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When you're working, it's a pretty
simple structure.
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You show up, you do your job, and you go
home.
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I feel like here, when things go wrong,
what I've learned was to voice my
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opinion a lot on why does this happen?
Why is this happening? Why is no one
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yet? Why am I sitting for one hour on
set doing nothing? I had to learn the
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way that if I just voice my opinion to
one person,
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And let them go handle everything and
keep my mouth shut. Usually, almost
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get what I want. I remember when you
were in Big Boss. I felt like that was a
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massive India jump. You became like a
cultural icon in that phase. And you
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stayed there. My goals were very
different for being on that show. My
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just to step one foot in the door. And
whether I stayed for one day or a week
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it ended up being seven weeks. That was
my goal.
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It wasn't anything more. It wasn't,
there was no formula in my head that I
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to go on the show and fight. When I
watched the show before, I was thinking,
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not this person who just fights with
people.
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This is our episode with Sunny Leone.
Asked her all the things I've always
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wanted to ask her. This is the kind of
conversation I would have had with her
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I just met her at a party or a public
event.
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But you know what? I'm blessed enough to
be doing a podcast for a living and I
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get to have these conversations in front
of you guys.
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Enjoy today's conversation with Sunny
Leone. A new film, Kennedy. Make sure
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go enjoy it. But for now, enjoy this
special episode of TRS.
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Sunny Leone, what's up?
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Hi, how are you?
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How's it going? Good. How are you?
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I'm good.
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Good to have you in the studio.
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Thank you.
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Sorry we made you wait this long to
unleash the actual TRS energy.
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It's okay.
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How's life been lately?
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Great.
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Wonderful. You want to expand on why
it's great?
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I love my life. I have a great family. I
feel like my career is doing pretty
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good.
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You know, everybody's healthy. So can't
get any better than that. Okay. Is
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Mumbai home for you now? Like in your
heart?
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Yes. Yes. I don't want to live anywhere
else.
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Only here. You wouldn't want to go back
to Canada at any point?
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Absolutely not.
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Really? Not to Canada or not to the US.
No way.
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Why do you say that?
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I think that the U .S. and Canada or
especially the U .S. is in a very not so
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great space right now. And I feel safer
here and I feel happier here with my
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children and my family and my businesses
than I think I ever would in the U .S.
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Okay. This is what a lot of people from
the film world say. Okay. You guys are
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just used to conversations where people
are attacking you with questions and
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trying to get headlines out.
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Is that the case?
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No, I don't think so. I think that
people are inquisitive about many
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things. And a lot of people have the
same questions, which is totally fine.
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And it just depends on that journalist
or reporter's energy. Sometimes you do
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the same interviews with the same
questions, but it turns out completely
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different. So it just depends on who
you're talking to. Okay. Tell me about
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you've been learning lately.
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What I've been learning? At this stage
of life.
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At this stage of life, learning.
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Learning that everything can change
within a second as far as your career
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or your family goes.
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Having three children is very
challenging, so I'm learning from them
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single day.
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Because as they change, I also have to
change.
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It's not the other way around. Children
don't change for you.
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You have to change for them.
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So that's really interesting.
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What else am I learning? I don't know
how to like have patience.
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Okay.
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That's all you want to say?
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Yeah, I guess so.
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Okay. How have you changed for your
children?
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Everything. Everything changes. Like
every tiny little thing, like how you
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respond to how they do their work or
each of my children is completely
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different. They're nothing alike.
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how they react to discipline or how they
react to learning or how they want to
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engage with you versus when they need
their space or when they need certain
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things. So every human being and every
child is very, very different.
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Okay.
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It's the same as us. It's just that we
have, I think, less patience for adults
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than we do for children. Children we
have patience for.
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Okay. No, I hear you.
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Do you think motherhood is changing you
as an actor or as a professional?
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I'm coming from the perspective of
fatherhood because I feel it's one of my
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personal goals. Like you have career
goals and then you have life goals. And
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fatherhood is a big life goal for me.
But I keep questioning how it's going to
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change how I go about my career.
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Yeah, it just depends on your parenting
style.
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So some people's parenting style is one
way and some are another. Mine is more
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structured. Mine is more...
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As you have just noticed, probably a
little type A personality.
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So everything in my world is structured.
Everything is on a schedule. Everything
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is, you know, planned out throughout my
children's entire day. So I know from
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the morning until I got here, my
children saw me. I got to spend time
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I sat with them when they were at
breakfast or I helped them build their
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run this morning before I started
makeup. So I know.
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My schedule, and then I have to get into
hair and makeup. And then I know that,
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you know, once I'm there, if they need
to come talk to me, they can. But now
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they're out of class.
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Then they will come home. Then they will
have lunch. Then they will have this.
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Then they have another class.
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So their entire day is scheduled like
this. So then I know as a professional
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when I need to be home, when my work
needs to end, when I need to slot, make
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sure that time is given to my children
that we all know.
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And it's not like some sporadic schedule
where they don't know when mommy's not
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coming. You know, when mommy's coming
home, when I'm not coming home, they
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understand that when I work, that it
makes mommy a better person.
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So it just depends on your own parenting
style when you have a child. If it's
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free -for -all, that happens a lot in
Indian homes here.
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Children are like...
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It's like a psychological battle where
for them, they understand you're
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home today. They don't understand why
you're not home tomorrow.
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Now, if you don't have those
conversations and that open conversation
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kids, then they get confused.
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It's like saying today you can light the
candle.
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Tomorrow you can light the candle.
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But on this day, you cannot light it
because I'm not in the mood.
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But what sense does that make?
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So it's all about, you know, how you
structure and communicate with your
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Rubbing that type A personality into
your kids. Well, I think that children
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psychologically and emotionally thrive
more on structure than they do on a non
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-structured home. Yeah. I think what you
see as a kid becomes your reality as an
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adult. So I think it's actually cool
that you're rubbing that type A
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in. Well, I want... them to feel good
you know and when they're learning
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observed they're absorbing as much
information as possible so when you have
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children that are tired that sleep at 12
o 'clock they go to school all day then
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they don't get a nap then they're only
being fed when they're cranky so you're
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not actually you're not helping them
grow as individuals i feel okay not that
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will ever mess With you? But I wouldn't
want to ever mess with you. You come
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across as that kind of person.
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Well... Does anyone ever cross a line
with you? Does anyone piss you off? I'd
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like to know how you react.
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It depends on who it is, really.
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Yeah? In Mumbai, have you felt that with
all the chaos going on in the
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professional world here? I think it's
just the nature of doing business in
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and it's also the beauty of it. Because
a lot of work happens because of the
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chaos. Yeah, the wheel's turning but no
one knows how.
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What? The wheel is turning, but no one
knows how.
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Right. It just goes.
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That's what you've noticed about Mumbai
work culture, right? Yeah, yeah, yeah.
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As compared to America and Canada. Yeah,
there it's more black and white.
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As in?
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Like black and white. There is no in the
middle gray area.
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Okay. So here there's a gray area.
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Okay.
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Where everything goes.
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I understand what you're saying but we
also have 13 year olds watching this so
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I'd love for you to simplify what you
just said and I'll tell you why because
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had the foreign minister of India on the
show recently and he said how it's very
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important for a lot of Indians abroad to
come back but also Indians here to go
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out there understand work culture abroad
and I feel it's two very different
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things and there's very few people who
got success in both places.
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That's also because of your type A
personality.
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But I'm sure there's a lot of nuanced
learning.
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Exactly what you said about black and
white and the wheel turning.
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Just break that down a little bit. And I
ask you this because I respect the fact
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that you've maintained your relevance.
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That's one of the most difficult things
to do in a career that includes fame.
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You've maintained it for so long.
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So you've been doing a lot of things
correct.
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What's been happening?
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Non -journalist question.
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I think that...
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When you're working, it's a pretty
simple structure.
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You show up, you do your job and you go
home.
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And when I feel like here, when things
go wrong, what I've learned compared
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to the beginning of my career here was
to voice my opinion a lot on why does
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this happen? Why is this happening? Why
is no one here yet? Why am I sitting for
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one hour on set doing nothing? Why am I,
you know, why is...
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Why is the script a certain way and then
all of a sudden now you're changing it?
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These things don't make sense to me. Or
if you've discussed one thing in a
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scene, why is it changing all of a
sudden to something completely
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didn't make sense to me. The script was
the script in my head. A story was a
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story. So in that way, I had to learn
the hard way that if I just...
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voice my opinion to one person and let
them go handle everything and keep my
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mouth shut i'll um usually almost always
get what i want which
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is the same thing that they want it's
just being put across as something
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different so maybe there's like some
language barriers there i'm not talking
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about actual language i mean just in how
we cultural value yeah like communicate
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So they want the same thing I do, but we
have to come to some common ground
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without arguing. And that, you know, was
something that was very interesting to
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learn or how the entire set with, you
know, 150 people there, half of them not
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wearing shoes or electrical equipment or
why things are not taped down on the
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floor, you know, like that.
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Like simple things like that or here a
lot of business is done on feeling
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emotions where, you know, maybe it's
changing a little bit now,
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but they would do things more on emotion
than on facts.
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Okay. You know, like numbers, facts,
like when you're looking at someone's
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popularity or you're looking at
analytics of who somebody is.
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Where now we're learning back that
maintaining a certain level of
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which is not something that I'm always
good at or Daniel, because we're so like
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black and white, let's keep going, let's
keep working.
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It's something that definitely needs to
be done here. So India functions a lot
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on.
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where in the U .S. everything's black
and white. You show up, you do your job,
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and you go home.
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And that's, you know, as simple as it
gets.
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And you're still enjoying all this more?
Like the emotional? Yeah, I love it. I
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think that India is one of the most
amazing emerging markets in the world. I
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think that everything that happens here
is like, it's unbelievable.
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And it's unbelievable to watch.
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You know, A lot of people who understand
your world and who are studying your
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journey know about like your whole
entrepreneurial side.
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There's a lot of people who don't as
well and are getting to learn about this
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new version of you.
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You've actually made a lot of people a
lot of money. Like that's the chatter
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that came up about you when I was like
researching for this episode.
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That when there's a lot of gaming
companies.
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That actually rely on you as like the
main bet in order to become profitable.
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That says a lot about like professional
prowess.
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Yeah, I should ask for more money.
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You should. I'm just kidding.
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I'm happy with all the agreements I have
with everyone.
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You're very well spoken.
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And I think that actually is like your X
factor.
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Are you aware of that?
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That happens with like American and
Canadian education.
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I think you guys are just... trained way
better in communication skills?
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Um, so I learned all my communication
skills after the age of, um, it was
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like 16, 17, 16, 17 is when I really
started learning about communication
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skills, um, through school or through, I
started working at 15 and a half and I
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have worked almost every single job you
can think of in the US.
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I've worked there.
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So, um,
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That's where it started, and then I
really started learning interviews and
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to give them different personalities a
lot after 18.
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Okay. Yeah. You want to expand on this?
When I worked in the adult entertainment
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industry, I did so many different
interviews across the entire world and
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country. When I mean interviews, there
are press days you have for,
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let's say, a film.
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Like someone super famous you can think
of here who does an entire press day for
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a film. It's the beginning of it. So
it's the entire day. So the same thing
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would happen there where we would do big
radio trails and interviews and TV
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interviews and all that. So that's where
it really started. So a lot of my
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mistakes of speaking or how to
communicate, they all happened then. It
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boot camp for Bollywood.
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What mistakes did you make?
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Just the way that you speak, you know,
when you listen back on conversations
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have, you're like, why was I saying, uh,
uh, uh.
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I probably do it now and I would say,
um.
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No, no, no. You're pretty like
straightforward and smooth with like the
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talk. So then all those little things,
you know, kind of disappear after you
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watch yourself a few times.
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Does it piss you off that journalists
take your conversations to that whole
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phase of your life?
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No, I don't care. It is not the
question.
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that might be an issue. It's the manner
in which the question is asked.
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So if the same question is asked 10
times and one person asks it with
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an opinion already formed, they've
already
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judged me, they've already put me in
this box that they hold me in without
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unbiased, then...
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Yes, it's going to come across as being
rude or, you know, not so nice.
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Okay.
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What's the angriest you've gotten in
India in one of these interactions?
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I don't really get that angry in an
interaction.
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No. There's no anger in you?
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If there is in it, you would never know
it.
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Like you'll just be able to hide it?
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Absolutely. It's not my job to let you
get the, I'm not going to let you get
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better of me.
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I don't. No, I'm just like, it could be
anyone.
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be anyone giving an interview why would
i give you that satisfaction okay so i i
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don't know i believe in that whatever
karma is we'll get them later leaving it
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to the universe yeah of course okay that
that whole phase of your life when you
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were an adult stuff behind the scenes in
terms of the life you're living when
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you're sleeping at night when you're
waking up i'm 100 sure there's a lot of
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learnings along the way as well yeah of
course what were those learnings like
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For example, if you ask me about the
behind the scenes learning of YouTubing,
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big learning has been that people can
forget you like that.
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You'll be flying one day and the next
day you'll be out.
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Fame is one of those things where you
have to keep adding fuel to the fire.
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the day you even take a break, people
begin to forget you.
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And it's such a harsh reality that you
only learn on the job.
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I want to learn about your harsh
realities from that phase.
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Harsh realities? I don't know. I mean, I
don't really look at my career as like,
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I don't like take those harsh realities
and go, okay, now I need to harbor on
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them at all.
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So I believe in the opposite of what you
just said. I think that if you are
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someone in business or you're someone
who is, you know, YouTuber influencer,
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have a personality based, I guess, I
don't want to say website, but you have
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personality based.
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You're just selling your face. Yeah,
you're selling yourself. You're selling
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this podcast.
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This is all you, right?
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It's about consistency.
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So that consistency, as long as you are
voicing whatever your opinions are, then
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those followers are going to stay with
you. I'm not talking about the follower
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that just comes for the day and then
leaves.
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I'm talking about your hardcore
followers, the ones that always stay
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And that steadily grows as you continue
with your business. Because if you're
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not evolving in your business, then...
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that's a problem. You know, if you do
the same thing over and over again,
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a problem. But you as a personality,
they will follow because they like you.
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So even when learning in that time,
building a website,
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building my own HTML program, building
my own affiliate program, learning.
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Sorry, not building my own HTML program,
learning HTML, learning how to edit
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photos, learning how to edit video.
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Like I had notebooks of, you know, all
these different things where I was
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learning how to do it all. I did
everything from A to Z and everything
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editing to all of it.
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So in that, and then once that was done,
then learning how to.
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market it and then learning how to get
you know other affiliates to send
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to my websites or you know all that so
everything was a learning process and a
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lot of it wasn't easy and I had no money
so or like barely breaking even but I
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refused to give it to somebody else to
run because giving somebody 50 % of what
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I of me was didn't make sense to me at
all and you must have been like 18 or 19
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at this point started at um i was like
19 damn so that's when it all it started
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were you really good at school like no i
wasn't i was a student really yeah okay
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i would assume my parents i would assume
that this whole type a personality just
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extended in that direction and this
direction i grew up in a very not so um
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uh, easy household where it was easy for
me to like keep learning. It was more,
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we were more focused on the emotional
things that were happening in, in our,
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our house. So, um, I don't think that it
was a conducive place for, uh, really
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excelling. My brother though is
extremely smart. He's like that.
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the kid that is a forever student.
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Okay. You know, we all know like one of
those in our friend circle who's a
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forever student that's always learning.
That's my brother. And I was the
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complete opposite, but I started working
and making money when I was, I don't
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know, six years old.
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Really? So not a lot of my, I'm talking
about money for candy or money, you
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know, but it was three.
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Creating the plan was always my idea.
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So whether it was selling something door
to door, whether it was selling
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lemonade, whether it was shoveling snow
on the driveway after a snowstorm, which
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is like huge money because we would
spend all day shoveling our neighbor's
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driveways for not a lot of money. But at
that time, it was a lot of money for
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me.
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So I was always that girl.
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Okay. All right.
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Did you make a lot of money between age
18 and 25?
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Because that's the assumption.
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Yeah, of course. I mean, for myself, I
think that what happened after a certain
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amount of time, I was making a lot of
money. And then I started investing
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everything into my business.
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And once I started investing everything
into my business. Which was your
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personal brand?
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Which was...
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A production house, my own website, this
affiliate program we talked about
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hiring the right people for design work
and all this stuff. So all those things
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cost money.
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So when my husband and I, he was my
boyfriend at the time, started our own
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production house, we had negative money.
We had nothing. Like negative meaning
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he took a loan on a credit card to
start.
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And that's it. The rest is history.
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applying the desi brains and jewish
brains together yeah to figure out how
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multiply the money yeah exactly that's
he's a very good businessman so yeah
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that's the energy you guys give off as a
couple you know i've only met you very
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briefly and i purposely didn't speak too
much because i wanted to have this
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interaction with you here like i there
was a part of me that always knew i'll
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end up speaking to you in the studio at
some point so This is not the end of the
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podcast, but I was really looking
forward to speaking to you. I feel you
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lot of stories and a lot of anecdotes
and experiences which you're never asked
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about. Yeah.
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And I intend on doing some of it today.
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I want to ask you about what the best
and worst aspect of your life was during
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your adult film career.
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During my adult, the best part was I
worked with the best of the best
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This idea of having like business and
street smarts really helped me out.
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And for me, it was you really don't need
your whole brain to figure out
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how this all functions.
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And I just stuck with it and just was
very consistent.
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As an intuition used to kick in and used
to make a decision through intuition.
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Yeah. Okay.
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Like what? Like if you don't like
someone, you won't work with them? No.
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just intuitions, but also it all had to
come down to just facts about the
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company or facts about how things work.
I read every single contract. I
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corrected every single contract so that
it would work in my favor.
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And the companies that I worked with,
they would get what they wanted. I also
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got what I wanted. So it was never a
situation where I was being taken
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of. Okay.
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What was the worst aspect of it? The
worst aspect of it?
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Maybe seeing some of the other girls'
success and how fast it worked and I had
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to work maybe harder because I worked at
a very slow pace and I wasn't into some
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of the things that were happening around
me or that wasn't the step that I
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wanted to take at that moment and then
sitting going, okay, now I got to work a
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little bit harder. But that's my entire
life always. I've always had to work
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twice as hard or three times as hard
because it's just...
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It gets there where I want it to, but it
just takes time. Even now? Even now.
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Yeah, of course.
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I remember when you were in Big Boss, at
least from my eyes, and I might be
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wrong, but I felt like that was a
massive India jump. You became like a
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icon in that phase and you stayed there.
You know, that's what I find cool as
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well. Like it's still like the same
cultural icon, but there was a massive
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during your Big Boss phase.
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Yeah. I remember you being very polite
in the Big Boss house. That's what I
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visualize about you. Yeah.
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My goals were very different for being
on that show. My goal was just to step
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one foot in the door. And whether I
stayed for one day or a week or it ended
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being seven weeks, that was my goal. It
wasn't anything more.
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There was no formula in my head that I
have to go on the show and fight. When I
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watched the show before.
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I was thinking, I'm not that person who
just fights with people.
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And I think for a reality show, like the
creative
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of the show, they didn't necessarily
care whether I was going to fight with
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someone or express some crazy opinions
or go after people. For me, me walking
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the door was what they needed.
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And me, for myself, me walking in the
door was what I needed. So it didn't...
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For them, I don't think it mattered
whether that formula of, okay, you're
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to go in there, you're going to cause
some ruckus, you're going to do this and
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that. So my objective wasn't that at
all. Did it play with you
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that house?
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Yeah, of course. It does? I think it
does. Yeah, of course. I want to know
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type A personality answer to this
question. What happens?
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That's all I've heard people say. Like
any of my friends who've been in big
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boats, they say it psychologically
messes with you. Yeah, it's a
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game for sure. What happens?
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what happens is you're cut off. So the
first thing that happens is you lose
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sense of time.
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So once you lose your sense of time, you
know in the morning when the song
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starts and the lights go on that it's
morning.
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But somewhere in between, there's no
sense of time.
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You're just going to guess when you're
hungry and you want to eat lunch or all
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these different things.
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The day just goes because you're with so
many people. It's like being stuck in a
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room with all these people. You don't
really know them. You know them, but you
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don't know how they act when they're in
their own homes or in their own rooms.
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So all that comes into play, which is
very interesting to watch, I'm sure.
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Because it reveals your own character to
yourself as well. Yeah, and you also
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forget the cameras.
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You forget that the cameras are there.
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Sometimes you might remember that the
cameras are there, but after a certain
420
00:27:18,000 --> 00:27:24,080
point in time, just like time, it
doesn't exist anymore. You're just
421
00:27:24,080 --> 00:27:24,839
this box.
422
00:27:24,840 --> 00:27:26,580
Were you dating Daniel at this point?
423
00:27:26,840 --> 00:27:32,660
Yeah, I was. Yeah, Daniel came with me
with my security person we had with us,
424
00:27:32,740 --> 00:27:35,280
and they dropped me.
425
00:27:35,880 --> 00:27:40,820
They put me in the Anova and then into
the house. And they told Daniel and our
426
00:27:40,820 --> 00:27:44,820
friend Jeej, you know, bye -bye. So they
got on a plane and went home.
427
00:27:45,220 --> 00:27:49,560
Wow. So I just realized this now that I
was having a conversation with somebody
428
00:27:49,560 --> 00:27:54,000
is that I had no emotional support
system on the outside.
429
00:27:54,440 --> 00:27:57,740
And I was thinking, oh, yeah, that is
true. I was kind of alone.
430
00:27:59,260 --> 00:28:03,200
So it's very weird. Like other people
had, you know, their family sending them
431
00:28:03,200 --> 00:28:07,240
maybe something inside the house or
some, you know, they knew that right
432
00:28:07,240 --> 00:28:10,640
that door, they had a support system,
which one was the opposite.
433
00:28:11,040 --> 00:28:15,980
Okay. I don't know a polite way to ask
this question, but I hope that you
434
00:28:15,980 --> 00:28:17,380
understand it's coming from a polite
place.
435
00:28:19,060 --> 00:28:23,100
Did a lot of people hit on you when you
just got out of the big boss house? When
436
00:28:23,100 --> 00:28:26,080
I got out? Yeah, because I don't know
how many people knew about Daniel back
437
00:28:26,080 --> 00:28:30,280
then. And they knew about him. But I
also live in I live in a bubble.
438
00:28:30,540 --> 00:28:36,340
So even like, when I came out, I'm still
waiting for like, you know, really good
439
00:28:36,340 --> 00:28:37,340
looking guy to come.
440
00:28:39,060 --> 00:28:40,260
It doesn't happen.
441
00:28:40,720 --> 00:28:43,400
Because it's always fun to be hit on.
Yeah, of course.
442
00:28:44,080 --> 00:28:47,120
But no, that it doesn't happen. It
doesn't even happen now.
443
00:28:47,920 --> 00:28:52,360
Nope. Really? I know. It's so sad. And I
don't I don't know how true that is.
444
00:28:52,380 --> 00:28:54,700
Maybe maybe I'm never alone.
445
00:28:55,400 --> 00:28:59,320
Okay, as in Daniel's always with you?
No, no, not just him. I'm talking about
446
00:28:59,320 --> 00:29:00,320
just anybody.
447
00:29:00,500 --> 00:29:02,760
Okay. Whether it's my team, going
somewhere.
448
00:29:03,080 --> 00:29:08,600
The only time I'm doing personal things
is like maybe with my kids or if I go
449
00:29:08,600 --> 00:29:10,200
get a massage at the spa.
450
00:29:10,900 --> 00:29:16,340
But other than that, I'm not alone that
much, which I think is a problem now
451
00:29:16,340 --> 00:29:17,840
that we say it out loud.
452
00:29:18,120 --> 00:29:21,940
I mean, but when you go for an event,
you don't feel any kind of uncle energy,
453
00:29:22,040 --> 00:29:23,440
just like...
454
00:29:24,080 --> 00:29:30,740
coming towards you i know that this
happens with a lot of my hyper
455
00:29:30,740 --> 00:29:35,700
friends yeah uh just because they're
hyper attractive when they enter rooms
456
00:29:35,700 --> 00:29:40,140
there's a lot of energy directed towards
them well i mean there's yeah there's
457
00:29:40,140 --> 00:29:43,060
lots of people that want to take a photo
with you but not someone that comes up
458
00:29:43,060 --> 00:29:48,560
to you and says hey baby want to go have
a drink none not that never happens
459
00:29:49,760 --> 00:29:51,480
At all. It's never happened.
460
00:29:51,760 --> 00:29:55,580
No, even when I've gone out with like,
let's say I go out with one of my
461
00:29:55,580 --> 00:29:59,120
girlfriends to dinner. Nope, doesn't
happen.
462
00:29:59,560 --> 00:30:03,220
Maybe this is IPA. That's because
there's a security person standing in a
463
00:30:03,220 --> 00:30:05,560
corner, you know. Okay, fair.
464
00:30:06,480 --> 00:30:08,940
Fair, cool. Yeah, I wish it did.
465
00:30:09,980 --> 00:30:14,340
I don't know how much I believe you.
Sometimes, like maybe like a couple
466
00:30:14,340 --> 00:30:15,340
year would be nice.
467
00:30:16,899 --> 00:30:20,400
Again, I don't know how much I believe
you here, but I appreciate. No, it's
468
00:30:20,400 --> 00:30:21,820
true. Really? Yeah.
469
00:30:22,080 --> 00:30:24,480
Really? No one comes near me.
470
00:30:24,820 --> 00:30:25,820
Hmm.
471
00:30:25,980 --> 00:30:28,000
I miss give off like a bit.
472
00:30:29,020 --> 00:30:31,100
When was the last time you were single?
473
00:30:34,900 --> 00:30:35,900
2007.
474
00:30:37,280 --> 00:30:38,280
Okay.
475
00:30:38,510 --> 00:30:42,930
I was only single for a very short
amount of time. I was like, you know,
476
00:30:42,930 --> 00:30:44,850
people who are like serial daters.
477
00:30:46,730 --> 00:30:48,290
I feel that vibe.
478
00:30:51,030 --> 00:30:58,010
I had, I had, I had like single
lifetime, which was really nice. And
479
00:30:58,010 --> 00:31:01,410
I had a lot, a lot more time. I've
always was with somebody.
480
00:31:01,950 --> 00:31:06,410
Okay. Okay. Until you found your
Rajkumar. Yeah. Yeah.
481
00:31:07,800 --> 00:31:10,540
Can you understand Hindi now, like
fully? Of course I do. Can you speak? So
482
00:31:10,540 --> 00:31:11,680
that's another question.
483
00:31:12,260 --> 00:31:15,300
That people ask you. You want to go back
to your number one question? No, I
484
00:31:15,300 --> 00:31:19,420
don't want to go back. This is another
one. And the next question is, ab hum
485
00:31:19,420 --> 00:31:20,860
Hindi mein baat karege. No.
486
00:31:21,220 --> 00:31:22,920
Okay, thank you for the announcement.
487
00:31:23,860 --> 00:31:24,860
That's what I say.
488
00:31:25,500 --> 00:31:28,900
No, I'm having fun just getting to know
you. No, I do understand Hindi.
489
00:31:29,120 --> 00:31:30,640
Can you speak? I do speak it, yes.
490
00:31:30,860 --> 00:31:33,840
Okay. Are you going to say, okay, now
hum.
491
00:31:34,590 --> 00:31:36,810
No. I don't know about like your dating
life.
492
00:31:37,390 --> 00:31:40,190
I have none. It's non -existent. Okay.
493
00:31:41,090 --> 00:31:46,510
But you always found it easy to have
like a dating life.
494
00:31:47,410 --> 00:31:50,830
Yeah. In your famous part of your life
as well.
495
00:31:51,150 --> 00:31:53,890
That's something a lot of my famous
friends are like dealing with now.
496
00:31:54,470 --> 00:31:56,650
Because they're scared to be with
somebody.
497
00:31:56,950 --> 00:31:58,370
I think that's an Indian thing.
498
00:31:58,670 --> 00:32:00,490
Really? Really? Yeah.
499
00:32:01,040 --> 00:32:05,080
It's like, oh, no, she's unavailable or
he's unavailable anymore. But I don't
500
00:32:05,080 --> 00:32:09,300
think that works a lot with, you know,
the West. Like, let's take someone like
501
00:32:09,300 --> 00:32:11,820
Jennifer Lopez.
502
00:32:12,640 --> 00:32:14,260
She's so hot all the time.
503
00:32:14,890 --> 00:32:19,290
Like, I don't think of her and go, oh,
she has twins and oh, she's married to
504
00:32:19,290 --> 00:32:20,630
Ben Affleck. I don't care.
505
00:32:21,550 --> 00:32:27,370
Same thing with like, let's say Brad
Pitt. I know he has, you know, kids out
506
00:32:27,370 --> 00:32:31,570
there or, you know, he's been in a
relationship. I don't care. He's hot.
507
00:32:32,520 --> 00:32:33,980
Or Ryan Gosling.
508
00:32:34,200 --> 00:32:38,980
I actually don't care at all what kind
of family they want. For me, in my head,
509
00:32:39,020 --> 00:32:40,020
they're still available.
510
00:32:40,660 --> 00:32:41,900
Even though they're not available.
511
00:32:42,140 --> 00:32:48,140
Because I can never attain that. So I
don't understand this whole philosophy
512
00:32:48,140 --> 00:32:53,380
not wanting to date somebody or be with
somebody if you meet them because of
513
00:32:53,380 --> 00:32:54,380
your career.
514
00:32:54,460 --> 00:32:57,340
I think career and relationships are
totally different.
515
00:32:58,820 --> 00:33:01,080
What's been your most difficult phase in
India?
516
00:33:01,659 --> 00:33:05,640
Like, since the time you've been here,
what's been, like, the biggest
517
00:33:05,700 --> 00:33:09,220
Not, like, you know, the professional
stuff you're talking about, just you.
518
00:33:09,520 --> 00:33:11,300
What did you find, like, difficult?
519
00:33:11,820 --> 00:33:15,220
I find building relationships here very
difficult.
520
00:33:16,520 --> 00:33:20,080
Because, like you said earlier, your
friends have a hard time understanding
521
00:33:20,080 --> 00:33:23,920
who's real, who's not, who's once. It's
not, wasn't.
522
00:33:24,140 --> 00:33:27,760
You're talking about relationships and
people having sex with each other or
523
00:33:27,760 --> 00:33:32,120
building that relationship for some
other motive. It's the same thing.
524
00:33:32,520 --> 00:33:33,499
With friendship.
525
00:33:33,500 --> 00:33:35,260
Yeah, of course. Finding friends.
526
00:33:35,620 --> 00:33:40,320
That's very, very difficult. I have very
little friends here. It's so sad.
527
00:33:41,460 --> 00:33:45,600
But the few that I do have, I hold them
close to me. And then everybody else I
528
00:33:45,600 --> 00:33:48,540
work with. And those people have become
my family.
529
00:33:48,820 --> 00:33:52,360
Okay. There have been people who have
double -crossed you or something?
530
00:33:54,800 --> 00:34:01,680
I don't know if it's like, yeah, of
course, like business or personal.
531
00:34:01,760 --> 00:34:02,940
Yeah, of course. In India?
532
00:34:03,480 --> 00:34:08,060
Yeah, but that's like, but I mean, it
also happened in the US too, but I've
533
00:34:08,060 --> 00:34:11,040
spent, you know, the last almost 11
years here.
534
00:34:11,340 --> 00:34:12,520
So yeah, of course.
535
00:34:12,760 --> 00:34:17,760
Okay. How has one double -crossed you in
like the personal life side of things?
536
00:34:19,659 --> 00:34:22,060
This woman was a...
537
00:34:22,350 --> 00:34:27,610
like having an affair with somebody, but
she used myself and a friend of mine to
538
00:34:27,610 --> 00:34:32,790
use us and say, Oh, I'm with these two
friends. Oh, like simple stuff. It's
539
00:34:32,790 --> 00:34:36,630
like, so like weird. But then at the end
of the day, you're like, but my
540
00:34:36,630 --> 00:34:42,489
daughter was in the hospital at that
time. You told your husband that you
541
00:34:42,489 --> 00:34:44,630
coming to visit me and use my.
542
00:34:44,960 --> 00:34:51,739
sick daughter as your excuse that's low
like that's that's pretty shady um but
543
00:34:51,739 --> 00:34:56,300
like stuff like that considering all the
different career experiences you've had
544
00:34:56,300 --> 00:34:59,940
i think that you're a very sharp reader
of people honestly like i think you can
545
00:34:59,940 --> 00:35:04,420
like break down people pretty fast i
think that's how you've survived and
546
00:35:04,420 --> 00:35:10,520
as well uh well no i just don't let them
in my circle in the first place i'm
547
00:35:10,520 --> 00:35:16,100
very i'm very it's very hard to get in
yeah um only because of like stuff that
548
00:35:16,100 --> 00:35:19,500
i've seen even when i'm talking to you i
feel like your energy is very guarded
549
00:35:19,500 --> 00:35:23,880
and i respect that but like i can sense
extremely guarded energy and i know that
550
00:35:23,880 --> 00:35:28,560
audiences at this point can sense it as
well it's just a natural well we're
551
00:35:28,560 --> 00:35:32,680
meeting for the first time what do you
want me to do jump in your lap and go
552
00:35:32,680 --> 00:35:39,600
no no no usually people okay honestly
553
00:35:39,600 --> 00:35:43,620
this is something i see with a lot of
nris You guys are a little guarded as
554
00:35:43,620 --> 00:35:45,200
compared to the Indians who've grown up
here.
555
00:35:45,400 --> 00:35:46,580
It's some cultural thing.
556
00:35:46,800 --> 00:35:48,880
Yeah. Well, maybe it's you. It's not me.
557
00:35:49,720 --> 00:35:55,320
I don't think it's me. Maybe it's you. I
mean, you're like projecting this way,
558
00:35:55,460 --> 00:35:59,200
but maybe it's just, it's not me. Maybe
it's you in that opinion.
559
00:35:59,500 --> 00:36:03,240
Do you sense any guarded energy from me?
This is like the least guarded a human
560
00:36:03,240 --> 00:36:04,058
can be.
561
00:36:04,060 --> 00:36:05,060
Yeah.
562
00:36:05,200 --> 00:36:06,200
Sunny Leone.
563
00:36:06,720 --> 00:36:08,040
That's it. We're done. Thank you.
564
00:36:08,540 --> 00:36:09,540
How was this conversation?
565
00:36:09,860 --> 00:36:12,380
It was very nice. Thank you. Okay.
That's all. That's all.
566
00:36:12,820 --> 00:36:14,380
It was wonderful. Lovely.
567
00:36:14,740 --> 00:36:20,380
I had so much fun. I'm so excited to
watch this podcast when it comes out.
568
00:36:20,880 --> 00:36:25,800
I love your pink tee to your pink
sweater because I love Marilyn Monroe.
569
00:36:27,240 --> 00:36:29,080
No, but thank you.
570
00:36:29,500 --> 00:36:32,380
It's very real talking to you.
571
00:36:33,020 --> 00:36:37,080
While I said you're guarded and
everything, you're a very real type A
572
00:36:37,080 --> 00:36:41,400
personality. And that energy is like
rubbed off. I feel like getting my life
573
00:36:41,400 --> 00:36:44,760
order. You should. I do have that effect
on people.
574
00:36:45,080 --> 00:36:47,820
All my mommies are like, damn.
575
00:36:48,900 --> 00:36:54,010
Yeah. You give off that like very
disciplined, listen, I'm going to get my
576
00:36:54,010 --> 00:36:57,270
done kind of vibe. And I think that's
the biggest reason you've seen the
577
00:36:57,270 --> 00:37:01,690
you've seen. Thank you. I hope so. Lots
of respect and lots of good wishes.
578
00:37:01,750 --> 00:37:03,050
Thank you for coming to the space.
579
00:37:03,330 --> 00:37:06,830
And I hope to have another conversation
with you at some point. Thank you.
580
00:37:07,030 --> 00:37:08,450
All right. Thank you so much.
581
00:37:09,110 --> 00:37:13,250
That was the episode for today. We had a
bit of a time constraint, which is why
582
00:37:13,250 --> 00:37:18,870
I couldn't take the conversation into as
deep a place as I wish to take it.
583
00:37:19,210 --> 00:37:20,009
But you know what?
584
00:37:20,010 --> 00:37:23,110
Sunny will probably be returning on the
show at some point.
585
00:37:23,330 --> 00:37:25,050
Tell me what you thought of this
episode.
586
00:37:25,310 --> 00:37:29,210
And until next time, guys, from Ranveer
and the team, we'll see you later.
53882
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