that kind of thing. But probably the best one

that happened was the one she was talking about because we all were

was hot, heavy, and for the most part, I got to sit there and watch that too.

before we got together, I was previously married. I started a Pornhub page with

my ex -wife. Yeah.

Shocking enough that she was even okay that that allowed that to happen because

you got to have, you know, signatures and consent forms and all that stuff. So

she signed all that just to not be okay with it.

But, like, still, like, allowed me to do it and post it, but she was like, it

can only be this, that, or the third.

However, it's ours now, and we have over five -something million. Oh, no,

there's, well, yeah, there's five million views on there now, but.

We go to Glory Holes, so we do a lot of content there.

So even before the hot wife experience, which was in the very beginning of our

relationship, he took me to an adult theater, an adult bookstore, where they

have toys and they have books, videos.

Don't make it sound like a library.

I know it sounds like a library. But a secret door.

There's a couple secret doors. You go behind those doors and there are rooms.

We're at the booth.

set up to where there's a chair in there, there's something you can watch,

different horns you can watch, and there's a hole in the wall.

See a dick?

You suck it.

I loved going to the glory hole.

We used to have people meet us there so I could have somebody on the other side.

That's fun.

It's really fun for me.

It's my favorite. I get to sit in the back of the corner where it's already

dark. I'm good.

It's kind of an open play with the whole being on the wall, but then it's still

privacy because we're in a small booth that locks.

So she can stop if she's too hot and wants to just play with me. We can just

that at the same time.

So it kind of adds a couple of different variables for our dynamic of whatever

we choose to do while in that room with our own privacy.

And then, not to mention, there's porn playing on the TV, too.

Oh, fuck.

I think it's really important to see real couples like us to see what the

lifestyle can offer you. I'm not going to say that's what the lifestyle is, but

it can definitely offer you that in your relationship if you take the time to

communicate and just be okay with each other, whatever that case is,

boundaries, things like that.

We feel like it's important for people to see couples like us in this

Just to give a variety.

Not so much as in a racial couple, but a couple who's actually happy.

A couple who is not constantly fighting. A couple who, it's more than just

whatever it is that y 'all are there for.

It just has to mean more.

And I feel like it does when people get to see us.

along with us meeting us meeting our friends us meeting other people who are

around the lifestyle who's got 10 20 years in it the only thing that we asked

was like what makes it work like you know you said 20 years great what did it

one really ever gave us real answers aside from you know it's a lot of hard

you just got to stick it out i'm not sticking shit out if i'm not happy

dumb but that was never a thing with meeting lola it was we met and instantly

We just never separated. I mean, not a joke. We literally have been together.

It's been ever since then.

Nonstop. Of course, there's a couple days here and there, but we have nonstop

been together.

But just to be able to see somebody you love every day.

Like I said, we were asking our other friends we met what they felt like was

most important to them, and they all used love.

They all said love.

Um, we love love.

And I was like, I've never heard anybody explain it like that or say it, but I

was like, that's exactly what we feel and how we feel. So making our group and

anybody that we had around us, if your relationship wasn't the same, I mean,

saying the same as ours, but you all have to love each other for us to feel

comfortable around you and want to be around you. And when we get to see our

friends who are happy, when we see our friends who pop back up and they're

Oh my God, we tried this for the first time because you all were this at a

third. And we was like, great that we love it.

We've seen more couples stay together or get together and go further in their

relationship since we've been together than we've seen split up. And I say that

like that because outside the lifestyle, a lot of couples get together and break

up instantly over whatever is crazy.

A little jealousy thing.

Blaming on getting into hot wiping or anything of the sort. Talk.

is the only.

thing I will even offer anybody's advice.

Make sure you have boundaries and rules and things set up because you go into

it, some people are like, oh, we don't have any rules at all. We don't have any

boundaries. That's a bad idea.

Yeah, we're okay.

What I hope to get out of this experience today, for one, is honestly

to know how to do different poses, different positions on camera, the

angles of the camera or where they are.

I wanted to feel like, honestly, get all done up and just feel

really good and really self -confident about myself.

And it really has helped me.

And I feel like I just look like a million bucks right now.

She does.

I don't say that often.

Ever, actually. She's never said it, ever. Let's be honest.

And you look fucking gorgeous. And not to mention, typically she's not in

colorful items. So it's awesome to get to see her seeing herself as we all

else see her.

You look so hot.

Thank you.

You look sexy on the couch.

You look sexy anywhere you go, girl. Shit.

Well, we have Hollywood Cash.

Excited to meet you. Are you ready to share your wifey experience with the

world? I absolutely am.

Let's get started.

Appreciate

you.

And be nice, too, okay? She fights back.

Okay.

I'm going to get you out of this church.

Oh.

Thank you.

Tears of joy going.

Mmm.

Thank you.

Mmm.

Mm -hmm.

I think my most favorite part, besides the sex, was

how everybody has been so nice.

And they have done so much for me.

Hair done, makeup done.

I got all dolled up and dressed.

And it made me feel so great about myself. And I loved every minute of

here. And I would love to be back.

That was so hot.

How's everyone feeling?

I feel great.

Amazing.

That was fun. I'm happy.

I wouldn't even hit it, but I'm happy.

I'm good.

It was better than I expected.

Amazing. I don't know what to expect, but I'm happy with what I got, for sure.

I actually really did like that Hollywood walk -a -face.

Yeah, that was fun.

My favorite part was probably I love it. And the fact that, you know, like, it

was able to relax after a minute, and you really got comfortable. You can kind

of see when you got.

It's more relaxed. It was like, okay, nobody here is going to bite me. Yeah,

that was definitely my favorite part. The moment when you completely let me

I was like, oh, yeah.

Are you all serious? No. Yeah.

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